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How To Lose Your Job, Thanks To The Internet

The New York Times has up an article discussing the trend of employers tracking the 'free time' activities of their employees via their web presence. "When they do go off the clock and off the corporate network, how they spend their private time should be of no concern to their employer, even if the Internet, by its nature, makes some off-the-job activities more visible to more people than was previously possible. In the absence of strong protections for employees, poorly chosen words or even a single photograph posted online in one's off-hours can have career-altering consequences." The piece likens this activity to the 'Sociological Department' that the Ford Company ran to monitor the home lives of their workers. Overstatement, or the corp as Big Brother?

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  1. Hmmm.... by andy666 · · Score: 5, Funny

    Yeah this internet thing might end up having some impact on the world....

    1. Re:Hmmm.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Yeah this internet thing might end up having some impact on the world....

      A paragraph from the cited article:

      Employment law in most states provides little protection to workers who are punished for their online postings, said George Lenard, an employment lawyer at Harris Dowell Fisher & Harris in St. Louis. The main exceptions are workers who are covered by collective bargaining agreements or by special protections for public-sector employees; members of these groups can be dismissed only "for cause." The rest of us are "at will" employees, holding on to our jobs only at the whim of our employers, and thus vulnerable.

      .

      And for this, you can thank those who deride unions as "corrupt organizations, whose sole purpose was to aggrandize the union bosses".

      Yes, the statement may be true in some cases, but they did protect their covered employees from the "at will" horseshit. I worked for a company whose new management put the employee manual online on the intranet. Cute trick -- before you could look at what the provisions were, you had to click on a box following a statement saying that you agreed that you were an "at will" employee and could be dismissed at any time for any reason.

      Union employees could have told the company to stick the intranet up their asses and to provide a written, dated statement of employee rights and responsibilities.

      Most of you nerds should keep in ming that you're on call 24/7 or are working 50 to 60 hour weeks because those fine folks in your parents' generation who fought bloody battles for the 40-hour work week have been cast aside as "productivity-robbing parasites".

      As an exercise, everyone in an "exempt" position should divide their yearly salary by the appropriate number to see what their actual hourly wage is.

      I once was awarded a check large enough to be worth $500 after taxes for work "above and beyond" on a certain project. It felt nice until I added up the extra hours I'd put in and found out the cocksucking bastards had gotten me to work for about five dollars an hour.

      Goddamned self-serving pricks.

  2. You can still make an effort by zantolak · · Score: 4, Informative

    To keep your real name offline to the best of your ability. I see no reason for people online to know my real name, or tie it to my internet activities.

    1. Re:You can still make an effort by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Ed Zantolak! Is that you!!! Hey, I got some top notch colombian shit for new years. I know you have a nose like a vacuum cleaner, so come on over. There's gonna be some male strippers too... remember that time in San Francisco? AIDS ruined everything man.

    2. Re:You can still make an effort by badasscat · · Score: 4, Interesting

      To keep your real name offline to the best of your ability. I see no reason for people online to know my real name, or tie it to my internet activities.

      I see reasons both for and against. On the one hand, yes, you have these privacy concerns that are totally valid. On the other, here you have the internet, which is *designed* to connect people. In the early days, *everybody* used their real name - heck, I still belong to one forum that was probably among the first on the web where I still use my real name (few other people there do).

      The great thing about the internet is that people *can* find you. I've been contacted by long lost friends and family that I never thought I'd speak to again, and I've got a big network of people that I talk to online now (and in real life) that I'd never have found offline. This is one of the big attractions of the net; in fact, I consider the internet pretty pointless otherwise. Is the internet nothing more than a bunch of companies hawking products, low-quality amateur scat porn and anonymous strangers yammering at each other? That's even worse than real life. Why would anyone want that?

      But I also don't see this as just an evil plot by the corporations. A person's outside behavior has *always* been fair game in terms of employment... the only difference is the internet makes it easier to track. Let's say a company hires an accountant, who at some point during his term of employment gets into a bar fight and gets arrested. He comes in to work the next day bruised and bloody, and the story makes the local newspaper. What do you think is going to happen? Most likely, he's going to get fired. It doesn't matter that he did it on his own time; companies want well-adjusted, positive people working for them, and in an "at will" system of employment, "job security" has always been an illusion. You have job security provided you play the game right, and that means at work and at home. It's always been that way.

      People act like asses on the internet because they think they can get away with it. But they can no more get away with it on the net than that accountant could get away with being in a real-life bar fight that makes the local papers. An ass is an ass, and no company wants to employ somebody like that.

      Of course, you can argue about moral standards, but if your company doesn't share your own moral standards, then maybe you shouldn't be working there to begin with.

      As for me, I don't make any particular effort to hide my full real name but I don't freely give it out either. In a Google search of my name, I don't come up at all. Even still, I try not to do anything that's going to make me look stupid online, regardless of who's going to see it. I think that's probably good advice for anybody.

  3. Always use an alias. by Matt867 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    You should simply use an alias and never reveal that alias to an employer. I realize that it's a good opportunity to increase your chances of employment by allowing an employer to take a look at your online work but, its simply absolutely none of their business. If you are really desperate for the extra bang on your resume I suggest immediately afterwards you change to a different alias and notify all of your friends that you need to change in order to protect your anonymity from your employer (Via private means of course).

    1. Re:Always use an alias. by SetupWeasel · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Here is a problem with that. I am a comedian. A lot of my work is offensive, yet I do not show my comedy work to anyone at my paying job. I need me to be on what I do to eventually get paying comedy work. I shield what I can, but it is impossible for me to completely hide myself.

      Should I pay for chasing my dreams?

  4. Whoa by chanrobi · · Score: 5, Funny

    So posting those drunken, pot smoking pics of myself on a publicly viewable online source (e.x facebook) might not be a good idea? That's news to me.

    1. Re:Whoa by phantomcircuit · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The real problem isn't that you post the pictures of yourself, it is that one of your "friends" posted them.

  5. So, what you're TRYING to say is.. by Klowner · · Score: 4, Funny

    It's probably not a good idea to get totally trashed, strip naked, and broadcast yourself all over the internet?

    http://www.techcrunch.com/2007/12/29/jim-chomas-career-joins-the-deadpool-maybe/

    Better tell that dude.

  6. Not much is new here. by gnutoo · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Fascism is older than the internet. Witch hunts are older than that. What you see is a bunch of companies that think they are so powerful that they can tell you to do and think as they say, 24/7. With government granted franchises, rubber stamped consolidation and bad joke anti-trust enforcement big company perception is not that far from reality. Shutting down online expression is both an exercise and enhancer of corporate power, just as book burning and other forms of censorship have been.

    If your company is like this, do yourself a favor and quit.

    1. Re:Not much is new here. by FLEB · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I can see the tough spot for the company, though. If they can get info on their employees, so can their competitors, their customers, the media, disgruntled folks with a bone to pick... Although it might not right, and it might not be overtly expressed, a company could conceivably lose work or customers due to something widely seen as objectionable. An employer taking the high road might be stuck taking the battering of their association with drunkards, preverts, druggies, by a public who has much less responsibility to be fair and upstanding.

      I'm not saying that the companies are justified in disciplining workers for off-job activities, but that it's a much stickier situation than just "corporate fascist bastards bringin' me down".

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      Entertainment wants to be paid.
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    2. Re:Not much is new here. by Snooby2008 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I think the main problem is that we can't really separate personal opinions from business ones.

      Freedom of speech is a nice thing, but in real word people don't say to employers what they think if it means they lose their jobs. Goverment mostly protects citizens being harassed by goverment itself, but it does very little if private citizen limits other persons freedom of speech or goverments agencies as employer do it.

      Or lets phrase that again. Yes, anyone can say anything and freedom of speech is almost without limits. But no law guarantees using that right won't have consequences like losing your job or business. On private or public sector.

      And thats the fundamental problem of political rights. If they don't protect people who exercise them economically too, they are just laws that state 'you can do this or that - if you can afford it'.

      In real world it means that if you can't afford it, you have to give away your rights. Even those protected in name by constitutions. So actually, freedom of speech for example, knows bounds.

      Fundamentals question is then, shouldn't political rights be also economical rights?
      Shouldn't they be if they can't be separated in real world?

      What are those rights that can't be taken away, but you can't afford to exercise? They are no rights at all far as I can tell.

    3. Re:Not much is new here. by FLEB · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In order to effectively restrict economic retaliation against free speech, you would have to remove most all freedom from commerce (Yes, you must buy the soup made by Nazi-commie Satanist Pedophiles, because they have the freedom to be that way.), and that ends up stifling a whole lot more freedom of a whole lot more people. A large part of the concept of free speech is that better ideas will rise to the top. Although the currents they rise (or sink) on are not centrally, governmentally controlled-- they are free from absolute censorship-- certain forces-- economic and social-- still do (and should) exist to raise and lower ideas, in order to raise the ideas that are worthy, and to deflate the ones that are crackpot.

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    4. Re:Not much is new here. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      A senator who supports homosexual relations with under aged teens or preteens wouldn't stand for a minute in a serious election So one who supports heterosexual relations would be okay?
      I don't think I want you to be allowed to vote.
    5. Re:Not much is new here. by Planesdragon · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Freedom of speech is a nice thing, but in real word people don't say to employers what they think if it means they lose their jobs Any employer that does not have a clear channel for their employees to express their honestly held opinions is a company doomed to failure. Any company that cares what their low-level employees do on their own time is just wasting money.

      Things are different if you have actual company secrets, or if you're a corporate official. But in that case, you're hired EXACTLY to tell the company what you think.
    6. Re:Not much is new here. by FLEB · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There's no harm, per se, in allowing speech without sanctions. There is, however, no way to create an environment where this is the case, without restricting the commerce-choice freedoms of others. People naturally do not want to interact or do business with people they find objectionable. If the objectionable person is part of a market with reasonable alternatives, oftentimes people will choose to do business with those they find least objectionable.

      Commerce is partially a social interaction, and economic prosperity is largely dependent upon successful commerce. If you repulse your potential customers (or other such profitable interactors) by way of your public speech or stances, you will be less able or likely to commit successful commercial transactions, and will find yourself economically disadvantaged. That's just the fact of a free market.

      If you are an employee, depending on your role and its visibility, your advancement may be based on how well you sympathize with and reflect the important values of your employer. After all, a group of people who are all ideologically opposed but supposedly working together is a recipe for failure. Luckily, since free enterprise is legal, and you cannot be outrightly prohibited from changing your job, field, or marketing strategy (depending on who or what you are), you can take your free-speakin' self into the free market and see how well your ideologically-charged business flies among more sympathetic souls. (Granted, this is a less-than-perfect rendition in real life, given that there are monopolies and barriers-to-entry to some fields... call it "implementation hurdles")

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    7. Re:Not much is new here. by BakaHoushi · · Score: 4, Insightful

      My question is, what kind of business would truly suffer from the off-the-clock activities of its employees? Would people boycott or something the products of a software developer because Bob from Accounting has admitted to smoking pot at his home? It seems unlikely to me. What DOES seem likely is that, say, a CEO caught SMUGGLING drugs, or at least financing it, would have far worse consequences. And that's already a serious crime and if caught, getting fired would be the LEAST of your concerns.

      Let's face facts: We get a lot of our stuff from China. China makes little kids work in sweatshops so they can make this stuff cheap. The average American doesn't give a rat's ass about what employees do on or off the clock as long as they can get what they want for cheap.

  7. More like how to lose your job cause you're stupid by syousef · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If you do something in public in your own time, it can and will affect your employment and is of concern to your employer. No bank wants an employee that's a convicted fraudster. No school wants teachers who are porn stars. No police force wants an ex-con as an officer. The issue isn't whether you conduct these activities in your own time or not, or if the Internet was used. The issue is that you're in a trusted position, and that your employer may have the right to terminate your employment if they perceive a conflict of interest, or if something you've done or are doing in your spare time means you can't effectively do your job.

    Now if employers terminate people unreasonably for being part of a political organization, due to their ethnicity or religion or for some other discriminatory reason the existing legal protection needs to come into play (as is the case of Stacy Snyder mentioned in TFA - terminating someone for being seen with a large glass of alcohol is moronic - that said she's better off with a different employer if that's how her current one acts). We don't need new special laws for the Internet. We may need minor adjustments to existing laws to take the Internet into account. We certainly don't need special protection for morons be they employer or employee.

    Are we really suppose to have sympathy for morons who don't know what they put on the net is public?

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    These posts express my own personal views, not those of my employer
  8. Well, no kidding! by holophrastic · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Just because it wasn't possible before to know what you're employees are like is not only not the point, it's also very much the point. On the first note, more information is a good thing. And you if can discover that your employee is whatever you consider weird, you're welcome to stop working with them. On the second note, if you can discover that your employee is whatever you consider weird, so can your clients. A public face is a public face, and if an employee intends to work in a job where that face matters -- i.e. the face of the company -- then yes, their on-line activities count just as much as their off-line activities.

    My father taught me this when I was six, and it rings true here. At a baseball game, some reporter was going around asking for public opinion regarding some baseball issue. My father denied the interview saying that he was the officer of a public communications company, and should not be presented publicly by this reporter; even on a matter as unrelated as his opinions on baseball.

    Now, I own and operate my own company. And yes, I look for good people to work with me. You'd beter believe I want them to be good people all-around. Their welcome to vent to me, and they can insult me to my face all they like. They can insult my clients to my face as well. But when they do anything that my clients can see, or to which my clients have access, they had better conduct themselves in a manner that I deem suitable.

    Right or wrong, if my client says that they don't like my employee, I take that very seriously. Accidents and general human error are acceptable in moderation. Disregard for my business -- even during off-hours -- is completely unacceptable.

    In my perspective, many employees (I don't mean only mine, I do in fact include many of my friends that work for others) consider their employment to be a right. No matter how good you are at your job, your employor has invested way more time and way more effort, and way more RISK into the business than you'll ever even consider for as long as you're an employee.

    You don't deserve squat -- that's why you get nothing but money for your time. You work is appreciated, but the intelectual property isn't yours, and the risk wasn't yours, and the value-rewards won't be yours. The clients aren't yours, the company isn't yours. There's an enormous risk in starting your own business, and it's a gigantic under-taking to maintain any business. Being a cog in the machine is worth the grease, and little more.

    My father would come home, after long days of negotiating some government contract for the communication company for which he worked. After a successful victory, he'd boast to his wife how he'd saved the company millions of dollars. She'd turn to him and say: "so, how much of it is ours?". Of course the answer is zero. That was his job, he did it well, he got paid as expected, plus or minus an annual bonus. The given victory meant nothing financially.

    Know that when you work for someone else, you get to avoid the many headaches that go into running a business and being accountable to an entity that you've created. Also know that when you go out on your own, you deserve all of the glory, credit, blame, and defeat.

    1. Re:Well, no kidding! by MeNeXT · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You don't deserve squat -- that's why you get nothing but money for your time. You work is appreciated, but the intelectual property isn't yours, and the risk wasn't yours, and the value-rewards won't be yours. The clients aren't yours, the company isn't yours. There's an enormous risk in starting your own business, and it's a gigantic under-taking to maintain any business. Being a cog in the machine is worth the grease, and little more.

      And we wonder where loyalty went? With this attitude you'll get the employees you deserve.

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    2. Re:Well, no kidding! by Bonker · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You don't deserve squat -- that's why you get nothing but money for your time. You work is appreciated, but the intelectual property isn't yours, and the risk wasn't yours, and the value-rewards won't be yours. The clients aren't yours, the company isn't yours. There's an enormous risk in starting your own business, and it's a gigantic under-taking to maintain any business. Being a cog in the machine is worth the grease, and little more.


      And if you ever wonder why you're resented and hated by your employees, this is why. When you wonder why the employee loyalty your business needs (or you even crave) isn't there, this is the reason. You look at people as cogs in your machine and not fellows. They're there to be exploited and not to be part of the company.

      A business isn't one man or one man's risk no matter how much you'd like to put it in those terms. Your business belongs not only to you, but to everyone who works for you.

      Let's put it in realistic terms. Your client has a relationship with your company, and not just with you. He has a relationship with the salesmen who talk to him, the support people he calls when he's got a problem, and the people who manufactures the product he's buying.

      When you eliminate any one of those people for anything but the most important of reasons (no, not profit. The long-term survival of your company is what your eyes SHOULD be focused on) you are diminishing your company's relationship with that client.

      When your client says he has a problem with a single member of that team, you need to think long and hard about why. Is your client prejudiced? Is your client sane? More importantly, is your client looking out for your company's best interests? Almost certainly not.

      Don't agree? Fire your important employees and replace their jobs with cheaper, less-experienced people. 'Outsource' if you dare. Watch your clients start to complain. Their money is about to go elsewhere.

      Instead, why don't you learn to treat your employees as not only cogs in a machine, but individual people with cares and concerns of their own who are also important parts of your company? Your company's long-term health will show you the value of that. Profit will follow.
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    3. Re:Well, no kidding! by commodoresloat · · Score: 4, Insightful

      supervise them. You spend all of your time taking what their willing to give, and knowing that it could be better. Rare is the case where your employee actually does something as well as you want them to do it because rare is the case that your employee could care less.
      I think this is exactly the grandparent's point. He/she said treat your employees like shit and they will give you shit work. Your response only confirms that that's exactly what happened.
    4. Re:Well, no kidding! by SashaMan · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And we wonder where loyalty went? With this attitude you'll get the employees you deserve. Exactly. Apologies for not having the reference, but I recall a study that showed that one of the highest predictors of business success as determined by earnings growth was the percentage of employees that had stock options (while, conversely, lavishing options on only top management had very little correlation with success).

      If you give your employees a vested interest in the success of your business then employee productivity will be much greater than if you treat them like "cogs."
    5. Re:Well, no kidding! by (negative+video) · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The employee doesn't have any skin in the game.

      The market value of my stock and options currently equals two years of my salary, and that is with the price being hammered by distressed institutional investors. If I help deliver new products that impress investors, it goes straight to my personal bottom line.

      They can lose their job, and they can get another one.

      Not with a bad reference, or termination-for-mistake on the resume.

      Employees ... get no decisions, and they aren't responsible for their actions.

      Somebody should tell that to the scientists and engineers I work with, who have been known to invent new lines of business and start spin-off companies.

    6. Re:Well, no kidding! by tom's+a-cold · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Also know that when you go out on your own, you deserve all of the glory, credit, blame, and defeat.
      Y'know, I read The Fountainhead too, I just saw it as a poorly-written paean to narcissism. Knowingly or not, it seems to have struck some deep chord with you. That's too bad. It's a stunted, solipsistic world-view.

      I keep my private and business lives well-encapsulated, even to the extent of never introducing my coworkers to my friends. My employer asserts the customary feudal prerogative of controlling every moment of my waking life while still only paying me for part of it. This is not because they have some God-given right to direct my life, it is because they can get away with it in the present rigged system, and they have more power than I do. But having an unfeeling, brain-dead bureaucracy stick their nose into my private life is no better when it's an HR department than when it's a government agency. It's repression all the same. It's an odious feature of the present system.

      I don't regard them as malicious so much as arrogant, overzealous and misguided. So I practise operational security and communication security in order to minimize their opportunities to mess with me. But that's out of necessity, not out of any belief that I owe it to them to do that. And I'm not talking about any "right" to a job. I'm just saying that they don't own me, yet in many respects they behave as though they do. And due to the extreme, government-backed asymmetry of power relations in the workplace (you think employers have it tough? Look at the restrictions on union activity sometime), those are the conditions we have to live under in the US. And I'm a well-compensated employee. It's far worse for those with lower-paid, more commoditized jobs. That's where employers really run amok.

      And please, never talk about "extreme risk" when all you're referring to is money. I've lived in parts of the world where risk means you or your family getting killed, dismembered, driven from your home. That's risk. What you're talking about is just putting your money where your mouth is.

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  9. Where to draw the line, though? by Token_Internet_Girl · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I want to quote this first:

    If you do something in public in your own time, it can and will affect your employment and is of concern to your employer. No bank wants an employee that's a convicted fraudster. No school wants teachers who are porn stars. No police force wants an ex-con as an officer. The issue isn't whether you conduct these activities in your own time or not, or if the Internet was used. The issue is that you're in a trusted position, and that your employer may have the right to terminate your employment if they perceive a conflict of interest, or if something you've done or are doing in your spare time means you can't effectively do your job.

    I agree that "conflicts of interests" as mentioned above do have a right to be known to employers. However, when does this stop becoming an genuine effort to root out the so-called "stripper teacher," and become an threadbare excuse to fire someone for lack of conformity? Let me illustrate. I am always 110% work appropriate when I am on the job, however in my off hours I wear alot of piercings, I show tattoos, I like to go out and have drinks and hang with friends. There is, with today's digital camera boom, a good chance pictures will be taken of these activities in my off time. Now, if the place I work for is generally church going, khaki and polo button down straight edge family types, they might absolutely abhor my personal life, even though I don't bring it to work. Now the issue becomes, "if one worker doesn't fit the company image in and out of work, cut him loose." Can you see how easy the line between business interest and privacy can get blurred and abused? It feels like a door for socialized work places(sans government). Maybe I make a slightly paranoid case, but self expression is highly important to me; I'd hate to live half a life for fear of losing my job.

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  10. Contradicton by PPH · · Score: 4, Insightful
    One thing that continually puzzles me is how a company can tell their shareholders/customers/government regulators that anything they do is fair so long as it lies within the letter of the law. Then they turn around and expect employees to adhere to a code of conduct that is more strict.

    I find that their sense of ethics is usually quite impaired.

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  11. Re:Company image...to an extent by dbIII · · Score: 4, Interesting

    We got a dose of this in Australia thanks to imported management that possibly got kicked out of the USA for not getting over slavery. A division of a company held a Christmas party for it's employees and due to spectactular mismanagement it was held in March. After the party had finished three employees went to a hotel room and got very amorous. In the next mind boggling stupid and over the top piece of mismanagement the woman was fired for this and two men cautioned - the manager had decided both that he ruled the off duty hours of the employees and that Taliban morality should be enforced by blaming the woman. Instead of upper management resolving it the whole thing ended up in the high court in an attempt to justify the idiot and it cost the company a packet and even made the government look bad for letting such a thing happen (the unfair dismissal laws that had prevented this in the past were in a state of change). The company is Telstra which is still effectively the Australian telecomunications monopoly.

  12. Control - Military Style by ksuwildkat · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I write this a am member of the military so I have a bit of understanding about the extremes of this argument.

    First, the type of employment matters a lot. Technically, military personnel are under a "Personal Services Contract." We are paid no matter what we do, where we do it or even IF we do it. I do not clock in or out, I receive no overtime, comp time, sick time. I have annual leave but technically it is simply permission to be away from my duty location for a period of time. Given the nature of the contract, it is perfectly reasonable for my "employer" to have an interest in my personal life.

    Compare that with about 99% of the jobs out there any the question becomes more clear. If I get paid overtime or receive comp time then the portion of my day that you do not pay for is my business. If you want to be involved in that part of the day, pay up.

    Now the argument is normally image. If I am doing table dances at Hooters at 1 AM how can I represent the company at 9 AM. I have no problem with that either but it needs to be clearly spelled out in the Performance Work Standards. If I work in the mail room and my interaction consists of the letters and the box they go in, you would have a hard time getting away with saying the company image had been damaged. Of course none of this applies to "at will" employees. Where companies screw up is when they TELL an at will why they were fired. Idiots, just fire them.

    Back to my situation. My employer has complete control of my life. 99% of the time, my employer does not exercise that control. Anyone who has been even close to a military base knows that soldiers drink and do dumb things. The mere fact that the military CAN punish people for off duty behavior prevents a lot but not all dumb stuff. Still, we are not a machine and decisions are made by PEOPLE. Most military leaders understand the where the line is and when it has been crossed. They know because the military is unique in this county as the only large organization that ONLY promotes from within. Everyone starts at the bottom meaning no one gets to a decision maker position without spending far more time subject to someone else making decisions. Right now we are struggling with blogs and MySpace because of generational differences in leadership. Nothing new. It was Rock and Roll vs Big Band in the 60s. Almost everyone I know has had a boss at one extreme or the other - either holding prayer meetings or starting with drinks at 1500 (3PM) on a Tuesday. Neither one is good. Most of us shoot for the middle but most actually end up far more "liberal" then most people outside the military would think. We tolerate far more off duty behavior than most people believe simply because the alternative is so crushing on moral. IMHO civilian companies could learn a lot from seeing how the military restrains itself despite the tools for total control.

  13. now hold on just one minute.. who says it was me? by Animaether · · Score: 4, Insightful

    who says it was me (I) who put that video up?

    Here I am, enjoying my drunken rave - having a great time, I even leave my phone at home.. no disturbances for me this new years' eve.. just me, my friends, that cute girl I met and jello shots.

    A week later, I get fired, because my boss saw a video of it.. turns out the girl was his niece; go fig. Now what video? I don't know - I certainly didn't take any, let alone give it to him. Turns out that somebody else was shooting some video of their friends.. I don't know them, they don't know me, but I sure was in the background of their video.

    Not everything is a "babysitter caught doing drugs", but may still be something you don't really want to share with the world for whatever reason; but you don't always have a say in this yourself.

    So the solution is not so simple; unless you're saying that the real simple solution is to live puritan life 24/7 so that there is never a chance of anybody, anywhere, catching you doing things that might be perfectly acceptable in the situation you were in, but perhaps not so acceptable to your employer.. parents.. whoever/whatever.