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Author Says Going Offline For 24 Hours a Week Has Significantly Improved His Health, Sanity and Happiness (businessinsider.com)

You don't need someone to point out to you that you probably spend too many hours on the internet. Maybe it's your job, maybe it's a growing habit, maybe it's both of them. An anonymous reader shared a link on Business Insider, in which an author named Roy Hessel shares what happened after he started to force himself to go offline for 24 hours every week. (He chose the duration between sundown on Friday to sunset on Saturday as the time for disconnect.) From the article:No emails, no calls, no Tweets, no tech, no matter what. For anyone who's struggling with finding time for self and family, I'd like to share what I've learned. For health, sanity, and happiness, I think it can make all the difference. It's not enough to carve out time in your schedule. You need to approach this blackout period with an unwavering belief in its benefit and a commitment to see it through. For me, this means abstaining from work and, in the deepest sense, simply resting. It grounds me and allows me to re-energize and focus on what's really important in my life. The key is to be unapologetic rather than aspirational about unplugging. As soon my family and I get home from our workweek, there's nothing, with the exception of a life and death situation, that would cause me to compromise that time. As far as business and my income is concerned, it can wait.We understand that not everyone wants or afford to go offline for a complete day, but do you also ensure that you are offline for a few hours everyday or every week or every month?

Paul Miller, a reporter at The Verge, went offline in 2012 for a complete year and shared his experience when he got back. You might find it insightful.

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  1. Sorry online is all I've got right now by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Got no job. Got no friends. Got no family to speak of.

    Online is my only connection to the world. At 45 and single, making new friends is all but impossible. So all I've got left is my life online.

    1. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by HBI · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Start walking. Volunteer for something that you can get to. Jobs, friends, and women will come. Sitting on the internet, nothing at all.

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      HBI's Law: Frequency of calling others Nazis is directly correlated with the likelihood of the accuser being Communist.
    2. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      OP already comes in handy.

    3. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by jedidiah · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In the old days they referred to this as the Sabbath. The really compliant types even now will unplug themselves completely from all tech or work for the day.

      Taking a break one day in 7.

      The old becomes new.

      --
      A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
    4. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by gabereiser · · Score: 3, Funny

      and have an affinity for the letter R

    5. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by npslider · · Score: 3, Funny

      and must do all IT work remotely between pillaging and looting and posting the latest plank walking video online.

    6. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by SeaFox · · Score: 5, Funny

      Do Avast developers really have such bleak social lives?

    7. Re:Sorry online is all I've got right now by Karl+Cocknozzle · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Dude, one word for you, MeetUp.

      Make friends based on mutual interest in hobbies and whathaveyounot. Totally a great option for grown-ups whose friends are all married and preoccuppied with their armies of children.

      --
      Who did what now?
  2. I call my time camping by npslider · · Score: 4, Informative

    We have a family cabin with no electricity and no cell coverage. When we would spend a day or two there, we were cut off from all tech. It was propane lamps, outhouse, and a cooking fire / propane stove. Yeah, I had no shower, and was covered in bug spray, but it was FREEDOM.

    It did feel good to be fully engaged in activities that were all non-tech. To see nature. To talk without distractions. We did not use our phones in any offline mode BTW, we just turned them off. So fun to hear the river, swat the bugs (OK maybe not that), and feel like I was back in time.

    It felt both weird and comforting to see the signal bars reappear on my phone on the drive back to the city.

  3. Just out of curiosity... by paulxnuke · · Score: 3, Interesting

    is Roy Hessel an observant Jew?

    It seems like this would be obligatory in that case (still a good idea.)

  4. I go offline more than 24 hours in a week by dejitaru · · Score: 2

    I mean I gotta sleep sometime :)

    1. Re:I go offline more than 24 hours in a week by npslider · · Score: 2

      What???

      No non-stop all-night gaming sessions!?

      And you come here and post! How dare you!!

      Be gone with you! Or repent of your ways and live up to the reputation expected of you! :)

  5. You don't need to go offline. by Bender+Unit+22 · · Score: 2

    Just quit "social" media.

    1. Re:You don't need to go offline. by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Slashdot isn't really social media. It's more an anti-social network.

      --
      "That's the way to do it" - Punch
    2. Re:You don't need to go offline. by sinij · · Score: 2

      Slashdot isn't really social media. It's more an anti-social network.

      I resent this remark. Unless you apologize I will have no other choice but call you names and racial slurs.

  6. Confirmation Bias by zelkovamoon · · Score: 2

    "You need to approach this blackout period with an unwavering belief in its benefit and a commitment to see it through." -- If you do that, how do you know that the results you experience are not placebo, or biased. If you go into this trying as hard as you can to convince yourself that it will be great and you'll feel better afterward, how do you know that the better you feel isn't just a result of accomplishing your task, and not the subject of the task. I can be convinced, but not by anecdote. Science plz.

  7. I've done similar by wjcofkc · · Score: 3, Insightful

    A few months ago I powered down my phone. I don't know what spurred me but I left it off for a week (vacation). At first being disconnected was painful. After the first couple of days I felt liberated and did not want to turn it back at the point when I felt I had no choice. I still had email, but the people I know are more modern in the sense they don't really use it socially and never have such that there is a disconnect for them. For me this made personal contact less intrusive and less invasive. People suddenly no longer felt the need to text me every little errant thought and selfies of them not looking at where they are going.

    It was nice.

    --
    Brought to you by Carl's Junior.
    1. Re:I've done similar by npslider · · Score: 3, Funny

      The white glowing extrovert with a golden halo on my right shoulder told me to turn off the phone for a while. My fingers made it to the power button...

      The red tailed introverted devil on the left sent me a candy crush request.

      My decision became considerably easier.

      Sigh... That little devil is a crafty one..

  8. Re:Sundown vs Sunset by tsqr · · Score: 2

    Why the fuck would any sane human use both in the same sentence? Are they just trying to fuck with the reader?

    Wow, it looks like being on line is affecting your sanity and happiness.

  9. And immediately after by Solandri · · Score: 3, Interesting

    They feel compelled to share their experience online. This is starting to sound like people who like to point out they don't own a TV. (And yes I know that's a satire site. It's funny because it hints at the true motivation of people who claim they like to buck the trend.)

    Lots of people go offline for an extended period of time. Hikers, campers, sailors, hunters, etc. They just don't make a big deal about it (online) as the folks who do it so they can brag about it online. That's the key difference, not whether or not you choose to go offline for a while. Are you doing it to participate in an activity you can enjoy without having to be online? Or are you doing it so you can brag about it online (e.g. post selfies you took while touring Yellowstone)? That's the point musicians are trying to make at concerts when they tell people to put away their phones. It's not that phones or the Internet is evil and you need to take time away from them. It's that you have this wonderful event going on right in front of you in real life, and you're missing it because you're too busy staring at your phone. You're trying to record the experience so you can "re-live" it later, but in doing so you're missing out on the actual experience, which defeats the whole purpose.

    That's the important thing - that you prioritize your enjoyment of that real-world experience while it's happening over your ability to re-live it later or share the experience online. Not how many hours or days you can go while offline.

  10. Re:Power Outages by npslider · · Score: 2

    Sounds like you may want to have "scheduled" unexpected flips of the main house electrical breakers. :)

  11. Re:Power Outages by wonkey_monkey · · Score: 2

    I think he committed a crime. ...against comedy! Hah! Yeah, I went there!

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    systemd is Roko's Basilisk.
  12. I will stop getting /. bonus points by Trachman · · Score: 2, Funny

    If I go offline for 24 hours, I will no longer receive slashdot vanity bonus points for daily login.

    Nah, can't do that.