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Japan Opens First Drive-through Funeral Service (japantimes.co.jp)

A funeral home with a drive-thru window opened in Nagano Prefecture on Sunday, allowing mourners to pay their respects without getting out of the car. From a report: The operator of the Aishoden funeral home in Ueda said the service is the first of its kind in Japan. It is primarily aimed at allowing seniors and the disabled to attend funerals but may also be used in the future by people short on time. During a tour Saturday, residents lined up to get a look at the innovative facility, which allows drive-thru mourners to stop their cars next to a window and enter their names and addresses on a device handed over by a waiting receptionist.

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  1. What about respect? by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 2

    Part of going to a funeral is to talk with the other people who knew the deceased person, give your support, etc.

    I guess this service might be appropriate for the funerals of people like Rodney Dangerfield.

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    1. Re:What about respect? by syn3rg · · Score: 1

      Going to the funeral does much to comfort the family, in addition to showing respect for the deceased.

      Also, +1 insightful for the RD quip.

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    2. Re:What about respect? by Baron_Yam · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Funerals are for the living".

      That's a fairly old quote, I know it through my father. I didn't understand it for a long time, probably because like a lot of teens I was pretty self-absorbed as a kid. But I get it now.

      >Part of going to a funeral is to talk with the other people who knew the deceased person, give your support, etc.

      Mutual support if you knew the deceased and aren't there only to support a grieving friend or family member. This is ALL of the funeral, in my opinion (though some people apparently need to see the body - I don't get that, but it doesn't make it less true).

    3. Re:What about respect? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 2

      Part of going to a funeral is to talk with the other people who knew the deceased person, give your support, etc.

      Why can't you do that with Twitter?

    4. Re:What about respect? by thegarbz · · Score: 2

      Part of going to a funeral is to talk with the other people who knew the deceased person, give your support, etc.

      I guess this service might be appropriate for the funerals of people like Rodney Dangerfield.

      In Japan the Wake is held before the funeral. There's very little talking still to do.

    5. Re:What about respect? by Provocateur · · Score: 1

      Agreed; the person in question, was a good friend, and an excellent boss.

      When I met the widow and their children, one of the sons' eyes lit up, and said, 'Mom, he's the guy Dad always talked about!'

      His mother explained He always talked about you

      I was surprised that they remembered somebody they hadn't met; I was glad to have been there -- I regretted not talking about that great guy, because I might say something off-color.

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    6. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      Not everyone goes to both, and maybe I'm wrong but I don't believe there is anywhere where the wake is held *after* the funeral.

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    7. Re: What about respect? by gnick · · Score: 1

      thegarbz said that, in Japan, a wake is held before the funeral. This is not the alternative to the wake being held after the funeral; it's the alternative to no wake being held at all. I'm assuming that it's common to attend the wake in Japan. I've been to a few funerals here in the US and none had an associated wake.

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    8. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      If that was the case the correct English would be *a* wake, not *the* wake. Of course you are putting words in its mouth.

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    9. Re:What about respect? by techno-vampire · · Score: 1

      Sometimes people feel that they need to say goodbye in person, and looking at a closed coffin just doesn't work for them. I'm not one of them, so I can't explain it, but I do know that there are those who find viewing the deceased's corpse finds it easier to let go.

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    10. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      I certainly hope English isn't yours, as "the" and "a" are not equivalent. "Is there a wake? Yes there is the wake." Oh, that would be idiotic wouldn't it. One would say yes there is *a* wake. Again, the way it was said doesn't introduce the idea that there is *a* wake. It assumes *the* wake. Good luck learning English!

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    11. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      You need take a remedial English course.

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    12. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      No, but my phone needs to do so, that's for sure :^)

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    13. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      "Nobody said that. Congratulations, you said something idiotic. I didn't get the point."

      For the record, this is why you aren't qualified to pass an elementary school English test. When you don't understand the lesson you think it is because the teacher is an idiot.

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    14. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      The fact that you think it was a statement I made shows that you don't understand English well at all. A 6th grader would have known what the quotes indicate.

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    15. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      You ended a sentence with a preposition. Dumbfuck.

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    16. Re: What about respect? by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 1

      Again, you cannot use the words "the" and "a" interchangeably, and the meaning of the original sentence changes completely when you substitute one for the other. The hilarious thing is that you think you are smart when you are in fact so stupid you can't learn that simple lesson.

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  2. This seems extremely disrespectful by Baron_Yam · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If this is to aid people with mobility issues, the correct response is to make the facility wheelchair accessible, and perhaps have a staff member available to assist.

    Otherwise... you may as well just post condolences on a Facebook page.

    1. Re:This seems extremely disrespectful by TheRaven64 · · Score: 2

      The first time I went to Japan was about 15 years ago. I spent a few days in a fairly small town in the middle of nowhere. A short walk from where I was staying there was a drive-through shrine, where you could get your car blessed. This was, apparently, not unusual. I don't know what other drive-through services are offered by temples there, but this seems like a logical extension.

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    2. Re:This seems extremely disrespectful by techno-vampire · · Score: 1

      If you think that someone sitting in car during a funeral is disrespectful, then you will have to teach them.

      Generally I've found that telling somebody, "Just do what everybody else is doing." is enough, unless there's something special that's not for outsiders, or needs explaining.

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    3. Re:This seems extremely disrespectful by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Religions in Japan tend to be a lot more pragmatic. Even with accessible venues a lot of elderly people were not attending funerals because of frailty. This solves that problem for them.

      Also the Shinto priests will bless anything. Most new buildings, trains, road junctions etc get blessed. Death is usually handled by Buddhists though. People participate in both religions, although not very seriously.

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    4. Re:This seems extremely disrespectful by hcs_$reboot · · Score: 1

      But... Nagano (Japan) is cold and snowy (Olympics, remember). Of course you guys from SF living 3 months of a mild winter cannot understand.

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    5. Re:This seems extremely disrespectful by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      Cars get blessed by Christian priests just as well. If I remember correctly, this particular oddity is especially popular in Russia. Then again, their church is seriously nuts.

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  3. Obliged to tell this joke... by bobbied · · Score: 1

    People are dying to get into this drive though...

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  4. Just in time!!! by Idou · · Score: 1

    Hopefully they bring this to the U.S. so that this guy's family can benefit from it!

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  5. Bring out your dead by PPH · · Score: 1

    I don't want to go on the cart!

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    1. Re:Bring out your dead by jfdavis668 · · Score: 1

      Can you hang around a couple of minutes? He won't be long...

    2. Re:Bring out your dead by AntronArgaiv · · Score: 1

      When I first saw this, I thought: heh! just load the stiff in the back seat, drive up, open the door & push him out, and drive off.

      Even faster if you have a hatchback: ust pop the hatch and leave some rubber. Stiff slides out the back.

    3. Re:Bring out your dead by timelorde · · Score: 1

      Maybe one of these would do the trick:

      http://www.grandtournation.com/5317/ambulance-shenanigans/

  6. Re:Remains to be seen... by bobbied · · Score: 1

    Visitation is to the right.... Everybody else just left...

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  7. Easily handled by technology by SuperKendall · · Score: 2

    Part of going to a funeral is to talk with the other people who knew the deceased person, give your support, etc.

    They can do that in a Slack group.

    The service seems a little clunky though, having to enter your name and such by hand - what is needed is NFC support for paying respects, AKA RespectPay. Then you just drive up, wave your phone (or watch) at the respect terminal, and respects were paid in person without making other people wait.

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  8. Surprised. by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 1

    I thought America is where this would happen first.

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    1. Re:Surprised. by DramaGeek · · Score: 2

      Done! Three years ago. And that's just the one I remember hearing about on the news, possibly not the first.
      http://www.mlive.com/news/sagi...

  9. Right next to the suicide booth by jfdavis668 · · Score: 1

    The coin operated type.

  10. Phht That's nothing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    With my Amazon Prime membership, I can have the deceased shipped to me. I get it within two days, pay my respects, and then print out a return label and drop the corpse off at Staples.

  11. A Totally Bullshit Story by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    English language media outlets, like The Japan Times, always focus on oddball news. They are almost NEVER an accurate portrayal of life in Japan. They do Japan a great disservice by catering to our love of the sensational.

    During the decades that I lived in Japan, I attended several traditional Buddhist funerals. They were always profoundly beautiful and respectful. It's unfortunate that most Americans have no idea about the true nature of funerals in Japan.

    Frankly, the American tradition of a caravan of cars escorting an $8000 coffin to the cemetery is plain repulsive - but it does match our culture.

  12. May work by inking · · Score: 1

    This may seem a bit crass, but you have to consider that the Japanese are essentially socially obligated to attend funerals of the extended family they may not really care about much. When the current senior generation has half a dozen siblings this becomes a bit hard on the already very old living seniors. It’s not really the western get together and remember the joyful moments of the deceased’s life kind of event that you may think it is.

  13. News for nerds ... by kbahey · · Score: 1

    Yeah, and this is news for nerds?

    Why is this on Slashdot?

  14. Next up: car-wrecker by ljw1004 · · Score: 1

    Next up: drive-through funeral home and car-wrecker!

  15. Perhaps there's a cost factor by UnsignedInt32 · · Score: 1

    I think this is more of an cost factor that's in play here. Perhaps this is catered more to people who wouldn't be holding the funerals at all. Holding funeral in Japan can be expensive and good chunk of the fund comes from the funeral attendees. If enough people are not attending due to their availabilities then I can see that would be problem...

  16. Save face. by Mal-2 · · Score: 1

    Remember, this is also the country whose toilets make fake flushing noises. Everything is about appearances. Putting your name on a list at a funeral "proves" you care so much , you will do the absolute minimum socially necessary.

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    1. Re:Save face. by techno-vampire · · Score: 1

      It's also convenient for high-level execs who have to turn up at the funeral of a worker who died of overwork even though the exec never met the worker, doesn't care but doesn't want to lose face by ignoring the incident.

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  17. No thanks. by Wdomburg · · Score: 4, Funny

    Manually enter my name on a device? What century are we in?

    I'll start attending funerals when I can check in via E-ZPass. And they better have a 20MPH lane. I'm not slowing down to 5MPH for anyone but immediate family.

    1. Re: No thanks. by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      No way. That's completely the wrong direction to go with this. What they really need to do is partner with McDonald's so you can pick up a happy meal for the ride home.

  18. Drop offs too! by HideyoshiJP · · Score: 1

    The good news is that they also have a drop-off as well. It's labelled "."

    1. Re:Drop offs too! by HideyoshiJP · · Score: 1

      Crap. Joke got hosed. It was supposed to say "moeru gomi" which is Japanese for burnable trash.

  19. Not new by rot26 · · Score: 1

    https://www.roadsideamerica.co... We had one of these a couple of decades ago. I believe somebody tried to make a night deposit and it was closed shortly thereafter.

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  20. In other news by bn-7bc · · Score: 1

    Soilent green production ramps up in Japan, and an un named japanese ad agency came appolagices for the ad stating” Did grandma die tiday? Well you can have her for dinner tomorrow evedently a somewhat desturbed intern changed the text pefor it eas publshed, both he and his supervisor has been let go.

  21. Re:People "short" on time by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

    Someone needs to "nip" this in the bud.

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  22. Drive-Thru, McD Style by n329619 · · Score: 1

    Welcome to Nagano Funeral Service! What would you like today?

    We service wooden coffins, metal coffins, headstones, flowers, shovels, ritual priests and dead lawyers! Our today's special is the wooden coffin set with flowers for only $999.99!

  23. Simpsons did it! by RenHoek · · Score: 1

    Been there, done that.. try this one from 2012 for example:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/new...

    So.. world's first?