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Software (and Appropriate Input Device) For a Toddler?

An anonymous reader writes "I have an 18-month-old who loves bright screens (TV and computer), loves loud noises, and loves to mash buttons. He targets my laptop with the button-mashing, and I sort of hate having to tell him 'no' when he wants to explore a computer. I was wondering if anyone knows of some fun (and maybe educational) age-specific PC software that also comes with an age-appropriate input device. I've seen those big-button devices in retail stores that seem to just hook up to the TV, and I've also seen some PC software that requires keyboard/mouse input, which does not seem like the right input device for a toddler."

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  1. Anonymous Coward by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Just buy, beg or borrow an old electronic keyboard. Much more fun for an 18 month old. (Was for mine)

  2. Fisher-Price by DarkKnightRadick · · Score: 3, Informative

    Check out your local Wal*Mart like store for stuff like this Fisher-Price edu-toy. My nephew has something a little less complex (and more appropriate, possibly, for your situation) but I cannot remember the name of it, only that it's from Fisher-Price. (:

    This might be helpful, too.

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    1. Re:Fisher-Price by hedronist · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Call me me weird, but the first thing I thought of when I read this was a specially reinforced ASR-35 Teletype (maybe ASR 33?) keyboard they had at Standford's Institute for Mathematical Studies in the Social Sciences (IMSSS) for Koko the gorilla. Although she knew Ameslan, they also taught her to use a keyboard with pictures on the keys (apple, ball, etc.). I only met her once and wasn't there when this happened, but the first time they showed her how to use the keys she apparently enthusiastically made her first key press ... and pushed the key right through the bottom of the cast iron bottom of the teletype.

      I don't know if this applies to toddlers. :-)

    2. Re:Fisher-Price by complete+loony · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Nah, just get a cheap USB keyboard and small mouse. For a while, you won't even have to plug them in ;).

      Your kids want to imitate you, let them.

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    3. Re:Fisher-Price by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 2, Informative

      So... the two year old knew his dad's iTunes password and re-entered it several times during multiple trips to the app store and managed to get a bill instead of a receipt for six hundred dollars?

      Your friend was pulling your leg. If he sees this, expect to be laughed at.
       

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  3. Well... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    Your son is obviously autistic.
    His actions are highly unusual, get him in to an autism specialist immediately.

    With early treatment he has a chance of leading a semi-normal life. Good luck!

    1. Re:Well... by spazdor · · Score: 4, Funny

      And by the way, how the HELL have you let him live 18 months without making him a Slashdot account?

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    2. Re:Well... by grub · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Heheh, I set up an account for my daughter in the UID 700k range. She's 4 now...

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    3. Re:Well... by Hognoxious · · Score: 2, Informative

      It's not as CUNT funny as Tourette's.

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  4. Leapster by PerformanceDude · · Score: 2, Informative

    Try the Leapster system. My 2 year old figured out the Dora game on that pretty quickly. Needed some help to get started initially, but great for learning numbers and letters before the age of 3 and it can handle the rough treatment from a little one.

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  5. Please reconsider by ascari · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The best toy for a kid that age is a good sized cardboard box. Nothing else comes close when it comes to stimulating their imagination, curiosity and social development. If you for some reason are opposed to cardboard boxes: How about some real world open ended interactive toys like blocks, teddybears, a tricycle, a pail and a shovel, some toy cars or a ... gasp... big red ball?

    1. Re:Please reconsider by robot256 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I second this. But when my (much) younger brother was little we got him an old used Nintendo 64 with Mario and Lego Racers, and he played that happily for the better part of 6 years. Old video game consoles are pretty cheap to come by and much harder to break than a computer.

    2. Re:Please reconsider by mapuche · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I second this. Kids that age need to learn how to play with phisical things, computers can come later. As a father of two I know what I'm talking about.

    3. Re:Please reconsider by cj_nologic · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The best toy for a kid that age is a good sized cardboard box. Nothing else comes close when it comes to stimulating their imagination, curiosity and social development. If you for some reason are opposed to cardboard boxes: How about some real world open ended interactive toys like blocks, teddybears, a tricycle, a pail and a shovel, some toy cars or a ... gasp... big red ball?

      +1.

      And don't forget - turn off the TV, put down the laptop, and interact as a human. Toddlers don't need computers, they need messy tactile 3D objects and people to interact with. Computers (and TV) should come later, when social and physical skills are developed.

    4. Re:Please reconsider by maotx · · Score: 4, Informative

      As a father of five, I can testify that as long as you don't abuse it, computers are just as healthy and stimulating as a block of legos. My two year old spends most of his time with cars, blocks, and books; but he enjoys getting on the computer as well. We password protect it so he can only get on with our permission, but he has his own account configured with links to youtube videos of planes and bugs, toddler friendly websites, and games such as Minesweeper and Portal. We fully supervise when he is on the computer and limit how much time he can be on it, but overall it's quite beneficial. He no longer has a paranoia of bugs and he's improved quite a bit with identifying different types of colors and shapes. We credit his ability to recite his ABCs to his Vtech and the games we play with him, but the reinforcement from the computer certainly helps.

      Regardless, no matter how a child is raised, it is mostly important to be involved with their day to day actions. Watching them soak up information and apply it is a huge testament to how incredible they are, which is also why it's important to remain involved and direct them.

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    5. Re:Please reconsider by asc99c · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Another mod up for this; an 18-month old has no need to be using a computer! My 22 month old likes building with plastic bricks - I help her out suggesting and starting a structure e.g. a house for her duck teddy and she carries on working out where stuff fits. Being a girl she also likes throwing tea parties for the teddies and changing and feeding a doll.

      She also likes the bright screens of laptops and TVs, but when she does watch TV like Peppa Pig and Something Special (not sure if you get those in USA), she just kind of glazes over and clearly isn't really thinking anywhere near as much as she does at other times. A PC is a bit more interactive, but I think she would just watch the moving lights, rather than learning. We let her watch a bit of TV, partly because we've also got a newborn needing attention, which is very difficult to deal with particularly while I'm at work. But ideally we'd keep her occupied with other toys the whole day.

    6. Re:Please reconsider by JPL-Jeff · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I second this as well. I'm a computer scientist who spends almost all of his work time in front of a computer and a lot of my leisure time as well, but my two children (aged 7 and 5) never watch television or use computers (truly). What do they do instead? They read, climb, ride, draw, build, etc.. - they're constantly learning how to play, interact with others, and control their bodies. The time will come for them to learn how to use computers and I'll be there, ready with a series of great programming projects that we can work together on, simple robots - the works. I look forward to that, but it's not like there's any shortage of things to do with them in the meantime!

      Numerous studies have shown detrimental effects to child brain development associated with the early introduction of television and computers. No, you can't get around these detrimental effects by using "age-appropriate" or "educational" shows and games. Apparently, something about the *medium*, not simply the message, is causing these negative impacts. Perhaps it's the pacing of the material, the quick transitions, or the sugary over-the-top positive feedback that they get for completing even the most simple task in an educational game. For me, I don't need to know exactly what is causing the negative impacts - I see no serious side effects associated with withholding computers and television for now.

      I know you might thing that you're helping your child out by letting him get an early start on computers, but keep in mind that some things are much easier for someone to learn at a particular age. For example, I always have to bite my tongue when one of my friends tells me with great pride "It's AMAZING! My two year old already knows how to use a mouse!!!" I always *want* to say "Were you really under the impression that he was going to have a problem picking that up?" Honestly, people, it's a MOUSE. It's DESIGNED to be easy to use. I think it would take a 10, 20, or 30 year old with no training about a minute to figure it out and an hour to master it, and they'll understand the full context and purpose of the mouse and the computer - things that the 2 year old couldn't possibly comprehend. Controlling a mouse isn't something that your child needs a "head start" on.

      You could attempt to teach your 2 year old the periodic table, but I think we can all agree that he'll pick that up just fine when it's time to study Chemistry in high school. Maybe it's time to focus on how to dig holes, stack blocks, and chase you around the house instead?

    7. Re:Please reconsider by SeaFox · · Score: 2, Interesting

      As a father of two I know what I'm talking about.

      This reminds me of the people who hold up the retail value of their home theater setup as some measure of their own intelligence in audio reproduction. "This $500 wooden volume knob definitely improves my stereo's sound playback. Take my word for it, I have a thousand dollar Marantz Reciever and blahblahblah..."

      Not saying anything about you personally, but lots of people who know nothing about raising children still have them.

    8. Re:Please reconsider by serbanp · · Score: 2, Insightful

      However, considering the advice he's given, he does know much more about raising children than the bunch of guys (and the OP too) who recommend computers, iPods and electronic gadgets to an 18mo toddler - he's 18mo old for God's sake!

    9. Re:Please reconsider by Americano · · Score: 2, Funny

      Don't go ASKING for them. You'll learn quickly that there's plenty of room for blue balls in a house with a new child. :)

    10. Re:Please reconsider by Machtyn · · Score: 3, Interesting

      A little addition to this. Even some appropriate TV is fine. My daughters love Baby Signing Time. Before they can talk, they can communicate with sign language. It is really awesome when they come to you signing "milk", "juice", or "water", instead of just crying out for it and letting you guess what they want. Or, more typically, saying "ba", "ma", or some other nonsense and letting you figure out what the context the "ba", "ma", or "da" is about.

    11. Re:Please reconsider by Machtyn · · Score: 2, Insightful

      A kite doesn't fly without restraint. Nor do humans grow without boundaries and guidance.

    12. Re:Please reconsider by eulernet · · Score: 2, Interesting

      You forgot to mention that it's very important that the children have physical activities so that they'll tire themselves.
      If they are not tired physically, they tend to resist sleep, and as a parent, you'll never get a rest either.
      For young children (I'd say below 10), it's very important that they sleep their complete nights.
      As they'll age, sleep will reduce.

      Using electronic devices reduces a lot the amount of sleep, because it keeps your brain awake.

  6. Keywhack.. by droopus · · Score: 4, Informative

    Both my kids started out with a great little app called Keywack.
    I took an old Mac Classic sitting in my basement, ran Keywack and the kids loved it. Never trashed the computer either, which I was sure they would do.

    Keywack runs on anything, Win/Mac/Lin, and helped me get my kids learning about tech at around 18 months. The fact they are both capable programmers (one a senior in high school, another im middle school) might have something to do with their early comfort level, or it might not. But give it a try...

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  7. Don't by VonSkippy · · Score: 5, Insightful

    18 months is waaaaaaaaaay to early to introduce stuff like that.

    Let the toddler be a toddler. All that baby Einstein-esque crap has been proven to be nothing but trouble for your child's NORMAL development.

    1. Re:Don't by Max+Romantschuk · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I've always found the American preoccupation with "giving the child a head start" strange. I live in Finland, and our older kids are six now. They have just started preschool, and will start primary school next year. Here most kids learn how to read at seven. Before that interaction and focus skills are taught through play and simple exercises.

      Despite learning reading this "late" the Finnish school system still manages to give you a world class education.

      I firmly believe that play is the most important thing for kids to do. Is the situation really so bad in schools elsewhere that we have to take away the spontaneous play of early childhood just to keep our kids from "being left behind"?

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  8. BabySmash! by Heph · · Score: 4, Informative

    I've been using BabySmash! from http://www.hanselman.com/babysmash/ with my 7 month old since she was around 2 months old.

    She can press any key on the keyboard to get sounds and shapes/letters. She absolutely loves it.

    I'm now looking for software that is slightly more advanced, but there seems to be a lack of games in this age range...

  9. Every parents' problem by gox · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I was thinking about getting a used rugged laptop and putting a very simple console editor on it, since my 18-month-old does seem to like what comes out when he bashes the keyboard, and there's enough to do with ASCII.

    OTOH, he also likes to play simple games, like tux racer. The main problem is that the software is designed to receive precise input. Any program that can't be quit, paused or otherwise disabled would do the job of letting him explore. I was planning to put together a couple of simple games for him in Blender but haven't got to it yet.

  10. Playtime by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

    We used to let my son use the computer a lot. He seemed to enjoy it, but we noticed that that was all he did. For the past few months we have completely banned him from the computer. Since the banning (and getting over the initial withdrawal) he has been much happier most of the time. I would recommend giving your kids toys (blocks are the best thing in the WORLD no matter the age of the child) and let them play with them.

    1. Re:Playtime by icebraining · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If only there was some middle ground between letting him play with it all the time and completely prohibiting him...

    2. Re:Playtime by AdamTrace · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Totally.

      "I sort of hate having to tell him 'no' when he wants to explore a computer."

      This set off a red flag in my head. Learning how to say no is important. Otherwise they'll walk all over you.

  11. iPod touch/iPad by tool462 · · Score: 2, Informative

    An iPod touch or an iPad aren't bad options.

    The interface is about as intuitive as you can get, and there are child-friendly apps available. My 21mo daughter loves to play with the touch screen, and can figure out that she needs to touch the icons to get it to do stuff. A friend's slightly older daughter does about the same with their iPad. Both are also synced with a computer, so it's difficult for them to do irreparable damage. Purchasing music/video from the device requires you to enter your iTunes password, so it's not likely they'll be able to buy stuff either.

    The downside is that they're fairly expensive, so if your kid is big on jelly-fingers or throwing things, it might require keeping a very close on them.

  12. Duke Nukem Forever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

    Just buy him a copy of Duke Nukem Forever. It'll be age appropriate.

  13. Keep children under 3 from all tv by canadian_right · · Score: 5, Informative

    Numerous studies indicate that is is best to keep children under 3 away from all tv's, including dvd's, normal tv programming, movies, video games,etc... and to limit video exposure only increasing allowed hours per day gradually as the child gets older.

    No tv under 2, limit to under 2 hours for 3 year
    No tv under 2

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    1. Re:Keep children under 3 from all tv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      Humans older than 3 benefit similarly from no TV, too.

    2. Re:Keep children under 3 from all tv by Kitkoan · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Or you could try to do some parenting and learn to tell the child "No" and then enforce it (punishment) if they ignore you (similar goes with rewards, don't promise a reward and then look for a way out with cheap excuses like "I'm tired, next time ok?"). I have never been able to understand when I watch people that always look for the easy way out of parenting and refuse to act like a parent turn around and complain that their children won't listen. Thing is with children is that good behavior is a process, not an action, and does take time. Yes, it is hard to be a parent but when all you do is just say a hollow/repeated answers that has no punishment if refused or ignored then your child won't stop yelling because they quickly learn that "Screaming = Mommy/Daddy gives me what I want, regardless of what they say". And yes, I've been through this, and children will learn real fast that if you keep all promises (punishments and rewards) that listening and behaving tend to be the best option for both of you.

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    3. Re:Keep children under 3 from all tv by gyroidben · · Score: 3, Insightful

      My understanding was, that it's not so much that tv is bad for children's development, but that it's not good, so that if they spend 2 hours a day watching tv, that's two hours that aren't spent playing, talking or doing something beneficial. An 18 month old banging on a computer keyboard is practicing physical skills just as if they were playing with blocks.

      I don't think it's worth setting up something elaborate for an 18 month old, all they really need is something that looks like a computer so they can feel that they're doing the same thing as mummy and daddy do. An old laptop works well, or one of the cheap toy computers. My son is three at the moment and sufficiently self-controlled to be allowed to play with my laptop. I set him up with a text editor and let him "type".

    4. Re:Keep children under 3 from all tv by BeanThere · · Score: 2, Insightful

      In spite of the superficial similarities of having a display and being 'something electronic', TV is vastly different to a computer from a mental stimulation and interaction perspective. TV is basically mindless zone-out hypnosis for entertainment. Computers *can* be, but can also be complex, stimulating challenging forms of mental puzzle-solving and skills development.

      Life is not about mindlessly following little "rules" about what is "supposed to be" age-appropriate or not, it's about thinking about it for yourself. I'm afraid you will pass on your tendency for following "rules" rather than thinking to your kids.

  14. I learned my alpabet from a commodore64 by gagol · · Score: 2, Informative

    starting age 2½, it was an expensive machine when I was young, but under supervision. What matters most is spending time with your child ad teach him/her LOVE, and yes, he should learn the meaning of "no", it's important, you know better than him/her, electronics (tv, computers) can wait a couple of years.

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  15. Some classical music playing in the background by antifoidulus · · Score: 2, Informative

    That should be about the limit of technology your toddler should be exposed to. The American Academy of Piedeatricts actually discourages parents from letting kids under 2 watch television. I'm sure computers are the same.

    1. Re:Some classical music playing in the background by John+Hasler · · Score: 3, Insightful

      > I'm sure computers are the same.

      No, because computers are interactive.

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    2. Re:Some classical music playing in the background by twidarkling · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It's not the interactivity, it's the lack of wide, strenuous movements. Considering how rapidly children develop and grow until about 4 years of age, they should be as active as possible to develop and strengthen. Plus if they sit around a good chunk of the day, when it's time for bed, they're still going to have a shit-ton of energy to burn off, and you're going to have a bitch of a time putting them to sleep.

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  16. Re:Keywhack.. (laptop not advised) by belphegore · · Score: 5, Funny

    WARNING

    If you leave this unattended...
    ...you may get this result.

  17. Re:Normal by PopeRatzo · · Score: 3, Insightful

    In any case, make it a cheap computer. I don't think the ipad would work for a toddler.

    Better yet, give him a Big Wheel and box full of Legos. Maybe spend time with him outside with a ball and mitt.

    I know you mean well, but the kid's going to have plenty of time to develop a sedentary lifestyle and sit in front of a screen and keyboard. Let him at least have a chance to be healthy and active for a little while. Maybe he'll develop some good physical habits before becoming a computer geek like Dad.

    I'm joking about "being a computer geek like Dad" but not about letting the kid run around and play and get some exercise and wait until he has a use for a computer before you plant him in front of one. How about this? When he comes to you and says, "I need a computer so I can..." THEN, you can set him up with a nice Ubuntu box, but only if he wants to do something worthwhile with it.

    Take good care of that kid. The habits he forms now will most likely stay with him forever. Don't assume that because you love sitting and working at a computer that it's the best thing for him.

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  18. Re:Hmmm, sounds like dead electronics by hairyfeet · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I agree a PC would be a bad idea, but what about a Sega Genesis? Those can be found quite cheap all over the place, the old three button controllers were hell to kill, and most importantly there was plenty of games like Barney and Sonic that were easy for little ones. even when they don't have the skills to actually play a game they can still amuse themselves for hours, for example my oldest one loved to have me set up eternal Champions to practice mode when he was a year old, just so he could mash the buttons and see the character " jump jump" under his command. And of course as he got older he quickly went to harder games and then finally a PC. Since he just started medical school two weeks ago I guess that "video games ruin kids" bunk was just that, huh?

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  19. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by h4rr4r · · Score: 2, Funny

    Sounds like about the right stage of development for an iProduct.

  20. Software for learning the alphabet and keyboard by realsablewing · · Score: 2, Interesting

    When my son was around 2 or so he was very interested in using the computer. There was a great piece of software, Mickey Mouse and the alphabet. While the program ran it locked out everything else and would only respond to letters of the alphabet being pressed. When a key was pressed, say A, Mickey would perform some action, say the letter and the word. For A, he would go to the refrigerator and get an apple to eat. When using the software my son learned his alphabet and had great fun having Mickey perform different actions. There are some older versions of the software still available, I also noticed some suggestions for other similar software.

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  21. Re:Normal by h4rr4r · · Score: 2, Funny

    And the all important job of steering from the passengers seat when dad needs to retie his shoes.

  22. WTF?? by dskoll · · Score: 2, Insightful

    18 months? Are you serious?

    Why my daughter was that age, I gave her an old PC keyboard that wasn't connected to anything else. She loved banging on it and pretending to work with Dad.

    Give your kids something simple that will make them use their imagination. You don't want to kill off appreciation of simple toys by the time they're 4.

  23. Best I/O devices by dskoll · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The best devices I've found have been both input and output. To wit:

    • Crayons and colored pencils.
    • Modelling clay.
    • Paper.
  24. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by eln · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Sure, it's great until the kid spontaneously decides to pick it up and throw it across the room. 18 month olds do not have good impulse control and are just barely starting to perceive that actions have consequences. I guess if you have lots of money to throw around you could give your 18 month old a fragile $600 device, but I think the smarter move would be to go with something designed to survive the kind of abuse kids that age tend to dish out to their toys.

  25. Babymash and Baby Smash by scdeimos · · Score: 2, Informative
    If you're worried about your laptop keyboard (I would be) plug in an external one and then let him go crazy with this:
    • Baby smash!
      As babies smash on the keyboard, colored shapes, letters and numbers appear on the screen. Baby Smash will lock out the Windows Key, as well as Ctrl-Esc and Alt-Tab so your baby can't get out of the application. Pressing ALT-F4 will exit the application and Shift-Ctrl-Alt-O brings up the options dialog.
  26. Re:Normal by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Bingo. At 1, I gave my son my old machine when I upgraded. I put ubuntu on it with eCompris. I spent maybe 5 minutes showing him that the mouse moved the mouse icon on the screen, and clicking the mouse made things happen. That and the keyboard. I then loaded the eCompris module that would uncover a picture when the mouse ran over it. It got progressively more difficult. A couple of hours later, I showed him how to turn on the computer, how to load his game, and how to properly shut down the computer. After that, I let him go. He was proficent at getting around withing a few days.

    At 2, I formatted the hard drive and gave him the disk to install himself. He did it with no problem. I then used that to mock anyone that claimed that Linux was too hard to install.

    At six, he does more general gaming, so he runs windows most of the time now, but he does periodically boot up Linux in VMWare to play around with some of the simple games on it.

    There is nothing inappropriat about an adult computer for a 1 year old. Keyboards are cheap. Mice are cheap. If you are paranoid about the wires, just get a wireless keyboard and mouse.

  27. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by Americano · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I guess if you have lots of money to throw around you could give your 18 month old a fragile $600 device, but I think the smarter move would be to go with something designed to survive the kind of abuse kids that age tend to dish out to their toys.

    Yes, it's a much better idea to sit them in front of an $800 - 2000 device with latches, ports, springs, hinges, and cords, and other moving parts all over it.

    So here's a crazy idea: don't leave the 18-month old child unattended around expensive and fragile electronics of any sort!

    I sat with my 22 month old nephew and we played with an iPad for about 2 hours on a recent visit, and he loved it. He had a blast playing with a few different pieces of music software I loaded (Leaf Trombone, Ocarina, some keyboard/synthesizer application, and a drum pad app that he really liked), as well as a couple basic games. Other than a lot of fingerprints all over the screen, it survived just fine, despite him landing a few full force slaps and thumps on the screen.

    If you have an iPad, the kid isn't going to destroy it unless you hand him a hammer, an iPad, and walk away for 15 minutes while he stands above a floor surface made entirely of jagged chunks of granite.

  28. (Musical) Electonic Keyboard by FiloEleven · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Seconded. Especially a virtual analog synth that has friendly knobs which will immediately affect the sound being produced when tweaked.

    Or, you could go for a real analogue synth like the Korg Monotron, a tiny, simple true analog synth able to create all kinds of neat sounds.

    None of these things will have the bright screen to draw his eye, but they are far more intuitive and engaging for a young mind: pushing different keys and twisting different knobs will effect a definite and immediate change in the sound he hears, whereas pounding on the keyboard of a laptop will generally result in little onscreen action. Synth programming is real programming, too, without the complexity of dealing with language. This will foster his creativity more greatly than any other electronic device, especially if he plays with it as he begins to understand the structure of music.

    Korg Monotrons can be bought new for under $80. The only problems I foresee are that Dad might be having too much fun with it to let his son have a try, that adults have a low tolerance for atonal, high-pitched sounds, and that nobody wants their kid to be a starving artist when they grow up =)

    1. Re:(Musical) Electonic Keyboard by X0563511 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      My grandmother had an old Hammond C3 - later on, my great grandfather passed and one of the things that was left was a pair of old Yamaha synths. Similar to the DX7 but not those... I can't find them by image, so meh.

      I've turned into a hobbyist composer and musician. I especially love playing around trying to create my own patches.

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  29. old guy advice by swordgeek · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I'm in my 40s, and my son is rapidly approaching 3.

    Get him a pretend laptop - Something like this. (although maybe not in lurid pink.)

    Honestly though, keep him away from real computers. At that age, they basically amount to TVs with (mashable) buttons. The interaction is no more significant than you'd get with a Fisher Price toy, and they don't need to be glued to the computer (or TV) that early. The less time in front of a computer or TV, the better.

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  30. a nipple by Zecheus · · Score: 2, Funny

    on the bottle or on the mom. Kid will get lots of input.

  31. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by Machtyn · · Score: 2, Informative

    My daughter was doing fine with the keyboard and mouse. By the time she got to 2.5 years (she'll be 3 this month), she realized that when the mouse hovered on an object in the Reader Rabbit games, the objects would respond and she was intelligent enough to place the object in the correct place. At 18+ months she, and now her sister, just enjoyed the sounds and moving the mouse around.

    Now, I have been trying to find a decent child's keyboard. I've found some, but they've been unrealistically expensive. I can understand $30-$50. But I've seen some in the $100 range. I'm also thinking of a trackball for the pointing device, but they seem to do well with a mouse.

    Just make sure to keep the cheap computer out of reach and use an older monitor, CRT if possible. They can take the hits. A lot of the games don't need special graphics (the Reader Rabbit games were designed at 1024x768 or 800x600 and have a definite Windows 98 VGA feel to them.)

    Oh, and let me add that there are some pretty cool videos on youtube for kids. Do a search for children songs or on nursery rhymes. They Might Be Giants "Here Come the 123s" and "Here Come the ABCs" are faves, as well as Eric Herman songs.

  32. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by markass530 · · Score: 2, Funny

    18 YEAR olds do not have good impulse control and are just barely starting to perceive that actions have consequences

    there fixed that for ya

  33. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by fractoid · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Just make sure you lock down any wireless networks around by the time he's 8-10, or he'll get a head start on that whole 'the internet is for porn' thing. :P

    Then again I remember my friends and I swapping 3.5" discs with half-a-dozen topless .gifs back when I was in year 8, and I turned out fine. :P

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  34. Not "The" Device but "Your" Device by malus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The real issue here is whose device the kid wants to play with. He doesn't want to play with *his* fisher-price (or other) Toy, he wants to play with *your* laptop, because he sees *you* using your laptop. The kid wants attention, not the toy. Put the laptop (or whatever) away, and get him involved with something you can both do together.

    Having two boys, ages 2 and 4, I know that they do not want their daddy to pay attention to his toys, rather, they want daddy to pay attention to *them*.

  35. Learn to say 'NO' by Rumagent · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Learn to say no right now. It will be better for both you and you son.

  36. Re:iPad is a great device for kids by JWSmythe · · Score: 3, Interesting

        You know, despite the contrary responses, you are right. A kid is a kid, and should be given kid appropriate toys. A kid at 18 months doesn't know the difference between a Frisbee and an iPad, except the iPad probably makes more interesting smashey noises when they're done with it.

        My daughter is about 3.5 years old now. Sure, I have a plenty of computer gear for her to play with. I've given her pretty much anything she is interested in. Folks have given her all kinds of presents. For Christmas, she was more interested in playing with the boxes, and coloring on them, than the actual contents. Really, despite the cool packaging, most of the toys sucked.

        Right now, her favorite toys, in order of interest, are....

        Crayons or markers and blank paper. She can do a pretty decent job of basic shapes (lines, circles, triangles, and squares).

        Coloring books, until she gets bored with the actual pictures, and draws what she wants over them. She's fascinated by car washes ("car showers" in her terms), even though she's afraid of them. That's one of the things she draws frequently. That and "daddy's car". It's not a technically accurate depiction, but it does have wheels and something resembling a body over it.

        Digital cameras. She loves taking pictures, and being able to see the picture right away. She likes *her* picture taken more though, so she'll make me take the picture and show her what it is.

        She's interested in computers, but only as far as seeing daddy type 100wpm, so she bangs on old keyboards to type along.

        She loves her etch-a-sketch. She can draw, and make it go away so she can start over. She likes to see me draw and write, so when I write things on it, I spell it out, and say the word.

        And I made the tragic mistake of showing her http://icanhascheezburger.com/. She wants to see the kitties doing silly things. It's not just seeing them, she has a commentary about each one. It's nice hearing what she sees in the picture, rather than what us adults have learned to see in them.

        She has a few shows that she likes on TV, and is amazed that I can show her the same ones on the computer. It just sucks to have a kid take away *MY* toy. :)

        On, and on the car, she loves telling me how to drive. "Green light daddy!", even if it's red. She's not confused about the colors, she just likes me to drive fast. For the sake of safety, I just stay in a lower gear so she can hear the engine roar. "Fast" to her is where the engine is running faster, not how fast we're actually driving. :)

        Then there's balls, blocks, and other assorted kids toys.

        Her grandmother got her a Disney toy that hooks to the TV. She lost interest in that in less than 5 minutes. She likes to dance on it though, even though she's not playing the game right. Hey, whatever, she's having fun, and I didn't waste the money on it.:) It doesn't even need to be hooked up to the TV for her to enjoy herself. :)

        She likes to be read to also. She talks about the pictures in the book more than trying to comprehend the reading.

        So, for any kid, give them the opportunity to do anything they want (that they can do safely), and you'll appreciate them more.

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  37. Re:Normal by arb+phd+slp · · Score: 2, Informative

    When they're old enough, why not? Or did you miss the part about "old enough" or "under close supervision, and specific direction."?

    Did no one else get to sit on their parents lap and steer the car?

    Or learn to drive a stick by shifting from the passenger's seat because their dad needed his other hand to hold a beer?

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