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People Are Using Venmo To Spy On Cheating Spouses (marketwatch.com)

According to MarketWatch's Leslie Albrecht, people are using the peer-to-peer payment app Venmo to find out if their spouse is cheating. Some are even saying the app is more effective than Facebook at this sort of investigation. "What you're seeing on Instagram or Facebook is what they want you to see," said Abby Faber, a 19-year-old freshman at Indiana University. "They're edited pictures that they put up. But with Venmo, it's very normal casual interactions. It's what they were doing and spending money on." From the report: Some users seem to forget that their transactions are public by default, and their payment activity provides an unfiltered paper trail of what's really happening in their lives. In [Faber's] case, she checked up on her ex-boyfriend and saw he was spending money on pizza and the popular video game Fortnite -- and making regular payments to one girl, who Faber guessed is his new hook-up.

Venmo has had a social component since it launched in 2009. Users see a feed of both their own friends' payments and total strangers' activity every time they open the app, and it's easy to look up users. Exact amounts aren't listed, but you can see who's paying who and which words or emoji they use to describe the payment. The social feed is Venmo's "secret sauce," said Erin Mackey, a spokeswoman for Venmo and its parent company PayPal. In fact, it's usually the reason people are logging on. "Our most active users check Venmo daily and the average user checks Venmo two to three times per week -- and it's not for payments, but to see what their friends and family are doing."
The report mentions a settlement Venmo reached with the FTC last year over its public-by-default social component. The FTC accused (PDF) Venmo of "misleading" users about the fact that they needed to change two separate privacy settings to make their transactions completely private. "Venmo reached a settlement with the FTC, and a company spokesperson noted that users now have three options for controlling who can see their payments," reports MarketWatch.

102 comments

  1. Hahahahaha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's all I have to say!

    1. Re: Hahahahaha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I use cash for all my girlfriends.

    2. Re: Hahahahaha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I pay cash for all my girlfriends.

      FIFY

    3. Re: Hahahahaha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      No, I use cash for all my girlfriends.

      Especially Alexandra Hamilton. I have a whole detailed biography with her.

  2. Uh, that's a hooker by Notabadguy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "In [Faber's] case, she checked up on her ex-boyfriend and saw he was spending money on pizza and the popular video game Fortnite -- and making regular payments to one girl, who Faber guessed is his new hook-up. "

    That's a hooker.

    1. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or his dealer, or a cam girl.

    2. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I bet you're a lot of fun at parties too. My wife is also my best friend. Pretty sure I wouldn't feel the same way about a hooker.

    3. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Informative

      If you're not friends with your hooker then you're doing it wrong.

      Hell, my wife does dirty stuff for me to the point of making a hooker blush.

      I still pay for it one way or another.

    4. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by gnick · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If the most valuable thing about your SO is the sex, it might be time to reevaluate your relationship.

      If your SO considers sex a chore, you might want to reevaluate a couple of things.

      --
      He's getting rather old, but he's a good mouse.
    5. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      As long as sheâ(TM)s not a stalker like the first girl.

    6. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Hell, my wife does dirty stuff for me to the point of making a hooker blush.

      Your blushing hooker wife is embarrassed because your penis is so small. Like throwing a hotdog down a filthy hallway covered in graffiti with even more passed out hookers and syringes lining the floors.

    7. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh please. Every man pays for sex.

      Indeed. This is why men need higher salaries.

    8. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      >if the most valuable thing about your concert ticket is the titular band
      Point is you're still shelling out, regardless which part of the hipster "experience" you value.

      No, the actual fucking point here is wife and hooker are not interchangeable on a whim, so enough of splitting cunt hairs over the cost already.

      Those who love with their heart value their SO above all, so expense is irrelevant.

      Those who love with their wallet...well, it's rather fucking obvious what's truly most important.

    9. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by gnick · · Score: 3, Funny

      Point is you're still shelling out, regardless which part of the hipster "experience" you value.

      Damn. I'm shelling out for my kids too and I don't even have sex with them. My dog's never paid a dime in rent. Am I ever a sucker... Shelling out for all these worthless relationships...

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      He's getting rather old, but he's a good mouse.
    10. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Said by someone who has never had their trust broken. Love ain't got nothing to do with it.

    11. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by alvinrod · · Score: 3, Funny

      As the old saying goes, you don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay her to leave.

    12. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by dryeo · · Score: 3, Funny

      Could be worse, you could be shelling out for a cat.

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    13. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Hooker is just a type of paid sex. So is wife"

      It's less true than it used to be but still overwhelmingly so

    14. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Those who love with their heart value their SO above all, so expense is irrelevant."

      Have you seen the divorce rates lately? And how much higher it is countries where you're free to "love with your heart" vs where arranged marriages are common?

      When a couple ends up in divorce court, they don't ask for their love or heart to be returned, they fight over the house and the cash & other "irrelevant expenses"

    15. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by scottrocket · · Score: 3, Insightful

      What drew my attention was ..."she checked up on her ex-boyfriend." Ha.

    16. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Freischutz · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Could be worse, you could be shelling out for a cat.

      Yeah, but at least the cat isn't pretending to give a shit, it's very open and honest about not giving a shit about you and that kind of honesty is something to value.

    17. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2

      Could be worse, you could be shelling out for a cat.

      Yeah, but you can keep a cat locked up in your basement without clothes and no one will call the cops on you.

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      "That's the way to do it" - Punch
    18. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by tsstahl · · Score: 2

      Yea, how the heck does she get a pass for being a stalker? WTH!

    19. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by thepigwanker · · Score: 1

      Your blushing hooker wife is embarrassed because your penis is so small. Like throwing a hotdog down a filthy hallway covered in graffiti with even more passed out hookers and syringes lining the floors.

      I'm having trouble following this analogy. I get the hot dog (tiny penis) and the hallway (large orifice), but what are the "even more passed out hookers" or "syringes lining the floors"?

    20. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by deanojo · · Score: 0

      A stalker watching a hooker

    21. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by doubledown00 · · Score: 1

      Your blushing hooker wife is embarrassed because your penis is so small. Like throwing a hotdog down a filthy hallway covered in graffiti with even more passed out hookers and syringes lining the floors.

      Don't threaten me with a good time!

    22. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A fella could have a good time in dallas(Vegas) with all that stuff.

    23. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Outta_the_way_peck! · · Score: 1

      No, the actual fucking point here is wife and hooker are not interchangeable on a whim

      This is true. The hooker doesn't take half your stuff when she leaves.

    24. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If it flies, floats, or fucks it's cheaper to rent it.

    25. Re:Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yea, how the heck does she get a pass for being a stalker? WTH!

      She did it under the guise of research, so it's okay! : )

    26. Re: Uh, that's a hooker by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wonder if that has anything to do with the fact that in cultures with arranged marriages, the woman would be excommunicated from her family and/or have acid thrown on her and/or be gang raped by her husband and his distant male relatives if she even considered divorce, if that's even a legal option in their country.
      The man would probably also be shamed and maybe exiled, but escapes relatively unscathed.

  3. I still prefer cash. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe I am just old.

    1. Re:I still prefer cash. by gnick · · Score: 1

      Cash acquired by requesting cash back from other purchases. That way the Man doesn't know how much cash you're going through based on bank statements. Can't be too careful.

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      He's getting rather old, but he's a good mouse.
  4. Why in the hell.. by thomn8r · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ...would someone use a payment system that tells everyone else what they're spending money on? Is the Snowflake Generation so narcissistic that they can't keep anything private?

    1. Re:Why in the hell.. by sqorbit · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That was exactly my thought. How self absorbed do you have to be to want to "socialize" your spending habits?

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    2. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Presumably to create one of these believable facades. Apparently all I have to do is spend some money here and there to make a cover, then do the real work with cash. Sounds like a perfect app for fraud, but then again, I use Facebook this way too. LOL.

    3. Re:Why in the hell.. by tlhIngan · · Score: 4, Interesting

      ...would someone use a payment system that tells everyone else what they're spending money on? Is the Snowflake Generation so narcissistic that they can't keep anything private?

      Exactly. It's the braggart payment system.

      It's all about the brag - you brag about your vacation on social media, about the new phone you bought, your new clothes, etc.

      Venmo sumply capitalizes on that - hey, how you can PROVE you bought those items and not merely borrowed them!. Look at me buying my new phone!

      And yes, it's a thing - turns out a lot of people beg/borrow/steal items for their selfies. Like they may take a nice selfie in a fancy car, but it turns out it's owned by a family friend instead. There was one YouTube personality whose mom filmed her daughter using the mom's boss's fancy sports car saying how rich she was. As mom was a realtor, there was plenty of filming to be hand in client houses, too.

      It was only news because the mom got fired after she got found out. She now managers her daughter. But you can bet Venmo will be used heavily to prove those items were bought and not borrowed.

    4. Re:Why in the hell.. by Master+Moose · · Score: 1

      I had never heard of this app and can think of few things more ridiculous!
       

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    5. Re:Why in the hell.. by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      Not me, I used VenMo for the convenience.

      I thought I was sharing everything privately, but after reading the summary, I am not so sure anymore since I only saw one setting for setting privacy, not two.

    6. Re:Why in the hell.. by Peter+P+Peters · · Score: 1

      I had never heard of this app and can think of few things more ridiculous!

      Same here. Is this a paid ad? The concept sounds ridiculous, I'm not sure why anyone would bother...

    7. Re: Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Isn't that woman's daughter "the youngest flexer of the century" or something?

    8. Re:Why in the hell.. by drolli · · Score: 1

      I am getting old too, and don't get it, too. Why on earth would I want to see my friends payments???

      Probably there is a selfie function which takes a photo, right when you press the "pay" button, to show how happy you are when spending money.

    9. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The terms "vapid" and "bowel movement" come to mind.

    10. Re:Why in the hell.. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It's all about the brag - you brag about your vacation on social media, about the new phone you bought, your new clothes, etc.

      Except that:

      - You can only pay other people, it's not accepted by most businesses and Apple certainly won't take it as payment for an iPhone

      - The transaction amount is not public, so as far as anyone else knows you might have sent $0.01 to that person

      It's still exceptionally stupid but as a bragging tool falls short.

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      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    11. Re: Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Came for this, did not leave disappointed?

    12. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have no idea, I have bank account in a different country to pay for private things.

    13. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Never heard of conspicuous consumption? "See all this money I'm spending, look how good my life is!"

    14. Re:Why in the hell.. by mcmonkey · · Score: 1

      I thought I was sharing everything privately

      That's the exact opposite of "sharing."

    15. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Guessing there isn't a chance in HELL of significant numbers of people -actually- using this as a social platform and logging in every day just to see what's happening.

      This WREAKS of publicity generation.

    16. Re:Why in the hell.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was thinking that as well as; Why are technology companies enabling people to fall deeper down the slope of anxiety instead of finding ways to help cure mental health issues?

  5. Huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Some users seem to forget that their transactions are public by default, and their payment activity provides an unfiltered paper trail of what's really happening in their lives.

    What ... the ... actual ... goddamned ... fuck????

    I had to Google, but this is a PayPal app, which makes your fucking transactions public by default?

    Jesus mother fucking Christ almighty ... so, PayPal are assholes and people are idiots?

    Why the fuck would you be using a payment app which makes your transactions public by default?

    Fucking people and their social media, I will never understand this bullshit.

    Whatever, I don't give a fuck what you idiots do. I don't understand it, but run wild, just leave me the fuck out of it.

  6. WTF? by jcr · · Score: 1

    Why would anyone use a payment app that exposes your transactions to anyone who wants to snoop?

    -jcr

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    The only title of honor that a tyrant can grant is "Enemy of the State."
    1. Re: WTF? by stroxor · · Score: 1

      The internet is such a venom that Ruby Roundhouse is allergic to it.

    2. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Because it was the first to make direct debits in the USA work like they do in the developed world.

      You plug in your credit card (Venmo charges 3%) or bank accounts (no charge) and then you can use Venmo to easily send money to the people around you and can transfer received money to your bank accounts or credit cards with the tap of a button.

      It's very handy for social situations like when you go out to lunch or dinner with a group - someone can pay the whole bill on their credit card and then you can easily pay them your share. Every user has a handle and optional profile picture so you don't need to futz around with ABA and account numbers and its easy to find them when adding to your contacts list.

      There is a setting for the default visibility of your transactions. All of mine default to private so that only me and the other party can see them. I never understood why anyone would want to publish to the world their spending habits.

    3. Re:WTF? by alvinrod · · Score: 2

      I think it's because the world is full of narcissists hunting for new ways to say "look at me!"

    4. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, the world is full of narcissists that we don't look at. Why would anyone look up the payments of someone else? Someone who isn't even a celebrity (real celebrities don't need to bother with venmo stuff, people look at them anyway.)

      Watching paint dry would be better - at least I don't have to look up the paint on some smarphone in order to get bored by it.

    5. Re:WTF? by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      Because it was the first to make direct debits in the USA work like they do in the developed world.

      I didn't realize they had been around that long. How are they so far behind Paypal then if Paypal came after them? Paypal is everywhere- I've never heard of Venmo before today.

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      "That's the way to do it" - Punch
  7. Why use this service at all?????? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    WHY? WHY? WHY? Why does everything you do or say or purchase or read or watch or order something that instantly needs to be publicly shared???? Why would your Freida be interested in what you recently spent money on? To brag about how much money they have? I just don't get this "social media" crap. Update: Steve just farted. Update: Steve walked to the fridge and took out a Budweiser and is drinking it while watching DeadPool.

  8. Spying? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is it really spying if the data is just out there for anyone to see?

  9. Speaking of cheating spouses by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    National Enquirer has a $1M reward for anyone who can pony up a copy of the Twitler and Stormy video.

    You know there has to be one.

    1. Re: Speaking of cheating spouses by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      He only had sex with her once. It was a lay, not a relationship. There probably isn't video. Heck, the woman gets good money fir sex on camera. Why would she allow anybody to film her for free?

    2. Re: Speaking of cheating spouses by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      He only had sex with her once. It was a lay, not a relationship. There probably isn't video. Heck, the woman gets good money fir sex on camera. Why would she allow anybody to film her for free?

      She claims she has evidence of it happening. Unless she is bluffing or has a semen stained dress, I'm not sure what evidence it would be. I'm also not sure why either of them would videotape it unless one was planning on using it against the other in the future- but who knows... ... I'm still amazed ANYONE who isn't being paid voluntarily gets infront of a camera in this day and age when all the tapes get leaked.

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    3. Re: Speaking of cheating spouses by terrycarlino · · Score: 1

      Why would she need proof? Has Trump ever denied it?

    4. Re: Speaking of cheating spouses by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      Why would she need proof? Has Trump ever denied it?

      To be honest. I don't know if he has. Part of him is probably proud it has made news.

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      "That's the way to do it" - Punch
    5. Re: Speaking of cheating spouses by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      Part of Trump's fan base probably admires that he has had 'fun' with hot pornstars. He doesn't carry on about it, but his proven propensity for locker room bragging in private shows it's not anything he's personally ashamed of.

      It isn't hard to imagine a different world where people aren't shamed for their sexual activities. A world where, for instance, Bill Clinton would have said 'Yes, I've fooled around some in the Oval Office. My wife Hillary knows I stray once in awhile, but she knows that the two of us are forever, so it's no big deal.' People would have laughed and moved on.

  10. Ummmm.... WHAT?!?!?!?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That is the stupidest thing i've ever heard of!

  11. peer to peer with emojis by labnet · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It seems venmo is a peer to peer payment app that also lets you leave social media comments.
    In fact the platform started as a text messaging service. Its seeing huge growth with Millennials to 'settle up' with each other. Think, your drinks tab, sharing a cab, selling a game.

    I think us lower UIDs, who have a solid memory of Hitler, Stalin, Mao, remember that spying was the key to rounding up millions of 'non conformists' for imprisonment or extermination. Young people don't have this historic memory of how psychopaths in power can misuse this information.

    Statistically the world is becoming more peaceful and perhaps us oldies are just paranoid: time will tell!

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    1. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Skidge · · Score: 1

      Solid memory of Hitler? How old do you think us lower UIDs are? (He died 73 years ago.) Young people should have had relatively the same history education vis-a-vis Hitler, Stalin, and Mao as us old folks. Hitler, Stalin, and Mao are more of the generation of my grandparents, and I have a lower UID than you and joined slashdot as an adult.

    2. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, some of us did pay attention in history class. We still have nerds you know. Those that did know full well not to trust people that demand things like social credit scores, databases, and constant tracking.

      Sadly, you are right, many of our generation have decided to up the anti on the "ME!" generation and take it to the next level. Those people could care less about the problems going on. They view it as an opertuniuty to spread satisfaction and spotlight on themselves like butter before a meal. Not caring and or knowing that they and their descendants are the main course.

      There is no need to wait for time to tell you, it already has if you've been paying attention, and it's message was not a good one. If you don't believe me on that, go look at the instability and desire for war those that lead have. If that doesn't convince you take a good long look at education and the rise of renting in this country. If you're still unconvicned, try taking a good comparison of Hitler, Stalin, and Mao and the current US President as well as the movements that got them their power. Nothing good comes from greed, pride, and wrath. Something that all of the leaders above and their movements embody.

    3. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's called growing up in a time when those examples were still fresh in the social consciousness. God the pedantry of some people...

    4. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sadly, you are right, many of our generation have decided to up the ante on the "ME!" generation (...)

      FTFY [yeah i am, i know]

    5. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not pedantry to call out a ridiculous claim.

    6. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ummm...in case you didn't realize, people who grew up in the 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s leant about the nazis and Hitler. These days not so much. These days world war II was just an exciting video game to be played. Did you really need it explained?

    7. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Bongo · · Score: 1

      Well, Eastern Europe, the Berlin Wall, and the threat of nuclear war. Fatalism and cynicism.

    8. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Daltorak · · Score: 2

      I think us lower UIDs, who have a solid memory of Hitler, Stalin, Mao, remember that spying w

      WHOAH, whoah, hold up a second there dude.... all I have a solid memory of is a Beowulf cluster of hot grits, served up by a petrified Natalie Portman!

    9. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As the years and decades have gone by, less and less history has been taught in schools. Your average American now can barely recall 9/11.

      Hell, for me, a Gen Xer, the people in my classes in school were borderline dipshits who couldn't find VietNam on a world map, and could barely find the US. That "dipshitedness", that "I'm cool because I don't know anything" has if anything, become more of a badge of honor in the years since.

      labnet makes an excellent point, and you're reply is ridiculous to say the least.

      The next time you're around some millennials, bring up something like the Iran-Contra scandal, Prohibition, or yea, even WWII, and see what kind of a response you get. Silence, as the stares never move away from their phones. And that is the irony, because their phones could give them a world of knowledge, yet they are used for the most trivial of pursuits. To quote Trump, "sad".

    10. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ummm...in case you didn't realize, people who grew up in the 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s leant about the nazis and Hitler. These days not so much. These days world war II was just an exciting video game to be played. Did you really need it explained?

      I'd like it explained which decade you actually grew up in, because if you're not prepared to shut up about it we might as well find out just how fucking ridiculous your original post was.

    11. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Snowflake generation gets their Hitler education from fellow Progressives or from outlets like CNN. In summary, each Republican presidential candidate is literally Hitler.

    12. Re:peer to peer with emojis by j-beda · · Score: 1

      "Snowflake generation gets their Hitler education from fellow Progressives or from outlets like CNN. In summary, each Republican presidential candidate is literally Hitler."

      Literally?

    13. Re: peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think he meant figuratively. ;)

    14. Re: peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They are staring at their phones because they have to google it first. Please do keep up ;)

    15. Re: peer to peer with emojis by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I finally submitted my GNAA application. I was downloading APK host file manager while browsing humpyycreimer on youboob.

    16. Re:peer to peer with emojis by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Yeah, of those three only Mao was alive when I was born and he didn't stick around for long afterwards.

      I have a solid memory of the Stasi, how they operated, the vicious society they caused.

      I now spend time and money trying to stop my own government becoming them. The latest generation are seriously not fucking helping.

  12. Need The Psychological Term by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I read the headline as "People Are Using Venmo To Spy On Cheating Whores" before quickly realizing it says spouses. What in god's name is the term used for that kind of shit?

  13. There you Have It! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't pay for your regular hooker with Venmo.

    Also, don't stick your dick in someone as dumb as a bag of rocks.

    Also, I think that the users of Venmo might be as dumb as a bag of rocks.

  14. Source? Linkage? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does anyone have a link to a Venmo user account? I want to see the what the public transactions look like.

  15. Just use cash by WillAffleckUW · · Score: 1

    That can also be tracked, but not by your spouse.

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  16. Thank you! by King_TJ · · Score: 1

    I've heard of Venmo but actually assumed it was one of those "next gen" web business ideas that would crash and burn. Didn't even realize it was still a "thing".

    It truly is one of the most STUPID, INANE ideas I can fathom that you'd want to tie in your payments for services or things to some kind of social network. Here we are, fighting for privacy in the era of security breaches everywhere, where people are stealing your personal information -- and yet we have these services that enable sharing the same kind of stuff freely and openly!

  17. Spying on cheating spouse by PPH · · Score: 1

    Not my own. But I'm looking for prospects.

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  18. Whew. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I had a customer wanting to pay me using Venmo for drugs. Jesus christ I'm glad I've never been into digital payments. Cash, bitches.

  19. Holy Cow by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 2

    I already avoided Venmo because its security was apparently designed by cocaine-addled autistic toddlers... but TRANSACTIONS are PUBLIC by DEFAULT?!

    Perhaps I’ve been overestimating their security staff, all this time.

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    1. Re:Holy Cow by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      You know they are owned by PayPal, right?

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    2. Re: Holy Cow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      His point still stands ;)

  20. Ex-boyfriend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    it's not even cheating.

  21. cash rules by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    and thats why (and many other reasons) I prefer to use cash unless obliged by law to do otherwise... fuck the cashless society, is all a scam to spy on you , is not convenient to use this apps, convenient is to have a big fat stack of 100s and pay with them

  22. Rule #1 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If youraction.condition == 'sketchy'
            payment.type = 'cash'
    else
          youraction.do_it = False

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