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23% of IT Workers Spend Thanksgiving With Coworkers

itwbennett writes "A timely CareerBuilder survey finds that 23% of IT pros spend the holiday with coworkers, either in the office or at another location. But the findings vary widely by city. In Boston, for example, you're pretty sure to be on your own for the holiday — only 6% of coworkers there nosh together. While in Atlanta (35%) or Dallas (30%) things are downright chummy."

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  1. I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers too by vikingpower · · Score: 1, Offtopic

    ...and there won't even be neither turkey nor booze, over here in Europe *g

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  2. Another Location by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you know what I mean...

    1. Re:Another Location by cayenne8 · · Score: 2
      Hmm.

      This surprises me.

      Do THAT many people associate with people they work with outside of the work place???

      I mean, for all my working life, I could likely count on my hands the number of times (outside of a company event or company party) that I've actually planned and met and associated with any co-workers outside of the work setting.

      I tend to separate my work life from my personal life.

      Don't get me wrong, at work, I'm highly sociable, I smile and try to get along with most everyone, but when I walk out of the office and the door slaps me on the ass on the way out...I leave all thoughts and associations for the most part behind those doors, never to even intrude on my thoughts till I come back to work.

      I have plenty of long term friends outside the office that I associate with.

      I don't even think this decision of mine was made consciously, just something that seemed natural. Maybe it was something subconscious, I mean, I don't want to do or risk doing things that would possibly piss someone off at the place where I earn a living.

      It is definitely a reason I've not pursued (more than a couple times) any type of romantic type of relations ships with any co-workers. I mean, at some point there'll likely be a break up and I've not wanted to have a pissed off bitch I have to see every day at work, etc...

      I prefer to keep work and personal life as segregated as possible, I kinda assumed most other folks did too?

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    2. Re:Another Location by xaxa · · Score: 1

      I prefer to keep work and personal life as segregated as possible, I kinda assumed most other folks did too?

      About a month ago, I stuck a job advert on Facebook. I'd meant it for friends-of-friends, siblings-of-friends, etc, but that weekend, the girlfriend of one of my closest friend's told me she was encouraging him to apply. I said I'd be a bit uncomfortable if he did, since if he got the job I would have been his manager. (He didn't apply.)

      However, two of my colleagues in IT have spouses in other departments.

  3. The Rest by Infiniti2000 · · Score: 5, Funny

    The remaining 77% spend it in their mom's basement.

    1. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I hear that Timmay's mom makes some wicked Totino's pizza rolls!

    2. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Playing their Xbox One or PS4!

    3. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Hey, that's not fair! I come upstairs for Thanksgiving.

    4. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Chair lift or fork lift?

    5. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The remaining 77% spend it in their mom's basement.

      Probably, fixing the family computers...

      That's my over all, 100%, most hated pet peeve of all time. I can't attend family holidays without someone telling me how slow their computer is, it won't connect to the Internet, is making funny noises, etc., etc. I can visit friends and spend whole evenings not even seeing a computer! But family, oh I' their personal IT Department fro f@#k's sake.

      I think it will come to a head this season.

    6. Re:The Rest by plopez · · Score: 5, Funny

      "Mom! More Hot Pockets!"

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    7. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Simply say "No" to their requests. They only ask because you continue to oblige.

    8. Re:The Rest by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Have you considered acquiring any of the numerous garments available for sale sporting the humorous slogan "no, I will not fix your computer"?

    9. Re:The Rest by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      Probably, fixing the family computers...

      That's my over all, 100%, most hated pet peeve of all time. I can't attend family holidays without someone telling me how slow their computer is, it won't connect to the Internet, is making funny noises, etc., etc. I can visit friends and spend whole evenings not even seeing a computer! But family, oh I' their personal IT Department fro f@#k's sake.

      Say what I say...that "you mostly work with server class computers and operating systems, and you're not that familiar with Windows (or even OSX) on personal computers. Tell them you do mostly Linux at work, etc....that usually confuses them and gets them to leave you alone with respect to this type thing.

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    10. Re:The Rest by dantotheman · · Score: 1

      Where are my mod points today?!

      This works everytime. Sometimes its even followed by a "Lin-what?"

  4. Way to go Dallas! by Golbez81 · · Score: 0

    After spending the last decade with co-workers I *MAY* be able to see family this turkey day! No no call or essential operations for me. Go me!

  5. Re:Waaaah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Poop" ? How old are you? Three?

  6. Sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    To be honest, everyone should have the holidays off save required jobs like FD, PD, hospital staff. A for-profit company can let everyone off. Servers can be maintained from home and if someone has to drive in due to some unforeseen stuff -- it happens. I once worked for a particularly large web hosting company where I ran the *BSD servers. Short of a hardware failure, which was highly unlikely, I never had a server go down. The Windows guys? A constant battle, constant tuning, constant malware. Us *nix admins? Home. Windows guys? Sweating it out at work. Go home... get some deserved rest with your family. Any company that doesn't respect holidays is not one for which I would work. Common decency prevails.

    1. Re:Sad by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      However, you also have to ask....what percentage WANT to work on the holiday?

      Some people came from other countries and don't celebrate the same holidays. Others have no family to spend time with or would rather not spend time with theirs. While you could say they should still get the day off too, some days like thanksgiving leave one precious little to do.

      I have talked to a number of people who choose to work holidays and like working them.

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    2. Re:Sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well you know, except for those who dont want it off. Why should i be forced to stay home because of what other people decide to do?

    3. Re:Sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How far does your definition of required jobs go? I get the FD and PD you've got there. No argument. How about gas stations? Should they be open to supply the millions of travelers on the holiday? If yes, then what other service industries should be open? (I'd argue that places like Wal-Mart, Target, etc. - who, instead of competing on price, value, service or something are competing on "how early we open on Thanksgiving", should be closed on the holiday and let their employees see their families since the services they provide are far from critical.) But of course Marketing ruins the world.

    4. Re:Sad by mrchaotica · · Score: 2

      Some people came from other countries and don't celebrate the same holidays.

      Everyone residing in the US (or Canada, for that matter) should be entitled to celebrate Thanksgiving. I would argue that this goes double for immigrants, considering that that's what the Pilgrims were too.

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    5. Re:Sad by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Entitled? Sure, but you don't address whether they want to. Thanksgiving is generally celebrated with family centered feasting. How much of a celebration is it if you have no family to be with? How much celebration is it to sit alone in your apartment while the kids are off with your former spouse? How much do you care if your family is back in India or down in Mexico and you have nobody to feast with?

      You know, I love these holidays. But some people dislike them, get depressed by them, whatever. If you want to argue anyone who works that day should get a floater to take another day off, sure, sounds great. If you want to say any hourly workers should automatically get time and a half or more? Sure. Fine.

      However, if there is work to do and you have people who would rather work; I KNOW some percentage (maybe not 23% of it) actually does prefer to work those days; its no boon to them to tell them they are not allowed.

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    6. Re:Sad by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      I had a hard time figuring out the right word to use. What I was trying to convey is that even (or especially) if you're a recent immigrant you should consider Thanskgiving to be "your" holiday too. You should not be thinking "oh, I'm going to skip Thanksgiving because it's just for 'Americans'" -- if you're here long enough to rent an apartment rather than a hotel, you're American enough.

      Not wanting to celebrate Thanksgiving because you have nobody to celebrate it with is a separate issue, and applies equally (albeit perhaps not as commonly) to native-born folks.

      And if you do happen to be, for example, an Indian tech worker on an H1-B visa, consider Thanksgiving to be your chance to go do something fun. Be thankful that you're enjoying a paid holiday in America instead of slaving away for half the wages back home (which is not intended as a disparagement, but instead a recognition that if home were better, you wouldn't have chosen to leave).

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    7. Re:Sad by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      Entitled? Sure, but you don't address whether they want to. Thanksgiving is generally celebrated with family centered feasting. How much of a celebration is it if you have no family to be with?

      Hey...a day off is a DAY OFF!!

      What do folks do on regular, non-holidays off? Even with no friends or family, you can still take the off time, maybe travel (do a long weekend like most do), or be at home with no one to bother you as you catch up on projects, or maybe play games...whatever you do for fun and relaxation.

      Who would rather work than have time off for personal activities and likes???

      Time off doesn't necessarily force you to celebrate or participate in a holiday, rent some movies and buy a bottle of scotch if nothing else....

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    8. Re:Sad by mcgrew · · Score: 2

      While you could say they should still get the day off too, some days like thanksgiving leave one precious little to do.

      I pity people like that. There's always something to do. Some people live to work, those are the folks you're talking about and they're pathetic. Me, I work to live, and next February I retire.

      More books to write, electronics to tinker with, probably buy a new soldering iron and multimeter, slashdot,... hell, I may even sweep my floor and wash the dishes for a change.

    9. Re:Sad by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Which, of course, is why I pointed out if you wanted to say they should get a day off, like a floating holiday or something...fine but.... I wouldn't even try to compare thanksgiving or xmass to other days. Such a huge portion of the population is doing family things for the day that they really are some of the worst days to have off otherwise.

      Actually, I have had years where my family celebrated the day over a weekend to accomidate some family members and was left with nothing to do on those days....I usually end up just playing video games. Which is fine but, I would rather take a normal work day off.

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    10. Re:Sad by plopez · · Score: 1

      "However, you also have to ask....what percentage WANT to work on the holiday?"

      That's when I get the most work done, you insensitive clod! And great download speeds.

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    11. Re:Sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Canada's Thanksgiving is celebrated on what is Columbus Day in the US, and it's never been quite the major event that it is in the US. (For one thing, it's on a Monday, not a Thursday with (for many) the following Friday off. Means less time for travel.)

      That said, yeah, people should be allowed the local holidays. I was on call last Thanksgiving, and it kinda sucked that I got a call just as I'd got the food on my plate, but I knew that chance came with the job. I get other perks to compensate. I'm just glad I don't work in retail.

    12. Re:Sad by Wintermute__ · · Score: 1

      How far does your definition of required jobs go? I get the FD and PD you've got there. No argument. How about gas stations? Should they be open to supply the millions of travelers on the holiday? If yes, then what other service industries should be open? (I'd argue that places like Wal-Mart, Target, etc. - who, instead of competing on price, value, service or something are competing on "how early we open on Thanksgiving", should be closed on the holiday and let their employees see their families since the services they provide are far from critical.) But of course Marketing ruins the world.

      No and No.

    13. Re:Sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      also because then you get PTO days to spend on your own holidays.

  7. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by Flavianoep · · Score: 1

    ...and there won't even be neither turkey nor booze, over here in Europe *g

    (emphasis mine) At least, I hope for you there aren't any grammar-Nazis over there...

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  8. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by slashmydots · · Score: 3, Funny

    If we stole the country from Native Americans through trickery, scamming, and crooked contracts but every square inch of Europe was taken over by bloodthirsty dictators, kings, emperors, etc surely that deserves even more of a holiday, right? Maybe killsgiving or genocide-o-rama.

  9. I don't think that means what you think it means.. by TWX · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I wouldn't be surprised if the "23%" figure is fairly close to the percentage of the general populace that spends Thanksgiving with friends instead of with their own family, or of the general populace that spends Thanksgiving with their coworkers, who are also their friends.

    If I lived away from family and couldn't justify the travel to visit them for a meal, and if most of my friends were also coworkers, I'd probably spend time with them, like I'd spend time with the off-work anyway.

    This is no surprise.

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  10. Not just IT by BringsApples · · Score: 2
    From the article:

    IT's pro-coworker showing was only 2% less than those put-upon retail workers who may be forced to work right after they finish their plate. The top industry was Transportation and Utilities (28%) and Retail (25%), with IT, Healthcare and Finance tied at 23%.

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    1. Re:Not just IT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah. While unemployment is hovering at over 7+ percent, the people with jobs have to work longer and harder with stagnant or declining pay.

      And in the meantime, company profits are at record levels.

      I am sure there are plenty of people out there who have a Bob Cratchet work schedule: going to have to work on Christmas or their religious Holiday.

    2. Re:Not just IT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And in the meantime, company profits are at record levels.

      Then start a company.

    3. Re:Not just IT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He misspoke. Multinational corporate profits are at records levels. Conflating small business and multinationals has worked very well for the elite.

    4. Re:Not just IT by mattie_p · · Score: 1

      I'm glad that there is a significant minority doing this. I invited a co-worker over when I found out he had no-where to go. As a recent transplant, we weren't planning on having family over, but Thanksgiving is meant to be shared. I imagine the motives of the other 23% is probably very similar. 23% and proud!

  11. graft and corruption by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nothing more loathsome than office politics on thanksgiving. This is the first time Boston demonstrates sound and healthy common sense.

  12. Been there. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Really funny story. I was team lead for a small group. I invited everyone over to my house for thanksgiving . We were all young professionals at the time, mostly single. Just as we sat down to eat, the on-call pager went off. Policy was we had 15 minutes to respond. The on-call person waited and called back. "Sorry, just sat down to turkey, please page the backup." For the rest of the meal we repeated going through the on-call list this way, around the table. Sweet :)

  13. cow farts is what's taking us down & out? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    i'd wager .0001 btc i am the only byrd on my block to have a screenshot of paid poster pickens lambasting the home dna tests using pr firm scriptdead text appearing below an ad for same here. 23 somethings

    the fear can be smelt

    no mention of freeing the innocent stem cells yet?

    some still calling this 'weather'? http://www.globalresearch.ca/weather-warfare-beware-the-us-military-s-experiments-with-climatic-warfare/7561

  14. Thanksgiving is Awesome by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What other holiday allows Murkins to celebrate their wholesale slaughter of an indigenous people and the plundering of their women and resources for profit?

    w00t! GO MURKA!

    1. Re:Thanksgiving is Awesome by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Am part Cherokee, intend to celebrate Thanksgiving.

  15. My coworkers would be preferable to my family by sandytaru · · Score: 4, Funny

    At least my coworkers will stick to polite and civil conversation for the duration of a meal. Odds are 99 to 1 that someone in my extended family will go off on a long winded political rant and/or racist screed, such that I will try to find an animal or small child to interact with in a quiet corner rather than have to listen to them.

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    1. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 3, Insightful

      To be fair, every human being and interaction makes nerds want to sit alone in a corner of the room. Oh look, grandma's M&M bowl is right there, too.

      Was this too vicious? I'm sorry.

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    2. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by CubicleZombie · · Score: 2

      Odds are 99 to 1 that someone in my extended family will go off on a long winded political rant and/or racist screed

      Maybe the problem is you.

      Really.

      I could imagine the typical Slashdotter inciting that kind of conversation with comments about the invisible sky fairy or slaughtering innocent native americans during a gathering of people who might have different opinions about those subjects.

      Out in the general public, I find social conservatives and the religious to be way more accepting than the smug angry atheist. The irony.

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    3. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Out in the general public, I find social conservatives and the religious to be way more accepting than the smug angry atheist. The irony.

      Maybe in face to face interactions

      However if the atheists are so bad please explain why you have NEVER seen the following headline:
      "3 were killed and 4 were wounded when agnostics bombed the agnostics"

      **Thanks go to Doug Stanhope for such a great line.

    4. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by CubicleZombie · · Score: 1

      However if the atheists are so bad please explain why you have NEVER seen the following headline: "3 were killed and 4 were wounded when agnostics bombed the agnostics"

      That kind of statement is EXACTLY what I'm talking about.

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    5. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      just because a religious person killed another religious person doesn't mean that religion had anything to do with the killing... Yet headlines written that way end up implying something that has nothing to do with the truth

    6. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      However if the atheists are so bad please explain why you have NEVER seen the following headline:
      "3 were killed and 4 were wounded when agnostics bombed the agnostics"

      That kind of statement is EXACTLY what I'm talking about.

      Um... didn't you (parent) just incite him (GP)?

      It is just like Thanksgiving!

      Irony indeed.

    7. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by james_shoemaker · · Score: 1

      I'll be downstairs beating my nephews in Mario Kart and Cell Damage to avoid those uncomfortable discussions.

    8. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by cayenne8 · · Score: 1

      However if the atheists are so bad please explain why you have NEVER seen the following headline: "3 were killed and 4 were wounded when agnostics bombed the agnostics"

      Because the muslims are so busy bombing everyone, that they tend to take up the majority of all the headlines. With the agnostic bombings only being about .00000000001% of the total bombings, they kinda get lost in the frey of all the muslim action out there.

      :)

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    9. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the problem is him, explain why he's fine with his coworkers. The common factor is not him in this case.

    10. Re:My coworkers would be preferable to my family by sandytaru · · Score: 1

      "Out in the general public" is absolutely not the same as "sitting around the dinner table" however. Even the most loud and annoying person can be quiet and indifferent on the streets.

      My parents had little political discourse - his family was party machine Republican and she was a labor Democrat, but neither were very involved in politics outside of actually voting. They were more apt to fight over money than they were politics. Yet they were happily married for 39 years, and much of that was because they did talk about politics with each other in depth (or with us kids, for that matter.)

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  16. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by CaptSlaq · · Score: 3, Funny

    ...and there won't even be neither turkey nor booze, over here in Europe *g

    (emphasis mine) At least, I hope for you there aren't any grammar-Nazis over there...

    No, the eurozone has effectively expunged "Nazi" from their vernacular, if the media is to be believed

    Source

    Money quote:

    Users were warned not to take bids on Nazi items from people in France, Germany, Austria or Italy because of laws in those countries. Users with French- or German-language Web browsers also were blocked from searching for Nazi-related items, eBay spokesman Kevin Pursglove said

  17. Re:I don't think that means what you think it mean by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you take the truth of this story what they really mean is they are forced to work on Thanksgiving. "spending Thanksgiving with co-workers" lol

  18. There's an explanation by sl4shd0rk · · Score: 1

    Mandatory overtime/rotating holidays :/

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  19. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Deathsgiving

  20. thankskilling feast misrepresented too? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    misrepresentation now shamefully obsolete? do not miss the replacement; thanks scott olsen day in usa,,, million moms (& babys) marches,,,, it could get smelly

  21. Re:Waaaah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've got real skills and I spend every Thanksgiving eating alone at a Ryan's steakhouse.

  22. bad stats by Charliemopps · · Score: 1

    And what's the percentage of those workers that are immigrants or of some religion that doesn't let them celebrate? I know we have a lot of people from India, Russia, and Thailand that all love to get the extra overtime during yet another one of your crazy US holidays. Then we have a few Jehovah Whiteness's that also like this time of year. I bet they account for well over 20% of our staff so how knows.

    Secondly, most of my Turkey eating co-workers ended up having thanksgiving at various relatives houses the weekend before and after the holiday. There-for ending up with no where to go on actual turkey day. This happens nearly every year so it's become a custom at my house that I get the biggest turkey(s) (last year we had 2) I can find and invite anyone and everyone I work with (including some from other countries that just want to see what's up) to my house to eat. My mother is from a large southern family and has never been used to our northern way of having less than 10 people for dinner, so she thinks it's great. Last year we had 25 people over (only about 6 I was related to) and this year we're having about 15.

    The entire point of the holiday, after all, is to get people together than generally don't get together and give thanks for all that we have. I'm lucky enough that I usually have actual Indians at my table (both kinds!) and I think it's great.

    1. Re:bad stats by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > And what's the percentage of those workers that are immigrants or of some religion that doesn't let them celebrate? I know we have a lot of people from
      > India, Russia, and Thailand that all love to get the extra overtime during yet another one of your crazy US holidays. Then we have a few Jehovah Whiteness's
      > that also like this time of year. I bet they account for well over 20% of our staff so how knows.

      Since Thanksgiving is non-secular holiday I would be interested to know how many religions forbid it.

    2. Re:bad stats by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not sure that I would classify Thanksgiving as a non-secular holiday. Isn't it simply a day set aside to reflect and be grateful for the things that we have/ things that are going good in our life?

    3. Re:bad stats by MyGirlFriendsBroken · · Score: 1

      >

      Since Thanksgiving is non-secular holiday I would be interested to know how many religions forbid it.

      I don't know about the religious aspect, but as an immigrant Thanksgiving isn't a holiday which means much to me personally aside from having a couple of days off. I mean I understand an appreciate the significance, and I have been lucky enough to visit families and experience a traditional Thanksgiving meal, but a family orientated holiday doesn't mean a lot when the rest of your family doesn't really care.

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    4. Re:bad stats by xaxa · · Score: 1

      (I'm not American.)

      Hasn't Thanksgiving just got tangled up in the currently-fashionable religion? It's a harvest festival, which in Europe pre-dates Christianity, and exists in other cultures with a clear harvesting time.

      The British version is equally for friends as family. I've missed it for the past three years due to foreign travel, but I used to celebrate with friends (i.e. drink too much).

    5. Re:bad stats by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, TG is not religious. Religious people often get all religious during TG, but there is nothing inherently religious about it, its very secular.

    6. Re:bad stats by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      What religions don't let practitioners celebrate Thanksgiving? It isn't a holy day like Hannukah or Easter. What do the JWs have against it?

      And I was in Bhuddist Thailand for a year, I saw no indication that they would be against a holiday like Thanksgiving. After all, they have the "water festival" which gets really wild and crazy. It's a spring holiday marking the beginning of the rainy season and consists of throwing water at each other. Sometimes barrels full. Sometimes there are pretty bad injuries (like Thanksgiving, alcohol plays a part in much of the celebration).

    7. Re:bad stats by Gavagai80 · · Score: 1

      As an atheist with a family of atheists and agnostics, I've always celebrated thanksgiving and never heard anyone suggest it was religious.

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  23. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by mrchaotica · · Score: 1
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  24. fake heritage to die for by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ask any native elder or watch the mooovie http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqUvhDG7x2E

    rated htrc (horrific terror by religious 'conversion' etc)

    happy hollow days

  25. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by plopez · · Score: 4, Insightful

    But usually there is some other substitute e.g. Oktoberfest or its equivalent. Just about every culture has some sort of fall harvest festival if they have such a season.

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  26. Re:I don't think that means what you think it mean by CubicleZombie · · Score: 2

    If I lived away from family and couldn't justify the travel to visit them for a meal, and if most of my friends were also coworkers, I'd probably spend time with them, like I'd spend time with the off-work anyway.

    I would have done that in my twenties, but pushing 40 now (ugh) I want nothing to do with my cow-orkers after hours. I'll go to happy hour with the team so I don't look like an unsocial jerk, but otherwise forget it unless there's a charge code to bill my time to.

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  27. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by plopez · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You forget that the tradition of invasion, conquest; and economic,religious, and cultural assimilation was a grand old tradition in Eurasia long before the Americsa were discovered. E.g. Alexander the Great, the Romans, and the Vandals to name but a few. Americans learned at Europeans feet.

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  28. Transients vs. locals by plopez · · Score: 1

    Dallas, like many cities of the region are colonized by transient populations from far flung areas. Boston is a city of drunks with large families. Are there any more stereotypes we want to use?

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  29. Re:Waaaah by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Then you might get to have Thanksgiving with your family.

    No where in TFA does it say that celebrating with co-workers and family are mutually exclusive. I will be with my family on Turkey Day. Two of my co-workers will be coming over to my house with their families. So I will also be with my co-workers.

  30. Thanksgiving with co-workers? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, thanks. They used to be a great bunch of guys, then the company outsourced, most guys left, one of the ones remaining went from a good friend to being weird (never figured out why, but I surely don't care now). I moved on and left that mess.

  31. Fairest for me by ToasterTester · · Score: 3, Insightful

    One place I was at we were doing 24/7 support so someone had to always be onsite. For holidays our boss just split the day into 3 hour shifts starting at 6am. For only having to work 3 hours wasn't too painful still got most of the day with family/friends. Boss also said it will be dead bring DVDs to watch, just answer phone if it rings. So pretty painless Holiday work.

    1. Re:Fairest for me by TangoMargarine · · Score: 1

      Our Christmas ~party was the only day we were allowed to drink at work. We put in a couple hours that morning, then played Open Arena, poker, etc. before heading to a local bar afterwards :)

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  32. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by Capt+James+McCarthy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You forget that the tradition of invasion, conquest; and economic,religious, and cultural assimilation was a grand old tradition in Eurasia long before the Americsa were discovered. E.g. Alexander the Great, the Romans, and the Vandals to name but a few. Americans learned at Europeans feet.

    Stop confusing people with historical facts. It's easier to forget the past and blame the present. Really, it's best to blame the present not learning from the past failures.

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  33. don't put up with this shit! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously, why do people put up with this bullshit? Go the fuck home people and spend some time with your families. When people on are on their death beds, they rarely say, I wish I spent more time working.

  34. Does this mean they work on Thanksgiving? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does the stat mean IT workers will be working on server upgrades over the holiday?

  35. More false statistics by Princeofcups · · Score: 1

    X% of people SAID this or that. This is another poll that just measures what people think they should say. In Boston, people feel that they should care more about hard work. In the South, people put more emphasis on family and friends.

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  36. Re:Waaaah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If that's the case, get back to the retirement home.

  37. In the last decade by onyxruby · · Score: 1

    Thinking of myself I've spent Thanksgiving at work twice because I was traveling overseas and it wasn't practical to fly back for the holiday. It does wonders for perspective through when you encounter people who insist it is a Christian holiday. You then get to explain that there's only two countries on the planet that celebrate it and they don't even celebrate it on the same day. Out of the US the holiday is known for overeating of food and buying too many presents. sigh

    1. Re:In the last decade by xaxa · · Score: 1

      the holiday is known for overeating of food and buying too many presents. sigh

      You could say exactly the same about Christmas in the UK. We even choose turkey!

      There will be more surveys like this in the next few weeks:
      "Only 10% of adults across the UK think that its religious meaning is the most important thing about Christmas"
      "just 4% of 25-34 year olds compared to 20% of those over 60, gave the religious connotations of Christmas a top rating"
      "86% of those polled agree that Christmas has become too commercialised"

      However, "The YouGov Spending intentions survey for 2013 found that people are planning to spend on average £822 celebrating Christmas. The individual spending figures Are: £599 on presents, £180 on food and drink and £43 on cards, decorations and Christmas trees." (this survey). Looks like I'll be about £500, £160 and £43 behind the curve.

  38. Listen... by OglinTatas · · Score: 1

    you guys are great to work with, and I enjoy our D&D games on Sunday afternoons, but I have family to annoy during holidays. You know?

  39. It's called a downtime window. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This may not because we are all lonely losers who can't make actual friends. Most Lusers can't live without their shared drive, and won't let me upgrade anything during the normal weekends. So when we can get an extra day or two for actual downtime maintenance, we usually grasp that opportunity. I once spent a long weekend just doing cable management in the datacenter.

  40. coworkers? how about alone? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've been travelling to events working with maybe one coworker on certain days and contractors from other companies. I eat almost all my meals alone this time of year. Its 10degrees hotter than outdoors, and 100% humidity in here for this event. They don't turn the ac on until after the event starts. I'll be spending the holiday catching up on paperwork!

  41. Locality by cjc25 · · Score: 1

    The top of the list is probably an intersection of "cities people move to for work" and "cities which have recently developed IT industry," or places where IT workers are less likely to have extended family.

  42. Re:I don't think that means what you think it mean by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So you don't want to look like an unsocial jerk, even though you want to be an unsocial jerk? o.0

  43. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by TangoMargarine · · Score: 2

    Bonus points for using "nor" with "neither," though...so close and yet so far...

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  44. Re:I don't think that means what you think it mean by TangoMargarine · · Score: 1

    Yes.

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  45. I've done so 3 times by Not-a-Neg · · Score: 1

    I've spent 3 Thanksgivings with co-workers, once with a building manager (senior manager), once with a manager of a different department, and once with an administrative assistant that I am still friends with. It was a small company though (around 2,000 employees) so everyone knew each other pretty well.

    My current employer is a global bank, everyone here just stabs everyone in the back and is extremely defensive about separating their personal life from work.

    I'm just going to stay at home this year, all alone, nothing but the heat from the file server to keep me warm. Thanksgiving dinner will be a breakfast casserole made with frozen hashbrowns, sausage, cheddar cheese, and sausage gravy cooked in a slow cooker on low for 8 hours. =D

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  46. Of Course by denmarkw00t · · Score: 1

    In Boston, for example, you're pretty sure to be on your own for the holiday — only 6% of coworkers there nosh together.

    Ah, well that stinks. Too bad people don't have friends, or family, to spend their holidays with...just coworkers. So, if you're in Boston, you'll probably be alone this Thanksgiving because you don't have friends, you don't have family, and your coworkers hate you.

  47. Married a Coworker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I married a coworker. How does that get counted?

  48. How to say No to cow-workers? by Tolvor · · Score: 1

    Here in the United States it is coming close to Thanksgiving, a holiday to visit family and be thankful for our many blessings. However corporate culture, as a part of our-business-is-a-family mentality likes to do pot lucks. I will encourage and support anyone that wants to have the pot luck on company time as long as the company does not make me participate. I, like many people, do not regard my co-workers as a "family". I don't feel like investing extra money to feed these people in the name of company-is-family and "team building". I'm not a hostile employee but I realize that the company regards everyone as a replaceable cog and a lowest-cost expense. Of course I realize saying anything like this to our company would cause me to be fired. I am sure I am not alone in feeling this.

    Here's hoping you have a great Thanksgiving, and spend it with those that matter - your real family.

    I submitted this as a submission a few days ago, and didn't get accepted... ah well.

  49. Last year.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I was in Boston and had Turkey with a coworker.

  50. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by vikingpower · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Well, you are on to something here. I live and work in a German-language country. As a matter of fact, using the word "nazi" is simply not done here. People cringe if and when I literally translate "grammar Nazi" or "spelling Nazi" into German, even this long after the war. So I use "grammar taliban" or "spelling fundamentalist" instead. That has the strange property of making people smile uncontrollably. Va comprende, Charles...

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  51. Because by jodido · · Score: 1

    No one is actually from Dallas, so no family there, and there's nothing to do there but eat and shop anyway.

    1. Re:Because by jodido · · Score: 1

      I meant no one who works in IT (and not only, but of course lots of people are from Dallas)

  52. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by Redmancometh · · Score: 1

    No lie it made me smile uncontrollably.

  53. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by YoungManKlaus · · Score: 1

    UPVOTE PARENT! 90% of the world dont celebrate Thanksgiving.

  54. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    UPVOTE PARENT! 90% of the world dont celebrate Thanksgiving.

    It's closer to 96% if you consider that there are 7 billion people on the planet and only 300-320 million are in the USA. If you count the number of homeless and immigrants that haven't adopted the custom and the number of people required by corporations to work, it may be as much as 97% of the world population that don't celebrate Thanksgiving.

  55. Re:I will spend thanksgiving with my co-workers to by the_arrow · · Score: 1

    If we in Europe would have "thanksgiving" holidays for each good thing that's worth giving thanks for throughout history, some countries would have holiday around 50 weeks of the year.

    Though to be honest, that seems to be what some countries do anyway, I mean work only two weeks a year (see e.g. Greece).

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  56. Thanksgiving == distraction by JamieIanMacgregor · · Score: 1

    And while you're all sleepy from excessive turkey consumption, your government will dissolve more of your freedoms into the fettered cranberry sauce-like sludge they call democracy and freedom. don't sleep people, it's a trap. put down the turkey and pick up a meth pipe and an "assault weapon", it's the only way to stay alert during a distraction of this magnitude.