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Match.com, Mensa Create Dating Site For Geniuses

mpicpp writes in with news about a new dating opportunity for Mensa members. It takes a special person to join Mensa. For one, the elite society only takes individuals with IQ scores in the 98th percentile, meaning just 1 in 50 Americans is eligible. This exclusivity — some might say snobbery — is part of Mensa's lore. Early Mensans in Britain walked around with yellow buttons, organizational publications once referred to non-Mensa members as "Densans," and last year, a top Mensa member and tester called anyone with an IQ of 60 a "carrot." In short, you don't always join Mensa because you think you're smart. You join to be set apart from most people, who are, as one member put it: "mundane." But a new partnership between American Mensa and online dating giant Match.com offers a new, enticing reason to join the society of geniuses: true love. Beginning this week, members of the brainiac group can connect through a separate, exclusive dating service called Mensa Match. In addition, Match.com members can add a special Mensa badge to their profiles, signaling a specific interest in connecting with a single person with a confirmed genius-level IQ score.

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  1. why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm smart, maybe not mensa smart (don't really care either way) but fuck hanging out with other aholes like me!

    1. Re: why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Me too! But in 2000.

      I went to a few gatherings and it was mostly fat libertarian dudes.

      Then I realized only a fuckhead would join mensa for intellectual validation.

      Then I realized I was one of those fuckheads and promptly re-examined my life.

      I joined the triple nine society and am much happier. /s

    2. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by Jane+Q.+Public · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I'm smart, maybe not mensa smart (don't really care either way) but fuck hanging out with other aholes like me!

      OP is a bit snobbish itself.

      People (by and large... certainly there are exceptions) join MENSA so that they can converse with other people with similar mental character and interests. Just exactly how some people join motorcycle clubs because they like motorcycles and want to discuss them and appreciate them with people of similar interest, someone might join MENSA because they like talking about physics -- or even crossword puzzles -- with people who are like themselves.

      There is no need to try to suggest that is "snobbery" of any kind. Would you call a motorcycle gang "snobs"? Or stamp collectors? MENSA is a social club, nothing more.

      And by the way, a bit of history: MENSA members did sometimes wear small yellow pins, like tie tacks but about 1/8" diameter, like those little pins you stick in maps -- not badges -- simply so that they could find each other in a crowd. It wasn't snobbery, it was subtle (very subtle) identification. The reason was because more obvious identification made them targets of violence for bigots and other idiots.

    3. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by fyngyrz · · Score: 4, Funny

      Would you call a motorcycle gang "snobs"?

      Well, probably not if you want to survive the day...

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    4. Re: why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by WinstonWolfIT · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Way too much truth here. I passed their exam to satisfy my curiosity but figured I'd find them as boring as I find myself after surfing their forums at the time. As far as the chicks go (recalling my days in Uni), a well-maintained genius is so outnumbered by men I would have better luck going for supermodels interested in money. The truth is everyone is an idiot in a demonstrable way, and the ideal match is the one who can find the humor in the ways their partner is just bloody hopeless.

    5. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by SuricouRaven · · Score: 4, Informative

      Not lying. An IQ test is required for membership. A proper one, not an online one.

      Though it's arguable how useful an IQ test is. It's a poor metric of intelligence, it's just commonly used because all the other suggestions are worse.

    6. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by 91degrees · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If I wanted to join a motorcycle club or a stamp collector club I'd be welcomed without any qualification. My interest would be enough. They'd be delighted to tell me about their bikes or stamps and encourage me to learn more. They'd probably be a little surprised if I didn't have a bike or a stamp collection, but they'd encourage me to get one and not look down their nose at me if I didn't have one.

    7. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by gsslay · · Score: 5, Insightful

      so that they can converse with other people with similar mental character and interests

      It's a fair point, but what exactly is being shared? Having a shared high IQ is no guarantee at all of the shared or compatible interests, personality, life aims or values. All the kind of stuff that helps in a social club, and relationship most definitely needs.

      The only thing they have in common is an interest in knowing how smart they, and other people are, by one particular yardstick. As interest go, that's pretty shallow.

    8. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by mcvos · · Score: 4, Interesting

      There is no need to try to suggest that is "snobbery" of any kind. Would you call a motorcycle gang "snobs"? Or stamp collectors? MENSA is a social club, nothing more.

      Exactly. I don't know much about Mensa, because I've never felt the need to join. I'm pretty sure most of the people around me would qualify, but that also means that we already have plenty of smart people to have intellectual discussions with. My sister, however, studied sports, got surrounded by other sporty people, and eventually started to miss contact with other smart people, so she joined Mensa, and now she talks about all the game events and motorcycle trips they have and all the interesting people she meets there. It fills a need for her that for me is already filled in other ways.

    9. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by kimvette · · Score: 5, Interesting

      > Though it's arguable how useful an IQ test is. It's a poor metric of intelligence, it's just commonly used because all the other suggestions are worse.

      I agree, One time in line at a grocery store one man remarked about how it was stupid they had "retards"[sic] working there. I told him "You can learn from anybody, even this so-called 'retard.' for example, notice he is treating everybody with respect. You know, come to think of it, I never met anyone with Down's syndrome who is a nasty and judgmental prick like you. Maybe we can all take a lesson and learn to treat others nicely."

      Besides, he was doing a great job and was taking pride in his work. What's to judge? What if that asshole were in the position of being mentally challenged - I'd love to see him wear those shoes for a day.

      What good is intelligence if all one ends up doing is thinking they're better than everyone and treat others like shit?

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    10. Re:why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by jythie · · Score: 5, Interesting

      That is why hanging out with mensa people drove me crazy, not only are they arm-chair everything but their organization encourages their belief that they understand things they do not and non-members don:t.

    11. Re: why would I want to hang with a buncha cunts by Hognoxious · · Score: 5, Insightful

      We're discussing high intelligence and you admit to believing what an advert says?

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  2. Re:Let's be fair by Great+Big+Bird · · Score: 5, Funny

    You insulted my carrot sir!

  3. Match doesn't understand "smart" by CycleMan · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Match.com's press release includes a hilarious "heat map listing where the smartest singles live," by mapping where Ivy League grads live. Apparently graduates of Stanford, U Chicago, CalTech, UC Berkeley, Northwestern, etc. aren't as smart. More likely, they're just not as rich and historically connected to Daddy's alma mater. http://blog.match.com/wp-conte...

    1. Re:Match doesn't understand "smart" by billstewart · · Score: 4, Informative

      The primary distinguisher of the Ivy League schools isn't that they're rich or that they're exceptionally high quality (though generally they are.) They're a group of colleges that a century or so ago made an agreement with each other not to have athletic scholarships, so the students could play amateur sports against each other instead of having to compete with semi-professionals. Yes, occasionally a student at the Ivies is good enough to get into the NFL or NHL, but they've got to spend time being a student as well.

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    2. Re:Match doesn't understand "smart" by cyn1c77 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      The primary distinguisher of the Ivy League schools isn't that they're rich or that they're exceptionally high quality (though generally they are.) They're a group of colleges that a century or so ago made an agreement with each other not to have athletic scholarships, so the students could play amateur sports against each other instead of having to compete with semi-professionals. Yes, occasionally a student at the Ivies is good enough to get into the NFL or NHL, but they've got to spend time being a student as well.

      Having gone to an Ivy League school, I can tell you that they still give athletic scholarships to skilled student athletes (with skilled modifying latter noun!). They just call them "academic" scholarships.

      Wink, wink.

      Sports are big money, even for the Ivy Leagues.

  4. Re:IF.. by rolfwind · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Really? I don't find the legitimate ones bad at all. Much better than the SAT for testing raw, innate intelligence.

    IQ is like a brightness of a flashlight. It's potential. Brighter is better, but it doesn't guarantee you point it at a useful direction, or even use it for anything useful at all other than to study playboy under the bedsheets.

    I would think if they took recent Nobel Prize winners in the hard sciences, they would be trending above average and by a margin.

  5. Inflation of the word 'genius' by itzly · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The word 'genius' should be reserved for a rare occasion where a person shows extraordinary insight and brilliance, not the smartest person of a random group of 50.

  6. What's the big deal? by Opportunist · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Before someone asks, yes, I am "Mensa material". I do IQ tests as a pastime. It's fun to watch shrinks stare in awe. So I could join them. As could, I'm certain, most people around here. Being in the 2% bracket isn't THAT difficult when you look at it. There are actually clubs out there with far tighter joining criteria. Also not really something I'd consider joining.

    I mean, let's be honest, why should I? Yes, it's fun to have a discussion with people who can think beyond next breakfast but it's no fun having them with people who consider themselves so "smart" and aloof to join a club that selects its members by intelligence. I mean, imagine you're good looking, would you want to join a club that only lets beautiful people join? Ponder what kind of self absorbed, shallow cunts such criteria attract. And then ponder whether you want to be part of that.

    And even more, ponder whether you want to spend at least part of your life with someone like that. And now let's imagine the worst case, just think that kids would be the results of such a union. What kind of person do you think such a child would become? Either you'll have a completely broken person who snapped under the pressure of being the expected "pinnacle of intelligence", or you get the ultimate self-absorbed asshole, or a combination of both.

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  7. The public face of mensa vs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I used to be in Mensa back in the 80s. When people found out I was in Mensa, they'd frequently express some surprise because they thought Mensans were a bunch of jerks because they'd met somebody who said he was in Mensa and who was very obnoxious, making himself out to be superior. I was surprised because most of the people I met in Mensa weren't like that. I remember throwing a party and invited people from my job and friends from Mensa, and the people from work commented later about how the Mensans at the party were down to earth regular folks and not at all like what they'd expected. I suspect that the jerks giving Mensa a bad rep don't actually go to Mensa events because what they want to do is brag and try to impress people but they can't do that if everybody else is a Mensan. But these same jerks are the ones making the most noise everywhere else and getting noticed. I will admit there are probably more nerdy, asperger's syndrome types in Mensa than the general population, but it's not that bad.

    You know what was an exaggerated but based somewhat on truth depiction of Mensa? The one done in a Simpson's episode with Stephen Hawking as guest voice at the end.

  8. Re:Let's be fair by devnulljapan · · Score: 5, Funny

    "I think the carrot infinitely more fascinating than the geranium. The carrot has mystery. Flowers are essentially tarts. Prostitutes for the bees. There is, you'll agree, a certain 'je ne sais quoi' oh so very special about a firm, young carrot."

  9. Re:IF.. by Nephandus · · Score: 5, Informative

    Reality is politically incorrect, thus observation is unethical.

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  10. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    Somewhat unsurprisingly, the study revealed NO CORRELATION.

    There is a high correlation of 0.90 to 0.95 between the prestige rankings of occupations, as rated by the general population, and the average general intelligence scores of people employed in each occupation. [1]

    The correlation between income and IQ scores is 0.40. The correlation is higher at higher levels of education and it increases with age, stabilizing when people reach their highest career potential in middle age. Even when education, occupation and socioeconomic background are held constant, the correlation does not vanish. [2]

    Your move.

    [1] Schmidt, F., & Hunter, J. (2004). General mental ability in the world of work: Occupational
    attainment and job performance.
    Journal of Personality and Social Psychology,

    [2] Jensen, A. R. (1998). The g factor.
    . Westport, CT: Praeger

  11. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by JosKarith · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I have an IQ that repeatedly tested somewhere between 150-170. I crashed out of two universities, spent most of the 90's off my face one way or another and now work in IT support for a government department. High IQ doesn't always correlate to greater success - though it has helped me find a niche where I can slack more efficiently and still pull in a decent salary so I guess I'm not doing too bad.

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  12. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 5, Informative

    the study revealed NO CORRELATION.

    Zippo. Nada. None. Zilch.

    Most studies have found an IQ to income correlation of 0.4 to 0.5. That is not particularly strong, but it isn't zero. The correlation is weaker for people with very high IQs. Someone with an IQ of 100 (normal) will earn much more than someone at 60 (mildly retarded). Someone with an IQ of 120 will do significantly better than someone at 100. But someone with an IQ of 160 (genius) will do little better than someone at 120, on average.

  13. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by C0R1D4N · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I bet there's a stronger correlation between family affluence and career success.

  14. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by dcw3 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I'll agree with you on...

    Want success? Learn how to SCHMOOZE and be a salesman.

    But you lost me at...

    Corporate success is 90% bullshit and 10% smarts.

    If you're so smart, can you back that up? :-)

    I'd argue that except for those who got there via nepotism, it's extremely rare that someone is a successful businessperson w/o generally having their shit together. Sure, we hear about f-ups all the time, and everyone loves to criticize the boss because we think we know better, but in the big scheme of things, the frequency of those bad decisions is generally outweighed by the smart ones that you don't hear about because they're not newsworthy.

    Maybe I'm just speaking from my own experience, and maybe it depends upon your definition of success. My dad was a small business owner, and I've known several others, all of whom I would call intelligent and successful. FWIW, I qualified for MENSA back in the 70s, but never joined.

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  15. Re:But people forget what MENSA concluded by Darinbob · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I have no idea what my IQ is. I'm definitely very smart, but also very lazy and don't want to struggle on a test. I also have good days and slow days and I've let my brain vacation too much over the years (IQ is most definitely not a constant). I only had one IQ type test but it was when I was a kid and I never learned the score but some people seemed quite impressed.

    Overall though the intelligence helps but I'd much rather get rid of it and replace it with a strong work ethic and ambition. Intelligence meant that I could slide through a lot without too much effort, school was easy, college was easy, and I never had to study. Whereas keeping my nose to the grindstone is hard, stepping up and taking charge is hard, keeping organized is hard, managing my personal affairs is hard, and so forth. In the big overall pictures, I am very much below average I think except for that one thing.