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Google's 'Bro Culture' Led To Harassment, Argues New Lawsuit By Software Engineer (siliconvalley.com)

An anonymous reader quotes the Mercury News: As a young, female software engineer at male-dominated Google, Loretta Lee was slapped, groped and even had a co-worker pop up from beneath her desk one night and tell her she'd never know what he'd been doing under there, according to a lawsuit filed against the Mountain View tech giant... Lee's lawsuit -- filed in Santa Clara County Superior Court -- alleges the company failed to to protect her, saying, "Google's bro-culture contributed to (Lee's) suffering frequent sexual harassment and gender discrimination, for which Google failed to take corrective action."

She was fired in February 2016 for poor performance, according to the suit... Lee started at the company in 2008 in Los Angeles and later switched to the firm's Mountain View campus, according to the suit, which asserts that she "was considered a talented and rising star" who received consistently "excellent" performance reviews. Lee claims that the "severe and pervasive" sexual harassment she experienced included daily abuse and egregious incidents. In addition to making lewd comments to her and ogling her "constantly," Lee's male co-workers spiked her drinks with whiskey and laughed about it; and shot Nerf balls and darts at her "almost every day," the suit alleges. One male colleague sent her a text message asking if she wanted a "horizontal hug," while another showed up at her apartment with a bottle of liquor, offering to help her fix a problem with one of her devices, refusing to leave when she asked him to, she alleges. At a holiday party, Lee "was slapped in the face by an intoxicated male co-worker for no apparent reason," according to the suit.

Lee resisted reporting an employee who had grabbed her lanyard and grazed her breasts -- and was then written up for being uncooperative. But after filing a report, "HR found her claims 'unsubstantiated,' according to the suit. 'This emboldened her colleagues to continue their inappropriate behavior,' the suit says.

"Her fear of being ostracized was realized, she claims, with co-workers refusing to approve her code in spite of her diligent work on it. Not getting her code approved led to her being 'labeled as a poor performer,' the suit says."

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  1. Words vs. actions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It strikes me as odd that James Damore was immediately fired for his writing, but other Google employees apparently engage in direct, physical harassment without consequence.

    Perhaps the PC police fear the spread of wrongthink more than the actual crimes themselves.

    1. Re:Words vs. actions by jellomizer · · Score: 1, Troll

      Damore was public about his views. The other employees keep it quite. There are rumors at my work place that go on, X person is having an affair, Mr. Y will tend to be misogynistic. However if I haven't seen it or have a concrete example I am not able to go to HR and let them know. At best I just warn other people about the people. For most of these people if there is a smoking gun, then HR can do something about it. However systemic problem are harder to just fire people.

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    2. Re:Words vs. actions by Mashiki · · Score: 5, Informative

      He wasn't public about his views until Google someone in the clique decided to dump his memo online and attack him. Then all bets were off, go read his court filing. They(google) directly asked for things from employees, he directly responded. Got no response. Asked again, got no response. Then had multiple altercations with people who attacked him on the memo.

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    3. Re:Words vs. actions by pots · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Maybe instead of reading his court filing, in which he attempts to depict himself in the best possible light, you should read the National Labor Relations Board evaluation of his case. They point out that not only did he, himself, share the memo on two separate company forums, but in their opinion he "reasonably should have known that the memorandum would likely be disseminated further, even beyond the workplace."

      They also make much ado about the fact that he wasn't fired for offering suggestions about how the workplace could be improved, only for his "use of stereotypes based on purported biological differences" "notwithstanding effort to cloak comments with 'scientific' references and analysis, and notwithstanding 'not all women' disclaimers."

    4. Re:Words vs. actions by pots · · Score: 1

      We see what the court will say.

      No we won't, Damore dropped his suit in response to the NLRB evaluation.

    5. Re:Words vs. actions by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      Because we all know there are NO biological differences between the sexes. Why should we even have two sexes if they are sooo identical? I say we just bring it down to one sex. We can all be "it" and there will be no problems with bathrooms or who marries who. And everyone can have babies if they want to or whatever! Such a great plan!

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    6. Re:Words vs. actions by pots · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure what you're trying to get at here. The Labor Board said nothing about whether biological differences existed, or why we have two sexes, etc. l mean, clearly you're trying to use hyperbole to dismiss them, I do understand that, but what you're talking about isn't what they were talking about. They were talking about using pseudo-scientific bullshit to justify stereotyping, they were not talking about actual differences between men and women.

    7. Re:Words vs. actions by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      Pointing out the very real differences between sexes cannot be considered bullshit stereotyping. Saying that women lack the dongle between the legs is simply a fact. Saying that men are incapable of bearing children does not say they are worse than women. Only someone who feels so inferior to almost every other person would want to prevent people from saying that men can't have children because it makes them feel they are worthless. Saying that women don't want to become bank robbers does not mean they are not capable of being good bank robbers. There are less women in prison, but I don't hear about people trying to fix that. Or, more realistically, fix the ratio of male to female nurses, for example. But if someone says they may not want to be a programmer, then that really means that want that more than anything, but we all actually believe they can't do it, so we don't let them. So to fix that, we must force more women into programming. Even if that is not what they want, we must do it to fix society. They must be a sacrifice for the future.

      It is like the "women make less than men" thing. Which is still found even when the sex of the worker is anonymous like the Uber thing. If you look hard enough, and massage your numbers to decide which data should count, you can find the examples you seek. And don't forget, women are much more sexist towards other women workers than men ever are. But that needs to be ignored also, because it can't be called sexism if it is same sex and coming from women themselves.

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    8. Re:Words vs. actions by pots · · Score: 1
      You keep trying to sidestep the actual argument that they made. This here:

      Pointing out the very real differences between sexes cannot be considered bullshit stereotyping.

      is irrelevant. They didn't say, "We don't like the truth and want to silence it." That was not part of their claim, you have refuted nothing. If you wanted to refute what they actually said, you would need to show that what Damore wrote wasn't bullshit. And you would need would need to do a much better job of that than he did.

      Go write a paper that's actually subject to peer-review, instead of complaining in a forum where most people don't have the expertise to correct you.

  2. Re:Schizophrenia by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    Different groups of people in the same company have different obnoxious habits? How it possible????

  3. GOOD by slashdotiscorrupt · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Good. You need to toughen up. You need to learn to defend yourself in simple social situations without calling in an authority.
    Your emotions do not matter. You need to be more pragmatic. You need to undertake social sanctions against people who wrong you, not legal sanctions.

    You are polluting our society with your self-centeredness. If you can't manage your own personal life, as you have already proven, you need to be expelled. You are rotten.

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    1. Re:GOOD by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You need to toughen up. You need to learn to defend [...] Your emotions do not matter. You need to be more [...] You need to undertake [...] You are polluting [...] you need to be expelled. You are rotten.

      I know you're just venting at the internet right now, but I'm guessing you're also somewhat serious and apply this ethos to the people around you. It's belligerent and bullying, and doesn't show any recognition that people are fundamentally different from each other, or that technical skill, experience, and productivity can be completely separate from the tough personality traits you're demanding.

      If you were on my team and talking like that, we would be having a very serious discussion about how your hostility impacts your co-workers. In my experience, software engineers who talk like you do tend not to make it very far. Maybe you're technically skilled in some focused area, but I bet your willful lack of empathy would impact your ability to work on a team, become a leader, design for your customers, and even architect code in a way that your co-workers would enjoy interacting with and learning from over time. After all, if you're not building up your teammates, then you're ultimately dragging everyone down.

    2. Re:GOOD by ABEND · · Score: 2

      Welcome to Costco. I love you.

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  4. Re:Schizophrenia by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    You're being snarky, but look at the big picture. This person is alleging that she was outright sexually harassed multiple times, and her superiors did nothing. Damore is alleging that he simply voiced an opinion outside the PC party line, and was immediately fired. Not both of those things can be true. Somebody is lying, and lying poorly.

  5. It happens by zifn4b · · Score: 2

    I'm almost hesitant to describe this because it makes me wonder if former co-workers of mine read this site and will know what environment I'm talking about. Frequently, one co-worker who was eventually promoted to be a Director would often loudly ask questions like "Does it make you gay if _______?" and what went in the blank was always quite inappropriate and sometimes quite disturbing. There were also frequently mentions of sex acts like like Dirty Sanchez and Hot Carl's. If you don't know what those are, DO NOT look them up unless you want to be grossed out. Management knew this type of behavior was common as did HR and yet they looked the other way. In fact it was a running joke "Don't tell HR". The best part of it all is that you were compelled to join in this sophomoric behavior lest you be ostracized from the group, overlooked for promotions, etc. Absolutely filthy. Sometimes I wonder if Idiocracy is truly upon us.

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    1. Re:It happens by zifferent · · Score: 1

      I wish I had mod-points. I suspect there are hundreds of workplaces like that, because I doubt we worked at the same place.

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    2. Re:It happens by zifferent · · Score: 1

      Just because people have always done it, doesn't make it right.

      And also, Drew was a fictional character.

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    3. Re:It happens by careysub · · Score: 1

      So you are citing a fictional character for what is normal, typical office behavior.

      Do you realize the movie was pointing out problems that are known to exist in offices? Nothing that happen in Office Space is normal for a healthy office, though it occurs in some, and if you work in enough offices, you will see some of them.

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    4. Re:It happens by careysub · · Score: 1

      That type of talk about sex at work is extraordinary and quite unhealthy for any normal office.

      Possibly you talk that way, and attack anyone who objects as "prudish"?

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    5. Re: It happens by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      Just because you're running for the fainting couch doesn't make it wrong.

    6. Re:It happens by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      So you are citing a fictional character for what is normal, typical office behavior.

      Here are some real-world examples:

      (1) A post written last month states that, "I work in a workplace where ... dirty talking, sexual innuendo, double entendres and joking sexual invites are part of the every day occurrences."

      (2) A post written in 2003 that states that, "The relationship between colleagues is great, not only professional but personal, too. When we talk, we can say dirty words ..., tell naughty jokes, and sometimes even flirt. Both sexes enjoy them"

      (3) A page with some people trading "dirty jokes" to tell at work.

      (4) A poll conducted last year which states that 44% of adults feel that "dirty jokes weren’t a form of sexual harassment" in the workplace.

    7. Re: It happens by Reverend+Green · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Maybe you're just a prude.

    8. Re:It happens by zifn4b · · Score: 1

      That type of talk about sex at work is extraordinary and quite unhealthy for any normal office.

      I do not believe you. I do not believe that it is "extraordinary"--it is quite typical in my work experience. I also do not believe that it is "unhealthy".

      Nevertheless, I do believe that you are opposed to "talk about sex at work", and that you will distort the truth to help your political cause.

      Extraordinary is quite a stretch but if people are treating the job environment like a frat house or a "hookup zone", it certainly distracts employees from the workplace's primary purpose: to make profits and with said profits provide you with the means to make a living.

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  6. Sadly, I Can Believe It by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    I'm not a woman, and I wasn't sexually harassed, but I worked at a large biotech company in the SF Bay Area where for several years I had great reviews, I became the department's primary point of contact for one of the two segments of that business unit, I was given all of the projects that were large/complex/time sensitive because I always got them done... Then my manager's boss forced one of her personal friends on the department, a master manipulator, and true to form, it wasn't more than a couple of months before the complaints started rolling in as she set her sights on my job. Over the course of 6 months, I complain to my manager multiple times, alleging harassment on the part of my coworker, and his response is to retaliate against me. I was forced to sign a written warning, where he verbally told me he had made up a complaint from another employee in a different department. I go to the HR department, and they tell me not to worry about it and to just let it go. So I take it to the company's Ethics Office (sort of like an HR department that only investigates possible wrongdoing within the company) and despite being the one who brought the issue to their attention, I'm treated like the asshole and then fired two days later, in part because my complaint was considered "unsubstantiated."

    I feel for this woman, and her mistake, like mine, was in going to the HR department instead of straight to California's DFEH. You file a complaint with them alleging some of these things, and make sure the head of HR, your manager, your manager's manager, and maybe even your manager's manager's manager, all know that you have filed this complaint, odds are they will be tripping over one another trying to resolve the problems quickly because they don't want a government agency sniffing around and finding any number of other illegal activities taking place that they turn a blind eye to.

    Based on all the stories coming out recently about Google, it sounds like the company has definitely become a victim of its own success. Any time a company gets sufficiently large, these kinds of things happen. Employees aren't seen as human beings, just ID numbers in a database table, and any one of them is expendable if they start getting full of themselves, thinking silly things like they deserve to be treated like a human being and in accordance with state and federal law.

    1. Re:Sadly, I Can Believe It by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      I suspect there is a bit of 'We are a really great place to work' hype still circulating at Google. It isn't just a cynical money grub. There's at least a veneer of 'we are really great' that people maintain. Big successful companies always work on maintaining that image, and not just to the public.

    2. Re:Sadly, I Can Believe It by jareth-0205 · · Score: 2

      One of the most important things I have ever been told was the HR is for protecting the *company* from the employees. It is not for helping employees.

    3. Re:Sadly, I Can Believe It by careysub · · Score: 2

      Google is a huge company. It has over 70,000 employees across dozens of countries. it's quite possible (probably even likely) that there are parts of the organization where just about any viewpoint you can imagine is dominant (except maybe traditional conservatives).

      Not sure what you consider a "traditional conservative", but Google is one of the five principle sponsors of the current CPAC raging on in all its wingnut glory.

      If Google feels comfortable being a major sponsor of this Trump-fest I'm not so sure that "conservatives" are unwelcome there.

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  7. Re:Schizophrenia by sinij · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This has become a nation of schizophrenics. I'm not able to believe that both this woman's sob-story and James Damore's sob-story are both true. At some point in the information pipeline, data is being distorted, or wholesale invented.

    The issue here is that women are also human, and are capable and willing to lie, abuse other people, and use their physical characteristics to get what they want. So there are bad actors out there who are not men, and modern feminism ideologically unprepared to deal with this realization.

  8. Bro Culture lol by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    I got into programming as a kid in the 80s, university in the 90s and programming as a day job ever since. I absolutely love reading these insane words they come up with. "Bro culture", "brogrammers" and the like. It is the most insane goddamn thing in the world. But it's only that way to me and people I know, when I step out side my circle and profession I meet people who actually believe this tripe.

    Remember the movie Revenge of the Nerds, it's like if they remade that now in 2018 and reversed the jock/nerd stereotype characters and the nerds are now the out-of-control womanising bully asswipes, and people buy it.

    1. Re:Bro Culture lol by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 5, Insightful

      At large successful companies, there is a major sea change after the company becomes successful. People like you are the foundation that builds the companies success, but after the bells start ringing and the company becomes rich and successful, a different sort of people climb aboard.

    2. Re:Bro Culture lol by ichimunki · · Score: 1

      Um, did you even watch "revenge of the nerds"? They went on a panty raid and set up a video remote system so they could spy on sorority sisters in their bedrooms. Then there's the part where the nerd had sex with the pretty girl and she asked if all nerds were as good (at sex) and he says something about how jocks spend so much time thinking about sports and all nerds think about is sex.

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    3. Re:Bro Culture lol by swillden · · Score: 1

      after the bells start ringing and the company becomes rich and successful, a different sort of people climb aboard

      When a company grows enough, every sort of person climbs aboard. You can't hire tens of thousands of people without getting all sorts. You can weed out some of the obvious problems in the hiring process (e.g. the AC who replied to you would probably "out" himself pretty quickly), but some will get through.

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    4. Re: Bro Culture lol by Brockmire · · Score: 1

      Loophole with the nerd spying. Unknown harassment is clearly better than known harassment.

    5. Re:Bro Culture lol by PaulRivers10 · · Score: 1

      Bullies need weak people to attack to show off how powerful they are, nerds are socially week, so they nerds were their target.

      They tried going after other more mainstream groups first - those groups didn't care. They were like "ok if you say so" and they moved onto the next thing. It was only with nerds that they found a group so desperate for social validation that you could always find someone to repeat any mean thing you told them in some sort of religious level "I am full of sin tell me what to think to release me" kind of thing.

      Funny enough it was exactly that nerds putting women on a pedestal and would bend over backwards to treat women well, that made them the perfect target for telling everyone that they were bad bad bad with women. Nerds were so desperate for female approval they'd believe and repeat almost anything that they though might get it.

    6. Re:Bro Culture lol by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Remember the movie Revenge of the Nerds, it's like if they remade that now in 2018 and reversed the jock/nerd stereotype characters and the nerds are now the out-of-control womanising bully asswipes, and people buy it.

      We (nerds) are people too, thankyou ver much.

      That means if you give nerds power, some fraction will turn into out-of-control womanising bully asswipes.

      Being into computers doesn't make you a good person (or a bad person) in some ethical sense. A random member nerd is just as likely to abuse power when given the chance as any other random member of the population.

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    7. Re:Bro Culture lol by Mike+Van+Pelt · · Score: 1

      See Jerry Pournelle's "Iron Law of Bureaucracy"

  9. Re:Nerf balls and darts? by jellomizer · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Here is the thing. If you or your coworker doesn't want to be hit by darts. Then that is harassment. If you or someone asks them to please stop then they should stop. Because you are at work, not play.

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  10. Re:Schizophrenia by jellomizer · · Score: 1, Troll

    Being that most of these posts here are on Slashdot seem to be against the idea that she was harassed, it doesn't really make too much sense for a woman to just accuse people of this stuff willy-nilly because as seen even with this sample of people that standing up and reporting harassment has a lot of blow back.

    There is a degree of harassment in technology. Being a case where there isn't too many women in the field, they are already in the minority, and many employees just don't know how to treat the other sex as an equal.

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  11. Re:Hmm.. by jellomizer · · Score: 1

    Normally because such things are rather random. It isn't like they will have a calendar event Sexual Harassment room 204 between 10:00-11:00. Also while something is happening these are short bursts on inappropriateness and by the time you get the recording started anything you catch will be out of context.

    No one should be expected to record their lives because someone feels like they should be a jerk.

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  12. Re:Schizophrenia by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I was hoping for a copy of the lawsuit, as it will contain what evidence she has. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to have been posted online yet.

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  13. I generally side with the woman in these cases by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 3, Interesting

    And on the face of it, based on what I've seen from particular (and blessedly former) coworkers, I believe this woman. But, with this lawsuit, I have some problems because of this paragraph:

    "Lee’s superior and the firm’s human resources department learned of that incident and repeatedly tried persuading her to officially report the alleged groper, but she resisted out of fear of being ostracized as an “informer,” she claims. After she was written up for being uncooperative, she relented and reported the man, but HR found her claims “unsubstantiated,” according to the suit."

    So the impression I get is that she wasn't reporting any of these incidents.

    I do understand why someone might be uncomfortable reporting these problems... but, if you're not at least documenting them at the time they occur or - better - filing complaints as they happen... then you should be SOL.

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    1. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by wickerprints · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why should anyone be SOL for not immediately reporting a problem? Is there some kind of statute of limitations that absolves the perpetrators from liability simply because those who are targeted do not complain right away?

      That kind of thinking is exactly why workplace harassment is so pervasive, because what happens is that a culture is created in which prompt reporting is discouraged. You claim to understand why someone "might be uncomfortable reporting these problems." But it's clear that you don't because you immediately follow that with this absurd notion that the victim is not entitled to redress precisely because of those reasons you claim to understand.

      These reasons for not immediately reporting are well-known and researched, for example, in cases of rape. While vastly different in severity--by no means do I claim that rape is the same as workplace harassment--the underlying psychology of not wanting to report such offenses is similar. The emotional trauma of being targeted and victimized, compounded by the additional trauma of not being believed, having to immediately retell your story, being expected to remain level headed about your experience, then being isolated from your peers, the focus of gossip and suspicion and talk about whether you did anything that caused you to "have it coming" or "deserve it"--these are just the beginning of a litany of reasons why people do not always do what you seem to blithely suggest one must do in order to be deserving of justice.

    2. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by wickerprints · · Score: 3, Interesting

      And if you think that I'm just some feminist SJW snowflake, the same thing applies to bullying, something I imagine a lot of Slashdot readers have had experience with. How many of you remember being bullied in school? Having someone more popular, more athletic, more socially adept, treat you like shit just because they thought it would be "fun?" That your day-to-day existence was turned into a living hell for no other reason than the amusement of others?

      What was the first thing you thought of doing? You thought you could go to your teachers or parents or principal and tell them everything and that would somehow suddenly make all your problems disappear? How laughably naive does that idea sound to you?

      So, why would you think that just because this is about men harassing women that such behavior is any different? That you might think that she did something to deserve this kind of treatment, or that now you expect the victim to write everything down and tell HR right away, when we all know that HR is not there to protect the rights of the employees, but of the company? Now how realistic does that sound, to say that you have to tell HR right away when some asshole spikes your drink with whiskey at work?

    3. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      So, why would you think that just because this is about men harassing women that such behavior is any different?

      No, I quite believe the story is possible

      That you might think that she did something to deserve this kind of treatment,

      Most definitely no one deserves this sort of harassment.

      or that now you expect the victim to write everything down and tell HR right away, when we all know that HR is not there to protect the rights of the employees, but of the company?

      Actually, yes. Not right away, but once it becomes apparently the harassment won't stop and you want to take action, yes you definitely need to start telling HR every time it happens even if/when it ostracizes you. At that point you're going to leave the place at some point, so you want as much ammunition, in writing, of telling the HR this stuff, HR doing nothing, and precisely the timeline of your performance reviews/warnings for conduction violation/whatever they use to fire you, precisely so you can sue the fucking company for all they're worth.

      Now how realistic does that sound, to say that you have to tell HR right away when some asshole spikes your drink with whiskey at work?

      Depending on how much your drink was spiked, you could get your blood checked for alcohol. Then take a copy of that to HR attesting that your drink was spiked. That's actual a felony in many states, you know. Of course if it were heavily spiked, you might not be mentally capable of making those steps, so it's easy to imagine in that case of having a hard time proving unequivocally that the drink was spiked, but you could still come to HR later to complain without proof.

      You see, the point of all this isn't that you think HR will do jack shit to help. It's, again, to sue the fuck out of the company for tolerating this bullshit. If I knew as a kid in school that resisting bullying meant I'd be expelled and if I could well document my complaints and the administrations inaction to win a lawsuit, I sure as fuck would have done those things. I understand that people who are bullied often can't take those rational steps, but inherently that's the sort of thing you [should] need to do to win a lawsuit. Otherwise, it is entirely he-said, she-said, and that should not be supported in cases precisely because that's bullshit.

    4. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by f00zbll · · Score: 2, Informative
      I have plenty of female friends who have experience the same thing and they didn't report it because they knew the blame would be turned on them instead. In the 18 yrs of working in IT, I have seen men act like total freakin jackasses around women. I've also seen guys act like total gentlemen around female co-workers. One co-worker had to be lectured by the HR department for harassing women at work. His excuse was "I was just talking to them at their cube". A few of us called him out and told him "you're being a creep man, it's going to get you in trouble."

      In his mind, he was just a "flirty" and out going guy. He also took yoga classes to hit on women. A few of us made fun of him, but he kept on doing it. Guys like that just don't get it and think it's ok to act like creeps with women.

      That was just one case, I know of several more. I don't doubt her account of what happened.

    5. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Perhaps it wasn't clear, but when I say "get your blood checked for alcohol", I mean going to the hospital and having blood drawn. This isn't going to authority and crossing your fingers they do the right thing. As for...

      Do you think the cop who wants to try to get past Google security and write up a report about how he dragged out an employee for putting whisky in somebody's drink is happy about his job or wants to show up in court about it? Do you think he's proud of telling his Sargent of what he did all day? Do you think it actually helps anyone?

      You report it to HR and the police. If they don't tell aid the police in letting them through, and the police sure as fuck will enjoy telling the story of dragging some sorry ass nerd to jail for spiking some woman's drink. The police won't be the one showing up in court, either. It might be some detective afterwards that asks around, where people will bullshit that "everyone knew it was spiked". It'll be the lab technican/nurse/doctor who will report the when/where they did the blood test along with them confirming that you said you didn't not knowingly consume the alcohol.

      It's totally naive to think reporting this through these channels is simple.

      Never did I say that reporting things *only* through channels is the way to go. The whole point is to document stuff yourself and report to HR and/or the police as appropriate. It means going to the hospital if you're assaulted and there's bruises or going to the hospital to get blood drawn if your food/drink has been spiked. The only point of going through official channels at all is to later show in court the HR department refuses to help. You don't actually rely upon the HR department to do a job they clearly refuse to do.

      The only way I see the courts bending over backwards in such a circumstance is if they personally know the people involved or they consider the company a vital component of the community and refuse to carry out justice. There's definitely crooked judges, of course. If that's really a risk, you file your suit in a different venue. You be a dogged "asshole" to seek justice precisely because that's the only way justice is met, sometimes.

      I'm not saying it's easy. I totally understand why people will quit or put up with abuse and never seek justice. But if you're going to bring a lawsuit, you have to have evidence. You will have to put up with the bullshit of, at the time, people refusing to help and being actively aggressive towards you. The whole point isn't that you expect people to actually help. It's all in the knowledge that you will sue later and rightly fuck over a company that refused to do the right thing. If it ever gets to the point that the abuse is intolerable, you might have to quit then and effectively lose the lawsuit for a lack of complicity in the company. Sadly, that's life.

    6. Re: I generally side with the woman in these cases by Brockmire · · Score: 1

      It sounds like you don't know people who are selective in details and change the narrative. I can mostly only think of women (black sheep sister comes to mind) in these examples (and two nephews), but many, many times that I've been present for something and later hear the other person's record of events, it's rarely accurate. There's a tone and attitude change, sometimes with added facial and head movements to emphasize something that didn't happen in the first place. They make someone appear bitchy when it was not originally. I will always call out someone misrepresenting someone else and expect them to come clean instead of exaggeration. But once it's happened twice, you can no longer treat them as credible.

    7. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why should anyone be SOL for not immediately reporting a problem? Is there some kind of statute of limitations that absolves the perpetrators from liability simply because those who are targeted do not complain right away?

      Not "right away", per se, but, yes, the general notion of rights of the accused includes the idea that the more time has passed the more difficult it is for someone who is falsely accused to defend themselves. Witnesses who could aid the defense forget, move away and even die. The accused themselves will also almost certainly forget key details of the time in question that would aid their defense. If you're going to accuse someone of doing something bad enough that they could get fired or go to jail then, and if you have any basic human decency and respect for the principles of justice and the rule of law, you need to make your accusations as soon as reasonably possible.

    8. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by DNS-and-BIND · · Score: 1

      I *did* tell authority figures about the bullying. They shrugged it off, because I should be able to stand up for myself. Isn't that what happened to all of us? Who didn't tell? How laughably naive does that sound? I question if you were actually bullied for being a nerd. A nerd's first resort is to do things The Right Way[tm].

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    9. Re: I generally side with the woman in these cases by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

      Funny, what you think about women, I think about most alt righters. Ok, and if I won't be a troll for a second, I think it about anyone has a strong political opinion that he already decided on no matter what.

    10. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      I got harrassed and bullied from small child age on.
      I complained to my mother (nearly daily) and when I was about 3 we had a parents day in the kindergarden.
      I showed her one of the worst of them and assumed she would talk to his parents. What she did was putting us both on a small wall, and giving us a stick (a dry branch from nearby trees) and told us "to fight it out"!

      Obviously I never really bothered her with my problems anymore from that time on ...

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    11. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      I understand he was a creepy guy in your office.

      However, what is wrong with this: He also took yoga classes to hit on women.

      If you want to meet hot woman you obviously need to go where hot women hang around. And if you want to date one you obviously need to go where you most likely find a woman that is not in a relationship.

      A few of us made fun of him, but he kept on doing it.
      I hope you did not make fun about him, because he took yoga classes, because that would imply you are an idiot.

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    12. Re:I generally side with the woman in these cases by david_thornley · · Score: 2

      Um, how do you go to the hospital and get them to do a blood draw? They've got patients who are actually sick or hurt, and they likely aren't interested.

      Supposing you do get a good blood alcohol reading, now what? You have the equivalent of four drinks in you, and you're willing to swear and give details about the two drinks you did deliberately consume. It's not unheard of for people to lose track of how much they're drinking.

      The police, if they show up, are going to want witnesses. Assuming they accept your claim that your drinks were spiked, they don't know who did it. Given clear evidence that one of five people committed a felony, they can't do much unless they can get evidence against a specific person.

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  14. Re:BS meter going wild by jellomizer · · Score: 1

    Were you still telling dirty jokes after the Harassment training? Probably so. You were just more careful not to get caught.

    These programs normally don't stop the problem, but make sure people who do it know they are in the wrong. Damore just went on a rant going against the values that google want. While there is still a problem, where when kept quite it is much more difficult to handle.

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  15. Slashdot being slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It's funny how the comments here mostly seek to minimize and dismiss her complaints (or outright accuse her of lying) while the comments on the James Damore story were mostly supportive.

    I wonder what the difference could possibly be.

    1. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Jarwulf · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you don't believe these allegations than you are basically a right wing rape apologist according to you. If you DO believe these allegations than Google. Probably one of if not the most prominent and outspoken champions of social justice not just in words but through spending millions in pushing this philosophy in politics and the legal system is a complete hypocrite and their methods not only do not work they make their work environment the antithesis of what they seek. Gotta be one of these dude/person.

    2. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Mashiki · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I wonder what the difference could possibly be.

      ~25 years of sexual harassment training, that point becoming narrower and narrower as a definition every year up to this point where the #metoo moment declared that talking is now harassment?

      Or would you like to roll with the point that everyone who's ever worked in a workplace knows that gaggle of women who go out of their way to make everyone else's life a living hell, and know that if it had been a man doing the same thing - under those same rules he would have lost his job 3 years ago.

      Or can we roll with the claims of "it happened years ago, my word is my truth, but I have no actual evidence." But you really gotta believe me, because female, and listen and believe. And if you don't, you're a dirty white male, a misogynist, and probably commit sexual assault too! Where a male who made the same claim would be laughed at and rightly so.

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    3. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Damore did not accuse specific people of criminal activity. Whereas she did.

      Damore was fired *after* his views went public, and specifically because of that event. She was fired *before* she made these accusations, and for reasons that she is challenging by making these accusations (that is to say, fired for poor performance, she says her performance only seemed poor due to the harassment).

      So, she might be telling the truth. But, she also has an incentive to lie. So we don't know.

      Damore simply put all his cards on the table, and got fired for it, and that was that.

      These differences are far more relevant than the difference that you are alluding to.

    4. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      One part of the difference, at least, is that you can just go read Damore's memo and know the truth exactly. When you know the truth exactly, it's easy to have a firm and entirely correct opinion based on just the facts. In this case, the facts are not at all clear in that way and sound exaggerated. Damore's claims would also sound exaggerated if the facts weren't available for anyone to inspect themselves. So that's a difference, but yeah, they have a different gender, so that must be all that matters.

    5. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by AdamStarks · · Score: 1

      Most of the top-rated comments I just read actually seem to be supportive of her claims. As with the Damore support: Good.

    6. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Maybe because the polarizing went so far that a backlash is the only possible alternative? I personally do not start talking to females on my own at work. Get to a lift alone with one female coworker? No way. You know what they say in the place here to people preparing to be a teacher? Never stay alone with 1 student in a closed space. Never. I would think this did not stop real abusers from their dirty business. What happens now is declaring all men as wolves. This means real ones are invisible.

      Funny enough a female coworker complained recently that she was forced to join a moral militia because you know - if you are not with us then you are against us. I watch this nonsense and I am sorry for my kids. For my daughter because she will be surrounded by a mass of wimps and few dangerous predators because they always be there unfortunately. I am sorry for my son because he will have to deal with confused females who were told whole life that there is no cost to things like having a child and men and women are the same etc while at the same time approaching a women anywhere means higher risk then it used to be of being accused of harassment - if not for other reason than because quite some relationships end up in hate and women are no better than men so they use means that are at their disposal to deal with 'enemy'. These will be of course extreme cases, fringes of society if you will. Yet these will not be some small minority. They will be what people may today call institutional oppression. The really interesting question is. In 30-50 years dominant earth religion and thus culture will be one that treats women as lesser beings. I wonder how feminist of today are going to deal with that - US has not so much experience with that as the part of US population belonging there is small. Look in Europe for examples - the process is well advanced there. As for me I expect the so called feminist to bend over. Would be funny if it were not so sad.

    7. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Because one of them will be treated seriously, sympathetically, and almost certainly win some sort of compensation? (Hint: not Damore)

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    8. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by backwardsposter · · Score: 1

      That's exactly the opposite response I've been seeing. Maybe we're reading 2 different slashdots?

    9. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      you can just go read Damore's memo and know the truth exactly.

      Actually, no. You can read what he wrote. You don't necessarily know what he did with it. The Labor Board report said that he was pushing his memo on others, and should have realized that, doing what he did, it was likely to go public. Assuming that's true, Damore was disruptive and there were good reasons for firing him. (If that isn't true, then we don't know the truth exactly.) In other words, Damore's claims weren't necessarily exaggerated, since we have evidence suggesting that he was deliberately being disruptive.

      In the case of this woman, I don't know the truth. I find her account believable in general, but suspect it's likely exaggerated. Fortunately, I don't need to decide whether she's been seriously harassed or not.

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    10. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      Well the rules for companies like Google and Facebook are that you cannot ask a fellow employee out more than one time. If they were busy, or wanted to be convinced by you asking more than one time, no dice. And it makes no matter if it is a position of authority over the "victim". Fellow employees of equal rank count, and the man would be the harasser simply for asking.

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    11. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by Mashiki · · Score: 1

      It's attempts to polarize and escalate the situation like this that are causing real problems. Some men seem to be afraid to even talk to women now, because of FUD like your comments. Your irresponsible rants are making men miserable and lonely.

      It wasn't men who made this choice to polarize and attack men. It wasn't men who created #killallmen and then started believing that it was an acceptable thing. It wasn't men who turned around and started screeching that killing all but 20% of the male population is the only way to save the world. It wasn't men who turned around and were falsely accusing women of sexual assault or harassment, to the point where men now leave the door open or have a colleague with them in the same room. It wasn't men who turned around and created the policy that male and female police constables are required for the arrest of a women in order to offset any belief in sexual assault. It wasn't men who turned around and called themselves pedophiles for wanting to work with k-5 students. It wasn't men who pushed the "pedo danger" to the point where a father out with his daughter at the park will have the police called on him. It wasn't the father who killed himself at 24 because his wife ruined his life with a false accusation and he couldn't ever see his kid. It wasn't men who turned around and made the claim that only women are the best parent, and should be awarded custody of children. It wasn't men who laughed at Mike Pence for wanting to have his wife with him on a dinner meeting, but they sure were nodding their head.

      It was all women, feminists at that. They've done a very good job of polarizing this already. That you're unwilling and unable to realize that feminism has caused these problems is down right hilarious.

      Remember that time when you said I was probably a sexual predator disguised as a feminist? And also a misandrist and not a pure blooded Asian.

      Remember that time when I said, I wonder when you'd be one of those virtue signalling people who screech loudly as a feminist and would likely be outed as a sexual predator. It's not like there isn't precedent there for it. The louder you yell that you're the "bestest male ally evar", the more likely you're trying to offset your actual terrible behavior. Your own comments make you a misandrist, as for 'pure blooded asian' well I guess that makes you alt-right or a nazi now, since you're putting so much faith on that.

      Why is it that all the bad behaviour you complain about is stuff you yourself engage in?

      I've got my very own stalker, and not only that but they're actually wrong. You could check the address make sure you got it right.

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    12. Re:Slashdot being slashdot by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Oh Mashiki, you troll yourself. How have you convicted yourself of all this nonsense?

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      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
  16. Re:Sadly, Similar Experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Basically this one team leader decided he didn't like me and wanted me off the team so he set me up for failure by tasking me with finding a memory leak in code the source of which I wasn't given access to, and even though the previous team leader had given me glowing reviews I was eventually let go because I couldn't find the leak anywhere outside of the code I suspected.

    HR was worse than useless.

    This sounds like a ridiculous bullshit story but I assure you it is true. I only had that experience once in my career but it stuck with me as an example of how office politics can just spontaneously cost you your job if someone higher up gets a whim up their ass.

  17. Her Code by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I'm very curious what her code looks like, and why it was rejected. If this goes to trial, do you think examples will somehow be publicly released?

  18. Re:Hmm.. by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

    What makes you think there is no evidence? Presumably there is evidence in the lawsuit she filed, which unfortunately we don't have a copy of.

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  19. Re:Schizophrenia by RightwingNutjob · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Maybe all parties are lying or maybe none of them are.

    It's entirely possible for the place to be a complete frat house all around: men grabbing at women, SJWs pissing on normal people, HR treating all complaints as grounds for terminating the complainer, and upper management adrift in the clouds making high-minded paeans to whatever gods they believe themselves to be the Earthly manifestations of.

    I had a friend who used to work at an East Coast Google office a while back. He quit after a few years because his direct supervisor wouldn't let him take any vacation. He also loved his coworkers and the camaraderie of his peers.

  20. Re:No Mas by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

    Reporting the filing of this lawsuit is fine. They can't be expected not to publish because some people can't comprehend that it's not up to the journalists to investigate the claims. They can't be expected to hold it back because some readers won't understand that it's the court that gets to decide if the complaint has merit, not them personally.

    Maybe it's too early to post to Slashdot, since there is relatively little to discuss at this stage. But a simple report on the filing and the claims being made is fine.

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  21. Re:Schizophrenia by hawguy · · Score: 4, Informative

    You're being snarky, but look at the big picture. This person is alleging that she was outright sexually harassed multiple times, and her superiors did nothing. Damore is alleging that he simply voiced an opinion outside the PC party line, and was immediately fired. Not both of those things can be true. Somebody is lying, and lying poorly.

    Have you ever worked in a large company? Despite being under the same corporate umbrella, different departments handle things *much* differently -- especially when some departments have come from acquisitions.

  22. Re:Evidence? by MostAwesomeDude · · Score: 1

    Googlers cannot make most production changes without committing. Googlers *cannot* commit without code review. I had had a major code change (deprecating usage of a discontinued Python library) when I worked at Google, which sat open for years (and was probably still open when I left!) because the code owner refused to mark it as reviewed.

    I'm not saying that I saw the behavior described by this engineer, but I can completely believe that not being able to get code reviews could lead to performance problems.

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  23. Re:Schizophrenia by BlueStrat · · Score: 3, Insightful

    This has become a nation of schizophrenics. I'm not able to believe that both this woman's sob-story and James Damore's sob-story are both true. At some point in the information pipeline, data is being distorted, or wholesale invented. And folks are surprised that Americans don't trust their media, and elect con-men celebrities to high office.

    What has happened is Identitarian politics of groups and group-identities. Google's problem with Damore, this person, and the rest that are certain to follow, is that Google themselves embraced Identitarian ideas. Google, to a large extent, brought this on themselves and in so doing, helped spread and give such broken ideas more power.

    Identitarian politics of group identities feeds on and exacerbates the tribal behaviors inherent in human nature and enables the "Other-ing" of those who disagree, allowing for their dehumanization.

    Once dehumanized, opponents can be dealt with expediently by any means as "the Enemy" without needing to listen to anything the Enemy has to say. They're Evil, after all, being the Enemy.

    Identitarian politics have had an enormous effect upon culture. Even comedy. Can you imagine if today Steve Martin joked as he did in his movie "The Jerk" "I was born a poor black child." That would be the end of his career. Many top comedians won't do university/college tours anymore because of the intolerance.

    Stop looking at what "group" somebody may be a part of and deciding on that basis whether to listen to what they're saying, and look at the person.

    Strat

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  24. Re: Nerf balls and darts? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    That's the right response, wrong reason. If somebody asks you to stop, you should stop regardless of whether it's work or play.

  25. Re:No Mas by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1

    Reporting the filing of this lawsuit is fine.

    Lawsuits are public information once submitted.

    They can't be expected not to publish because some people can't comprehend that it's not up to the journalists to investigate the claims.

    Utter nonsense. It's up to journalists to investigate claims and evidence of articles they are working on. It's their fucking job.

    They can't be expected to hold it back because some readers won't understand that it's the court that gets to decide if the complaint has merit, not them personally.

    Hold back what? Public information already available to everyone? Your not making any sense. Just posting random shit that comes across your desk without vetting isn't responsible journalism.

  26. Re:Schizophrenia by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    And folks are surprised that Americans don't trust their media, and elect con-men celebrities to high office.

    Get it through your thick skull, we elected that asshole because the asshole running against him was a bigger liar. She stands for women, but fired a victim of harassment and kept the harasser on her campaign. She stands with victims, but repeatedly attacked a rape victim in the media because her husband was the rapist. She's a strong woman, but doesn't have the self-respect to divorce his cheating ass.

    The media had nothing to do with her losing.

  27. Re:Evidence? by Picodon · · Score: 2

    I can completely believe that not being able to get code reviews could lead to performance problems.

    If developers can routinely be penalised because of circumstances entirely out of their control, the company has serious management issues to resolve!

  28. Re:BS meter going wild by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Damore got fired due to public outrage. His memo circulated for a while and nobody gave a shit. It wasn't until it was leaked, and an explosion happened, that he got fired.

    Google reacted to the public outrage, not to the memo.

    The public outrage was firmly rooted in a misreading of the memo, too. People thought, and still think, that Damore wrote that women were less suited than men to be software developers. I read the memo myself, and he simply did not say that. He said that common female attributes might explain why few women want to be programmers. Such a statement *in no way* suggests that they are less suited, nor does it create an unwelcoming environment.

    But in the court of public opinion, Damore is a sexist who thinks women are inferior. And so, that is why he got fired.

  29. Re:Nerf balls and darts? by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

    They did communicate this. Repeatedly. To HR.

  30. Re: BS meter going wild by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Dont ruin the fun by confusing the issue with the facts....

    Glad another sane person reached the same conclusion after actually reading his memo.

  31. Re: Schizophrenia by c6gunner · · Score: 2

    Being that most of these posts here are on Slashdot seem to be against the idea that she was harassed, it doesn't really make too much sense for a woman to just accuse people of this stuff willy-nilly

    Sure it does. People who fling around unfounded accusations don't care whether Slashdot takes them seriously; they care about what HR and corporate lawyers have to say on the matter. It's even worse in the case of government/military workers, where there's no concern about profitability and therefore no incentive to try and reign in the abuse. Lots of people (men and women) are willing to lie their asses off with zero corroborating evidence if they know that there's a high likelihood of a large payout.

  32. Re:Nerf balls and darts? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 1

    They did communicate this. Repeatedly. To HR.

    According to TFA, HR said her claims were not substantiated. Some of her claims involved text messages that should be easy to validate. So either HR is lying, or she is. If HR ignored solid evidence, then she should get a nice settlement.

  33. Re:Schizophrenia by PaulRivers10 · · Score: 1, Informative

    Please, the reaction to the Damore pdf was something out of a grade school popularity contest with all the lying and careful manipulation trying to reframe his document into the feminist narrative. - They claimed he "sent out a memo" when on one in an organization actually calls these things memos - They claimed he was a manager distributing google's company-wide policy when in reality he was just some random guy inside the company - He cited scientific sources for the things he said but the released verison mysteriously had those sources edited out (and who knows if other things were edited) - It just goes on an on like this Google fired him because sheep went along with whatever their feminists master said. Then google got hit with a lot of backlash it didn't expect. Now it's firing the people who stirred up the pot in an attempt at damage control over the whole situation. They can't come out the good guy but they're trying to come out as not taking a side in an insane political war.

  34. Re: Sadly, Similar Experience by Brockmire · · Score: 1

    "I was eventually let go because I couldn't find the leak anywhere outside of the code I suspected." You should have looked inside the place you suspected. I suspect my socks are in the drawer, I'm not going to look in my closet. Failure to communicate?

  35. Re: Evidence? by Brockmire · · Score: 1

    You can use different words to mean the same thing. You can't make the same word mean different things in the same context without confusion. Hence, the clarification on merge.

  36. Re: Words are cheap. Show me your code. by Brockmire · · Score: 1

    A double blind person doing the review? That's going to be difficult.

  37. Re: Nerf balls and darts? by sabri · · Score: 1

    No. Dart guns is not normal behavior at an office. Shooting dart guns at a coworker is harrassment unless they've agreed to play.

    Bullshit. Many companies that I've worked at provide toys like that to encourage mingling.

    Loretta Lee was fired in retaliation to complaints. And that's a Bad Thing[tm]. She is an attractive educated young woman, and I can totally understand how a bunch of CS nerds who never had any female interaction will stare at her. But it's Not Right.

    It's sad that this still happens in 2018.

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  38. Re:Schizophrenia by Hal_Porter · · Score: 2

    Not necessarily. Look at Rotherham council. On the one hand they covered up the enslavement of 1400 children because of concerns about appearing racist - the children were mostly white and the pedo ring was mostly Pakistani.

    So Rotherham council must have been a painfully PC place, right? Turns out it wasn't.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

    Published in January 2015, the Casey report concluded that the council had a bullying, sexist culture of covering up information and silencing whistleblowers, and was "not fit for purpose"

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  39. which looks important until you pay attention by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The Damore case with the NLRB was not handled though normal channels.

    Interestingly, it was grabbed from the local office and taken up by the Washington DC office where the people are political appointees (in this case nearly all are Obama holdovers). Rememer that Google's top people were in so tight with the Obama admin that Google's CEO Eric Schmidt was in the White House more often than a bunch of Obama cabinet officers, and over 250 Google employees cycled back-and-forth between being employed at Google and being employed in the Obama administration.

    Something mighty fishy at play here. Normal cases should be handled by normal processes, and when they are not, something is not normal (this should be obvious).

  40. Totally unacceptable by joe_frisch · · Score: 2

    Assuming the article accurately represents how she was treated, this is completely absolutely off the curve not OK. I don't know how common this is, but there are enough reports from enough different people at different companies that I believe its pretty widespread.

    I've found that workplaces that have a larger percentage of older workers tend to do a lot better. Maybe the older workers who act like adults at work serve as role models for younger workers. In my (second hand) experience even the defense industry is far better than high-tech.

    I would not tolerate anything like this sort of behavior in my group. I'm paying people (generally quite well) to do really interesting, really difficult work. I need all of them, and the last thing I want is some immature idiot making it more difficult for someone else in my group to do their work.

  41. Re:Nerf balls and darts? by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 3, Insightful

    HR isn't there to help the employee. They are there to protect the employer. So of course they said her claims were unsubstantiated.

    If her claims were backed by evidence, and HR said they were not, that is not "protecting the employer". It is setting them up to lose a lawsuit.

  42. Re:Don't believe a word of it by joe_frisch · · Score: 1

    Corporate culture varies a lot between companies. Harassment is very bad some places, almost non-existant in others. If it was low at your companies, then that is great, you were part of a culture that didn't allow it. That doesn't mean that it doesn't exist at other companies.

  43. Western society has a sex problem. by Qbertino · · Score: 1

    If only half of these allegations are true, this is a problem. And while I think the lady may be a bit sissy about a few things and perhaps herself socially inept/inexperienced at dealing with more than one man at a time, I can't entirely dismiss these allegations as improbable. Especially with prudish/bigot societies like the US or - in parts - Germany.

    Curiously I don't think this can be all a Google/Company problem, but it must be a society problem. And from my own experience as a heterosexual man and a successful software developer I can attest that we as a society do have a problem, and it is related to sex. There are measurable amounts of bullshit coming out of the #met00 debate, and ladies and society as a whole need to turn on their brains before speaking and learn the difference between criminal behaviour and bad manners (once again praise to mature feminists like Catherine Deneuve for bringing back some sanity into the debate - this is the type of woman we need as opinon leaders), but we also have to have a public discussion about male sexuality. And it's heterosexual males who need to have it!

    Nearly all incidents described in the article are instances of behaviour that can only be called infantile and notably immature. The people - I'm not sure they would qualify as 'men' - doing this sort of thing need to catch up on their upbringing and learn some manners and basic common decency. And they need to learn to get a handle and a perspective on their own sexual desires - which, of course, also amounts to standing up for them in the appropriate situations. And if truckloads of useful/good male developers have a problem with this aspect of their manhood, then companies such as Google truely are in a dilemma.

    We need to grow the fuck up, put the kid-girlies and their excess #met00 / gender-studies bullshit nonsense into perspective and have a grown up debate about how men and women can get along and keep their mating habits in check while at the same time being able to express them where appropriate. If this doesn't happen, if todays society can't find a method of once again formalising the encounter and courting of heterosexual males and females, this is only going to get worse.

    My 2 eurocents.

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    1. Re:Western society has a sex problem. by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      To be honest, this seems to be a purely american problem.

      In Europe we are happy if in a group of 10 men is a woman (talking about software development) ... and if a coworker would harrass a woman in front of our eyes we would invite him to a tour through the basement where the server rooms are ... mumble some things about dungeons and chains ... and he probably would stumble somewhere and we would bring him to the health office with a black eye making sure he is treated.

      Sorry, but many things people posted here and the summary of the article are close to unthinkable to happen in a normal company/society in Europe ... no idea about Asia yet.

      Heck if my sister would be harrassed like this and my brother found out, the culprit would only end up in hospital if he is very lucky ... because my brother is an asshole himself, but he loves my sister.

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  44. Re:No Mas by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Utter nonsense. It's up to journalists to investigate claims and evidence of articles they are working on. It's their fucking job.

    Yeah and the claim is "someone has filed a lawsuit alleging X" and it's been (trivially) verified as correct because that information is pulicly available from the gubmint.

    What you are effectively saying is that it's irresponsile for reporters to report the existence of lawsuits until they've verified all the claims in the lawsuit themselves or the trial has finished. It would even preclude out of court settlements ecause in that case it would be more or less impossible to verify the allegations.

    So yeah no.

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  45. Re:Evidence? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Googlers cannot make most production changes without committing. Googlers *cannot* commit without code review.

    Isn't that how it's supposed to be? I mean, having the master (or production branch) protected and won't accept changes without a code review and ideally passing the unit (and hopefully regression) tests?

    If you work in the medical industry, you'll find that things like a commit to master has to be signed in triplicate to comply with FDA regs. That can be pretty mechanical if you have various automatic test plans in place, but it hsa to be auditable because as far as they're concerned if it's not documented, it didn't happen.

    Even at a tiny startup you can do that without excessive hassle, but honestly, I'd be wary of going to work somewhere where the master branch of the production repos wasn't protected.

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  46. Re:Don't believe a word of it by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    My wife has worked at one of the big tech firms in Silicon Valley since 1992.

    Great, it sounds like that company has a good culture, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

    My house has never been burgled, despite it being moderately common in London. Just because it didn't happen to me and I've never seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

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  47. Re:bro culture does not exist in the software indu by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Back when I lived in that great sewer of humanity, the Bay Area, I met quite a few Googledouches at social events. All of them had a really very high opinion of themselves, often to the point of being bores. Snobby, yes. Politically correct, yes. Capitalist dogs, yes. Drug addled, yes. Cultish, yes.

    But exactly ZERO of them were anything remotely similar to the "bro" stereotype that's being flogged so damned hard by the Financialist propaganda organs. Look at my posting history, all of it - I'm definitely not a fan or defender of Google. But this charge strikes me as OBVIOUSLY false.

    Google is a HUGE company. Once a company gets sufficiently large the culture starts to vary etween divisions and different parts of the company have a very distinct flavour relative to the others.

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  48. Re:No Mas by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1

    What you are effectively saying is that it's irresponsile for reporters to report the existence of lawsuits until they've verified all the claims in the lawsuit themselves or the trial has finished. It would even preclude out of court settlements ecause in that case it would be more or less impossible to verify the allegations.

    Why intentionally lie about trivial facts immediately apparent to anyone having read TFA?

    TFA does a heck of a lot more than simply report out the existence of lawsuit. TFA in fact reports out all of the juicy CONTENT of the lawsuit.

    By your same logic and standards any journalist anywhere can report out content of anything and everything that comes across their desk with no due diligence simply by couching it in the fact such material exists. This is a ridiculous and unprofessional position.

  49. Re:No Mas by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1

    Do you read any press? They don't do that (any more), they do whatever is needed to increase circulation (at best) or their personal brand.

    I don't give a f*** if everyone in the world does it. The fact that x, y and z elects to do or not to do something is completely irrelevant. It's STILL irresponsible journalism regardless.

  50. Re:No Mas by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1

    What you are effectively saying is that it's irresponsile for reporters to report the existence of lawsuits until they've verified all the claims in the lawsuit themselves or the trial has finished.

    Never suggested or implied any such bullshit. People can have honest disagreements on the margins of how much collaborating evidence is necessary. This isn't that, not even close.

    The reality in this case there was NO EVIDENCE presented ANY claims reported were checked out or verified. NONE AT ALL.

  51. Re:BS meter going wild by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

    Not getting caught is the point. Look, I worked in a company where we used to tell misogynist jokes all the time. When more women began to work at the company, some people insisted on telling the jokes as usual. I said that we shouldn't stop it, but we shouldn't do it when there's a woman around, which I think is the best solution.

    Instead of trying to force everyone to act and think the same, just make sure they know when to shut up.

  52. Re:bro culture does not exist in the software indu by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

    I have worked in places where man talked a lot about going to strip joints and where I once saw a man telling a woman something like "I don't want to argue design with another guy in front of you, you are a woman and are sensitive to seeing arguments". Idk, my assumption is that most companies are the same so I would guess that some parts of Google are like this too. Maybe I'm naive and google is really this place for chosen people only where everyone are pure.

    (And yes, I understand you are not pro google, but I think you are still buying into the whole "google are different from everyone else", which I don't)

  53. Re:Schizophrenia by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 2

    That is why the Nanny States in Europe have laws you loath us for ...
    An employee has to take vacation, by law. He can not go without nor can an employer deny it. Of course it happens sometimes that during a year an employee does not find a time period where he wants vacation and the employer does not agree to other time periods. Then the vacation days are shifted into the next year or "payed off" ... but there are limitations how often that can happen.

    And to be honest 10 or 14 vacation days ... and only very limited set of holidays ... it is surprising that the US have no riots and violent revolutions :D

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  54. Re: Schizophrenia by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Clarification: Trump isnâ(TM)t against immigration (being, in fact, married to an immigrant). He is against illegal immigration. A distinction too subtle for whatever media you subscribe to, but none-the-less an important one.

  55. Re:No Mas by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

    The reality in this case there was NO EVIDENCE presented ANY claims reported were checked out or verified. NONE AT ALL.
    Erm, so you did read the law suit? Why not providing a link?
    And why did the judge accept the suit? I mean, if there is no evidence provided, judges tend to reject law suits ... at least in my country.

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  56. Re:Schizophrenia by torkus · · Score: 1

    You assume that everyone gets 10 days plus paid holidays...which is certainly not the case.

    Many jobs don't even have paid sick time and don't get me started on the healthcare they don't offer (or costs a fortune for horrible coverage you can't use anyhow) that would help reduce the number of needed sick days.

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  57. Re:Schizophrenia by torkus · · Score: 1

    Haven't you heard? False reports represent less than 1% of accusations and over 99% of statistics are functionally meaningless.

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  58. Re: Nerf balls and darts? by SharpFang · · Score: 1

    also, attempted murder which fails only because the gun is non-lethal.

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  59. Re: Schizophrenia by BlueStrat · · Score: 1

    Okay, then why did he block immigrants from Muslim-majority countries that have no documented links to terrorism?

    The problem is we have no way to verify their backgrounds. There are no records either way to check. They do not exist or were destroyed in the conflicts raging across the region. Absence of a documented link is not evidence of no involvement with Islamic extremists, it's just evidence there is no information available. They could be peaceful or could be mass murderers. There is no way currently to separate the wheat from the chaff.

    Trump is trying to keep your head attached to the rest of you, the same for the people you care about, and all despite your best efforts to thwart him.

    Strat

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  60. Re:bro culture does not exist in the software indu by Reverend+Green · · Score: 1

    but I think you are still buying into the whole "google are different from everyone else", which I don't)

    Nope. I've never seen any "bro culture" anywhere in the software industry. So far as I can tell, it's a complete fabrication by propagandists with an agenda to push.

    Now maybe you've seen something different. Or maybe you work in a different industry? I've never worked with programmers who talked about going to strip clubs. Salesmen, sure, but not actual tech people.

  61. Re:Schizophrenia by RightwingNutjob · · Score: 1

    And in America if your boss doesn't let you take vacation that's in your employment agreement...you get to give notice and find a better job. No laws to cover up the ouch of bad management. If a company hires idiots who makes them bleed talent, that fixes itself. From what you're telling me, you can hire all the martinets you want and their stupidity is masked by the laws. That's not an improvement over what we've got here. Incidently, I get 25 days a year between vacations and fixed holidays, a pension 401k, and reasonable and cheap health insurance through my employer. Don't believe the propaganda. If it were true, no one would want to come here.

  62. Get to the underlying problem first by SlideRuleGuy · · Score: 1

    As many are observing, we are coming apart at the seams. People are finding it harder than it should be just to get along with neighbors, coworkers, etc. This is unfortunate, but not unexpected, when you rapidly (in just a generation or two) throw off all social convention as being evil. I'm not arguing that things were perfect back in the good old days, but some aspects of social life may have been easier to get through than they are now.

    Now to say something uncomfortable: When there are some defined boundaries in society, then it's more obvious to everyone when someone is going outside them. But the existence of boundaries means that people have their "place". As soon as you put it that way, everyone screams (--and I can hear you), "Nope, we gave up all that crap, and we're not going back to those unenlightened, un-liberated days ever!"

    OK, then live with the harassment, because you won't be able to fix the harassment by itself. It's just one manifestation of the general tendency today to behave in whatever way our instincts propel us to act. ("If it feels good, do it!") Until you fix _that_, any particular manifestation will remain out of control.

    (Just for the record, I'd prefer an environment where people were encouraged to have more self-control, not less.)

  63. Re:Schizophrenia by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

    So it is propaganda that there is no law regulating how much vacation an employee has? :-P

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  64. Re:Schizophrenia by pnutjam · · Score: 1

    And to be honest 10 or 14 vacation days ... and only very limited set of holidays ... it is surprising that the US have no riots and violent revolutions :D

    We do, they're just unorganized. https://www.statista.com/stati...

  65. Re:Schizophrenia by pnutjam · · Score: 1

    Incidently, I get 25 days a year between vacations and fixed holidays, a pension 401k, and reasonable and cheap health insurance through my employer.

    Classic, "I got mine".

    Your not worried about the low wage workers making your salad, compelled to work when sick?
    ..or the janitor rampaging through your workplace because he's a temp with no benefits, vacation, or holidays?

    By "worried", I don't mean pants shitting terror, as espoused by the NRA. I mean human compassion that compels you to help.

  66. Re: Schizophrenia by pnutjam · · Score: 1

    And alot more people are willing to protect their friends and ignore problems that aren't affecting them personally.

  67. Re:Schizophrenia by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    According to the Labor Board findings, Damore didn't just submit his memo, he actively pushed it on people. That's different.

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  68. Re:Nerf balls and darts? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    In 2011, I worked at a now-defunct company in North DFW and every frickin day they'd throw something at me through my cubicle, run away, and all of them would maniacally laugh. They were all "brogramers" and the first I'd ever worked with.

    It went on for about a week. Then they recorded me saying "Stop throwing shit at me!" and set it as ALL OF THEIR RING TONES. Then they'd have the switchboard dial all of their numbers, and they would openly taunt me.

    So I reported it to HR (~40 year-old jock himself). And then I set up my laptop to record audio 24x7. Then I went home. Early.

    Next day, I heard HR discussing it with them: They said:

    1. We don't like him because he refused to go to the strip bar with us.
    2. And we know he doesn't drink alcohol.
    3. Yeah, he's probably some sort of religious nut.
    4. Don't you know?! He's a Mormon!!
    5. Just leave him alone, alright?
    6. But he doesn't have a girlfriend. We think he's gay.
    7. A gay Mormon? You guys are confused. I give up.

    Next day, I walked into the CEO's office, in an adjacent building, and had him listen to the audio. IMMEDIATELY, I was moved to an empty desk across from his office and I *never* had to openly talk with those jerks again. Just 90% through IM, code reviews and the occasional design meeting.

    It was *great*! Then I found a better job and got out of there before the entire company imploded, about 6 months later.

  69. Re:BS meter going wild by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    I originally thought Damore got a raw deal, then I read the Labor Board report. Damore was pushing his memo on people, not just posting it to internal discussion sites, and the Labor Board ruled that he should have expected it to go public if he did that. That can get disruptive.

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  70. Re:Schizophrenia by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

    "Instead of hiring time diversity efforts, why aren't we studying why women overwhelmingly choose careers in other industries to create conscientious changes at Google which will attract and keep women? We are obviously doing it wrong, otherwise we would have more women here. How can we change to make this a better place for women to work?"

    This is pretty much what Damore asked with his memo, and he was burned for it; called a sexist, you name it. Now Lee is saying in her lawsuit that the culture at Google is so male-centric that she fells like what Google considers "normal" behavior is actively hostile to women.

    Looks like the whole company is on the same page to me. I am curious what you think Damore's criticism of Google's "hiring time only" approach to diversity was intended to lead to? Did you think that Damore was wanting Google to fire all of the women and minorities? See, that is exactly the opposite of what Damore was trying to accomplish. His objective was to create a change in the company which would lead to an "organic" transfer of diverse talent to Google, and which would be sustainable in the long run because it was based on recognition of other industries that attract and keep women, and that women overwhelmingly choose to educate themselves in preparation for. Apparently those ideas are sexist, reprehensible, and good for a firing as well as a public humiliation.

    Hilarious that Damore asked "What do women want?" and the response from feminists was "Your head."

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  71. Re:Schizophrenia by RightwingNutjob · · Score: 1

    It all depends on the employer. Some janitors make a comfortable middle-class salary, doubly so if their spouses also work.

    No one forces anyone to take any job they don't want. We have low unemployment and even in the bad old days of the great recession, millions of middle-skill and high-skill job openings went unfilled. People of all walks have had the option to pursue better working conditions but it would have required them to relocate to go after them. Many did, to their benefit. Others felt content to collect unemployment benefits.

    So to answer your question...no I'm not worried.

  72. Re: Nerf balls and darts? by tattood · · Score: 1

    It's sad that this still happens in 2018.

    This happened in 2016.

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  73. Re:Schizophrenia by RightwingNutjob · · Score: 1

    It was, but culture is its own enforcement mechanism. In America, the culture (as a rule) is to work. That is to say, many salaried people don't mind working overtime. If everyone in the office is pulling 60 hour weeks on a regular basis, and they're your friends, and you get the thrill of working with people doing something hard...it's magic. You don't want to be seen as the lazy one agitating for vacations. For a workplace filled with kids fresh out of school who can go 48 hours on coffee and cigarettes...it works. Until you age out of it and look for better work.

    I'm in a pretty chill workplace. Like I said I get a lot of vacation and holidays. But I like my work, and just let the vacation pile on until it runs up to the expiration limit. Holidays are more-or-less mandatory but discretionary vacation time...I can go for two years without taking a day. Because I want to.

  74. Re:BS meter going wild by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

    If you have such an inferiority complex that you take everything in the worst way you can possibly read something, then you can understand why the Feminist Women feel unwelcome!

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