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Multiple Jobs? How Would You Do It?

MikeDawg asks: "With so much uncertainty in the current job market for tech workers, and with varying financial situations; are you required (or want) to work a second job? I'm in one of those situations. I work as a bartender during the days and weekends, and I work as a mainframe operator during the night. Often browsing classified ads for positions, I see ads for jobs that pay a minimal amount more than my current tech job, and a possibility for less stability (see this Slashdot Article). Do you think it would be a better idea for someone to work two somewhat secure jobs, getting paid a little bit less, or going for a higher paying somewhat insecure job? I also run into varying conflicts such as scheduling if I would like to try and maintain two jobs, which is never fun (Don't even ask about how happy my girlfriend is). So my question to you out there, would you rather work 2 secure jobs, that pay a little bit less than what you could be making, or would you rather get paid a touch more, and work for 1 less secure employer?"

55 comments

  1. Girlfriend? by avalys · · Score: 4, Funny

    Don't even ask about how happy my girlfriend is.

    Don't worry, it never crossed my mind.

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  2. time for a raise? by adamshelley · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If you are looking at jobs that pay marginally more than what you are currently making, maybe you can ask for a raise.

    Scope out how much you could get paid for your job and ask for it. You won't get a raise magically (employeers like to pay less) but if you present your case to them logically maybe, if you are worth it, they will give you what you need.

  3. Neither. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I would rather work for myself, have absolutely no stability between jobs - but rake in piles of money.

    If you have the option: keep one stable job - but your 2nd should be something that is risky but with potential for serious personal wealth if you strike it rich.

    Start a small business doing something that you have always loved. Lean on the stable job for a while, letting it support you until your "dream" job takes over and is obviously the one thing that you should be doing (although it may take a while to figure out how to become profitable). Your job will be as stable as you make it - and vastly more rewarding than bartending or babysitting somebody else's computer.

    1. Re:Neither. by snooo53 · · Score: 3, Insightful
      The AC has a great point there. Do something a little risky but with a lot of potential wealth. Working steadily at a job counts for something, but really gaining experience at something you want to do will help you more in the long run.

      Do things that will help you on the path to obtaining your dream job. Even if you don't end up at your dream job, chances are you'll find something close, or at least have the experience to start your own business in that field.

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    2. Re:Neither. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      I am doing exactly that. On my full time job I am working for an insurance company as a web developer.

      For my part-time job I have started a company with another bloke developing Estate Agent Software. At the moment I am the one doing all the work, as he is a salesperson (and has all the knowledge and contacts), but as soon as the majority of the system is finished it is his turn to sell it.

      It is already producing some money but not much at all.

      Eventually we plan to go full time on this but only time will tell.

  4. Do what makes you happy by killyourblender · · Score: 5, Insightful

    My suggestion to you is to remember that no amount of money or paycheck is worth your happiness. If working two jobs for the added security helps bring you to a higher level of satisfaction with yourself, then do it... because that time spent at your job is coming out of your life!

    Some people require the security. Some people require the money to survive. Some people are trying to save up for a better day. Some people want the benefits that Starbucks offers because the lame staffing company won't give out benefits. If I were you, I'd check my motivation and reasons for holding down two jobs and determine how important your reasoning is in your life.

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    1. Re:Do what makes you happy by akaina · · Score: 1


      IF ( girlfriend.likesToShop() ) THEN
      {
      girlfriend.Dump();
      girlfriend.getNext();
      }//end of IF 'girlfriend'

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  5. Other Variables by the+eric+conspiracy · · Score: 4, Insightful


    So much depends on factors that you don't mention here:

    - What is your financial position, do you have savings to tide you over if your insecure job goes tits up?

    - Does the insecure job offer things like exposure to technologies that would make finding another job easier?

    - Could you use the free time you get from the new job to look for an even better job?

    You have to weigh all the factors.

    1. Re:Other Variables by MikeDawg · · Score: 1

      Financial situation is okay, I like my toys, and I like to buy new toys, and still stay above water, hence the second job.

      Your second question there is actually some of the feedback I wanted to listen to, as I said, my main job, is a mainframe operator on a 1976 mainframe, no huge advances in technology there, but about all it gives me is more time to log as a "mainframe operator", which I might add is not a career option I'd like to see.

      Your third question is also excellent, because, that is probably one of my main concerns, I have no free time, as it is right now, to look for another job.

      Another thing, that another poster mentioned is, security, I feel more secure with 2 jobs. But this is also a concern with the low wages I'm getting from both of my current jobs (also, bartending during the day is quite awful, as far as wages go).

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    2. Re:Other Variables by glorinc · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Your second question there is actually some of the feedback I wanted to listen to, as I said, my main job, is a mainframe operator on a 1976 mainframe, no huge advances in technology there, but about all it gives me is more time to log as a "mainframe operator", which I might add is not a career option I'd like to see.

      If being a mainframe operator is not a position that you want to stay in career-wise, you still might want to try moving up via the mainframe path. The step from operator to system programmer is big, but since you already have familiarity with the iron, you might be able to present a case for a promotion more easily within the mainframe tech, rather than on a new platform. (consider that in this economy, competition will be fierce for more popular platforms) Mainframe sysprogs are getting older, and it's becoming tough to find replacements when people retire. Plus, assuming you have a good reputation at your workplace, they know you are a good worker / can learn quickly, etc.

      I would begin building my skills in the slow periods at work, and try to find a good sysprog to "help out". Once you complete some project work, you can begin talking promotion / salary increase to your management.

      Best of luck!

    3. Re:Other Variables by Grab · · Score: 1

      Re feeling secure, could you actually live on just *one* of the jobs? In other words, if one of them canned you tomorrow, could the remaining job keep you alive indefinitely? If not, your feeling of security is probably an illusion. The money coming in is no doubt a good thing, but the time spent away from your GF is a bad thing. (Incidentally, if your GF is also working and you're living together, that's extra financial security in itself.)

      Also re security, I think you have to ask yourself whether you couldn't get another similar job just as easily. There really isn't a shortage of low-wage jobs like bartending, so if you go for a higher-paying job and the worst does happen, you're practically certain of being able to get some kind of alternative job (albeit low-paying) inside a week.

      Personally, I'd reckon that holding down two jobs is a non-starter. That makes 15 hours a day, plus say another hour for travelling, which leaves 8 hours for sleep, spending time with your GF, and doing anything else you want. No wonder you've got no free time! :-/ As an emergency measure if you get canned from a higher-paying job, maybe; as a full-time solution it just doesn't make any sense. You'll burn out doing that, and I don't see that there's any sense in burning out doing low-paid stuff. Burning out as a financial whizz-kid and making your millions inside 10 years, fair enough - you've got the rest of your life to recover and millions to sit on - but burning out working two minimum-wage jobs is just pointless bcos you'll have nothing to show for it except a wrecked life (no health, no work, no money, no GF and no prospects).

      Grab.

  6. I wonder. by Canthros · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Maybe you should see if you can eliminate some unnecessary expenses. I mean, in the last three months, I've managed to demonstrate to myself that I can cover all my bills and still eat at only half the pay rate of my last job. Were it not for the car payment, I'd actually be making more on unemployment than I'm spending.

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  7. Now that I have a family... by SoCalChris · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I have a very secure job that pays a little less.

    I've got great benefits though, and that more than makes up for the lower salary.

    1. Re:Now that I have a family... by calebtucker · · Score: 1

      Government job I assume?

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    2. Re:Now that I have a family... by SoCalChris · · Score: 1

      Yeah. A non-profit corporation owned by the city to be exact.

      How'd you guess? :)

  8. I would go lesser stability if I can afford it by vivekkumar · · Score: 2, Insightful
    IMHO...It depends on what your financial position is. If you could afford it a single job with lesser stability would leave you more time for your to balance your life. You would have to dedicate some time to keep on looking for your next gig though, and of course save some for the rainy day.

    Personally, I have been consulting for over 7 years and taking the risk defiantly paid of.

    1. Re:I would go lesser stability if I can afford it by 4of12 · · Score: 1

      If you could afford it a single job with lesser stability

      I find it interesting that jobs with "less stability" are typically the more interesting ones.

      For that reason alone they're worth considering.

      But consider, too, that for many people "less stability" means "about to be canned" where actually, "less stability" can often have a simultaneous meaning of "could hit it big".

      I see an analogy with investing, here.

      Everyone will tell you that for the long term, investing in equities, and smaller companies at that, gives you greater returns that investing in fixed incomes securities like bonds.

      But there's increased risk with equities that can bite you in any given short period of time. Hence, those approaching retirement will often start to play it conservatively, investing more of their portfolio in bonds than stocks.

      The best long term rate of return, whether in monetary compensation, personal fulfillment, or emotional satisfaction, seems to requires some element of instability and risk.

      With an exciting risky job, though, the last thing you need is extra stress from living beyond your means. Keep your expenses simple so the extra anxiety of meeting living expenses doesn't cause you to choose the boring, safe job.

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    2. Re:I would go lesser stability if I can afford it by elecbrick · · Score: 1
      I am at my second startup. The first one went under and I was unemployed for 6 months. Fortunatly, the higher salary I made while I was employed made up for the inconvenience and it was a fun job.

      Happiness above all. I like the startup environment. Other people hate it. I left a nice secure job for more money and instability. You have to like the prospect that making more means you might have a period of unemployment ahead. If you can live with that, do it. The stress is definitly higher but in my case, the job is also more fun. Your milage may vary.

  9. Some of us... by lightspawn · · Score: 4, Funny

    Don't even have one job, you insensitive clod!

  10. girlfriend? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    She sure seemed happy last night.. thanks for working late!

  11. Handy by isorox · · Score: 2, Funny

    Don't even ask about how happy my girlfriend is

    I'm sure your hand will survive, and may even be more useful with the added exercise of pulling pints.

    1. Re:Handy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should always try and use alternating hands. Otherwise you will overdevelop one arm.

  12. Only for a good reason by Vincman · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Do you have one? I would rate long-term prospects over job stability. No the two are not the same. A job can be beneficial to your development, even if it doesn't last very long, and vice versa.

    I've worked two jobs and juggled a university-education on the side and thought it was worth it because I was getting something out of it. What I got (appart from my degree) was a massive mental and physical breakdown. I'm still a little traumatised by it.

    Two jobs may bring you money and stability during times of uncertainty, but these may continue for a while! And in the end you will have to find something more substainable anyway. Why not do that now?

  13. Multiple Jobs? Just send one to the background by Neil+Blender · · Score: 5, Funny

    Use fg, ctrl-z, bg and jobs.

    1. Re:Multiple Jobs? Just send one to the background by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      i've got multiple jobs too.

      You know, hand job, umm, ok, i've only got one job.

    2. Re:Multiple Jobs? Just send one to the background by vlm · · Score: 1

      Don't forget GNU screen

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  14. Make (More) Money Fast! by Fortunato_NC · · Score: 4, Funny
    One of the few pieces of advice that I treasure was given to me by a co-worker as I was starting out. He told me:

    "When given the choice between making more money and staying where you are, consider everything you love about your current situation. Consider your co-workers, your friends, and everything that depends on you at your current job.

    Then quit being such an idiot and take the money."

    I pass this onto you, and all of Slashdot, in the hopes that you will find it useful.

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    1. Re:Make (More) Money Fast! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This reminds me of what my Undergraduate Advisor told me, back at good ol' Podunk State, some 15 years ago:

      "Prostitute yourself to the highest bidder."

  15. quit the bartender job, spend time researching by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    opportunities in the computing market.

    Bar tending, while it might be fun and sociable is a waste of time, will tire you out and will make any computing employer think you are an alcoholic and not serious about information processing.

    1. Re:quit the bartender job, spend time researching by tverbeek · · Score: 1
      Bar tending ... will make any computing employer think you are an alcoholic

      Most employers are smart enough to understand that someone with an active drinking problem wouldn't last very long in a job behind the bar. I can see potential employers questioning the technical aptitude or professionalism of someone who works as a bartender, but not his sobriety.

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    2. Re:quit the bartender job, spend time researching by duffbeer703 · · Score: 1

      WTF are you talking about?

      Any bar owner knows that bartenders steal and drink on the job, its part of the overhead.

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  16. Ugh by xrayspx · · Score: 1

    I've tried to figure out a way to work either my full-time dayjob + some crap job, or full-time + consult on the side. So far the math won't line up. For instance, I'm at work at 8:45 with no end in sight, wouldn't be very good for my clients (or my gas station manager) if I had to call and say "no go, full time job is taking too much time".

    You sound like you're in the perfect position to do what I'd like, which is work one full-time tech job + consulting during the day. I say keep the mainframe operator gig, and if you're at all competant at it, do small time network consulting during the day. If you're not that confident, charge like $25-$50/hour until you're a heavy-hitter and can charge much more.

  17. Girlfriends and Jobs by aminorex · · Score: 3, Funny

    Hey, I know plenty of girls who would be delerious
    to have a boyfriend with one job, leave alone two.
    Why, with two jobs, you should be able to get at
    least two girlfriends. Maybe twins. Not
    that you have time for that.

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  18. That depends... by Galapas · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ...on your situation. Are you:

    a) Single, Debt free sitting on some enough coin that if you lose the insecure job you'd have some time to get another job.

    or

    b) Divorced with an alimony payment, credit card debit, a new girlfriend to buy shiny things for student loans and living pay check to paycheck collecting returns on bottles to buy ramen noodles.

    Maybe you need to work the 2 jobs steady until you can payoff some debit bank some sweet coinage, then check out the insecure job market again.

    The point is look at your situation, figure out what risk you can deal with and make your choice.
    No flunky poster on /. (me included)is going to be able to help you with this one.

    -G

  19. There is no average. Do what's important to you. by stienman · · Score: 2, Insightful

    are you required (or want) to work a second job?

    Depends on your point of view. I work full time. I go to school (at the non-friendly for working students school University of Michigan, Ann Arbor) 1/2 to full time depending on the semester. I maintain a seperate computer consulting business which breaks even each year (no real profit or loss - but there are other benefits). I maintain a home and family. I look forward to graduating and having a single job, and spending my time with my family and hobby of electronics.

    I'm in one of those situations.

    Which, you want to, or have to?

    Do you think it would be a better idea for someone to work two somewhat secure jobs, getting paid a little bit less, or going for a higher paying somewhat insecure job?

    At this point I choose security over better pay. however, neither of the choices you've provided are ideal. Keep in mind that if you take a less secure job that only requires 40 hour weeks then you'll have a lot more time for job searching and polishing your skill set than you'll ever have working for two jobs.

    would you rather work 2 secure jobs, that pay a little bit less than what you could be making, or would you rather get paid a touch more, and work for 1 less secure employer?

    Again, neither choice is good. It depends on the money and how you define 'secure'. The last several jobs I've had they realize very quickly how hard I work and how valuable I am. All of my employers, even those providing 'less secure' positions, have been unhappy to see me go. (I don't engage in bidding wars - when I decide to leave I leave. Bidding leaves a bad taste in everyone's mouth)

    So go for the job where you'll be happiest. If happiness comes from more security, less time, less money, and less flexibility, then stay in your comfort zone. If you can afford to take a risk (as a family man my risk level is low, but you may have much more space to move right now) then shoot for the stars. Show your stuff, and make yourself a valued employee.

    As always, don't rely on someone else's opinion as to what you should do. Make a decision. Stick to the decision until, if ever, you decide it was a mistake. If it was a mistake then shift gears and correct your course. Don't ever think that you're stuck - there's always another direction to go in. You're only stuck if you say you are, etc, etc.

    And don't use slashdot as a motivational resource - if you can't motivate yourself, then no one else will be able to motivate you when you most need it.

    -Adam

  20. Multiple Jobs? How Would You Do It? by corian · · Score: 1

    use cron!

  21. It depends. A checklist for your decision. by 1iar_parad0x · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It depends.

    Reasons to avoid this insecure job:
    o the company has a bad business plan
    o the company has a boss who knows nothing about his business
    o the company is incredibly small
    o the company is going through layoffs
    o the company has problems shipping products
    o the company often requires insanely long hours (i.e. cars are in the parking lot at all hours)
    o you get paid in a delayed fashion (not weekly/bi-weekly)
    o your contract isn't ironclad (even if it is, you could still have problems)
    o your employer doesn't like design documents (bad if you're an independent contractor)
    o you've got a family and kids

    Reasons to take/keep a job:
    o the job looks good on paper
    o this experience could get you another job in the future
    o the job pays considerably more
    o flexible hours
    o your work at this job directly effects your success
    o your very happy at your job
    o your job is fun

    Frankly, we've got no details about the job. So, I couldn't tell you either way.

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  22. So the only reason.... by shachart · · Score: 1

    You posted this Ask Slashdot thingie is that we all know you have a girlfriend, huh?

    I don't suppose you'll give the rest of us, with single jobs and free time, her phone number?

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  23. Outsource by dtfinch · · Score: 2, Funny

    Just get two, maybe even thirty full-time work-at-home jobs. Then outsource them all to India, two workers for each job. They'll work overnight and during the days you take over, inspecting the quality, making sure the style is consistent, and writing out plans for the next night's work.

    I'd never do that myself, knowing how it hurts the US job market, but it is a tried and proven strategy for success.

    1. Re:Outsource by Teddy+Caddy · · Score: 1

      How does this hurt the US job market if you create a career for yourself by being a middleman b/t US businesses and Indian coders? This job was not there before you created it? Nobody is fired.

      Sometimes, it is just win-win, not win-lose.

  24. What is the fallback? by AlecC · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You obviously have the ability and willingness to do a number of different kinds of jobs. What is the fallback situation? If you go for the higher paid, but risky, job, how long will it take to get another bartender job?

    Round here, tech jobs are pretty specialised and don't come up all that often. If you lose your tech job, it may be months, or an enormous commute, before another comes up. But bartender jobs come up all the time. There is a high turnover, and a lot of places where the skills needeed are essentially the same. New bars etc. seem to be opening every month or so. Nobody with a respectable level of experience in the catering industry need go without a job - of sorts - for more than a couple of weeks.

    Likewise your mainframe job. Sounds quite specialised. What is the turnover? If you leave politely, explaining why it is a good career move, higher pay etc., arrange that they have you phone number for any "I forgot" queries, what is the chance they would take you back within a finite time?

    Basically, what is the worst downside of losing the risky job? Of course it isn't nice losing any job - but if all that happens is you and up back at your current position after a couple of weeks, go for it.

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  25. One job, of course by mobby_6kl · · Score: 1

    Buy this shirt, take that job and you'll be ok!

  26. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by mrzaph0d · · Score: 1

    I maintain a seperate computer consulting business which breaks even each year (no real profit or loss - but there are other benefits).

    i'm curious, what benefits? do you mean that the business itself makes no profit even though you as an employee are still paid or that since you are the business, you end up spending about as much as you charge?

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  27. time vs. money vs. security vs. enjoyment by tverbeek · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I did the two-jobs-at-once thing for 4 years as a practical necessity. It wasn't bad, because the day job was something I sorta enjoyed, and the other was generally innocuous. They were both really steady, reliable work, but nothing that would advance my career. Then I got laid off from the day job (not so reliable after all). I finally ended up at a single job that pays better, but ranges from frustrating to boring. My job security is OK. I'd rather go back to the way things were. I'm coming to the conclusion that money and time and security aren't the things that will determine whether I'm happy in a job; enjoying the job itself seems to matter most.

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  28. Re:It depends. A checklist for your decision. by tverbeek · · Score: 1
    Whenever I'm trying to make a tough decision, I make a spreadsheet that lists every factor that goes into the choice (e.g. job security, time with GF/BF, pay). I include a space to assign a numerical weight to each factor, and for each option there's a space to assign a score, indicating whether it (for example) would provide really good job security or really bad job security. There's a live formula at the bottom of each column to total the weighted scores for each option.

    Then I step back and watch myself assigning weights and scores, and tweaking them. I usually find myself adjusting the values to make one of the options come out on top. That's the one I go with.

    The moral: trust your guts, not your analysis.

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  29. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by Bluetrust25 · · Score: 1

    He means that he makes a profit, but then reinvests it into his business by buying business related stuff like computer hardware and software. He breaks even on paper, and that's where it counts. Since all home businesses itemize their deductions for taxes (or at least they'd be insane not to) he won't pay any taxes on income made from the business if he spent every dollar he made on the business.

    It's just part of being a smart business owner.

  30. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by innocent_white_lamb · · Score: 1

    Since all home businesses itemize their deductions for taxes (or at least they'd be insane not to) he won't pay any taxes on income made from the business if he spent every dollar he made on the business.

    You must be able to demonstrate a "reasonable expectation of profit" to be able to deduct business expenses in respect of a home-based (or any other, I suppose) business. If you can''t, the government will classify your business as a hobby and it becomes non-deductable.

    Several years in a row of "no profit" but with substantial deductable business expenses is a good way to get the attention of a tax official.

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  31. Stability. by Raven42rac · · Score: 1

    If you are in the IT field, and work at a job you may consider "unsecure", you are still making contacts and impressing people if you do well. Once you are in the field you are IN. You won't believe the amount of job offers you get when you get a Net Admin/Engineer job. It is analagous to "when you have a girlfriend, suddenly girls talk to you. when you were single, they would not give you the time of day." Good luck man. I would keep a second part-time job just for a hobby, the less computer related, the better.

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  32. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by stienman · · Score: 1

    It means that I'm not a good accountant, and let several customers in years past go without paying for several months. This isn't bad unless you know that their balance was covered by my credit, all the time earning interest. The profits are effectively eaten up in interest.

    I'm climbing out of that hole, rather succesfully, but I'm still more interested in providing my customers with low cost systems than in producing a large profit. Some years I make a profit, some years I break even, a few years I've lost, but usually only because december payments are held over until the following year.

    The benefits I get are constant familiarity with the hardware and software, I keep my tax license and reseller status, slightly less expensive components for myself, and a business I can fall back on if needed for a variety of purposes. Mainly, though, I get paid to keep up with current hardware technology.

    -Adam

  33. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by NateTech · · Score: 1

    I've always wondered why my various employers over the years haven't had the same requirement... they can announce publically that they expect to make no profit and continue to operate -- or even take a trip through the Bankruptcy car-wash, but a home-based business can not do that and continue to reap the tax benefits. Odd.

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  34. How Unsecure? by azadrozny · · Score: 2, Insightful
    How do you define unsecure? Are you working a with a highly specialized, little used technology for a company/project that just started last week?

    I think you have to look at the whole thing in aggregate. How good is the local job market? How much more money does it pay? How bad do you want to work one job? If you are really that unsure take a portion "extra" money you earn and put it into a rainy day fund. If you are building a good (general) skill set and building a good network of friends/business associates I don't think you can go wrong.

  35. Multiple Jobs? by Anonymouse+Cownerd · · Score: 1

    Is Steve looking to clone himself now?

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  36. Re:There is no average. Do what's important to you by duffbeer703 · · Score: 1

    Hobby expenses are also tax-deductible, up to 2% of your AGI.

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  37. your girlfriend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Don't even ask about how happy my girlfriend is.

    I dunno...she seemed pretty happy when she left my apartment last night.