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Behind the MOOC Harassment Charges That Stunned MIT

An anonymous reader writes: The complainant in a sexual harassment case has come forward and told her story about what happened when she was a student in a MOOC led by a rockstar professor. "It would take almost a year before Harbi, with the help of MIT’s investigators, said she came to understand that Lewin’s interest in her was not motivated by empathy, and that their first conversations included inappropriate language. Shortly after contacting her, Harbi said, Lewin quickly moved their friendship into uncomfortable territory, and she was pushed to participate in online sexual role-playing and send naked pictures and videos of herself."

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  1. Popcorn time! by serviscope_minor · · Score: 3, Funny

    Woo hoo!

    Another ahrassment thread. I'm here with a big bag of popcorn and ready to post.

    Wiggle out of this one, harassment denialists!

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    1. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh get over it. It's just words. If that's the definition of harassment, I get letters in the mail coercing me to pay outrageous taxes for services I barely get. That's harassment.

      That is actually the definition of harassment. Any job one would have where one would make enough money to actually pay taxes would know that from the mandatory anti-harassment training.

    2. Re:Popcorn time! by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It's just words.

      Oh good. I was worried for a minute there. It's a good job words have no power and are harmless.

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    3. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Insightful

      Alright, I'll bite. Was this actually harassment? Was he constantly chatting her up despite her expressed desire not to have contact with him? Was he threatening her in any way to obtain the lewd pics she sent him? Did he continue to be inappropriate after she actually said something about it?

      OR

      Did she try to score the easy A, get an A- and decide that he was a sexually harassing pig after the fact?

      In person it's a little more likely that harassment can happen despite the conditions I outline, it's harder to get away from someone in person, but online??? Come on

    4. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Correct. Hopefully you'll stop worrying now.

    5. Re:Popcorn time! by MightyMartian · · Score: 4, Interesting

      So you see nothing wrong with a professor using his status to obtain sexual favors?

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    6. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Now AC, post your full name, e-mail address, physical location, postal address, phone number, cell number, etc...

      Then we'll see how much "words" hurts, right?

      Until you can do that, YOUR words are meaningless.

    7. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

      Oh get over it. It's just words.

      No, it is words from a person in authority whose job it was to help her, not take advantage of her.

      It isn't criminal, hence the reason the guy is not in jail. But it is not acceptable behavior from someone representing the school and if the school knew about it, then they've abused the trust of the community.

    8. Re:Popcorn time! by DaHat · · Score: 4, Interesting

      So you see nothing wrong with a professor using his status to obtain sexual favors?

      Even if they are offered?

      I've a friend who spent some time as a college level instructor and on quite a few occasions would have rather attractive co-ed here or there who would put on the water works or even make veiled sexual offers if he to try to get him to bump their grade or allow late work to be turned in for full credit.

      My friend was at least smart and professional enough to refuse all such advances, not all are so.

      I'm not excusing anything, I've just heard plenty from the other side.

    9. Re:Popcorn time! by bmo · · Score: 1

      All the property that is necessary to a Man, for the Conservation of the Individual and the Propagation of the Species, is his natural Right, which none can justly deprive him of: But all Property superfluous to such purposes is the Property of the Publick, who, by their Laws, have created it, and who may therefore by other laws dispose of it, whenever the Welfare of the Publick shall demand such Disposition. He that does not like civil Society on these Terms, let him retire and live among Savages. He can have no right to the benefits of Society, who will not pay his Club towards the Support of it.

      - Benjamin Franklin, letter to Robert Morris, December 25, 1783

    10. Re: Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      You know it is the modern age when:
      If a man talks dirty to a woman it is sexual harrasement
      If a woman talks dirty to a man it is 4.99/minute

    11. Re:Popcorn time! by XXongo · · Score: 2

      So you see nothing wrong with a professor using his status to obtain sexual favors?

      Even if they are offered?

      I have two friends, one of whom is a professor and the other is the student that he married 45 years ago (which was before I knew them). Sometimes it works.

      That was a bit before the present-day restrictions on "harassment," though.

      It's a tricky question. I would say that the dividing line is coercion-- is the professor using some form of threat, or promising good grades?

    12. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I believe there's a male attractiveness boost to female students as a college level instructor. I experienced it first hand teaching part time at community college while in grad school. It had nothing to do with students wanting grades or other credit. Of course I was young at the time, but after a couple semesters it was clear I was more attractive as a teacher than had I been just another student.

    13. Re:Popcorn time! by radtea · · Score: 1, Troll

      My friend was at least smart and professional enough to refuse all such advances, not all are so.

      Your own answer makes clear what anyone who isn't a sociopath knows: people in positions of power and respect--which includes professors and college instructors--have a professional obligation to refuse all such advances.

      There are a whole bunch of reasons for this, but a big one is that even if you can't imagine it[*] people in such positions have a ridiculous amount of influence over some individuals, a degree that amounts to coercion.

      [*] though why anyone would think what they can or cannot imagine is interesting or relevant to any question of what is real is unclear... however I've seen some commenters here announce their imaginary ideas as if they were somehow important to the question.

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    14. Re:Popcorn time! by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      /Oblg.

      http://www.blippitt.com/wp-con...

      http://i244.photobucket.com/al...

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    15. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your own answer makes clear what anyone who isn't a sociopath knows: people in positions of power and respect--which includes professors and college instructors--have a professional obligation to refuse all such advances.

      Unless the professor was a women, then it was for the student to not make such advance in the first place.

      In cases of high school teacher raping boys, the victim can be held responsible to the point he has to provide child support to his rapist. Some time the rapist even goes free; he enjoyed it anyway...

      Human do error all the time. What is infuriating is not that professor accept sexual advance, it is the disguising double standard.

    16. Re:Popcorn time! by jmcvetta · · Score: 1

      Violent Purtians vs insensitive clods - loads of fun, but best watched from a considerable distance.

    17. Re:Popcorn time! by gizmo2199 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's a tricky question. I would say that the dividing line is coercion-- is the professor using some form of threat, or promising good grades?

      I think that's where you have to draw the line. I mean a college-aged girl has to get over the fact that older men will be attracted to her, and make advances. Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate. Ultimately gender equality means others have the right to hit on her, and she has the right to tell them to fuck-off. That's what you do as an adult.

      And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them.

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    18. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why are you so mad? A physical address is just words! Words I tell you!

    19. Re:Popcorn time! by gizmo2199 · · Score: 1

      He must be paraphrasing Thomas Hobbes.

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    20. Re:Popcorn time! by Rakarra · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why do you need his physical address? Do you want to step up and do more then mere words?

      If you want to show how words hurt you can do that right here, in this thread.

      So that maybe he can send some threatening or harassing words to the AC's home address, where his family will also see it.

      See, the problem isn't that "he sent her some words." People do that all the time online, I close stupid spam IMs every week. What differentiates just regular words from situations like this is when one person does hold some power over another that makes it difficult for the harassee to avoid the harasser. Say, if your boss starts sexually harassing you, and you can't risk jeopardizing your job. Or your teacher starts to harass you, and you can't afford to fail the class. Sexual harassment isn't something you should have to suffer with, as the fault is always with the harasser, and our various harassment laws handle the cases of workplace harassment.

    21. Re:Popcorn time! by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      So you see nothing wrong with a professor using his status to obtain sexual favors?

      Even if they are offered?

      Taking advantage of someone is bad even if they act like they like it.

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    22. Re:Popcorn time! by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Nobody's ever said harassment didn't exist. It does, as does rape, murder, fraud, and pickpocketing. Usually perpetrated by psychos and disturbed individuals.

      Psychos and seriously disturbed people also exist, of course - unfortunately some of them seem to think that there's an enormous epidemic of rape and harassment.

    23. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      As opposed to the false accusation deniers?

    24. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit everyone gets taken advantage of all the time. You go to the car dealership and get convinced of buying a car that you end up paying to much for. You go to the grocery store and pay 5 cents more when the same shit was at a different store across the street for 3 cents less. You date people who end up cheating on you. Blah blah blah. None of those things are crimes nor are they harassment. This woman decided it was harrassment once she decided she wasn't getting what she wanted in the way she wanted it.

    25. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Woo hoo!

      Another ahrassment thread. I'm here with a big bag of popcorn and ready to post.

      Wiggle out of this one, harassment denialists!

      Mr Rockstar Lewin shows himself to be seriously creepy. I suspect that this is not the first time he has been involved in sexual harassment.

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    26. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I feel you. I always see these articles, and KNOW that people are going to say it's her fault or not harrassment, but read them anyway.

    27. Re:Popcorn time! by plopez · · Score: 1

      How about if you must take those classes to graduate and so must have contact with the instructor and deal with unwanted advances? Any instructor that does that is wrong.

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    28. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It's a tricky question. I would say that the dividing line is coercion-- is the professor using some form of threat, or promising good grades?

      I think that's where you have to draw the line. I mean a college-aged girl has to get over the fact that older men will be attracted to her, and make advances. Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate.

      I guess you didn't read the story. Let's ay you were married to one of those hot college aged girls, and one of her professors keeps asking her ot send nude photos and videos of herself. Now you might find that hot as hell yourself, most of us would be a little annoyed. I'd certainy expect my wife ot be annoyed.

      Ultimately gender equality means others have the right to hit on her, and she has the right to tell them to fuck-off.

      And if he or she doesn't stop? This really isn't about getting the nerve up to ask for a date. This is an almost classic example of a person in a position of power finding a mark to go after. This woman had a few problems of her own - she takes anti-anxiety and anti-depressants. Which some folks do find easy to manipulate. But taking medications is neither a crime, nor an excuse to take advantage of.

      And apparently she documented this also after some time when it had progressed too far. This is creepy to most people not just her.

      And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them.

      Well sure. But now you're using the "she asked to be raped" stupidity. There is a difference between dressing nicely, flirting, and being your mythical "harassment bait". I enjoy looking at pretty women. I don't ask them to send me naked videos of themselves on the internet.

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    29. Re:Popcorn time! by plopez · · Score: 1

      But it is still wrong.

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    30. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Your own answer makes clear what anyone who isn't a sociopath knows: people in positions of power and respect--which includes professors and college instructors--have a professional obligation to refuse all such advances

      And if there is some manner of actual loving attraction, a student and professor can request to be put in a different class, or even better, wait until they are no longer students. In the workplace, a different position can be found for the subordinate. I've seen it happen.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    31. Re:Popcorn time! by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      It's a good job words have no power and are harmless

      As demonstrated by the Tanakh, the Bible, and the Quran.

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      Ezekiel 23:20
    32. Re:Popcorn time! by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate.

      Of course it's completely inappropriate for her to be creeped out by it. My dictionary tells me that "the creeps" should only be reserved for the scariest situations, and should simple unwelcome advances lead to this feeling, a young person would be doomed to live in perpetual fear. That state of mind is unhealthy.

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      Ezekiel 23:20
    33. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      come at me bro. I live at 123 apple tree lane in mexico city bitch.

    34. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, this is actually the definition of "using his status to obtain sexual favors."

      It is inappropriate for him to ask for them, or accept them if they are offered.

      Just like it's inappropriate for a cop to ask for - or accept, even if not asked for - a bribe to "look the other way."

      Just like it's inappropriate for a Senator to ask for - or accept, even if not asked for - a million dollars in gifts to "vote a certain way."

      It doesn't matter what the criminal, lovely co-ed, or billion dollar corp does or doesn't do - as a professional with any semblance of professional ethics, you are expected to refuse all offers of blowjobs from people you have direct authority over, and you are expected not to use your position to coerce blowjobs out of people you have direct authority over.

      Pretending that it's somehow okay "because, well, she offered!" is ridiculous.

    35. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think the argument here is that he had no power. She wasn't an enrolled student as this course was supposedly open and free, there were no grades assigned, they lived on different continents or at least far enough away from each other there was no possibility of physical contact. So he had no position of power. A similar situation would be asking someone who knows about physics to teach you about physics and then ending up in a relationship with them at some point. Later on deciding that person has wronged you in some way and then using your unsuccessful relationship to parallel construct a harassment case.

    36. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a good job words have no power and are harmless

      As demonstrated by the Tanakh, the Bible, and the Quran.

      It's not clear what you mean by what you posted, but the bottom line
      with virtually ANY words whether the words are printed, spoken, or seen
      on a screen, is that the person who sees or hears the words ALWAYS has
      the choice to disregard the words. I ignore the words in the three books you mention
      above because in my opinion they are all fairy tales which were written with intent
      of controlling other humans, and such books are unacceptable to me.

      Men and women of free will always have the choice to respond to words in
      the way they choose. This includes utterly ignoring the words in question.

      =

    37. Re:Popcorn time! by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      I think the argument here is that he had no power. She wasn't an enrolled student as this course was supposedly open and free, there were no grades assigned,

      Even when there's no grade assigned, you still either accomplish the goals or you don't. When the class is put forth as being for physics, and it's actually for the purpose of taking advantage of the weak, that's really not appropriate and no excuses can be made

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    38. Re:Popcorn time! by radarskiy · · Score: 1

      "Even if they are offered?"

      There's no way to distinguish "freely offered" from "everyone knows that's what you have to do to get ahead".

      Everyone loves to cry about how "she" could have said no at any time. Well then, he could have said no at any time too. The only way to win is not to play.

    39. Re:Popcorn time! by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      How about if you must take those classes to graduate and so must have contact with the instructor and deal with unwanted advances? Any instructor that does that is wrong.

      It doesn't even matter if you need the classes or not. MOOCs are being put forward as one vision of the future of education, some people who feel helpless are made to feel empowered by them. Hope makes people do terrible things sometimes, but only because of fear lurking behind it

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    40. Re:Popcorn time! by TimSSG · · Score: 1

      So you see nothing wrong with a professor using his status to obtain sexual favors?

      How can there be any thing wrong with it. An Professor to student power differential is much less than the President and a college intern differential. And, we all were told that that one did not matter at all. /sarc Tim S.

    41. Re:Popcorn time! by gophther · · Score: 1

      Niiiiiice...

    42. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      He didn't harass that girl, Lewin is and always greatest lecturer ever

      One does not necessarily mean the other is true.

      The girl is a liar and tried to bribe and trap him into day grades

      I was attending his lectures during exact period this supposedly occurred.

      I see, did you happen to see her?

      The bitch needs to stop being white knighted by online sjw political correctness wannabe retards.

      I see. Did you read the article? Seems like others have this issue with him also. I guess in your vernacular, "Bitches be trippin'?

      Throw that bitch across the border into mexico, let Los Zetas show her real sexual harassment,

      Jesus, you are one piece of work, my good man. The woman is in Paris. Hey, thanks for teh Lulz, bud.

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    43. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well sure. But now you're using the "she asked to be raped" stupidity. There is a difference between dressing nicely, flirting, and being your mythical "harassment bait". I enjoy looking at pretty women. I don't ask them to send me naked videos of themselves on the internet.

      Can I go back to Applebee's and ask for part of my tip back - the waitress just kept bending over the table. She coerced me into it.

    44. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      women are wired to find the most powerful man to get knocked up by. it's the same in almost any species; women have the more expensive gametes so they need to be selective.

    45. Re:Popcorn time! by Darinbob · · Score: 2

      No, I don't think someone should "just get over the fact that...". Don't excuse your fellow troglogdytes, hold them to account.
      In many cases things cross the line from being creeped out and into very clearly illegal territory, and this case sounds like one.
      This is not about some construction workers whistling at someone walking by, this is about one's own professor coercing a student.

      In real life you can't say "fuckoff" because the response may be "you're fired" or "I thought you wanted to get that A" or other things like that. The "fuckoff" response very often leads to a much more intense harrassment. As long as we tolerate this it will continue, we need to point fingers at people who do the harrassment and stop telling women to ignore it. Bosses of these harassers should fire them (whether construction worker or senior partner), their friends should not make excuses for them, and so forth.

      This should NEVER be something one gets used to and deals with, it should NEVER be a case of students having to grow a thicker skin.

      Equality does not mean that one side has to emulate the dominant side: ie, women shouldn't have to act like men to be equal, racial minorities shouldn't have to "fit in" to get jobs.

    46. Re:Popcorn time! by Immerman · · Score: 2

      I've heard claims that one in four women will be raped at some point in their lives, and have yet to hear any sort of data-based rebuttal. Now certainly when you consider the millions of men your average woman encounters over the 20-30 thousand days of her life that doesn't constitute anything most reasonable people would consider an epidemic - most people will get chicken pox at some point in their life, but nobody talks about there being a chicken pox epidemic - you need a much higher event density for that.

      On the other hand rape tends to be pretty traumatic, and if that 25% statistic is valid that means that in any group of 8 women there's a 90% chance that at least one of them has been or will be raped. If you have 16 female friends there's only a 1% chance that none of them will ever be raped. Personally I think the near guarantee that someone I care about will eventually be raped is a social problem that should be addressed.

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    47. Re:Popcorn time! by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 4, Informative

      I've heard claims that one in four women will be raped at some point in their lives, and have yet to hear any sort of data-based rebuttal.

      Look at the actual crime reporting figures, locally rape convictions stand at around 8 per 100,000. Now let's get crazy and say only one in twenty rapes and or sexual assault charges result in a conviction. Let's get even crazier and say one in twenty people who are raped even report the matter. That leaves us with 3200 per 100,000, or about one in thirty. Still almost an order of magnitude smaller than feminist figures and almost certainly still a gigantic exaggeration.

      So where do they come up with these moral panic inducing mountains of statistical tripe?

      To understand this we have to look at the methods they use to take these surveys. Look at the technical reports. You'll find lots of stuff like:

      Drafting the questionnaire, it was important to avoid terms such as ‘rape’, ‘violence’ or ‘stalking’, because different women might have different preconceived ideas on the types of violence usually associated with these terms, and the types of perpetrators involved.

      Terms such as rape are left out of questionnaires and it's left to the researchers (all of whom happen to be feminist trained) to decide whether or not rape took place. So if someone answered that they were verbally abused using a sexual slur or had sex while drunk, it's the researcher who decides if the women was sexually attacked.

      And take a look at California's shiny new feminist inspired affirmative consent laws if you want to know whether having sex after a drink is rape or not.

      This gets further distorted by the public mouthpieces, who translate these numbers into 25% of all women were raped. No, they weren't. That one in four women in modern western democracies, one in forty was raped is not a prospect that the rational mind can entertain.

      This is a technique that was pioneered by Mary Koss, a feminist researcher who decided that the official unbiased government reports weren't giving her the answers she wanted, so she set up her own surveys in order to amend the statistics accordingly.

      Post survey examination of the outcomes however revealed that around three quarters of the women she identified as having been raped did not consider themselves victims of rape, and almost half of them had sex with their supposed attackers after the event identified as a rape had occurred, and continued dating them.

      So, having internalised that, now you'll have to start asking questions like "how did these flim flam artists manage to pull the wool over everyone's eyes for 40 years" and "why are people in power listening to them" and so on. These are good questions to ponder. While you're pondering them some light reading for you:

      http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/...

    48. Re:Popcorn time! by phayes · · Score: 1

      And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them.

      Well sure. But now you're using the "she asked to be raped" stupidity.

      What is stupidity is feigning to ignore reality. Women DO consciously use their sex appeal to their advantage when it suits them. That doesn't mean that they are asking to be raped but neither does it mean that their using sex to their advantage doesn't exist, nor that we cannot all acknowledge that it does. It is abject stupidity to attempt to be blind to this and rejecting anyone who brings it up as a latent rapist is part of the problem.

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    49. Re:Popcorn time! by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      It's also very important to know whether the AC is female and single.

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    50. Re:Popcorn time! by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate.

      Of course it's completely inappropriate for her to be creeped out by it.

      She was (IMO appropriately) creeped out because someone in whom she'd placed trust initiated private contact with her. As it later emerged, this someone has a history of preying on females whom he's apparently tagged as "vulnerable", just as he tried to take advantage of it in this case.

      Maybe my problem with what you said is that we don't agree on definitions, so here's a couple of mine:

      "Maybe you'd like to have dinner with me sometime?" from someone you don't want to hear that from. <-- Unwelcome advance.

      "Would you send me nudies of yourself?" from someone who is working with you in a professional setting, is 3 or 4 decades your senior, AND contacts you outside of official channels just to ask you this question. <-- "Creepout" territory.

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    51. Re:Popcorn time! by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      It was not. Quoth TFA,

      After talking to a psychiatrist in September 2014 about what she described as a “breakdown,” Harbi decided to collect evidence of Lewin’s behavior to take to MIT. Within five days of searching, Harbi said, she found 10 other women whom Lewin had befriended and contacted on Facebook with inappropriate, sometimes identical messages. Lewin then blocked her from seeing his Facebook friends, she said.

      Generally speaking, Harbi said, the women live in countries where speaking out about sexual harassment is taboo -- countries “where the culture is that it is better to actually not speak at all, because you’ll be a disgrace to your family.” Lewin confessed his love for several of them, chat logs show, but often denied those feelings to women who asked about the others.

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    52. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People use status to obtain lots of things. That's why people want status.

    53. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In a similar light, That black guy looks shady to me, he's probably a criminal!

      Nice going, sexist.

    54. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      people in positions of power and respect--which includes professors and college instructors--have a professional obligation to refuse all such advances.

      All sexual contact has to take place within a social class. Sexual contact outside one's social class is not acceptable.

    55. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It took me a year to realize I should be offended!

      Also, your problem is that you assume every claim of sexism and rape and harassment is true. Period. Unquestionably. So you think those who approach situations with critical thought assume the opposite t all times. We are not ignorant biased gits like you. We are skeptical of claims. You know,as the legal system requires.that is it. We require evidence to xo firm guilt and don't treat innocent people as if they are guilty without due process. And we hate people who actually do vile shit.

      But your kind? You want evry situation to support your bullshit, so you twist everything to always be undeniable true, even when it undeniaby isn't.

    56. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only a male professor, of course. In the position of privilege and power, a female aggressor professor would be innocent agInst a male student.

    57. Re:Popcorn time! by MisterSquid · · Score: 2

      Look at the actual crime reporting figures, locally rape convictions stand at around 8 per 100,000. Now let's get crazy and say only one in twenty rapes and or sexual assault charges result in a conviction. Let's get even crazier and say one in twenty people who are raped even report the matter. That leaves us with 3200 per 100,000, or about one in thirty. Still almost an order of magnitude smaller than feminist figures and almost certainly still a gigantic exaggeration.

      You're missing the dimension of time which crime statistics do include (you didn't include a link, btw). If your hypothesized/extrapolated numbers for rape is multiplied for the same population over a period of, say, 10 years and presuming each year produces new victims, that would mean than a relatively stable population base of 100,000 would yield 32,000 rapes.

      It's not like rape (or any crime) only happens in a given population for only one year. People have lifespans and the number of victims accumulate over time, increasing the percentage of people who fall victim.

      Your mistake was so easy to catch that if I didn't know better I'd say someone such a miss by someone who's looking so carefully at the data probably has an axe to grind.

      Then again, maybe I don't know better and I'll say it anyway.

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    58. Re:Popcorn time! by gwolf · · Score: 1

      It is tricky, yes. I also have a friend in a similar situation, as well as an uncle.

      There is a clear line (to me) on this: If the student is enrolled with the teacher then they start developing a relationship, it's wrong. It's a conflict of interests, the teacher cannot judge the student on the same grounds as other people in the group. Where I teach, that would be grounds for contractual job termination.

      As soon as the grades are set, I find no objection. If it's just a random student in the same school as the teacher, if it's a consenting relationship between two independent adults with no power hierarchy between them, it is OK.

      Of course, *after* having been sentimentaly involved (successfully or not), a student should not seek to be part of a teacher's group. It's not always possible to avoid it (i.e. only teacher for a mandatory subject), but it's very recommended.

    59. Re:Popcorn time! by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 1

      Why stop there, the vast majority of rapes take place within a 30 year window, according to your calculations 100% of women have been violently raped. Hell, let's push it up to 40, women who don't even exist have been raped.

      The point you're missing is that the numbers used were exaggerated to illustrate the lunacy of feminist statistics, they don't resemble anything anyone sane might imagine as real.

      And feel free to ignore the rest of the comment while you're at it, including the linked paper. Call that axe grinding if you like.

    60. Re:Popcorn time! by Megol · · Score: 1

      Some women do. But so does men. And people often misinterpret simply being nice as some kind of sexual attraction.

    61. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Can I go back to Applebee's and ask for part of my tip back - the waitress just kept bending over the table. She coerced me into it.

      This tip thing - you're doing it wrong. It's supposed to be for service, not cleavage.

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    62. Re:Popcorn time! by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 0

      I've heard claims that one in four women will be raped at some point in their lives, and have yet to hear any sort of data-based rebuttal.

      Really? You heard such an extraordinary claim, but apparently made zero effort to look into its validity?

      Here you go. And here. And here.

      Essentially, that inflated number is based on questionable surveys which often fail to distinguish between a regrettable drunken hookup and rape, and is not just about rape but about behavior ranging from grabbing a woman's butt on up through attempted rape and actual rape. (Yes, grabbing someone's butt is bad. It's assault. It's unacceptable. It is not, however, rape.)

      Is rape much more common than most people think? Yes. The data is murky but I would be surprised if the lifetime victimization rate for women was less than 5%, 1 in 20. Is it 25%, "eeny-meeny-miney-RAPE!" common? No.

      And a teacher sending a student sexy messages over the internet is certainly a breach of professional conduct...but it's not rape.

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    63. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      What is stupidity is feigning to ignore reality. Women DO consciously use their sex appeal to their advantage when it suits them. That doesn't mean that they are asking to be raped but neither does it mean that their using sex to their advantage doesn't exist, nor that we cannot all acknowledge that it does. It is abject stupidity to attempt to be blind to this and rejecting anyone who brings it up as a latent rapist is part of the problem.

      You decide to completely ignore my "Well sure" part, and concentrate on the second part.

      So are you trying to accuse me of abject stupidity? If so you might take a look at yourself for inability to parse a sentence.

      It's not like Hooters doesn't exist, or stripper bars or webcam sex chat, topless coffee kiosks and car washes or any of a number of other venues where women flaunt their sexuality, and men enjoy it. And vice versa, although to a lesser extent.

      But these are all completely voluntary things, not between teachers and students, bosses and subordinates, pedos and 12 year olds. It's people who don't have a problem wearing a Hooters outfit, and people who don't have a problem seeing one.

      Finally, are you unable to understand that my response was in the form of replying to another person saying she deserved it? I didn't start this silliness. Maybe you should reply to him. Or maybe you just want to twist the argument back to "she deserved it". I suspect the latter.

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    64. Re:Popcorn time! by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      In a similar light, That black guy looks shady to me, he's probably a criminal!

      Nice going, sexist.

      psst - you need to read the article. He was involved with several women in this way.

      Hardly racial profiling, more the old dictum that if you catch someone doing something wrong, it probably isn't the first time. If you get caught speeding and get a fine, is it the first time you ever drove over the speed limit? Almost never.

      No, muchacho, this fellow was doing this with more than a few women.

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    65. Re:Popcorn time! by phayes · · Score: 1

      We seem to agree that using sex appeal is used by both sexes. Do we also agree that people who denounce women using their sex appeal to unfairly obtain favors does not equal "she asked to be raped"?

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    66. Re:Popcorn time! by CaptainDork · · Score: 1

      Yeah, blame the victim.

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    67. Re:Popcorn time! by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 0
      If he had sent naked pictures himself to her, he would be guilty of sexual harassment.

      Since she sent naked pictures of herself to him, he is guilty of sexual harassment.

    68. Re:Popcorn time! by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      You mean like Bill Clinton vs. Monica Lewinsky? That was rape the whole time? Inconvenient truth! Inconvenient truth! Badthink, doubleplusungood!

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    69. Re: Popcorn time! by cthulhu11 · · Score: 1

      First tell us what manner of hipster bullshit "MOOC" is.

    70. Re:Popcorn time! by easyTree · · Score: 1

      Good luck with that line of reasoning - most people are apparently unable to handle this responsibility.

    71. Re:Popcorn time! by easyTree · · Score: 1

      You might not have noticed but every sentence must end on an upwards-inflected syllable so-as to not offend / threaten the listener. Perpetual fear would be an improvement.

    72. Re:Popcorn time! by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't call it rape, but it's pretty hard harassment. >_>

    73. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've heard claims that one in four women will be raped at some point in their lives, and have yet to hear any sort of data-based rebuttal.

      Look at the actual crime reporting figures, locally rape convictions stand at around 8 per 100,000. Now let's get crazy and say only one in twenty rapes and or sexual assault charges result in a conviction. Let's get even crazier and say one in twenty people who are raped even report the matter. That leaves us with 3200 per 100,000, or about one in thirty. Still almost an order of magnitude smaller than feminist figures and almost certainly still a gigantic exaggeration

      Not that I necessarily disagree with what you say here, but think about this,
      Do you personally know anyone who was raped?
      If you said no..
      How do you know that you don't?
      And the killer,
      How do you know that someday they won't be?

      For what it's worth here, and sadly, this isn't an exhaustive list.

      I have three younger sisters, one of them was raped when she was 15.
      Now, we're now all in our late 40's/early 50's, she finally seems to have gotten over it and is happily married etc, but she was a train-wreck in progress up till her late 20's/early 30's because of this. (No, I never did find out who it was - we always suspected the police, however, had a name, but no action was taken - hopefully he's no longer a waste of oxygen.)

      School Classmate, gang raped.

      Student friend, raped on holiday.

      An acquaintance's 18 year old daughter, on her 'gap year' gadabout travelling around South America with her female friend, both got raped together (They went there alone, despite being warned that it was dangerous to do so)

      House-mate's fiancée raped by her ex-husband.

      I don't know what the overall percentage is of my female acquaintances and friends over the years that have been raped, I hope it isn't 25%, it's not really the sort of thing I want to know or think about, nor the sort of thing they're normally that open about themselves.

      Have you ever heard much talk of male rape?
      Because of the whole 'machismo' thing, the victims really really do not want to talk about it. However, we all get older, and, over the years I've gotten to know that several friends and colleagues were victims of homosexual (mostly English Public School) and heterosexual male rape (least obviously damaged by the experience - he wasn't even a teenager, she was the 'beard' of a well known English actor of his day, but he still had his demons..).

      You do, however, really, really have to consider that the part of the statement quoted above which says '..at some point in their lives..' covers a wide number of years, the longer you exist on this dirtball, sadly, the more likely you'll be able to generate your own list like mine. Timespan of above incidents: 52 years.

      Don't let the actions of the feminazis or their BS statistics cloud or colour your judgement on this issue..the fact that it still happens to both men and women at whatever percentage rate is still a rather shitty reflection on us as an 'evolved' species.

    74. Re:Popcorn time! by phayes · · Score: 1

      Oh look at you, trying to climb all the way up onto that high, high horse...

      You badly paraphrase gizmo and try to throw dirt on him by equating his remark that women often use sex appeal with "she deserved it".

      "well sure" versus RAPIST, hmmm, which carries the most weight? You have to be pretty stupid to not realize which is the stronger term, which is why you don't throw around "she deserved it" or RAPIST casually like you did.

      Reread the post that you replied to. Nowhere did Gizmo say "she deserved it" That's all in YOUR mind.

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    75. Re:Popcorn time! by Heart44 · · Score: 1

      A very good article on reported and actual crimes statistics including assault and rape with data for both genders. http://clubtroppo.com.au/2015/...

    76. Re:Popcorn time! by datavirtue · · Score: 1

      Lost on me on the first half of the first sentence. Most rapes are never reported. The girls tell their friends...maybe their mother but I doubt it...that's about it. I think the majority of the 25% figure is girls at college waking up in the middle or end of it after a night of heavy drinking. Some never wake up or remember the incident. I have had these incidences recounted to me by the victims and their friends.

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    77. Re: Popcorn time! by mcvos · · Score: 1

      Only if in both cases it's the man who initiates it.

    78. Re:Popcorn time! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the contrary - the numbers weren't 8 per 100,000 per year. It was 8 per 100,000 total - implying that across the time frame for recording rape convictions, it was only 8 per 100,000, which means the annual rate should be much lower.

  2. Not trying to excuse what he did by OverlordQ · · Score: 3, Interesting

    But how exactly did he force them to do what they did *Over the internet*

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    1. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bitcoin

    2. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      She thought she was sending naked pictures and could maybe win some extra points when grade time came around but it turned out she was just sending naked pictures with no long game payout and that's harassment.

      More like she was told she would not get good grades if she didn't and she really needed this. Fear can do weird things to people.

    3. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      that's harassment.

      ... and it took her a year to realize that it was harassment. But once she finally figured out what happened, MIT was stunned!

    4. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She obviously thought it was a patent application. Aren't "Over the internet." or "On a computer." required keywords for that?!

    5. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OzPeter · · Score: 4, Informative

      But how exactly did he force them to do what they did *Over the internet*

      If you read the full article, towards the end it talks about this particular woman having various emotion issues including abandonment. It would seem that the prof in question exploited theses weaknesses in order to groom the woman into sending the naked pics etc.

      In addition the article talks about various victims being from cultures where speaking out is not the done thing.

      So while no-one was physically compelled to send anything, it sure sounds as if they were psychologically compelled.

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    6. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by AchilleTalon · · Score: 1

      Internet of Things?

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    7. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      She thought she was sending naked pictures and could maybe win some extra points when grade time came around but it turned out she was just sending naked pictures with no long game payout and that's harassment.

      Wow. And no.

      For one thing, grades in the course don't really mean anything. It isn't like they were credits towards a degree. She lived in France and worked as a private English tutor. She was looking for personal improvement, to conquer a subject she had struggled with in high school. And that's what he promised her -- personal academic attention.

    8. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OverlordQ · · Score: 0

      And they could have stopped it immediately by blocking him on FB and/or just stopped the course they paid a whole $0 for.

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    9. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by AchilleTalon · · Score: 3, Interesting

      First of all, Lewin is guilty of violation of the MIT code of conduct, no doubt. However, we are talking here about adult women. Are they responsible for what they engage into? Shouldn't be assumed, whatever their past and culture? Or do you have to asssume each time you engage a conversation with someone he/she is not responsible for what he/she says? And if it eventually turn into flirt, it will become sexual harassment because the other party can plea it is not her/his culture, etc. Is it she/he responsible for reading these f... email and answering them? And what about her culture when time came to take and send naked pictures of herself? Is it a normal conduct in Algeria? Lewin was an idiot and was framed.

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    10. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OzPeter · · Score: 5, Insightful

      And they could have stopped it immediately by blocking him on FB and/or just stopped the course they paid a whole $0 for.

      In the whole history of people being psychologically manipulated and abused, they *all* could have stopped it simply by saying no, and walking away. Yet they don't. Kinda suggests that doing so is very difficult to do, and that there are things in play that you are not crediting.

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    11. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You don't seem to understand. If you aren't a Randian Uberman, you are scum and deserve anything that people do to you.

    12. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OzPeter · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Or do you have to asssume each time you engage a conversation with someone he/she is not responsible for what he/she says?

      There is a big difference between having a conversation with someone that touches on things vs actively seeking out and exploiting those things.

      Lewin was an idiot and was framed.

      Lewin was an idiot, but if he actively groomed these victims, then he was not framed.

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    13. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by sjames · · Score: 2

      Or it took a year to realize that she might either be able to actually do something about it that wouldn't harm her worse or to decide that the harm it would do her was better than the harassment.

    14. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OverlordQ · · Score: 1

      > In the whole history of people being psychologically manipulated and abused, they *all* could have stopped it simply by saying no, and walking away.

      Yes, maybe in the real world, face to face interaction where you can't click block and they're gone.

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    15. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I actively groomed my wife to marry me through Charm and Seduction. If we had not married would it then be harassment a year later if she had decided she didn't like me for whatever reason?

    16. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by bobbied · · Score: 2

      Oh man... This whole "They where manipulated into doing this by some guy" is just plain SAD. I have no doubt this guy did some pretty despicable things and violated the rules he agreed too. I also have no doubt that these women where at least partially responsible for what happened because they didn't say "NO!" to the guy in authority for what ever reason.

      Clearly Lewin gets punished for violating the code of conduct, but it's just as clear that he was taking advantage of a set of women who where ill prepared to tell him to bugger off. I know it's not PC to ascribe blame, but these poor women do need to realize that they do have control and are not powerless to say no and they need to respect themselves enough to give the abuser the boot, and thus have some level of responsibility for what happened to them.

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    17. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Guns With Friends app.

    18. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OzPeter · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Yes, maybe in the real world, face to face interaction where you can't click block and they're gone.

      And that comes across as a "True Scotsman" logical fallacy, by suggesting that psychological manipulation is erased by distance.

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    19. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by XXongo · · Score: 5, Informative

      She thought she was sending naked pictures and could maybe win some extra points when grade time came around but it turned out she was just sending naked pictures with no long game payout and that's harassment.

      More like she was told she would not get good grades if she didn't and she really needed this. Fear can do weird things to people.

      From the article, it was apparently an open course online, with no grades and no credit. (And she was in another country, so there was no personal contact, either.)

    20. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But how exactly did he force them to do what they did *Over the internet*

      If you read the full article, towards the end it talks about this particular woman having various emotion issues including abandonment. It would seem that the prof in question exploited theses weaknesses in order to groom the woman into sending the naked pics etc.

      In addition the article talks about various victims being from cultures where speaking out is not the done thing.

      So while no-one was physically compelled to send anything, it sure sounds as if they were psychologically compelled.

      And that behavior on the part of the prof is unprofessional anyway.

    21. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by thephydes · · Score: 1

      You have obviously never worked with vulnerable people. Their very vulnerabilty leaves them open to being "forced" - read coerced here - into doing things that most people would not do. And it's not just a matter of a person deciding what their interaction with their computer or the internet will be. It is far more complex than that.

    22. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I actively groomed my wife to marry me through Charm and Seduction. If we had not married would it then be harassment a year later if she had decided she didn't like me for whatever reason?

      Sadly, after the point in time a woman decides she doesn't like you, a single flirt could cause all previous grooming to be used against you as evidence of a history of harassment. Happened to a person I know. Sad, but true.

    23. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So what leverage did he use to coerce her. Asking for naked pictures is not coercion nor harassment nor is it illegal. Harassment would have to involve one party requesting the behavior stop and it not stopping. The article says nothing about if the woman ever asked the man to stop. Indeed it states she sent pictures which honestly is consent for continued sexual advances.

      Lets put this into perspective. If you were really bad at saying no and walked into a public place and someone asked you to buy their car would you buying their car be harassment? Did that person force you into buying that car merely by asking?

    24. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >groomed
      stop using terms you don't understand. If you do understand it, stop using it where it is not applicable.

    25. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      If she admits to being so unstable she should be committed to an insane asylum for life. Of course the professor's behavior would be criminal against an inmate of an asylum, but MIT has not been certified as a loony bin yet.

    26. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If someone is so fragile she can be manipulated into doing 'self-rape' at distance over the intertube then maybe that person is not psychologically ready for the real world.

      All these harassments stories are really case supporting that women are child-like and should be sheltered as such. eg; They are clearly not equal to men.

      Men say No. They say fuck off. They don't take it in the ass without a fight.

      If women can't even say no, they are either child-like or do indeed consent. Enough with that men hatred bullshit.

    27. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by OzPeter · · Score: 1

      >groomed
      stop using terms you don't understand. If you do understand it, stop using it where it is not applicable.

      Please explain why you think I am wrong.

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    28. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The article suggests that they DID initially say no, but were cajoled/threatened into saying yes, which means that it's consent under duress, which means it isn't consent and therefore this is harassment.

    29. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by drinkypoo · · Score: 0

      Oh man... This whole "They where manipulated into doing this by some guy" is just plain SAD.

      What's said is the disingenuous assertion that it was "some guy". It's the course instructor, grades are important to students, and instructors are in a position of power. If you want to discuss this event in light of the actual situation, you could do that, but nobody really wants to argue with some dickwad leading an army of straw men.

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    30. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pretty terrible. Our sons are going to have a hard time finding mates and not ending up in jail if playing the dating game is now a crime. And don't doubt for a second that the entire act of dating and finding a mate is not one huge game of seduction and mental manipulation. When you walk up to a person male or female regardless of their sexual orientation the absolutely do not know if they like you or don't like you. Everything that follows after that is you playing a mind game and manipulating their thoughts into liking you.

    31. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I actively groomed my wife to marry me through Charm and Seduction. If we had not married would it then be harassment a year later if she had decided she didn't like me for whatever reason?

      Did you have power over her due to authority given to you by an organization that you both belonged to?
      No.
      Did she ask you stop and try to disconnect with you?
      No

      Then you didn't have anything to worry about.

    32. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by stephanruby · · Score: 4, Interesting

      So while no-one was physically compelled to send anything, it sure sounds as if they were psychologically compelled.

      Well, it does sound like he lied to them (about exclusivity).

      Lewin confessed his love for several of them, chat logs show, but often denied those feelings to women who asked about the others.

      It's probably just me being cynical, but had the first degree women friends of the Professor on Facebook not replied to that first woman saying that they were also in an online sexual relationship with the Professor, then the first woman wouldn't have considered his behavior sexual harassment, and she would have never retroactively taken back her consent to the online relationship.

      She also said she felt trap near the end, but really how trapped could she have been? She started all of this more than a year after the fact. Wasn't she finished with the course by that time? Shouldn't the power relationship be nullified once all the grades are in and the course finished? Also the Professor was already pushing 80 years old and had already retired? How much power did have from across the ocean as an 80 year old?

      Did he try to blackmail her with the pictures he already had? From the detailed article, that doesn't seem to be the case. If the detail of him lying about other women is any indication, that seems to be the most relevant part of her grievance, and that's how he "psychologically compelled" her -- by lying to her. And by the time she found out about the online infidelity, she was already emotionally attached to him, that's why she felt trapped (at least, that would be my cynical interpretation of her statements, because I just don't buy the I-felt trapped-because-he-kept-on-contacted-me reason.).

    33. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      man psychologically compels woman to sent him nude photos!! NEWS AT 11!

    34. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Livius · · Score: 1

      Unless we're talking about a minor, that isn't forcing someone.

      It's abusive, for sure, but this is not the same as the people are the actual victims of physical or other coercion.

    35. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Livius · · Score: 1

      But it's not all or nothing. What he did may be very wrong, but it's not in the same category as actual harassment.

    36. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It's easy to say that as a westerner with no serious psychological issues. Not all cultures and people are like that.

      Besides, where do you draw the line? Are people who get mugged and beaten up partially responsible for not learning some martial arts skills to defend themselves? What if they have health problems that make fighting back difficult or impossible? Just because one is a physical limitation and the other is a psychological one doesn't make them different - mental illness and limitations are just as real as physical ones.

      Personal responsibility is a good thing, but having your illness exploited by an intelligent and devious criminal is not something we should be blaming people for.

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    37. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But how exactly did he force them to do what they did *Over the internet*

      If you read the full article, towards the end it talks about this particular woman having various emotion issues including abandonment. It would seem that the prof in question exploited theses weaknesses in order to groom the woman into sending the naked pics etc.

      In addition the article talks about various victims being from cultures where speaking out is not the done thing.

      So while no-one was physically compelled to send anything, it sure sounds as if they were psychologically compelled.

      You're making it sound like he's some sort of psychopath or something.

      This may be the case, but it might not. The woman in question might just be blaming someone else for her poor decisions, or even just for her regrets. We have no idea.

      The truth is, based on what's in the article, we know nothing other than that there were sexually explicit exchanges. Whether this was harassment or consensual but inappropriate conduct is totally unknown. Frankly, based on my experience, I don't trust that distinction to be made very well by MIT administration either. And I'm disgusted that our society has reached a place where we can't tell the difference.

      Honestly, I have no idea what happened here, but neither does anyone else other than her and him, and maybe the MIT administration reviewing the case.

      I'm getting so tired of this witch-hunt anti-male mentality in college campuses, where we treat women like little children who aren't responsible for their own behavior. Respect for women cuts both ways. Otherwise, it's just the flip side of the same anti-feminine biases we've always had. This Title IX stuff is nonsense and way out of control. If a woman describes *anything* to anyone, even if they don't consider it assault or don't want it reported, faculty are *required* to report it. How is that not a violation of their autonomy as competent adults? Title IX is essentially circumventing due process and respect for adult autonomy by leveraging federal money. It's coercive.

      Imagine that this was a male student and a female professor. Just change the names and genders. What would you conclude about this story then? At best, you'd probably decide that you just don't have enough information to know. What's more likely is that you'd suspect the male were motivated to have a relationship with a respected woman who was interested.

      And before anyone construes my post as being unsympathetic to victims: I'm one myself. I just don't have sympathy for individuals who manipulate that status for gain, even if it's entirely personal (e.g., an attempt to redeem self-esteem) nor do I have respect for those who deny due process to everyone.

    38. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So he should have treated them as less than autonomous adults because of their gender and "culture"? Should we all treat women from certain cultures as vulnerable children who can't say no?

    39. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      And that comes across as a "True Scotsman" logical fallacy

      No it doesn't.

    40. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds more like she was using him. I know when I was in college, I flashed a few private parts a few times to professors to get them on the hook. It works very well since they're so afraid of a false accusation. It sounds like this was a strong woman that got what she wanted but then later decided she wanted more.

    41. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      Also, does anyone else see the parallel with gamergate? With gamergate, the guy started his campaign of accusations against the woman after he claims she had started cheating on him. In this case, the woman started her campaign of accusations against the Professor after he lied to her about other women.

      Lewin confessed his love for several of them, chat logs show, but often denied those feelings to women who asked about the others.

      And then the Professor blocked her from seeing his friends on Facebook, bolstering her claim of online infidelity even more.

      So what we have here is two people who can't take "no" for an answer. In the first case, it's called sexual harassment because it's a woman who is saying "no", and the guy just can't take it because of his feelings of attachment towards her. In the second case, it's a 80 years old guy saying "no" to online exclusivity, but it's the woman who can't take that "no" because of her feelings of attachment towards him.

      And of course MIT sided with the sexual harasser in that second case. That's what companies and organizations do nowadays. They have no interest in protecting their employees against true sexual harassment, or against sexual retaliation. They have no interest in trying to understand a situation. Their only interest is in covering their asses and implementing zero tolerance policies across the board.

    42. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      In this case, the woman started her campaign of accusations against the Professor after he lied to her about other women.

      Actually, she accused him after she found out that he had been lying to her from the beginning, but don't let the facts trip you up or anything.

      In the second case, it's a 80 years old guy saying "no" to online exclusivity, but it's the woman who can't take that "no" because of her feelings of attachment towards him.

      He explicitly had claimed that he was being exclusive. That means that he sought intimate communications with her under false pretenses. You're okay with fraud, then?

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    43. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Tom · · Score: 1

      but had the first degree women friends of the Professor on Facebook not replied to that first woman saying that they were also in an online sexual relationship with the Professor, then the first woman wouldn't have considered his behavior sexual harassment, and she would have never retroactively taken back her consent to the online relationship.

      Sadly, this seems to be the case for many recent sexual harassment cases, which is bad firstly because it turns innocent (not necessarily morally good, but criminally innocent) people into victims of the system and secondly because it muddies the water when it comes to real cases. Too many of these "angry ex-lover" cases, and people will tend to believe that actual cases are of the same kind.

      She also said she felt trap near the end, but really how trapped could she have been?

      You can feel very trapped in relationships, ask any of your married friends. ;-)

      Seriously, over the Internet, when it's not really an actual relationship - yes, she does have attachment issues.

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    44. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > psychologically compelled.

      You could file this with "verbal violence". In the bin.

    45. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed. You would think that adult women are able to make their own decisions and are able to say "no" in the given situation, and if that does not help, to escalate to higher authority. If that turns out to be untrue, maybe countries like Saudi Arabia where women cannot do anything without consent from a male guardian have a point. Somehow I do not see that situation as in any way desirable.

      That said, the women I know would not have had any problems fighting this off. But they are adults in fact, not only in name. One of the things required to be an adult is the ability to make a stand for yourself if you do not like something.

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    46. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Obviously you are a rapist now in actual fact, as you mind-controlled a helpless victim...

      There are some requirements for qualifying as an adult. One is the ability to make your own decisions and fend for yourself. Treating everybody as a child is not a good alternative in any way.

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    47. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by gweihir · · Score: 2

      Does not apply here: The course in question does not award grades, costs nothing and is exceptionally easy to walk away from. The only thing you lose is the course itself.

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    48. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but if you do not meet the expected standards of being able to fend for yourself in a foreign country, then you have no business being out and about by yourself there. It is as simple as that.

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    49. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, you're right. It's just plain old, garden-variety stupidity. Not even a logical fallacy!

    50. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by stephanruby · · Score: 1

      He explicitly had claimed that he was being exclusive. That means that he sought intimate communications with her under false pretenses. You're okay with fraud, then?

      Don't get me wrong. It does suck to be cheated on (even if it's just online). But if the couple isn't formally married to begin with, I don't think society should interfere. Society has too much to deal with already.

      Also, you say "fraud", but to me fraud usually involves a specific monetary value that was taken under false pretense. In that sense, financial fraud is much easier to deal with because it's much more quantifiable than just emotional fraud (and yes, my own definition of "fraud" could be wrong, you don't need to prove it by quoting a dictionary for me. It's just that my point remains. As a society, financial fraud is much easier to deal with than other kinds of fraud).

    51. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by theArtificial · · Score: 1

      That means that he sought intimate communications with her under false pretenses.

      Does this include fatties on dating websites using creative angles? What about attractive clothing, or being seen in a friends car, oh and makeup! All of these are now fraud!?

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    52. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ungraded course.

    53. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by guises · · Score: 1

      Neither one was a "campaign" of accusations, they were just regular accusations, and the two really don't have a lot in common. Who are the people who can't take "no" for an answer? The resentful ex-boyfriend? That's what the "ex" part means, it means that he took "no" for an answer. He wasn't happy about how their relationship had gone down, but it was pretty clear that he wasn't under any delusion about it continuing.

      Who's the other person who couldn't take "no" for an answer? The professor? The professor's accuser? The article didn't say how their relationship ended, and it was a little shy on details... It did say that she didn't realize that it was harassment until a year after the fact, which sorta implies that something happened to change her mind on the whole thing. That's kinda sketchy, but if we set aside the harassment label and recognize that it's not allowed for a faculty member to enter into a romantic relationship with their pupil then her criticism is valid regardless of what motivated it.

      Answer: no, I don't see any parallels between this and gamergate.

    54. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Uh... fraud is a very specific financial concept. This is just being a two timer... over the internet. Cheating on a girl who was already married. Can you cheat on a married woman?

    55. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The easier it is for someone to simply say "no", walk away, click "block", or merely stop replying, the harder it is to argue that they're being subjected to something they don't want to happen, and that it can reasonably be labelled "psychological manipulation" or "abuse".

    56. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Society has too much to deal with already.

      Mostly because we permit people to take advantage of other people. In fact, that's much of what our society is based around maintaining: a status quo in which one person exists at the expense of another, due to artificial scarcity designed to funnel profit to the already-rich. The whole thing is a fraud.

      you say "fraud", but to me fraud usually involves a specific monetary value

      That's because money is what is most important to you, but it says nothing about the definition of fraud: "deceit, trickery, sharp practice, or breach of confidence, perpetrated for profit or to gain some unfair or dishonest advantage." And not all profit is monetary, either, further driving home the point that you don't know what fraud means.

      As a society, financial fraud is much easier to deal with than other kinds of fraud

      So when a problem is hard, we should just throw up our hands and say "fuck it"? This reminds me of the Gates Foundation, when they were caught making for-profit investments in corporations killing the people they were claiming to be trying to save. They rapidly issued a press release stating that they would be reviewing the ethics of their investments, then the next day it went away and they made another one saying precisely the opposite, because that would be a difficult process. Yeah, saving the world is hard, but that's no excuse just to fuck it up.

      We don't advance society by simply passing on problems.

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    57. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      You're making it sound like he's some sort of psychopath or something.

      We're talking about someone who's demonstrated repeated success in identifying and starting unsavoury online relationships with female students who have difficulties asserting themselves.

      Whatever random noise you wish to employ as a label for that is fine by me.

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    58. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have obviously never worked with vulnerable people.

      At best I'd refer to these people as Milquetoast, at worst, pussies.

      Life is too short to deal with substandard humans who do not have it together (e.g. a sufficient sense of self).

    59. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      Just because one is a physical limitation and the other is a psychological one doesn't make them different

      Yes, actually, it does. That the idea of so-called "mental illness" obscures this is one of the problems with mislabeling various problems of living as diseases.

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    60. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
      Perhaps the professor was insecure about the fact that he was now very old, and thus no longer attractive to women. This, in turn, caused him to strike up Facebook romances, to cover for this insecurity, and the women, simply because he was a known professor, exploited this insecurity and made him think that they were interested in him?

      Dude realizes his days on earth are numbered, goes a little nutty, decides to test his mack with the ladies, and consenting adults, well, they can do that. If requesting naked pictures over the Internet is creepy, than damn-near every human alive is creepy. I've turned to the Internet for naked pictures a million times. Don't act like you haven't. Ohhhh the outrage. The outrage. Every comment begins with "well the professor was wrong to request them ..."

      The fuck he was. The FUCK he was. The first thing I see when some women leaves a Facebook comment is "I wonder what she looks like naked, and guess what, SO DO YOU you hypocrites.

      All of you pervs should be fired. Every goddamn last one of you.

      If homelice asks consenting adults for pictures of their hoo-haa, and they send it to him, then it is what it is and it's none of my business. It is not within my purview to judge that interactions between consenting adults, and we have to assume that they can consent for society to function. How would commerce function if we assumed that no cold sign contracts (almost all of which are coerced in some way)? It would be over. Day to day life would grind to a halt.

    61. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, maybe in the real world, face to face interaction where you can't click block and they're gone.

      And that comes across as a "True Scotsman" logical fallacy, by suggesting that psychological manipulation is erased by distance.

      Err, no that wasn't the point. The point was that online communication can be instantly stopped at the push of a button to the extent that it is impossible to ever resume it. 1 button, 1 click, 1 problem solved. Forever. No need to make anything more out of it.

    62. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Headw1nd · · Score: 1

      First of all, Lewin is guilty of violation of the MIT code of conduct, no doubt.

      Full stop.

      That is all that needs to be said in this discussion. I could care less about whether what transpired was on the level between the two of them, and I certainly don't feel it's the jumping off point for some wider discussion of sexual politics. An employee of a college did something he was explicitly told not to and was terminated. fin.

    63. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "psychological manipulation" bullshit here.

    64. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You actually groomed your wife like a dog.
      Hmm. Women are pets to you. I see they are also threats to you.
      What fucking tool you are.

    65. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well then I was manipulated into manipulating, it's not my fault!

      At some point you have to draw a line in the sand and expect some minimum level of personal responsibility from people.

    66. Re:Not trying to excuse what he did by bobbied · · Score: 1

      Oh for crying out loud. I have to explain how a mugging and getting somebody to send you naked pictures over the internet are different? Next you will tell me I'm blaming the woman for being raped when nothing is further from the truth.

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  3. Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Tell me more about how women are being oppressed by men and how I, as a man, should be ashamed of myself.

    1. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Saying all men are responsible for all sexual harassment is like saying all Muslims are responsible for all Islamic terrorism.

    2. Re:Blah blah blah by jythie · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but claiming people are saying that is a great way to shut them up.

    3. Re:Blah blah blah by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      Not that I disagree with what you are trying to say, I would like to point something out to you about your comment:

      No one's talling[SIC] you [SIC]should be ashamed of yourself for harassing women.

      I think anyone who harasses people should be ashamed of themselves. What you maybe meant to type would be more like: "No one is telling you that you should be ashamed for being male because some males harass women", which is a bit different from what you did type.

      Now, my question is, why do we get inundated with stories about women being harassed by men, but never stories about the many men who are harassed by women? I have heard that both happen about equally, though I cannot say from personal experience, as my only experience occured in high school where a girl accused me of sexual harassment as a means of trying to get me in trouble, even though I had done nothing to actually harass her.

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    4. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But what other purpose does this have being posted on Slashdot? We know sexual harassment occurs, and that it's often quite vile. So why is this news worth of Slashdot in particular, along with all the other sexual harassment news that's posted here? It's not geek news or about tech. Is it because there's a connection to MIT? If so, then why don't we get all the other news about MIT on here as well?

    5. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I could make statements about, say, the intelligence of black people. Break out some charts and statistics. I'd meet any grief by calling the responder "an idiot assuming it's a personal attack."

      I don't even know your name, buddy! No one's saying you have a lower IQ and should be ashamed, you're just a whiner taking it personally. Now shut up, I'm going to host an entire event around this next graph that implies black inferiority.

    6. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      seriously, research through your local court listings for civil cases involving domestic violence - in hetero situations, the split is precisely 50/50. In criminal courts, the split is skewed 85/15 against men. Prosecutors are generally not into prosecuting women on DV unless we're talking blood and guts spilled all over the living room rug. Pretty much all a man has to do is raise his voice and he's fucked.

    7. Re:Blah blah blah by bobbied · · Score: 1

      No one's talling[SIC] you [SIC]should be ashamed of yourself for harassing women.

      Now, my question is, why do we get inundated with stories about women being harassed by men, but never stories about the many men who are harassed by women?

      Why do you think? It's the same reason we hear about a white cop shooting a black kid but never about a black cop shooting a white one. What fits the PC narrative?

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    8. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's the same reason we hear about a white cop shooting a black kid but never about a black cop shooting a white one.

      We do hear about it. You just didn't pay attention.

    9. Re:Blah blah blah by UnknownSoldier · · Score: 1

      That's a crap analogy.

      The *silent majority* ARE part of the problem.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    10. Re:Blah blah blah by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Why do you think? It's the same reason we hear about a white cop shooting a black kid but never about a black cop shooting a white one. What fits the PC narrative?

      Yep. All to do with the PC gestapo. Nothing to do with the police actually shooting far more black kids than white ones. We couldn't have that because it woudl contradict the internet whiner narrative.

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    11. Re:Blah blah blah by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      The grammer nazi's approve of you're corrections irregardless of weather spelling is grammer.

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    12. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > The *silent majority* ARE part of the problem.

      Since islamic terrorists kill 1000x more muslims than they do westerners, clearly the "silent majority" is benefiting from terrorism. That's why they aren't do anything about it, they want to die at the hands of their fellow coreligionists. That way they can get their 72 virgins.

    13. Re:Blah blah blah by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      The [SIC] is the accepted way of saying that the mistake is in the original, not the copy. As for the language, your statement did not say what you meant it to say, you said that the predator should feel no remorse, not that people who don't do it should feel no remorse. There is a significant difference in the two.

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    14. Re:Blah blah blah by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      And this is why we still have problems because whiners take everything personally.

      In this case, no one was saying that he should be ashamed of himself for harassing women. But to be fair, many of the stories posted here start from that assumption (IE, gamers have sexual harassment problems, gamers sexually harass women, gamers are fine with sexual harassment, etcetc) and only afterwards narrow the scope to the people actually involved. So a number of people are a bit touchy.

      Unfortunately, their objections to those despicable tactics have gone too far as well, leading to, well, an overuse of some terms, like SJW. I used to think SJW was a good, accurate term to use against the people who go overboard in these types of disputes, but it's been so overused in every situation recently that it's become meaningless.

    15. Re:Blah blah blah by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      As for the language, your statement did not say what you meant it to say, you said that the predator should feel no remorse, not that people who don't do it should feel no remorse. There is a significant difference in the two.

      oh bollocks, it looks like I did too. :(

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    16. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What about white cops shooting white kids. An acquaintance of mine had a friend that was unarmed and got shot dead by cops because his girlfriend said he was crazy. He had left the state and was spending time with his family after a fight they got into because he had no where else to go. Apparently she called the cops and reported him for domestic violence or some bullshit along with making up all sorts of other shit about him. They killed him right on his parents front porch.

    17. Re:Blah blah blah by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      why do we get inundated with stories about women being harassed by men, but never stories about the many men who are harassed by women?

      Because it's not harassment unless it's unwanted.

      I have heard that both happen about equally,

      Who told you that?

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    18. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can you point me to a SINGLE example of this? One reputable, original source, where someone states "kill all men, men are scum, masculinity is toxic"?

      The closest I can find is an article on "toxic masculinity" which basically describes the extreme "men must be violent, tough, hard, thugs, etc." attitude endemic in rap music, urban culture, and even here on Slashdot (I've read a few comments to the effect of 'men wouldn't put up with this, men are hard and tough and would tell that guy to fuck right off!' just in this article), and I can't say I disagree with the notion that "toxic masculinity" is a problem in our culture. Nowhere do I see any claim that "all masculinity" is toxic, however.

      You're claiming that the term is somehow establishing an identity relationship, where "masculinity" == "toxic." Nowhere do I see any evidence of that, so I'd like you to point me to your sources. Instead, what I'm seeing is that "toxic masculinity" is a harmful SUBSET of masculinity... and I don't see that I can find much to argue with in that statement.

    19. Re:Blah blah blah by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed. Somehow this does not work for me though, as I do not harass women. I also have this strange conviction that some women finding my person unacceptable is them harassing me.

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    20. Re:Blah blah blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because it's Walter freaking Lewin. He's legendary. He's like the best physics lecturer, ever. His freshman physics lectures regularly got standing ovations. How many freshman physics lectures, in the entire history of freshman physics lectures, ever got standing ovations? Many many slashdotters will have taken his courses in the more than 40 years he taught at MIT, or viewed the courses online, or just watched his lectures on youtube.

    21. Re:Blah blah blah by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      http://slashdot.org/comments.p...

      It looks like the AC tried to quote the statistics, which show a 50/50 split in civil, and 85/15 split in criminal, because no one wants to prosecute a woman for attacking a man. The AC however did not provide any links.

      So you are saying that all men want to be harassed by women? You are an odd person indeed.

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  4. Not trying to excuse what he did by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    She thought she was sending naked pictures and could maybe win some extra points when grade time came around but it turned out she was just sending naked pictures with no long game payout and that's harassment.

  5. WTF! She was 32 years old by AchilleTalon · · Score: 5, Insightful

    WTF! How a 32 years old private English tutor can naively believe sending naked pictures was not involving her into sexual activities? I would consider this as consent, dot period. Perhaps Lewin was infringing the MIT policies, however I would not qualify this as harassment since she, as an adult, decided to go ahead with this from the beginning.

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    1. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by operagost · · Score: 1

      The initial exchange where he allegedly requested nude photos should have been passed on to the MIT administration. Done. And if not done, next to the federal office of civil rights.

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    2. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by farble1670 · · Score: 1

      I would consider this as consent, dot period.

      i think the argument is that she couldn't refuse since the professor was in a position of power.

    3. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by meta-monkey · · Score: 5, Insightful

      She made the mistake of opening up to Lewin about her psychological problems (anxiety, abandonment) and he manipulated her (sweet lies about helping her get her self-esteem back) so she'd cough up the nudes.

      Shockingly, despite age, people with psychological problems can be manipulated into doing things contrary to their best interests by sociopaths.

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    4. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      still her emotional problems should not be his legal problems...

    5. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, I've seen this first hand. Age has absolutely nothing to do with this. Everyone can become a victim. But why am I even posting, those that believe "someone should have known better" most likely also believe a rape victim asked for it.

    6. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How do you know they were lies? He might have genuinely thought it was something he could help her with.

      It's common and ordinary for people to make offerings about what they think they can give, in a personal relationship.

      So why do you call it a manipulation? Do you know things about the situation and the people involved, that we don't?

    7. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      "Send me nudes pics of yourself to improve your self-esteem?" Pretty sure he knew that was a lie.

      All I know is what I read in the article. There is a large collection of chat logs between him and this woman, and many other women. It's pretty much textbook manipulation and harassment of psychologically vulnerable people. Doesn't have anything to do with them being women. They guy sought out the mentally unwell and exploited them. /. has been posting tons of bullshit SJW "men are evil" stories lately, but this is not one of them. I don't really see what the defense of Lewin is. What do you think should have happened?

      1) Dude uses MIT name, cred, backing, resources to put him in touch with women.

      2) Dude probes women for psychological problems

      3) Dude exploits trusting women's psychological problems for sexual favors.

      What do you think the end result of that should be? High-fives from the MIT admins?

      I guess the problem could just be deceptive advertising. Perhaps these women thought that with a name like MIT backing the course it would be a serious and legitimate educational opportunity. I can see how they might have made that mistake. They should have been warned they'd need to be prepared to fend off manipulative sexual advances from the professors. Perhaps they should just change the branding of their online offerings from "MITx" to "MI TITS OR GTFO."

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    8. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Tom · · Score: 1

      Psych problem or not, when you're sending nude pictures to someone who's not your significant other, and you're not in the sex industry, then you should realize that something is not as it should be.

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    9. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Burn the witch! Burn the witch!! BURN THE WITCH!!!

    10. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by gweihir · · Score: 1

      As a matter of fact, he was not. He has some perceived authority in a non-graded MMOC setting, but all he gets in real authority is what the students are willing to give him.

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    11. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1) Dude uses MIT name, cred, backing, resources to put him in touch with women.

      This is normal. Men in any kind of authority, do not hide it all of a sudden, when establishing sexual relationships with women. There is tons of overlap in real life between sex and business, authority and sex, ...

      "Jesse, meet Dan; He's a professor at MIT who focuses on Physics." Boom, done. Super-common. Heck, there are plenty of women who explicitly seek out teachers and authorities in order to form sexual relationships. I've read several OK Cupid profiles from beautiful women that explicitly say just that.

      2) Dude probes women for psychological problems

      Who doesn't have psychological problems? Who doesn't enter a relationship with an idea that they have something to contribute? Arguably, all seduction plays on weakness or a vulnerability of some sort, whether it's a man or a woman who is doing the seduction.

      3) Dude exploits trusting women's psychological problems for sexual favors.

      Really? This is part of the "women give sex to men" paradigm, as if women do not enjoy sex in their own right, and as if sex is intrinsically degrading to a woman.

      What do I think the end-result should be? I think that the woman should say, "Not interested," and be done with it. I don't think a man should be punished for trying to establish a sexual relationship with a woman. If the man threatens her, she should take the evidence of the threat and complain. The administration should then fire the man who threatened her.

      I don't think that this ceases to be a legitimate educational opportunity. If he teaches the class, and she gets the education, great. If he invites a sexual relationship, and she says "No," and there is no punishment or threat involved, I say: No harm, no foul.

    12. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by AchilleTalon · · Score: 1

      Pretty silly argument since it was a MOOC. In fact, I did enrolled into on of the courses of Lewin on MOOC. And frankly, if there was to be a trial, I wish her good luck with her arguments before a real jury. It is just not holding water. They are not living next door to each other. She is in Montpellier, FRANCE and he is in Boston area. They were chatting and/or exchanging emails. There is no diploma attached to this MOOC and hence no power on the hands of Lewin. Granting or not the certificate means nothing. It is unusable to gain access to a university program. And she was not even studying in science anyway.

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    13. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Right... like a guy's never emotionally manipulated a girl into doing something for him?

    14. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shut up you cis shitlord. Women are victims, always. Even if they're the aggressor or even a criminal, they are at worst the victim to some sad past.

      Men are evil monsters. Women are emotionally disadvantaged and just need help.

    15. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He deviously and cleverly manipulated her little brain. You have to understand the western world you're living in. Victimhood is a virtue in itself. Weakness is good. Self defense is bad.

    16. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      can you please link these oh-so-damning chat logs please? I don't want to believe everything I've read in a few slashdot comments just because someone "saw it on the interwebz". I read the article. I saw no links to these chatlogs. She claims that they are damning, but I saw no proof. The only link I saw was possible jealousy of other women that the prof played this game with, but no cause for panic.

    17. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      This is normal. Men in any kind of authority, do not hide it all of a sudden, when establishing sexual relationships with women. There is tons of overlap in real life between sex and business, authority and sex, ...

      "Jesse, meet Dan; He's a professor at MIT who focuses on Physics." Boom, done. Super-common. Heck, there are plenty of women who explicitly seek out teachers and authorities in order to form sexual relationships. I've read several OK Cupid profiles from beautiful women that explicitly say just that.

      Oh I agree, that is totally normal. But that's not what happened here. This isn't just a professor, it's her professor. "Jesse, meet Dan, he's your teacher." "Soooooooo how 'bout some nudes?"

      "Anonymous Coward, meet Steve, he's your new boss." "Sooooooo...how 'bout some dick pics?"

      And yes, there are OK Cupid profiles looking for that! So he should go hit up those women, who are down for it, rather than firing widely into his pool of students (which he did. It wasn't just this one women, it was a dozen or more). This has nothing to do with his sexual proclivities. Go to the sex club on the weekend, wear assless chaps and a bridle and have people ride you and spank you. Knock yourself out! But don't go dipping your pen in the company ink. There's a reason that's a saying.

      Really? This is part of the "women give sex to men" paradigm, as if women do not enjoy sex in their own right, and as if sex is intrinsically degrading to a woman.

      Really? You don't understand that while sex is a mutually beneficially arrangement between most people, there are also some people, men or women, who take sex from others, via force or coercion? And that's what this guy did? Sexual predation? That is a thing, you know.

      If he invites a sexual relationship, and she says "No," and there is no punishment or threat involved, I say: No harm, no foul.

      Only on /. are people so socially inept that they need it explained it to them why it's inappropriate for people in positions of authority over others to solicit them for sex. The punishment or threat is implied. When your boss asks for dick pics, you can rest assured that he will not reward those who provide said pics, and punish those who don't. At all. You're totally "free" to say no to the solicitations that are completely outside the boundaries of the nature of your relationship. It's not okay for your boss to ask you to come by on weekend and mow his yard ("Feel free to say no. Oh and completely off-topic, isn't your performance review coming up next week?") and it's not okay for your teacher to ask you to come by on the weekend on and suck his dick, either ("Feel free to say no. Oh and completely off-topic, isn't your final exam next week?")

      And regardless of harm or foul, in your bizarre opinion that does not in any way reflect reality, I'll bet you $100 that the MIT code of conduct forbids sexual relationships between teachers and students. Just like HR will fire your ass if you solicit sex from people who report to you at work, and the Army forbids relationships between soldiers and those under their command.

      As a matter of fact, every fucking organization forbids relationships between superiors and their juniors for this exact fucking reason. It has nothing to do with man or woman, gay or straight.

      It's also just a shitty representation for the business. MIT wants their teachers to teach, not fish for sex from the customers. What business do you want to patronize who has their representatives ask you for naked pictures when you contact them? "Thank you for calling AT&T. Before we get started on your billing questions, got any nude pictures I can have?" Would you not maybe want to talk to their superiors at AT&T and ask why the fuck their phone bank operators are asking you for nudes when you called up to ask about your bill? "Well, did our operator threaten you in any way if you didn't comply? No? You were free to say no? Then no harm, no foul."

      Do you really need this explained to you?

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    18. Re:WTF! She was 32 years old by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      MIT reviewed them and found they were inappropriate enough to can his ass. It doesn't matter that you think it's perfectly okay for their representatives to solicit sex from the customers, but it's against the MIT code of conduct. He knew the rules when he signed up. And they should really go without saying. "Don't try to fuck the students. Even if you think they want it." Isn't that kind of common sense? Does that need to be explained to you?

      At your job, I recommend not trying to fuck the customers (unless you work in a brothel. Then try to fuck the customers). There's probably some tiny little obscure rule in the employee handbook that says HR frowns upon that sort of thing.

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  6. If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But how exactly did he force them to do what they did *Over the internet*

    Unsurprisingly enough, your comment is directly addressed in the article:

    What may be most difficult to understand, Harbi said, is why anyone would respond to Lewin’s requests. Harbi, who is originally from Algiers, Algeria, is open about having been sexually assaulted in the past, and said she struggles with abandonment issues. The more she tried to distance herself from Lewin, she said, the more he attempted to contact her through email and social media. Ultimately, Harbi said, she felt forced to “obey.”

    “We all felt trapped,” Harbi said.

    Dziech said Harbi’s history as a victim of sexual assault was relevant.

    “That stays with you all of your life,” Dziech, who this quarter teaches a seminar on child and adolescent abuse, said. “You never get beyond it no matter how much therapy. It’s terrifying, and it raises another problem for all institutions: They can never know the background of the student -- in what way the student is vulnerable.”

    Another top moderated comment by someone who couldn't take five minutes to read the article. How hard is it to RTFA? Do you understand that some women are more vulnerable to psychological control than others?

    1. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Bartles · · Score: 1

      You obviously read the article, but didn't comprehend it. Nowhere does your quoted text say how the professor coerced the student, only that he did.

    2. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by OzPeter · · Score: 2

      So what you're saying is women are weaker and more manipulable than men?

      What he is saying is that people with psychological issues are more vulnerable to manipulation that those without them.

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    3. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      So what you're saying is women are weaker and more manipulable than men?

      I think what he was saying is that people who have been abused in the past are more likely to permit abuse again.

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    4. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, they're saying sexual assault damages people, and anyone who would exploit that is a tremendous prick.

    5. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by AchilleTalon · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yeah! They are poor things incapable to be responsible of what they engage into, in particular if they are 32 years old and adults. So, beware!

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    6. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by horm · · Score: 1

      Then he should have left the "women" part out of it. Both men and women suffer from abuse, from their same sex and the opposite sex. We'd be better off focusing on preventing abuse in general, instead of specifically focusing on "man abuses woman" cases. There are many woman-against-man, woman-against-woman, and man-against-man abuse cases that don't get the attention they deserve because they're seen as less important.

    7. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by OverlordQ · · Score: 2

      I read the article. I'm just claiming bullshit on the argument that somehow this physics professor is such a master psychological manipulator that he coerced dozens of women halfway across the world to send him nudes over the internet for no good reason.

      If you're *that* emotionally troubled with abandonment issues that you're sending a guy over the internet that has no leverage over you nudes, I dont see how you can deal with offline interactions period.

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    8. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by DaHat · · Score: 1

      True, though I don't see many people wearing "I was abused in the past" signs around their necks... maybe I'm just not as good at reading people as others are.

    9. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are right. If you aren't fixing everything, then you are making the world worse by trying to fix anything.

    10. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by OzPeter · · Score: 1

      Then he should have left the "women" part out of it.

      Given that the case in question revolves around a guy supposedly manipulating women, I don't think it's unreasonable for the OP to frame the statement in terms of female victims. But I agree that abuse in general needs to be prevented.

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    11. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by bobbied · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is women are weaker and more manipulable than men?

      No, only that THESE women where without the necessary self respect to RESIST this dirt bag and tell him to get lost. This lack of self respect is not related to gender, even though their gender was apparently part of the reason they where targets.

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    12. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's not a less important thing, it's a "doesn't exist" thing. Read around on the radfem websites like Women's Aid, who continue to make the unsubstantiated claim that domestic violence is exclusively men-on-women. I have done my research on this, using thousands of cases through the High Court over seven years (2005-2012) as my source. My conclusion is this:

      DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A GENDERLESS ISSUE. THE RELATIVE PROPORTION OF PERPETRATORS IN HETERO RELATIONSHIPS IS 50% MEN, 50% WOMEN. IN HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS, THERE IS NO GENDER DISTINCTION.

      The ONLY skew in domestic violence is the relative proportions of prosecutions of perpetrators, which runs to approximately 85% men 15% women.

      A lot of my research has ended up used on websites such as Men'sAid (run by a gentleman in Coventry) and a few organisations in the South of England that help male victims of domestic violence by offering something unique and traditionally only offered to women: somewhere safe to stay.

      (ihtoit posting AC because my karma's broken)

    13. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And bitches be crazy, so of course they're prone.

    14. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by bobbied · · Score: 2

      So you didn't watch how the bullies worked all this out on the playground as a kid? Or better yet, when you where an adult, watch your kids playing with a group of kids?

      Seemed pretty straight forward to me how the abusers identify likely targets and how the suitable targets would react to situations. Even as adults, the behaviors are similar, even if the fine details of how it's done are a bit more nuanced.

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    15. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I call bullshit on your intelligence

      If I find a weakness in you, and exploit it to the point of your embarrassment and making that weakness worse, it's not coercion, but it's still harassment. Especially if my position makes me your superior.

      I suppose, from your point of view, that if a conman doesn't coerce someone, then it's all fine and well right?

    16. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      I fucked up and actually read the article. They'll probably take my /. posting privileges away, I know. Anyway, apparently as soon as she started the FB group for the course Lewin contacted her to chat. She was excited about the attentiveness of the professor, and opened up that she had anxiety issues (was on medication) and he said through the course he would help her get her self-confidence back.

      So basically yeah, she opened up about her psychological problems, and he saw a victim he could manipulate, and proceeded to do so.

      A lot of harassment claims are bullshit, no doubt. But this guy is a pretty open and shut case. He used his position of authority to manipulate vulnerable women into providing him with sexual jollies. That's kind of the definition of sexual harassment.

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    17. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      If you're *that* emotionally troubled with abandonment issues that you're sending a guy over the internet that has no leverage over you nudes, I dont see how you can deal with offline interactions period.

      Yes, it's sad how some people can't deal with life. In this case, probably due at least in part due to prior instances of abuse. But you know what's even more sad than that? That some people take advantage of them because of how sad their lives are. You know what's almost as sad as that? The people whose lives are so empty and self-esteem so low that they have to talk shit about people who have been taken advantage of repeatedly.

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    18. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is women are weaker and more manipulable than men?

      Nope. You need to learn to read and reason logically. He said no such thing at all. This is simply you layering whatever the hell is swimming round inside your own head on top.

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    19. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Read around on the radfem websites like Women's Aid, who continue to make the unsubstantiated claim that domestic violence is exclusively men-on-women.

      I just spent 2 hours reading the Women's Aid website and I didn't find any such claims.
      Thanks for wasting my time.

    20. Re: If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not only that, but there are organizations who reject everybody but lesbians being abused by their lesbian "lover". They refer heterosexuals, and gay males, in similar circumstances, to organizations that focus exclusively on domestic violence against the specific gender and sexual orientation.

    21. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      If you're *that* emotionally troubled with abandonment issues that you're sending a guy over the internet that has no leverage over you nudes, I dont see how you can deal with offline interactions period.

      You clearly have no idea how the psychology of abuse works then. Most people think of their bodies and belonging to them and as being something they need to protect by not allowing others access. Abuse victims have had those ideas shattered, and even if consciously they understand them at a subconscious level it's all screwed up. No amount of therapy can completely fix it.

      Mental illness is often like that. People with depression can interact pretty much normally most of the time, but it doesn't mean they are not suffering from a genuine and debilitating illness. Hopefully more people will come to recognize how serious mental illness actually is, and get past the largely incorrect stereotypes that lead them to views like yours.

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    22. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Uh, which might help to explain why she was taking the course ONLINE!
      Yes she had problems dealing with things offline. She told him that!
      This is someone who had gone online to increase her confidence so that she could improve how she deals with things offline.
      Yes, she had been abused offline in the past. You are saying since she had been abused offline in the past it was ok for her to be taken advantage of online?

      She, was someone who knew she had 'victim' stamped on her forward, and had gone online so that she could feel safe.
      The person she trusted to help with this took advantage of her.

      Are you this big an asshole offline as well?

    23. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed, it is rather unlikely that this professor is such a master manipulator. These women made a decision they later regretted. It is not unheard of, but the adult thing to do is to admit that it was them making the decision and taking responsibility for their actions. You cannot retroactively retract consent for something you did in the past and still be considered an adult. Because doing so would mean that your word has no value and that you are not fit to make decisions. I am sure, most women would find the idea to be viewed as this type of creature pretty repulsive.

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    24. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      If these people are really like this (and I somehow doubt it for a majority of them), then they have absolutely no business using the Internet unsupervised. None at all.

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    25. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      I can tell you're a big hit at parties.

      (There's this thing called "compassion". You should give it a try sometime.)

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    26. Re:If Only the Article Addressed That ... by gweihir · · Score: 1

      You think it is compassionate to send people into danger they cannot handle? What kind of evil ass are you?

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  7. Fuck yeah a rockstar! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Rock out with your cock out!

  8. Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    She thought she was sending naked pictures and could maybe win some extra points when grade time came around but it turned out she was just sending naked pictures with no long game payout and that's harassment.

    No, wrong wrong wrong wrong. Goddamnit how many illiterate people manage to get this far on Slashdot?! From THE FUCKING ARTICLE:

    What may be most difficult to understand, Harbi said, is why anyone would respond to Lewin’s requests. Harbi, who is originally from Algiers, Algeria, is open about having been sexually assaulted in the past, and said she struggles with abandonment issues. The more she tried to distance herself from Lewin, she said, the more he attempted to contact her through email and social media. Ultimately, Harbi said, she felt forced to “obey.”

    “We all felt trapped,” Harbi said.

    Dziech said Harbi’s history as a victim of sexual assault was relevant.

    “That stays with you all of your life,” Dziech, who this quarter teaches a seminar on child and adolescent abuse, said. “You never get beyond it no matter how much therapy. It’s terrifying, and it raises another problem for all institutions: They can never know the background of the student -- in what way the student is vulnerable.”

    Slashdot: The place where the most "interesting" and "insightful" comments are completely made up fantasies about what actually happened.

    1. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Informative

      slashdot = stagnated

      you're all morons

    2. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Mashiki · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well I've hit the point where "actual evidence is required" after UAV and Dalhousie(both being the most recent). Fuck this noise. Seriously, fuck it right in the neck. I don't "trust the articles" I don't "trust the admins" I expect actual evidence.

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    3. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by nwf · · Score: 2

      Slashdot: The place where the most "interesting" and "insightful" comments are completely made up fantasies about what actually happened.

      No, this is really Slashdot, so we need to figure out how to blame the victim. Then we'll be good. Bonus points if you can spin it to appear plausible that it was her fault (which it wasn't, of course.)

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    4. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, in a world where the majority of people cannot duplicate, period. They simply don't see what the rest of us see because they cannot duplicate what is said or visible in front of them. They are not blind though they almost could be, they just don't see everything that is there. Or they see or hear something entirely different.

    5. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What the prof did was creepy, rude and unprofessional, I agree with the decision to fire him/disavow him. BUT the world is not some custom hugbox where everybody is guaranteed to be perfectly safe all the time. If you aren't assertive enough to stop talking to someone, that does not give you a blanket defense of harassment against everything you regret. Many people in this world actually get harassed, constant catcalls in public, stalking, constant phone calls, things that can not be easily avoided. When you lump in "Feeling obligated to answer facebook messages" with real harassment you cheapen the struggles of people with real problems.

      He's a perv, she needs help, but I'm not seeing any compelling evidence of harassment here. There wasn't even pressure, they don't get graded and the class was free.

    6. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So exploiting a woman's sexuality by talking to her and showing her attention is "harassment".

      Exploiting a man's sexuality by sending him nude photos of yourself for further talk and attention is "being the victim of harassment"

      Gotcha. Women are weak-willed playthings that have no personal initiative to act, but can only be acted upon by creatures of greater mental and psychological fortitude (men) that possess initiative. Good thing you have big, strong men around to guard these pathetic, pitiful women from such horrors as "being ignored by creeps in the office"

    7. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, hitting "delete" or "block" on the unwanted messages was just too hard to do....
      There was no grades, no co-ersion, no pressure, and nothing he could do in the slightest to influence her life other than send her messages and try to talk.
      She simply indulged rather than block/ignore the emails and move along with life.

    8. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1, Troll

      No, wrong wrong wrong wrong. Goddamnit how many illiterate people manage to get this far on Slashdot?! From THE FUCKING ARTICLE:

      Well basically there's some people on here who seem beyond desperate to believe that men never do bad things. I can only speculate as to why, but I suspect that it has something to do with if men cannot do bad things then they as men must be innocent of the bad things they have done.

      It's a very odd attitide and hard to explain.

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    9. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by nedlohs · · Score: 2

      So she has a history of sexual assault, yet her reaction to a pervy prof asking for nude photos was to send the photos rather than saying to herself "learning some physics is not worth this crap" and blocking him on facebook/email/whatever and sending the logs/etc to the university.

      Yes he is the one abusing his position of authority. he is the one at fault (taking MIT's investigation of the matter at face value - I don't have the details they have after all). That doesn't mean she can't make some better decisions in the future.

      If it was a prof at a university you were attending who you will bump into over and over again over the next few years and who is respected by the rest of the academic staff you deal with you have an actual dilemma since they can screw you over if you don't comply with their abuse. But in this case there's no loss in just bailing out - well other not getting to have a perv teach you physics which sounds like a plus really.

       

    10. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Well I've hit the point where "actual evidence is required" after UAV and Dalhousie(both being the most recent). Fuck this noise. Seriously, fuck it right in the neck. I don't "trust the articles" I don't "trust the admins" I expect actual evidence.

      Are you saying you require evidence that the made-up fantasies are actually fantasy and made up? What kind of evidence of this would satisfy you?

      Does MIT's investigation and conclusion count as evidence, as stated in the 1st paragraph of the 1st link? In case you didn't rtfa:

      MIT is indefinitely removing retired physics faculty member Walter Lewin’s online lectures from MIT OpenCourseWare and online MITx courses from edX, the online learning platform co-founded by MIT, following a determination that Dr. Lewin engaged in online sexual harassment in violation of MIT policies.

    11. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So then, you don't trust the professor saying he didn't do it either, right?
      Why do you automatically give credibility to the person in authority?

    12. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      It wasn't her fault that she took nude photos of herself, then uploaded them and sent them to someone thousands of miles away that has no physical influence or forbearance on her person? How old was she? Five? Six years old? When do you start ascribing personal accountability to a person? When will you stop treating women like incompetent retards?

    13. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by walterbyrd · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So you think accusing somebody automatically makes that person guilty? Like the witch hunts, or the communist hunts?

      If I accused you of being a child molester, would that automatically make you guilty?

      I think there is may something that can be said for an "innocent until proven guilty" system.

    14. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 2

      They have the chat logs and emails. Evidence enough for you?

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    15. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by sexconker · · Score: 2

      So then, you don't trust the professor saying he didn't do it either, right?
      Why do you automatically give credibility to the person in authority?

      He's not. He's adhering to the principle of "innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt" that our justice system is built upon.

    16. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well, in that case, she would have to seek help early on. Really. If you have a personality disorder that prevents you from being able to control your own life, then you must seek help whenever a situation like this comes along. No, this is not victim-blaming. But the world is not so nice a place that people that cannot fend for themselves can be accommodated everywhere by default. This would just not work as it would kill open interaction completely. What does work is helping them individually, but for that to work, they must still be autonomous enough to be able to recognize danger and then ask for help.

      There is of course a balance issue here: Freedom against protection. This can never be solved satisfactorily. Life has some risks and will continue to have them, even if remove any and all freedoms.

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    17. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Indeed. Clearly, he is morally at fault. But from a practical point of few, people that cannot or will not defend themselves will always be victims. In a pure causal sense (not a moral one), they set themselves up for it. If you get victimized time and again, all the "being in the moral right" will be small comfort. The only practical way to prevent things like these is to make sure women (and men) know how to fight back, how to escalate and how to get help. Everything else ignores reality.

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    18. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by gophther · · Score: 1

      How was this professor supposed to know she was a victim of past rape? Did he? If he did, he's a piece of shit and should be fired. If he didn't, then it's reasonable for him to conclude she was a consenting adult, being 32, and sending him naked pictures of herself voluntarily. I think it pretty much hinges on that.

    19. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should blame the victim. Almost always.

      What you should not do is assume that blame suffers from a conservation law. Blaming one person does not reduce the amount of blame to be levied at another.

      And why shouldn't you "blame" the victim? The victim is the one who suffered, by definition. Do you think that pointing out the mistakes of the perpetrator is beneficial? Consider: you run a program that you download from the Internet, and it wipes out your hard disk. Blaming the victim: "you are stupid, don't run random programs from the Internet". Blaming the perpetrator: "sorry man, whoever wrote that program made a mistake". Which is the appropriate response?

      This idea that "it's never your fault when bad things happen to you" is just warped. It may be uncomfortable to admit, but denial just leads to more problems. So yes, do blame the victim. As often as necessary. Especially when it is yourself.

    20. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope, move along troll.

    21. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by phayes · · Score: 2

      No. So far, we have only heard one side of the story & both sides need to be heard & in front of an impartial judge.

      80 years ago when they were stringing up black men in the south, they often had "proof" of their guilt and acted on it. Stop acting like a mob.

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    22. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by phayes · · Score: 1

      I agree with you 150% but good luck with getting women from societies like Algeria where most of the population believe & treat women like chattel to know their (western) rights and attempt to fight back.

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    23. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      The story doesn't say if he knew she was a victim of rape, but it does say this:

      Harbi said she was surprised -- not just by the fact that she was communicating with the real Walter Lewin, but also that she was doing well in the course. She takes medications for anxiety and depression, which she told Lewin makes it difficult for her to concentrate. Lewin, Harbi said, told her he would help her regain some self-confidence.

      So he knew she was vulnerable, offered to help her, but apparently had other motives.

    24. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you believe things without evidence? Hmm...

    25. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Megol · · Score: 1

      Here's this in a version even you should understand:

      Let's say I have a "do not pee in my kitchen" policy (actually I have).

      A friend decides that he should pee in my kitchen. He does so.

      I say "that's it - you can't go into my kitchen anymore".

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      Substitute pee with sexual harassment according to the MIT standard. Substitute kitchen with courses associated with MIT. Substitute me with MIT.

      There is no need to apply the rules of the juridical system for something like this which should be obvious for someone that actually have some social skills. The level of proof for someone to hinder someone else of peeing in the kitchen is less than the level of proof required by a criminal court.

    26. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Megol · · Score: 1

      But then you ignore that he shouldn't have asked - as a professional he shouldn't have. In fact most places of education have an explicit policy against any kind of relationship between a teacher and a student.

    27. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by phayes · · Score: 1

      No, it's I saw YOU Megol RAPE a child! MEGOL IS A RAPIST! Lets round up a bunch of easily inflamed people & go STRING YOU UP!

      My point is that before stringing anyone up, literally or figuratively, BOTH sides of the story need to be presented before a judge. This is not the case at present with regard to TFA & the lynch mobbers need to calm down.

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    28. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by SeatcheInpericulisau · · Score: 1

      Let's try this on you. First, assume that you are NOT a woman; you're a man. Secondly, assume that you're raped as a child. Later in life, you join a mooc or social chat session for something other than sex, say an interest in mathematics or coding in Java. Your proctor is a man and begins chats with you about things OUTSIDE of mathematics or Java. He then sends a photo of himself. He asks you to send your photo. He continues asking for your photo, and tells you repeatedly to engage him in sexual conversation. You shouldn't resist, because there is no reason to not engage sexually. Beside, it's your fault for befriending him. Since you've been victimized sexually in the past, will you be able to resist his continuous requests for sexually explicit photos and conversation? It doesn't matter what your gender is. What matters is if you can stand up to a perp after being a victim in the past. Will you have the courage to not comply to the abuse, or will you give up and comply, allowing the abuse to happen, until you can't take it any more? What would you do if someone constantly harassed you in your favorite online game? They keep following around, stopping you from accomplishing goals, and gang-up on you with other online players, because they see you as a sheep. How would you stand up to them? BTW. Just quitting the game is not option. That would be cheating, because, remember, this is your favorite game, and you want to play it, despite being harassed. Please let us know how you would stop the harassment.

    29. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That you even had to type this is really embarrassing.

    30. Re:Do You Even Literate, Bro?! by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      How did you come to the retarded idea that I implied anything of what you say here?

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  9. Fool me twice, shame on me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So tired of this BS. We need a new federal law that says you have 90 days to report harassment, sexual or otherwise, or you are SOL. This wait a year crap is nothing but revenge of the ex most of the time. Who is to say she didn't initiate the relationship with a sexual phone call and then the professor responded from there by email. We have had far too many women cry wolf and permanently ruin careers and lives just to punish men when the relationship didn't go their way. I am all for punishing people who use their position of authority to harass others, but we have to have some basic sanity checks, and one of those needs to be the time it takes to be reported. And for all of you ladies out there, this kind of thing goes both ways, I know from personal experience.

    1. Re:Fool me twice, shame on me by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Good idea. Not perfect, but there are no perfect solutions in this space.

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  10. stupid harvard kids by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I swear... if you're at Harvard you should know better than to allow yourself to be taken advantage of like that. Makes me think this is trumped up remorse retroactive harassment. She has absolutely nothing to lose.

  11. Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Can we please not use cryptic, unexplained acronyms in posts? If you are going to write a story with a cryptic acronym like "MOOC" please explain what it means at least in the body of the post.

    When I see a post title like "Behind the MOOC Harassment Charge" I have no idea what that means.

    1. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by ColdWetDog · · Score: 1

      Select text, right click, select "Search DuckDuckGo for $Text".

      Enter.

      You're welcome.

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    2. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by ColdWetDog · · Score: 1

      Yeah, and don't tell me you're using an Apple one-button mouse and that I'm an insensitive clod.

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    3. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      MOOC = Massive Open Online Course.

      That one threw me too because the particular instance of MIT's MOOC has traditionally been referred to as MIT Open Courseware since it started. Many other institutions have started them since MIT. (Stanford, Harvard, Cornell etc..)

      It is a failure of communication to either assume the jargon is something everyone knows or to throw out an acronym and not explain what it is the first time it is used in the article. It is traditionally seen as bad form in academic articles however in the arts that same mechanism is used to draw interest (Oh! I wander what that is?!) much the same way that click bait article titles are designed. Both attempt to draw one in with either subtle or blatant missing information. It is a creative device in the arts but is looked upon as bad form in academia so you are totally right for bringing that up.

    4. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Aren't these summaries supposed to rattle off all the pertinent information a person needs to know about the given subject? Including something in the summary implies that it matters to the context of the story, so why would it be okay to not spell it out?

      Hey guys, something something imminent! Be absolutely sure that you remember to whatever I'm too lazy to spell it out.

      Leaving some apparently key factor out in favor of something vague and unfamiliar to most is counterproductive to that end. Either it's important enough to be spelled out in the summary, or it should be left out entirely. And by telling people to just go google/duckduckgo it, you're waving it off as acceptable and dumping the responsibility to readers. If it's too much to spell it out, link to it. That's what hypertext markup language is for. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Massive_open_online_course

      They might as well just skip the articles, the summaries and titles all together and give you a few keywords to google each day. Would you be satisfied with that?

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    5. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by jcoy42 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, and don't tell me you're using an Apple one-button mouse and that I'm an insensitive clod.

      Where have you been? Apple got rid of that button a while ago.

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    6. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      is that like, distance learning eg Open University, which has been doing this for YEARS through television?

    7. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      is that like, distance learning eg Open University, which has been doing this for YEARS through television?

      Yes it is, MIT spun it as a sort of "Open Source" version of higher education. It is very similar to the cable channel version from years ago, with the difference that the course materials are made available online to make following along more doable. One can participate online in some of the courses and in most of the cases it is just a recording of the class so anyone can watch the courses on their own time and learn.

      I have found it very useful and informative on many levels. I have a computer programing degree and two electronic engineering degrees from ITT tech, and while going through the electronics courses I used Open Courseware to audit the MIT version of the classes I was taking. (including core courses such as ethics, economics and environmental issues) Doing this helped me realize, among other things, when I had good professors and what their strengths were in addition to easily knowing where to look for more info on topics. In the case of ITT, there are a lot of naysayers out there who drone on about how ITT is a crap school and that someone should go to an Ivy league school to have a "real" education. I know for a fact, point for point that the degrees I got at ITT were just as good as if I had taken the same courses at MIT, minus the tuition costs and name recognition (which is just a case of having money and BS posturing anyway if the actual learning part of getting multiple degrees is actually what matters.) ITT is a chain school with many campuses so one's milage might vary, but MIT Open Courseware was a great thing for me because it helped me get really good grades and to know that I know I got my money's worth at ITT. That does not help me when applying for jobs and the applicant from an Ivy league school gets hired over me, but the experience did help in that I know my mastery of the material is on the level of an MIT. It is also funny too, because I am at the graduate level now and I applied at a number of schools to work on my Masters and so many mid level universities refuse to recognize ITT tech as a legitimate education, and just for shits and giggles I applied at MIT and got in.. I was surprised too! MIT and ITT have a common accreditation standard, after the fact it doesn't really matter but universities like DePaul would do well to recognize that as when it comes down to tuition dollars, they are throwing away money by turning away ITT students.

    8. Re:Can we please not use cryptic acronyms? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, but I'll tell you it's naive to think DuckDuckGo protects your privacy, you optimistic clod.

  12. For Shame, Slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Tell me more about how women are being oppressed by men and how I, as a man, should be ashamed of myself.

    Nowhere in the article did it say anything even remotely close to this. This article was about a specific incidence, not about statistics or the rate of these incidences or which sex is more guilty of it.

    Shame on you, Slashdot, for moderating this shit up. Your role reversal of who the victim is in this story is disgusting. We should be talking about how a professor used their position as teacher of a MOOC to prey on a vulnerable student living a society where talking about harassment brings shame to your family.

    The real shame is how the top moderated comments fail to understand psychological vulnerability and a knee jerk reaction to defend chauvinism. That's not what this is about and whoever moderated the parent up should feel ashamed for not taking five minutes to read the story at hand.

  13. Re:Why is this site turning into SJWdot ? by Coren22 · · Score: 1

    But it happened on the Internet!

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  14. Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Look ladies, yea I'm a middle aged white male, but why do some of you let these things happen to you?

    Now I'm not saying this guy doesn't deserve to be castigated for demeaning women, but shesh ladies, you need to have some self respect. I'm not saying this wasn't harassment, but don't let some scumbag do this kind of thing to you. Where is the outcry for the way this woman was raised? Where is the outcry for the mentalities that lead to a woman who cannot or will not stand up for herself? Who thinks that this kind of behavior is OK? That asking for and expecting racy pictures over the internet is something you can do? Why do we see situations where women are OBVIOUSLY bullied into doing things they wouldn't or didn't really want to do?

    I raised my daughter to not be afraid to say no and mean it. To tell these abusers to take a hike, don't be manipulated into doing things you don't want to. If they don't respect you, they are not worth dealing with. Don't suffer fools who disrespect you and above all, respect yourself enough to say "NO WAY scumbag!" and mean it regardless who's asking or what position they hold.

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    1. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      why are you post this question on slashdot? Do you assume women come here to get some sort of advice?

    2. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Look ladies, yea I'm a middle aged white male, but why do some of you let these things happen to you?

      Now I'm not saying this guy doesn't deserve to be castigated for demeaning women, but shesh ladies, you need to have some self respect. I'm not saying this wasn't harassment, but don't let some scumbag do this kind of thing to you. Where is the outcry for the way this woman was raised? Where is the outcry for the mentalities that lead to a woman who cannot or will not stand up for herself? Who thinks that this kind of behavior is OK? That asking for and expecting racy pictures over the internet is something you can do? Why do we see situations where women are OBVIOUSLY bullied into doing things they wouldn't or didn't really want to do?

      I raised my daughter to not be afraid to say no and mean it. To tell these abusers to take a hike, don't be manipulated into doing things you don't want to. If they don't respect you, they are not worth dealing with. Don't suffer fools who disrespect you and above all, respect yourself enough to say "NO WAY scumbag!" and mean it regardless who's asking or what position they hold.

      What gets me, after reading the article is how the professor expected this not to come back and destroy what career he had left, He is or was rather, a respected MIT professor. Was it ego of the narcissistic abuser's mind compounded by the fact that if this had been a pattern with him throughout his career he had never been called on it or is this particular professor on the long slow slide into senility and dementia?

      I am forced to wonder.

      What the professor did was not ok, and despite the fact that most of us would inject ourselves into the hypothetical situation and say we would have done this or that (which can be a healthy mental exercise provided we keep it to ourselves when we are done.) Victim shaming is not ok! Learning from the experiences of others is the name of the game.

      The article did state that the student had prior instances of abuse and that can be challenging to get over and not fall into patterns that sometimes send subtle clues to abusers that they can get away with it more than likely. The line of communication is not so cut and dry, analogous to court room exchanges. ("So tell me Mr Wilson, when did you stop beating your wife"? type of back handed crap) I feel for the victim here and realize this is part of the recovery process, though don't mistake if for being her lashing out at men in general, in the case of this professor, that ship sailed years ago and his career is over. As far as you and me, as men, learning to spot the subtle signs of abuse and watching out for those around us, as friends and acquaintances is the way of the gentleman. To do otherwise is to participate in the victim mentality.

    3. Re:Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      I see your point and I'd like to add one. Unless this was done in private, this kind of behavior is going to be pretty obvious to anybody looking on. If you see something like this underway, even if it's not something you are involved in, you do have a responsibility to say something. All to often the helpless are left that way because people around them didn't care enough to give them a hand. I've seen it in the school yard with children and as an adult...

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    4. Re:Respect yourself by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Your daughter would obviously have a lot more power playing the helpless victim, you're doing a poor job preparing her to get ahead in life. It's not too late, have her send me some pics...

    5. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good luck getting anyone of any gender to speak up in defense of a man being harassed.

    6. Re:Respect yourself by preaction · · Score: 1

      I'm glad you live in a world without fear where all people can stand up and make a stand for what's right and doing so makes all the evil that humans do go away. I do not live in that world. I live in the real world.

      In the real world, if you make a stand, you better be ready to get knocked on your ass. Not everyone wants that. In fact, some people have learned not to stand up, because every time they did, they got knocked on their ass. We call these people victims of abuse.

      So, we all came together and said "These things are wrong, so we'll punish people who do them." Now not everyone has to take a stand themselves, alone, we can all stand together (or at least enough of us).

      So you've blamed the victim and the victim's parents/upbringing. Strangely, an abuse victim had trouble dealing assertively with a new abusive situation.

      Thankfully and correctly, you also blamed the perpetrator, and are raising a daughter that will hopefully never find herself in her own personal Kobayashi Maru.

    7. Re:Respect yourself by drinkypoo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Look ladies, yea I'm a middle aged white male, but why do some of you let these things happen to you? [...] I raised my daughter to not be afraid to say no and mean it.

      With an attitude like that, it's clear that if your daughter does have something like this (or worse) happen to her, she's not going to tell you. But I guess ignorance is bliss, huh?

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    8. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Where is the outcry for the way this woman was raised?

      You mean the fact, mentioned in the article, that she was abused as a child?
      What's your point, really? Because it sounds like you are saying she chose to be a victim.

    9. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      More like just make sure to vett anyone you become sexually interested in before you even attempt to date, or become involved in any kind of relationship with them because they aren't responsible for their own actions. The woman was fine with the relationship until she found out the guy wasn't exclusive to her which makes me doubt that the professor is guilty of anything but possibly violating the schools own rules on relationships and being a CAD. It all depends on the schools rules though because if she wasn't paying money she may not even be considered a student.

    10. Re:Respect yourself by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      What gets me, after reading the article is how the professor expected this not to come back and destroy what career he had left, He is or was rather, a respected MIT professor. Was it ego of the narcissistic abuser's mind compounded by the fact that if this had been a pattern with him throughout his career he had never been called on it or is this particular professor on the long slow slide into senility and dementia?

      I am forced to wonder.

      I think some people just can't handle the transition from physical to virtual space without maintaining the same level of civility and decency. Many a person who could be polite and respectable when you talk to them face to face become dickbags when they're talking online to people hundreds or thousands of miles away.

    11. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Was it ego of the narcissistic abuser's mind compounded by the fact that if this had been a pattern with him throughout his career he had never been called on it...

      The best working definition of "power" that I've ever heard was "immunity from consequences" -- the more power you have the more consequences you can "pay off" with that power. That's why you hear about spoiled rich kids, they get spoiled because they have not had to experience consequences. Same thing with guys like Sandusky and Cosby, etc. They all had power that shielded them from the consequences of their actions. The thing about having power is it begins to feel like "normal' - if your personal experience for years and even decades is to be shielded from consequences you begin to believe that there are no consequences.

      When that day, if it ever comes, that you do have face the consequences it genuinely feels unfair because, after years of training by direct personal experience, you genuinely believe that the world should not work that way. You don't recognize your privilege, you just think that privilege is actually normal and losing it is the actual injustice.

    12. Re:Respect yourself by gweihir · · Score: 1

      Well said.

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    13. Re:Respect yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was my comment you quoted,

      I have experienced with some abusive people in authority (not sexual abusers, but certainly pathological narcissists, essentially authority figures who are under the delusion that their shit doesn't stink.) when called on abusive behavior, generally come back with something along the lines that the victim was being over sensitive, or took the comments out of context or worse has an axe to grind with them for personal gain.It is funny sometimes how some of these people can say something abusive that when repeated as just the words sounds benign, but if you hear them say it in the moment, their tone while saying it speaks volumes about what they are about. They even have a way of implying innocently that I would be a character assassin by saying that last sentence. I wonder if they actually believe what they are saying or if it is all an act they have practiced and perfected till they are convinced that they can get away with anything and consequences are something for other people but not them. In my view, people generally have personal conflict between doing things that feel good, (Id) Look good to others, (Ego) and are ethically right (super Ego) and when the alarm goes off in the morning, the fight begins. Over the years my approach to dealing with these types mirrors the Bushido code, usually from me the worst insult is to be either ignored or walked away from when others go off the deep end. I view walking away as preferable to fighting or getting revenge. (Insult rather than injure, injure rather than mame, mame rather than kill. There is a 0th step here and that is what my mom taught me, that thing about: "If you don't have anything polite to say, don't say anything." or in the case of physical fights, just run like hell! sometimes that is sage advice.Knowing when to break this rule is also a definition of wisdom. In the case of self defense, if you take revenge and ego and maliciousness out of the equation, when someone attacks you, your first order of business is to take away their ability to hurt you, whatever that might mean but usually it is not involved with hurting them unless they give you no other option. It is rare that there are not options if you know how to recognize them.)

      Whether it is that they truly think this is normal as you put it, or they know better and just do what has worked for them in the past (trading power for lack of consequence as you put it, though over time this type of thing does have it's limits) or just knows how to game the system and doesn't care , this is the blurred line between the pathological narcissist and the garden variety sociopath respectively. It doesn't help matters that society tends to fall for the game of both types when it comes to advancement up the corporate ladder, however just because one has success it doesn't follow on the fact of success alone that they are narcissists or sociopaths. I also believe that narcissists and to some degree sociopaths can reform themselves if the make the effort to change. The thing is, in both working and personal relationships, once trust is violated, it is like something is broken in such a way that it can never totally be fixed. This professor will have this story attached to his name for the rest of his days.

      As I alluded to in my previous post, I wonder what sort of confusion of ideas in this professor's mind led him to believe this was not going to come back on him and do serious damage to his career and reputation. It is easy to just fall back to the "he is an idiot" riff and be done with it, but this guy didn't get to where he was by being stupid or lacking social skills. MIT is not a community college, they have rigorous standards for both faculty and students. Some might say he was thinking with his dick, and they might be right, however I still wonder what changed to make such a successful professor put himself in a position to throw away all that he has spent his life working for. I have wondered this about other successful individuals(and in some cases seemingly,

    14. Re:Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      I'm glad you live in a world without fear where all people can stand up and make a stand for what's right and doing so makes all the evil that humans do go away. I do not live in that world. I live in the real world.

      Where did I say evil goes away when you assert yourself? What I did say is that many evil men will seek other prey that is easier to catch and you will spare yourself such troubles as this article describes. Or are you supposing that women should be doormats for men to wipe their feet on?

      Evil can and will find you regardless of who you are, but you can make yourself less of a target and avoid much trouble if you think about the situation and prepare for the likely problems you may encounter. Might you still end up in a no-win series of events? Perhaps, but if you have done everything you can to avoid it, you will have no blame in being a part of it.

      I'm just saying that you should do what you can to avoid being a target and in this case a bit of self respect would have certainly helped.

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    15. Re:Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      LOL

      I think I can speak for her when I say, "bugger off scumbag!"

      If that doesn't work for you, the 12 Ga shotgun in the gun safe should suffice to hold you at bay until the police arrive.

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    16. Re: Respect yourself by preaction · · Score: 1

      So you are blaming the victim. Congratulations, you're a terrible person.

    17. Re: Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      Yea, sure. Actually I'm saying that in this case, being a victim was avoidable by simply refusing to allow oneself to be victimized, not that the perpetrator who preyed on week vulnerable women wasn't to blame... But don't let common sense invade your sense of Political Correctness....

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    18. Re: Respect yourself by preaction · · Score: 1

      I thought I exactly explained why someone might do something considered irrational. You said you're raising your daughter to be assertive, and that's great! Not everyone has someone who raised them to be assertive! So this "Oh, just refuse to be a victim!" is complete bullshit.

    19. Re: Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      Not everyone has someone who raised them to be assertive! So this "Oh, just refuse to be a victim!" is complete bullshit.

      I don't know what world you live in, but in mine I have a responsibility for a lot of what happens to me. You don't go out on an ice covered lake until the ice is thick enough or you don't get to complain about falling in. You don't speed though school zones and complain when a kid walks in front of your car.

      There are times you cannot avoid being a victim because the situation is out of your control, but there ARE times when you CAN avoid it. One should be wary of situations where risks are being taken and protect yourself, slow down in school zones, don't walk on ice covered lakes and in this case don't send nudie pictures to your professor when he tries to pressure you into it.

      But instead of empowering women and encouraging them to be assertive we get folks like you who want to claim they couldn't help it and thus are not responsible in anyway for being a victim. Next you will tell me that the shoplifter couldn't help it, or the mass murder isn't responsible for his behavior because of how they where raised. I'm sorry, but this doesn't wash with me. Adults are adults and should be held responsible for their actions and these women victims where in part responsible for allowing themselves to be victims in a situation where they clearly could have avoided it. Be a bit more assertive and don't be a victim all the time.

      Don't get me wrong, this professor is largely to blame for his actions in seeking out and manipulating these women, but they wouldn't have been easy targets had they been a bit more assertive and wouldn't have been victims today had they just said no to the pervert.

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      "File to fit, pound to insert, paint to match" - Aircraft Maintenance 101
    20. Re: Respect yourself by preaction · · Score: 1

      We're going in circles now, and you keep putting words in my mouth.

      Funny enough, there are reasons people steal. Doesn't make stealing right. People don't become mass murderers without some extremely fucked-up shit happening. Doesn't mean we shouldn't lock them up. But this analogy is terrible, because the woman violated no law by sending nude pictures to someone.

      What you're saying is akin to saying that a murder _victim_ should be blamed, just a little bit, for being in the place where a murder was happening, and that's bullshit. Or that a mugging victim should be blamed, just a little, for handing over their wallet when faced with a gun, or a knife, which is equally bullshit. Or that someone in a subordinate position, like a student, should be blamed for doing what someone in a position of authority, like a professor, told them they had to do (and since sharing pictures is legal, as I mentioned in the previous paragraph, Godwin's Law doesn't apply here).

      So when someone (I'll use "she" in this example) is told to take nude pictures or she'll fail the class, or she'll get fired from her job, or she'll go to jail, or she'll be killed, it's her fault if she capitulates, but not her fault if she fails her class, or gets fired from her job, or goes to jail, or dies?

      Anticipating the next go-round this circle: "Well, failing the class isn't as bad as dying, so you're blowing things out of proportion." Do we know her academic situation? Was this a required class? Was she on a scholarship or financial aid (they've got pretty strict performance requirements)? Is there really no reason she might think that the consequences of not doing what the professor said would be worse than doing what the professor said? Can you not imagine any scenario?

    21. Re: Respect yourself by bobbied · · Score: 1

      You are right, we go around the bush again... I'm tired of that so lets just stick to the situation at hand.

      If the victim's truly "couldn't help it" then they are going to be victims forever and are not worthy of blame, they can't help it after all. However, that also means they are incapable of NOT being a victim and should be monitored like children to protect them from being victimized again. I have a younger sister who is handicapped and requires constant supervision to keep her from these kinds of dangers. I don't blame her, but we have to monitor her for her safety. But I don't see where these women where disabled in a way where they "couldn't help" doing what they did and I don't see them as helpless enough to require monitoring like my sister.

      You see, your view excuses them from any blame and leaves them with a "I'm just a victim, and I'll always be a victim" perspective. Mine says, "You let somebody do a bad thing to you. Next time say NO! because you don't deserve to be treated that way, you don't need to be a victim next time."

      Which perspective will lead these women to something better? I think it's mine because I'm encouraging them to recognize that they have control over things like this, they CAN say no. You just tell them they are blameless victims that couldn't help it so when it happens again, they are just as powerless as they where the first time to stop it. To me, that's just SAD.

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  15. Unprofessional by Iamthecheese · · Score: 2

    Whether or not there was a promise of quid quo, to trade dirty pictures with someone who is presently one's student is unacceptable. But you know what? I'm so numb from the constant barrage of social justice stories that I just don't give a shit anymore. Enough already.

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    1. Re:Unprofessional by preaction · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry that the world is not yet sunshine and light and that we can't just ignore gender issues and sexual orientation issue like we can race issues.

    2. Re:Unprofessional by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 1

      One random guy being sent photos does not a gender issue make. If you want to talk about gender issues maybe we can talk about the actual epidemic of female teachers raping male and female students in high schools, how about that for a conversation we need to have. Because that's what happens when you create a narrative that puts people into jobs based on their genitalia instead of their merit. You sanctimonious little pricks speak only, and I do mean only, for your revolting little cult.

    3. Re:Unprofessional by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      . If you want to talk about gender issues maybe we can talk about the actual epidemic of female teachers raping male and female students in high schools

      Well yeah, actually, you should submit that story to Slashdot. I'd love to see the comments we get from it. Pull out the popcorn.

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      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    4. Re:Unprofessional by preaction · · Score: 1

      Thank you for burning down the straw me, because he was getting far too much of my paycheck. But if you continue to tilt at windmills, neither the issues you raise nor the issues others raise will ever get addressed.

      But... They might be giants...

    5. Re:Unprofessional by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whether or not there was a promise of quid quo, to trade dirty pictures with someone who is presently one's student is unacceptable.

      She was "his student" in the same way that watching a porn flick is "having sex". That is, the problem here is an unreasonable extension of the meaning of the word "student".

  16. Re:Why is this site turning into SJWdot ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Slashdot has been my home page for more than 15 years, but now i'm seriously considering throwing it away in favor of a real tech site that's actually "news for nerds" and not "why you nerds should feel ashamed of your kind", I care about science and tech, not about the hurt feelings of random people I've never heard about before.

    I am with you there, welcome aboard the starship USS Sick of Slashdot's shit..

    anyone else coming?

  17. What power? by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    i think the argument is that she couldn't refuse since the professor was in a position of power.

    I didn't think the grades from these courses counted for anything (if they even were grades) so where exactly did the power come from? She was under no obligation to keep up with the course and if someone started asking me fore nudes I'd just learn physics some other way.

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    "There is more worth loving than we have strength to love." - Brian Jay Stanley
    1. Re:What power? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They were ungraded, uncredited courses.
      You take them for pure self-advancement and nothing more.
      There is no position of power of the professor. No cost, no risk, no reward. It's a neutral event.
      It's just as if another student just messaged her on facebook, and email and tried to get naked photos.
      The correct response is to reponse would be to say "Yea, get lost" (or variant), or just simply block/delete the message and move on with life.

    2. Re:What power? by Em+Adespoton · · Score: 1

      I didn't think the grades from these courses counted for anything (if they even were grades) so where exactly did the power come from?

      That's addressed in the article. I'll leave RTFA to the person willing to make an argument/ask a question that takes the entire article into account.

    3. Re:What power? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      her emotional problems should not change the legality of the thing...

    4. Re:What power? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, so exploiting the weak should be legal, as long as trying to do the same thing to normal, healthy people would fail?

    5. Re:What power? by alvinrod · · Score: 1

      There may have been a perception of power which may be enough. Either way, it's incredibly stupid for someone in his position to get involved at all with a current student. Even if everything is consensual and above board, there will always people people who wonder or look at it suspiciously and it certainly has the chance to blow up in a person's face.

      Given that everything apparently happened over the internet, there should at least be enough of a paper trail to sort out what actually happened or even have exact records of what was said.

    6. Re:What power? by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
      Since the FA doesn't mention it, what is his side of the story?

      Or is a failure to make comments to biased sources an admission of guilty in violation of legal principal, and not something that would be proffered were the genders reversed?

      At his age, what mental effects could the professor be experiencing?

      Does the FA mention that?

      See, the FA to which you refer leaves out a great deal, and is extremely one-sided. Which is why you like the FA, but this is merely a manifestation of your own personal bias, which is probably pretty obvious, no?

    7. Re:What power? by Em+Adespoton · · Score: 1

      I think your comment just exemplified your reasoning, being extremely one-sided. All I said is that the answer to "where does that power come from" could be seen in the article. I said nothing about the abysmal quality of the article itself.

      So maybe my personal bias is even less obvious than where the power comes from?

      Critical thinking please people, even when the information available is somewhat limited and mangled.

  18. holy shit, slashdot has gone off the deep end by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    it's one thing to bash the stupid articles complaining about how their aren't enough white chicks in programming or whatever, but this shit is straight up sexual harassment. Of course, this shit happens just as often if not more with "liberal arts" professors, so no this isn't why "there are so few women in STEM" but it's just creepy and unprofessional bullshit. I work in education, I know there are a lot of, pardon the frankness, "slutty" women who come on to you, but dude, have some fucking professionalism, especially as some MIT bigshot....again, disgusting.

    1. Re:holy shit, slashdot has gone off the deep end by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's one thing to bash the stupid articles complaining about how their aren't enough white chicks in programming or whatever, but this shit is straight up sexual harassment. Of course, this shit happens just as often if not more with "liberal arts" professors, so no this isn't why "there are so few women in STEM" but it's just creepy and unprofessional bullshit. I work in education, I know there are a lot of, pardon the frankness, "slutty" women who come on to you, but dude, have some fucking professionalism, especially as some MIT bigshot....again, disgusting.

      Victim shaming is not ok so knock it off, you are not contributing anything useful by pointing out the "Slutty" women who come on to you in that profession, regardless of what their intent is. Why there are so few women in STEM is out of the scope of this article and discussion. We are in agreement that the professor's conduct leaves a world to be desired, and his career is basically over. As far as MIT, I consider them a very respected organization so it is on them to innovate to the end of providing an example of how universities can fulfill their responsibility to provide a safe and harassment free learning environment, regardless of the form of the environment. (online or classroom.) Sexual harassment is a nationwide issue that is starting to come under increasing scrutiny of late so there is an opportunity here for MIT to shine in how they handle this moving forward.

    2. Re:holy shit, slashdot has gone off the deep end by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So can i complain about sexual harassment when women come on to me? Or as a man am I suppose to think it's cool? Don't want to be called a slut? Don't sexually harass the staff.

    3. Re:holy shit, slashdot has gone off the deep end by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wait, which one of them is the victim again??

    4. Re:holy shit, slashdot has gone off the deep end by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
      Nice. Real compassionate. Way to show some empathy for a man who is obviously experiencing age-related mental issues.

      People that age are not responsible for their actions, and I'm sick and tired of people like you making excuses for elderly abuse.

      Blame the victim. Blame the victim. It's all you people can do. Makes me sick.

  19. More like Stormdot IMO by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you ask me it's the hysterical MRAs and islamophobes who are the ones that have been getting out of hand recently. Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out.

  20. Re:Why is this site turning into SJWdot ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    anyone else coming?

    Nope, not even breathing heavy.

  21. Re:Why is this site turning into SJWdot ? by guises · · Score: 2

    I grant that I wouldn't want endless stories about this sort of thing, but Walter Lewin is a special case. He's possibly the most celebrated (relatively) current physics lecturer there is - if you have any interest at all you should seek out some of the videos of his lectures, they are terrific. And that's reasonably nerdy. It's also MOOC (massive open online course) related, and that's a new thing and internet-centric.

    I appreciate this update to the previous story about his removal, the lack of any sort of real explanation left me with a rather bitter taste in my mouth. It still... the new story says that all of the evidence of his transgression came from his accuser, which... well. It would have been nice if they had thrown in a line about confirming the chat logs with Facebook, and an additional something about confirming that it was indeed him who said / sent these things and not just someone who had access to his account (when I worked at a distance learning program, I had access to all of the faculties' account pages - this is what the article says he used as proof of his identity to the student). But I'm able to make the assumption that the people investigating this are not completely incompetent. I had come away from the previous story unclear on just how this harassment had taken place, so the new story gives me a bit of satisfaction in that this was indeed unacceptable behavior.

  22. Suggested replacement videos? by Ayars · · Score: 1

    I'm a physics professor at a mid-sized non-MIT university. I teach introductory physics using a "flipped" classroom, and I have in the past used Lewin's 8.01 lectures on YouTube as one of several online learning references for my students.

    They are really good lectures, and I consider them a valuable tool for my students. But I also agree with MIT's decision to remove them from the OCW site: Lewin's alleged behavior is reprehensible and I do not want to promote him in my course.

    So my question is, can anyone here suggest a replacement for his set of 8.01 lecture videos? I've found a few online, but nothing so far that is as high-quality as what I've been using from MIT. Suggestions are welcome! (and no, Khan Academy isn't there yet.)

    Murphy's law: the semester started this week.

    1. Re:Suggested replacement videos? by captainproton1971 · · Score: 1

      I am very much in a similar situation and have made the same decision re: use of his videos in my course. That said, though, his lecture videos were fantastic in a flipped classroom context. I haven't found a single source that covers the same material at a similar level. It's possible to piece together an entire course by offerings on YouTube a module at a time, but it's an extremely long process. Sadly, the signal to noise level wrt introductory physics is extremely low.

  23. The Bill & Walt Show by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Lewin needs to hook up with Bill Cosby!
    They are both natural entertainers.
    They could score SRO crowds and probably make millions on the film rights.
    Stand up comedy and physics - this is Nobel material.

  24. Where is it addressed in EITHER article by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    That's addressed in the article.

    The fact you say "The article" makes me wonder if you read either. There are two...

    The thing is, I read both articles. Neither of them address the position of power issue. One says "she felt trapped". But how? That makes NO SENSE when you can so easily block or otherwise ignore people communicating solely over social media, which offer many means for blocking annoying people. There is no means of trapping someone.

    I would understand how someone might "feel trapped" if they were a student attending a college into which they had put forward substantial tuition. I would understand if they were to gain credit from a course needed to move forward in education. Even just being in physical proximity I could see it. There are a lot of circumstances in which I can image someone feeling trapped in some way, where there was a small amount of power to leverage - but not in this case. The course was free, the grades if any counted for nothing. The moment the contact started getting lewd the person should have broke off contact, and could easily have done so.

    I'll leave the RRTFA to the person willing to make an argument/ask a question that takes the entire article into account, as you have utterly failed to do.

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    "There is more worth loving than we have strength to love." - Brian Jay Stanley
    1. Re:Where is it addressed in EITHER article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you've put weeks or months into a project then you are invested. It doesn't matter if the course is for credits or just personal growth, you've already put both the time and mental commitment into it. The guy could have wiped all record of it and blocked her from finishing. That's a lot more personal than threatening to take away course credits because those are just numbers on paper.

  25. Re:Why is this site turning into SJWdot ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    anyone else coming?

    Nope, not even breathing heavy.

    out the airlock with you then, we will see how heavy you breathe then. Remember rule 31 of the internet on your way out along with the late David Carradine.
    Ha ha ha!

  26. Forced to Post Nude Photos/Videos and Role-Play by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "she was pushed to participate in online sexual role-playing and send naked pictures and videos of herself."

    Are we to believe she could not refuse to participate much less withdraw from the MOOC at her own discretion?

  27. fubeta by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    sucks dog balls

  28. Of course it is stupid. From both sides. by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    There may have been a perception of power which may be enough

    How? That does not seem reasonable.

    Either way, it's incredibly stupid for someone in his position to get involved at all with a current student.

    What he did is INCREDIBLY stupid. I'm not saying he does not bear primary fault in this. He had the most to lose also, it was just idiotic. Although if you were playing devils advocate, couldn't you claim he had a sexual addiction that compelled him to ask? That sounds as reasonable as saying the women had some kind of illness that compelled them to submit; in fact his actions speak even more strongly to there being a mental issue that overrode strong rational and moral reasons not to act as he did. The potential impact to him was proportionality much greater than any one of the women, exactly because of his position and status - and yet he appears to have contacted hundreds of women. How can you look at that and not claim he was mentally ill?

    What the women did was stupid also though. They had no reason to send him nude images or video. At any time they could have simply ceased communication, and gotten what they wanted (physics education) from some other source.

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  29. predator by jsepeta · · Score: 1

    typical predatory behavior, singles out the weak from the pack to dine on it later.

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    1. Re:predator by gweihir · · Score: 1

      That is why the weak have no business being out and about unprotected. The simple matter of the fact is that it is not possible to identify and contain even a majority of all predators. Not at all. Ignore reality and you get hurt. I do agree that morally things should be different, but they are not and cannot be made so.

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  30. huh? by argStyopa · · Score: 2, Insightful

    A 32 year old woman took a year to recognize that the harassment "started day one", and when she was "pushed" by her PHYSICS professor to participate in online sexual roleplay and send naked pictures (which she did?) she didn't comprehend that his interest in her might be more than academic?

    At what age is someone expected to be able to deploy the word "no" on their own behalf?

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    1. Re:huh? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      At what age is someone expected to be able to deploy the word "no" on their own behalf?

      At what age is someone expected not to take advantage of the weak? Oh right, in our modern extractive corporatist reality, never.

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    2. Re:huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A 32 year old woman took a year to recognize that the harassment "started day one"

      I was thinking something similar. Unless some form of obscure innuendo was used, as an adult, she should have been able to tell at the time whether or not the professor's language was inappropriate. That it took a year of convincing makes me think she was brainwashed into believing that those first few conversations contained "inappropriate language".

    3. Re:huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At whatevER age they grow a penis. Until then, the vagina grants all excuse from responsibility. Women are always the total victim, just the way feminists like it.

    4. Re:huh? by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
      Males, age 4. Females. Never.

      Kind of puts that whole wage gap thing into perspective.

    5. Re:huh? by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      If you are suggesting that the sole reason that people take advantage of someone - particularly in a male/female sexual context - is because of corporatism you're either being staggeringly disingenuous or astonishingly unaware of the say, last 100,000 years of hominid behavior, or for that matter, the behavior of mammalia, chordata, or hell, living THINGS, ever. /facepalm

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  31. Not a college kid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I think that's where you have to draw the line. I mean a college-aged girl has to get over the fact that older men will be attracted to her, and make advances. Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate.

    Just a quick note-- she wasn't a "college-aged girl"-- she was 32.

    Ultimately gender equality means others have the right to hit on her, and she has the right to tell them to fuck-off.

    And if he or she doesn't stop? This really isn't about getting the nerve up to ask for a date. This is an almost classic example of a person in a position of power finding a mark to go after.

    But, uh, he wasn't in a position with any power over her. She was a student in a not for credit, no grade course that he taught. He had no power whatsoever.

    And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them.

    Well sure. But now you're using the "she asked to be raped" stupidity.

    Warning! Warning! Strawman argument! Warning!

    She wasn't raped. She was not raped . She--voluntarily-- send him nude pictures.

    1. Re: Not a college kid by sonamchauhan · · Score: 1

      No power? She was his student and he was her teacher. Education is still education even when performed on the Internet.

    2. Re:Not a college kid by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 3, Interesting

      And if he or she doesn't stop? This really isn't about getting the nerve up to ask for a date. This is an almost classic example of a person in a position of power finding a mark to go after.

      But, uh, he wasn't in a position with any power over her. She was a student in a not for credit, no grade course that he taught. He had no power whatsoever.

      You don't understand how these things get started. If I might take na example from a recent pedophile scandal.

      Jerry Sandusky was a well known and loved football coach who ran a foundation and housing for "at risk" children.

      In his foundation, where he was around a lot of young boys, he could find ones who were vulnerable in one way or another. Long and short of it is that through coercing them over a period of time, he eventually molested them.

      He knew how to hunt. Most kids would give him a kick in the nuts or just avoid him, but those with the specific vulnerability ended up molested.

      These people know how to find people they can manipulate. Whether she was flattered at first, or a little insecure - I don't know. But a lot of people are, and that doesn't excuse him in the least.

      Eventually she found it way beyond the pale, and decided enough was enough. And if you RTFA she is not the only one. He's definitely sleazy. There are places that people can go if they want that sort of thing, either on the internet or in person. Then both parties are willing participants.

      Warning! Warning! Strawman argument! Warning!

      She wasn't raped.

      God, on slashdot any disagreement is called a "straw man" I know straw men,, and that was no straw man

      I suspect a degree of obtuseness here. So lets do the long form.

      No one deserves getting hauled into a sexual situation against their will. In my response to

      And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them. I was saying, in a time honored fashion, but one that apparently needs dumbed down for you:

      Because a woman looks nice, or dresses nicely, or smiles at you, or even gives you a peck on the cheek, it in no way gives you the right to expect sexual favors from her, because her appearance does not give you the right for sexual favors, her clothing does not give you the right to expect sexual favors, and her basic sexuality , get ready for it......here it comes...... does not give you the right to expect sexual favors from her. Just sayin'.

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    3. Re:Not a college kid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      best post.

    4. Re:Not a college kid by Immerman · · Score: 1

      Of course he had power over her. Not much maybe, but the fact that she was taking the class instead of doing any of the other things that she could be doing with her time suggests she put some non-zero value on that education, and he was operating under the nigh-inescapable implied threat of withholding the normal teacher-student interactions necessary to get the most out of the class.

      Now sure, as you say most women would probably blow him off and either abandon the class of grit their teeth and bear it - but why should they be faced with that choice at all?

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    5. Re:Not a college kid by Zontar+The+Mindless · · Score: 1

      Just a quick note-- she wasn't a "college-aged girl"-- she was 32.

      And this matters, because...?

      She was a student [but]...

      No, just No. "She was a student." End of story.

      She wasn't raped. She was not raped .

      And no-one said that she was. She had her trust and confidence betrayed, which is what is at issue here. So who raised the strawman, again?

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    6. Re:Not a college kid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Warning! Warning! Strawman argument! Warning!

      She wasn't raped.

      God, on slashdot any disagreement is called a "straw man" I know straw men,, and that was no straw man

      You're the one who used the term rape.. we can graciously call it a slippery slope, but I agree with the grandparent that it's a strawman. It looks like you're disingenuous at the best, or you yourself are obtuse at the worst.

      I suspect a degree of obtuseness here. So lets do the long form.

      No one deserves getting hauled into a sexual situation against their will.

      No argument about the above sentence.

      And it's not as if women don't use their sex-appeal when it suits them. I was saying, in a time honored fashion, but one that apparently needs dumbed down for you:

      Because a woman looks nice, or dresses nicely, or smiles at you, or even gives you a peck on the cheek, it in no way gives you the right to expect sexual favors from her, because her appearance does not give you the right for sexual favors, her clothing does not give you the right to expect sexual favors, and her basic sexuality , get ready for it......here it comes...... does not give you the right to expect sexual favors from her.

      You cite appearance and then specify ACTIONS that she's performed (peck on the cheek?). You're an idiot. As soon as she's interacted in a positive manner with the other party in question she's pushed towards a decision tree that could end up at sex, or nothing at all. The devil is in the details and the subsequent interactions.

      If you want to talk about slippery slope, how about the peck on the cheek leads to a nice tongue kiss followed by her hand on his crotch? Does he have the right to 'expect sex' now? Why does she assume that she has the right to do this? Oh wait.. that might be a slippery slope, just like your original use of the term 'rape'.

      Just sayin'.

      This is listed as a logical fallacy on one of our law professor's door.. i.e. you've got nothing.

    7. Re:Not a college kid by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Now sure, as you say most women would probably blow him off and either abandon the class of grit their teeth and bear it - but why should they be faced with that choice at all?

      There is the third choice, which she elected to do, which is call him on it. Which she did.

      It would be nice if there were no creeps in the world, but I doubt that is ever going to happen, male of female. I have no idea how we can eliminate any and all sex from all human interactions. But you don't have to, you just work on the outliers.

      A possible reconstruction (conjecture here, based on what I have read) of the story was that she at first cooperated, then as the "requests" got worse, she reached out to see if others had fallen into this mess. Eventually she decided it wasn't "her fault" and turned the skeeve in.

      I don't work for MIT, but I'm pretty certain that they don't permit professor/student interactions like this, period. No matter if somehow it was "her fault" - he was in clear violation. You're just not allowed to do that kind of thing, for a whole range of reasons. On a human level, it is another sad case of one person taking advantage of another.

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    8. Re:Not a college kid by Immerman · · Score: 2

      Sounds plausible to me. And personally I don't think we need to eliminate sex from human interactions, we just need to figure out how to handle it gracefully. The sexual revolution fundamentally changed the rules of the game, and we still haven't really figured out a new social etiquette to handle it. I give it a few more generations, at least, before we find a new comfort zone. We are after all talking about arguably the largest social shift since the rise of patriarchy many thousands of years ago.

      However the large number of people who always chime in to these kinds of stories with variations on "she was asking for it" suggests we also have an uglier and more immediate social problem that needs to be addressed.

      And be it teachers, bosses, or parents, I agree there are good reasons to instill taboos against them sexually fraternizing with their charges. The potential for abuse is too great, and nothing compromises good judgment like desire.

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    9. Re:Not a college kid by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      You cite appearance and then specify ACTIONS that she's performed (peck on the cheek?). You're an idiot. As soon as she's interacted in a positive manner with the other party in question she's pushed towards a decision tree that could end up at sex, or nothing at all. The devil is in the details and the subsequent interactions.

      And you are insane. I have female friends who I hug, kiss, and a few who enjoy goosing me on occasion. It's never been an invitation to have sex with them. We're like - friends and stuff.

      Do you fall in love with the waitress at restaurants you go to if they smile at you?

      And I gotta tell ya Sparky, you do not interact with the ladies as if they were some sort of decision tree. They are actually human beings, just like you, only with some differences. You really sound like a desperate sort of fellow, with every interaction between you and women as some sort of game where you see every move as a way to get some action.

      Maybe you are not insane, just hopelessly pathetic.

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    10. Re:Not a college kid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds plausible to me. And personally I don't think we need to eliminate sex from human interactions, we just need to figure out how to handle it gracefully. The sexual revolution fundamentally changed the rules of the game, and we still haven't really figured out a new social etiquette to handle it. I give it a few more generations, at least, before we find a new comfort zone. We are after all talking about arguably the largest social shift since the rise of patriarchy many thousands of years ago.

      However the large number of people who always chime in to these kinds of stories with variations on "she was asking for it" suggests we also have an uglier and more immediate social problem that needs to be addressed.

      And be it teachers, bosses, or parents, I agree there are good reasons to instill taboos against them sexually fraternizing with their charges. The potential for abuse is too great, and nothing compromises good judgment like desire.

      I would wager this shift in consciousness may end up on the back burner of fallout from many, MANY shifts in consciousness on all fronts...sexuality, communication, relationships, repair vs release, philosophical, religious, you name it. The tech we delve into head first has unwittingly created a dynamic that is foreign to people outside of it. Never mind the immediate repercussions in family life, etc.

      Its a big, big shift occurring. You are very right that there is a subterranean issue in the process of being worked out...and it will take a generations to resolve.

    11. Re:Not a college kid by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because a woman looks nice, or dresses nicely, or smiles at you, or even gives you a peck on the cheek, it in no way gives you the right to expect sexual favors from her, because her appearance does not give you the right for sexual favors, her clothing does not give you the right to expect sexual favors, and her basic sexuality , get ready for it......here it comes...... does not give you the right to expect sexual favors from her. Just sayin'.

      Sure, of course. But she is aware that all of the above things (from dressing to flirting) send out the suggestion of sexual favors to coerce men into doing things they wouldn't do for someone else, and she's comfortable with that.

  32. Sorry fuckers, not trolling by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

    Women regularly don't report abuse because they think they're going to be treated badly if they do, including being asked why they didn't do this or that to protect themselves. That kind of insult added to injury is actually another injury.

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    1. Re:Sorry fuckers, not trolling by serviscope_minor · · Score: 0

      Pretty much anyone not being a mysoginistic asshole on these threads gets modded troll. Somehow the MRAs/RedPiller's have got a whole load of mod points.

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    2. Re:Sorry fuckers, not trolling by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Well, I get enough up-mods to where I can afford some (-1, SJW) mods in this thread. These threads are regularly where I use my karma. Here and in Mac threads :)

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    3. Re:Sorry fuckers, not trolling by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Hahah! Me too. These threads are fun and I'm not going to sit around quietly while people claims that somehow social justice is a bad thing.

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  33. Where... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... can I download the pictures?

  34. Loss to the world- one of the best professors ever by yinzara · · Score: 1
    No one is talking about the loss to everyone else in the world (and MIT students) that this situation has caused.

    I took 8.02 with Professor Lewin when I was at MIT. Before that class I despised physics in every way but Professor Lewin changed my views. He was one of my most gifted professors at MIT (and that's saying something).

    While I understand MIT needs to discipline him, taking his emeritus title and removing all of his courseware from MOOC is a HUGE loss to the world as a whole.

    If this girl had come forward when this all began, more than likely this would have been a much smaller issue that would have warranted less of a dramatic result. I'm not blaming the victim in this case, I'm just saying that MIT could have handled this much better.

  35. Mentally ill woman flirts with man etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    She then finds out he has other "friends".

    At this point she decides it was harassment.

    She as a strong empowered womin has no agency and no responsibility for her actions.

    He as a man is held responsible.

    She goes back to cutting herself, being depressed, responding to 'triggers' basically the whole nine yards of screwed-up-ness.

    1. Re:Mentally ill woman flirts with man etc by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And throughout the whole thing there was no physical contact between them. The course did not even have grades, so it is not clear what 'power' he supposedly had over her.

  36. What the MIT investigators did... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Alternate hypothesis:
    How about someone at MIT was investigating and looking to dig up dirt on the guy and they coerced a simple minded foreign student to claim that the professor was evil.

  37. Invalid argument by s.petry · · Score: 1

    Though I am not surprised. Assuming everything happened as TFA stated, how was the alleged professor to know that she had psychological problems? He can't, and if her problems were so severe why is her family/medical care worker, etc.. letting her unsupervised on a web page? You are giving her all of the benefit of the doubt, but not the other way around. You are severely lacking in empathy in your post, and if this is your true feelings I'll suggest a mental health exam.

    Forget MIT for a moment and take this for what it is, internet web sites providing content and chat. Not very different from what Facebook does, or Google+, or even Twitter for that matter. If you meet someone online and ask for naked pictures and they comply, are you supposed to have done an extensive background check on them? Given that there is anonymity and you don't even know that the person is who they say they are (remember she didn't even know if it was the real guy or not due to the nature of the system). If you want to hold that viewpoint fine, but it had best be unilateral.

    A huge issue in this case is that we don't see any evidence, only anecdote and allegation. Given that we have had several Universities falsely accuse people of crimes (see fraudulent sexual assault cases) there is an issue of trust here which the University is not meeting.

    Plausible, perhaps, but I still believe that a person should be presumed innocent until proven otherwise. You know, the same way our legal system is supposed to be working but isn't. Without proof, and without trust in the system, I refuse to condemn the guy.

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    -The wise argue that there are few absolutes, the fool argues that there are no probabilities.

  38. Now you are creeping me out. by westlake · · Score: 1

    I mean a college-aged girl has to get over the fact that older men will be attracted to her, and make advances. Just because she's creeped-out by it, doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate. Ultimately gender equality means others have the right to hit on her...

    I read a line like this and all I can think of is the ton of crap dumped on my sisters when they entered graduate schools focused on careers in male-dominant professions.

  39. Re:Loss to the world- one of the best professors e by gweihir · · Score: 1

    While that will not be well received here, I do agree that victims requiring the world to be tailored to their needs are a force of destruction.

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  40. shouldn't be a legal case by silfen · · Score: 1

    Lewin's behavior may have been creepy and disgusting if the allegations turn out to be true. MIT is also fully within its rights to sever ties with Lewin for any reason.

    But as far as I can tell, Lewin had no power over the student; the course was free and open, and participation was voluntary. There shouldn't be any legal case or any Title IX case here.

  41. Re:Loss to the world- one of the best professors e by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I agree that the fact that he was such a good lecturer, and made his lectures freely available to the public, makes this even more of a tragedy. The summary doesn't mention his first name, just Lewin. I was thinking to myself as I clicked the link "Please don't be Walter Lewin, please don't be Walter Lewin." What a disappointment. His lectures are still available on youtube and other sites though, and as bad as this news is, I hope his lectures can be judged on their own merit and continue to be available.

  42. Just goes to show... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you're a physics professor and you're not getting enough tail, you can be a rock star physics professor, and maybe you'll get away with all your shenanigans for a while. But if you really want to live a hedonistic exploitative amoral lifestyle without getting punished, you chose the wrong profession. You need to be a genuine rock star. If you can't give up physics, best thing to do is to go on a hiatus with your degree, start an arena rock band, and then finish your degree after you're famous, rich, flabby, and old. That way if you can get a professorship, you can make all those tenured, accomplished lecherous old farts feel really jealous and inadequate when the coeds are around.

    Humanity sucks.

  43. Compassion by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
    Only extends to the female, and I don't know what anyone would be honest if they said that this was the case less than 100% of the time.

    See, the thing about "compassion", and the reason that it's in such short supply, is that men don't get any, and you tend to get what you give in life.

    This was an old man. This are not the normal actions of an old man. What would compel him to do such things? Dementia? Early-stages of Alzheimers? Some past traumatic event in his life. Even perversion is a sign of potential mental deviance, almost none of which is voluntary.

    What if she took advantage of him? Old man, young woman, it's not hard to see how he may have been flattered. And his patterns with other women certainly show he had some weird proclivity toward it all. That he was a sucker for younger women. That they could easily make him think they were attracted to him and this somehow elicited a response in him.

    But, there is no compassion. None. Men commit suicide 4x more often than women (yet women get treated more often for depression), and this is a large reason why. Women enjoy very benefit of the doubt, and men are held fully accountable for everything that they do, without any sympathy whatsoever for the things that have effected them in their own life.

    And people crow about "compassion".

    Compassion does not discriminate, and if you do, you're not truly compassionate. Compassion requires that we hold the un-proven guilty as innocent, because it would be cruel to do otherwise. The mob always favors the popular explanation.

    And if this situation is one of "power", I would say it's the weakest example that I've personally ever seen. You can always extrapolate some power imbalance if you look hard enough. Frankly, I don't think I should be held to any of the contracts I've signed. I have ADHD and do not read them all. My weaknesses are being exploited to financially enslave me, yet, who speaks out for me? I've been homeless before, and my fear of being homeless again causes me to do all kinds of shit I don't want to do for my employer. Fucker is totally exploiting my fears.

    So, she had issues. Well, guess what, nearly half of American women are on some form of psychiatric medication. That's 50% of women who cannot be held accountable for their actions. Take that, potential employers.

    And how is it that this woman is from a culture that discourages speaking out, yet, she's been speaking out for over a year. Kind of contradicts that whole claim, eh?

    No, no, let me guess, it was the third Tuesday under a full moon when she sent the pictures, clearly, CLEARLY causing her to be more passive and yada yada yada.

    Alright. As long as this same extreme, contorted, heavily-clauses, benefit-of-the-doubt is given to everyone but, oh wait, it's not.

    And you're all evil for not going along with the thought-control experiment.

    That's my position anyway.

  44. but what about..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    maybe she saw some other online course takers (coeds) in his contact/friend list and became jealous....and so began the victim/entrapment crap? ....jus saying

    1. Re:but what about..... by meta-monkey · · Score: 1

      Who knows? Who cares? It's against the MIT code of conduct to solicit your students for sex. Just like every other organization in the developed world. For just these reasons.

      At your job, I recommend not soliciting the customers or those employees who report to you for sex.

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  45. I tried this comment too.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    looks like nobody here wants to discuss this possible angle....why, that's not nice at all!

  46. Re:Loss to the world- one of the best professors e by PhrekePapaYing · · Score: 1
    Please stop saying that MIT needs to discipline two consenting adults, and yes, consent must be implied here otherwise society as a whole could not function. Every contract which included an element of power or coercion (goddamn Google+ finally tricked me into getting an account!!!) would have to be invalidated, which is pretty much all of them.

    The economy would stop dead in it's tracks. It is simply an untenable position, and I think that deep-down, everyone knows it. It's a product of affluent-white fantasy-land where every annoyance of a female is equated with the holocaust.

    Using such a standard of non-responsibility if one has any issues, leaves 50% of women out of decision-making positions, as this is how many are taking some form of psychiatric medication. It's a misogynists wet-dream.

    The professor should not be disciplined, and the creepy women should be held to account for her actions every bit as much as the professor.

    It's amazing where people find strength once you stop infantilizing them. Some people want to keep woman infantilized because they are easier to control that way.

    Oh, and this woman's culture has not prevented her from speaking out. I would say that argument has been duly rebutted. And her concern for "the other victims" is so laughable, that anyone who believes it is not someone with a high degree of wisdom.

  47. welcome to censorship at slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    just posting that you will never see 0, these comments just get buried

  48. is it or is it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    depends on your definition of is

  49. Sexual disinhibition in frontotemporal dementia. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    His misbehaviour is the early signs that he is dying. MIT should be ashamed of how they have handled this.

    http://jgp.sagepub.com/content/18/3/155.short

    http://journals.lww.com/cogbehavneurol/Abstract/2004/09000/Prevalence_and_Clinical_Correlates_of.4.aspx

    etc.

  50. off topic tangent... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Its becoming clearer and clearer in my mind how the larger media/system/social dynamics are creating a situation where no one can say anything about anyone. If you say something wrong, and someone who -- regardless of their involvement in the conversation, eavesdropping or passer by -- disagrees with your view, is somehow able to demonize and lift you on a platform to be socially mocked for your insensitivity. Leveraging this ability, creates a mob mentality around the issue and then further divides, but then the opposite side deamonizes the other until both sides won't speak, and the issue at large is a taboo that shall not be named.

    Somehow this has to go somewhere...people are people, they will have thoughts, they could have things they want to say or people they want to be like minded with and yet they are forced to internalize. Thats fine for some people, for others it creates a serious complex. I feel like this is the larger underlying issue in all of this moreso than the issue at hand. Then again, creating environments for these kind of people would be more than 'just a little tricky'.

  51. Lol by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Walter Lewin will make you love physics whether you like it or not."

  52. Can we? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    all agree their are people everywhere of both sexes that will take advantage of others in every day life.