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Parents Investigated For Neglect For Letting Kids Walk Home Alone

HughPickens.com writes The WaPo reports that Danielle and Alexander Meitiv in Montgomery County Maryland say they are being investigated for neglect after letting their 10-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter make a one-mile walk home from a Silver Spring park on Georgia Avenue on a Saturday afternoon. "We wouldn't have let them do it if we didn't think they were ready for it," says Danielle. The Meitivs say they believe in "free-range" parenting, a movement that has been a counterpoint to the hyper-vigilance of "helicopter" parenting, with the idea that children learn self-reliance by being allowed to progressively test limits, make choices and venture out in the world. "The world is actually even safer than when I was a child, and I just want to give them the same freedom and independence that I had — basically an old-fashioned childhood," says Danielle. "I think it's absolutely critical for their development — to learn responsibility, to experience the world, to gain confidence and competency."

On December 20, Alexander agreed to let the children walk from Woodside Park to their home, a mile south, in an area the family says the children know well. Police picked up the children near the Discovery building, the family said, after someone reported seeing them. Alexander said he had a tense time with police when officers returned his children, asked for his identification and told him about the dangers of the world. The more lasting issue has been with Montgomery County Child Protective Services which showed up a couple of hours later. Although Child Protective Services could not address this specific case they did point to Maryland law, which defines child neglect as failure to provide proper care and supervision of a child. "I think what CPS considered neglect, we felt was an essential part of growing up and maturing," says Alexander. "We feel we're being bullied into a point of view about child-rearing that we strongly disagree with."

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  1. Culture of fear by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    Think of the children! There could have been terrorists and socialists on that road, or even the big bad wolf. Any sensible parent would chip their kids and give them a phone with tracking apps hidden within...it's the only way to be safe.

    1. Re:Culture of fear by neonedge · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yeah, if you let your children make their own decisions it could end horribly. They might become Republicans or something crazy like that!

  2. Re:Better make that enforcement retroactive by halivar · · Score: 4, Funny

    Your parents have been ready for long time, now.

  3. Re:Why is this being covered on slashdot? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    A: Because it's programming. Duh.

  4. Re:One mile? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    More important to know is that how many football fields is it? It seems that at least in US the distances are measured in football fields and weights in cars or elephants.

  5. Re: Fix the damn markup by T0min · · Score: 5, Funny

    Works great in Internet Explorer!

    That's not really a compliment.

  6. Re:News for nerds, stuff that matters... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    But what if it was the systemd which threatens the poor children on their walk?

  7. Re: Fix the damn markup by OzPeter · · Score: 4, Funny

    Guess your one of those smarter than the rest of the world techs, nerds etc. A colleague confining with others on his life matters and you want to bust balls about how tech Davy you are. 15 maybe? Damn man grow up.

    The irony is strong with this one.

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  8. Re:News for nerds, stuff that matters... by halivar · · Score: 5, Funny

    Yeah, but it's different in Australia. By they time you're ten, you've survived dingoes, death adders, recluse spiders, great white sharks, and deadly post-apoc race-cars covered in spikes. To the average pedo, you're not low-hanging fruit.

  9. Re:One mile? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 3, Funny

    Well, a pedo and a bear, that's a dangerous combination...

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  10. Re:One Mile? by sudon't · · Score: 5, Funny

    Yeah, I had to walk a mile-and-a-quarter to school everyday, by myself! During Summer vacation, my mother would force me to go outside, and stay outside, until suppertime! With no supervision! Wow, I'm only realizing now, I really was neglected as a child. Of course, all the other kids were neglected in exactly the same way. It's a miracle we weren't all abducted!

    In all seriousness, I can only pity the way kids grow up today. And everyone wonders why they're so fat.

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  11. Re:The Dangers of the World by Adriax · · Score: 4, Funny

    CPS was Hydra's fallback in case SHIELD was a bust.

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  12. Re:The Dangers of the World by ThatsDrDangerToYou · · Score: 5, Funny

    The more I read stories like this, the more I'm kind of glad that my dad passed away a long time ago. No way could he live in this world. Hell, I would be embarrassed to even let him *see* it.

    Dad: "I faked my age to enlist at fifteen and fight at D-Day." Me: "In this world, leaving a twelve-year-old home alone can be considered child abuse." Dad: "And you're properly ashamed of this, right?" Me: "Every day I want to jump off a building."

    Best to channel your energies into something positive. Throw someone else off a building instead.