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Facebook ID Probe Shows Things Getting Worse

An anonymous reader writes "According to Sophos, Facebook users are getting sloppier with their personal info, not better. Revisiting a 2007 survey in which a plastic frog got 87 hits out of 200 friend requests, this time a rubber duck and a cat got 87 out of 200 friend requests, plus a bonus 8 friends who decided to trust them anyway. The research also suggests that older Facebook users are sloppier than the young, being keener to build their list of friends. (The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young.)"

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  1. Possibly because... by wirah · · Score: 3, Interesting

    ...the younger members just need more time to make friends!

    1. Re:Possibly because... by suso · · Score: 5, Funny

      Yes and clearly Facebook isn't about "who do you know now", its about "who have you known through your whole life who can come back to haunt you".

    2. Re:Possibly because... by chacha08 · · Score: 1

      Can't agree more. Time could change everything. There is no rush.

    3. Re:Possibly because... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. Facebook has been a good way to re-connect with friends from college, high school, and even elementary school, who I had otherwise long ago lost track of. Meanwhile a kid in high school isn't going to have as many different real-life networks to pull people from.

    4. Re:Possibly because... by socz · · Score: 1

      yeah i agree! I don't want people who knew me as a jock to now see me as a nerd!

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    5. Re:Possibly because... by st0nes · · Score: 1

      My dog http://www.facebook.com/dufus.widdicombe/ has more friends than I do.

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    6. Re:Possibly because... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absolutely. I've got "older" people in my friends list who are the same age as my parents. They're either my friends or they're "family" friends". Well, guess what? They've two more generations to pick from people to "friend" than I've had, and that's reflective in their Facebook lists.

      Likewise, my relatively conservative friend list is still larger than my very-socially-active 16-year-old brother-in-law.

    7. Re:Possibly because... by hesaigo999ca · · Score: 1

      Exactly!
      I mean how many people do you know when you are in kindergarten vs.
      how many people you know when you are clubbing?

  2. Self correcting problem by Gothmolly · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Good. Let Facebook go the way of the dodo. It's the equivalent of those "personal home pages" people put up when they first discovered the Web.

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    1. Re:Self correcting problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good. Let Facebook go the way of the dodo. It's the equivalent of those "personal home pages" people put up when they first discovered the Web.

      Really? Pretty sure I never slept with anyone after flirting with them on my personal home page. Oh wait... I did. But guestbooks weren't quite as intuitive as Facebook.

    2. Re:Self correcting problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      FLAMEBAIT... you people suck, just like facebook

    3. Re:Self correcting problem by Fozzyuw · · Score: 1

      Good. Let Facebook go the way of the dodo. It's the equivalent of those "personal home pages" people put up when they first discovered the Web.

      I wouldn't say it's equivalent but they do share a little bit of similarity. Facebook, unlike personal home pages, is far more intuitive now than "p.h.p."'s where back in the day. Perhaps it's wider exposure to all things web, or perhaps it's better web technologies and tech. adoption (CSS + JS frameworks + "AJAX").

      And the biggest difference, I'd say as both a web developer, a Facebook member, and someone who doesn't really like Facebook, I certainly do appreciate it for the easy as which I found I was able to reconnect with old high school friends (and perhaps ones I really wasn't interested in connecting too).

      Then again, I put very little info out there. Of course, that doesn't stop my friends from putting stuff out there and tagged to my account. But I am looking it over to try and manage it.

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    4. Re:Self correcting problem by jocabergs · · Score: 0

      hmmm, yes, I'm sure you slept with someone after putting up your personal homepage.. I can just imagine the guestbook post now....
      (from Tripod)

      Jan 7th 1997 11:56pm
      "ZOMG you are teh <BLINK>1337est </BLINK>, lets hookup!!!"
      by Anonymous Cowardette

    5. Re:Self correcting problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Haha.

      You may as well admit you're a virgin, we've all already guessed.

    6. Re:Self correcting problem by ShatteredArm · · Score: 1

      Except you couldn't reconnect with old friends whom you haven't seen for years using personal home pages. And you couldn't share events with your friends and have it automatically send them an email message using personal home pages. And you couldn't have a quick chat with an old friend in another state using personal home pages.

      Get off my lawn.

    7. Re:Self correcting problem by kimvette · · Score: 1

      Except you couldn't reconnect with old friends whom you haven't seen for years using personal home pages.

      Really? Let me introduce you to http://www.google.com/ and as far as chatting goes, when you email your old pal you say "Hey, are you on AOL instant messenger or MSN Live Messenger or ICQ or Yahoo Messenger or . . . my screen name is foo. Please IM Me I would love to chat. Or better yet, let's be actual humans and talk. my number is 555-555-5555. Call me!"

      Of course, if the site was built in frontpage, all bets are off since frontpage is the anti-SEO program.

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    8. Re:Self correcting problem by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      When you are in a band and want to let everyone who is a fan of yours what is going on, sometimes "talking like an actual humans" is a little unrealistic. So is trying to personally email or IM everyone - some who you actually don't really know, but still want to come out to your shows. Facebook is very convenient for that.

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    9. Re:Self correcting problem by ShatteredArm · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You're being ridiculous. In no way does Google provide the same ability to reconnect to old friends. Before social networking, most people did not have an internet presence. The vast majority of my friends who are on facebook have no other internet presence, and a google search would reveal only their facebook profile.

      And if you're hosting an event, you don't want to have to enter 50 numbers in a text message in order to invite people whose participation is only marginally necessary. It's also nice being able to keep track of people with whom you've been acquainted in the past, but aren't close enough to for a phone call to be warranted.

      For example, you may not be close enough to Mike to call or text, but with Facebook might cause you to say, "Oh, Mike is getting married. Maybe I should shoot him a note." Or, "Jim is moving. Maybe I'll drop by that going away party our common friend posted." It may not be the ideal tool for communicating with your closest friends and family, but it's great for keeping in touch with your fringe friends and acquaintances.

      I will say, though, that if you don't have any real friends, and all of your are internet friends, facebook may not be as useful.

    10. Re:Self correcting problem by JStegmaier · · Score: 1

      Or better yet, let's be actual humans and talk. my number is 555-555-5555. Call me!"

      Am I the only one who finds statements like this funny? Holding up "talking on the telephone" as being "actual human", but writing off instant messengers as if it's in some way inferior?

      Don't get me wrong, different forms of communications have their place, but the idea that hearing someone's voice is inherently superior to reading what someone writes makes me imagine luddites in the time when telephones were just becoming wide-spread saying something like "Let's be actual humans and talk face-to-face. Directions to my house are..." and yet people like the parent now hold up the telephone as if it's an "actual" way to communicate.

      Maybe for some people a technology isn't "real" or "valid" unless they grew up with it.

    11. Re:Self correcting problem by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Yeah, google is the best way to find your old friends' Facebook pages. :)

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    12. Re:Self correcting problem by Gothmolly · · Score: 1

      You could do all those things, if you were actually still friends with those people. Telephones, postcards and email existed BEFORE Facebook. How is it valuable that every masturbatory comment gets immediately broadcast to all your so-called friends?

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  3. Olders users know more people? by TheSeventh · · Score: 4, Funny

    The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young.

    It's like older users know more people than younger users, and that's just not possible. Kids know everything, just ask them.

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    1. Re:Olders users know more people? by Darth_brooks · · Score: 4, Funny

      "When I was 18, I thought my father was the dumbest man on earth. By the time I turned 23, I was amazed what the old man had learned in five years." - Unknown

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    2. Re:Olders users know more people? by fastest+fascist · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Well, this is based on a completely unscientific poll of my brain cells, but it seems older users would be more likely to, at least initially, treat sites like Facebook as something new to just try out, a fun toy more than a serious part of their lives, and thus less likely to care that much about how they expose themselves on such a site.

    3. Re:Olders users know more people? by tkinnun0 · · Score: 1

      Hahah, so the young one was fast becoming as stupid as his old man!

    4. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      mark twain, you dumb ass

    5. Re:Olders users know more people? by shadwstalkr · · Score: 5, Informative

      Actually it's "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." -- Mark Twain

    6. Re:Olders users know more people? by megamerican · · Score: 4, Funny

      Well, this is based on a completely unscientific poll of my brain cells, but it seems older users would be more likely to, at least initially, treat sites like Facebook as something new to just try out, a fun toy more than a serious part of their lives, and thus less likely to care that much about how they expose themselves on such a site.

      Old people exposing themselves on facebook seems like a far larger problem than than this article speaks of.

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    7. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually it's "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." -- Mark Twain

      Ha, I heard this quote on an old episode of Family Ties last night! That crazy Alex P. Keaton....

    8. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Well, that certainly adds a new wrinkle to the problem...

    9. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      "Imma let you finish but Oscar Wilde and Winston Churchill have the most amount of quotes falsely attributed to them of all time"

      -Mark Twain

    10. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pretty much. I mean, the Internet is serious business, no? Goastse? Yeah, stupid old people NOT taking the Internet thing seriously! ITS MY LIFE!

    11. Re:Olders users know more people? by AmberBlackCat · · Score: 1

      I think the quote had to be adjusted for 21-year-olds being much dumber than they were back then...

    12. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Bullshit. I've got both of those assholes covered" - Socrates

    13. Re:Olders users know more people? by fprintf · · Score: 1

      Confucious say, nu uh!

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    14. Re:Olders users know more people? by ajs · · Score: 1

      The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young.

      It's like older users know more people than younger users, and that's just not possible. Kids know everything, just ask them.

      More to the point, I don't see why this is an issue. I don't store anything on Facebook that's private and I don't trust any links that anyone that I don't know personally shares with me (not to mention my use of noscript's XSS-busting features). So what do I have to lose in accepting a friend request from a plastic frog, exactly?

    15. Re:Olders users know more people? by socz · · Score: 1

      That reminds me of something a 5 year old told me the other day:

      "Do you know what dish washer means?"
      I said yeah, but do you know what it means?
      "Yes, it's a man who washes dishes."
      I said That is partly correct. Anyone can be a dish washer, man or woman, boy or girl. But there are also machines that wash dishes. Those are called "dish washers."
      "No, a dish washer is a man who washes the dishes."

      I think he ended up going with the "you remind me of Hitler" debate tactic and ended the conversation!

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    16. Re:Olders users know more people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  4. Manage a Mosaics Craft Forum by Bigbutt · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I use Facebook to let members of the forum know if there's a server problem. Most of my 50 or so friends are from the forum with my Facebook Forum page at something over 100 fans. I set up a filter so I can filter out the forum members and get updates from friends and the sites I'm a fan of.

    [John]

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    1. Re:Manage a Mosaics Craft Forum by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      How can this get modded Offtopic? This is exactly on the topic.

    2. Re:Manage a Mosaics Craft Forum by Destoo · · Score: 1

      It would be on topic if the plastic frog was also doing mosaics crafting.
      I remember the little green fellow from an argumentation course, so I added him. He wasn't the brightest but he sur knew how to jump to conclusions. Duckie, on the other hand, kept flunking it.

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  5. Useless results by kdcttg · · Score: 1, Troll

    This proves nothing of any use, since the first probe was done in the UK, and the more recent one in Australia.

    1. Re:Useless results by Fred_A · · Score: 2, Funny

      This proves nothing of any use, since the first probe was done in the UK, and the more recent one in Australia.

      Sure it does. It shows a disturbing trend among the people of the Commonwealth.

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  6. Uhh... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    From TFS: "The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young."

    They've also had a lifetime of real life social networking (not the online kind) to boost the level of friends and acquaintances they would like to keep in contact with.

    Young people are very cliquey with their behaviour in regards to friends. When I was in school, I could've counted my true friends on my fingers. When I went out into the world and bounced jobs for a couple years, I met many more interesting people that I remained friends with after the jobs had come and gone.

    Also, do we really need another article to tell us that the older people in society are less hip to the social network scams?

    1. Re:Uhh... by dskzero · · Score: 1

      That's not necesarily true. Besides, that study might be right over there, but here in southamerica is directly the opposite. I don't think nowadays kids are as cliquey, not to mention that those cliques are notably bigger in an environment where you can look for those people from a damn list and pick the people you think are part of your clique. Older people are just generally less careful about accepting friend requests. That point really makes that article pretty pointless.

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    2. Re:Uhh... by _Shad0w_ · · Score: 1

      You saved me the bother of stating the same thing. All of my friends on Facebook are people I actually know; some I see regularly, others less so. I suspect I still haven't added everyone I used to know and would want to keep up with; I only joined recently.

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  7. Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmville, by Penguinisto · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I'm thinking that a lot of people add folks they don't know into their friends' pile for the applications, esp. games. After all, Mafia Wars and the like are rigged to get you more in-game "power" (more defense, offense, etc) with the larger number of friends you add (and then subsequently add into your "Mafia", or "Neighbors", or "Crew").

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  8. Unfair Tests by happy_place · · Score: 4, Funny

    Who doesn't want to be friends with a rubber ducky. Anyone raised on that nefarious propaganda brain-washing show, 'Sesame Street' knows to sing "Rubber ducky! You're the one! You make bathtime so much fun! Rubber ducky, you're the only one for me!" I mean who wouldn't want to be friends with a rubber ducky? It's much more meaningful a relationship than anyone you knew from High School.

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    1. Re:Unfair Tests by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is why there should be 2 sets of "friends".
      One being Personal friends you know in real life, the other being people you only know as Online "friends".
      Default selection being Online group when added, default for data being Personal.

      Just ask people to select who are their friends in real life, everyone else gets punted in to the Online group, bham, solved in a day or two.

    2. Re:Unfair Tests by Hidyman · · Score: 1

      Is this the duck in question?

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    3. Re:Unfair Tests by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, the rubber ducky HAS probably seen you naked more than anyone in high school.

      I always wondered why it kept floating upside down....

    4. Re:Unfair Tests by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pics or it didn't happen.

    5. Re:Unfair Tests by electricbern · · Score: 4, Funny

      It is also unlikely the rubber ducky will steal your personal data or use your private information with any evil intentions. The cat on the other hand, likely.

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    6. Re:Unfair Tests by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    7. Re:Unfair Tests by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You got the lyrics wrong. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B8IfCSnYPYo

    8. Re:Unfair Tests by Convoluted+Reality · · Score: 1

      .... The cat on the other hand, likely.

      Cat: i'm iN Ur Slshdt Accnt Gettin You Moddud Troul!

  9. Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I personally have 2 accounts. I use one strictly for games where I will accept any and all takers. I post to lists to increase my numbers and can see from 20 to hundreds of requests per day. That account has no real data.

    My other REAL account only has REAL friends and Family. I scrutinize every request and all personal settings are very tight as to only allow friends to see the data. I'd consider myself an 'older' user @ +40. From what I have seen, this is not uncommon.

    1. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by Cyner · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't have time to waste keeping one account up to date. I can't image keeping track of two. When do you find time to code, hack, and generally do geeky stuff?

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    2. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by LatencyKills · · Score: 1

      I'll go you one better - I have a single facebook account with no real information in it at all. I made this account because people were constantly sending me facebook links, and you can't look at them without having an account. More perplexing still is that account, essentially completely inactive from a facebook perspective without posts, pictures, or any meaningful personal data (it lists, for example, the age as 109 because at one time the default birthday was 1/1/1900 and I didn't change it), still gets friend requests, lots and lots of them. Who are these people? Or are they programs that simply send out friend requests in bulk like spam?

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    3. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 1

      Its not like I spend my life on there! I check the REAL one once or twice a day and my gaming addiction has rapidly faded. You can only get joy out of clicking buttons for so long. Its a decent time killer when waiting for {something} to happen/finish/etc.

    4. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 1

      The are gamers trying to build their mafia/clan/sorority etc. Some of those people are WAY to serious about button clicking games (I know because my Wife is one of them)

    5. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Your fake profile apparently gets more friend requests than my real one. I got a friend request a couple of days ago, and I really don’t remember the last time I got one before that.

      Or are you confusing the group/fan/application requests with friend requests? They aren’t the same.

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    6. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by sarahbau · · Score: 1

      I've been on Facebook for 9 months now, and haven't gotten a single spam friend request. The only request I've gotten from someone I didn't know was from someone whose blog post I had responded to, and he assumed I was someone he knew since only his friends and family knew about his blog (I found it through a google search). I can only assume that you are using some game or other application that is sharing your info or something.

    7. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He probably named the account AAAAAAAAA or something, hence it's the very first one every bot hits.

    8. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My other REAL account only has REAL friends and Family. I scrutinize every request and all personal settings are very tight as to only allow friends to see the data.

      Nobody cares about your stupid facebook account. Oh, good job, you scrutinize every friend request. You've got delusions of grandeur. No one wants to be your friend that badly.

      The problem is not *other people* on facebook, the problem is that you've given control of your private identity to a large, profit driven corporation. This is just dumb on the face of it. Other situations in which profit driven corporations have access to your private information- ie banks and credit agencies- are subject to government regulation and will never sell your data. Facebook on the other hand, has no such regulation. How long do you think we have until the calendar, "Hottest Facebook Chicks" comes out? I think it'll happen before we get to the year 2020.

      What happens if facebook goes bankrupt? Their assets (your private information) will be sold at liquidation to the highest bidder.

    9. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by AA+Wulf · · Score: 1

      Though not uncommon, it is technically a violation of the Facebook TOS to have multiple accounts, fictitious accounts that don't use your real name, and so on. Facebook really needs to update their TOS in addition to their privacy settings. If you can manage to use the service with a fictitious name, you shouldn't have to worry that some d-bag is going to come and suspend you for it down the road.

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    10. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 1

      I have no delusions trollboi. The fact is I don't want my wall cluttered with crap. I only care about the people I care about. My scrutiny has F*** all to do with privacy, its a matter of clutter. When I first started playing games on FB and just accepting all requests it became difficult to keep up with friends and family so I separated it out.

      My private identity? Oh, yo mean what schools I went to and the state I live in? Oh boy, run to the hills! Take off the tinfoil beanie, its on too tight and restricting blood flow to your brain.

    11. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      The fact is I don't want my wall cluttered with crap.

      Create a list of the people you want to keep track of. (Click on "More" under the left-hand menu, then "Create new list".) Drag that new list to the top of the left hand menu. You'll just see their activity on your homepage by default.

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    12. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 1

      This creates a maint nightmare, Now when someoen sends a request I need to put it into a group and maintain that group much easier to have 2 accounts.

    13. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      Now when someoen sends a request I need to put it into a group and maintain that group

      Only when it's somebody whose FB actions I want to track, do I need to add them to the group.

      much easier to have 2 accounts.

      Not only is that not easier, it's forbidden by the TOS: "Please be aware that managing multiple accounts is a serious violation of Facebook's Terms of Use. If we determine that an individual has more than one account, we reserve the right to terminate all of their accounts."

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    14. Re:Are they being friended to REAL accounts? by djrosen · · Score: 1

      yeah, I know, so? I J-walk too. Still easier. Get an account with +3000 friends and it moves as slow as molasses in January in Toronto, its MUCH easier to manage 2 accounts than to deal with friend lists and all the stuff that comes with haveing that many friends. FB still has not gotten it to where the lists are easy to manage.

  10. Here is a crazy idea by nizo · · Score: 4, Insightful

    How about not putting stuff up on social media sites that you wouldn't want posted on a bulletin board at the local laundromat? Why on earth would I post my DOB, address, phone number there for example??

    1. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Daley_G · · Score: 1

      You're absolutely correct in your thinking, but that's what keeps people like us employed. If society were concerned with their personal information, half the security companies in the world wouldn't exist. Take a look at the internet spam reports: http://www.barracudanetworks.com/ns/?L=en If people didn't OPEN that stuff, spammers/phishers wouldn't propagate it. People are ignorant, therefore I am employed.

    2. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Sockatume · · Score: 2, Informative

      In principle, the information is only visible to a pre-defined list of other users, your "friends". The point of the article is that that list is often composed with only its social function in mind, with a disregard for its security function.

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    3. Re:Here is a crazy idea by maxume · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Does the article discuss how much info each user leaked? I wouldn't be real surprised if the older users posted less info and were thus less concerned with privacy (It also wouldn't be shocking if they were simply less aware of it).

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    4. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Friends, family/roommates of friends, app maintainers, Facebook employees, Facebook's outsourced storage provider's employees, kazaa users that can see your friend's accidentally shared "My Pictures" directory, Friend's "Computer guy/Geeksquad," etc...

    5. Re:Here is a crazy idea by snaz555 · · Score: 1

      Does the article discuss how much info each user leaked? I wouldn't be real surprised if the older users posted less info and were thus less concerned with privacy (It also wouldn't be shocking if they were simply less aware of it).

      I guess at 45 I qualify as "older" in this context. I don't post personal details, or say things I don't want my business contacts to be aware of. FB serves the same purpose to me as a cocktail party - it's just a simple social function. I don't really care who wants to be my friend (which I view more as a 'live rolodex') - you never know who might be handy to know. I have about 300 friends on FB. My wife, who's a freelance writer and has to network as part of her business, has over 1500. It's just a tool, and like any other becomes what you make of it. I personally like it better than LinkedIn, which is too formal.

    6. Re:Here is a crazy idea by aztracker1 · · Score: 1

      That's what I don't get... though I'm pretty open with my DOB and phone number, my address not nearly as much. Then again, I have a *VERY* common name, with a couple other people that match the same name and DOB. My online persona is pretty open actually. Personally, I just ignore/disallow pretty much all apps on facebook.

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    7. Re:Here is a crazy idea by kieran · · Score: 1

      Why wouldn't you want to make those details handily available to those friends you trust with them? Especially if it means that if you need to change your phone number, many friends will have the new number synched to their phone automatically before you even get around to telling them that the old one is dead.

    8. Re:Here is a crazy idea by sg7jimr · · Score: 1

      I think the whole "you must use your real name" policy of Facebook is at the heart of this free distribution of personal information. The service is telling people it's both safe and desirable for random people to know who you really are. Then people are shocked by stories of people getting robbed while on vacation after posting an "on vacation" Facebook status. Anonymity is the safest for any public forum. Yes I get that they want to sell this idea of your old friends finding you. But they should allow people to obfuscate their identity if that's not what they are on Facebook for. It's not difficult to find a friend using an alias if that friend wants to be found. Instead they will terminate your account if they believe you are not who you say you are, and will only allow you to restore that account if you can prove your online identity is a real one. The fact that Facebook is often used as a game platform and most online games allow you to choose any name you wish just reinforces the appearance that Facebook is out of touch with Internet/web realities.

    9. Re:Here is a crazy idea by antdude · · Score: 1

      I tried putting up fake datas, but Facebook kicked me off. :(

      --
      Ant(Dude) @ Quality Foraged Links (AQFL.net) & The Ant Farm (antfarm.ma.cx / antfarm.home.dhs.org).
    10. Re:Here is a crazy idea by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      You are not required to put up much of anything besides your real name and a valid e-mail address (but even that you don’t have to share with anyone), as far as I can recall.

      Pretty sure you could get away with using your last initial instead of the full name, but I could be wrong.

      If you put up fake info, then yeah, you deserved to get the boot. Follow the rules.

      --
      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
    11. Re:Here is a crazy idea by antdude · · Score: 1

      Well, MySpace, Friendster, etc. didn't boot me off for that.

      --
      Ant(Dude) @ Quality Foraged Links (AQFL.net) & The Ant Farm (antfarm.ma.cx / antfarm.home.dhs.org).
    12. Re:Here is a crazy idea by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      No, and MySpace also allowed all sorts of profile mods that turned it into a cancerous seizure-inducing cesspool. Facebook users are held to a slightly higher standard.

      I can’t comment on Friendster, as I didn’t use it.

      --
      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
    13. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People still change their phone number these days? I've had the same phone number going on 10 years now, and it's very well I could have the same phone number when I die. (The beauty of number portability!)

    14. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Could be. I'm an old guy, and I've never posted my phone or address. I do have my birth monthday so people can give me b-day spam at the appropriate time, but no year.

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    15. Re:Here is a crazy idea by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      I trust some of my friends with my phone and even my address, but not all, at least on FB. And I DON'T trust FB themnselves with my info.

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    16. Re:Here is a crazy idea by bkpark · · Score: 1

      Why on earth would I post my DOB, address, phone number there for example??

      To throw your pursuers off the trail. My Facebook profile is littered with false information and misleading data.

      If you meant putting your real DOB, address, or phone number, I whole-heartedly agree. Anyone who needs to know them can ask me directly, in person. Anyone who can't do that doesn't need to know them.

    17. Re:Here is a crazy idea by TheTurtlesMoves · · Score: 1

      So I do break the ToS by giving a fake DOB when i Joined FB a while back. I just randomly clicked month and day, and made sure i was older than 18. Unfortunately i picked the same day as my daughter.

      But thats all history now, i deleted my account properly. Now i get emails from programmer friends wanting me to join these "professional networks" type sites.

      --
      The Grey Goo disaster happened 3 billion years ago. This rock is covered in self replicating machines!
  11. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by spamking · · Score: 5, Insightful

    That's why I don't use my real contact info for my Mafia Wars account . . . I'm not sure why anyone would.

  12. They got me... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    I was sure I knew that duck! Now that little bastard know all about me...

  13. That, or we don't give a shit. by A.+B3ttik · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I'd probably accept anyone who cares enough to "friend" me, whether I know them or not. Mark me in the 43.5%, a guy who once accepted a friend request from "Some Pencils" and a random girl in Arizona (thousands of miles from me) just because she was a girl. What are these people going to find out... my hometown? My college? My favorite tv shows? Who cares? I don't think I'm really stalker material, and iIf my favorite movies are that important to some guy writing a corporate spambot, whatever, he can have it. He can't even find my address or my phone number on facebook, two things I consider more personal, and _those_ you can already find in any phonebook site.

    Hell, maybe we're _more_ careful about our personal info since facebook doesn't really have anything on it that we value.

    1. Re:That, or we don't give a shit. by Bottles · · Score: 5, Funny

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    2. Re:That, or we don't give a shit. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I kinda agree. Although, I still don’t generally accept friend requests from random people who I don’t know.

      But the guy with the same last name as mine who requested to friend me the other day? Sure, why not. I have no idea who he is, but ok. His profile had enough info that it obviously wasn’t somebody creating a new account just to steal info from people with my last name.

    3. Re:That, or we don't give a shit. by margaret · · Score: 1

      What are these people going to find out... my hometown? My college? My favorite tv shows? Who cares?

      Sounds like those questions the bank website asks me to prove I'm me...

    4. Re:That, or we don't give a shit. by Qu4Z · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but who answers those with the real values?

  14. Promoters by boxxa · · Score: 2, Informative

    I am also seeing that more and more people are calling them promoters and advertisers by adding 1,000 friends on there and don't realize the information they are disclosing. The biggest example is the Palin email account hacking that most of the answers to security questions was found in her Facebook.

    --
    Bryan
  15. Public Privacy by smitty777 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If this trend is true, it points towards our "habituation" with the notion of the lack of privacy in our society. I think that along with the flood of information in our society comes the feeling that "all information should be freely available". People in general are becoming de-sensitized to this trend more and more, and expect more information about themselves to be available publicly. Not even just online - take a popular show like CSI. I think it's just sort of assumed that everyone is leaving this massive digital fingerprint behind them.

    --
    "Before God we are all equally wise - and equally foolish"
    Albert Einstein
    1. Re:Public Privacy by kylebarbour · · Score: 1

      I don't think that this is really a new thing. Once upon a time it was easy to get information about people - your name, address, family members, and person history was widely available when people lived in smaller towns and in tighter communities. I'm very comfortable living like this now - the risk of someone attacking me or trying to crack my bank account is much less important to me than making it easier for people who have a legitimate reason to contact me to do so. So I'm fine with having my contact details on Facebook - the privacy issue is unimportant to me.

      This was also an attitude that was prevalent in the early days of the internet - check out some old school home pages and there's a huge amount of personal information there. These people weren't ignorant about privacy, they just had different values.

    2. Re:Public Privacy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      as opposed to the NON-digital fingerprint we used to leave behind instead? I'm confused - I thought my fingerprints were all on my digits all the time,,,,

  16. Spammers? by pz · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Could it be that these befriendings are from people who don't care about privacy, or, put a better way, want to use Facebook to send spam messages, and so will befriend EVERYONE?

    --

    Put my fist through my alarm clock with its ding-dong death inside my ear. - The Blackjacks.
    1. Re:Spammers? by Beerdood · · Score: 1

      Also, some people will add anyone to their friends list simply to have more friends. More friends = more popular in social networking.

      --
      Global warming and other natural disasters are a direct effect of the shrinking number of pirates - Gospel of the FSM
  17. schemes by ZenDragon · · Score: 0, Flamebait
    Plastic Frog? Rubber Duck!? Cat?!?! What is this world coming to??? Humanity is doomed!

    Im going to have to side with B3ttik on this one... most people dont give a shit. This the nature of social networking, and to be frank I think Facebook wants it that way. The more information that is exposed to the masses the more they can use for their massive data mining schemes. Its just one huge advertising machine.

  18. Not in my experience by Darth+Sdlavrot · · Score: 2, Interesting

    FWIW.

    Most of the "young" that I see on FB, e.g. my children, their friends, etc., have 200+ "friends."

    Some of the !young that I see have 100+. I call them "friend collectors."

    I personally only have about 50 (sucks to be me I guess). I don't send friend requests. I only accept friend requests from people I actually know.

    1. Re:Not in my experience by AmberBlackCat · · Score: 1

      I think what's going on is older and younger people are using different definitions of "friend" on Facebook. Older people are adding everybody because their definition is "friend or person to play with on the internet". Younger people are using the definition, "friend or potential sex partner". And as soon as they figure out you're not one or the other, you're off their list. Also, most of the teens I know have thousands of people on their lists while most of the adults I know have hundreds. I think this study says less about how people are on Facebook and more about about how people react to rubber and plastic figures on Facebook.

  19. Privacy Settings by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I just set up a group for "limited" access, so if someone friend requests me and I don't feel that I trust them I add them to the limited group right away (upon accepting them) and then they can only see a handful of things. If they turn out to be real people and I become friends with them outside of facebook, at a later point I could always remove them from the limited access group and they'll see what my normal friends see.

    So yea, maybe I accepted more friend requests than the average kid (I consider myself an older user btw) but I did so in a safe manner. Practice safe friending!

  20. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Buelldozer · · Score: 5, Informative

    I assigned all of my "game friends" into their own group and then used Facebooks group security to limit the personal information that they can see. It took all of five minutes to setup. Someone in that group can see as much information about me as someone who isn't my friend at all, which is to say not much.

    Now I'll accept every friend request that comes my way. If I don't recognize the name and the friend doesn't leave a note saying how they know me then I push them into the game friend group. Problem solved.

  21. Skewed results... by VShael · · Score: 4, Funny

    I was running a similar experiment. And my pet cat Heisenberg befriended the Rubber Duck, a Nigerian prince, a Ukrainian boyband, and various sundry inanimate objects from other similar experiments.

    1. Re:Skewed results... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The researchers don't have much basis for the conclusion. It could also be the result of more spammers on facebook that will accept any friend request to snoop and deliver more spam.

  22. I'm friends with a Turkey, but it's restricted by SuperBanana · · Score: 2, Informative

    TFA is full of shit- their rubber ducky was probably friended, but put on a restrictive friend list.

    I'm friends with a famous turkey (long story), but said turkey is on a restricted friend list that can see barely more than my public info. I guarantee you every kid has a restricted list of one sort or another.

    Also, did they bother to track how many people friended it just enough to check it out, and then unfriended it?

    1. Re:I'm friends with a Turkey, but it's restricted by shawb · · Score: 1

      Then they failed the restricted friends list thing... you see how many people had access to address and phone number?

      --
      I'll never make that mistake again, reading the experts' opinions. - Feynman
    2. Re:I'm friends with a Turkey, but it's restricted by pluther · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I still don't understand what the big deal is about finding someone's address and phone number.

      Back in Ye Olden Days, when people had telephones that were plugged into walls, all this information was printed in large books distributed free to every customer.

      --
      If the masses can keep you down, you're not the Ubermensch.
  23. Mobster by PerfectionLost · · Score: 1

    Will the rubber ducky help me with my mob? Or farm? Or ?

  24. not for nothing... by mp3LM · · Score: 4, Insightful

    not for nothing...but you're doing a study of 200 people on a network of 350 million...kind of small study...

    1. Re:not for nothing... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Above certain numbers, sample size isn't really majorly important. Toss a coin 200 times and you'll see that the average number of heads stays relatively constant above a sample size of 100. Also, whether the population size is 1 million or 350 million, it really makes no difference to how big a sample you need.

    2. Re:not for nothing... by postglock · · Score: 1
      Unintuitively, the accuracy of the estimate of a proportion has little to do with the size of the population. The accuracy relies more on the size of the sample. I'm sure there are more sophisticated ways to do this, but from my first year statistics course, the standard error is ((p(1-p))/n), where p (estimated proportion) = 87/200 and n (sample size) = 200. Hence, the standard error = 0.035 and the 95% confidence interval is 0.435 ± 0.069.

      i.e. we are 95% confidence that the true proportion lies between 36.7% and 50.4%. That's still quite high.

  25. Random Friends by Aladrin · · Score: 0

    I have tons of random friends. Why? Because I use Facebook as a gaming site, rather than a friends site. The more 'friends' I have, the more powerful I am in the games. (Which is stupid, but that's the way they are written.) So I've got like 1000 'friends' on facebook about 10 in real life, plus family. Most of my 'friends' on facebook are the same way.

    I don't post things on there that I don't want random strangers to see anyhow, so it's no big deal.

    So if they didn't eliminate people like me from their survey, it's badly skewed.

    --
    "If you make people think they're thinking, they'll love you; But if you really make them think, they'll hate you." - DM
    1. Re:Random Friends by Is0m0rph · · Score: 1

      Same here I have a few hundred friends I don't know because I play a lot of games. I could set up security for them but I don't have anything on my Facebook account that a stranger couldn't see. You don't know me but want to look at pictures of me wakeboarding, hiking or whatever photos I post? Have at it.

  26. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by MindStalker · · Score: 1

    This is it exactly. I haven't been willing to add strangers yet, but the majority of people on Mafia Wars have the required 500 friends, I mean seriously, 500, nobody actually knows that many people.

  27. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by qwertphobia · · Score: 1

    I do now! :-)

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    Never ask for directions from a two-headed tourist! -Big Bird
  28. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    If I added everyone I ever met, including summer camp, I probably would.

    --
    Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  29. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by asdf7890 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I assigned all of my "game friends" into their own group and then used Facebooks group security to limit the personal information that they can see.

    Does that actually work at the moment? A few months ago myself and a friend had a play with those features and no matter what settings he used I kept being able to see everything I could before we started. Admittedly we didn't report the issues nor have we bothered re-testing (so maybe our experience is just a fluke or a temporary issue at the time).

  30. Bloody Hell by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    When are we going to see real, site-agnostic social graph? How about encryption-based login? Any plans for a bank to let me use a third-party tool to view my finances using OFX or another similar protocol, but based on the third-party asking for permission and me granting it on the bank website? What about data portability: when can I have local databases for all this data that will sync securely and automatically with cloud-based databases (and allowing for merges where both the site and I have write permission)?

    It seems like most of the Web 2.0 innovation has focused on making Web 1.0 fast and pretty. Where the bloody hell are the data-driven innovations that actually level the playing field and make the web more democratic?

  31. "Fake" accounts? by John+Hasler · · Score: 1

    How does he know that all that "personal info" is real? I don't do "social networking" but it seems to me some might find it amusing to create an account with plausible but fake "personal info" and then "friend" away.

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    1. Re:"Fake" accounts? by CapnStank · · Score: 1

      I have a good friend striving to become a freelance artist. He started selling T-shirts on cafepress.com before they screwed the artists. He created fake social networking profiles on bebo, myspace, facebook etc. to gather random friends and promote his merch. He googled a random female name "Susan" or something, pulled up a random model's image, touched it up to make it look "human" and generated his profile. Its fairly common practice.

  32. Purging my friend's list by areusche · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I must be in the minority. If I don't know a person I won't add them as a friend. Heck I've gone through my friend's list and purged out people I don't talk to or in other instances strongly dislike from way back in high school. I also don't play Mobwars or Farmville which is just a needless waste of time. I avoid them because I would become engrossed in it.

    1. Re:Purging my friend's list by CapnStank · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Welcome to our minority. My personal filter is that if I wouldn't feel comfortable approaching them randomly to strike up a conversation then they shouldn't be on my list. There's lots of people from high school I denied because I didn't talk to them then, what's changed? Just because we knew 'of' each other it doesn't mean we need to put on a fake smile and pretend we were all buddy buddy.

    2. Re:Purging my friend's list by RealGrouchy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I must be in the minority.

      According to the 'study', 41-46% of people accepted blindly, so you'd be in the majority.

      - RG>

      --
      Hey pal, this isn't a pleasantforest, so don't waste my time with pleasantries!
  33. once again the real issue is being overlooked by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

    Why doesn't facebook offer https to sign in with? Why do we sign in over a insecure web connection?
    Everyone is worried about the "privacy" and the most blatant privacy guard is not even implemented.
    all smoke and mirrors to cover the real issues..
    Facebook sucks and I do not understand why they get such great raves..
    Sure I can talk to someone in norway big deal..
    My friends don't give a shit what type of toilet paper I wiped with and I don't care what they wiped with.
    really it seems like another form of attention whoreism to me

    ps: my captcha was construe how ironic..

  34. Moar pals plz by CapnStank · · Score: 1

    "The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young."

    Breaking news, those who have lived longer have created more social connections than those who have not.

  35. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by aztracker1 · · Score: 1

    Pretty cool idea, personally, I really don't restrict what information I show, but to be honest, always click ignore application on the friend requests for apps... I only see a small number of them anymore.

    --
    Michael J. Ryan - tracker1.info
  36. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by eln · · Score: 3, Informative

    Keep in mind that the game itself still has access to all of your information. The Facebook terms of service prohibits the game from using or storing that information for anything not game-related, but there's nothing other than the honor system and Facebook's vague threats to occasionally enforce the rules that prevents it from doing so. The API itself will happily grant access to everything, whether the game needs it or not.

    Your best bet, if you must play FB games, is to maintain an entirely separate profile just for that purpose, and put nothing personally identifiable on it.

  37. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Sillygates · · Score: 4, Funny

    I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmville

    Thanks for reminding me. I need to harvest my crops!

    --
    I fear the Y2038 bug
  38. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by JWeinraub · · Score: 1

    That's why I use the Privacy settings. The people I add for those stupid Facebook games I put in a special group that sees none of my personal information. Just access to the game and no more. The games own websites provide instructions on doing so usually as a sticky on the very forums where people swap Facebook handles!

  39. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    I personally think the information available to a game should be more restricted and better policed.

    Lately I have noticed applications asking for information they didn’t feasibly need, plus asking for the ability to post stories on my wall without prompting me each time. If you don’t give them the permissions they ask for, they ask again until you give permission (or uninstall the app).

    I don’t install many applications, but it pisses me off when applications pull this sort of crap. I don’t appreciate having to go to my profile and delete all the updates this app made just because I wanted to do the quiz.

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    Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  40. Try finding "John Smith" on google by mypalmike · · Score: 1

    Seriously, have you actaully ever used facebook? Probably half the people I've reconnected with are people I would never have found through online search. Google search won't reveal networks of mutual friends, but it's how a lot of facebook friends find each other.

    --
    There are 0x40000000 types of people: those who understand 32-bit IEEE 754 floating point, and those who don't.
    1. Re:Try finding "John Smith" on google by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You know, I'm fairly convinced that the majority, if not all, of these people who are writing off Facebook as totally useless have not even tried using it. This seems very likely considering all of these equivalence arguments being put forth.

    2. Re:Try finding "John Smith" on google by vuffi_raa · · Score: 1

      Seriously, have you actaully ever used facebook? Probably half the people I've reconnected with are people I would never have found through online search

      very true, I think the thing is that for a lot of the people that I reconnected with on facebook are people that would otherwise not have an online presence at all, sure any of them could find me online, but the prolly would never have looked

  41. What planet are you sending this article from? by xmousex · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The article seems lost entirely in its own little world and clueless whats going on. Facebook IS farmville, vampire wars, pet society, arena, etc. People join those groups, spam them for invites, and get invites in return to build up their game networks. I know one actual person in my list that doesnt do this, shes in high school and actually uses facebook to talk to her friends and complain about homework. Weirdo.

    Now to discuss that people who play facebook shouldn't put too much personal information on their profile is a decent topic. But dont come at it so naive.

  42. KH, DW, SI and TW. Cause real games have TLIs by Forge · · Score: 1

    Isn't that what everyone dose? I need lots of freinds to "help" me play whichever game I am into at the moment. Other people do too. I just assume that when someone I don't know and have no connection to, adds me, it's because they need help with some game or other.

    If that person drops me a polite note with the application invite, I usually help out.

    I also became friends (The kind you break bread with if you are ever in the same town) with several people I met throgh FB games.

    I also add every local political leader I see on FB and occasionally a celebrity who has a personal account (as opposed to the PR firm managed "fan page"). Just for the hell of it.

    In all this, I have no problem with obvious fakes like "Syler Petrely" or one of the 500+ "Bob Marley"s. I post info to my account that I would feel comfortable putting in a newspaper. I conduct no financial transactions throgh FB or the email address I use for FB (Facebook is that account's only purpose)

    So even a complete takeover of my FB account would be just annoying. Not painful. I wonder though. How defective is FB if simply being on your friend list allows someone to do anything to you or your account? Tag you in a dirty picture perhaps?

    --
    --= Isn't it surprising how badly I spell ?
  43. I resent the implications of this study! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Some of my best friends are rubber ducks and cats!

  44. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Malc · · Score: 1

    That's a trust by default rule. You're relying on Facebook to get the security right, or just to be sure that you keep up with any changes they make to their security model. If I don't know somebody, then they don't get to be on my friend list. And if an app needs access to my personal information, then I block it too. This Mafia thing looks like fun, but the expense is too high.

  45. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by StreetStealth · · Score: 1

    Your best bet, if you must play FB games, is to maintain an entirely separate profile just for that purpose, and put nothing personally identifiable on it.
     

    Maintaining multiple accounts, regardless of the purpose, is a violation of Facebook’s Terms of Use.

    http://www.facebook.com/help.php?page=721

    In practice, this probably doesn't matter, as long as you don't spam or start making alts, but it's something that has thus far made me uneasy enough to not make that "work account" lest my primary account get banned.

    --
    Your mind is clear / The things that you fear / Will fade with how much you / Believe what you hear
  46. You can do that to your friend's list? by ThrowAwaySociety · · Score: 4, Funny

    Heck I've gone through my friend's list and purged out people I don't talk to or in other instances strongly dislike from way back in high school.

    Personally, I think its irresponsible of your friend to have given you the kind of access necessary to remove people from his or her list.

    1. Re:You can do that to your friend's list? by areusche · · Score: 1

      Hahaha I know right? This is what I get for posting to slashdot on my blackberry!

  47. Stop giving them the information by Stregano · · Score: 0

    Really, if you are worried about people having your information, why give it to them? It is a valid question. It would be like me changing my /. account name to JohnSmith241995 or something like that. It is the internet. Give the information you want to, and if you give too much, then, uh, I guess maybe you might not want to.

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    The world is how you make it
  48. maximum security by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not only do I not even belong to facebook, but I'm posting anonymously to brag about it!

    1. Re:maximum security by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not only do I not even belong to facebook, but I'm posting anonymously to brag about it!

      but are you using tor on stolen wifi using a livecd to post from?

  49. Keep off you birthday too! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Most people list their birthday, but that is identifying information, so I leave it off.

  50. A duck is rather harmless... by npoczynek · · Score: 2, Interesting
    My friends and I conducted a sort of experiment a while back. We created an online Facebook identity that was completely over the top - the goal was for him to be a stereotypical college burn-out.

    None of the photos we tag of him reveal his face - we find pictures of normal college activities (parties, football games, etc.) and tag a guy who's turned the wrong way, standing in the distance, or whatever. There are about 100 of these photos and none of them are of the same person.

    I think he currently has more Facebook friends than I do. Girls will constantly accept his friend requests, especially if they have at least one friend in common. Each time we chat with someone we use his created persona and 99% of the people never call us out on not being a real person. I can't count the number of times a girl has accepted an invitation such as the following:

    "heeay gurl u comin 2 ma paaartay?"

    We've acquired dozens of numbers (never used, obviously) and made vague promises to meet up with these girls.

    It's scary, really. Imagine how easy it would be for a predator to create an online persona that is NORMAL? When this guy, who's status is regularly updated with lines such as "ayyy yo cause when i git crunk i like to toke...yaa digg??/? ahhaahaahh", is able to have even one successful conversation.

    1. Re:A duck is rather harmless... by Acer500 · · Score: 1

      It's scary, really. Imagine how easy it would be for a predator to create an online persona that is NORMAL? When this guy, who's status is regularly updated with lines such as "ayyy yo cause when i git crunk i like to toke...yaa digg??/? ahhaahaahh", is able to have even one successful conversation.

      Heh I bet that fictional persona is far more interesting than me (or the average slashdotter I guess :P ) - I'm NOT able to get phone numbers or get to add "gurls" :P

      --
      There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics.
    2. Re:A duck is rather harmless... by clone53421 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      especially if they have at least one friend in common.

      Hmm... I wonder if there’s a way to calculate the optimum approach vector, based on which of someone’s friends are likely to add you as a friend off-the-bat, which of them are likely to add you once you have a few friends in common, and how many friends in common you’ll need to have before you have a reasonable expectation of success when you attempt to friend the target?

      --
      Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  51. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by isaac338 · · Score: 1

    If I don't recognize the name and the friend doesn't leave a note saying how they know me then I push them into the game friend group. Problem solved.

    Why don't you just ignore the friend request if you don't know them? I don't understand this - why would you want someone on your friends list if they're not a friend, nor even acquaintance?

  52. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by FallinWithStyle · · Score: 1

    Exactly what I was thinking. My parents have a facebook account, and they play Farmville all the time. It cracks me up every time I walk by the computer and see my dad talking in a chat room about his farm. I had to give him a lecture the other day about the security issues related to linking an account with that much of his personal information on it to an online game like Farmville. It's interesting how he originally saw nothing wrong with this, especially knowing how skeptical I know he would be if facebook weren't the intermediary. Anyway, the only reason I heard about it was because my mom complained that some random guy (who I guess my dad added through Farmville) was sending her messages.

    --
    Does this smell like Chloroform to you?
  53. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Buelldozer · · Score: 1

    Because in many of the Facebooks games, Mafia Wars for example, having a larger clan is a tremendous benefit and the only way people can be in your clan is if you are FB friends with them first.

  54. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Buelldozer · · Score: 1

    To be honest I wouldn't have either, if I had thought about it first.

    Unfortunately I was new to FB when I stated with Mafia Wars and by the time I figured out what adding all of those people was doing to my privacy I was in too deep to want to start over.

  55. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I agree with spamking, I don't use my real contact info for Mafia Wars or Farkle either. My kids are on there, and they might as well just post a sign at their homes which says "Here I am, come and see me!"

  56. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    Your sig is eerily relevant to your post.

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    Alexander Peter Kristopeit bought his basement from his mommy for one dollar.
  57. Older users have more family... by n5yat · · Score: 1, Insightful

    "older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young" - true that for some, it may be eagerness to build up the friends list, but for many of us, just having family members makes for a lot of 'friends'. I have my wife, two children, my brother and sister and their kids, my Uncle and his kids and some of his grandkids, I have my other uncle and his kids... so, as you get older, the family tree keeps expanding, and the friends list grows... you have to worry when the list shrinks due to attrition!!!

  58. Get off my lawn by electrosoccertux · · Score: 1

    nothing to see here, move along.

  59. Who cares about Facebook? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously, it's just a breach of privacy anyway. Who cares about digg, twitter and all those things from the serious people?

  60. As a Slashdot reader by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... I ain't got no friends, you insensitive clod!

    Not even on Facebook...

  61. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

    I don't understand this - why would you want someone on your friends list if they're not a friend, nor even acquaintance?

    I perform poetry and music, and give workshops on various topics. Many of my Facebook "friends" are people who have seen me perform or attended a workshop. When I get a friend request from someone I don't know, I assume they fall into one of those categories.

    --
    Tom Swiss | the infamous tms | my blog
    You cannot wash away blood with blood
  62. Blame Al Gore by StickANeedleInMyEye · · Score: 0

    For inventing the Internet !!

  63. O rly? by denmarkw00t · · Score: 1

    The older users had more than 4x the friends each, on average, than the young.

    And in other news, older cars have more mileage than newer cars - update at 11!

  64. older people by JumpSocial · · Score: 1

    Younger people are looking out for their parents. Older people aren't. Also older people have more friends. They've had more time to accumulate. Further, old people are less biased about who they connect to. If you approached somebody at a dinner party, do you think an older person or a younger person would be more open?

    --
    Inventor, Artist http://www.Rubber-Power.com
  65. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by Tokerat · · Score: 1

    Except Facebook apps are harvesting all your personal info and anyone who is your friend, whether they have added the application or not. It's the reason my Application Block List is so long, and I'm not even sure that works to block everything.

    --
    CAn'T CompreHend SARcaSm?
  66. web of trust by Harald+Paulsen · · Score: 1

    When posting things to facebook I usually limit pictures etc to "friends of friends". I like to think my friends are just as selective on who they add as friends as I am. The whole web-of-trust-thing.

    By adding everyone you shred that web. Imagine someone stalking a friend of you. Instead of stalking him/her directly, they try to add friends from her friendlist to get close to him/her.

    Adding people you don't know is stupid.

    --
    Harald
  67. Older people know more people...duh by wendyg · · Score: 1

    The thing is, there are all sorts of reasons why someone might admit someone they don't know - even a frog - to their circle of "friends" and it's also fairly obvious why older people have more "friends".

    To take the second first: older people have been alive longer. They've met more people: at work, in clubs, etc. People from various layers of their pasts find them. There are people in my Facebook friends list who probably never will be sufficiently interested to speak to me again - but who are nonetheless curious what's become of me (or I of them) in the 30 years since we last met. The cliques 'n' crap from high school eventually give way to a sort of neutral curiosity.

    To the first point: admitting a frog to your friends list doesn't necessarily mean you're being trusting. It may mean you don't post stuff to Facebook that you wouldn't want to be public. It may mean that rather than vet people closely you're using Facebook more like LinkedIn - as a way to build a network of contacts. Or it may mean that the only reason you use FB is so that people won't bug you about why you're not using FB and you don't GAF because you never post anything anyway.

    wg

  68. Elementary statistics tools are your friends by Scott+Scott · · Score: 1

    Kind of small as in "holy crap, it's amazing how you can analyze the patterns of a few to determine the patterns of the many," you mean. Anyone with a rudimentary grasp of statistics should know that 200 is more than enough to suggest a high degree of confidence. You ought to take note when the number drops below thirty, because that's when your sample size really begins to affect the usability of the data.

  69. Ask Tyler. by Scott+Scott · · Score: 1

    You decide your own level of involvement, amirite?

  70. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by aBaldrich · · Score: 1

    That's why I don't use my real contact info for my Mafia Wars account . . . I'm not sure why anyone would.

    Your post made me question myself, now that Facebook claims 350M users, is it really 350M people?
    It would be very difficult to make accurate statistics if puppets are not taken into account.

    --
    In soviet russia the government regulates the companies.
  71. Re:Nah - I think you can blame Mafia Wars, Farmvil by hayriye · · Score: 1

    I know 500 friends who have 500 friends each.