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  1. Re:Trolling on Netflix Deletes All User Reviews (engadget.com) · · Score: 1

    > OMG! You mean there isn't really a country in the middle of Africa with cloaking technology and magical super-metal that can do almost anything you can imagine? I had no idea that it was all a lie! FAKE NEWS! FAKE NEWS! Well there is, but it's cloaked, and if we told you about it we'd have to kill you to keep it secret.

  2. We have an unlimited account with out ISP. While it would be fun to mess with this, it's not the fault of the ISPs that this happened. I don't know that punishing them is the best strategy.

  3. Re:But I love it when slides are read to me on Why PowerPoint Should Be Banned · · Score: 1

    Anytime I have to build a presentation in PowerPoint, I generally have comprehensive notes (with additional case studies and metrics) in the notes section. I generally take a printed copy with the additional notes to the presentation so I have a reference copy and I use the slides as topic agendas, maybe a chart or two for reference.

  4. Re:nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 1

    Rape prevention is a really difficult topic - most advice revolves around telling women what they can't do; don't dress provocatively in case you inflame someone's desire, don't engage in eye contact or conversation with strangers, don't walk alone after dark, basically don't live as an independent human being in case someone who doesn't respect the rule of society decides that against your wishes they are going to assault you.

    The closest analog is telling a guy not to carry his wallet around with him, having money on his person was just asking for it when it comes to being mugged.

    There are certainly actions you can take to minimise the risk of being targeted by a sociopath - plan on traveling in well lit areas, travel with friends, etc.. Of course this ignores the fact that for women most assaults are by people they know in familiar environments; stranger rape is the exception not the rule. But either way - victim blaming an assault victim, whether it be rape or a mugging, is blaming someone for the anti-social behaviours of someone else.

    The 'victim-blaming' of the guys up thread is telling these guys to change their own anti-social behaviour. Sitting behind a computer screen screaming vitriol at people over XBOX live or posting hate on /r/redpill is not going to get you a date let alone laid (if that's your total end goal). Getting out into the world and treating other people with some level of respect might.

  5. Re: nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 0

    My mistake - I was taught that all mules were female. Obviously I was taught wrong.

  6. Re:nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 1

    This should be required reading for everyone.

    FTFY

  7. Re:nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 1, Interesting

    From the studies I've seen, most men are financially as well off within 2 years of divorce as they were before, whereas most women at significantly behind where they were for a decade or more after divorce - and that's after getting the house and the kids.

    Most 'stay-at-home-moms' have no retirement savings, they aren't qualified for well paying jobs, they still have the upkeep on the house and kids to cover, the support payments men complain about so often generally don't cover 100% of those costs (I'm not saying it should).

    People don't get divorced for the fun of it and it is extremely rarely for financial gain. Sure, we see the odd story of some super wealthy guy who marries a gold digger who takes him for millions - but that's not the norm.

    That's like people who think teenagers get pregnant for the increase in benefit payments - the costs generally exceed any increase in welfare payment - it's not a profit making option.

    Marriage should be like a tattoo - don't get one unless you plan to keep it forever. But if you really need to, there should be an option for getting rid of it. It's better than going through the rest of your days miserable.

  8. Re: nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 0

    Not at all, men have been the mules of our society.

    Somewhat ironic given mules are all female.

    Sure, men were conscripted to fight in the army, they died, it sucked.

    It's a bit of a myth that women stayed at home and lived a life of luxury while this was going on.

    Women worked in the fields next to their men folk, they looked after the house and the children. During times of war they were taken as trophies.

    History hasn't been kind to either gender - but traditionally women were seen as little other than breeding stock to be traded. It's only recently that being self-sufficient and having a choice in the matter has been an option for any percentage of the female population at large.

  9. Re:nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 2

    Blaming the victim. What are we, as a society, doing to help these men learn how to find women?

    There are women everywhere - have you tried looking down the back of the sofa? Maybe if 'finding a woman' is important to them they should work on developing traits/behaviours that are attractive to women. If it's not as important as perfecting the headshot in COD - well, we know what they are more likely to achieve.

    All I see is abuse heaped on them by people who get squicked out to discover that these men have sexual desires, too.

    As opposed to all the abuse heaped on women who acknowledge that they might have sexual desires of their own. Slut-shaming sexually active women is probably not the fastest way into their pants.

    Stop treating women (or men) as the enemy. Relationships are largely about common ground, that goes for friends or lovers. If the only people you have anything in common with is a bunch of misogynistic haters who treat 50% of the population with disdain it's going to be difficult to form a meaningful bond with people that don't share your worldview.

    "Blaming the victim" is telling a rape victim they shouldn't have been wearing a mini-skirt - they were asking for it. Telling guys to get out from behind the computer screen and talk to women as if they were people isn't victim blaming. It's telling them to take responsibility for their choices in how they interact with the world at large.

    PUAs aren't helping - they aren't trying to teach guys how to form a relationship, they are teaching guys to treat women as disposable conquests. You're not going to find a life partner that way. To spend 40+ years with someone, you'd want to actually like them.

  10. Re: nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 0

    The problem isn't a shortage of gamer girls but rather a shortage of those willing to actually take care of themselves

    WTF? What do you even mean by this - do you think they need someone to get them dressed in the morning or tell them to eat?

    Most women I know (that is, members of the female gender over 18) are generally more capable of looking after themselves than most guys of a similar age.

    If you're saying girls because you're looking for children - then of course they're less capable of looking after themselves.

    Unless by 'look after themselves' you mean you don't find them physically attractive and think you deserve a 8/10 or better. At which point you probably need to go take a good hard look at yourself.

    Like most hobbies, there is a continuum of people of a variety of levels of attractiveness, social ability or intelligence. Most people will be average - because that's pretty much what it means. It's probable that you also fall into the category of average too - so stop expecting the world to throw exceptional at your feet - it ain't going to happen.

  11. Re:nature will breed it out on Psychologist: Porn and Video Game Addiction Are Leading To 'Masculinity Crisis' · · Score: 1

    What, treat women as a person, rather than an opponent to be conquered - but they might get friendzoned if they do that. :(

  12. Re:Leave then on Gen Con Threatens To Leave Indianapolis Over Religious Freedom Bill · · Score: 1

    I assume you will be happy to take the hit on not being able to sell your property without suing anyone? Zoning laws are mostly about protecting property value through assuring amenity of neighbouring properties.

  13. Re:Leave then on Gen Con Threatens To Leave Indianapolis Over Religious Freedom Bill · · Score: 1

    Means for identifying is a marriage is real:

    Step 1 - is the bride Brittany Spears?

    There is no Step 2.

  14. Re:Not Right Enough on Gen Con Threatens To Leave Indianapolis Over Religious Freedom Bill · · Score: 1

    I think it was in reference to this.

  15. Re:It works both ways on Gen Con Threatens To Leave Indianapolis Over Religious Freedom Bill · · Score: 1

    GenCon is possibly the longest running roleplaying convention - mostly D&D.

  16. Re:Why isn't this auto-update? on Apple Fixes Shellshock In OS X · · Score: 1

    I don't understand, can you please express this as a car analogy.

  17. Re:the real question is... on Nathan Myhrvold's Recipe For a Better Oven · · Score: 1

    Scones. They get cooked at around 230C, as do a number of other baked goods.

  18. Re:Surface: the only Hope on With the Surface Pro, Microsoft Is Trying To Recreate the PC Market · · Score: 1

    As a long term Apple user (check my user name), I have been honestly surprised as to the number of MacBooks I see on trains and in the office that people are bringing in as BYODs. We are a dyed in the wool Microsoft house, but they somehow make it work.

  19. Re:correlation does not prove causation on Study: Exposure To Morning Sunlight Helps Managing Weight · · Score: 1

    Replying from a work machine still running an XP SOE.

  20. Re:correlation does not prove causation on Study: Exposure To Morning Sunlight Helps Managing Weight · · Score: 2

    I'm fat and I get up at 6:00 and am generally at work before the sun comes up. It must be because I'm lazy, and not because I commute and work stupid hours.

  21. Re:Wrong Flintstones character on What Apple's iWatch Can Learn From Pebble · · Score: 1

    To be fair, Ballmer seemed to be modeled on Dino.

  22. Re:sad on What Apple's iWatch Can Learn From Pebble · · Score: 1

    Far out in the uncharted backwaters of the unfashionable end of the western spiral arm of the Galaxy lies a small unregarded yellow sun. Orbiting this at a distance of roughly ninety-two million miles is an utterly insignificant little blue green planet whose ape-descended life forms are so amazingly primitive that they still think digital watches are a pretty neat idea.

    Douglas Adams, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy

  23. Re:not private on New Australian Privacy Laws Could Have Ramifications On Google Glass · · Score: 1

    Burning some mod points to respond - I think if you read the opinion pages and editorials of The Age you would have a different view of them supporting the Mad Monk's government. They get accused pretty heavily of being left leaning Labour party supporters. It's Murdoch's Newscorp who are the rabid LNP supporters.

  24. Re:No problem on Ask Slashdot: Preparing For Windows XP EOL? · · Score: 2

    I used to do consulting for Xerox, it was fairly typical for hospitals to depreciate hardware (such as beds, autoclaves, photocopiers) over 20 years. You can't even get parts for copiers after that amount of time, you are generally relying on 3rd party refill kits for toner and other consumables. From memory 10 years was pretty standard for printers.

  25. Re:Thanks for peptuating on Peter Molyneux: Working For Microsoft Is Like Taking Antidepressants · · Score: 1

    How long did it take for the side effects to stabalise? My husband recently started taking this and is struggling a bit (though not in the same way that he was imploding before starting them).