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Study Finds Growing Up WIth Gadgets Has a Downside: Social Skill Impairment

PolygamousRanchKid writes with this excerpt from a CNN story:"Tween girls who spend much of their waking hours switching frantically between YouTube, Facebook, television and text messaging are more likely to develop social problems, says a Stanford University study published in a scientific journal on Wednesday. Young girls who spend the most time multitasking between various digital devices, communicating online or watching video are the least likely to develop normal social tendencies, according to the survey of 3,461 American girls aged 8 to 12 who volunteered responses. The study only included girls who responded to a survey in Discovery Girls magazine, but results should apply to boys, too, Clifford Nass, a Stanford professor of communications who worked on the study, said in a phone interview. Boys' emotional development is more difficult to analyze because male social development varies widely and over a longer time period, he said."

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  1. Not News by sunderland56 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Where do you think the whole middle-aged-guy-living-in-parents-basement meme comes from?

    The only new thing here is that it happens to girls, as well as guys.

    1. Re:Not News by tm2b · · Score: 2

      The big difference is that now, the guys can find the girls on-line and they can talk, get to know each other on-line, bond over how different they feel, and start dating.

      Seriously, this isn't stunting; it's empirically a shift in human social behavior.

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      "It is our blasphemy which has made us great, and will sustain us, and which the gods secretly admire in us." - Zelazny
    2. Re:Not News by Alex+Belits · · Score: 2

      If his mother is a corpse, he can not possibly live in her basement, it's his basement.

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  2. Not a controlled study by timeOday · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You would expect introverts to spend more time on gadgets, so the direction of causation here, if any, is not determined. I hate to use a cliche, but "correlation != causation" never seemed more apt.

    1. Re:Not a controlled study by LordLucless · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Not to mention it's apparently a self-selected, self-reported "study" aimed at girls who read a technology magazine.

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  3. that's the truth by Shakrai · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The only new thing here is that it happens to girls

    I've recently had the "privilege" of venturing back into the dating market after more than a year of being single. Imagine my surprise when I learned that it's virtually impossible to date these days without an unlimited texting package. Nobody knows (or at least nobody I've dated) how to talk anymore. It's as if asking for conversation in more than 160 character bites is too much. The distressing thing is that this trait seems to be independent of education and background. I've dated women with backgrounds ranging from GED to Ph.D candidate and have encountered this with all of them.

    Perhaps I'm old fashioned but I'm a techno geek who still appreciates the value of a good handshake and eye contact. The lack of these skills doesn't just screw you with dating; it screws you in the business world as well.

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    1. Re:that's the truth by Cruciform · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I created a profile on PoF and set the limit to 300 characters minimum to contact me.
      I got a few nice messages, but then there were ones with a bunch of gibberish complaining about how they had to write so much just to make contact. It's 4 lines of text... jeez.
      The period now seems to have been replaced with "lol" in most communication too. At least it weeds out the ones worth talking to.

    2. Re:that's the truth by Samantha+Wright · · Score: 3, Informative

      Look at all the social network users without resistance to ostracism! Who's going to run civilization now? Zoidberg! That's who!

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    3. Re:that's the truth by laughingcoyote · · Score: 2

      I guess I didn't have that experience. My wife does like to text, but likes to talk face to face, as well. We do like to ping back and forth with one another while we're both working, when something particularly interesting/insane happens at one of our jobs. But we've also always liked to sit down and talk with one another, and still do.

      That doesn't seem to me to be an isolated experience, either. I go up to brunch every Sunday with a group of developers I've worked with in the past and some I still do at present, because we enjoy the face-to-face conversation, especially since some of them no longer work with us and it's the only chance we get to see them.

      That being said, I think the use of technology to communicate is part of what's included in that slippery term "normal" now. If a coworker needs me to look over a block of code that's acting up, the easiest thing is to IM or email it, even if they're sitting just across the office. And often, sending back my responses will be most easily done the same way. It's just another tool available to us, and like any tool, it's not the best one for every job, but it should be used when it is. Teaching kids how to determine that should be part of any parent's priorities, and should be part of a school curriculum as well. There are times when there's no substitute for a face-to-face meetup.

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    4. Re:that's the truth by Ethanol-fueled · · Score: 2, Informative

      Plenty of Fish, like most other dating sites is a scam. The profiles are fake and compiled by the company's employees. The details may change from profile to profile, but the writing styles do not. Once in a while you will get a message from a chick you want to know more about, but the messages say something brief and do not answer any questions or provide a response.

      I know this unfortunate truth because each of the 3 women I was seeing(in real life) gave me an ultimatum to get serious with them or they would stop putting out. One was neurotic and was in a hurry to get knocked up, the other was retardedly dumb and incapable of two-way conversation, and the other had a boyfriend while we were boning -- yeah.

      I've never relied on online dating, but I tried to give it a shot. I went to OKCupid first, but got banned permanently on my first day because I became drunk and asked a masculine-looking woman if she had a penis between her legs. Then I tried Plenty of Fish, and determined that the site was more fake than Pamela Lee's tits. E-harmony is now charging just to see others' profile pics. No thanks.

      Work dating wasn't much better - I went on dates with 2 people. The first lived in a 2-bedroom apartment with her 11 siblings and said that any man she gets with would have to have a relationship with the lord. She whines and complains how she has bad luck with men, but never goes more than a week without a new boyfriend. The other just used me for attention, and even though I got a few good meals out of it, shaking hands with her son was awkward because he was only a few years younger than I was. But more to the point of the article - Today's youth are in a sad state. I'm back in junior college and in a class with a lot of young adults, and they are so overstimulated but utterly incapable of carrying on conversation about other than what is immediately happening around them. One young woman said with a straight face that she wanted to find a rich man and be a trophy wife. Others had dumb lottery-ticket fantasies about becoming rich and powerful. They have spent their entire lives watching MTV and think that is what life is actually like. They rock in place, geek, twitch, whine, tic, grunt in such an annoying fashion that I want to smack them in their mouths with a rolled-up newspaper.

    5. Re:that's the truth by Shakrai · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I'm skeptical of online dating as well but I'm at a loss for what's better these days. I'm not into the bar/clubbing scene, so cross that off the list. I've always maintained boundaries at work and refuse to date co-workers. What does that leave? I've tried activity groups (hiking clubs and the like) but most of the people who attend those are already paired off. Church may be an option for some people but the median age at my church is around 60 so that's not going to work either.

      I've actually met a few friends through OKCupid. Nothing that panned out as relationship material but if you troll through that site long enough you'll actually find decent human beings mixed in with the fake profiles/spammers and the extremely desperate. I think I've met seven or eight people through OKC and only one of them turned out to be psycho. That's probably comparable odds to meeting people in person -- anybody can pretend to be sane for the initial conversation! Sucks that you got banned from there. I wouldn't regard E-Harmony as any real loss; it's overpriced and hasn't quite escaped it's Christian roots. Unless you are a fairly religious person looking for your future spouse E-Harmony isn't likely to prove fruitful.

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    6. Re:that's the truth by CriminalNerd · · Score: 2

      I'm all for playful biting but after 160 bites, I don't think I could handle another mouthful of conversation as you put it no matter the person.

    7. Re:that's the truth by RobbieThe1st · · Score: 2, Funny

      Um... ASCII question, get an ANSI? >_>

    8. Re:that's the truth by sydneyfong · · Score: 4, Funny

      What does that leave?

      Try Slashdot?

      Speaking of that, there's no reason I shouldn't try my luck here too. Hey girls! I'm single, male, 26, and have excellent karma. PM if interested.

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    9. Re:that's the truth by rock_climbing_guy · · Score: 2
      Too bad that you think that.

      I met my wife on Plenty of Fish. My brother met his wife on Craigslist, of all places.

      You just have to be smart about it. If you think there are a lot of fake profiles on Plenty of Fish, they've got nothing on the fake profiles on Craigslist.

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  4. Please define "social problems" by tlambert · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Please define "social problems"

    Please do it in terms of something other than "the old farts say it was always done this way, so it should always be done this way".

    Welcome to your children's world.

    -- Terry

    1. Re:Please define "social problems" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      This was my first thought upon reading the post.

      Social norms are often an artificial construction, the expectations of them are a burden in themselves, and often quite illusory.

      It's like Machismo, Honor, or a dozen other terms. Are they good, or are they just what's expected?

    2. Re:Please define "social problems" by stms · · Score: 2

      While this study is both shit and a water is wet study there is a pretty valid definition of "socail problems". If you don't understand how what you say (and how you say it) effects other people emotionally that would probably be considered "social problems". Its probably one of the most important skills to have. Even in the face of new technologies it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.

    3. Re:Please define "social problems" by Froobly · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The corporate world is not all about compromising as you've been led to believe. At least in the tech industry, successful companies value people who know what's right, and take action on that knowledge. What they don't value is people who are mean about it, or who have a victim complex. They don't want yes men, although they sometimes have difficulty ferreting them out. They want someone who can identify problems, speak up, and solve the problems.

      But there are other issues that come up, that can fool you into believing that they don't want informed, stubborn people. It sounds like you don't have much respect for managers, and that could be your downfall. If you don't like somebody, and you let them know, how can you expect them to like you? People who are perceived as mean or unfriendly are often singled out and discriminated against, even when they're in the right.

      Here's the truth that you probably won't like hearing: management is fucking hard, and it's not much fun. I try to avoid it if at all possible, preferring to come up with clever software designs and banging out code -- you know, the fun stuff.

      Those people who you complain about making tons of money for knowing how to shake hands and smile? Their job is a lot harder than you think. They have to keep track of every aspect of a project, figure out ways of communicating what needs to be done, deliver information to their superiors in a way that won't freak them out, and try to extract good performance out of engineers who see them as just another smile and a handshake.

      Good managers are hard to come by. With no management, stress and uncertainty accumulate, and projects go to bad places. With bad management, they tend to go to even worse places. With good management, things get done, and people feel satisfied in their jobs.

      You may feel like people want you to be someone who you're not. I honestly don't know who you are, but I'm guessing you're angry and bitter. That does not define who you are -- that's just what you're thinking right now. You can choose to do what you want, and it's what you do that defines who you are, not what's happened to you, or what you've done in the past. I think you might find that if you try to be nice to people, treat them with respect, and genuinely convince yourself that they're not all fucktards, things might turn out a little better for you.

    4. Re:Please define "social problems" by anubi · · Score: 2

      Thanks for taking the time to post, Froobly.

      Yes, I am bitter.

      I guess I am a lot like a kicked cat who no longer trusts humans.

      What you say is true, All of it.

      Again, thanks. You spent a lot of time preparing your reply to me. I appreciate your help.

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    5. Re:Please define "social problems" by hitmark · · Score: 2

      Some of the worst criminals come in a suit, because they have learned how to play the empathic strings of the human mind to their benefit.

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  5. "least likely to develop normal social tendencies" by egburr · · Score: 5, Funny

    least likely to develop normal social tendencies

    Well, from what I remember of "normal social tendencies" in high school, maybe it's better that fewer people develop them.

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  6. Paradigm shift by tm2b · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Or, they could consider the idea that as on-line communication becomes rooted in our social ecosphere, social skills are changing to more closely integrate on-line interactions.

    15 years ago, online dating was satire. 5-10 years ago it was socially frowned upon. These days, it's damned near normative.

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    "It is our blasphemy which has made us great, and will sustain us, and which the gods secretly admire in us." - Zelazny
  7. Study finds surveys bad science.. by tbird81 · · Score: 5, Informative

    Seriously?

    n: 3461 - pretty good
    Inclusion criteria: Girls 8-12 who replied to a magazine survey - pretty bad
    Measurement: Self-reporting of multitasking, self-reporting on social ability - reliable?
    Interpretation: Can also be applied to boys - where the fuck did this come from??
    Author: Clifford Nass a "self-described technologist of 25 years".

    The author seems to be one of those self-promoting weirdos who picks a topic he knows will be controversial, does some easy "science" with it, and comes up with a controversial conclusion. He says he finds the results "disturbing".

    Well Clifford, I find the fact that Stanford employs someone like you quite disturbing. I find you job title "technologist" disturbing. And I find your name dropping of Google and Microsoft disturbing. Most of all, I find the complete lack of scientific method in this study incredibly sad - it's just made for pop-science articles. Shame on you.

    1. Re:Study finds surveys bad science.. by Rinnon · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Don't forget the fact that the magazine in question is "Discovery Girls." Now, I don't want to submit myself completely to stereotypes, but what kind of person reads Discovery Girls? I'm guessing NERDY GIRLS. Just a shot in the dark. And nerds aren't exactly known for their stellar social skills. Not that any of this is a bad thing, I'd take a nerdy socially awkward girl any day of the week (not from the age range the survey took from mind you).

  8. You're doing it wrong. by raehl · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's because phone calls are fucking annoying.

    If you want to have a conversation with someone, take them out to dinner or some other activity where you are together.

    Otherwise, unless you're stuck across the country and can't see each other, stop expecting people to accept your interruptions to their day.

    1. Re:You're doing it wrong. by Shakrai · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm curious why you went to phone calls when I never mentioned them in my initial post?

      That said, some of us do appreciate the value of hearing an actual voice and knowing we have someone's (relatively) undivided attention. Phone calls don't need to "interrupt" your day nor do they need to endure for hours on end. I can communicate more to someone with a five minute phone call than I can with five hours of texting.

      Speaking of fucking annoying that's how I view text messages. They are fine for "Hey, I'm running a few minutes late" but utterly useless for real conversation. They are slower than IM, less meaningful than e-mail and entirely too prone to the misunderstandings that a danger in all forms of non-verbal/in-person communication. Vocal inflections and body language make up a significant portion of human interaction; you are missing a great deal when you remove them both from the equation.

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  9. Yeah.. by raehl · · Score: 5, Funny

    My social skills are fine, asshole!

  10. at least they're not as socially awkward by matty619 · · Score: 2

    As all those tween girls frantically posting to Slasdot all day.

  11. Welcome to the 21st century by russotto · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Multitasking between various digital devices, communicating online, and watching video ARE normal social skills nowadays.

    1. Re:Welcome to the 21st century by Tom · · Score: 2

      No, they aren't skills, they are disabilities.

      Lots and lots of people claim that they are good at multi-tasking. Study after study proves them all wrong - humans are horrible at multi-tasking. What we are excellent in is fooling ourselves with regards to our abilities.

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  12. Re:Seriously by rrohbeck · · Score: 4, Informative

    For the same reason we have TV aimed at children.

  13. Don't write this off by Prune · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm saying the following as a software developer (among other things), which may or may not be ironic: I've always had the concern for the potential (often actualized) of information technology to be socially detrimental. From evolutionary psychology we know that despite the appearances of a very flexible psyche, significant components of most of our behaviors and thinking are hardwired by biology. Nurture only has so much leeway within the boundaries set by nature. Millions of years of evolution have created a social animal that is well fit to a specific environment of foraging tribalism. Civilization has already in a mere 10k years taken us quite far from that, and we've built a sort of human zoo for ourselves. For all the benefits this has brought, many detriments have come about as well, a lot of them having to do with people's actions today often influencing people with whom they have no personal relationships (contrast a tribe where everyone knows everyone else in the tribe and members rarely had influence outside the tribe), much more indirect links between appropriate behavior and reward (creating stress), and so on. Information technology is taking us further yet from our biologically optimal environment, and I have no confidence it will turn out well. Our social interactions have become a perverted version of what we've evolved for, and patterns of interaction through technology abuse the neurological mechanisms responsible for controlling communication and other social aspects of the mind, in the same way that spaghetti programming abuses the goto statement.

    [This part of the post is a bit tangential and may be skipped.] Some people would say that everything will be fine because eventually technology and biotechnology will be used to directly enhance our minds and bodies, so that we can exceed our biological constraints. These people ignore the problem of our moral/ethical frameworks, which are grounded in the brain's evolutionary heritage, being incapable of guiding us in such a future as there is no precedent in the evolution of moral/ethical behavior. Simple example: 60 years in the future a person begins being slowly "enhanced" by replacing one by one his neurons, and then other cells, with artificial or bioengineered ones that initially duplicate function and then bring online enhanced functionality; eventually the whole person's consistence has been replaced; now contrast this to, instead, making a recording of all relevant information about the person, building an artificial copy, and killing the original; same result, yet the second version feels wrong to most people. Our morals/ethics are not equipped for situations that have no analogy whatsoever to anything in our evolutionary past. If we extend ourselves, we would have to extend our morals and ethics too, and the latter extension is basically arbitrary.

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    1. Re:Don't write this off by jez9999 · · Score: 2

      Our social interactions have become a perverted version of what we've evolved for, and patterns of interaction through technology abuse the neurological mechanisms responsible for controlling communication and other social aspects of the mind

      I don't really understand why modern social interactions are 'preverting' or 'abusing' our evolutionary neurological mechanisms. Care to expand on that? It seems to me that we're communicating in different ways, and over greater distances... but that doesn't really mean your statement is true.

      Our morals/ethics are not equipped for situations that have no analogy whatsoever to anything in our evolutionary past. If we extend ourselves, we would have to extend our morals and ethics too, and the latter extension is basically arbitrary.

      Virtually all of our morals and ethics beyond "don't kill too many people" (which must be hardwired into the surviving because the others died when they killed each other) are an arbitrary creation of culture. I think you could even make a (relatively miserable) society survive with a morality that stealing and raping was OK. It would just be far from the most happy society - as indeed today's societies are in many ways.

  14. And the definition of "normal" is what? by rhysweatherley · · Score: 2
    I'm guessing the researcher's definition of "normal social tendencies" is:

    Grows up a little princess, sheltered from the big bad world, only goes on dates at chaperoned events in clear sight of her father, until some presentable young man with good prospects asks her father for permission to put a ring on her finger.

    And this from the article is just WTF:

    A few years ago, Nass worked on a study about how multitasking affects adults. He found that heavy multitaskers experience cognitive issues, such as difficulty focusing and remembering things. They were actually worse at juggling various activities, a skill crucial to many people's work lives, than those who spent less time multitasking, Nass said.

    So someone who is good at multitasking is worse at juggling various activities? What does multitasking even mean if not juggling?

    I have experienced older relatives getting upset when I'm just reading to myself, sending e-mails, or surfing the net, instead of talking to them. Social does not mean I HAVE to socialize with YOU.

  15. What "social problems"? What is "normal"? by FoolishOwl · · Score: 2

    I'm not just asking rhetorically: the article is lacking any meaninful information, and begs many questions. It says that online interactions do not substitute for "real" interactions, but why aren't online interactions "real", and if they are distinctly different in character from offline interactions, what makes them worse, rather than better, or rather than simply different?

    What social problems are we talking about? Are we talking about differences that young women would themselves consider problems? Or is it simply a preference for online interaction?

    It's entirely likely that the actual study cites real problems. But like everyone else here, I've had a lot of experiences with people denouncing my interests as "not real" and inferior to "real" activities, and I'm conscious that there's a lot of social pressure on people in general and women in particular to conform to toxic social norms. So I can't help but suspect that the study is complaining that some women are nerds. And we like nerds here.

  16. Coincidence by goldaryn · · Score: 3, Funny

    Siri and I were just talking about this

  17. New technology, same old symptoms? by MacTO · · Score: 2

    I would like to see a study that compares various technologies and the social behaviour of children. The reason is simple enough: there have always been children with poorly developed social skills. The difference is the technology that they bury themselves in.

    Today, it seems to be telecommunications technology and social networking. That's what this study is about. In the 80's and 90's, kids buried themselves in computers and video games. In the 60's and 70's, there was the TV epidemic. Throughout the whole time, less social children have been engrossed in the most insidious technology of all: books.

    So my question is this: is this 'desocialization' of children remaining at the same levels historically, or is it actually getting worse? Somehow, I suspect there has been little if any change because I suspect that children who are less social migrate to these technologies as an outlet. And if that is the case, can the new technologies improve socialization skills. After all, we are talking about communications technology these days. You use SMS or Facebook to converse with people. If you alienate people using those media, you are cut off. That should incentivize better social behaviour.

    But all of this is speculation, since I have questions but not the tools to investigate it.

  18. Normal is what gets you a job by tepples · · Score: 2

    Based on my experiences working through one state's vocational rehabilitation system, I'd say the state defines "normal behavior" as what gets and keeps you a job. This has a lot to do with how people are expected to act in interviews and meetings and is thus determined by corporate hiring managers.