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How Old is Too Old?

NewtonEatPalm! asks: "I started college back when I was too young to carefully weigh options about my future. I entered a prominent art school at age 17, coasted through, and was spit out at age 22 with a film degree that I don't really want nor do I feel qualified to use as the basis for a career. Three years on, I'm still working at my mundane college job, though one thing has never changed in all this time- my love of and devotion to technology, keeping up with hardware news and the intricacies of powerful software through daily reading of sites like Slashdot and lots of home-brew system building and amateur web development. I've decided that I'd like to pursue a second degree in Software Engineering at one of the major Cal State U's, but that would place me in the tech job market at nearly 30. My question is, how old is too old? Are severe changes in career direction in this sector commonplace/successful? Or have I truly already let my best chance for entry pass me by?"

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  1. Thinking Radically by (1+-sqrt(5))*(2**-1) · · Score: 3, Insightful
    From TFQ:
    Are severe changes in career direction in this sector commonplace/successful? Or have I truly already let my best chance for entry pass me by?
    It's true that the neurons harden as your mind differentiates itself (much like a fetus' maturing organs); on the other hand, if you're violent enough to pursue something as “worthless” as art, you're much more likely to shake up the software world with radical ideas.

    If your radical ideas happened to be annealed in post-hoc math, you may just carve out a niche for yourself; feral engineers are too goddamn down-to-earth for my taste, anyway.

    1. Re:Thinking Radically by sumdumass · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I remeber something about a study of brain pathways and activities on UK taxi drivers. Evedently, the test to get a taxi license there requires you to memorize the map and be able to recite the most direct way from random points to random places.

      In this study they used a die of some sorts that when new cells grew, showed up a different collor on Xrays or catscans. It turns out that 50 some year old people learning to become taxi drivers there, developed new brain cells and pathways (for lack of remebering the exact term) in a somewhat large amount.

      I think the conclusion was that the brain continues to grow deep into old age. here is a link to a news article, if it still works.

  2. You want advice? by AKAImBatman · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Carpe Momento

    1. Re:You want advice? by AKAImBatman · · Score: 5, Insightful

      *sigh* It's not supposed to be funny. It's a philosphy: SEIZE THE MOMENT! Don't sit around waiting for the next thing to happen. Take stock of what you want to do, what you know you already can accomplish, and the possible paths of reaching your goals.

      For example, you've already got a degree. About 90% of the people I have met have their degree in something other than the field they ended up working in! So get off your thumbs, and see if that degree plus your personal coding experience can get you a Junior level programming position. You'll need to supplement your personal experience with some good learning materials (you can never go wrong with the classics like Richie, Knuth, and Tanenbaum!), and you'll need to apply yourself to improving your analytical abilities.

      But at the end of the day, if it's something you love doing, DO IT! Don't poke around with 10 more years of college. If college has drilled anything into your brain, it should be, "Never stop learning!" After all, college is just a resource that provides the materials and contacts you need. To actually get anything useful out of it, you should be pulling the information yourself! And with such a wealth of awesome written information on Computer Science, how could you not be learning if it's what you're interested in?

      Again, SEIZE THE MOMENT! Do whatever it is that excites you the most. If you're driven in your love for it, others will take notice.

    2. Re:You want advice? by kfg · · Score: 3, Funny

      Carpe Momento

      Yeah, I had those at my Jewish grandmother's house all the time, although she changed the word so we wouldn't know we were just eating carp.

      Guy at the tackle shop looked at me funny when I asked what sort of lure I needed for gelfilte fish too. Damn Bubby.

      KFG

    3. Re:You want advice? by JoeFromPhilly · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I agree with the parent. Having a college education specifically in the field you want to enter can help, but it's not everything. All my hard work in school really didn't get me into a career developing software, as it was the middle of the tech bust. But, I just sat down and started writing software anyway, whatever interested me. I figured that even if I couldn't get a job, they certainly couldn't stop me from programming. Eventually a company noticed me, and it's been totally tits since then.

      However, there are some benefits to college that are worth considering:

      • It costs enough money that you'll likely stick to it even during periods where your interest wanes,
      • It will get you to learn about things you might not discover on your own,
      • and you'll feel a lot more confident when you're being interviewed.
  3. Only measure against your own goals by suso · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Everybody's life and goals are unique. You shouldn't try to judge your progress based on what you think others are doing and have accomplished. Sometimes that can be useful. But you should just ask yourself one question. What do YOU want to do with your life and what do you think you need to do to accomplish that.

    Some people "start" their life at 15 and burn out when they are 30, some start at 30 and continue on until they die. Everyone is different.

    1. Re:Only measure against your own goals by Antony-Kyre · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I happen to agree about the comment you made regarding when someone starts their life. In my opinion, "Age is nothing more than just the number of times you traveled around the Sun."

  4. Thinking Experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    "It's true that the neurons harden as your mind differentiates itself (much like a fetus' maturing organs); "

    And yet some of the best work has been produced by men and women well past 30.

    1. Re:Thinking Experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      And yet some of the best work has been produced by men and women well past 30.

      Indeed. Pamela Anderson was thirty-five years old when she highlighted Playboy's Sexy 100 special issue, back in 2003.

    2. Re:Thinking Experience by arivanov · · Score: 5, Interesting

      In the majority of companies your CEO is not interested in your best work. Just read old slashdot article and the discussion on it

      He is interested in you "not doing it for the money" so he can underpay you and provide fake perks instead of a salary.

      He is interested in you "burning in your job" so he can make you work a 60+ hour week without paying you overtime.

      He is interested in you applying for the job without reading all of the small print, asking all the relevant questions about the salary, possible career progression, stock, options, benefits and all the rest so he can fire you or underpay you anytime he likes

      If you have an unhealthy interest in the small print he will know that he will have a much more difficult time screwing you left, right and center. Frankly, if you are 30, if you are smart enough to consider your career wrong and think of a career change you will be asking these questions. Why change the career if you would not. This will make finding any jobs very hard. You will not fit the prototype which the currently popular management sociopaths love to mind-rape.

      I am speaking this out of experience by the way - I have had quite a few interviews ended and offers dropped the moment I start looking through the small print. Which I will continue doing anyway. I have changed career twice (the second time at the age of 28) for a reason. And it is the old cat motoL "I do it for the money, if you want "loyalty", get a dog".

      --
      Baker's Law: Misery no longer loves company. Nowadays it insists on it
      http://www.sigsegv.cx/
    3. Re:Thinking Experience by fbjon · · Score: 5, Funny

      ..and millions of neurons and organs around the world hardened and matured.

      --
      True confidence comes not from realising you are as good as your peers, but that your peers are as bad as you are.
    4. Re:Thinking Experience by kyliaar · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It really seems that this guy has mis-interpreted the reasons why interviewers dropped him. As a hiring manager, I look for people who can objectively look at situations and make knowledgable and logical decisions. There is no problem with asking questions and looking at the fine print, as long as it is relavent. However, if you are looking for all the in-and-outs of how an employer can screw you and asking your questions from this viewpoint, it comes across quite clearly and an intelligent hiring manager will know that you will be someone who will be very difficult to with as you lack any ability to have any trust for management in a business environment.

      It is never in an employers best interest to screw over its employees. If an employer does think this, his company will not suceed as he will just drive away his best employees. On the same token, each employee does have some responsibility to watch out for his own interests, demand just compensation and deliver value back to the company to justify any raises in compensation.

      As to the original poster questions, it is never too late to attempt a career change, especially if it is something that you are really interested in. Just keep in mind that you will be starting at the pay scale that someone in their early twenties would be getting. Is your life style going to accomodate that?

  5. 30! To Old!? Bite Me! by KingK · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Ok now that I got that out of the way...

    I finished my EE degree and entered the engineering workforce at 28. If anything I found my age may have helped me. Most of the people you end up working with won't know when you finished your degree, so they end up looking at you as someone who is probably more experienced. Throw in the fact that in a technology job you have to stay current and not everyone does. Coming fresh from university you'll most likely be current.

    Age doesn't matter it's your skills and drive, boy. (And stop asking questions that make me feel old)

  6. Sure, remind me of my birthday... by Psykechan · · Score: 3, Funny

    I just turned 33 today. Way to remind me that I am old. :P

    1. Re:Sure, remind me of my birthday... by vistic · · Score: 4, Funny

      happy birthday...

      what?

      oh... i said... HAPPY BIRTHDAY, OLD MAN!!!

      did you hear me THAT time??

      sometimes i forget to speak into the horn. :-)

  7. In a word, No. by ezratrumpet · · Score: 3, Interesting

    You're never too old to retool or change. Every day, someone your age (and someone 2-3x your age) leaves a successful career for a completely different field.

    You only get One Life - and one chance to be whatever age you are. There's no dress rehearsal. Figure out how to "do" your passion for enough money to maintain a lifestyle sufficiency, and then go do it.

    Remember, this is a one-life game. Use it up.

  8. 30 worked for me by Duhavid · · Score: 3, Informative

    I didnt graduate college till 30, started
    my second ( third? ) career as a programmer then.

    Had to work my way thru college. Tisnt easy, but
    doable.

    You are here, it is now. Start.

    --
    emt 377 emt 4
  9. Hmmm by Reality+Master+101 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Three years on, I'm still working at my mundane college job, though one thing has never changed in all this time- my love of and devotion to technology, keeping up with hardware news and the intricacies of powerful software through daily reading of sites like Slashdot and lots of home-brew system building and amateur web development.

    I'm a little suspicious of this. If you have a "love and devotion" to technology, then what's stopped you so far from learning programming? You say you've done some amateur web development, so that's a gateway that normally might've led you to it.

    I'm assuming you haven't learned any programming to speak of. If that's the case, then I suspect you have some romantic notion of what programming is all about that probably won't live up to your expectations. Coding is not all hot tubs full of babes. :) I'd say that people with a passion for programming already know that's what they want to do and don't need to "ask Slashdot", especially when you're looking at a career change for a job you think is boring.

    I could be wrong, of course, but I think you need to consider that the career grass isn't greener on the other side.

    --
    Sometimes it's best to just let stupid people be stupid.
  10. Never too old by YrWrstNtmr · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I changed jobs and started programming for money at 37. I may change again later on if it suits me. Do what YOU want to do, and screw the norm.

  11. "How old is too old?" by maynard · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Dead.

  12. That isn't old by EZLeeAmused · · Score: 4, Insightful
    I finally went back to school and got my bachelors in Computer Science in 1999 a month before my 38th birthday. I immediately got a job with a major corporation in the industry. It certainly helped that I look a good 10-15 years younger than my real age, but if you can do the course work and prove in an interview that you have what it takes, mid to late 20s is certainly not too old to change careers.

    You should however be certain of where you are going. Building PCs and doing light web development are not what most software engineers do in their day jobs. Teach yourself Java or Python or something and try your hand at some more substantial software development. And that is good practice - in most software engineering classes, the focus of the class is more about basic concepts and you are expected to teach yourself whatever you need of the language du jour to implement projects.

    --
    Some see the vessel as half full; others see it as half-empty; We pour it out on the floor and laugh
  13. How old is too old is up to you by TTK+Ciar · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You're too old to do it when you personally cannot do it.

    A friend of mine is in his early 50's, and he recently landed his first "real" (paid) linux system administration job. Prior to this he had worked in construction his entire life. If he can do it at fifty-plus, you can do it at thirty. If you can't, there's a reason for it other than age.

    People generally have more power than they think they do, and are limited not by what they can do, but by what they allow themselves to accomplish. So, be bold! Thrust your trepidations aside and throw yourself in the direction you want to go. You may surprise yourself.

    -- TTK

  14. Never too old... by Jhon · · Score: 4, Interesting
    Or have I truly already let my best chance for entry pass me by"
    While my career timing in life seems to mirror yours, my circumstances were quite different. Long story short: I entered my "current" field at age 28. (Homeless for a while, and taking 8 years to get a 4-year degree -- switched majors a few times. Phil, math, CS)

    I decided to I worked as a private contractor and took sub-contract jobs for minor network installs (Doctors offices, dental offices, law and accounting offices). I did that for about 5 years. One of my clients, a smallish lab, offered me a full time job. Over the years, that smallish lab has grown to around 200 workstations, 5 servers, 3 remote offices, etc. I went from a department of one to being a manager of 8 (both IT and Data processing departments).

    Advice: Find a small or medium sized privately owned company. Learn to do a lot... SQL, networking, admin, support, word, excel (show some pivot table magic), etc. Forget working for anyone or anything with stock-holders. You'll enjoy the work, probably like the owner/boss and add a few years to your life.
  15. You have to Love Technology by BunnyClaws · · Score: 3, Interesting

    If you choose to make this type of career switch you better make sure you really love this field. The starting pay probably won't be good. The work hours will be demanding and the respect from business management will never shine down on you. More than likely you will not be able to pursue a project that you are passionate about only one that management wants done. Just make sure you really love this field before you make the change. Enjoying technology as a hobby is one thing doing it for a career is whole different story.

    --
    "Anything tastes good if you deep fry it."
  16. And the alternative is...? by CaptainPuppydog · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Look at it this way: how old will you be in 4 years if you don't do this? What will you be doing then? (nb. the answer better not be "posting another 'Ask Slashdot'... ;-) )

    Too many people use the excuse that they will be 'x' years old when they get out of the schooling they need to pursue the job they really want instead of the fry-slinging they are presently doing. Do yourself a favour: get the buy-in of the significant people in your life, take a deep breath, and pay the first year tuition all at once. Then instead of having an excuse not to go to school, you will have an excuse not to skip/stop.

    CPD.

  17. I got into med school at 28, finished training @39 by spineboy · · Score: 4, Interesting

    And I couldn't be happier, even after 4 years med school, 5 years residency and 2 years fellowship. I certainly don't regret the time I spent working in research(Human genome proj) for several years before I got into med school. Usually the people who start something when they're older have made a more rational, wise choice then the people who went straight thru the mill.

    If you want to stop your life and start a new phase of it, then probably you really want to do it and therefore you should.
    Just don't do anything half assed -if you're going to do it, then go all the way - be dedicated. What you get out of life is what you put into it.

    --
    ..........FULL STOP.
  18. Some tangental feedback. by Pinback · · Score: 5, Insightful

    In ten years, you'll be 40. When you look back, what you did for a living may not be as big a deal as you think. Your relationship(s) may be a bigger solace.

    If your parents are still living, see them at least once a year for the next 10 years.

    After 28, you can't rely on your metabolism to keep you in shape. If you don't already have one, pick a physical activity you won't get bored with, preferably something not too dangerous.

    Do you play any instruments? If you start practicing now, you should be able to play by the time you're 40, and even better by the time you're 50.

    Sometimes the best job is one that lots of people aren't after. Yes there are lots of jobs for coders, but there is lots of supply too.

    If you don't keep a journal, start. Some things in life are cyclic, and you won't notice them unless you can review what happened in past years.

  19. Verily by iridium_ionizer · · Score: 3, Funny

    "I just turned 33 today. Way to remind me that I am old. :P"

    Jesus died when he was 33... I'm just saying.

  20. Late 30's isn't too late by simonfunk · · Score: 3, Interesting

    My mother decided she wanted to be a doctor in her mid 30's and got into NYU when she was maybe 38? She did fine, and became a great doctor. Before that she worked as a lab tech for a few years. Before that she was a waitress. A lot of my friends in college were "returning students" in their 30's getting CS degrees and went on to do good stuff. I've never personally witnessed anybody being "too old" to pull it off.

  21. I'm 'old' by Inda · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I always remember a careers evening I went to with my father 16 years ago. The careers adviser stood at the front of a large hall and asked all the parents "How many of you are still doing the same job that you did when you left school?". Out of 200 parents only a small handful of them raised their hands.

    I left school at 16, took an engineering apprenticeship and slaved away at that for another 8 years. When redundancy called at the age of 25 I decided a change was needed. Many people told me that my 4-year apprenticeship would be wasted if I left the industry; I ignored them.

    I too have always been interested in computer and suchlike. I had some HTML knowledge under my belt. I also had some knowledge of the core MS Office applications. An office life for me this time!

    Once in a low-skilled role I learnt some Javascript to complement my HTML. I spoke to people and they said "learn how to store and retrieve data from databases and you're laughing" so I did. My manager learned of my new skills and asked me to build a few simple business applications. "What about VBA?" he said. "No" I said. He then sent me on some courses to learn that.

    These days I write small browser based applications that help the business no end, crappy Excel spreadsheets, crappy Access databases - someone's got to do it. If I had the motivation to learn more then I could progress more.

    I am 32 and I have another 38 years left of my working life.

    --
    This post contains benzene, nitrosamines, formaldehyde and hydrogen cyanide.
  22. College "Age" Story -- not tech by smchris · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Some time ago I took an evening extension with graduate credit at a Big 10 in Norwegian painting from 1750 through Munch. (And who wouldn't?) One evening the professor came in and with some exasperation in his voice said, "I've got to tell you a story. I haven't been distinguishing between the evening class and the day class. I just put all your papers in a pile and grade them together. Today, a self-appointed committee of my graduate students came into my office and complained that I wasn't being fair. The evening students were raising the curve and hurting their record. They said the evening students were just there because they were interested in the subject and we are here to train for a career! And I said, 'Yes, I can see that there is a problem. And if any of you come into my office and bring this up again, you will be in trouble with me.'"

    The moral? Don't knock maturity. Don't knock motivation. You can probably build a better relationship with your professors and forge better contacts for internships and jobs.

  23. Depends where you look, but basically don't worry by real+gumby · · Score: 4, Interesting
    Surprisingly, lots of good advice so far. As someone who's started five companies and generated almost 1000 jobs, let me give you my perspective:
    • Some companies, generally big ones, will rule you out. Cynicism aside ("all companies are evil"), they, or rather the HR departments, use age as a shorthand for value, even though it's illegal. At 30 you'll be in the sweet spot for many of them, but without the necessary experience. Conclusion: most large companies will probably not be right for you (though exceptions exist, but they are few).
    • When I hire, I look for people with drive and the ability to control their lives. E.g. completing a degree is not crucial (some of the best never did) but shows that you can complete a long task. If you go back to school, especially after a hiatus, it shows either that you don't know what you want to do when you grow up and are aimless, or that you know how to pick yourself up and take control over your life. I don't expect 20 year olds to have that kind of understanding; hence doing it at 24 is actually a positive sign to me.
    • As another poster said: make sure you will be doing what you want and that you're not going back to school as a tool for decision avoidance (see previous point!). Try some somple programming out -- get a book, poke at your computer, take a short course at the local community college (need not go on your resume if you don't want). javascript, surprisingly, is a good introductory interactive tool since you can just press reload in your browser to see what happened.
    Finally: from your post, you might find being a sysadmin fun. That's good because with a small amount of skill you can get a simple sysadmin job, even if it's just flipping backup tapes or babysitting servers at night. Once you're in the job you can go to school at night and you can also work your way up -- the "age thing" won't matter anyway. And the best sysadmins are programmers, but the vast majority are not, so again you can slide in and decide how much you want to have. Oh yeah: to contradict myself: these super-entry-level sysadmin jobs only exist at big companies, and are the kind they are least likely to worry about age at. Though again, they might worry about pointless certifications.

    Anyway: seize the moment and go for it. The longer you dither the longer you will answer the question by default.