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Child Experts: Just Say 'No' To Facebook's Kids App (apnews.com)

A group letter sent Tuesday to CEO Mark Zuckerberg argues that younger children -- the app is intended for those under 13 -- aren't ready to have social media accounts, navigate the complexities of online relationships or protect their own privacy. From a report: Facebook launched the free Messenger Kids app in December, pitching it as a way for children to chat with family members and parent-approved friends. It doesn't give kids separate Facebook or Messenger accounts. Rather, the app works as an extension of a parent's account, and parents get controls such as the ability to decide who their kids can chat with. The social media giant has said it fills "a need for a messaging app that lets kids connect with people they love but also has the level of control parents want."

But a group of 100 experts, advocates and parenting organizations is contesting those claims. Led by the Boston-based Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood, the group includes psychiatrists, pediatricians, educators and the children's music singer Raffi Cavoukian. "Messenger Kids is not responding to a need -- it is creating one," the letter states. "It appeals primarily to children who otherwise would not have their own social media accounts."

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  1. who controls? by luttapi · · Score: 1

    We kids will control who our parents communicate with!

    1. Re:who controls? by NewWorldDan · · Score: 4, Insightful

      We were setting up our new XBox and my kid said, "I'm going to say on my account that I'm 21 so I can get M rated games." The fact is, by the time kids are 10, they have figured out that they can watch anything or use any service just by changing their birthday.

      Most kids aren't that interested in Facebook. That's something that their parents and grandparents use. They've cobbled together their own social media experience with platforms that I've never heard of. Some may want to be on Facebook, but apparently not my kid or any of her friends. That's something that Facebook is genuinely worried about. Their success is mostly built on inertia. If they don't grab the next generation early, those kids will go do something else and soon Facebook is reduced to MySpace.

    2. Re:who controls? by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Facebook offers little that the next gen wants. Facebook didn't manage to make the leap onto the cellphone smoothly, which is essentially the tool younger (under 20) people use to stay in touch with each other. The thing closest to a computer they use, aside of gaming consoles, is maybe a touchpad.

      Facebook isn't quite a mobile app. Yes, yes, it has a mobile app, but face it, it sucks. It's too bulky, too unwieldy and too overloaded, and the next gen users don't want that, it seems. They want apps that do what they want to do NOW, do it well and everything aside of that, there's another app for that that does that well. Simple interfaces without having to dig through 6 menus to get to what you want to do NOW is what they want. If that means running 10 apps that you switch between with the flick of a finger, so be it.

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  2. Title adjustment by thegreatbob · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Experts: Just Say 'No' To Facebook

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    1. Re:Title adjustment by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

      +1

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    2. Re:Title adjustment by thegreatbob · · Score: 1

      I'm with you there; it seems imprudent for a variety of reasons, cost being a big factor. Replacing smartphones can get expensive. Unfortunately, privacy concerns are hard to sell when you can't see any immediate effects from them.

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  3. Re: Fuckerberg by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    All your child are belong to us!!!!

  4. Facebook = Cigarette companies by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 3, Insightful

    They’re basically now at the point where they’ve mostly addicted the older generation, so to maintain long-term profits they need to invent ways to hook the younger generation before they get old enough to think for themselves and realize that Facebook is dumb (and mainly populated with old people nowadays).

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    1. Re:Facebook = Cigarette companies by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 2

      I am (technically) an Old Person now; I dumped Failbook years ago and never looked back, and encourage others to do the same. So much for statistics, I guess?

    2. Re:Facebook = Cigarette companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Ideas for anti-Facebook advertising campaigns?

      Mine: "Facebook is for lemmings. Don't be a lemming."

      Though I think many of those on Facebook are too stupid to know what a lemming is and what the word implies, so there has to be a better one for *those* people.

  5. Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

    Are just making vague generalizations. I know when I was 10 there was no Facebook, but I got an E-mail account,
    and I got on Internet Relay Chat, became a regular in dozens of channels --- started helping out users with their technical troubles and abuse issues.

    A few years later I was a DALnet Oper and Svs Admin: that was until two events involving DDoS and politics obliterated the pair of servers
    whose teams I was on from the network.

    I saw the worst of the worst, and turned out just fine, and I didn't have a group of experts saying I "shouldn't socialize or have my own accounts on the internet" --- heck, I registered my own accounts all the time (Admittedly.... often under a pseudonym/fake/assumed name), and there wasn't even any language back then that you needed to be 13.....

    Why with the artificial privacy restrictions, when we KNOW very well... that Google knows MORE about us than ourselves and our closest pals?

    The only rule for privacy protection is to learn who to trust and who NOT to trust, and large companies are among those NOT to trust.

    1. Re:Child "Experts" by mlyle · · Score: 1

      Of course they can make money on it. It increases the loyalty of all the grownups who are connected to kids to the network (one more reason for grandpa to have an account-- he couldn't message little Timmy without!) and it makes it more likely that little Timmy will decide he needs a real facebook account once he's old enough. The cost of providing free messaging is trivial compared to these advantages.

    2. Re:Child "Experts" by thegreatbob · · Score: 1

      Good luck getting a society of folks who are too lazy to develop a means to remember their own password(s, hopefully) to follow suit...

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    3. Re:Child "Experts" by Voyager529 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Consider the difference in timing, both technically and societally. IRC gave you your first foray into tech support. You were amongst the sort of people who used technology in the late 80's and early 90's, back when distrust on the internet was the default. It was a great time to use the internet. Both IRC and DALnet were not dependent on a multibillion dollar company to access, and while those rooms may have been moderated, they were not curated. You had an e-mail account...where the spam filter was likely between your ears.

      You saw the worst of the worst and identified it as such because you knew there wasn't a filter and it was your responsibility to act accordingly. Facebook Kids gives the parents the assumption that Facebook is doing some amount of curating, which means that everyone up the child's chain of trust says "it must be okay".

      When you were an adolescent, there were no watchmen. Now, there are watchmen, and someone needs to watch the watchmen. And that is the difference.

    4. Re:Child "Experts" by avandesande · · Score: 1

      What does your example have to do with at-risk kids being cyber-bullied and killing themselves? Not much apparently.

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    5. Re:Child "Experts" by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Yes, back then the number of people on the internet has been lower. But I doubt that the percentage of "bad" people changed significantly. And you know the old saying, on the internet you're by default in a bad neighborhood and EVERY burglar is in front of your door.

      And back then there was no information campaigning in schools and awareness presentations telling you about the bad, bad men on the internet who want to lure you into their virtual van.

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    6. Re:Child "Experts" by hey! · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Well, I don't know what it takes to be a "child expert", but presumably it takes more than having had a childhood. One thing that having a business taught me about customers, and by extension people in general, is that you can't take it for granted that your own experiences and preferences are universal, or even typical.

      And in any case I don't think the real problem with children -- particularly teenagers -- is them seeing bad things, although that's a kind of weird cultural obsession we have.

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    7. Re:Child "Experts" by fph+il+quozientatore · · Score: 1

      Agree completely. It looks like most of these arguments boil down to "kids today don't grow up the way they used to, so it must be a bad thing".

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    8. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      is that you can't take it for granted that your own experiences and preferences are universal, or even typical.

      Fair enough.... but maybe just maybe the parent closer to their specific child's experiences would be a better judge than the recommendations of questionable merit from some prescriptive experts.

    9. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      What does your example have to do with at-risk kids being cyber-bullied and killing themselves?

      What you call "cyber bullying" is not new, but a frequent thing that happened on the internet back into the '90s.
      I don't want to make light of suicides, but it's not even a realistic risk: kids aren't killing themselves over cyberbullying
      unless they already are behaviorally deficient or have a mental disease or other major real-life problems --- Real-Life bullying at school is the bigger risk,
      and "cyberbullying" is just a scapegoat where some School's can try to pretend the technology was responsible for the rogue behavior they failed to control and appropriate discipline in and out their classrooms.

    10. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Now any low life has access and access to tools to exploit the gullible.

      Maybe.... now that we have tools like Skype and Facebook which everybody and their grandma logs into.
      I think if you check though: you'll find the average age of the gullible to be users 40 or older.

      We're not even talking about that though...... the Facebook app is essentially a walled garden where the parents approve all their contacts, thus you have effectively limited the population of potential scammers to those who can fool BOTH the parents and the kids.

      I just find it quite ridiculous how the "experts" could reasonably equate this to putting the kids on Facebook and raise concerns about "Not being ready for Socializing" ----- as if being a human wasn't defined more strongly by anything else than being a social animal from the earliest age, then, when it's such a restricted environment where the child isn't even free to interact and learn about strangers........ In fact, have the experts considered maybe that restricting the environment (No access to contacts outside the parents' approved friends) could cause the kids to not learn things they ought to learn about socializing?

    11. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Anecdotes are only fallacious when being used to create an argument, not when being used to refute an argument that claims to be absolute.

      I am not responding to a statistical argument that says X% of kids are not ready. I am using a counterexample within my own experience to indicate how an overgeneralized statement is wrong or at least dubious. I am countering with: age you are "old enough to navigate the complexities of online relationships" and learn proper netiquette and avoid misunderstandings is specific to an individual and their education.

      70% of the Population might have traits that make them not ready for X yet. That doesn't mean it's reasonable to protest X, because "nobody needs it".
      One anecdote of a person needing X or being ready for X proves the generalization false.

      "Younger children are simply not ready to have social media accounts. They are not old enough to navigate the complexities of online relationships, which often lead to misunderstandings and conflicts even among more mature users. They also do not have a fully developed understanding of privacy, including what's appropriate to share with others and who has access to their conversations, pictures, and videos."

    12. Re:Child "Experts" by hey! · · Score: 1

      As a parent you have to do both: trust your own judgment referring to your own memories and experience, and seek out the experience and knowledge of others. Parenting is an exercise in critical thinking, and that applies both to understanding the limitations of your own experience and the limitations of the findings of people regarded as "experts".

      You do your best as a parent, and part of that is seeking out other points of view, although not necessarily accepting them wholesale. You filter them through your own judgment.

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    13. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Well, I don't know what it takes to be a "child expert", but presumably it takes more than having had a childhood.

      It seems like the "qualification" is in part to be an activist, some may have studied child development ---- that doesn't necessarily mean they are right, and many may be biased from personal views that don't come from or aren't really reflecting their expertise.

      From what I see the letterhead shows the organization name: Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood, So what kind of position do you think an organization like that is going to have regarding Facebook?,
      and based on the Journal articles they are citing, these authors are likely against any use of social media by people under 21,
      then they're signed by a list of organizations including the ACLU, "Corporate Accountability", "Defending the early years", "EPIC Privacy", .... and a list of a bunch of MDs and PhDs, some organizations' Medical directors, and others who have written some books with titles like 'raising healthy kids'.

    14. Re:Child "Experts" by hey! · · Score: 2

      It's easy enough to see the background of the people who work for Campaign for a Commercial Free Childhood by going to the website and reading the staff biographies.

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    15. Re:Child "Experts" by avandesande · · Score: 1

      Teen suicides are at all time highs.

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    16. Re:Child "Experts" by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Teen suicides are at all time highs.

      That's basically an irrelevent figure -- or no causality can be inferred from it.... given the
      poor economic figures, increasing number of single-parent families, and steady exponential
      population growth in the US (Increasing quantity and density of people);
      MANY variables will be at or near all time highs.

      It certainly doesn't require manufacturing new complicated imaginary culprits like "cyberbullying" or "remote abuse" to explain.
      Physical bullying or physical/sexual abuse, or serious threats to backed up by an in-person history are what matters ---- just about anything else online though is something any random person on the internet is 'free to say', and the kid should learn to deal with.

      How about just plain inattentive poor parenting in general; or parents that fail to supervise, set boundaries and limits around activities, and ensure their kids have diverse experience? See again: Increased number of single-parent families.

  6. Re:It's important to teach children by ivan935 · · Score: 1

    Any chance that you'd define what you mean by "diversity bullshit"?

  7. Re:App Appers: Just say NO to LUDDITES! by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

    How about some 'luddite' actual, in-person social skills instead, Sexconker? We don't need an entire generation of socially-avoidant people because they never leave their houses and interact with their peers in real life.

  8. Re:Other way around actually by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 2

    "Bread and Circuses" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

  9. Re:Truman Show by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

    You've watched the movie, I hope? Truman escapes his artificial world in the end.

  10. Re:Better than no control? by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 2

    Unless we're really living in a world where parents have completely abdicated their authority over their children, it should be as simple as telling them "you are forbidden to go on Facebook for any reason" and make it stick -- preferably, leading by example, not having Facebook accounts themselves. If necessary block Facebook access on home computer(s) by locking it out in the household router.

  11. Re:"experts" by Rick+Schumann · · Score: 1

    Go back to Russia and tell Putin you failed to influence us yet again, because you've been made.

  12. Encouraging Superficial Relationships by mileshigh · · Score: 1

    The better question is whether we want to teach our kids that early in life to prize the superficial, no-strings, unfulfilling "connections" that Facebook, etc. enable.

    If you're fed nothing but processed white bread when you're a kid, chances are you'll carry that into adulthood.

  13. Re:It's important to teach children by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

    REAL 'diversity' means saying "IDGAF whether you're white, black, yellow, red, male , female, or purple with pink polka-dots, EVERYONE gets treated EXACTLY THE SAME". Quit being childish.

    When it comes to racism, you hear people say, "I don't care if people are white, black, purple or green." Hold on, now, purple or green? Come on now, you gotta draw the line somewhere.

    Mitch Hedberg

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

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  14. Camel Cigarettes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I remember my first cigarette. It was August, I was on summer break and I was 8 years old. That first drag of the half used cigarette I found on the ground outside the bus station was surprisingly smooth. I always thought that cigarettes would taste bad because they smell so bad, but the smoothness of R. J. Reynolds Brand Camel cigarettes is peerless. Fast forward 35 years later and I am completely addicted to refreshing FaceBook in my browser. God damn you Zuckerberg, you fucking cancer!

  15. Its called Grooming by Stan92057 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    FB is using this program to farm/groom users of tomorrow..Just like a pedos would do,offer free candy,toys and ..... would love to read the TOS and what data they collect too.

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    1. Re:Its called Grooming by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      I would've compared it more to the average drug dealer, but the method is quite similar.

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    2. Re:Its called Grooming by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why do people say this? I've never seen a drug dealer give away drugs, ever.

  16. Re:It's important to teach children by dryeo · · Score: 1

    Some of us are old enough to remember the first inter-racial kiss on TV, Kirk and a cute green skinned woman, which was our introduction to diversity.

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  17. get them through schools by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    *They* always get you through schools. this messenger will become way for teachers to interact with kids.

  18. Re: It's important to teach children by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Why do want to hear what a closed minded white racist has to say about diversity? I grew up hearing their bullshit. It's harmful, hateful and only puts themselves behind everyone else. They are be moved to the back of the train little by little with each generation and if they can't see it now, thier kids will or thier kids will.

    Acceptance of diversity will help you get along better and propel not just yourself but humanity forward, all humans regardless of color. The negativity of the white privilege folks is going to bury them.

  19. Re: Better than no control? by macsforme · · Score: 1

    Thank you! In my profession, Iâ(TM)ve seen many examples of young children with their own Facebook accounts (sometimes with their parentsâ(TM) blessing) who got into some kind of trouble with them, usually involving harassment, exposure of private information, and sometimes worse. I began to think that having a limited, parent-monitored account option would prevent some or perhaps many of these incidents from occurring. I generally agree that social media use by young children is not healthy. Nonetheless, there are parents who will allow it. I wonder what led the group to claim that âoeIt appeals primarily to children who otherwise would not have their own social media accounts.â While I admit there might be some appeal to that population, based on my experience I believe it would primarily appeal to parents of children who already use Facebook in some fashion, and it would be a better fit for them than a full account. If you limit peopleâ(TM)s options, even with the best of intentions, sometimes you drive them to do more dangerous things than what you were trying to prevent in the first place. While I donâ(TM)t want to take that argument too far (e.g., I donâ(TM)t support legalizing âoesoftâ drugs to prevent people from gravitating to âoehardâ drugs), people should recognize that there is another side to this argument, and that this service may provide a benefit to certain people.

  20. Re:Truman Show by thegreatbob · · Score: 1

    It was a work of fiction, after all.

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