Cursing as Peephole Into Brain Architecture
tabdelgawad writes "The New York Times offers this excellent and entertaining writeup on cursing and its role in recent studies of the brain. The article discusses the universality of cursing across time, space, and culture, its varied roles, from linguistic evolution to anger management, and its uses in recent brain research. You can also read all about the sexual effects of uttering obscenities and the swearing habits of sorority women." From the article: "Researchers point out that cursing is often an amalgam of raw, spontaneous feeling and targeted, gimlet-eyed cunning. When one person curses at another, they say, the curser rarely spews obscenities and insults at random, but rather will assess the object of his wrath, and adjust the content of the 'uncontrollable' outburst accordingly." As someone who plays a lot of MMOGs, in my experience this is only mostly true.
hey say, the curser rarely spews obscenities and insults at random, but rather will assess the object of his wrath, and adjust the content of the 'uncontrollable' outburst accordingly."
And that expectation (which we all have) is why it's so damn funny in Office Space when Samir, the non-native English speaker, is cursing completely inappropriately. SON OF A F$*(!
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I think that researchers who study the evolution of linguistics really don't care much about the "experiences" of "someone who plays a lot of MMOGs".
I know that I tend to react "guiltily" to being challenged, regardless of whether I'm actually in the wrong. I suspect this is a consequence of the fact that, when one's parents are enraged at, for example, the paint on the walls, one's guilt or innocence (no really, my sister did it) ceases to be an issue. Then if, as I suspect, the detectable physiological reaction to guilt is fear-based, it could be that the so-called "liars" just had parents who were a bit hasty with the shouting and the smacking and the grounding. Hardly a basis on which to lock them up.
For the love of God, please learn to spell "ridiculous"!!!
Yes, they are. I suspect that in their case, the effect of the word has worn off on them, and the word "fuck" is no longer stored in the area of the brain wherein the other curse words are stored. Instead, it is stored along side of "like" and "lol" and the other overused (and therefore worthless) words.
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Fuck the FCC. What gives them the right to decide that a word is improper? It's a fucking word. Get over it. If it's ok to convey the idea how can it possibly be wrong to convey it with a certain word?
The FCC shouldn't be in the business of setting moral standards.
Last time I checked, Wiktionary is written by random people from the web, whereas the New York Times is written by people who actually know something. Look -- yours truly, yet another random person from the web, just modified the Wiktionary definition to make you a liar:
http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/golly#Etymology_1
Wiktionary and Wikipedia are cool concepts, but they must not be used as sources for any research beyond common harmless curiosity.
Quoting a reference from the 1940's (ok, it was Doc Smith, but he was a product of his time and highly idiomatic in his choice of language) a pre-modern perception was that men swore and women didn't. "Men swear to keep from crying, women cry to keep from swearing" quoth Kinneson. Both functions were considered equivalent mechanisms for blowing off steam.
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There is nothing magical about the word "fuck". We could have easily called a chair "fuck", and use "chair" as a curse word. In most languages, "fuck" is not an offensive sound.
So if you have taught yourself that "darn" is a curse word, then I'm going to assume that "darn" will trigger the same response as "fuck" in most people.
What's more interesting are the people who can't stand the idea of a person who doesn't swear, and who reflexively curse and deride such a person. I wonder why that is? There's nothing wrong with holding yourself to a high standard of conduct, the world would be a better place if more people made a conscious effort to control their behavior.
Same ... I almost never swear, and the only time in my entire life that I have was with a partner who delighted in calling me a bitch or slut at every opportunity. Normally 'naughty words' wouldn't cross my lips (or my typing fingers) but this one person swore, and I ended up swearing as well in an attempt to get my point across. It didn't come naturally though - as someone who normally wouldn't swear, I had to force those words out.
I never could manage to get my point across no matter what words I used, he's now an ex, and I'm back to my happy little non-swearing world, with a new non-swearing partner.
Words like 'crap' and 'geez' tend to come up in those thumb-hammering moments. You have to say *something*!
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Usually the problem is that morally "superior" people regard others with contempt. But regarding people with contempt is a moral flaw.
There are, I believe, people who really ARE superior, but they do not naively regard themselves as "superior" and they do not necessarily avoid cursing and other "bad" behaviors either.
It's a matter of being very sensitive to the situation and responding to it appropriately that makes one morally well developed, I feel.
Who says people who don't curse think themselves superior than others? I don't curse, yet I don't consider myself superior to others because of it.
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"There's nothing wrong with holding yourself to a high standard of conduct"
According to this research there is.
You wouldn't call refusing to breathe "holding yourself to a high standard of conduct", so why do you classify refusing to curse that way.
In fact, your post betrays your feelings on the subject, namely that you think people who don't curse are superior ("better" instead of "different").