Where Can Geeks Meet Mates?

iamsure asks: "Allright, although it sounds hilarious, it is an honest question. I don't drink (alcohol), and like most geeks, my dancing is horrid. Thus, I don't do the bar scene. I work at a rather professional company where dating isnt appropriate, and even if I decided to ignore that, everyone I have daily contact with is married. I generally get out about an hour a day for fun. Where does the average slashdotter meet a mate?" For those of you out there who have answered this question for yourself, what did you do? I find that most Geeks involved in careers need to get out and be social. Typically many of us make our jobs our lives and it's not easy to meet people when we're tired after working 12 hours and a 90 minute commute. Many of you may have to make the time to get out and meet new people otherwise you might find your social life non-existant. Now if I could only take my own advice as well as I can give it...