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EFF Moves To Nix Trademark On "Gaymer"

netbuzz writes "Spurred by the mark holder's cease and desist letter to Reddit's subreddit r/gaymer, the Electronic Frontier Foundation today officially petitioned the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office to rescind its grant of a trademark registration on the word "gaymer". 'This registration should never have been granted,' said EFF Intellectual Property Director Corynne McSherry. 'Gaymer is a common term that refers to members of this vibrant gaming community, and we are happy to help them fight back and make sure the term goes back to the public domain where it belongs.'"

231 comments

  1. Gaymer? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    I thought everyone spellt it Gamer!?!?

  2. Really!? by Tagged_84 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    What's so different about a gaymer compared to a gamer? Why the need to segregate gamers based on their personal sexuality? Do they prefer certain genres? Or just demand gay sex in the games they play?

    - From a confused gamer

    1. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      I would assume they're the people EA/Bioware are shoving on Makeb.

      I mean seriously, if I was gay, and one of my fellow colleagues referred to us as that, I would just like DIE.

      Lingo faux paux are just as bad as fashion faux paux after all! Sometimes even worse!

    2. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      From a confused gamer

      don't worry, buddy. lots of people are confused and struggle with their identity. no one will judge you. just be yourself and everything will be o.k.

    3. Re:Really!? by They'reComingToTakeM · · Score: 4, Informative

      Both parties lose due to prior claims.

      Gaymer's (http://www.gaymers.co.uk/) has been a UK cider producer since 1770 AD.

    4. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

      Standard homophobic bigoted response to bring up bestiality like as if it's an equivalent. Nasty. When do you plan to come out of the closet?

    5. Re:Really!? by Xenx · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why does any group of people identify themselves as part of said group? They want to. In this case, it doesn't sound like a tag being forced on them. It's a name to identify as a gay gamer. No reason to think too hard.

    6. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

      Have you ever seen what happens in online games/communities with people who are even vaguely suspected of being gay? It's not pretty generally. So gay people tend to congregate in communities in which they can play without having to be careful about what they say and without having to pretend, lest they be offended/insulted/stalked/threatened/spammed or other fun things.

    7. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why don't you find out? There might be many reasons why gay gamers would group together like this, one being the disgusting, knuckledragging homophobic and sexist abuse that is rampant in the gaming community, kicking back against that. Being proud of who you are. And you only have to read the cretinous, ugly responses to this post to see the truth of how marglinalised supposedly intelligent nerds can make gay people feel. Use your fucking brain for gods sake.

    8. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      How many gaymers with a slight lisp get called a faggot and made fun of when they just want to play a video game online like everyone else? Makes sense to me.

    9. Re:Really!? by Annirak · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Trademark doesn't work like that. Trademarks are only valid in particular regions. If Gaymer's is a UK cider producer since 1770AD, then they most likely hold a trademark in the UK. That doesn't mean that another entity can't register the same trademark somewhere else.

    10. Re:Really!? by QuasiSteve · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You can have trademarks of the same name applied to a different trade. I'm pretty sure that the cider production trade is rather unrelated to the glbt gaming culture trade.

      Prior art as to its common use by glbt gamers going back a decade or two would be a more appropriate argument in the trademark dispute.

    11. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 3, Funny

      Lingo faux paux are just as bad as fashion faux paux after all! Sometimes even worse!

      q.e.d.

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    12. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      That wasn't my intention and I apologize. I simply wanted to use my new insult in conversation. I should have thought about the context before posting so that people wouldn't think what you thought. Again, sorry about that. My bad.

    13. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 2

      And they only hold that trademark for food and beverages. Gaymer's car parts would be completely unaffected by the existance of Gaymer's cidre.

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    14. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, a better way to view where the trademark holds is to view where the product is sold. The basic principle is that the trademark protects consumers from confusion by restricting giving similar names to similar products.

      If the products are very different, like a computer and a bottle of cider, the same name can be used for both even in the same region. I doubt there would be problems with trademarks if you tried to sell Gaymer computers in the UK, even though there's a cider brand of similar name. On the other hand, Gaymer beer probably wouldn't be allowed.

    15. Re:Really!? by wonkey_monkey · · Score: 4, Funny

      An appropriate moment from the Simpsons:

      "We're here! We're queer! Get used to it!"
      Lisa: "We are used to it. You do this every year."

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    16. Re:Really!? by Annirak · · Score: 4, Informative

      You're quite right. Trademarks are both geographically restricted and market restricted. If you're in a different market or a different location, the trademark doesn't apply.

      And you have to register everywhere that you do business for the trademark to be valid in that region.

    17. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 3, Funny

      For the french impaired: faux paux means false pricks.

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    18. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      That's why I game as a gay player. It's so fun to detect the noobie "you're a faggot!!!@#$!@#$" little boys and headshot them for their trouble.

    19. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      A better question would be what's the difference between you and a pathetic dog molester. The answer is of course none. There is no difference between you and a pathetic dog molester. Because you are a pathetic dog molester. Which is why you demand dog molestation in the games you play. I'm going to go and trade mark 'dogmolestermer' to describe people like yourself.

      Oh come on, now. It was just that one time, it was consensual, and the bitch said she was older than two!

    20. Re:Really!? by SeaFox · · Score: 2

      You can have trademarks of the same name applied to a different trade. I'm pretty sure that the cider production trade is rather unrelated to the glbt gaming culture trade.

      Until Sid Meier's Beverage Tycoon is released, that is.

    21. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      couldn't find that "paux" word in my head, nor in a dictionnary... did you mean bite or connard or piqure to translate that "prick" word ? (even if I suppose it'd be bite in this context)

    22. Re:Really!? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Trademarks are only for the area the business operates in, so as long as these guys are not producing cider it's fine.

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    23. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The answer is simple. Stupidity, not hatred.
      People want to curse a lot, so, instead of fuck and shit and other universal things, that are most commonly filtered, they go for the less filtered ones.

      I wonder if there's a study, that shows which age group curses more.

    24. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I was gay

      Me too, but the changes in OS X 10.7 were too much for me to bear - I wasn't happy about it, but I had to switch back to Windows.

    25. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 1

      paux is the plural form of pal, which means prick.

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    26. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "paux" isn't a word so I doubt "faux paux" would mean false pricks. Who's the french impaired?

    27. Re:Really!? by oever · · Score: 0

      A gaymer is a camper in the closet.

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    28. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      That's why Apple Records lost to Apple Computer. Apple Computer could never be confused with a music distribution company, after all...

    29. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      nope, it's "pals".

    30. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 1

      Not in french.

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    31. Re:Really!? by Sique · · Score: 1

      paux is the plural of pal. In french, words ending in -al have the plural form -aux.

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    32. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Pardon my french, but not all words that end with "al" end with "aux" when plural.

    33. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most rules have exceptions to them. But you should know them, you took a french class in middle school!

    34. Re:Really!? by Gwala · · Score: 4, Informative

      If you want a legitimate answer from someone who's in one of the larger local Gaymer communities here's a couple of reasons:

      1- Multiplayer gaming is an endless tirade of gay-this, faggot-that. It's nice to play games and socialise with people who aren't jerks. (Yes yes, harden the fuck up, etc - but it is annoying.)

      2- It's an excuse to go hang out at a bar with a group of people with something in common every couple of weeks.

      3- While I know it's not applicable to me (LTR), but the group I'm in has at least partly become a dating pool - for gay guys and girls, that's actually sometimes a bit harder than you may be used to.

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    35. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I just don't know if I should start wearing shirts that say "He's into FPS" or "He's into "MMO" I.. don't know who I am sometimes.. how can I expect others to know?

    36. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So it's a prostitution network, the games are only for cover?

    37. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I think you're overreacting, noobs call everyone fags.

    38. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      They do it for attention. Why would you have sex with a man in the first place if not in a misguided ply for attention?

    39. Re:Really!? by CosmicMuse · · Score: 3, Informative

      No, we don't prefer certain genres. And no, we don't demand gay sex in our games, though seeing gay and lesbian -relationships- or -characters- is nice. As for segregation - that implies walling ourselves off from the rest of the gaming community. We don't - usually, the most a 'gaymer' will do is join an LGBT-friendly guild. That's hardly a surprising move when you see some of the vitriol the gaming community at large directs at LGBT people - "faggot" is practically a synonym for any other insulting term you can think of to some people. Gaymers look for places where they don't have to put up with that, and where they can share leisure time with people who have similar interests to them, in game and out - the modern equivalent of the local bar. Is that really such a big deal?

    40. Re:Really!? by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 2

      "Have you ever seen what happens in online games/communities" ; You didn't need to add the rest. It's all part of Gabe's Internet Fuckwad Theory.
      Though to be fair; I kinda hate how the word 'gay' (to depict something to be bad) seems to have started in online games (or that's where I first picked it up), and now also seems to be common ground in real life. When I still used to admin a gameserver, I used to explicitly ban people for that (after giving one warning). Seems to be a lot harder to do in real life :-/

    41. Re:Really!? by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 1

      I do agree that the term "gaymer" seems to segregate rather than integrate the gay gamers from the rest of us. However I believe the term in the article refers to a forum where they all congregated. I think it's a neat play on words and a cool name for a forum that they use share their experiences and thoughts with fellow gay gamers ( I assume that it what the forum is for ). I think the person who trademarked the term is a douche bag and I wish them luck in their legal battle.

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    42. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Because it's awesome!

    43. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To clarify, yes. the Gaymer subreddit is a place where LGBT gamers can read lgbt-specific news/game reviews/people's experiences. Often this stuff gets heavily flamed in regular gaming forums/subreddits, so it tends to be a place where gamers can read this sort of content without being bombarded with negativity. Also a very friendly place where people can find other accepting folks that play the same games that they do. I'm under the impression that non-gay gamers are welcome to participate in the community, but that the name indicates that it's a place where people can discuss gaming culture without having to worry about running into loads of unpleasant flaming.

    44. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >1- Multiplayer gaming is an endless tirade of gay-this, faggot-that. It's nice to play games and socialise with people who aren't jerks. (Yes yes, harden the fuck up, etc - but it is annoying.)

      Less talking

      >3- While I know it's not applicable to me (LTR), but the group I'm in has at least partly become a dating pool - for gay guys and girls, that's actually sometimes a bit harder than you may be used to.

      More doing.

    45. Re:Really!? by asylumx · · Score: 1

      So it's like a gaming version of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"

    46. Re:Really!? by ArhcAngel · · Score: 3, Funny

      Of course getting the Preperation-H trademark for your delectable fruit jams and jellies might not be the best idea even if you would be instantly recognizable.

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    47. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Politicize it!

      What if all the Gaymer's decided to create guilds between a man and a man or a woman and a woman . Then...when the heteroes show up....and try to make guilds between a man and a woman they are denied!! AWESOMEZZ!!

    48. Re:Really!? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 3, Funny

      Or just demand gay sex in the games they play?

      They're still upset about the gender bias in Leisure Suit Larry.

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    49. Re:Really!? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Why the need to segregate gamers based on their personal sexuality?

      Its to do with the "u r a fag!1" comment which seems popular on many online gaming communities.

      It's an implied question. The answer is usually "no", "yes" or "none of your business". However, this was generating excessive traffic slowing down servers and also slowing down the whole experience due to the need to frequetly field the same question.

      Now, the original querier can instead go to:

      File > Options > Settings > Game > Users > User options > Profile

      and scroll down to the correct section where the answer presents itself. Alternatively, the gamer to which the query was addressed can reply with a URL of their profile page.

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    50. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      because if you've ever played on any MMORPG or Xbox Live or anything else that involves people, comments like "fag" and "queer" and "that's so gay" are rife and we got sick of it about 10 years ago.

      - a gaymer

    51. Re:Really!? by geekoid · · Score: 1

      No they don't.
      bal -bals
      fatal-fatals
      banal-banals.
      I'm sure there are other exceptions as well. Speaking of others
      "There have been others, to be sure. There are always others, are there not? " - Lo Pan
      "There have been udders, to be sure. There are always udders, are there not? " - Cow Pan

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    52. Re:Really!? by geekoid · · Score: 0

      That use of the term as a negative is older the online games.
      Get over yourself.

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    53. Re:Really!? by ArhcAngel · · Score: 4, Informative

      That's why Apple Records lost to Apple Computer.

      Did they? Apple Computer paid Apple Corp. in 1981 and then again in 1991. And even though Apple Computer won the first trial over iTunes there was a good enough chance they would have lost on appeal that they bought the trademark lock, stock, and barrel from Apple Corp.

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    54. Re:Really!? by atomicxblue · · Score: 1

      *poof*

      *disappeared in a puff of logic*

      (Sorry, this is ./ after all -- I had to bring back an edge of geekiness to the comments)

    55. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How confused? enough to feel curious?

    56. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      AC reveals how *they* have to get a 'date', they can't imagine not paying.

    57. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      Why don't you find out? There might be many reasons why gay gamers would group together like this, one being the disgusting, knuckledragging homophobic and sexist abuse that is rampant in the gaming community, kicking back against that. Being proud of who you are. And you only have to read the cretinous, ugly responses to this post to see the truth of how marglinalised supposedly intelligent nerds can make gay people feel. Use your fucking brain for gods sake.

      The video game market has expanded beyond supposedly intelligent nerds for at least 15 years now. Once frat boys got XBoxes, the assimilation of that culture had obvious results.

      And anyone letting someone else's words make them feel bad for who they are is a weak person, and should get that in check. But instead of toughening up and being a stronger individual, society would rather silence mean bullies.

      Ultimately our world will become a worse place for it, much like the overuse of sterilization and anti-bacterial surface treatments is stunting immune system response.

    58. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      because faggots, that's why

    59. Re:Really!? by ToadProphet · · Score: 2

      Not shirts... handkerchiefs

      Not sure if MMO's fall under S&M or Bondage.

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    60. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This may shock and surprise you. Don't do anything sudden or make any quick moves when you realize this. You could be around a homosexual man right now and you probably didn't know because he doesn't have a lisp! Now get up, slowly. Yes, Neo. There are two ways out of this building. I don't know what he wants with you and I don't want to find out either. The cubicle across from you is empty. Now! Keep low and go to the jkT$#@34 NO CARRIER

    61. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The same percentage of straight people with a slight lisp that get called a faggot and made fun of when they just want to play a video game online. The easy solution is to not talk online if you're going to get teased about your voice. Type instead or don't say anything and focus on the game. People bashing each other are distracted from the game and are easier to beat.

      Just play the dam game. Why bring sex, religion, or anything else into the mix unless it's a game about those topics. Ignore people calling you names. They're doing that to try and make themselves feel better.

    62. Re:Really!? by spire3661 · · Score: 0

      When I tire of humanity and its slings and arrows, im labeled anti-social. When Gays do it, its because they are persecuted and we should all be more understanding of the plight of the gays.

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    63. Re:Really!? by Myopic · · Score: 1

      Indeed, and I figured out too late why my private pre-school failed: Nebraska Advanced Mind & Body Learning Academy.

    64. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 2

      When I tire of humanity and its slings and arrows, im labeled anti-social.

      Perhaps some self reflection could help you here.

      When Gays do it, its because they are persecuted and we should all be more understanding of the plight of the gays.

      That is exactly right; they are, and we should.

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    65. Re:Really!? by spire3661 · · Score: 1

      All humans are persecuted to various degrees, gays dont have a special license here.

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    66. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 1

      First of all, that's not true. Straight white American males are not persecuted in any way. Secondly, you think we shouldn't be more accepting of gay people simply because other people are persecuted also? Nice.

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    67. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      The expression is actually 'faux pas', which translates literally to 'false step' and is used in the same context as one would use "misstep"

    68. Re:Really!? by Selfbain · · Score: 1

      Well for starters we tend to post a lot of pictures of dicks (often but not always gaming related) to r/gaymers and that isn't really welcome in r/gaming and r/games. Our conversations also tend to stray into gay sex which also isn't really welcome in the community at large. Also, I met my boyfriend in the r/gaymers IRC channel so there is also dating reasons.

      I find it strange that so many people find it necessary to criticize us for forming a community based on shared interest.

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    69. Re:Really!? by ButchDeLoria · · Score: 0

      "...we're all in agreement that pedophiles are awful..." How dare you insult Our Lord and GNU/Savior RMS!

    70. Re:Really!? by spire3661 · · Score: 0

      You are fucking retarded if you dont think the world beats on EVERYONE. Im a straight white male and ive chased for being too white, wearing glasses, being nerdy etc. I have been subjected to ALOT of black-on-white racism as well. People are mean to other people, period.

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    71. Re:Really!? by admdrew · · Score: 1

      Attention seeking? No. It's a way for people to connect with others, which can be pretty difficult if you're part of a minority (as gay gamers are). Because of the relative anonymity of online gaming communities, casual racism, sexism and homophobia have been around for years (especially near the turn of the millennium when broadband become way more ubiquitous).

      It's indeed "[a] need to label oneself to identify with a group and be part of a community", a need that virtually all humans share in some capacity. Why you're labeling that desire as obsessive, I'm unsure.

    72. Re:Really!? by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      Dog molestation fetish? Bet you wish you were a dog!

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    73. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 3, Informative

      Being attacked is not the same as being persecuted. You have not been denied a loan on the sole basis that you are a white male. You have not been barred from staying in a hotel because you are a white male. You have not been told you can't marry your life partner because you are a strait white male. You have not been denied a job because you are a straight white male. You have not been denied a raise or paid less than others for the same work because you are a straight white male.

      Because you are a straight white male, you get privileged over others. That is the exact opposite of persecution. You can deny that all you like, but it's true.

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    74. Re:Really!? by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      If I'm playing a game I'm playing to play not to grief someone that's homosexual. Even in voice chat I wouldn't give a toss unless they are being a bit too forthcoming with sordid details. This does smack of an attention grab for some free pub.

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    75. Re:Really!? by admdrew · · Score: 1

      Agreed. As is the general issue outside of gaming, the "big deal" is probably a lack of understanding and exposure to the gay community (or legit homophobia).

      I think it's easy for some people who have never directly experienced being part of a minority to forget how helpful it can be for those *in* a minority to identify themselves so they can find others to connect with and share their experiences with. As you alluded to, online gaming communities are often very homophobic (and racist and sexist) in their speech, which obviously makes it difficult for someone who *is* gay to join and be a part of that community.

      In some ways a lot of us online/gaming nerds seem pretty progressive, but there's still a latent fear/misunderstanding of other nerds who don't fit neatly into the young straight male stereotype.

    76. Re:Really!? by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

      I question your admin skills. I admin'd many a game server and I always just used the language packs. Rewrite the word gay and if they say it in chat they instantly called someone a great player.

      Seriously we used to have fun with those filters. That and my fave was the ones where you'd get people using macros with key binds, then you throw and unbind command at their client and they get all pissy and claim you hacked them and that they are calling the cops and the FBI. I about pissed my pants more than once due to those comments.

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    77. Re:Really!? by Golddess · · Score: 1

      Secondly, you think we shouldn't be more accepting of gay people simply because other people are persecuted also?

      ....yes? I mean, how do you judge which persecuted group to be accepting towards more than any other persecuted group? Isn't it better to accept all groups equally?

      Personally, that's all I want, to be treated equal. I don't want or need any sort of special treatment not afforded to other groups.

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    78. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Right, so because YOU wouldn't give someone a hard time, it's safe for gay gamers now. I'll let everyone know.

    79. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 0

      1) http://www.diversityinc.com/diversity-and-inclusion/debunking-the-affirmative-action-myth/

      2) Black Americans face far higher rates of poverty, therefore it is unsurprising that, on a per capita basis, they receive a higher proportion of welfare services.

      3) That's just idiotic.

      4) White American males are often cast as the poster boy for gun violence because, frankly, white males commit the vast majority of firearm related crimes. Most of the recent mass murderers have been white males.

      5) The reverse is much more often true. Ex: Vidor, Texas.

      6) While you know nothing about me, I can surmise a few things about you. You are a racist and a homophobe, otherwise known as a bigot. The term "white race" is used almost exclusively by white supremacists. The fear that the "white race" is facing genocide is a clear indicator of racism. The fact is, there is no "white race" or "black race" or "asian race". Humanity is made up of a wide variety of ethnicities that cannot be broken down by "race". Race is not even a valid term, biologically speaking.

      For the record, I am a 43 year old white male. I have lived in majority black areas and majority hispanic areas, and I have seen first hand the barriers they face in achieving the so-called American dream.

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    80. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 1

      Precisely, Goddess. That was my point.

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    81. Re:Really!? by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 1

      We experimented with those a few times, but you get people working around that. In the end banning (or kicking) was as much a statement one can make to say it wasn't acceptable on our servers.

    82. Re:Really!? by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 1

      Bullshit: The sentence 'That's so gay' to mean something is bad, only showed its head at the end of the 90's. I'm willing to be proven wrong, so waiting for you to provide some actual proof.
      Hell, if something was gay in the olden days, it used to be merry/cheerful.
      But as said, willing to be proven wrong...

    83. Re:Really!? by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 1

      and to be clear; Nor was any other swearing allowed.

    84. Re:Really!? by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 0

      I'm reading some of your other comments: Do you ever make anything other than negative unsubstantiated comments?

    85. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 0

      Go back to stormfront. You've shown your colors, and I'm done with you.

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    86. Re:Really!? by seebs · · Score: 3, Informative

      Well, you know, that is a damn good question. And I know a number of people who have been kicked from a guild or clan or whatever after months to years of getting along fine with everyone, because someone heard them refer to a "boyfriend". And it seems to me that they would really, really, like an answer to that question.

      But we don't have one.

      So people who have gotten sick of thinking they found a social group to game with, and then getting kicked out of it or treated in really crappy ways, have started pre-identifying so they can find groups that will treat them basically like normal human beings.

      Usually, the next response is the "erasure" response -- "people should just not talk about their sex lives, then it won't be an issue." That's bullshit. It's bullshit because it's only gay people who are told not to talk about their sexual or romantic lives. No one thinks anything of it when a guy mentions a wife or a girlfriend in a game, or when a girl mentions a husband or boyfriend. But if someone mentions hating mammogram machines, and six months later mentions going out for dinner with a girlfriend, bam, she's in trouble for "shoving her sex life in everyone's face".

      The reality is, social interaction involves some talking about personal lives, and that's part of what makes people engage in social gaming activities to begin with. And the reality is, video game communities are visibly prone to treating people really badly if those personal lives are in some way gay. And as long as that's true, there'll be people using words like "gaymer", or creating "LGBT-friendly" guilds.

      When the day comes that you can confidently join a random guild in an MMO and expect not to get harassed about being a "fag", I doubt you'll see any real interest in "LGBT-friendly" guilds. But that day is not today.

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    87. Re:Really!? by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      "that's actually sometimes a bit harder than you may be used to."
      That's what she said.

      No, seriously though - a couple of friends of mine who are gay say they avoid this crap like the plague because what might ostensibly start as something well-intentioned often just ends up being queer-chat-line-hookup-central.

      They've both said to me (entirely separately, they don't know each other) that they're frankly sick of the 'homofication' of everything. If they game, they game and don't really care to 'carry the banner of queer society' over everything they do. If someone says "that's gay" or "you fag" they understand that for at least the last 10 years it hasn't actually even meant that you engage in homosexual activity (cf. South Park).

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    88. Re:Really!? by aevan · · Score: 1

      Could make an argument about affirmative action - if there are finite spots and precedence is given to a race, that's tantamount to denying the other races.

      South Africa post-apartheid (amongst other policies) would be a nice source against 'whites are always privileged'. Singled out for attacks, land taken away, 80% of jobs reserved for blacks, etc.

    89. Re:Really!? by aevan · · Score: 1

      Caveat: if limiting to United States, the amount on average a white person would face would be trivial comparatively. Was more going towards "it isn't always rosey for the melanin-challenged".

    90. Re:Really!? by Golddess · · Score: 1

      Oh, sorry. Thought the "nice" meant you were being sarcastic, like you were saying that gays should be more accepted than other persecuted groups. My mistake.

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    91. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 1

      No worries.

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    92. Re:Really!? by bheerssen · · Score: 1

      I was saying that society should be more accepting of gay people in general, not that they should be accepted more than other groups.

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    93. Re:Really!? by Solandri · · Score: 1

      1- Multiplayer gaming is an endless tirade of gay-this, faggot-that. It's nice to play games and socialise with people who aren't jerks. (Yes yes, harden the fuck up, etc - but it is annoying.)

      As a member of the general multiplayer gaming population, I'm offended you would group me with those idiots. And that you would cut off any opportunity for contact with me because of them. Too often people complain about being typecast with stereotypes, yet will willingly stereotype others.

      The solution to this problem isn't self-ostracization, seceding the general community to the people who shovel out that kind of vitrol. It's ostracizing them from the general community. Granted I play mostly RPGs, not FPS, but all of them have terms of service regarding online behavior. If enough people report the foul-mouthed jerks, they'll get banned. (And for the companies who don't ban for this type of behavior: If you allow things like this to persist, it teaches kids playing your games that it's acceptable behavior, and you help the social problem persist.)

      The whole thing reminds me of the unspoken issue I see with illegal immigration. Yes they're coming to the U.S. just to try to make a better life for themselves. But that's not a long-term solution. If all the people who want to work to make a better life for themselves take the easy way out and flee their native countries for the U.S., there will be nobody left to fight to improve life in their native countries.

    94. Re:Really!? by Macgrrl · · Score: 1

      As a guild leader and raid leader I'd say it's more of a D&S relationship with a bit of switching. I'm D in a raid situation, but there are times I feel like I'm everyone's bitch when I log on for some quiet play time and everyone wants me to do GM stuff.

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    95. Re:Really!? by Macgrrl · · Score: 1

      Woosh.

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    96. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No one is asking you to do anything. You've inserted yourself and your opinion into a conversation other people are having.

    97. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree, but...

      With the advent of the internet and the www, the "geographically restricted" aspect often doesn't apply. All websites are prima facie engaged in business internationally, competing against all other websites offering simlar products.

      The "market restricted" still very much does apply and is important.

    98. Re:Really!? by flaming+error · · Score: 1

      You should see his troll account.

    99. Re:Really!? by DarwinSurvivor · · Score: 1

      The RCMP in Canada (national police for those that don't know) are actually required when hiring new recruits to make sure that a specified percentage are of certain minorities. The problem is that many of those minorities don't apply as much as white males which means that it is WAY easier for the few minority applicants to get in than the white males. They keep doing radio and TV advertisements asking for people to sign up, but they keep turning people away because "we already have too many white males".

      I'm all for equality and ensuring that minorities are respected and not disadvantaged, but sometimes they go WAY overboard.

    100. Re:Really!? by DarwinSurvivor · · Score: 1

      Just a clarification "don't apply as much" means that fewer of them apply for the job, not that they don't apply themselves as much to the job.

    101. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats sort of the point. If we didn't march, assert our presence and demand equal rights but sat by invisibly and kept our gays out of your faces as so many straight people put it, then we'd still be the boogeyman that religious conservatives would tell as scary stories to their children. The manta behind the gay rights movement has shifted quite a bit from-DEAL WITH IT! to-Emphasize with us and join us in the battle for marriage equality. We changed our tone but for many people even a hint of "gayness" in public or even on gay person suing for equal pay is enough to push the "gays are looking for spechul rites!" bs. We aren't looking for special rights, we're standing up for the rights promised to us. Everyone claims they're not at all homophobic but ONE group of gays want to hang out in a forum together and all of a sudden it's SEGREGATION and ATTENTION SEEKERS. I'm tired of mantrums about the legitimacy of my life.

    102. Re:Really!? by kdemetter · · Score: 1

      faux pas = false step
      the word "pas" in plural is still "pas"
      So , "false steps" , is still "faux pas"

      French has more of this words, where the plural is the same, or even the word has a completely different based on the context.
      Usually, other words in the sentence will make it clear that the word is in plural.

      For example :
      I took a big step : J'ai pris un grand pas
      I took big steps : J'ai pris de grands pas

      the usage of "s" after "grand" signifies that it's plural, and the usage of "de" signifies a quantity.
      To make things worse "ne ... pas" is also used to mean "not" .
      I didn't take steps : Je n'ai pas pris de pas :-)

    103. Re:Really!? by kdemetter · · Score: 1

      pal means "friend" in french , and the plural would be "pals" , not paux. But it's only used in a non-formal setting.

      There is also the concept of "false friends" , which are words which are pronounced similary in different languages, but have a totally different meaning.
      Ex : library (to borrow books) libraire ( bookshop , to buy books )

      That term is called "faux amis" in french ( false friends ).

    104. Re:Really!? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      That's what she said.

      But no really, I've never understood how people can't understand that if some women can and do enjoy anal sex, why wouldn't some men? Hell, for men it's even more enjoyable since they have prostates. Anuses are anuses... people are so repressed about arbitrary social conditioning. Of course people are going to have different tastes about things, but this sort of attitude is like saying 'why would anybody like onions' or something.

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    105. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      oh please! You'd be lucky if you made it to a chapter. There are others who can publish volumes that fit a library.

    106. Re:Really!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amen. As a gay man I too am sick of homofication as you put it. I want equal rights and to be treated like everyone else. I don't care if some 12 year old says faggot every 3 minutes, my self respect is stronger and also more important than that.

      Also, not every gay man is always on the prowl for a hookup, but as to be expected with any community of just men, there is a large population that seems to do just that. Too many gay communities seem to be about sexual encounters. Don't even get me started on gay bars...

  3. Re:It's official!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    And you, sir are a bigot.

  4. In the UK... by zandeez · · Score: 4, Informative

    In the UK 'Gaymer' is a company that makes Cider. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaymer_Cider_Company

    1. Re:In the UK... by second_coming · · Score: 0

      Came here to say the same thing, damn you beat me :)

    2. Re:In the UK... by 91degrees · · Score: 1

      My initial assumption was that they were the ones that filed the complaint. In which case, I could at least understand that they might be concerned with trademark dilution.

    3. Re:In the UK... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Trademark dilution only applies to trademarks in the same field.

      Obviously cider production and gaming are two completely different things therefore two separate trademarks are possible.

    4. Re:In the UK... by shentino · · Score: 1

      Only if they're putting cream in the cider.

    5. Re:In the UK... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bobbing for apples... game... apples... I'm confused. I'd better check the trademark to see which I'm doing.

  5. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Dexter+Herbivore · · Score: 5, Funny

    How do you call gamers that love cheese? There must be a word for that.

    The French.

  6. Re:It's official!! by Dexter+Herbivore · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It'd be nice if the trolls on /. showed a little more intelligence than this, this is just lazy.

  7. Re:It's official!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yeah, standards have slipped since I was alt.hacker's resident troll-hunter...

  8. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Dexter+Herbivore · · Score: 4, Insightful

    No, by protecting the rights of gaymers online. Reddit is just the test case.

  9. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by cpt+kangarooski · · Score: 2

    How do you call gamers that love cheese? There must be a word for that.

    GruyÃrmers

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  10. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Lehk228 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Defending against corporate attempts to poach a name already in use via fraudulent trademark filings is not a good use of their funds?

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  11. These Comments are Stupid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not. I'm kinda tired of hearing "gay this" and "gay that" and "fags this" and "fags that" all the time, too. I don't fucking care about other people's sexuality. I also don't care about heterosexuals and how proud someone is of banging a drunk chick that he picked up at a meat rack bar. None of this shit really matters. If people want to be gay and game, whatever, go for it. Gay people also drink water -- does the "God Hates Fags" crowd intend to stop drinking water because of that? Again, in the larger scheme of things....who cares about sexual orientation? I spend more time worrying about our real loss of freedoms and the massive debt, and about a hundred other things. I'm tired of hearing about how everyone is homophobic and I'm also tired of hearing about how gay marriage will cause the country to fall into the seas. WORRY ABOUT REAL SHIT, PEOPLE.

    1. Re:These Comments are Stupid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      If you were under the impression that gays don't bang drunk people they pick up at a meat rack bars like heterosexuals do then I have some bad news for you buddy...

    2. Re:These Comments are Stupid by History's+Coming+To · · Score: 1

      Absolutely. Just as with race, sexuality shouldn't even be an issue. "Oh, you're gay/straight/bi/transexual? OK. Oh, you also have black/white/coffee/etc skin? That must mean you make slightly different choices in make-up. Now would you please SHUT UP AND SPAWN AS AN ENGINEER THERE'S A BLOODY BIG TANK HERE!"

      At some point the only people shouting about how minority groups are the same as everyone else will be the minority groups themselves - it's already getting that way. No, you're not special because you're in $minority, that's the entire point.

      Of course the 12 year old trolls will still be around. The trick is not to feed them.

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    3. Re:These Comments are Stupid by k6mfw · · Score: 1

      Post Of The Month!

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    4. Re:These Comments are Stupid by tompaulco · · Score: 1

      I agree Mr. Anonymous Coward. I don't want to hear about whether somebody is gay or not and I don't want to hear about his sexual exploits any more than I want to hear about a straight guys sexual exploits. If you're gay or your straight, I don't care. Keep it to yourself. How are the people on these MMOs finding out that people are gay? Do you have to click a box when you sign up? I don't think so. Do they have a lisp? I doubt it. Do they sound effeminate? No more than the 11 year olds who frequent most of these MMOs.
      Try not telling people you are gay. It works great. There is a guy that worked for me for several year at work that was gay, but nobody knew it until long after he had gone to another company. Nobody needs to know you are gay. Just be yourself.

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    5. Re:These Comments are Stupid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And then when people go on and on about their sexual conquests and ask you how many girls you've been with you lie and make up stories because *god forbid* you offend the straight white men by letting them know you're different?

      Yeah, truly that will be equality at its finest.

    6. Re:These Comments are Stupid by Deekoo · · Score: 1

      Keeping your sexual orientation secret in the workplace is easy enough if you just take simple measures like requiring all your employees to refer to their lovers only in gender-neutral terms and to use gender-ambiguous pronouns when talking about eir partners, and firing anyone who drops gender-revealing names (People dating 'Sam' are fine, people dating 'Deekoo' are not). At most non-porn jobs, your sexual orientation is not going to be relevant to your job performance.

      When it comes to games, this sort of thing is *not reasonable*. Most mmog players are doing it *for fun* and don't want to have to use the genderless pronouns they use at work. And they're doing it *for fun*. Why should people have to keep their orientation secret *while playing a game*?

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    7. Re:These Comments are Stupid by tompaulco · · Score: 1

      I just said I don't want to hear about anybody's sexual exploits, hetero or homo. I'm not one to get into a DSW with people over how many women I have been with. Some guy at work blathered about having a threesome with his wife and another girl. I found it disgusting an inappropriate.

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    8. Re:These Comments are Stupid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with this idea is that you are basically saying that gay people can't discuss their partners in any public forum. If someone in your MMO asks you why you can't make the raid that night, and you say that you have to go to dinner with your wife for your anniversary, nobody is going to ridicule or attack you for "flaunting" your sexuality. A gay man can't say the same thing about his husband or boyfriend when people have this kind of attitude.

      People say they should just "keep it to themselves" without fully thinking about the implications of this kind of censorship.

  12. Except when we're not. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Even ignoring the cesspool that is the twelve year olds of FPS games, no, we're not used to it.

    MMOs are a prime example. Spend five minutes in one, and you'll see rampant homophobia, bigotry and sexism - ranging from the sadly accepted as tame (EVE Online, usually when one of the aforementioned twelve year olds is relieved of their poorly fitted ship) to making you wonder if you've logged into a fucking Klan meeting (Hi, raiding guilds of EverQuest 2, WoW, et cetera).

    Gamers, like most psuedo-anonymous people on the Internets, are largely shitheads; shitheads who will never shut up about buttsex, women making sandwiches, or traps.

    1. Re:Except when we're not. by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2

      MMOs are a prime example. Spend five minutes in one, and you'll see rampant homophobia, bigotry and sexism - ranging from the sadly accepted as tame (EVE Online, usually when one of the aforementioned twelve year olds is relieved of their poorly fitted ship) to making you wonder if you've logged into a fucking Klan meeting (Hi, raiding guilds of EverQuest 2, WoW, et cetera).

      I think that Mr. Sulu has the right response for this.. :D

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    2. Re:Except when we're not. by nedlohs · · Score: 1

      None of that means they aren't used to the presence of gay people. It just means they are also dickheads.

    3. Re:Except when we're not. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is the society that we have built and it's actually much tamer in other parts of the world where they would just hang gaymers instead.

    4. Re:Except when we're not. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe gaymers have a softer skin than the rest of us mortals.

    5. Re:Except when we're not. by operagost · · Score: 1

      Even ignoring the cesspool that is the twelve year olds of FPS games, no, we're not used to it.

      So you follow the, "some people are jerks, so we're going to punish everyone for it" philosophy? Did I get that right?

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    6. Re:Except when we're not. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While AC made a lot of generalizations, I missed the part where they advocated some sort of punishment.

  13. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Cwix · · Score: 2

    I am not sure how these people are demanding anything except the right to continue to call themselves what they have called themselves for years.

    Do you even know whats going on here, you sound confused.

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  14. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by feld · · Score: 0

    Yeah, give your money to FSF and let Stallman get paid to ruin the open source community.

    Give your money to one of the BSD projects and it won't be spent frivolously.

  15. Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The tags looked like they said "Eff Games Yo"

  16. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If I'm going to give R&D money to Apple I'd rather get an iPad for it...

  17. Oh thats nothing by Phrogman · · Score: 4, Informative

    If you want to see *really* abusive language and offensive comments concentrated into their purest form, go play an mmoRPG and try *Roleplaying*. Nothing gets the 12 yr old mentality for heaping offensive abuse on other players up more than encountering a roleplayer in a roleplaying game, believe me.
    In Dark Age of Camelot we had 3 Roleplaying/PvP servers, with a specific set of rules intended to foster RP behavior. We also had some of the best PvPing in the game going. However, there were regularly people who would create a character on one of these RP servers (there were like 17 other servers they could have chosen instead) *solely* for the purpose of standing in a populated area and heaping abuse on anyone they found. I would say I appealed at least 1 person per play session typically for this sort of behavior. I just don't get it. Its not like I logged into the non-Rp servers to insult them for not choosing to roleplay, that would just be a massive waste of my time if nothing else. I can't imagine being so bored as to have nothing better to do that insult people I will never play with.
    Now, I am not gay, but I can easily understand why those who are would group together to form their own community and avoid the abuse they probably get on a regular basis - or at least manage to avoid the typically offensive speech of the gamers around them.
    I cannot really imagine wanting to claim a term that would focus that abuse on me though. That seems *to me* to smack of wanting a reason to get outraged and complain about. Still whatever fills your boots I suppose...

    However I agree that online gamers are typically highly offensive and ignorant as a baseline behavior. Sure, some rise above that but they are the rarity, the vast, vast majority start at pig-ignorant and dig their way down from there. Admittedly this is mostly true only of RPGs that have a heavy PvP element to them. My wife plays LOTRO and it seems fairly mild, but then PvP there is a minor afterthought really.

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    1. Re:Oh thats nothing by RobertLTux · · Score: 1

      things that the Server Folks could do to help fix this problem

      1 have a class of Ancient Epic NPCs that could NUKE a character for this kind of thing (get caught and find yourself in the Wylds trying to fight an Elder Wyrm Dragon with half of your "toys" left behind in town)

      2 have a Demi-God Wizard convert the character in question into a young girl/pixie (so they drop any armour and weapons, get slapped with a LolKitteh chat filter and get trapped into a special "safe area") and then if they try to just RNC block the ips they are coming from.

      3 work things so that you HAVE TO build a party to do anything from the list of X things (which includes getting The Good Toys)

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    2. Re:Oh thats nothing by locopuyo · · Score: 1

      Reading and posting comments on Slashdot is for losers. You guys are freaks and should never have been born.

    3. Re:Oh thats nothing by gl4ss · · Score: 1

      they'd be called faggots online regardless of them being gay or not. of course that can be pretty confusing for any slanderphobe.
      but.. who the fuck would like the trademark on gaymer?

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    4. Re:Oh thats nothing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I liked what mythic did in the later days of DAoC. If a lot of people were reporting you, they would investigate and move you to a server just for assholes. Your account would be restricted to only allow you to create characters on this server and your toons would be moved there. The only way around this in game ban was to repurchase the game and start over. Anyone could create a toon on the server (though I have no idea why you would want to), but those in the time out box could not get away from those like themselves...seems a pretty good way to handle serial assholes.

    5. Re:Oh thats nothing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      lol I'm sorry, but the kinds of fat neckbeards and ugly women that actually RP on MMOs deserve to be laughed at.

  18. I've never hard of this term before... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    .. and I've been gay for.. a while.

    1. Re:I've never hard of this term before... by tompaulco · · Score: 1

      I've never heard this term before either, and I'm not gay.

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  19. Re:It's official!! by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 4, Funny

    And you, sir are a bigot.

    Or a homogot.

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  20. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by sa666u · · Score: 0

    Where exactly did you see fraudulent trademark filings? Was the brand free? Yes it was. I don't see a problem.

  21. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Cwix · · Score: 2

    I read the EFF page, the only demand I see is that they be allowed to use the name as they have for years. That is not ridiculous or laughable.

    Considering how I feel your comments are misguided and silly, does that mean I am allowed to mock you?

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  22. gaymer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I heard about polymer, is that related in some way?

  23. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by sa666u · · Score: 0

    As I already said, if they liked the name, they should have registered it. Unfortunately "...they have for years" is totally meaningless in court. First come, first serve (legally speaking). I couldn't care less about how you feel about anything. You are "allowed" to print my comment and wipe your behind with it if it makes you happy.

  24. It can be incredibly hostile by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I played Lord of the Rings Online the most and was a casual raid leader (meaning I organized and ran raids for casual players where often the loot would go to someone who had a birthday or fought well or been really unlucky rather then loot tables, I also didn't care about levels or experience). They were somewhat popular and I was asked to lead other groups... and then found out that in the NON-PUG groups, getting people to talk was a LOT easier. In the PUG raids everyone had sound on but for some reason few had a microphone. Suddenly in the closed raids, most had. And high voices.

    Turns out I had been gaming with a lot of women. And I mean a LOT. Some were raids were majority female but when I asked them to join a pug something became clear... they were willing to play BUT could I not reveal they were female.

    I have had several discussions online and in the real world were I was told about the kind of abuse female players receive. And this is NOT the rage kind when someone just says "bitch" or the sexual innuendo. Women talk like that too. It were attacks that yes as the AC says, you would expect in Klan meeting. One type of attack is that women have no right to play the game... I mean seriously. WTF?

    AND it is not just trolling, there are a lot of REAL misogynists online. They can't vent their putrid bile in real life because they would get beaten up but online they let go.

    So... the women hide online and only reveal their gender if they feel safe. AND THAT IS NOT OKAY! If you think it is, then I hate your fucking guts and hope you die before spreading your diseased genes. Because THIS attitude is what fuels extremists by tolerating them. It is basically nothing else then "if you don't want to be raped, don't reveal your gender". It is YOUR kind that created the burkha.

    People should be free to be who they are. Yes, there can be gentle ribbing like Q.I. makes fun of homosexuals and hetero's alike BUT that is NOT what gay and female gamers are talking about. Gay and female gamers don't want special regonizition, they simply want to be able to be who they are without getting attacked simply for speaking with a high voice.

    And only a closet bigot would start an argument over whether they got the right to be who they are.

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    You may solo them, I prefer them in a group.

    1. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by interkin3tic · · Score: 1

      In the PUG raids everyone had sound on but for some reason few had a microphone. Suddenly in the closed raids, most had. And high voices.

      Sounds like xbox live.

      Turns out I had been gaming with a lot of women

      Ah... nevermind.

    2. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by ducomputergeek · · Score: 0

      There is a lot of truth about how women are treated in gaming. I saw it in BSGO once the other faction found out someone was a woman and the flaming insults that would then be directed towards them in Open Local. I've found it to be extremely different though in STO, but mostly due to the nature of game. And frankly a lot more women play STO than some of the other games and I can see why as PVP is extremely optional and there is a lot of other things to do. Although I think there would be a few people embarrassed in Kerret if they knew they were getting owned in PVP by women. But without a voice server you'd never know it.

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    3. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The way you're talking it sounds like LOTRO is a piece of shit. We have almost as many females as males in my guild in another MMORPG and none of this happens. You might get the occasional sex jokes but no such thing as that they shouldn't play.

    4. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A fair amount of female gamers I have played with clearly do want recognition, as they seem to be trying their hardest to make sure you know that "yes, I am a girl AND a gamer." That said, I have no problems with any person of any sex, race, sexual orientiation, whatever, as long as they don't make a big fucking deal about it and just play the goddamn game.

    5. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with your position, but you forget the unintended consequences of this:

      People should be free to be who they are.

      They are not. We have laws against it. Not just anti gay marriage or anti sodomy. What if 'who you are' is someone that is very amorous and enjoys flirting at work? Nope that would be sexual harassment. What if you are a sadist? Nope that is even worse, even if you have consent it is up to the local authorities whether or not you will be spending the next 15 years in prison. Try being Mexican in Arizona, or Black in smalltown Tennessee or White downtown Detroit. All these things have consequences. Sure you can be yourself, but that wont come without consequences.

      In multiplayer games those misogynists and and sexual bigots get to be who they really are, something they don't get to be without consequences outside the game. Women, homosexuals and the like that chose not to be who they are in game are simply not willing to accept the consequences of being who they are in that environment just as the problem gamers do outside the game. The behavior is the same.

      Really the question is not whether or not people should be free to be who they are, but are you willing to accept them when they are? For both you and the people you are railing against, the answer is unequivocally no.

    6. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    7. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but there is nothing hypocritical about refusing to accept someone who refuses to accept others.

    8. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by brkello · · Score: 4, Informative

      No, no they are not. When I go online and people find out I am male, nothing happens. When women go online, they are harassed constantly by idiots. Constant messages asking for pictures, a/s//l, etc. They can handle just the random hate filled things as well as any of us can...they are not being singled out. But when their sex is revealed, they are.

      So to say we are treated just as bad as women...well, that is misogynistic garbage for a bunch of pathetic men who have trouble with women because they are socially awkward.

      So grow up. When men start hiding their sex online for fear of being targeted, then maybe you would have a point.

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    9. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by brkello · · Score: 1

      This only would make sense to someone who is really mentally fucked up.

      When he says people should be free to be who they are, he is talking about fundamental things such as the fact that they are a female. He is not talking about people outside of the norm. It doesn't infringe on me when someone is female. Some sexual pervert harassing me...sorry, that does violate that. Someone who is female or gay isn't pushing that on me. The sexual deviants and psychopaths out there are.

      So feel free to be as screwed up as you want...just keep it to yourself.

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    10. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by brkello · · Score: 1

      Yes, people are mean to everyone online. The difference is you aren't pre-judged based upon your sex on whether you are good or not. You aren't harassed by these people constantly after they find out your sex.

      But no, I have never had anyone tell me I didn't have the right to play the game. I know it is hard for some people, but you have to look at something from another's perspective. If you think the online experience for men and women are the same, you are flat out wrong.

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    11. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by spire3661 · · Score: 0

      And if you think people save extra vitriol for women you are a fool. People are mean to each other for various reasons, being a women is merely a vector they exploit. Same as being overweight, retarded, glasses, awkward, ugly etc. Its all jsut a way for them to inflict harm. I dont think you understand how incredibly cruel other players can be to other men. Xbox LIVE is so bad i will never go on it again. Yes women get assaulted online, BUT SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE. Mean people will be mean to anyone, and its only their personal flavor of venom that differentiates their victims.

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    12. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      If you think even half of the players on STO that present themselves as women are actually women, you're delusional.

      ~Signed, a former STO "girl"

      Granted, I think I really played the part well. Some guys refused to believe it when I told them my IRL physical gender, but then that's probably also half the power of wishful thinking, and I never told guys my gender unless ERP was on the table (which ironically added to the believability that I was female since that is common behavior for women online).

      I might further add, since I'm talking about it and it's germane to the topic, that in playing as an ostensible female I found the harassment to be minimal, and frequently where there was any there were twice or thrice as many 'white knights' to attempt to mitigate the harassment as there were harassers. The harassment of women is really overblown, and indeed in most of the communities (in and far beyond STO) I've observed known or believed female players are venerated, often for little more than their ostensible feminity. It's part of, but not wholly why I went that route in STO in the first place. (The primary reason being that mentally I'm a genderfluid pansexual with very little real world opportunity to interact from a 'feminine' perspective.)

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    13. Re:It can be incredibly hostile by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Since I posted about it above, I'll expand a bit further here. So, I'm a man that hides his gender in online games and leans toward subtly misrepresenting it as female... hi, nice to meet you. Why? In part because on the whole women are treated better online. For every harasser there are several white knights who hand out preferential treatment and/or gifts.

      Meanwhile, men are invisible. Unless they are being assholes or saviors of some kind (of which the white knight is a subset) nobody has any interest in them. People who are perceived to be women are frequently given more attention on that basis alone, attention that is alternately good or bad, but net good. So you'll pardon me if I'm not very sympathetic to this trumped up victimhood.

      No doubt by your standards this makes me "misogynist" since that's the brush with which everybody gets painted that doesn't enthusiastically ascribe to every dimension of modern feminist ideology.

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  25. Re:It's official!! by i+kan+reed · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If it's any less blatant than this it gets modded to +5 insightful.

  26. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    American Plastic or real?

  27. If it's a common term by Hentes · · Score: 1

    Why am I hearing it now for the first time?

    1. Re:If it's a common term by admdrew · · Score: 1

      No idea. Lack of exposure, maybe? It's been in my vernacular since the early 2000s when 1) my friends started coming out so I actually knew gays, 2) I was playing a lot of PC games, and 3) someone was clever enough to put 'gay' and 'gamer' together. I still don't know when or from whom I first saw the term.

  28. Why fight real social injustices by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    when you can spend money instead on defending the proper use of made-up words that don't sound different from real words?

  29. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by PPalmgren · · Score: 2

    Sort of on-topic, French get a lot of guff in international games, as do the quebecois. Surrender monkeys and lots of jokes about retreat and white flags.

  30. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    The problem is a commonly accepted term is not appropriate as a trademark. You can actually LOSE your trademark if you don't staunchly defend it against misuse (like calling all pain relievers "tylenol" instead of referring to the product "Tylenol"). If a company doesn't defend its trademark, the trademark disappears. Double trouble if you trademark a common phrase and try to suppress its use after the fact.

    This guy is a fucking idiot and I guarantee he's going to lose the trademark.

  31. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Joehonkie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "Was the brand free?" It must be lovely seeing the world as a set of exploitable resources through your corporate colored glasses. Who cares if a word was in common use before this guys trademarked it and now he's suing the community he lifted it from? It's value as a "brand" is more important than anything else!

  32. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Joehonkie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Except the law doesn't work the way you think it does. You cannot trademark a commonly used term and turn it against its common use. So I can trademark "Apple" as a music or computer company, but I can't trademark it as a brand of apples and sue people for calling their fruit apples.

  33. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by sa666u · · Score: 1

    I work in marketing so I have a pretty good idea how trademarks are registered. "Gaymer" is not a commonly used word.

  34. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by geekoid · · Score: 1

    This type of thing existed far before the western world existed. 'I want what you have, and I want to take control of it' is as old as life. Literally as old as life.

    So stop with your 'western civilization' bullshit.

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  35. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by c4320n · · Score: 2

    "Gaymer" is not an actual dictionary word, therefore can not be part of the public domain. If they liked the name so much, they should have registered it as a trademark.

    You are precisely what is wrong with popular linguistics and copyright law.

  36. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Joehonkie · · Score: 1

    Apparently it's quite commonly used in this community. I'll trust the EFF's judegment over some marketing pud any day.

  37. THAT trademark may be invalid by davidwr · · Score: 1

    But unrelated-use trademarks, such as a restaurant called "Gaymer" run by Mr. Joe Gaymer, would be valid within their scopes.

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  38. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Dexter+Herbivore · · Score: 1

    I admit, I resisted the temptation to make that joke more in depth... but considering the topic I thought that would be going too far.

  39. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Dexter+Herbivore · · Score: 1

    Perhaps it's not commonly used in the general community, but what about in the gay community or the gamer community? The first time I heard it was in discussions of Mass Effect, and I assume that since I'm straight it's not a new phenomenon.

  40. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by ArhcAngel · · Score: 1

    I'm sure the French will continue to call themselves French no matter what the outcome of this is.

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  41. Easy now... by Impy+the+Impiuos+Imp · · Score: 1

    > "Spurred by the mark holder'scease and desist letter"

    Good lord, how cheap. Looks like someone was profiteering by gayming the system.

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  42. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by sa666u · · Score: 0

    What exactly don't you understand? Nobody cares that it is commonly used in the community. They legally lost it to corporate greed or whatever fits your worldview. Choosing a side based on feelings instead of facts is called prejudice.

  43. Re:It's official!! by nitehawk214 · · Score: 0

    If it's any less blatant than this it gets modded to +5 insightful.

    Posts moderated as +5 Troll are usually some of the best reading here. Very rare but very entertaining.

    Usually the only ones that make it this far are posts ironically discussing moderation in an attempt to achieve the stated moderation.

    Like this one.

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  44. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by sjames · · Score: 1

    The problem is that now they want to send C&Ds to people who were already using the word when they filed for their trademark

  45. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In the US the concept on fair use of a trademark for freedom of speech purposes exists.
    Also, it's not at all clear that even if this is a valid trademark that it can be applied to the name of a forum within a website, where the forum name is apparently not used in itself for any commercial purpose.

    You seem particularly eager to defend this possible abuse of trademarks via the cease and desist. I wonder why?

  46. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by sjames · · Score: 1

    The game only exists because the players created it. The game will go away if the players do. So hating the player is the appropriate remedy.

  47. Multiplayer chat is pretty terrible by GodfatherofSoul · · Score: 1

    I can see why they'd want their own sandbox. I was thinking about joining a BF3 clan for the first time, started the app process and payments, then promptly withdrew after listening to the supposedly "mature gamers only" spewing epithets. Reading it on a chat window is one thing, listening to it when you're trying to aim is something completely different.

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  48. Simple Outright Theft by Nom+du+Keyboard · · Score: 0

    This is nothing more than outright theft of another person's intellectual property by gay and lesbian activists in the same way they have attempted theft of other terms. (I'll leave making that list of those terms to the reader since this is obvious /. flamebait already.) How long before they also demand to own gaymer.com because they deserve it more? This is nothing more than the slow and indolent attempting to steal from the smart and quick what the former couldn't come up with on their own and needed someone else to point it out to them. I support the person who got there first keeping the trademark that they legally acquired and SHAME ON THE EFF for getting involved in this! No soup for them this quarter.

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    1. Re:Simple Outright Theft by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except that the term gaymer was in use over a decade before this guy made the website. It's completely the opposite -- he's trying to claim ownership of a word people have been using to identify themselves since before his website was even a dream. He did not create the term 'gaymer' yet he's insisting that he has the exclusive right to use it, and going after anyone else who had enough braincells to mash 'gay' and 'gamer' into a single word to describe gay gamers.

  49. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I work in marketing...

    That explains a lot. Won't bother with any more of your worthless corporate shill babble then...

    But just one final point. Your argument such as it is seems to boil down to 'this is the law, why are whining, they should put up with it'. In fact they are challenging it *using the law* and if they win that will show they were correct to challenge it. So why are you so upset and opposed to this?

  50. Re:It's official!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Posts moderated as +5 Troll ...

    What?

  51. Re:Look at me, I'm special! by cyberchondriac · · Score: 1

    I'm pretty sure Wisconsin has a lot of gamers too. Heck, I like cheese!
    A little too much, maybe.

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  52. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by spire3661 · · Score: 1

    Ignorance of the law is not an excuse, because its EXPEDIENT, not morally righteous. Every time you say that phrase, you expose a huge moral problem with law.

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  53. Vibrant by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What the fuck is so 'vibrant' about it? Or even 'good' for that matter? Did you miss the part where these assholes trademarked a nickname to describe their gay gamer selves?

    Imagine the word we were talking about was "Nerd", and a completely diff group.........yeah.

  54. Whenever I game... by thinktech · · Score: 2

    I try to be a straight shooter...

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  55. Re:this is how EFF spends donation money? by Wookact · · Score: 1

    I am glad you have come to terms with being prejudiced then. You are wrong not only in the moral sense, but in the legal sense as well. I wonder if the term "Store" is trademarked. I should trademark it and then sue anyone that uses the word when they are trying to sell something.

  56. Re:It's official!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And you, sir, do not know how to properly use a comma in sentence.

  57. On pedophilia as an illness by sabt-pestnu · · Score: 1

    > although I think we're all in agreement that pedophiles are awful, ... ... in the same way that rapists are awful: it is a one-way relationship. Were it more often a two-way relationship, it would not be socially abhorrent. Homosexuality was (and for many people still is) abhorrent, but it is acceptable because of the (most common) nature of the relationship.

    > but at that point it's not preference but illness.

    It is both.... That the preference shows elements of psychopathology and cognitive distortion (self delusion) makes it an illness.

    But regardless of how it is classified, it is not socially acceptable.

    IMO, a large variety of socially unacceptable behaviors are classified as "illness" to excuse our attempting to alter them based on how society views the behavior. It wasn't that long ago that homosexuality was a similar "illness". We treat this sort of "illness" more often from OUR desires rather than from those of the "sufferer".

  58. Trademark stealing is a waste of time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Who are these cretins who attempt to steal commonly used trademarks? I guess this proves the business world is filled full of very low IQ sharks. Clearly, there are loads of morons who honestly believe the law is a crap shoot, and anything is possible in court.

    The laws that are constructed to cover the practice of business exist to prevent chaos. Chaos is seen as anti-business. So any business person dumb enough to think the courts will be on his side when he attempts to circumvent the law, and pull a fast one, will be slapped down hard and fast.

    The courts will NEVER allow a thief to steal that which belongs to others, just because the thief thinks he appears more 'business like' than the victim. And yet, this is the same basis of this ploy every time it is tried. It is funny how I, and others, can call the result of such cases with 100% accuracy, yet these losers will always allow some bent lawyer to persuade them they have a chance in court.

  59. Also in consideration of refutation: by VortexCortex · · Score: 1

    Also in consideration of refutation:
    PlayHer
    HimHimORPG
    FPenis
    Pro-Grammar
    Opti-Call Media
    HackHer
    Best Bi
    Amarriedcan
    Vaginerd
    PrograMen
    PedoFiles

  60. cider by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Gaymer is a cider.. That's all I have in this! As it was probably the name of a cider before this term was being used on reddit etc

  61. fag by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    wait, so when "gaymers" play Counter-Strike what are they saying instead of "fag" over and over?

  62. I must move by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hummm... I live in Cumberland - I never thought of my town that way.

  63. Re:It's official!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Posts moderated as +5 Troll ...

    What?

    +1 Underrated and -1 Overrated moderations do not change the "word" of the score. So if someone receives 1 Troll and 5 or 6 Underrated, it will show up as "+5 Troll". However just 1 Insightful will mess it up and make it list +5 Insightful.

  64. Gaymer is the brand ... by RockDoctor · · Score: 1
    ... of at least one type of cider - and quite a nice one too - which has existed for decades in the UK. That is perfectly valid grounds for copyrighting and protecting the trademark. It's unfortunate for someone who wants to come along and use the term for something different, but, "tough shit". Should have done his research before trying to invent this new use for an existing word.

    It's America, so he'll be up for execution?

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