Gender Gap in Computer Science Growing
EReidJ writes "Looks like finding a compatible girl geek in the computer profession is becoming even harder, as an already wide gender gap among Computer Science majors is becoming larger. From the article: 'A Globe review shows that the proportion of women among bachelor's degree recipients in computer science peaked at 37 percent in 1985 and then went on the decline. Women have comprised about 28 percent of computer science bachelor's degree recipients in the last few years, and in the elite confines of research universities, only 17 percent of graduates are women [...] The argument of many computer scientists is that women who study science or technology, because they are defying social expectations, are in an uncomfortable position to begin with. So they are more likely to be dissuaded from pursuing computer science if they are exposed to an unpleasant environment, bad teaching, and negative stereotypes like the image of the male hacker.'"
Like how many male computer geeks lack the social skills to interract with the opposite sex and mistake friendly interraction by female coworkers as "interest" in something more.
"I'd rather be a lightning rod than a seismometer." -Ken Kesey
Does it help that the summary itself contains a male-point-of-view sterotype?
I've noticed whenever I hear about a gender gap study or story, the gender gap is a about a shortage of women in good, clean professions with upward mobility and high pay. I've never hear or seen a story about a shortage of women in garbage collecting or ditch digging, or other lower pay and often "dead end" jobs. I've only seen one female garbage collector ever, out of dozens of male garbage collectors, in the various places I've lived.
P.S. I have nothing against garbage collectors... they just happen to be the most visible "down and dirty not high paying" job I can think of. They do a great service for us, I'm not putting them down. I would like to see more women going into CS as well. I'm just pointing out something I've noticed.
Accentuate the positive, don't waste your mod points on the negative.
Think this might have to do with the fact that after the dot com crash computer science was no longer viewed as the way to ensure a profitable career?
I have met VERY FEW women who actually LIKE programming among the women professionals I've met.
Rats would be more funny if they could fart.
Im sure there's always that 19% whose intrests in computer science balenced with their ability to tele-commute are powerfull enough to overcome any obstacle. Even being harassed into wearing their hair like Leia.
--not that programmers are ALL like the above, but its a pretty tough image to beat, mainly because theres is a substantial segment of programmers who do unfortunately fit the bill.
--Idiots, Every single one of YOU, A flaming mass of conglomerated morons, hey wait a second, isnt that how RAID works?
You can tell, you know. You can tell because they don't have caved in foreheads from beating them on the wall everytime someone takes a techy for granted.
"hey, I know it's 10 minutes before 5 and it's a friday before christmas, but could you do this urgent pile of work while the rest of us bugger off to our last minute shopping and holiday parties? i knew i could count on you. there'll be a little something extra in your pay packet this month (a candy cane)"
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There's still plenty of girls graduating in fields around computer science: communication majors going into human-computer interaction, science & technology studies majors studying the social impact of computing, etc. Information science and other "not-just-techie" graduate fields around the country are around 50/50 by gender. These girls may not care about programming the "best" distributed computing platform ever, but you can be sure they know more about what one means in society than the majority of techies.
So they are more likely to be dissuaded from pursuing computer science if they are exposed to an unpleasant environment, bad teaching, and negative stereotypes like the image of the male hacker.'
I don't know if the number is statistically significant, but from my own anecdotal experience I know a number of women who went into CS because of the gender difference and because they were more interested in finding a financially stable husband than in learning about computer science. I know several women who became engaged and/or married and then switched degrees or dropped out. I imagine the same is true, in reverse, for certain fields dominated by women. I know at least one guy who joined the cheerleading squad to meet women.
Seriously good idea. Everyone wins. Too bad more people can't take it seriously.... Fanning the flames of the rat race to get a job so you can afford to put your kids in daycare is one of the silliest logical exercises I have ever seen people engage in.
Argh. The laws of science be a harsh mistress.
... we could accept that men and women are different in nature, very different and that men perform better on technical skills than women, period. It's called specialization, it goes back to the beginning of life and there's nothing sexist to it. The social pressure justification seems a little far fetched, for the sake of correctness. Women perform much better than men in a wide variety of intellectual activities, I'm not implying any kind of superiority, I am just saying the obvious. P.S. Counter-example are pointless because this is of course a general trend and applies on average.
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What makes you think that women (and men) entering other disciplines don't face the same environments? How is a woman entering Computer Science any different from a man entering Women's Studies? The irrelevant stereotype of the male hacker, bad teaching, has absolutely no correlation with the lack of women entering computer science because this is true for every single discipline known.
For some real experience, in my fourth year of my CS degree, there is all of two women that are graduating. Yes, two women, out of a hundred guys or so. But I don't attribute that to what this article purports is the cause -- no, I think at some point women make decisions for themselves and realize they aren't interested in computer science. I think this theory of mine is called 'common-sense'.
For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.
Not to sound like a jerk, but lets throw it down like this.
I'm a fairly successful person (so far), in computer science.
People graduating from my current institution can expect to make about $70k a year with a Masters. A high number of people in engineering here leave to do something other than engineering, when they discover that they will be paid more in other fields (a friend of mine who is becoming a banker will start at $120K/year.
So, while there is a gender gap, one has to ask if telling women to go into computer science will be at all good for their careers. Certainly a certain percentage of all people would like to go into computer science, out of a genuine love for the field. I fall into this group. I hope that all women who fall into this group, do so. I would advocate, however, that we stop trying to push our kids into this field out of a perception that it will somehow make them successful.
Lets break down the facts. Even in the dot-com boom, the jobs that paid the most did not require degrees in computer science. It doesn't take a thick book of credentials to become a web hacker. Go to a web shop, and ask the people working there what their credentials are.
Now, go to any business, and ask their IT people what their credentials are.
There are a lot more of those people, and they only get paid marginally less than programmers. The programmers are in a very very tough job market, so mostly only good ones get jobs programming anywhere (though, there are notable exceptions, of course), and they're overqualified for networking.
As a programmer, without a masters, I made $40k a year. Does it sound like your daughter couldn't make more with a degree in marketing or accounting?
Now that we've got that one solved, you have to ask if pushing kids into the field is a good idea. Only a few of them actually like it, to the rest, even a bachelors is a hellish workload in a field that they dislike. Go ask your marketing student how many all nighters they pull a week. In the atrium here, students write things like "Why don't they let me sleep!!" on the whiteboards... and those are the undergrads, us grads are off in our offices or labs.
So, fine... perhaps we need to make sure that the women who want to be here get here. I am a hearty, strong advocate of THAT, but before you send your daughter off to some brainwashing session that says that she needs to become an engineer, remember that it's a person with an MBA who will be her boss, not someone with a degree in engineering.
This is ridiculous. Yes, 75% of people in computer science are men. So what? What percentage of teachers are women? What percentage or care takers are women? I don't hear people screaming of a gender gap in those or other professions where men are less inclined to have careers.
Let's face it. Women are different and in general not as interested in the science of computers. Note, that I'm not talking about all women, but simply a greater percentage than men. It's reality. Let it go instead of forcing some women into a field in which they're not comfortable just so we can feel better about some meaningless percentages.
10 minutes working on a sig. What a waste.
I was thinking about the dearth of women in science just the other day. I think, as has already been concluded and probably supported, that the difference stems at least in part from the fact that women from a very early age are treated differently. This treatment includes not just how they are treated in the classroom, it also includes what is expected of them. Boys get mechanical toys, erector sets, legos, and other toys that encourage engineering and scientific tendencies. Girls get dolls and other toys that encourage maternal and domestic tendencies. It could certainly be looked at as a chicken-and-egg argument, but perhaps we could start to remedy this phenomenon by encouraging women to build and experiment at a younger age.
It's also evident that girls and boys emulate the people around them, so a more stimulating, interactive and intellectual environment at home could be a boon for either gender.
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Is that there is a decline in men enrolling in Women's Studies degrees.
The point is, often girls like certain thing and boys like certain things. It has nothing to do with a social standard or any other kind of garbage these people make up to get grants. It has to do with the same reason more men are found roaming around best buy looking at electronics than girls.
Why do we constantly have this mission from some groups to force 50-50 on everything? Why is it that we have to take natural patterns out and force things on people. So now what, if a girl wants to study CS they make it free to encourage more girls to do it? Who cares who studies it! Race and sex don't matter!
On these same grounds have you seen any studies advocating to get more boys in school? The numbers are going way down for males while females continues to rise. Why don't we see a coalition focused on getting boys into colleges. Especially white boys who are showing the sharpest decline in enrollment?
Sure I'm going overboard here but my point is this: It's not a *problem* that fewer girls are going into CS. It's a fact. And that's all it is. They make guesses as to why and this is fine but do not try and manipulate things and make them unfair for everyone else to strike some unnatural balance. To me, it's irrelevant if fewer girls are going into engineering and CS programs.
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One thing that I'd like to know is why there seem to be quite strong racial elements to the gender gap as well. I'm in Computer Science at UBC, and there are a lot of girls in my classes... but at least 90% of them are Chinese. It seems that among the Asian students, there's barely any gender gap, but female students of other races (eg. myself -- a white girl of British descent) are much more rare.
The reason I'm asking this is that the Chinese (and the inhabitants of at least a few of the other East Asian countries) seem to have figured out something that us Westerners haven't. The only explanation that I can think of is that the Chinese (at least appear to) obsess less over what gender dominates what field.
I don't know about other girls, but I get kinda irritated when people, be they men or women, exclaim "Good for you!" or "You go girl!" when I mention my major, as if I'm overcoming some incredible hardship by just -- get this -- interacting to guys and *gasp* doing my coursework without female encouragement!
I also get sick of people going on and on about how comp sci is desperately lacking in women and it's masculine and discrimination is rampant and hard for girls to get into and blah blah blah... and then they wonder why the hell girls are being driven away from the subject "despite" all that advertising. I mean, seriously: do you think you could get more men into nursing by saying something like "Nursing: not just for girls anymore! Not girly at all! You won't be laughed at for doing it! Trust us!"? So why does anyone think that strategy would work on women?
Oh, and incidentally, as a 3rd year student, I have never been harassed, excluded or otherwise treated in a negative manner based on my gender. I have never felt that I was intruding into any kind of boys-only club, and I have never found myself wishing that I had more female friends to talk to. Oh, and my grades are pretty decent too (with the notable exception of math, but I've always been weak in that area).
If someone avoids the field for idiotic and childish reasons likes the ones other posters are suggesting, the field doesn't need them. CS doesn't need people who are in it primarily for money instead of for the love of what they do, or who'll back off of it because "their coworkers are weird".
One poster in a previous story about this said that a female friend had told him she wouldn't take CS classes because "the room smelled bad". Do you really think she was interested and would've made a contribution to science if something that little could push her away?
As a geek girl myself, I'd put it a bit above half. sucks.
So how many, after you politely say no, persist in their pursute? I can understand why a woman would be upset by persistant unwanted attention, but I've never understood why women so often are upset by unwanted attention that goes away as soon as a negative answer is given.
Yeah, the guy is creepy/ugly/smelly/whatever. But what on earth is wrong with him asking, "will you go out with me," even if he does so ineptly while looking at his shoes the whole time? Unless women want to turn things around so they do all the asking, they're going to have to put up with saying "no" evey now and then to someone they don't like. They should get a grip and not act like it's their right to not be asked in the first place.
Put another way, if a good woman wants to get the attention of a good man, why would she be surprised when every one else pays attention to her as well?
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I think you should double check your order of evaluation. You have the hair-slicking and armpit-detoxing before the girl notices you. Now don't get me wrong, there are Computer Science kids that talk to themselves, mumbling something about WoW, big O notation, or whatever, but most would wait until g.noticesYou() is true before entering the loop. Hopefully most would know when to break the loop, but that is another story.
The most recent issue of the IEEE newsletter ran a story about the gender gap in engineering schools, and I thought the writer hit the nail on the head with this observation (paraphrased from my memory of the original):
Besides the social stigma, why should a female seek to start a program of intense and difficult study to be rewarded with a career that offers long hours, stressful situations, and uncertain prospects for steady employment?
I'm a guy. I'm a software engineer. I left the business for a lot more than 1-2 years so that I could raise my daughter. I'm back in the business, and I have people falling over themselves to hire me. Google call? check. Microsoft? check. various startups in the valley, even though i live in philadelphia? check.
the difference? once my daughter was in preschool, i got pretty serious about writing pro-audio software for linux, and giving it away. result? a couple of paid trips each year to europe to talk about my work, the respect of geek hackers everywhere and hopefully soon some real cash from various companies who want to use my work.
What does my case prove? Nothing, other than that having children has no particular meaning for a person's ability to continue functioning as a productive, skilled software engineer. It might be involved in that process for some people, and some of them might be male, or female (and in this age, perhaps even both at the same time).
And yeah, ok, so I made a million or two from being the #2 hire at amazon.com, but that has little do to with the story :)
I've been programming since high school (86-87).s px (yes, the only girl here though)
I am
1. Not overweight. (120 pounds)
2. Not ugly. http://www.heartlandsi.com/HeartlandServices/IT.a
3. Not bi or lesbian (although the way men are, I have certainly considered going the other way, especially after dumping my last boyfriend -- in October)
4. Definitely not transgendered
Okay, so, am I a geek then? I call myself a geek cuz I would prefer to be in front of a computer than at some party somewhere. I do okay in social situations, but I do not enjoy them.
Yeah, I was not popular in school, but I didn't turn to computers, I turned to books. Computers weren't available to me until the middle 80's and even then, my favorite escape was a good fantasy Sci/Fi book. (aha! Another Geeky thing! I suppose I shouldn't mention that I never missed a Doctor Who episode while I was young?)
A few years ago, I just finished updating myself by getting a a second degree from Devry Online. There were a LOT of females in the online environment. There were at least 5 in every class and most classes had about 10 people.
I love my job. I love programming.
It's really sad that we females have to be stuck into a stereo type just to be good at something that is normally reserved for Geeks. In fact, I would have to say that I have met few "Geeks" as defined by Caspian, I have met many handsome, interesting, fun and exciting men who are in the computer field.
So, you don't want anecdotal evidence to the contrary. Why? Do you feel the need to justify yourself and your loneliness and don't want anyone to argue with you? What makes you the expert on the females in this field? Just because you don't happen to be someplace that is open to hiring females and to giving them a chance in what is still considered "a non-traditional" field for females?
I am not a feminist. I just happen to be happy what I'm doing. Programming. I did not go into this field because there are so few women. I did it because I enjoy it. I was always really good at it and loved the challenges that came from something that changes nearly every day.
I'm me, and I resent this and many of the other comments within this discussion.
Thanks for listening,
Kris (That girl in IT)
PS
I just gave up my moderation of this discussion to post this.
Remember when Windows were washed, mice were trapped and UNIX guarded the harem?
Man, there sure are a lot of self-hating Geeks on Slashdot. Anytime the subject of "that other 50% of the population" comes up, there's invariably +5 modded comments about how pathetic all the Geeks are. If you guys spent the time you spend on slashdot beefing up your skills with women and exercising, you'd probably find some chick. Fact of the matter is: women over the age of 25, are desperate for intelligent, nice, financially stable men. Younger than that, women are still looking for traditional masculine stereotypes. If you're young, you may need to hold out for a little while. Sorry. In the mean time, you can 'comfort' yourself with the fact that men are declining in every subject other than computer science. This is leading to an over educated female population. And when these women move from college girls to yuppies, they're going to realize they want somebody more intelligent, less volatile, and more succesful. And when they don't find any of those guys, they're going to settle for you.
Personally I think people are making a big fuss over the wrong thing. If someone is really interested in something they won't get discouraged that easily.
I'm not in the US, but from what I hear it seems that in the US, it's common for male geeks/nerds to get discriminated against in high school (even physical abuse). But they still go do geeky stuff anyway.
Still, if this is true, it's not a good culture to have. Over here if you're a member of the chess club, or computer club it's not something you'd need to hide from anyone. People who do well in exams/tests don't get picked on negatively etc.
Avoiding a "loser" culture is important, since nowadays one has to be competitive with the rest of the world. Not just the rest of the class.
Nowadays the barriers of entry to the IT world are much lower. Computers and internet connections are much cheaper nowadays. Even if you don't have a formal CS or IT degree, if you're good enough you can prove it. I doubt most developers in the OSS projects care whether you're male or female.
But similarly that means a programming or CS-related job is easier to send to another country than a nursing job.
So it may be a smart move by girls to avoid Computer Science!
Everytime I see a story like this, the question is answered before the end of the article.
Why aren't there more women in CS? Because they don't want to be in it. The question we may want to be asking ourselves is why we obsess about it. Yes, I know that we're all look for some way we can look "inward" and try and correct our "gender bias". That MUST be the only reason women don't want to be in this business. Just like I don't want to be a nurse because it's a "female" job. It has zero to do with low pay, long hours and changing bedpans. Nope. Not at all.
The reason for women not being in CS is because of the pay, hours, and the social issues. It is, perhaps, possible that we could change the social issues by some introspection, but the question is: why bother? If we're doing it to gain a "female perspective" on programming, then the fact is that any benefit from that is going to be found and cause a change by itself. A change, I might add that would have little or none of the downside of being an "affirmative action" situation. Which is to say people with talent being looked down upon, and people with no talent looking for an easy ride. If there is a benefit to having women in CS because they are women, then someone is going to realize it and capitalize on it and when they are successful, others will follow suit or be left behind.
If there are active harassment situations and artificial barriers to females who actually really like programming and want to be CS people, then that needs to be dealt with. But if we just want females because we think it's a good idea, then perhaps it isn't such a grand idea, especially if you have to prod females towards it with juicy incentives unrelated to a natural interest for CS. Never develop a program based on a nebulous concept about what has value without being able to demonstrate that value.
My job definition is programmer.
:) I can find a lot of people in the programming / IT world that still knows more than me, and I love learning new stuff!
I LOVE Macs and plan on owning one again soon...
I also am dying to learn Linux...
sadly, though, I am one of those "underpaid" programmers. We are a small company though...
And my IT manager is a geek. He used to be just a network admin who happened to be at the right place at the right time. He is a good person, though, and I really enjoy working with him.
Exciting, well, depends on what excites you, I suppose. Learning new stuff, finding new exciting programming tools, that excites me.
As for well-adjusted, you are right, few IT people like Social Situations. The rest of our company don't understand us and we are all classified as "Weird", I just happen to be a weird female. I was a novelty at first, but now I'm weird just like everyone else. *grin*
Kris
Remember when Windows were washed, mice were trapped and UNIX guarded the harem?
Speaking as a boss myself, if I knew someone was told "no" and they persisted, I'd have no problem showing him the door.
There's a big difference between persistence, and crossing the line to pyschopathic behavior. Persistence can pay off, so long as it involves a respectful interaction between the participants. More than one marriage has formed after the guy being turned down first, but often we geeks lack the social skills to notice the difference between a "Get the hell away from me you creepy smelly dork!" and "I'm saying no, but I just want to see how much you like me." Don't try this at home (or work) if you aren't fully aware of the difference.
Microsoft Sucks, F/OSS Rocks. I get mod points now right?
On a serious note, How are so many girls getting out of the kitchen? And maintaining jobs while pregnant? And getting jobs while barefoot?(haha)
Consider that 50 years ago, women were second class citizens. That is less than a generation ago.
So lets stop wondering why there aren't many women in CS, and lets start looking at the big picture, things have drastically changed in society. Of course there will never be "equality", because of people's interests in careers. I bet there aren't nearly as many men in certain positions because of personal preference too.
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These types of articles only seem to fuel the boys vs girls attitude here.
I'm the only white chick on this whole floor in anything remotely technology related. I was the only girl at all in my 2000 graduating class to get a Bachelors of Science in CS or CIS. So what? Yes, some men get defensive about my presence, others couldn't give a rats ass what gender I am as long as I make shit work. That's life. I guess you just accept it, adapt, and try to grow a thicker skin.
The point is not here. The absence of women in CS and analytical fields it a fact. If you don't agree on that stop reading. I am offering the most simple explanation. I fully realize it might not be the only explanation, and it being simple does not make it true, but at least it is still a good theory -it's easily refutable -it provides a good explanation of the observed phenomena -it doesn't contradict other verified theories
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You sound awfully bitter...
:) Maybe the online world will make a difference!!
I don't feel the same, and I've been programming off and on since 86-87. I am now a full-time programmer and loving it!
I took classes to update my knowledge base a couple years ago, through Devry Online and many times at least half of the classes were females!
There is hope!!
Kris
(That girl in IT)
Remember when Windows were washed, mice were trapped and UNIX guarded the harem?
That's your common sense theory?
/., we have both 1) CS males denying the theory of causation in the article and 2) doing exactly what the article says.
My "common-sense" theory is based on reading the comments by male CS students/professionals in this thread, the number saying women don't want to be in computers, that gender differences mean women won't be as good in computers, that the gender gap is natural like evolution, and of course it has nothing to do with men discouraging women from entering computer fields.
So right here on the pages of
What does common sense say about that? "Of course women aren't being discouraged from the field of CS by men, just that I as a male in CS think women can't do the job as well and don't want to do the job -- of course it's just their own choice when they drop out".
My real experience is that the number of women in introductory classes started high, and halved every semester until you were lucky if there was one women, even more lucky two, in a graduate course. From working with and grading the papers of these student or meeting them in office hours, I saw every bit of evidence I need to see that women are just as capable and just as motivated to study CS as men. No, I can't look into their heads and know why they left the program, but certainly a few have told me flat out that they are discouraged by the lack of role models. Which pisses me off, because I know we've lost some excellent minds.
As far as every other profession -- they have had exactly this problem! Women in medicine? Today a woman doctor isn't unusual at all, but it certainly was thirty years ago! Women had to break into the field and prove their worthiness to be a doctor instead of a nurse. Once there were prominent women doctors, and women teaching in medical schools, and the stereotypes that discouraged women were torn down, then yes you started to see more women join.
It has always been this way, whenever a new group starts to compete for jobs with the established. Whether that was European immigrants, freed slaves, or women after WWII, those who had previously had exclusive rights to some field believed they were entitled to those fields and the others would be inherently inferior, and only after time and great effort were these situations changed.
Common sense says that CS and IT and engineering are no different than any other field, and the stubborn refusal of men to accept women is both the cause of the continuing discrepancy, and a dinosaur of the last century.
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Allow me to submit one explanation which is based on economics rather than blind emotion:
Women are less likely to pursue a career in Computer Science because of rational self-interest, and not due to external factors.
That being the case, there is no "fix" needed, because nothing is "broken". To the extent that we are already encouraging women to enter the "hard" sciences through preferences and affirmative action, we are doing those women a disservice.
The elephant standing in the corner which no on wants to mention is childbirth. Women are far more likely than men to desire an extended leave of absence from their field -- think five or ten years.
Let's try to list some careers which you can set aside for the better part of a decade, then re-enter without too much trouble and without taking a huge hit in earnings. Here are a few off the top of my head: teacher, nurse, receptionist, administrative assistant.
How about some careers where the techonology moves so fast that taking five or ten years off means you basically have to start over at square one: computer programmer, electrical engineer, CEO, neurosurgeon.
Anyone noticing a pattern here? Feminists talk a lot about giving women "choices", but wow do they ever get upset when those women make choices they don't like! In that whole four-page article, not once was it suggested that perhaps Computer Science is not actually a college major which fits with many womens' long-term goals. Goals which include childrearing and taking an extended leave of absence from their career.
I don't think it actually works that way. I know lots of girls who hooked up with their male friends, and really, it's the best way to go if you're looking for a strong relationship. Of course, you also run the risk of ruining a riendship that way.
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Hmm... I'm not sure if that's a tautology, a contradiction, or just plain irony.
I really don't mean to be harsh but I can't state emphatically enough how many things are wrong with this position.
Men are taller than women. It's just a fact that, as a group, guys are. It does no good to say whether or not this generalization sucks. That's like saying that it sucks that 2+2=4. Whether or not it sucks it's just the way it is.
So we have two options of handling these kinds of differences. If we think that differences are bad and scary and inequitable then we can shout as loud as we want and pretend they don't exist. We can pretend that guys are not actually stronger then girls, or that girls aren't socially smarter than men. We can obfuscate, complain, and trash anyone who makes the mistake of pointing the obvious out. But this is at best living in la-la land and at worst dangerous. When we have to lower standards so that we can hire enough women firefighters I think we've just gone to far. As my mum said (in reference to rules changes that said instead of a fireman's carry dragging a victim down the stairs was sufficient to become a firemen) "Who are these stupid feminists? I don't want some 5'2" woman dragging me out of the building, I want a 6'2" giant to carry me out!"
Sure, some men are 5'2". And there are some women who are 6'2". But how many of either do you know? And how many women do you know that are 5'2"? Or men that are 6'2"?
Look, the reason I say "I don't want to be harsh" is that I understand what it is that you don't like. You don't like it when people use a generalization to apply it unfairly to an individual. That's discrimination - and in many cases it's mean, evil, wrong, etc. But trying to make discrimination go away by trying to outlaw generalizations is like trying to make electrocution go away by outlawing electricity. It would be stupid to try and in the real world it's not possible anyway.
-stormin
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By "great friends", do you mean listen to you whenever you have something to complain about, bend their schedule around to do things with you, give up their saturday afternoon spent recompiling kernels to have lunch with you, and pay for more than 50% of the stuff along the way? Good friends ... right, they're still hoping for something and getting used along the way :\
I agree completely. As a grrl geek myself, I have a strong geeky circle of friends, male and female. Since they came to realize (after a few years and a few reminders) that we are neither alien nor predator, we're all having a lot more fun AND being a lot more productive. Nothing like getting good beta feedback from someone who literally experiences the world from a different perspective, and can communicate in technical terms. We even celebrated a few geek mergers and the birth of a couple of MiniGeeks this year.
I am afraid you are missing the point. Your intent is immaterial; only her interpretation is important. The fact that you were trying to be friendly counts for nothing if she chooses to interpret that you are doing something else. Rember, "No means No, when and if I want it to".
Woohoo a nomination.
Just for clarification, what exactly are you angry about?
Are you angry that I think girls are socially smarter than men, or that I think it's clearly proven? If the latter, then your anger is misplaced. I don't think it's clearly proven, just believe it to be true and generally (not universally) accepted. If you're angry that I think that, well, that can't be helped.
But lest you think that I'm just pulling stuff out of my ass to annoy you, here's an article for your reading pleasure. It presents a logical argument, based in evolutionary psychology, for my conclusion that as a group women are socially smarter then men. I didn't say proof: "socially smart" is a lot harder to measure than "physically strong", but I don't want you to leave with your impression that I'm just disguising my opinion as accepted scientific fact.
Chris Crawford, Women in Games: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/issue/17/3 [Escapist Magazine]
As for the inherent contradictions in posting the most subtle and simultaneously stupid posts you've come across, I'll just chalk that up to your clearly highly emotional state.
Please tell me one thing, however. You say "it works", but I'm not sure what you mean. What do you take my objective to be? If I'm trolling, then I would want a flamewar not a+5 moderation. Do you think I'm just out for the mod points? I guess I can't convince you that I don't care about those, but I'm really not sure why you're so riled or what you think my insidious scheme really achieved.
-stormin
The Southern Baptist Convention has creationism. On Slashdot, we have porn.
There's a good bit of truth to that site, but too much simplification and generalization, as well as some bias suggesting that he hasn't slept with that many women. One implication is that if you don't possess the money/status/looks you don't have a chance. The fact is that you can make up with all those things by personality/behavior -- which is something that can be faked until you learn to do it really well. I speak from experience, as I'm a regular looking guy that is, by the fact of posting on Slashdot, a geek. I used to be shy and never approach women, but then I met the right people to teach me and now I've been with more good-looking women than I could have previously thought possible. The fact is, a man's behavior speaks tons to a woman's subconscious, and it's much easier to modify than looks and riches. The trick is finding the right advice, and being persistent with practice until you get it working and becomes a second nature. I'm surprised more geeks haven't figured this out, given their brain power resource, and getting laid more, enriching the gene pool with their 'smart genes'.
There has been a recently published book that looks into actual organizations of people that study and discuss how to get women. It's worth looking into, though I would take everything in it with a grain of salt; I know personally people that use such methods, but I don't think it's the best way to go at it. It's too convoluted and, er, sneaky; what I'm talking about is learning to behave like the guys that are naturally good at this.
"Politicians and diapers must be changed often, and for the same reason."
I never received a job through "networking", I got them by flooding the market with my resume until I get a job interview and then quietly explaining that they should hire me because I'm the best bloody programmer they're likely to find in a very long time.
.com, where my boss really *liked* me, in fact my interview I didn't say "I'm the best", he asked a few specific questions I didn't know the answer to, but I knew the concepts and I knew where to look and I guess came across that I could learn anything... I eventually left because I was working 80 hours a week and had no life, not because I didn't enjoy the work, it was very challenging, I liked the job, I liked the people, I just had no life... I had talked to some people back at the old job, and that boss knew what I was capable of, and created a position to hire me back...
.com had since moved someplace else, I was talking to him and he wrangled a position for me there where I'm pretty well respected now. I still have contacts at other places from the old jobs, if I was looking again I certainly would contact other people and at least let them know I was "in the market".
.com, I walked in the door and met the person that would be my 'manager', I thought "pretty stuck up", I met their boss - the director - who showed me the 20x20 room with 40 'consultants' crammed into it (I would have been a real employee) - and after 15 minutes thought "real bastard", and then I met the VP of IT, who gave me a 45 minute spiel about how wonderful he was, and the great job he was doing, and I thought "stuck up a**hole"... and 2 days later they offered me like $10K more than the .com, and I said I had a few more interviews lined up so I wasnt going to decide for another week or so, and a couple days later they called and said "we can increase the offer!", and I said I still had another interview to go on, and two days after that they were practically begging me to name my price and come work for them. I didn't. I'd rather work someplace where I'd be happy, than be someplace working for bosses that would make me miserable but making more money.
Ok, other than that should between start & end "MASSIVE-EGO" html tags, I will tell you that I left my job of 14 years for a little
And then after he retired, they brought in a new boss, who didn't like me, I knew the writing was on the wall and started looking... the boss from the
I'm not neccesarily saying that I wouldn't also be getting my resume out there and looking, but I would wonder about anyone that bills themself as "the best damn programmer you'll ever find", because truthfully if someone said that to *me* in an interview, I wouldn't hire them. I have an old friend who was looking for a job, we had an opening, I said "they're really good" (and they are), and my boss's reply was "if you say so, they're hired". He'd never met them, but he respected me, so he respected my opinion (and they've worked out really well).
If I was out interviewing, would I be saying "I'm great!" which is what you seem to be playing, no... I'd be saying "I'm well rounded, I have 20 years at this, a lot of skills, and I can pick up new things really well." But then again, I also have the concept that an interview is as much for me to learn about them as it is for them to talk to me. I interviewed at once place while 'looking' to leave that
Do I have experience? yes. Am I good at what I do? I think so, yes, and I've proved it to my bosses over time, by doing good work. Would I bill myself in an interview as "the best in the world"? god no. I have 20 years of experience, I like learning, and I'm willing to jump in and do what it takes. I'll let them decide how good they think I am. Having done interviews, if you walked in with that "I'm the best you'll ever find" attitude, I'd probably walk you out the door 15 minutes later.
1. The idea the women never need men to give them rights because they already have them is silly. If women already have their rights, no changes need to be made. But the genuine "I can vote if I want to" vs. the hypothetical "I am equal to males inalienably" requires those in political power to change the system. Thus in extremely patriarchal societies (Taliban) it does require either outside force (male or female) or changes in the male-dominated ruling class to level the playing field. This isn't sexist, it's real life. It's not as though women could vote to give themselves the right to vote - this was a bill voted on in Congress by men.
2. If we already have all those rights inalienably - why are you bothering to debate? Doesn't this imply that nothing needs to be changed? You're contradicting yourself because you fail to distinguish between theory and reality.
3. Your physiological arguments are all essentially meaningless unless we're talking about a "rib-having contest" or a "chromosome-having contest" (e.g., a woman as tall and as conditioned as Bryant or O'neal could go dunk for dunk in the NBA, pitting lithe track stars against line-backers is ludicrous, wouldn't you pit similarly sized and conditioned female linebackers against male linebackers?
What world do you live in? Do you think that gender is just some binary on/off switch? Like people are born and the only difference is an X or a Y chromosome? As if that's just some label that has no further implications other than "this one is called 'girl', this one is called 'boy'"? There are evolutionary differences between males and females because they are specialized for different tasks. Your point about a girl as tall as Bryant or O'neal is ludicrous and only shows how far removed you are from reality. In the first place there aren't that many women who have the height of Bryant or O'Neal. Otherwise the WNBA would be full of them. This isn't rocket science, dude, just watch ESPN. Women ARE shorter than men on average. In the second place you're flat out WRONG to say that if you got a woman of that height you could train her to be just as athletic. Seriously dude, what planet do you live on? Women have less body muscle and can not put on as much muscle as men no matter how you train them. The only way for a woman to compete with a man of the same height is through serious use of steroids and large doses of testosterone.
And you know what - even that wouldn't be enough. Women have wider hips. If you take a man and a woman of the same height and some muscle mass the man will STILL run faster because his skeletal structure is better optimized for it.
That was the whole point of the NBA linebacker vs. woman track star analogy. Women can't achieve that body type. Sure, maybe a very small proportion could. But you've got enough men who are huge, muscular and relatively fast to fill professional and college rosters in hundreds, if not thousands of teams across the country.
I know this is offensive to your politics and that what I'm saying isn't politically correct, but that's just a measure of how ridiculous the equal rights movement is. If you want to try and override the influence of millions of years of evolution and get women and men to have no physiological differences that's one thing. But to pretend that they don't exist is just plain stupid. I'm sorry to rain on your parade, but this emperor's got no clothes on.
4. I think your examples of women being different problem-solvers is a pretty good argument for why they need to be in all fields of science and not the ones "we give them the right" to be in.
This point makes no sense. We both claim to believe it's sexist to think that we need to "give them the right" to be in one career or another. The difference is that I follow through with this logic. I assume that women are intelligent, rationale, self-determining creatures. I assume that, unless I'm shown evidence otherwise, if a woman doesn't want to
The Southern Baptist Convention has creationism. On Slashdot, we have porn.
Blah, blah.. No proof, only wild assumptions.
When one doesn't really know, one should better avoid making such empty assertions especially this strongly, that's how you get all sorts of disastrous strong belief..