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Autism Associated With Shorter Lifespan, According To UK Charity Study

Cognitive Dissident writes: It's only one study, but the results are disturbing. An article in The Guardian describes a study by the UK charity Autistica showing that all people on the autism spectrum, not just the profoundly autistic, seem to be dying much younger than the average. There is no single definable cause, though a higher rate of suicide is one problem, but the aggregate result is a much higher mortality rate than the general population. There is no single cause, but a higher rate of suicide is noted. "Autistic people with no learning disabilities are nine times more likely to die from suicide compared to the rest of the population, the report states." Looks like something that needs more attention and research, which the charity is trying to organize.

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  1. Repetition leads to suicide by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    "There is no single definable cause, though a higher rate of suicide is one problem, but the aggregate result is a much higher mortality rate than the general population. There is no single cause, but a higher rate of suicide is noted."

    I want to kill myself after reading the same sentence over and over, albeit worded slightly different.

    1. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    2. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by kelarius · · Score: 5, Interesting

      People on the autism spectrum tend to have a lot more stress in their lives, various types of stress have long been linked to higher mortality rates, be that from suicide to distracted driving to heart attacks to drug use as a coping mechanism to straight up side effects from medication. I would be mind boggled that this is news but when I saw that this "study" was performed by an autism advocacy group, I realized its nothing more than an attention grab.

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    3. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by jandersen · · Score: 5, Interesting

      There is another interesting and potentially very important observation: People with ASD appear to have a gut flora that differs significantly from the average population. This is interesting for several reasons - one being that we are beginning to understand that our gut flora has a very big impact on our general health - diabetes 2, obesity and probably a lot of other things, as well as our mental wellbeing. Our intestines also has a nervous system that in many ways is comparable in complexity to our brain (which perhaps ironically lends a new aspect to the expression 'gut instinct'). Just saying.

    4. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Informative

      This. Someone hand that person a mod.

      Autistic people are under constant stress. Every single new situation in life is stress. And we're not talking about something the average normal person would consider new, like, say, a new job or having to meet someone important for the first time. ANYTHING that does not fit the ordinary is a moment of stress. Add on top of that any situation you cannot plan for fully in advance. If you want to put an autistic person into full stress mode tell him to "just wing it".

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    5. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by zwarte+piet · · Score: 1

      I can confirm the stress thing, and at times I do want to give up, but as I start to care less about what people think and watching their judgements with compassion, bless their hearts, I think we're all crazy, some kinds just being more popular than others, and then those become the norm. I lucklily never went on any medication and intend to keep it that way.

    6. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Wycliffe · · Score: 1

      This. Someone hand that person a mod.

      Autistic people are under constant stress. Every single new situation in life is stress. And we're not talking about something the average normal person would consider new, like, say, a new job or having to meet someone important for the first time. ANYTHING that does not fit the ordinary is a moment of stress. Add on top of that any situation you cannot plan for fully in advance. If you want to put an autistic person into full stress mode tell him to "just wing it".

      Although I mostly agree, my son and I have inherited a slight variant of autism. My son gets very upset when plans change but at the same time, he's perfectly fine in novel situations. So if there is music instead of PE at school this is very upsetting to him but going on a field trip to a new place he's never been and he absorbs it like a sponge. My son also exhibits extreme empathy and concern for others and is very concerned with things being fair and not hurting people's feelings. Being autistic he doesn't always pick up the social cues to know when he's hurting someone else's feelings but when he notices, it very much bothers him. Same with animals, he might not realize that he's hurting the cat by the way he's holding it but if he realizes someone is hurting an animal (like when I clean fish), it upsets him greatly. I think part of the problem with the autistic umbrella is that many people treat it as a single set of symptoms (afraid of novel situations, no empathy) but from all the autistic people I know, it's very nuanced and can vary greatly from person to person. I think part of this is probably the body and brain taking different routes to compensate for what is missing whether it is unconscious rewiring of the brain or more conscious coping mechanisms.

    7. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Jason+Levine · · Score: 5, Interesting

      My son also exhibits extreme empathy and concern for others and is very concerned with things being fair and not hurting people's feelings. Being autistic he doesn't always pick up the social cues to know when he's hurting someone else's feelings but when he notices, it very much bothers him. Same with animals, he might not realize that he's hurting the cat by the way he's holding it but if he realizes someone is hurting an animal (like when I clean fish), it upsets him greatly.

      My son (and I) are the same way. Every year, a museum near us has a butterfly house, and every year my son will go into it for a few seconds only. It's not that he's scared of the butterflies. It's that he's scared he might hurt one. They are flying everywhere and some land on the floor so you need to be careful where you walk/move. To my son, it's like you've laid out a minefield in front of him except a butterfly gets killed if he "steps on a mine." His (understandable) reaction is to want to leave the room as quickly as possible so that he won't hurt anything.

      Of course, feeling empathy and being able to express it are two different things. I'll often feel extreme empathy towards someone, but won't be able to find the words to let the other person know how I feel. More than once, this has led my wife to exclaim in frustration that I'm being insensitive or don't care about what she's going through. I do care and don't mean to seem insensitive. It's just that what's going on in my head doesn't translate well to what's coming out of my mouth. Typing stuff up is easier because you can take a few minutes and revise your response. People don't expect an immediate reply. (Plus, as much as I like to denigrate emojis, it can be easier to say "I feel sad for what's going on with you" with a crying emoji than to find the exact words to express your internal feelings. Whoever invents real-life face-to-face conversation emojis will be a hero to people on the spectrum everywhere!)

      I think part of the problem with the autistic umbrella is that many people treat it as a single set of symptoms (afraid of novel situations, no empathy) but from all the autistic people I know, it's very nuanced and can vary greatly from person to person.

      This is the key with Autism. The saying I've often heard is "If you've met one person with Autism, you've met one person with Autism." My son and I are very similar - so much so that I joke that he's my mini-me. Still, he deals with things that I've never had to deal with and takes other things in stride when I struggled with them. For example, he dives head first into social situations even if he doesn't fully understand how he's being inappropriate. I was always more socially-timid, afraid that I'd make a misstep and embarrass myself.

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    8. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by budgenator · · Score: 1

      Biggest stresses Autistics have is Normals. How often do you hear about normal children being the victims of filicide? How often do you hear about a normal kid that's bullied year after year in school after school? Who gets the police called on them while waiting for a bus or the Library to open because "They look suspicious" and often end up being shot by the police?

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    9. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by AndyMoney · · Score: 1

      I was very intrigued by reading your response. My 4 year old son is on the spectrum, and we still don't have a great understanding of "how he works". I was always confused about his intense empathy for others, which appeared to go against what I considered to be typical autism. Much of your post mirrored behavior I see in my son. Though I have never been considered autistic (just ADHD), I had often encountered intense panic/stress as a child when being forced to introduce myself to new people my own age. To this day, I still get stressed out and "snappy" if plans change and I thrive on daily routines. My son and I both love "novel situations". I feel like I learned something new today about this complex condition, and will do some more research. Many thanks for your post!

    10. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by AndyMoney · · Score: 1

      Of course, feeling empathy and being able to express it are two different things. I'll often feel extreme empathy towards someone, but won't be able to find the words to let the other person know how I feel.

      This is something I struggle with too. I tend to get overwhelmed and end up just saying nothing sometimes. I very often resort to (sometimes long winded) emails to get my feelings out. My 4 year old might be too young to really see how he will be in this regard, be he always approaches the person "having an issue" with a look of great concern, but does not say anything to them.

      Still, he deals with things that I've never had to deal with and takes other things in stride when I struggled with them. For example, he dives head first into social situations even if he doesn't fully understand how he's being inappropriate. I was always more socially-timid, afraid that I'd make a misstep and embarrass myself.

      I have a similar situation. My son jumps right into social situations and actually LOVES observing what everyone is doing. He is totally unaware of his "social mis-steps", such as not saying hi back when someone says it to him, or repeatedly saying what someone is doing over and over when excited. At times, he also resorts to humming and "flapping" in excitement (though not as intense as I've seen in some other children). When I was his age, I used to hide behind my mother in similar situations. I have also been socially timid all my life due to "over thinking", and have learned to "put on an act" to hide this fact in most situations. In fact, many people are very suproised to hear that I am so socially timid.

    11. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Wycliffe · · Score: 1

      I was very intrigued by reading your response. My 4 year old son is on the spectrum, and we still don't have a great understanding of "how he works". I was always confused about his intense empathy for others, which appeared to go against what I considered to be typical autism. Much of your post mirrored behavior I see in my son. Though I have never been considered autistic (just ADHD), I had often encountered intense panic/stress as a child when being forced to introduce myself to new people my own age. To this day, I still get stressed out and "snappy" if plans change and I thrive on daily routines. My son and I both love "novel situations". I feel like I learned something new today about this complex condition, and will do some more research. Many thanks for your post!

      For my son, I think he's just like everyone else, he's trying to make sense of the world. So novel situations are fine because there are no expectations and it allows him to broaden his horizon and learn more about how the world works but changes are bad because once he decides that the world works a certain way, it's very upsetting if they don't work that way. When my son is having an "anxiety attack", the phrase he tends to repeat over and over is "I don't understand, I don't understand" which I believe is exactly how he feels. Somewhat related, autistic kids tend to be obsessed with one thing whether it is a spinning wheel or star wars. Many parents try to suppress those "obsessions" but I've read a few places that many times once they "master" that obsession that that obsession will go away and they will move on to the next obsession to "master". My son (and many geeks) are like this.

    12. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      I find myself torn when my son is doing something socially inappropriate. I don't want him to continue the actions if they are bad enough (like touching someone in a manner that he doesn't realize is totally inappropriate) on the other hand, I don't want to instill my socialization fears into him so that he winds up over-thinking everything he says and does. Got to love the high-wire-act-with-no-net of parenting!

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    13. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I remain calm in disasters. I feel just great, when people around me are in distress(provided they are not shouting at me), because that levels my stress level and I am not in disadvantage anymore. Yes, and I can think straight when others are not capable - mostly because their attention has gone from me.

      That would lead to why some autistic people are creating havoc or are in jobs, where control over others misery can be taken and feed upon - my observation is based on my mom, who was making stress subconsciosly to us - her children... on one side she was creating situations and on other she was trying to save us.

      The problem with autism is not stress, but lack of control over environment around them - and not being able to control anything makes stress. Autistic people should be raised as independent and self-sufficient humans with responsibilities and then they will be fine. All those autistic societies are doing completelly opposite and that also adds to depression. All my life I was trying to get rid off everyone who would tell me, that I would need to do their way, where I clearly have stated, that I want things to happen my way and with me experiencing results - both good or erroneous and when I've got diagnosed with autism(quite late), the same people started to tell me, that I can't do that and that and started to look on me as a mentally disabled... ironically I needed to explain to the same people simple things - like, how to use printer... :/

      Put any autistic person in control and his stress level will be ok, because stress will be channelled to something real and with purpose. Some of most evil dictators look to me like people on spectrum. So, to me at this stage it all looks either suicide(which I don't really want to do for some reasons) or path to gaining control... which is a bit depressing as well, but only because most of humans are dumb dip-shits. And autistic people who haven't been struggling to be independent, are worst - they just make perfect useful idiots who are prone to do the same sh!t, that normal people were doing, where it is clearly understandable, that solutions that works to some people are not going to work to autistic people, unless the goal is suicide.

      "Whoever invents real-life face-to-face conversation emojis will be a hero to people on the spectrum everywhere!"
      The only thing that could help there would be telepathy - initially electronically assisted in 10 years will be reality and later implementation as biological brain extensions and natural adaptation and that is self-assisted path of evolution. With telephaty you don't really need body language and that puts autistic people in advantage there. Also if people can freely read other minds(nature has not provided neither humans nor animals with any protection to read electrical signals of brains - and I'm afraid, that tinfoil hat is not going to be help there as well), you don't really need to play possums or try to understand if people mean well or evil. Besides, understanding body language takes some brainspace, so if you don't have to process it, then you have more brain power to think other things.

    14. Re: Repetition leads to suicide by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you get +5 for stating the obvious about the obvious.

      It's quite useful to capture the attention of (low spectrum) autistic people who are probably unaware of this fact.

    15. Re:Repetition leads to suicide by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      Maybe society should start with you as you clearly fall on the spectrum.

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  2. Suicide as a choice v. mental illness? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    With a suicide rate that much higher than average, is it possible that people on the autism spectrum choose to end their life because of the complications that come with being autistic versus the suicide rate being driven by autism as a mental illness?

    1. Re:Suicide as a choice v. mental illness? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As someone who has had precisely this thought go through his head, yes, first hand confirmation, obviously I failed the attempt...

      And yes, I am bitter that you normies get easier lives.

  3. op not autistic. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Information repeated thrice. Redundancy is neurotypical behavior.

    Captcha spastic. Chucking hell, /., and I thought I was insensitive.

  4. What are the numbers after corrections ... by davidwr · · Score: 3, Insightful

    ... are made for suicide and for well-known highly-correlated conditions like epilepsy?

    In other words, do an Apples-to-Apples comparison, and answer these questions:

    * What is the decrease in age attributable to suicide among those without other correlated conditions, compared to those in the general, non-Autism-spectrum population without correlated conditions.
    * For each correlated condition, is there an increase in suicide compared to those not on the Autism spectrum who have the same correlated condition? If so, how much does this decrease the overall lifespan for those on the Autism spectrum?
    * For each correlated condition, is there a non-suicide-caused decrease in lifespan compared to non-autistic-spectrum-disorder people with the same correlated condition, and if so, how big is it?
    * For those who have neither a correlated condition nor who take their own life, is there a decrease in lifespan compared to the general population, and if so, how big is it?

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    1. Re:What are the numbers after corrections ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      (Figures below are UK estimates.)
      Autism prevalence = 1%
      Suicide rate = .006%
      Epilepsy prevalence = 1% (active epilepsy; compare to about 10% in autistic population)
      For the purpose of calculating life expectancy, even a .06% suicide rate for autism isn't going to put a big dent in the figures. Epilepsy prevalence is high enough to worry about, but life span reduction for people with idiopathic and cryptogenic epilepsy is about 2 years. (Epilepsy caused by things like strokes reduces lifespan by 10 years.) So the life span reduction for autistic people caused by the fraction with epilepsy isn't nearly big enough.
      If I were a betting man, I'd say that the biggest problem for people with autism will turn out to be this: in case of health trouble we as a society ask them to turn for help to the very same people who bullied them in school. It is known that autistic people tend to avoid doctors (even more than the general population) and it is also known that health professionals of all sorts, including sadly psychologists and psychiatrists, look down upon autistic people and don't really want to help them. (In their heart of hearts they're still the bullies they used to be.) I think this leads to many autistic people not getting early or preventative treatment for a wide variety of issues, and that this explains why the 15 year reduction hasn't got a single clear cause.

    2. Re: What are the numbers after corrections ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [citation needed]

      Wow, sounds like someone has some personal baggage with regards to doctors. I, for one, have not seen that doctors a) were schoolyard bullies (most of my schoolyard bullies ended up being unsuccessful townies), and b) don't care about autism.

      Also, I'm not a doctor, but I know a few very nice ones.

    3. Re:What are the numbers after corrections ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My definition of autism is that it is fluctuating blood vessels in brain.

      Because of that some brain parts gain more oxygen - that what makes autistic people shine in intelectual part - I think it is a big plus.
      The parts that are deprived of oxygen are responsible to motoric functions(there are heavy cases on spectrum), gut behaviour, and most important - socialization, that includes body language. Depriving oxygen can lead to blackouts and fainting - including long migraines. All of these are not really important for human life quality, except socialization, that puts autistic people in disadvantage. Any disabled person who has lost body part can socialize better than autistic person - he will have friends, he will understand correctly others, but autistic person is doomed, unless others are trying to put more effort into their socialization with autistic person.

  5. feminists denounce autism for being sexist by sittingnut · · Score: 0, Troll

    in other news, feminist groups protested decease of autism for being sexist and affecting far more men than women.
    more women needed to be encouraged to be autistic to reduce this imbalance they said.
    they also wanted all research and statistics pointing out gender imbalance in victims of autism suppressed and researchers fired.

    1. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      On another note, they state that mortality rates are increased for those on the autism spectrum.

      Mortality rates for the general public without autism is precisely 100%.

      What is the mortality rate for those with autism?

    2. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You have problems.

    3. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In other news, an MRA with no self-awareness stoops down to the same level as the group he despises.

    4. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Please! Don't give them idiots any ideas!

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    5. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      hilarious. ethics. gaming journalism. sad bitter little dickheads.

    6. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by dave420 · · Score: 1

      I know you probably thought your post made a sensible point. It does, just not the one you intended, namely "I don't understand feminism".

    7. Re:feminists denounce autism for being sexist by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      I doubt s/he was trying to make any point...I think that the post was meant to be a joke. You know, those things people laugh at because they are so absurd that they are obviously not true?

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  6. We are different and see the world differently, bu by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In fact we may feel more than the average N type
    Yeah, well we spend most of our time alone and we get lonely too. We don't tend to take care ourselves as well, for a variety of reasons. Add to both of those the simple fact that we view the world differently than you N types and you can see why depression hits us differently and harder. I was fortunate in that one of my areas of interest is neuropharmacology/psychiatry and I have an exceedingly good forensic type psychiatrist who deals primarily with ptsd and refractory cases of mdd. My experimental treatment for mdd is keeping me from taking my own life, but I spent years barely living on the cusp. was not found on this server.

  7. Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    We're social creatures. Autistic people have a hard time forming and sustaining friendships, a process that 'normal' people find so easy and second nature they don't even consider others could have problems in that area. And without a strong social circle, suicide risk goes way up, and I imagine susceptibility to other diseases (from weakened immune response due to the stress of loneliness) and lack of anyone to 'make an effort' with regards to personal health and fitness increases risk from lifestyle-related illnesses.

    1. Re:Lack of friends by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1

      Maybe so, but OTOH, if you don't want companionship, do you still suffer without it?

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    2. Re:Lack of friends by Livius · · Score: 4, Insightful

      People with autism don't lack the need or desire for socialization, they lack the instinctive understanding of how to achieve social relationships that everyone else takes for granted.

    3. Re:Lack of friends by Black+Parrot · · Score: 2

      Under the hypothesis that I'm ASD, I beg to differ. I was miserable when I tried to be like everyone else. Once I (hypothetically) figured out what the problem was, I quit trying and am much happier now.

      I get some social interaction at work and while running errands, but I don't seek it out, and if anything, I get more than I want.

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    4. Re:Lack of friends by orledrat · · Score: 1

      Maybe so, but OTOH, if you don't want companionship, do you still suffer without it?

      That would depend on what the void is filled with. For me, nothing works better than Boggle. I sure hope there's Boggle wherever I'll be when I'm dead.

      And all my cats, too. Well.. almost all.

    5. Re:Lack of friends by Livius · · Score: 1

      Trying and succeeding, trying and failing, and not trying, are all different things.

    6. Re:Lack of friends by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1

      But not very relevant to this discussion.

      If you don't want to try, is the need actually there?

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    7. Re:Lack of friends by Firethorn · · Score: 2

      I get some social interaction at work and while running errands, but I don't seek it out, and if anything, I get more than I want.

      Then you're an introvert like me. Not necessarily autistic. Now what happens if you have an extrovert autistic person?

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    8. Re:Lack of friends by Tyr07 · · Score: 2

      One of the issues with autistic people with no learning disabilities is that they tend to be more analytical, which is why they are often represented in the scientific community.

      When you can analyze peoples behaviors, know what they do, why they do it, you'll find it's glaring in day to day activities how selfish people are and how their attempts at masking it are pathetic. The most insulting part is they act shocked as if it would be impossible to know their actual intentions when it's pretty clear. Autistic people don't want to form relationships with most people, because most people aren't worth forming relationships with.

      It's not clever either, when you get nailed to change your actions going forward and pretending you aren't as transparent as you really are.
      People are very predictable, except it's like knowing the future.

      As soon as you know what you are going to do next, the future has changed, as you have new information that is going to change your actions.

      It's the same thing when you prove someones predictability. It is as if that is a persons #1 fear, is that you know what they are doing. So they immediately change behavior to try and remain unpredictable.

    9. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They die by their own hands, sooner or later.

    10. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why is being selfish bad?

    11. Re:Lack of friends by mark-t · · Score: 1

      When so-called selfishness is really just self-interest. It isn't. There's nothing wrong with acting in your own self-interests... It's one thing to be looking out for yourself as a priority, but it's quite another to desire more than what you may actually need, or might be entitled to. Human beings are social creatures, and accomplish far more when we cooperate than when we all work alone... selfishness typically impedes such cooperation, and is therefore objectively wrong.

    12. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Very much this.

      For as long as I can remember I've looked on as people easily make friends and relationships with nonchalant ease that I simply cannot manage. It took me until my mid teens to realise that no, people didn't hate me, it's just that the normals were picking up on and using social/facial/behavioural cues that either do not see or, when I do, don't know how to act on. And they do it instinctively.

      From that point on I've made a concerted effort to decode these subtleties and learn the appropriate responses. While I'm *much* better at this sort of stuff now than I used to be it still hurts sometimes when I look at "normal" people and there wide circles of friends that they so casually accumulate.

    13. Re:Lack of friends by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      It can only be "objectively wrong" if progress is "objectively right".

    14. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Under the certainty that I'm ASD (was diagnosed after being involuntary committed to an asylum for attempting suicide), I can tell you probably still have the need and desire for socialization... but since attempting to fulfill that need brings discomfort and pain you feel better when you avoid it.

    15. Re:Lack of friends by quax · · Score: 5, Informative

      My boy is on the spectrum, he was always surprisingly outgoing. Chatting up other kids on the play ground and happy to engage in play with just about anybody. But he still couldn't make friends. Mostly that was, I think, because he has the typical autism funnel attention, and only likes to talk about whatever he obsesses about. This typically worked well on adults, and he was able to carry conversations with them way above his apparent age level, as long as they adhered to his interest, but it did not work well with other kids.

      He didn't have a friend for the longest time, only now in grade 5 he finally has somebody who always wants him to come over. It probably helps that he now obsesses about Minecraft and video games in general. He is a walking encyclopedia on the history of video games, and the way he now chats up adults is to ask them what their favourite video game was when they were kids.

      He is surprisingly also interested enough to attend tap dance lessons, his interest is lukewarm, but so far he is going. He also happens to be quite handsome (of course I am not impartial in that). It is amusing to see how many of the little girls at the dance school go out their way to greet him (while he hardly acknowledges their existence). I think he will be OK.

    16. Re:Lack of friends by lxs · · Score: 1

      Autistic people don't want to form relationships with most people, because most people aren't worth forming relationships with.

      Which is a statement that belies a pretty selfish attitude.

    17. Re:Lack of friends by lxs · · Score: 1

      Being selfish makes you miserable. It makes you focus on all the ways in which the world is failing you.
      The people around you don't appreciate it either.

      Simply put: If you act like an asshole, you'll be treated like one.

    18. Re:Lack of friends by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's exactly the problem: Autistic people do not want to be alone. They just can't stand the company.

      Or rather, more often than not, the company cannot stand them. Detach yourself from the picture of that heavily impaired child that can't even accept a hug from his parents. Yes, that's part of the autism spectrum, but only one rather small aspect of it. You have a lot of people who appear "normal", until you have to interact with them. They are smart, sometimes exceptionally so, generally well adjusted (at least as adults, their childhood is usually a mess, but the eventually learned to "play a role"), yet they have incredible difficulties dealing with social situations and even more intimate ones.

      For obvious reasons. These people had to learn social interactions the same way you'd learn a foreign language. Body language makes no sense to them. And neither do they "speak" with their body sensibly. Which in turn is VERY unsettling for "normal" people. Worst of all, you can't even put your finger on it because it's fully subconscious. You don't know WHY that odd fella is giving you the creeps. He just does.

      And while you can somehow, eventually, emulate social protocols (because frankly, social situations are in the end just another form of process to be followed and a routine to be observed), that does not apply to anything involving more intimate or closer situations. You don't really get to watch and copy a lot here. Not to mention that people enjoy a responsive partner, something such a system based on mimicry of course cannot provide.

      And yes, despite everything they're still humans and they would still like companionship. There just is no defined process for it that could be followed.

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    19. Re:Lack of friends by Maritz · · Score: 1

      I wonder if people are quite as predictable as you claim. Perhaps you're counting your hits and ignoring your misses.

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      I do not want your cheap brainburning drugs. They are useless for work. And I am a working man today.
    20. Re:Lack of friends by Cederic · · Score: 1

      When he's older, get him partner dancing. Skip ballroom, go for West Coast Swing or Salsa.

      It's an excellent way of spending time in a social context without any of the smalltalk. If you like your partner you can chat about dancing and see how things go from there. If you don't, you just boost the tempo and she's moving around too much to talk.

    21. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Really, "normal people" find it easy and second nature to form and sustain friendships? I'm going to need a citation on that one. I consider myself fairly "normal" in the area of social interactions. I'm shy and lack self confidence and have trouble talking to women, but I don't consider that abnormal from looking around me. And one constant I've seen is relationships of all kind are hard and a lot of work. A friendship which you don't put work into withers and dies.

      One of the best parts of my life is my D&D group, but I was thinking this morning, it's been a while since we've gotten together and literally if I don't put in the effort to get people together, then that whole thing will fall apart, and we won't talk to each other and the friendships will drift apart as well. And there's non-trivial work involved. I host it, which means I need to clean house before hand, make sure we've got snacks, arrange for when people will get there. None of that is easy, none of that is second nature, but it's something I understand as needed and feel is worth it to get a group of people together who's company I enjoy to do an activity I enjoy.

    22. Re:Lack of friends by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Exactly this. I don't have any real-life friends. I have co-workers I talk to, a wife and kids, and online people I chat with occasionally. However, I don't have a group of friends that I can just hang out with. I want a group of friends, but when I think "How do I get friends", I draw a blank. You might as well ask me to solve a quantum mechanics equation - I wouldn't even know where to start. Not to mention that the whole concept fills me with the kind of anxiety and dread that I haven't felt since my dating days, and it's no wonder that I find it easier to stay without real-life-friends.

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      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    23. Re:Lack of friends by Jason+Levine · · Score: 3, Interesting

      The same is true of my older son. He's 12, is diagnosed with Asperger's, and has no friends. He's got people he talks to in school and some who even talk back to him, but nobody who he sees outside of school activities. His neurotypical younger brother, on the other hand, has a few friends and one whose house he goes over on a near-daily basis. My oldest can go and play with them, but he wants friends his own age. Given my "experience" getting friends (I have no real life friends myself), I have no clue how to help him get friends. There is one kid from a local Autism support group that he gets along with and they wanted to get together with my son, but things haven't lined up for us quite yet. So apart from that might-be-a-friend-one-day and a bunch of friends-with-people-while-in-school, my son is left envying his younger brother's ability to make friends.

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      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    24. Re:Lack of friends by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      That's exactly the problem: Autistic people do not want to be alone. They just can't stand the company.

      Growing up - before I knew what Autism was - I imagined it as if I was in a dark room. There was a bright spotlight there and, more than anything, I wanted to be in the spotlight. I wasn't sure exactly how to get in the spotlight, but eventually I would stumble my way into it. Then, I'd find that the spotlight was too bright and hurt my eyes. It was too much and I needed to retreat to the safety of the darkness to recover. Once in the darkness, I would want to be in the spotlight again. Repeat ad infinitum.

      For many on the spectrum, the experience of "being in the spotlight" is so stressful and overwhelming that it is safer to "remain in the dark" rather than risk the spotlight's glare.

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      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    25. Re:Lack of friends by avandesande · · Score: 1

      Mine didn't have any friends until 14-15 and now he has a girlfriend(gd help me). So they do seem to get there eventually.

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    26. Re:Lack of friends by Ihlosi · · Score: 1
      Now what happens if you have an extrovert autistic person?

      We have one in the household. Hour-long lectures on the local train and bus routes and schedules, or on PokÃmon, for anyone who's willing to listen.

      I believe the medical term is (socially) "active but odd".

    27. Re:Lack of friends by microTodd · · Score: 1

      (feels for you)

      Same thing with my son. What's really heartbreaking is how he "tries" to make friends, i.e. walks up to kids at the playground and stuff, but is socially awkward so they inevitably tease him or disregard him. Which makes him sad.

      Man, I wish there was a way to teach your kids that it'll be ok, someday he'll have a close friend or significant other and it'll all be ok.

      P.S. You made me a little bit sad at work today. But that's ok. We're all in this together.

      --
      "You cannot find out which view is the right one by science in the ordinary sense." - C.S. Lewis on Intelligent Design
    28. Re:Lack of friends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      That sounds a lot like me when I was younger. I had friends, but they were just like me, and we talked incessantly about common interests (video games, computers, etc.).

      The problem came after I grew up and got into the "real world"; it's not so easy to find compatible friends after you've moved away from where you went to school, and it's really hard finding women who have any interest, even if you are tall and handsome. Women aren't as interested in men's looks as they are in outgoing, confident personalities, and there's a big stigma in our society against men who are introverted with "nerdy" interests. Your son may not be too interested in girls now, but if he's hetero that's going to change at some point (probably in college, that's when I got a lot more serious about girls) and he's likely to have a lot of trouble with that. However, I'm not trying to be negative, but if he's gay, he'll probably do great in life. It's probably too soon to tell now.

    29. Re:Lack of friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Hi. 30-year-old diagnosed Aspie here. Credentials: I've managed to turn my unflagging interest in programming since age 7 into a decade-long game industry career. These days I specialize in renderer-related programming. You might say I'm an artistic autistic. Ah, but I kid.

      I didn't have any long-term real-life friends until I was upwards of 20. I did have 3-4 friends from school that I would hang out with outside of school, but I don't keep in contact with any of them these days. In fact, there isn't a single friend I knew in person that I still keep in contract with that I met until I was getting my university degree.

      Part of the reason was a parent that saw me as intensely fragile due to my disorder, and saw a huge potential in my programming ability, so she largely refused to let me go out and do the things that kids do, instead preferring that I focus on my studies. Nobody's born with a complete set of social skills, but non-autistic people at least cotton onto the idea of being social more quickly than people with autism spectrum disorders do. Keeping someone who is high-functioning and non-learning-disabled from trying to be social stunts an already-stunted set of social skills.

      It wasn't until I was living on my own at age 19 that I started going out and being social. Part of it helped that I'm part of a couple of online communities that are both prolific and tend to have regular get-togethers and parties, and the communities tend to attract people who are on the autism spectrum as well, so going to get-togethers are like social training wheels for people with no experience. What I found is that ultimately, learning to "be social" is something that I was perfectly capable of doing, and I feel it's something any other high-functioning autistic person can be capable of doing, but it requires some give-and-take. People on the autism spectrum still want to be social, but they don't know how. Well, regular people want to ride bicycles, but aren't born knowing how. Learning to ride a bicycle involves falling off a bunch of times in the process. Similarly, learning to be social will result in a lot of failure, and a lot of heartache, but at the end of the day you learn from your mistakes, you get back on the bicycle, and eventually you'll be riding around your social block with ease. People on the autism spectrum tend to take failure a lot more personally than non-autistic people, so it's easy to get disheartened, so my only advice is that it's worth it to keep trying.

      So basically, push your son to be social. Don't prevent him from socializing with people, regardless of age. If he gets along better with adults right now, that's fine, but don't let that be his only source of socialization. Yes, he will have issues socializing with his peer group, but eventually he will learn.

    30. Re:Lack of friends by AndyMoney · · Score: 1

      He also happens to be quite handsome (of course I am not impartial in that). It is amusing to see how many of the little girls at the dance school go out their way to greet him (while he hardly acknowledges their existence). I think he will be OK.

      Haha. I think of my 4 year old the same way. The girls in his school always approach him to say hello, and he usually just ignores them. When I tell him "June said hello to you buddy. Say hi to June.", he looks at her and says "Say hi to June.". I joke to my wife that he will charm some sweet girl with his looks when he is older and she'll be willing to look past his "quirks".

  8. Dude... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Of course, You keep calling them autists, You fucking retards.

  9. I am much dumber by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...for trying to understand this submission. Some days I wonder why I still come here.

  10. Relationships? by Etherwalk · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Are they also less likely to marry? Because it turns out people die a lot quicker if there isn't someone there to realize they tripped, for example.

    1. Re:Relationships? by TimSSG · · Score: 1
      Ah, a intelligent and on topic post; I wish I had some mode points. Tim S.

      Are they also less likely to marry? Because it turns out people die a lot quicker if there isn't someone there to realize they tripped, for example.

    2. Re:Relationships? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Aspies also tend to be extreme control freaks about anything that involves their healthcare, to the point of shunning medical care if they feel like they aren't firmly in control. An authoritarian doctor who attempts to tell them what they *must* do is likely to end up with an ex-patient who'll grudgingly die before voluntarily ceding control to that doctor. If they find themselves semi-helpless in a hospital, they'll freak out and passive-aggressively drive the staff crazy until the staff shuns them. A sick aspie who'd happily cooperate with a robot he programmed to care for his health will fight with nurses and bitterly complain about everything from the CRI and color temperature of the light bulbs in the room to the arrangement of the food on his plate.

      The only way to meaningfully improve the healthcare of aspies is to empower them to take direct control (working with the doctor as a partner and consultant... the doctor pointing him at the right journal articles and research for him to read himself) and eliminate as many human interaction-dependencies as possible.

    3. Re:Relationships? by turbidostato · · Score: 1

      "The only way to meaningfully improve the healthcare of aspies is to empower them to take direct control"

      Looking at your account, induced comma probably would also work.

    4. Re:Relationships? by orledrat · · Score: 2

      "The only way to meaningfully improve the healthcare of aspies is to empower them to take direct control"

      Looking at your account, induced comma probably would also work.

      Note that, lumbar punctuation does carry a risk of infection, known as serial comma.

    5. Re:Relationships? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, and they are also more likely to be very strict about rules and rights and are more likely to assert their right of way against a truck.

      There are probably many reasons to why autistic people have shorter lives.

    6. Re:Relationships? by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      Aspies also tend to be extreme control freaks about anything that involves their healthcare

      One has to wonder then if there is a correlation between the diagnosis rates and any of the mortality data. Doctors for sure are diagnosing autism more frequently than ever before.

      I am almost certainly somewhere on the spectrum. I really dont trust doctors much, and dentists not at all.

      --
      "His name was James Damore."
    7. Re:Relationships? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People who end their comments with their user name are likely autistic.

    8. Re:Relationships? by budgenator · · Score: 1

      There was a car who driver had stopped a a red light, massively encroaching on the cross-walk markings, it took every once of self-controll I had to walk around it rather than walking over his hood as I crossed the street.

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  11. Re: oh thank god by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Apk hasn't shown up yet?

  12. Burying the lede by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 2

    They seem to specifically be pushing the suicide part of the story, perhaps because it plays well in the media and elicits the most sympathy. But the article also says people on the autism spectrum are 20 to 40 times more likely to suffer from other brain disorders such as epilepsy - and people affected by that have a life expectancy of only 39 years.

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    1. Re:Burying the lede by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is not what the article actually says. It says that many autistic people won't see their 40th birthday. (It doesn't even say ‘most people’.)
      Epilepsy can cause you to get a seizure when you're crossing the street, but the chance of that happening and getting you killed isn't that high and most people with epilepsy live about as long as they would have without it. In the aggregate, epilepsy that isn't caused by a stroke a tumour or something like that shaves 2 years of life expectancy.

    2. Re:Burying the lede by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now that is true bullshit. I don't know who wrote that article but they don't even begin to understand what is epilepsy or autism and just peddle a bullshit paper based on horseshit stats. "y - and people affected by that have a life expectancy of only 39 years." ... WHAT????? Do they even know how many forms of epilepsy there are and even more how many forms of autism there are??? Obviously, no ... this article and paper is not even good enough to wipe your ass with it. Even The Onion publishes more credible articles.

    3. Re:Burying the lede by avandesande · · Score: 1

      I have an older female cousin who I believe was un-diagnosed with HFA. She was very quiet/loner and never left the farm she grew up on- she killed herself in her late thirties. Yeah, I know it's just an anecdote. Other studies have shown that autism seems to have a more negative long term effect on women. It's a big concern because it seems to run in our family and my son was diagnosed with HFA/PDD.

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      love is just extroverted narcissism
  13. The truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Interesting

    For years I have been diagnosed with this "autism" thing after getting prressured into psychological testing. I am in a state of perma exhaution and every time I fall asleep I wake up in pain. If doctors cannot help me then I guess that's how it is but I feel pretty wronged by them with these suggestions that I'm an autistic (that's a medical code word for hypochondriac). I keep wondering if I'm going to end up offing myself one day as it's certain that I'm never going to get any help from anyone or anything ever. Autism means next to nothing scientifically but a lot of people getting "diagnosed" with it these days.

    1. Re:The truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also Kratom (Mytragyna speciosa) is a good painkiller and it's legal almost everywhere. I have used it for pain when the doctors were too worried about the DEA and not enough about their patient's pain and suffering to give me anything more effective than ibuprofen. It works like an opiate and should be treated like one. * Of course you should never actually do that because when you purchase it, it's an herbarium specimen or exoti incense and definitely not sold for human consumption!

    2. Re:The truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about believing that you are autistic (or have some other sort of mental disorder) and then accepting the help offered?

    3. Re:The truth by mark-t · · Score: 1

      I am in a state of perma exhaution and every time I fall asleep I wake up in pain.

      Have you considered the possibility that you may just need a new bed mattress?

    4. Re:The truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It could be any number of things. He could have sleep apnea, a circadian rhythm disorder(I've been diagnosed with one), Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Untreated Lyme's disease, unipolar depression, bipolar depression, etc. there's not enough information to make a diagnosis. I personally think parasite infestation is massively under-reported!

      Between uncooked sushi, and undercooked pork: there are many opportunities to get worms swimming around inside you. I'm deliberately ignoring the pseudo-illnesses like Candida Overgrowth, and imaginary ones like: "adrenal fatigue" here.

      Back on topic: lack of sleep will certainly fuck you up. I've had two encounters with long term major sleep deficits following prescription amphetamine abuse(misguided attempts to "manage" my sleep disorder). In my case, the cognitive decline included fun things like aboulomania, tachyphrasia, aphrasia, mild logorrhea, short term memory loss, headaches, inability to concentrate, and ironically: insomnia...

      Not specifically related to anything in particular: I remember one incident where I decided to quit drinking after a one month binge, then took a norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor(NRI). I ended up curled up in bed with a case of delirium tremors.

    5. Re:The truth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I cannot eat a whole gray squirrel; I always split it with my 10yo daughter and we both feel full afterwards. We like cheap store meat too, but there's something especially nourishing about forest meat.

  14. Suicide prevention causes Autism Epidemic by aralin · · Score: 1

    I always knew it, those evil people at the suicide hotline are responsible for the raising incidence of Autism. Something should definitely be done about it!

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    If programs would be read like poetry, most programmers would be Vogons.
  15. Surviving autism by GGarand · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I consider myself extremely lucky to have succeeded in raising my boy, who suffers from a mild type of autism (Aspberger's syndrome), past his 18th year.

    At age 6, this boy ran on the frail gutter of a roof, 15 meters from the ground. He escalated a radiator, opened the window and just took a walk on the gutter, and he foresaw absolutely no danger in doing it..
    Ten years later, after having narrowly escaped a dozen of such 'accidents', he did it again.
    He walked on the roof border from the bathroom window to the room where is computer was locked out.
    And again, he did not feel any sense of danger. He told me he just wanted his computer.

    There is a reason why autism, even in it's mildest forms, is still regarded as a disorder. It might help you wrap your mind with better intensity around some problems. But that comes at the cost of your awareness to... well, pretty much everything else.
    And that doesn't help you to survive, that's for sure.

    1. Re:Surviving autism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      :Blink: - Wow

      I can't even imagine how stressful that must be.

    2. Re:Surviving autism by quax · · Score: 1

      Funny this reminds me more of my own childhood. I broke my arms ten times.

      Then again I was always mortified by falling when I pulled stunts like this.

      Odd thing is, and I am very grateful for this, my boy who has been diagnosed with being on the spectrum, has actually a lot of common sense. Wouldn't say he'd never do anything like that, but he is generally quite prudent.

      In fact, when he was little, about five or six, he would take warnings so to heart that he'll get obsessive about it. I warned him of the danger of outlets, but made clear it's only when he sticks something in them that it'll be a danger, yet for years afterwards he would not get close to an outlet or sit near to one.

      Nowadays he mostly obsesses about Minecraft and he wants to learn to code videogames. I am counting myself lucky that his condition is quite mild, and that it seems to channel it into something that could make him a pretty penny someday.

    3. Re:Surviving autism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am sorry to hear that it was this difficult with your child. I am Asperger, high level, and I can garantee you your son is not the norm when it comes to Asperger. I am in my 40s, married and with 2 children and have a very happy life. Yes I am awkward to most people, hate social calls and just don't need to have friends. This does not mean we, Aspergers, don't have feelings and don't need people around us, we just see the world differently and Einstein pretty much proved one point of mine that the world needs Aspergers and people with this "disorder". Of course, the most severe cases are just sad because those poor souls will never have a normal life I it's hard to see how they can fit and contribute to society. But even then, have you ever seen an autistic programmer? They can produce NASA worthy code, test the same things 100s of times and still be happy with their job. Of course, do not put them in a stressful just in time delivery process, they won't be able to cope with the pressure but given the proper context and environment, you will never have better employees.

    4. Re:Surviving autism by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      Thankfully, my son has never done anything as dangerous as this. I think the worst was when we made an offhand comment about how long his hair was getting and then he approached us asking "What do I do with this?" He had somehow reached the scissors (placed where we thought they would be out of his reach - they weren't) and gave himself a haircut. We had to make a quick run to a local place at about 7pm to get his hair properly cut so he wouldn't look horrible.

      Five year olds do NOT give themselves good haircuts. Just one of the parenting lessons I never thought I'd learn before becoming a parent.

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      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    5. Re:Surviving autism by gstoddart · · Score: 1

      There is a reason why autism, even in it's mildest forms, is still regarded as a disorder. It might help you wrap your mind with better intensity around some problems

      And I'm willing to bet it's really only in a few cases it helps you with some class of problems ... many autistic people pretty much need to be cared for their entire lives.

      This overly romanticized notion that autism is a gift for all who have it needs to be fixed; you're probably more likely to have some pretty debilitating issues.

      I knew a kid in school who was never really identified as autistic until much later, and he was fairly lucky in that he was high functioning. But I've known a few people who really couldn't even dress and feed themselves. If they had some unique insights or gifts, it was seldom apparent.

      Many of us probably rate a little on the spectrum, or at least say we do ... but compared to some of the people who have far less function and will never have independent lives, we should stop acting like it's some cool thing which lets you solve math problems.

      I'm sure if you raised a kid with Aspberger's you've seen far less functioning versions of the same thing.

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    6. Re:Surviving autism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm 33 years old asperger and I still hate my parents for locking the computer.

  16. well duh by TRRosen · · Score: 1

    Communication is the cornerstone of medical diagnosis.

  17. Well stop being so mean to them. by dsmatthews9379 · · Score: 2

    While "normal" only includes one way of looking at the world you are always going to have others who will be made to feel like outsiders, and if they feel like that it will be harder for them to reach out to others when they do need help.

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  19. The root issue implications are hard to accept by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    This is why we have such a challenge getting over the hurdle of doing good science, getting it published, and the understanding of the condition and it's implications becoming well understood enough that we have any hope of doing anything about it to improve the lives of future generations.

    The challenge I am speaking of is that of science results being judged as sexist or victim shaming or otherwise prejudicial when nature does not operate that way.

    In order to understand complex developmental illnesses and conditions, evidence based approaches need to be implemented and used and yes the truth hurts.
    Autism is a developmental disorder and it is not fair, but in order to do something about it we need to accept that those with the condition have certain stresses and unique miseries that need to be examined, addressed and understood in order to have any hope of creating a better life for future generations on this front. That is the truth as plainly as it can be laid out at this point.

    This is why people on the spectrum, get so pissed off when normals show up and start throwing around the "oh you poor unique snowflake" shit. Those types are not compatible with progress and they would do well to shut their mouths and stop trying to victim shame, and rather learn to be better people.

    Call me a SJW, but this article has been very enlightening on what needs to happen in terms of social change and scientific progress for the world that is coming where cures and treatments for this kind of thing can become real.

  20. Pretty sure my grandfather was on the spectrum ... by quax · · Score: 1

    ... they did not diagnose it back then.

    He missed his hundreds birthday by a couple months.

    A very prominent person on the spectrum Paul Dirac died at the ripe age of 82.

    The wide spread diagnosis of Aspergers and Autism disorder only gained traction well into the second half of the 20th century. This makes the data basis inherently skewed.

  21. Autistica = Autism Speaks by hideki.adam · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Autistica are the British name for Autism Speaks. They are a 'charity' staffed almost entirely by NTs. (they currently have two token autistic board members (out of 40)) They hoover up all the donations from well meaning people but spend only 3% of the money they get on actually helping autistic people. Of the rest, over 40% goes on eugenics research intended to wipe us out and most of the rest on advertising and fat salaries ($400K+ in some cases) for their directors. They also make dehumanising videos about autism which completely misrepresent what it is (for example portraying meltdowns as the norm of autistic behaviour when in reality they're anything but) and are proponents of ABA, an abusive therapy which involves training children like dogs and results in depression, PTSD and worse. Do not believe a damn word they say and ffs, don't give them any money. Give it to ASAN if you're in America or Autistic UK if you're in Britain, both organisations actually run by autistic people.

    1. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, that was my thought after reading the summary, the "shocking new study" is a publicity stunt to get donations for some fat cats who just want the money.

    2. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      An organization run by spazzes? Lol. What do they do, they lick windows in turn? Mongolovers weirdos are weirdos, news at 11.

    3. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Jason+Levine · · Score: 2

      Ugh. I can't stand Autism Speaks. Up until recently, they clung to the "vaccines cause autism" mantra. Even when they ditched it, they still left the door slightly ajar. Something along the lines of "while no scientific studies support this, we should still look into it more." (Not giving their site the page views to look up their exact statement.) They view people with Autism as "damaged", "broken", and less than "normal" people.

      Whenever I see a charity in support of Autism, I always get excited and then invariably get disappointed when I see that they are raising money for Autism Speaks. They may be called Autism Speaks but they don't speak for me or for anyone else on the spectrum.

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      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    4. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not disagreeing, but here in the USA it's unfortunately common for charity CEOs to make very handsome salaries that would seem to partially contradict the charity's values. Charity Navigator posts the CEO compensation.

    5. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Going through what you've had to go through growing up autistic yourself, you'd wish that on any other kid, ever? Really? There's being accepting and even proud of who you are, then there's overcompensating. People who are born homosexual tend to not want anyone to have to go through what they go through growing up either, why would you? I have ADHD that wasn't diagnosed until I was an adult in my 30's (my parents, being clueless, chose to ignore it when I was a kid, or so I finally discovered), and while hyperfocus can be useful once you know how to work it, do you think for a single moment I'd want any other kid to grow up with the problems I had because of it? I can't even imagine how much better things would have been for me then (and now!) if I'd've been neurotypical instead of having to claw my way through growing up being almost literally estranged from kids my own age and putting up with all the abuse I took from them because of it. I don't know how much of what you're saying is true about this organization in Britain, but I do know this: Autism spectrum disorder is a modern problem, human civilization is somehow responsible for it, and we'd be doing future generations a favor by discovering what it is we've done that causes kids to develop that way and fix it so it doesn't happen anymore.

    6. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by hideki.adam · · Score: 1

      Soooo... You're not autistic but want to speak for us and decide we need fixing? I foresee a good job for you working in a particular 'charity'.

      ADHD may have some comorbidity with autism but autism it aint. Do not think because you have a vaguely related condition and have consumed the NT cool aid that you can speak for us, you cannot.

      Also, it might interest you to know that autistics can relate perfectly well to other autistic people and some NTs. (You know, the ones who aren't judgemental arseholes who think they can dictate what's right for us and what isn't from a position of privilege.)

      Might I suggest that the next time you want to suggest 'fixing' autistic people by preventing them from being born you might mentally substitute gay for autistic first? that was in DSM at one point and it might give you a clue as to what an out of touch wanker you are.

    7. Re: Autistica = Autism Speaks by hideki.adam · · Score: 1

      You're aware this is Slashdot right? You do sound like a YouTube commentator though....

      I'll just leave these here: https://xkcd.com/202/ - https://xkcd.com/481/

    8. Re:Autistica = Autism Speaks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What about other genetic defects, hunting tons disease etc?

  22. On average, geeks die younger too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I am a geek, and have been a geek ever since ... I dunno

    Anyway, almost all my life I surround myself with other geeks (birds of a feather, I guess), and that now I've made quite a few rounds the block, I notice that geeks do die younger than the non-geeks

    I do not have any information linking autism to geeks, I only have a hunch that some of us geeks do have a certain 'autistic tendency' within us, something that makes us stand apart from others - that allows us the concentration we need to sort out all the complexities and find the solution

  23. Re: oh thank god by KGIII · · Score: 1

    No, he's been shunned by the community.

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  24. From personal experience.... by Harold+Halloway · · Score: 2

    Chronic stress is known to shorten the life-span of humans. Living in a world that you find confusing, difficult and alien is very stressful, this I know from personal experience.

  25. Not surprising by nospam007 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    "Autistic people with no learning disabilities are nine times more likely to die from suicide compared to the rest of the population, the report states."

    That's hardly surprising. Unlike 'normal' people, they concentrate all the attention to the job at hand, even if it's the job to killing yourself, so it's normal if they have higher 'success' rates.

  26. Re:Good by TheDarkMaster · · Score: 2

    Disturbed in knowing that while the aspergers you know have well paid jobs you have to flip burgers for a living? Poor snowflake ;-)

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  27. Bingo! by Qbertino · · Score: 3, Interesting

    There is another interesting and potentially very important observation: People with ASD appear to have a gut flora that differs significantly from the average population.

    Bingo!

    This! A thousand times this!

    Nutrition is the most overlooked factor in the wider ADHD / Autism spectrum. I'm a sugar addict and would subscribe a lot of my solopsistic behaviour that might be classified as sort-of "aspergerish" or adhd to diet. Whenever I make an effort to eat healthy the difference is very notable. I'm more awake, more aware, my mood is better and I'm way better at social interaction.

    Excercise is another big factor, as is - for heterosexual men - interaction with women. It's a proven scientific fact that social interaction with women improves mens mental health across the board, autism or not. ... I'm basically addicted to Tango for that exact reason - one of the rare opportunities where interaction of the sexes is still formalised, similar to ye 'olde days. Testosterone goes up, cortisol and other stress-hormones go down. Again, that's scientifically proven. Mood and mental well-being improves measurably. If you're a nerd or geek like me and suffer from the usual social interaction problems, especially with the other gender, you should try it.

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    1. Re:Bingo! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Utter Tripe from a "nutritionist" NOT a scientist, Being both Asperger and having a child with the same, totally fed up with people referring to these quacks.

      THERE IS NO EVIDENCE!!. only anecdotes!

      For fucks sake stop repeating shit!

    2. Re:Bingo! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OK, the diet in the link is indeed tripe from a quack, but there are others that work. You have not successfully cured your problems with diet but I have. I am a scientist and I am not a quack. It worked for my kids too. Both of them. When you realize how much different your life can be, and how damned hard it is to figure out the diet that changes it, you realize that the real quacks are the people who told say that it's not possible due to lack of evidence. These are the people who wanted to medicate my five-year-old's developing brain. They have no idea how the brain works, but hey, the kid fidgets and drugs might fix it. They don't have a clue and that's why Asperger's isn't even a disease anymore. Are you looking for evidence that something helps a disease that doesn't exist, while blindly accepting a nonsense diagnosis? Or just general evidence that diet can cure disease?

  28. Re:Good by Cederic · · Score: 1

    You seem to have problems. Have you considered professional assistance?

  29. Food issues could contribute by Maxo-Texas · · Score: 1

    I have friends who are autistic and most have food issues. Some only eat white food, some won't mix food colors on the plate, etc.

    As they get diabetes, it's very hard for those who only eat carbs to manage it. And what they eat isn't really a choice for them. There may be some tricky way to educate them but short of that it's the only way they can eat.

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  30. Re:Suicide? Or self-euthanizing by avandesande · · Score: 1

    That's bad for the medical industry profits so it will remain illegal.

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  31. Finding Charities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not disagreeing, but here in the USA it's unfortunately common for charity CEOs to make very handsome salaries that would seem to partially contradict the charity's values. Charity Navigator posts the CEO compensation.

    There are a lot of scams, but also a huge number of legit orgs. If you want to find where to use money effectively, find one or two public interest lawyers from pro-bono programs or from law schools with great public interest programs and ask them where to give. The other obvious place is low-income dental clinics. And never, ever give money to Red Cross--they do some good work, but they basically lie to their donors about where the money is going. (They leap on every disaster to raise money, and while they spend money on disasters, they generally use the money they raise on the back of each charity to add money to their general fund; I don't think I've ever heard a good thing about them from fundraising circles. And besides, there are a lot less public and more effective ways to leverage your money to help others.)

  32. Push comes to shove by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In a push comes to shove world, health care is getting harder to receive, not health insurance, but health care! Those on the autistic spectrum often find it difficult to receive adequate care, physical and mental!

  33. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    LOLO, jealous that I managed to convince a large corporation to pay me $70k when I was still in school, never had to look for a job in my life and will probably retire while you're still making sure some hipster's cappuccino has the right amount of cinnamon sprinkled on it?

    I hope you like licking balls, as you'll be doing a lot of that trying to climb the Starbucks kitchen ladder.

  34. Others disagree HEROIN junkie... apk by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    his hosts program is actually pretty good by xenotransplant

    his hosts tool is actually useful for those cases in which one does indeed want to locally block stuff outright while consuming minimum system resources by alexgieg

    I like your host file system by Karmashock

    APK is kinda right. I've given up on JS based adblocking and gone to blackholing in /etc/hosts, just like it was back in the 90s. The computational load has gotten intolerable for any ad-blocking using JS. I've tried his hosts file generating software. It works by bmo

    APK is totally right on this count. Adblock Plus on Firefox mobile is a dog on older, or lower end, phones. A hostfile based adblocker makes for a much better experience in this context by chihowa

    I find your hosts file admirable by vel-ex-tech

    I've never tried to belittle (APK's) work, I've flat out said it's good by BronsCon

    I support APK's stand on the hosts file by Trax3001BBS

    APK

    1. Re:Others disagree HEROIN junkie... apk by KGIII · · Score: 2

      Not bad, 8 out of 4,000,000+ users. You show 'em tiger. ;-)

      'Snot my fault you got shunned. You're the goober that kept posting the same thing over and over again and stalking people. I can't say that people haven't warned you enough times - you should have known it was coming.

      Did you figure out what they filtered you on/with or what? It'd be funnier than hell if you figured out a way past the filter. I must confess, I'm kind of rooting for it to happen. I'd be systematically figuring out what was filtered and what wasn't but I'm a bit tedious like that. Actually, got a link to one of your older posts with all the words in it? (From before the shunning.) I might get bored and sit down and figure out what words they put into the lameness filter.

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    2. Re:Others disagree HEROIN junkie... apk by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      More quoted slashdot users than you outnumber your mere irrelevant opinion. Poor gossip from you imo. Your fantasies against fact has you at a loss in clear error.

  35. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Assburgers offing themselves and removing their embarassing presence is only a good thing. Those pieces of shit should get a clue and throw themselves into a giant firepit. It's a shame active euthanasia is still forbidden in much of the world, otherwise we ought to cart them off to netherlands or wherever, shoot'em up with cyanide and bury them in a pile of mulch.

    I'm in Netherlands and I have a diagnosis, but I didn't know that active euthanasia was okie-dokie here. Thanks AC, that IS good to know! Like the saying goes: live and learn.

  36. Why? by PortHaven · · Score: 1

    "Autistic people with no learning disabilities are nine times more likely to die from suicide compared to the rest of the population"

    It's because the main part of society doesn't understand us. They treat us like crap, walk all over us, they apply their motives to us and treat us as liars even when we're more honest. We're bullied from our childhood because "we're different".

  37. Do the math Mr. PhD (in math)... apk by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My ware gets others more speed, security, reliability, & anonymity online for less + free - how about you?

    (Answer = you don't)

    * Don't try make ME "the bad guy" - I'm clearly the good guy. I spent some time of mine to do a good thing that actually works on tons of levels making it as easy as it gets for all of the above - you haven't... you wish you were me.

    APK

    P.S.=> I don't see anyone saying the same for your work here... they do mine - accept it... apk

  38. My theory by WillyWanker · · Score: 1

    Because they are worn down by a society that refuses to make a place for them and allow them to earn a decent living and become productive members of society. And you get to a point where you're just tired of constantly being on the outside looking in, as the lives of everyone you know evolves and grows and you're stuck in the same place you've been for 25+ years, with absolutely no hope of things getting any better.

  39. Maybe they're just finishing first. by h33t+l4x0r · · Score: 1

    "I'm taking AP Math and Chemistry, I plan to graduate college at 20, med school by 23 and have my own practice at 25."

    "That's nothing, I plan to be dead by 30."

  40. Autistic? Or they do NOT *hear* voices? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In my definition of autism, from medical readings decades ago, autists concentrate in their own internal world to the point of exclusion of external stimulus from the senses. Thus, an autistic boy can be talked to and be physically moved and still will not react: he is lost in his inner world. Like a computer frozen in a long computation, mouse unreactive, cursor in hourglass, no screen repainting, etc. But here it seems you have a different definition! Autists cannot have friends, they do not recognize them even as objects. Autists do not learn, they cannot recognize books as an external object to pay attention to, etc. Autists cannot have jobs, just like Down syndromes cannot live unattended! Are you sure it is not a _schizophrenic_ group, _born_ into schizophrenia, who spend their whole life and time *hearing* voices from people who are not physically in the place, and _do_ pay attention to those voices, who are **defining** _normal_ people as autists? I ve heard that definition applied to ME by Africans in NYC. They claim/pretend/believe I am autistic because I am not paying attention to their delusional experiences they share with other Africans! I _am_ molested when I engage in a personal attentive activity like writing email or reading a book in public, because I should be paying attention to their chit chat (and criticisms) and not just ignoring them. On the other hand, it is very difficult for me to make them UNDERSTAND those voices are NOT THERE, NOT HERE, and that most of they time they not only do not make sense but simply DO NOT HEAR ME. I have several situations with cashiers to whom I have to SHOUT and YELL what I want from the counter because they **hear** me asking them to have sex and reply accordingly! But then they come out and start treating me as if I was an object and was not paying attention to them and start **discussing** me in the third person as an object. It is them who would call me autist, much more evident in Africans than in Humans, though the phenomenon is alike. I see it very simple: the BRAIN is a device with enough power to pick up radio signals, like EEG signals, even very weak signals from other brains, and translate them into some language meaning, BUT A HEALTHY BRAIN HAS EVEN MORE POWER TO INSULATE THOSE SIGNALS AND PAY ATTENTION ONLY TO INPUT FROM THE PHYSICAL SENSES. I am used to use a computer and listen to TV and watch TV at the same time while paying attention to my surroundings (cats) and give each input proper attention, which means I can completely ignore ads and boring TV programs while typing content on the TV, but JUMP the moment a cat wants to step on my snacks or threatens to persecute another cat where they can wreak havoc. Autists cannot do that, nor schizophrenics! Autists deny the outer world, schzophrenics live in an alternative world with input coming from far sources and **people** telling them what to do, what to say, how to react, what is happening in their reality independently of what the world of senses tells and objective observer. To schizophrenics, if you are NOT participating of their world of **intuitions**, **priviledged information**, **announces**, _orders_, **real thoughts**, etc., you are an anomaly or worse, a puppet deprived of autonomy! And they would call you autistic. The problem is that some of the extra-sensorial information schizophrenics get comes from THE PEOPLE THEY CONSIDER AUTISTICALLY ISOLATED. So if you happen to be identified as one of the voices in their head.... they act against YOU. I spend a lot of time and efforts shushing away Africans pending of my need to go to THE RESTROOM and complaining of smells that are not there but they try to identify my person as being the source. They go to the extreme of closing public restrooms when I approach them to PROVE THEIR POINT that it was I who was feeling the urge and... it becomes evident. Under such pressure it is OBVIOUS a NORMAL PERSON incorrectly tagged as AUTIST by SCHIZOPHRENICS who secretly or openly believe he/she is the source of the voices schizophrenics are *hearing* W

  41. "General population" by Anonymous+Cow+Ward · · Score: 1

    Given that autism is currently recognized much more often in boys than in girls (whether or not this reflects actual incidence is unclear), and that men are much more likely to succeed at committing suicide, I wonder how much of that "nine times more likely" is simply because it has more men and how much is genuine risk.

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