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Robotics Researcher Starts Campaign To Ban Development of Sexbots

Earthquake Retrofit writes: A robotics ethicist from the UK's De Montfort University has started a campaign to ban the development and use of sex robots. "She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women and the view that a relationship need be nothing more than physical." The campaign was spurred by news that some companies claim to be fairly far along in development of such technology. One company even plans to start selling them later this year. The campaign's goals and concerns include "We propose that the development of sex robots will further reduce human empathy that can only be developed by an experience of mutual relationship," and, "We challenge the view that the development of adults and child sex robots will have a positive benefit to society, but instead further reinforce power relations of inequality and violence."

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  1. They get my Lucy Lu Bot... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    when they pry it from my cold, dead hands...

    1. Re:They get my Lucy Lu Bot... by sabbede · · Score: 2

      Gasp! Did you never see "I Dated A Robot" in health class?

    2. Re:They get my Lucy Lu Bot... by Cederic · · Score: 4, Insightful

      But until AI really gets good, sexbots are only going to appeal to the tiny minority of men who are already using Real Dolls. No threat to society as a whole.

      Over half of the women in the UK already own a sexbot, I'm not sure AI is all that necessary.

    3. Re:They get my Lucy Lu Bot... by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 2

      So that's why those refugees are zeroing in on the UK!

    4. Re:They get my Lucy Lu Bot... by FrozenSentry · · Score: 2

      She's just concerned about electro-gonorrhea, the noisy killer.

  2. Bigotry Shmigotry by nospam007 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women"

    Millions of gay men will hate you and your bigotry, because your arguments sucks more than a sex robot would do.

    1. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by kaur · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Why does she believe the sexbots to be mostly feminine?
      Why only stereotypes of women need reinforcing?

      A female chauvinist pig she is!

    2. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by TheRaven64 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Exactly. Compare sales of fleshlights to sales of vibrators / dildos. Women are far more likely currently to be buying machines for sexual purposes. Why would the sexbot market be any different?

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    3. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by monkeyzoo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Many states used to control and ban what a lot of adults could do in the privacy of their own homes with other consenting adult humans. Almost all those laws have been wiped clean, and now, in the name of progress, this researcher wants to control what I can or can't do with a machine?!? Will the prude and pious attempts of puritan fanatics to control our sexuality, outlaw harmless "perversion," and squelch sexual freedom never stop?!

    4. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Kjella · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Exactly. Compare sales of fleshlights to sales of vibrators / dildos. Women are far more likely currently to be buying machines for sexual purposes. Why would the sexbot market be any different?

      Because women are buying it as substitute for a cock, men as substitute for a relationship? If you look at something like escort service and prostitution it's massively dominated by male customers who pay for women to pretend to be their girlfriends/lovers or even dressing up RealDolls. Women use vibrators/dildos because they want want sex without the "baggage" of a boyfriend/one night stand, men want to play-pretend the exact opposite. Another clear clue should be that fleshlights try to mimic a human vagina, while there's a huge market for dildos and vibrators in all shapes and colors that have nothing to do with realism.

      In any case, she's wrong and it's a massive double standard at work here. Over the last 100 years there's been a massive movement to give women economic independence. Well tough shit, now we men want sexual independence and if I can get a sexbot to screw my brains out then we start a relationship more on equal footing. No, you don't need my money. No, I don't need your pussy. We can both do fine on our own, but maybe we have some mutual interest in having a relationship together because we want to. There's many men staying in poor relationships because they get pussy, ending those would do everyone good.

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    5. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by OzPeter · · Score: 2

      Almost all those laws have been wiped clean

      From the the oracle of all information, Sodomy laws in the United States makes for a fun read:

      As of April 2014, 17 states either have not yet formally repealed their laws against sexual activity among consenting adult, or have not revised them to accurately reflect their true scope in the aftermath of Lawrence v. Texas. Often, the sodomy law was drafted to also encompass other forms of sexual conduct such as bestiality, and no attempt has subsequently succeeded in separating them. Fourteen states' statutes purport to ban all forms of sodomy, some including oral intercourse, regardless of the participants' genders: Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina, and Utah. Four states specifically target their statutes at same-sex relations only: Oklahoma, Kansas[16][17] Kentucky, and Texas.

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    6. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Megol · · Score: 3

      Such bullshit.
      Men and women alike want sex, men and women alike like relationships. There are those of either gender that don't want one or the other (and a very small group that don't want either) but that isn't really relevant.

    7. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you look at something like escort service and prostitution it's massively dominated by male customers who pay for women to pretend to be their girlfriends/lovers...

      While I'm sure some men do this, I don't believe it's "massively dominated" by those men. I am a man who HAS paid for sex, I can assure you I only did it because I wanted to fuck the woman. Jesus God, I would never want to even pretend to have a relationship with a hooker. Like the saying goes, you don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to go away after. This appears to be the predominate point of view among my peers (ie, other men who are willing to pay for sex from time to time).

    8. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by king+neckbeard · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Actually, a number of prostitutes have said that they are mostly therapists. Granted, a lot of it probably depends on what their clientele is, and I doubt that "crack whores" play typically play that kind of role.

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    9. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by dablow · · Score: 4, Insightful

      This.....this is exactly it.

      It's all about power, right now, in the west at least, women have it.

      If you pay attention you will often notice that a lot of women seem to oppose any kind of sexual service offered to men. They are afraid that if men can get laid whenever they want, they will not want to settle or put up with the headaches that come with being in a relationship. Of course they they never admit that, instead of opting for causes such as fighting "human trafficking" and "protecting the children".

      And with the rise of sex robots on the horizon.......they are starting to get a little worried, because it renders their arguments against male sexual freedom moot.

      I will admit, that I myself have fallen "victim" to the power of the pussy, dating horrible women because simply they "put out".

    10. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by dablow · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The big difference is, if you are an average looking guy, it's not easy to get laid when you want or get a gf when you want.

      The reverse (average looking woman) is not true; Even blandest plain looking average woman can get laid whenever she wants, will have a lineup of men waiting to take her out on dates (getting a decent bf is not as easy though).

      This is nothing more than a woman being terrified they will lose their sexual power over men.

      Imagine how the dating scene would change if men could get off (legally, cleanly and guilt free) whenever the had the urge, instead of having to date countless women and pretend to like them to get laid until the right one came along.....

    11. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 2

      Because women are buying it as substitute for a cock, men as substitute for a relationship?

      ...what? Do you have visions of men sweet talking their sex dolls and bringing them out to dinner or something? I don't even know what to say to this.

      Women use vibrators/dildos because they want want sex without the "baggage" of a boyfriend/one night stand, men want to play-pretend the exact opposite.

      Again wtf?

      while there's a huge market for dildos and vibrators in all shapes and colors that have nothing to do with realism.

      Hahaha, no there isn't. They exist but the overwhelming majority of dildos sold look like penises, because women want to imagine they're having sex with Brad Pitt or whoever while using them, which is perfectly normal and rational.

    12. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by cayenne8 · · Score: 2

      So do girlfriends....just not direct cash exchange ;)

      As a guy, face it, you ALWAYS pay for it...one way or another.

      Some forms of repayment are just more legal than others....

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    13. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Beezlebub33 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      ...If you look at something like escort service and prostitution it's massively dominated by male customers who pay for women to pretend to be their girlfriends/lovers or even dressing up RealDolls.

      You bring up an interesting point: would a sexbot replace a girlfriend, or would it be more likely to replace a prostitute. I would guess prostitute. I would have a girlfriend (insert joke here) because I want a relationship with another human being, with mutually agreed-upon sex, with some conflicting issues regarding frequency and style. I would want a prostitute because I want sex when and how I want it without a relationship. A sexbot fills the second far more than the first. So, the end effect would be a decrease in prostitution / escorts and their knock on effects. This would seem to be a win for women, not a loss.

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    14. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by dablow · · Score: 3, Interesting

      It's not just the men; Women pay for feeling of protection, stability and companionship that men provide.

      The trick is finding a happy medium where both parties are satisfied. In the past the balance was shifted towards men, now it has shifted towards women.

      I personally think that the world overall would be a better place if men where allowed to meet their needs without having to either settle down with somebody they do not necessarily want to be with, or without lying/tricking women (ie being a player). Many studies have showed that in places where prostitution is legal there is a drop in rape and sexual violence in general. Also these places (like in a lot of European countries) people still seek out meaningful monogamous relationships.

      Funny enough, up here in Canada, it is illegal to pay for sex (this is recent; it used to be legal, what was illegal was solicitation) , however if one pays for sex and records it then it is legal (exception made to keep the porn industry alive).

    15. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by Immerman · · Score: 2

      As a guy I can certainly agree that it feels that way, but I think you need to explicitly state the obvious "If she lowers her standards enough". Lower your standards enough and your chances of getting laid whenever you want go way up as well. Though you're probably right that there's a lot more really fucking creepy guys out there trolling for sex than there are women doing the same. But that may just be the fact that our society condemns such behavior much more strongly from women.

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    16. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by HornWumpus · · Score: 2

      How many 5 inch long, pencil thick dildos do you think will be sold?

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    17. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by u38cg · · Score: 2
      >>> if men could get off (legally, cleanly and guilt free) whenever the had the urge

      You should try this thing called masturbation. Might make you less inclined to spout total bullshit.

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    18. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by AdamThor · · Score: 3, Informative

      Makes you 100% more likely to spout something else, though.

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    19. Re:Bigotry Shmigotry by andymadigan · · Score: 2

      "Millions of gay men will hate you and your bigotry"

      I'm one of them, and I'm sick of all these arguments that "porn degrades women" or "sex bots degrade women", etc. Gay men watch porn for the same reason that straight men do, and it has nothing to do with degrading anyone. They'll buy sex bots too. I live a few blocks from Folsom St, they'll be in shop windows!

      But I generally agree that this is really a prudish family values argument dressed up as feminism.

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  3. Predicable do-gooder medling. by Cafe+Alpha · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Every bit as doomed as banning porn. I'd be angry at her for trying, but since she'll accomplish precisely nothing, I think her failure will be a thoroughly satisfying punishment for the attempt.

    1. Re:Predicable do-gooder medling. by rmdingler · · Score: 2

      Every bit as doomed as banning porn. I'd be angry at her for trying, but since she'll accomplish precisely nothing, I think her failure will be a thoroughly satisfying punishment for the attempt.

      I'm not so certain she'll accomplish precisely nothing.

      If the Victorian era school of thought taught us anything, it is that the taboo is even more desirable.

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    2. Re:Predicable do-gooder medling. by Cederic · · Score: 2

      With sexbots though, there is no female push for them.

      Erm. 52% of women in the UK responded to a Durex sex survey indicating that they use vibrators.

      There's a whole market segment going under 'fucking machine'.

      There's female demand in this space, trust me.

  4. Consider the source by Crashmarik · · Score: 5, Funny

    Looking at the woman

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    It's no surprise she fears competition from robots.

    1. Re:Consider the source by Nutria · · Score: 3, Interesting

      What's worse is that De Montfort University has a Senior Research Fellow In The Ethics Of Robotics.

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    2. Re:Consider the source by rizole · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Lazy, lazy, lazy. Using her apprerence to denigrate her arguments is gutter tabloid tactics. Unless you're, you know, like 12 years old in which case carry on.

    3. Re:Consider the source by Blue+Stone · · Score: 5, Funny

      I agree.

      I much prefer the Youtube commenter who suggested she was trying to protect the interests of the "pussy cartel".

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    4. Re:Consider the source by dunkelfalke · · Score: 2

      As long as there is no true AI, unethical robots cannot exist, only unethical use of a robot. And with a true AI, using robots would be slavery, thus unethical from the very beginning.

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  5. Someone has been watching by korex · · Score: 2

    too much Futurama?

  6. makes no sense to me by NostalgiaForInfinity · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women and the view that a relationship need be nothing more than physical."

    How does choosing to have sex with a robot reinforce stereotypes about women or relationships with women?

    1. Re:makes no sense to me by Kuroji · · Score: 4, Funny

      How dare you bring logic into this argument. This is an emotional appeal, damn it!

    2. Re:makes no sense to me by rioki · · Score: 4, Informative

      The interesting thing and lack of basic reasoning skills comes from the fact that Dr. Richardson apparently can only picture sex robots as being a simulacrum of the female gender. Although I don't have hard numbers at hand, I read in an interview with the Real Doll creator, that the male gender did sell almost as well as their female gendered dolls. The kicker is that most dolls were soled with the swap-able genitalia and both genitalia. If we see a usable sex robot any time soon, you can rest assured that it will probably come in both gendered versions.

      But no, let's make this about women and how they are objectified.

    3. Re:makes no sense to me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Dildo's give hetrosexual women more options. That's empowering. Sexbots give hetero men more options. That's misogynistic.

    4. Re:makes no sense to me by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Informative

      The robots are designed to be as human like as possible in appearance and in the way that they move. The key difference is that unlike human women they are souless sex slaves who only exist to fulfil their owners every desire. I can see why she finds it distasteful - I think I'd feel a bit odd about a cotton picking robot that was designed to look like a black slave, complete with stereotypical attributes and "broken slave" personality.

      Of course it applies for male sexbots too, before someone complaints about that.

      By the way, the way that porn negatively affects some people's attitudes towards their partners, particularly teenagers (who shouldn't own a sexbot, but inevitably will gain access to them just like porn) is quite well documented. Part of modern sex education in UK schools is to point out how unrealistic porn is, and to counteract peer pressure to act like a pornstar in bed. The fear is that sexbots will create the same unrealistic and harmful expectations.

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    5. Re:makes no sense to me by Provocateur · · Score: 2

      Do Androids dream of electric sheep
      Will I dream
      How does choosing to have sex with a robot reinforce stereotypes about women? ...and other unanswered questions were racing through my sci-fi addled mind, as I slowly undressed the Kardashian sexbot I had recharged for the weekend. Only 46 hours of pleasure till Monday, beer stocked in the fridge, pizza to be delivered soon...life is good.

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    6. Re:makes no sense to me by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There are plenty of vibrating sex toys for men too, you know. They are just as empowering.

      Sexbots are not dildos. They are not plastic toys shaped vaguely like genitalia. They are realistic models of a human being. The more realistic, the better. I think most adults feel differently towards sex toys and human like robots, e.g. they don't find a phallus shaped vibrator falls into the uncanny valley.

      I'm not saying I agree with this person, but I don't think the comparison to simple sex toys is valid.

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    7. Re:makes no sense to me by rmdingler · · Score: 2

      But no, let's make this about women and how they are objectified.

      It's a make-up call. It's use is on the upswing.

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    8. Re:makes no sense to me by Dr.+Zim · · Score: 2

      Kardashian? You bought a Kardashian? Ha! You know they're outdated before they make it off the assembly line and way out of tolerance in the plumbing bits. I hope you got a good deal.

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    9. Re:makes no sense to me by MrKaos · · Score: 2

      Well, yours is the first sane comment I've seen on this discussion and with all the ad-homing of this woman, I couldn't figure out if I agreed or disagree with her.

      I think a sex aid of this kind could be very useful for people with disabilities to be able to use it in a way specific to their needs to maintain their mental health. Alternately, she does have a point and will it be used for someones messed up fantasy? Probably, but better a machine than a person.

      I suspect that the opinions of many of the people here would suddenly change if the discussion was about making a juvenile robot. I doubt they would feel so morally superior, after all it's just a machine, so it leads to the question of what sort of sex robot is ok? Is an animal sex robot ok? What about a juvenile animal sex robot? What about a cartoon animal sex robot, is that ok? Is filming two sex robots fucking considered porn or the instruction manual?

      Attacking this woman's looks or anything else before actually understanding exactly what her argument is kinda shows off a bit of a insecure beta male mentality I don't really buy into. Sex robots are probably inevitable, the market for them is massive and it's also kind of sad.

      One thing is for sure, it going new forms of human sexuality in ways we have never confronted and the morality police will be out there telling us right from wrong.

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  7. Yeeeeaaaah.... by ldobehardcore · · Score: 2

    Good luck with that...

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  8. In other words... by bjwest · · Score: 2

    I am so disgusted by my own arousal at the thought of a lifelike sex toy that I must have them band for all, lest I give into the unholy temptation and have sex with one.

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  9. Why? Sexbots could be great! by aaaaaaargh! · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Sexbots for women and men might be the ultimate chance to remedy one humanity's greatest source of conflicts, ranging from the Troian War over annoyingly crazy teenagers to sexually frustrated housewives. They could finally stop men from objectifying women for purely sexual purposes. The effects of this change could be more beneficial than the pill and the invention of the vibrator taken together. In an age in which in-vitro fertilization is easy, it would be crazy to take away this unique chance for the evolution of humanity.

    1. Re:Why? Sexbots could be great! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Men are always going to objectify women, it's in our DNA. The modern feminist response appears to be to objectify men right back, not as punishment but as a bit of harmless fun. So whatever.

      The problem with sex robots is the curious reversal of that old feminist mantra that we only need men to provide sperm. If a sex robot can provide sex and companionship and never argues with you, and we accept the feminist idea that some sexes literally have nothing to offer the world except to enable procreation, what role will women have left in society except to provide wombs? And even that can probably be automated eventually.

      But that would hardly be an improvement on the status quo.

  10. I offer conditional support by _merlin · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'll support her movement as long as she also pushes to ban dildos, vibrators, clitoral stimulators, teledildonics, "fucking machines" and other female masturbation aids. No, I don't use masturbation aids, and I don't have a problem with female masturbation aids. I just have a problem with the horrific double standard. Feminists tell us that women who use masturbation aids are strong, independent and empowered, while at the same time claiming that men who use masturbation aids are disgusting perverts.

    1. Re:I offer conditional support by WindBourne · · Score: 2

      lol.
      Good points. At first, I thought that this was going to be a BS article, but in the long haul, this actually could get some interesting discussions on this. Not so much here, as much as in the mainstream press.
      How can a woman that is making the argument that this will objectifies and kills relationship, not say a single word about the most basest of sex robots that exists today and is used mostly by women?

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    2. Re:I offer conditional support by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      Exactly! Dildos perpetuate stereotypes of male sexual organ size.

    3. Re:I offer conditional support by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      I want the BLACK one, no wait, I want the PLAID ONE.
      Mam, you can't have that, it's my thermos.

  11. Try googling her by abies · · Score: 2

    and half of images will be of sex toy robots. If somebody wants to start sex robot line, I would suggest naming lead model 'Kathleen'.

    BTW, what is 'robot ethicist'? I suppose they share university space with Post-scarcity Economics, Xenoarchology, Applied Fusion and Singularity Communication.

    1. Re: Try googling her by unami · · Score: 2

      a robot ethicist is the one who thinks about if a robotic car should kill you by evading a child or mow down the child instead. and about who is going to be sued afterwards.

  12. Fine with me as long by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    as we can still have the killer robots. Those do not " further reinforce power relations of inequality and violence."

  13. She has no business banning anything by gweihir · · Score: 2

    This is just another utterly immoral attempt to force people to behave in ways some authoritarian POS wants them to. Whatever happened to freedom? The irony is of course that this comes form an "ethicist". Apparently one does not even need to know basic ethics to become an "ethicist".

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    1. Re:She has no business banning anything by NostalgiaForInfinity · · Score: 4, Informative

      It may surprise you to learn that the study of ethics actually goes beyond "absolute personal freedom at all costs" - in fact it largely consists of contradictions to that position.

      Ethics is the study of right and wrong choices. Once the freedom to make such choices is taken away, ethics ceases to be involved. That is, if you outlaw sex bots, then the choice not to obtain a sex bot is not an ethical choice anymore, it is a pragmatic or utilitarian choice.

      Are you able to address any of the points she actually makes

      We have addressed the "points" she makes elsewhere. Here, we are discussing the contradiction inherent in an ethicist advocating authoritarian policies.

  14. So what's the alternative for geeks? by nukenerd · · Score: 4, Insightful
    She said

    human empathy that can only be developed by an experience of mutual relationship

    So what does she have to offer or suggest to those people (men particularly) who have no opportunity to develop such an experience? In the West at least, a significant proportion of women have rejected men entirely, possible after one fling and a child. Equal wages and opportunities for women, as well as social attitudes, mean that it is no longer "essential" for a woman to find a husband as it was as recently as two generations ago. There are too many men seeking for the number of women available.

  15. It's not just about the sex. by Ada_Rules · · Score: 2

    Mal. Guy killed me, Mal. He killed me with a sword. How weird is that?

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  16. Errr by elmer+at+web-axis · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Where is the campaign to ban dildos. Aren't they simple sex robots that depict men who's only purpose is to sexually furfil women and then to be thrown in a draw?

  17. Re:Competiton? by tsotha · · Score: 2, Insightful

    That's really what's under the academic gloss. Sex robots will end up being banned because women want them to be banned. Just like prostitution, and for the same reason. Feminists are afraid of a loss of power.

  18. Isn't it better to objectify objects by sabbede · · Score: 2

    instead of women?

  19. Rather by elgatozorbas · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women"

    Sounds more like "women will lose the powerful tool of sex deprivation to control men".

    Not that anyone here will suffer from that a lot.

    1. Re:Rather by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But considering that this is a mechanical device used for pleasure, then this is not about anyone denying someone sex - it's about assisted masturbation. It's not that using a dildo equals a man being denied sex, is it?

      Why would using another device, although more advanced, be a replacement for a relationship? It's not like sex dolls are a new thing...

      If I am a wonderful man who respects women and treat them fairly in every aspect of life, then humping a blue pony robot to hell and back won't make me a sexist pig. It will confirm I'm wierd, but if you knew me you'd know that already anyway.

    2. Re:Rather by squiggleslash · · Score: 3, Insightful

      We've had 25,000 years of masturbation. Why would a technical upgrade to how we masturbate affect our relationship with women?

      The more I think about it, the less I think "sexbots" will change anything for the better or worse. Is there really a significant difference between fantasizing about having sex with {starlet of the month} with a box of tissues and a hard working left hand, and fantasizing about having sex with {starlet of the month} with your whatever being worked by a robot that looks just like her (but you know it's a robot)? (Written to assume, as the researcher does, a hetero-male scenario, but you can obviously substitute for other combinations)

      The sexbot might be (potentially) more fun, but ultimately it's still masturbation, a single lone person who's fully aware they're not actually having sex with anyone.

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    3. Re:Rather by silas_moeckel · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Men have the right to sex, everybody has a right to have their needs met. The bigger picture is limiting men's access to sex. You have an entire culture that's based upon artificial scarcity of female sexual partners. Slut shaming is at it's root an attempt to keep other women in line. Monogamy is written into law as far as divorces etc etc etc. Willing prostitution is generally illegal (and been correlated to large reductions in rape and general male violence where is available and reasonably affordable). Social stigma that is associated with open marriages poly relationships etc etc seem to primarily come from women. Divorce is still heavily tilted towards women due to 60+ year old assumptions.

      At the end of the day a healthy relationship means everybody's needs are getting met, too many men an active sex life is a need. So that has to happen within the relationship one way or another for the relationship to continue and be healthy.

      So I would say men do have a right to sex and women do deny men sex. That right is not to any particular women. Too many times I've heard feminists go on about how it's unfair for a man to pressure/coerce etc etc a woman to have sex especially in relationships. Few couples have the same sex drive at all times. To say that men have no right to press to have their needs met in a relationship is abusive to the core. At the end of the day if your partner is unwilling or unable to meet your needs you have to figure out how to solve the problem, in general that can't happen without negotiations and each side giving. Yes that means some women may have more sex than they want, that's not male oppression rather the effect of societal pressure that's primary from women.

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    4. Re:Rather by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Interesting

      That is part of the marital contract...and if you don't have sex enough with your mate, that is grounds for termination of said marriage in most states.

      Correct. You have the right to end your marriage, not the right to demand sex. The law does not force your spouse to open their legs for you.

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    5. Re:Rather by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      At the end of the day if your partner is unwilling or unable to meet your needs you have to figure out how to solve the problem, in general that can't happen without negotiations and each side giving.

      I'll never understand my wife.

      She doesn't like cleaning the house; I hired a woman to do that for her and she was happy.

      She doesn't like giving me blowjobs; I hired a woman to do that for her and she got all mad!

  20. The Devil's hands are idle playthings... by itsdapead · · Score: 2, Funny

    when they pry it from my cold, dead hands...

    Any sexual experience not based on a mutual relationship is bad, apparently - so they'll be taking your hands, too.

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  21. Re:Likewise by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women and the view that a relationship need be nothing more than physical."

    I knew it had to be a chick raising these objections as soon as I read the reasoning.

    Broadly speaking (no pun intended), females relate sex to emotional and relationship feelings and thoughts. While men do derive pleasure from combining "love" and sex, it isn't always necessary. Sex just by itself for physical pleasure is great and one doesn't always even need to know or remember her name.

    Again, very broadly speaking, this isn't something in the female mentality, or at least it has not been....till recently I do see changes in female attitudes towards this..but I don't think it is still nearly as prevalent as with mens thinking and easy ability to separate emotion from the physical act.

    It is often been said that one sure cure to world over population would be to perfect some sort of artificial sex, be it virtual or some type of robot, that is so real feeling.......and basically you'd have a ton of men who would have their physical needs fulfilled, without having to put up with the nagging, and emotional baggage that comes with women (not to mention potential unwanted kids). I fear female popularity would drop a good bit. Not saying it is a good or bad thing, but I could see it potentially happen.

    I mean, there's an old joke that kinda sums it up....

    "Why did God give women tits?"

    "So men would talk to them...."

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  22. Re:Likewise by Intrepid+imaginaut · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Again, very broadly speaking, this isn't something in the female mentality, or at least it has not been....

    The existence and popularity of dildos invalidates both your position and hers.

  23. Re:???... WTF by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Informative

    Pedos want to fuck, too.

    And bluntly, if some small plastic sex toy spares one child that experience, I do WANT them to exist!

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  24. Or maybe the men would behave *better* by Theovon · · Score: 2

    If you make sex bots that look too realistic, and this causes men to objectify women, then perhaps this would carry over into how they treat real women. (Mind you, in that case, the genes that lead to this behavior would be eliminated from the gene pool.)

    On the other hand, some men just have higher sex drive and just need to deal with some physical discomfort, unconnected with their emotional relationships with women. If they get their excess needs met somehow, then they might not be total horn dogs when they are around real women and would treat them with more respect as human beings.

    Some artiificial ban on some specific technology isn't going to change people's nature. On the other hand, it might help a lot if we were to educate people from a young age that they need to treat other human beings with dignity and respect.

  25. Re:Likewise by JustAnotherOldGuy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I knew it had to be a chick raising these objections as soon as I read the reasoning.

    BINGO, this was my thought exactly. I wish I could mod you up to a million.

    I knew it was a woman making the comments in the article the instant I read them. She wants to ban this sort of thing not because it's wrong, but because she's offended by it. Anything that gives men pleasure is viewed with suspicion, and doubly-so anything that might make guys less dependent on women for sexual gratification.

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  26. Re:Likewise by oakgrove · · Score: 2

    So, in other words, female sexuality good, male sexuality bad. Yeah, got it.

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  27. Re: Likewise by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Y'know how you can tell women are crazy?

    They used to do things that men liked. Then, they all got together and set their bras on fire, and marched in the streets, and said "WE DON'T HAVE TO DO THINGS THAT YOU LIKE".

    And, in an effort to get them to shut up, we agreed. Now, they don't do things that we like any more, and now, outside of fucking them, we don't particularly like them.

    And now, having excised every character trait they had that made us like them for their deeds, they say that we've reduced them to sex objects.

    They reduced themselves to sex objects.

    On a completely different note, here's a wikipedia link to a newspaper advertisement selling sex robots for women in 1913.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

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  28. Re:There are other things wrong with her argument by DutchUncle · · Score: 2

    The booby-trap idea makes for a good movie, but consider just letting them have the sexbots gratis. Either the leaders lose control, or they have to get half of their soldiers to shoot the other half.

  29. My note to Dr. Richardson by Chordonblue · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The abusive comments on the YouTube channel that featured Dr. Richardson were, in my opinion, uncalled for, and probably just reinforce her beliefs. We can have diverse opinions about issues like this, and I, for one, am glad someone's at least thinking about this. As robots come into general familiarity, we're all going to have to do some soul searching.

    While I don't agree with the outright banning of this technology, I do understand her point - I just don't think technology, in and of itself, is good or evil.

    This was my (somewhat lengthy response to her):

    I think that we can have a discussion here without such personal derision. I wonder, Dr., how you feel about places like China where the men outnumber the women by over 30%. Or in Japan, where women's increased demands for an 'acceptable' mate have lowered their birthrate to non-sustainable levels. Already there are men there who use RealDoll-like toys - some who literally make them part of their social lives. What options are available to them that would be acceptable to you?

    In addition, and closer to Western world, not all men are capable of having or maintaining a sexual relationship with women - but this doesn't necessarily limit their sex drive. Men with severe appearance deficits or low intelligence may never have the opportunity to have a mate.

    While it is often easy for women to dismiss sex for men as being a disconnected act, this is certainly not always true (it isn't with me), and I believe there is an equally important biological need for acceptance and love. This is demonstrated differently with different men.

    While I do believe there is some merit in your argument, I also believe that sexual expression IS different between men and women, regardless of relationship status.

    Imagine the outrage over the removal of Disney 'Princess' movies, romantic novels (essentially word-based pornography), or sex toys for women would cause! And yet, these things unquestionably also color women's perception of relationships with men - and their expectations.

    As feminists scream for equality, the truth is that women are the ones who do the choosing, as they feel the need to be specially selective about their mates. This can be seen in the animal kingdom as well. It is understandable (especially when the production of children is involved), but this is, at least, an example of how men and women are not only different, but unequal.

    Doesn't this, in and of itself, color an unfortunate man's opinion of woman? How better to address that than by providing men with the next best thing?

    Advanced robotics is going to even the playing field somewhat for those disenfranchised men, not among the lucky to be selected by a 'real' woman. Eventually, it may offer these rejected men another side altogether of women, providing them with a 'loving' partner, fulfilling their need to be loved. Obviously, the reality of the 'love' expressed will be proportional to the level of technology and the skill of AI programmers.

    Certainly, early forms of this will be no more than machine-assisted masturbation, but this will be a short-lived period of time, as Moore's Law and the determination of science has previously demonstrated.

    As with any technology, the possibility for good and evil will exist. I suggest letting things progress as they will until direct evidence against ANY positive use exists.

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