Make a Date With Fraud
Rambo Tribble (1273454) writes "Netcraft is reporting that criminals are mounting massive phishing attacks through online dating sites. The scams are numerous and target multiple sites. Actual methods range from blackmail to 419-style scams. Characteristically, fraudsters hijack an existing account on one of the services, then use that as a portal to deliver a PHP script to compromise the site. 'The latest attacks make use of a phishing kit which contains hundreds of PHP scripts, configured to send stolen credentials to more than 300 distinct email addresses.' The BBC offers additional insights ."
I wondered why my date had me show up with a $50,000 money order......
The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for it to be pitted against a slightly greater evil
You can catch a virus from on-line dating.
Nothing surprising here, the date sites are just attacked because the operators are to dumb do make their site secure and there are a lot of people there. Any other type of site with the same characteristics is equally a target, the connection to "dating" is pure coincidence.
Most ACs are not even worth the keystrokes to insult them. Be generically insulted by this and ignored otherwise.
Hmmm...posted to SlashDot...on a Friday night.
Looking at the code provided by NetCraft, and RTFA, it looks like a bogus php $_post transaction is sent to a php web service? So if the web service doesn't verify the inputs, then that would be an entry point where a script vectors in? I guess the real question is, "How to prevent a PHP script being executed when it is being read in as an $_post element? Another question is, "What command sequence causes this?"
catphishing?
At first blush, I figured "Make a Date With Fraud" meant someone had set up an entire dating service designed to introduce people to, well, me. A bit sad to see it wasn't that, honestly.
Anyone else misread the headline as "Make a Date With Freud"?
What does this say about the relationship with my mother?
Sure, please show us where to go to start finding dates. You go to a bar, you get barflies (pick your STD.)
Anything good can also be used for bad. If we don't do things because it could end up being use for bad then we don't do anything.
What if God has someone for you and created online dating sites to hook you up?
That's a possibility, but I'm just done with them for now at least.
God spoke to me
He is not going to like that.
Well He's God, He saw it coming. He isn't surprised.
God spoke to me
1/70? Ouch.
Call it hindsight but maybe you should've been more selective in who to contact. You may have been writing to all the wrong people who have nothing in common with you.
Good luck for the future.
If each mistake being made is a new one, then progress is being made.
Dating sites, where you go when you want to be judged by your selfies. Looking to meet someone with similar interests? Look elsewhere, loser.
Here we go : cue posts saying "My mother told me never to trust anyone I meet on a dating website".
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Here's some more helpful advice
Never trust anyone you meet in a bar
Never trust anyone you meet in a theatre
Never trust anyone you meet at a party
Never trust anyone you meet in the street
Never trust anyone you meet on holiday
Never trust anyone you meet if arraged by a friend
Never trust anyone unless you already knew them before you were born
Perhaps you would like to advise us where this "elsewhere" is exactly, I never found it. Do you know, when you actually meet someone (whether through internet dating or "elsewhere") you get to see what they actually look like anyway? If they look like Jo Brand (and that's not your thing), or they ask for money (and that's not your thing either) you walk away.
Anyway in the process of using dating sites for 3 years, I would only get about a 1/70 ratio of people I message.
Is that 1 in 70 reply, 1 in 70 you meet, or 1 in 70 you get to do whatever? I was in a dating club (pre-internet - it was letter based). Got about 25% replies, met about 5%, further dates with about 2%, went steady (as it was called, not the same as a LTR) with 1%, married 0.2%.
Someone said you should have been more selective in who to contact. I started that way, looking for certain personalities, but got very few replies; then I just wrote to all that were in a 5 year age bracket and not taller than me (there were no photos in that club). Suprisingly, I got on very well with girls who were quite opposite to me - dimmer and more outgoing, including an ex- Bunny Girl (not as exciting as you might think). FWIW I was mentally stable, not nerdy, quite well off, and not all that bad looking - which is assumed to be what girls look for, but it cetainly isn't, not these days anyway.
one of the reasons for me stopping to use dating sites is that if God has someone for me, he'll hook me up
I never met any girl outside of dating clubs, and by "met" I mean to have a social conversation > 10 seconds. It remains a mystery to me how people meet each other any other way.
Seeing as it's just a phishing kit that runs on any PHP enabled server, no, only Windows users are a prerequisite, not the OS itself. (Also an email client that displays functional HTML forms helps).
> Got about 25% replies
Bullshit.
I believe you are thinking of dating websites. I was clear I was talking about my experience on letter-based dating clubs, FWIW. Maybe some difference there.
You're not going to find 25% of a random sampling of women that are interested in men and go to the trouble to reply... As OkCupid proved only 20% of women find men on onine dating sites attractive. The odds .... are not 125% like you claim. That's impossible.
It was not a random sample of women. They were women who by joining the scheme had expressed a wish to meet a guy, and I mostly wrote to ones sounding suitable in terms of age, attitude, culture etc. I would not have written to one eg who said they only wanted a vegetarian guy, or a guy over 6ft tall, which I am not. And presumably, women who don't find men on on-line dating sites attractive don't join on-line dating sites, so they do not enter the equation or your percentages at all.
I've contacted 60,000 women over the years, and I've only met one in person. That's a 0.00167% success rate.
.. you claim a second date 40% of the time ... unlikely. Several surveys I've seen put that number at 5% so you're claiming to be eight times more effective than the average guy.
Don't forget that by the second date we had already been through quite a filtration process - typically an exchange of 3 or 4 letters and photos on top of the basic factual details in our listings. Don't think the average guy does that.
> went steady with 1%
So your claim is that half of the time you can get a second date that you have a long term relationship?
No, I did not claim that. A LTR means living like in marriage, usually co-habiting and with routine sex. I only claimed I "went steady". Does the term no longer exist? It means a friendship such that neither of us were looking for a relationship elsewhere at the time, were seeing each other only once or twice a week, and were not necessarily having sex together yet.
.... but being a member of a dating club ??? WTF has that got to do with attractiveness? Is there an assumption that you must be unattractive to be in a dating club? Not what I found, the girls I met had joined out of circumstances - like me, for one reason or another, they never met anyone of the opposite sex of similar age and unattached. Some I met were extremely attractive, although I met some ugly ones too; typical cross-section really.
Strange attitude that only about 20% of women find men on onine dating sites attractive. I have come across many things thay make people unattractive - bad breath, bad complexion, bad teeth, bad attitude, poor figure, limp personality
If you can't make a date with fraud, you should at least shake hands with danger.
(One of the funnier RiffTrax imho. Worth the purchase price.)
"Never trust" is an exaggeration. It's not a binary.
"Never trust anyone you meet at a party" is a very weak, nearly joking, version of 'never trust' Date them, but don't immediately trust them.
"Never trust some klatch of Ghanaian scammers who you've never actually met in person so much that you send them your entire life's savings and in fact go wildly into debt sending them more money" (as is the advice my uncle got repeatedly and ignored repeatedly) is a much stronger version of 'never trust'.
- can't fix stupid
-- but stupid eventually runs out of money (and credit)
Another useful tip: Never get high on your own supply
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