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Corporate Email Etiquette - Dead or Alive?

mbravo writes "I work in a largish company, heavily into IT, and in a complex and quickly changing market. Employees are predominantly in the 30 or younger age-bracket, and as you might expect we rely on a lot of internal e-mail. Despite that, lately I'm finding myself increasingly frustrated by a complete lack of e-mail etiquette in the company. A typical thread might look like a hundred-message-long chain of one-line replies, with full quoting and hundreds of recipients in the 'To:' field. It feels like it is happening more and more often. I don't seem to be seeing much success in explaining to my co-workers what the problem is here. How do you deal with this at your place of business, and does your company care? Does the company take any policing or educating measures?"

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  1. With gmail by Bombula · · Score: 4, Interesting
    How do you deal with this at your place of business

    With Gmail. It's intelligent filters screen out the quoted text, and by displaying email as threads (aka conversations) instead of just chronologically it makes dealing with a large volume of correspondence much easier. It's not perfect, but it's a damn sight better than any other email system I've used.

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    1. Re:With gmail by gnick · · Score: 3, Informative

      That would be nice, but is prohibitive for many companies. My company, for example, does not allow e-mail outside the firewall unencrypted. On this side, we have Lotus Notes which approaches zero usability as e-mail etiquette drops. We have periodic training for users mostly scheduled by how ugly things have gotten. Some employees, of course, never learn when it is or is not appropriate to use the "Reply to All" button, but there's no action taken on the corporate scale. The only way to handle it is to send them to /dev/null and force them to pick up a phone to follow up on anything that was actually important.

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    2. Re:With gmail by orclevegam · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Sometimes I wish the reply all button had a molly-guard on it. Or at least add a dialog box on it that says something like "Using this constitutes spamming, does your message really need to be spammed to everyone in the From and CC field of this e-mail?".

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    3. Re:With gmail by edmicman · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So where's the "Gmail" style conversations in standard desktop clients? I use Thunderbird at work, alongside some users with Outlook. I've got threading turned on for Thunderbird but compared to Gmail's implementation it, in a word, sucks.

    4. Re:With gmail by value_added · · Score: 2, Informative

      With Gmail ... and by displaying email as threads (aka conversations) instead of just chronologically it makes dealing with a large volume of correspondence much easier.

      That's a feature that most of have always taken for granted. Long-time Windows users, on the other hand, will no doubt consider such a feature as novel, given that historically, Outlook and Outlook express were incapable of such an ordinary function, and their users had probably never seen a threaded message list of email or newsgroup postings.

      Maybe some current Outlook users or Exchange admins can chime in here, but it appears that Microsoft has, instead of making use of the `Message-Id` field, introduced a `Thread-Index` field (populated with an absurdly long number) to make up for things. It would be funny if it wasn't so absurd.

      Either way, it seems many folks remain unaware of the concept of threading. I can't fathom how they slog through their email, but it's a common enough occurence on email lists to see people send a new message on a new topic by hitting their Reply button instead of bothering to type an email address. Unknown to them, the new message with its new subject line gets buried in an unrelated thread.

      As a side note, the more recent versions of mutt can "break" or "join" threads. A welcome feature to add to all the other features to compensate for people using borked email clients, misconfigured servers, or a reliance on a poorly-written web applications to send their emails to the world.

    5. Re:With gmail by jandrese · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Could that be because Outlook sucks? I hate participating on internet mailing lists with my company client (but I have to in order to stay current) because it's a lot of work to not topquote with Outlook, not to mention how much slower it is than our old mail system (some IMAP thing we ran Netscape's mail client on).

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  2. My experience by soulsteal · · Score: 5, Insightful

    My experience in the defense industry has shown me that long, full-quote e-mails are often useful for defending yourself against another's incompetence.

    1. Re:My experience by orclevegam · · Score: 5, Informative

      My experience in the defense industry has shown me that long, full-quote e-mails are often useful for defending yourself against another's incompetence. That unfortunately is the reason most quoted for using e-mail in the first place. Most upper management (and middle management) view e-mail not as a communication tool, but as a way to CYA. The phrase "Send it to me in an e-mail." is uttered far to often not because they need reminding or somehow didn't hear you just tell them that, but because they want it in writing.
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    2. Re:My experience by Anomolous+Cowturd · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I tell my boss to send me specs/todos and so on in email because that's where I keep track of them, and cross em off as they're done. Otherwise it's in one ear and out the other. Not always about CYA.

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    3. Re:My experience by The+Fun+Guy · · Score: 5, Interesting

      One guy I know is famous for issuing instructions to his staff that range from irritating to ridiculous to borderline actionable. These are done on the phone, because 1) the guy will never put anything like that in writing, and 2) he can draw you in and escalate your time and energy commitment since there's no clear record of what you agreed to do on the project.

      I took to following up his phone calls with a summary e.mail, outlining his demands on my time and effort. He got mad and told me to knock it off, that there was no need for e.mails when a phone call was sufficient, etc. I persisted, prefacing it with, "Just so I have it clear what you want me to do." He stopped the vampire routine, at least with me.

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    4. Re:My experience by kent_eh · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I work in an increasingly large and beaurocratic telco.
      CYA is the biggest reason around here for using e-mail (and keeping a multi year archive of both my inbox and outbox).

      "Gee Mr. manager, the batteries finally failed due to overheating... Yup, here's my e-mail from last year telling you we needed to upgrade the cooling. And here's my e-mail from 3 years ago saying the same thing (with your reply saying you'll deal with it later)."

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    5. Re:My experience by sholden · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And how is that a bad thing?

      Planning, etc is much better done by talking or even by IM, but people manage to come away with different impressions on what was agreed on, so a written note removes that ambiguity. Which seems a good thing.

      I like to get things in writing (either an email, or a bug tracking/project tracking database entry) when I'm tasked with something. Both for the lack of ambiguity and for the self interested reasons of it providing a record of why I'm behind on other things (you had me do this first) and for CYA (record X was deleted because you said to do so in Y).

      Email makes that such records very easy. I've worked with someone who would tell you to do X, and then a week later disavow all knowledge of ever having done so when it turns out X wasn't actually such a great idea - a cheap, fast written record is a wonderful thing.

    6. Re:My experience by MikkoApo · · Score: 2, Informative
      A few years ago I had a revelation about email. The revelation was that email is a good tool with a very limited scope. Two persons sending messages is good, three persons is already stretching the limits.

      I think that email is definitely not suitable for

      • task management
      • planning
      • storage
      • version control
      • communication within a large group
      • instant messaging
      A lot of people try to misuse email for things it's not suitable. Proper tools can make things a lot easier and offer features which email can't offer, ever.
      • A proper task management software works much better for task related communication (and you get to use the management features at the same time)
      • Version control systems are a much better place for storing updated documents
      • Like stated in many replies, GMail conversations >>> email reply chains
      • Sometimes instant messaging is better than emails
      • Personal meetings are usually better for planning
      • Wiki for documentation
      • ...
      At the moment the popular applications still seem a little immature because there isn't enough integration between them. Users have to manually move information from application to application which makes life difficult. For example, how many document editors come with an easy to use integrated version control system support?
  3. The problem by pubjames · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I don't seem to be seeing much success in explaining to my co-workers what the problem is here.

    Perhaps there is no problem... Or maybe you are the problem...

    1. Re:The problem by Stringer+Bell · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Oooh, you'll get insightful mods for that one. Anything sounds insightful if you just flip it around ("It's not the size of the dog in the fight..."). Unfortunately, you haven't contributed anything of value to the discussion.

      There's a related principle that I think you're gunning for here: "If there's one or two people that you don't get along with, that's just life. If everyone around you is a jerk, then you're the asshole."

      I'm not sure that applies here because the guy-asking-the-question had some specific things to which he was objecting. He didn't Ask Slashdot something general and whiny like "Why are my co-workers such fucking jerks?" For what it's worth, I think his dilemma is real, many of us in IT face the same problem, and his bringing it up for discussion is entirely valid.

  4. Beware of Litigation! by darkmeridian · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I encourage everyone to be wary when writing e-mails. If your firm ever gets sued, all that becomes discoverable, and attorneys have to read through all your e-mails and documents to look for interesting things. Avoid long threads and stick with short, clear e-mails. Lots of one-liners leads to situations where a vague line looks incriminating when taken out of context.

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    1. Re:Beware of Litigation! by Vicarius · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I would rather have a long chain of evidence that protects me personally, so when the shit hits the fan and ligitation starts, I have something to prove that it did not happen due to my incompetence.

    2. Re:Beware of Litigation! by orclevegam · · Score: 5, Funny

      I would rather have a long chain of evidence that protects me personally, so when the shit hits the fan and ligitation starts, I have something to prove that it did not happen due to my incompetence. I avoid e-mail whenever possible, so that when the shit hits the fan they can't even prove I was in the office.
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    3. Re:Beware of Litigation! by modir · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You can still keep all your emails. But there is IMHO no reason to keep every sent message within one email.

    4. Re:Beware of Litigation! by hraefn · · Score: 2, Funny

      I avoid e-mail whenever possible, so that when the shit hits the fan they can't even prove I was in the office.
      I avoid going to the office whenever possible, so that when the shit hits the fan I don't get shit all over me.
  5. Spelling and Grammar by KermodeBear · · Score: 2, Funny

    I just wish that my co-workers could learn to spell and use decent grammar. Not would, could.

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    1. Re:Spelling and Grammar by gEvil+(beta) · · Score: 5, Funny

      I just wish that my co-workers could learn to spell and use decent grammar.

      Yeah, taht's my biggest complaint. They should of learned grammer in school.

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  6. It's Free..... by Finallyjoined!!! · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Because the perception that email is "free" nobody in management really cares. The only thing they worry about is inappropriate stuff.

    Yes, they need educating.

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  7. Different tool by orclevegam · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Sounds like what you really need is a company IM server. Install a Jabber server and client for the company LAN and you'll probably have a lot less 1 line e-mails as it's just easier to handle that sort of thing over e-mail. They're using e-mail as something it isn't designed for because they don't have anything better. If that doesn't fix it, I guess you could always LART a few key personnel. Maybe you could put a filter on the e-mail server that rejects any message less than 100 characters (non-quoted) and just tell everyone it's a new spam filter.

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    1. Re:Different tool by hansamurai · · Score: 3, Funny

      That's a really good idea.

      This text added to reach the 100 character minimum so that it isn't marked as spam.

    2. Re:Different tool by sobachatina · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Exactly, people are using email because that is all they have.

      I work in a fairly large group and we have several methods of communication:

      IM- for talking to one person right now.
      Email- for messages- Or conversations of a very temporary nature- like "where should we go for lunch"
      PHPBB- for almost all question/answer type communication. This is extremely helpful because the experienced architects and build team can give advice or answer questions just once.
      Wiki- For internal documentation and build instructions.

      Since we setup the wiki and BB our email traffic has been drastically reduced. The only emails to the entire group that I see anymore are to welcome new people and announce donuts.

    3. Re:Different tool by samkass · · Score: 5, Informative

      Note that if you're a publicly traded company, SarbOx requires that your IM server keep logs of all employee correspondence for a certain amount of time. There are several Jabber/XMPP servers that can be configured to conform to SarbOx, but I'm not aware of any which do with a default install. You really don't want to be the one sent to jail when you can't produce the requested IM records during the court proceedings.

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    4. Re:Different tool by orclevegam · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Nevermind the fact, that it may get your employer in trouble and most likely get you fired.

      Jeez, if you are doing something that may get you or your employer in trouble then stop doing it (or better yet don't do it in the first place). Having an ethical workplace does not mean doing a better job of hiding your bad deeds. If you are concerned about privacy then wait until you get home.

      Maybe get me fired, but no way in hell it can get the employer in trouble. Private conversation is a private conversation, just because it went on over IM doesn't mean it needs to be logged. They don't require audio recordings of every room in the building to be logged 24/7, so why should they require IM to be logged? Do they record your inter-office phone calls (not counting things like help desk phone lines, that's slightly different)? Why the hell should it be not only a right but a requirement that your employer record everything employees say to each other? I could lean over to the next cube over and say "My boss is a giant prick.", but if I IM that to the guy in the next cube over that's somehow different?

      You can't control what employees say to each other, all you can do is limit certain mediums from being used. It's better to allow a personal one on one medium like IM to be used privately then to require them to talk with each other where things can be overheard or where they need to take time off to go find someplace private. You can also emphasize that e-mail should be considered an official statement, and that if they don't want it on the record, do it in IM. Even in legal proceedings the courts recognize the difference between a private conversation, and an official statement.

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    5. Re:Different tool by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'd have to agree with that idea. My company uses YIM, for example.

      ...which completely and utterly misses the point of using a corporate IM server. Let me put it this way: I'd cheerfully send a root password to a coworker over our internal Jabber setup. Would you send the same of YIM?

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    6. Re:Different tool by Tenareth · · Score: 2, Informative

      No, it doesn't.

      SOX is only in reference to financial statement or items that may impact your financial statement. You can either have policy against using IM for any financial conversations, or a trigger system that detects communication that may be related to financials, which then logs the relevant portion of the conversation, but most companies don't even do that because of states like Washington that requires both parties have to agree to have a conversation recorded.

      However, large companies will also put in replacement IM servers that keep all communication internal unless you are in a conversation with someone outside the company. That just makes logical sense, why have all those conversations going over the Internet if you don't have to? IMLogic is a nice tool, but Symantec picked them up in their buying frenzy... so we'll see how long they stay a solid product.

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  8. What's the problem? by rob1980 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I don't seem to be seeing much success in explaining to my co-workers what the problem is here.

    Well, what is the problem? Do you just not like long e-mail threads, or is there a legitimate concern here?

    Convincing them there's a legitimate problem, aside from your ideal form of etiquette, ought to be step one. Otherwise - why would random_employee_002 do anything different?

    1. Re:What's the problem? by Hognoxious · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Isn't the problem that they're using email for a task that's better suited to something else - maybe like usenet?

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    2. Re:What's the problem? by DerekLyons · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Convincing them there's a legitimate problem, aside from your ideal form of etiquette, ought to be step one. Otherwise - why would random_employee_002 do anything different?

      It's not 'his' ideal form of etiquette - it used to be quite common and well understood.
  9. Forum by xtracto · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Just configure an *inernal* phpBB (and secure it FTLOG!!) forum and make people post there. If you have long conversation threads then it might be good to have them in a forum instead of clogging the mail (and that way you can prevent mail leaks.

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  10. And your point is? by phaze3000 · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Email is a tool. The job of IT is to support that tool and help people use that tool effectively. If you think employees are using IT non-optimally because of lack of training, arrange training. If employees of the company think these one line emails are the best use of the technology even after you've trained them effectively, let them get on with it.

    If your problem is that your mail server can't handle all these mails, it's time to upgrade the mail server and/or switch to different software.

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  11. Part of the problem by Aram+Fingal · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Part of the problem is that there are two distinct ways people commonly do quotations in email. The quick and lazy way is to just hit reply, quoting the sender's entire message below, and write your reply above. The more precise way is to quote specific lines from the original message and write your reply below each set of lines. What I really hate is when the two methods get mixed. For example, I use the more precise method to reply to a message and the someone else quotes the whole thing with their reply above, the message goes through another round or two of replies and then gets forwarded on to someone else who was not one of the original recipients. Good luck figuring out the track of the conversation.

    1. Re:Part of the problem by value_added · · Score: 2, Informative

      The quick and lazy way is to just hit reply, quoting the sender's entire message below, and write your reply above. The more precise way is to quote specific lines from the original message and write your reply below each set of lines.

      I'd suggest the second should be characterised as "written, edited and formatted for the benefit of the recipient rather than the convenience of the sender". A fairly popular signature that reflects one aspect of the obviousness of this is the following:

      A: Yes.
      Q: Are you sure?
      A: Because it reverses the logical flow of conversation.
      Q: Why is top posting annoying in email?

      Ironically, many who do take the trouble to format their message properly neglect to take the additional small step of removing extranous cruft. I can't count the number of times I've seen the above quoted in an email, let alone all the other variations of salutations, signatures, and disclaimers.

    2. Re:Part of the problem by Lumpy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That is not the problem. In fact long chains of "reply to" are awesome.

      I hate the new chick in Sales or the Director of marketing that has a 1.2meg photo background, a 3.4meg digital signature image, and uses wierd fonts on all their emails.

      HTML email is the most evil and worst thing ever created in the world, and outlook gladly let's you abuse the damn feature.

      I dont like my email box clogged to the hilt because you want a foofy image and pretty font. Oh and marketing sending everyone a Copy of a 130meg Power Point file is also not acceptable.

      But do they listen? nooooooo.

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    3. Re:Part of the problem by notorious+ninja · · Score: 2, Funny

      I like top posting. I want to see the message that is for me at the top, and not to have to scroll through a series of replies to get to where my message really begins. Plus, if it was relevant to me I've probably already seen it, although it's nice to have for context.

  12. Re: Corporate Email Etiquette - Dead or Alive? by phobos13013 · · Score: 5, Funny
    no

    {Unclassified}

    -----Original Message-----
    From: mbravo@spb.ru
    Sent: January 22, 2008, 10:39AM
    To: Slashdot-all@slashdot.org; phobos13013@corporate-email.com; digg-all@digg.com; bob2074@dobbs.com; bob@aol.com;
    Subject: Corporate Email Etiquette - Dead or Alive?


    "I work in a largish company, heavily into IT, and in a complex and quickly changing market. Employees are predominantly in the 30 or younger age-bracket, and as you might expect we rely on a lot of internal e-mail. Despite that, lately I'm finding myself increasingly frustrated by a complete lack of e-mail etiquette in the company. A typical thread might look like a hundred-message-long chain of one-line replies, with full quoting and hundreds of recipients in the 'To:' field. It feels like it is happening more and more often. I don't seem to be seeing much success in explaining to my co-workers what the problem is here. How do you deal with this at your place of business, and does your company care? Does the company take any policing or educating measures?"
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  13. E-mail vs. chat... by TofuMatt · · Score: 2, Interesting

    It depends... the people in the office who only use e-mail to communicate are often the ones I get one-line e-mails with bad grammar and no signatures, etc., from. However, a lot of us use an office-wide Jabber system now, so I increasingly get brief messages or requests over iChat. Unless I'm just really quickly rattling off an e-mail from my iPod or something, I make sure to treat an e-mail much more formally than I suspect many others do. Working in government, it's considered an official gov't document/record, so I tend to treat it more officially than a quick chat message.

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  14. different modes of collaboration by v_1_r_u_5 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    try a wiki, a forum, a social-networking solution akin to facebook, IMs or other online chats, extranets, online live documents (like writely/google docs), whatever. email is an outdated medium. try "collaborative software" in ask.com

  15. Stop using email for all electronic communications by Vellmont · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It sounds like you're using email when you should be using another, or several different technologies.

    Look into putting up an IM server, a wiki, blogs, online discussion groups, etc. Email is poorly suited to the kind of long-running threads you're talking about. One size does NOT fit all.

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  16. Re:Get gmail by TheRaven64 · · Score: 4, Funny

    Yes, sending confidential commercial information via a third party is an excellent recommendation and one I fully endorse. I also suggest you use MSN Messenger for shorter conversations.

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  17. It's also a cause of the problem described by emj · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Gmail is what causes those threads with one line responses because it feels much more like chatting than sending emails. People who don't have the feature to remove the quoted text will always complain. Is it a good or bad thing?

    Gmail removes somethings that were an annoyance when I used pine/thunderbird, and now I just press "reply all" most of the times, and don't bother cleaning subject or to:/cc: fields. But the "reply all" feature should reply to everyone in the discussion, not just to the ones that were included in the last email.

    Ad-Hoc email lists should be easy to set up..

    1. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by LordSnooty · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Gmail is what causes those threads with one line responses because it feels much more like chatting than sending emails.
      Actually I think what causes it is people unwilling to pick up a phone or just go and speak to the person if they're in the same office. As you point out email isn't really for chatting, so when people use it for such it can get messy.
    2. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by oliverthered · · Score: 4, Insightful

      and what causes that?

      well if your like me you can't remember 90% of what was said over the phone, but it's real easy to look it up if someones sent you an email.

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    3. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 4, Funny

      Gmail removes somethings that were an annoyance when I used pine/thunderbird, and now I just press "reply all" most of the times, and don't bother cleaning subject or to:/cc: fields.

      On behalf of your poor coworkers...stop doing that. I can't stand the morons in my company that can't distinguish between the reply and reply all buttons. Second to that in annoyance is the people who indiscriminately send company wide emails.

      Seriously. With about half a second of actual thought you can actually avoid clogging everyone else's inbox with crap.

      But the "reply all" feature should reply to everyone in the discussion, not just to the ones that were included in the last email.

      Actually, whoever came up with the reply all button should be tried for war crimes at the Hague.

    4. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by paeanblack · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Actually I think what causes it is people unwilling to pick up a phone or just go and speak to the person if they're in the same office. As you point out email isn't really for chatting, so when people use it for such it can get messy.

      Phones and instant messaging interrupt the recipient. Sending out a "Drinks at XYZ tonight?" email to five coworkers is not worth disrupting five people with phone calls who could otherwise check their email on their own schedules.

      Using a phone when it is not necessary is even worse in many cases.

    5. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by moderatorrater · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Out of curiosity, what's the problem with just ignoring an email that isn't appropriate to you? In the setting that the submitter describes, there's a business with hundreds of people. If most of those people don't need the email, then something needs to be changed to where it's easy for someone to just submit it to those who need to know. However, if the majority of those people do need to know and you don't, just ignore it.

      Along those same lines, I think gmail's filtering of the repeated text is awesome too, but I can't use gmail for my business email needs. Know what I do with the quoted text? Ignore it. Does all the text need to be quoted? Of course not. If you're in an email environment that doesn't thread the messages, it's a lifesaver to be able to grab the context by just looking underneath the reply.

      In reality there's a better way for this to happen, but asynchronous communication between a lot of people is very hard. IRC (which my company uses) is so easy that people get off topic very quickly. We say things in IRC that we would never say in an email. IM can include a lot of people, but once you get enough people onto a chat it's the same as IRC.

      So, the solution isn't that easy. Sometimes, you don't have the time to type out a full reply, and it's not warranted. If people are replying to everyone with something that they don't need to know, or just plain typing off topic things, then get after them for that. But if the communication is pertinent and the submitter is really just complaining about the format and a few people getting caught in the shotgun blast that weren't meant to be there, then it's a personal problem that he should deal with in private.

    6. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by CastrTroy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I also find it annoying that gMail tries to make everything into a conversation, even if it isn't If I get status emails from some process I'm running, they all look mostly the same, gMail tends to group them all together into one conversation, and tries to figure out what parts are the same, and mark them as from the previous message.

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    7. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by allcar · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The real idiots are the ones who realise that they've inappropriately done a reply all and then do it again to apologise.
      Someone did that at our place last week with a party invitation that was sent to the entire company (150+ people). To make matters worse, the mail had a very large attachment on it, so we all ended up 3 copies of the attachment.

    8. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by RESPAWN · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Actually, I hate my phone and only answer it about 10% of the time. Most of the time it is people who want something minor done, but who for some reason don't feel that they should have to go through the helpdesk. What they fail to comprehend is that the reason I hire those helpdesk people is to filter out all of the users' idiotic requests and make sure that only the really important things get to me. I would much prefer a "drinks at XYZ" email, personally.

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    9. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by smurfsurf · · Score: 3, Funny

      So why don't you note these instructions down? If he speaks too fast, ask him to slow down, as you are writing it down so you don't miss a step. He will understand and appreciate it. It is your responsibility to get it right. If you can't remember everything and don't take notes, you rightfully get negative feedback about it. He is your boss, it is his choice of communication medium, you have to deal with it in the best way you can.

    10. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by 7-Vodka · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This is easy, write down what you think he said over the phone then send him an email which says: Is this what you want me to do?
      Just keep the meeting minutes yourself and get him to sign off on them.

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    11. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by cthulu_mt · · Score: 4, Funny

      Actually, I hate my phone and only answer it about 10% of the time. Dad? Is that you?
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    12. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by toleraen · · Score: 3, Funny

      Because they sign your paychecks?

    13. Re:It's also a cause of the problem described by SocratesJedi · · Score: 2, Insightful

      While this has the advantage of being employee-implementable, it is also quite inefficient. It requires a phone call and 2 or more e-mail messages ("Is this correct?", "No, item 4 should be...", "Okay, is this now correct?", "Yes") in order to convey the information that could have been send correctly the first time by the boss requiring only one e-mail. If a boss wants to ruin his employees productivity in order to enforce a specific communication format, I suppose that's his right, but does that make that person a very good leader or communicator? No.

  18. You have to be stern by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 4, Funny

    How do you deal with this at your place of business

    Beatings and electrocutions. It may work differently outside the gulag, but I wouldn't know.

    We're experimenting with other methods. Here's a picture of our recent IT hires. We give them free reign in deciding disciplinary actions.

  19. E-mail Conversations by rumblin'rabbit · · Score: 3, Insightful

    My problem is e-mail conversations, with 20 e-mails going back and forth. Cause I'm a manager, people think they have to include me in on the conversation so I can "stay in the loop".

    People, have your conversation, come to some conclusions, and e-mail me a brief summary.

    1. Re:E-mail Conversations by nullCRC · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Of course, when the shit hits the fan, a manager like you is the first one to say "Why wasn't I kept in the loop on this?", and then look for someone to blame it on, so you don't look incompetent because you were too busy fapping in your office.

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    2. Re:E-mail Conversations by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 2, Informative

      My problem is e-mail conversations, with 20 e-mails going back and forth. Cause I'm a manager, people think they have to include me in on the conversation so I can "stay in the loop".

      The only times I've resorted to that were when I was being stonewalled by a coworker and I wanted my boss to see all the excuses I was forced to deal with.

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  20. Re:i don't get it by wizardforce · · Score: 2, Interesting

    this has nothing to do with email consuming disk space, this is about the fact that a lot of people who use email at the work place don't bother to clean up their emails. they already have a copy of everything said beforehand, so they don't need to clutter the next one with the entirety of what has already been said. Their spelling and/or grammar should be expected to be readable by another human being. Private emails are casual, work emails OTOH should be more professional.

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  21. Disable "Reply to All" by redelm · · Score: 3, Insightful
    ... that's all it takes [plus limited access to distro lists]. Yes, it's is a PITA for some cases, but to curb abule, the innocent usually suffer.


    Trimming the top-posting is slightly less important-- people just delete the previous messages to have a nice archive. That is, if someone didn't trim early!

  22. Agree with the problem by deep_creek · · Score: 2, Interesting

    An email sent to say 20 folks in the morning... half hit "reply" and the other half hit "reply all". By the afternoon my inbox is filled with all types of conversation, etc... on the topic. I then spend/waste my time trying to get everyone back on the same "page". More time is wasted following emails all over the place than actually working on the topic the email originally addressed. Everyone I've spoken to agrees with the frustrations and wasted time, but nothing is done to correct it because one or two big-wigs think that that is the best way for them to be kept informed of what is going on. (?) My only solution thus far is to call actual person-to-person meetings, make actual office visits, etc... This is increasingly becoming more efficient as To/CC box address lists become even larger. Maybe I should just send all my emails as "global". :)

  23. Dead by Mr_Silver · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Email etiquette is dead. Has been for years. Some things I've noticed which contributed to its decline:

    • People putting everyone in the "To" line which means that Outlook highlights that email in a different colour (according to my setup) because it's assumed that I'm being asked for something.
    • Putting two John's in the "to:" line and then addressing the email to "John". Which one?
    • Microsoft Outlook which positively encourages people to top quote.
    • People using the excuse that being on a Blackberry means that they can not use any punctuation or capitalisation.
    • Inserting large graphical images as the signature. I saw one of an animated Betty Boop. WTF?
    • Using the stationary functionality to give me a mock background image of a paper pad. Why?
    • Use of Comic Sans as a font.
    • Sending out messages with high priority set on a far too regular basis. High priority is for just that, if you use it all the time then it loses its meaning.

    There is probably more but I can't think of them right now. The main problem is that no-one is taught any etiquette and (as they've never used UNIX or posted in news forums) they haven't had any kind of etiquette forced on them by an application or verbally beaten into them by some irate news group member.

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  24. Re:i don't get it by sydbarrett74 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It has nothing to do with drive space or CPU cycles. It has everything to do with the fact that people receive dozens or hundreds of emails a day which are irrelevant and waste their time. Too many lazy people hit Reply All when the only person who cares is the original sender. The worst is when, say, a person emails with: 'Will the person with the green Hyundai please come to my office?' and my inbox gets flooded with dozens of messages all expressing variants of: 'Nope! I don't drive a Hyundai!' A lot of it is common sense, which isn't that common.

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  25. Re:i don't get it .... it's wasting people's time by petes_PoV · · Score: 2, Informative
    It's not a technical problem, it's a people problem.

    Consider an average prole on (say) $30/hour. If they get 10 of these dumb emails a day, each of 200 lines it will take a few minutes to read each one. Call it about 30 minutes per day or $15. If just one person responds to each of the 100 people on the email, that takes each of those 100 people another 1 minutes to read the new stuff = 100 minutes = $50 per responder, per email.

    If 10 people respond to 10 emails a day (all sent to 100 people), that's $5k/day of wasted people time

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  26. Part of the solution by ChristTrekker · · Score: 3, Informative

    In other words, "Outlook style" is the problem. Outlook QuoteFix is the solution.

  27. Dead by MBCook · · Score: 2, Interesting

    In my experience, it's dead. My office has a bit of an informal tone, but I get emails from external businesses we deal with that have spelling mistakes, IM speak ("... if UR able 2..."), and other things.

    We've received emails that are clearly accusatory that we've failed at something, or something is our fault. We've had people fly off the handle when we reply that that's not the case with evidence attached (my favorite: when it's a quote from one of their earlier emails).

    Things just still surprise me. Yesterday I got an email from one of the highest ranking people in our sales/marketing department. It was all very business and sort of what I'd expect, until the second to last line which was... "kthxbye".

    People (both internal and external) are often far less proper and "businessey" (I hate to use that fake word, but I don't know what else to use) than I would expect. The etiquette is gone (not that it was probably ever there).

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  28. Re:Management by timftbf · · Score: 2, Insightful
    As quoted earlier in the discussion:

    A: Yes.
    Q: Are you sure?
    A: Because it reverses the logical flow of conversation.
    Q: Why is top posting annoying in email?

    Especially in emails that address a lot of complicated things in one mail, and require a response to each (rather than 'who wants lunch?'), it's *so* much easier to follow the style:

    >> Point 1, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    >>
    > Response to point 1 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    >

    Clarification of point 1, taking into account response blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.

    >> Point 2, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    >>
    > Response to point 2 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    >

    Clarification of point 2, taking into account response blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah


    Than the foul Outlook style that goes:

    Point 1 clarification blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    Point 2 clarification blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

    Signature
    Big fuck-off corporate logo
    3 pages of legal disclaimer

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    Previously, drone 2 wrote:

    Header: crap
    Header: more crap
    Header: even more crap

    Point 1 response blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    Point 2 response blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

    Signature
    Big fuck-off corporate logo
    3 pages of legal disclaimer

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    Previously, drone 1 wrote:

    Header: crap
    Header: more crap
    Header: even more crap

    Point 1 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
    Point 2 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

    Signature
    Big fuck-off corporate logo in a slightly different colour
    3 pages of legal disclaimer


    Now, which one of those is easier to understand?

  29. Re:Get gmail by TheRaven64 · · Score: 3, Informative
    For corporate email, the route ought to be an SSL connection (with an out-of-band distributed certificate) to your internal mail server, then on to the mail delivery agent running on the same machine (or forwarded over SSL to another internal machine), then to the user's computer via HTTPS webmail or POP3/IMAP over SSL. If it goes on to any computers that your IT department don't control then you are doing something wrong.

    TFA was about internal corporate email, not about personal email.

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  30. The customer is always right by emurphy42 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    99% of my work e-mail is to or from a customer. Top-posting, full-quoting, and non-plaintext are the order of the day. Obviously, we have nothing to gain and everything to lose by yapping at them about it, so we simply follow suit. The extra cost of bandwidth and storage is peanuts compared to the cost of Getting Useful Things Done for them.

  31. A solution by Confused · · Score: 4, Interesting

    First, forget about changing the people, it's futile to try. You need to find a solution that works for you under the current situation.

    Second, never ever put something in writing what you wouldn't want to have to explain at court. There's no reason for it. Be offensive as you like face to face, in meeting or on the phone, but always the voice of reason in mails or chat. Never take part of bad-mouthing people in written, you simply don't know who will read it.

    About mails where you're on the CC: list: ignore anything where you're only on CC. If the sender would have intended it for you, he'd put you on the To: list.

    For mails where you're on the To: list, the question is if you're the only one. If there are other people on it and things need to be done based on it, assume someone else from the To: list will do the work and ignore it. If it the sender intended something specially for you, he'd should have sent you the mail addressed only to you.

    Mail containing meeting minutes of meetings you didn't attend, ignore them. I something relevant to you was discussed there, you'd either have been invited or someone would have had the task to inform you about it. Wading through other peoples meeting minutes isn't productive.

    All this sounds harsh and should only apply to mails you don't care about, but in reality works quite well. For the CC: I always liked to blame it on my clever spam filter that failed to highlight it as non-spam because I'm not a recipient. People get very miffed about that but somehow seem to slow to come up with good arguments against it. For the other mails you ignored, it's best to ramp that up slowly starting by the most stupid ones. The more mails you ignore, the less people expect you to read them.

    If some mail asks for work to be done and you're on the To: list and you don't feel safe enough to ignore it completely, in big organisations a good way to cover your arse is to ask the original sender for a meeting of all people on the To: list to schedule resource allocations. If you are creative, add to that mail a few additional people, best some with opposing agendas. That usually puts off tasks for long enough for them to become irrelevant.

    About the endless quotes and attachments, what works best is never to quote the whole thing. Always remove all quotes except a very few you are replying to. That has the advantage, that people see only what you want them to see. Most people won't find the original message in their inbox anyway. It's also a good idea to cut down on the recipient list (just leave enough to cover your backside). That divides te recipient crowd into groups with different information, which always can be useful, in case people start to blame you. Then you can fob it off to someone else you informed but who didn't act on it.

    Also avoid short mails, except if they're very positive to you. Present the case with advantages and caveats. Instead of quotes, start your mail with a short - and naturally also biased in your favour - summary of the matter at hand. That forces people to read and think your mail, instead of scanning just for know thread patterns. Most likely, this will exceed most people's attention span. The additional advantage of restating all the important aspects of matter is, that people will sometimes go into discussions about that or will feel uncomfortable to disagree. I always liked to bring up matters like involving the legal department, safety and health regulations, compliances of any kind, or of everything else fails the involvement of the quality control department for affairs I wanted to get rid off. You'd be surprised how few people dare to put in writing, that they don't want to make sure those things are done properly.

    This should give you in the middle term some lee-way to ignore mails as you see fit, and people will get very cautious of asking for your help. And, as a side benefits, you sometimes are able to collect mails that are always very popular if your company happens to be investigated for some misdeeds.

    Cheers.

    1. Re:A solution by bitrunner · · Score: 2, Interesting

      > "The more mails you ignore, the less people expect you to read them."

      I actually agree on that one. I used to get A LOT of e-mail, and I mean A LOT (sorry shift key only works one level up).

      Anyway I decided to tell people I only read my e-mail when:
      - After I entered my office at start of the day
      - before lunch
      - after lunch
      - an hour before I leave

      At first it comes across as annoying/irritating, but hey.. come on.. it is e-mail.

      The resulting effect: I get A LOT LESS e-mail. People know that the chances of me finding and reading that one important e-mail amongst their 30 e-crap msgs is unlikely. Of course I accidentally deleted 'important' e-mail because it was stuck inbetween 30 not so important ones.
      Also.. I am knowing to doze off, loose track/interest in e-mail that is WAY TOO LONG or enhanced with html, pictures sound etc.

      When asked why I behave that way I answer: Receiving e-mail at this rate is like someone knocking on my door every 30 seconds (or even more frequent) that is annoying. I have a job to do and it isn't reading all that e-mail. Therefor I switched it off and check it bearly more often than snail mail.

      It works really well for me now, it is known that if e-mail is sent to me.. it better be worth my time.

  32. whoever has the expertise...boss by Dareth · · Score: 2, Insightful

    preferring a team based arrangement where whoever has the expertise in the topical area is the "boss" of that piece

    Sounds like a great arrangement. What do you do when more than one person "has the expertise" in the same area, yet they do not agree on how something is done? Are you then back to an executive style decision?

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  33. sorry by emj · · Score: 2, Insightful

    People who don't have the feature to remove the quoted text will always complain.

    Do people not have the ability to 'select'+'delete' the previous conversation text?

    The automatic exclusion of quoted text when you read a discussion thread where people just include the old messages for references. But still showing vital parts of quoted text if the email uses the quoted text in line and comments on specific parts. Gmail almost always get it right, and all you have to do is press r write what you want to say and send it.

    Editing and removing of old reference text is not needed anymore, because gmail has the feature of hiding quoted text to show you what is important. What I'm saying is that when you have a wonderfull feature that just work, you just wont care about what that means to other people.
  34. Softros LAN Messenger by jameseyjamesey · · Score: 2, Interesting

    We had this problem at work until we got people to use Softros Lan Manager. We pushed it to all the clients, and amazingly they stopped using e-mail for 1 line replies and quick conversations.