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Women More Likely To Unfriend Than Men

Hugh Pickens writes "AFP reports that a study by the Pew Research Center's Internet and American Life Project shows that women are more likely than men to delete friends from their online social networks like Facebook and tend to choose more restrictive privacy settings. Sixty-seven percent of women who maintain a social networking profile said they have deleted friends compared with 58 percent of men. The study also found that men are nearly twice as likely as women to have posted updates, comments, photos or videos that they later regret (PDF). 'Even as social media users become more active curators of their profile, a small group of what might be described as trigger-happy users say they post updates, comments, photos, or videos that they later regret sharing.'"

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  1. Nothing to see here by dugjohnson · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "The study also found that men are nearly twice as likely as women to have posted updates, comments, photos or videos that they later regret " or "Men more impulsive than women" Hmmm. Big surprise there.

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    1. Re:Nothing to see here by __aarzwb9394 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Does this reflect higher concern re stalking (in the spectrum from the dangerous, life ruining/threatening kind to I don't want an old boyfriend to know about me)?
      Seems likely to me.
      I bet those of us worried about privacy in a big brother, what-can-future-employers-find-out-about-me way are more male than female, since that's probably correlated with higher computer literacy.

    2. Re:Nothing to see here by Chrisq · · Score: 4, Insightful

      More like "Women less regretful than men, more likely to blame others."

      That's possibly true. Socially women are seen as victims if people misuse or ogle their pictures, where as men are seen as "fair game". This would certainly encourage women to feel "poor me, I din nothing wrong its all these nasty people", whereas men would think "oh how could I have been so dumb".

  2. Still holding out. by philip.paradis · · Score: 4, Informative

    I still don't have a Facebook account, and am no worse the wear for it. I have noted that of my family and friends who do have accounts, the ones who typically talk about their Facebook activity the most are definitely the women, and a lot of that talk seems to swing between gossip and outright vicious assaults. I'll just stay out of that mess, thanks.

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    1. Re:Still holding out. by houghi · · Score: 4, Funny

      Or a /. editor an editor.

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  3. The flipside of that... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Women are more likely to friend people they'll end up unfriending later.

  4. Re:I think it makes men more open and honest. by Nidi62 · · Score: 4, Funny

    Isn't this pretty much the only reason why men regret anything they say or do?

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  5. Surprise, surprise... by Just+Brew+It! · · Score: 4, Interesting

    ...women are more selective than men regarding who to include in their social circle. I could've predicted this from real-world interactions. Women tend to form close-knit cliques. Men will hang with anyone who will get shitfaced drunk with them and commiserate about their problems with women, work, money, etc.

    1. Re:Surprise, surprise... by drinkypoo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Or women are less selective, and they add people without thinking about it, and then remove them later when it proves to be a bad idea. You can't tell which it is from the summary, anyway :p

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  6. Social exclusion is a femal strategy by qualityassurancedept · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Female's all over the animal kingdom use social exclusion instead of violence in order to punish other females. Exclusion is the primary competitive strategy for all sorts of female animals. Look it up on Wikipedia. Or google it. Its a widely known fact among researchers in the social science. That's how teenage girls bully each other.

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    1. Re:Social exclusion is a femal strategy by jader3rd · · Score: 4, Funny

      If you're that mad about it, just punish him by unfriending him and excluding him from your social circle.

    2. Re:Social exclusion is a femal strategy by Just+Brew+It! · · Score: 4, Insightful

      ...and never assume malice where incompetence will suffice. You'll get through life with a lot less conflict that way.

  7. Re:Nothing to see? Au contraire by gmack · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Judging from the differences of what gets posted on my wall, I find that men put up random cool things, pics from something they did with their friends etc while most of the really personal stuff I read such as struggles with life, relationships etc tend to be put up by women. I suspect the gender gap on the privacy settings are simply because woman care more about who reads what they put up.

  8. Re:Who didn't know this by Skapare · · Score: 4, Funny

    Thanks. Glad to know this. I've always wondered why so few men wear skirts. Now I know.

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  9. Groucho by Wildplasser · · Score: 5, Funny

    I don't want to be friends with people who have people like me as friends.

  10. That's because women are more emotionally hostile by EmagGeek · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Look at any social group of young teenage girls today. They're the most vile, wretched, undisciplined, emotionally hostile human beings that walk the face of the Earth today. They think nothing of torturing their peers emotionally to the point of suicide.

    Women want their enemies to suffer socially and emotionally.