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FTC Says Virtual Worlds Bad For Minors

eldavojohn writes "A new report from the FTC is claiming minors have access to explicit content via online virtual worlds such as those found in online games. The report makes five recommendations to keep little Johnny away from the harms of Barrens chat: Use more effective age-screening mechanisms to prevent children from registering in adult virtual worlds; Use or enhance age-segregation techniques to make sure that people interact only with others in their age group; Re-examine language filters to ensure that they detect and eliminate messages that violate rules of behavior in virtual worlds; Provide more guidance to community enforcers in virtual worlds so they are better able to review and rate virtual world content, report potential underage users, and report any users who appear to be violating rules of behavior; and Employ a staff of specially trained moderators who are equipped to take swift action against rule violations."

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  1. Or parents... by i.r.id10t · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

    Take some responsibility here folks!

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    1. Re:Or parents... by Pieroxy · · Score: 3, Funny

      But why? It so much easier to let the government spend our money and restrict the liberty of all for our lack of action. And there's this cool movie tonight on TV, so I'll think about it tomorrow.

    2. Re:Or parents... by Narpak · · Score: 1

      Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      Or better yet lobby for introducing mandatory implantation of filter chips directly into children's brain; tracking their movements, emotions and thoughts. That way bad and anti-social behaviour can be punished with electroshocks immediately. Remember it is all about keeping our children safe!!

    3. Re:Or parents... by tixxit · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Most people nowadays have liquor cabinets at home and beer in the fridge. In order to protect minors from consuming alcohol, we propose the following measures. Use more effective age-screening techniques to prevent kids from opening the bottles. Child-proof caps and lids would suit this purpose. Use or enhance age-segragation techniques to ensure kids aren't allowed access to parts of the house where the liquor resides. Re-examine consumption filters to ensure that bottles that are drunk by kids are detected and quickly discarded. Provide more guidance to household enforcers (other adults and siblings) to ensure they can accurately detect when a kid is getting drunk and report the kid or discard the bottle. Employ a household staff of specially trained moderators who can watch your kid like a hawk to ensure they don't consume alcohol.

    4. Re:Or parents... by wiredog · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yes. Parents need to be pro-active in defending their children from online threats.

    5. Re:Or parents... by Dotren · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Mod parent up.. beat me to the punch.

      Parents should be the one who ultimately decide whether their kids are ready to join online worlds and, if they're not, prevent them from doing so.

      We as a people should not need a government organization dictating what our children should or should not be exposed too. I realize it's politically incorrect to blame voting parents for anything these days but there is no government rules that will replace a good parenting. Furthermore, I'm starting to realize a good chunk of those pushing for things like this are parents who really don't want to put in the work to raise their children and instead would prefer the government or schools do it for them.

    6. Re:Or parents... by dagamer34 · · Score: 1

      Let me shorten that for you: If you're a parent, don't leave your child home alone. Thank you.

    7. Re:Or parents... by cellurl · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I agree with you, but let me share a story.
      Friend of mine had 4 girl daughters, me, I had no kids.
      I was blathering on about no-government, yadda, let parents decide if kids smoke dope, etc, when my friend with 4 daughters looked at me and said,
      "I hear you, but when you become a parent, and your kids become teens, you will be thankful for any help from the government in this area".

      I know now what he meant....

      up to 30k

    8. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm not for a second saying that parents shouldn't take responsibility, but I have to say I've been humbled somewhat in this area and do think that whenever possible people should help parents do this by giving them the tools they need.

      Not too long ago my house gained an eleven year old. Before that I just rolled my eyes and said "Parents need to just keep track of what the kids are watching" ... once she was there I suddenly became aware of just how hard that is. The commercials that play during otherwise acceptable shows, for example - not to mention all the problems with knowing what is and is not possible in an online game.

      I don't want to see things censored, but I welcome voluntary attempts to make the colossal task of monitoring easier for parents.

    9. Re:Or parents... by DJRumpy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They didn't restrict anything. They made recommendations. They are doing what a government is supposed to do. If they didn't, you wouldn't have safety in the workplace, safety in toys, safety against harmful chemicals, etc.

    10. Re:Or parents... by Ethanol-fueled · · Score: 1

      It took a little while before I realized that was satire...scary.

    11. Re:Or parents... by sexconker · · Score: 1

      Take some responsibility here folks!

      I am an entitled baby boomer and everything is someone else's fault.

      I am also a politician.

    12. Re:Or parents... by Pieroxy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They didn't restrict anything yet.

      There, I fixed it for you.

    13. Re:Or parents... by PitaBred · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why do people insist on trying to control everything their children do? Of course they'll get around it. The ONLY thing you can realistically do is teach them how to deal with things they may not understand, and educate them on what you don't like and why you don't like it. You're not raising a child. You're raising an adult. Teach them how to deal with life.

      And yes, I do have a kid.

    14. Re:Or parents... by Aeros · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately so many parents have it in their mind that they don't actually need to take on this responsibility. They expect the teachers to also teach their kids morality instead of teaching it themselves. In my opinion these are the types of 'parents' that really do not deserve to have that title.

    15. Re:Or parents... by fermion · · Score: 4, Interesting
      Both of these are correct. I was exposed to a good amount of what would be called inappropriate content, but most of it was either through my parent of my peer group. My parents took me to museums and classical performances. At both, sometime the content was kind of explicit. My peer group had various materials as well which we all looked at. What we did not have was all this content which I allowed to viewed as a replacement for parenting. TV was much less graphic, and we did not have cable. I did not watch a lot of late night tv until I was well into high school. I did not watch the evening soaps alone. I was sent outside to play and learn about the graphic nature of the world for real, not in virtual reality. It was way more fun.

      The liquor and other poisonous ingestibles are the same. All sane parents keep the kids away from these things.All sane parents make sure small children cannot get to the alcohol, drugs, or drain cleaner. Most of these have child proof caps for as a backup.

      At some age, most kids will learn not to OD on drugs or drain cleaner. I think we all agree that some don't. Also, many parents will teach children about the proper dosage of drugs, alcohol, and the such. This is the serving you get of wine. This is the serving you get of beer. This is when you drink cognac. If you need an asprin, this is what you should take. Clearly not all parent teach such civility, just like not all parent teach how to set a table, which fork to use, or to open doors for others, but the many do.

      But learning and teaching takes time, which is why children can just be set out on their own and be expected to make long term best decisions, which may not be spending 10 hours a day playing the video games, or for a 14 year old trolling for facebook to find an older man to go out with in hope of impregnation, then a house and child support.

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    16. Re:Or parents... by Akira+Kogami · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Sure, if the parenting help from the government actually worked. Kids can still get a hold of drugs and they can still watch porn.

    17. Re:Or parents... by Xphile101361 · · Score: 1

      Ummm..... why?

      When I was a little teenage brat, I never once sneaked into my parents liquor cabinets, or into the multiple cases of wine or beer. My parents would leave me for 4 day weekends at times, so it wasn't like I didn't have opportunity. If parents are worried about their kids drinking when they shouldn't be, then they need to beat some morals into the little brats.

    18. Re:Or parents... by MrTester · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Mod Parent (both of them) down.

      We as a people should not have to tell people to read the article before they run around spouting off.
      Oh. Wait. This is slashdot. What am I thinking?

      "I'm starting to realize a good chunk of those pushing for things like this..." Yeah. "Things like this" are reccomendations that people who are going to host a childrens site really ought to have moderators who can tell when a 20 year old pedophile is sending foul language to my 8 year old daughter on the Build-a-bear site and then do something about it.
      HOW DARE THEY SUGGEST SUCH A THING.

      I am a parent. And $#!@$ you for suggesting that it is lazy of me to expect Build-A-Bear to effectively prevent pedophiles from harassing my daughter on line. There is nothing in this article that states that these things must be implimented everywhere. Its meerly suggesting that sites that are targeted to kids need to make a better effort to protect children.

    19. Re:Or parents... by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      What part of Recommendation do you not understand? The company is certainly within it's rights to ignore the recommendation, however if it makes sense, and children are likely to get online without parental consent or supervision, then why not? Your argument that it would cost the company more money is a rather broad statement. It could be something as simple as requiring a credit card number, which on the back end would be a database, and an additional authentication page when setting up the account.

    20. Re:Or parents... by jhoegl · · Score: 1

      So.... we want the government to watch parents with teenagers but we dont want them to help single or married people with no kids in the area of... oh I dunno Medical assistance? I call BS.

    21. Re:Or parents... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      While I agree, I also think that virtual communities can be good for kids so I want my daughter to participate in some that are appropriate. Having some of the features they discussed in ones geared towards kids and explicitly marking them so parents know they are more likely to be appropriate (it won't be perfect; but neither is the real world) is a useful tool to parents.

      My daughter's mom bought her a laptop, and one of the first things I did was to put a general filter banning internet access. This way she can play music from my itunes share, print to my laser printer etc but in general can't get online. I made a couple of exceptions to the rules for sites that I expect to be safe for kids. Sure they could get hacked, but anything she could see online she could see in the real world; its about trying to limit the things they aren't ready for so that they get exposed slowly, have a chance to talk about it and process it, and return to their "normal" state. Other sites she can either request that I approve them and I'll do some research or we visit them together. I see no difference in how I should treat virtual worlds; these guidelines would be useful in a more child friendly virtual world. Especially since I frequently have to do things like change the 1 year old's diaper or check to see what trouble the four year old is getting into (he's too smart for his own good in terms of getting into trouble). These three of them and only one of me, so at times they have to be slightly unsupervised; honestly, I think that's a good thing, its gives them a chance to make choices and to learn that there are consequences to choices. My daughter's last school had a goal of children making the rules, making hte consequences, and teaching children that breaking them have consequences (and EXPLICITLY NOT of making the children obeye the rules but rather learn they must accept consequences). I think in the big pictures, that's the right path to take; at times, we all break the rules (and some times for VERY good reasons).

    22. Re:Or parents... by interkin3tic · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      I personally would argue more that a few kids getting exposed to violence or -gasp- S.E.X. is more than an acceptable tradeoff for freedom.

      The problem with arguing along the lines of "Parents should keep their kids from looking at that stuff" is that we all know they're not going to even take reasonable steps, and we all know that kids are going to find ways around their parents' efforts no matter what.

    23. Re:Or parents... by Nidi62 · · Score: 1

      Too bad for you they'll edit out anything worse than "gosh darnit". It's ok though, I'm sure you like drug kingpins talking like 5 year olds.

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    24. Re:Or parents... by clone53421 · · Score: 4, Funny

      Friend of mine had 4 girl daughters

      Whew, that’s good to know. I’d have been worried if he’d had any boy daughters or girl sons.

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    25. Re:Or parents... by shentino · · Score: 3, Interesting

      That's a hard sell when these virtual worlds are marketing the crap out of themselves as substitute babysitters so that parents can relax and leave their kids in front of the screen.

      The only marketing done towards children is designed to get the kids to beg mom and dad for the goods. A few tantrums from a spoiled brat are frosting.

      It's all well and good to say parents should take charge, but spend 2 minutes in their shoes and you'd have a bit of sympathy.

      What they need is support, not blame.

      No, I am not a parent (yet anyway), but I am a young adult that was a hellhound to raise. Recently I found out I was autistic, which seemed to put my mom at ease knowing she didn't fail as a parent as badly as she thought she did, and even she had to go it alone while I was young.

      Single mother, with an autistic child.

      Yes, parents have responsibilities, but let's not take their job for granted.

    26. Re:Or parents... by alexborges · · Score: 1

      Howabout a .kid topelevel domain that is strictly policed. The os makers giving parents the ability to turn on a kid-internet mode that does not let anything go except to those domains. Let all the big search engines and email guys put stuff for kids in those domains and let the online worlds and games that WANT TO, tend to kids with strictly enforced rules.

      After that, its very simple: LEAVE THE REST OF THE NET ALONE.

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    27. Re:Or parents... by AP31R0N · · Score: 1

      Don't tell me how to raise my kids!!1!

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    28. Re:Or parents... by alexborges · · Score: 3, Funny

      You were a very boring teenage brat.

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    29. Re:Or parents... by Evil+Shabazz · · Score: 1

      At some age, most kids will learn not to OD on drugs or drain cleaner. I think we all agree that some don't.

      I'm okay with natural selection when it comes to this one.

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    30. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 1

      Why do people insist on trying to control everything their children do?

      Because kids are stupid. Really, really stupid. Left to their own devices, kids would get themselves killed at an impressive rate. I agree with you that it's good to "teach them how to deal with things they may not understand, and educate them on what you don't like and why you don't like it". Absolutely. But that doesn't take the place of stepping in and trying to prevent them from doing things that you feel are physically, mentally, or emotionally bad for them.

    31. Re:Or parents... by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      This is a good start but only covers the alcohol. If there's children, chances are there has been some Sex in the house also. Since the monitoring of this facility would classify as pornographic and possibly child pornography the children should immediately be made wards of the state and abducted *ahem* removed from the home to live in an overcrowded, under-monitored house populated by disturbed and damaged children "for their protection".

      The state saves on cost and we might as well just prosecute the parents to justify the expense.

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    32. Re:Or parents... by Dotren · · Score: 1

      There is nothing in this article that states that these things must be implimented everywhere.

      They never said "here are five steps for operators of virtual worlds built for and targetting kids to take in order to...". Instead they said:

      The Commission recommended five steps for virtual world operators to take in order to limit the exposure of kids to explicit content

      The above quote leads me to believe this is their recommendation for all virtual world operators. My belief is further backed up by their researching many virtual world types, many of which, I'm fairly certain, are not targeted towards children.

      I am a parent. And $#!@$ you for suggesting that it is lazy of me to expect Build-A-Bear to effectively prevent pedophiles from harassing my daughter on line

      I specifically said "a good chunk" and not "all" because I realize not every parent is like this. Indeed, the ones that are may be in the minority, albeit a vocal one that is out there lobbying. There are also often other factors including the need for both parents to work so much these days just to make ends meet (which is a separate issue).

      I was not trying to imply that you specifically or anyone else here necessarily fell into this group of parents I'm referring too.

    33. Re:Or parents... by Storchei · · Score: 1

      Or parents could be parents.

      I agree.
      There's nothing like and old-fashion kick in the ass to show them the way. =P
      I think instead of doing a research on why are virtual worlds bad for minors they should put the money on finding why are minors allowed to do so.

      A couple of years ago it was used to give money to children, so they could go to the cibercafe and bother someone else. Now happens the same at home, some parents give their children whatever they want not to be bothered (not to take their responsibilities, I'd rather say..).
      Then, when that child does something wrong they just find someone to blame (government, school, bad friends, anybody but them)

      Education is the key, for both parents and children; specially for parents, who should educate their children.

    34. Re:Or parents... by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Child-proof caps and lids would suit this purpose.

      Yeah, that ten year old won't get the lid off, right? I absolutely HATE child-proof caps. Ever try to open a bottle of aspirin when your wrist hurts from being at the computer too long?

      Employ a household staff of specially trained moderators who can watch your kid like a hawk to ensure they don't consume alcohol.

      Do I get a "woosh" for responding to a joke that's modded +5 interesting?

    35. Re:Or parents... by natehoy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      From the FTC site:

      Of the 14 virtual worlds in the FTC’s study that were, by design, open to children under age 13, seven contained no explicit content, six contained a low amount of such content, and one contained a moderate amount. Almost all of the explicit content found in the child-oriented virtual worlds appeared in the form of text posted in chat rooms, on message boards, or in discussion forums.

      So the FTC studied 27 "online worlds" and of those 14 were listed as open to kids under 13. Of the 14 worlds, 13 of them seem to be doing a good to excellent job of policing their discussion boards and/or chat rooms for inappropriate content. All but one of the sites with inappropriate content were sites that were not registered as open to kids under 13. In other words, not the "Build a Bear" site you mention. The sites actually designed for your daughter (and trust me, I understand your concerns, my daughter is seven) seem to be doing a good job, by and large.

      If you want your daughter to use a particular board, visit it and read for a while. If the moderators seem to be doing a good job of removing anything you don't like, then you make a decision as to whether you can trust their moderation style (which probably includes many of the things mentioned in the FCC report). Then YOU, as a parent, can decide which sites are making appropriate efforts.

      "Being a parent" isn't necessarily a narrow corridor of "watch everything your kid does to protect them." You can occasionally trust others. But it's up to you to figure out who to trust and who not to.

      The ideas mentioned are good ones, but they won't offer adequate protection except the last one ("employ a staff of specially trained moderators"), and that one is impractical for a lot of sites. You're talking about a 24/7 staff of people who can read ALL of the messages coming in and filter them. Plus, there's always a time lag between the time something is posted and the time that even the most trained and talented moderator can catch it and delete it. So even if a moderator is on the job, your daughter might see something occasionally. Plus, you might consider pictures of violent cartoon shows to be inappropriate for your child, while we have an entire TV industry built around this being appropriate entertainment. "What constitutes inappropriate content" is VERY subjective.

      I run a handful of discussion boards, and kids would be welcome at all of them as far as I'm concerned, and I moderate them and keep them clean, but I couldn't afford the lawsuit if one of our members said or did something inappropriate and I failed to "protect the children" because I can't read every post before it's put on the website, and I can't monitor it 24/7.

      This is the conundrum that the attempts to protect our children have put us in. Those of us who are parents want our children protected against pedophiles. Fair enough.

      Those of us who are moderators of discussion boards cannot provide that service with any absolute level of guarantee and still allow strangers to post messages to the discussion boards. Any level of security I offered you would be a false sense, and I'd rather you visit my boards as an interested parent, check them out, and decide whether the community I've built is appropriate for your child. That, in my mind, is proper parenting. You don't have to live along with them on my site, but if you want to trust me, I should EARN that trust, which means YOU, as the parent, need to look at my site and see if you trust me. Just like hiring a babysitter - we don't depend on the government to find us a babysitter who is safe, we depend on knowing the person we're leaving our kids with.

      Personally, I "COPA Filter" everything I put up online that allows user input of any kind. If you signed up for an account on one of my boards, you have to check a little tickybox that says "I am over the age of consent in my state or country, and/or I have legal parental consent to access this bo

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    36. Re:Or parents... by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Kids can still get a hold of drugs and they can still watch porn.

      That's an example of laws causing the very problems they purport to solve. It's actually easier for a kid to get drugs than an adult -- kids are too young to be narcs, so the dope dealers don't worry when they're selling to kids. You, otoh, might be a cop.

      You can buy pot in any high school in the US. Funny thing, though, kids can't get beer in school. Alcohol and cigarettes are the hardest of any drug for a teenager to obtain, because there aren't that many criminals selling them.

    37. Re:Or parents... by himself · · Score: 1

      PitaBred, I agree that I should be raising my own kids. (I have several, thanks for asking.)

      But sometimes what another parent thinks is OK, I do not -- and how do I keep their child from teaching something I deem inappropriate to my kids?

    38. Re:Or parents... by h4rr4r · · Score: 1

      This is as bad an idea as the .xxx domain.

      How the hell do you decide what goes where and who enforces it?

      I would totally be ok with medical diagrams being explained to kids at med.kid, but most fundies are not. They might be ok with mil.kid hosting a first person shooter used as a recruiting tool for the military aimed at kids, I would not be. They probably would not like criticalthinking.kid, as that might interfere with raising their child with their"world-view".

    39. Re:Or parents... by Nathrael · · Score: 1

      Well, he *is* posting on Slashdot...

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    40. Re:Or parents... by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

      We as a people should not need a government organization dictating what our children should or should not be exposed too.

      But without such an organisation some parents will allow their children access to content that other people think they shouldn't be allowed to access. Since enough of these other people exist, they can vote for such organisations to be created so that their views can be imposed on people who would otherwise ignore them. All the rules have been followed, all the boxes ticked, no one has done anything "wrong", we've just ended up with organisations which actively oppose the decisions of parents regarding their children so that the majority are satisfied.

      And this is called; a Democracy. Where the will of the people, not the individual, is absolute.

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    41. Re:Or parents... by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      To be completely fair, the times have changed a bit. For example, when I was a kid:

      1) We did not fear being raped to death by a psychopath. It just hadn't ever even entered into anyone's mind that I shouldn't be walking to and from the city park without an escort.

      2) There was no such thing as the internet.

      3) Parents were allowed and encouraged to discipline their children

      4) Children were generally forgiven their crimes

      5) No one anywhere had ever even heard the term 'helicopter parent'

      I'm sure there are many other differences as well, but these all make a decent framework for excessive consumption of electronic content.

    42. Re:Or parents... by psYchotic87 · · Score: 1
      Stop overreacting.
      There are three kind of people when it comes to what they first think when they see an article like this:
      1. the kind that thinks it's about protecting the young (prepubescent) kids.
        They tend to agree with the proposed measures, and they usually get upset when someone of the second category is upset about restricting the "kids" they think the article refers to
      2. the kind that thinks it's about restricting the right of exploring and learning the world around them teenagers should have
        They tend to disagree with the proposed measures, and they usually get upset when someone of the first category is upset about them being upset about restricting the "kids" they think the article refers to (phew... that wasn't so hard now, was it?)
      3. the kind that reads the article and gets upset when the first two categories rant.

      I must admit, I'm usually in the second category. However, my point remains: chillax, bro!

    43. Re:Or parents... by Belial6 · · Score: 1
      So, your friend was a shitty irresponsible parent. Here is another story for you. Before becoming a parent, I would blather on about no-government, yadda, let parents decide and so forth. Now that I am a parent, I still want to be the one that decides what my kids do and don't do. We are becoming an orphanage state, and people like your friend are handing their kids over. If you are saying that now that you are a parent, you want to hand your kid over to the state to raise, then you would also be a bad parent.

      I know that is a harsh thing to say, but

      "I hear you, but when you become a parent, and your kids become teens, you will be thankful for any help from the government in this area".

      is a really over the top.

    44. Re:Or parents... by Knara · · Score: 3, Interesting

      While you progress towards valid points, keep in mind that violent crime has been trending down for 20 years now. While people "back then" may not have worried about the psychopathic pedophile behind every rock, it's ironic that these days folks are more worried about it, even though its less likely to happen to any given individual.

    45. Re:Or parents... by BobMcD · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But how does one delineate the reduced risk from the reduced opportunity? At least where children are concerned...

    46. Re:Or parents... by alexborges · · Score: 1

      I just plain dont give a fuck what they do to the kiddies domain. And no, its not as bad as the xxx domain because here we would be making a net for kids where the parents could enforce their wildest dreams of online patroling while leaving the rest of us alone.

      The other proposal was the exact oposite: they would have any pr0n consumer be policed and/or cutoff from their dose.

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    47. Re:Or parents... by master5o1 · · Score: 1

      You mean Tiger Woods' mistress?

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    48. Re:Or parents... by dkleinsc · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually, no, kids aren't stupid. Kids are ignorant a lot of the time, but they aren't stupid. Your average 10-year-old is absorbing information like a sponge. The trouble is that they may not be absorbing the information you want them to absorb.

      Now, here's the real trick, though: if you look at what information kids pay really close attention to, it's what the adults around them our doing. If you want a kid to act a certain way, act in that way around the kid and before you know it they will have picked it up. On the flip side, if you start acting like you don't want them to act, they will pick that up and copy you. It's monkey-see, monkey-do.

      And while other adults do have some influence on kids, the adults with the most influence are mom, dad, and their teachers. Even if they don't admit it, even teenagers will pay close attention to what their parents do. They have more influence than anyone the kid sees on TV or on teh Interwebs.

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    49. Re:Or parents... by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

      safety in the workplace, safety in toys, safety against harmful chemicals

      All of those safeties are provided by laws, not mere recommendations. So, what was the point you were trying to make?

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    50. Re:Or parents... by funaho · · Score: 1

      So.... we want the government to watch parents with teenagers but we dont want them to help single or married people with no kids in the area of... oh I dunno Medical assistance? I call BS.

      Funny, I was just thinking the same thing. "Government hands off my health care! Oh, but can you watch my kids for a few hours?"

    51. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 1

      Actually, no, kids aren't stupid. Kids are ignorant a lot of the time, but they aren't stupid. Your average 10-year-old is absorbing information like a sponge.

      Obviously YMMV, but virtually all of the kids I've met (including myself when I was one, and the many many kids I worked with as a counselor at a summer camp) were stupid.

      For example, if you were to ask one "What would happen if you put a fire cracker in a container used for diesel fuel?" they would be able to access the information they had absorbed and correctly tell you that it would explode, injuring anyone stupid enough to do such a thing.

      If, however, you don't ask them what would happen but instead just leave them alone with the firecracker, the match, and the jug of fuel... they'll lose a hand.

      Kids are stupid not due to ignorance or lack of information, but because they take longer than a lot of people realize to develop the ability to think ahead and make good decisions. That's why you can so often hear people say, "Why would you do that? YOU KNOW BETTER!" Yes, they do, but they're stupid.

    52. Re:Or parents... by Darkness404 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The difference is, lack of safety in the workplace might kill you, same with toys, chemicals, etc. Whats the worst thing porn is going to do to you? Or bad language? The answer is not much. No one has been killed by swear words, no one has been killed by watching porn, no one has been raped by watching R rated movies, etc.

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    53. Re:Or parents... by Knara · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Reduced opportunity to be "harmed" in some generically defined way, or reduced opportunity for kids to be normal kids?

    54. Re:Or parents... by Crayon+Kid · · Score: 1

      OD? :) I'd like to hope my kid was bright enough to stop gurgling the drain cleaner after the first taste, not go on and OD on the stuff before he learns that something's wrong :)

      Unless, of course, you meant the blueberry drain cleaner. That thing tastes SO GOOD.

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    55. Re:Or parents... by stonewallred · · Score: 1

      Lol, when was the last time you saw a recommendation, that somehow curtailed peoples' rights, not be implemented? The only time recommendations are not implemented are when they lead to less government control.

    56. Re:Or parents... by Duradin · · Score: 2, Informative

      Diesel will burn but getting it to go boom requires a bit more effort than a firecracker.

    57. Re:Or parents... by funaho · · Score: 4, Funny

      Ever try to open a bottle of aspirin when your wrist hurts from being at the computer too long?

      Might want to take a break there or you'll get some nasty chafing. ;)

    58. Re:Or parents... by Darkness404 · · Score: 1

      Yes, but you have to realize that the internet is not lethal. I am thankful that growing up my parents didn't insist on censoring the internet or what I read or the music I listened to. There were still some R rated movies that were off limits, but the internet was unfiltered and I could read just about every book I wanted to. I didn't get killed because I looked at some "inappropriate" sites, or read books where characters swore a lot. Despite reading books with many swear words in them, listening to music with swear words and reading internet sites with large amount of swear words I rarely if ever swear. Violence didn't "mess up" my mind. Despite playing all the "violent" video games at the time, being a hunter, and on my school's clay pigeon team, I never once seriously considered or attempted to shoot anyone. And while my parent's didn't drink, they weren't stupid about alcohol and told me growing up sane amounts to drink, and how if I was to drink I would need to never drink and drive, etc.

      Censorship of information does not help in growing up. Allow access to as much information as possible. Information does not kill.

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    59. Re:Or parents... by Akaihiryuu · · Score: 1

      Blizzard agrees with you. WOW is pretty much untouchable in this regard, because *they don't allow anyone under 18 to own an account*. For a minor to play, their parent/guardian must register an account in their name and (this is the one case in which Blizzard allows account sharing) the parent/guardian is allowed to share each account with 1 minor child. When they turn 18 there is a procedure to switch the account over to their name.

    60. Re:Or parents... by v1 · · Score: 1

      Or parents could be parents

      No kidding! Another case of trying to childproof the world instead of worldproofing the child. This is like making you have to register to walk down the street, to make sure you're a safe person for some random person's child that may happen to walk past you to say Hello to.

      How the child interacts with elements of the world is the parents' responsibility, not the world's. Teaching your child safe and appropriate behavior in your absence is 100% your responsibility as a parent. Every child is going to rebel a little, but if they consistently don't behave safely or appropriately when they're out of your range of control, you are failing as a parent, and it's Not My Problem. Fix it on your end.

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    61. Re:Or parents... by idontgno · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You could quietly kill the dirty infidels.

      You could forbid your kid from ever seeing, visiting, or speaking to the dirty infidels.

      Or you could acknowledge that what you want your kid to learn and not learn is pretty much limited by the fact that the kid's world is a lot bigger than just you.

      If you give your kids a decent moral foundation, sufficient self-esteem as a buffer against peer pressure, and enough critical thinking skills to decide things for themselves, maybe your kids will make decisions on their own akin to what you'd decide for them.

      (I assume we're not talking pre-schoolers here. In that case you have much more direct control.)

      Signed,
      idontgno, proud parent of 3 adult children (who, as far as I know, haven't become axe murderers, drug fiends, or IRS agents.)

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    62. Re:Or parents... by chris+mazuc · · Score: 1

      You should really at least read the drivel you link to before posting, because as crazy as that blog is, that is not what it even says. And those quotes aren't even from him, just a bad Youtube video with a crappy audio track and a picture of Jennings (as if he is the one speaking). I'd laugh if there weren't so many of you fuckwits out there.

      And insightful? Really?

      PS: it is whether, not weather.

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    63. Re:Or parents... by idontgno · · Score: 1

      And this is enforced... how?

      TOS's don't enforce themselves, so it's strictly honor-system. Certainly, the "18 and older" thing is honor system. So the only thing Blizz has going for itself is "well, we tried, it's in the TOS that way, it's not our fault!"

      Certainly most of the troublemakers in Trade Channel are chronologically <18 YOs. Stupid kids.

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    64. Re:Or parents... by RobertLTux · · Score: 1

      credit card numbers are useless to prove age (or lack thereof) since

      1 prepaid cards can be purchased by or for minors
      2 there is always the dodge of grabbing an adults card
      3 some legit adults don't have access to credit cards (or won't have them on principle)

      Parents just need to be parents

      Challenge for The Geeks design and have some company build a modem/router that has builtin easy to use logging.

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    65. Re:Or parents... by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 1

      > FTC Says Virtual Worlds Bad For Minors

      Oh my god. They're finally noticing how it is a huge time waste, and wrecking kids' attention spans, turning them into near-zombie glassy-eyed people for whom the real world is just too boring.

      > -~=*=~-~=*=~-pr0n think of the children pr0n!-~=*=~-~=*=~-~=*=~-

      Uhhhhh...right.

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    66. Re:Or parents... by KickInNutsAnalogyGuy · · Score: 3, Funny

      Precisely! Why would any parent give that manner of control over their children to the government? Consider the following:

      Your child needs to be junk-kicked in his man business. Do you want someone like Dick Cheney to be the one junk-kicking your child's man business? Do you want the Supreme Court sending Sonia Sotomayor to your home to junk-kick your child? I certainly hope not. If anyone is going to junk-kick a child's man business, I would hope that the child's parent(s) would care enough not to allow some government official do the junk-kick. Clearly the responsibility of junk-kicking children should lie with the parent(s) of said children.

      Please think before asking the government to take over your responsibilities and joys of parenting.

    67. Re:Or parents... by kheldan · · Score: 1

      Wow. For once, a First Post with not only some real content, but with GOOD content! Hear, hear! /thread

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    68. Re:Or parents... by discord5 · · Score: 1

      Child-proof caps and lids would suit this purpose

      I know you're being ironic, but a few months ago a friend of mine got some medication in a childproof bottle. It's a very funny sight to see two grown men struggle with that particular bottle, and have a six year old open it with ease.

      As for this summary:

      The report makes five recommendations to keep little Johnny away from the harms of Barrens chat

      I always assumed the Barrens chat or trade channel was filled with little Johnnies.

    69. Re:Or parents... by Nutria · · Score: 1

      Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      Which I do. But I can't/don't/won't/shouldn't hover over them 24x7. It's why in loco parentis was formulated as a common law doctrine.

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    70. Re:Or parents... by Denjiro · · Score: 1

      The answer is not much. No one has been killed by swear words, no one has been killed by watching porn, no one has been raped by watching R rated movies, etc.

      I don't know about that last one. I felt pretty violated after seeing Ballistic: Ecks vs. Sever.

    71. Re:Or parents... by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

      Survival of the fittest.

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    72. Re:Or parents... by psithurism · · Score: 1

      Well, I snuck liquor from my mom's liquor cabinets, even though she tried to beat morals into me. Of course my dad gave me whatever I wanted so I never snuck any from his.

      And the parents who tried to watch their kids harder? Well we knew we could only see them when they escaped out their bedroom windows in the middle of the night to share their ill gotten liquor. My point is, you have to learn to trust your kids at some point, because if they are Xphiles, they'll stay in line and if they are me, they'll will find ways to get into trouble anyway no matter how much effort is spent watching them.

    73. Re:Or parents... by psithurism · · Score: 1

      Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      Take some responsibility here folks!

      Yeah, that would be nice, but how does an average parent know what is, for example, in second life? They don't have time to play around there all day finding explicit content and then determining what percent of the game contains that. All they can do is read reports like this one and decide whether they will let their kids have access to these games.

      Parents can't be there all the time, they work from 8-5 while school goes from 9-3 at some point they have to trust their kids, or content blockers.

    74. Re:Or parents... by shaitand · · Score: 1

      "OD? :) I'd like to hope my kid was bright enough to stop gurgling the drain cleaner after the first taste, not go on and OD on the stuff before he learns that something's wrong :)"

      Maybe you'd have a different view if you didn't know what drain cleaner tastes like?

    75. Re:Or parents... by shaitand · · Score: 1

      "Yeah, that ten year old won't get the lid off, right?"

      No kidding. Kids are generally brighter than adults, particularly when figuring something out that doesn't require the kind of prerequisite knowledge adults took years to learn. The first time an adult encounters one of these caps the adult will read the label and start following the instruction and figure it out shortly enough. The kid will figure it out by feel before the adult has found his/her reading glasses.

    76. Re:Or parents... by shaitand · · Score: 1

      It all started with idiots recognizing psycology as a legitimate field of study. All the sudden there is a regimented and very official sounding pool of opinions regarding behavior that can be used to justify coding those opinions in law.

      If I starve my children or if I intentionally inflict permanent physical damage to them that's one thing. But what is or is not good for the mental and psychological development of my child should be up to me, not the government and certainly not some shrink. This includes corporal punishment.

    77. Re:Or parents... by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 1

      Or parents could be parents. Don't want you kids looking at something? Act as the filter don't let them buy/play games that expose them to things you don't want 'em to see....

      Take some responsibility here folks!

      That is very true. That is also very easy to say. Raising an average kid takes as much time/energy that is commonly available if you work a modern job and want any semblance of a life.

    78. Re:Or parents... by shaitand · · Score: 1

      That's why parents should be excluded from the debate and even more so from the vote.

      Its a biological imperative to protect them and you lose the ability to decide with reason rather than emotion. Nothing magically changes when the kids are yours, all that changes is how you feel. If how you feel changes your stance from where it was when you could look at the issue logically as an outside observer... you need to excuse yourself from the decision making process.

    79. Re:Or parents... by shaitand · · Score: 1

      The government is responsible for the drug issue and the porn is harmless.

    80. Re:Or parents... by allcoolnameswheretak · · Score: 1

      What? You're suggesting parents should spend time looking after their kids now? *gasp*

    81. Re:Or parents... by Hatta · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You don't. You teach them to use their brain, and they handle the rest.

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    82. Re:Or parents... by hendrikboom · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Raise your children to make their own decisions. Let them start with small decisions, and gradually open it up to serious ones. Along the way, let them experience the consequences of their actions. That was they get the opportunity to learn. Do this, and you won't need censorship. My children turned out just fine.

    83. Re:Or parents... by Thinboy00 · · Score: 1

      WOW is paid, presumably by credit card. Minors can acquire cards, but it is... nontrivial.

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    84. Re:Or parents... by Imrik · · Score: 1

      Reminds me of when I was younger and my parents asked me to open the child proof caps for them...

    85. Re:Or parents... by d36 · · Score: 1

      Do you know this from experience?

    86. Re:Or parents... by IBBoard · · Score: 1

      No one has been killed by swear words, no one has been killed by watching porn...

      Tell that to all the people with dodgy hearts who died of heart attacks after either hearing a slew of swear words they're not used to (mainly the older generation) or after watching something a little to 'interesting' ;)

    87. Re:Or parents... by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      Your experiences are exactly right, but if I might be so bold I think your conclusions are wrong.

      Somewhere along the line, parents have come to believe that it is their job to protect children. It's not. A parent's job is to prepare their child. I'm not saying you don't hold a two-year-old's hand crossing the street, or that you introduce them to a pedophile so that they can learn about them, but I AM saying that you also teach that two-year-old to look both ways and you teach your children what sorts of information they should and should not give on the Internet.

      Even if your children are not actively trying to bypass you--and at eleven years old she has probably already begun--you simply can't be there to protect them all the time. Nor, frankly, would you want to be; that's not a recipe for raising a child who is going to go off and do well on their own as an adult. Instead, you want to give them the tools and the knowledge they need to protect themselves. Talking to adults is not a problem. Hell, frankly talking to a pedophile is not a problem -- the problem is in what gets said and done. Teach them about that and you don't need to police who they speak to. Teach them your morality with regards to things like sex and you don't have to concern yourself with whether or not a penis or boobs flash on the television. Teach them about appropriate language for situations and you don't have to care if some guy in an MMO swears a lot. Be open and honest and respectful and it will be reciprocated, much more so than if you're not. They won't always listen. They won't always do the right thing, but short of locking them in a bedroom until their brains are fully developed that's always going to be the case. Part of life, part of growing up, is making mistakes and learning from them, not being hidden away from real life and then thrust upon the world at eighteen.

      And if I might throw in a bit of a personal touch, teach them carefully. Maybe it says something about me, but I met my best friend online. A friend who I literally have flown across the world to meet and spend time with. His friendship has been great for me and I hope mine has been for him as well. Neither of us ended up raped or beaten or murdered, and our friendship is stronger for it. What I'm saying is this: There are meaningful relationships to be had online, which both you and your child should not only be open to but embrace when they come around. Yes, you have to be careful; you have to be careful in person too. Just being able to see somebody is a shallow evaluation of whether or not they are who and what they claim to be. But there are far more good and honest people online than bad people, regardless of how the media portrays things. It shouldn't be so much a boogeyman that people are afraid to ever be open or honest with another person online -- like everything else, it just needs to be done smart.

      I'm not one of those people who think it's amoral to censor what kids watch or anything like that. I just think it's incomplete; parents need to be educating their children in the ways I discussed regardless of whether they're keeping an eye on what they watch and listen to and see and who they talk to, or those children are little better off. With that the case, I find the actual censorship to be unnecessary. Teach them and trust them; ultimately, what else can you do?

      For the record, most of this wasn't targeted directly at you. I don't know you, the child or any particulars about your situation. In fact since you said "gained an eleven year old" I suspect you either adopted or something happened to somebody close to you and you ended up a guardian, and either way the situation is entirely more complex than with your own child whom you get to start with from birth. I just used your commentary as a bit of a jumping off point.

    88. Re:Or parents... by sinbadfury · · Score: 1

      Totally agree, parents by and large have outsourced their responsibilities towards the content their kids are exposed to. They assume that whats on the television 'has' to be OK as long as it's on at respectable and child sociable hours. The real fact is that the world is full of explicit content, it's everywhere. Advertising and marketing have young children exposed to content that is making them act and talk about things that are many years their senior. Examples of this would be the kind of outfits that girls dolls wear, the focus on being skinny, beautiful and making boys like you, all at the ripe old age of 5-7 years! Children these days are raised by the media, the parents just stand back to take the increased abuse and write the cheques for the next childrens product to flash in front of their childrens innocence-lost eyes

    89. Re:Or parents... by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Parents should be the one who ultimately decide whether their kids are ready to join online worlds and, if they're not, prevent them from doing so.

      We as a people should not need a government organization dictating what our children should or should not be exposed too. I realize it's politically incorrect to blame voting parents for anything these days but there is no government rules that will replace a good parenting. Furthermore, I'm starting to realize a good chunk of those pushing for things like this are parents who really don't want to put in the work to raise their children and instead would prefer the government or schools do it for them.

      The problem is that there are a lot of useless parents out there. If a parent is unable to feed, shelter or clothe their children, at some point (I hope) the state needs to intervene to save the child from serious harm.

      Children are not independent like adults, you can't just leave them to it if their supposed carers are not up to the job.

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    90. Re:Or parents... by idontgno · · Score: 1

      WoW is paid, presumably by credit card.

      WoW is potentially paid, in fact, by cash money, and always has been. Walk into WallyWorld with $120 or so and walk out with the complete software suite to play WoW. After your initial 60 (? 30? It's been a while) days of play time has expired, walk back into WallyWorld with $30 cash money and walk out with a playtime card good for another 60 days of your favorite sweet, sweet MMORPG addiction. Lather, rinse, repeat.

      I played WoW for over a year without Blizzard ever getting a sniff of my CC number.

      The only problem becomes Junior getting Mom to take him to the local discount emporioum, and that's obviously not a problem.

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    91. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 1

      I agree with nearly everything you said, except the part where you said I was wrong. We agree for the most part, clearly - I'm just saying that there are situations where, no matter how well you have educated your kid, they will make a really bad choice. Some of this puts them in physical harm (I'm picturing my brother climbing over the railing at the GRAND CANYON so he could get a better look at the massive drop - yeah, that happened) and others are more about emotions and psychology... humans are wired very strangely when it comes to sex. I'm all on board with the whole "it's natural, etc." talk and I don't want it to be a taboo - but I don't think it's censorship to do my best to prevent a five year old from watching that "two girls one cup" video everyone on YouTube is talking about. I honestly believe that can do actual lasting damage. So that's the line you have to draw, and everyone will draw it differently. Education, yes. Understanding, yes. Maturity, sure. But kids can't decide what they're ready for - that's the job of a parent - and so sometimes you have to protect them from it. There are mistakes you learn from, and mistakes you never recover from.

      For what it's worth, the kid (now nearly thirteen) seems to be spectacularly well-balanced and we've reached a point where we don't worry about letting her do whatever it is she does online - and for things that are omnipresent but still... distateful... we just don't make our opinions or the reasoning for those opinions secret.

    92. Re:Or parents... by SOdhner · · Score: 1

      Diesel will burn but getting it to go boom requires a bit more effort than a firecracker.

      That example was based off of (but was not exactly) an actual event. In the real case I can't swear it was diesel, just that it was a fuel of some sort and the jug was nearly empty - my understanding is that the fumes caused the boom. Also, in the real case the kid didn't lose a hand - though I was told there was permanent damage to it in some way. Not sure if that means he lost the tip of a finger, or lost some sensation due to burn scars or what.

    93. Re:Or parents... by Akira+Kogami · · Score: 1

      I know the government is responsible for the drug issue, and I didn't make any comment on whether porn is harmless or not. My point was that government regulations designed to protect people from themselves tend to either be ineffective or infringing on rights. The middle ground is apparently very difficult to achieve. I mean, any high school student knows where they could get drugs or who they could ask if they wanted to know where to get them. Doesn't seem like those drug laws are working too well. Feel free to point out an example of government success in this area, but to my knowledge, government regulation of personal activities is basically ineffective.

    94. Re:Or parents... by Supurcell · · Score: 1

      Well why don't you enlighten us? I've never thought about it before, but now I can't help but wonder what the stuff tastes like.

    95. Re:Or parents... by badkarmadayaccount · · Score: 1

      I've seen that page before. And I still need a hug right about now.

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  2. Riiiiiiight... by Locke2005 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    All this is necessary because kids never hang out with older kids in REAL LIFE and hear those words from them! How about just teaching your kids what is and isn't appropriate -- eventually they are going to have to learn to cope with these bad influences anyway.

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    1. Re:Riiiiiiight... by LOLLinux · · Score: 1

      All this is necessary because kids never hang out with older kids in REAL LIFE and hear those words from them!

      Or from their own parents.

    2. Re:Riiiiiiight... by Gerafix · · Score: 1

      Ah, see, that's the master plan. Soon enough we're going to have to keep the children in a secure location until they're say twenty years old. For their protection of course. In this secure location free from outside interference they will prosper under our Intensive National Deployment Orchestrated Child Transformable Responsible Improvement Naturalization Abiding Trust of Economists, or our INDOCTRINATE program for short.

    3. Re:Riiiiiiight... by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      All this is necessary because kids never hang out with older kids in REAL LIFE and hear those words from them! How about just teaching your kids what is and isn't appropriate -- eventually they are going to have to learn to cope with these bad influences anyway.

      Exactly.

      The world is not child-safe. There are movies, games, books, pictures, and people that your child probably shouldn't have access to.

      Parents are supposed to actually raise their children. They're supposed to do the content filtering - not some computer program. And they're supposed to explain the content as it becomes appropriate for their children.

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    4. Re:Riiiiiiight... by dlanod · · Score: 1

      Exactly! I know my wife and I occasionally let slip expletives of our choice... the natural follow-up to this law would be to remove our children because of it, or install devices in their ears that beeps out any such word until they're 16, 18 or 21 (depending on where you are in the world).

    5. Re:Riiiiiiight... by sjames · · Score: 1

      Or older siblings that teach them all of the words because they find it amusing.

  3. The Internet is The Internet by Dadamh · · Score: 1

    If you are a parent with children, you have to be aware that the internet is not a child-safe place. Is it possible for a kid to abstain from porn and other explicit stuff online? Sure. Will they always be able to avoid all of it? Probably not.

    It's not really the job of these virtual world companies to constantly police their worlds and take out everyone that says a naughty word. If you let your kids use the internet, they are going to see things you don't want them to.

    Get over it.

    1. Re:The Internet is The Internet by MrMr · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Don't blame us parents, this is the FTC talking about control.

    2. Re:The Internet is The Internet by KDEnut · · Score: 1

      I agree completely. Someone should remind the FTC that the REAL world is also bad for Minors and has been since shortly after it's inception, and that porn/cursing/bad behavior was every bit as accessible twenty years ago. Parenting is the modifier to the world's constants.

  4. FTC has it wrong about the specifics imo by Adambomb · · Score: 1

    However they may be right for different reasons.

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  5. Got to keep them out of school too. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Are they going to take the kids out of public schools as well? Online chat is nothing compared to what's talked about in the hallways of our middle schools and high schools.

  6. Because the internet is worse than real life.... by mayko · · Score: 2, Funny

    Surely seeing profane language and a few distended assholes is much worse than smoking cigarettes, sneaking booze from your parents liquor cabinet, hearing older kids use profane language, and looking at some stolen porno magizines...

    Kids have, and will always be kids. They will hear and do things before their parents willingly expose them to it... all except the distended assholes. That is definitely an unfortunate consequence of the internet.

  7. Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 3, Funny

    Champions Online would let my daughter create a cat themed hero, but wouldn't let her name it "Pussy Cat"... I haven't tried naming a character "Dick Cheney" yet.

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    1. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Maestro4k · · Score: 1

      Champions Online would let my daughter create a cat themed hero, but wouldn't let her name it "Pussy Cat"... I haven't tried naming a character "Dick Cheney" yet.

      An MMO I play bans words based on a list, but the filter's stupid as can be and matches the words wherever they show up. So you can't say glasses, because there's a bad word in it. Can't say assassin either (and there are mobs called assassins in the game.) Other things that get blocked are any sentence with "put a" in it (because without the space it's a bad word in Spanish apparently); grape; sentences with stuff like "push it" in them; and lots, lots more.

      The end result? The censor pretty much only works on people trying to talk normally (that is, no intentional bad words). All the teens/pre-teens who want to say offensive stuff bypass the filter by changing spellings. Oh, and thanks to the weird censoring of stuff like "put a", players have learned new bad words that they didn't know before.

      Trying to censor stuff in chat is just doomed to failure, and if done really poorly (like the above), it becomes nothing but a joke. Not to mention that even if you could somehow magically keep all offensive language out of MMOs the kids will just hear the stuff from their peers at school anyway.

    2. Re:Censorship works great!!! by natehoy · · Score: 2, Funny

      That's just a filter. Name it \/ag1na Cat and it'll probably be fine.

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    3. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      In FFXI there was a especially bad system, where you had only a limited choice of words to use. A whitelist system so to speak. Yet it did not stop anyone from saying what he wanted to say.

      There was for example a place called “gloryhole” in the game. You can guess what it was most used for. ^^

      --
      Any sufficiently advanced intelligence is indistinguishable from stupidity.
    4. Re:Censorship works great!!! by funaho · · Score: 1

      Reminds me of BBSing in the 1980s. I remember on one board a guy was trying to sell a used vacuum cleaner, but the silly profanity filter kept censoring it when he tried to talk about how it could "really suck.". :)

    5. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Kittenman · · Score: 1

      Champions Online would let my daughter create a cat themed hero, but wouldn't let her name it "Pussy Cat"... I haven't tried naming a character "Dick Cheney" yet.

      If you do, it'll go around shooting random people anyhow...

      Thank you - I'm here 'til Thursday...

      --
      "The greatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes" - Winston Churchill
    6. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      He doesn't shoot random people, he shoots lawyers... in the face... and his popularity goes up when he does! Come on, who amongst us hasn't wanted to take out a shotgun and shoot a lawyer in the face... it couldn't just be me!

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    7. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      "Pu55y Cat" didn't work (I tried), so I suspect "Vag1na Cat" wouldn't work either.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    8. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      Runescape filtered all chat, which was both annoying and completely useless, as yes, people did quickly come up with alternate spellings to beat the censor. It would constantly surprise by substituting asterisks in the middle of words where no offense was intended, but it fully displayed phrases like "My balls itch like bloody hell!" You'd think that Jagex, being British, would have thought of those words.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    9. Re:Censorship works great!!! by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      I played Runescape.

      The filter was obnoxious at first, but it was always changing and got quite a bit better. I am fairly certain they made exceptions for naughty words that were contained in other words that weren’t. In any event, I don’t think that anybody saying “4u(|<” was going to irreversibly scar anyone else... or the slightly more entertaining version, an ASCII penis that required 2 lines of the chat.

      My balls itch like bloody hell

      Good luck censoring balls in that context and not in others, and there is no reason whatsoever to censor the phrase “bloody hell”.

      That is not to say I didn’t often think the filter was stupid. For instance, “stalker” was (and probably still is) censored.

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      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
    10. Re:Censorship works great!!! by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      (oYo)

      was always my favorite comment (especially with the "wave" effect) -- guess I'm still a bit immature.

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      I've abandoned my search for truth; now I'm just looking for some useful delusions.
    11. Re:Censorship works great!!! by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      LOL. Another thing I sometimes enjoyed was posting

                                                                                            Help, I'm drowning!

      off the side of the dock while fishing for lobster (also with the wave effect).

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      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  8. Sounds good to me by Rix · · Score: 1

    I would much rather not have to deal with other people's children or silly rules to protect them. Build kiddie pools and throw the little snots and the content filters in them.

    1. Re:Sounds good to me by Ephemeriis · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I would much rather not have to deal with other people's children or silly rules to protect them. Build kiddie pools and throw the little snots and the content filters in them.

      Except that isn't how it will work.

      The reason we need things like this in the first place is because parents aren't doing their job. If parents were paying enough attention to realize that Grand Theft Auto probably wasn't child safe... Or if parents were actually explaining what is appropriate language and behavior... It wouldn't be necessary to come up with these rules and filters to protect them.

      The fact of the matter is that many parents just toss their kids in front of videogames. It's easier than actually parenting them yourself. It keeps them distracted and quiet while you go do your thing. Except that not all videogames are child-safe. And weeding out the child-safe ones from the adult titles would require effort these folks are obviously not interested in expending. So the ultimate goal here would be to render absolutely everything child-safe.

      Which means that all your videogames would become kiddie pools. And even though you're an adult, you'd have to put up with the content filters and rules that are designed to protect the children of these lazy parents.

      --
      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    2. Re:Sounds good to me by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      I would much rather not have to deal with other people's children or silly rules to protect them. Build kiddie pools and throw the little snots and the content filters in them.

      Except that isn't how it will work.

      The reason we need things like this in the first place is because parents aren't doing their job. If parents were paying enough attention to realize that Grand Theft Auto probably wasn't child safe... Or if parents were actually explaining what is appropriate language and behavior... It wouldn't be necessary to come up with these rules and filters to protect them.

      The fact of the matter is that many parents just toss their kids in front of videogames. It's easier than actually parenting them yourself. It keeps them distracted and quiet while you go do your thing. Except that not all videogames are child-safe. And weeding out the child-safe ones from the adult titles would require effort these folks are obviously not interested in expending. So the ultimate goal here would be to render absolutely everything child-safe.

      Which means that all your videogames would become kiddie pools. And even though you're an adult, you'd have to put up with the content filters and rules that are designed to protect the children of these lazy parents.

      first of all, there is no one Codified legal standard on how to be a parent. Every parent has a different idea, and the right, about how to do their job. Today's society has largely segregated children from parents except for a couple of hours a day between 6 pm and 8 pm. The rest of the time is typically spent asleep when at home, and at school, daycare / work the rest of the day. 2 hours a day is not even close to enough time to "Pay close attention" to your child(ren).

      I have yet to find any child that I had to *force* to play a video game. Often times it's the reverse, trying to pry the child from the TV (which we since threw away) just to say grace and *Eat* something.

      As for the child filters? I want parent filters. I have trashed my "Need for speed" series from Electronic Arts because of the marketing to the teen gangster, and general "thug" image EA tries to push the game to. Not to mention the torturous cut scenes you are *forced* to endure between events.

      This article was never about your job as a parent, it's the FTC trying to get control of another medium, so they can receive more funding. Which in government work, is what it's all about. - More Funding.

      Thats not to say I don't watch them like a hawk when I can. No matter how tight the belt gets I have a one income family. It will stay that way. The kids are only allowed to use email at our families domain, which I receive a copy of every single piece of mail they get, and I have instant message logging at the firewall. If they deviate from the family email they are grounded to their rooms and lose internet access. All the computers in the house are in the living room. No matter how much they beg, AND we watch where they play.

      - Dan.

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      ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
  9. Nanny Business by SirAstral · · Score: 2, Interesting

    We already know the details of nanny government and all that jazz... but when are the businesses going to stand up, pool their money and fight being pushed into becoming nannys themselves? They may think its cool now to have a little power, but soon they will start getting sued by parents for not keeping their little dissident children in line. It won't be facebook, craigslist, and myspace being sued. It will be the companies that run games like WOW, Everquest, EVE, and the rest getting sued for the GM's and Dev's not keeping predators out of the game world.

    People are a sleep at the wheel here!

  10. You may have a bigger problem... by LordDax · · Score: 1

    If they can figure out how to get an MMO up installed, port forwarded and running with good FPS and low lat, you might want to also try asking your ISP to not allow them to download anything else to "My-book-reports-and-class-notes" which happens to be over 1gig in size...

    1. Re:You may have a bigger problem... by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      Port forwarded? running with good FPS and low lat?

      What century do you live in?

  11. Age gating by Pulse_Instance · · Score: 1

    I'm pretty sure that is impossible to build effective age restrictions into the internet. The one article mentions that some of the worlds set it up so that if you enter a birthday that says you are too young they block you from creating an account with a different birthday from the same computer. This only hurts households with multiple users and only needs to happen on one world for the kids to learn that they need to enter that they are over the legal age the first time.

  12. Keep the kids away from the rest of us by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 3, Funny

    the most irritating people in these virtual worlds are the damn teenagers - I'm all for separating out the populations or at least allowing me to filter out messages from kids. Most adults have at least some level of decorum.

    --
    "We returned the General to El Salvador, or maybe Guatemala, it's difficult to tell from 10,000 feet"
    1. Re:Keep the kids away from the rest of us by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      Most adults have at least some level of decorum.

      What Internet are you on, and how do I sign up?

  13. For what it's worth by nightfire-unique · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm of the opinion that the "real world" with all its war, police brutality, marketing, religion, fear and suffering is worse.

    Really... are sex and swear words that bad?

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    A government is a body of people notably ungoverned - AC
    1. Re:For what it's worth by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      Swear words, maybe not. Sex? Yes. Let's see. We have STD's, broken families/divorce, sexual abuse, domestic violence, emotional trauma... all very closely, in varying degrees, tied to sex.

      Yes, I am of the opinion that adultery in a marriage has very, very severe adverse effects on a marriage, which in turn very adversely affects all in that family - especially the children. And yes, I do think that porn brings similar issues along with it.

      It seems that the world today wants to base many things on trust and honor, but nobody wants to take personal responsibility in relationships even to have that trust. Many seem to dislike untrustworthy corporations, politicians, and banks, and yet get all upset if their spouse thinks it a horrible thing that she can't trust him around other women, or alone in Las Vegas, or whatever.

      People apparently like to think that trust, morality, ethics, and all those good things are what other people should do so that I can benefit from them, but that I should be able to do whatever I want, as long as it doesn't hurt* anyone.

      * By "hurt" I apparently only mean direct physical harm.

      Please note the sarcasm :)

    2. Re:For what it's worth by dlanod · · Score: 1

      They are when politicians think they can convince people to vote for them based on it...

      Plus sex and swear words don't have a real lobby group, unlike police brutality, marketing, and religion.

    3. Re:For what it's worth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The real world is worse and, as a public school employee (no, not an english teacher you swarmy grammar nazis) in the midwest, i can tell you that most parents don't want to be, they would rather let the gov't raise them (no responsibility/no fault).

      Having said that though, the real enemy of the kids is rarely mentioned: Poverty. A lot of the kids at my school dont' have parents because they work insane hours just to barely make ends meet and are often single parent homes, and the kids as a result end up with nothing including manners/guidance/sense.

      What happens is the gov't steps in and they get free lunch free books etc and so when it comes time for them to take responsibility for anything they just shrug, someone else got them this far, why should they worry/care?

      disclaimer: there are no easy answers, i'm just stating facts as i see them every day.

    4. Re:For what it's worth by city · · Score: 1

      Really... are sex and swear words that bad?

      If they aren't then you are doing them right...
      /misquoted Vonnegut

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    5. Re:For what it's worth by CaseCrash · · Score: 1

      You can get STD's from online gaming?

      --
      No, that link you posted to a web comic we've all seen a hundred times is not "obligatory."
    6. Re:For what it's worth by Monkeedude1212 · · Score: 1

      Sex doesn't have to be tied to adultery though. There are many games that require you to keep to your monogamous relationships, and that trying to do otherwise results in dire consequences.

    7. Re:For what it's worth by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Where on earth did you get the topic of online gaming from anything that GP said?

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      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
    8. Re:For what it's worth by Reapy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      One could argue that lack of experience in dealing with life's 'ugly' side leads to people having unrealistic expectations of what to expect in their life from friends, partners, and family. It can lead to poor decisions when choosing a partner, choosing to have kids, or choosing to even get married. These poor decisions in turn can lead to horribly broken homes, full of grief, misery, or just general lack of "life", which are terrible places for kids to grow up, kids who will continue on developing their own issues from growing in those homes, continuing the cycle.

      One of this country's (US) biggest problems has always been the refusal to even acknowledge half of these problems and examine alternative lifestyles with an open mind. I don't mean just gay/lesbian couples either. I mean a couple who may choose to not have kids, a couple who may live together but refuse marriage, a couple who has an open relationship, having multiple 'friends with benefits'. All of these and more exist out there and work for other people, but if you dare make the mistake of admitting in public that you don't want to be married forever and have 2.5 kids, wooh buddy, something must be wrong with you!

      The more exposure, and even better parental guided exposure, to life that a person (not just a kid) can have, the better. Yes, your 6 year old does not need to know the ins and out's of your divorce, but they do not need to remain ignorant forever. Maturing as a person is experiencing life and understanding more then you did when younger. If you are not experiencing and learning, you aren't growing, and you aren't maturing.

    9. Re:For what it's worth by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

      How fucked up is your view of sex?? And online porn is not even sex!

      Were you raised by religious nutjobs who got trained to associate sex with something bad, because everyone loves sex, and that makes everyone a sinner, who then is easily controllable?

      Or did you just never had sex and are now disgruntled about it?

      Must be a sad life. But at least I hope it prevents you from reproducing. If it doesn’t, then your kinds will end up like that couple who was 35 years old and wondered why they never got children from the stork. Until the doctor had to tell them that you have to have sex to get children.

      Sex is nice. Sex is fun. Sex is the reason we all even exist. It’s nothing to hide or be ashamed of.
      Sadly, often the only ones with a healthy attitude towards nudity and sex, are small children who were not indoctrinated yet, and just find it interesting or run around nude and see nude people without acting like idiots. :/

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      Any sufficiently advanced intelligence is indistinguishable from stupidity.
    10. Re:For what it's worth by nightfire-unique · · Score: 1

      My thoughts exactly. Ah well.

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      A government is a body of people notably ungoverned - AC
    11. Re:For what it's worth by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      I am actually happily married.

      And I have seen the mistrust and betrayal (and jealousy) associated with extramarital affairs, the broken homes it gives, the heartbreak, etc.

      No, I was not raised by religious wackos who thought sex == devil. But I was raised to believe that sex is for marriage, and marriage is for a guy and girl. That's laughed at now, scorned at, scoffed at, and otherwise ridiculed as old fashioned, outdated, etc... my response? I don't care. Some of the happiest people and most tightly-knit families with the fewest squabbles believe the same way I do. I haven't seen many really happy people that have gone through divorces, affairs, etc. They seem to be happy at times, but just because of their temporal pleasure and sexual gratification, as far as I can tell.

      And, incidentally, I like how you go from me expressing some more conservative views on sex to you thinking that I apparently think nobody under 35 should know what it is; furthermore, you seem to think that it's a neutral act and people just need to be educated (preconditioned?) to not care about what people's spouses do. Or something like that?

    12. Re:For what it's worth by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Hitting a child is not as bad as murdering a child. That does not mean it is OK to hit a child.

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      To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it
  14. Out of touch bureaucrats? by bughunter · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm convinced that most adults, especially those who claim the mantle of "protecting the children" forget what it's like to be a child.

    I mean, come on. Don't you guys remember the ribald jokes told as early as the first grade, and the whole fascination with that mysterious, taboo subject that nobody who talked about it really understood, and nobody who understood it talked about it?

    I am a parent of a five year old, and I'm far more concerned about advertisements and commercials than I am worried that he'll overhear a reference to boobies or weiners. Exposure to "adult subjects?" Please. Like you never told a joke about headlights or train tunnels when you were six, or sung the "Miss Lucy" song.

    And as for chat rooms and other "predator" hangouts, well, that's another level of threat... one that the media has a whole other set of objectivity problems with. (And common sense and involvement with your child is all it takes to manage that threat.)

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    I can see the fnords!
    1. Re:Out of touch bureaucrats? by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

      I mean, come on. Don't you guys remember the ribald jokes told as early as the first grade, and the whole fascination with that mysterious, taboo subject that nobody who talked about it really understood, and nobody who understood it talked about it?

      I must have had really cool parents. They introduced me to James Bond movies at a very early age, and my dad and I watched lots of violent kung fu films. I could seduce sexy Russian double agents and break a man's spine with my index finger by the age of 10, although I admit the opportunities to do so were few and far between.

      My mom taught me to play blackjack at age 12, and we had a rollup felt Craps "table" that was the most requested item for family game night. I started counting cards on my own by age 14 when I noticed that the player had an advantage when the deck was heavy with face cards.

      Somehow, some way, I managed to steep clear of organized crime and general ne'er-do-wellism in later life.

    2. Re:Out of touch bureaucrats? by daveime · · Score: 1

      And how is the Las Vegas dishwashing job working out for you ?

    3. Re:Out of touch bureaucrats? by rrohbeck · · Score: 1

      What's your problem with boobies? There was just some new research on them in the news.

      Interestingly, they have blue feet.

    4. Re:Out of touch bureaucrats? by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

      I don't get it. I'm a lead engineer on satcom R&D projects. Joke? Huh.

  15. No surprise by royallthefourth · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I remember when I was a minor on the internet I had access to explicit content.

    You know what they're really missing here? Teenaged boys are looking for explicit content and you'll never be able to stop them from finding it.

    1. Re:No surprise by kramerd · · Score: 1

      I hate to have to point this out, but teenage girls are also looking for explicit content.

    2. Re:No surprise by royallthefourth · · Score: 1

      Of course they are, but half of them still won't admit it even into adulthood.

    3. Re:No surprise by jdgeorge · · Score: 1

      I hate to have to point this out, but teenage girls are also looking for explicit content.

      Hmmm.... My impression is it's "most" teenaged boys, and "some" teenaged girls.

      And no, I have nothing whatsoever to back that up.

    4. Re:No surprise by kramerd · · Score: 1

      While I don't understand what you mean by "most" and "some" (and you apparently don't either), pointing out things that you have no basis for is the definition of a waste of time.

      It's all teenagers, regardless of gender. It's one of those evolutionary things where you hit puberty and then you become interested in explicit content.

      Less teenage girls may be seeking out 2G1C, but the content in girl magazines is often much more damaging to them long term. Need proof? Listen to any middle/high school girl gossip without them knowing (note - don't actually do this, just watch MTV. If you do it, you could get arrested).

    5. Re:No surprise by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      You know what they're really missing here? Teenaged boys are looking for explicit content and you'll never be able to stop them from finding it.

      I'm actually glad I didn't have access to free online porn when I was growing up, as I don't think I'd have ever left my bedroom...

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      To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it
    6. Re:No surprise by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Try “all” teenage boys and “most” teenage girls.

      For instance (PDF),

      A total of 429 students aged 13 and 14 from 17 urban and rural schools across Alberta, Canada, were surveyed anonymously about if, how and how often they accessed sexually explicit media content on digital or satellite television, video and DVD and the Internet. Ninety per cent of males and 70 per cent of females reported accessing sexually explicit media content at least once. More than one-third of the boys reported viewing pornographic DVDs or videos “too many times to count”, compared to eight per cent of the girls surveyed.

      That’s just junior highers... and the ones who would admit to it, even in an anonymous survey.

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      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  16. Prevent Beneficial Interaction by The+Raven · · Score: 5, Interesting

    This whole segregation thing is crap. 95% of interactions between a child and an adult are positive. Segregation leads to 'Lord of the Flies' inbreeding of immature thought. Mixed company is the proper company for a child to have to learn how to grow up to be a sane, responsible, rounded individual.

    Look at our history... children didn't grow up in segregated 'child only' areas... they grew up working with their parents and community members. They were exposed to life.

    I'm of the opinion that over 95% of interactions between a child and adult are positive. How many of you have grouped with an obviously young kid, and helped them through an instance? Asked them to please be more polite, or type neatly, or don't ninja all the loot? Grouping, chatting, and talking with more mature players is what helps children learn maturity (at least in the context of an MMO).

    Perhaps some of the other points of the article have merit, but I'm quite against age segregation. We are a community... act like it.

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    "I will trust Google to 'do no evil' until the founders no longer run it." Hello Alphabet.
    1. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by FlyingBishop · · Score: 1

      95% of interactions between a child and an adult are positive.

      On Xbox live? Hell, I'd say we're doing this just as much to keep the adults away from the kids.

    2. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by Normal+Dan · · Score: 1

      I agree. I used to live in a virtual world when I was younger (not healthy btw) but an adult was able to guess my age exactly by the way I was acting. It really made me think about how I was acting and I became (or at least acted) far more mature than most of my friends (at least online). I really wish I was exposed to more adults as a child. Once I graduated high school it felt strange to interact with anyone outside my age group (IRL). I feel I've missed out on quite a bit because I had trouble talking to anyone older (or younger) than myself.

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    3. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by tophermeyer · · Score: 1

      Xbox live is a whole different kind of awful. In my opinion, networks like XBL can be worse than forums/chatrooms (aside from things like targeted pedophilia).

      I'm an adult, and I like to think I have a thick skin about most things. I am wise enough to know that words are just words. Even still, I hear things over XBL that make me embarrassed to be part of that kind of community. People there treat each other like crap, with no expectation of any consequences. I've seen those kind of positive adult/child interactions in WOW or older online games. As a kid I used to play paintball fairly regularly, I saw a lot of that kind of mentoring. I never see that on XBL. It might be fair to say that anyone that plays over Xbox Live should be kept away from everyone else.

      I agree children should be have some level of separation on a network like that, real time voice chat makes filtering and content restrictions really hard. Positive role models are definitely good for children, but in my experience those just don't exist on Xbox. Maybe its just the games I'm playing, but it doesn't seem like that. I am not a parent, and it may sound hypocritical, but my child will never be allowed to interact on networks like that.

    4. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by jdgeorge · · Score: 1

      95% of interactions between a child and an adult are positive.

      Give me a break. This is a completely made-up statistic, supported by no measured data about type or frequency of interaction from any study by anyone. You even say as much later in your post.

      Look at our history... children didn't grow up in segregated 'child only' areas... they grew up working with their parents and community members. They were exposed to life.

      Whose history? Crap or not, segregation of children from adults outside our families (at least in the US) is not even remotely new. The segregated "child only" areas most of my peers grew up in were called "schools". Most of those of earlier generations who didn't have schools available grew up in living and working with their families, where the need to segregate children from adults wasn't (and isn't) seen to be as essential.

    5. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by Knara · · Score: 1

      I grew up in a different way, but same environment. My sister (2 years younger) and I were best buds until I got to the age of about 9 and she was 7, then we diverged two different ways, she got into sports and I got into BBSes (and later MUD/MUSH/MUSEs). Most of the folks on them were college aged, obviously, but I was able to "enter their world" because I'd wardialed the whole local BBS listing and found an open telnet prompt.

      Until the age of 20-21 I rarely interacted with anyone who was my age or younger, and when I went off to college (spent 2 years at a local community college) it was very weird being in a peer group that was almost all younger than me by a few years (but popular due to the fact I could buy booze).

      But, the end result was still that I had to learn social norms the "hard way", because by the time I started spending large amounts of time interacting socially in "meatspace", it was difficult to me to intuit cues like a child often does when socialized "normally".

    6. Re:Prevent Beneficial Interaction by Alarindris · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Great point. Interesting story I have to add.

      I used to run a WoW guild. Everyone in the guild was between 20 and 40. Or so we thought. Our kickass bear tank that we had for months, revealed that he was 13. We hadn't heard him on vent, so we were just dumbfounded. Very polite, mature, organised, and punctual. Guess what?

      He was home schooled. One of the best youngsters I've met TBH.

  17. true in the real world, too by loshwomp · · Score: 3, Interesting

    [...] minors have access to explicit content via online virtual worlds [...]

    Minors have access to "explicit" content in the real world, too. How is this any different? Are these concerns merely puritanical in nature, or is there evidence that this is actually harmful?

    1. Re:true in the real world, too by rrohbeck · · Score: 1

      "Click *here* to confirm that you are 18 years or older."

      Yeah right.

  18. Who needs terrorists... by Duradin · · Score: 5, Funny

    Who needs terrorists when children are doing such a great job of destroying our society?

    1. Re:Who needs terrorists... by Gerafix · · Score: 1

      To be fair it's mindless bureaucrats trying to justify their existence. I would imagine that if children were actually running the country it would turn out a whole lot more sensible, at least more Crayony and plushy.

    2. Re:Who needs terrorists... by sowth · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No, it would be the same. The baby boomers who are running things act exactly like children.

      Arguments based on who is in the better clique, not on the real issues or ways to solve problems or whether or not the government should try to solve certain problems in the first place. Their attempts to solve problems are based upon only a very superficial look at the problem and solution.

      They succumb easily to bribes. They only consider their specific situation--one of the "solutions" for healthcare was to lower the medicare age to 55? That only helps baby boomers and no one else. In fact, the majority of people who are unable to get health insurace for themselves are under 30. Look at these figures. The percentage of uninsured poor is 21% for the ages 25-34 (the highest), and only 7% for ages 55-64. How does decreasing the medicare age to 55 help the healthcare crisis?

      They act like a bunch of immature spoiled bastards who have no consideration for society in general. WTF? Mod me offtopic if you want, but my point is we have a total failure of leadership in the United States. These absurd regulation talks about the internet are just a small distraction from it.

      They are just legislating things for their specific preferences, and most baby boomers don't run any game servers or web sites, so they don't care if your freedom to do such things are taken away. That is why we have these issues. Because they are in control and they don't give a shit about anyone else. In a non-tyrannical government, the leaders would act in ways which are considerate of everyone, but this is not what we have here.

    3. Re:Who needs terrorists... by pyster · · Score: 1

      that is the best quote ever.

    4. Re:Who needs terrorists... by nightfire-unique · · Score: 1

      Man I know that one's tongue-in-cheek but...

      It's pretty harsh to even joke that kids are responsible for the horrible things we do to them and the world they will inherit. It's even worse that the think-of-the-children asshats do these horrible things in their name. :(

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    5. Re:Who needs terrorists... by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      they act like a bunch of immature spoiled bastards who have no consideration for society in general [snipped]and most baby boomers don't run any game servers

      Yeah, we're ruining the serious work you kids are doing.

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  19. 3. Profit! by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

    ...; Seal little Johnny away in a hermetic reality bubble lest he experience anything that might alarm him or his parents; ...

  20. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Pulse_Instance · · Score: 1

    A friend and I were out at Ikea buying some furniture and as we it onto the cart he drops it on his foot and says "Fuck!" Some lady we hadn't seen up to that point says "Excuse me, there are children here." My friend turns around and as politely as possible and says, "The world isn't censored"

    My point being that more people need to realize that the world isn't censored, it will never be possible to censor the world and if you want your kids to not swear you need to teach them it is something you don't like so that they learn to hide the fact that they swear like a trucker when you aren't around.

  21. Stop it. Just stop. by Yvan256 · · Score: 1

    Either make the .kid domain with strict regulations/requirements and legal fines if you don't follow them.

    Another radical idea would be for parents to do their job of parenting and just stop annoying us with all of this. The internet is just like the real world, not all places are kid-friendly. Parents should know that.

    Even age itself, for adults, doesn't quite cut it. Some people just can't handle some types of content while others can.

  22. Extreme measures call for extreme times by handy_vandal · · Score: 1

    Or better yet lobby for introducing mandatory implantation of filter chips directly into children's brain; tracking their movements, emotions and thoughts.

    Damn -- you beat me to it.

    Okay, mister smarty pants. I'll see your brain chip, and raise you a remote-control kill-switch.

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    1. Re:Extreme measures call for extreme times by shentino · · Score: 1

      I win because I hacked both of you.

      Say, that would be a pretty good way to kidnap someone yes? Hijack their lojack and steer them right into your arms.

  23. Times have changed by mister_playboy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is "profane" language really such a concern anymore? Every I know who is under 40 tends to swear quite freely... having kids turns them into a hypocrite about the subject or what?

    These concerns have always struck me as very unsophisticated... a belief in magical "bad" words seems pretty backward even by general religious standards... and if you're not religious, than what possible justification is used for the belief in "bad" words? Tradition?

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    1. Re:Times have changed by FlyingBishop · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Alternately, everyone you know who is under 40 is a dick.

      What's polite and what isn't doesn't make sense, for the most part. It just is. Magical "bad" words are there to let people know that you not only don't care for someone/thing, but you despise it.

    2. Re:Times have changed by LandDolphin · · Score: 1

      and if you're not religious, than what possible justification is used for the belief in "bad" words? Tradition?

      Social Norms. The words are neither "good" or "bad", but socially acceptable or not.

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    3. Re:Times have changed by Nefarious+Wheel · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Is "profane" language really such a concern anymore?

      Damn, that's profound.

      Actually, what's happened is that language considered "profane" has changed it's shape. Example:

      HAY n00b KIN U GIVE ME 5 G FOR A SOWARD?

      I know that sort of language offends me. Maybe it's simply that the parents want to keep the kids out of their games.

      Or: "Your account has been compromised and is now locked. Log in to blizzard.wow-accounts.cardscraper.com to unlock it".

      Yep, profane language still exists.

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    4. Re:Times have changed by Locke2005 · · Score: 1

      It might be psychologically beneficial to have certain reserved words for expletives that have more emotional impact. For example, when you hit your thumb with a hammer, isn't screaming "FUCK!!!" much more satisfying than uttering "OH, FIDDLESTICKS!!!"

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    5. Re:Times have changed by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      Is "profane" language really such a concern anymore? Every I know who is under 40 tends to swear quite freely

      But adults know when and where to swear (or if they don't they're not going to get very far in life), whereas if you simply let children swear unchallenged they'll grow up not knowing the boundaries.

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  24. Oblig. South Park... by Kemanorel · · Score: 1

    From the movie...

    Cartman: Damn! Shit! Respect my fuckin' authoritayyy!
    [shocks Saddam]
    Saddam Hussein: You need to watch your mouth, brat.
    Cartman: Dog-shit taco!
    Saddam Hussein: Quick Satan! Do something!
    Cartman: Try this on for size... Blood drenched frozen tampon popsicle!
    Saddam Hussein: Hey, buddy! I know I was mean before. But don't worry - I can change!
    Cartman: OK... not! Fuck, shit, cock, ass, titties, boner, bitch, muff, pussy, cunt, butthole, Barbra Streisand!

    I, for one, welcome our new children overlords with electro shock abilities.

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  25. USA Puritans by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

    just remember, the US was founded in part by the Puritans, people so stuffy that the ENGLISH couldn't stand them.

    1. Re:USA Puritans by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      just remember, the US was founded in part by the Puritans, people so stuffy that the ENGLISH couldn't stand them.

      No, we found them rather too frivolous and sent them off across the Atlantic hoping they'd see how joking gets you into trouble.

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  26. Conservatism: by edraven · · Score: 1

    The belief that there are certain things which it is of vital importance not to appear to condone.

  27. FTC by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

    Why does the Federal *TRADE* Commission give a fuck what is going on with kids in online settings? Isn't this the domain of the FCC?

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    1. Re:FTC by CaseCrash · · Score: 1

      No, it's the domain of the parents of the children.

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    2. Re:FTC by Yvan256 · · Score: 1

      Ah yes, the POC.

    3. Re:FTC by Wowlapalooza · · Score: 1

      Why does the Federal *TRADE* Commission give a fuck what is going on with kids in online settings? Isn't this the domain of the FCC?

      Actually, it makes perfect sense. "Bad" content falls under Consumer Protection, regardless of how that content is accessed. The FCC only has some specific mandates relating to digital content, e.g. "broadcast decency".

  28. Regulatory group calls for more regulation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Imagine that, a group that regulates content calls for stricter regulation of content on a new medium.

    I guess they are just as into job security as the rest of us.

  29. Parents need to control online access by Interoperable · · Score: 1

    Children just can't be left unsupervised on the internet until they are old enough to make proper decisions. I don't understand why parents (and governments) feel that the internet needs to be made child-proof; it just isn't and it never will be. Computers need to be left in common rooms with access restricted whenever the parents aren't home.

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    1. Re:Parents need to control online access by gstoddart · · Score: 1

      I don't understand why parents (and governments) feel that the internet needs to be made child-proof; it just isn't and it never will be.

      Because some people think the world should be made child proof to accommodate them. I've been in several contexts where it's a primarily grown up venue and had someone chastise me for swearing withing earshot of their children. Don't want to hear me swear? Keep your kids away from the damned beer garden -- piss off. Even if it's not a "grown ups only" context, I don't care about your child as long as I don't have to listen to it squealing and whining. I can't stop swearing in front of my mother, what makes you think your four-year old is my problem?

      It's just a sad reality that people want to enforce a bubble of perfect behavior around any children, at the same time as placing their children in the vicinity of some boisterous events where decidedly non child-safe stuff is happening. Believe me, this behavior extends way past the internet for some parents.

      Cheers

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  30. No such thing as bad words. by 2obvious4u · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I've got four kids and I've taught them that there is not such things as bad words. Words are a tool of language; its how you use them that matters. There is nothing wrong with the word bitch, especially when used in the proper context. Our genitalia have proper anatomically correct terms, penis and vagina. There is a proper place to use words, you don't talk about penises and vagina in proper company or in public places, the words are not bad, but it is rude because it might offend or embarrass others. The idea that a word is naughty or bad is just as wrong as saying that sex is naughty or bad. None of us would be here without sex, including test-tube babies since at some point in history their grandparents or great-grandparents weren't test tube babies.

    Censorship of thoughts and language of any kind is a bad thing. If you censor a word or call it bad, it will just be replaced by an innuendo or another innocent word will acquire its meaning. Language is like the internet, it too views censorship as damage and routes around it.

    1. Re:No such thing as bad words. by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Preach it, brother. I have done the same with my kids. Further, we've had many conversations around the notion that the religious factions in the US have made talk of sex 'dirty' when it really is simply a natural, pleasurable act that unfortunately can also have some unfortunate side effects (STD, pregnancy, heartbreak). I've told them that I don't particularly think porn is anything that unusually evil, and I don't spend a single minute worrying about them finding some 'bad' place on the internet. As a result, we're able to be pretty open about it, they don't seem to be hung about it, and thus far, at 14 and 17, we've had no issues.

      A couple of generations ago, people learned about sex by seeing it in the barnyard, or by hearing their parents across the room before we were all well enough off to have separate bedrooms. It's only in recent years that people have been able to pretend that sex doesn't happen.

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    2. Re:No such thing as bad words. by tehcyder · · Score: 1

      I don't spend a single minute worrying about them finding some 'bad' place on the internet

      There's a lot of things on the internet I wouldn't want a 14 year old being exposed to, straightforward porn isn't the problem.

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    3. Re:No such thing as bad words. by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      But what you want, and what is going to happen are two different things. IMO, the -only- robust thing you can do is teach your kids well, and keep communications lines open so that they can talk about what happens to them.

      I'm also curious as to what other things you are worried about. I've been fairly exploratory, and I can't think of anything I've come across that I consider to be so horrible that I would lay up at nights worrying about it. What am I not thinking of? I have thought of warez sites, execution sites, pro-ana sites, hate groups, and religious cults. Please educate me if I'm being too naive.

      On a side note, I am of the opinion that the risk associated with the internet and kids is overstated. The data is overwhelming that the vast majority of pedophilic encounters are via friends, family, teachers, and youth activities. Kids that are enticed via the internet are already at risk.

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    4. Re:No such thing as bad words. by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Sure, and what’s acceptable and what isn’t?

      I watched a dog being neutered yesterday, and the video was introduced by a child’s voice – obviously an “educational” video for kids.

      Would you have a problem with a 14-year-old watching that? Even if you wouldn’t... do you wanna bet there are millions of parents who would?

      It’s a big world out there, and you can’t count on someone else (be it the government, or anyone) to be on your side when it comes to deciding what your child should or shouldn’t see. It’s up to you to teach him or her.

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    5. Re:No such thing as bad words. by trenton · · Score: 1

      I couldn't agree more. Along the same lines, it's words that are conveying an idea.... and it's that idea that is appropriate or not. Whether a person says penis, dick, scholong -- or grabs his crotch -- the idea is conveyed. That's why I think bleeping out profanity in TV shows is so lame. The concept of swearing has been conveyed. The fact that you didn't hear it is irrelevant.

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  31. Sure it would by Rix · · Score: 1

    Second Life manages perfectly well to keep child safe areas alongside the most disturbing furry wtfery without mixing the two.

  32. Parents need to be Parents by Stregano · · Score: 1, Interesting

    If you are a parent and you are truly that worried, then stop paying for your kid to play WoW. Don't filter a MMO and downgrade it for us. It starts with filters and then just expands and makes the good online games dull. If you don't want your child to do something, don't let them. It is not Blizzard's or SOE's fault little Timmy showed his wang to his class, it is your fault. Maybe you should have taught him that is not acceptable to do. Not all parents are like this. Some parents out there still do a great job parenting, but the parents that want to censor games instead of just not letting their kids play them, GRR! (that is my way of not getting flagged for flamebait and stopping).

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  33. 3.3 by Wiarumas · · Score: 5, Funny

    Sounds like someone at the FTC got ninja looted by a minor.

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  34. needs a "nosh*tsherlock" tag by MoFoQ · · Score: 1

    I think this one needs a no shit sherlock tag (and perhaps a pedobear icon)....

    but yea...there's plenty of cursing in the game world...not just virtual worlds in MMOs.

    But then again...if you consider the fact that in MMO's...you're hacking or slicing or using magic or something to kill and destroy....yea....at the very least, it should be rated "PG-13"

  35. It was... by wiredog · · Score: 1

    The best internet troll ever. Not long after it was originally posted (back in '01) it appeared here. So many Slashdotters fell for it that the sheer number of comments (mostly bites on the troll) crashed the server.

    It was awesome.

    1. Re:It was... by Thinboy00 · · Score: 1

      This is /. not YouTube! How could any sane person read the "Lunix" section with a straight face?

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  36. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by LandDolphin · · Score: 1

    A friend and I were out at Ikea buying some furniture and as we it onto the cart he drops it on his foot and says "Fuck!" Some lady we hadn't seen up to that point says "Excuse me, there are children here." My friend turns around and as politely as possible and says, "The world isn't censored"

    On the flip side, when your friend goes to the store and has to put up with someones kids who are running around yelling, screaming, and crying, he should remember that the world isn't censored.

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  37. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Interoperable · · Score: 1

    If your argument is that internet porn is no worse than porn magazines, you are very wrong.

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  38. Re:Oh really? I question the questionable by daveime · · Score: 1

    Sounds like someone just got their Gallente Battleships salvaged out from under them. My ninja salvager runs on your tears. ROFLMAO OMGWTFBBQ KTHXBAI.

    But seriously, that game is so addictive, even for 41 year old kids like me ;-)

  39. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Archfeld · · Score: 1

    there is a difference between censorship and the expectation of polite behavior in public. While the quick response cursing due to injury is NOT unexpected, the lady wasn't out of line with her comment either.

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  40. "Age segregation" = "knowledge segregation" by ZorbaTHut · · Score: 1

    Y'know, I remember when I was going online in my early teen years. I remember chatting with people online about all manner of things. Yeah, I went into a few cybersex chatrooms for the thrill of it, I hung out in adult discussion channels.

    I learned from it.

    I talked to 25-year-olds and 35-year-olds about philosophy. I spectated on public cybersex, and learned things about human behavior and desire. I watched people wiser and smarter than I was make good decisions after good decision, then fuck up, do something stupid, and recover from it.

    Humanity learns from its elders. That is the way it has always been. The older ones teach the younger ones, the younger ones mull over what they've been taught and improve it, the younger ones become the older ones, the cycle continues. Why are we trying to break this? Children today are kept in the dark more than in any point in history - should we lock them in a small steel box, isolated from human interaction, until they're 18 and magically an adult?

    I was emotionally mature early. Everyone I talked to said so. They said that at 16, I was wiser and smarter than a lot of their peers. And now I look back on who I was then and realize I knew nothing, but, indeed, I was still far ahead of the curve. Today, I give out advice to people, just like I was given advice to back then, and I know for a fact I've helped the lives of many people, I've given them a philosophical kickstart and pushed their lives onto good tracks.

    And in twenty years, they'll be doing the same thing as I did, only even better because they'll have started from a better position, thanks to my efforts.

    These recommendations are actively dangerous to the progression of humanity.

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  41. Don't forget the Vent server by AutumnLeaf · · Score: 1

    My 14-year old cousin transferred to my realm and sometimes is on vent with us. The conversation drifted off into the sophomoric-put-down gutter and some of the digs had me raising an eyebrow about my cousin being in channel until I saw he was commenting in raid chat "haha - that was awesome. LOL! Oooooh - snap - I'm going to use that on my brother!"

    In any case, unless all forms of communication are removed except strict emotes... the problem's not solvable.

     

  42. A modest proposal... by Tsar · · Score: 1

    Develop a gatekeeper that, rather than asking for an age or birthdate, actually tests emotional maturity based on some signal criteria. If you test out as mature enough for the subject matter, you're in. If not, you get redirected to something appropriate for your maturity level.

    PROS: Emotionally mature users would be admitted, and others blocked, regardless of age. Advanced tweens and stunted twenty-somethings could both be dealt with appropriately.

    CONS: Where exactly do you draw the line? Chronological age may still need to be used as a deciding factor in borderline cases. Also, some sites might find it beneficial to develop a gatekeeper that identifies other factors not directly relevant to emotional maturity--high susceptibility to certain forms of advertising, for example.

    Hey, it's just a thought.

  43. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by mayko · · Score: 1

    If your argument is that internet porn is no worse than porn magazines, you are very wrong.

    That was not my argument at all. I just meant to say "No shit," if you don't watch your kids they will expose themselves to everything possible. The internet is new, kids and parenting are not.

  44. Ah, yes. Good thinking, FTC by Tetsujin28 · · Score: 1

    Because segregating kids from the "adult world" and then suddenly plunging them into that world on their magical 18th birthday is a great way to raise capable, well-adjusted adults.

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  45. I hate to agree by pyster · · Score: 1

    I spent today in a discussion about video games, free speech, and how hiliary clinton is a c-muscle for supporting jack thompson like legislation. I'm on the side of putting to death all those who attack the 1st amendment... and I hate almost every thing that screams protect the children because it almost always ruins life and freedom for others. But i do think that segregation is a good idea, and that some sort of parental approval to allow children to interact with adults in online gaming is a good idea for all involved. If you have ever played online... the racism... the sexism... man... those kids are rough... THEY ARE WORSE THAN ADULTS. Here and there you want to hunt one of them down... The MMOs... I imagine them being like the IRC in the 90s... again... there is a need protect adults from horny under aged girls... Heh, I think the adults actually need protected from the kids. I dont think I want to see the legislator getting involved, I think I want to see the industry decide how to sort this out themselves.

  46. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by The+Archon+V2.0 · · Score: 1

    all except the distended assholes. That is definitely an unfortunate consequence of the internet.

    I don't know - freaks were around before the Internet. I was in high school when the internet was just starting to catch on but still uncommon and some of the things I heard the seven-year-olds talking about on the bus were far worse than what the teenagers were talking about. One day I heard slices of two conversations on the same bus:

    Teenager: "So they're fucking without protection? Oh my God, she really thinks he's gonna stick around? His parents are divorced and no one knows where his mom lives. She misses by a DAY and he is GONE."

    Little kid: "I dare you to stick a pencil up your pee-hole."

    As much as I loathe gossip, I listened closely to my fellow teens in an effort to not hear the little kids.

  47. Re:Suck me sideways! by Tuoqui · · Score: 1

    Parent is on topic, all this is just to stop little billy from hearing someone drop an F-bomb... A daily occurance in most parts of the country

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  48. Parental responsibility by CaseM · · Score: 1

    As a parent, I take great pride in knowing exactly what my son's doing in World of Warcraft. He knows that if I get home home from work and my dailies haven't been run then there's going to be hell to pay.

  49. Nope by gardel999 · · Score: 1

    I think it's much better for our children to be smoking virtual crack rather than the real thing.

  50. Why not just ban them from the internet? by lattyware · · Score: 1

    Why not just ban them from the internet? Seriously, that appears to be what everyone wants. Take away a wounderful resoure from the children. It is for their own good!

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    1. Re:Why not just ban them from the internet? by pyster · · Score: 1

      Why dont we just outlaw children.

  51. Why do I get the feeling by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    that most people who agree with this sentiment don't have a problem with the government making their health care / lifestyle choices for them? "I don't want to be an adult, but you damn sure better be one!"

    Besides, this is easier said than done when we live in a world where Obama's Safe Schools czar is giving fisting advice to 14-year olds and when I can't even check out of a grocery store without seeing at least 5 magazine / tabloid headlines about the latest celebrity sex news. Face it - the best a parent can do is try to explain the context of the f'ed-up world we live in where immediate and unrestrained sexual gratification is the supreme goal, and where people no longer are humiliated by debasing themselves to animal-like levels.

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  53. FUCK THIS SHIT by alexborges · · Score: 1

    Here is my proposal.

    Have NIC go and make a .kid toplevel domain, and let the OS makers have an option to turn a box into a kiddie box that doesnt let anything but .kid resolvable back and foth domains to happen. THEN go and police the .kid domain all the fuck you want.

    Google can go and provide the google.kid with all the decency that the most conservative taliban/ultrachristian demand, then all the search engines the same, and for christ sakes, leave the rest of the world a-fucking-lone. Same for the online games and online worlds and any kind of service that is INTERESTED in tending to children.

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  54. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    [friend] drops it on his foot and says “Fuck!”

    [someone’s] kids who are running around yelling, screaming, and crying

    Which of those is more likely to have management request that the person get control of the situation, or leave?

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  55. More regulations! by Dumnezeu · · Score: 1

    What you guys need is some sort of regulator that will regulate everything by assigning new regulators every once in a while.
    [/sarcasm]

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    1. Re:More regulations! by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Yeah! Let’s call them a Czar!

      The Czar-Regulatory Czar.

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  56. Moderation of Chat in Games like WoW is minimal by flythebike · · Score: 1

    I've enjoyed playing WoW for several years and during that time I've seen things like people typing the word Anal and then linking a character skill, such as the warrior ability Rampage. I've seen this go in in /2 trade chat, which is visible in all cities, for as long as it is 'funny', which can be about 30 minutes. No moderation is done and to get someone in trouble you have to open a ticket and complain. This went on across many different servers and lasted for months before I heard of anyone getting banned for it. Profanity is tossed around rather frequently as well. In other words, it is basically just like the real world, which it is basically futile to try to protect kids from. My concern is simply for parents who are naive about what their kid is getting into. I personally don't see a huge problem with this. I was a latch key kid, found my dad's stash of Hustler mags at an early age, and I'm a normal adult with a young family etc. I rode my bicycle all over town, bought cigarettes from a machine, yada yada yada. I remember in college I learned to prey upon girls who had been aggressively sheltered all their lives. Once they got to college they were just looking for a guy to go crazy with. I was determined to be that guy for as many beautiful young women as I could find. So really, as a parent, ask yourself, is it really the best thing to own a helicopter?

  57. Internet Says FTC Bad For Minors by Hurricane78 · · Score: 1

    Reality News writes:

    "A new report from the Internet is claiming minors have access to explicit bullshit via FTC such as those found in Slashvertisements. The report makes five recommendations to keep little Anonymous Cowards away from the harms of Barrens' lies: ...

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  58. Post Title? by MoNsTeR · · Score: 1

    I'll admit to having only skimmed the FTC posting, but I didn't see anything saying that could be construed as "virtual worlds are bad for minors." They said that minors have ACCESS to virtual worlds, but any conclusion of harm is based on prior assumptions, with which many of us would disagree.

  59. Re:They're the problem by Red+Flayer · · Score: 1

    Whenever I see or hear racial slurs, or comments I would consider inappropriate for public forums, they always seem to be spouted by those with the language comprehension of a 3rd to 9th grader.

    FWIW, the mean language comprehension of the adult population probably falls within that range.

    Yes, a lot of the foulness is perpetrated by kids... but never underestimate the power of online anonymity to turn an adult to lunacy more easily equated with teens.

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  60. Age verification by Adrian+Lopez · · Score: 1

    On the issue of kids faking their birth date after being initially rejected, Game Politics said:

    "... half of these worlds did not accept kids who re-registered on the same computer using a modified birth date."

    I responded:

    I presume this means these systems would also reject adults who try to re-register (either after entering the wrong date by accident, or because they have kids who've unsuccessfully tried to register on the same computer)? I hope such a system doesn't ever become law; it seems like such a terrible idea, especially considering how silly the "problem" really is.

    The FTC should have better things to worry about than explict content and kids not being segregated from adults.

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  61. Re:Kids aren't exposed to Barrens chat... by funaho · · Score: 1

    And, more importantly, Barrens chat is *created* by kids, and the occasional adults acting like kids.

  62. Age segregation by ucblockhead · · Score: 1

    I'd kill for servers that didn't allow anyone under 30. It'd probably cut way down in the idiot racist/homophobic bullshit and cheating.

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    1. Re:Age segregation by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Nothing teenagers hate more than having every word they type immediately greeted by a chorus of pedantic 30+ jerks shrilly demanding that they "Learn to spell!" or use proper grammar.

      That’s a sentence fragment, I’ll have you know.

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  63. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Knara · · Score: 1

    No, but her concern was misplaced. If she was truly concerned about "other people" she would have asked if he was alright. She was more concerned with trivialities than the actual state of her fellow human.

  64. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Knara · · Score: 1

    Pretty much. I'd like to know what sort of psychological mechanism makes (some) adults entirely forget the sort of raunchy, crazy things they did and talked about as a kid.

  65. Age Segregation by Toonol · · Score: 1

    I think we already do too much age segregation. While mixing adults and children can lead to some problems, it can also have extremely beneficial effects on both. I would also prefer a school system that included children of all ages, in addition; having 3rd graders in the same school as 12th graders gives the younger kids more guidance, and the older kids more of a sense of responsibility (assuming that social behavior hasn't already completely broken down). Keeping people primarily isolated to their age 'tier' doesn't seem healthy, and can promote 'lord of the flies' type behavior to a certain degree.

    The same applies with mixing senior citizens in with younger people; both benefit.

  66. As a parent of a 7 year old .... by King_TJ · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I can see a lot of truth in many of the comments posted here.

    I know one of the problem I continually face is in trying to let my kid "go out in the real world and BE a kid". Personally, I'm a big proponent of what Penn & Teller were trying to say in one of their episodes of "Bullshit" .... that the world is NOT more dangerous for kids today than it was in previous generations. In fact, statistically, it's more probable that your kid will randomly be struck by lightning than become a victim of a predator, while playing outside. But my own beliefs and opinions don't dictate what the rest of the community believes either.

    As one example, my girlfriend's 3 year old wanted to play outside, a few weeks ago. We live on a dead-end street, where there are at least 4 other families around with young kids. In fact, the people next-door to us have a 3 year old who loves playing with her 3 year old. So she let her go play, since my daughter and her 6 year old son were already playing outside anyway. Seems reasonable enough, right?

    Well, not more than 10 minutes later, I get a frantic knocking on my front door. One of the neighbors a few houses down was basically demanding I run out and get her kid, because she was standing outside, on the sidewalk, in front of his house, with no other kids around! When I went to get her, she looked a bit puzzled, and didn't even want to come back in. She was simply standing around because she WANTED to, and was in no danger I could see. (Apparently, the 6 and 7 year olds decided to play in a neighbor's back yard, and didn't want her to go with them since she was "too young" to play whatever they were playing.)

    This isn't the first time I've dealt with this sort of thing, either. On several previous occasions, my kid was outside playing, only to be taken by the hand, by an angry parent, and led up to my doorstep. Basically, they tried to tell me I was being irresponsible, because I let my kid play outside and their kid(s) had to go in for dinner, or because they were leaving to go someplace, or what-not. It never occurred to them it might actually be OK for my daughter to walk up and down our street and find her own way back home, when she wanted to come home!

    This is in a low-crime, middle-class suburb, mind you .... I do find it interesting that when I used to live in a rougher, lower-income part of town, I *never* saw these issues. Whether it was because parents were too busy to be bothered with hovering over their kids constantly, or because they just had more common sense and less fear of the "real world", I don't know? But kids of all ages played outside, both during the day and even after dark, on a street that WASN'T dead-end and had no sidewalks -- and everyone got along just fine.

    1. Re:As a parent of a 7 year old .... by King_TJ · · Score: 1

      Funny... but I'd say your reply sounds pretty "asshat" to me. (If that hack job of a word really HAS any meaning in the first place?)

      Are you going to constantly stand around, right behind a 3 year old, every hour they're awake, to make sure they don't stick something in their mouth that doesn't belong there? Really?

      The world is FULL of risks. I'm not saying it's 100% safe for a young kid to play outside. It's not and NEVER was. So what? You put your kid at greater statistical risk of harm every time you put him or her in your car or truck and drive someplace! And how often do you hear of 3 year olds dying because they got trampled by neighbor's dogs? That's practically in the "freak accident" category, if you ask me! And it's ALSO why we have leash laws, and why DOG owners carry some responsibility for their pets. My kid shouldn't have to be locked indoors because of fear of an over-eager dog someone owns!

      (Incidentally, the risk of getting struck by lightning thing was directly taken from Penn & Teller's B.S. Season 6, episode 8, titled "Stranger Danger". I made no effort to prove or disprove their claim, but they do quote sources for it in the episode.)

      And I wasn't saying there was a problem with a 6 and a 7 year old not wanting to play with a 3 year old, either. My point was, the parent who freaked out about the situation seemed to be the one who thought it was a problem. (As long as they were all playing together, he wasn't going to run down the street and start knocking on my door about anything.)

      I'm 38 years old, but I still remember my own childhood pretty vividly, and I also remember the later years of living with my parents, at home. In the former, it was *commonplace* for parents on the block to let their kids outside to play, without any worries at all, at least until dinner-time. Then, you'd hear parents go out and ring a bell or yell for their kid to come home - and they did. It was really that simple. In the latter, I recall, for example, a 4 or 5 year old kid (a teenage friend's little brother), who would walk up and down the street by himself all the time. He often came by, ringing our doorbell, and just wanted to talk or play with my younger brother or what-not. Sure, we thought of him as a bit of a nuisance ... but nobody thought, "Wow! How unsafe! I better run and tell his parents he's down here!"

  67. Not Just for Children by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Which means that all your videogames would become kiddie pools. And even though you're an adult, you'd have to put up with the content filters and rules that are designed to protect the children of these lazy parents.

    It's not just video games, and it's not just for children. I recently spent several hours trying to find out how to disable the child protection restrictions on my parent PVR so they could watch their recording of "Downfall", which had been rated 15s. Their complete inability to figure out how to watch a restricted program is I think pretty typical of most users. In short, these restrictions are not just for children. They are for everybody. Like the Great firewall of China, if you can get 90+% of people to just give up on watching what you don't want them to watch, your measures have been a success.

    I should note that the "Downfall" program (criticised as being sympathetic to the Nazi's), was the only program they had ever recorded which had implemented such a restriction. One of the Die Hard films sat on right there on the same screen, completely unrated. Downfall was being broadcast on a British television station, at around the time when far right elements like the BNP were on the rise in England, so I'm fairly suspicious of the whole affair.

    Censorship is not just for kids. It's for everyone too busy or too unskilled to get around it.

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  68. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Interoperable · · Score: 1

    Well if that's your argument...I agree with you :p

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  69. Porn by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

    The parent of today have all been raised with excessive amounts of dirty pictures in dirty magazines and we all know how badly they all ended up. They're just trying to prevent their children from growing up as the messed up, immoral, foul-mouthed, rapist maniacs that they grew up as.

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  70. craziness by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I'd be more concerned with what sort of effect being plugged into a virtual world does on brain development, physical coordination, compulsive behaviours, addiction, muscle tone and face to face socialization.

    The focus on dirty words makes this whole thing a stupid joke.

    1. Re:craziness by HertzaHaeon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Games are good for your eyesight, social life, physical health, learning, stress, language skills and economy, among other things.

      Oh, and gaming addiction is mostly bunk.

    2. Re:craziness by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 1

      I appreciate the articles you have gathered together. The language skills and economy articles seem good, but the others seem highly speculative and read more like fluff opinion pieces rather than real research. The articles contradict each other. From the physical health article :

      The downside, however, was that the gamers reported more cases of depression and substance abuse than their compatriots. "They may be drawn to use the game to help deal with emotional distress," says team member Scott Caplan of the University of Delaware.

      What is lacking from these articles is the effects of games and virtual worlds on very young children, whos brains are in development. Pediatricians recommend that children under two not watch any tv. While I think TV is far worse than games, I believe that early immersion in games and virtual worlds is going to change people in fundamental ways. Maybe good, maybe bad, but it would be foolish to pretend that it would not.

      One thing that I'm not saying is that the games are bad. I'm saying that we don't know if they are or not. My gut tells me that most anything done in moderation is not going to be a problem.

    3. Re:craziness by Kattspya · · Score: 1

      Why are you worried? The same sort of things you've just said have probably been said in connection with movie theaters, jazz, comic books, gangsta rap, role playing, or just about any then new phenomenon. But this thing is different you say. They've all used the same exact same answer as a defense. And they've presented just about as much evidence in support of their opinions as you have.

      No one complaining about a new social phenomenon (for lack of a better word) has ever been right.

    4. Re:craziness by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 1

      At the very least, research into the effect of virtual reality on young minds may shed some light into the cognitive development of the human mind.

      To be honest, I think TV is worse than games by a big stretch. I think virtual worlds will change development. In what way, I can't be sure. Maybe this is how the borg might have started.

    5. Re:craziness by HertzaHaeon · · Score: 1

      The problems is that people are saying "games are X". Games aren't one single thing. It's perfectly possible, even probable, that they are both good and bad at the same time — just like everything else. Hence games don't need any more special attention than, say, films or books.

  71. Re:Oh really? I question the questionable by X0563511 · · Score: 1

    You know what is hilarious?

    The two people who have killmails showing their loss of a battleship each... with my tiny little T1 frigate tagged on it.

    I love EVE. Yea, driving without bumpers, rails, seatbelts, airbags, , rollcages, and ONSTAR is dangerous. But it's a lot more fun than sitting on a low-speed monorail.... at least if you keep it in perspective. Internet spaceships is not serious business.

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  72. Who are we protecting? by Lectrik · · Score: 1

    I agree totally, we must join together in our effort to protect barrens chat from Little Johnny!

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    1. Re:Who are we protecting? by thehostiles · · Score: 1

      yes this. Barrens needs to be protected from the 9 year old kids of the world

  73. So no more church? by blair1q · · Score: 1

    Cool.

    We can finally shut down the MMRPG called "religion".

  74. QFT by znerk · · Score: 1

    Where are my mod points?

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  75. Wait for it... by damn_registrars · · Score: 1

    Any moment now, someone will try to label this as "ZOMG TEH FASCISTISMS" or "big brother". Nevermind that the FTC is just releasing recommendations for parents in this one, and not actually regulating, restricting, or enforcing anything. How dare a government agency observe something and then make a tremendously obvious recommendation based on those observations.

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  76. Restrict minors to preset phrases by Psaakyrn · · Score: 1

    Of cause, there are some successes in filtering words in MMOs. Case in point, Toontown Online.

    (Granted it's done by only allowing a small subset of preset phrases, but at least it works. The closest to vulgarity is the spamming of "You stink!" phrases.)

  77. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by Merls+the+Sneaky · · Score: 1

    No he expected the mother to explain to her children why the man swore and to tell them it's inappropriate for them to repeat it for x, y or z reasons. Instead the children learned it's ok to tell others how to behave.

  78. Re:Because the internet is worse than real life... by The+Archon+V2.0 · · Score: 1

    Pretty much. I'd like to know what sort of psychological mechanism makes (some) adults entirely forget the sort of raunchy, crazy things they did and talked about as a kid.

    Part of the nostalgia system, I imagine. Childhood becomes a time of innocence, best friends, summers too short, and 100% awesome cartoons.

    How many people have told a kid "these are the best years of your life"? What, don't you REMEMBER those so-called best years? If it's been all downhill since grade school, your life has sucked.

  79. Freakin' Hilarious! by Bones3D_mac · · Score: 1

    After years of running a large scale message board myself, one thing I have learned is that you simply can't quantify every situation enough to objectively make the correct decision every single time. An automated system can either be inadequate and unintrusive, or, draconian and inefficient. Using a team of humans is even more chaotic, because each one ultimately ends up falling back onto their own experiences to determine right from wrong. This can vary greatly from person to person, leading to either being too lax or too iron fisted. Both extremes have their own consequences and effect upon the community being watched over.

    Even a system like Slashdot's setup, where the community polices itself, isn't free of flaws. A community that polices itself will ultimately normalize with whatever the averages deem "appropriate", for better or worse. In addition, any attempt to override this average will often be met with opposition from the community when the operators' trust in the community gets put into question.

    No online system will ever be perfectly safe for children. But neither is the real world.

    The only real way to protect children both online and off is for the parents to be more involved in their kids' lives. Talk to them. Keep the video games and computers out in neutral parts of the home where you can actually see what's going on, rather than putting them in the bedroom. Furthermore, don't violate your kids' trust in you by monitoring their actions from behind the scenes using keyloggers or VNC servers. You can be just as effective by watching their actions out in the open when you walk by. If they make a sudden knee-jerk reaction like turning off the monitor or closing windows, you know their up to something and your actions immediately after should be enough to put the fear of god into them when they know they're doing something they shouldn't be doing.

    Want your kids to grow up "right"? Then don't let others do your job for you!

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  80. I'm sorry Ma'am but there is no hope for your son by Eightbitgnosis · · Score: 1

    You see he's had a near terminal dose of Barrens chat. He'll be making annoying Chuck Norris jokes for weeks now.

    I am so very sorry for your loss

  81. Parental Advisory by stimpleton · · Score: 1

    I saw this somewhere as a joke, cant recall where: "Parental Advisory: Parenting may be required."

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  82. Virtual worlds? How about the real one? by pclminion · · Score: 1

    I wonder how the FTC will react once it learns the explosive truth: the real world is bad for minors.

  83. Age in years isn't a good guide... by IBBoard · · Score: 1

    When I was a 'minor', the last thing I'd have wanted to do in most games was get segregated in an area with kids of my own age. It would have led to a dull, boring, and ruined gaming experience as they all messed around. Hell, I'm 25 now and I wouldn't want to be segregated in a game with half of the 25 year olds I know for exactly the same reason!

    As people have said, you can't control every little thing that kids see, hear or do. I've got an 18 month old and we're going to be relaxed, logical and sensible with his up-bringing. Certain things have their place, but both me and my wife know what kids are like and won't go crazy if he starts viewing porn at age 14, and language will be explained.

  84. How about.... by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

    How about putting more onus on the parents in order to control their children???
    Does the fact that making wine , we should ban wine because of the alcohol content that children
    seem to have access to anywhere in europe (legal for children to drink wine in france and italy)....NO

    The parents teach the children how to moderate their drinking of wine from an early age,
    so as to understand that it is not to be abused! There are alot less alcoholics in europe then here in north america!!!

    Same with pot, legal in many countries in europe....and you do not see the country falling part now do you?
    So if we teach our children about what bad things that can happen, and educate them (a job much
    lacking in the parent department these days), you will get children that know when they should not get into
    games that promote killing women for bonus points, or crashing your car, then stealing another.

    I see no point in this practice, as in fact I understand , and from a young age too, that scraping
    cars is not environmentally friendly decision, as well violence never went without consequences.
    Can today's children say they understand these points?
    Can you say today's parents drive home these points and spend time (like a dog)
    to reinforce these points constantly?

    My point exactly. Let's ban the video games, let's ban alcohol, let's ban sex, let's ban life altogether!

  85. Funny stuff by rogerrogerwil · · Score: 1

    Awesome. The Government is finding another way to step in and take power. Next thing you know the EPA is going to try and get control of all the water. Oh wait, they already are. http://www.fabricsofas.org/