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What To Load On a 4-Year-Old's Netbook?

nostrodecus writes "I have a nephew who is very young, but who has the techie gene — he found the Gruffalo on YouTube before anyone knew he could spell. Now he's almost 4, and I was thinking of giving him my netbook (Acer running XP), which I hardly use any more. So, of course, I will be deleting all the porn, but what should I load up on it? Are there tools/apps that I can load up on it to protect it and him from things he shouldn't see until college? Also, what apps or games could I load on it that a 4-year-old will get some use out of?"

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  1. Regardless by Dyinobal · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Regardless of what you install there's no guaranteed way to stop your kid from stumbling upon boobs on the internet. Plus who's to say it's something to worry about at all. They certainly didn't traumatize me.

    1. Re:Regardless by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Regardless of what you install there's no guaranteed way to stop your kid from stumbling upon boobs on the internet.

      Yes, boobs in both senses of the word. And most likely he will stumble on to the idiot-inane-nincompoop sense first. Then the other.

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    2. Re:Regardless by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 5, Funny

      I'm going to agree.

      My 5 year old has his own account on the Vista machine at home. He knows how to load up Chrome. He has accounts on Youtube and Netflix and can watch what he wants whenever he wants.

      It keeps him occupied for hours at a stretch. It really frees me up to go shopping and other things that would have been tough with him along.

    3. Re:Regardless by gman003 · · Score: 4, Informative

      Most filters are effective at stopping accidental viewings. If the user actually tries to access porn, it will fail sooner or later, emphasis on the sooner. But, given that the kid is four, it seems unlikely he's going to be typing "free porn xxx" into Google.

      If you just want casual filtering, I would recommend OpenDNS. Just set your DNS server to 208.67.222.123, and it will quietly block porn, malware and warez sites. I haven't found many false positives either. It won't catch everything, but if you want to delay teaching your kid about such things until he's mature enough to understand it, it works well enough.

      As for productivity software, try letting the kid loose on Blender. Open-source 3d modelling/rendering program. Might be a bit slow on netbooks, but if the kid's creative, he'll find something to do with it.

    4. Re:Regardless by skyride · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Blender? for a 4 year old? are you actually serious?

      The thread below this pretty much sums up my feelings here.

    5. Re:Regardless by Keebler71 · · Score: 4, Informative

      Install Windows Steady State on the machine after you set it up and before you give it to him. It is designed for places like computer labs, libraries, schools, etc... that don't want kids or malicious user wrecking too much havoc. Lots of features but the gist is you have full control over what users can do (by account), how long they can be online, what drives and resources they have access to, etc. There is even a rudimentary site blocker so you can allow playhouse disney, or whatever kids sites you know are safe without letting them have free reign over the net or having to manage this at the firewall. Highly recommend it.

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    6. Re:Regardless by sharkey · · Score: 3, Funny

      Setting the homepage to http://slashdot.org?

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    7. Re:Regardless by Opie812 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If it were just boobs, I'd have little problem with that. The thing that bothers me (have first kid on the way) is the fat-end-of-the-baseball-bat-up-the-poop-shoot type stuff that's easily available. Call me a prude, but I think that stuff should be saved for when, I dunno, the kid is 9.

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    8. Re:Regardless by skyride · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Well ye if they were 10 years old or so, sure. But at the moment, the kid will only just barely understand how to use a mouse and keyboard and navigate the machine at all. So why not just get him real silly putty instead?

    9. Re:Regardless by hairyfeet · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I may be the token Windows guy around here but as to what apps? I'd just load Edubuntu and call it a day. I believe in the right tool for the job and Edubuntu not only has plenty of learning apps for ALL ages, it also has built in "net nanny" style filtering he can turn on if he is worried about teh titties. Although frankly it is a waste of time, as we old guys didn't have the Internet and still found teh titties just fine, thank you VERY much.

      I never understood the "fear of teh boobies" we seem to have in this country. It reminds me of that old saying Joe Bob Briggs had "You can't show a titty unless it has a knife in it. This is America dammit!"

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    10. Re:Regardless by windcask · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Exactly, why the censorship?

      You're questioning why a 4-year old shouldn't be allowed to look at porn on the internet, as if it's some sort of free speech issue? What the hell is wrong with you?

    11. Re:Regardless by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 2, Funny

      A 4 year old should have no interest in boobs and flee from them should they be encountered.

      This isn't really true. My kid is 5 and he loves boobs. Since his mom died, our neighbor comes over once a day to breastfeed him (and has since she passed away when he was 2).

      He sees boobs on the internet sometimes but it doesn't faze him at all. He isn't looking for that. He'd rather watch Thomas the Tank Engine or Jungle Junction.

      But it's definitely not something he flees from. If anything, it probably just makes him hungry.

    12. Re:Regardless by PaKL · · Score: 3, Informative

      Hahahahah I have two boys who have to endure theirs dads liking of using a laptop loaded with Linux acting as the proxy, gateway, firewall.
      I use Dans Guardian as a content filter and they HATE it LOL
      I love the filter though and have been using it for many years. It has a wonderful where I can adjust the level of filtering based on the average age of those going through the filter. Naturally you can add certain IPs to not go though it.
      Thankfully they have found no way to bypass it YET :D

    13. Re:Regardless by Matrix14 · · Score: 2, Informative

      When I was 10, I was making elaborate 3D models in a modeler called Form-Z, and, while I like to think I'm pretty smart, I don't think that it was that hard. Kids from like 8 to 12 have an incredible ability to hyperconcentrate on cool things like that.

      When I was five, I was using a mouse to make drawings in KidPix. I don't think it is that unreasonable to expect a four year old to have a lot of fun with blender. And you are vastly underestimating them if you think they can't use a mouse.

    14. Re:Regardless by Huntr · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Right on. A lot of /.'ers act like seeing a naked boob or crank is the same as, oh, I don't know, seeing a dude screw a dog. It's ok if my young child (3.5 yrs) gets a glimpse of the former, but I'd rather she didn't have knowledge of the latter. Why this viewpoint is anathema here, I don't know.

    15. Re:Regardless by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Informative

      I would agree. I used Ubuntu with my son when he was one. Actually formatted his drive and made him reinstall it himself when he turned two. This was just before Edubuntu was released. gCompris was awesome for him. It is probably below the level of a bright 4 year old, but if the kid hasn't got at least a couple of years of computer use under his belt by 4, it might be just right for him. It has some nice programs for teaching kids how to use a mouse by letting them uncover pictures. It starts off with just moving the mouse over large tiles, and works it's way down to double clicking on small tiles to show the pictures.

      As for the "fear of the boobies", I tend to agree, and have never restricted my child from seeing nudity. I don't put porn in front of him, and at 6, he hasn't gone looking for it. Naked people just don't faze him though. He does understand that there are appropriate times to be naked, and inappropriate times. While he was figuring it out, there were many times that he would ask if something on tv was inappropriate or not, and where he could run around in his underwear, and where he could not.

      That being said, the idea that violence is OK to see, and sex is not OK, isn't entirely crazy. Violence is a natural human urge that we learn to control so that we can live in and have the benefit of society. This urge is displayed in children from pretty much as soon as they are mobile enough to bang things together. If not taught about violence, a child will be vicious by the age of 2. The urge for sex on the other hand is something that most humans don't start to feel until they become adults, generally between the ages of 8 and 15. 13 being the classic age that many cultures across the planet recognize as being average.

      One of the big problems is that our culture doesn't recognize the difference between nudity and sex. Nudity is something that is perfectly normal for prepubescent kids. Sex, not so much. Our screwed up culture has this backwards. You can't have a naked woman on TV, or even worse, a naked man, but you can have anthropomorphizing characters performing auto-fellatio in Shrek 2, and Man/Dozen woman orgies in Happy Feet, and people that would be horrified by a naked body are perfectly happy.

      Even more bizarre than no nudity unless it has a knife in it, is the idea that nudity is bad for children, but tranny jokes, and giving oneself oral in the town square and huge orgies are good clean kiddie fun.

    16. Re:Regardless by fake_name · · Score: 2, Funny

      It's too late. If you don't start them training with Blender before they can speak they'll never be able to master the interface.

    17. Re:Regardless by ysiedner · · Score: 2, Informative

      I completely agree. Just completed an EdUbuntu build for my grandchildren. Cranked up Nanny for their mother. The kids love it!

  2. Huh? by Brett+Buck · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Why in God's name would you give a computer to a 4-year-old? Give him a damn baseball or something, the last thing he needs in his formative years is to vegetate in front of a screen.

            Brett

    1. Re:Huh? by Nikker · · Score: 5, Insightful

      If anything give him a screw driver and let him take it apart tell him what all the parts do and possibly even get it back together.

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    2. Re:Huh? by Picardo85 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I agree with Brett ... young kids should run around hurting themselves so that they learn not to do certain things later in life when they don't heal as easily. Climbing trees, biking, playing soccer, building stuff with hammer and nail ... in general stuff where you can hurt yourself or even better ... encourage him somehow to just use his imagination ... Personally i would give a 4-year-old DUPLO - the young kids version of LEGO

    3. Re:Huh? by Lumbre · · Score: 2, Funny

      Yeah, why would you encourage him towards a life of living in his mom's basement, fighting brain-dead management, and with a computer as a girlfriend.

      Oh, is that just me?

    4. Re:Huh? by aliquis · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Yeah, striking things with a bat or running around after balls seem so much better.

    5. Re:Huh? by Daniel+Phillips · · Score: 2

      Give him a damn baseball or something, the last thing he needs in his formative years is to vegetate in front of a screen.

      My kid learned to read the spell lists in Oblivion at the age of three, how is yours doing with the baseball?

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    6. Re:Huh? by Daniel+Phillips · · Score: 5, Funny

      Because taking apart a screwdriver is such an enriching experience.

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    7. Re:Huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Informative

      My dad gave my two year old son a soccer ball last month, he threw it down the stairs and grabbed my mom's iPhone. Kids aren't born with blank slates, they have natural inclinations. You can fight those inclinations, and the children, but all you end up doing is screwing them up. If the kid has an inclination towards gadgetry, support him.

      Certainly as parents we will have to force our kids to recognize the need for physical fitness (just like brushing teeth, hands and household chores), and chase after them to make sure they get enough exercise, but that's just parenting.

    8. Re:Huh? by eleuthero · · Score: 3, Insightful

      development of fine motor skills comes later--four years olds are still working on gross motor skills (large movements with even the fingers). This alone is reason to encourage continued outdoor activity as without it, there might never be appropriate development for the kid and it could affect a variety of areas in his life.

    9. Re:Huh? by farnsworth · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Why in God's name would you give a computer to a 4-year-old? Give him a damn baseball or something, the last thing he needs in his formative years is to vegetate in front of a screen.

      It's perfectly appropriate for a 4 year old to have access to a computer. There are plenty of times when it is not feasible to play baseball... Short winter days, rainy summer days, under-the-weather days, etc. Having a computer != "vegetate in front of a screen". There are plenty of things a little kid can do on a computer that are enriching. Of course he needs guidance. But he needs guidance in nearly every aspect of his life, just like every other four year old. You don't just give a kid a baseball and shove them out the door and expect them to have fun. Just like you don't just plop a kid down in front of a computer and expect them to learn anything.

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    10. Re:Huh? by farnsworth · · Score: 3, Insightful

      development of fine motor skills comes later--four years olds are still working on gross motor skills (large movements with even the fingers). This alone is reason to encourage continued outdoor activity as without it, there might never be appropriate development for the kid and it could affect a variety of areas in his life.

      A computer does not prevent or conflict with outdoor activity unless it is used inappropriately. In late November in the US the sun sets at around 5:00pm, but no four year old is ready for bed at that time. Sure, there are books and movies and craft projects and family time, but these are not always available/desirable/possible. A four year old can handle PBS Kids just fine, and there are times when it is the best choice.

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    11. Re:Huh? by Nikker · · Score: 4, Funny

      Hey man you take what you can get.

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    12. Re:Huh? by jrumney · · Score: 3, Informative

      Personally i would give a 4-year-old DUPLO

      By 4, most kids are ready to move onto the real thing. Duplo is for 1, 2 and 3 year olds who like to put things in their mouths and might choke on Lego, and aren't yet fully in control of their limbs so need the bigger size and tolerences of Duplo to avoid frustration.

    13. Re:Huh? by jhigh · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I agree with this. Giving a four year old a laptop is dumb if you plan on using it as a babysitter. However, let the kid play games on age-appropriate sites and this would be a great replacement for television time.

      In response to the OP, and at the risk of starting a flame war, the first thing that I would do is wipe the thing and put some flavor of Linux on it. Expose them at a very young age to the fact that there is more to the world of technology than Microsoft and Apple. My kids are 8 and 10 and share a laptop with Kubuntu on it, and they love it. I like showing them all of the stuff that they can do it on and the fact that I can load it with software that does everything that they want to do without having to pay for any of it or violate (admittedly dumb) copyright laws.

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    14. Re:Huh? by gman003 · · Score: 2, Informative

      How the hell are you going to start a flamewar on /. by saying "put Linux on it"? Unless the BSD guys start something, you'll hear nothing but agreement.

    15. Re:Huh? by sorak · · Score: 2, Funny

      Give him a damn baseball or something, the last thing he needs in his formative years is to vegetate in front of a screen.

      My kid learned to read the spell lists in Oblivion at the age of three, how is yours doing with the baseball?

      He can spell "spalding". He can almost spell "ambulance", but he keeps doing it backward.

    16. Re:Huh? by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      In our house, the youngest recommended age has been considered the oldest that you can expect a child to be interested in a toy. The ages on toys are like the warnings on coffee cups declaring the contents hot. They are to prevent lawsuit when the slowest of our society injure themselves doing something that they should know better than doing. Although sometimes it is still fun to play with toys that don't challenge you intellectually.

  3. Zoodles by ds_online · · Score: 2, Informative

    my kids ( 5 and 3 ) love using zoodles, its a web browser for kids that gives them age appropriate content, I set my kids up with an older computer that was just laying around and stuck ubuntu on it. they use it for a couple hours a day and my son is the top reader in his kindergarten class.

  4. Start with a good hosts file by jwthompson2 · · Score: 2, Informative

    Whether you keep him using Windows or load up a flavor of Linux I'd put a good hosts file on there to block adware and other known sources of crapware. Beyond that, you could setup something like Dans Guardian or set the machine to use filtered DNS services, such as OpenDNS. If you are gonna keep Windows on there then there are tons of commercial filtering products out there, all the stuff I mentioned is free.

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  5. Four letter word for a four year old kid by multipartmixed · · Score: 2, Insightful

    LOGO

    If he really has the techie gene, he will seriously best his sister's crappy pen-and-paper Spirograph!

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  6. A way to turn it off and go outside to play. by Greg+Merchan · · Score: 2, Insightful

    A way to turn it off and go outside to play.

    1. Re:A way to turn it off and go outside to play. by Greg+Merchan · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes. Especially then. It builds character.

  7. Don't blacklist... by Haedrian · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If you're really going to give a young kid a netbook... with an internet connection then block ALL websites and connections, except ones which you trust them seeing. Or don't give them internet access at all. I wouldn't, not at that age.

    When I was 4 I used to love playing around with a computer, I didn't have educational games or anything, I just to just play lemmings, or mess around with a word processor or something. Try to let the kid get used to using a computer at a young age for normal tasks.

    If you really feel adventurous, give him a Pascal IDE or something.

  8. Flash by farnsworth · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Between PBS Kids, Club Penguin, et al, there is really no need to install or buy anything except for Flash. By the time he outgrows these games, it will be years down the road and he'll be able to figure out what to do next.

    Say what you will about Flash, but there is a lot of pretty good content for kids out there.

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  9. Edubuntu by guytoronto · · Score: 2, Informative
  10. Re:Mac OSX by Haedrian · · Score: 3, Insightful

    You could just as easily load up Linux instead for a copy costing $0.

    If your kid is visiting websites which could give him viruses, then you really need to keep an eye on him.

  11. World of Warcraft by AK+Marc · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My 4 year old loves to get on WoW and kill things. I set up some toolbars and show him what numbers to press or buttons to press and he's off and away. Though I had to make him his own character because he has a habit of drowning my characters, and I didn't like the repair bills. He's up to lvl 20 almost completely by himself.

    Load up what he sees you play with, whether word processors, or games, or the Internet. Give him some shortcuts to get to the things you think will interest him. And let him go. He'll tell you when he wants something different and if he's having trouble with something. Oh, and for age appropriate things, he also likes Fisher-Price's Cool School.

  12. How about the OLPC/Sugar system? by pearl298 · · Score: 4, Informative

    One Laptop per child has emulators for regular PCs and their software is ideally suited to a small child: http://wiki.laptop.org/go/Software_components They even have a "live boot" based on Fedora Linux

  13. Personally by frozentier · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Any child under 10 using any internet capable device should have eyes-on supervision while using it, all the time.

  14. Hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I'm going to agree.

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    It keeps him occupied for hours at a stretch. It really frees me up to go shopping and other things that would have been tough with him along.

    I sincerely hope you're fucking joking.

    1. Re:Hmm by ds_online · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Yes I take my 5 year old and my 3 year old shopping weekly, there is no screaming, there is no disciplinary action. if you can't handle raising children who listen to you, maybe you shouldn't have had them in the first place. Leaving a 5 year old at home is child abuse. and most state agencys would agree.

    2. Re:Hmm by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      if you can't handle raising children who listen to you, maybe you shouldn't have had them in the first place.

      Well, it's a little too late for that, don't you think?

    3. Re:Hmm by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That's insane. What police state do you live in?

    4. Re:Hmm by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 5, Funny

      I'd love for you to try it.

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    5. Re:Hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      He might be, but I'm not. Yea. We've had an incident or two where other parents, teachers, and consolers have been upset with me. These things should not be hidden until an "appropriate age". It isn't my fault that everybody else's parents shield there kids from the world. I won't shield mine. And there isn't a law that says I have to. If they don't want to have them around my kid. Fine. There is nothing wrong with my kid. He is well adjusted and generally understands what is and is not appropriate in different contexts. Now. Other peoples kids are in my opinion completely and utterly ignorant about the world. OK that isn't entirely true either. Most kids are more aware of the world than people think. Parents just won't admit it. Reality is you can't shield your kid from anything today. I'm not bringing up the "facts of life" nor hiding them. It is what it is. And parents should let kids learn and discover the world as it comes, ask questions, and not feel ashamed of it. Watch the movies you want, give your kid access to the internet, and let them live. It doesn't bite. The streets are more dangerous than information. I guess the way we live today though most parents won't even let kids do that though either (play outside).

    6. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Your right. It isn't child abuse for them to be outside by themselves, so everyone should remember that if they want to make a quick run down to the corner store, they should lock the kid outside. It will keep the parent out of trouble.

      Seriously, just a generation ago, it was simply no big deal for a 5 year old to spend a short amount of time alone. By 10 or 11, they could spend the night alone, and by 12 or 13, they were babysitting other kids for the weekend. I don't know what kind of mass genetic disease has spread through the populations, but for those kids whose genetic code is still in tact, leaving a 5 year old at home is NOT child abuse. No matter what most state agencies say.

    7. Re:Hmm by demonlapin · · Score: 2, Informative

      That's a fair claim against a four year old, but a mature eight or nine year old is perfectly capable of taking care of themselves for a couple of hours at a time, if not a day. By that age - third grade - I was walking home from school by myself (a little over a mile) on nice days. The next year, I started riding my bicycle to school with two other neighbors that were a year younger than me. A child that knows a few basic rules is fine: don't open the door to anyone, don't answer the phone, and don't cook except in the microwave. Call your parents if anything happens.

      By the time I was twelve, I was in charge of the house for the day during the summer while my mom was at work - I had to stay home and babysit my six-year-old sister. And make her lunch for her. It was no big deal.

    8. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      An 8 or 9 year old that cannot spend the night alone is simply retarded. I recognize that we have codified in law that all citizens must now be retarded, but the only irresponsible thing about leaving an non-retarded 8 or 9 year old alone is that men with guns will come and victimize them. The men with guns will just happen to also have badges.

      It is a police state when parents are not able to teach their children responsibility by giving them time to care for themselves in appropriate doses. What is the pinnacle of irresponsibility is never leaving your child alone until they hit the age of 18, and then sending them off to live unsupervised for the first time in a place that is infamous for alcohol abuse. Of course, in our screwed up society, having a child who has never spent a weekend alone until they are shipped off to college is considered "good parenting".

    9. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      While I am sorry for your child's disablement, it is probably wise given the current legal climate.

    10. Re:Hmm by NurturingFather · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But things have gotten so bad? Just what has gotten so bad? What is worse today than 50, 100, 150 years ago? You think leaving a child alone is something that has only recently happened in human history. You're fucking stupid if you really think that. Children get left alone all the time, always have. Children get abused all the time, always have. Children get traded all the time, always have. Same with old people and sick people. They get abused to, because nobody wants to take care of the bastards. It's always been that way. We live in the most humane society ever homey. Try to make shit better, but don't fucking think it's new. Fucking hippies.

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    11. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      True, we now live in a world where we silently do long term harm to all of our children so that we are not the ones made an example of if we turn out to be the unfortunate case of an extremely rare visible harm.

    12. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      If a child is bashing in a laptop at the age of four, the parent has failed the child. For those children that simply must know what happens, the parent has failed by not picking up an already broken laptop, taking their kid outside and bashing in a laptop with their child in an appropriate fashion.

    13. Re:Hmm by Belial6 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I don't know about the rest of the world, but in the US, it is so bad that by the age of three, I had to teach my son that he had to have a secret identity. Like Superman. That when the other kids come over to play, we put away the electronics projects, we don't tell them that the computer is yours, you don't suggest chess, or read books to them. Pull out the simple toys when they come over. The toy kitchen, the balls, the hot wheels. It's still fun, and it doesn't make their parents feel uncomfortable.

      People will flat out accuse you of abusing your child if your child is too smart, and you don't try to stifle them. Just look at many of the comments in this thread.

    14. Re:Hmm by deprecated · · Score: 2, Funny

      Pics or it didn't happen.

    15. Re:Hmm by obarthelemy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      yes there is. your post is the same assholery than people arguing that *they* can drive drunk because they know their limits so well, and handle alcohol so well. they don't, you don't, your kids are not exceptional, and your parenting skills are subpar if you think different.

      little kids cannot be counted upon to be reliable safe alone for any period of time.add to that the possibility of an exogenous emergency or upset...

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    16. Re:Hmm by Hognoxious · · Score: 4, Funny

      Few if any of those who didn't survive are posting on slashdot.

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    17. Re:Hmm by godefroi · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes, child abduction is a concern

      Not really, and especially not if there's no custody issues involving the kid.

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    18. Re:Hmm by jpcarter · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Not if you live in Nebraska.

    19. Re:Hmm by godefroi · · Score: 2, Informative

      Absolutely agree. I wouldn't let my 5-year-old wander alone, but I have no problem letting my 2 7-year-olds, my 6-year-old, and my 5-year-old (blended family) walk home from the bus, maybe 1/2 mile.

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    20. Re:Hmm by w0mprat · · Score: 2, Interesting

      From about age 5 I spent a lot of time outdoors, somtimes on my own even. I'd wander with groups of kids unsupervised out in nature. Building forts in trees and daming streams. No police showed up took the kids home and laid child abuse charges.

      I was better off for it. Locking our children up and wrapping them in cotton wool is exactly whats causing them harm, they are actually missing out on life lessons. No wonder so many kids are immature brats these days.

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  15. FreeDOS by damn_registrars · · Score: 4, Funny

    Format it, and then install FreeDOS and nothing else. Let him figure out the rest on his own. It should keep him out of trouble for quite a while. If you're feeling generous, install some sound card drivers for him (though not necessarily the best ones, or even the right ones).

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  16. how about a fishing pole by Dolphinzilla · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Get your 4 year old outside and away from computers for at least a little while longer, my kids cannot even contemplate getting on a bicycle and riding all over town like we did as kids, most of the time on a beautiful day in Florida they are inside surfing the web, playing computer games or texting on their cell phones. Just saying...

    1. Re:how about a fishing pole by JohnFluxx · · Score: 3, Insightful

      How about *you* get on a bicycle and cycle around in your spare time.

      Oh, because it's not that much fun to do it all the time? Double standards?

    2. Re:how about a fishing pole by Alarindris · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's more fun when you are a kid. Just like playing house or cowboys and indians. I can't believe I'm explaining this.

  17. Tux Paint, Scratch, and Google Earth by mwalter.nl · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I teach Technology in an elementary school and the only 3 programs I install on computers (besides my enforced MS Office Install) are Tux Paint [http://www.tuxpaint.org/download/] (don't forget the stamps!), Scratch [http://scratch.mit.edu/], and Google Earth. Just make sure you have tolerance for sound with Tux Paint and Scratch. Tux Paint will end up with a never ending cacaphony of flushing toilets and frogs, and Scratch couldleave someone wondering why you hear a looped cat meowing with drums in the background. Google Earth needs no explanation.

  18. Re:LOLWHAT?!?! You posted your add. and #?!? by BadAnalogyGuy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    People here are all talk. Keyboard warriors.

    In real life, they are pussies and won't do a goddamned thing about it.

  19. Re:LOLWHAT?!?! You posted your add. and #?!? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Informative

    Google "Vice President of the United States residence"

  20. Scratch by Barkmullz · · Score: 3, Informative

    While Scratch is geared towards 6 - 16 year olds, it may be worth a look.

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  21. My experience with kids and comps/games by MikShapi · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Disclosure: I have 3 kids: a 7, 4 and 1-year-old. The first is a confirmed geek, second one is pending. The 1yo will, 10 times out of 10, find an IT device in a pile of non-devices and chew it.

    Boobs don't mean squat to a 4YO (other than vague memories of food). More serious stuff does. Top things I am incredibly concerned with re early age kids and computer:

    1. Teaching them to control and ward off gaming addiction. Yes, there is such a thing as gaming addiction, and it is completely not trivial to (teach them to) keep it at bay while having a life.
    This is not a no-brainer when you're a gamer dad - they see me dump 300 game hours into a large-scale RPG, despite it being after their bedtime etc.
    I need to minimize their exposure to ultra-violent games (Fallout, Borderlands), while focusing on games that have SOME developmental value. Spore and Civ are awesome from the moment they can read (they figure it out way faster than you'd think). Before that... I'll let other people answer.
    I'm not against "non-realistic" 3D shooters and getting their competitive shooter skills up to scratch, even from 4yo, despite what my wife says, so long as it doesn't emphasize the violence too much (Unreal Tournament is marginally ok in my books, as is "Prince of Persia") (sidenote: they both do Karate and Parkour classes, so anything Parkour-related is generally liked).

    The real problem comes in the form of MMOs, which, in year/grade 2 in school, everyone plays. It's lame dumb-ass web-based MMOs (Penguins and Mushy Monsters) with a multitude of flash games, but all their friends hang there, and the BIG problem is that the games are built around them NEEDING to be there to maintain their avatars more often than not, which undermines (read: DESTROYS) my ability to teach them to have a life alongside a game. So I passionately despise them and do my best to entice the kids with real games or non-gaming activities.

    2. YOUTUBE. When they find the badger song, you're DONE. You can seek a good asylum at that point, and plan to come back when they're 35.
    (ask me how I know).

    3. Internet - I'm a believer in monitoring their usage rather than filtering it. Yes, there's a lot of nasty shit out there, and they're growing into a world where it's part of the backdrop they need to be able to contend with. From 4yo? You make that call with your own kids. I say might as well. If not at your place, they'll do it at their best mate's on a sleepover. It's not hard to find an unrestricted device nowadays. Any stuff I forbid will pull attention to itself, entice and pull them. If I don't, it'll just be "Yes, it's there, not a big deal, now where's the interesting stuff". .

    Another thing that I found incredibly helpful (this was for the 7yo tho) - he got his computer in parts. He also got a paper with an OS matrix (with WinXP, Win7 and Linux), against their RAM requirements and gaming capabilities. And the CD/DVD for each. And I let them choose. Next project is to cut his wifi access on his PC, give him and old box and, if he wants networking, build his own linux wifi router.
    As I share time on the first two kids with my ex-wife, they only live with me some of the time. I routinely pull bits (and break stuff) on my older son's computer, to train up his troubleshooting skills.

    My 2 cents.

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  22. Re:For God's sake, don't give a kid a computer by monkyyy · · Score: 2, Interesting

    (as a teenager form today and seeing how much worst even my little brother has it) the outside world for my age 40% drugs, sex, ect and 50% a cleaned up version of 4chan and 10% outcasts with all sorts of different issues and i sure it will get even worst. teaching a child about an outside world were some people dont suck, you can have a different opinion other then the 2 extremes on either end as soon as possible

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  23. A notebook for a 4 year old? by suprcvic · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Give him some toys and send him outside where he belongs! Kids these days have no imagination because they have technology shoved in their face from the time they can grab it.

  24. How about... by sigipickl · · Score: 2, Informative

    Maybe buy him a baseball glove or a frisbee- something to spur activity and interaction with others. If he's a tech genius, the last thing he needs is a computer- he's already mastered that.

    Call your local homeless shelter or charity. Maybe they could use your netbook to get someone on their feet again.

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  25. DoudouLinux by kafka.fr · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Try this: http://www.doudoulinux.org/web/english/

    Should be OK for a 4-years-old. Two things:

    • - unplug ethernet, disable wifi, bluetooth and whatever network the laptop may offer;
    • - be prepared to fight sooner than later to take him outside.

    Yes, that's actual real-life experience ;-)

  26. Ah, the wonders of rich societies. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I was left uncountable times alone with my siblings (me being the oldest) from the age of 10.

    Who were my evil parents?

    A couple that had to break their backs working in order to see us through school and provide for us by means of their lowly paid jobs, one of them made a Masters degree on evening and weekend school, with the only purpose of getting a better paid job because it happened we were studying music, we were applying ourselves to it, and it was a bit expensive (my sister is now a professional musician, music kept my brother out of trouble, I can play one or two tunes and know more about Opera, the music genre, not the browser, that most of you will ever care to know).

    We certainly had often an uncle caring for us, but it wasn't always possible, and neighbours around us had enough problems of their own so it was unlikely that they would agree to take care of us, as for paid childcare, go on , tell me that poor people can afford it so I can laugh in your face.

    And why would they risk it? Simple: they knew us well and made a careful assessment of the risks and rewards.

    Did anything happen to us? Yeah, one day we were watching a Japanese TV program, and it scared the shit out of us (Ultraman, old version, for some reason one of the monsters really sacred the heck out of us :-) ).

    It is a real shame that nowadays people in rich countries consider evil to allow parents to decide how they raise their children, and how people jump in the the "child abuse" bandwagon with such abandon, like in the case that generated this thread, in which there is not the slightest bit of evidence that the original poster is leaving children alone, bar for the panicky reading of one of the many "do gooders" that limit their dogooding to enraged typing after a biased interpretation of a post.

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  27. This is what I have loaded on my daughter's laptop by Slackenerny · · Score: 3, Insightful

    My daughter is four and a half and I have an old work laptop built up for her. She's got some good mousing skills and scored an OCD ranking in one World of Goo level while I was doing the washing up.

    Anyway....I've scoured around trying to find good content and have a good list. Steer clear of all the Disney and other commerical stuff, that stuff will rot their brains. It's also badly coded and mainly a vehicle to advertise to the kids.

    This is what I have installed on her laptop. They are all links to flash sites as almost all good kids stuff is on-line now. Anything that you have to install probably lists Windows ME as the system requirement on the box:

    1) Poisson Rouge (http://www.poissonrouge.com/) - This is a French/English flash site with has no instructions and just encourages the child to explore the pages and work out what to do. It's probably the best site on-line for the 3-5 age group.

    2) Boowah & Kwala (http://boowakwala.uptoten.com/) - This is another French/English site originally made by a husband and wife for their daughter and has grown from there. It's more instructional in its activities, but has an enormous amount of content delivered in a great way. The two main characters (see the names) are voiced by the parents and are very funny.

    3) Sesame Street (http://www.sesamestreet.org/) - This one is a no-brainer...they have a great variety of games for different ages.

    4) StarFall (http://www.starfall.com/) – A reading site that runs from letter recognition all the way to full reading. It’s got some very fun stuff in it.

    5) WordWorld (http://pbskids.org/wordworld/index_flash.html) – A very rich and interactive reading site with lots of fun characters made out of letters.

    Enjoy!