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How Academia Still Struggles With Sexual Harassment (buzzfeed.com)

New submitter Dr. Scatterplot writes: Richard Feynman is celebrated as a brilliant scientist and idiosyncratic character. He is also someone who today might be accused of sexual harassment. That is, if his students felt empowered to report him. Whether his department would have done anything back then is a different matter. How far should academic communities go to protect their intellectual capital, at the expense of further harm to their students, past and present? UC Berkeley and exoplanet astronomers are walking that line with prominent professor and exoplanet discoverer Geoff Marcy. "Four women alleged that Marcy repeatedly engaged in inappropriate physical behavior with students, including unwanted massages, kisses, and groping. As a result of the findings, the women were informed, Marcy has been given 'clear expectations concerning his future interactions with students,' which he must follow or risk 'sanctions that could include suspension or dismissal.''

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  1. Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It's the conflict between universities wanting to be an open environment of learning, education, and research (i.e. their fucking job) and actually making money. Universities literally make money on the discoveries of their researchers. So unfortunately they get plenty of leeway when it comes to this, because most universities aren't willing to actually fight a tenured professor on this.

    Meanwhile, universities adopted extremely stringent rules on campus rape. It's not like they don't believe this is a problem. But they sure as hell do believe that students are expendable but professors aren't.

    (Personally, I think university sexual harassment and rape proceedings should have power to fire tenured professors - tenure is supposed to protect professors with unpopular opinions, not professors who sexually harass their students.)

    1. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Unfortunately, accusations of sexual harassment are often easy to create to punish politically incorrect beliefs or actions.

      It's a real problem, and I don't see any easy solution. There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!

      We seem to be groping towards a tradition where honesty is demanded on both sides, but getting there is causing a lot of people a lot of problems. For a minor example of the kind of problem from a few decades ago "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?". For awhile you would receive abuse no matter HOW you answered that. (From different groups, but still abuse.) For that matter just last week I heard a woman saying (as a compliment) to a man that it had been years since the last time a man held a door open for her. She still saw that the the proper polite behavior.

      Now note that the question of holding a door open never had the degree of seriousness attached to it that "inappropriate advances" had. OTOH, under the old standard the professor would be forbidden to approach the female student no matter how provocative she was. So (as reported) he was following neither the old standard nor the developing standard.

      In this case the only answer I see is "life logs". If either was wearing a life log, then the situation would not be in doubt, and in *THAT* case I think that there should be the ability to remove tenure. But there should also be a right of appeal, though to who? The administration or the faculty? Whichever of those two groups wasn't running the prior proceedings would be my first cut at an answer, but one might also consider whether the students should have a say in this.

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    2. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I offered to pay for a recording device for my friend, who was regularly sexually harassed by her faculty adviser. She decided against it, mainly because she felt trapped in her situation. Getting another adviser (either by seeking one or reporting the abuse of hers) would mean abandoning years of work (and racking up more debt), which could not simply be resumed with another adviser.

    3. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Try reading the comment before posting a reply.

    4. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell.

      Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!

      Are you fucking serious? If they say stop, you fucking stop. End of discussion. No matter how much of a blow to your manhood you perceive it to be.

      No easy way to tell? Jesus Christ.

    5. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by godrik · · Score: 4, Informative

      That is the main problem with sexual harassement. Once a sexual harassement case appear, the consequences of being wrong will be terrible in either case:
      1/ either you let a sexual harasser free.
      2/ or you destroy the life of an innocent.

      Neither of these options are preferable. And because it is so hard to get evidence of these, it often ends in "he said/she said". So everyone wants to tiptoe around it.

    6. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      " There is a strong cultural tradition that says that women are supposed to protest against pursuit, even when that's what they really want, and there's no easy way to tell. "

      Wrong. If a woman likes you she will let you know subtly.Do you seriously think a woman is going to protest against the advances of someone they are romantically attracted to? Understanding the nuance between friendliness and flirting is something most geeks fail to understand or realize it even exists.

      "Clearly the only safe procedure is to immediately desist upon request, but there's also a strong cultural tradition that says this is "unmanly". Whoops!"

      Wrong. You stop. Don't be a creep.

    7. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Nidi62 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Sure, I stop. I also see other men that don't stop, and end up with her on top riding him screaming in ecstasy.

      Maybe you would have better luck with women if you didn't stalk them home during their one-night stands?

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    8. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tnk1 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In the context of this case, I quite agree.

      The professor is in a position of power, or at least respect, in an organization like a university. He shouldn't be hitting on the students. Period.

      I know there is a long history of professors banging co-eds, and sometimes that's fully consensual between adults, but even so, professors should not be playing cat and mouse intimacy with their peers let alone their students. This is a workplace matter, not a mating dance. If a woman does want to get busy with a professor, and is playing a coy game with him, who cares? It isn't unmanly for him to refuse to play the game, it's professional for him to refuse to become involved. Surely a professor should not be taking a page from the caveman manual on intergender relationships to justify his pursuit.

      As a manager, I don't get to give my female employees massages, and I'd demur even if a particularly attractive one straight up asked me to. Why? Because the workplace is the wrong place for that and I have a substantial effect on her career if we were to get involved or if there was even the suggestion that we were involved. So why are professors supposed to be special? Do they have no professional ethics?

      All that should be necessary is that there are witnesses to the behavior. The woman herself shouldn't even need to come forward if third parties can vouch for it.

      I admit that there is a potential for issues when anonymous claims are made. There does need to be a way of dealing with that fairly and honestly. You should be allowed to face your accuser if accused of such a crime, but at the same time, there has to be understanding that the victims are in a difficult position.

    9. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by TheLongshot · · Score: 2

      "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?"

      The answer is easy: hold the door open no matter if it is a man or woman. Why should sex matter in being polite?

    10. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Krishnoid · · Score: 2

      "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?"

      I bet the answer is the same as "Does this dress make me look fat?" :-)

    11. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by tnk1 · · Score: 2

      There's nothing confusing about it. It's like everything else.

      You stand a higher chance of getting banged if you take that sort of risk, but it's a risk. And even if they fuck like crazed, consenting weasels, it isn't necessarily "happily ever after".

      Think about all the sexual abuse accusers out there. At least some of them are likely people who played the game, got what they thought wanted, and then realized later that they were actually "molested". I'm not one to dismiss accusations of molestation lightly, but probability states that at least some of them are actually false charges. And if you did take that risk with a partner, then no matter how good the sex was, you just set yourself up for trouble down the road.

      Also, when others in your field see you making moves on students or subordinates, your reputation can suffer. Even if he or she really wants it, you're now pegged as a creep. Just look at this guy. Even assuming all of the anonymous girls are lying about him, he's been seen in public doing creepy things. It doesn't matter if each and every girl he massaged got hot and rode him for the next three weeks afterward. He's still got a reputation for that shit.

      Seriously, sex isn't all that hard to come by. Probably less so for some famous academic. The only way to end the whole "playing hard to get" stereotype is to refuse to play that game. Especially when you are in a position where you could do real harm if you are wrong about her real intentions, or even if you're right and still manage to fuck yourself over.

    12. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by jedidiah · · Score: 2

      You're just trying to commit the "no true scottsman" fallacy.

      You can only judge a movement by it's followers.

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    13. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guises · · Score: 2

      Are you deliberately misreading that? It's not like "playing hard to get" was a phrase that some rapist just made up one day, it's a real thing that really happens. A lot. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's still a real thing that really happens. A lot.

    14. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Etherwalk · · Score: 2

      Are you deliberately misreading that? It's not like "playing hard to get" was a phrase that some rapist just made up one day, it's a real thing that really happens. A lot. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's still a real thing that really happens. A lot.

      It does happen--studies show somewhere in the 20-40% of women range at some point refuse sexual advances when they want them. But you shouldn't assume that's what's happening, because 20-40% at *some* point saying one thing and meaning another, no matter how big your ego is, you should not assume they are talking about YOU.

    15. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by PseudoThink · · Score: 2

      My friend is lesbian. Apparently, her faculty adviser found this fascinating. During their regular meetings, instead of keeping to the purpose of their meetings (ie. her research), he would do things like ask whether she found particular women attractive or not. He also repeatedly commented that she would be more attractive it she wore more feminine clothing, or wore her hair differently (ie. past her shoulders). According to her, these kinds of inappropriate digressions happened regularly. She not only felt objectified and creeped out by his behavior, but the digressions took substantial time away from making progress with her research. Sometimes, she could not proceed further in her work without his input, and he would spend their whole meeting on stuff like that. Keep in mind, she's a student, racking up loans while getting her degree, so these kinds of frequent delays were costing her money as well as time, aside from the whole issue of harassment.

      I don't know why she would make this stuff up. She's not an attention seeker, and obviously doesn't intend to seek retribution or punishment against the guy. She's quiet, introverted, and non-confrontational.

      Furthermore, I have a male friend who had the same faculty adviser. The adviser was a total asshole to him. He regularly implied or directly called my male friend an idiot. Again, my male friend is quiet, introverted, and non-confrontational, so he got walked on. I'm not sure how much of a difference it would have made if he weren't, though, due to the power dynamic. I attended his defense, and actually met the adviser. There were five professors at his defense, including his adviser. Among these, only his adviser interrupted his defense to criticize his presentation. Frequently, and usually for something completely trivial. Several times, he insisted that my friend change the phrasing of a statement, to the point where he would literally tell him exactly what to say, then have him repeat it out loud, word for word. It was embarrassingly obvious to everyone in the room that this adviser just loved the power, and loved to exercise it in ways that would trivialize or demean others. It was absurd to watch, even if it weren't my friend taking the brunt of the abuse.

    16. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by R3d+M3rcury · · Score: 3, Funny
    17. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by St.Creed · · Score: 2

      So true! I too, slam the door in the face of my co-workers. It teaches them to keep up with me and walk faster.

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    18. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Stewie241 · · Score: 2

      I wouldn't judge her for not recording the transactions, on the other hand, given that it was unlikely to stop I wonder if it would have been possible to record and wait until she was finished in order to prevent it from happening to future students. I doubt this is isolated behaviour and it sounds like he was generally an asshole.

      Additionally, enduring and keeping the records might have underlined and highlighted the bleakness of the situation a student might find themselves in - forced to endure unwanted attention because of the stakes that are on the line.

    19. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by guruevi · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So how is that rape? Miscommunication happens in every interaction including sexual reproduction. If your mechanic says your brakes are on their way out and should be replaced soon does not make him a murderer when they fail 6 months later. Soon is ill defined but for a mechanic it may mean a few weeks but you may think before the next inspection.

      Rape is pretty well defined legally. Regretting after the fact or going along with it for whatever reason does not fall under the legal definition of rape. And yes, I know feminists are trying to reclassify all male advances towards females as rape but it doesn't make it right.

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    20. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You just called someone that agrees "Yes means yes and no means no." a raping pieces of shit. Reflect on that.

    21. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 2

      It's because a lot of men have internalized the cultural bias that anyone who is easily discouraged is unmanly, and that women do (and should) deny interest even when they are interested. Try figuring out how to act with those beliefs if sexual harassment is penalized.

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    22. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by HiThere · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It is often abused even without any sexual overtures.

      Let me rephrase that.

      The power of graduate advisors over graduate students is extremely often abused in ways that would be illegal in most other circumstances. E.g. demanding unpaid labor for over 40 hours/week.

      That is would also be abused in other ways shouldn't surprise anyone.

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    23. Re: Academia is willing to protect total dicks by cyber-vandal · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This problem is fixed by making consent explicit

      Unless it's a signed and notarised consent form how do you prove that? This is a private act with no witnesses possibly under the influence of alcohol.

    24. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Without proof, it never happened.

      No, without proof, there is no proof.

      Doesn't mean it didn't happen.

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    25. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by Zero__Kelvin · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "Her work was in theoretical mathematics, on a thesis for which (as she explained to me) this adviser was her only option, at her school. If the work was generic or potentially transferable research, it might make sense that she should be able to simply find another adviser."

      Or another school

      "Couldn't the university claim that the adviser's offense is not the university's offense?"

      No

      " Covert recordings are usually illegal/inadmissable as evidence without a warrant

      Sexual harassment is illegal where I am from. I don't know about where you live. If it is indeed illegal there she should talk to a lawyer, who can involve the police and secure a warrant for the recording.

      I am not one who is vitriolic, but I can assure you that the US jails have many, many inhabitants who are in jail because a women made up a story. I don't know where you live, but where I live men are very sensitive to this. Regardless of where you live the world is full of women who lie (not all by any means, of course) so most men take such accusations with a grain of salt, and even more so when the woman grows reluctant any time a way of proving it is discussed. You'll note that I emphasized the word suspect in my first post. It is certainly possible that the professor is every bit the lech that she claims, too. You'll note that I am spending my valuable time addressing this. This is because I despise both lecherous professors and woman who make up stories about men that are not true. Each is equally dangerous and offensive, and I would love it if the actual truth came to light, whatever that truth might be.

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    26. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      For all practical purposes, it never happened.

    27. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by ebvwfbw · · Score: 2

      Try reading the comment before posting a reply.

      He did, you didn't, obviously. Stop being an AC. Get an account.

      I've been accused a few times myself. One time it was really definitive. I supposedly had sex with this woman one evening. That evening I was with my to be wife and a lot of other people. She was really sure until we told her about that, then it was the day before, which I was also photographed at another event, then it was last week, also I was photographed at another event. Then she admitted she was full of shit.

      Now suppose I didn't have that? Today I'd be in trouble. I've seen it in many other cases.

      Here's a clue people - women sometimes lie. Some of them lie all the time. They can be just like men. Imagine that.

      BTW, the more attractive they are, the more likely they are liars. Not always, however I found that to very often be the case. Once again, sex doesn't matter. The attractive men can be real good liars just like the real attractive women.

    28. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      No, you don't understand. You don't realize that for all "practical" purposes that without proof, as far as anything can be done about it, it can be considered to never have happened. Rave all you want. it is the equivalent of beating your head against a wall. Considering that the way you use yours it might just as well be empty.......bang away.

    29. Re:Academia is willing to protect total dicks by amiga3D · · Score: 2

      Hell, I give up. I'm sorry I wasn't clear enough for you.

  2. We should not protect them by godrik · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "How far should academic communities go to protect their intellectual capital, at the expense of further harm to their students, past and present?"

    As a male university professor, my answer to this is very clear. We should not protect them. For many reasons:
    1/ You begin brilliant does not mean you can do whatever you want.
    2/ For most of us, we can do our research from a prison cell.
    3/ Our students are the main product of academic life. We all love to believe that our research is the most important. But realistically we have the opportunity to touch the mind (the mind I said!) of hundreds of students each year. They will be our legacy, let's make it good one!

  3. The challenge is keeping this issue gender-neutral by Applehu+Akbar · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Because sexuality and talent in any given academic discipline are independent variables, academia has to deal with various kinds of harassment in exactly the same way as any other place of work. Unfortunately it is unable to, because campuses are increasingly being colonized by the sort of toxic misandrists who could not find a job anywhere else, and so are making academia their private fiefdom. So long as their definition of harassment is "anything that men like," the Feynmans of the future will have to find homes in private research institutes.

  4. Power dynamics in graduate academia by PseudoThink · · Score: 5, Informative

    Two of my friends were trapped with a faculty adviser who was incredibly abusive (verbally) toward one, and regularly sexually harassed the other. On a daily basis, for years. They tolerated his abuse for so long because they felt they had no choice. Getting a different adviser would mean abandoning their work (in theoretical mathematics), setting them back a ton of money (in academic loans) and years of work/research. Reporting the adviser's abuse would result in the same penalties for them.

    It was a messed up power dynamic of which their adviser was likely fully aware and certainly took full advantage. Even after obtaining their PhD's, my friends can't do much about it. They still need the adviser's support as a reference, for getting published, and they just want to put it all behind them.

  5. How many female students... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How many female students approach their male professors each year, attempting to use sex as a bargaining chip? Those visits during office hours, exhibiting cliched behaviour like dropping a pencil to bend over and retrieve it. Flirting, quick furtive touching, inquiring about "extra credit," occasionally even flatly and outright making a proposition to trade sexual favors in exchange for a passing grade. I'm old, paunchy, balding, unattractive; I know precisely what these misguided young women are up to, as they're certainly not after my good looks or great fortune. Such harassment is common at many campuses and yet I see no prominent feminists standing up to decry this behaviour.

    1. Re:How many female students... by x0ra · · Score: 2

      but, how can this be ? Aren't women always the victims of perverted ugly old fat tenured professors ?

    2. Re:How many female students... by techno-vampire · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I sympathize with you, but as a male, I don't personally consider that to be harassment because there's no threat, either explicit or implicit involved. When a professor treats a student like that, there's always the implication that the student's grade depends to some extent on what happens, but unless the student tries to blackmail the professor with false claims of impropriety, it's hard to see how it can be called harassment. ICBW, of course, but as of right now, that's how I see it.

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    3. Re: How many female students... by cyber-vandal · · Score: 2

      Being able to make a false harassment allegation that could destroy a career and a life is not a huge amount of power?

  6. It's buzzfeed by kuzb · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Case dismissed. Why does this trash keep getting posted here.

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    1. Re:It's buzzfeed by starless · · Score: 2

      It's more than just buzzfeed.
      Here's Science magazine if you prefer:
      http://news.sciencemag.org/sci...

  7. Re:Like athleticism, genius gets a pass sometimes by Gravis+Zero · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Exceptions are made for the exceptional. It is not a right or wrong moral conundrum so much as it is the way the World works.

    you are morally bankrupt.

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  8. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Since you need power structures in order for harassment to carry any weight/threat, yes, a disproportionate amount of harassment is men against women.

    Don't fall into the common techie trope of expecting everyone else to explain everything to you by spouting a pathetically-informed opinion.

  9. No shit sherlock .. by nickweller · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

    Have these fragile flowers ever thought of saying no to sexual advances. What Feynman does/did with his dick - as long as it's between consenting adults - is nobody's business except his.

    "It's not surprising to find these anecdotes disturbing and even offensive"

    Well then, don't read about them.

    "the propensity to lie on the beach and watch girls"

    OH, shock horror !

    "actions .. that were considered acceptable or amusing in 1950 would quite rightly cause instant outrage in 2014."

    No they wouldn't, it's just that the political-correctness-feminista dictatorship would try and get you fired if you say any different.

    Richard Feynman, sexism and changing perceptions of a scientific icon

    1. Re:No shit sherlock .. by godrik · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You quote : "when he was a young, boyish looking professor at Cornell, Feynman used to pretend to be a student so he could ask undergraduate women out .. Feynman .. trying to get women in bars to sleep with him .. documented affairs with two married women"

      I have no idea whether this quote is correct or not. But pretending to be a student seems to pretty much rule out sexual harassment. You do not sexually harass by pretending to have less control on the other person than you actually have. Or you are the worse harasser in history...

  10. Comparing Feynman with Marcy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    After reading the linked piece about Feynman, it doesn't seem that his alleged sexism (and I'm not claiming it did or did not exist) is at all comparable to what Prof Marcy has been accused of. Feynman may have been a "typical sexist male of the '50s", but Marcy is being accused of criminal acts including sexual assault.

    1. Re:Comparing Feynman with Marcy by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

      No matter how you slice it, it is grossly unfair to judge the behaviour of a 1950's "ladies man" by 21st century social norms. The thing that upset some people when he was alive was the fact that Feynman was not ashamed of his sexuality and often bragged he had played the bongo drums at a "strip joint".

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  11. Re:Um... wtf? by Cederic · · Score: 2

    I've never once heard of a man getting in trouble for holding a door open.

    I've been accused of harassment before for holding a door open. But this is the same woman that assaulted me in the workplace on another occasion..

  12. Doors by Skewray · · Score: 2

    For a minor example of the kind of problem from a few decades ago "Should a man hold a door open for a woman?". For awhile you would receive abuse no matter HOW you answered that. (From different groups, but still abuse.) For that matter just last week I heard a woman saying (as a compliment) to a man that it had been years since the last time a man held a door open for her. She still saw that the the proper polite behavior.

    Door opening is initiated by the female, and so cannot be harassment. She slows down, and the man gets to the door first. If she doesn't slow down, then the man has to run ahead, which makes him look silly. If she doesn't slow down, then she isn't a lady, and he shouldn't run for her. We don't have a shortage of polite men, we have women instead of ladies.

  13. Re:Shock-Horror: man propositions women .. by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

    Richard Dawkins, Bill Maher, and many other outspoken progressives have lamented the growing trend in universities to control speech on campus, going so far as to ban speakers they disagree with. The push for this self-censorship is coming from the student body itself. Berkley was singled out by Dawkins as particularly disappointing since he (rightly) sees it as the "home of free speech during the civil right's movement". As a "boomer" myself, it's disappointing to see the next generation throwing out the civil rights that we fought for in favour of the same kind of intellectually claustrophobic political correctness we fought against.

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  14. How about if it's the other way around? by sethstorm · · Score: 2

    It seems like it only counts if the victim is female - especially in cases like Amherst where they prosecuted the victim (male) and defended the perpetrator (female).

    Do something when the rules are consistently applied to everyone.

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  15. Feynman sexist, what proof? by MouseTheLuckyDog · · Score: 2

    I don't see any proof that Feynman was sexist.
    The only thing I see is a a bunch of stories of how he tried to get laid in his off hours by women he had no professional relationship with.

    Is it trying to get laid? That's called being a man. ( Well at least wanting to get laid is. Trying is also a function of courage and moral values. )
    Is it telling stories about it? That's just being honest.
    Is it trying to pick up women at bars? Ever been in a bar?

  16. How I would handle getting laid as a professor by Theovon · · Score: 2

    First of all, I’m happily married and would not want to violate what my wife and I have agreed to, whether she knew about it or not.

    But the university I work for (along with most others) take inappropriate behavior very seriously. I have had to pass certifications on this, so I have put some thought into the issue. When you are in a position of power relative to someone else, there is just way too much potential for abuse of that power. If you understand that underlying principle, then you can safely date without causing any harm.

    Unless your university has very specific fules, I would suggest perhaps a few rules of thumb that should keep you out of trouble:
    - Don’t ever date a student in your own department.
    - Staff in your own department, maybe, but have to be handled carefully — avoid any you might have some authority over.
    - Faculty in your own department are pretty much free game, especially if they’re tenured.
    - Faculty and staff at any level in any other department are free game.
    - Graduate students in other departments, maybe, but have to be handled carefully — prefer older ones.
    - Never date an undergraduate student, even if they’re nontraditional.
    - Any student who has graduated and is no longer a student is okay, but you have to be careful about others suspecting that the relationship might have started before they graduated, which could get you into trouble.

    Also, just because you first meet someone off campus (at a bar, say) doesn’t mean that these rules don’t apply. If you find out that someone you’re talking to at a bar is an undergrad at your school, you really need to break it off immediately. I don’t care how turned on you are by each other at that moment, the risk of that biting you in the ass later is just too great.

    And remember, this isn’t all about you protecting yourself from getting into trouble. It’s about protecting your students from psychological harm. I’m in Computer Science, and we just don’t have enough women in STEM fields. We have to make sure women (and men for that matter) feel that they’re going into a safe educational environment where people in authority are not going to prey on them. Students should earn their education and their grades, not buy them with favors, and they need to be able to be awarded the education and grades they’ve worked for without predators interfering.

  17. Re:What about women harassing men? by preaction · · Score: 2

    You're right. You personally don't need an entire system of oppression to feel uncomfortable, but you would need that system of oppression to be (not just feel, but actually be) helpless in the face of that feeling. Your singular anxiety does not create a system of oppression against you. My anxiety does not make the people who make me feel anxious into bad people.

    If harassment is defined by the system of oppression, and the current system of oppression is patriarchal consisting of toxic masculinity, then what I said is not a lie.

  18. Disappointing choice by Bruce66423 · · Score: 2

    Try to do it covertly, get the qualification you are after and a new job, and then sue the individual and the institution on the basis of the evidence you've got. Should pay off the debts nicely. Ultimately hitting institutions in the wallet is the way that will make a real difference, and the technology now exists to ensure that decent evidence can be obtained.

    1. Re:Disappointing choice by PseudoThink · · Score: 2

      I thought of this too, which led me to consider/suggest the more reasonable, less dramatic approach of simply doing it the opposite way: give her a voice recorder to use in plain sight, for its traditional purpose of recording notes for later review. The intention was to get him (the adviser) to stop his bad behavior, not to get him in trouble. Once he knew things were being recorded, he would be smart enough to discontinue the unprofessionalism. But realistically, this probably wouldn't work, and she knew it. He'd simply refuse to let her use it in his office or something, and then she'd have to deal with the fallout from the resulting situation.

  19. Re:Um... wtf? by Pseudonym · · Score: 2

    Right, so probably not the most representative sample there.

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