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Summer Camps Join Fray Against MySpace

The New York Times reports that now even summer camps are raising concerns about social networking sites such as MySpace, Friendster, and Facebook. Camps are worried about the ramifications of certain activities being associated with their summer programs after revealing pictures or postings are made online. Some camps are banning digital cameras, while others are instructing campers and parents to remove references to the camps from blog postings. Of course, the camps take the stance that they are merely trying to protect the children:
"The information that kids share today often is personal and private information that allows predators to track them down. We're also concerned about cyber-bullying."

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  1. And one time, on My Space by PIPBoy3000 · · Score: 5, Funny

    I can't wait for the Band Camp references to begin.

  2. I heard... by tacarat · · Score: 4, Funny

    ... that Camp Crystal lake was heading this initiative.

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  3. Banning progress does not work by the_furman · · Score: 5, Insightful

    It's perfectly understandable that summer camp administrators are concerned. There's cause for concern. I think, however, that trying to ban kids from socializing online and discussing their camp experiences is definitly not the way to go. Social networking sites like Myspace are a reality, and trying to ban reality never works. Teaching kids about safe behaviour on the 'net would be a much more viable option, IMHO.

    1. Re:Banning progress does not work by mantar · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Absolutely correct, and while I think it's cute that camps are taking an interest in the kids that attend, where are the parents in all of this? There's no doubt that these social networking sites can be dangerous for teenage girls who can't keep their lid shut about personal issues (have you ever met a teenage girl who could?), so why are parents not taking an active interest in their children's online activity?

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  4. here's an idea by grapeape · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Why not provide better supervision of the kids at summer camp so that there is less dirt to post about? Oh wait that would require someone to actually take some responsibility...

    1. Re:here's an idea by bunions · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yes, we should be watching the children 24-7 and never let them make mistakes. That's a sure way to raise kids that are smart and self-reliant.

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    2. Re:here's an idea by bunions · · Score: 3, Interesting
      Watch your kids when they are on the internet, or don't cry if your kid gets abducted from posting their exact address, the way the walk home, and their phone number on the internet!

      Sure. What I'm concerned about is someone sneaking into the girls locker room, taking photos with their digital camera and spreading them all over the internet. Technology has changed what used to be a harmless prank into something potentially really nasty.

      Why do parents always have to blame someone or something else for mistakes they could have prevented.

      I'd like you to explain how I could be reasonably expected prevent something like this, assuming I wasn't the parent of one of the hypothetical kids who took the hypothetical pictures.

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  5. Need to blame someone by wiz31337 · · Score: 5, Interesting
    I'm getting sick and tired of hearing parents, school counselors, child psychologists, etc blaming MySpace for virtually everything bad that could occur in a teens life.

    "[Camps] worry about online predators tracking children to camp and about their image being tarnished by inappropriate Internet juxtapositions"

    They claim in the article that predators will use MySpace to discover summer camps where children are going and then possibly kidnap them or something worse. Summer camps don't suddenly pop-up over night and contact parents via ESP to get their children to come; they advertise in the paper, on the Internet, and by fliers. MySpace isn't tipping anyone off to these "secretive" camps, anyone can go to Google and find 30 summer camps without any problem. As for predators using the information to choose their specific target, probably not.

    The article then goes on to say:
    "[Kids] were some things that we found that some of the kids posted that were really kind of nasty, saying bad things about counselors"
    If they have to list this as one of the reasons to abolish MySpace, they need to grow up.

    If someone can point me to some concrete facts about the number of abductions that have occurred solely as a result of a kid using MySpace (without any other factors) I will get off my soap box. I agree
    one case is too many, and it is horrible, but would it have happened anyway without MySpace?
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    1. Re:Need to blame someone by TubeSteak · · Score: 5, Insightful
      "[Kids] were some things that we found that some of the kids posted that were really kind of nasty, saying bad things about counselors"
      It's called CYA (Cover Your Ass)

      All kinds of shit goes on at summer camps that would cause parents to freak.

      The administrators running these camps don't want those kinds of details to come out, since we know that people (regardless of age) are stupid when it comes to pictures on MySpace, FaceBook, Etc. It'd be a huge liability issue on their part. parents would be asking "how could you let [bad behavior caught on camera] happen?"

      "For the children" is just the easiest way to get everyone onboard.
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    2. Re:Need to blame someone by hackstraw · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'm getting sick and tired of hearing parents, school counselors, child psychologists, etc blaming MySpace for virtually everything bad that could occur in a teens life.

      Me too. The ironic thing is that those are the parents that simply should not have kids either.

      I mean, since when will the old standby of waiting at a school bus or going to a shopping mall and pulling the "I'm sorry Johnny, your parents were just in an accident, and I was asked to take you to the hospital to see them" or similar trick stop working?

      Yet again, more evidence that logic and reason go out the window when "computers" or "online" is involved. Every week I see kids missing on milkboxes or on those token mailers with the "Have you seen me?" on them. And you know what? I'm pulling this number out of the air, but its probably pretty close, over 90% of those missing kids were taken by most likely a parent or someone else they know. The others simply had such shitty parents that they just decided to fend for themselves.

      Lets just put all kids and their parents in prisons and call it even.

  6. So much for... by SecaKitten · · Score: 4, Funny

    So much for "What happens at camp stays at camp."

  7. A new age by celardore · · Score: 3, Insightful

    We all have digital cameras, camera phones etc... It's just a part of technology becoming more and more a part of our lives. It needn't be a bad thing, summer camp is probably one of the best places a teen can capture memories to show the family. Just because bad stuff can be done with these things doesn't mean an outright ban should follow.

    You're not allowed to take a camera into most swimming pools now, however much you want to capture your child first swimming. A few bad apples...

    1. Re:A new age by Lehk228 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      and yet the pervs camp across the street (or a quarter mile away) with a 200mm lens and get far better pics than a cheap digicam can get at close range

      yet again regulation solves nothing

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  8. "Cyber Bullying"? by IthnkImParanoid · · Score: 3, Funny

    Proof the internet is now just as much for dumb jocks as it is for nerds. Guess it's time to get started on the Metaverse, where we can be free once again ;p.

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  9. The BUCK stops with you, the parent... by posterlogo · · Score: 3, Insightful

    ...and if the summer camps claim they want to help you out, that's their right to do so, and you can decide whether or not they are being overly bureaucratic/paranoid or not. What neither the summer camps nor the parents should be allowed to do, is sue MySpace, etc. because of their failings as parents. In the end, it's almost always inadequate parenting that causes their children to engage in risky behavior.

  10. Why the snide tone? by apflwr3 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I know "protecting the children" is a cliche, but doesn't it kind of apply here? Camp administrators are the children's guardians for the time they are there and have as much, if not more obligation as a parent to keep kids safe. They also have an obligation to protect themselves from lawsuits from parents if a fat kid trying to paddle a canoe becomes the next viral video...

    As any Slashdot nerd who's been to camp (or gym class, or any other instance where 8-to-18 year olds are thrown together) there is a lot of pranks, hazing and other forms of humiliation that goes on in these environments. I bet the camps are more worried that photos of kids who had the ol' hand-in-warm-water trick pulled on them by their bunk mates will circulate (and then the potential lawsuits from parents afterwards.)

  11. Aaaahhh summer camp... by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 3, Interesting
    The bad memories...

    We hear so much about camp sex stories... Alas, it was not the case for us.

    We used to go to a private school who, during the summer, had a day camp, where we were supervised by the teachers.

    Can you imagine? Not only spending the WHOLE GODDAMMED SUMMER with the same teachers we had during the school year (and, somehow, they had to magically turn into our friends and were supposed to have fun with them) but also doing this in the very same school building???

    When I turned 12, we managed to convince our parents that we wanted to stay home, so she hired a sitter.

    A sitter dumb enough to sit in front of TV all day long (cable was new 35 years ago), while we pushed the bed against the bedroom door while we had sex orgie (I'm not shitting you - this was the 70's - yes, I was organizing orgies when I was 12 and yes, there was sucking and fucking).

    The teacher lasted about 5 weeks until, one day, my mother came home early and found the sitter sprawled in front of the TV watching a stupid soap, but none of us around.

    My mother found out where we were when we came back from the swimming pool (a 15 block walk) one hour later. Needless to say, she was glad to save on the sitter (and we could have the orgies in the living room).

  12. It's truly fascinating... by CDarklock · · Score: 5, Interesting

    ...how many adults are becoming absolutely PANICKED at the idea that children can TALK ABOUT THEM.

    Adults have always treated children like crap, but there's never really been any concrete evidence of it because adults have played the strongarm card over everything the child is allowed to say or do. If you took a picture of an adult doing something embarrassing, the picture could be taken away. But now that the picture is a bundle of unfettered electrons stored on a web server that belongs to someone you DON'T have the right to bully and coerce, they can't do that anymore.

    It might make being an adult somewhat more problematic, but I'm willing to bet it makes the children's lives a whole hell of a lot better.

    The death of privacy is GOOD. The only people that care about it are the ones who shouldn't be doing what they're doing ANYWAY.

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  13. Treating symptoms? by greatcelerystalk · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Camp directors are attempting to do two things, according to the article: treat the symptoms of a problem and censor negative opinions about their organizations.

    If photographs of a camp and its attendees have managed to wind their way onto an adult website, I have no qualms with the camp in questions taking action to have the material removed, however, it seems the camp might want to devote more resources to educating attendees about safety. I also don't see any issue with confiscating digital cameras, even though many children who've gone to camp in the past were able to take photographs.

    I certainly take issue with camps' attempts to censor negative opinion and activities which take place outside of the camp and are unrelated to the camp. The article makes it seem like these camps are asking both attendees and counselors to censor their outside activities so as not to make the camp "look bad."

  14. As a former camp counselor... by SonicSpike · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I actually use MySpace to keep in touch with friends I met at camp and fellow counselors.

    I am an Eagle Scout and after graduating from college last May I decided to serve as a counselor at my BSA camp in Florida as a water ski instructor (cush job, right?). It was the most fun I had ever had in my life. Gettin paid to drive a power boat around a lake.

    They had a computer room setup for staff and adult leaders with a satellite downlink and phoneline for the uplink. The camp is very remote and no chance of DSL or cable. Because I work in the real world now and have a real job I won't get the chance to work there again this year although I want to soo badly.

    At least using MySpace I can keep up with the people I met at camp. http://camplanoche.com/ is the place.

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  15. Observation. by Stalyn · · Score: 3, Insightful

    There is a mantra that exists on /. and perhaps society as a whole that the simple solution to problems akin to MySpace is proper parenting. I think it is a gross oversimplification to think being a "good parent" is going to solve all children related problems. In the same way it is an oversimplification to solely blame MySpace.

    I think the solution sits somewhere in the middle. That MySpace should make a concerted effort to work with parents to ensure their children's safety. Also parents need to educate themselves and take more of a role in their child's internet activity. Also there is a third step where all of us need to understand the disconnect between the Internet and RL is illusionary. What you do on the Internet has RL consequences and vice versa.

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    1. Re:Observation. by pla · · Score: 5, Insightful

      the simple solution to problems akin to MySpace is proper parenting.

      Not at all - The simple solution to 99% of MySpace problems rests in recognizing that the "problems" don't exist in the first place. With the exception of the twits threatening to extort MySpace and posting about it thereupon, every other "problem" involved some busybody 3rd party authority-figure overstepping their bounds and panicking over harmless boasting and dick-waving.

      So Little Jimmy posed with a bottle of Jack - Can you prove he drank it and that it contained actual whiskey, rather than drinking cherry kool-aid out of a previously empty bottle? Can you even prove the punk in the poor-quality overly-compressed picture, wearing the same style of clothes and hair as every other 14YO male in the country, as the same Jimmy?

      So Susie has a list of people she hates and wants dead. We all (at least mentally) kept lists of people we hated and wanted dead. We just didn't act on them. Nor would Susie - Her "enemies" stand a better chance of dying in a freak accident involving snakes on a plane, than of her snapping one day and reenacting Doom down her school's corridors.

      So a 40 year old guy has a MySpace page saying he likes cartoons. Ever met a Disney employee? They really do act like that, no hidden pedophile motives involved. And if he admits to playing with Legos - My god! Call the swat team, we might just... gasp... have an engineer on our hands!


      That MySpace should make a concerted effort to work with parents to ensure their children's safety

      Sure - Just as soon as those parents start paying MySpace to act as babysitters. Seriously - We have a basic issue of "responsibility" here, specifically, who bears it. Parents have a responsibility to raise their kids. MySpace does not, regardless of how many "tweens" use it.

      MySpace represents the modern equivalent of playground gossip and note-passing. And, like it or not, the swingset doesn't censor its occupants, nor does the pencil refuse to write down obscenities.



      What you do on the Internet has RL consequences and vice versa.

      No - What you stupidly do on the 'net under your own name has consequences. Not that, if really motivated, you couldn't figure out my RL identity - I've probably given more than enough info without you even needing to leave Slashdot to track me down. But you can't just type in my real name in Google and see 183 reasons to fire me, 26 reasons to arrest me, and four reasons to execute me for treason (hey, don't forget that nontrivial crypto used to count as "munitions"). If these stupid kids would figure out the same thing, and do just a teensy bit to obscure their identities (no real names, blur faces and obvious location-signs in photos), we would all-but-stop-hearing about the evils of MySpace.

    2. Re:Observation. by mantar · · Score: 4, Funny

      "But you can't just type in my real name in Google and see 183 reasons to fire me, 26 reasons to arrest me, and four reasons to execute me for treason"

      Don't be so sure... Haven't you heard about "Google DirtFinder Beta"? :-)

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    3. Re:Observation. by JonathanR · · Score: 3, Interesting

      MySpace already works with parents. Since everything online that is public, is accessible to the parents, should they be the least bit interested in what their children are up to.

      Not that I'm saying that parents should merely engage in covert snooping, but it certainly is a tool for them to get to understand what goes through the minds of their offspring.

    4. Re:Observation. by Ash+Vince · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "If these stupid kids would figure out the same thing, and do just a teensy bit to obscure their identities (no real names, blur faces and obvious location-signs in photos), we would all-but-stop-hearing about the evils of MySpace."

      And start hearing about the fictitious evils of some other fad that most people won't understand so will believe.

      Lets face it, the original family who are trying to dredge myspace through the courts are only doing it because there is a chance they will get paid. The lawyers representing them just smell a buck, but at least they will work for their money.

      And the only reason this story gets so much coverage in the press is that the media love pandering to ignorance. Especially when it helps their circulation.

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  16. Re:The camera ban might be a good idea. by Maelwryth · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Yes, why is she wearing bikini in a shower? Probably followed by whats wrong with a picture of a girl wearing bikini in a shower.

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  17. So now... by Belial6 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    So now you can know that the camp is taking an active role in covering up activities that parents would find objectable. This is certainly not to 'protect' the children. If anything it makes sure that any dangers continue to go on uncorrected.

  18. Good god! Myth Destroyed! by kaiwai · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I thought this whole 'summer camp' thing was a myth, but they actually exist over there

    Why the hell do these places exist? I mean, good lord, when I was a teenager, during the holidays, I worked, went to the movies and kept my self occupied, without the need of my parents spending money hand over fist to some over hyped establishment.

    Geeze, I really wonder sometimes why parents have kids if all they do is boot their kids off to a camp each year, simply to avoid them.

  19. Amen to that by Julian+Morrison · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Nowadays children have negative civil rights. They have the right to demand to be oppressed. Other people's civil rights get taken away to keep children "protected". It's fricken' ridiculous. The world they live in is so much worse than a police state it's crazy. They're herded, imprisoned, propertyless, practically property themselves. Every man's hand is against them. If I were a kid I'd look on digital technology as the last small bastion of genuine personal liberty, and I'd be thinking seriously about organizing an armed revolt.

    1. Re:Amen to that by Geekbot · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That's why I got into technology. I remember back in the days of Q-Link, Compuserve, and BBS. I was 12, I knew no one who could tell me anything about computers. No one also could talk with me honestly. I could get online, find out anything I wanted to, be an adult as far as anyone else knew. It was the only escape for me. 20 years later he I still am, conversing with anonymous strangers in a forum/board format, exchanging knowledge over which maybe many of us would still be a little bit persecuted over in real life.

      In doing so, I think perhaps I'm not the only guy, who as a kid, found that computers allowed us to socialize, learn new things, and do all of this in an open way that mainstream society might fear.

  20. Re:The camera ban might be a good idea. by QCompson · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Go to webshots.com and search for "cheer camp shower". Need I say more?

    Oh noezz!! A scary intraweb predator is going to see a picture of girls in bikinis and track them all down and rape and kill them! Everyone panic!!! We need more laws and restrictions, quick!

    Need I say more?

    Yes, please do, because I don't know what the hell your point is.

  21. Re:The camera ban might be a good idea. by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Okay. I did.

    What we have here is a bunch of girls who took pictures of themselves and friends in the shower. All were wearing bikinis. In other words, I could get the same "thrill" by going to any public beach.

    I suppose you have to say more. I'm a bit lost as to what is "bad" about this. It looks like all the people involved were willing participants.

  22. Bzzzt. Wrong. by the_furman · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Disagree completely. You simply cannot push the burden of chaperoning kids onto Myspace the same way you can't expect phone companies to monitor calls to make sure the conversation is safe. That's silly. All Myspace is is a communications medium and there's absolutely no way they, as a company, can ensure that all the communication that takes place within the medium happens to be safe.

    Also note that in my post above I did not single out parenting as a solution to the problem. In fact, I've never even mentioned parenting, even though it's certainly a part of the solution. The most important factor involved is education, for parents and for the kids. People need to be taught about the risks and ramifications involved in sharing personal information online.
    This is not to say that sharing personal information online is always a bad thing. There's nothing wrong with being a public figure, and each public figure decides for themselves just how much they want to reveal. Some chose to remain anonymous while others post naked pictures of themselves along with phone numbers. What seems to happen quite a bit with Myspace and the like is people don't realize just how much they're revealing and how this information can be used against them. This is where education comes in.

    Baning a communication medium is not the way to go. Not only is it the wrong thing to do, but it's also futile. Kids will post their camp expariences regardless of whether or not it's against the rules. Pushing them underground, so to say, achieves nothing.

  23. Put the blame where it belongs by obnoxiousbastard · · Score: 4, Insightful

    We try to blame everyone- bad parents, bad teachers, bad coaches, bad dirty ole men on the internet, bad ole technology, etc, ad nauseum.

    BUT WE FAIL TO >>BLAME THE BRATS
    Our society has the idea that anyone under 18 is pure and innocent until something corrupts them and that is pure and simple HORSE CRAP.

    Teens have been and always will be 1) sexual beings AND 2) immature. The combination of both is a recipe for trouble.

    Modern society thinks that teen pregnancy, teen sex and teen crime is all some shocking, new phenemenon unique to our times. Nothing could be further from the truth. Perhaps the technologies have changed but the people using them have not.

    People are essentially the same dumb animals that have made the same dumb mistakes for the past 5 millinia of recorded history. All signs show that they will continue to do so.

    The model for Michangelo's [i]David[/i] was a teen prostitute that was one of Michangelo's personal favorites. What does this have to do with this subject?

    It proves rather elegently that this teen drama crap has been going on a long time before MySpace ever reared its ugly head.

    Blame the people, not the black box.

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  24. What's summer camp without fucking in the woods? by Jackie_Chan_Fan · · Score: 3, Funny

    Every summer camp movie is about kids banging each other at summer camp.

    Now we're taking the sex out of summer camp?

    God dam Bush Administration!