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The Majority of Americans Prefer To Be Greeted With 'Merry Christmas' Over 'Happy Holidays', a Poll Finds

"Merry Christmas" is the preferred greeting of a strong majority of Americans. A survey carried in conjunction by news outlet Axios and SurveyMonkey found that 65 percent of the participants wish to be greeted with "Merry Christmas," while 28% prefer "Happy Holidays."

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  1. Preference vs. STRONG preference by mi · · Score: 2, Insightful

    65 percent of the participants wish to be greeted with "Merry Christmas," while 28% prefer "Happy Holidays."

    But the minority is willing to use violence , so we are all stuck with the neutered version.

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    1. Re:Preference vs. STRONG preference by JoshuaZ · · Score: 4, Insightful

      One can easily find behavior by people upset and angry over either version of this. The problem there is people engaging in violence in general over minor things. If you think that violent behavior is relegated to almost any single position on some issue, then you are probably wrong.

    2. Re:Preference vs. STRONG preference by jellomizer · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It depends on which side of the political spectrum you are in. Some people say Merry Christmas in a tone to say. Most of us are Christians so deal with it, vs just a friendly well wishing of the holidays.
      I tend to use Happy Holidays myself when dealing with people I don’t know. Not because I am trying to be PC or afraid they will be insulted for using a Christian holiday. But because I may not see this person for a few months so they will go then the holiday gauntlet thanks giving, Christmas and new years. And if they are celebrating some other holiday I hope they have a good time with it as well.
      If it is someone closer to me then I’ll use Merry Christmas just because I know they are celebrating Christmas and I’ll probably see them for other holidays.
      There is being PC then there is just being kind.

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    3. Re:Preference vs. STRONG preference by LynnwoodRooster · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Christmas is the official Federal holiday; what other Federal holiday is there on or around December 25th?

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    4. Re:Preference vs. STRONG preference by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe the constant begging and ringing of the damn bell caused that person to flip. I sure can sympathize.

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    5. Re:Preference vs. STRONG preference by Opportunist · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm an atheist. And to me the difference between a delusion and a religion is basically the amount of people who share the delusion. Look up the textbook definition of delusion an tell me with a straight face that if it wasn't for the explicit exemption of religions from the definition that it would not fully, 100% describe basically any religion out there.

      Still, if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I wish them the same. Not because or despite any religion but because I know how they mean it. It is a happy wish from someone who wishes you to be happy. And the very last thing I could think of in that moment is how offended I could possibly be because he assumes that I share his delusion.

      At some point you just have to understand what people mean when they say something and not assume the worst. This is one of the occasions when it would be wrong to do so.

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  2. Nobody gives a fuck. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Conservative snowflakes need to be reminded of Jesus Christ, the Liberal activist? Too bad they don't seem to know anything about his teachings.

    1. Re: Nobody gives a fuck. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This is a silly post. Let's discuss all the reasons why.

      Christmas has its origins as a religious holiday, and is still celebrated as such. It's also the largest secular holiday of the year. No other holiday has nearly a month of special TV programming or the level of decorations that are given to Christmas. It's a federal holiday, as well. It's also become extremely commercialized. And there's also a lot of encouragement during the Christmas season to donate to charity and to more generally show good will toward others. One need not be a Christian to celebrate most of what Christmas has become. There is a very large secular and cultural element to the Christmas holiday. Aside from trees, Santa Claus is probably the most recognizable symbol of Christmas. Although the origins of Santa Claus are also religious, it's become almost totally secular and extremely commercialized.

      In regard to saying 'Happy Holidays', there are other holidays celebrated around the same time such as Hanukkah and, more recently, Kwanzaa. There's also the universal and secular holiday of New Year's Day. Happy holidays could include New Year's Day. It can also recognize that other people celebrate other holidays around the same time as Christmas. I have no problem with this.

      However, it's stupid to say 'Happy Holidays' if the reason is to risk not offending others. If you're offended by someone saying 'Merry Christmas', that is ridiculous. It's a case of being overly politically correct, and that is harmful. We're too afraid of offending people, especially because most people are sensible enough to not he offended by someone wishing them a Merry Christmas.

      Personally, I believe that wishing someone a Merry Christmas evokes more feelings of warmth and joy than wishing Happy Holidays. In large part, this is because of the cultural element of giving to others at Christmas and treating each other with good will. If you ignore the religious aspects of Christmas, there are many wonderful cultural and totally secular aspects of the holiday that everyone should be able to appreciate. That's why I prefer to be wished a Merry Christmas.

  3. Majority by Tailhook · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The majority of Americans aren't hate-filled malcontents that actively seek opportunities to be offended by nothing little holiday traditions. The majority of Americans know there is nothing in "Merry Christmas" that needs to be fixed and have low regard the shitheels that think there is.

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  4. Re: Yes, but that's not the issue. by tjansen · · Score: 4, Insightful

    But isn't wishing a Merry Christmas like wishing someone to have a great weekend? It feels odd when someone says it even though you're going to work all weekend, but it's just a custom and well intentioned.

  5. Re: Yes, but that's not the issue. by JoshuaZ · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Pretty much every single thing in your statement is wrong. First of all, the US isn't a country based off of Christian law. Second, of all obeying the law has nothing to do what greetings people use during holiday seasons. Third, I'm more than happy to say "Merry Christmas" to people who are Christian. Moreover, I explicitly said that *I don't care* if someone says Merry Christmas to me. The entire point was that experiences like the one I had make me understand why people would be directly uncomfortable with it.

  6. Bah... by Subm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Humbug!

  7. Re:Yes, but that's not the issue. by iNaya · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I don't celebrate Christmas, and I don't give a damn if someone says "Merry Christmas" or anything else. I also don't care if people celebrate other religious holidays. It's not exclusionary - they're not excluding anyone. What kind of self-righteous dickhead does someone have to be to be offended by someone saying "Merry Christmas" or "Happy Channukah", or spreading their joy of a Hindu holiday or whatever. Who honestly gives a fuck?

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  8. Greetings are from the greeter’s point of vi by Picodon · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Frankly, I don’t see anything in that conversation showing that your colleague “could not get in his head that someome didn’t celebrate Christmas”. He heard you, and on his way out, merely wished you an enjoyable day on the day that he calls Christmas Day.

    Seasonal greetings are not a reference to you, your culture and your lifestyle. They are a reference to those of the person greeting you (and, typically, of the larger community around you).

    For example, on Thanksgiving day, people who were not born in America likely won’t care a bit. Does that mean that it’s not Thanksgiving Day for them? Don’t they have the day off like everyone else? Should we care that they aren’t going to celebrate it? We wish them a happy day, and that day is named Thanksgiving Day. So Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

    Same thing for Christmas and any other holiday that’s massively followed by the larger part of the population. There’s nothing oppressive about it, unless one chooses to feel oppressed by it. Conversely, there is something oppressive about telling people that they may not name traditions that their community has long been widely following.

    If a Jewish faithful said something like “Happy Hanukkah” to me, I would absolutely find it oppressive on my part to tell him that I feel harassed by it. Personally, I would find his greeting inclusive on his part. I’d feel that he was mostly expressing friendship, while sharing a bit of his faith and culture, in a welcoming way, without trying to force it on me: a greeting is not the same thing as proselytising!

  9. Re:Of course they are by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The campaign, dubbed Project Cassandra, was launched in 2008

    Obama didn't become President until 2009.

    Funny how that article completely glosses over that fact. It's almost like the author might be biased.

  10. Re:Worst slashdot article ever? by GrumpySteen · · Score: 3, Insightful

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  11. Uh... no by rsilvergun · · Score: 5, Insightful

    it mostly came out of government functions. Schools, court buildings, etc. People were 'triggered' because a lot of non Christians get kinda nervous about the cult-like atmosphere of the evangelicals, the fact that many of our closest allies are still theocracies and the thousands of years of recorded history of religion being used in conjuncture with government to oppress.

    Through a lot of hard fought battles America became a secular nation, there are those of us who want to keep it that way. And then there are those among us who do not.

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  12. Re:Yes, but that's not the issue. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Quite frankly, I think you're just being really touchy about the whole issue with your work colleague. As someone else said, he just wanted to wish you a good day on what he considered a special day. You seem desperately needing to be offended in some way by someone who's only trying to inquire about your family and plans. I think that's a big problem in our society right now.

    Your colleague is certainly tolerate and accepting of your different religion. He's not particularly knowledgeable about yours, and why should he be? If you were into Football, and he's into basketball, do you have to get all huffy when he doesn't know about when your Big Game is?

    I can also understand why people get huffy about "merry christmas". I understand a lot of people get huffy about a lot of things that they shouldn't be. I also understand why wars happen. Understanding something and agreeing with it are two different things.

  13. The problem is not one over the other by WindBourne · · Score: 1, Insightful

    The problem is when 1 of the many greetings are forced on ppl. Seriously, back in the 60s, we used both, but probably more merry Christmas. However, the far left started pushing out merry Christmas, then the far right tried to force it on everyone, and finally, the extreme far right runs around screaming that it is all about baby Jesus birth, hates santa, trees, etc and ignores the evidence in the Bible that proves, he was either spring/fall.

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  14. Re:Yes, but that's not the issue. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1, Insightful

    The problem with Christmas is that it's not just a religious holiday any more, it's a mandatory retail and work event.

    For two months of the year, 1/6th of your life, it's hard to avoid. Every shop and public space has the same shitty Christmas music, all the stuff you want to buy was moved to stores to make way for red and white tat, and the car parks are full to overflowing because everyone wants to buy some crap to wrap up for their friends and family.

    I've managed to stop any gift giving for a few years now, which is a huge load off. These days I tend to just fly east to where it's not such a big deal.

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