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The End of Forgetting

Hugh Pickens recommends a long piece in last week's NY Times Magazine covering a wide swath of research and thinking in the US and elsewhere on the subject of the perils to society of recording everything permanently, and the idea that perhaps we ought to build forgetting into the Internet. "We've known for years that the Web allows for unprecedented voyeurism, exhibitionism, and inadvertent indiscretion, but we are only beginning to understand the costs of an age in which so much of what we say, and of what others say about us, goes into our permanent — and public — digital files. The fact that the Internet never seems to forget is, at an almost existential level, threatening to our ability to control our identities; to preserve the option of reinventing ourselves and starting anew. In a recent book, Delete: The Virtue of Forgetting in the Digital Age, the cyberscholar Viktor Mayer-Schönberger cites the case of Stacy Snyder — who was denied a teaching certificate on the basis of a single photo on MySpace — as a reminder of the importance of 'societal forgetting.' By erasing external memories, he says in the book, 'our society accepts that human beings evolve over time, that we have the capacity to learn from past experiences and adjust our behavior.' In traditional societies, where missteps are observed but not necessarily recorded, the limits of human memory ensure that people's sins are eventually forgotten. By contrast, Mayer-Schönberger notes, a society in which everything is recorded 'will forever tether us to all our past actions, making it impossible, in practice, to escape them.' He concludes that 'without some form of forgetting, forgiving becomes a difficult undertaking.'"

329 comments

  1. Working Non-Authorize Requesting Link by eldavojohn · · Score: 4, Informative

    I got hit with a login when I tried to use the link in the summary but was able to surf to this link. You'll get a splash advertisement for the Economist or something but I'd wager most people would tolerate that more than logging in.

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  2. Posting is forever by Drakkenmensch · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This article made me wish I had posted this as Anonymous Coward...

    1. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is becoming more and more of a constant fear for me. I am concerned I need to delete my facebook.

    2. Re:Posting is forever by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Facebook never permanently deletes your stuff, though. Read the ToS.

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      "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death." Proverbs 16:25 (NKJV)
    3. Re:Posting is forever by petes_PoV · · Score: 1

      but changing your name is easy

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      politicians are like babies' nappies: they should both be changed regularly and for the same reasons
    4. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      but changing your name is easy

      There's already a Buzz Lightyear...

    5. Re:Posting is forever by IBBoard · · Score: 2, Informative

      And places like web.archive.org is caching things as well. It's amazing how quickly Google picks up new pages for search results these days.

    6. Re:Posting is forever by mcgrew · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Don't worry, the internet does forget, and it forgets some of the best stuff, too. Back when I was an avid gamer thare was a very funny parody of Blue's News called "Yello There". A fellow names "Kneel Harriot" (who I later found out was a woman named Janet) updated it daily, and as far as I know there's only one instance of his site in the Wayback Machine at archive.org; "Kneel" and I often cross-posted, me using his character in stories at my site, the now-defunct "Springfield Fragfest" (which last time I looked was now a porn site). The only one one of his pages not missing is the one from the day people surfed to Yello There and found the Fragfest, and surfed to the Fragfest only to find Yello There.

      There are a lot of the old sites that are gone without a trace. Most of the Fragfest is gone. My other site (also now defunct), mcgrew.info, is completely gone as well, although I think I have it in a hard drive on a shelf somewhere.

      Somebody must have confused the internet with rock 'n' roll, because the internet does indeed forget. It just remembers a long time sometimes.

    7. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The problem is most employers and banking institutions will require that you give them any names you might have gone by in the past X years, where X equals whatever they think is a decent interval (usually 5 or 10). So, that means you'd still have to wait at least 5 years for the name change to be at maximum effectiveness. And if someone links your old name to your new one on the Internet, your name change was for naught.

      So don't give them your old name, you say? They'll never know the difference? I wouldn't bet on that. If by chance they do find out, you can kiss your credibility good-bye for lying on an application, and that's another name sullied.

    8. Re:Posting is forever by pinkushun · · Score: 1
    9. Re:Posting is forever by pinkushun · · Score: 2, Informative

      Here's the Slashdot snapshot from 1998 - Note that web.archive doesn't serve some of the older images, but site content and style is preserved :)

    10. Re:Posting is forever by icebraining · · Score: 2, Informative

      But it does hide them from his prospective employer, unless he plans to work for Facebook itself.

    11. Re:Posting is forever by Shoeler · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You know what occurred to me after reading the summary and your post? That it's not the forgetting part that needs to change. Indeed, to fundamentally change data retention policies across the ENTIRE INTERNET seems, at best, a dumb hopeless idea.

      However, to change the perception people have when they find that you don't have an un-scarred past seems to be a good and righteous thing to challenge.

      We as a society have this idea that keeps getting trashed that there are people out there who are as good as we want them to be. In my 36 years of experience, I've found only a small handful of people who are completely honest about who they are and were. In general people try to practice this selective forgetting so that they can "reinvent" themselves.

      Instead, why don't we just learn to not hype people to unachievable heights and realize they're as human as we are and made as many mistakes as we all did?

    12. Re:Posting is forever by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Instead, why don't we just learn to not hype people to unachievable heights and realize they're as human as we are and made as many mistakes as we all did?

      If I know that you've drunk beer sometimes in your life, and hire you, and you come to work drunk one morning, it's my fault: why did I hire a drunkard rather than a teetotaler? Similarly, if I know you've done anything less than saintly in your life, and associate with you, and you do something less than saintly to me, it's my fault: why did I associate with someone I knew was pond scum? And if you do less than saintly things to someone else, it's still my fault: I'm "scum enabler", I made friends with someone I knew was scum, thus sending the message that it's okay to be scum. And of course, even if you never do anything even slightly questionable from any point of view ever again, I'm still guilty of risking others and myself by associating and justifying scum.

      Basically, nobody ever got fired for buying Microsoft.

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      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    13. Re:Posting is forever by countertrolling · · Score: 1

      Or unless his prospective employer is the US government.. I doubt they'll wait for a subpoena or warrant.

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    14. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only time I have ever seen anyone wanting to know of any previous names I've gone by is when I got my passport. I'm sure some other official government or police paperwork might require it, but outside of that I've never seen an employer ask for that information. Even if they did, I wouldn't give it to them, unless it was for a job that requires some sort of government clearance.

    15. Re:Posting is forever by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 1

      Who? Facebook or the government (or both?!)

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    16. Re:Posting is forever by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 1

      only if they don't look at the Google cache or, if it's old enough, the Internet Archive.

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    17. Re:Posting is forever by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 1

      I've used it more than once to get content from some of my old sites.

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      "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death." Proverbs 16:25 (NKJV)
    18. Re:Posting is forever by DriveDog · · Score: 2, Interesting

      For the most part, I agree, but I'll go further. I think the publicly accessible permanent records will force us to acknowledge that people have flaws and checkered histories. I'm looking forward to that general recognition. But as usual, it's the transition period that's rough. Until a majority of the populace has adapted to the new paradigm of record-keeping, we're going to have an increase in the attention the public pays to slung mud.

    19. Re:Posting is forever by Eugene+O'Neil · · Score: 3, Insightful

      In the future where everything is recorded on the internet forever, you will count yourself lucky if you find a single job applicant who ONLY has pictures of them drinking beer on the internet. Who do you think you're going to hire instead? There is no "Microsoft product" for you to buy in this analogy.

    20. Re:Posting is forever by FlyMysticalDJ · · Score: 1

      Are you saying that if someone has ever in their entire life done something that you might object with, and you know about it, you won't be friends with them, and no one else should either?

      Isn't alienation a big problem with ex-convicts that because no one likes them anymore and they can't get a job anywhere they often turn back to crime?

      Honestly, everyone has something in their past that you probably won't agree with. I believe what the GP was trying to say is that if we are open and honest, and try to improve ourselves, why should it stand in the way? If no one will ever hire someone or befriend someone that drank in college, then that person is going to get old, lonely, bitter, and probably start drinking to try and cope.

      Meanwhile in your hiring analogy, you're stuck with the employee that's actually pretty good at hiding his cocaine addiction and only does a line at his desk while you're not watching.
      I know there are people out there that live fairly clean lives, but not enough that you can just the the rest to F off.

    21. Re:Posting is forever by icebraining · · Score: 1

      You can use Google's Webpage removal tool and ask them to remove the outdated cached copies from the index, even if the website isn't yours. Besides, does Google Cache cache images?

      As for the Internet Archive, you can do the same, provided your country recognizes the right to your own image, or you took the photos personally: http://www.archive.org/about/faqs.php#20

    22. Re:Posting is forever by ultranova · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Are you saying that if someone has ever in their entire life done something that you might object with, and you know about it, you won't be friends with them, and no one else should either?

      No, I'm saying that that's the logic behind not hiring people because there's pictures online of them drinking beer, smoking marijuana, or in general having a life. Of course it is disgustingly cowardly, but that's humans for you.

      Isn't alienation a big problem with ex-convicts that because no one likes them anymore and they can't get a job anywhere they often turn back to crime?

      And there are quite a lot of people who find that a desirable outcome: after all, if an ex-convict turns back to crime, that is evidence that he was a bad person all along, and thus helps them divide the world into good people - themselves and those they like - and bad people - everyone else.

      Of course this makes them very bad people indeed, far worse than most convicts, and of course they also realize that at some level, but that's simply their cue to continue repeating the "convicts are subhuman monsters" mantra with all the more fervor, to make themselves look better by contrast, yet actually becoming worse and worse.

      Honestly, everyone has something in their past that you probably won't agree with.

      Actually, I kinda doubt it. It takes outright psychopathic behaviour - rape, murder, beating your kids, that sort of thing - to get more than annoyance out of me.

      I believe what the GP was trying to say is that if we are open and honest, and try to improve ourselves, why should it stand in the way?

      And what I was trying to say is that most of us aren't open, honest or willing to take risks for the benefit of strangers.

      If no one will ever hire someone or befriend someone that drank in college, then that person is going to get old, lonely, bitter, and probably start drinking to try and cope.

      Yes. On the other hand, if I, Joe PHB, hire him, and he screws up in any way - which is inevitable, he being a mere mortal after all - and it comes out that I knew that he was less than perfect in every way, why, it must have been my fault! I should had hired the candidate who I didn't know was imperfect!

      Of course this is absurd. It's Just World Fallacy - basically, the claim that world is just, therefore if anything bad happens to you it must have been your own fault somehow, therefore if we can't find anything else we'll blame it all on you drinking beer while in college - meeting ass-cowering. However, it's no more absurd that many other things companies have done in their quest for efficiency (such as firing the worst-performing 10% of their employees each year), so should it really surprise you that this happens? Especially in the current climate where everyone is deathly afraid of losing their job, knowing full well that the job market is never going to recover?

      Meanwhile in your hiring analogy, you're stuck with the employee that's actually pretty good at hiding his cocaine addiction and only does a line at his desk while you're not watching.

      Exactly. So when shit hits the fan, I can claim that I knew nothing about it, thus covering my ass when my boss is looking for someone to blame to cover his.

      Of course that means that our employees will spend more time covering up any weaknesses and slips than doing actual productive work, but hey: that's efficiency - it's the capitalist way!

      I know there are people out there that live fairly clean lives, but not enough that you can just the the rest to F off.

      Once again: this has nothing to do with common sense, and everything to do with Keeping Up Appearances. Cowardice and hypocrisy combined tend to produce rather spectacularly irrational outcomes.

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      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    23. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, in effect, you're saying you don't want to hang out with THOSE kids because you might go on Double Secret Probation.

      If you refuse to associate with anyone who isn't a goody two-shoes, you're guilty of something far worse: helping to destroy the fundamental right of each of us to live as real people, according to our own principles, as long as we don't bother anyone else in the process. And you're doing it out of base cowardice.

    24. Re:Posting is forever by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      No, the problem is not that everybody will have skeletons come out of the closet and dance, spotlighted, on the front lawn. The problem is that some people won't. Some people simply don't drink beer, or get into compromising positions in public, or whatever. You won't find a picture of me drinking a beer on the internet, for example. You might, however, find posts that have political positions that you disagree with, or such, but not everybody posts on forums in a traceable way.

      The big problem is that this will favor never doing anything that might possibly be controversial in public. There will be a group of private, bland teetotalers that will wind up being favored for anything sensitive. I've got some political opinions you can dig up. You've got that picture on Myspace of you in college with a glass of beer and a stupid grin. She's got Facebook friends who are married to other people of the same sex, and list it on Facebook. He, over there, is a complete blank, with nothing controversial, and hence a safer CYA bet whenever that matters.

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    25. Re:Posting is forever by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 1

      tmw;ddi (too much work; didn't do it)

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    26. Re:Posting is forever by metamatic · · Score: 1

      Another awesome web site that was sadly lost was the National Texture Administration. You can still find references to it on Google, but the site itself is gone.

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    27. Re:Posting is forever by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 1

      If there are only a few people who never do anything controversial in public, and the vast majority do things that are controversial in public, why would the vast majority allow the aforementioned minority to rule over them?

      That one person who is a complete blank is clearly hiding something. Why would we trust them with anything at all?

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    28. Re:Posting is forever by flyneye · · Score: 1

      Don't get fearful over some hearsay story by some newsclown reporting on whimsical meanderings stretched to the maximum word limit, with the only goal being a profitable article for him.
                Taking a look at the flipside of the coin should buffer your nerves.
      Would you honestly seek employment with a company who cares only to protect their own asses and gives a shit less about disposable employees?
      If you would, then you get what you deserve, a suck ass life for feeding the machine. If enough people quit applying at places that go overboard with background checks, then they will either quit that shit or dissappear.
              If you are a monkey who has found himself in one of these positions, I suppose you could redeem yourself with industrial espionage. (no, not really, since you are part of the problem, just go die)
              If people don't support the bad treatment they get it will go away. If they do they are just worthless masochists anyway.

              Can you imagine anyone really wanting to work for a place whose background check covers the bullshit and fiction most people put up on social interactive sites? Not only does it show the company who thinks they can interpret this information profitably as morons, but, also those who would ASK to belong to such a doomed organization.

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    29. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Speaking of "hiding something", your failure to support your baseless accusations is something you wish you could hide, since it is a source of constant shame and humiliation for you. You'd bury it if you could. But you can't, and that fills you with impotent rage.

    30. Re:Posting is forever by Rob_RepDef · · Score: 1

      Michael Arrington argued a similar point in an article at TechCrunch several months back (http://techcrunch.com/2010/03/28/reputation-is-dead-its-time-to-overlook-our-indiscretions/). Arrington's post coincided with the launch of Unvarnished, an anonymous professional review website that has been described as a "Yelp for people."

      Quoting Arrington: "We’re going to be forced to adjust as a society. I firmly believe that we will simply become much more accepting of indiscretions over time. Employers just won’t care that ridiculous drunk college pictures pop up about you when they do a HR background search on you."

      In a blog post, ReputationDefender CEO and privacy expert Michael Fertik agreed with Arrington to a point, but arrived at a different conclusion. (http://www.reputationdefenderblog.com/2010/03/29/michael-arrington-techcrunch-on-reputation/)

      Fertik essentially argued that while individual items may have less bearing on an person's reputation, the rapid increase of data aggregation technologies and people-search companies will create comprehensive people profiles in which individuals are reduced to basic numbers, like a personal FICO credit score for your reputation.

      (Note: I work for ReputationDefender in the role of Community Manager)

      Quoting Fertik: "As data proliferate, it will get harder and more time-consuming to develop these comprehensive pictures manually. What we’re seeing happen already will happen more swiftly: more companies will appear that seek to aggregate the data points that are discretely and variously available (i.e. from the open web, from the social web, from closed databases, from virtual worlds, etc.) into comprehensive portraits. And if we can predict anything, Simpler Will Prevail. People will be “reduced” to numbers.

      In this context, “Simpler Will Prevail” means that more detailed and nuanced Personal Scoring will appear and will dominate the existing scoring offerings like FICO. Everyone likes a nice tidy number that concretely summarizes the value of something (credit-worthiness, a stock price, a zip code, how many followers you have on Twitter, how many unique users you have on your website), and personal scoring will be just as prevalent, widespread, and, in many cases, life-affecting. When these scores appear and become more data-rich and stable, third parties will start to rely on both context-specific scores (e.g. eBay buyer/seller scores) and universally applicable scores (“honesty” scores, “business reputation” scores, “good date material” scores) for snap judgments that would make even Malcolm Gladwell lose his hair.

      In other words, the future will see ever more reliance on concise, summary-level reputation assessments. It may be true, as Arrington suggests, that a particular photo or anonymous comment will have less impact than it does today. But that outcome, if it obtains, will be a function of the fact that each of those data points will simply be included and imputed in a broader and hugely impactful score or snap conclusion–based on digitally aggregated and correlated information–about a person’s reputation. In a way, Arrington’s own view that a “Yelp for individuals” may or will appear tends toward the same conclusion. Some attempts at person-review pages have already appeared. In the end, though, it is likely that data points will be collected from many of those pages (i.e. not just one) and then mashed up with social web results, open web results, Google results, private database results, and others to form comprehensive images of individuals."

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      Just some information to help further fuel this interesting conversation.

      Rob Frappier
      Community Manager
      ReputationDefender

    31. Re:Posting is forever by FlyMysticalDJ · · Score: 1

      That is honestly the best and worst response to my comment ever. It seems you and I are in agreement. Unfortunately that agreement is that the work world is generally screwed up deeply.

      This just reinforces my belief that we would have to work half as hard in a job if we cut out all this kind of bull.

    32. Re:Posting is forever by bandmassa · · Score: 1

      I agree, Team Firefly Night Rides and Steve's Wooden Bicycle are both gone forever, too.

      Also, I've always taken the view that what I say in public is out there and there's nothing I can do but be honest if asked directly. We have to own our own responsibility and not expect others won't do background checks on us, then accept that, if our past is a problem for an employer, we probably wouldn't fit into their work culture. I've always gone for jobs where my music and cycling were not a problem. It's about making your weaknesses into strengths.

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    33. Re:Posting is forever by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 1

      Not in the slightest. I still think that the US, the UK, Israel and their allies are evil and need to be laid low. Just like when most of europe united around the socialists during WWII, just like when Philip the Fair executed the Knights Templar for usery, driving them underground to re-emerge as the Masons, just like when Jesus knocked over the moneylenders tables and told them they would be wiped out in a single generation for their crimes against humanity.

      But, feel free to keep stalking me and quoting me. I am not a politician... I enjoy offending my enemy, that he might reveal himself and save me the trouble of seeking him out.

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    34. Re:Posting is forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not in the slightest.

      Not in the slightest, because it's in the most extreme. That's why you've never repeated your accusation; you know it will hold up even more poorly than it did the first time. You want to avoid being exposed for the incompetent attempt at a fraud that you are. But you don't get what you want.

      I still think that the US, the UK, Israel and their allies are evil and need to be laid low.

      And you know perfectly well that isn't what I'm talking about. You claimed that the Iran riots were "a black op that was imposed from without, not within". You had the choice of proving it was true or confessing that it was a lie. No other options existed, or ever could have. You chose the latter, and have continued to choose it with every subsequent post you've made. You just did it again, by trying to change the subject and pretend that this is about anything other than your failure to support a stupid lie that you told.

      But, feel free to keep stalking me

      I have never "stalked" you, and you know it. But feel free to continue with your futile attempt to distract yourself from the undeniable truth with that lie. After all, covering one poorly-thought-out lie with another has just been working out so well for you, hasn't it?

      I am not a politician...

      Because you aren't smart enough or charismatic enough to be one, not because your professed disdain for them is genuine. You envy their ability to lie effectively. You certainly wish you had it right now.

      I enjoy offending my enemy

      More half-assed lies. You don't enjoy this, you don't have what it takes to offend anyone, and you aren't capable of being anyone's enemy. An enemy is someone who poses a threat. You'll never pose a threat to anyone.

      that he might reveal himself and save me the trouble of seeking him out.

      You've tried this tactic before. You haven't become any more proficient at it.

    35. Re:Posting is forever by johnsjs · · Score: 0

      We ALL have hooks, even the teetotal, traceless people you are talking about.

      Do I want to hire the 'guy who got drunk on the internet' or the 'no trace anywhere' guy?

      Or maybe the one without trace is just a nazi paedophile and keeps it secret.

      sorry, I'll move on to another topic having killed this one now.

  3. logs by blai · · Score: 2, Insightful

    /thread

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  4. Learning Without a Negative Response? by eldavojohn · · Score: 4, Interesting

    By erasing external memories, he says in the book, 'our society accepts that human beings evolve over time, that we have the capacity to learn from past experiences and adjust our behavior.'

    But what if there is no negative response to your behavior? I mean, in the situation quoted in the summary there was no illegal activity. A high school teacher went to a party and got drunk. Nothing illegal there. Sounds like she had some fun (the horror!). So let's assume no picture was taken and no picture was posted on MySpace and she wasn't terminated from her teaching position or dropped from her enrollment in teaching. What negative response would she receive that would stop her from ever doing that again?

    None.

    Because there shouldn't be a negative response to that. This is some scarlet letter bullshit where no laws are broken but you've offended someone's morals even though it was on your own time and therefore you should be fired. This isn't about forgetting on the web, it's about managing your public image. Some people are slow to catch on that if it's on the internet, the world can see it. So don't put your dirty laundry on the internet. There are plenty of bumps on the social side of things. Plenty of embarrassing social gaffs on sites like MySpace and Facebook but for things like forums and Slashdot it's great that everything is permanently remembered for reference in the future.

    Really this is just the old Facebook privacy issue and their total abuse of their clients. Balancing features with privacy is nothing new -- it's just on a much much larger level now.

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    1. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by demonlapin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      This is pretty easy. The problem is making sure other people don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

    2. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by camperdave · · Score: 4, Insightful

      This is pretty easy. The problem is making sure other people don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      This could be especially problematic as surveillance becomes more and more popular. That, and the increased capacity to crack security (either through botnets, or exploiting weaknesses in algorithms)

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    3. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The feedback and learning I got from those incidences, is to avoid those career paths entirely.

      Even the most fucked up details of my personal life getting outed wouldn't destabilize my job. I'd be slightly embarrassed, but it wouldn't otherwise affect me.

    4. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Some people are slow to catch on that if it's on the internet, the world can see it. So don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      That's fine, except that I may not be the only one posting stuff about me.

      In the given example, the teacher could have been very careful not to put her drunk party photo online. But if someone else at the same party was less thoughtful, it could have had exactly the same effect, but completely out of her control.

      Even more worrying is the possibility of people deliberately destroying another's reputation. There's no shortage of people in this world with a grudge against someone else. It's quite easy to imagine an example where someone fails to get a job because of something someone has posted about them. It needn't even be true; a prospective employer isn't going to take time to give you the benefit of the doubt when there's plenty of other candidates. And the person in question may never even find out what it was that lost them the job; they just don't get to the next interview stage.

      And then there's the mistaken identity issue. Having googled myself a few years ago, I know of the existence of at least four other people who share my name (I have a fairly uncommon name). They're all quite different people and most of the time it's obvious which one of us a given web page is about. But not always. And especially in the age of 140 character tweets, it would be very easy for someone to take a reference to one of us and mis-interpret it as referring to another.

    5. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by sakdoctor · · Score: 3, Funny

      Genghis Khan asked to be buried without markings. According to legend, the funeral escort killed anyone and anything across their path, to conceal where he was finally buried. After the tomb was completed, the slaves who built it were massacred, and then the soldiers who killed them were also killed.

      You may consider a similar approach to facebook privacy.

    6. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      ...is to avoid those career paths entirely.

      And welcome to the wonderful world of summer internship at the Cock Ring Taste Testers Laboratory here at Gaylord, MN!

    7. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by cyber0ne · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      The key problem here is that, in cases such as the given example, it's not dirty laundry. The social issue at hand isn't so much the retention of information, but the ability (or, in this case, inability) of people in society to properly parse and understand that information. A company would seriously be fooling itself if it thinks it preserved some kind of integrity by not hiring someone who occasionally unwinds with friends at a party. They already have employees who do that, they just ignore the fact that they don't actively know about it. The fact that they can't distinguish between the two is a problem.

      --
      http://publicvoidlife.blogspot.com
    8. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 5, Insightful

      This isn't about forgetting on the web, it's about managing your public image. Some people are slow to catch on that if it's on the internet, the world can see it. So don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      Wrong.

      This isn't about managing your public image, and it doesn't matter if you don't put your dirty laundry on the Internet. If she hadn't posted that picture, somebody else might very well have done that, and the consequences would have been the same.

      The problem isn't that this picture was posted. The problem is that the school board over-reacted to something that really had absolutely no bearing on her ability to teach.

      The problem is that we're seriously blurring the line between public and private... Between our professional time and our personal time... Between our professional occupations and our leisure occupations...

      We've got some kind of new Puritanism going around. You have to uphold the professionalism of your position 24/7. There is no room these days for being human.

      Obviously we don't want our high school teachers showing up to work drunk. We don't want them drinking on the job. But she's a human being, and entitled to do whatever the hell she wants to in her off time.

      But now she can't. Because somebody might snap a picture of her getting drunk. And somebody might post that on the Internet. And then she might get fired from some other job.

      --
      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    9. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by elrous0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The problem isn't that we need to forget, the problem is that we need to *forgive*. Before this "memory" we were able to live in a fantasy/delusional world where high school and college students were all saints and boy scouts. Now, for a younger generation, party pics are there to remind them that they weren't. I bet the very same people who denied this teacher her certificate did the exact same thing when they were young. But they want to pretend (to their colleagues, to their kids, maybe even to themselves) that they didn't. And what better way to do that than to take it out on some poor girl whose only sin was growing up in a time where there are more cameras and an internet around?

      We need a lot less sanctimony and a lot more "So he/she partied in college...but who didn't?"

      --
      SJW: Someone who has run out of real oppression, and has to fake it.
    10. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This post became way more funny when I realized a second later that condom tasters actually probably exist. Where the hell would you even sign up for a job like that?

    11. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Fuck. That. Shit.

      Seriously though, I say what I feel like saying, and if somebody has problems with it, I'll find somebody else to work for. If somebody refuses me a certification of some kind that I have otherwise earned because of some personal 'morality' they have, I'll sue the shit out of them. And if it doesn't work, I'll still be more satisfied for not having to live a lie in order to pander to any petty social dictators who aren't happy unless everybody conforms to their narrow-minded standards.

      --
      I support the Slashcott and will not be reading or commenting from 2/10/14 to 2/17/14. Beta is steaming pile of dog shit
    12. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by nacturation · · Score: 1

      This is pretty easy. The problem is making sure other people don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      This could be especially problematic as surveillance becomes more and more popular. That, and the increased capacity to crack security (either through botnets, or exploiting weaknesses in algorithms)

      ... or something a bit more mundane, like your friend's drunk buddy who has a cell phone camera.

      --
      Want to improve your Karma? Instead of "Post Anonymously", try the "Post Humously" option.
    13. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by 2obvious4u · · Score: 1

      So the problem isn't that we now have a permanent record of what we do, the problem is the "Puritanism" going around. We don't need to build forgetting into the internet, we need to evolve into a more tolerant species. You know the stuff people remember isn't the good job you did on your TPS report, the stuff that already gets remembered is the time you got drunk and the office party and put the lamp shade on your head. There may not be pictures, but everyone at the office already remembers that long after you're gone.

    14. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      You know the stuff people remember isn't the good job you did on your TPS report, the stuff that already gets remembered is the time you got drunk and the office party and put the lamp shade on your head. There may not be pictures, but everyone at the office already remembers that long after you're gone.

      Yup. And if you'd done that, you wouldn't have gotten a teaching certificate from these folks. Not because there was a picture on the Internet that wasn't forgotten, but because you'd actually gotten drunk at the office party and put a lamp shade on your head.

      --
      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    15. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      If only the problem was confined to a school board. FTFA:

      After discovering the page, her supervisor at the high school told her the photo was "unprofessional," and the dean of Millersville University School of Education, where Snyder was enrolled, said she was promoting drinking in virtual view of her under-age students. As a result, days before Snyder's scheduled graduation, the university denied her a teaching degree.

      So the teacher in question is completely screwed. No degree, no job.

      Perhaps the dean would like to explain why she denied a degree to a person who had done nothing illegal or even inappropriate? If you'd like to ask her yourself, from http://www.millersville.edu/education/contact.php Dr. Jane Bray
      Dean
      Phone: (717)872-3379
      Fax: (717)872-3856
      Jane.Bray@millersville.edu

    16. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      Or things could go the other way entirely and the line could become so blurred that people simply stop caring because *everyone* has embarrassing photos of them out there somewhere.

    17. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Bluey · · Score: 5, Informative

      The problem isn't that this picture was posted. The problem is that the school board over-reacted to something that really had absolutely no bearing on her ability to teach.

      Also wrong.

      While I agree about the general point your making, this woman should not be your torchbearer for this cause. The "Drunken Pirate" picture was just one example of many issues this student-teacher had, and not even the most egregious. Bad classroom management (yelling "shut up!" at the students), unprofessional conduct (telling them about an encounter with her ex-husband while on a date with her boyfriend), blurring personal-professional boundaries (telling her kids about her MySpace account), poor grammar skills (while teaching an English class!), inability or unwillingness to prepare for the lessons, making up answers to students' questions, etc.

      The picture wasn't even the main thing the school took issue with. Nor was its "Drunken Pirate" caption. Along with the picture, she posted a public note talking about problems she had with her supervising teacher as the real reason she wouldn't apply at the school after completing her student teaching. Reading the judge's ruling (or even just the findings of fact) on this case puts it in a whole new light.

    18. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      But you have a different idea of what is public and what is private.
      What you do at a party really is public behavior. You are out with people aka in public.
      What you do in your own home "not in front of a bunch of guests" is private.
      I did see the picture "pay wall" but I do agree that they may have over reacted in the case specified.
      This is our new reality. Everyone is basically being treated like they are famous. Just think about every time you hear about actor losing his cool in public, getting drunk, or just acting like a jerk. Welcome to their world because it is our world now.
        Hey I don't drink, smoke, cheat on my wife, and try not to use foul language. Even then I have to work hard at keeping my private life separate from my professional one. I know that somebody will find my Facebook page and see that I am active in my church. Believe it or not that can be a negative for some people. I ride classic motorcycles. Some people look down on that. It will happen but that is just part of the new world.
      What worries me the most is that the younger people do not seem to understand this. Back in the dark ages when I was a teen no body had digital cameras or digital video cameras.
      A bunch of nice teenage girls having a sleep over today may record a pillow fight and put it up on YouTube. Next thing you know two million guys are drooling over it.
      I kid pretends that he is drunk on video goofing off and next thing you know family services is at the door.
      The thing is that you can not make people not care about these things.
      You can rant and vent and jump up and down but you can not change how people will view these actions.
      What everybody really needs to understand is when ever you post ANY photo or video on the web you are making those PUBLIC.
      It is probably wise and good manners to NOT post pictures of other people without their permission. You may never know what can bite someone in the butt.
      Oh and before I get flamed to death. Yes it would be nice if other people wouldn't judge people things as superficial as pictures or how they look. That is a problem that has been around for a lot longer then the internet. What I am suggesting is more just understanding the new reality and having good the good manners to not throw other people under the bus.

       

      --
      See my blog http://ilovecookes.blogspot.com/ for light hearted technical information.
    19. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Etrigan_696 · · Score: 1

      Even more worrying is the possibility of people deliberately destroying another's reputation. There's no shortage of people in this world with a grudge against someone else. It's quite easy to imagine an example where someone fails to get a job because of something someone has posted about them. It needn't even be true; a prospective employer isn't going to take time to give you the benefit of the doubt when there's plenty of other candidates.

      This is 4chan^H^H^H^HEbaum's World's bread and butter my friend. Watch any Good Morning America lately?

    20. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Etrigan_696 · · Score: 1

      A company would seriously be fooling itself if it thinks it preserved some kind of integrity by not hiring someone who occasionally unwinds with friends at a party. They already have employees who do that, they just ignore the fact that they don't actively know about it. The fact that they can't distinguish between the two is a problem.

      Consider a company that does top secret contracts for the government. If you can't keep your private life private, why should they trust you with their top secret data? One set of loose lips could possibly cost them BILLIONS. So, anything that even looks a little fishy, they want to (and for arguably good reasons) drop it like it's hot.

    21. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      Well the thing is to remember what is public is really public. What you do at a party never really was private. Now a days you just have more eyes on your public life than before. Unless you where famous then it is the same.

      What I worry about is that we are loosing the cultural filter of time. The golden rule is that 90% of everything is crap. Or these days about 99% of everything is crap.
      The problem is that really bad books went out of print, really bad movies where never shown again, really bad plays where never performed again, really bad TV shows didn't make it into syndication.
      Think about the classic TV shows of the 50s and then figure that only about 4 or 5 are still being shown. The rest have all just faded away.
      But now with hundreds of channels to fill on cable, Internet video, and DVD sales the crap will stay around forever!
      The fact that you can still get Ice Pirates is proof of that. Thank goodness that the 1960s Lost Horizons seems to have been lost to filter of time.

      --
      See my blog http://ilovecookes.blogspot.com/ for light hearted technical information.
    22. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by cyber0ne · · Score: 1

      Define "private." There's nothing private about the fact that a person has friends and socializes with those friends. Why should such information be treated as some kind of top-secret embarrassment that must be hidden at all times?

      If I were hiring for such a company, I'd be a little suspicious of a candidate who never tells anything to anyone. (Consider how conspicuous and ineffective an "intelligence agent" Colonel Flagg was in the M*A*S*H serious.) They probably favor the candidate who can tell the difference between "something which should be kept secret" and "something which doesn't matter and can be public knowledge." (And, God willing, "something which should be public knowledge, but that's another case entirely.)

      --
      http://publicvoidlife.blogspot.com
    23. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by demonlapin · · Score: 1

      What you do at a party never really was private.

      True, but in the past there wasn't a lot of evidence one way or another.

    24. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by digitalhermit · · Score: 1

      Not taking any side of the issue because I don't agree with either side, but wanted to add:

      I personally don't see much distinction between getting drunk and getting high. Many others feel completely differently, but to me both seem to achieve the same result. Would we have the same reaction if the teacher had been caught getting high or doing a line of coke or smoking crack? How about promiscuous sex? Cursing? Spitting on the sidewalk?

      My friend has a picture of him looking much like a stereotypical urban gangster: Hands in a (faux) gang sign, firearms, cash, jewelry.. the whole deal. The backstory is that it was specifically for a role in a short film put on by his film student buddies. It's on his Facebook and MySpace and if was seen out of context he'd probably be passed over in a hiring decision.

      BTW, I actually can't drink alcohol as I get ill after a few sips. Even a single of American beer gives me a headache, though I understand that's not unusual in itself. And I have bad breathing problems around smoke, strong perfumes, and most scented cleaners.

    25. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Etrigan_696 · · Score: 1

      As far as government contractors are concerned EVERYTHING you do EVER is private. Never worked at one of these places, have you? These people are paranoid - constantly. The policy is: Keep your mouth shut, your nose clean, and the curtains drawn, no video, no pictures and never ever write anything down.
      In other words, don't do shit that would ever cast a shadow of doubt on you, EVER. They are betting literally Billions of dollars on you, along with the livelihood of all your cow-orkers, and are not about to take any chances of you screwing it up while drunk at a party, dancing with a lampshade on your head.
      Wanna drink? Get loaded at your own home all you want, just don't be late for work, and make sure you can pass a piss test in the morning.

      There are plenty of people out there like this, and if you don't fit the bill, someone else will. As long as you're not after that job, it won't matter to you, though.

    26. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      The past is the past. There is now and that is the world you are living in. We all now live in a small town of several million people.
      And it is indexed.
      As the Kosh said, "The avalanche is upon us. It is too late for the pebbles to vote."

      --
      See my blog http://ilovecookes.blogspot.com/ for light hearted technical information.
    27. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      I personally don't see much distinction between getting drunk and getting high.

      Nor do I. Sure, there are some specific substances that are downright nasty... But it isn't like alcohol is without harmful effects. To be completely honest, there's no good, rational reason why alcohol and tobacco are legal and marijuana isn't.

      Would we have the same reaction if the teacher had been caught getting high or doing a line of coke or smoking crack?

      That would at least be illegal. Getting drunk isn't.

      How about promiscuous sex? Cursing? Spitting on the sidewalk?

      I'm honestly of the opinion that none of this should matter much when talking about somebody's professional capacities.

      I really don't care if somebody likes to get drunk, or sleeps around, or is a complete asshole to their friends and family - as long as they can get the job done, that's all I care about.

      If they can't get the job done - maybe because they're showing up drunk, or all their conquests are calling all day long - then it's an issue.

      My friend has a picture of him looking much like a stereotypical urban gangster: Hands in a (faux) gang sign, firearms, cash, jewelry.. the whole deal. The backstory is that it was specifically for a role in a short film put on by his film student buddies. It's on his Facebook and MySpace and if was seen out of context he'd probably be passed over in a hiring decision.

      Yup. But it's even worse than that.

      Anyone snap any pictures of him during rehearsal? Anyone got any clips of the film? They could post those as well, it doesn't have to be your friend doing the posting. And then somebody else might find it amusing, and turn it into a demotivational poster on some forum somewhere.

      single of American beer gives me a headache, though I understand that's not unusual in itself. And I have bad breathing problems around smoke, strong perfumes, and most scented cleaners.

      My wife is hypersensitive to virtually everything.

      She can't finish a beer without getting sick. She's usually nicely tipsy after only about half of it.

      She can't drink coffee either, that much caffeine gives her horrible heart palpitations. She's also got to be careful with chocolate and tea and soft drinks.

      Even a single of American beer gives me a headache

      I've recently discovered that I can't drink red wine anymore. Just one glass and I'll have a mind-shattering migraine the next day. Not pleasant.

      I have bad breathing problems around smoke, strong perfumes, and most scented cleaners.

      Strong scents bother me as well. No breathing problems, but I'll get a headache pretty quick. Can't shop around places like Bath & Body Works.

      --
      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    28. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by russotto · · Score: 1

      This is pretty easy. The problem is making sure other people don't put your dirty laundry on the internet.

      And having people interpret your (clean, if tacky) Hawaiian shirt as dirty laundry.

    29. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by houghi · · Score: 1

      So he/she partied in college...but who didn't?

      The people controling Big Brother. Not only did they never party, they were never invited, because they were assholes and they hold a gruundge against everybody who thinks different.

      --
      Don't fight for your country, if your country does not fight for you.
    30. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by slasho81 · · Score: 1

      The problem isn't that we need to forget, the problem is that we need to *forgive*.

      People don't forgive because they become less sanctimonious or morally superior. They forgive as the memory of the offending event is slowly eroded with time and overwrited by new memories.

      You can't forgive if you can't forget. You just can't. That's human nature and why "time heals all wounds", or at least healed in the past when forgetting was an option.

    31. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      After you've thrown that in, also include well-meaning and/or drunk friends, people who were friends and now have a grudge, accidental releases of information, deliberate releases of information that accidentally include you, storage of legit information on a public server, the sale on eBay of a hard drive containing compromising information, etc. These have all happened to someone at some point. If society is to function in an information-rich world, it has to change its idea of what is acceptable. Society cannot function sanely using stone-age standards in an information-age world.

    32. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The job system is broken. That needs to be fixed first. Internet forgetting is a secondary problem. People should have their social priorities in order.

    33. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by FlyMysticalDJ · · Score: 1

      In other words, don't do shit that would ever cast a shadow of doubt on you, EVER. They are betting literally Billions of dollars on you, along with the livelihood of all your cow-orkers, and are not about to take any chances of you screwing it up while drunk at a party, dancing with a lampshade on your head. Wanna drink? Get loaded at your own home all you want, just don't be late for work, and make sure you can pass a piss test in the morning.

      There are plenty of people out there like this, and if you don't fit the bill, someone else will. As long as you're not after that job, it won't matter to you, though.

      the cyberscholar Viktor Mayer-Schönberger cites the case of Stacy Snyder — who was denied a teaching certificate on the basis of a single photo on MySpace

      Wow, the requirements for getting a teaching certificate sure have been getting strenuous...

    34. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Tejin · · Score: 3, Funny

      Sounds like you could find the tomb of Genghis Khan by following the bloody trail cut by the funeral procession and looking near the pile of slave bones.

      --
      The seekers do no need truth, the seekers do find truth and the finding do be painful
    35. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by acheron12 · · Score: 1

      Alternatively, aim for a society where your future employers have as much dirty laundry on the internet as you do. This gets easier with constant surveillance.

      Let those without sin throw the first stone, etc...

      --
      there is no god but truth, and reality is its prophet
    36. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Indeed. I found yours and put it on the internet. Here it is.

    37. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But what about those of us who ARE responsible? Are we now going to say "Oh, it sure is nice that you were a good person your ENTIRE life, but we're going to go ahead and go with this guy over here who was an asshole until he decided to 'reinvent' himself as a non-douchebag last Thursday".

      Is there truly to be no more benefit to ALWAYS doing the right thing?

    38. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by zehaeva · · Score: 1

      Whoa! Wait a second, Ice Pirates was a hilarious and campy film and very worth every inch of celluloid.

      I mean where else would you ever see a ship get space herpes?

      ~z

    39. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      How about they judge you both on your work skills and experience, and not whether or not you went to parties in college? Even if you accepted "he/she went to parties in HS/college" as a consideration, it would be a wash anyway. Do you look at it as "He didn't go to parties, therefore he's more serious and responsible" or "He didn't go to parties, which means he's anti-social and probably wouldn't be a good team player with other employees."? You can look at it either way.

      --
      SJW: Someone who has run out of real oppression, and has to fake it.
    40. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by OldSoldier · · Score: 1

      I believe in the Singularity but as the internet and computers work to make us more intelligent and productive allowing more technology to make us even more intelligent and productive there has to come a point of some push back. The OP's article is one such example of push back. As more of my stuff gets out on the internet that I need to defend against or make excuses or apologies for then I need to take some time away from improving society and "waste time" defending myself.

      The singularity will (probably) come, but examples like this show that the forecast unchecked growth does indeed have some checking mechanism.

    41. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt?

    42. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

      There are condom testers too!

      Giggity giggity goo!

      --
      "When information is power, privacy is freedom" - Jah-Wren Ryel
    43. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by AgentSmith · · Score: 1

      Actually, knowing a wee bit about the PA System of Higher Education. Stacy Synder had probably signed a Code of Conduct
      agreement with Millersville University
      http://www.millersville.edu/services/judicialaffairs/files/StudentCodeofConduct20102011.pdf

      There are passages that state any offense that occurs either on or off campus can be
      cause for punishment.

      This is mere speculation, but I'm betting they saw her drunken pirate picture as "Public Drunkenness"
      and punished her by suspending her for the semester. With no ability to complete her student teaching
      should couldn't get her degree. Either that or she may have been expelled. Considering the rulings
      are determined somewhat arbitrarily it still appears to be heavy handed. Yet again another lesson
      in reading and understanding what you sign.

       

    44. Re:Learning Without a Negative Response? by Rob_RepDef · · Score: 1

      Indeed, this is a big problem for all Internet users. If a family member or friend mentions you on Facebook, or a people-search website shares your home address, then you're online. In this case, even if you don't use the Internet at all, you still have an Internet reputation.

      The idea of an Internet ecosystem in which all of our actions influence others, and are themselves influenced, means that nothing online is insignificant.

      Rob Frappier
      Community Manager
      ReputationDefender

  5. Traditional societies also forgot technology by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What needs to change is the social practice of judging ppl too harshely, not the storage value of the internet.

    1. Re:Traditional societies also forgot technology by Yaa+101 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      But because that won't ever change and with more people getting born, they will use their elbows more and more to be able create their own space on this globe.
      So the opposite will happen and people will judge each other more harsh.

      So we better make sure that there won't be instruments to enable that behaviour instead of trusting the judgement of mankind.

    2. Re:Traditional societies also forgot technology by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the contrary, after a generation change the technical capabilities will *force* the moral attitudes to change.
      Currently there is a gap - where the 'old guard' grew without such permanent record about their behavior and is judging others.
      However, after thirty years or so, if a school principal wants to discipline a teacher for, say, drinking alcohol on her free time, then it will be quite easily overturned by bringing to public attention the college party pictures of the principal and other board members.

    3. Re:Traditional societies also forgot technology by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I see why you posted AC; the guy who came up with the phrase "judge not, lest you be judged yourself" got nailed to a plank after they beat the shit out of him.

  6. On the other hand.... by wjousts · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Maybe this kind of thing will cause a shift in people's opinions. Perhaps when people realize that everybody has made bad decisions in their life, everybody's got too drunk and done something stupid and nobody is perfect, the world will be a better place for it.

    1. Re:On the other hand.... by saihung · · Score: 5, Insightful

      No. What's going to happen is the self-righteous goody-goody people in our society who never drink, never screw, never do anything wrong at all are going to get even worse about judging those of us who know how to have a good time. And the rest of us are going to stay silent and pretend to agree, because we're petrified of being judged ourselves by puritanical pricks who seem to be in charge of everything.

    2. Re:On the other hand.... by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I doubt it -- people should already be aware that everyone makes bad choices and that nobody is perfect. The problem is that, at least in America, people are becoming less and less tolerant of "bad choices." When I was a freshman in college, we were warned not to allow pictures of us at parties to find their way onto the Internet, because an employer might see those pictures and not hire us. It is not as if employers are unaware that people go to parties when they are in college, nor is it the case that employers are unaware of what happens at college parties...

      --
      Palm trees and 8
    3. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      nor is it the case that employers are unaware of what happens at college parties

      What happends at college parties? Can you have a link with some examples?

    4. Re:On the other hand.... by ThePangolino · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The problem is that reactions are often disproportionate on both directions. A distant friend of mine was afraid of how much I knew about him simply by typing her name on a search engine thinking I had been following her for years. It took me a while to explain and make her understand all this information was freely available on the internet. See this example of extensive research published in a French magazine.

      The truth is random people do not expect anyone they don't know well to know anything about them. This becomes different when you start becoming "famous". That gives a kind of moral justification for your party pics being made public.

      As the parent says, everybody has made bad decisions in their life. Everybody seems also not recognize them by fear of the reactions. I think the problem is much more about those reactions than anything else.

      --
      My ignorance is just as good as your knowledge.
    5. Re:On the other hand.... by wjousts · · Score: 4, Interesting

      It is not as if employers are unaware that people go to parties when they are in college, nor is it the case that employers are unaware of what happens at college parties...

      But that's kinda my point. Initially people are going to get screwed by it, but eventually employers will realize that they don't have a single candidate that doesn't have something embarrassing about them online and they will have to learn to accept it. No candidate is completely clean, so they'll have to stop being so judgmental.

    6. Re:On the other hand.... by cowscows · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Not on its own, we'll have to wait until some more of the old people retire/die. For high school/college age kids right now, having pictures from a party on the internet generally isn't a big deal. Even if there isn't a really stupid one of you, there's probably at least a few photos of your friends being dumb that you've seen, laughed at, and gotten over.

      But that's a very unfamiliar phenomenon for people who grew up without the internet, and some people honestly just don't like things that are new to them, and don't much feel like changing their mind. Fortunately, those people get older and eventually no longer hold positions of authority, and progress slowly moves forward. We see this gradual change happening at almost every level of society, from serious things like tolerance of homosexuality, to more petty things, like dress codes at work. It's not a perfect system, but it's pretty hard to stop.

      --

      One time I threw a brick at a duck.

    7. Re:On the other hand.... by wjousts · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You're one of those perverts aren't you?

    8. Re:On the other hand.... by dargaud · · Score: 2, Interesting

      ...so, make it easy to sue the puritanical pricks who refused employment because they saw one pic of you getting drunk on facebook. the problem should correct itself over time.

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    9. Re:On the other hand.... by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 1

      Except that not everyone goes to parties while they are in college; I knew several such people when I was an undergrad. The problem is that employers are giving preference to those people, and the existence of those people is not going to change any time soon. It does not help that the media conditions us to think that "he doesn't drink" is equivalent to "he is an upstanding citizen."

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    10. Re:On the other hand.... by quickgold192 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Who says that people who never drink, never screw, and never do anything wrong don't know how to have a good time, you self-righteous, judgmental prick?

    11. Re:On the other hand.... by cyber0ne · · Score: 2, Funny

      the self-righteous goody-goody people in our society who never drink, never screw, never do anything wrong at all

      Man, if only that were the case. Then they would be nothing more than an evolutionary anomaly that would take exactly one generation to correct.

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    12. Re:On the other hand.... by alexhs · · Score: 2, Informative

      [...] the self-righteous goody-goody people in our society who pretend to never drink, never screw, never do anything wrong at all [...]

      You had an empty set. Corrected for you.

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    13. Re:On the other hand.... by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      Maybe this kind of thing will cause a shift in people's opinions. Perhaps when people realize that everybody has made bad decisions in their life, everybody's got too drunk and done something stupid and nobody is perfect, the world will be a better place for it.

      We're already seeing a shift, but in the wrong direction. People are becoming less accepting of flaws, not more.

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    14. Re:On the other hand.... by piffey · · Score: 1

      It would be nice to think that an online catalog of everyone's lives would breed tolerance, but the chances of that are too slim. I'd have to go with the side that says the whole archive can only lead to people being hung up to dry for the smallest of offenses. Anyone with anything to lose and someone who wants to gain that from them will only find the archive as the starting point for any sort of personal attack.

    15. Re:On the other hand.... by Radtoo · · Score: 1

      Not on the internet, we're not.

    16. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not choosing to drink alcohol doesn't have anything to do with being self-righteous, and isn't fair to lump in with the other categories. Would you drink, or take the risk of drinking, if the parents who raised you ruined their lives and your childhood by over-indulging? It's only those who try to impose their will on others that are the self-righteous ones.

    17. Re:On the other hand.... by TerranFury · · Score: 1

      Likewise, the average penis is just over two feet long.

    18. Re:On the other hand.... by hedwards · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I wish I had mod points available, that's probably the most insightful thing said in this whole thread. I think it's always interesting how screwing up ones body with excesses in drink and partying is somehow more acceptable than enjoying things that aren't known to be damaging to the body.

      I'd chock it up to the fact that drugs are not something which people with a healthy, fulfilling life do. I'm sure some libertarian is going to argue that it is essential liberty, but it's really not. People wouldn't take the risk of drugs screwing up their lives if they were living a life that they really valued. Papering over that with drugs really isn't something that's going to change that.

    19. Re:On the other hand.... by hedwards · · Score: 1

      Not necessarily. I don't have anything like that online. Mainly because I've practiced discretion. I've been to my share of parties in college and spent an entire week stoned out of my mind, but I had the judgment to do it where photos weren't a realistic possibility. Consequently despite my numerous indiscretions, none of them is available online because there is no authoritative source of information. Even a he said she said would be beyond unlikely.

    20. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I recall correctly late night desperate studying for Calculus III with an uncanny mix of Ramen and RedBull.

      Not a single everyone-naked-party while in University :( I should have gone for a smaller university and not for engineering. :(

    21. Re:On the other hand.... by FakeStreet123 · · Score: 1

      Yes, this system is called evolution. We ain't nothing but mammals.

    22. Re:On the other hand.... by l0b0 · · Score: 1

      Then there's the final candidate, who's been an axe-murdering hermit since '93.

    23. Re:On the other hand.... by bws111 · · Score: 1

      I don't think there are many employers whose primary requirement is 'no embarrassing photos or comments online'. However, in a job market like we are in now (way more applicants than jobs), every little differentiator helps. An employer that faces multiple equally-qualified (education, experience, etc) applicants for one job opening must use SOME criteria for choosing one. Employers have always asked for things like character references to help them make the decisions, doing an online search is just one more tool they have.

    24. Re:On the other hand.... by PacketShaper · · Score: 1

      You must be new here...(the human race, I mean)

    25. Re:On the other hand.... by wjousts · · Score: 1

      Sure, but increasingly people will realize that those people are the oddities.

    26. Re:On the other hand.... by wjousts · · Score: 1

      Except you just posted it here Mr. Edwards. How confident are you about your anonymity here?

    27. Re:On the other hand.... by bws111 · · Score: 1

      Ah, the old 'it's an old people' problem. Well, let's roll the clock back 40 years or so, to a time when these 'old people' were in high-school and college, and see what big changes in the world THEIR generation was going to produce (because all these problems were caused by 'old people'):

      No more war (make love not war) - oops
      No more corporations (down with the establishment) - oops
      No more 'illegal' drugs - oops
      No more monogamous relationships/marriage (free love) - oops
      No more religion - oops

      So what happened? Well, they grew up and matured, and realized that the world is not quite so simple as it was in their imaginations.

      Now, let's fast-forward 40 years, to a time when YOU are in charge of hiring someone. You have one job opening, and a couple dozen qualified applicants. Do you think you can honestly say that you will not use 'character' to help narrow the choices, and that you will not whatever tools you have available to help determine what the character of an applicant is?

    28. Re:On the other hand.... by genrader · · Score: 1

      No. I should able to refuse anyone for employment for any damn reason I want.

    29. Re:On the other hand.... by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 1

      No. What's going to happen is the self-righteous goody-goody people in our society who think that they never drink, never screw, never do anything wrong...

      FTFY. Everyone has skeletons mate, it's just a matter of convincing them you're trustworthy enough for them to tell you. Now excuse me while I go conspire with Beelzebub to corrupt some innocents.

    30. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh there are, completely clean people out there. They are very very boring, excruciatingly boring even. That is why you don't ever see them, even light avoids them.

    31. Re:On the other hand.... by ovu · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There are so many reasons to do any particular action in life. Several people I know who use drugs do so to achieve altered mental states - call it self-exploration. So where do you draw the line? Should I look down my nose at you papering over your life because you drink coffee? Does intent matter?

      People should stick to determining what is most healthy and fulfilling for their own lives & let others do the same.

    32. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You and I both know that the legal system is basically worthless. So unless you're stupid rich with a ton of that money being purely disposable income, trying to solve things through the courts will only give the puritanicals precident cases to work with.

      Since y'know... they seem to all be in power, they're going to be able to buy their verdict a lot better than you can.

    33. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow.

      So you are pretty much the people that fired this lady, aren't you?

      People who have a fulfilling life or a life worth living don't do drugs? I am a programmer, I have a good relationship with my parents, and a pair of lifelong friends that I live with.

      Seriously, fuck you.

    34. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How dare you attempt to define what having a good time means.

    35. Re:On the other hand.... by Dr.+Hellno · · Score: 1

      I know I can't speak for everyone, but for me, "he doesn't drink at all" suggests alcoholic more than upstanding citizen

    36. Re:On the other hand.... by nhaehnle · · Score: 1

      It does not help that the media conditions us to think that "he doesn't drink" is equivalent to "he is an upstanding citizen."

      Just tell them that Hitler was a teetotaler. I'm a teetotaler, too, by the way. Oh my God, I'm like Hitler! :P

    37. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Employers are looking for whatever they can use to discharge and/or deny hiring as many people as the courts will allow. When every person who is not willing to work for less than home-owner plaques-on-the-wall wages have become unemployed, then their work will be complete.

    38. Re:On the other hand.... by LihTox · · Score: 1

      People will still be judged on character, but what constitutes "good character" has *certainly* changed since the 60's: divorce, premarital sex, and homosexuality (to name a few) would have been presented as evidence of bad character in the past, but few companies would dare do so today (personal feelings are more varied, of course).

      And this conversation is about past indiscretions, not present ones. Think about how drug use is viewed in American culture today: many politicians have admitted to having tried marijuana or other drugs in the past, which doesn't seem to ruin their careers anymore, because we've reached a point in history where a large proportion of the electorate is guilty of the same thing. *Current* drug use would be a different story, of course.

      I think a similar thing will happen in the future with regard to online indiscretions. At some point in the future, we are going to have a presidential campaign where one or both candidates' teenage exploits (party photos, youthful blog posts, tweets, what have you) are going to be available for the general public to peruse, and there will be a transitional period where the older part of the electorate will see these as signs of a bad character. But eventually, the electorate will reach a point where the vast majority of the electorate are in the same boat, and while such evidence will be seen as embarrassing, it won't be seen as evidence of bad character, because that would require the voters to tar themselves with the same brush.

    39. Re:On the other hand.... by cffrost · · Score: 1

      [...] how much I knew about him simply by typing her name on a search engine [...]

      You found out (s)he had a sex-change operation?

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    40. Re:On the other hand.... by vertinox · · Score: 1

      No. What's going to happen is the self-righteous goody-goody people in our society who never drink, never screw, never do anything wrong at all are going to get even worse about judging those of us who know how to have a good time.

      Yeah... Those are the people that always get caught with a male hooker.

      Seriously, why do the uptight people usually have more to hide than the people they berate?

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    41. Re:On the other hand.... by cowscows · · Score: 1

      Thanks, that is pretty close to the response that I would've made.

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    42. Re:On the other hand.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absolutely. That Michael Phelps chap for instance - nothing to live for, ruining his health with drugs.

      Oh, wait, that's right. Actually he's an incredible athlete with a huge collection of Olympic medals. He has a healthy, fulfilling life and he takes drugs. As did at least the last three Presidents of the United States.

      You are full of shit, my friend, and your attitude makes the world a worse place for the rest of us.

    43. Re:On the other hand.... by phantomlord · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I've watched at least a half dozen relatives die of various addictions and watched others throw their lives away at a minimum. Addictions tend to run in families, my grandpa was a horrible alcoholic and absentee father that let his kids starve, get raped by his friends, etc. His wife up and left him and the seven kids (the oldest was about 11) without ever being heard from again. All of his kids have problems, ranging from the master carpenter that can't hold a job (he gets plastered, sleeps for two hours, gets plastered, rinse and repeat), to one that killed herself, to one that was a teacher and kidnapped his student trying to take her to Mexico, and on and on. My mom is probably the most stable of them, after having beat her alcoholism, a complete mental breakdown and suicidal phase. And that's just one part of my family, my dad's family is just as screwed up in different ways and it's amplified as you go further into the extended family.

      Growing up with what I saw, I never wanted to be like them. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs (prescriptions, sure, but I tend to even refrain from tylenol and ibuprofen). I was 27 when I lost my virginity (partially through choice, I didn't want to have kids before I was ready, and partly because I'm like most slashdotters and am socially intimidated by women anyway. I also have an aunt that was a grandma at 32). I've even taken care of a severely disabled parent on my own since I was 21. I'm the first to admit that I have some rather deep psychological problems of my own, but I don't begrudge anyone that does want to drink or whatever. However, I will add that, despite what proponents say about it being victimless, pot abuse DOES affect the kids just like alcohol abuse does - not just in my own family, but watching a lot of family friends that use and how they treat their kids.

      I tend to not judge people... and I've had a number of friends and acquaintances say that I'm the "coolest straight arrow they know." However, there is a contingent out there that hates people like me for some reason, most likely because by leaving the exceptions to the rule alone, they seem some type of dichotomy themselves that they feel makes them look bad. That doesn't just go for the drinking, I've had people tell me how wonderful they think it is that I take care of my dad and then, when I turn my back, they start trash talking me for making the sacrifices I have because they couldn't do it themselves; By tearing me down, they don't have to feel so bad about being more self-centered themselves. While they're the first to complain about feeling judged, they also tend to be the first TO judge.

      Am I a saint? Absolutely not... in fact, I don't have too much good to say about myself. I suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder, whereby I tend to pre-reject myself so others don't get the chance to do it for me. You can't do that unless you detest yourself at a pretty deep level. Still, I don't judge others and if I do, I still find ways that I'm somehow worse than them.

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    44. Re:On the other hand.... by dargaud · · Score: 1

      No. I should able to refuse anyone for employment for any damn reason I want.

      Like for being black, or a moslem, or pregnant...? I think the law already takes care of that, so why not add 'for having done perfectly legal things in the past' ?

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  7. A boon for technical searches by petes_PoV · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Using Google's advanced search to filter out old crap is a major advantage when searching for technical solutions. It means you only get recent fixes / hacks / workarounds / patches. Not all the old stuff that addressed problems with beta versions from 2005. This is one area where Google's search algorithm falls down - by ranking pages with more links, they promote old stuff over new stuff. While that is useful sometimes, I wish there was the option for a decay (or timeout) function into their page-rank algorithms to reward contemporary information.

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    1. Re:A boon for technical searches by Corgha · · Score: 1

      This is one area where Google's search algorithm falls down [...] I wish there was the option for a decay (or timeout) function into their page-rank algorithms to reward contemporary information.

      Look to the left of the search results. See the "Search Options" thing? Open that and you can restrict results by date range (and a number of other things).

      I never noticed those options until someone pointed them out to me recently. I guess if you've been using something simple for a decade, at some point you stop looking for new things about it. But now I'm amazed all over again. For example, do a timeline search on Google for "New Orleans" and see the peaks around the Civil War and War of 1812, then click and read historical articles from those periods in the NYT.

      Tying this back to the original article, I personally think it's awesome that the Internet appears to "remember" stuff from before it was built. Getting articles from 1861 in your search results is just trippy, so hats off to Google and the Times.

  8. Mother nature knows best. by v(*_*)vvvv · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If the internet remembered everything to begin with, the invention of deletion would be the revolution.
    What use does remembering have if you can't distinguish what is important?

    Nature is fully capable of remembering, yet it has built us to forget.

    Mother nature knows best. Let go of what doesn't matter. Forgive and forget. We need to trust in the process (or whatever) that created us. Wanting to retain everything is simply being greedy, and no good will come of it.

    1. Re:Mother nature knows best. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      what doesn't matter in the present may matter to the future.

    2. Re:Mother nature knows best. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What?

      Mother Nature invented us, therefore invented everything we do. If we want to remember everything forever then that is just nature running its course.

      There is no such thing as "Mother Nature knows best"... Best for who or what? The physical world just does what it does, it doesn't care what happens to anything or anyone.

    3. Re:Mother nature knows best. by oh_my_080980980 · · Score: 1

      The point is not to forget, which is impossible because other people can remember.

      The real issue is to forgive. Or put another way, USE YOUR FUCKING BRAIN! Being able to react appropriately. The school over-reacted. Unless the school has a Myspace/Facebook policy, a policy that governs what teachers do outside of school, then the school over-reacted. If they are really afraid of under-age drinking then should monitor EVERYTHING children are exposed to. Why not a lawsuit against the NFL and networks for airing beer commercials during football games??? Seriously, children watch those....

    4. Re:Mother nature knows best. by SharpFang · · Score: 2, Informative

      Distinguishing between what is important and what is not can be achieved also by attaching weight metadata to any information. That weight can be correlated with the age of the information too.

      Nature has no Moore's Law built into it.
      Storage capacity is following in close steps behind volume of created information.

      Mother Nature has limited resources. Human genome can be gzipped to under one gigabyte. Human brain uses compression so lossy it allows for recognition, but not of anywhere near to precise duplication of memories. Electronic memory CAN remember everything, simply because there's enough of it and it's cheap enough.

      And forgiving based on forgetting is as careless and dangerous as is classifying information as less important by deleting it.

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    5. Re:Mother nature knows best. by Abstrackt · · Score: 1

      what doesn't matter in the present may matter to the future.

      I've heard similar arguments for ripping media and shortening copyright but they were never so elegantly simple.

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    6. Re:Mother nature knows best. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We need to trust in the process (or whatever) that created us.

      Well...that's Hume's age old is-ought problem.

      I, for one, prefer to be a progressist instead of believing that "nature knows best".

    7. Re:Mother nature knows best. by HeckRuler · · Score: 1
      Mother nature wants me to bash your head open with a rock, take your women as my own, and beat my chest triumphantly. I try to ignore it most of the time. I think you're forgetting that mother nature is a cold-hearted bitch that wants us to live just long enough to screw and feed some kids to the age they can screw.

      Nature is fully capable of remembering, yet it has built us to forget.

      That's not a feature, it's a bug.

      What use does remembering have if you can't distinguish what is important?

      How does forgetting help us distinguish what is important? Unless you want to make judgments based on ignorance, I'd say it hurts the process. So remembering important details about how that guy over there hit you with a rock will help you avoid a similar outcome. There IS the added bit of info that time has passed, and you can take that however you want.

  9. Just don't share anything by h7 · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Do what I do. I exist and consume services. I don't put my name against anything online. Even if you found me, you wouldn't know anything about me. It's bound to pay off once every second person has crap coming up when they are googled. I automatically eliminate at least half the competition this way.

    1. Re:Just don't share anything by Eivind+Eklund · · Score: 1

      I got my present job from being visible on the Internet, and none of the employers I've had so far would care about whatever I put on the net. So from my point of view, you're eliminating yourself from the competition.

      I assume this means we work in different fields (or different subfields).

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  10. not enough recording by FuckingNickName · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The problem is that not everyone has been recorded on the Internet doing something which might meet the disapproval of others, even though everyone has done such a thing. Once no-one is able to cast the first stone, everyone's equal again.

    The winners are only those who aren't caught - usually by chance rather than design - and those who have the influence to erase history.

    Perhaps one day a student union of a first tier college will be enlightened and recommend that all its members take one photo of themselves naked cuddling a blow-up doll and holding a bottle of vodka. If this practice spreads like the spawn of Satan that was Facebook, suddenly employers will find that all their candidates have the naked-sheep-vodka pose. Demand > supply of Chrisian virgin angels. Attitude readjusted.

    1. Re:not enough recording by h7 · · Score: 0

      The problem is that not everyone has been recorded on the Internet doing something which might meet the disapproval of others, even though everyone has done such a thing. Once no-one is able to cast the first stone, everyone's equal again.

      The winners are only those who aren't caught - usually by chance rather than design - and those who have the influence to erase history.

      How about people like me, who haven't one anything, let alone getting caught?

    2. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about people like me, who haven't done anything, let alone getting caught?

      You will be accused first of hypocrisy, then intolerance.

    3. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I call BS.

      Even if you can't even remember it right now, there is guaranteed something that you've done that you would rather no one ever find out about due to potential repercussions.

    4. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am a Christian virgin angel and I already have a picture of myself like that.

    5. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You will be accused first of hypocrisy, then intolerance.

      Well, you just covered the hypocrisy side of that.

    6. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Apart from recreational drug use and participating in international crime organization?

    7. Re:not enough recording by pinkushun · · Score: 1

      I vote for real shock value: Blood Orgy. Stab a hole and fuck it. Inter-species copulation with amputees, bondaged asphyxiation, while something like Preschool Tea Party Massacre thrashes away providing the rhythm to gag to. Yes... yes, that will do nicely. Yesss.

    8. Re:not enough recording by Thiez · · Score: 1

      I am intrigued by your ideas and would like to anonymously subscribe to your newsletter.

    9. Re:not enough recording by silentcoder · · Score: 4, Interesting

      >How about people like me, who haven't one anything, let alone getting caught?

      There is NOBODY like that, no - not even you. EVERYTHING that exists, everything anybody has EVER done is offensive to somebody somewhere. You HAVE done something that somebody out there believes is wrong. It may not be on the internet but it's there. It's simply mathematically impossible to have never done anything that wouldn't offend somebody.

      If you'd spent your life in a cellar in the fetal position some people will say you are one lazy guy ! If you have a religion - thirty other religions would prefer to have nothing to do with you (at best), if you have no religion ALL the others will feel that way. If you drink - some people will be offended, if you do NOT drink - others will assume you're a self-righteous moralist and your promotion will be stumped as they'll assume you inable to take the CEO of your next big customer-corp to a stripjoint for the signing if that's what he's into (or for that matter, to figure OUT that this is what he is into).

      If you're a virgin, some people will think you're betraying your godly duty to reproduce. If you aren't - some will think you're a whore. If you're married to one woman and treat her well - some will call you a traitor to manhood. If you abuse her, others will hate you (rightfully so).

      If you're a racist - other races will hate you for it, if you're not - racists will hate you.

      Nobody, can possibly, go through life without doing anything that won't offend the morality of SOMEBODY. So just get over that illusion. The best you can hope for is that none of the people who would be offended by your choices are ever in a position of authority over you - or that if they are, you can avoid them knowing about it.

      Alternatively and this would be far better- we can try to lead the way toward the world the grandparent points out- to recognize this, and say: as long as somebody isn't breaking the law, what they choose to do on their own time has fuck-all to do with me - EVEN if I am a potential employer.

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    10. Re:not enough recording by HeckRuler · · Score: 1

      Greek week has been around for a while yo. I wouldn't call it enlightened.

    11. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Inter-species copulation with amputees"

      Tried that once, not as fun as it sounds.

    12. Re:not enough recording by Sot32 · · Score: 1

      Perhaps one day a student union of a first tier college will be enlightened and recommend that all its members take one photo of themselves naked cuddling a blow-up doll and holding a bottle of vodka. If this practice spreads like the spawn of Satan that was Facebook, suddenly employers will find that all their candidates have the naked-sheep-vodka pose. Demand > supply of Chrisian virgin angels. Attitude readjusted.

      There are blow-up sheep dolls now?? Holy crap!

    13. Re:not enough recording by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem is you'll never get everyone to buy into this.
      SOMEONE (meaning many) will take advantage of the fact that you can leverage employment and promotion opportunities by avoiding this practice.

  11. the long view by praxis22 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I realise this is all very well for me to say, but I've always known that this was the case and acted accordingly. On a simple level, I've never said anything online that I wouldn't say to my mother or I wouldn't be prepared to stand behind in future. There is no such thing as anonymity on the 'net, never has been. That's the reason why I don't have alt's. There isn't anything to gain.

    I do recognise however that most of the non-geek audience won't have thought of this, and may be bitten, but them's the breaks IMO. The expectation of anonymity is no excuse for acting like an idiot. That said my hormones had already raged. Though Dr Aleks Krotoski does say that in the future, people who do not have a complete record, warts and all, will not be taken seriously, because they are not fully three dimensional people.

    1. Re:the long view by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Why should employers be judging people for going to a party? Look at the first paragraph -- the teacher was fired because a photo of her drinking at a party was "encouraging drinking" and might be found by her students. We are not talking about something horrifying here, we are talking about an adult having a drink and the terrifying possibility that children might see adults drinking.

      The problem is not the teacher, nor is it the fact that the teacher posted the picture online. The problem is that people believe that it is terrible for a teacher to go to a party and have a drink, and that if she chooses to do that, she should hide it away like a dirty secret.

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    2. Re:the long view by turing_m · · Score: 1

      Though Dr Aleks Krotoski does say that in the future, people who do not have a complete record, warts and all, will not be taken seriously, because they are not fully three dimensional people.

      It will work the same as it ever has. The average person would rather vote in an axe murdering psychotic provided that he didn't get caught and says all the right things, than a normal person who has said some things that most people disagree with, but is otherwise a good guy. The sociopaths who take pains to cultivate a bland, god fearing public persona will be able to rise to the highest levels of anything, irrespective of what they are actually like or what they actually do. Or at least, they will make good puppets for those who care less about publicity and more about achieving what they want.

      Those with a complete warts and all record will have to deal with the negative consequences of it... unless they continue seek publicity, fame and fortune, which has its own rewards and curses.

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      If I have seen further it is by stealing the Intellectual Property of giants.
    3. Re:the long view by Ephemeriis · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I realise this is all very well for me to say, but I've always known that this was the case and acted accordingly. On a simple level, I've never said anything online that I wouldn't say to my mother or I wouldn't be prepared to stand behind in future. There is no such thing as anonymity on the 'net, never has been. That's the reason why I don't have alt's. There isn't anything to gain.

      I do recognise however that most of the non-geek audience won't have thought of this, and may be bitten, but them's the breaks IMO. The expectation of anonymity is no excuse for acting like an idiot. That said my hormones had already raged. Though Dr Aleks Krotoski does say that in the future, people who do not have a complete record, warts and all, will not be taken seriously, because they are not fully three dimensional people.

      You are completely missing the point.

      Most of us have gotten drunk at some point in time. Most of us have done something at least vaguely embarrassing at some point in time. Most of us have at least one photo of us doing something stupid that we aren't terribly proud of. None of that should preclude us from getting a job.

      My wife went to the local county fair on Friday. They had a stage hypnotist. She volunteered. She was making a fool of herself on stage - dancing around like Lady Gaga, fighting non-existent birds, searching for her stolen belly button. There is video of the event. Is it OK for somebody not to hire her because she made a fool of herself? I'm sorry, but that just doesn't project the kind of professionalism that we expect here.

      It doesn't matter if you're careful to censor yourself on-line, somebody else could post a photo of you doing something unprofessional. It really shouldn't matter if you're being unprofessional outside of work, because you're not at work.

      The problem isn't that this lady got drunk... The problem isn't that a photo was taken... The problem isn't that the photo was posted to MySpace... The problem isn't that somebody else saw the photo...

      The problem is that these folks based a hiring decision on what this lady did in her free time, rather than how qualified she was to do the job.

      What's next? Only hiring folks that play D&D? Not hiring people who like Halo? Attend a Gay Pride rally and you're fired? Vote the wrong way and you're suspended for a week?

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      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    4. Re:the long view by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      One of the many reasons I'm glad I got the fuck out of that profession. There are a ton of crazy people in the world who believe teachers should not marry, date, have children, or do anything to compromise their puritanical image. And if you don't believe me look at the rules for schoolmarms circa the 1910's. The types of people who wrote those rules are still around, and are still in positions of power.

    5. Re:the long view by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Hell, when I was in college I'd go to parties after school and smoke pot with the instructors. I had a sculpture class, and the final exam was simply a beer party; no questions, jus beer, music, and laughs. Of course, there was no internet in the late '70s and there wasn't this anti-intoxication, anti-fun craziness we seem to have today, either.

    6. Re:the long view by rocker_wannabe · · Score: 1

      What's next? Only hiring folks that play D&D? Not hiring people who like Halo? Attend a Gay Pride rally and you're fired? Vote the wrong way and you're suspended for a week?

      Yes. The simple answer is yes. It's a free country filled with people who have very different views and belief systems. Where you expecting something different? Fortunately, there are other people who think like you. You just have to find them.

      By the way, if you have a video of your wife dancing like Lady Gaga you should post in on YouTube. Maybe you can make some money off ad revenue ;).

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      "Meaningless!, Meaningless!" says the Teacher. "Utterly meaningless!"
    7. Re:the long view by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Are you arguing this is good and should not be judged..?

    8. Re:the long view by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      Was your wife really hypnotized? That is amazing.

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      Sometimes, life itself is sarcasm...
    9. Re:the long view by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      How is my pot smoking harming anyone? If I was going to class stoned that would be different, but so would going to class drunk. A final exam for a sculpture class is useless, but required, and the instructor met the requirements. Why should you judge?

    10. Re:the long view by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Gee, I don't know, was this a University that take money from taxpayers?

      There are also often rules about fraternization, for good reason.

    11. Re:the long view by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The times were far different back then, as were the rules. We're talking about over thirty years ago. Hell, you could smoke cigarettes in class, in the grocery store, in the doctor's office, and about everywhere else, too. The world in the 1970s was a completely different world than the one we live in now. A woman walking up and casually asking "wanna fuck?" was common. These days if a woman does that, she wants $20 for crack.

  12. Forgiving without forgetting by SharpFang · · Score: 5, Insightful

    'without some form of forgetting, forgiving becomes a difficult undertaking.'

    Forgiving should never be based on forgetting.
    Forgive, yes - give another chance, people change, mistakes of the past should not be repeated.
    Forget? - This is a guaranteed method to repeat the mistakes of the past.

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    1. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by drooling-dog · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Maybe so, but without the forgetting, forgiving is always provisional. You're forgiven today, but non necessarily tomorrow...

    2. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People are imperfect.
      If it's indeed the case that people are built to (irrationally) not forgive in the face of constant reminder of mistakes,
      then your approach may end up doing more harm than good.

      Unless we figure out a way to have it both ways.
      Can we be reminded of the lessons but not the blame?

    3. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by kubitus · · Score: 1
      is the pre-requisit to prevent cover-ups!

      . selective denial of access will be a powerful instrument of influence:

      "we know that you did this - if you do not want others to know, better do this!"

    4. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And "those who forget the past are destined to repeat it".

      Yep, forgive but don't forget lest you repeat the cycle.

    5. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Abstrackt · · Score: 1

      Maybe so, but without the forgetting, forgiving is always provisional. You're forgiven today, but non necessarily tomorrow...

      Under those circumstances, I'd say you haven't been forgiven at all then. When you forgive someone you stop blaming them. They may still be responsible and you may still remember but you no longer harbor any ill will towards them.

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      They say a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, but it's not one half so bad as a lot of ignorance. - Terry Pratchett
    6. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unfortunately humans are not rational beings.
      Especially women.

    7. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Abstrackt · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately humans are not rational beings. Especially women.

      Of course women aren't rational, why else would they live with men? ;)

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      They say a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, but it's not one half so bad as a lot of ignorance. - Terry Pratchett
    8. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a parasitic relationship?

    9. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by silentcoder · · Score: 2, Insightful

      >Under those circumstances, I'd say you haven't been forgiven at all then. When you forgive someone you stop blaming them. They may still be responsible and you may still remember but you no longer harbor any ill will towards them.

      But that only speaks on an individual basis. You're forgiven by the people in your life now - but the same picture haunting you twenty years down the line at a job interview is being assessed by people who saw it the first time five minutes ago. Because the incident is unforgotten - it needs to be forgiven over and over and over by everybody who becomes aware of it... for as long you live.

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    10. Re:Forgiving without forgetting by Abstrackt · · Score: 1

      Good point, I hadn't considered that scenario. I think "forget" tripped me up a bit. In the case of the Internet it would probably be better to say "remove from the record" than "forget".

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      They say a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, but it's not one half so bad as a lot of ignorance. - Terry Pratchett
  13. It's all about adapting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If everyone was used to forgiving and forgetting because it was something available to them, they'll just have to get used to forgiving without forgetting. It'll happen to everyone at some point, and make everyone used to it. People at the outer edge will just have it bad.

  14. Stigma by ewg · · Score: 3, Funny

    I'd be appalled if anyone found out I used to program in Smalltalk.

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    1. Re:Stigma by Golden_Rider · · Score: 2, Funny

      I'd be appalled if anyone found out I used to program in Smalltalk.

      I had to program in COBOL at one point. Luckily, I managed to destroy any evidence.

    2. Re:Stigma by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd be appalled if anyone found out that I program in Java

    3. Re:Stigma by EnsilZah · · Score: 1

      I experimented with VB in highschool, I'm not proud of it, and It felt wrong while I was doing it, but I am a reformed man now and I don't care if anybody knows.

    4. Re:Stigma by N0Man74 · · Score: 1

      Oh God! I think I once I admitted to have programmed in COBOL somewhere on the internet! Now it will be remembered forever!

      Shit, I did it again!

    5. Re:Stigma by ctchristmas · · Score: 1

      You poor, poor soul... They should have special counselors set up to handle programmers who are forced to code in shitty languages... "NOT LIKE THIS STEVE JOBS!!! NOT LIKE THIS!!!"... then he... he... he made me use... FLASH!!

    6. Re:Stigma by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      I'd be appalled if anyone found out I used to program in Smalltalk.

      At least it wasn't Lisp.

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      That is all.
    7. Re:Stigma by colinrichardday · · Score: 1

      Hey, Grace Hopper invented COBOL, and her reputation survived. She even made admiral.

  15. I forgot to add: by h7 · · Score: 0

    that I like this system, especially because nerds will probably know better, but the "socially adept" will probably be raped many times over the period of their lives about the time they got drunk, their vomit, their stupid tweetz, etcs. ha

  16. I bet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I bet BP and politicians would back this "forgetting" thing...

  17. Don't we need to just change the way we forgive? by TurinX · · Score: 1

    I think in many ways it is better to have all this information stored forever. As with most decisions, the more information you have the more informed a decision you can make...

    I think the argument that people forget and therefore can forgive is true, but I think we need to then adapt how we forgive. If we accept that people change, then it doesn't matter that we have a store of someone's past actions - we can let then 'reinvent' themselves while still knowing where they came from.

    Right now that may be difficult, but that's because the internet is still a relatively new phenomena in Human history. As we progress, I assume we'll evolve to accept that all our actions are remembered indefinitely, and mature to not let past events completely out way current ones.

  18. Forgetting isn't the problem by Joehonkie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Maybe it's more of a problem with our two-faced, overly moralistic society. Instead of "forgetting" that other people started off young and exhibitionist, we should "remember" that many of the people bitching started off the same way too. And maybe those people should forgive other people when they realize they have their own faults. Or even better, not judge people according to their own personal moral codes.

    1. Re:Forgetting isn't the problem by silentcoder · · Score: 1

      >Or even better, not judge people according to their own personal moral codes.

      The people who do this the most have a phrase "moral relativism" which is their standard excuse to avoid that. If you even suggest that moral choices are individual - that the choices we make changes as we age and gain experience and that they are not universal to judge all people by they say "that's moral relativism and it's horrible".
      They never back that up, they never say WHY "moral relativism" would supposedly be such a bad thing - to them the very concept of it means they already won and thus their judgement are allowed, and if anybody judges THEM by a different system they can conveniently ignore it because recognizing the validity of any morals except their own is "relativism" which is evil.

      It is amazing how otherwise fairly intelligent people can fall for such simplistic mental traps if it allows them to avoid the one thing they fear more than anything: the suggestion that they aren't perfect and that different ideas to their own are not harmful by default. They fear it because if they acknowledge it they would firstly have to accept how wrong their past intolerance was, and worse - lose the ability to excuse their prejudices. Deep down, I think even Fred Phelps knows that prejudice is wrong -but as long as you can convince yourself that the source of your prejudice is a moral high ground, an order from something greater than yourself, you never need to feel guilty about being a bastard.

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  19. What a noob by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

    >who was denied a teaching certificate on the basis of a single photo on MySpace
    Could he not just log on and remove any damaging photos from his myspace before going for that all important work interview???
    This sounds more like some noob not realizing the web is public domain.

    If he really wanted the job, he could have changed temporarily his myspace to a marketing ad for the company he is trying to get into...show them he really is serious about getting the job.

    1. Re:What a noob by Fri13 · · Score: 1

      And what you think that would help when he later turns them back and company notices it?

      And how about hiring someone who lies so much?

      And how about the companies who care WTF the employee is doing in his spare time?

      We all really are liers and whores for the companies. Our status is just that who gets paid most from the "fuck".

    2. Re:What a noob by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 2, Insightful

      When did drinking at a party suddenly become a reason to be denied a teaching certification?

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    3. Re:What a noob by vlm · · Score: 1

      When did drinking at a party suddenly become a reason to be denied a teaching certification?

      When there's 100 applicants for each open job and HR needs an excuse, literally any excuse, to narrow the field of otherwise equivalent applicants?

      Part of the problem is "every teacher is qualified for every job" which is far different than the tech field. So, everyone whom is unemployed applies for every single job.

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      "Science flies us to the moon. Religion flies us into buildings." - Victor Stenger
    4. Re:What a noob by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 1

      Except that this teacher was denied certification, not a job. It would be as if part of the FE/PE exams was a drug test (although I would not be surprised if someone points out that a drug test is actually part of the process to get engineering certification at this point).

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      Palm trees and 8
    5. Re:What a noob by vlm · · Score: 1

      Still not seeing the point. You have a pool of one zillion people and only a tenth of a zillion jobs, time to start chopping, and any vaguely acceptable reason to winnow out the field is acceptable. Don't like it, try a profession that isn't dying.

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      "Science flies us to the moon. Religion flies us into buildings." - Victor Stenger
    6. Re:What a noob by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 1

      Getting certification does not mean getting a job. She was not simply denied a particular teaching job, she was denied the certification required for all teaching jobs she might apply to -- a blanket rejection. This is not a case of "chopping," it is a case of someone being denied the ability to even apply for a job.

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      Palm trees and 8
    7. Re:What a noob by vbraga · · Score: 1

      As stated somewhere else in this thread she was not defined the certification due to the MySpace picture only.

      The judge ruling:

      http://voices.washingtonpost.com/securityfix/Decision%202008.12.03.pdf

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    8. Re:What a noob by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

      Such a happy person, aren't we .. ; )

    9. Re:What a noob by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

      I am not saying it is right, although I have heard of this several times over, so if I were to be a smart person, I might want to review all visible pictures on the internet before going for that all important job interview, and make sure none of the p0rn links to my name have anything to with me either...just google yourself really!

  20. nytimes attempt to perpetuate nazi hypenosys by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/26/world/asia/26warlogs.html?_r=1

    just another day at the races, by that read. almost nobody got hurt, only 1 lie was told. so, no need to change a thing. we feel 'better' about freedumb of the (bought&paidfor) mediahhaha already.

    1. Re:nytimes attempt to perpetuate nazi hypenosys by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Isn't it time for your meds?

  21. Forget to forget. by Fri13 · · Score: 1

    I only hope that I would forget that I can forget something.
    It is not nice at all to notice you have forgot something important, you just can not recall the whole context.

  22. Not just the internet by grasshoppa · · Score: 1

    But all data. We store data without regard for it's lifetime, filling up harddrives which then need to be backed up. In some cases, we have data which has existed for 15 years or more. We dare not delete it, because it might someday be useful, but in the meantime it takes up disk storage space which costs extreme amounts of money to maintain.

    What we need is a built in expiration date, known to all. When the file is written to disk, it is done so with a default expiration date. When that date comes, it is naturally deleted. Perhaps different data sets have different dates.

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    1. Re:Not just the internet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1) There is data that actually does need to be kept "forever". Do you really want your server's /etc/shadow to be deleted because it passed the 'use by' date.
      2) Therefore, there will be methods for keeping files "forever." Autoresetting, negative dates, flags set, whatever.
      3) Your mother is convinced that all baby pictures need to be kept "forever"
      4) Pursuant to 3, the methods known to exist in 2 must be made common practice.
      5) /* short jump in logic here... */
      6) Every file is marked as "existing forever"

    2. Re:Not just the internet by swilver · · Score: 1

      I'm sure that "extreme" amounts 15 years ago will comfortably fit on my mobile now.

  23. This is more serious than you think. by markdj · · Score: 3, Insightful

    What if you were arrested for shoplifiting in a small town where the newspaper publishes the daily arrest record online? Later you are convicted and your sentence includes getting your record expunged once you serve your community service. However, the record in the paper of your arrest is not. The town doesn't have the power to tell the paper to expunge your record. A background check might find that arrest, but not evidence of the outcome. Now you could lose jobs, security clearences all for something that is not supposed to exist. When your record is expunged, you are supposed to be able to answer no to having been arrested, but the internet says otherwise.

    1. Re:This is more serious than you think. by antifoidulus · · Score: 1

      Not to mention the problem with "false positives". Someone with my name(which which not being rare isn't super common either) who came from a town less than 50 mikes from where I grew up and is only 2 years older than me has been arrested twice. I am always worried that a potential employer will find this and assume it was me. The more I go on in life the more I realize the immense value of having a super common name, it makes it a lot harder for people to locate you. If I ever have a son I am going to name him after an actor that has my last name, nit because I am a fan but simply because it will be a lot harder to google my son.

    2. Re:This is more serious than you think. by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      What if you were arrested for shoplifiting in a small town where the newspaper publishes the daily arrest record online? Later you are convicted and your sentence includes getting your record expunged once you serve your community service. However, the record in the paper of your arrest is not. The town doesn't have the power to tell the paper to expunge your record. A background check might find that arrest, but not evidence of the outcome. Now you could lose jobs, security clearences all for something that is not supposed to exist. When your record is expunged, you are supposed to be able to answer no to having been arrested, but the internet says otherwise.

      This isn't a problem unique to the Internet however, especially in a small town.

      There's usually lots of fanfare when somebody gets arrested. It'll show up in the paper, folks will gossip about it, maybe the local radio station will mention it, maybe it'll be on the evening news. It's a big deal. Especially if you're at all prominent or if the crime is at all interesting.

      There's usually a hell of a lot less fanfare when somebody is acquitted. You don't usually have nearly as much gossip if someone is found innocent.

      So you'll apply for a job later... And it really doesn't matter what's in the archives on the Internet, or who purged what record. All folks remember is your name and the fact that you were involved in something criminal.

      The responsible thing to do, for the employer, is to ask for clarification. I seem to remember your name in connection with that big scandal last year... Can you explain what happened with that?

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      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    3. Re:This is more serious than you think. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you are in a job that requires a security clearance and you were arrested but the record was expunged you say "Yes, I was arrested. .... The record was expunged," when applying.

      And let's be honest. If you have a job with a security clearance and your spouse embezzles the PTA while living in the same house as you, odds are you'll lose the security clearance anyways.

    4. Re:This is more serious than you think. by Animats · · Score: 1

      security clearences

      The DoD security clearance people can and do check the actual arrest and disposition records. At the level of clearance where your neighbors are interviewed, this is less likely to be a problem. It's the employers who use cheapo search services fed from newspaper clippings that create problems.

    5. Re:This is more serious than you think. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What is the problem with that?

      If someone did something bad, people have the right to know it. If someone raped a girl, I WANT TO know this man lives in my community, and this way I will never let my daughter alone in the community.

      And I had helped rapist people, some of them could be very good workers,even good people, if you don't care they raping,hey I even talked with the "el asesino de la catana"(google it), and he looked like a normal person, not really, he is a smart person.

      But I won't let it easy from a rapist be near my children, or give money to someone that used to steal it.

      In the prison we used to visit, the serial rapist were the norm, not the exception. Someone will rape and go go to jail and later is going to rape again when out.(I live in Spain, when inmates are overprotected). I'm burned by the discourse of "let's protect this poor people, he rapes, but is not his fault, he has an illness, he steals but he has to, he kills..." being told by someone who never had contact with them.

      My opinion is that people should be responsible with their one live and choices.

      I don't care Steve Pavlina used to shoplift when young, he admits it openly, nothing bad happens when people know the truth.Really.

    6. Re:This is more serious than you think. by Rob_RepDef · · Score: 1

      The responsible thing to do, for the employer, is to ask for clarification.

      I agree completely. It is unfair for an individual to continue to be punished for their mistake over and over because of a Google search. However, it is that very Google search that prevents employers from asking for clarification. If they can see in a quick glance that there's something -- anything -- wrong with you, they will not try hard to figure out the extenuating circumstances. They will simply move on to the next viable candidate that doesn't have a bad online reputation. It may not be right, but it's the truth.

      "Research commissioned by Microsoft in December 2009 found that 79 percent of United States hiring managers and job recruiters surveyed reviewed online information about job applicants. Most of those surveyed consider what they find online to impact their selection criteria. In fact, 70 percent of United States hiring managers in the study say they have rejected candidates based on what they found." - http://www.microsoft.com/privacy/dpd/research.aspx

  24. It works to my credit by Chrisq · · Score: 1

    There is a computer scientist with a reasonable international reputation with the same name as me. Because I have no presence and he avoids pictures I have had a number of people assume that I am him!

  25. Well...Duh! by SStrungis · · Score: 1

    One certainly does have to manage their public image on the interwebs. It's out there forever. I am a high school teacher. I do have a facebook account. And yes, Virginia, I do watch what's out there and what gets shared, tagged, posted, etc. I have asked friends and students to mind what they post and to take things down I don't want published. I don't know if it's a generational thing. I've telecommunicated since the days of 300 baud dialup and BBSes. I've largely kept my online persona in good repair. I do watch what I type because my students can find me online in a pinch, so I censor my tweets, etc. I don't know if kids are as concerned. Today's infrastructure for communication is way different for my students. Texts, tweets, FB postings, forums, and email are all acceptable forms of meaningful communication. Though I think kids mainly use email as a digital bridge between them and us old fogeys. But in the end, it all has to be managed, cuz people DO judge. It's common sense. S

    1. Re:Well...Duh! by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Though I think kids mainly use email as a digital bridge between them and us old fogeys. But in the end, it all has to be managed, cuz people DO judge. It's common sense. S

      I hope you're not an English teacher. If so, somebody is going to find that comment, and well... I'd say it's a lot worse than a picture of you holding a beer can.

  26. Not so much forgetting by Vahokif · · Score: 1

    What we need is to ensure you can say anonymous online, or at least not have to use your real name. Online identitites are easy to reinvent, real ones aren't.

    1. Re:Not so much forgetting by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      What we need is to ensure you can say anonymous online, or at least not have to use your real name. Online identitites are easy to reinvent, real ones aren't.

      No. What we need is to stop judging people so harshly every time they act like a human being.

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      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
    2. Re:Not so much forgetting by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      except that now there are moves by several organisations to make online identities the same as real life. Several are trying to make this a reality. They fail right now but its a Think Of The Children situation.

    3. Re:Not so much forgetting by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Good luck with changing human nature.

    4. Re:Not so much forgetting by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      Good luck with changing human nature.

      Human nature is not constant.

      It varies from one place to another.

      It shifts from one year to the next.

      What was acceptable a few years ago is now taboo. What was taboo a few years ago is now acceptable.

      We have been far more accepting of flaws in the past. And we have also been far less accepting of flaws in the past.

      I just hope we don't keep heading in the current direction for long.

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      "Work is the curse of the drinking classes." -Oscar Wilde
  27. jpg or it didnt happen by vlm · · Score: 1

    the cyberscholar Viktor Mayer-Schönberger cites the case of Stacy Snyder -- who was denied a teaching certificate on the basis of a single photo on MySpace

    .jpg or it didn't happen. And no I have not soiled myself by having a myspace account.

    I tried google images and I'm having trouble figuring which one I wouldn't hire. All of them? The woman posing with several different dogs? (how many does she own, anyway?) The woman singing in front of a well known german political party symbol? The woman wearing a pirate hat drinking from a "goodbur" cup? The woman posing (fully clothed) in a tutu? Then there's about ten other "Stacy Snyder" whom are smiling way too much, which you'd think would be OK for a teacher (unless of course they're the wrong race for racial quota reasons?)

    Two other oddities. "cyberscholar" WTF is that? Also, in my youth, HR used to make fun of people whom submitted pictures of themselves posed in suit and tie with their resumes, don't they know we have to toss those out to prove we aren't discriminating based on race etc, but its OK for HR to look at all the pictures of women wearing pirate hats and hugging dogs?

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    1. Re:jpg or it didnt happen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    2. Re:jpg or it didnt happen by kenj0418 · · Score: 1

      I'm sick of hearing about the drunken pirate. From the more neutral accounts I've read, She wasn't kicked out of the student teaching program JUST be cause of the photo. Her supervisor had cited (on her past performance reviews before the photo) a lack of professionalism and a lack of understanding of the subject matter she was teaching. The pirate photo AND complaints about her supervisor on her myspace were just cited (in the story) as the last straw. http://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/news/2008/12/court-rejects-appeal-over-student-teacher-drunk-myspace-pics.ars

      However, if I ever lose my job - I want to get her lawyer. He's done a great job of turning this from "I'm crappy at my job and don't get along with my boss, and I got fired" to "OMG look at me I'm being repressed".

  28. making history 'temporary' by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    why not call it book burning? why not notice the association between the promotion of 'forgetting' with the release of the war crimes papers?
    http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/26/world/asia/26warlogs.html?_r=1

    we always say we'll never forget what happened, then we allow it to happen again & again. it's in the manuals. may as well forget about everything, soon, again.

    meanwhile (long enough to let your brain be re-soaped); the corepirate nazi illuminati is always hunting that patch of red on almost everyones' neck. if they cannot find yours (greed, fear ego etc...) then you can go starve. that's their (slippery/slimy) 'platform' now. see also: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisocial_personality_disorder

    never a better time to consult with/trust in our creators. the lights are coming up rapidly all over now. see you there?

    greed, fear & ego (in any order) are unprecedented evile's primary weapons. those, along with deception & coercion, helps most of us remain (unwittingly?) dependent on its' life0cidal hired goons' agenda. most of our dwindling resources are being squandered on the 'wars', & continuation of the billionerrors stock markup FraUD/pyramid schemes. nobody ever mentions the real long term costs of those debacles in both life & any notion of prosperity for us, or our children. not to mention the abuse of the consciences of those of us who still have one, & the terminal damage to our atmosphere (see also: manufactured 'weather', hot etc...). see you on the other side of it? the lights are coming up all over now. the fairytail is winding down now. let your conscience be your guide. you can be more helpful than you might have imagined. we now have some choices. meanwhile; don't forget to get a little more oxygen on your brain, & look up in the sky from time to time, starting early in the day. there's lots going on up there.

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    "I think the bottom line is, what kind of a world do you want to leave for your children," Andrew Smith, a professor in the Arizona State University School of Life Sciences, said in a telephone interview. "How impoverished we would be if we lost 25 percent of the world's mammals," said Smith, one of more than 100 co-authors of the report. "Within our lifetime hundreds of species could be lost as a result of our own actions, a frightening sign of what is happening to the ecosystems where they live," added Julia Marton-Lefevre, IUCN director general. "We must now set clear targets for the future to reverse this trend to ensure that our enduring legacy is not to wipe out many of our closest relatives."--

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    no need to confuse 'religion' with being a spiritual being. our soul purpose here is to care for one another. failing that, we're simply passing through (excess baggage) being distracted/consumed by the guaranteed to fail illusionary trappings of man'kind'. & recently (about 10,000 years ago) it was determined that hoarding & excess by a few, resulted in negative consequences for all.

    consult with/trust in your creators. providing more than enough of everything for everyone (without any distracting/spiritdead personal gain motives), whilst badtolling unprecedented evile, using an unlimited supply of newclear power, since/until forever. see you there?

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  29. watch out... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...In italy we tried to pass a law to make it illegal to write (news/internet/etc...) about illegal facts and refer to a single person after 2-3 years.

    just to say, forgive and forget can be good (altrough it's not my opinion), but don't push it too far...

  30. This would be good for government too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It sure would be nice if the gov't would "forget" the run-ins they had with me in my youth..

  31. Re:Once example, and a bogus one at that? by Beyond_GoodandEvil · · Score: 1

    How is choosing to leave a photo of yourself skanking available online while applying to be a teacher about the intartubes "forgetting"?

    Seems more to be about the broad being either very forgetful herself, or dim, or having poor judgement, any one of which should preclude her from being a teacher, quite in addition to the evidence of skankitude.


    How is a picture of a person dressed as a pirate at halloween, holding a cup, evidence of skankitude? What are you like 8 yrs old? Afraid of girl cooties? Are you still smarting from that time that dog puppet made fun of your Darth Vader costume while waiting in line at the cineplex?

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  32. 4chan has it right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Everything posted is removed after interest has been lost in the subject.

    It's quite the liberating and a zen-like experience to know the finity of your interaction.

    1. Re:4chan has it right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I completely agree. Threads are only remembered if someone decides to screencap them or use a 3rd-party archiver. If only the culture were cleaned up, that place would be a fantastic example of an Internet discussion ground done right. And all that change would require would be a complete and utter mindset switch on the part of the Mods.

    2. Re:4chan has it right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But a complete and utter mindset change of the mods would only come from a restructuring from moot, and his own mindset being changed accordingly.
      And if that changed, then posting would require a registered login with full background check until moot looked at the balance sheet and shut down 4chan as unprofitable.

      But 4chan IS an image board done right. Just don't go to /b/. All the other boards have their own cultures and they're very in line with their audience. I love the elegan/tg/entlmen, and the krazy /k/ommandos are all gun nuts.

  33. In traditional societies... sins are eventually... by Culture20 · · Score: 1

    In traditional societies, where missteps are observed but not necessarily recorded, the limits of human memory ensure that people's sins are eventually forgotten.

    Um, no. In traditional societies, sins are remembered long past the lifetime of a person due to gossip, and continued gossip, and then oral history, their sins are immortalized in song, and eventually when people learned how to write, those songs were written down. To reinvent yourself in those days you used to have to move to another town. The only thing the Internet has done that is new is allow almost everyone on the planet access to every small town's gossip.

  34. This happens often enough... by jzarling · · Score: 1

    I do not agree with the outcome, but this has happened often enough that one would think most people would understand that you should exercise some restraint on your posts.
    Most HS kids know that they need to control whats seen on their FB pages, and at 25 I would think this woman would have understood that also.

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    1. Re:This happens often enough... by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      It wasn't a picture of her performing a sex act with an animal, she was just having a drink! The idiots who refused to hire her should be fired; there's absolutely nothing wrong with having a drink, and hasn't been since 1933. Had she been snorting cocaine or something I might agree with you, but having a drink? WTF is wrong with people these days?!?

    2. Re:This happens often enough... by jzarling · · Score: 1

      I'm not defending the actions of those who made the decision.
      My point is that she bears some responsiblility.
      My wife is a middle school teacher, and I am pretty aware of how cravenly PC, and image conscious schools are. If the perception of impropriety exists the administrators get skittish, and over react.
      This student teacher should have known this, she was working IN the school FFS.

      In the end IMO everyone here is in the wrong.
      1. The school supervisor over reacted
      2. dean of Millersville University School of Education should have allowed her her degree
      3. the student teacher should have managed her photo's better - Drunken Pirate was the caption - without the Drunken modifier probably wouldnt have been a big deal.

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  35. I actually think society is just getting dumber by MikeRT · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I am technically generation Y. I'm right on the border with generation X, so my first exposure to the Internet came at 1995 when I was in middle school. There is a marked difference between the older half and the younger half of gen Y in how we view the Internet. The younger half puts it all out there without any attempt to make it hard for busy bodies and ne'erdowells to connect the dots or find them. When people act like this culture of letting it all hang out online is something inherent to the Internet, I take great offense to that because I am old enough to remember how mainstream culture first interacted with the Internet and it was with a hell of a lot more sense than we often have today.

    The fact is that society is getting dumber. Systematically dumber. I know this not just from watching how my own generation is starting to behave, but from listening to how my dad recounts how law enforcement **used to be**. He was a cop in the post-Vietnam era. He retired in 1996 and has very little good to say about how cops behave today. No common sense, no independent thought, no questioning whether following orders actually helps the rule of law. It touches everything. Our society is getting dumber, more legalistic and less capable of sensible behavior.

    It's also getting a lot more judgmental. I think this is a natural reaction to people seeing all of this stuff that went on behind closed doors, but the fact remains that either people have to learn how to compartmentalize behavior (like disregard a politician's past, if they have what it takes to be an effect, informed leader) or actually dramatically reduce the visibility-by-internet of society.

    1. Re:I actually think society is just getting dumber by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He retired in 1996 and has very little good to say about how cops behave today.

      A retired person thinks the world's going downhill? Say it ain't so!

      It's always easy to assume that other people, especially younger people, are so much more stupid than you. When I was at school, one of the teachers read out a list of quotations, each of which could be paraphrased "Young people today are so stupid, they'll take civilisation down the tubes". The oldest one was written by a Roman, I think. So you'll excuse me if I take your generalisation of everyone younger than you with a pinch of salt.

  36. long term by ConvexCourse · · Score: 1

    the problem really is that we are still on the verge of change. the people making decisions like not hiring stacy are still holding to the old way of thinking. once we reach a point where those people have grown up with the internet, once they're lives are out there all the time too, this won't be an issue. we'll all have a greater understanding of indiscretion then.

  37. adaption by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Our culture will adapt to this new environment, so that indescretions imbuned on the internet will be less influential in determining a persons character.

  38. The media disagrees by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How many times do you hear a statement like, "he never drinks," being used as a euphemism for, "he is a moral and upstanding citizen" or something to that effect? Americans are being conditioned to think that going to a party and using drugs reflects negatively on a person. If the media is to be believed, then having a beer after work is something that you need to hide from your boss, friends, and family, and the only people who are going to join you are lonely and depressed.

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    1. Re:The media disagrees by hedwards · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But, it does. It's one thing to toss back a couple cold ones from time to time and quite another to be engaging in regular drug use. I didn't used to appreciate drug testing, but then it occurred to me that I really don't want to have to pick up slack for somebody that's not taking things seriously. If you really think that drugs have no impact on work life you really aren't very well informed. At bare minimum it's affecting ones sleep and the ability to concentrate, beyond that there's plenty that can go wrong when one is somewhat less than careful about it. I've seen what individuals that do drugs are like, and it definitely has an impact.

      Beyond that drugs don't have a constructive use in society. At best they're benign and at worst they cause a lot of damage to people not directly involved.

    2. Re:The media disagrees by david+duncan+scott · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you need a lab analysis to find the problem, how much of an impact can it be?

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    3. Re:The media disagrees by mcgrew · · Score: 2, Funny

      How many times do you hear a statement like, "he never drinks," being used as a euphemism for, "he is a moral and upstanding citizen" or something to that effect?

      That reminds me of an old joke. A newspaper reporter is interviewing a man on his 100th brithday, and he asks "what do you attribute your long life to?"

      The old man says "Well, first, I don't drink. I don't smoke, and I never let a drop of alcohol pass my lips. I go to church every sunday and of course I don't drink. I eat a balanced diet and I never touch alcohol. I get regular exersize, and I've never been inside a tavern..."

      Just then there's a loud crash in the other room. The reporter, startled, exclaims "What was that?"

      The old man says "Don't worry, that's my dad. He gets like that when he's drunk."

    4. Re:The media disagrees by l0b0 · · Score: 1

      The fact that it *can* affect sleep and concentration is no reason to say that it *always* will, and what you ingest (in any way) legally should be nobody's business! It seems like some people think that N drinks per week on average means N/7 drinks every day, or N/21 drinks every work day. Lots of people get stone drunk every Saturday and work just fine on Monday. And even if they don't, there's such a thing as catching up on slack, or just plain being more productive than the next guy.

      D'you know, I almost didn't post this for fear that someone would read it and think, "So he gets stone drunk every Saturday"? That is not how the world should be.

    5. Re:The media disagrees by Facebeast · · Score: 0

      Beyond that drugs don't have a constructive use in society. At best they're benign and at worst they cause a lot of damage to people not directly involved.

      You could make same argument about sport, TV, video games, playing D&D or just about any primarily recreational activity when done to excess. Having a couple of spliffs or taking a pill or two at a club occasionally has been consistently proven not to be any more harmful in the long or short term than drinking alcohol.

    6. Re:The media disagrees by Imagix · · Score: 1

      Quite a bit. The problem is that it's very hard to fire someone without iron-clad, can't be disputed in any way, absolutely objective proof.

    7. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How many times do you hear a statement like, "he never drinks," being used as a euphemism for, "he is a moral and upstanding citizen" or something to that effect?

      Well, given health care issues in the USA, "he never drinks" is a bad sign. There is a very well documented effect of moderate alcohol consumption on reducing heart disease.

      What is the leading killer of men & women in the USA? Heart disease.

      So, employees who never drink will have higher health care costs than employees who drink moderately & responsibly.

      Save money! Fire your teetotalers!

    8. Re:The media disagrees by betterunixthanunix · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You could, of course, use their job performance as proof.

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    9. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Great, and we'll measure that with lines of code.

    10. Re:The media disagrees by Maarx · · Score: 1

      You can always identify the true bits of wisdom by the fact that they bring the entire conversation to a screeching conclusion.

    11. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The older I get, the more increasingly convinced I am that society suffers far more from people taking things too seriously than not seriously enough. If you're light-hearted about whatever sort of fun you're into, it won't dominate your life.

    12. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Alcohol is a drug and affects ones sleep and the ability to concentrate too. So by your standards and your own admission (note that your issue was job performance, not legality), your co-workers shouldn't want you there either.

    13. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, you are:

      1. Absolutely out of your mind.
      2. Unfit to exist on the same planet as rational, thinking human beings.

    14. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Um, maybe because it is a lot easier to fire a fuckup if/when you have documented evidence/proof that they are/were on drugs.

    15. Re:The media disagrees by vertinox · · Score: 1

      How many times do you hear a statement like, "he never drinks," being used as a euphemism for, "he is a moral and upstanding citizen" or something to that effect?

      You know who never drinks or smokes... Hitler. That's who.

      Didn't mean to goodwin this but sometimes I'd like to point out that moral behavior sometimes has nothing to do with alcohol use.

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    16. Re:The media disagrees by SpecBear · · Score: 1

      It's been a very long time since I've heard that phrase used as a compliment. More often it's code for "He's got a huge stick up his ass," or sometimes "He's a recovering alcoholic."

    17. Re:The media disagrees by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When I was young, I had a couple of days that I came to work after a night of partying and having taken ecstasy and speed. Despite having not slept for 24+ hours previous, those two days were easily my most productive days on the job. Under normal circumstances I was easily the most productive person at that job but those two days I got through at least 4 days worth of coding in a matter of hours.

      That kind of drug use is definitely not sustainable and it took its toll on me physically, but there's no way in hell it had an adverse affect on my job performance. Your attitudes on drug use sound more puritanical than grounded in actual fact or personal experiences. Some substances my impact job performance negatively, but there are others that have a definite positive effect. I had a manager once who had a serious coke habit. However she was insanely on-the-ball about everything, managed details better than anyone I've ever met and literally worked 6am until 9-10pm, something there's no way she could have done drug free.

      I'm not trying to argue that drugs are some sort of panacea of productivity...many take a serious toll on your body and have adverse effects on your health, but to demonize them the way you've done is just as irresponsible. As others posters have mentioned, you need to judge people on their job performance and nothing beyond that. If a person is able to accomplish everything you're paying them for, what business is it of yours what personal choices they make. I've had to live with the consequences of my personal choices, but those consequences are my own and have nothing to do with my employer. Their only concern was and is whether the service I'm providing them is worth the salary and cost of employing me.

      The only caveat to that that I might buy is the argument that an employee's drug use affects the cost of supplying everyone with health care, but that's a tough argument when you consider that a person's decision to marry or have children has a much more significant impact in that regard.

  39. Because theres no books detailing war by djsmiley · · Score: 1

    I mean, we can forget about war and all the bad things in life, because its not like we have painting and books depicting what happens or anything. Because we dont have a video of Bill Gates saying we only need 64kb of ram....

    I think this guy got stung because he was stupid, but is now clever enough to realise he can make some money out it by becoming a "Expert on forgetfulness and the solidarity of the state of the internet". Que interviews with newspapers and tv stations.

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    1. Re:Because theres no books detailing war by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Funny that you say that when you seem to have forgotten something from a few minutes ago.

      It wasn't HIM who was denied a job, it was a girl called Stacy who was denied a job.

  40. Hypocrisy by copponex · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The issue isn't one of morality. The issue is that the vast majority of people do not follow the rules they espouse. That's why people hate the internet "memory." It exposes them for who they are, or at least who they used to be. The immediacy of information connects us with the past, and can help us make better decisions for the future. CIA coups used to be considered conspiracy theories, but now anyone can look at the source documents for themselves. News stories about what someone reportedly said are routinely dismissed, but a video of the same event makes refuting history much more difficult. In short, reality is much harder to dismiss for the people who are genuinely interested to find out what that is.

    So, I'd rather not build in forgetting. I'd rather people learn to be more accepting of everyone and more skeptical of every asshole who wants to impose their morality on others. The ubiquity of distributed recording devices, and the network to freely share that media, is the most dangerous threat to the status quo since the scientific method, and for the same reason: it trades authority and mysticism for reality and results.

  41. It's not forgetting, it's replacing by csrjjsmp · · Score: 1

    The reason humans forget things is because we are constantly learning new things. If older information is constantly reused, it is considered 'important' and we keep it around. Anything that doesn't matter gets pushed aside to make way for new things. Most of the time, we'll consider those things forgotten, yet we sometimes find that, under the right circumstances, remembering these is still possible. The internet works essentially the same way. If the only mention of you on the web is that time you got arrested for vandalism in high school, you can fix that the same way you'd fix a relationship with a high school classmate who only remembered that fact. Show them that you've changed by creating new content that paints you in a more positive light. Maintaining your public image is an important skill, and for certain positions, it even makes sense for employers to screen for it.

  42. History Books by Zebra_X · · Score: 1

    Why don't we just get rid of them? I mean who really needs to remember what everyone did long ago. That's SO yesterday.

    1. Re:History Books by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I hope you're being sarcastic. Those who ignore history are indeed doomed to repeat it. Prohibition with its police corruption and gang wars, and economic depression, for example. It's happened before.

  43. Follow the links, people! by joel.neely · · Score: 1

    The original article, and most of the posts here, can be used to illustrate another important issue: if one makes snap judgments based on partial information, it is easy to be misled. Following the links all the way to http://voices.washingtonpost.com/securityfix/Decision%202008.12.03.pdf (the judge's decision) reveals that the plaintiff failed to achieve a satisfactory rating during student teaching, which contributed to her not getting a teaching certificate. Snyder and Mayer-Schoenberger failed to include that inconvenient fact.

    Perhaps before jumping into a stranger's fight (or, in this case, flaming about narrow-minded opposition to free speech), we should take the time to learn more of the facts.

    1. Re:Follow the links, people! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting point, as that judgment makes it clear that the flap over the myspace photo is a red-herring.

      But the original question about Internet memory and forgiveness/forgetfulness still remains. If the woman enters another program to earn her teaching credentials and is successful at that effort, should this older controversy continue to haunt her? And should the older controversy influence whether she gets into such a program, whether any school accepts her as a student teacher, and how that school judges her as a student teacher? I would hope not, because most (or all) of the current criticisms could be remedied by effort and increasing maturity.

  44. No, the real problems is... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The real problem is that we known deep down that we don't really change that much. (Oh, sure, we get older, and don't have as much wild sex as we used to or don't get drunk as often. But we still wish we could relive those glory days.) Rather than changing, most people reach a point where they prefer to justify their past behavior, rather than turn from it.

    We're galled by the existence of those puritanical types who sit in judgement of us, and we would prefer that a record of our past not continue to exist because we know it still describes us today.

  45. It's not just the internet btw by NotSoHeavyD3 · · Score: 1

    So this makes me think of my academic background. When I was first in college back in the early 90's I didn't do well. (I didn't care because I had no expectations of anything beyond a BA so who cares?) Anyway I got older and got bit by the physician bug. So 10 years after I got my BA I went back to school to take all of the premed course work. (I hadn't taken any of it as an undergrad) I was older and had all my shit together so surprise surprise I did extremely well on it and also did well on the MCAT. So given that were med schools willing to give me the benefit of the doubt since my undergrad coursework was 10-15 years old and that I was a different, far better student now? Of course not, as far as they care the ancient stuff(you know, courses taken when most of the other applicants were in middle school) counted just as much as the new stuff. (Actually more since I took more courses as an undergrad than as a post-bacc premed.) Oh how I wish they would "forget" or at least weigh the new stuff somewhat more heavily. (I mean since it was only a couple years old and in classes they cared about.)

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  46. Disappointed... by ShinyBrowncoat · · Score: 1
    What, 100+ comments and no mention of Spider Robinson's "Melancholy Elephants"? Are all the sci-fi fans still recovering from comic-con?

    http://www.spiderrobinson.com/melancholyelephants.html

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  47. Hiding secrets by LeepII · · Score: 1

    This is about giving the elites a way to hide embarrassing items from their personal history.

  48. Other people's accounts by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

    Does this remove all the tagged photos on other people's accounts? What about posts you made on their wall? The results of tests and surveys you took?

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  49. Wont work by Charliemopps · · Score: 1

    Just because we don't archive something doesn't mean everyone else wont. Facebook, google, the NSA... It's all going to be around permanently and there's nothing you can do about it, so I'd rather have it out there for everyone to see rather than build some BS system that gives people a false sense of security.

  50. Try to find old race results by ChronoFish · · Score: 1

    The Internet indeed does forget. Even the WayBack Machine can't help with everything.

    Race results, runs, swims, triathlons, etc, quite often are only displayed through a database lookup. The caching engines that are simply following links have little hope in finding content that require POST style lookups.

    I've had some success finding results from "wayback" if I can remember the race name and it happened to have it's own website (which not all races did in the mid 90's - some still don't). But for those races where all I have are vague memories of running a "5k somewhere in Denver in the 90's" - the Internet doesn't seem to remember any better than I do.

    -CF

  51. Re:Once example, and a bogus one at that? by Rogerborg · · Score: 1

    Ah, right, I see. If you image Google "Stacy Snyder" now, you'll find the innocent looking image that Snyder has left available. What you won't find is the skanked-up image that actually got her application rejected, which she has (belatedly) managed to elide from the 'tubes.

    So, in fact, the 'tubes have forgotten the evidence. Wait... doesn't that completely refute the only shred of evidence behind the article? EPIC WIN for me, even if you noobs lack a mental cache.

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  52. Responsibility about who you are by DJripper · · Score: 1

    Shouldn't we be responsible for the things we say and do? To let ourselves slip by when we have evidence of what makes us who we are is a way to prevent lying to yourself, especially if everyone else can see. I do think that there might be a legal recourse to prevent the impact of things you did when you were 16 to prevent losing an opportunity when your 30. A statute of limitations on information used to limit employment opportunities. Employment will not be denied due to race, religion, sex or informational history? Its a modern age, and we should have modern responsibilities that can contain modern technologies.

    1. Re:Responsibility about who you are by russotto · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Shouldn't we be responsible for the things we say and do?

      Sure. But for how long and for how much? A number of long term societal trends mean we're supposed to be responsible for everything we say and do forever and at great consequence. If we drink too much at a party and act like an ass, it's no longer enough to apologize and/or endure some humiliation; instead, if the incident makes it on the internet, we're supposed to give up forever any chance of achieving a position of responsibility, whether that be political office or gainful employment. A statute of limitations really isn't enough, and a "lighten up" law isn't likely to succeed.

    2. Re:Responsibility about who you are by Dishevel · · Score: 1

      Can I not judge someone on their stupidity though. I mean if I see a pic of a guy I am about to hire on Facebook with him plastered and grabbing the ass of a waitress. I mean Sure. He could have changed by now. His IQ though is the same now as it was when he posted that pic and I do not want to hire a fucking idiot. Even if he is better at hiding it now.

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    3. Re:Responsibility about who you are by thousandinone · · Score: 1

      I don't believe acting like an idiot while intoxicated is mutually exclusive from being reasonably intelligent when sober. Some may argue that an intelligent person would not partake in drinking, but I would argue there is significant historical evidence to the contrary. I would also question where the person making said statement came upon the authority to make blanket statements linking all instances of an activity to low intelligence.

    4. Re:Responsibility about who you are by Dishevel · · Score: 1

      I am not judging on the fact that the person drinks. I am judging based on the fact that this person thinks that posting that pic online was an AWESOME IDEA DUDE! That would be the reason for me to not hire a person. They have no ability to screen out really bad ideas from the rest of them.

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      Why is it so hard to only have politicians for a few years, then have them go away?
    5. Re:Responsibility about who you are by thousandinone · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And who says THEY posted the picture? On facebook, for example, any and all pictures you have been tagged in can be linked to through your profile. You have the option to remove your name from the tags in a picture, but those can be readily re-added, and there is still a time delay between when you are tagged in the picture, when (and if!) you receive the notification that you were tagged in the picture, and when you can remove the tag. Facebooks notification's aren't as good as they could be- I had a photo of my car, with license plate visible, and something legal but VERY morally questionable depicted in the picture- I was not present in the picture, not was I aware the picture even existed, and I missed the tag notification. A week later, someone commented on the photo and I got THAT notification, but I have no way of knowing how many individuals saw the picture in question in the interim...

    6. Re:Responsibility about who you are by jesset77 · · Score: 1

      We've been working on helping Homosexuals to come out of the closet for years, but now .. now it looks like we need to help the Homo SAPIENS come out of the closet, too.

      Alright! Fine, you caught me! I'm human.

      I can still get employed though, we just need to rejigger the Affirmative Action laws a bit. Let's say, make it illegal to base hiring decisions on non-legally-contested shit that went down more than 7 years ago. *shrug*

      --
      People willing to trade their freedom of expression for temporary entertainment deserve neither and will lose both.
  53. Technology will not change, people will by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Rather then changing technology to something it is not suited for, maybe we should expect people to change? I think people will ( they already are!) start caring less about privacy and as a result they moral and behavioral standards will change. They old tart who snitched on the teacher dressed like bunny will eventually go. New generation couldn't care less about those things. Look how the notion of privacy has deteriorated - five years ago putting your name and resume on the web would have been unthinkable. Now even tarts have linkedin profiles. Give them a few years and they all dress like bunnies.

  54. Forgetting not the solution by naasking · · Score: 1

    The solution is not to forget, but to ensure that people can't be discriminated against in this way. Employers should be permitted to look at past employment history and recommendations only. Personal information not explicitly granted by the individual should be off limits.

  55. 0 seeders by bug1 · · Score: 1

    we ought to build forgetting into the Internet

    Bittorrent works fine for this, people seed what they think is good and dont see the crap. It effectively forgets the bad stuff.

    On the human side, i used to wonder why the ancient greek philosophers where so great. But if you boil it down, its knowledge from about 500 BC to 500 AD that has been selectively filtered by humans since then, the good stuff gets remembered and eventually written down, the bad stuff doesnt.

    Forgetting the crap is just as important as remembering the good stuff.

  56. The Poor Man's Background Check by stevegee58 · · Score: 1

    It may seem unfair, but I can assure you that employers type job candidates' names into Google and see what comes up.

    At that point, the employer becomes judge and jury, potentially convicting you without a fair trial or even your knowledge.
    Some might find dirt and dig deeper to realize it's someone else. Others will stop at the first red flag and shit-can the resume.

    I've advised my kids of this but they won't listen and clearly no one's listening. Facebook and other similar sites are a disaster for privacy and personal freedom. And it's not Facebook's fault; it's the users posting incriminating pictures and comments that are at fault.

    Telling someone to stop using Facebook is absurd. It's so wired into the psyche of its users that it's like detoxing a drug user. Yet getting off Facebook is the best possible you can do to protect your reputation.

    The internet will never forget. You're better off not having things out there you'll regret later.

  57. Soon to be forgotten... by bodland · · Score: 1

    Fogetfullness...

  58. Wikihistory by gmuslera · · Score: 1

    At least have the (pro? con?) that not just the winners that write and rewrite history now. Put something in charge of writting what matter in what it happened (i.e. for old enough content, before deleting) and you will fall into the same again. The problem is not forgetting, is burying what is "true" with what is not.

  59. THANK YOU! by denzacar · · Score: 1

    Making The Internets "forgettable" is just putting a band-aid on torn limb.
    Not to mention a flawed idea that sounds like something only a historical revisionist would come up with.

    If anything there needs to be MORE transparency on EVERYONE'S actions. Particularly on actions of people in power and "deciders".
    In time, such a practice might teach us to stop judging people only by their past mistakes and/or current status.
    You know, not just ask "for that among you who is without sin to first cast the stone", but to give everyone a stone AND a bulls-eye on their forehead.
    And then remind them of that other verse that goes "Don't judge, lest you be judged. And then I'll crack your fucking skull cause I too have a stone motherfucker. Amen.".

    Naturally, there are those people who can't be reasoned with - but it's not like anything short of an actual stoning will work on them anyway.
    Only, if you were to dig around in their closets you will surely find similar or worse skeletons.
    And tossing hypocritical stones is just an exercise in pointlessness and waste of time and energy.

    Or was that hypothetical stones?

    --
    Mit der Dummheit kämpfen Götter selbst vergebens
  60. Oh, we're watching, all right. by fyngyrz · · Score: 3, Informative

    In America, we have passed laws that list people for the rest of their lives as felons, creating a permanent underclass that can only aspire to the very lowest forms of employment. Even then, they are accepted only if they are unopposed by higher class citizens. These people completely lose the ability to participate in the vast majority of attempts to better themselves.

    These listings directly affect not only employment opportunities, but also credit scores, insurance rates, privacy (in many ways) and where people are allowed to live.

    This society is learning how to use memory and identification together as the broadest, most effective cudgel possible. We have wholly abandoned the idea of rehabilitation in favor of retribution.

    We are well into the process of hardcore stratification; worries about what might end up on a myspace page are part and parcel of the classing-is-good attitude that our society has assumed.

    Because our society almost never revisits law, this situation is unlikely to reverse under almost any imaginable circumstance. Our citizens (and so our politicians) are pathologically unable to generalize in the way that our founders did, and so are perfectly willing to abandon any liberty or degree of freedom for any hint of safety, or what they perceive as safety, but isn't -- and that includes creating a hopeless underclass that lives under bridges.

    --
    I've fallen off your lawn, and I can't get up.
    1. Re:Oh, we're watching, all right. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In America, we have passed laws that list people for the rest of their lives as felons, creating a permanent underclass that can only aspire to the very lowest forms of employment.

      Until they rebel and destroy the rest of you.

      Hey. It's happened before. I hope you're smug enough to survive...

      Just like the guys before you.

  61. build forgetting into the Internet by countertrolling · · Score: 1

    Oh.. Just what we need. Make the internet like talking to Abe Simpson.

    --
    For justice, we must go to Don Corleone
  62. Speaking as a puritanical prick by Kupfernigk · · Score: 3, Insightful
    You won't get rid of us in a hurry. So you had better focus on fixing the invasion of privacy. It's going to be a difficult area to fix, especially the balance between exposing the hypocrisy of those in power, and protecting the rights of the poor.

    But hang on a minute. It isn't the puritanical pricks who are posting those photos; I personally would never post any picture of anyone in a public place without their permission (if it's evidence of illegality, go to the police.) It's...the people who "know how to have a good time". And who are the people who post inappropriate images out of a desire to bully or mock? Check. Perhaps someone needs a slight values reassessment.

    --
    From scarped cliff or quarried stone she cries "A thousand types are gone, I care for nothing, no not one."
  63. Re:Once example, and a bogus one at that? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    EPIC WIN for me, even if you noobs lack a mental cache.

    EPIC FAIL, dipshit.

    http://www.podcastingnews.com/2007/12/30/myspace-party-pic-cost-stacy-snyder-job/

  64. and what was that one picture, a picture of? by inerlogic · · Score: 1

    was she drunkenly flashing her tits to a camera and then posting it online? doing something illegal, and then stupid enough to post it for the world to see?

    yeh, someone that stupid is exactly who i don't want influencing my kids, let her flip burgers with the rest of the waste in this society...

    hey, the pope used to be a nazi, now he's pope.... (don't look at me, i didn't vote for him)

    society doesn't forget... it forgives apparently...

    p.s. if a future employer of mine is reading this, and you're not going to hire me because you can't seperate the interwebs from the "real world" then fuck you, i don't want to work for you anyway...

  65. 'societal forgetting' is dumb by countertrolling · · Score: 1

    What we should have is 'societal ignoring' of things that are irrelevant to the situation at hand. You know, things like credit history or a piss test for a burger flipper at MickeyDees.

    --
    For justice, we must go to Don Corleone
  66. It's OK - with one proviso by Kupfernigk · · Score: 1

    So long as you did COBOL for money, you're allowed. People got rich writing COBOL. Smalltalk though...has anybody ever earned any money from it (teaching excluded)?

    --
    From scarped cliff or quarried stone she cries "A thousand types are gone, I care for nothing, no not one."
  67. Exception with Chinese Internet by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously, it is feasible.

  68. He who controls the past controls the future by line-bundle · · Score: 1

    The problem is not so much about forgetting. It's about controlling the archives.

    I had a very interesting case recently regarding a form for a government beaurocracy. They changed some details in the form and they wiped the old edition off the planet. The only reason I knew of the change is because I had printed it earlier. Pity I never saved a PDF of the original form.

  69. I learned early to blog under aliases by peter303 · · Score: 1

    I wrote a lot of stuff in the 1980s and 1990s under my full name. We just had university accounts then under true names. When the "public" got accounts they of course searched for what little was on the net in the early days my dumb shit came up. For example, usenet used to be wiped every 30 days due to disk space. Who thought google would keep that online forever? I only participate under partial names now.

  70. Another solution du jour to all our problems by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is ridiculous and perfectly expendable; whoever wrote that piece of shit does not have a problem with people remembering what he did, he has a problem admitting his own mistakes. Also, what bullshit is 'if forgetting is impossible forgiving becomes difficult'. Forgiving is not about forgetting!

    Life is what it is, you don't get a restart button, the Internet copies life. Poor you.

  71. you suffer from historical myopia by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    in which things seem to be changing that are not actually changing, rather the only thing changing is your perceptions (and assumptions)

    http://science.slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=1350875&cid=29231109

    I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words... When I was young, we were taught to be discreet and respectful of elders, but the present youth are exceedingly disrespectful and impatient of restraint.

    - Hesiod, 700 BC

    Our earth is degenerate in these latter days; there are signs that the world is speedily coming to an end; bribery and corruption are common; children no longer obey their parents; every man wants to write a book and the end of the world is evidently approaching.

    - Assyrian tablet, 2800 BC

    We live in a decaying age. Young people no longer respect their parents. They are rude and impatient. They frequently inhabit taverns and have no self control.

    - Egyptian tomb, 4000 BC

    what you perceive to be changing, in absolute truth, is not changing in the slightest. point of fact

    and your anecdote about your dad's era as a cop is especially laughable, as the era your dad was a cop was marked by much corruption, the thin blue line, the cops functioning as a sort of mafia etc. ever hear of serpico?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frank_Serpico

    crap like that was embarassing enough that police departments were cleaned up of their internal graft and corruption. of course that shit still goes on today. just to a lesser extent than your dad's era

    so if anything law enforcement has been cleaned up in recent years and has been more accountable (and, in no small part, crime has fallen from the era your dad was a cop). in other words, in the short term, law enforcement has improved in quality from your dad's era (as a function of crime statistics). in other words, your anecdote about your dad's opinion of what is happening with police today versus his era is the exact reverse as you describe it

    --
    intellectual property law is philosophically incoherent. it is your moral duty to ignore it or sabotage it
    1. Re:you suffer from historical myopia by Fantastic+Lad · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Cyclical disasters and extinctions certainly occur, empires rise and fall; there are cycles to all things.

      When all the people get dumb, rude and hopeless, it's nearly always an indicator that powerful societal shifts are just around the corner.

      The human population as a whole has walked around many such corners during its time occupying this globe, and I see no reason to think that this process will overlook our current time. That some ancients noted the same patterns before their own societies eventually crumbled only lends credence to the OP's observations.

      The difference today, is that our high-tech society allows for a speedier realization of the process outcome.

      -FL

    2. Re:you suffer from historical myopia by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Better is always worse for someone...

      When the have-nots get something, it comes out of the hoards jealously guarded by the have's. His dad was probably pissed since there was more paperwork and things had to be justified and accounted for, it's a story as old as time...

  72. if we are perfect, will we be human? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    'will forever tether us to all our past actions, making it impossible, in practice, to escape them.'

    it isn't just our past actions, but our future ones. in a society where everything is recorded permanently, how will we be able to function? to make the mistakes necessary to learn, grow, and understand ourselves?

    in a past slashdot article (http://science.slashdot.org/story/10/06/20/1722255/Why-Being-Wrong-Makes-Humans-So-Smart?art_pos=7), human intelligence and ingenuity has been arguably linked to our ability to make mistakes. if we are striving to be perfect all the time, are we still being human?

  73. The internet DOES forget. by Fantastic+Lad · · Score: 1

    Remember that cool webpage you visited ten years ago with that neat factoid you'd like to reference?

    What was the web address? Can you find it again now?

    Does the original web host even still exist? Geo-cities, or something. . ?

    It HAS to be cached somewhere. . , right? If you spend the next hour beating your head against the keyboard, you *might* be able to find it again.

    I don't know about you, but pulling up old data from the web feels to me a LOT like trying to dredge up old memories from my brain.

    -FL

  74. Except this post by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've got you now!

  75. selective propagandistic memory by cekander · · Score: 1

    Remembering is wonderful. Forgetting creates balance. The problem is when memory and forgetfulness are influenced by unbalanced, unchecked forces. In that regard internet is almost instantly better than tv, because you and I can contribute more. That we are unconsciously passing on our own brainwashed influences is of concern, but the hope is this will diminish with the new generation that learns to seek knowledge instead of being spoonfed.

  76. Re:self-righteous goody-goody by TaoPhoenix · · Score: 1

    Ray Stevens Mississippi Squirrel - GoodyGoody's , 1-0.

    --
    My first Journal Entry ever, in 8 years! http://slashdot.org/journal/365947/aphelion-scifi-fantasy-horror-poetry-webzine
  77. Remember and move on. by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 1

    By erasing external memories, he says in the book, 'our society accepts that human beings evolve over time, that we have the capacity to learn from past experiences and adjust our behavior.' In traditional societies, where missteps are observed but not necessarily recorded, the limits of human memory ensure that people's sins are eventually forgotten. By contrast, Mayer-Schönberger notes, a society in which everything is recorded 'will forever tether us to all our past actions, making it impossible, in practice, to escape them.' He concludes that 'without some form of forgetting, forgiving becomes a difficult undertaking.'"

    Who decides what's remembered and forgotten? Why even study History then? Yes, let's forget about The Holocaust, the Iraq war or the financial sector meltdown. What about your first marriage? How about the Moon landings - as long as we're into forgetting things.

    Hiding and/or forgetting things doesn't make them go away. Growth and Forgiving are about remembering yet moving forward anyway.

    --
    It must have been something you assimilated. . . .
  78. Don't Forget by b4upoo · · Score: 1

    I see no reason not to remember all things. And as for people with bad incidents in their past that is just fine. After all if everyones' bad moments are recorded others may also notice that one person has a lot less bad moments than others. Or a seemingly shocking nude photo becomes meaningless when almost all of the teachers have nude photos on the net.
                          Instead of the notion of allowing people to escape from their past would it not be better, even for children, to really, deeply know that all mistakes will travel with them throughout their lives. The idea being that if people can not escape past errors then they will tend not to make errors.

  79. Write-only storage? by Jim+Hall · · Score: 1

    [..] the idea that perhaps we ought to build forgetting into the Internet.

    Back in the heady days of the Dot-Com Boom, before the Crash, a friend and I almost set up a dot-com site that would advertise write-only storage. We even had the patter written up for a mocked web site, ready to go into production.

    The site would have advertised our high-tech write-only "/dev/null" storage to allow our users the ability to store as much information as they liked. There was no limit on quota, or file type. You could upload MP3s, documents, whatever to our "/dev/null" storage system. We'd award prizes (from advertisers) to the top uploaders each month.

    The only catch, and we were very open about this, was that the system was truly write-only. You could write anything you wanted to the system. But you couldn't read it back. Ever. Sure, we'd track what files (filenames, type, etc.) you uploaded to the system - but you could never read them. Such was the forward thinking of the "/dev/null" storage.

    Our site encouraged users to upload things that society didn't really need to remember anymore. Things like instructions on how to build an atomic bomb, or whatever. Put it into our "/dev/null" system, delete your local copy, and it's gone forever. Or at least, that was the concept of the site. :-)

    (Ultimately, we canned the idea due to bandwidth costs.)

  80. No problem! by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

    It's just like I always say: You wouldn't have a problem with this sort of thing if you were perfect like me...

    --
    That is all.
  81. Getting used to forget is a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    IMHO forgetting is not useful, and even nocive, at least from a point of view: public opinion already has extremely short-termed memories, specially when government actions are involved. These are already good enough at reinventing themselves for us to blindly embrace the idea that indiscriminate forgetting is a sensible choice. Todays news should not wrap tomorrows sandwiches, but get ripped off and crystallize into recent history.

    Back to judging normal people, forgiving is great, but again should have nothing to do with forgetting.

    Excuses in advance for my english!

  82. They don't exist by xant · · Score: 1

    They are just good at hiding it. But they're not even that good. Take, for example, the current fashion of outing conservative, anti-gay Republicans as gay. These people aren't puritans, they're just self-loathing, and it's gotten damn easy to catch them at being hypocrites.. so easy that it's become a cliche that if you sound like a conservative white male, you're probably cruising me.

    This applies to all kinds of sins. Human frailty and ego being what they are, you will find plenty of examples of the public teetotaler who gets drunk at home and beats his wife, the anti-drug mom who's hopelessly addicted to Oxy, the pro-censorship nut who's into rape porn, and so on. And technology being what it is, their private sins will soon become part of their permanent record, too. The people they hurt will out them to get revenge or force them to get treatment. It only takes one uploaded video to make your private sin public for eternity.

    Worry less about what puritans will do and more about how to forgive your loved ones when you find out what they're really like.

    --
    It's rare that you're presented with a knob whose only two positions are Make History and Flee Your Glorious Destiny.
  83. 4getting... by coerciblegerm · · Score: 1

    It sounds to me like this guy wants the Internet to become 4chan. No thanks.

  84. Forever - but consequences fade by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    Sure. But for how long and for how much? A number of long term societal trends mean we're supposed to be responsible for everything we say and do forever and at great consequence.

    For how long? Forever. That's just how things are.

    For how much though... you say "at great consequence". But in a world when every single person has youthful indiscretions recorded for all time, people in the long run simply will not care about old stuff that comes up. We are just in a transition phase now where not every 50 year old has stuff online covering most of his life - it's a very different world when that is the case.

    This is the very definition of the "interesting times" phrase the chinese curse alludes to.

    --
    "There is more worth loving than we have strength to love." - Brian Jay Stanley
  85. You know... by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

    It's just like I tell my kids: You wouldn't have to worry about stuff like this, if you were perfect like me.

    --
    That is all.
  86. Necessarily Out Of Context by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A photograph is perhaps the most egregious kind of recording medium possible. A photograph captures only a single microsecond out of a continuous, and often protracted and convoluted, development in time. A photograph is *necessarily* always out of context because the associated developmental stream is completely ignored.

    This is why detached images make excellent propaganda tools. They can mislead easily and elegantly.

    But any intelligent and aware recruiter (Is there such an animal?) should understand this shortcoming completely and therefore not rely on photographic records as evidence of a candidate's worthiness. To do so is a sign of extreme naivete.

  87. "Young man!" by bwcbwc · · Score: 1

    "Do you realize that this atrocious behavior is going on your PERMANENT RECORD?"

    So now the old teachers' threat is real.

    --
    We are the 198 proof..
  88. 1984 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm surprised I didn't see any reference to 1984 (the one by George Orwell, not the one by G-d).

    As more of our information becomes on-line-only, it potentially becomes much easier for someone to edit out things they dislike (i.e. change history). If we actively enable web-forgetting, the ability of someone to rewrite the facts as they see fit becomes much greater. Frankly, that scares me far more than the potential loss of privacy.

  89. More making amends, less forgetting by FoolishOwl · · Score: 1

    Is anyone else reminded of the movie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

    From the scenario described above, the problem isn't that the Internet preserved the memory of a youthful mistake; the problem is that a potential employer made a hiring decision on the basis of that mistake. Hiding the truth is an imperfect solution to an unjust world; a just human world would never forget, but would understand and forgive, when there has been an effort to make amends.

    In fact, I think we could argue that deliberate forgetting, instead of making amends, is part of the problem. Some people are better at hiding the truth than others. And come to think of it, for a lot of potential employers, someone skilled at hiding their own past is likely someone skilled at hiding their employers' mistakes.

    Take a look at the big black splotch in the Gulf of Mexico as a reminder of the consequences of forgetting mistakes and going on as if they hadn't happened.

  90. Don't defend Stacy Snyder by As_I_Please · · Score: 1

    Stacy Snyder was not denied a teaching credential solely for posting a picture on MySpace. You can read the reasons in the judge's decisions (PDF).

    Starting on page 6, Mid-Placement Evaluations, we find Ms. Snyder:

    - had “problems with discipline and also with content”
    - "had difficulty maintaining a formal teaching manner"
    - was "ignorant of basic grammar, punctuation, spelling, and usage"
    - on several ... would “make up an answer” or “give the wrong answer” to student questions about literature or grammar.
    - left too many students behind as a result of ineffective lessons.
    - efforts to “share her personal life” with the students crossed into “unprofessionalism.”
    - told an English class that her Valentines Day had been “ruined” when she encountered her former husband while dining out with her boyfriend.

    As for the MySpace photo, it would have been less of a problem if Ms. Snyder had not directed her students to visit her MySpace page (something else she was instructed not to do (page 8)). The photo, along with a letter of apology featuring many grammar mistakes, was the last straw that led to Ms. Snyder without a teaching credential.

    Surely, there are better examples of people being harmed by inadvertent disclosures on the internet.

  91. It's unnecessary panic. by bandmassa · · Score: 1

    Just as society evolved to make it it illegal to discriminate against people because of their ethnicity or belief structure, society will probably evolve just as easily to make discrimination on the basis reasonably distant past acts illegal, too. There is already precedent for this sort of approach in some jurisdictions - the statute of limitations. A good law might deem post data older than 5 years in a social context and 10 years in a career or education context irrelevant and make it unlawful to be used in assessment of your fitness as a person.

    --
    "I hope you like Guinness, Sir. I find it a refreshing substitute for, er... food." Col. Jack O'Neil, SG-1