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Girl Seeks Help On Facebook During Assault

A 12-year-old girl who was being assaulted by her mother's ex-boyfriend used some quick thinking by sending a message on her iPod to a friend's Facebook account for help. The friend was able to contact the girl's mother who then contacted the police. 42-year-old Raymond Ernest Cesmat was arrested and charged with two counts of criminal sexual conduct in the first degree. He is being held at the Dakota County Jail on $175,000 bail.

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  1. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by eln · · Score: 5, Informative

    Slashdot is just taking from the standard journalist's playbook: If you can tie a story to something that's currently very popular, especially Facebook or Twitter, you can get 10 times the page hits you would have normally gotten. If you can tie those things into a story that will generate lots of hits all on its own anyway, such as one dealing with sexual violence against children, your story might even go viral and you can just sit back and watch the ad revenue roll in.

  2. Re:"911" it isn't that hard to do. by Wyatt+Earp · · Score: 5, Informative

    While that's a great thing to teach and learn, in this case the girl had no cell phone, but was able to ask for help on an iPod Touch.

  3. Re:"911" it isn't that hard to do. by ekgringo · · Score: 2, Informative

    I know, I must be new here, but I read the article. He took away her cell phone before she went to bed (possibly making this a premeditated assualt), but she was able to use her iPod to post her plea for help on Facebook (presumably over a wifi connection).

  4. Re:Mother... by Kleiba · · Score: 4, Informative

    It gets better:

    "The mom was no longer dating Cesmat but he continued to live with them."

  5. Re:Something that everyone seems to be ignoring: by Azuaron · · Score: 3, Informative

    iPOD. Not a phone. NOT A PHONE. Pay attention.

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  6. Re:Mother... by srealm · · Score: 4, Informative

    While I agree, none of the criminal's prior offenses included either violent crimes or crimes of a sexual nature.

    His priors were for fraud and such. I'm not saying the mother was not an idiot, but it's not like she left her with a known pedophile or rapist.

  7. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 2, Informative

    Ages where a person can possess firearms varies from state to state and can depend on the type of firearm. In Nevada, North Dakota, and South Carolina, there is no age restriction on the possession of long guns. Why, oh why, do people mod baseless assertions like this so high?

    (I've also met twelve year olds who were more responsible than some people are at the age of majority.)

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  8. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Shakrai · · Score: 2, Informative

    Spare me the talking points Mayor Bloomberg.

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  9. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by 5KVGhost · · Score: 2, Informative

    No, not really.

  10. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 5, Informative

    The great bulk of underage gun deaths are either suicide or gangbangers. 12 year old girls are almost completely absent from that count, save as random victims. In addition, the number of accidental shootings (the stereotypical 'hey look, it's dad's gun' scenario) runs about 100/year. In the grand scheme of things, it's a nonfactor.

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  11. Re:Screw 911 - Update Status! by natehoy · · Score: 4, Informative

    Please, please, please read TFA. Especially before you accuse a girl of being stupid because she was raped and had no way of calling for help. It really makes you look stupid when you make up facts to support a viewpoint that accuses the victim of stupidity.

    First, she made the communication BEFORE being assaulted.

      - Cesmat had confiscated her cell phone earlier in the evening. She had no telephone. Hence no ability to make calls.

      - Cesmat had briefly left her room after attempting to remove her pants and her fighting him off. She had no way of knowing she was ABOUT to be raped (get the timeline right), so she used her only communications media to get a friend to have her mom come home and get her away from Cesmat ASAP. Little did she know he was about to re-enter the room and rape her.

      - After the rape, Cesmat left. She then blocked the room off and escaped through the window, found a payphone, and called her mother (who was enroute already).

    Could leaving the room immediately have prevented the rape? Maybe. Or maybe he was just outside the room at the time and her attempt at escape could have turned this deadly.

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  12. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Shakrai · · Score: 2, Informative

    You don't suppose this could have something to do with the fact that "Children are not allowed to possess a firearm unless in the presence of an adult" as the GGP put it?

    No, because the GGP is wrong. In my state (New York, hardly a bastion of gun rights) it's perfectly legal for 13+ year olds to plink in the backyard without adult supervision. It's perfectly legal for older kids (I want to say 15+ but I'd have to double check) to hunt without adult supervision.

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  13. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Shakrai · · Score: 4, Informative

    There are about 75,000 gun deaths a year

    Your number is nearly three times higher than reality but then the gun-grabbers never have let the facts get in the way of a bad argument. If you are wondering, they show 12,632 firearm homicides in 2007 along with 17,352 suicides. I'll let you perform the addition operation -- you'll note it's substantially less than 75,000.

    That outnumbers the cases of self-defense by about 10 to 1

    Where you'd pull the 7,500 cases of self-defense from? The same void that you pulled the number of deaths from?

    Notice the Supreme Court didn't give you a right to carry a gun in their courtroom.

    Of course they didn't. All they said was that outright gun bans aren't compatible with the 2nd amendment. Sorry if that notion bothers you.

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  14. Re:At least it's a pro-internet story by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 2, Informative

    Read the story. The guy took the girl's phone beforehand. She used her iPod to send the message via Facebook becasue she had no other means of communication available.

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  15. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Shakrai · · Score: 2, Informative

    Somehow, the whole rest of the western world manages to not only have less violent crime, but also less private gun ownership

    Crime and gun ownership do not correlate. Finland has a lot of guns and a low crime rate. Russia has next to no guns (in civilian hands) and a high crime rate.

    Perhaps the Open Carry folk could try and think a little bit harder and try to address the epidemic poverty, horrible education and nonsensical drug policy instead of pouring more gasoline on the fire?

    That's funny, you tacitly admit that guns don't cause crime yet continue to condemn them. Interesting.

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  16. Re:Mother... by amohat · · Score: 3, Informative

    It's called making the rent.

    aka: i dont want to be homeless

  17. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by scot4875 · · Score: 2, Informative

    The only difference is that the people with money and/or insurance don't generally have to file bankruptcy after getting sick.

    WRONG. A significant percentage of medical bankruptcies in this country are people that *have* health insurance.

    No, I'm not going to provide a citation or look it up for you. You should have been able to educate yourself about this by now, as it is *not* uncommon knowledge.

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  18. Re:Why's this on Slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

    http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_mur_wit_fir_percap-crime-murders-firearms-per-capita

  19. The guy hanged himself today by ELCouz · · Score: 2, Informative