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Facebook and Apple Now Pay For Female Employees To Freeze Their Eggs

Dave Knott writes: While freezing eggs has become an increasingly popular practice for career-oriented women, the procedure comes at a steep price: Costs typically add up to at least $10,000 for every round, plus $500 or more annually for storage. Now two Silicon Valley giants are offering women a game-changing perk: Apple and Facebook will pay for employees to freeze their eggs. They appear to be the first major employers to offer this coverage for non-medical reasons, both offering to cover costs up to $20,000. Tech firms are hardly alone in offering generous benefits to attract and keep talent, but they appear to be leading the way with egg freezing.

Advocates say they've heard murmurs of large law, consulting, and finance firms helping to cover the costs, although no one is broadcasting this support. Companies may be concerned about the public relations implications of the benefit – in the most cynical light, egg-freezing coverage could be viewed as a ploy to entice women to sell their souls to their employer, sacrificing childbearing years for the promise of promotion. Will the perk pay off for companies? The benefit will likely encourage women to stay with their employer longer, cutting down on recruiting and hiring costs. And practically speaking, when women freeze their eggs early, firms may save on pregnancy costs in the long run. A woman could avoid paying to use a donor egg down the road, for example, or undergoing more intensive fertility treatments when she's ready to have a baby. But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings.

253 comments

  1. So... by fuzzyfuzzyfungus · · Score: 5, Funny

    A few of you had questions about the 'work/life balance' at this company. I take it that those have been settled?

    1. Re:So... by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 0

      A few of you had questions about the 'work/life balance' at this company. I take it that those have been settled?

      This is probably a reaction to the "equal pay" hullabaloo going on right now. They want to be able to show that women who stay in the workforce actually do make just as much as men who stay in the workforce. As an added bonus, they can start having babies when they're 45!

      <sarcasm>All I know is that if I had a tech company, I would hire nothing BUT women, since I'd be able to pay them $.70 on the dollar compared to men. I wonder why nobody else does this?</sarcasm>

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    2. Re:So... by mwvdlee · · Score: 5, Insightful

      They're making it pretty damn clear that life is completely insignificant to work.

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    3. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      "nobody else does this?" because you can pay even less of a wage to an H1 holder.

    4. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not unless they start outsourcing the pregancies to India.

    5. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We now have free room and board at the office so you do not have to have a life out side of work.

    6. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      All I know is that if I had a tech company, I would hire nothing BUT women, since I'd be able to pay them $.70 on the dollar compared to men. I wonder why nobody else does this?

      What do you mean nobody?

    7. Re: So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      What an eggcellent idea!

    8. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      In spades. Paying for 12 months of parental leave, even at a partial rate, would indicate much more clearly that they know what a baby is and why people have them.

    9. Re:So... by jimmifett · · Score: 0

      I know i'd certainly not want to pay higher health insurance premiums to support this, bad enough I have to pay for premiums for birth control I will never use. Are free vasectomies throw in and paternity leave? If so, i'd be willing to call it a wash.

    10. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And this is why I would never work for any major IT company for anything less than $1 million per year.

    11. Re: So... by kuhnto · · Score: 2

      Ok, Give this person a point... This is the type of joke my dad would have come up with.

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    12. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not at all. I'm impressed with this.

      When we decided at 35 to have kids, we learned that my wife has "low egg reserves". Two rounds of IVF yielded a half dozen viable eggs, so $20,000 later we have one healthy baby girl. The chances for a second kid are pretty much gone though.*

      If we could have done one round of IVF when my wife was 25, we could have gotten 20 viable eggs for $10k and been in better shape. When my daughter is 25 I'll pay for her if I can.

      * most fertilized, viable eggs don't implant. We were lucky to get 1 in 6, and luckier still that the one that made it had no issues. The only reason I assume we as a species haven't gone extinct is because we fuck like rabbits.

    13. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It dovetails nicely between the seminars on putting your children up for adoption and celibacy...

    14. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is a reason the button is called preview rather than just submit.
      Maybe next time use the continue editing button.

    15. Re:So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      What's interesting is that the article you linked to exposes the "$0.70 for every dollar a man makes" lie... and that's 2007. When you compare apples to apples, the discrepancy is still there, but not nearly as bad. Considering the gap has largely been decreasing over time (with a few exeptional years), and the fact that women are enrolling in college at a higher rate than men across all races (Women’s college enrollment gains leave men behind), the gender pay inequality seems like it's been a self correcting problem for some time now. You can't snap your fingers and eliminate all forms of discrimination... over time we are continually becoming a much more egalitarian society across most measures (as far as opportunity is concerned).

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    16. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I never knew that about Utah nor did I ever think of doing things that way. Thanks for interesting comment.

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    17. Re:So... by mi · · Score: 1

      As an added bonus, they can start having babies when they're 45!

      The effects on the babies (and mothers) be damned...

      Seriously, this is a half-measure. If we really want to help women stay in the workforce, we ought to develop incubators. Facebook and Apple may have the monies to fund the necessary research and pilot programs.

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    18. Re:So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      Agreed... people are getting a lot of mileage out of that statistic. When you compare like professions, like education, and like experience, it's in the mid $0.90's range. Still a discrepancy, still something that should be addressed, but a problem that's been correcting itself for decades (with a few exceptional years). It's true that some professions are worse than others, but in some cases women are at 100%.

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    19. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Absolutely this!

      Comparing men and women in the same "industry", which is what is typically done, doesn't work because you end up comparing dentists to dental hygienists and similar. Also, comparing against years of service doesn't work, because years of service is NOT hours of service.

      When you compare the wages of women and men with the same job title and plot against hours of service rather than years of service - women make about 97% - 98% of that of men, on average. A gap, yes, but not one as big as people like to pretend.

    20. Re:So... by blippo · · Score: 1

      Yay!

    21. Re:So... by bkmoore · · Score: 1

      As an added bonus, they can start having babies when they're 45!

      Having children early and starting a career at the same time can be very rough, but there's a lot to be said for still having a life to look forward to once they're grown and out of the house. Added bonus is you'll probably be around long enough to enjoy grandparenthood and possibly even great-grandparenthood.

    22. Re: So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      go to one of your female counterparts and tell them what you make. My personal experience shows that the .70 on the dollar is average.

    23. Re: So... by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Hmm..is this also sexual discrimination against men?

      Are they offering to freeze sperm of the young men...that might not want a kid early too. Sperm quality and motility degrade a man's age too, why are they not being offered this service/perk?

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    24. Re: So... by gfxguy · · Score: 2

      Actually, the only time I ever asked, the woman was making more than me... with the same education and less experience. And yes, it bothered me. And no, the statistics do NOT bear your personal experience for like professions with like education and like experience. Read the articles that were posted... in some professions women make every bit as much as men, in some it's worse than $0.70 on the dollar... overall, apples to apples, it's in the 90 cent range.

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    25. Re:So... by praxis · · Score: 1

      If you want to only pay for the medical expenses YOU use, then what you want is not insurance but just pay out of pocket for everything. Insurance is a *shared* way of distributing costs. Many such costs will NEVER be relevant to you.

    26. Re: So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Yes, male gametes do degrade over time, but to nowhere near the extent that female fertility does. Women simply age out of childbearing at some point as menopause kicks in; men can (and have) fathered children while quite old without undue difficulty. The situation is not necessarily equal.

    27. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and then you can exploit them mercilessly under threat of deportation and loss of the visa.

      they did this to my roommate until once, after they'd worked him 4 days straight w/o sleep, they came to drag him out of his bed 2 hours afer he'd returned. I called the cops, told them I had trespassers attempting a kidnapping, and those bastards left (without my roommate) after the cops showed up. I told all four of those thugs, in front of the cops, exactly why what they were doing was illegal and inhumane and expressed my promise that if any of them ever turned up at my door again, i'd beat them silly before calling the cops. The cops laughed at them when they complained about my threat (they'd no illusions about what they were trying to do to my roommate).

      but my roommate got shipped back to india shortly thereafter, the poor suffering bastard.

      ban h1 visas: they screw both the holder and the us employee who is passed over.

    28. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      i AM a rabbit, you insensitive clod!

    29. Re:So... by LessThanObvious · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Companies pay top dollar for engineers in part because you are expected to put work first. Either you are putting in long days to complete a project, a software release or you are on call for support 24/7 in addition to the constant requirement to continue learning. This is the nature of the business and for women to be equal they have to tolerate the same horrific shit everyone else has to deal with. I could buy the argument that it isn't reasonable to expect everyone to want to do that, but as it stands we don't have places in the system for less than full time, fully committed workers. This egg storage business is an interesting experiment, but I'm not sure how healthy and wise it is to work a stressful job until you are 35 or 40 and then try to conceive.

    30. Re: So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shut up

    31. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > What's interesting is that the article you linked to exposes the "$0.70 for every dollar a man makes" lie

      So 90 cents for every dollar and much worse than that at the higher ranges. Your definition of "expose a lie" seems to be "the numbers aren't quite exactly what the meme says." I find your reasoning unconvincing.

    32. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > but a problem that's been correcting itself for decades

      It hasn't just been correcting "itself," the correction has been happenning at the same time that women's rights advocates have been raising holly hell about it.

    33. Re:So... by Chalnoth · · Score: 1

      1. The disparity remains even after correcting for career differences. Women within the same career make substantially less, in virtually every career.

      2. The differences in careers between men and women are also a result of sexism. So the headline number of 70 cents on the dollar is the correct one to use.

    34. Re: So... by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 3, Funny

      I remember... in the long-ago days of my youth... before the Oxford Comma Wars... paragraph breaks were in abundance... we didn't have to hoard them as we do today...

      Those were happier times.

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    35. Re:So... by Livius · · Score: 1

      The goal presumably is to discourage women from making the 'wrong' career decision by creating the illusion that they can just postpone child-bearing. Some will, and some will fall into the trap and never escape their career.

    36. Re:So... by jimmifett · · Score: 1

      You are correct, however, one would be well within their rights to be upset at their employer for taking up a more expensive coverage plan that they and others do not agree with, forcing them to pay an extra cost that one could believe does not need to exist. In such a case, the employee has no voice in the matter, as the company would rather stick it to the employees than reverse course and raise the ire of the SJW nutters for "attacking women".

      Of course, the better solution is to have health savings accounts with preventative and catastrophic coverage and let the employee decide how to spend their own dollars.

    37. Re: So... by Pfhorrest · · Score: 1

      Apparently people in your timestream are suffering an overabundance of ellipses now in compensation for the paragraph break shortage?

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    38. Re:So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      Yes... a difference of over 20% is very misleading. I never argued there still wasn't a discrepancy - in fact, I said it right there in post. The 70 cents on the dollar meme IS bullshit.

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    39. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      more productive
      comfortable
      not drinking too much
      regular exercise at the gym (3 days a week)
      getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries
      at ease
      eating well (no more microwave dinners and saturated fats)
      a patient better driver
      a safer car (baby smiling in back seat)
      sleeping well (no bad dreams)
      no paranoia

    40. Re:So... by praxis · · Score: 1

      I agree that there are many better solutions than the system we have in the US today but there are options if one disagrees with the social norms (birth control is a social norm, for example). One could opt out of employer purchased health insurance and buy ones own from a company that does not cover birth control. Insurance is a shared experience by a group. One has to balance their views with the views of the group. It's silly to insist that the rest of the group follow one's worldview when one could join a different group.

      I'm a man and I'm glad that insurance covers birth control for birth control does society a truck load of good.

    41. Re:So... by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      Rated funny? I would have given it +1 Sad if that were an option.

    42. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The statistic also fails to take into consideration gender ratios within a specific industry. It pretty much lumps everything together and goes at it from a top-down approach without explaining any of the factors. I mean, you certainly don't see women in high-pay high-risk jobs such as coal mining and crab fishing which, more often than not, work men into an early grave. Nor do you see many men working in female dominated industries such as healthcare, advertising, and education.

      The simple fact is that women work less than men because of maternity and that is never going to change until we start growing babies in artificial wombs.

    43. Re:So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      It's been happening as the whole perception of a woman's role in life, in general, has adapted to modern times. More women entering the work force, more women getting higher educations in fields that pay more - life in general. I'd wager it actually has little to do with anything other than an evolution of beliefs as the older generations retire and the younger (and generally more open minded) people start taking over. In fact, in a fairly direct manner, I'd suggest that income taxes were the biggest catalyst, as now the lesser wage earner in families is often only covering the tax burden of the primary wage earner.

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    44. Re: So... by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      One improvises with what is available.

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    45. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh come on, it's not like the company will end up owning the child right?

    46. Re: So... by kernunno · · Score: 1

      It isn't bullshit you have just misunderstood the argument. Women make 70 percent of what men make on average. There are many societal factors involved in this and one of them is women not entering high paying professors like tech. That isn't okay. We cannot have a huge discrepancy in wage between the genders and act as if it is all equal. There is a problem here and if your company is going to act like they care, like presumably Apple and Facebook do, you need to invite more women in.

    47. Re: So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      But it's simply not $0.70 on the dollar when comparing apples to apples. You cannot complain about wage discrepancies between different professions - it's simply asinine. And why do I "need" to "invite more women in?" If I have jobs, they are welcome to apply... I don't understand why you believe employers "need" to incentivise women... It just seems too many people are after equal outcomes when what we need is equal opportunity - and to a large extent, we are very close to that.

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    48. Re: So... by JimFive · · Score: 1

      But it's simply not $0.70 on the dollar when comparing apples to apples.

      This is true.

      You cannot complain about wage discrepancies between different professions

      But you can try to figure out why professions that attract women pay less than professions that attract men. Are the professions attractive to women really "worth less" than the ones that attract men or is there a bias in society that leads to the discrepancy?

      The data seems to show that there are at least two distinct issues involved in gender wage discrepancies. One being the overall lower value placed on jobs that are primarily held by women while the other is the approximately 7% discrepancy when you "compare apples to apples". You can't address gender wage discrepancies without at least investigating these things. Now, it may be that professions that attract women really are less valuable over all than those that attract men. However, it's possible that women are being actively discouraged from more valuable professions.

      Denying the discrepancy is unhelpful.
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    49. Re:So... by al0ha · · Score: 1

      This is such a joke, America is an employee wasteland, enslaved to their corporate masters in part by huge amounts of debt assumed due to an increasingly higher cost of funding higher education, we've basically become a country of indentured servitude, and this is totally unnecessary if the people would only wake up and refuse this system that's been thrust upon them by the greedy 1%

      Germany, which has one of the strongest economies on earth, is a nation where employees work 35 hour weeks, are given 6 weeks of vacation standard, and women may take as much time off as they need for motherhood, then return to their jobs. Not to mention that, they are considering making it illegal for your employer to email you after 6pm.

      Germany's a perfect example of an extremely successful economy based on the idea of working to live, not just working, and their economy, vastly better than the US, shows this sort of philosophy works.

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    50. Re:So... by al0ha · · Score: 1

      Oh by the way, if you need a corporate example of how well Germany's life/work balance succeeds, consider the fact that Volkswagon has taken over 2nd place in global vehicle sales from General Motors.

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    51. Re: So... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      I disagree that you need to study this, which is what I've said - we want equal opportunity. We don't have it, but the opportunity is a lot more equal than 70%. What people are seemingly demanding is equal outcome. It's not a "problem" that needs to be corrected that women tend to choose certain jobs and men choose others - there is still significant overlap and we are continuously evolving as a society already. Not everything needs to be scrutinized to every tiny detail. If you're going to focus on something, focus on why women get paid less for like professions with like education and like experience - that's the ONLY "problem" in all of this. Even then, with more women entering college than men, and the gradually changing mores of society, I think it's a gradually self correcting problem.

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    52. Re: So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

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      In this day and age, we need to save all we can. The insecurity we face when working, whether employed or self-employed. It seems that companies are more focused on saving money than providing to their employees. That is why I'm solving these vowels. If we've learned one thing from Wheel of Fortune, vowels are expensive.

      I wonder how many high-up employees will be pressured to freeze their eggs rather than have children?

    53. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women need to learn how to negotiate their salary better.

      Men do it well, why can't women?

      Even entry level jobs for someone fresh out of college are negotiable.

      If person a negotiates a $75,000 salary and person b negotiates a $70000 salary, the only person that b can blame is him or herself.

    54. Re:So... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Bullshit, the discrepancy is minor. Professional salaries are also negotiable. If a person, regardless of gender can't negotiate what other can that is their fault.

      2. Absolute bullshit. There are more women enrolled in college than men and they have no barriers to whatever degree they want.

      70 cents on the dollar is 100% bullshit because it compare a midlevel manager salary with a entry level drone salary.

      You are 100% retard.

  2. Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    Someone let the IT guy into the HR office again.

    1. Re:Enterprise backup by Mr+D+from+63 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      helping women be more productive human beings.

      Did I just read that?

    2. Re:Enterprise backup by zlives · · Score: 1

      you can equal pay if you freeze the eggs and don;t take maternity leave?!!!

    3. Re:Enterprise backup by just_another_sean · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As if ensuring the survival of the human race isn't "productive". And, personally, I can''t think of anything more important that my wife does than be the awesome mother she is to our children. Now, while she's young and has the energy to go outside and play with them...

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    4. Re:Enterprise backup by zlives · · Score: 1

      clearly I don't make the money I do for my typing skills... wish I was a programmer or some such so I could enable the editing feature on this site.

    5. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if your wife could make a $500K annual salary and you could pay a nanny a tiny fraction of that to look after your children? Would you still feel the same way?

    6. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A mother does much much more than "look after" children. I'm sorry you didn't have one.

    7. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Would still want her home with the kids so that they learn our traditions and culture not some random nanny's. I have a stay at home wife, it has cost us in monetary terms but it has bought us unending dividends by allowing our children to know their heritage and to learn from their parent.

    8. Re:Enterprise backup by retroworks · · Score: 4, Funny

      I hope these women read the entire EULA agreement!

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    9. Re:Enterprise backup by sjames · · Score: 1

      We at acmecorp treat all of our humani-bots equally (shitty).

    10. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it may or not be productive is in any case unethical - all the suffering is by no means offset by few pleasurable moments. Plus: why should society wants to pay for new assholes if already existing assholes live and die in poverty?

    11. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We already have almost 7 billion people on this planet, we are on the verge of overpopulation. We do not need more reproduction. It's perfectly fine to dedicate one's life to imrovement of human race life quality, instead of increasing quantity of humans.

    12. Re:Enterprise backup by Man+On+Pink+Corner · · Score: 1

      And, personally, I can''t think of anything more important that my wife does than be the awesome mother she is to our children

      That's fine, but I don't want to hear a lot of whining from your household about women getting paid $0.70 for every dollar men make, or whatever. Being likely to bail out of the workforce for years at a time has a downside, and that is it.

    13. Re: Enterprise backup by johnamadsen · · Score: 1

      I really hope you follow your own advise.

    14. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Knowing one's heritage is valuable only insofar as the folkways thus transmitted are adaptive behaviors.

      If you're teaching them n-thousand-year-old superstition, that's not heritage, that's actively handicapping them vs kids who learn evidence-based reasoning skills.

      IJS....

    15. Re:Enterprise backup by Livius · · Score: 1

      Depends on your definition of "look after". Do you mean the legally required minimal necessities of life, or raising them to be independent, well-adjusted, and productive members of society?

    16. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A nanny would do a better job at both, at least for the sort of people that hire nannies...

    17. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      They get you right here:

      "You agree that THE COMPANY is sole owner of all derivative works produced by, or in conjunction with, the employee."

    18. Re:Enterprise backup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You don't have to make do with a "random" nanny. For that sort of money you can take your pick. Heck, you could probably employ your wife's sister or some indigent but decent cousin, if you're that worked up about "traditions and culture".

  3. Ok... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What about the men? Can they freeze their sperm too?

    1. Re:Ok... by guruevi · · Score: 1

      You can but it is medically pointless. Men can (almost) always produce sperm even when they're 90+ years old. Women run out of eggs somewhere between their late 30's and early 50's.

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    2. Re:Ok... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      older men produce more damaged spermatozoa that are much more likely to cause congenital birth defects.

      so freeze sperm, too, or be open to charges of discrimination.

    3. Re:Ok... by Cramer · · Score: 1

      They're on the path to being sued anyway. Where's the $20k option for males? Sperm collection costs about $2... for the specimen cup.

      (Note: this has come up many times before, and is why men get the same "maternity" leave options as women just about everywhere.)

    4. Re:Ok... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sure, the cup may only cost a few bucks, but the professional expertly extracting the specimen charges about $500, more for the kinky stuff.

  4. Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "helping women be more productive human beings." Because working at Apple is more productive than raising a family?

    1. Re:Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unless those children are indian boys growing up to become low-income outsourcing laborers, they're not productive in the eyes if the tech giants.

    2. Re:Really? by Mr+D+from+63 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Would it be a conflict for Newegg to offer this?

    3. Re:Really? by Overzeetop · · Score: 1

      How many iPhones did your kids sell last quarter?

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    4. Re:Really? by SydShamino · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's a question you would need to ask each individual woman. And respect each answer either way.

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    5. Re:Really? by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      That's a question you would need to ask each individual woman. And respect each answer either way.

      SydShamino wins the internet this week. That's it exactly.

      If a woman (or man) decides she (or he) wants to have a kid or two and be "productive" in the sense of being a full-time mom (or dad)? Great.

      If a woman (or man) decides she (or he) wants to not have kids and be "productive" in the sense of having a full-time career? Great.

      If a woman (or man) decides she (or he) wants to have kids and be "productive" in the sense of being a mom (or dad) and productive in the sense of having a career? Great. (And good luck figuring out that balance.)

      The original summary that suggested that only the full-time career option is "productive" is such massive BS that the editor should be ashamed.

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    6. Re:Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's a question you would need to ask each individual woman. And respect each answer either way.

      This is not insightful in the slightest. The point being made was that the TFS was implying there is only one answer, and that answer is "work is the only thing that is ever important in life" which is transparently retarded.

  5. So we're now harming the gene pool... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...so that tax evading multinationals can get cheaper labor (no pun intended)?

    1. Re:So we're now harming the gene pool... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Like fresh food vs frozen food, are children born from frozen eggs inferior to those born naturally from fresh eggs?

    2. Re:So we're now harming the gene pool... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They don't taste as good when cooked. :-)

      There have been studies on IVF kids and the bulk of them fall within statistical norms.

  6. So I take it by TJ_Phazerhacki · · Score: 1

    That men will also be seeing a 20k bump in available work/life benefits. You know, because there is still no indication that the 'Wage Gap' exists in skilled IT positions.

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    1. Re:So I take it by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So, if they install a wheelchair ramp for a disabled employee at your company, do you demand they spend the same amount on amenities for everyone else? If they employ an on-site councillor to help employees deal with stress but you never use the service, do you demand they employ someone to mow your lawn instead?

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    2. Re:So I take it by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      So, if they install a wheelchair ramp for a disabled employee at your company, do you demand they spend the same amount on amenities for everyone else? If they employ an on-site councillor to help employees deal with stress but you never use the service, do you demand they employ someone to mow your lawn instead?

      No, GP poster insists that they break his kneecaps and install random flashing lights in his cube so that he can take advantage of the same benefits.

    3. Re:So I take it by Bengie · · Score: 1

      I was also going to say. Why do women get effectively more benefits than men? I am not going to argue against the usefulness, but it is "unfair".

      Assuming this is actually good for society by allowing would be mothers to postpone children a bit longer during their peak productive years, then this is an example of "unfair" sexism being good for society. Proving that sexism isn't inherently bad.

    4. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about at least some paternity leave? I used all of my 10 vacation days to help my wife when our daughter was born. When she still wasn't ready to be alone with the baby, I stayed home for another week (unpaid) and got fired for it.

      Between that, my $9,000 Obamacare deductible, and the fact that birth control is now free, the message is pretty clear. Unless you're poor. Then breed away.

    5. Re:So I take it by ljw1004 · · Score: 1

      Yes, married men with spouses at Apple will no longer have to share with their spouse the cost of egg freezing.*

      * doesn't help men not in this position.

      ** Apple policy doesn't help women not in a particular position either.

    6. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Being disabled is not a choice.

    7. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Social 'sciences' can't be taken seriously. This applies to psychology as well as it does to random studies that reach conclusions that you or I personally agree with. Scientific consensus and replicating studies is a check on human error and outright quackery.

    8. Re:So I take it by OhPlz · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Pregnancy is not a disability.

    9. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So female employees are disabled?

      Glad that was cleared up.

      And yes, if a company installs a $10,000 executive washroom as proof that they care about their employees, while the rank and file get porta-jonnies, I think commiserate emolument is in order.

      All this does is reinforce women are princesses, which may be fine and well, but don't dress it up as anything more than gambit to maintain diversity quotas while men bear the brunt of the cost, and still get the shaft.

    10. Re:So I take it by TJ_Phazerhacki · · Score: 1

      I typically prefer walking up ramps to the god-awful low-rise steps they are using now. So at least I can use the 'benefit' they are legally required to provide from an ADA perspective. Whereas if I chose not to take advantage of a provision I am physically able to use, it would be my own fault.

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    11. Re:So I take it by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 1

      So, smart tech firms should be hiring women, who work for substantially less money than men, all other things being equal.

      But they aren't. Why? Because men hate women!

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    12. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Being a woman is a disability now?
      Maybe they are right about all the misogyny.

    13. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Pregnancy is a physiological change that may make it harder for a person to pursue their goals. How is that not a disability?

    14. Re:So I take it by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Neither is illness, mental or otherwise. The point is that different people have different needs, and feeling that you are somehow disadvantaged because you have fewer needs and thus get less support is just trying really hard to be a victim.

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    15. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am a man and a woman told me she is on a pill - she got pregnant. So do not tell me I had a choice you insensitive clod.

      It may be a choice for a woman and not even this is always true. Still I am not sure what google is trying to do. Help an asperger female to become a 60yo mom? What the fuck for?

    16. Re:So I take it by sdguero · · Score: 1

      According to the state of California, pregnancy is in fact a disability.

      http://www.edd.ca.gov/disabili...

    17. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know what you mean. Out of the six people that were mentioned at my ten year high school reunion, five of them were dead because they are xians who wanted to kill Muslims. They joined the military to kill but instead were killed.

    18. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's called health coverage for Viagra.

    19. Re:So I take it by neoform · · Score: 1

      Are you equating being female with having a disability?

      Disabled people need the extra help to make up their literal disability. Women are not considered disabled, and thus should not need an extra helping hand...

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    20. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Giving birth is a disability, according to her insurance provider. Each time she gives birth, she collects short-term disability payments. Furthermore, being pregnant makes her ineligible for term life insurance. Being pregnant puts her in a protected class, according to the EEOC. While pregnancy may not be considered a disability in a strict legal sense, it sure does have a lot of overlap.

    21. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Neither is illness, mental or otherwise. The point is that different people have different needs, and feeling that you are somehow disadvantaged because you have fewer needs and thus get less support is just trying really hard to be a victim.

      Men need more sex to be satisfied. By your reasoning employers should be paying for hookers.

      Why is it, AmiMoJo, that every time women lose out, you are a crusader for equal rights; when a man loses out, then people should be treated differently?

      People are equal, but women are more equal seems to be your motto. Even more disturbing it is that there is a large number of people with mod points that keep giving them to you.

    22. Re:So I take it by Cramer · · Score: 2

      Am I prohibited from walking up that ramp, or pushing the automatic door button, or using the bigger "handicapped" bathroom stall? Nope. I am legally prohibited from parking in the marked handicap parking spaces, without a permit.

      Those "amenities" weren't installed for that sole employee. They were done to meet federal law. ("ADA")

    23. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pregnancy is not a disability.

      Many pregnant women would disagree with this.

    24. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If there wasn't a faint ring to truth to this, it'd be MUCH funnier.

      But, given tech demographics, it's possible that there is gender-based animus - many technical men have been socially marginalized as kids/teens and consequently fear what they don't know (in this case, women). It does explain some of the outright hostility women in the tech workforce see.

    25. Re:So I take it by OhPlz · · Score: 1

      How do you know that other parties have fewer needs? I don't like seeing carve-outs that are specific to one group over another. Insurance was meant to be a risk pool. Instead, it has turned into a discount card, or even a free pass. Hospitals are expensive, and having a child is super expensive, I get that. But is that reason enough to pull from a risk pool that also goes to pay for things like cancer, multiple sclerosis, life threatening injury, and so on? People generally don't know that they're going to get cancer, and that's why we all pay into insurance. You may never collect, but you can't know. Pregnancy is predictable. You choose to take on that challenge.

      You may have someone suffering from a serious disease, and they're hit with high copayments, coinsurance until hitting a high out of pocket maximum for the year, and expensive medications. Meanwhile, you have companies forking over thousands for women to freeze eggs. Doesn't that bother you? We're focusing in on people living their every day lives and ignoring the needs of people who are seriously ill or injured. People with serious health problems have to suffer through their conditions, plus work, plus paying for everything, meanwhile Sandra Fluke complains about paying for her own birth control while she gets a free ride to an Ivy League school. It's insane.

    26. Re:So I take it by OhPlz · · Score: 1

      One of a long list of things that California gets wrong.

    27. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      obviously, this differs from country to country... but from http://www.disabilitysecrets.com/mental-impairment-claims.html :

      Social Security has a set of disability listings for mental disorders, ranging from depression-related illness, anxiety-related disorders, and psychotic disorders to autism, ADHD and learning disabilities, and mental retardation (intellectual developmental disorder) and low IQ.

    28. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're embarrassingly beta.

    29. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fair doesn't mean everybody gets the same, it means everybody gets what they need. Rookie mistake.

    30. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is that you Russell? By all means, be more careful this time.

    31. Re:So I take it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That first link is based on expectation, not fact. Thus, it is invalid.

  7. Motherhood. The Non-Job. by geekmux · · Score: 0

    " But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings."

    Well, I might be able to take that as a good thing, if it weren't for the slap in the face to every woman in IT everywhere who were just informed they are not productive today...

    ...you know, because they're a woman.

  8. Choice of words... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Just a quick mention. I just think it would be better to say that Apple and Facebook are "covering the expenses for female employees who wish to freeze their eggs to delay when they have children".

    When you say "Apple and Facebook are paying women to freeze their eggs", it almost sounds like Apple and Facebook are actively pursuing women to freeze their eggs and paying the women to do so.

    At least, that how it sounds to me. ^_^

  9. Be more productive: Work at Facebook by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Your children will call you grandma, but they never need to know that you chose being productive for Zuckerberg over being a mom.

  10. Because studies show ... by CaptainDork · · Score: 2

    ... that women who have children don't have time to work but men who have children do?

    What percentage of women's down time for giving birth is larger than a man's golfing time?

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    1. Re:Because studies show ... by Jason+Levine · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'd add that, as a man, I'd like to see paternity time increased. When my first child was born, I was lucky enough to be able to take a week off of work to help. My wife had just given birth and while I can't ever completely know how hard that is, I knew enough to know that she would be exhausted so I took care of our new baby as much as I could - giving her time to rest up. Had I been able to take longer than a week, I would have.

      When our second child was born, I took a couple of days off, but wasn't able to take the week-long stretch that I took the first time.

      Many new fathers are looked down upon if they try to take time off to look after the new baby. There was one baseball player who was recently castigated by a sports announcer for daring to miss the first game of the season because his wife gave birth. He decided that helping his wife and new baby were more important than a baseball game. The sports announcer literally thought that the ball player's first priority should be to the game and not his family.

      Better paternity leave will also help women in the workplace because then the burden on taking care of the baby post-birth can be split evenly instead of just being tossed on the woman. (And then having people say "If we hire women they might leave to take care of their babies.")

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    2. Re:Because studies show ... by brunes69 · · Score: 0

      You need to relocate from the USA to a country with less draconian policies around parental leave... which would actually be pretty much any other country seeing how the USA is as usual backward with the rest of the world on this subject

      http://www.pewresearch.org/fac...

      Example, up here in Canada parents get 12 months of paid leave, and the mother and father can divide this as they see fit... either both take 6 months at the same time, or one does 6 then the other does 6, whatever they want. Note this DOES NOT include the mother's additional pregnancy leave which is another 6 weeks on top of that.

    3. Re:Because studies show ... by RobinH · · Score: 2

      The 12 months includes the 6 weeks or whatever of pregnancy leave, as far as I recall. So the father can't take all 12 months, there is a minimum that the mother takes. However in almost all cases I've seen, the mother refuses to give up any of her 12 months. There are certainly lots of fathers taking some of the time, but it's still a minority. When I discussed with my (female) boss about taking 6 months of leave she looked literally horrified, and then proceeded to tell me a story about how she was back at work days after having her first kid. There's still a lot of pressure on professional men, in Canada, to avoid taking time off for this, unfortunately.

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    4. Re:Because studies show ... by zlives · · Score: 1

      but...but you are promoting a healthier social society rather than a more profitable corporate infrastructure.

    5. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When my first child was born, I was lucky enough to be able to take a week off of work to help.

      You weren't lucky to take a week off, you were cheated out of the six or eight weeks that you should have been able to stay home to help her. And that week came out of your annual leave, didn't it?

    6. Re:Because studies show ... by Bengie · · Score: 1

      Should have told her there's a lot more to being a mother than giving birth. Face time and breast feeding is extremely important for the first year.

    7. Re:Because studies show ... by brunes69 · · Score: 1

      No they don't. Not in my province anyway.

      This is straight from my companys HR database:

      Written notice required before LOA start date at least three weeks

      Parental LOA for birth mother and natural father 52 weeks*
      Combined Pregnancy/Parental LOA for birth mother 70 weeks*
      Combined Paternity/Parental LOA for natural father 57 weeks*
      Parental LOA for adoptive parents 52 weeks *
      Earliest date Parental LOA can begin The week of the child's birth or placement in adoption.
      Required start or End date of Parental LOA Must be completed no later 70 weeks after child's birth or adoption

      And your comment "however in almost all cases I've seen, the mother refuses to give up any of her 12 months" is quite false, at least nowadays. Many people are taking concurrent 6 months, and many others are taking 6 and 6 so that both the mother and the father get lots of time with the child during the first year, while neither needs to take a full year off work, because of course it affects your career, regardless of how you frame it taking 6 months off of work is going to affect you. But, this is a tradeoff you make as a parent.

    8. Re:Because studies show ... by gfxguy · · Score: 2

      Wait.... I'm not arguing paternity leave isn't good, but who gets cheated when you opt to have a child and get paid by your employer for nothing? So an employer gives an extra paid week off, and you call him "cheated?" The culture of entitlement at it's best.

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    9. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      American Feminism won't support such a move, since it is giving a benefit directly to men. Seems like the benefit to women is pretty significant. I missed the birth of my second child completely due to military obligations, and the burden it put on my wife was very extreme. Guarenteed Maternity / Paternity leave is a huge family issue, and should be treated more gender neutral. Women certainly need time to physically recover, but both parents need time with a new born.

    10. Re:Because studies show ... by Unordained · · Score: 1

      Thank you! I'm seeing a lot of comments here about how wonderful it is to make the choice to be a stay-at-home-mom, how great it is for the kids, and how that's not less productive than a high-paying job. But I'm not seeing the equivalent for men, that there's a tough choice between "being a dad" (stay at home dad) and "being a man" (with a job), that each male should be encouraged to make the choice that's right for him without pressure from his employer.

    11. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better paternity leave will also help women in the workplace because then the burden on taking care of the baby post-birth can be split evenly

      The UN has long and semi-mandatory paternity leave, but the reasoning is not that infant care should actually be split evenly. It's your business to presumably make your best effort at that. It's to get people used to men being gone for long stretches of time so that the rational, unavoidable reaction, "you have been gone for long periods of time when we needed you in the past," doesn't become discriminatory.

      Unfortunately it does nothing about people considering five-year "gaps" problematic when judging the merit of someone's career, or about the work-life balance issues others have pointed out. These reactions are also somewhat rational and need to be squashed if we want to organize our society around something other than wage slavery while still feeding ourselves luxuriously.

    12. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not saying your situation didn't suck, but... you probably weren't drafted, either.

    13. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wait.... I'm not arguing paternity leave isn't good, but who gets cheated when you opt to have a child and get paid by your employer for nothing? So an employer gives an extra paid week off, and you call him "cheated?" The culture of entitlement at it's best.

      It is part of the labor contract. I get X Y and Z in exchange for doing T U and V. Those variables may be wages and benefits, but they are also incorporate overall legal requirements and restrictions on both parties.

      For example, what if I am bigger and stronger than you, or if I have a gun? Why should I be cheated out of my greater "fitness" to claim resources? What prevents me from killing you and taking your stuff? The law. The law says I can't do that, or more accurately says if I do then I will likely be subjected to certain punishments, just as it says you generally can't make legal labor contracts to kill people for your boss or sell him your kids.

      You might feel that, as an employer, that it is ok to infect employee's kids with a deadly disease only you have a treatment for, to inspire employee "loyalty". The law says you can't do that. There's lots of stuff you, as an employer, can not do because allowing you to do that stuff damages other's. A good government will not let you dump the cost of those things on society as an externality instead of decreasing your profits. You can't legally dump feces in our drinking water, why should you be allowed to dictate whether employees can have kids, much less prevent them from spending time with them at their most vulnerable point in development. Just because you don't care who they grow up to be years later does NOT mean society at large doesn't have an interest in it.

      We could and perhaps should mandate taxes for child care, along with education and other things, but the current view is to let the employer cover the cost. After all, if the business fails due to those costs, another will spring forth from the "creative destruction" of the market. And if you don't advocate for a free market, well there you go, rules and regulations as approved by the representatives of the people.

      nor scar kids by tak

    14. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sir are are incorrect in ragards to the law about leave. I mention this only in passing to the fact that you seem to beleive that shared paternity leave is something that the woman legally has control over. The law stipulates that father's and mothers have the right to apply for it concurrently, consecutively or however they wish and without need for approval from either spouse. A mother can't deny a father the right to a portion of the paternity leave legally. Now morally and emotionally they might try and I don't think it is fair for the father to give in and take no time with their child.

      Oh and yes I was a stay at home dad for months....1) right after the baby was born for a few weeks to help out as much as I could and then 2) as primary caregiver after the solid food days were regular because before that the best person to stay home with the baby is the mom.

    15. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      women who have children don't have time to work but men who have children do?

      Pretty much. You know why? It's because men in similar situations who work and have children typically have a wife to whom he offloads the child-rearing responsibilities.

      It's an under-discussed fact, but one reason you don't see many women CEOs is because it's damn near impossible to be a CEO of a major company and raise children. It's a massive priority conflict. You can't simultaneously prioritize the good of the company and be the primary adult in charge of rearing a child.

      Men can get away with being CEO and having a family because we culturally allow/expect men to be emotionally distant, absentee fathers. A man who spends late nights at the office is considered a good family man for "being a good provider". In contrast, we expect women to be more present in raising children. A woman who spends late nights at the office is neglecting her family. The true problem is not so much that women have children, it's that to be competitive as an employee, you have to neglect your family.

      What percentage of women's down time for giving birth is larger than a man's golfing time?

      The actual "giving birth" is a relatively small time commitment. It's being there for the child, picking them up from school, tucking them in at night, going to parent-teacher conferences, being able to tend to them when they're sick, etc. which really eats into things. You can't simultaneously give a presentation to the Tokyo office and pick up Jimmy from school. It doesn't matter how much HR puts "respect for family" in the company's "list of values", promotions will always go to people who are reliable and get stuff done, not those who have to leave in the middle of things to tend to other things. That goes for people who are male as well as those who are female -- probably doubly so for males, as again, we don't expect men to be all that involved in their child's life. (Women get a "good mother" credit that men miss out on.)

    16. Re:Because studies show ... by antdude · · Score: 1

      Wow, which sporter announcer was this?

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    17. Re:Because studies show ... by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      Wait.... I'm not arguing paternity leave isn't good, but who gets cheated when you opt to have a child and get paid by your employer for nothing? So an employer gives an extra paid week off, and you call him "cheated?" The culture of entitlement at it's best.

      It is part of the labor contract.

      Is it? If you negotiated that with your employer, it's one thing; if it's a government mandate that people be paid for not working, then the idea that the employee is being "cheated" for only getting a week off is absolute bullshit. I'm not arguing employers shouldn't offer it, I'm arguing against the entitlement mentality.

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    18. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In Finland both parents get their own leaves. Some on it is (was?) tradeable to the other parent, but not all. Kinda evens up the risk from employers point of view.

    19. Re:Because studies show ... by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      If my wife has a misbehaving child in public, she gets a totally different attitude then I do. Dad's get a lot of slack.

    20. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wait.... I'm not arguing paternity leave isn't good, but who gets cheated when you opt to have a child and get paid by your employer for nothing? So an employer gives an extra paid week off, and you call him "cheated?" The culture of entitlement at it's best.

      It is part of the labor contract.

      Is it? If you negotiated that with your employer, it's one thing; if it's a government mandate that people be paid for not working, then the idea that the employee is being "cheated" for only getting a week off is absolute bullshit. I'm not arguing employers shouldn't offer it, I'm arguing against the entitlement mentality.

      Nice strawman, don't worry about it as it is not mandated by the federal government:
      http://www.dol.gov/dol/topic/workhours/vacation_leave.htm
      The Fair Labor Standards Act (FLSA) does not require payment for time not worked, such as vacations, sick leave or federal or other holidays. These benefits are matters of agreement between an employer and an employee (or the employee's representative).

      If your local government has regulations, move (or vote, but moving is more effective). That's the whole point of a federal system. So I don't have to live in Texas, birthplace of American Ebola, because "Freedom from Healthcare!"

    21. Re:Because studies show ... by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Boomer Esiason. The player was Daniel Murphy and Boomer suggested that Daniel should have had his wife get a C-Section before opening day so that he wouldn't miss any games. Because having your wife have invasive surgery is a valid response to missing a game or two. http://www.today.com/parents/radio-host-rips-mlb-player-paternity-leave-suggests-c-section-2D79476676

      Co-host Craig Carton also implied that Daniel should have just left his wife and newborn son after 24 hours and "get your ass back to your team and you play baseball." Because, apparently, that's all these sportscasters think dads are good for: Earning money for their families. Actually helping out in other ways is not a dad's job in their minds. (I'm sure my wife is glad that I disagree with them and took as much time as I could.)

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    22. Re:Because studies show ... by antdude · · Score: 1

      Thanks and interesting. :)

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    23. Re:Because studies show ... by RobinH · · Score: 1

      Obviously when I said the mother "refuses" I don't mean she legally keeps him from taking any, I just mean that she "discusses" the matter with him and explains why she'll be taking all or most of it. Sheesh.

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    24. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Where do you draw the line?

      Because I don't believe willfully stupid people are entitled to live. You, being a stupid person, will probably argue that you are entitled to live.

      You can't argue against entitlements, when you know damn well that you enjoy many entitlements.

    25. Re:Because studies show ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the military wanted you to have a wife and child, they would have issued them to you.

  11. Wow! by jargonburn · · Score: 4, Insightful

    emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings.

    Women are human beings?
    I am seriously appalled at that parting shot. I think choosing to pursue a career vs raising a family is a perfectly valid option. Bonus points if you can do both, but there are trade-offs for any of the choices.

    Also

    encourage women to stay with their employer longer

    Yeah, yeah, that's fine. "Encourage." Right up until the employer starts pressuring a woman into doing so and committing to her career before she can move ahead. For instance, unofficially giving preference to those who have done so when promoting/hiring. Might be a non-issue, as a woman could still choose to have children unless she's taken steps to remove that possibility.

    1. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Promoting people who have shown more dedication and put in more hours? When will the discrimination end!

    2. Re:Wow! by zlives · · Score: 4, Insightful

      we have your eggs, get back to work

    3. Re:Wow! by jargonburn · · Score: 1

      Women are human beings?

      Slashdot ate my [/Sarcasm] tag, if it wasn't apparent from the context.

    4. Re:Wow! by RyoShin · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that was my thought on skimming TFA. If the company pays, what happens if the woman leaves the job (be it quitting, fired, laid off)? Does she have to pay back some or all of the amount the company paid in order to keep access to her eggs? What if the company goes under? I couldn't find mention of this in the article.

      Also, the line quoted by jargonburn ("helping women be more productive human beings") is the parting quote from the article said by Christy Jones, founder of Extend Fertility. I expected this to be a line from some old male, so seeing it come from a woman is a tad boggling as I also think the line is demeaning towards women.

    5. Re:Wow! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People who work more than 40-50 hours a week should be fired because most of their work time is unproductive and error-prone.

      I look for the people who don't want to work more than 40 hours a week because those are the efficient workers.

  12. Re: Did I just read that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable

    <sarcasm amount="5000">Yeah, because clearly it's far more emotionally and culturally productive for a woman to focus on her career. Sacrificing a career to actually focus on family is a poor decision that clearly offers absolutely no valuable cultural benefits whatsoever.</sarcasm>

    See, we have two people flaming that sentence for different aspects (but both because of the same general line of reasoning). In conclusion: shame on Dave Knott for writing that atrocious sentence.

  13. Free money. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    1) Be male.
    2a) Just take your extra dozen K.
    or
    2b) Sue the fuck out of Facebook until they pay up.

  14. As a male by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Is this now something that will be added to my "required" healthcare coverage?
     
    CAPTACH: circus

    1. Re:As a male by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shhhh, don't give Obama any ideas!

    2. Re:As a male by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As original posting AC I agree we shouldn't go along with wingnuts, IE we shouldn't let Obama know.

  15. Way to kick reproduction right in the womb by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "helping women be more productive human beings" by not reproducing.....

  16. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by Detonia · · Score: 1

    be more productive

    I think this is referring more to maternity leave, 'women's problems', Etc. than just "oh you're a woman and therefore less good at things than men".
    When someone says something like this, there can be good reasoning behind it; it's not inherently sexist or misogynistic.

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  17. I have good news for you, my lord. by fustakrakich · · Score: 1

    The war has begun.

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  18. humanity... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    looks like the story line from Idiocracy. Rich and career focused people put lives on hold and need expensive fertility treatments, while Cleatus is out knocking up the cheer squad.

    1. Re:humanity... by AutodidactLabrat · · Score: 0

      As opposed to what? Having Andrew the Mullet Wearing Biker drone spread his defective but white genes around?

  19. Wait, what? by AutodidactLabrat · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "help women be more productive as human beings" is NOT the same as the result of this process.
    What Apple et al are doing is helping women be more PROFITABLE FOR THE SHAREHOLDERS as work units, not as Human Beings.
    Seriously, if "human being" really means "Work Unit" to these people, maybe it is time to find another employer.

  20. That's nice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I hope they enjoy raising autistic children.

  21. "helping women be more productive human beings" by ThomasBHardy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I just sit and stare that that last sentence in the summary and shake my head.

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    1. Re:"helping women be more productive human beings" by asylumx · · Score: 1

      That is a quote from Christy Jones, founder of Extend Fertility, a company that offers and promotes egg freezing across the country. That is NOT a quote from Apple or Facebook.

    2. Re:"helping women be more productive human beings" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, women are so unproductive. Any kind of help is welcome and necessary.

      (The sarcasm tags won't fit on your screen.)

  22. Sheesh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I thought the fridge at my work was a mess.

  23. So... by kaladorn · · Score: 4, Insightful

    There's no need for balance! There's only work. And then dying. Now shut up and like it, dispensable interchangeable resource creature!

    Seriously, our biologically best childbearing years are likely in the 18-25 range. Maturity wise, we're probably better parents often in the 28-35 range. Later than that, you're going to have some issues. Keeping up with agile, active kids at 35+ is more draining than it was at 18, 25 or even 30. The odds of complications are also higher. So are the odds of small families (the wear and tear of a pregnancy at older ages is higher and people want to have a second or third child less often as a result). That means kids get denied some of the social context they might have if people were having slightly bigger families (and starting younger). As an older parent, you also tend to be involved in fewer physical activities with the child. (I'm not saying in any event that some parents aren't able to keep up or aren't fully involved in sports and other activities, but on average, fewer older parents will be).

    The companies are mercenary. They'll coddle you as long as they think you are useful and replacing you would be more expensive. They'll try to convince you to work hard, long hours and remunerate you not with what any objective standard thinks you deserve, but the least they can get away with (why you generally get more from moving companies). And they'll dispense with you rapidly if you show any signs of cracks from illness, stress or if your skillset simply no longer fits their needs or if their business case changes. Loyalty is a conveniently fostered illusion (a convenient fiction for HR types).

    Also, your odds of getting sick or dying are higher as you age. This means the chance the kids lose their parents at vulnerable times in their lives goes up. If you are younger, this is less likely and your kids stand a better chance of getting to maturity and hopefully independence and emotional readiness before having to deal with the loss of a parent.

    Our society is kind of backwards. I hate to say it, but those in Utah had some parts of it right. I had a friend from Corel go down as part of the team picking up the Word Perfect code base. He noted that down there, their universities and colleges were filled with late twenties women. They had elected to have kids in the 18-25 zone and had them up to school age by their late twenties so they could pursue a higher education and a career once the kids were in school. This model has all sorts of benefits biologically and statistically. (Again, not saying individual cases, and even a fair number of them overall, of parents of older ages don't work out just fine... mine did, albeit with many health scares and a lot less involvement in physical activities or sports).

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  24. A good cultural change by Mr_Wisenheimer · · Score: 0

    Women are not going to start flocking to Computer Science classrooms, but at least it shows the industry is trying to change the huge gender imbalance, worse in CS than in physics and engineering.

    1. Re:A good cultural change by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      they change the balance by what - taking the eggs and making clones of the females that are already in? That is what I call planning long time ahead.

  25. I'm my own grandfather. by Payden+K.+Pringle · · Score: 0

    Ok, not really, but let's just say someone did this, then somehow, the egg stays frozen for *generations*. I'm not sure about how well the genetic material would hold up being frozen for that long, but I'm assuming it could last quite a while.

    Then a descendant decides to use the egg to produce a child... who is effectively that person's great^n uncle/aunt.

    I gotta say. That'd be weird to explain to the kid, keep up with medical records, and a slew of other things, I'm sure.

    A weird idea, but something that might end up happening at some point or another in the near to far future. How would you handle diseases for that? It could be a potential pandora's box.

    1. Re:I'm my own grandfather. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A woman recently gave birth with the same womb she herself was borne from. Her mother donated her uterus. A girl was borne fairly recently with three genetic parents. She has her father's DNA, her mother's DNA, and a third person's mitochondrial DNA, which would otherwise have come from the mother. Then there is the whole issue of surrogate birth, egg donation, and even in vitro fertilization (since fertilization should only happen when a man deposits his sperm in/near* a woman's vagina, does that mean that the Dr/technician who performed the fertilization is a parent). I'm very pro-tech, but when it comes to reproduction, I believe it should be left alone until the child has been naturally fertilized and implanted itself in the uterus.

      *There was a recent case of a young virgin (10-12 years of age, I believe) who became pregnant after she and her male friend were playing around, and he ejaculated on her vulva/labia, without ever penetrating. Improbably, the sperm found its way into the vagina, to the uterus, and up to her ovaries, where a child was conceived and subsequently implanted in the uterus. At first, her father was suspected of impregnating her by using a syringe thin enough not to tear her hymen. After a DNA test clearly ruled him out, and implicated her friend, the rest of the story came out.

  26. Idiocracy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is anyone else reminded of Idiocracy? The question is whether or not these women (as a group, statistically) will have more children than they would have if they had just taken maternity leave/quit.

    Intelligent/wealthier people need to start having MORE children as they did in the past. And I am dead serious.

    1. Re:Idiocracy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Humans need to stop having children for a few years at a time. Population control needs to happen. I do not wish to bring a child in to this world given it's current direction. Why would I do that to someone?

    2. Re:Idiocracy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The dumb ones will do it anyway. If the world's "direction" goes straight to hell, a lot of people will die.

      Let's make sure that a decent amount of the ones that live are intelligent.

      Personally, I don't think we're going to any zombie apocalypse, but the plot of Idiocracy isn't out of the question yet.

    3. Re:Idiocracy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As much as I hate to, I agree.

      People who are:
      - ill-educated
      - dogma-driven
      - less intelligent (e.g., not capable of taking adequate precautions against unwanted pregnancies)

      do tend to outbreed people who are well-educated, evidence-driven, and intelligent.

      And while kids are not a bad thing, kids with lousy genetic inheritance born into communities which have folkways which will hobble them are significantly less likely to succeed in any fashion other than breeding another generation of the same.

      Larry Niven novels' postulating notwithstanding, any attempts to regulate fertility based on merit and available resources will result in a serious backlash from all parts of the political spectrum. Having children is seen as a human right, not to be abridged even in cases of gross incompetence and inability. Until that changes - that is, until the great masses realize that much of their misery stems from too much human competition for limited resources, and that restricted fertility will enable more for all *in the future* (e.g., deferred benefits), nothing will change.

      This does, of course, assume that there is a fair arbiter regarding who gets to breed, which is another significant challenge, which I'm not going to dive into.

  27. What a sad commentary by irrational_design · · Score: 2

    "helping women be more productive human beings" More productive than a mother?

    1. Re:What a sad commentary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Being a mother is easy. That's why we have 7 billion people. In fact, it's counter productive to society at this moment.

    2. Re:What a sad commentary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Being a mother is easy. That's why we have 7 billion people. In fact, it's counter productive to society at this moment.

      You seem to have confused motherhood with birthing a child.

    3. Re:What a sad commentary by Bengie · · Score: 1

      Being a "mom" is easy, being a "mother" is a full time job.

  28. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by zlives · · Score: 1

    Yes, the "good reasoning" is that raising children is less important than corporate profits.

  29. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by zlives · · Score: 1

    more of a comment on society as a whole.

  30. who is in control anymore? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Since when was being Ebeneser Scrooge the embodiment of all that was worth fighting for? Well, I guess we can be clear since it's been repeated about a billion and more times in human history, that people are greedy and will sacrifice anything to incrementally improve "productivity". The reason behind why people are freezing their eggs is because the whole notion of initiative has been broken and twisted to such an extent that we use it to justify everything that we do. Even if nothing is resolved or if nothing useful is brought forward. It's thoroughly infected every aspect of education and our work life. Guess what. The earth doesn't run on timelines. Anything can happen. Learning to adapt to these problems is more important than just ratcheting up our ability to overextend and crash and burn.

  31. Exceptionally bad language by Overzeetop · · Score: 2

    They say the art of language is dead.

    The asshole in me wants to tell you that you take that as a slap in the face because you already, on some level, believe that you are a less productive employee (person, citizen).

    In reality, this is true in the sense that your company does not come first, your family does. Your time is split, and the profit of your employer is not your number one priority, your family is. (As it should be, I should add). There is no politically correct way to say, "we're going to offer you the option to delay your family obligations so it doesn't get in the way of your value to the corporation". Because, lets face it, kids are a selfish thing to do. You're going to spend half a million dollars and remove a good 20,000 hours of "work time" from the system, plus (statstically) cost the government another $150k in education just so you can have a child, when there are really too many humans on the planet already.

    It's true of employer sponsored daycare, too. They're really saying that you can't be a good mom and make us money, but we can take care of your kid so you can concentrate on what matters to us - productivity. Heck, it's been implied by all the corporations who (unabashedly) say, "we'll pay you enough so that your wife doesn't have to work," but what they really mean is we expect 100% from you and that means none of that pick-up-the-kids, go-to-every-little-league-game bullshit that keeps you from focusing on your work.

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    1. Re:Exceptionally bad language by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Eh. You're selflessly creating half a million of demand. Those corporations should be glad you help them make dollars.

  32. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    To a corporation, everything is less important than profits... unless it negatively impacts profits.

  33. shooting themselves in the foot by Charliemopps · · Score: 4, Interesting

    And in 20yrs they'll be screaming that there are now tech workers.

    Where did they all go?
    Well back in 2014 you paid all the smart women not to have kids so....

    Brilliant!

  34. blatant discrimination by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They should atleast invest in some pr0n company or proper sexdolls technology - those available currently are crap. Quite frankly I do not understand this - females have all the vibrators of the world and males still have to wank manually as the toys so far are really bad. It is time google! Invest now in proper stuff not in production of not needed humans even if delayed by cryogentech.

  35. Trolly troll troll by Overzeetop · · Score: 0

    Part of the dumb fuck right wing, I see. You should learn more about the government you hate (and the FMLA) and the corporations you love (and why they don't value you enough to buy you better healthcare).

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    1. Re:Trolly troll troll by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And also how birth control works...

  36. Re:Sexism by blippo · · Score: 4, Interesting

    No, this is sexism against women.

    First - freezing the eggs is simple, but getting them is not. It's not risk-free, and not at all a non-event. If you do not believe me, stab yourself in the balls with knitting needles 20 times after giving yourself a hormone injection every day for a few weeks.

    Second. Signalling that healthy women should consider infertility treatment is just absurd. If they work so much now so they don't have time to find someone, is this really the solution to the correct problem?

    Helping women (and men) with fertility problems is noble and good (maybe - it's also very hard to adopt children.) But pitched like this, it's just sick.

  37. Re:Sexism by SydShamino · · Score: 1

    >> If they work so much now so they don't have time to find someone, is this really the solution to the correct problem?

    Why do you presume they haven't yet "found the right man"? Maybe they just don't want to have kids yet, but realize that it's far better/cheaper/safer to extract eggs at 24 instead of 38?

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  38. An Obscenity by argStyopa · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings."

    Some people would assert that raising happy, healthy, well-adjusted and well-loved children makes a more "productive" and "valuable" human being than working at a law firm or technology company.

    But hey, I'm old fashioned.

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    1. Re:An Obscenity by jo_ham · · Score: 1

      Yes, and some people might believe the opposite - that they're more productive in their prime childbearing years working at a company rather than raising a child, but would like the opportunity to put off parenthood until later in life.

      Now they have the *option* of doing so without having to pay out of pocket.

      They had literally exactly the same opportunity before, but they had to pay for it themselves. Now it's an optional perk.

      Call me old fashioned, but I believe the comments in this article are a hilarious storm in a tea cup.

      I wonder if the spin would have been different if it were Google and Canonical announcing this? Nah, surely not. Slashdot isn't partisan in the slightest.

    2. Re:An Obscenity by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      I wonder if the spin would have been different if it were Google and Canonical announcing this? Nah, surely not. Slashdot isn't partisan in the slightest.

      If it were Canonical there's be a royal turd-storm over how long this latest initiative will last before they can it, same as so many other products in the past.

      And if it were google, with that same last line about allowing women to be more productive, it would be the same reaction, because it's stupid as all heck.

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    3. Re:An Obscenity by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Hey, there's nothing wrong with prioritizing your life over your childrens', it just generally doesn't produce very good people.

      And if you think that building a better career so you can have more wealth and give your child more opportunities is worth the tradeoff, you probably don't really understand how much of parenting is about stuff other than dollars, anyway.

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    4. Re:An Obscenity by jo_ham · · Score: 1

      Who said anything about wealth? I'm sure wealth might play some part of it - being more financially secure is certainly a benefit, but it's not the only reason people wait until later in life to have children.

      And if you think that building a better career so you can have more wealth and give your child more opportunities is worth the tradeoff, you probably don't really understand how much of parenting is about stuff other than dollars, anyway.

      Holy strawman batman! It's a reading of over 500 mega-bendy-straws!

    5. Re:An Obscenity by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      We're talking about people who are storing their eggs so they can WORK. They're not storing their eggs so they can go save starving children in Ethiopia, or be an astronaut.

      Yeah, it's an astonishing assumption that they're doing that to accumulate wealth? I guess power is an alternative goal. Big office? Nice title? Pick one.

      Indeed, it isn't the only reason people wait until later to have kids, of course not.

      But the CONTEXT here is companies offering it as a benefit, not the general concept of waiting to have kids.

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    6. Re:An Obscenity by jo_ham · · Score: 1

      I'll pick one you missed off: life experience. Although from your comments so far, it seems you believe that all you do at work is make money, get a big office and get a title. I can see why, given your limited experience with this, that you might think it is a "new fangled" idea.

      Yes, yes, we'll get off your lawn.

  39. EA is going to do this next, I can feel it. by ErichTheRed · · Score: 1

    This is a pretty good example of a policy that, even if it's well-intentioned, kind of sends up a red flag about the company. This would tell me that employees who do not give over their souls to the company and complain about 90-hour death march weeks on projects will be replaced by the 100 other women lining up for their jobs.

    The other thing all these hard-working 20something women need to look into is the actual amount of effort required to turn those frozen eggs back into kids. My wife went through 2 successful and a few unsuccessful rounds of IVF in our mid to late 30s simply because we didn't think we would have problems having kids after our lives stabilized a little. It is *not* a straightforward process. Fertility treatment, even if partially covered by insurance is insanely expensive. It's also invasive, painful and not guaranteed to work. Fertility clinics make huge coin on 40something executives who all of a sudden decide they want kids. Because of this, doctors charge rates on a similar scale to plastic surgery -- huge inelastic demand, high cost, and a self-selecting affluent clientele.

    The fact that Facebook and Apple will pay for services like this isn't the problem -- the problem is the message it sends. I do agree, especially after being a dad of 2 kids, that people need to wait until their lives stabilize to some degree. People we know who had their kids earlier are perpetually in debt and miserable. (We're perpetually not in debt, but still dealing with huge fixed expenses, so I think we're at least a little better off. Plus, when you come home and both of them run up to you and yell "Daddy!!!!" you kind of forget that you don't have a ton of money saved outside of retirement.) But the corollary of this is that parents who wait until they're 40-plus will probably miss out on a lot of the "being a parent" experiences just because they're too old or still being workaholics.

    That work-life balance that everyone seems so quick to want to get rid of needs to come swinging back towards the middle a little bit, in my opinion. I am not opposed to working hard, even for someone else. I regularly put in more than the required effort at my job, and have been rewarded for it by my employer. I am opposed to companies expecting (and getting) 80+ hour work weeks rather than staffing projects properly. Having those same companies tell their female employees to put off that messy child rearing thing until they have extracted their best work sets a very bad precedent.

  40. Re:Sexism by blippo · · Score: 1

    The risks for the egg-removing is the same more or less, but the chance of a successful implant is decreased while the risks of pregnancy increases with age.

    Technically, you freeze zygotes if you have a partner, but that's perhaps what they meant.

  41. "Productive" has a pretty clear definition by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    So, PRODUCING human beings isn't more "productive" than working, huh? Nice vocabulary you've got there.

    I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If women want to take all of the jobs, I'm good with that. I'm looking forward to being a 1950's house wife in 2015 -- you know, with modern kitchen appliances, big-screen tv's, music in every room, and modern cleaning tools. I'll even throw in DIY home renovations if it means that I don't need to deal with commuting, clients, bosses, and, you know, actual work. We won't even discuss spending time with children.

    Men, it's time to let women work hard and pay for everything. I'm ready to stay home and cook -- I love to cook.

    1. Re:"Productive" has a pretty clear definition by Frobnicator · · Score: 1

      I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If women want to take all of the jobs, I'm good with that. I'm looking forward to being a 1950's house wife in 2015 -- you know, with modern kitchen appliances, big-screen tv's, music in every room, and modern cleaning tools. I'll even throw in DIY home renovations if it means that I don't need to deal with commuting, clients, bosses, and, you know, actual work. We won't even discuss spending time with children. Men, it's time to let women work hard and pay for everything. I'm ready to stay home and cook -- I love to cook.

      I did the "stay at home Dad" thing for a few years. It is a pretty sweet deal in many respects. Today I do contract development work and am at home as often as I can be.

      Many of the parenting tasks were mind numbing and thankless, but that's so different from software development. My wife would sometimes complain that I was putting too much effort into child activities, but I think think the results were awesome. Not only did I get to spend a bunch of time with my kids during their formative years, I got to live many things vicariously (I was a latchkey child and missed a lot), I had frequent trips and annual passes to local zoos and the local aviary, but we also spent a lot of time at learning-oriented parks, museums, libraries, and more. We did lots of tech experiments and science stuff, including playing around with microcontrollers and circuit boards and servos, dabbling in chemistry, making model rockets, and assorted other geek stuff. The kids are all intellectually skilled, great readers, and both talk about and do big things. One of my daughters (now in high school) complained about how petty most of her classmates are, more concerned about friends not immediately returning texts or teachers demanding that they actually turn in homework (gasp!) rather than bigger issues, and I openly commiserate while inwardly praise just how awesome she turned out.

      Yes, stay at home if you can. It is worth it. Women who want to work all day can have it! Contract from home in your spare time, software development is a great field for that.

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  42. "Game-changing" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Anyone who says "game changer" or any of its variants automatically sounds like an idiot to me.

  43. *Actual* blatant discrimination by neminem · · Score: 1

    Your post was a joke, but my post is not: I would be extremely annoyed, as male, if I were working for one of these companies, that I would be unable to take advantage of that offer. I would love to be a father at some point, that point not being anytime soon, and we both have to work. Would drive me crazy knowing that if I were the female, the problem would be solved, but being male, not so much.

    I don't work for either of them anyway, I work for a much smaller company that is rather unlikely to offer any such thing, anyway, so whatever. Just too bad we weren't born a little later - I feel like this technology is going to become commonplace (and therefore affordable) in the reasonably near future, but not probably reasonably near *enough*. Oh well.

  44. Good in that it provides another option, but... by unimacs · · Score: 1

    The reality is that balancing a career with being a parent is typically much more difficult for women. In most relationships, it's the woman that take's on the greater responsibility when it comes to child care, - whether she is working full time or not.

    Given that, choosing to be a parent can have a bigger impact on a woman's career than a man's. Even as a man I've made career choices that I wouldn't have made if I didn't have my responsibilities as a parent to consider. It's worse for women.

    So while I think it's great that companies are trying to give women more flexibility as to when in their lives to have kids, I question whether delaying it beyond their normal child bearing years is a good idea anyway. It just creates more problems later on. If you wait until your 40's to have kids, now you're approaching or are at retirement age when they are just getting out of college. This creates some potential financial issues if you're not careful. Were you saving for their college education and your own retirement? Also by the time they are having kids of their own, you are now approaching an age where they might also be helping taking care of you, - all while trying to juggle a career. Sucks to be them.

    1. Re:Good in that it provides another option, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And like the lady in the news said, freezing the eggs will give no quarantees you can have kids later on, so basically it's a gamble, you might make more money, but you might also lose the possibility to have the kids + all the extra crap you have to endure when you are older with the infant.

    2. Re:Good in that it provides another option, but... by ErichTheRed · · Score: 1

      You bring up a good point, one that causes a lot of friction between the generations. Since Millennials are delaying or skipping the whole parenthood thing, there is often a comparison in workplaces between the 20something who just got done pulling 2 all nighters to get the (whatever) working vs. the 30 or 40something who had to take another sick day because they had to take care of their sick kid. In bad workplaces it amounts to a subtle form of age discrimination. In more enlightened workplaces (like mine, thank God...) there's a better balance where everyone pitches in where they can.

      Choosing to be a parent really does mean giving up a lot of freedom. I could make 2 or 3 times my salary if I were willing to travel around the country/world 300 days out of the year and parachute into and out of various consulting gigs. And not that I would want to, but I could work for a crazy SV startup and play the stock option lottery. The problem is that parents who have jobs like this don't keep their families for very long unless their spouses are really understanding or perfectly happy to just keep spending the money you make and say nothing. But, once you do have a kid or two, your priorities shift. I actually want to be home at a reasonable hour and have a stable enough job to make sure we can pay for things and keep the lights on. A 20something "rockstar" IT consultant doesn't have any worries beyond rent and buying grown up toys. (My grown up toy budget is almost zero now, but the other toy budget is quite a bit more!)

  45. Slippery Slope by BobSutan · · Score: 1

    From this article on the subject:
    http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/20...

    "While still uncommon, egg-freezing allows women to remove and store eggs when they are in their prime fertility window, which often overlaps with prime career-advancement years. The quality of a woman’s eggs declines as she gets older, putting many women in a bind about whether to have children in their 20s and 30s. Egg freezing allows women to stockpile healthy eggs while advancing their careers or waiting to meet a partner with whom they’d like to start a family.

    But the procedure is expensive, costing approximately $10,000 per round, and many doctors recommend two rounds to ensure the best possible batch of cells. In general, health insurance plans don’t cover the elective procedure."

    The last sentence is key. You can bet we are inching towards this $10,000 elective procedure being mandated by American health insurance, which means men will be the ones paying for it through taxes as demonstrated here:

    http://money.cnn.com/2013/05/1...

    The sheer fact Apple and facebook are doing this is a "slippery slope". Give feminists an inch, and they will take a mile, and then blame you for not giving two miles. And the idea of giving $10,000 to a man to start a family? Nahhhhhhhh.

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    1. Re:Slippery Slope by unimacs · · Score: 3, Insightful

      From this article on the subject: http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/20...

      "While still uncommon, egg-freezing allows women to remove and store eggs when they are in their prime fertility window, which often overlaps with prime career-advancement years. The quality of a woman’s eggs declines as she gets older, putting many women in a bind about whether to have children in their 20s and 30s. Egg freezing allows women to stockpile healthy eggs while advancing their careers or waiting to meet a partner with whom they’d like to start a family.

      But the procedure is expensive, costing approximately $10,000 per round, and many doctors recommend two rounds to ensure the best possible batch of cells. In general, health insurance plans don’t cover the elective procedure."

      The last sentence is key. You can bet we are inching towards this $10,000 elective procedure being mandated by American health insurance, which means men will be the ones paying for it through taxes as demonstrated here:

      http://money.cnn.com/2013/05/1...

      The sheer fact Apple and facebook are doing this is a "slippery slope". Give feminists an inch, and they will take a mile, and then blame you for not giving two miles. And the idea of giving $10,000 to a man to start a family? Nahhhhhhhh.

      If a couple decides to delay having kids and takes advantage of this benefit, doesn't the husband (a male most likely) save $10,000 as well?

      And last I checked, women were taxpayers too. ;)

  46. If they aren't paying for men to freeze sperm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    then this is a liberal leftist attempt at feel good feminism, ie., another form of acceptable sexism.

  47. It's a TRAP! by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1, Insightful

    So, if you leave the company or are terminated, will they continue to hold these eggs for you until you want them at no charge? Will they pay for the implanting and provide maternity benefits even though you're no longer an employee - which they would have had to do if you had chosen to get preggy while you were working for them?

    "Oh, sorry, you're over 40, but we terminated you because "your skills are now outdated." Thanks for saving us a lot more than if you had decided to have a child earlier on, sucker. And good luck trying to find and keep a job as a 40-something pregnant woman with "outdated skills."

    Allowing women to have "a more productive life?" Only if you mistake your career as "your life."

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    1. Re:It's a TRAP! by zlives · · Score: 1

      wonder if they can just freeze me for the next 40 years... let my 401 mature and unthaw me.
      hmmm they could just offer this AS the retirement plan. we invest your last paycheck, freeze you until its worth something. Yes your whole family is dead by the time we thaw you, but at least your eggs/future children will be thawed with you :)

  48. How about Employee's Spouse? by businessnerd · · Score: 1

    As a male, I would have loved to have this type of coverage through my employer for my spouse. When my wife and I decided to have a baby, we had to go the IVF route due to a condition my wife has. Since we knew we wanted to have a second, but the odds of doing so naturally were very low, we chose to freeze/store the extra eggs they retrieved as part of the procedure. My employer's health plan had a maximum lifetime coverage of $25,000 for fertility services, but it does not cover the cost to freeze and store eggs. Freeze and storage cost us $1200/year. When money was really tight, you really start to weigh your options as to whether you keep storing and pay that high price, or quit and free up the cash.

    I think my anecdote also highlights a different use case for egg storage. While the summary, and most of the comments here focus on using the egg storage as a means of delaying having children, this can also be vital to whether you can have children at all or how many you can have. But I'm not surprised at the narrow focus of discussion. This seems to be the case with most controversial women's health issues. The birth control coverage issue I found particularly irritating. The argument was solely about whether employers should be "subsidizing a promiscuous lifestyle" yet hardly ever made mention of the fact that a large minority of women take birth control for a wide array of other reasons that are directly related to their health and well being. But that's mostly related to a woman's period, hormones and disorders/diseases that affect a woman's reproductive system and "that's totally disgusting. Shut up and go away!"

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  49. Re:Sexism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Exactly. As healthy lifespan increases, as a society we need to either have fewer children or start having them later in life. Having children later in life is particularly appealing to anyone who spent 4-8 years getting a BS/MS/PhD, significantly offsetting their productive, earning years. We're effectively going through our lifecycle much slower now then 1000, or even 100 years ago. In the (maybe not so) far off future, it may be that people routinely live healthily into their second century and are thinking about starting a family at around 60 or 70. Technologies like freezing eggs (though I realize this is only a tiny piece) will enable that future.

  50. How the hell did we ever get off the savannah? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd add that, as a man, I'd like to see paternity time increased. When my first child was born, I was lucky enough to be able to take a week off of work to help. My wife had just given birth and while I can't ever completely know how hard that is

    Please don't take this as criticism, as I am lumping myself in also -- but now and again when I read something like this, I wonder how on earth our species survived before we had refridgeration, let alone were living in huts or, even further back, caves.

    Is the baseline of our lives so cushy now that things that were considered commonplace are now considered extremes? Billions of people figured it out before you and I and were able to handle it... so it can't be an extreme, though I'd wager if your "extreme" scale tops at having to get up to change the channel as opposed to invading huns my grandparents will be dumbstruck by just how *hard* it is to cook for yourself every day instead of having the robot do it.

    1. Re:How the hell did we ever get off the savannah? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We DIDN'T survive; we died like flies and almost all of us before 40 years old. Life was "solitary, poore, nasty, brutish, and short." as Hobbes put it.

  51. re: work/life balance by King_TJ · · Score: 1

    I believe there *are* companies out there where you can make it the main focus of your life, working for them, and actually have some justification for doing so.

    In the current tech sector, there are really only a few that come to mind. I'd say Google would be one. Apple would be another. Facebook tries to be yet another, but I have mixed feelings on whether or not they've really "arrived" in that way.

    I'm talking about companies that have earned a lot of respect for continuously doing things that make people's lives better. There are so many of us who go through life lacking "purpose". People get up every day and go to a job, just because that's what you're "supposed to do", come home and do a lot of little, relatively pointless stuff, pay the required bills... rinse and repeat.

    Whether male or female, I can understand why some people would find that sense of purpose in working for one of these companies that's actually changing the course of society's future. (I mean, if you're talking about communication tools alone -- look how different things are today with the advent of the smartphone. Look how much easy access we have to music thanks to the digital music revolution. Look at what cellular data connected tablet devices allow people to do.) You can say what you will about Apple, Google, or even Intel or Microsoft ... but working on the right projects for one of them HAS to be more rewarding than working as a gas station attendant, a retail sales person at a clothing store, or any number of other misc. jobs out there.

    So yeah... it's not for everyone, but I get why *some* people would actually want the work/life balance tipped heavily towards their work. It's just not something you want to feel is FORCED upon you, and probably not healthy at all if your job isn't one of the real "movers and shakers" that actually accomplishes major things.

  52. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by Detonia · · Score: 1

    True.
    But as long as it's not being forced on anyone (which I'm sure will, unfortunately, happen), it's their choice. I don't see a problem with that.

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  53. Are Kindergardens illegal? by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

    Or is it illegal for a company to found a kindergarden and afternoon care and offer its service to the employees?

    This egg freezing sounds retarded, how long is a woman supposed to postpone having children?

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  54. Creepy Corporations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    HellO! Does it bother anyone that this is fucking creepy??

  55. Usually not work related by tomhath · · Score: 1

    This was discussed a while back; it isn't married women who are freezing their eggs. Most women who want to freeze their eggs do so because they don't want to be single mothers. Finding a husband comes first, the frozen eggs are an insurance policy in case that doesn't happen when they're still young. Although one could make the argument that working too much limits their social life, that doesn't seem to be the problem. The real problem is that once they graduate from college "All the good men are married or gay".

  56. Boosting femal productivity by jwbales · · Score: 0

    It's great to see private companies taking steps to boost productivity by offering career women this excellent opportunity.

  57. Bonus pay for having NO KIDS by jsepeta · · Score: 0

    there's already too many people for the planet to support. Leading-edge companies should be paying bonuses to employees for NOT having kids.

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    1. Re:Bonus pay for having NO KIDS by unimacs · · Score: 1

      I would guess that most people who put off having kids until later end up having fewer kids anyway. If couples have two kids or less, statistically that will result in long term population decline. Looking at actual trends show that population is flat or declining in many parts of the world while exploding elsewhere.

      Declining populations are problematic in several ways as well since many economic systems are designed around growth.

      I don't disagree that unchecked world wide population growth isn't good, but draconian methods to keep women from having kids in regions where there is little if any population growth anyway isn't the answer.

  58. Sometimes it's health related by cheese_boy · · Score: 1

    A friend of mine had her eggs frozen because she was going to go through chemo.

    She was married, one kid and diagnosed with breast cancer.
    Before she started chemo, the doctors told them that there was a chance of infertility afterward.
    So she had her eggs frozen (after fertilizing them - apparently they do better that way)
    She had a masectomy and chemo.
    And now she's had a 2nd kid. (I don't know if they used a frozen egg or not. I don't think there's a polite way to ask that question, and it doesn't matter)

    My understanding is that this policy would have helped her pay for the procedures.
    I think that a lot of other insurance coverage plans it wouldn't be covered. And instead the family would have to look at how to pay for it out of their pocket.

  59. Re:Sexism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, this is not sexism at all. Maternity has very real measurable impact on a woman's value as a worker. Discrimination does not apply to objective criteria by definition.

    If you do not believe me, stab yourself in the balls with knitting needles 20 times after giving yourself a hormone injection every day for a few weeks.

    Are you seriously implying that inflicting permanent bodily harm by mutilation to the male sex organs is somehow equivalent to a medical procedure meant to preserve female reproductive cells while minimizing harm to the body? This is a sick and you should be ashamed of yourself for saying that.

  60. Re:Motherhood. The Non-Job. by zlives · · Score: 1

    As i said, more of a comment on society as a whole rather than the corporation itself.

  61. The next step... by bayankaran · · Score: 1

    Will be to offer surrogate mothers - if you offshore childbearing its "win win" in the latest MBA text books.

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  62. Women in tech? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I, for one, would like to know if we're talking about MBA folk here or the actual tech workers? Both the career trajectories and the motivation differs between the rare women in tech and the managerial class. So, which side is freezing eggs here?

  63. amniote amused... by mod+prime · · Score: 1

    Ovary good. Very good indeed.

  64. Re: work/life balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How would Facebook be one? I'm having a hard time seeing Facebook as anything other than a huge net negative for society as a whole. Even their technology choices seem ridiculously awful.

  65. Wonder who owns the eggs by ayesnymous · · Score: 0

    Make sure to read the fine print

  66. Kids come out these eggs! by s2n6 · · Score: 1

    And what about the kids that will eventually be made with those eggs? How are apple and fb going to compensate them for the lost time with their parents?

  67. Re:Sexism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's also bad idea to move being a parent for later. It's (generally) way better to have the kids in your 20s or 30s, not only because of fertility, but because you are physically more fit, can cope with less sleep, won't be goddamn 70 when your kid is at his/her teens, and might actually live to see a grandkid or two. It takes a while to raise a child to adulthood. If you start at 50-60 you really late.

    How about instead of these kind of stupid things you either accept that women have to choose between having kids or having a "career" (lnobody cares on their death bed about their career; "gee, i wish i had worked more!"), or you make laws that divide the "burden of kids. For example, make parental leaves to happen with full pay, divided among parents. That way it doesn't matter if you hire a man or a woman, as both of can be away from work for the same time. If one of them doesn't use their half it goes to waste.

  68. So... by Tamerlin · · Score: 1

    Yes, it's basically a blatant admission that they're sweatshops, and that the way to get ahead at both companies is to work long hours and not take vacations, rather than to actually be productive and do quality work.

  69. helping women be more productive human beings? by mla_ca520 · · Score: 1
    @Dave Knott:

    "But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings."

    Seriously? Are you implying that mothers are not productive human beings, and they they can be productive by having paying jobs? What Evs!

  70. More productive? by ThirdCoastGuy · · Score: 1

    More productive human beings? What is more productive than bearing and raising well adjusted, intelligent, moral children? We have truly lost sight of what's important in this world.

  71. Oh good... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I love that they are helping women become more valuable and productive human beings.

    Cause, you know, obviously women are worthless compared to men, who are naturally valuable and productive.