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Man Wants to Donate His Heart Before He Dies

Gary Phebus wants to donate his heart, lungs, and liver. The problem is he wants to donate them before he dies. Gary was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, better known as Lou Gehrig's disease, in 2008. Phebus says he'd like to be able to donate his organs before they deteriorate, and doesn't consider his request suicide because he's "dead anyway."

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  1. Kinda by MBGMorden · · Score: 5, Insightful

    While I don't really care to stop him in his request - let him do what he wants - I still consider the "dead anyway" argument flawed. ALL OF US are "dead anyway". Life is a condition with a 100% fatality rate. It's just a matter of when. Just because his when is likely sooner than most (not definitely though - I'm currently healthy but could easily be hit by a car this afternoon, and him still outlive me), doesn't make his death any less significant.

    In short, it's still suicide. The only question is, whether suicide should be legal or not. Were I in his shoes it's not a choice I would make (might as well eek out as much time as I can), but I wouldn't deny him the right to make the choice.

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    1. Re:Kinda by commodore64_love · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you don't own your body, then you are slave.

      Therefore it you are not slave, you should be free to do whatever you want with your body or its organs, including termination.

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    2. Re:Kinda by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      If you own your body, then you are able to sell it into slavery...wait.

    3. Re:Kinda by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 4, Funny

      If you own your body, then you are able to sell it into slavery...wait.

      It's called being a Walmart employee....

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    4. Re:Kinda by MozeeToby · · Score: 5, Interesting

      His death isn't even that imminent, consider that Stephen Hawking was diagnosed with ALS 47 years ago. An extreme case certainly (the longest survivor of any ALS patient), and I doubt that many people would have adapted to and overcome the psychological problems of the disease as well as Hawking has. But to say that ALS is 100% death sentence is obviously wrong.

    5. Re:Kinda by digitig · · Score: 4, Funny

      All death is suicide. We chose to be born

      Speak for yourself. I wanted to stay in there.

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    6. Re:Kinda by masmullin · · Score: 5, Funny

      I wasn't entirely satisfied with mine, it got kinda cramped after 9 months. So I keep trying out others to find the right fit for me. I'm sure there is the perfect one out there somewhere

      I should totally get a +5 romantic for that one.

    7. Re:Kinda by Rennt · · Score: 4, Informative

      Why do people think motorcycles are dangerous?

      1) MOTORCYCLISTS Selection bias favours thrill seekers & risk takers. 45% of all fatal bike accidents are single-vehicle accidents - they just fall off.
      2) CARS. Even assuming other road users are paying attention (you should never assume this - ever) a car is made of metal and weighs 20 times what you do. Altercations between cars and squishy people do not end well, no matter how much leather said squishy person is wearing.
      3) STATISTICS Motorcyclists are 16 times more likely to die in a crash. Total miles traveled by MC's makes up less then 1% of the national fleet, but bike riders make up 12% of the annual road toll.

    8. Re:Kinda by timeOday · · Score: 3, Informative

      Perhaps it is not legal to assist suicide, but it is legal to buy a one-way ticket to a country where assisted suicide is legal. (Or put it on your credit card :) There was a frontline on this. As it so happens the person in question also had ALS.

  2. No different... by the_one_wesp · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Than someone jumping in front of a bullet to avoid it hitting someone else. Both are willingly inviting death to save another's life.

    1. Re:No different... by cyber0ne · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I wouldn't say "willingly inviting death" but I see the point you're making.

      I'm reminded of an episode of M*A*S*H where a soldier was brain-dead due to too much shrapnel turning his head to swiss cheese. The doctors were waiting for his body to fully die (all other functions were still going, but slowly fading) because they needed to harvest some tissue to save someone else. The soldier's friend, recovering from his own injuries, was upset that they were just waiting like vultures to butcher his friend.

      The priest asked him if his friend was the kind of guy who would jump on a grenade to save his buddies. The soldier responded that, yes, his dying friend would have done that without a second thought. "Well," the priest said, "that's what he's doing right now." He died back on the battlefield, the rest of his body just hasn't figured it out yet.

      This guy is facing a similar decision, he just wants to make it himself while he can before someone else has to make it for him.

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  3. Re:a psych eval..... by nospam007 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "Give the guy an evaluation and if he isnt deemed crazy or suicidal grant him his wish."

    Wanting to die is usually always suicidal, no?

  4. Assisted suicide by Sarten-X · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It's the same physician-assisted suicide argument that cropped up so many years ago. The only difference is that this guy's going for a "noble hero" approach instead of a "suffering patient".

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  5. Grant him his wish by StuartHankins · · Score: 4, Insightful

    And perhaps take some time to reflect on what the world would be like without people willing to sacrifice everything for someone else, even a stranger.

    Sometimes being in the limbo between life and death, waiting for it to arrive, is too much to bear. Give him peace in a dignified and respectful way.

    Perhaps it says something about us, that we require a psych eval before allowing someone to give so freely of themselves?

  6. Bad idea to authorize this by frednofr · · Score: 4, Interesting

    While this may seem like a good idea at first glance, the implications of accepting such requests could be terrifying:

    One could imagine threats such as "If you don't give your heart to patient, we will murder your family one by one".

    Desperate people with questionable morals will go to great length to save someone they care about.

  7. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by MoeDumb · · Score: 3, Informative

    Not true. In NY for example it is illegal to remove a patient's organs before he has been pronounced dead by a physician using certain clinical criteria. Depending on the organs in question the pathologist has window of one to 24 hours for the tissue to be viable. A special case is when a patient is on a ventilator. He can be declared "brain dead" which is legally irreversible, clinical death, but all his organs can be kept 'alive' and healthy for days.

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  8. There is still a 10-20% chance of long life by jeffmeden · · Score: 4, Insightful

    He may not want to accept being wheelchair bound but he could have a fulfilling life with ALS, even though the chances are relatively slim. He should take up physics, after all Stephen Hawkig isn't going to live *forever*. If he really wants to be an organ donor, he should do what every one else does: file the appropriate paperwork at the DMV and buy a motorcycle*.

    *As a motorcycle owner, I am comfortable with this joke.

  9. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Shakrai · · Score: 4, Interesting

    NY is considering making organ donation the default status in the state unless you opt out of it. I actually think that's a bridge too far -- the state ought not to assume that I want to give away my body parts without confirmation of this wish.

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  10. Re:altruism incarnate by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm not saying his heart isn't in the right place (no pun intended), but if he considers himself a dead man anyway, is it really altruistic? It's kind of like the old millionaire who leaves his estate to a charity. Was it really charitable of him if he didn't give it away while he was still living?

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  11. Re:a psych eval..... by cyber0ne · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Accepting the inevitability of death isn't exactly the same as being suicidal. We all know we're going to die, most of us just ignore that fact in our daily lives. But when someone is directly facing that reality they may choose to want to make it "mean something" as in this guy's case.

    "Suicidal" means wanting to die. I doubt this guy wants to die, but he does want his inevitable death to mean something to someone.

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  12. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Shakrai · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's between me and whatever Gods I believe in.

    The free exercise of religion is sufficient reason on it's own for organ donation to be an opt-in affair.

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  13. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Captain+Splendid · · Score: 4, Funny

    Let his family sell them on the black market, of course. What are you, some kind of communist?

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  14. Re:we all are dead.. by the_one_wesp · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm not dead yet! I feel happy! I want to go for a walk!

  15. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by digitig · · Score: 5, Insightful

    There have been suggestions of medical attention switching, whilst the patient is still alive, from preservation of life to preservation of organs, though. That's worrying.

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  16. Re:a psych eval..... by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Wanting to die is usually always suicidal, no?

    There's a difference between "wanting" and "not caring". My wife died several years ago from a brain tumor. Now I don't really care how long I live... Even have my Will, Living Will, DNR and body donation (to science, like she did) forms filed - and I'm only 47. Not only that, I'm not afraid because she's there - wherever that may be - even if only in the abstract.

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  17. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Animaether · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The problem with it being opt-in is that it also makes it lazy.

    Most people don't put any thought into whether they want to be a donor or not, and whatever religious or superstitial concerns may arise, because the question of being a donor or not never affects them in an opt-in scenario.
    After all, if you're not a donor, you don't have to think about parts of your body being used to help others. It's easy and lazy.

    If you make it opt-out, people will be forced to think about this and make a decision to either remain a donor, or opt out of it.

    If it weren't likely to elicit "ZOMG Teh Constutition!" responses, I'd say this should actually really be handled in high school or college. Have people decide actively to either be a donor, or -not- be a donor; no 'default' status being presumed (with younger children falling under the wisdom (with any luck) of their parents/guardians).

    If opt-in is the norm.. very well. But I do think that those who choose not to be a donor should in fact be treated differently when it comes to receiving a donor. I wouldn't go as far as saying that they shouldn't get the donor organ (or skin graft or whatever).. but perhaps a donor recipient should automatically be made a donor themselves. After all, it's not 100% their own body they'd be deciding about anymore, and at least somebody whose organ(s) you received -did- choose to be a donor.

  18. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Shakrai · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If you make it opt-out, people will be forced to think about this and make a decision to either remain a donor, or opt out of it.

    And if you make it opt-in and someone gets into an accident and can't be identified for whatever reason (do you always carry your ID when you leave the house?) his wishes aren't going to be respected.

    In the absence of proof that a person consented to organ donation it's absurd to slice up his body and take his organs. The ownership of my body does not transfer to the state when I die.

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  19. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by masmullin · · Score: 4, Funny

    Of course he would. He's greedy, not stupid!

  20. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by masmullin · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You have to be brain dead

    That's what? ..... 90% of Americans?

  21. Re:Safe to transplant? by masmullin · · Score: 4, Insightful

    You have 3 days to live w/o a transplant. Do you want them now?

  22. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Beardo+the+Bearded · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I am an organ donor.

    I have specifically requested that there is nothing left of me to bury or burn. Once I'm dead I will have no further use of this meatbag and anyone who wants a piece of it can have it. Hang my skeleton in a medical school and show future generations of doctors what bones look like. Let my heart pump blood in a teenager's body and let someone break it. Open my eyes to see another sunrise. Have my skin feel a gentle touch again after someone's had a bad burn. My kidneys and liver would love to have another drink -- and this one's on me. I'm not sure what my spleen does, but I'm pretty sure there's someone lying in a hospital bed who does. Likewise, there's a kid with lukemia who's dying for a little bit of bone marrow.

    When there's nothing else left that someone wants, burn it and use it to fertilize an apple tree. Bake me a pie and serve it with ice cream.

    My wife is an organ donor.

    My children (6 and 4) are organ donors.

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  23. Bad example by Atmchicago · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The problem in your example has nothing to do with allowing giving up your organs and everything to do with old-fashioned crime and thugs.

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  24. "I own my body" argument leads to slavery by spun · · Score: 4, Interesting

    If you don't own your body, then you are slave.

    Then I guess we are all slaves because someone tried to put some THC into his body the other day and got arrested for doing so......

    This is not logical. For instance, perhaps no one can possibly "own" a living human being. If you don't own yourself because no one can, then you aren't a slave. You can also "own" your body but still be a slave. You can have your liberty compromised without your body being compromised, for instance if someone threatens to take away your only livelihood unless you comply with their demands. You can also effectively be a slave simply through a lack of understanding of your own freedom.

    I only ever see this 'you own your own body' argument from libertarians, who use it to justify absolute property rights. But these absolute property rights lead directly to 'voluntary' slavery: do what I say or starve to death because we own all the property and you do not. The entire premise is a simplistic piece of philosophical masturbation. I say, just as no one can (or should) own the air we breath, no one can (or should) own a human, including themselves. Libertarians want to make everything about ownership, but ownership is a simplistic and selfish concept. I would rather have society based on mutual agreement (which is the only thing society can be based on, really, I just want that explicitly acknowledged.)

    Libertarians say, "You own your body, therefore you own the rewards of your work, therefore no one can tell you what to do with your property because that amounts to slavery." I like that conclusion, but why go to such convoluted lengths to reach it? It's much simpler like this: "You control the rewards of your work because everyone agrees that they would like to control the rewards of theirs." That's it. No need to invoke ownership or slavery at all, just agreement. And it leaves open the idea that we can and should limit property rights when they interfere with society. Sometimes, there are things that are more important than having total control over your own stored labor. For instance, pollution is an externality. That means that you should not be allowed to pollute your own property, because it imposes a cost on others. You should also not be allowed to buy up all the property and make everyone work for you or starve to death.

    In short, "I own my own body and therefore should have absolute property rights" leads, inevitably, to slavery. "We agree to these sets of rights and obligations" does not necessarily lead to slavery.

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  25. I'm not sure I get it . . . by wrencherd · · Score: 3, Funny

    I am an organ donor.

    My wife is an organ donor.

    My children (6 and 4) are organ donors.

    . . . are you trying to say that you believe in organ donation or what?

  26. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by RobertM1968 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'd mod you "+10 Fucking Awesome" but sadly, Slashdot has no such mod. Hope my intent is worth as much as the action /. wont let me perform.

  27. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Shakrai · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Since a majority of Americans self-identify as Christian, but not as belonging to a particular sect which disbelieves in organ donation, I think including religion in the mix argues in favor of opt-out organ donation.

    No it doesn't. You can't determine someone's moral/religious beliefs regarding the disposition of their remains based on what the "majority" believes.

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  28. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by CrashandDie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    No, you made your kids organ donors. They didn't decide.

    It's the same as claiming your child is of a specific religious belief, agnostic, atheist, liberal, democrat, or whatnot. As much as you seem extremely honourable about your after-death actions, I have a hard time accepting people will time and time again press their own ideas onto their children.

    Educate them, give them the ability to make their own decision. I doubt that at age 4 and 6, either of them have that ability.

  29. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Sir_Sri · · Score: 4, Insightful

    preserving one life, or preserving several.

    I don't suppose any of these decisions are easy, but how many people die every year due to a lack of an available organ? How many people do we keep alive for a few days, or a few hours just for the benefit of their families emotional state (which is a product of a culture we created), and in the process wreck their organs?

    Having grown up in a rich country (canada), and spent a lot of time in poor ones, we in the rich world do a catastrophically bad job of making hard choices, myself included. We keep people alive, when they aren't able to live, and we treat the absolute maximum survivability of one individual as paramount over the reasonable survivability of many. It's an emotional allocation of resources, not an efficient one. Whether it's healthcare dollars or peoples organs, they are in truth, resources which can be, and are managed. The goal is to manage them efficiently. That needs to combine the people, and actual experts, who are removed from the emotional realities of the situation.

    When a soldier sees a grenade land in the middle of his unit, and, in 3 seconds or less decides his life is worse less than his comrades jumps on the grenade and kills himself, whether he (and the rest his unit) could have all managed to get out of the way or not, we give them a posthumous medal, a flag, usually a promotion in rank so his family gets a better pension. But when a person spends years carefully assessing their role in the world, and the quality of life they have, vs what they can do we get all offended.

    I think it's encouraging that we would start looking to preserve lives, rather than a life. When you stop throwing silly amounts of money at a problem you start thinking responsibly about what is important, and what can, and should be done. If you build a system that lets people be (emotionally) greedy, and stupid, they will be, because people are. If you build a system centred around helping not just your mental state, but the physical and mental state of people who you don't even know you're more likely to get a more efficient use of the resources available. This requires first and foremost that doctors be honest with patients, and each other, about what a prognosis is. Secondly it require a society that lets people be honest with themselves about what their prognosis is. As the original article states, this guy has had 2 years to come to grips with this, when the life expectancy for someone with ALS is about 4 years (20k people with ALS, 5k/year diagnosis). For every stephen hawking there are probably 4999 people who don't even make the 4 year mark, the quicker you can come to grips with the time you have, the more you can do with it, and the more you can value the time someone else might have too.

  30. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Animaether · · Score: 3, Insightful

    And if you make it opt-in and someone gets into an accident and can't be identified for whatever reason [...] his wishes aren't going to be respected.

    True - and that is a risk that you take yourself when you don't carry any form of identification. This is no different from a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) card. If you forget to bring that, get in an accident, and you get resuscitated anyway.. well, tough.

    (do you always carry your ID when you leave the house?)

    Yes - my ID, my credit card, my debit card, my drivers' license, my (medical) insurance card, my unlimited-movies-at-the-theater card and, of course, my donor registration card I -always- carry with me when I leave the house same as I do my keys (can't get back in without them).

    In the absence of proof that a person consented to organ donation it's absurd to slice up his body and take his organs.

    For a moment I was wondering if you meant to argue that case in your first sentence - but I guess you're going for that approach here; If the system is opt-out and somebody can't be identified, that their organs would be taken under a presumption that they are a donor. Just in case: heck no. Of course the person should be identified first to get a conclusive donor vs non-donor either way; otherwise: presume non-donor.

    The ownership of my body does not transfer to the state when I die.

    That remains to be seen under many, many jurisdictions, especially as time passes from the time of death. In fact, if you are the victim of a homocide, ownership of your body -is- temporarily transferred to the state for purposes of conducting their investigation. Your body would only later be released to your family / loved ones / etc.
    But trying to muddy the waters by appealing to people's emotions that "opt-out" = "The Man is gonna harvest your organs!"? really?

  31. Re:I fail to see what is newsworthy by Beardo+the+Bearded · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Well, they play with LEGO all the time. (There's an xkcd reference here, but I can't check it at work to get the URL.)

    But yes, you are technically correct that my kids are not making the decision. I would hope that they get the chance to observe my actions over the course of their childhood and learn to act with decency towards their fellow human beings, rather than being pedantic about how you can never really make decisions. ;)

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  32. Re:Your children? by izomiac · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Well, if you wait until they're old enough, then there will never be any child-sized organs to donate. Right now, when a child dies, the parents may be asked about organ donation (a very sensitive topic, obviously, but many parents chose to help another child survive, despite being unable to save their own). Beardo has merely made that decision ahead of time, hopefully for a situation that will never come.