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Restrictions On Social Sites Proposed In Georgia

A state senator in Georgia, Cecil Staton, has introduced a bill that would require parents' permission before kids could sign up at a social networking site such as MySpace and Facebook, and mandate that the sites let parents see all material their kids generate there. Quoting: "[Senate Bill 59] would make it illegal for the owner or operator of a social networking Web site to allow minors to create or maintain a Web page without parental permission [and require] parents or guardians to have access to their children's Web pages at all times. If owners or operators of a company failed to comply with the proposed law, they would be guilty of a misdemeanor on the first offense. A second offense would be a felony and could lead to imprisonment for between one and five years and a fine up to $50,000 or both." The recently offered MySpace parental tools fall short of the bill's requirements. This coverage from the Athens Banner-Herald quotes Facebook's CPO saying that federal law forbids the company to allow anyone but the account creator to access it..

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  1. Perfectly Noxious by mfh · · Score: 5, Funny

    And when the parents give their permission -- OFF WITH THEIR HEADS!

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    1. Re:Perfectly Noxious by OnlineAlias · · Score: 2, Funny

      "..for drive-through-vasectomy...."

      Wait, don't apologize for trying to fix the problem...

  2. people or property by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

    This demonstrates the battle between two competing and mutually exclusive legal approaches to minors: 1) as citizens with the same rights as any other, and 2) as the property of their parents.

    1. Re:people or property by sumdumass · · Score: 2, Interesting

      As long as the person responsible for their actions are the parrents, then I don't see them giving up their property any time soon.

      If the state asumes liability for everything then let them be equal citizens with all the freedoms that the state currently claims they aren't able to process untill they reach a certain age. Usualy 18. And we can have five year old voting with ten year olds buying alcohol and such. I doubt anything like that would ever happen but if they aren't old enough to make certain decisions for themselves then wouldn't monitoring their other decisions be somewhat neccesary? Wouldn't that by default mean parrents should be able to override their decisions?

    2. Re:people or property by gfxguy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Such is the life of a slashdotting parent. When a predator victimizes a child, the parents get blamed for not better protecting their children. When a parent uses parental controls (because we cannot monitor our kids 24 hours a day) we get blamed for taking away their "rights."

      Well, as a parent I'm legally responsible for my kids, so NO, they DON'T have the same rights as adults. Sorry to burst your bubble.

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    3. Re:people or property by kfg · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You forgot the third one, which is the one that actually holds legal sway at the moment:

      3) as the property of the State

      KFG

    4. Re:people or property by KKlaus · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Well you may not be able to monitor them all the time, but they have brains of their own so you can hopefully teach them so that you don't need to. I'm young enough to have been a minor on "the internets" and as long as you aren't ultimately meeting someone in person, its about as safe as you can get. I mean you're in your damn house for chrissake. All of that internet related paranoia comes from watching to much scaremongering news. Teach your kids not to meet strangers out doors (the don't get into any vans for candy lesson), and it'll be fine. If your real fear is that they might lose some of their innocense become you can't control what they see, then that's a different issue entirely. But there are hardly any real safety issues.

      And careful what rights you take away. Few would argue with limiting access to (say) firearms or tobacco, but sheltering your kids so they don't grow up faster than you want them to can be unhealthy. Unless they're really too stupid to make the right decision even after you explain it to them, don't just invoke authority and tell them too damn bad on what they want to do or see. Makes them bad citizens when they grow up and the govment does the same thing.

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    5. Re:people or property by dirtsurfer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So, which part about raising your kids is so hard that you need the government to do it for you instead? Just asking.

    6. Re:people or property by w1ll0w · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That would be nice if every kid would learn from others mistakes but that's just not the case. I have watched as I told my daughter not to do something and why only to watcher her do it anyway and get hurt. My daughters not dumb, just stubborn. I have a chipped tooth that I won't let the dentists completely fix all the way to remind me of a time I thought my mother didn't know what she was talking about. It's a reminder that I should listen to my elders. And how often do/did you listen to your parents, granted this is a much bigger thing and should probably be avoided but kids make mistakes. That's the whole point of childhood, the only problem is now there's a lot more snakes and fire out there for kids to get hurt by. It's a much more different situation than the not so distant past.

    7. Re:people or property by gfxguy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      None. If you'd bother reading the AC I was responding too, it had nothing to do with this actual proposal. He was asking if we treat the kids like "citizens" with all the freedoms of everyone else, or like property. While I'm legally responsible, they DO NOT have the same rights as adults.

      I agree with him on the level that they should be doing more to catch the predators and less to incovenience the victims, but sometimes that's just not practical.

      You'd get on my case if I complained someone stole my cell phone out of my car when I didn't lock it. You'd get on my case if someone stole my TV when I didn't bother closing the doors on my house. You'd get on my case if someone stole my bike when I didn't bother chaining it.

      Why are you going to get on my case when I use some parental controls to attempt to help keep my kids safe?

      So no, I don't necessarily agree with this law, but I also don't agree with the attitude that kids should have all the rights that adults have, including viewing all the content they want on the internet without restriction, when the parents are responsible, and the attitude that parents are some kind of Nazis when they restrict what their kids can do.

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    8. Re:people or property by Lord+Apathy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, as a parent I'm legally responsible for my kids, so NO, they DON'T have the same rights as adults. Sorry to burst your bubble

      I've been stating this for a number of years. People that don't have kids really have no business telling parents what their kids rights are. Kids don't have the responsibilities as adults so they can't have the same rights.

      Of course now I've said that there will be some arm chair parent who thinks because their brother has kids they know everything there is to know about parenting.

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    9. Re:people or property by rkd2110 · · Score: 2, Insightful
      You'd get on my case if I complained someone stole my cell phone out of my car when I didn't lock it. You'd get on my case if someone stole my TV when I didn't bother closing the doors on my house. You'd get on my case if someone stole my bike when I didn't bother chaining it.

      Those are some of the saddest analogies I've ever seen.

      Have you ever tried talking to your TV and explaining it that it shouldn't allow itself to get stolen? Have you ever tried to teach your cell phone not to stay in unlocked cars? Probably not, because that would make very little sense or good.

      But guess what? You can talk to your children! They are not inert items like your cell or TV. You can reason with them (I know they're children, but still, give them some credit), you can have a conversation with them and maybe, with luck, even establish some sort of trust with them. A trust that will not require from you to monitor them as closely as you feel you must now.

      Your children are your family, and hopefully, your friends. They are not the enemy. When you are trying to restrict their freedom, without consulting with them and without trying to understand them, you treat them like such.

      While I'm legally responsible, they DO NOT have the same rights as adults.

      I don't want to be too harsh but after reading your post I'm really not sure if it's your children that you worry about, or you legal liability for their actions.

  3. bad karma? by dpreformer · · Score: 2, Interesting

    While I don't think the law is a good one it seems to me a workaround for the federal law saying only an account creator can have access is to only allow minors to create pages on accounts their parent creates.

    First post!

  4. Uhh... what? by JanusFury · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Staton cited statistics on dozens of teens who have been molested -- or murdered, in some instances -- by people they met through MySpace.com, according to law enforcement officials.
    So, wait... dozens out of what, like 10 million myspace users? That's less than a hundredth of a percent. If anything, these statistics should indicate that he should be solving more dangerous problems, like car accidents or parental child abuse or teenage drug use, not chasing after imaginary problems.
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    1. Re:Uhh... what? by the-amazing-blob · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Abuse, rape, torture, molestation.

      They get headlines.

      They get politicians elected

      Thus, they get attention of politicians

    2. Re:Uhh... what? by 42Penguins · · Score: 3, Funny

      And what if they're both child molestors?
      The FBI should have video stations set up in each room the child is expected to be in, since many crimes happen within the home.

    3. Re:Uhh... what? by PopeRatzo · · Score: 3, Funny

      Wait 'til the Georgia parents figure out that almost every one of those kids who were molested or murdered also listened to some form of pop music. A very high percentage of them also went to school, so it's time we take a look at radios and blackboard erasers as causes.

      It's about time we crack down.

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    4. Re:Uhh... what? by c6gunner · · Score: 3, Insightful

      They also claim that only 35% of these abuses are reported, so unless I'm getting the math wrong, his would mean that something like 100% of females and 40% of males are molested before they're 18. Seems a little high, eh?

  5. Misquote by tuxlove · · Score: 2, Informative

    the Athens Banner-Herald quotes Facebook's CPO saying that federal law forbids the company to allow anyone but the account creator to access it..

    This isn't at all what the article quotes. It says:

    Under the Federal Electronic Communications Privacy Act, we cannot give anyone access to or control of an individual's profile on Facebook

    I don't see how this would preclude rules that require all future account creations to be done by an adult...

  6. why not ban parenthood? by anagama · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Funny this from GA. Southern states have a rep for "close" familial relations. I doubt that most child-sex-crimes are perpetrated by outsiders anyway no matter what state we're talking about. Sure, the "be afraid of the internet" cases are the ones that get the headlines, but for the most part, it's mom or dad who are directly at fault. So why not just ban parenthood? Parenthood seems much more risky to children than the net.

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    1. Re:why not ban parenthood? by anagama · · Score: 4, Informative
      Indeed, a quick google search turned up this: http://www.districtadministration.com/pulse/commen tpost.aspx?news=no&postid=18080

      Choice quote:

      [chart showing 40% decline in sex abuse between 1990 and 2000]
      All forms of child abuse, not just sexual abuse, are undergoing a dramatic decline. Of course, you'd never know this from the hype the media is giving the cases of online related sexual abuse that they can trace back to MySpace or Facebook.

      [chart breaking down sex abuse by relationship]
      The amazing and sad statistic that is so often overlooked and rarely discussed is that 95% of Child Abuse and Sexual Abuse is perpetrated by family members. 79% of perpetrators are parents. Other relatives accounted for 7% and unmarried partners of parents and "other" accounted for 4% and 5% of abuse.
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    2. Re:why not ban parenthood? by happyemoticon · · Score: 3, Informative

      Just as a side note, the biggest problem with rooting out or finding child sexual abuse is that children under the age of 10 can be made to say anything if goaded long enough, and eventually they will fabricate elaborate false memories to supplement these statements. If you put any determined adult in a room with any 8-year old, given enough time, they could eventually have that kid saying up was down or Uncle Benny touched him this way or that way, which, ironically, could be classified as abuse. Many law enforcement agencies have done exactly that, because at best the officers or attorneys in question were simply convinced they were right and that the kid had repressed memories or some other such bullshit, and at worst they were corrupt jerks out to catch bad guys - who cares if they have to brainwash a few little shits in order to catch em?

      Mind you, I have no special knowledge in this subject beyond some college psychology classes.

    3. Re:why not ban parenthood? by lysergic.acid · · Score: 2, Interesting

      that's not suprising at all. hopefully there are protocols in place to identify this kind of stuff.

      and while we're on the subject of child abuse, what of adults brainwashing/indoctrinating their kids? can this be legally prosecuted as a form of child-abuse? a friend of mine showed me clips of a documentary called Jesus Camp recently about some pretty extreme evangelical communities that seriously scared the living shit out of me. I'm much more concerned with the indoctrination of children with fanatical beliefs in their home communities than their exposure to diverse online cultures through social networking sites.

  7. Kneejerk reaction by Skadet · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I was about to respond with the typical "parents' responsibility" blather, but then I thought about it some more and realized it's more insidious than that.

    It really is about parental control, and parents should be up in arms about this. As it stands (in America, at least), once your kids are waiting on the corner for the public school bus in the morning, your kids belong to the State. A child student has to have parent's permission for an asprin, but not for an abortion.

    Parental rights are increasingly in jeopardy in America.

    This is one step down a slippery slope, and a good time to make a stand. The bottom line is that your kids are yours to raise -- no matter how much some may disagree with your parenting tactics -- and we are standing to lose that right. This is only the first step.

    1. Re:Kneejerk reaction by jumpingfred · · Score: 3, Funny

      I don't remember the schools doing abortions. Have things changed?

  8. Oh boy! by Lord+Bitman · · Score: 3, Funny

    Time to receive another insincere reply from my state representative!

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  9. As usual...idiots by YrWrstNtmr · · Score: 3, Interesting

    illegal for the owner or operator of a social networking Web site to allow minors to create or maintain a Web page without parental permission

    And how, precisely, do you intend to enforce that? One of the reasons the CDA, in 1996 and 1997, and the COPA in 1998 and 1999, were shot down was because this concept is unworkable. Then and now. You simply cannot verify who is sitting at the keyboard.

    And then of course we get into the weird definitions. What is a 'social networking site'? Just Facebook and MySpace? Or /., Digg, and Fark as well? And of course, this does nothing for a site based offshore somewhere.

    1. Re:As usual...idiots by mongoose(!no) · · Score: 3, Interesting

      The definition problem could be very problematic.

      If they say any sites with interactive, user created content, that leads to a lot of problems.

      If they're very specific. Sites might find ways around it.

      In the first case, what happens to all the small sites like PhpBB forums and the like when they have to deal with implementing this?

    2. Re:As usual...idiots by dsoltesz · · Score: 2, Informative

      Actually, the more applicable law (at least similar to what Georgia's attempting) here might be COPPA (see the text of Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998) which addresses what kids can do on the 'net more than what adults can put online that children might be exposed to. By requiring minors (under 13) to have verifiable consent from a parent/guardian, so it does part of what Georgia's trying to do. Not sure why the law didn't extend to teenagers - possibly because of conflicts with "age of consent" related laws (yeah, IANAL). IMHO, leave these types of laws to the Federal government -- state laws are too varied and difficult to enforce. There needs to be consistency across the board.

  10. QFT - idiot. by Irish_Samurai · · Score: 4, Informative

    From TFA:
    "Staton said the bill does not tell the companies exactly how to ensure that minors don't log on without parental permission. The companies can figure that out on their own, he said."

    There is no real way to do that. Who is liable if the minor works around the security and makes a page? What if said minor created a page and NOTHING happened aside from a parent finding out the page exists? What is an acceptable form of verifying parental consent?

    This proposal is a prime example of people who don't know jack about how the technology works trying to legislate it.

    1. Re:QFT - idiot. by julesh · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, you make the company liable just as bars are liable if a kid uses a fake ID.

      If there was actually a working scheme that allows you to prove your age online without placing trust in a dubious third party and which wasn't trivially breakable, I'd buy that. But there is no Internet-based proof-of-age scheme that works. Generally, anyone with access to a credit card can acquire one. Anyone who doesn't trust the apparently-dodgy businesses operating in the area with their credit card details can't.

      That's the approach they'll likely take, assuming this is found Constitutional the fist time it's tested, which it won't

      Unfortunately, an unenforceable law still costs the rest of us time, convenience and money, because anyone who doesn't want the hassle of being prosecuted and having to take the case through multiple levels of appeal to have the law declared unconstitutional will comply with it anyway. Don't think for a moment that if this law is passed, every blogger account there is will be suspended until its owner can prove their age, whether or not the owner is even in the US. How many great blogs will we lose?

  11. How about... by frakir · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ... requiring parents permission anytime kid wants to get on the bus? How about letting kids in the mall only with written permission?

    you know, shit can happen on the bus....
    in fact, shit can happen anywhere.
    How about a site hosted in Romania or Israel?

    State laws can not and will not replace neglecting parents.

  12. Re:Normally I'm on the side of civil liberties... by mobby_6kl · · Score: 4, Funny

    I don't think My Space a net negative. IMO it's nice for the idiots to have their own place to hang out, instead of running around molesting the real internet.

  13. Because, y'know... by Veinor · · Score: 3, Funny

    Porn sites technically must require proof of age, and none of THEM ever get any visits from children.

  14. Lies, Damned Lies... by The+Monster · · Score: 2, Interesting

    That's less than a hundredth of a percent.
    Somebody tell this guy about the correlation between DMHO ingestion and sex crimes! It's 100%

    What a yutz. Let's say this guy gets his law. What practical method is there for a state legislature to require a website based on servers in some other state to verify the identity of people who want to edit pages there?

    Some online services marketed to adults take a credit card as a way of proving you're an adult. They place an authorization on your card, perhaps even charging some nominal fee, which if accepted by the card issuer is sufficient proof of age. How hard is it for a teen to slip Mom's credit card out of her purse, write down the card number, expiration date, and the verification number on the reverse, knowing that if it's just an authorization, she'll have no way to know, and if it's a one-off charge of a buck or three, she still probably won't notice. Or maybe Precious Child has his own Visa Buxx, and uses that to prove he's an adult.

    So that's clearly out. Is he going to create some state agency to give online credentials to adults? Uh-oh. I just realized that in posting this comment, I'm within the definition of 'create or maintain a Web page', and I don't believe I've shown anyone my drivers licence here.

    The internet provides fertile new ground for evildoers, whether they're pedophiles or politicians.

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    1. Re:Lies, Damned Lies... by anagama · · Score: 2, Informative

      That should be DHMO -- you link to a typo squater. The real link is: http://www.dhmo.org/

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  15. Re:It's in writing folks! by azakem · · Score: 2, Funny

    Pretty much reminds me of this.

  16. Which has no place on Slashdot by electrosoccertux · · Score: 4, Funny

    This story has no place on Slashdot, as

    a). we don't have kids
    b). if we don't have any kids, then we're certainly not married
    c). social networking? What is this adjective "social" you are talking about?

    I kid, I kid [sorry].

    1. Re:Which has no place on Slashdot by Achromatic1978 · · Score: 4, Funny

      c). social networking? What is this adjective "social" you are talking about?

      Don't get cheeky. We know perfectly well what social networking is. Social networking sites are what /we/ build so other people than ourselves can get dates!

  17. Right to teach by The+Monster · · Score: 4, Insightful

    How about parents who want to teach their childred from birth that religion X is th eonly true way and that everyone else is a sinner and needs to be converted? What about parents who teach their children to be sexist? racist?
    When they pick up weapons and try to translate that philosophy into reality, we'll just have to kill them. Meanwhile, we'll muddle through under this wacky idea that parents are presumed to have the best interests of their children at heart, and understand that hate mongers from Westboro to Wahhabi are the price of religious freedom.
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  18. Re:You need to lose that right. by Skadet · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Parents should not have the right to raise their children 'no matter how much some may disagree with your parenting tactics.'
    Why not?

    How about parents who want to teach their childred from birth that religion X is th eonly true way and that everyone else is a sinner and needs to be converted? What about parents who teach their children to be sexist? racist?
    What about them?

    I find no compelling argument here; rather, there is no argument of any kind.
  19. Re:Normally I'm on the side of civil liberties... by sanyasi · · Score: 2, Informative
    NO!
    "I disagree with what you have to say but will fight to the death to protect your right to say it" - Voltaire.

    Myspace might be horrible in your opinion but this is when if you truly believe in freedom of speech you would still support them.

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  21. Re:responsibility or control by w1ll0w · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Possibly, but the world is screaming out for parents to control there children since they end up shooting people and when laws are put in place to help them do that in today's high-tech society every one screams children's rights are being trampled. Which is it, do you want parents to be involved or not? A law like this could be abused by some parents but others might be able find problems and deal with them better than if they didn't have this in place. Personally I don't think this law will make it, maybe for good enough reason, but stop telling parents to watch their kids and then tie the parents up and blame them when their kids do something seriously wrong.

  22. I may be in the minority here, but... by Goldenhawk · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I may be in the minority here, but I do have kids. When my 9-year old discovers whatever passes for MySpace at the time we begin to give him access to the web, he's not going to be using it independently of the direct oversight of my wife and myself. He won't be freely using any other web site, for that matter. His right to absolute privacy begins only when he moves out of my house, 9 years from now. If he insists that he is not going to tell me his password, I expect we'll start taking away privileges such as his internet access; if he insists on abusing our trust by using such sites outside our home, other privileges will begin disappearing accordingly.

    This is no different than our current approach to discipline (which by the way is apparently working well): his rights currently extend only to being fed and clothed and healthy. His privileges (including toys, visits with friends, computer games, television, etc.) are given in direct proportion to his responsibility. As he acts responsibly, they expand. As he abuses our trust, they contract until he rebuilds our trust.

    You may ask, how will you monitor his activities away from home? Naturally we're still figuring that out, but we already have a good start when he visits friends' houses, where he already knows that we expect him to follow our home's rules. For example, he knows (and obeys) our restrictions on what television he may watch, or video games he may play; we verify his obedience with parents. I expect our monitoring will include frequent vanity-Googling-by-proxy - searching for his name, and seeing what pops up. I also expect it will include a healthy dose of two-way trust. He already knows that he can trust us, and that we have his best interests in mind, and we will work together with him to build an appropriate presence online, as part of his responsible upbringing. As attentive parents, I also fully expect that we'll have a very good idea of his avatar choices and will be able to find them on any popular sites. Furthermore, since his rights to privacy don't yet exist, we will not hesitate to install keylogging and screenshot software on his computer, which will continue to live only in the common family room, will continue to be locked to system changes, and let him know that we monitor everything he does - just like we already often listen to his phone calls with less-responsible friends, and we make sure both parties know that we're listening. This is all part of parenting. I would never turn him loose in a city by himself, and letting him loose online is no different.

    I'm quite certain that this post will generate some "are you nuts" or "what kind of fanatic are you" replies. Yes, I am a fanatic, in that I'm absolutely convinced of my beliefs (including trusting that God will change my mind if I'm wrong). I am raising my children according to my own beliefs, and teaching them everything I believe, because honestly, if I didn't believe it enough to pass it on to my most dearly valued family, that would show that I didn't really believe it.

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  23. Let's not blow this out of proportion by dangermouse · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Cecil Staton, as another poster has pointed out, is kind of a known idiot. He's also all by himself on this. The response of the rest of the State Senate, and just about everyone else, has been: "What?"

    It's not only a stupid idea, it's an unworkable stupid idea that's going nowhere. Yeah, it's been "proposed in Georgia", but it might as well have been proposed on the moon. It has no support in Georgia and shouldn't reflect on Georgia.

  24. Re:Some Myspace age data by arthurpaliden · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Finding kids to molest is much easier at the local mall where the odds of finding a 'child' are better.

    MySpace Age Ranges By Gender
    As Indicated By Users

    Age Range % Male % Female % Total

    12 to 15 0.0007 0.0012 0.0019
    16 to 18 9.25 12.39 21.64
    19 to 21 11.64 12.29 23.93
    22 to 35 22.90 18.00 40.90
    36 to 55 3.48 2.66 6.14
    56 to 99 1.58* 1.53* 3.11

    Totals 48.85 46.87 95.72

    Based on sample size of about 40 million active users.
    An active user visits their page at least once every 2 weeks.
    Only about 1/3 of all MySpace users are active.

    * Most likely users in the lower age groups lying.
    A further analysis of their page data would determine
    a truer age for each user.
  25. Re:responsibility or control by hrvatska · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Speaking as a parent who has raised children, I don't think watching your kids means being invasive in every aspect of their lives. It doesn't mean pre-emptively reading their diaries. It doesn't mean saying that they can't have private phone conversations. And to me, that's what saying you have to have access to their myspace account amounts to. Watching your children means spending a substantial amount of time with them. Going to all of their school functions. Volunteering to be their coach. Talking to their friend's parents. Setting curfews and sticking to them. It isn't so much watching as participating.

  26. Re:The Senate Sucks by drsmithy · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I understand t hat there are currently problems with minors o nthe internet, but within 20-30 years all of these problems iwll be resolved with parents that are technologicaly sound.

    No, they won't. Firstly because those parents won't be "technologically sound" and secondly because they'll think they are and, thus, that they can ignore their parenting responsibilities by letting the machine do it for them.

    Currently, parents have no idea how to use parental controls or how to supervise their kids, and I know my parents can't figure out what I'm doing.

    Guess what ? If/when you have kids, the situation will be exactly the same.

  27. No, it isn't. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Any responsible parent can't leave a child on his own and perfectly entitled to use as many tools as his disposal as possible in order to ensure the child does not get in harm's way.

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  28. The more your tighten your grip... by jvkjvk · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It's nice that you are conditioning your child to grow up in the society he'll be living in: Ubiquitous monitoring, trust through surveillance (you have "two-way trust" - that's a good one), blind obedience to Authority.

    In doing what you are doing, you are not only teaching him your beliefs and values but instilling a distrust in you, his parents, that runs much deeper that you think. You do not trust your son. Get over it. Saying you trust him is not the same as actually doing so. You do not trust him at all, in the slightest. Not one bit. No matter what you say your actions belie your words. In fact, the contradictions created in your own mind by this dichotomy are in themselves damaging to your children as well as yourself.

    You say your son trusts you. I can go along with that, considering he's 9. It's much easier to bend your mind to such contradictions when you're young. However, I don't expect that this will last until he's 18. Unless you are able to stunt his growth, he should consciously see the glaring obviousness of your lies in a few years, 5 max i would say.

    If he does, you will have created someone who is able to succeed in the modern world of Catch-22's. If he suppresses this knowledge, you will have created a damaged and defective human being (quite possibly schizophrenic). Either way it seems like they will be appropriately paranoid.

    Hmm, I guess I take that back. I figure you have probably a good chance of producing someone who is able to cover their tracks pretty well therefore has the skillz to avoid the much more lax authoritarian regimes currently called governments (after all the big G can't afford the extensive monitoring you engage in).

    So, how do you expect God to change your belief structures if you won't listen to his representatives on Earth? Do you expect some miraculous experience like Paul (nee Saul) had? I find the best way is to open myself to the possibility that I might be wrong. It's called faith, you know, the actual bleeding edge of it. Faith that your core belief structures will still be there as you question the axioms, roots and branches of it and discard or modify your beliefs. Faith that even if you determine that one or a cluster of beliefs are incorrect (i.e. you change your mind), you will still be in God's loving eyes and are still able to continue the Great Work here on earth.

    It doesn't even have to be an active thing; just the sensitivity to know that real world experiences can, and should, send ripples through your belief structures, shaking out the bugs. I guess this, then, depends on the ability to see your beliefs as a gestalt of multiple different ideas.

    I am wondering where this Paranoid Surveillance trip comes out of your Faith. You need to find that ideological plank of your belief structures and examine what's wrong with it, because something sure is. While I agree that one's actions should stem from one's beliefs (which is why I am bothering writing this), I think your path to right action has been diverted by extraneous belief structures.

    That is, you have some irrational Fear that is haunting you. This, in turn, enables an environment where the seeds of paranoia have grown to blossom, since you have not rooted out this fear. A subset of your belief structures is actively engaged in finding a set of patterns in real world examples to assure your self that you are on the correct path. Judging by your actions, these structures are under control of your paranoid tendencies. They have hooked into your Religious structures at some level such that you believe your behaviour towards your son is both necessary and in his best interest at a fundamental level when in really it's mostly just Paranoia having it's way with you.