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The College Majors Most Likely To Marry Each Other

schnell writes: The blog Priceonomics has published an analysis showing students in which college majors end up marrying another student with that same major. Religious studies (with 21% of students marrying another studying the same field) tops the list among all students, followed by general science. Perhaps unsurprising is that some majors with gender disparities show a high in-major marriage rate among the less represented group — for example, 39% of women engineering majors marry a fellow student in their field, while among men 43% studying nursing and 38% studying elementary education do likewise. The blog concludes that your choice of major may unwittingly decide your choice of spouse, and depending on how well that field is paid, your economic future.

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  1. Question: With Computer Science being 90% male... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    With computer science classes typically 90% male, how are 15% of the people marrying eachother.

    I mean I know its statistically possible (so keep your smarter than thou bullshit to yourself) but seriously.. those odds are astronomical...

  2. Gender Distribution? by Edis+Krad · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Seems to be this is more related with the gender distribution in each major more than anything else.
    Engineering and sciences have a high percentage of males vs females. Therefore is logical to think that any woman in that field has a lot of possible partners to choose from.
    The backwards can be said about Nursery. Mainly a female oriented vocation, any male nurse will have a rather large pool to select a partner from.
    Seems pretty obvious, I 'unno...

    1. Re:Gender Distribution? by bondsbw · · Score: 1

      That's not the only obvious thing. People are college age at the same time in life that they tend to form more serious relationships, for the purpose of finding a spouse. People in the same college major spend more time with each other than with people in any other particular major. Combine these together, voilá, you get a nice happy statistic.

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    2. Re:Gender Distribution? by aardvarkjoe · · Score: 1

      Considering this, I find the fact that the numbers of spouses with the same college major is as low as it is -- 10% on average according to TFA -- to be a little surprising.

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    3. Re:Gender Distribution? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      hey im a nurse so fuck u

      Sorry I can't. I majored in IT.

    4. Re:Gender Distribution? by Vlad_the_Inhaler · · Score: 1

      But are you in college?
      My college time is a while ago now but I remember virtually all of the females marrying during those years, mostly other students but sometimes boyfriends from before they even started there. Those who did not were usually not interested for some reason or other. Most of those relationships were still holding up at the 25th year meetup we had.

      The rest of us males were fishing outside that pool.

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    5. Re: Gender Distribution? by Chris+Johnson · · Score: 1

      I polish Red Wolves and pinch Grey ones, but prefer not to do anything to my father's side.

    6. Re:Gender Distribution? by swb · · Score: 2

      Didn't it used to be called getting your Mrs. degree?

    7. Re:Gender Distribution? by rmdingler · · Score: 1

      Considering this, I find the fact that the numbers of spouses with the same college major is as low as it is -- 10% on average according to TFA -- to be a little surprising.

      Although common interest, mating opportunity, and optimum age would seem to promote these matches, there are other forces at work here.

      Some people want to get that degree and enter that work force before choosing a life partner. Many others get the education while they run a little wild as young adults recently freed of the bonds of high school and living beneath parental reign.

      And sometimes, spending too much time with another person actually works against the magic of attraction.

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    8. Re: Gender Distribution? by rasmusbr · · Score: 1

      Yeah, the more different one is, the more potential partners one has to sift through to find a match. I imagine transsexual women have to use online dating services to have a chance at sifting through enough profiles to have a decent chance at finding someone.

      Lowering your standards works great up until the point where you end up with someone who simply isn't right for you. If you're even considering going out with someone who is "really creepy" you need to seriously unlower your standards.

      Might also help if the rest of us make fewer jokes about transsexual people and other people who are different.

    9. Re: Gender Distribution? by Bengie · · Score: 1

      If it wasn't, I fear you're overly serious and part of that group of people that makes this world a horrible place.

    10. Re:Gender Distribution? by AthanasiusKircher · · Score: 2

      Seems to be this is more related with the gender distribution in each major more than anything else.

      Engineering and sciences have a high percentage of males vs females. Therefore is logical to think that any woman in that field has a lot of possible partners to choose from.

      That's probably part of it. But I also think it probably has to do with "ways of thinking." A person who chooses engineering as a major often tends to "think a little differently" from one who chooses math and physics, for example -- some people are more oriented toward "practical" solutions, while others are more interested in abstractions and "theory." (Obviously these are broad stereotypes, but they do have some basis as generalizations for many people.)

      Even more extreme divides in "ways of thinking" come about when you start comparing things like religious studies to engineering or whatever. The people who are attracted to these majors have very different outlooks on the world. It's NOT surprising at all that they'd look for a spouse with a similar worldview.

      Relationships are also about communication. We often hear jokes on Slashdot about the problems "nerds" have communicating with others, so again it's unsurprising that people who "talk the same language" will be attracted to each other.

      So, I really take issue with the conclusion here, as TFS says:

      The blog concludes that your choice of major may unwittingly decide your choice of spouse, and depending on how well that field is paid, your economic future.

      No, no, NO. Your choice of major won't "unwittingly" decide your spouse -- your choice of major is partly determined by who you are, how you think, how you communicate, and what your interests are. People who have very particular ways of thinking (particularly ones that lead them to cross stereotypical gender boundaries, like female engineers or male nurses) will probably find it harder to find compatible spouses among the more "generic" general population.

      Or, to put it another way, if you're already predisposed toward majoring in something like religious studies, simply choosing to be an engineering major isn't going to stop you from thinking deeply about religious issues. And you'll probably continue to want a spouse who is at least somewhat interested in thinking about those issues too (engineer or not). The causality here isn't only the major -- it's the reason why people choose their majors in the first place.

    11. Re:Gender Distribution? by WallyL · · Score: 1

      Aw, you probably can-- you just don't know how.

  3. Pick of the Litter by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The blog concludes that your choice of major may unwittingly decide your choice of spouse, ...

    Or it could be that if you enter a field with a large gender disparity in its members, that implies you're willing to overcome any social stigma to engage in that field--ie, you're dedicated to it--and that by the same token you'll find plenty of people of the opposite sex to consider as possible spouse candidates. On the opposite end, because it's so uncommon to see members of the opposite sex in your own gender dominated field, you're inclined to believe they must really be dedicated for it just as you are--ie, those expensive student loans (or even the years of educations) indicate a long-term (possibly life-long) desire in that field.

    Golly, who would have thunk the obvious.

  4. Your summary is wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The line "Religious studies (with 21% of students marrying another studying the same field) tops the list among all students..." is incorrect. Theology and Religious Vocations is at 21%. Religious Studies (which is connected to philosophy) is 43rd on the list at 5%. Theology and Religious Vocations is a completely different field from Religious Studies (a.k.a. the Study of Religions).

    1. Re:Your summary is wrong by ChrisMaple · · Score: 1

      Theology can be the study of one religion to the exclusion of others, whereas Religious Studies is more likely to be the study of a great many religions.

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  5. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by mark-t · · Score: 3, Informative

    Because computer science classes are not actually 90% male.... the actual figure is closer to 80%, depending on the institution. I believe the actual average number of male graduates from computer science is 82% in the USA.

    Of course, that also suggests that computer science is an exceedingly likely place for a single woman who is interested enough in the field to have something in common with most of her peers in class is also quite likely to also find a mate. The exact opposite can be said for men.

    This is anecdotal, but almost all of the women I knew while I was taking computer science eventually hooked up with someone else in class before graduation. I do not know how permanent those relationships were after graduation, however.

  6. Duh. It starts with a study break massage. by Naatach · · Score: 1, Interesting

    It's no surprise that many students pair with others in their major, especially in harder disciplines. You ask someone you find attractive if they would like to study for the big test. About two hours into it is the perfect time to trade massages to work out the study kinks. Whether you get back to studying is never guaranteed after that.

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  7. Re:Anyone in the GLAD clubs by davester666 · · Score: 2

    I only show up for fashion tips.

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  8. Huh? by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1

    Are majors allowed to marry each other now?

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    1. Re:Huh? by ihtoit · · Score: 1

      hey, ever heard of DADT?

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    2. Re:Huh? by PolygamousRanchKid+ · · Score: 1

      . . . and soon we'll have captains marrying captains, lieutenants marrying lieutenants, sergeants marrying sergeants . . .

      It will be marriage, all the way down.

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  9. The classic combo: Lawyer + primary school teacher by D4C5CE · · Score: 1

    ...observed in plenty of schools and jurisdictions. ;)

    The reasons are left to speculation of the readers...

  10. Small circles by sanf780 · · Score: 2

    Most people I know started long term relationships with somebody they happen to spend time with, or that they are just nearby: same high school, same college, same circle of friends, same workplace. Study does not bring much information unless it is comparing likeliness of other situations like the ones I listed. Unfortunately I can only add anectodorial evidence. By the way, only a few ones were due to predatorial skills at night.

    1. Re:Small circles by ihtoit · · Score: 1

      funny that, in my high school Home class there were probably two couples some thought might have been an item. Not only did they end up getting married, so did three other couples. All in the same class.
       
      ...and I went to the same kindergarten as my wife. Only recently discovered a photo that proves it. (!)

      Dear Dice, fix your fucking edit box. I've had to use fucking [br] tags! AND WHEN ARE WE GETTING UNICODE SUPPORT!?

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  11. Re:The classic combo: Lawyer + primary school teac by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 1

    I've watched enough television to know that female defense lawyers are ALWAYS married to - or at least dating - policemen.

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  12. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 1

    ... plus there's the issue with basic hygiene...

    Oh wait - I thought we were talking about women's studies.

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  13. I coulda been a contender if only I had known by Swave+An+deBwoner · · Score: 1

    The blog concludes that your choice of major may unwittingly decide ... depending on how well that field is paid, your economic future.

    That insightful tidbit has really piqued my curiousity and I'm going to read the rest of that blog real soon now. Pretty soon I'll be a genius.

    1. Re:I coulda been a contender if only I had known by Virtucon · · Score: 1

      Yes who would have thought that going to school for years may actually determine how you make a living in the future? I wonder if there's a correlation in income vs. obtaining a trophy spouse. I mean if I were to make $500K/yr as a plastic surgeon would there be the potential in having a hot babe as a spouse? Hmmm. Hey somebody out there, I need a grant of say $10m to study this. Thanks.

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    2. Re:I coulda been a contender if only I had known by D4C5CE · · Score: 2

      if I were to make $500K/yr as a plastic surgeon would there be the potential in having a hot babe as a spouse?

      At least there'd certainly be more potential to turn your spouse into a "hot babe" (provided she's yearning to become part of your art). ;-}

  14. hmmm by ihtoit · · Score: 1

    My wife's a nurse, I'm a mechanical engineer.

    How does that work into the study?

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    1. Re:hmmm by Sique · · Score: 2
      Pretty well actually. As in your class, there were only a few women to begin with, chances of you to find a spouse there were minimal. Same for your wife, who probably hadn't had many men being in the same class.

      While many of your female co-students found a mate in the engineering class, and many of the male nursery students are now probably married to a nurse.

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    2. Re:hmmm by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 1

      You are both leftovers. ;)

    3. Re:hmmm by ihtoit · · Score: 1

      we're a good match for leftovers, clearly. Fifteen and a half years and counting.

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  15. Not really surprising. by wvmarle · · Score: 1

    The classroom is a place to meet new people, as is the work floor. It just happens naturally there, people are partnered up to do tasks, you have to work together, etc. When you take a bunch of strangers and start to introduce them to one another, good chance that at least here and there romantic sparks fly. Add to that that most students are in their early 20s, an age for many people to start looking for a life partner, and the great number of marriages that follows is just expected.

    The greater number in religious studies is also not too surprising as the people there will have strong religious beliefs, and strongly religious people like to marry people that are also strongly religious and of the same faith. Here is even more reason for people to actively search for a partner within their study group, as it's much less likely to find a suitable partner (i.e. sharing the religious beliefs) randomly in the outside world.

  16. "My college major was computer programming, and I married a girl who types in computer programs for a living!"

    "What's her name?"

    "Rosie."

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  17. Re:The classic combo: Lawyer + primary school teac by ihtoit · · Score: 1

    Ally McBeal? Nope. She dated other lawyers... oh, and a doctor.

    Take your pick of LA Law characters. I don't think any of the major characters dated a cop.

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  18. Communications Disorders by tomhath · · Score: 1

    Down at the bottom of the list is "Communications Disorders Sciences and Services" at 2%. Somehow that seems fitting.

    1. Re: Communications Disorders by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      Literally the funniest thing I've read today.

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  19. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by rossdee · · Score: 1

    I guess you missed the memo from SCOTUS - same sex marriage is legal now.

  20. No matter what your major, if you want to marry by mark_reh · · Score: 1

    someone with class and elegance, and who probably makes/inherits more money than you, you should spend your free time at a Trump hotel or Casino.

    1. Re:No matter what your major, if you want to marry by Swave+An+deBwoner · · Score: 1

      Donald? The Donald? That's you, isn't it?

      We read about your Mexican problem in the Times; are you trying to drum up lost business here on Slashdot? Let's talk.

  21. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 1

    The divorce rates for marrying in your major would be a much more interesting study. I would think engineering and CS would top that list.

    For the "grossly underrepresented group," though dating in your major is like shooting fish in a barrel.

  22. Two people of the same major marrying??? by Yaztromo · · Score: 2

    This cannot stand. Two people with the same major marrying each other is completely against my just-now-made-up religion. It says that Frank (my just-made-up religions version of god) specifically wrote that "Thou shalt not lie with a fellow computer science major as you would with a psychology major".

    The government needs to make a constitutional amendment to prevent people of the same major from marrying each other. After all, if we let two people with the same major marry, we're on a slippery slope to marrying dolphins with snack cakes. And then where will it end?

    Yaz

    1. Re: Two people of the same major marrying??? by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      Oh, go ban a flag :-P

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    2. Re:Two people of the same major marrying??? by TeknoHog · · Score: 1

      This cannot stand. Two people with the same major marrying each other is completely against my just-now-made-up religion. It says that Frank (my just-made-up religions version of god) specifically wrote that "Thou shalt not lie with a fellow computer science major as you would with a psychology major".

      But is it OK if they both are stoned, which is probably something a lot of CS majors tend to do anyway?

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  23. OK by koan · · Score: 1

    Proximity.

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  24. Re: Question: With Computer Science being 90% male by CanHasDIY · · Score: 2

    People with confluent majors end up working side by side in the field.

    I'm guessing it has something to do with that 80 some odd hours a week that a number of CS workers are forced into. When you have to spend 80% of your waking hours working, it kind of limits your dating pool.

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  25. Nonsensical conclusion by mattwarden · · Score: 1

    The data does not at all suggest that your major will decide your spouse. I would suggest that this journalism major marry someone who had to take at least one statistics class.

  26. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 2

    The divorce rates for marrying in your major would be a much more interesting study. I would think engineering and CS would top that list.

    Engineers have one of the lowest divorce rates. As an engineer married to another engineer, I believe there is a big benefit to having a spouse that has been trained to use logic and systematically solve problems. We settle most of our arguments by drawing Venn diagrams on a whiteboard. Having two six digit salaries helps too.

  27. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by Khashishi · · Score: 1

    Does that mean that for women in computer science, the chance of marrying someone in computer science is up >75%?

  28. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by Copid · · Score: 2

    Same here. We think and solve problems similarly, so there isn't much "talking past each other" when we disagree. If a problem can be reasoned through, we usually come to agreement. If it's squishier, we both sort of recognize that it's probably not worth fighting to the death over. Money and worry about unemployment is never a problem, so we don't fight over it or nitpick how it's spent (in fact, we each have a mix of private and shared accounts after 10 years of marriage, and we each handle a subset of the household financees without much oversight from the other). Beyond that I suppose everything else is pretty normal, but those are two big issues that cause a lot of relationship trouble that work out to a pretty strong built-in advantage for us.

    We're both pretty mellow people who don't usually get wound up about stuff that's not really important, but I'm not sure if that's just who we are or if it's associated with how we were educated and how we work. There seem to be certain types of people who genuinely get bored and need a certain amount of drama in their human interactions and will create it if it's not there. Those people seem to be less common in engineering, although I don't have a lot to quantify or support that. Those people are usually not fun to be around and seem like they'd be a nightmare to be married to.

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  29. Poor Headline by Fieryphoenix · · Score: 2

    Come on Slashdot! This article should be titled "Most Incestuous Majors".

    1. Re:Poor Headline by WallyL · · Score: 1

      "Top 10 Most Incestuous College Majors" for even more clickbaitiness!

  30. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by antdude · · Score: 1

    Yeah. I am still an unmarried single virgin after I got my CS BS major after 15 years. Where are those women for me? D:

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  31. Re:Question: With Computer Science being 90% male. by mark-t · · Score: 1

    Please... if you are going to troll, at least try a little harder to make it sound like you might actually have put some reasoned thought into the perspective you may be trying to present, instead of simply uttering nonsense whose phrasing appears to only be an unimaginative attempt at provoking an emotional reaction.