Is A Bad Attitude Damaging The IT Profession?

dtienes writes "Why does IT get a free pass to insult users? Slamming customers isn't acceptable in any other profession; doctors don't call their patients "meatbags" — at least, not publicly. But IT professionals think nothing of wearing their scorn on their sleeves (or at least their chests — just check out ThinkGeek). There's more at stake here than just a few hard feelings. IT may be seriously damaging the credibility of the profession. See the essay I'm An Idiot (And Other Lessons From The IT Department) for a former IT professional turned user's take on insults, attitudes and ethics. (Full disclosure: The submitter is also the author.)"

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An example

[maztuhblastah]

Nothing for you to see here, please move along

See, it's attitudes like that....

Re:An example

[Anonymous Coward]

What about those customers who then treat IT like dirt every time a problem occurs? IT is only the savior when something gets fixed.

Re:An example

[Xaositecte]

That's true of pretty much every career field. You're not worth something until it works, and if it's not, it has to be the expert's fault.

Re:An example

[Anonymous Coward]

You replace a users broken monitor. Two hours later, that same user calls back and complains that since you replaced the "computer", they can not print anymore and they have a filing due in 10 minutes. "IT always does this, does anyone there know what they are doing up there?". Rumors are spread among the users that IT has screwed up again. Another user offers up that Outlook isn't working either because a client called and stated they did not get an email I sent them. I just emailed this person yesterday and they got it, what happened today? We can not work like this, IT department is a bunch of idiots.

That printer was out of paper, had you looked at the screen it has, you would have seen that. We also provide you 20 printers on this floor that you can print too, sorry you have to walk 20 feet to pickup a job from that printer over there. There is wheels on your chair, push yourself over there if you do not want to get up, go in reverse, it is easier to move yourself in the chair that way.
As for that email? Thanks for calling my supervisor and CC'ing an email to our VP telling them that no one has helped you yet with that email problem. I looked through your box and our server logs, I see yesterday you sent an email to client@aol.com, today you mailed client@aol.con. It was rejected because aol.con does not exist and you received an email telling you that. I called you for some clarification and to explain this to you but got your voice mail. I went by your desk and you waved me off. The other unrelated email problem you had today was their server rejected it because you attached a 75MB file. Our system can handle and process that but the recipients server can not based on the second rejection email you received. There is nothing I can do about that, I don't know why they have it set that way, I know the client told you it should work but he/she will have to speak to their OWN IT department to clear up that issue. No, I am not calling the clients own IT department for a problem the client is having with his IT department and his email system.

My opinion..
I wish there was a nice way to put these things but if a user is automatically stressed and irate, they are probably going to be treated the same way in return. I guess it should not be that way but I am not the whipping boy either. We are ALL professionals. We all work in the same company and all are required to be here and do our job for this to work. If we were not needed, the company would not employ us. If technology and IT was so easy, we would be getting half what we do get. Explaining complex situations to the users is a hard task, even more so when they already have their mind made up.

Here is a very specific example of a user trying to blame the IT deparment that I did not include above. This actually happens to use quite often.

We have a computer based time tracking system (software time clock) that all hourly employees use. When we do "on next logon" software updates, sometimes it takes a few minutes and delays the users computer from getting to the prompt to check into the time clock. Supervisors are aware of when we push software updates so they can look out for people that are a few minutes late checking in and adjust as required. We often have users call us directly and complain that somehow they were given some random software push which delayed their check in and want us to call their supervisor. We had no updates scheduled, no reference or logs on that computer to indicate any update was pushed to their computer that day and they get pissed. "Well someone was updating something", bullshit, do not blame it on us because you were 3 minutes late. On that note, people have tried the bad mouse or KB thing as well when they are late.

Re:An example

[tompaulco]

More than likely some fucktard from HR came up with it and told IT to implement it.
You give the HR department too much credit. What they really did was pay a bunch of third party consultants a crapload of money to bypass IT altogether and implement the timeclock system with no IT involvement, then told IT to support it.

Re:An example

[ozmanjusri]

We are ALL professionals.

No, we're not. As an industry, we look produce products and perform services that are dictated by our own failings and conveniences rather than our customers' needs.
Assume the customer was once right, but has been made bitter and defensive by repeated arrogant IT messages (YOU have performed an illegal action and will be shut down...), and you won't be far from understanding current IT/user relationships.

That printer was out of paper, had you looked at the screen it has, you would have seen that.

The user should have got a simple, understandable message that the printer was out of paper. That's a failure of the OS designer and printer driver developer.

It was rejected because aol.con does not exist and you received an email telling you that.

The user's email software should have picked up the typo and suggested a correction (in fact, most email clients do). Users are used to ignoring dozens of cryptic error messages daily, because we have to, in order to continue working. Make computers more reliable, and error messages more intelligible, and we'll start paying attention to them.

I called you for some clarification and to explain this to you but got your voice mail. I went by your desk and you waved me off.

The user is employed by your company to work. They generate income for the company. You are employed by your company to service the tools they use to generate the money that pays your salary. You are a cost to the company.
They owe you politeness out of common decency, but common sense suggests you should avoid interrupting their work.

The other unrelated email problem you had today was their server rejected it because you attached a 75MB file.

The user needs to get a 75MB file to the customer. Stop whining and arrange for it to happen.

We often have users call us directly and complain that somehow they were given some random software push which delayed their check in and want us to call their supervisor.

You have been a problem for so long that people believe they can use you as an excuse for their own failures.
Stop being a problem.

Re:An example

[o2sd]

Assume the customer was once right, but has been made bitter and defensive by repeated arrogant IT messages (YOU have performed an illegal action and will be shut down...)

You shouldn't be using the most complex device humankind has ever created if you are going to get all upset about a few error messages. You should be fucking gratefull that you get to use such a piece of equipment at all.

The user should have got a simple, understandable message that the printer was out of paper. That's a failure of the OS designer and printer driver developer.

Actually it's a failure of the purchasing officer who doesn't know anything about printers (or which brands give you simple understandable messages that the printer is out of paper (like my $150 Lexmark which has the incredibly cryptic message 'Printer is out of paper')

The user's email software should have picked up the typo and suggested a correction (in fact, most email clients do).

And so when the software changes naol.com to aol.com (to help you) then I'm sure you will be on the phone whinging about that too. Why don't you type more carefully? Or double check your message before clicking send? Does an envelope correct your spelling when you write out the wrong address? Does your telephone automatically correct the number you are dialling?

The user is employed by your company to work.
Exactly, so they shouldn't be wasting time by being too fucking lazy to check their work (or the address of an email) before they send it out to a client. In fact, any employee that wastes their time and the IT department's time and the company's time because they are a lazy moron should be fired.

The user needs to get a 75MB file to the customer. Stop whining and arrange for it to happen.
Hey tell that to the post office when you try and send a Datsun through the post. Hey! I'm the customer. Stop whinging and arrange for the transport of my Datsun.

You have been a problem for so long that people believe they can use you as an excuse for their own failures.
Yes, and lucky for you IT people are not very good at office politics or your lazy incompetent ass would have been fired already.

car mechanics do it too

[yagu]

Insulting the "client" isn't constrained to the IT market, it may be more visible to /.ers, but seemingly many "professionals" think an attributes of being a professional include being an unmitigated asswipe to those less knowledgeable.

My personal experience with over 25 years now in IT is that many times the asswipe-ness of an IT professional is inversely proportional to what they know and how well they know it. While I've known some brilliant IT staff who were grumpy, most of the anointed geniuses-with-attitude were self anointed, and less than geniuses (doesn't mean they didn't know anything, just that the attitude was a convenient and easy facade to hide behind).

The insulting IT staff were the ones I avoided -- mostly their expertise, as it were, was a diminished return in being held hostage by "their schedule", and their attitude. I'd much rather find assistance with a less competent person who is self aware and interested in helping find a solution if they don't know it themselves.

Admittedly there is a consumer demographic cowed by the angry IT support, and they probably accept and suffer more insult than they deserve. But, in the long run, I think any IT staff member who glories in his or her rancor and animus with the client grossly underestimates the long term impact on their reputation and career. If you think customers don't talk... and consider alternatives when they present, think again. (I long since have avoided Circuit City for not only rude treatment and condescension, but that kind of treatment coupled with virtual incompetence on that for which they condescended..., literally thousands of my dollars have gone elsewhere solely on "rude behavior" by "professionals".)

It pays to be nice.

(And, regardless of the sans-clue clientèle's, there are rarely circumstances that warrant abuse of the customer.... )

Re:car mechanics do it too

[JohnnyMossville]

In my experience, I found that the IT guys are being paid more than other people in the building on average, actually much more than their job description warrants. Management is ignorant to the fact most stuff just works and the IT guys basically sit around all day browsing slashdot.org etc,... breaking stuff once in awhile to make them look useful. This leads to to a level of arrogance brought on by the fact that they must make others feel they are ABSOLUTELY necessary to the well being of the company. If they weren't there, the place would break down and we'd all be walking around aimlessly without their "expertise" Like Doctors and Mechanics, this is their little God Complex. It's quite amusing actually. I've found myself not fixing my own computer problems on purpose just so they have something to do. They are not much more use than elevator operators to me. Sorry.

Re:car mechanics do it too

[Anonymous Coward]

Let's be honest, LOTS of professions do this. I was a nightclub bartender for two years, and believe me, as a bartender you're looked down on by other bartenders if you don't have a healthy disdain for the customers. Now I'm a software engineer, and frankly, the view of customers by most other SEs I know tends to be a lot higher.

The WORST offenders:
- Doctors (ever seen an episode of House, I've met more than my share of those types)
- Police (which is worse, a egocentric engineer, or a guy with a gun and the belief he's the law?)
- Actors/Musicians (ok, not surprising, but still true)
- Network Admins (admit it, they look down on users much more than developers do)

And a few more on the list:
Lawyers, Bartenders, DMV employees

Clearly, it's not limited to social class, income, education, or any other factor other than having a clearly defined role separating them from their customer base in which the customer will almost never know the details/facts/routines...which is the real reason why this happens.

Re:car mechanics do it too

[Lord Ender]

To add to that, I actually do know physicians who insult their clients--just not to their faces. Surgeons, for example, absolutely HATE operating on fat people. I've heard all sorts of insults from a surgeon friend toward the morbidly obese.

Of course, physicians make three or four times what IT people make, so that's got to put you in a better mood.

No.

[exspecto]

Is A Bad Attitude Damaging The IT Profession? No. And if you don't shut up about it, I won't get around to fixing your computer until *after* lunch!

Re:No.

[__aaclcg7560]

Never mind the fact you *only* fixed computers after lunch. Can't let work interfere with a rousing game of mine sweeper in the morning. :P

Yes.

[Southpaw018]

Of course it is. And companies are starting to get wise to the fact that things could be better - when applying for jobs after college, not one but two of the interviews I had were filling spots of IT admins who'd been fired for this kinda crap. And the interviews were all questions like "What do you think of users who know absolutely nothing about computers?"

Re:Yes.

[sphealey]

> And the interviews were all questions like "What do
> you think of users who know absolutely nothing
> about computers?"

Speaking as a business manager, I think that is quite appropriate. For an interview conducted in 1986, or perhaps even 1996.

My question to that organization is, why in the year 2006 do you have employees who do not possess the skills to use basic, standard tools to process basic business information, and to extend their own skills by themselves moderate amounts (not to learn a new ERP system by themselves, for example, but to figure out the fairly minor differences between AP module 5.5.7 and the new 5.6.1 version now in pre-production testing)? Why do you still have employees who believe that an inability to do a basic search in their own e-mail box merits a deskside visit from an ultra-qualified, ultra-patient analyst who will provide 4 hours of no-charge tutoring? Can you name another support department that does this? Does Finance provide remedial tutoring in financial accounting to sales managers, not just once upon promotion but over and over and over again over 20 years? Is the CFO on call 24x365 to provide personal tutoring on how to read sales reports? Why not?

Again, I am speaking as a business manager who has been through this entire cycle 3 times since the 1970s and who spent tremendous amounts of time in the 1980s providing basic business (computer) skills tutoring.

sPh

Re:Yes.

[Kohath]

It's still a good question, even if the employees do, in fact, have a moderate understanding of their computers. If an IT guy can be nice to newbs, he can be nice to people of intermediate skill.

Re:Yes.

[rantingkitten]

"What do you think of users who know absolutely nothing about computers?"

Well, I think you -- the employer -- need to seriously re-examine your employee base, then. This is the twenty first century. Computers in the business environment have been around for a good twenty years, and really started gettinng huge ten years ago with Windows 95. In today's modern workplace, if you really know nothing about computers, you aren't qualified for the job. It doesn't matter that you're a brialliant loan officer or whatever else -- part of the job involves using computers. Period. The excuse "I'm not a computer person" or "It's not my area" no longer holds water. This isn't the 70s.

I'm not asking users to know how to examine their TCP/IP properties or perform network diagnostics. I'm not asking them to open the box and replace bad memory, or how to mount an image as a device, or anything else remotely complicated or nonintuitive.

I am asking them to know how to do the basic, fundamental things that are required of them in their job, and do these things competently. You need to know how to open Word and grab a document off your coworker's shared folder. You need to know how to save things in sane, organized places so you can find them later. You need to understand that not everything is safe to arbitrariliy download and run, so don't do it. Basic stuff.

And perhaps that's part of why IT professionals hold users in such contempt. They are hounded nonstop by people who somehow got jobs for which they clearly lack the necessary skills (because using a computer is a necessary skill, people). And instead of getting to do anything interesting they spend half their time doing what amounts to job training for clueless people who really should know better.

To make it worse, I can think of few other fields where the client base gets as demanding and unreasonable. You won't often catch someone who deliberately tinkers with their car engine for no reason, breaks it, then harrasses the mechanic every thirty minutes to "just fix it". When the mechanic says "It's going to take two days", that's the end of it, and most people realize that no amount of arguing will change that. Not so in the computer world -- users think it's perfectly okay to get snippy, and that the Magic IT Guy can just wave his Magic IT Wand and magically fix any problem (usually by "just dialing in").

IT is a tough field, especially when you deal with end users. I think we get jaded and snotty because really, you can only listen to the whines and insults of the users for so long before it affects you -- and make no mistake, users are every bit as insulting as they think we are.

Re:Yes.

[Sancho]

Your light-switch example hits the nail on the head, but probably not in the way you intended. If you flip the light switch one way and it doesn't work...try flipping it the other way. The building isn't going to blow up.

As long as a computer user follows a few safety guidelines (regarding opening attachments, browsing safety, and not deleting files you don't know are safe to be deleted) you can usually play around with the computer and figure things out. That's how you learn. Try something, and if it didn't work, try something else. While a basic level of training is required to know how to try different things (basic user-interface design, such as what that X in the corner does, and the difference between left- and right-click) after that, try a few different things, and if nothing works, call IT.

Maybe the problem is that users are never told about that, or that they were asleep during that day school. Nevertheless, it's one of the most basic ways that we learn--try it and see what happens. Maybe if IT layed out the basic safety rules and then said, "Please play with the computers to see how they react when you do various things," then seemingly basic tasks wouldn't be so hard for users after awhile.

Re:Yes.

[Sunburnt]

"one of the most basic ways that we learn--try it and see what happens. Maybe if IT layed out the basic safety rules and then said, "Please play with the computers to see how they react when you do various things," then seemingly basic tasks wouldn't be so hard for users after awhile."

I agree wholeheartedly, but it'll never happen in any widespread, meaningful way. Autodidacticism is abhorrent to business culture's fixation with standardized, top-down "training." Put another way: if everyone's going to be an idiot with the computers, management would rather have them be the same idiots.

Re:Yes.

[bmo]

"Unfortunately many people are unwilling or unable to do that. Lacking this ability is not limited to computers and operating systems. I would consider it common sense-apparently it isn't so common :)"

I have been training an apprentice machinist of late...

"Ya don't learn nuthin' if ya don't break nuthin'"

Or in normal english "If you do everything only one way, you don't know how to recover from the wrong way or learn a better way."

Or as what I tell my co-workers (as I am the "known geek") "The only reason why I know so much about computers is because that's how much I broke stuff"

--
BMO

GROLIES

[alanw]

Doctors refer to the patients in disparaging terms: from This BBC news article

GROLIES: Guardian[1] Reader Of Low Intelligence in Ethnic Skirt
LOBNH: Lights On But Nobody Home
CNS-QNS: Central Nervous System - Quantity Not Sufficient

[1] UK left wing newspaper

An Initial Thought

[wideBlueSkies]

Sure, our profession and hte durrounding culture allows for the type of user tratement the author describes.

But don't think for a minute that IT folks don't need ethics. We often get to see data first hand that lawyers need subpoenas to obtain.

One can laugh at their user's technical abilities all they want, but the minute you talk about their data or the inside of their business, the IT career is over. As is the option for any other meaningful career.

Ignorant != stupid

[mangu]

One thing IT professionals should always keep in mind is that someone may be ignorant without being stupid. I've seen too often people make this confusion. Also one should never confuse "obvious" with "usual". Just because we are used to doing things in a certain way it doesn't mean newbies should be able to guess how to do it by themselves.

Re:Ignorant != stupid

[moranar]

I don't get angry at ignorance, but at wilful negligence. Too many people not only do not know, but they demand help _without wanting to know_, and being very rude about it. When the customer prides himself on his ignorance, it's high time for niceties to stop. JM2c.

House

[Tide]

What, all doctors aren't like House?

Interesting Thought, But...

[bmac83]

IT can be a fairly arrogant profession, but I think this is a more common occurrence in technical fields than we might originally guess. The big driver, from what I've seen and heard, is the visibility of IT, and its importance to everyday life. The fact that many people are so perilously inept at operating and managing an increasingly core life staple prompts much of the snobby behavior.

Perhaps rampant irresponsibility is not quite as visible or dominant in other fields. For instance, imagine if a shocking percentage of the population drove their cars without any thought to changing their oil, airing their tires, or even filling their tank with gas. We would probably have a community of technicians and knowledgeable people ridiculing and advising these irresponsible "users."

IT has been an odd case, as normally the expense of adopting a new, non-user-friendly technology is prohibitive for people not prepared to maintain and operate the equipment. But, the drastic adoption and commoditization of IT has led this to be out of balance, with people trying to treat everything as a black box when at least comprehending the nuts and bolts is still essential for responsible use.

Re:Interesting Thought, But...

[DavidTC]

It's not so much as not knowing things. After all, you can operate a car quite well in today's society without knowing anything about cars, as long as you understand the 'gasoline' thing. That's what oil change places are for. You'll end up paying more, but whatever.

IT professions, if computers were cars, would have to keep patiently explaining about the gasoline concept to some users, and have to stop other users who keep pouring maple syrup in their gas tanks, while others insisted on driving around with the hood open so the engine would stay cool.

It's not helped that IT is often micromanaged by people who know nothing about IT. You don't see that in other departments, upper management doesn't tell marketing that all advertisements will be printed on off-white paper, or tell plant that all doors should open in a certain direction.

Yet upper management sees nothing wrong with dictating exactly what tools can be used in what circumstances. That, for example, car windshields should be cleaned right-to-left.

Management often has no idea of the difference, in IT, between 'policy' decisions, which they certainly can, and must make, and 'how to implement policy' decisions, which they really shouldn't. Just ask all the people who are secretly using SAMBA because policy, instead of saying 'We must use integrated Windows file sharing because we have random people come in and hook to our network', dictated, instead, 'We will use Windows file servers' and gave IT crappy computers to implement it with, which they secretly put Linux on.

IT would be a lot less annoying if they didn't have to put up with management who didn't know the difference between decisions they must make, decisions they can make, and decisions they shouldn't make. They don't know what they know, and they don't know what they don't know.

And the same applies to users, who often don't know exactly how competent or incompetent they are. It's almost as annoying to have to walk someone through some simple thing because they're scared they might break something as it is to fix people who actually do break things. I've heard of users who were afraid to navigate through Windows Explorer to find something on the local network. They were certainly capable of doing it, but were deathly scared they might break something.

Re:Interesting Thought, But...

[L.Bob.Rife]

imagine if a shocking percentage of the population drove their cars without any thought to changing their oil, airing their tires, or even filling their tank with gas.

You mean my wife?

What about the other way round?

[stefaanh]

Customers also insult staffmembers or for that matter, anyone in the proximity, without restraint, for issues that are not directly their fault.

Insulting is the problem, not IT, nor the user.

There are lots of great ones out there

[Anonymous Coward]

Two of the three people I've ever had to fire in my 25-year carreer
were BOFHs. They were both replaced with talented, socially well-balanced
guys who treated users like customers and actually enjoyed finding
solutions to problems that were right both for the user and for the IT department.

I don't think it's the bad attitude of some IT people that's doing the damage,
it's management toleration of that attitude. Plenty of good people out there
if you go looking.

Jackasses are just jackasses

[erroneus]

I'm more than familiar with some perceived stereotypical behavior in some IT people. Some of my least favorite attitudes are those displayed when the "IT Pro" is protecting his ignorance. Gone are the days, I think, when IT people were looked upon as techno-god figures... and feared as such.

I'm an IT manager and I'm all about helping business work better through IT. Some of my favorite endorsements are along the lines of "you don't make me feel stupid." What would be the point in that? I don't do what they do... which is most often making money for the company. In my job, I spend the company's money, so I do my best to make sure they feel they are getting their money's worth.

But back to the topic of jackasses: I hate people who hide their ignorance and attempt to put up some sort of "I won't share what I know" front as if he were the exclusive container of knowledge. Further, I hate it when people attempt to "secure their jobs" through obfuscation and indirection of information. In my opinion, the latter complaint amounts to malpractice. And I have a close friend who is presently suffering the worst of all scenarios -- the knows less than nothing boss who got where he is because he lies on his resume. (This moron thinks that if you block port 80 on the firewall that users will not be able to surf the web!!)

I see these offenders as a dying breed, fortunately... but they aren't dying fast enough.

Doctors insult patients regularly

[NexusTw1n]

Doctors have always insulted their patients in their notes .

More detailed list here .

The only difference between the average emergency room doctor's attitude to some of their patients and the cliched sysadmin's hatred of 'lusers' is the fact that doctors wear shirts and ties.

Theres a saying...

[stimpleton]

I heard a saying one time. I don't know the origins:

"Accounts departments love IT Departments. For before there was IT, everyone hated Accounts. But now everyone hates the IT Dept."

This seems to hold some truth from my experience.

My view

[Xest]

Certainly IT isn't the only customer focussed industry where this happens, it's an extremely naive viewpoint to suggest that is the case. I can think of countless call centres for things such as gas, phones and so forth where I've been treated by people with abysmal attitudes.

As to why it happens at all, I think the reasons are rather varied.

You have people who are forced into using IT because everyone needs to use it for their job nowadays, only some people don't want to so they purposely make moan and make out the situation is worse than it is just to satisfy their own technophobic paranoia - people like this are extremely frustrating to work with.

Then there are people who treat IT workers as their own personal slaves, requests such as "change my printer cartridge too" - things that frankly, even a monkey could be trained to do, this type of thing is completely demoralising. If you had a mechanic out to look at your car, what do you think their reaction would be if you turned round and say "Oh go and fill it up with gas for me too".

There's the people who simply ask too much, most IT departments are staffed okay for looking after the business but there are those that seem to feel that the IT staff should deal with the home too. We've currently got a situation where we're staffed fine to run a secure, locked down network but our company has decided to push homeworking - this means people are wanting to setup home broadband on their laptop, this leaves us with a choice between having to visit each and every persons home - where two technicians have to do the visit, because one person can't go because of the danger of some pathetic low-life claiming the technician tried to rape them, steal from their house or whatever or alternatively we can remove the security settings so that the users can setup their home broadband on their laptops themselves. Again, this is a hopeless scenario because we then have to spend day in day out clearing spyware, viruses, finding space on their laptop for their work after their kids have installed Quake 8 or whatever on it.

There's plenty more reasons, but it seems more generally that IT has an identity crisis - users aren't entirely sure what we actually do, where the line is drawn as to what a user issue is and what an IT worker issue is. Do we fix printers? probably, do we fix photocopiers? probably not, what if we have a multi-function printer/photocopier? What about telephones, if it's VOIP we most likely deal with it, but if it's a typical old fashioned Nortel or whatever system then there's likely a phone technician to deal with it. Now, I'm personally willing to have a go at fixing anything if there's a real need, but I don't like whiping the asses of lazy people who can't be bothered to change a printer cartridge and secondly, I simply don't have time to do absolutely everything. The issue is lack of well defines roles for most IT people and also hence lack of definition for users as to what they should and shouldn't expect from their IT department.

It's the frustration

[slughead]

"Users are stupid and that needs to be the starting point for software developers." I read their trade magazines: "No matter how hard we pray...every network is at one time or other exposed to the ultimate technology risk: users."

People working in offices should have a modicum of training with a computer. If a person had terrible spelling in the oldendays (before spellcheck was prevalent), they would probably be fired. IT people like myself (at my old job) having to go around and teach the most basic of tasks to people who should know a thing or two is extremely frustrating.

In the modern business world, being computer illiterate is like not knowing how to read. Imagine 'grammar' techs going around saying "now what does sound the 'A' make? ... no, it makes the 'aaah' sound, see now? Good, have a cookie."

Some things I don't mind doing, like when windows bugs out and the printer gets deselected, I'll happily mutter "you know, windows should be a little robust, this kind of thing shouldn't happen, we should switch to macs" while I'm fixing the box and me and the user can find some common ground to grouse about. Other things, like how to change the margins in a Word document (which people forget sometimes twice a day) really pushed the limits of my patience.

The same goes for software development. I developed my own CMS recently. 99% of it was just tweaking the interface to make it more and more usable--not having too many options on a single page so as to not confuse people--that sort of thing. UI is a huge pain to deal with. I ended up just having layers of complexity so I could bring the learning curve to zero. Writing the 'help' pages was so tedious and interminable I nearly gave up after I wrote in "Enter domain here, click here for more information on domains." Is it so much to ask that a person running their own website who uses my CMS should know what a domain is? After working technical support for so long, I realize that yes, yes it is. The only hope you have in UI development is to dump as much user-friendliness in there as possible and pray that they can figure the rest out on their own.

This example pretty much says it all: I got an e-mail from a person using my CMS which read something like, "How do I get this thing started? I double clicked on the 'index.php' and it just opened a notepad with a whole bunch of gibberish [...] "

It's not always the IT guy's fault he's pissed off.

And Help Desk gets the blame...

[__aaclcg7560]

I noticed this a lot at my job on a help desk. Re-route the ticket to the IT department responsible for the problem and the customer doesn't get a response for days, weeks, months, and, on a few occasions, years. The Help Desk gets the blame from the customer when this happens. A lot of the backend IT people have no customer relationship skills whatsoever because they're not required to deal with people outside of their department and there's always something more important going on (at one company, it was Diablo 2).

Medicine is not a good comparison

[gilesjuk]

Comparing IT with medicine isn't a good comparison. You didn't buy your life from a doctor.

As for why IT staff don't always respect their customers, try working in support. Customers threaten you, provide you with no information, blame you for everything.

Every profession has assholes

[lpangelrob]

Futures traders are notorious for being assholes to get what they want. Bankers have a reputation, occasionally well earned, of looking down on their customers. Professional athletes don't care about their image. In most of the above professions, if you're not rewarded for this behavior indirectly (by not being criticized as "soft" and therefore getting paid more), acting like an ass doesn't get you fired. As for burger flippers, flight attendants and Disney employees; tough luck. Acting like an ass gets you fired, immediately. As to where IT fits, it depends entirely on the existing culture of your organization. If everyone acts like an ass, you'll probably do fine acting like an ass. But choosing not to is generally better no matter what.

Attitude does not exist in a vacuum.

[superwiz]

Too many users are proud of their ignorance of technology. You don't see patients being proud of their ignorance what's going on with their body. So doctors feel venerated and act as such. Even plumbers know that their work is appreciated. Since technology works best when it works invisibly, IP workers are often met with the attitude of "what the f**k is wrong with you guys... oh, never mind... don't want to know.. just fix the damn thing". So they get trained to treat users as willful ignoramuses. That's just the nature of environment in which they work. I think it used to be better when computers had to be maintained MORE often. Their maintenance was seen as a noraml think and those who performed were seen as saving the day. So there was mutual respect.

Almost expected

[williamhb]

It's generally thought to be part of the reason why so few female schools students do not apply to study computer science at university ("why would I want to spend my career working in a culture like that?").

More recently I've noticed a worrying trend -- a lack of social skills has become an expected trait for programmers by a few employers (whereas most employers value social and communication skills very highly). I have recently seen job adverts in the UK that have included lines such as "the sort of person we are looking for is a geek. You probably prefer to relate to computers and have very few friends". If even a few employers are actively reinforcing the all-too-common stereotype, then that cannot be healthy for the industry.

Re:Almost expected

[ggKimmieGal]

The other reason why my female peers won't do CS is because of the attitude we receive freshman year. If I hadn't been mentally prepared to overcome the challenges ahead of me, I probably would have been a math or physics major instead. They are a million times nicer to girls over there. They are desperate to have them.

Day 1: none of my professors took me seriously. When they were asking guys who already knew how to program to move into CS2, they recommended that I stay in CS1. I ended up teaching a bunch of those guys a thing or two. After freshman year, I had earned the respect of my professors and my peers though. Other girls who manage to make it through the gauntlet tend to develop the IT attitude in discussion. You have to be tough to play rough. I took a slightly different route that seemed to work out just as well. I took the, "I won't do your homework, but I will certainly show you how much better of a programmer I am while I help you with your homework," path. It worked real well. But the girls who develop that attitude don't lose it. It sticks with them forever. I don't blame them one bit though. It can be really mean, disrespectful, and degrading to be a CS female student. So for the female side, I recommend that people just hand over respect to women just like they hand it over to men.

I propose that this could also be a cause of arrogance amongst male IT people. The idea is put in their head that they are better the moment they step onto a college campus. It probably just gets worse by the time the four years there are over.

Re:Almost expected

[ppanon]

That's because they want someone with no outside interests so they can work them 80 hours a week until they burn out. Not every employer is like that, thank goodness.

Re:Almost expected

[Yokaze]

> I have recently seen job adverts in the UK that have included lines such as "the sort of person we are looking for is a geek. You probably prefer to relate to computers and have very few friends".

I'd say, it is more a positive trend. To my eyes, it means just: "We are not necessarily looking for a technical person with good communication skills, speaking 2 foreign languages fluently and managing experience. We are just looking for a person with good technical skills with a personal interest in intelectual challenges."

You see, they are writing "you probably prefer", not "we prefer you to". I'd say it is an encouragement for socially less apt, but technically inclined ones (commonly called "geeks" or "nerds") to apply for the job.

Re:Almost expected

[Belgand]

My girlfriend, a biologist, took the CS intro class (based on Java as was the entire CS program) when we were in college and didn't have to put up with any of that. I'm willing to bet that your experience was an isolated experience based on your campus alone... though I'm not discounting it entirely as there are assholes everywhere.

Personally I found the professor to be an unqualified and pompous jackass whose only goal was to teach people that a "...For Dummies" programming style and slavish desire to corporate conformity were where it's at. The guy cared more about slamming Unix compared to Windows and "professional" programming and bitching that if you wanted to be a "hacker" (I'm amazed he even knew the proper meaning) to drop the class and take a C course instead (good advice, if only a C course were available and his wasn't a pre-requisite to everything else in the CS program). So it's not like the guy was particularly nice to begin with. He didn't give a shit if you were a girl, just if you wanted to write your code in vi.

Re:Almost expected

[Loconut1389]

I'm male, but dated a female CS student- and we had a professor who simply said 'girls do not pass this class' and failed pretty much all of them- regardless of ability. Unknown if that professor still teaches. Nice, huh?

Re:Almost expected

[Anonymous Coward]

I agree.

Also, as a "shy" person I'm disconcerted by the apparent growing discrimination against people like me. I was subjected to this a great deal at my previous position, where I was not taken seriously and perceived to be less intelligent than my coworkers by my supervisor, despite having certifications to back up my knowledge and some experience at a larger installation. This isn't marketing or HR, and I don't have 'poor communication skills' just because I don't quack-quack around the water cooler with the other ducks. Fortunately, this attitude wasn't the case in past jobs and it's not the case where I work now.

As for the lUsers, it's a method of group cohesion that happens in every field and a way to reclaim esteem when being underpaid and undervalued (e.g. at the lower ends of tech support). (One of my relatives is a doctor, and if you don't think they engage in it, you're wrong.) I've never mistreated a lUser because of the mistakes they've made, and I've never been insulted by a support person when I was on the other side. I realize that a lot of lUser cluelessness could be fixed with a little education, but that kind of thing would have to be supported by the company, which is more likely to outsource you than to support one of your initiatives anyway.

Re:Almost expected

[TerranFury]

>Computers are easy to learn. People are more complex. I often wonder, when I read topics like this and posts like yours, if the issue is that "geeks" are scared to figure out the more complex topic of people because they might fail and stick to computers because figuring out ones and zeros is easier.

I've heard arguments like that before, and I can understand where they come from, but I've never really thought that they were correct.

The way I see it, there are a few different types of social skills, which fall into two broad categories:

1. Emotional skills: the ability to empathize and to implicitly communicate good intentions.
2. Conversational skills: the talent for entertaining people by interacting with them.

It's often assumed that 'geeks' lack social skills in all their forms, but from what I've seen, many do have #1 -- just not #2 (Of course, there are also those who are just embittered jerks. But I think that's a minority.) Skill #2, I think, depends largely on confidence.

> You made the conscious choice to develop that attitude. You can make the conscious choice to lose the attitude.

It's always good to nurture a more positive outlook. Certainly, these things take time to develop and you can't will yourself happy overnight, but you can help the right kind of worldvew to grow in your head. That said, I didn't pick up negative vibes from the OP -- it was other girls who had problems; she herself did feel like she had something to prove, but stayed reasonably positive (so, more power to her).

>Or is it that you aren't as smart about your own feelings, attitudes and behaviors as you are about computers?

That, I'll be honest, is something I've had to learn: To know what I want, and to appropriately reject the things I don't. That's not so much a 'nerd' thing: I think many people feel guilty thinking about themselves and their own wants; we're "supposed" to be selfless. But it's just not healthy. Pay attention to what other people want and try to help them. Sometimes, put their desires above your own. But know what your desires are. And you can't work them out logically from first principles; they are your axioms.

Re:Almost expected

[Anonymous Coward]

So for the female side, I recommend that people just hand over respect to women just like they hand it over to men.

That's just it, and you're missing the point entirely. People do NOT just hand over respect to men. I just love it when women complain that when they "act like men" they get treated poorly. Guess what, men get treated poorly by men, too. Guys call the hard-driving male boss an asshole, just like they call the hard-driving female boss a bitch. Yet the woman will complain that "everybody is so mean to me because they don't like hard-driving women!" Guess again! You wanted equality and you got equality. Get over it.

Re:Almost expected

[dotgain]

Male pronouns in papers got you points off, and using "they" would loose yourself grammar points.
You sure you weren't 'loosing' the points for some other reason?

Re:Almost expected

[ResidntGeek]

Computers are easy to learn. People are more complex.

I've heard that attitude often. People with social skills (you know, the people who spend their time talking to each other about nothing and not doing shit for anyone) tend to have inaccurately high opinions of themselves. Socializing is the easiest thing in the world to learn.

Freshman year of high school, I had no friends. Beginning of sophomore year, I got bored and decided to get some, despite having no conversational skills. So I spent a few days listening to people talk and that was it. I knew how to converse. After a few weeks of practice I had the same social skills as any arrogant dumbass you'd see making fun of geeks.

TO NORMAL PEOPLE: If you see an intelligent person whom you perceive as having no social skills, it's because they either never bothered learning them, or they don't use them. Never assume you were born with something they weren't, and definitely don't think yourself better than them. You probably just used your time for less intellectual pursuits when you were growing up.


By the way, about

"geeks" are scared to figure out the more complex topic of people because they might fail and stick to computers because figuring out ones and zeros is easier.

I don't think you know very much about ones and zeros. Do you honestly think it's more difficult to compliment someone's hair than to read a circuit diagram of a full adder with a latch and see what it does? Or that it's more difficult to trade Simpsons quotes than to recognize and exploit a buffer overflow? Or that it's more difficult to listen to someone bitching about their ex-wife then to understand how the discrete logarithm problem can be used for public-key cryptography?

Re:Almost expected

[fishbowl]

"In the mid-80's I encountered a similar situation in high school where I was point-blank told by one of the teachers in final year that I should be enrolled in home economics not maths/physics/chemistry."

If you had simply asked the teacher to please make his recommendations in writing to the advisor, and send a copy to your parents, you would have *owned* that teacher.

Re:Almost expected

[bladesjester]

First, let me say that I have absolutely no problem with anyone chosing a profession as long as they are dedicated to it. If you find something that you are good at and that you enjoy, go for it. I'll back your play. I don't care if you're plaid or a talking monkey (just, in the latter case, please don't throw fecal matter...)

I've known some really cool women that *really* knew what they were doing (and could run circles around other people) who went through CS programs. Unfortunately, I've also known several that were rabid man haters and thought they were the world's gift when they couldn't find their rear with both hands and a flashlight.

Of course, the same could be said of men (we have more than our fair share of incompetent jerks as well). However, using the excuse of "I'm a girl" for the reason that you're a misanthrope doesn't cut it. Everyone has to grow up and learn to play with others at some point - even the talking, non-feces throwing monkey.

It should also be mentioned that most guys do NOT get respect "handed over" to them. Most of us have to claw it out of wherever we can find it just like you. Anyone who thinks that we just get handed accolades over drinks is fooling themselves, because it just doesn't work that way.

As for being shut out by the "boy's club", you should see how nasty and vicious a bigoted female boss or professor can be. Yes, they do exist, and they are just as bad as any of the "boy's club" (if not worse) because they feel justified in having an axe to grind.

This wasn't anything directed to you personally. It just really needed to be said because too many people don't realize that it's just as bad on the other side of the fence.

Re:Almost expected

[Ptraci]

But they don't give the men less respect BECAUSE they are men, do they? You are the one who missed the point entirely.

I have had the same experience in my life as a female electronic technician, so I know what she's talking about. We do get treated with less respect by some people right from the beginning, until we show them what we can do. Then they either treat us with some respect or they hate us for being smarter than they think we should be, depending on whether they are introspective enough to be capable of re-examining their initial assumptions or not. Younger men seem to have more trouble with that because life hasn't taught them enough lessons.

It does help to develop a thicker skin and learn to tell when they are serious and when they're just trying to bait you because they are bored, and to learn how to respond in kind in the latter situation.

Re:Almost expected

[Namlak]

...I probably would have been a math or physics major instead. They are a million times nicer to girls over there. They are desperate to have them.

You can't expect the IT guys to be so accomodating to you when they have way so many women after them as it is.

Most IT professionals aren't in tech support

[fireboy1919]

I don't know about the rest of them, but my job description doesn't actually include hand-holding someone through computer use.

I just do that because I want my coworkers to get their jobs done well, so I do it, and I don't mind - especially if they learn something (I've got a teacher inclination). My ability with computers stems from the fact that I try to learn as much as I can about everything that I can. That's part of it.

The reason I get upset is the implicit lack of respect. Knowing how to use a computer is like learning how to drive: it's an expected part of society. You don't ask your mechanic how to drive, but people are regularly asking IT people how to use their computers. Asking the mechanic to do something like that would be disrespectful - he's not responsible for your ability to drive. It doesn't take a tradesman with a vast knowledge in his field to do it. Most five year olds can grasp basic computer operation.

If you work in a job where people didn't treat what you do with respect, how would you feel about them? It takes more patience than many people have, and they can't keep their frustrations to themselves.

Of course, if your actual job is teaching people how to use computers I could understand that you might feel differently about it, but I don't think that condition applies to most IT people.

Most jobs are to do one of these things:
1) Make computers do something they haven't done before.
2) Make computers do something that they used to do but don't do anymore.
3) Figure out the cause of condition #2.

Only a very small number of IT professionals are actually responsible for showing the users how to use their own computers, but this comes up a lot in the other jobs, and makes some of us a little testy.

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Re:It's a two-way street

[toddbu]

This is the biggest bunch of nonsense that I've heard in a long time. Virtually every time I try to get help from my helpdesk on anything beyond pulling a cable or rebooting a server, I'm told that they can't help me, even when what I'm trying to do is required by policies that the IT people have put into place in the first place. My favorite reason for not helping is that I don't have a "supported configuration", even though I'm running name-brand hardware and software. My feeling about my IT people is that they're really great at running the network and server farms, but beyond that they don't care about their customers. The last problem I had I pushed up the management chain (outside the vendor that we hire to do the work) and was told that I was being "unprofessional" in my communications because I was pushing a customer-centric point of view. That being the case, why should our IT people get paid more when their contributions to the company are limited (or in this case, negative)? I'd be happy to support higher level of pay for them if they'd be willing to help tackle some of the real problems that their users are having.

Nah, it's down to Asperger's

[kt0157]

The IT professionals I've come across that are rude are simply lacking in social skills and are shocked when they are told later that they are being rude or arrogant. It's down to the prevalence of Asperger's (or towards that part of the spectrum of autism). It's a natural condition. The thing is that too many companies allow geeks with no social abilities to interface to customers (directly in the case of tech support, indirectly in the case of writing UIs). It's time that the management of companies recognized the situation and had professional customer-facing technical support that came with a smile and empathy, and had professional interaction designers that realize "Error: Keyboard not connected; press F1 to continue" is not an acceptable thing to say to people.

Car analogy time!

[khasim]

It's still a good question, even if the employees do, in fact, have a moderate understanding of their computers.

Let's look at this from a different perspective, okay?

What would a shop owner expect as an answer from a mechanic applicant?

Owner: "What do you think of customers who know absolutely nothing about cars?"

Mechanic: "I think they'll probably cause a lot of damage to their vehicles which means we'll make a lot of money doing the repairs."

How about a dentist?

Owner: "What do you think of customers who know absolutely nothing about tooth care?"

Mechanic: "I think they'll probably cause a lot of damage to their teeth which means we'll make a lot of money doing the repairs. Do we have literature I can recommend to them?"

See? The difference is whether the USER is paying for their ignorance or the COMPANY is paying.

In the case of tech support, in most cases (unless you're a contractor/consultant) it is the company that is paying the price. It's easy to be VERY nice when you're looking at a disaster that you'll be paid a couple of thousand dollars to fix.

It's completely different when you're looking at a disaster that will require you to work 60+ hours this week ... thus effectively reducing your hourly wage (because you are salaried).

Mechanic: "Honey, I'll be home really late but I'm making at butt-load of money! We'll party this weekend."

IT Tech: "Honey, I'll be home really late. I know. No, there's nothing I can do. Yes, I know. I know."

TFA seems to equate software engineering with "IT"

[Kymermosst]

The article seems to be equating IT with software engineering - especially when he linked "it's debatable whether IT qualifies as a profession" to a page on the professional status of software engineering.

Where I work most of our software engineers aren't in the IT department, and there are certainly a lot of IT people who don't routinely call their customers idiots, lusers, or clueless.

However, I am a UNIX sysadmin and freely admit that I willfully piss off my "customers". Yes, it's true. I deny requests that are against policies and procedures established by the business. The sad thing is that the customer is 99% of the time fully aware of the policy and are merely trying to circumvent it, often by trying the different sysadmins, especially the newer ones who are still learning.

Most often reason for me to deny a request? Failure to follow change control procedures and obtain the appropriate approvals from all stakeholders before requesting the change. Change control procedures aren't just put into place by IT - they are demanded by the business and for some systems are required by regulations. The second most often reason is that the request violates security policy or procedure.

Yet, when I deny such a request because proper procedure hasn't been followed, I get to hear about how "IT gets in the way and we could do this so much (better|faster|easier) by ourselves."

I also do evil things that inconvenience users such as requiring them to change their passwords four times a year. I personally make their life rough by setting the system to lock their account after three unsuccessful logins - and I do it on purpose. I make it so hard for the developers by not giving them accounts on the production systems, and I interfere with the ability of the QA teams to do their jobs by not giving them access to unscrubbed logs containing containing the personally identifiable information of real people using our online services.

Believe me, I've heard about what a jerk admin I am.

Re:It's a two-way street

[toddbu]

Let me guess... Are you a developer?

Why yes, I am.

I'm assuming from your self-richeous point of view that you take that attitude whenever dealing with IT too.

It's not self-righteous to try to get things done on behalf of my customer. I have people asking me to do things, and in turn I need the support of IT. If you don't like the fact that I'm trying to do things for my customers then you should take it up with them.

I'm sorry if that angers you, but either you want to do it yourself and should be expected to support yourself, or you want us to support it for you, and you need to use what we provide.

I don't think that you really want me doing everything myself. Seriously. In the case that I cited, I needed to connect to our corporate wireless network that requires a special cert to be on the machine. Can I do it myself? Sure, but if you're really telling me that I should do whatever I want then I'll just plug an unsecured wireless access point into the network in my office and solve the problem that way. I don't think that that's the right solution to the problem, and I'm sure that's not how my IT or security people want the problem fixed.

What I don't understand is why this has to be an "either-or" problem. Sure, IT is going to spend time fixing a problem that my configuration creates, but if they don't then I will. From a perspective of which is cheaper for the company, it's probably much less expensive for the IT department to at least be involved in helping me fix the problem than it is for me to be fixing the problem all on my own.

Did you stop to wonder why they called you "unprofessional"?

To be honest with you, the only reason that I can conclude is that they don't care about their customer. I didn't call the guy that I was talking to unprofessional because I've tried really hard to understand where IT is coming from. I understand that supporting untested configs costs them a lot of time and energy. I understand that it often costs less to push everyone into the same solution. What I would appreciate from IT is a little understanding in return. I need my IT department to understand that my job is to push the envelope and come up with new ways of doing things. It is what my customer demands.

Women in CS, a study of hundreds

[Beryllium Sphere(tm)]

_Unlocking the Clubhouse_ talks about the experience of CS undergrads at CMU. They conclude it was a "death of a thousand cuts" phenomenon. No one thing drove talented hard-working women out of the field, it was the steady drip of one problem after another. The culture was only one of the problems, but a real one. A lot of the women looked at it and figured that they'd given up parties and sleep to get into CMU, but no way were they giving up showers to become a "real" geek.

Doctor's aren't necessarily a good example...

[Pedrito]

Slamming customers isn't acceptable in any other profession; doctors don't call their patients "meatbags" -- at least, not publicly.

About 15 years ago, I was jogging daily. I started having a pain in my ankle, not from an accident or anything, it just slowly started, so I stopped running, but the pain was getting worse every day, so I went to see the doctor. I get into his office, tell him the story and his response is, "Do I really need to tell you what you did to your ankle?"

That's more or less the kind of stuff this author is talking about. It happens in every profession. The fun part of the story is this: He says, "You've sprained your ankle, walk it off." Two days later I was using a crutch and the following day, two crutches. I go to see a podiatrist, tell her what happened and tell her about the first doctor. She says, "This other doctor, did he take x-rays?" "No." I reply. "I see. Did he have x-ray vision?", she asked. After x-rays, it was clear that I had torn a ligament in my ankle and was tearing a second one by walking on it.

But anyway, the point is simply it happens in every profession. It's probably a bit more exaggerated in IT, but the reasons for it, I think, are pretty obvious. First of all, many people in IT are geeks and got started early. They've always known more than others about IT stuff and they have a tendency to carry the same attitude of superiority in that area onto adulthood with them. Many probably weren't athletes or the "cool kids" in their schools and therefore have the feeling that their superiority in IT and the need for their skills is, as young adults, their time has finally come to "get even", so to speak.

Comparing this to a doctor is simply apples and oranges. To be a doctor, you need to get pretty damn good grades all through college, pass the MCAT, and then do 4 years of med school and 3-7 years of residency, depending on the specialty. Medical schools tend to look for a certain degree of maturity in candidates and if they don't have it coming in, they tend to get it as they go through. It's a completely different world than what "normal" people go through and thus, it's going to tend to produce much more mature people.

As for other fields, people tend to enter at a much lower level and tend to need maturity to move up. IT is just different. They'll take just about anyone with the skills. IT people do gain experience at their jobs, but they tend to move up faster, or they move out. Maturity usually has less to do with advancement than skill, unlike other jobs where maturity is often integral to advancement. Maturity in IT gets you into management which is where a lot of geeks don't want to go.

Sorry, no.

[dangermouse]

As a rule of thumb, if some geek on Slashdot or in your IT department claims to have Asperger's without using words like "diagnosis" or "doctor", he's almost certainly just a maladjusted, misanthropic asshole who found his excuse on Wikipedia.

I seriously doubt that Asperger's is nearly as prevalent in the IT field as jackasses with bad attitudes are.

The distain is often mutual

[Meph_the_Balrog]

I agree with the parent totally, there is no one industry that has a monopoly of this sort of attitude, but to bring it back to the topic at hand:

Speaking as a member of this technical group, I can honestly say that there are three major groups of client. The honestly clueless, the willfully ignorant and the technically savvy.

I personally enjoy working with the honestly clueless, as they admit they don't know much, and are willing to learn the things they don't know. I don't cop abuse or arrogance from them, and we work together to solve the problem.

I also don't mind working with the technically savvy, as they often have pinpointed the problem, but don't have the access to actually fix the issue.

The willfully ignorant are the problem. They often create their own problems, and then refuse to listen to the solution. They think that they know better than the technician, which in 99% of ALL cases is simply incorrect. They are almost always abusive and condescending to technical staff, and spend much of their time not only making our lives miserable, but also putting road blocks in front of us when we try to fix things for them.

Courtesy is a two way street, and while I agree that it is lacking from the IT industry as a whole, to say that we are the only ones guilty of it is very short sighted.

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Re:Don't hate me because I'm beautiful.

[barzok]

Unless you're an IT company, IT is a loss. IT sucks profits from the company.

And having management tell IT that several times a year, reminding them "yeah, you guys are nothing but a money-sink, we'd love to cut all your jobs" is a wonderful way to help IT staff improve their attitude.

Keep telling me I'm worthless to you, see how happy I am to ask "how high?" next time you tell me to jump.

What goes around comes around

[Opportunist]

It's mainly our frustration with the people we have to admin for. I've had my share of support work. In my experience, you run into the first person you want to kill after no longer than a month, on average.

How do you feel when someone belittles your work as "pushing buttons and drinking coffee, if you're not surfing"? How do you feel when someone makes the same frigging moronic mistake after you've been there three times, showing him how it's done? How do you feel when he still claims it's your fault? How do you feel when people start fiddling with the setup who don't have a clue at all just what they're doing? How do you feel when they install software to bypass your security, sometimes even succeed only to cause a network wide problem (and blaming you)? How do you feel when someone's solution to a program being blocked by the virus scanner (because it's infected) is to turn off the scanner (and blaming you for the infection)?

I could rant on, but I guess you get the picture.

So yes, you start to hate the user. You start to belittle him, you start to be condescending, not out of spite (ok, with some users it's plainly spite), but simply because he effing is a moron. It's amazing how normal, rather intelligent people turn into bumbling fools in the presence of a computer. Just to hear them rant about that "stupid machine" and them telling you in no uncertain terms that they think you and your whole computer nonsense should be thrown out of the window.

Yes, I have shirts with certain "information" to the people around me on them, and yes, I wear them proudly. Get a friggin' clue or feel addressed.

I have a lot of patience with people who don't know. There is no shame in not knowing. There is shame in not wanting to learn. And the people who should feel the message is for them are the latter ones.