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Legal War For WA State Sunshine Law

joeszilagyi writes "In a major battle in Washington State, anti-gay rights groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot. This is a public initiative to put same-sex civil unions up for public vote. The real legal war then erupted: activists created WhoSigned.org to take advantage of WA state's Public Records Act, and put the names of all people who publicly endorsed R-71 on a public, SEO-optimized website. Lawsuits quickly followed, and today it reached the United States Supreme Court, in a matter of months. The records appear to have always been public, but have only been available in digital form since 2006. An assault on civil rights, an assault on marriage, or an assault on sunshine laws and freedom of information?"

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  1. The Law of Unintended Consequences by wiredog · · Score: 4, Insightful

    is passed in every legislative session.

    1. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 5, Insightful

      this is not an unintended consequence.

      Petitions have always been public, and sunshine laws let the public see public records.

      The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

    2. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by commodore64_love · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >>>some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

      Wow.

      Terrible.

      The horror.

      /end sarcasm. If you support a cause then you ought not be ashamed about it. Hand me that petition; I'll sign it. I don't care if you marry another man, woman, or a whole bunch of women (harem), and I don't care if you find my name on it. It's a free country and you should be free to marry whoever you want to marry. That's what freedom means. ----- Now as for the extra benefits of marriage - those are the things that should be eliminated. A guy and girl who are just living together shouldn't feel pressured to get "married" just to reduce their taxes. Even when married they should still pay the same tax as when they were two singles. I believe in equality - all individuals treated identically.

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    3. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by paranoid.android · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This isn't an assault on anything, the public has every right to know which among them votes for whatever. Dave Chapelle had it right, this country seems to think that the way you vote is the most private information. That shouldn't be the case, if you're voting in a public election then your vote should also be public. In fact, you should be proud to stand up and say you voted for any one thing. If you're not proud to say that, then why did you vote?

      There are a few reasons you can't (and shouldn't be able to) tie a name to a ballot: bribery and coercion, to name two.

      If Joe can make a few bucks voting for Mr. A instead of Mrs. B, when he couldn't care less about the outcome of the election, why wouldn't he?

      Should the management of Acme Co. be able to award bonuses to those who vote for a favored candidate, and demote or fire those who don't?

    4. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by wastedlife · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I believe that you are mistaking a petition with a vote. Votes are and should be kept as anonymous as possible while still preventing fraud, signing a petition means you are signing that you personally are in support of the cause. If you could anonymously sign a petition, then what is to stop someone from filling a petition with anonymous #1 through #1,000,000? Votes are handled by voting authorities to try to prevent fraud, petitions can be held by the person or group supporting the cause they are petitioning for.

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    5. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Ronald+Dumsfeld · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I have to disagree here, and shake my head sadly at the number of up-modded clueless Slashbots talking on this.

      It is people who wish to restrict gay rights behind this. It is a first in terms of arguing for anonymity in such a way on a petition-backed ballot option.

      Gays who have campaigned elsewhere, and run petitions for ballot items, have put up with their names being publicly available.

      If you're a raging homophobe in private, fine. If you want to sign a petition calling for a ballot on restricting the rights of people you don't like — have the balls to accept the potential consequences.

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    6. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Red+Flayer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Gays who have campaigned elsewhere, and run petitions for ballot items, have put up with their names being publicly available.

      If you're a raging homophobe in private, fine. If you want to sign a petition calling for a ballot on restricting the rights of people you don't like -- have the balls to accept the potential consequences.

      I'm just going to agree with you, and add one more significant item that I think some people are missing...

      Signing a petition is a public, formal, declaration of support for something. That's what a petition is. That's the entire purpose of a petition. Period.

      This is not about sunshine laws or oppression of anyone (gays or homophobes or religious fundamentalists). This whole issue arises from stupid people not understanding what it was they were signing... they signed a public statement of support.

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  2. Political correctness assaulting opposers by piotru · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Since you asked.

  3. Wait a minute here by dkleinsc · · Score: 5, Insightful

    put the names of all people who publicly endorsed R-71 on a public, SEO-optimized website.

    So you're telling me that you can sue someone for publicly telling everyone (via a website) something you publicly told everyone?

    Look, mate, when you sign a petition, what you're doing is saying to anyone who cares to listen in the world that you endorse the views of the petition. If you aren't willing to attach your name to what the petition says, don't sign it.

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    1. Re:Wait a minute here by PhilHibbs · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe they got the impression that voting was anonymous from the fact that it usually is in elections. Secret ballots are necessary for democracy to function free from intimidation - these people took part in a non-secret ballot, and now they are being intimidated, Q.E.D.

    2. Re:Wait a minute here by ZekoMal · · Score: 3, Insightful

      People who hate on gays don't want to be seen as horrible people; they're nice to gays in front of them but try to get them shut down. You know, like that psycho ex-girlfriend who meets up with your current girlfriend and convinces her you're a terrible person even though she hates the girlfriend's guts.

    3. Re:Wait a minute here by quantumplacet · · Score: 3, Insightful

      except they didn't go into a voting both and pull a lever or press a button. when you walk into a closed voting booth, there's a presumption of anonymity. when you sign a petition a street corner, there is not.

    4. Re:Wait a minute here by DarkOx · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does. I also find the argument people not understanding the difference between a circulating petition and a balloted election a bit of stretch.

      Secret ballot elections make sense, because we want people to be able to vote their conscience free from social pressure. I don't think though anonymity should be an expectation when you are participating in a public debate, and a petition is a form of participation.

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    5. Re:Wait a minute here by Speare · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Signing a petition does not mean that you agree with the views of the petitioner, it just means that you agree that the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter. I've known plenty of people who would sign pretty much any referendum or initiative in the states that have that process. In their view, it just airs more discussion and opportunities for democracy.

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    6. Re:Wait a minute here by friday_drag.net · · Score: 3, Insightful

      No when you sign a petition you saying that you think the issue is worthy of voting on, not that you agree or disagree - only that you want the matter settled by the voters.

    7. Re:Wait a minute here by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does.

      So what was the point of the web site then? Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

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    8. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 4, Insightful

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage.

      Oh really? Name one intellectually honest reason for someone to oppose same-sex marriage that isn't rooted in hate. I've read lots and lots of the PR by the anti crowd and its either obviously hate-based, or completely dishonest (citing the bible with the hypocrisy of picking and choosing which passages are OK to ignore).

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    9. Re:Wait a minute here by thisnamestoolong · · Score: 3, Insightful

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage. In fact, it's this broad-stroke-painted stereotype of everyone who opposes gay marriage as no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals that the peeps who voted for this in Washington state are trying to avoid getting tarred with. Their opposition has done a real good job of perpetuating that stereotype, and it's no more valid than the one of gays as all being lisping, limp-wristed nancy boys.

      This is a good point, and an important distinction. However, we do need to be clear about the fact that these people (anti-gay marriage advocates) are looking to have legislation passed to limit the rights of a whole sector of society, and they need to be taken to task for it. That is like saying that Strom Thurmond didn't "hate on blacks" He was just... in support of segregation. Like I said, your point is well taken, and the distinction certainly needs to be taken into account, but there comes a point where we need to draw a line in the sand as to what we will and will not consider to be acceptable behavior in a free society.

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    10. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You want to know the biggest block of demographic opposition to gay marriage? Blacks and Latinos

      Right. Those groups have particularly negative views of homosexuality and gay people. This significantly weakens your earlier point about opposition to same-sex marriage not necessarily being opposition to gay people...

      That said, there is no justification for opposition to same-sex civil marriage that doesn't (a) reduce to homophobia or (b) apply equally strongly to anti-miscegenation laws (which are much more widely recognized as undue limitations on freedom). That's where the stereotype comes from. Maybe people who want laws to take away the rights of others would like to think of themselves as perfectly reasonable, nice, principled people; but sadly, that refuge isn't available to you once you're taking away other people's rights, whatever your self-justification.

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    11. Re:Wait a minute here by Duradin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      One could have the view that:

      Marriage is a societal contract. This contract evolved so that offspring would be provided for by the 'father' and to contain the spread of venereal disease. Marriage creates a construct that will allow for public shaming for extra-marital affairs as well as legal consequences. As such, marriage is basically pregnancy insurance.

      The other function of marriage is to allow for easier property transitions after a death of someone in the "family". A boilerplate legal document of sorts that existed before everyone had access to lawyers. Spouse gets X, descendants get Y, state gets Z.

      The concept of romantic (or any other love) is actually foreign to marriage and should not be considered as part of it.

      So to sum up: just because you "love" (or lust after) someone does not mean that you should be married to them. In fact, with modern contraceptive measures, marriage shouldn't be as necessary. Unfortunately religious and romantic ideals have become intertwined with a legal concept.

      Now, for legal benefits that come with a marriage license, those options should be available through other means for people to establish a legal equivalent to a spouse or household.

      Personally, I don't care who marries what, though I do wonder why same sex couples are trying so hard to be as miserable as hetero couples. Work for the legal benefits, avoid the societal drawbacks.

    12. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That said, there is no justification for opposition to same-sex civil marriage that doesn't (a) reduce to homophobia or (b) apply equally strongly to anti-miscegenation laws (which are much more widely recognized as undue limitations on freedom).

      Except there is. As a straight man that has a roommate and friend that's a gay man, and is good friends with two lesbians, I don't believe I'm homophobic. Yet, I don't support gay marriage. It's really nothing personal. The primary reason I oppose gay marriage is because of the huge body of evidence which suggests that single motherhood produces unfit offspring. When you control for all other factors, single motherhood plays a huge role in the success of a child. In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples. Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life, I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child, and ultimately to society as a whole as they will ultimately have to pay for the child.

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  4. No one should have expected by Shivetya · · Score: 5, Insightful

    that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice. Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

    In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them. We cannot have the democratic process circumvented by threats and intimidation. I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private. If only to stop the new tactics.

    This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

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    1. Re:No one should have expected by Roachgod · · Score: 5, Insightful

      While I wish there wasn't this intimidation process... I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote". I don't want other people deciding how I can and cannot live my life - CERTAINLY when it doesn't involve them. Voting on who OTHER PEOPLE can and can't marry bothers me on a deep level, far away from whether it is 'gay' rights or 'racial' rights or... I don't know.... 'alien' rights. I am all for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Voting on other people's marriages seems an offense against all three. Against such a threat... I think anything is justified. Kudos to the intimidators for not just shooting them all.

    2. Re:No one should have expected by sanosuke001 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why should we make an exception for this? We already have laws to stop assault, abuse, and slander. Why do we need to make this exception to try and stop those things from happening? If someone has a problem because of this, file a complaint with the police.

      Hiding public records is how people stack votes; doing that now just because people MIGHT be annoyed with an email or a phone call goes against everything this nation is supposed to stand for. Like I said, if someone has a problem because of this, go to the police. If not, deal with it. They signed a public document, they have no right to ask for it to be protected from scrutiny.

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    3. Re:No one should have expected by plasmacutter · · Score: 4, Insightful

      that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice. Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

      In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them. We cannot have the democratic process circumvented by threats and intimidation. I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private. If only to stop the new tactics.

      This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

      If it really were a measure of public opinion they would not be so fast to cry foul and scream "intimidation".

      For one, there are laws against anything substantive (vandalism, assault, etc), and for another, if the majority of the public really DOES agree with them there should be no risk of ostracism.

      Of course, they obviously know this is NOT the case, and their efforts to conceal their signatures are no different than the white hoods the KKK used to wear.

      The reality is this referendum doesn't do anything except exploit the "squeaky wheel" phenomenon to oppress gay people. The (silent) majority of the public could care less, so they won't consider it important enough to show up at the polls, allowing the "vocal (and bigoted) minority" to disenfranchise them.

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    4. Re:No one should have expected by Xeth · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Marriage is, by definition, not a private institution, but a public one. Being married doesn't affect what you do inside your own home (to be taken as an idiom for things that don't affect others), it affects how society interacts with you. I therefore think it is disingenuous to claim that it is not a social issue, outside the purview of societal interest.

      That's not to say that it should be regulated, in this case or any other, but I merely wish to indicate that the question is not itself injurious, as you seem to say.

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    5. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In a democracy there are two ways to participate in politics. One is to exercise your right to vote in secret. The other is to publicly organize. A petition is not a vote, it's a public statement that "I support initiative X." As a public statement the speaker assumes the risks associated with speaking out in public - such as the possibility that your friends and neighbors will find out your opinions. Intimidation and harassment are illegal and these laws should be enforced, but petitions are public for a reason and should stay public regardless of whether or not some bad actors will do bad things. Participating publicly in politics is risky, which is why you're under no obligation to do so. If signature gathering efforts for ballot initiatives or to get a candidate on a ballot become private they risk becoming about as important as internet petitions and polls. When you sign a petition, you're literally putting your name on the line - which is what gives them the impact that they have - if it's anonymous and cannot be publicly verified no one will believe you when you say we have Y signatures. What's more these are most certainly not new tactics - the declaration of independence was essentially a petition, and the signatories certainly faced consequences for attaching their names to the document. Do you suppose that the declaration would be held in such high esteem had it been signed by BenLightning and SamTEHdrunk?

    6. Re:No one should have expected by d3ac0n · · Score: 5, Insightful

      So, because some OTHER people, in the past, have wrongly beaten up and attacked (or, worse, killed) some Gays, then it is OK, to do the same to OTHER completely innocent people who had nothing to do with, nor condone the violence perpetrated against some gays?

      Wow. How humane of you. I assume you also believe in punishing children for the evils of their parents?

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    7. Re:No one should have expected by njfuzzy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The problem with Referenda on sensitive social issues is that the Consitution is specifically designed to protect minorities against discrimination by majority rule. Just because there are more people who believe something doesn't make it right.

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    8. Re:No one should have expected by tsm_sf · · Score: 3, Insightful

      2) Gay people in CA already have all the legal rights of straight people. No civil rights were stripped, only special rights unavailable to everyone else. (IE: As a non-gay, I could not marry a man. Only members of the special group had that right. It was clearly unconstitutional, and prop 8 rectified that.)

      That is a truly bizarre leap of logic.

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  5. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by sanosuke001 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Honestly, I don't have a problem with churches not allowing same-sex marriages. However, the state should have no such rule. It's ridiculous. There is no direct or indirect effect on the state by allowing same-sex couples to marry. I don't see how they could ever win in a court of law.

    It just shows you how biased judges are. If they were unbiased, the same sex marriage ban wouldn't last 5 minutes.

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  6. Thats an easy question... by Ritchie70 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    An assault on civil rights, an assault on marriage, or an assault on sunshine laws and freedom of information?

    It's all about gay marriage. Neither group involved cares about any of the rest of that stuff.

    Personally, I don't get it; so long as you don't make me marry a person of the same gender against my will, why do I care what you do? Don't pretend there aren't same-sex families already; according to one of the links, 18% of same-sex couples in Washington state are raising a child under 18.

    I do have a tiny little bit of sympathy for the signers of the petition; I don't think people really understand the legal details behind the signing of a petition, and many of them many have assumed that it was as anonymous and protected as voting.

    One shouldn't take a stand that involves limiting someone else's rights but only be willing to do it anonymously. That's just chicken shit.

    And if you just shrugged and signed because your neighbor, coworker or fellow church goer asked you too without actually believing it, that's chicken shit too.

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  7. Re:So? by Ritchie70 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If people are shamed by having signed the petition then they shouldn't have signed it. The people who are shamed aren't listening to their little voice.

    If they are not ashamed to have signed it then what's the problem?

    I don't know about you, the only petition I've signed as an adult was for a local politician to get on the ballot. Go ahead, put my name on the front page of the newspaper - all I did was agree that this nice guy on my front porch should get his name on the ballot if he wants. I guess it implies I support him, but really, I don't even know what he thinks, just that he seems OK enough to be on the ballot.

    All these people did, when you get down to it, was agree that the question of gay marriage should be on the ballot. Same thing.

    There's the implication that you're in favor of the measure passing, of course - but you shouldn't put your name on a piece of paper if you don't understand what could happen with that list of names.

    I have no sympathy for any of the signers.

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  8. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dhalka226 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    However, the state should have no such rule.

    Cannot have such a rule. The anti-gay(-marriage) people will be quick to tell you the Constitution does not forbid discrimination based on sexual preference. Indeed, you won't find the words "sexual preference" or "sexuality" anywhere in the document. But pretending that you can in any way separate sexual preference from gender, against which discrimination is expressly forbidden by the Fourteenth Amendment, is nothing more than parlor-trick hand-waiving by a homophobic community intent on forcing Biblical morality on an entire nation.

    If two people each have the right to marry, they have the right to marry each other. No, that does not somehow open the door to marriages with goats like some people (including, sadly, some in this very discussion) would like you to believe. Does this somehow create a strain on government programs that pay you for being married? Good. Get rid of them. It's ridiculous to incentivize marriage, for straight or gay people.

    I'm sorry if this doesn't fit with some peoples' narrow-minded world view, but I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US. End rant.

    (And sorry to the grandparent; most of this rant was not intended for you, merely used as a jumping-off point.)

  9. Streisand effect by vlm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    So... my only real religious belief is in the Streisand effect, so someone please provide a torrent and a wikileaks link to the list of names.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streisand_effect

    Note, that some people on the list did not sign the petition, if you know what I mean. Someone could have sat down with the parish directory, or my kids elementary school family book, or my employers phone directory, or my ham radio club mailing list, etc, and "helpfully" signed me up, to "save me the time of signing myself up". I think that is the real reason they are fighting the publicity, heck, I'd file suit if I learned someone put my name on that list of ignorant hillbillys, as that would obviously defame my reputation...

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  10. intimidation indeed by jipn4 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice

    There is nothing "new" about it: so-called "Christians" and "conservatives"--probably many of the same kind of people who have signed this petition--have been using organized intimidation of minorities for two centuries. And they haven't stopped at intimidation: they have killed, injured, and discriminated.

    Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

    That is outrageous. For decades, gay rights activists have put their lives on the line to fight for safety, security, acceptance, and civil rights. Many have been murdered, more beaten up merely for speaking out, and many have lost their jobs. They have been vilified and persecuted. But finally, they have been making some headway.

    Now a minority of bigots wants turn back the clock and they don't even have the decency and honesty to stand up and identify themselves when putting a referendum on the ballot?

    This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

    This has nothing to do with "freedom of expression". These people can spew their bigotry in complete anonymity if they like; our laws and our Constitution guarantee that.

    But once they want to put a referendum before the voters, they do not have a right to do so anonymously. The public has a right to know where these kinds of referenda come from.

    The people putting this referendum on the ballot are not "the public", they are a bigoted minority. And their attempts to shield their names is like the robes of the Ku Klux Klan. Any legal issues aside, it is despicable, and it is despicable that you would defend them.

  11. Thanks for explaining the mindset by Kupfernigk · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Of course, if you are a liberal who believes there is no personal responsibility

    How about if you're a normal liberal who does believe in personal responsibility, believes that the scientists are right and that not only are there gay human beings but that many other species have an analog, that this is a result of genetic makeup and prenatal environment, and that gay people can no more help being attracted to the same sex than I, for instance, am attracted to the opposite one? How about if you're a Liberal who believes you right wingers are a collection of mindless buffoons endlessly repeating what your shock radio cheerleaders tell you, and that it's us Liberals who are responsible for almost all human progress, while your lot, from Southern Baptists to the Taliban, want to drag us back screaming and kicking into the Dark Ages?

    Well, then we might think you're just another racist/homophobe spouting a load of offensive bullshit. And your point is?

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  12. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Nursie · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What a load of utter bullshit. I'm sorry but rarely have I ever heard such a fountain of total nonsense spew forth, here or elsewhere on the internet (with the possible exception of /b/).

    For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?

    False equivalence. One is a conscious, sentient adult, the other is an animal. Or an inanimate object. You're an idiot.

    agree there is nothing wrong with interracial couples under the premise a person has no control over their race

    So if skin colour was a choice you'd be happy to discriminate? Gotcha. You're a hateful, dumb, bigot.

    I'm also someone who believes a person *does* have control over their sexual preferences

    Totally irrelevant. If it's a choice it's their choice, not yours, and doesn't affect you in any way.

    and therefore should not get special treatment if they choose a preference that goes against societal standards.

    Nobody's asking for special treatment, they're asking for equal treatment, and you're clutching at straws to try and deny it.

    Of course, if you are a liberal who believes there is no personal responsibility and by extension you have no control over your sexual preferences then you believes that you are being treated unfairly in the eyes of the law when you are told you cannot marry someone of the same sex.

    Where to begin?

    Liberal used as an invective (sure sign of an underdeveloped brain), non-sequiturs galore and yet more crap.

    Why is sexual preference linked to responsibility? What is irresponsible about homosexuality? And I'm not inviting you to spew more stereotypical nonsense about promiscuity here, what is irresponsible about the fact of homosexuality itself?

    Basically, you're wrong and pretty dumb. Or a troll, I'm not sure which.

  13. Turn the tables by jDeepbeep · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Gay rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. .

    Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

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    1. Re:Turn the tables by jDeepbeep · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I can't marry my dog, what's your point?

      Same sex marriage is not comparable to marrying your dog. Please troll in a less obvious manner.

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    2. Re:Turn the tables by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A dog is not a consenting adult. What difference does it make which consenting adult you marry?

    3. Re:Turn the tables by andymadigan · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's more than that. In NYS there are over 1000 rights (1400 or something?) that are reserved for married couples. The total cost of getting each of them that you can without a marriage is in the thousands of dollars, and it takes *a lot* of time to get done. There are others for which the only legal avenue is marriage. Many private institutions such as employers only recognize marriage for certain benefits, and hide behind the "well you're not really married" defense to cover their bigotry.

      This is in NYS, which has NYC and Rochester, plus Toronto not far away. I can only imagine what it's like in Washington.

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    4. Re:Turn the tables by mixmatch · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I always wondered why marriage has anything to do with the government anyway.

    5. Re:Turn the tables by Rob+Kaper · · Score: 5, Insightful

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together. It should be a religious state. Just have civil contracts to define "partners" rights.

      Agreed.

      However, governments insist on calling those contracts "civil marriage". And because of that wrong label same-sex couples cannot enter into such a contract together.

      (Personally I don't care whether they fix the criteria or the label.)

    6. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      1) You've little understanding what rights are. Particularly the difference between Legal and Natural rights.
      2) You engage in name calling and threats of violence against those with whom you disagree.
      3) Demonstrate little understanding of logical fallacies.

      Let's see... You attempt to:

      o brow beat me
      o talk down to me
      o imply I'm illogical
      o imply I'm stupid
      o threaten anybody who further disagrees with you

      Do you want to discuss the topic, or attack the person?

    7. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You also can't Marry your sister. Even if she is a consenting adult. What's your point?

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    8. Re:Turn the tables by omega_dk · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Since the dawn of time, the family, consisting of a husband and his property has been the fundamental unit of society.

      I, for one, am glad that we altered the whole structure of that civilization - why not this one?

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    9. Re:Turn the tables by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It is and always has been about money. Do you actually think government, states, hospitals, or any company cares if one is gay or straight? It boils down to money. It was believed that homosexual people were more likely to catch/pass on certain diseases. That is when the rules were set. Prove that this is not true and those rules may change. One has to prove that the lifestyle of people who are gay carries no higher risk then those that are straight. Prove that for all and this issue will go away.

      Religion is a separate issue. There is supposed to be a separation of 'church' and state in the US. And church can be what ever your religion is. One can still get married and not have to go to a 'church' to make it happen.

      Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.

      It’s all about religion. And control.

      Religion forbids homosexuality because it robs them of fresh kids to indoctrinate and to swamp the other tribes with.

      It’s about control, too: religion forbids homosexuality because gay men can have all the sex they want without having to contend with headaches nor birth control, and thus make compromises so the wife consents to be fucked. Someone who is not accustomed to make compromises because his sex partner is always willing will be harder to control.

      “Certain diseases gay people have” is only a very recent phenomenon for which technology exists to address.

      The same comment goes for masturbation: one can jerk-off any time he wants for instant sexual gratification. There is no need for someone else, and thus even less compromise than with homosexual intercourse.

      Religion has had thousands of years to rot our brains; any society has a hard time to get rid of it.

    10. Re:Turn the tables by NiceGeek · · Score: 5, Insightful

      "And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry. A homosexual man can marry any woman who sees fit agree, and a homosexual woman can marry any man who sees fit to agree.
      As a heterosexual man, I do not have the right to marry any man. Seems pretty clear and equally applied."

      'And to split hairs, blacks currently have the right to marry. A black man can marry any black woman who sees fit to agree, and a black woman can marry any black man who sees fit to agree
      As a white man, I do not have the right to marry any black woman. Seems pretty clear and equally applied"

      Are you freaking serious?

    11. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Because marriage is a civil union. You have it backwards. The whole church involvement is simply a nice ceremony. It has no authority to do anything until the government validates the marriage. You could get married all day in church and it would mean nothing until you file the proper papers. Try to get married five times and the church wouldn't know you had, and certainly couldn't come after you. The government on the other hand, certainly could.

      Now from the other perspective, if you go the government, and get a marriage performed, there is no church needed.

      See the difference?

      This is the part that the church and organized religion fails to understand. They are taking a civil issue and trying to push their religious views into it. Granting civil unions, or even marriage to two people doesn't harm them in the slightest. It might affront their beliefs, but there is simply no harm done to them personally, and that is an important distinction.

      Separation of church and state doesn't protect the government from religion. It protects you, me, and everyone else from government sponsored religion. That is what makes these "defense of marriage" acts so wrong. There is no provable harm in these civil unions, and when they state that it is 'morally wrong according to the bible', they are essentially forcing government sponsored religion onto US citizens when these acts are passed even if these citizens are not followers of the bible. The 'harm' is stated in a religious document. There is no prove-able harm outside of the bible.

    12. Re:Turn the tables by jayme0227 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And since the dawn of time, marriage was considered to be for a lifetime, yet anti-gay conservative after anti-gay conservative cheats on his wife and/or gets a divorce. If you were railing against divorce and philandering in defense of the sanctity of marriage, I would have a much easier time listening to your anti-gay rhetoric, but since the only time the "sanctity" of marriage comes up is with regards to homosexuality, I have a hard time respecting that argument. (Here's looking at you, Rush, the three time divorcee, for single handedly making this argument for me.)

      Also, as to your procreation argument, many gay couples often want to adopt children but are forbidden from doing so because of state laws that use bogus logic in order to discriminate. There have been plenty of children who have grown up with gay parents, yet there is still no evidence that this harms the children, whereas there is plenty of evidence that these children are better off than kids in single-parent families and foster homes. Yet people feel that these children should be put in less advantageous positions in foster homes rather than be raised by loving same sex parents.

      Finally, marriage IS a right. If a white man and a white woman were denied their right to marry, there would be holy hell to pay. There’s even a considerable backlash (as there should be), when an interracial couple is prevented from marrying, as was recently the case in Louisiana. Yet when two men decide to marry, many people feel the law should be used to prevent this from happening. This even happens even though there are progressive churches that bless same sex unions.

      Personally, because of all this mess, I think the government should just back off. Marriage should be a religious choice rather than a legal one. Allow anyone to get a civil union and the legal protections afforded by it, and get out of the way when it comes to marriage.

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    13. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Because incest is bad for the gene pool but homosexuality isn't bad for anything.

    14. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You should be able to marry your sister. And if genetic screenings say you won't make web footed duck babies, you should be able to have kids with her too. But you should be able to marry her in any case. Marriage isn't necessarily about procreation, if it were, then barren couples wouldn't be allowed marriage either. Your sister and you are adults, you can consent, why shouldn't you be able to marry? Just because some people think its gross? Some people think mixed marriages are gross, too.

      The institution of marriage has a stabilizing effect on society. This occurs whatever the partners' sexual orientation or capacity to breed. Married couples tend to be more stable and responsible. Marriage is a positive institution. Why deny that to homosexuals?

      You see, you are advocating denying people the right to marry whom they choose. That does not impact anyone else except in indirect but positive ways. You need to justify this abrogation of rights. How will denying homosexuals the rights to marry benefit society? You can't just compare homosexual unions to bestiality or incest without more complete reasoning. You appear to be trying to appeal to emotions rather than using logic. You say, 'you can't marry your sister,' but you don't state why you can't, or how the case of sibling incest is similar to homosexuality. Sure, it's a step up from comparing homosexuality to bestiality, but not by much.

      You are the one making outrageous claims. You are the one advocating harmful actions against oppressed minorities. You need to justify your claims as best you can, rather than making cheap appeals to emotions. If you don't even attempt to justify your position logically, people are correct to disrespect you.

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    15. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Still has some "what ifs" though:

      What if a dude wanted to marry his brother? No gene pool issues there.

      What if he wanted to marry his sister and one or the other were known to be infertile?

      Or more realistically, what about marrying one's cousin? Some states do allow this, and some don't. Birth defect rates from such unions are barely above that of two strangers pairing, and most of the reasons for disallowing it is simple cultural stigma.

      Seriously, in all the above cases there was to be a better reason given than "Ew, gross.", because that's pretty much the reason being given by the homephobic population against gay marriage.

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    16. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's a nice story, but unfortunately, it IS a civil process. It doesn't matter what it was 2000 years ago, 500 years ago, or 5 years ago. It doesn't matter who 'invented' the word "married", or what it meant to Jesus, the planters peanut guy, or whoever.

      What is relevant is what it is right now. As far as the 'church' is concerned, it's just a word. Legally it is a whole other issue which has nothing to do with the Church.

    17. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No one has hijacked anything. You can get married tomorrow, and never notify the government. You don't even have to involve them. Of course if you did so you wouldn't get any LEGAL benefits, which is where this is being argued. This has nothing to do with religion.

      Same goes for getting a marriage license from the state. You don't have to involve the church either. The two are totally separate and should remain so.

    18. Re:Turn the tables by Glothar · · Score: 3, Insightful

      ...and they'll still have problems in states like Virginia which decided to pass laws which refuse to honor such contracts when they are between two homosexuals.

      If you're saying to yourself: "Wait. How can they do that? Doesn't the constitution prevent them from picking and choosing which contracts they honor?"

      Welcome to Virginia, where a delusional sense of historical importance mixes with long-standing bigotry to create a state where many* people think they should be above the Constitution.

      Virgina: Its for (heterosexual) lovers.

      [*] Note: I am from Northern (aka "Fake") Virginia, where diversity is tolerated and even celebrated. Sadly, we're only about 45% of the state at the moment. Give us another decade so we can try to fix some of our social problems.

    19. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So, you are proposing a second class of marriage for barren citizens, with no economic incentives like tax breaks. That would be fine, if children were the only societal benefit of marriage. To quote drsmithy from this very thread: "Overall, marriage creates a 'stronger' community. On a more individual scale, married couples generally live longer, make more money and and have higher employment rates. Additionally children brought up by married couples tend to have better health, better school results and fewer problems with the law."

      There are other positive externalities of marriage besides children. If nothing else, married couples both gay and straight can provide a better, more stable family for adopted children. But married couples also tend to be better for the community in general, more productive, more stable, contributing more wealth.

      Still, if you would be willing to take a consistent stance and advocate for banning marriage benefits to barren couples, I can accept that. mostly because, if you take that stance, your entire argument will be disregarded by right minded people. So, you can either be a hypocrite, or you can be ignored as a loon. Your choice.

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    20. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Why you rotten... wait, what? Where am I? Who replaced my regular Internet with something civil?

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    21. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Your not disagreeing with me, so I'm not sure what your angle is here. Your piece about "will be later honored in good faith when necessary by the government" is key. Religious groups would deny this LEGAL recognition for no other reason than the fact that it conflicts with their FAITH.

      When you involve the government, as this issue MUST as it involves legal benefits, then religion should not play a role.

      It sounds like your trying to say the government "shouldn't" be involved without acknowledging the fact that the very basis of these legal challenges is to grant legal benefits to this group of people. There is no way that the government cannot be involved as it is the very basis for these legal challenges.

    22. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You do not get to define religion, sorry. You don't get to say that someone's 'changes' are not legitimate. By your logic, Martin Luther had no right to change things.

      But in any case, Buddhism has never had a ban on gay marriages, so any Buddhist sects performing them would have to be legitimate in your eyes, as they haven't changed anything that was originally in their religion, and they are legitimate religion recognized in the United States.

      You do understand that homosexual civil unions don't exist in most states, right?

      Marriage is a legal right. You see, there are two different definitions of marriage. There is marriage as it relates to the state, and marriage as it relates to a particular religion. While religious marriage might not be a legal right, one does not even need to practice a religion in order to be legally married by the state. That is a right, as recognized by the state, not a particular religion. I was not married in a church, but I am legally married and that status confers certain rights and responsibilities on my partner and I.

      Historically, the word 'marriage' did not include partners of different races. We saw that that was unfair, and changed it. Just because something is a particular way does not make it right, That's known as the 'is/aught fallacy.' We used to consider black people to be property. It was part of the definition of property. We changed that too.

      Your argument boils down to 'this is the way it has always been, and therefore this is the way it should always be.' You do see the problem with that line of reasoning, don't you?

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    23. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Your definition of marriage is not the definition of marriage. Your religion can define what your religion's version of marriage means, but it can not define what my religion's definition of marriage is, and you can not tell me that my religion isn't as legitimate as yours, that is kind of in the Constitution.

      You realize that what you call 'backlash,' gay people call 'defending their beliefs,' right?

      Also, you state that homosexuals don't want to force churches to marry them. This has been proven untrue. Many adoption agencies, doctors, and churches have been sued for similar cases in the United States and outside of the United states.

      [citation needed] or put another way [you are lying.]

      You can argue from religion. But there are many religions in this free land of ours, and yours doesn't trump anyone else's.

      As I stated before, no 501(c)3 organization, be it educational, religious, or charitable, is allowed to campaign, donate to a campaign, or advocate for changes to the law. That does not apply only to churches, in fact, if churches wanted to give up their tax exempt status they can lobby all they like, and some do. The law applies to anyone claiming tax exempt status. So, either keep your church out of the legislative process like it should be, or lose your tax exempt status like any other 501(c)3 caught cheating.

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  14. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by NiteShaed · · Score: 5, Insightful

    BTW for those of you who say that it is discrimination, gays are allowed to marry. They just aren't (in most states) allowed to marry someone of the same sex, but then neither are straights.

    And following that logic inter-racial marriage wasn't discrimination either. Blacks weren't allowed to marry outside their race, but then nether were whites.

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  15. Re: public record vs. libel/slander by pleappleappleap · · Score: 3, Insightful

    We're not talking about politicians here, we're talking about private citizens, so yes, it's obvious you didn't RTFA.

  16. It is OK to call it marriage by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

    Why can't we call it marriage? I do and 48% of Californians agree with me. Ask us again in 2010 and it will be 49%. Ask us in 2012 and it will be 50.1%. Inevitably, Gay Marriage will be recognized as a right and our grandchildren will be shaking their heads that this was really ever a debate.

  17. Voting != Petition by DJRumpy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If they were the same it would be called 'voting'. It is not. It is a public record and should be treated as such. If people do not have the strength of their convictions then they shouldn't sign it. That is the point of peer pressure. It molds society into what is acceptable and what is not.

    If someone steps over the line and takes illegal retribution against someone who signed a petition after that info was made public then they would be in the wrong and handled under the law. If someone signs onto a discriminatory petition and is treated badly (but legally) as a result, once it becomes known, then they've reaped what they've sewn.

  18. Re:Petition - Voting by Chyeld · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Because voting has safeguards that were meant to prevent dead people from voting, live people from voting twice, and imaginary people from even showing up at the polling place. Notwithstanding the matter of the effectiveness of those safeguards or the manner in which our less than upright politicians have attempted to circumvent them, petitions have none of these.

    Additionally, even if these were 'codified' into the manner in which petitions were made, the entire point of a petition is "We proudly support this idea and are the ones that put you in office, do it!" That implies you are willing to take a stand on it.

    PS. You don't have to go through the 'petition' stage to get to the 'voting' stage. It's just as possible for you to walk into your congressman's office and have a nice private chat with him.