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Girls in the Gaming World

dkleinsc writes "The BBC is running an article about life as a female gaming squad. There's some discussion about the welcome or lack thereof women get in the gaming community, and arguments over whether it's a good idea to have separate women's matches."

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  1. Why? by herrvinny · · Score: 5, Insightful

    and arguments over whether it's a good idea to have separate women's matches."

    Why? This isn't real life, where men have more muscle than women do (I'm not being sexist, just take an intro biology course), and are therefore superior to women in terms of pure strength, speed, etc. Online, everybody's equal, the characters can be tuned to roughly equivalent stats, the only thing that matters is reflexes to move the mouse and hit the keyboard.

    1. Re:Why? by ebuck · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree wholeheartedly.

      If you want prior art, look at the history of the male / female chess leagues. The creation of sparate leagues actually increased the sexisim debates. Soon the women's league was know for it's weaker players who were often derived the opportunity to play against their stronger male counterparts. It got so bad that (arguably) the best women players made it a point to play in the conventionally men's tournaments. Some were even as bold as to say it was impossible to improve unless they played against stronger opponents.

      Video games, like chess, fail to use a sex's sexual characteristics to give one sex a distinct advantage over the other. Separate leagues aren't necessary, and if there's an all female team, that should be a choice of comaraderie and not adminstration.

      Wow, how many web nanny programs will filter this post?

    2. Re:Why? by Vellmont · · Score: 4, Insightful


      All else being equal, in a long-distance race between a man and a woman, the woman will win.

      Why do the best Marathon times come from men then? Why aren't women winning the Tour de France? The reference I found is that they are eligible for it, but none have yet been good enough to be picked for a team. Top women can compete with top men in many areas, but in general the testosterone wins in sports.

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    3. Re:Why? by MoneyT · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Survivor is a highly rigged outcome, maybe not controlled but rigged in different manners. You can bet that any women that one of the guys could put up with, were not being voted against by that guy. The guys were out to get rid of the other guys first because they were viewed as the biggest threat. The problem is, the women were doing the same thing. So we have men being targeted by men and women. And then when there's only one or two men left and they realize their mistake, it's already too late, the women have control and the men are going. Women have the greater chance of winning because the men underestimate them politicaly. Survivor is an absolutely horrible thing to use to compare the sexes.

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    4. Re:Why? by Ironica · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Reminds me of when I used to play Magic with a group of guys I knew.

      We'd play these big 5 or 6-person games, and I'd often win or come in second. Why? Because they spent the first half of the game beating each other up, while I just would stock up land and get my creatures out. Then, when they noticed I was still there and at 20 health, they were all down quite a bit.

      It's not that women are crafty. We don't have to be when it comes to male egos. ;-)

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  2. Sigh.... by Naffer · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Does anyone else see this as an attempt to make an issue out of a non-issue? Games are marketed towards guys because guys make up the vast majority of the gaming market. Why don't they target the elderly with hiphop music? Becuase its more cost effective to target the younger crowd. Girls gaming? Great... But no one should complain about the fact that way more guys game then girls. Thats the girl's own preogatives.

    1. Re:Sigh.... by tigress · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Just MAYBE girls don't game as much BECAUSE games are marketed towards guys?

    2. Re:Sigh.... by ImpTech · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So what's the alternative? Try to make a girl-oriented game and hope somebody buys it? Major game development is not a grand social experiment, its a business. The industry will go where the money is, regardless of who's spending it. The simple truth is that they can only make what'll sell. If you can prove that a game concept will sell to females by the millions, then great, roll with it. But don't think EA or Sierra have any better of an idea what that game is than you or I do.

    3. Re:Sigh.... by Midnight+Thunder · · Score: 4, Insightful

      When developing a game, in general you are going to be working on the sort of game you would like to play. Since guys make up the vast majority of games developers they are going to make the sort of games that they like to play. In order to get games that interest girls then you are going to need to have female programmers that have the same sort of taste that the rest of women do. After all said and done, what games do women enjoy? Is there any evidence that these sort of games don't exist?

      What I have found is that the girls, that I know, fall into two categories: the girls who play games and those who don't. The girls who don't play games wouldn't play any computer game, simply because the idea of playing a computer game is not their idea of fun. The other girls I know, who play games have a taste as varied as any guy out there. My sister manages to beat me at a number of games when I play against her. I also know a fair number of guys who don't like playing games like Counter-Strike, because there is not enough strategy involved.

      I wonder how much the media is to blame for these stereotypes and how much the minority of guys who are scared at being challenged by a girl at anything are to blame for scaring women off?

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  3. Ridiculous! by RobertB-DC · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The imbalance between men and women was clear to see, with almost 50 male teams taking part, compared with just seven female squads. And as in the world of sport, there were separate competitions for each gender.

    Separate competitions? That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.

    Boys' and girls' real-world sports are separated early on because of physical attributes. Physically, girls have different abilities from boys. And there are other physical attributes that cause both genders to become... distracted.

    But online? Who knows -- who cares -- about your real-world attributes? For crying out loud, that's what makes gaming great for us geeks -- we don't have to be muscular, or fit, or even easily mobile! I'd probably lose 10-to-1 against Stephen Hawking at BZFlag.

    So in a world where physical ability and differences are irrelevant, what justification could there possibly be for a gender-segregated gaming tournament?

    Perhaps the organizers have a cynical ulterior motive? If I were a top-level girl geek, I'd turn down an invitation to such a demeaning event -- so all they'd get would be the second-rate girl teams. And then they can say "but look, they're clearly not in the same league."

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    1. Re:Ridiculous! by bigbigbison · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Exactly, or how about those "race car drivers?" All they do is sit there and hit pedals and turn a little wheel. Oh good, you can turn a wheel better than someone else.

      Why don't they get a life? Who would ever watch people go in circles in cars when we can go out and get in our own car and do it ourselves?

      No one would take something as silly as that seriously.

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    2. Re:Ridiculous! by RobertB-DC · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Hence one of the many reasons why "professional" video gaming will never and should never be taken seriously. What a joke. Its not a sport. Oh good, someone can click faster than someone else, well good for them, try applying it to something real.

      By that same logic: "Oh good, someone can run swing a fat stick better than someone else, try applying it to something real." Obviously, the concept of "professional" baseball gaming will never be taken seriously, either.

      Of course, swinging a stick with great precision is handy when you're a hunter-gatherer. But last time I wanted a pork chop, I went to the store, not out to the woods. And guess what -- that pork chop was labelled with a bar code, and I purchased it using my debit card and pin.

      By clicking buttons.

      What was that about applying my skills to something real?

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  4. Seperate but Equal by ackthpt · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Where have I heard that one before?

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  5. Re:Why segregate girls? by Frothy+Walrus · · Score: 3, Insightful

    What is so terrible about pointing out the apparent, natural and omnipresent differences about males and females?

    (ok, here I go throwing my karma into the fire)

    Men excel at physical pursuits. It is not only because our hormones allow greater muscle mass -- there are other forces at work here and science has not yet pinned them down. But a quick look at fighter pilots today, for example, shows that even in a field where physical strength is not essential, men are far more suited to the task than women.

    Sure, there are lady fighter pilots, women who can exert the concentration and coordination necessary for Uncle Sam to trust them with $100M toys. Just as there are women who can beat men at Quake III. All I'm saying is that statistics confirm that there are not many of them.

    Is that so bad?

  6. Separate matches by nodwick · · Score: 3, Insightful
    There's some discussion about the welcome or lack thereof women get in the gaming community, and arguments over whether it's a good idea to have separate women's matches.
    It's a question that's been rehashed a lot, but here are a few thoughts.

    Some sports separate out men and women because physical differences make it hard for them to compete. Obvious examples that come to mind are contact sports like football and basketball, or even non-contacts like tennis (mentioned in one of the article comments) where physicality still plays a strong role. It's the same reasoning that makes sports like boxing have weight classes (a gender-neutral issue): to produce interesting matchups that let the competitors focus on how well they compare with others with a similar physical starting point.

    Having said that, it doesn't strike me that there are significant differences in physiology that would prevent co-ed competitions from being fair, any more than you would expect one gender or another to have an advantage in competitions of bridge or snooker. The fact that they still compete in separate brackets more likely has more to do with advertising dollars (sponsors probably figure that the female market for Counterstrike is pretty small) or inertia (hey, let's do our tournaments like every other sports competition!) than any argument based on merit.

  7. Re:Sepatate female matches? by wjames · · Score: 3, Insightful

    One would hope not, But unfortunaty Pennis Envy is all too common in the gaming world. When some guy is playing in a tournament and they get schooled by a girl it gives them that feeling of insecuirty.

  8. sexism in reporting, n/m gaming by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    i love the way, when the media reports on males in gaming, they find the geekiest ones they can. but when they report on females, they have close ups of the two best looking ones.

  9. The One Place Gender Doesn't Matter... by EXTomar · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...and they want to bring it back in? I play some of these games and not once in my mind has the gender of my teammate or opponents has ever entered my mind. In fact it would be a distraction. Thinking that someone has an advantage in a game because they are male or female is like trying to figure out if someone has an advantage if they are right or left handed. If someone wins or loses they do so because they are an accomplished or failed player. Gender has very little to do with it.

    The one place where competition can be leveled down to fundemental non-physical attributes, a place where women can actually compete on equal footing as guys, they want to bring back gender divisions? I just don't get it.

  10. Re:You never know... by rholliday · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That is 1,000% true. Women (or percieved women) always get special treatment in gaming situations, be it on a MUD, FPS, MMORPG, doesn't matter. People used to send my girlfriend RL Purchaseable items for her MUD, especially if they asked to see her picture. It's the same tendency that causes most men to do "chivalrous" things for women: somewhere deep down they think this is getting them one step closer to getting laid.
    To quote the great Chris Rock, "Can I help you with that? Can I help you with some dick?"

    And as to getting schooled, I'm sure most gamers wouldn't mind Stevie Case (AKA KillCreek) walking all over them in a game of Quake III. Hell, if she can take John Romero to the cleaners ...

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  11. Voluntary Segregation by michael+path · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'll probably get modded down, because no one of either gender every listens to me, but.....

    Since many major online games (UT, Quake, etc) offer granularity of servers, I imagine there's probably alredy "girls only" servers and other private interest group servers just the same (password protected, et al).

    It seems natural. We already have television networks (several) specifically for genders. Chat rooms for certain interests.

    Now, with all that said, I can't say I mind competing with/losing to a girl. I don't understand the need for specific major competitions specifically for females. In fact, I'd imagine that 'being a male' as a requirement for a competition would probably result in legal action.

    -m.

  12. Ummm, earth to boring guy by gosand · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Are "gamers" that insecure about their masculinity/sexuality/gaming prowess/dick size/pick something else that they're afraid of playing against girls?

    Since there is no way to mod this "Duh", I had to respond.

    OF COURSE! Have you ever played an online game? There are always those who are (or pretend to be) loud-mouthed, homophobic, racist, misogynist, immature dick-heads. They usually are the ones who cheat and play like tools. They either really are that ignorant, or they do it just to cause a stir and piss people off. Being female would only garner a different type of insult from these morons. They are what make online gaming so annoying. But it is so much fun and gratifying to own them. :-)

    Now I know that not everyone is like this, but the ones who aren't don't care who they are playing against. Most of the time you don't know anyway, you just know people by their screen names and your past experiences with them. For all I know, some of them are women.

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  13. seperation of men and women... by lambadomy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I hate to bring this up, but there is some reason that it is advantageous for the "girl gamers" to have their own, seperate competitions.

    I remember attending the "all female tournament" for quake 1, and other than the top two or three players, I wouldn't say any of the other girls had any business being in any tournaments. In theory, there is nothing seperating men from women in skill in these games. In practice, it doesn't work that way. The girls, at least so far, are never the top players. Having seperate events for the women gives them a huge advantage in terms of exposure and, well, being in news articles or potentially winning money.

    The reasons for the disparity in skill seem pretty simple. While there is nothing specific keeping any individual girl from being at the top of the heap (that I can think of), the fact that there are umpteen (we'll say 99) times more men playing than women means statistically likely one per 100 of the top players will be a girl, and one per 100 of the top teams will be all girls. Here, we have 7 out of 57 teams. Even if the ratio is not 99:1, I doubt it is anywhere near 7:1. The women are just pulling talent from a smaller pool.

  14. Whats wrong with Girls Gaming? by AngelicBadGirl · · Score: 5, Insightful

    What exacally is wrong with girls gaming? I'm a female. I love video games... and I play well. Why should I have to play against all girls because some little 15 y/o boy is afraid I will beat him? Any male who thinks we should be seperated needs to grow up. It won't hurt your ego that bad to loose to a girl.

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    1. Re:Whats wrong with Girls Gaming? by Nick_dm · · Score: 3, Insightful

      As some people on here have mentioned, the push towards this didn't come from the whole (male dominated) community. Many girls chose to play in teams that are female only. When I started playing 4-5 years ago there were only a handfull of female only teams, and girl gamers scattered around other teams. There were plenty of all male teams, but these weren't "male only", it was because of practical (not many girls about) rather than ideological reasons.

      I'm not sure whether the trend towards segregation was started from females who were sick of men looking down on them (I've never noticed it in the circles I've hung out in, but I'm sure it happens, maybe more in some communities) or whether it game from organisers looking for a gimick. Certainly I think some female 1on1 tournaments were held before the team ones became common, and guys were certainly not pro-segregation (girls having a tournament to themselfs with prize money, when they could enter in the main tournament too, that made some guys pretty annoyed).

  15. Re:Great... by RedK · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Oh yes... but this article is about Counter-Strike competitions where females don't get the participate in the same brackets as male, and don't get to try and win the big cash prizes. Now please enlighten us as to how this is justifyable by saying girls prefer other games genres. I guess because the game is not targetted at them, they can't play it at the same level as men ?

    It's a load of crock if you ask me. It's men afraid that their testosteron levels will be going down if they get beat by a girl. Get over yourselves. Even if only 1% of Counter-strike gamers are girls, it doesn't mean that they are the worst 1% of players. And it also doesn't mean that they can't play in a "no-girls allowed" tournement (you know the kind, where 8 year old boys don't want to catch cooties and stuff). And that they can't win the same prize money. This is not a sport where physical differences would tip the scale. Girls and boys handle mices and keyboards with the same skill.

    I personnally don't see why women can't participate at the same level and even against men in this type of event.

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  16. Fighter pilots by drox · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Sure, there are lady fighter pilots, women who can exert the concentration and coordination necessary for Uncle Sam to trust them with $100M toys...All I'm saying is that statistics confirm that there are not many of them.

    Actually, women (on average; we all know women AND men who are exceptions) tend to excel at just the kind of skills fighter pilots (and kick-ass gamers) need. Good reflexes, eye/hand coordination, etc. But fighter plane cockpits are crammed with equipment and most of it is designed with a MALE pilot in mind, i.e. 5'9" or taller. The best reflexes in the world aren't going to help you if you can't reach the controls.

  17. Okay, so let's put that theory to the test... by StressGuy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Let them compete on an equal footing initially. If it really turns out that there is such a clear deliniation in ability, then you have a great case for a separate league. If not, then we've just eliminated a lot of unnecessary organizational overhead.
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    Seems fairly straigtforward.

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    1. Re:Okay, so let's put that theory to the test... by Eivind · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Sure. I'm all for letting girls who want to try their luck in the male classes. There's no reason not to.

      Some though, would feel that allowing that would further underline the differences. Today we can all play make-believe and say there's one class only for girls, one only for boys, so it's equal in a way.

      If we let girls compete whereever they choose (and I see no reason not to) then we also need to be intellectually honest enough that there's one "free for all" class, and one "females only", and we can no longer pretend it's "equal".

      The risk is that this would further undermine the status of the females-only class. It'd be sorta like there's special classes in many sports for "only those under 16".

      You'd have a situation where it'd basically be a male as "World-Champion" (or whatever) in any sport, and the females would be relegated to "World-Champion - female only class"

      It's a tricky bussiness. It's tricky because we have this ideal, and the political correctness, that we're supposed to be equal. And the fact of the matter is that today we are not. In some sports, like those where muscle-mass play a role, we'll never be. In others, where muscles are irrelevant, we *migth* get there some day, but today we're not. (Personally I'd be overjoyed to see a female F1-winner or chess grandmaster)

  18. Men have feelings too! by adamofgreyskull · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Hear hear. I could be beaten by blind,pre-pubescent paraplegics with bad hearing all the live-long day and I'd still enjoy the experience. But it's ruined when some whiny brat from Jerkwater, USA calls me a "cheting haker" because I got a head-shot.Once.

    To think that only women are subject to abuse is either naievity or ego.

  19. One of the reasons. by tigress · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I just want to say that the comments from the male crowd here alone is a very good indication of why there aren't as many girl gamers.

    We simply do not get any respect.

    A common misconception about girls that play games is that they play "boring online games", such as Yahoo games, solitare, chess or whatever. Yes, many girls play those kinds of games. However, so do many guys. The thing is, most of those guys would never post here, and most of those girls are the only ones the average slashdotter would see (Yeah, I'm using a stereotype here, so sue me).

    Another common misconception is that games are marketed towards guys because there aren't as many girls that do play "the cool" games. This is a matter of market forces. While I agree that there are fewer girls that play games than guys, the number of girls that play games isn't really that low. In fact, most of my female friends play games. Females make up 51% of the world population, after all, so there's a HUGE market out there.

    A third misconception is that girls aren't interested in games. Totally wrong, see above. Girls ARE interested in games. Obviously.

    These are misconceptions that are repeated constantly. We girls are simply seen as people who aren't techy. If one of us IS, then we're seen as not as competent as a guy. If we prove to be competent, then we suddenly turn into a threat. All of those are reasons to talk down to girls, not just in gaming, but in other areas as well.

    I can tell you one thing that girls are though. We're not interested in being called names, just because we try to show an interest in the very same field as guys.

    Maybe, just maybe, more girls would confess to being gamers if they weren't insulted whenever they tried it.

    (Okay, maybe this post wasn't so thought through, but I'm currently busy starving myself to keep my figure.... or maybe I'm just delirious from coding all day and forgetting to eat. Bah, whatever.)

    1. Re:One of the reasons. by JavaLord · · Score: 4, Insightful

      We simply do not get any respect.

      No, you probably get treated the same way guys do when they play online games, especially FPS games.

      Females make up 51% of the world population, after all, so there's a HUGE market out there.

      Yes, but this doesn't mean they make up 51% of the video game playing population. While gaming may be popular with younger women nowadays, there is still a huge gap in the 25+ aged women who just don't play games at all (outside of slots, solitare, pogo, etc) . To them, there is still a social stigma against it.

      I can tell you one thing that girls are though. We're not interested in being called names, just because we try to show an interest in the very same field as guys.

      Anyone in an online game gets called names. Seriously, I'm sure that anyone who plays a FPS game here has been 'flamed or lamed' at one point or another. Don't expect special treatment because you are a girl, of a certain race, etc.

      To see my point, go into a fps with a neutral nickname and announce you are of a certain ethnic group and see how long it takes for people to bring that up. People aren't picking on you because you are a girl, it's because you are there and they do it to everyone else also.

      We girls are simply seen as people who aren't techy

      Look at the gender breakdown of computer science or mathmatics majors that finish with a degree. It's not that you are seen as not being _techy_ it's that most of you aren't. That doesn't mean you can't be, it's just that most girls aren't interested in that kind of stuff.

      In fact, most of my female friends play games.

      Yes, but that doesn't mean most females play games. Most of my friends work in IT, but that doesn't mean 75% of the world works in IT.

      Maybe, just maybe, more girls would confess to being gamers if they weren't insulted whenever they tried it.

      It seems to me girls are encouraged to play (given free things, invited to join clans, etc) more than men are. Like I mentioned before, if you get called names online it's not beacuse you are a girl, it's just because you are there.

  20. Re:Great... by PainKilleR-CE · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That says to me that the girls can be just as good as the guys. Why should they be limited from playing in any particular bracket in a tournament? I can't think of a good reason...unless I didn't think I could beat them.


    The problem I see is with the article rather than with the tournaments. This is the first time I've heard of a tournament that had seperate brackets for males and females. In most cases, men and women competed on the same ladders with mixed or unmixed teams, their choice. As far as I'm aware of, the push for female-only ladders came from female-only clans, not from male-only clans (and to my knowledge, few clans are male-only by choice of the members). Each clan I've participated in has welcomed any female member that was up to the normal membership requirements of the clan, which has resulted in a handful of female members over the years between the 3 clans. The only reason there weren't more female members is because there weren't more female players looking to join (one exception in my memory being a point at which membership closed while a female was being actively recruited, because the clan decided to stop playing the game rather than bringing in 6-10 new players).

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  21. Your theory is unfounded by Cleahpatra · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The thing that seems off about your post is how you're confusing videogames with sports. The physical differences (such as lower center of gravity, muscle-length / breadth, and etc.) that tend to delineate the female and male classes in sports don't really apply to videogames. PS: Chess grandmaster Anjelina Belakovskaia 1995, in case you were wondering. More recently, Alexandra Kosteniuk was ranked #29 over all in U.S. Chess on December 2003 (http://www.uschess.org/ratings/top/dec03/OverallL ist.php) which is ranked regardless of gender or age. She's only 20. PPS: I regularly manage to kick people's asses in videogames, regardless of their gender. It's probably my lower center of gravity helping me.

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  22. Game = Gender/Race freezone.. by msimm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The interesting thing about gaming is the fact that the friends you make can be so diverse. To say one (minority) group should be segregated because they don't play as good as majority group Y is just silly. Why would we want to put up more artificial walls?

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  23. I see an advantage on sexual segregation by Rolman · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Really, someone who has so far only played with idiotic guys that only keep saying "u fag!" when you frag them, will feel very much relieved when playing against the usually quieter girls. I love playing against other people online, but I hate how the communication is abused with the permanent trash talk. The game is supposedly to be fun and people are there to show their playing skills, not their ignorance and horrible verbal/typing 5k1LL5. Gender mixed teams really help the S/N ratio, even if most of the conversations are "A/S/L?". Hey, both guys and girls go online to increase their chances to get laid, we can't do jack about it.

    But I digress, I've had many girls as opponents in several kinds of games. In fact, I would recommend playing the awesome Pac-Man Vs. against women, it's ungodly funny. Women-friendly games are not always stupid things like Barbie. There are great games you can play with your SO, if not together, then taking turns is fun too. Examples? Animal Crossing, Mario Party, Mario Kart (online, yes!), Mario Tennis, Bomberman, Tetris Attack, Parappa and Umjammer Lammy, and Wario Ware, even some FPS I have played against women and had a great time.

    I think an all-boy team is just as bad as an all-girl team. But, I also see an advantage with sexual-segregation. There are people very insecure about themselves, those are the ones that will never accept a defeat from the other gender. Let these idiots play with themselves in their closed circles, and let the mixed gender teams get rid of them and enjoy the insane fun.

    So please, continue to make your gender-specific teams and keep yourselves out of this horrible, unfair mixed gender world where I play =P

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  24. Sad but true... by WIAKywbfatw · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The sad thing is that homophobic (gay, fag, queer), racist (jew, nigger, coon), and/or other inoffensive language (rape, cocksucker) seem to be a standard part of the lexicon for a large percentage gamers.

    Frankly, I find this unacceptable. I'm not homosexual but I do find homophobic language offensive, and the same goes for the other, less acceptable language that crop up on almost every public gaming service.

    I find it both funny and sad that these kids (and most of the people who resort to such language are kids) think nothing of using language that they wouldn't dare use at the dinner table or to a someone they bumped into at the mall to sound "cool" and "macho" online.

    And it's amazing how far they'll take it: I've had people threaten to track me down in real life and kill me and my family, rape our corpses and then rip our heads off and shit down our necks. If it wasn't so laughable at the time then I would have been well within my rights to report the matter to the relevant authorities. I'd love to see some 13 year-old sat down on the couch with his parents and a pair of law enforcement officers explaining that he regularly sent death threats to people just because they outclassed him in a game.

    The fact is that as long as this sort of behaviour is accepted or even tolerated by the majority of online gaming communities then those communities will remain the domain of teenagers who have bigger mouths and egos than brains.

    There's no doubt in my mind that, whilst most men would shrug their shoulders, dismiss the idiots as part of life and just carry on gaming, most women will not tolerate such stuff.

    As my girlfriend put it when she saw some of the stuff that gets spewed out by some of these people, "What idiot would say that kind of stuff and why would you want to spend your free time listening to it?"

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    1. Re:Sad but true... by ManoMarks · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I am Gay, and it's a frustrating to see the strings of invectives that come poring across my screen, but if you've ever posted on Yahoo! message boards you know it is even worse there. Usually if I call someone on it, they'll stop for awhile. But when I used an ID that had the word "gay" in it, I had people change teams so they could try to kill me. Of course, the real bigot/haters are usually horrible players, probably because they spend so much time typing they forget to play. So much of it is also profoundly misogynist and uses profoundly sexist language. If I were a woman, I'd feel I was getting a rather hostile response from people who didn't even know, most of the time, that I was a woman. I support servers that make an attempt to keep it clean and ban those who are overtly hostile.

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  25. Re:Great... by Camulus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Yes, signing up for a privately run tournament that happens to have a male and female ladder is such discrimination. I mean the we should merge the NBA and WNBA or the PGA and WPGA. Granted, there is a big difference between a keyboard and mouse and playing basket ball, but still the point stands. There is segregation all over the place. In fact, most of the time there if a female tourny, they can also play in the "open" tournament. It's okay to have the Black Enterntainment Network, but if I started the White Entertainment Network I would be a racist. It's okay to have a female tourny and a open tourny, but if you have a female and a male, people bust a fucking gasket. I'm not against female gamers either. I like them. Gamer chicks are cool. I have several as friends. However, not every thing is a horrible injustice requiring a lawsuit.

  26. A few thoughts... by Alexis+Brooke · · Score: 3, Insightful

    As a female gamer, I can say the following:

    I played The Sims when it first came out, and enjoyed it thoroughly at first. It was fun, and kept me entertained for the better part of a week. After the house- and family-building aspect got old, though, I discovered that there are only a certain number of times you can remove someone's pool ladder or stick a guy in a small, doorless room with a lit fireplace and loads of wicker furniture before it ceases being amusing.

    I also enjoy games such as Quake III and Unreal Tournament. I like them because I'm good at them, and can whip just about any of my male friends. They're the perfect games for a LAN party, when you've got ten people in a room, working as teams, shouting orders, laughing, and having a good time. For me, though, first-person shooters sorta lose their appeal without the group dynamic.

    Even more entertaining are games like Warcraft and Starcraft, mainly because they involve thought and planning, and aren't just a wild frag-fest (although those are fun as well). Unlike FPSs, I'm equally entertained playing a RTS with someone in the same room as I am with someone online, or even against the computer. When my internet connection is out and I have the urge to play a game, chances are I'll be loading up Brood Wars for a three-hour game against the Protoss and Zerg.

    These days, though, my main vise is EverQuest. Yes, I'm an Evercrack junkie. But, unlike what seems to be the majority of the players, I'm not terribly concerned about level advancement. I don't have the uberest gear, I'm not in a raiding guild, and I'm not flagged for the Plane of Time. I do, however, have a wide circle of close friends I enjoy hanging out with, and am part of a close-knit guild that's more like a family. Most of the female players I associate with feel the same way as I do, so I suppose it's the social interaction that we find most important.

    Anyways, those are just my thoughts on the subject... *shrug*

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