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Ask Slashdot: Living Without Internet At-Home Access?

An anonymous reader writes "I've decided that the internet is no longer a positive influence on my life, and am interested in canceling my service. In the interest of not forgoing all digital conveniences, I plan to set up a small intranet, hosting a few resources that I think I'd like to have access to on a regular basis (e.g. a text dump of Wikipedia). I'll also still have access to the internet at my office, and have easy access to public Wi-Fi at libraries and coffee shops. My questions are thus: Does anybody have any experience living without the internet? What major nuisances did you encounter? What resources should I put on my intranet? Is there anything I'm overlooking?"

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  1. No Carrier by Pete+LaGrange · · Score: 3, Funny

    I've got some really sage advice for you, but you won't be able to get it...

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    1. Re:No Carrier by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Exactly. The first step if you want to prepare for living without an internet: Learn to figure out this sort of stuff without asking about it online.

      Besides, it's not the internet that is your problem. The problem isn't your ability to read news, do banking, etc. online but that you waste your time by doing things you shouldn't do. Canceling your internet as a time management method is like realizing that you drove drunk last night and deciding that your problem is the car ownership. If you can't channel your time to something more productive even after realizing the problem, you have a lot bigger issues than the time wasting itself.

    2. Re:No Carrier by Hatta · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Canceling your internet as a time management method is like realizing that you drove drunk last night and deciding that your problem is the car ownership.

      Is that not a valid way of dealing with the problem? If you know you can't control your drinking, this seems like an effective way of mitigating the damage it causes.

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    3. Re:No Carrier by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I gave up television for a few years (completely, that is no netflix or anything else), and honestly it's like pushing air around a balloon. The truth is that you only have a finite amount of productive time, and when that time is spent your not going to be able to mentally handle anything too deep. Whether it's reading book, internet, tv, going to bar or whatever - it's not going to feel like you've accomplished anything meaningful.. If you want to reclaim your better productive self cut your hours at work instead.

    4. Re:No Carrier by ilikejam · · Score: 4, Funny

      And not owning a car leaves you with more cash for tasty, tasty booze. Everybody's happy!

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    5. Re:No Carrier by Brama · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Except that you're more than a little likely to run into something else that you will waste time on, thereby once again avoiding the issue that is _really_ at stake here. This is fighting the symptoms of a problem, not actually tackling the problem that's apparently bothering this person.

    6. Re:No Carrier by Vellmont · · Score: 4, Insightful


      Is that not a valid way of dealing with the problem? If you know you can't control your drinking, this seems like an effective way of mitigating the damage it causes.

      I think it's a good start. Perhaps learning how to have better influences in your life involves cutting off the bad ones and learning new habits. It's certainly possible that you'll find other bad habits that waste time (TV, drinking, etc.). But why not try it?

      I think the best advice I could give someone is to build an offline library. An offline copy of wikipedia isn't a bad idea. But I'd also concentrate on actual paper books. Take the money you'd spend on an ISP and put it towards books, or magazine subscriptions. I'd also look towards what positive things you can do to replace "the internet". Removing one thing you think is bad isn't going to promote positive change in and of itself.

      The people here chiming in about "oh noes, how will you live!" are deluding themselves. It won't be easy, but personally I think it'll be enlightening. Cutting off what you think might be a bad influence on your life can only tell you something about yourself. Maybe it'll tell you that the internet wasn't such a bad influence after all. Maybe it'll change you for the good. Maybe it'll tell you that "the internet" isn't your problem. Maybe you're absolutely right, and the internet was the bad influence in the first place. All of those are good things to learn, but you can't learn them until you do it. Good luck.

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    7. Re:No Carrier by Antisyzygy · · Score: 3, Informative

      If you know you can't control your drinking you don't burn down all the liquor stores within 5 miles of your house, forcing yourself to go 6 miles away to get booze when you need it. You go get treatment for the problem itself. I used to have a bad drinking problem, mostly due to a combination of genetics and depression. I went the in-patient and out-patient treatment route with AA. It never sat well with me because I am an atheist and the whole higher power thing seems ridiculous to me since there are medical reasons for addiction. Then, I discovered a little pill called Naltrexone and I drink moderately about 90 percent of the time. Since it blocks the dopamine receptors in my brain I do not get positive feedback from drinking (or eating). Lesson? You can do things to control your problem through medical and psychiatric treatment. In his case, maybe he needs to get a porn blocker or some software that only allows internet to be on a few times a day.

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    8. Re:No Carrier by jawtheshark · · Score: 3, Informative

      Same here. Atheist, bad drinking problem, didn't find AA helpful. I didn't go the meds way. I found myself a good psychiatrist who 'simply' found a good way to convince me that drinking was going to destroy me long term. I quit cold turkey 1st March 2010, and didn't drink a drip ever since.
      The only valid step with an addiction is realizing you have a problem, and then seeking help.

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    9. Re:No Carrier by Antisyzygy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Agreed. I stopped for about a year and a half and recovered my health. However, as time went on my social and work circle as well as my family were too difficult to be around since they all are either wine snobs, after work happy hour drinkers, or simply unwilling to not drink around me. I didn't feel the desire to drink as strongly as before, but I felt left out of pretty much everything they were doing. It seems like a stupid reason, but it was extraordinarily difficult to want to hang out with any one of the aforementioned people without the possibility of going downward spiral again. I looked into other options and found something called the "Sinclair Method" which uses an opioid antagonist (opioid receptor blocker) to do something called "pharmacological extinction" which beats addiction by removing the positive feedback you get in your limbic system (which is responsible for a lot of addictions). It has a much higher success rate as a treatment VS. AA so I tried it. AA only has about a 15 percent retention rate, and maybe slightly higher of a success rate. Studies actually show that most people do what you did, and that is grow out of it, or they eventually die from it. The Sinclair method worked for me, but I would not recommend trying it if you are already comfortable as a teetotaler. Its not worth the risks and possible problems with your family unless you have extreme family and/or spousal support as well as a doctor willing to take you through the process.

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    10. Re:No Carrier by ilikejam · · Score: 4, Funny

      Sober up?

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    11. Re:No Carrier by jawtheshark · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I was lucky in a sense... My own family has been extremely supportive by not drinking ever around me. They don't need to, by now I'm very comfortable around people who drink. My in-laws never stopped drinking around me but the general consensus was that they "admired me for sticking to it". I still am convinced that in reality they didn't admire me for it and it was just a way to encourage me, but it's a way to show support.

      As for everywhere else, well... That was easy. I got nabbed drunk driving (2.2 promille) and speeding (184km/h on their clock). I got my license revoked for a few months and had to explain myself in court. As this was the first offense (ahem, yeah, first time caught in 15 years would be a more apt way to put it), I got my license revoked for 22 months, but on probation. So, I'm free to drive, but should I get caught again (speeding or drinking) within the next five years, I get the 22 months plus whatever the new offense brings me. So, people get that story as for why I don't drink: "I'm on probation, I can't drink". That generally gets accepted.

      That said, I got caught in an alcohol control yesterday, and while I didn't drink anything, I still was extremely stressed.

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    12. Re:No Carrier by plover · · Score: 5, Funny

      I don't think that time-wasting is the issue at stake. I think he's actually unemployed and out of money and needs to save his $$$, and canceling his connection seems like the result of a logical conclusion that it's a luxury he could do without.

      Hey, if it was me and my choice was Internet access vs. feeding my kids, guess which one is going to win, every time? I'd sure miss them, but we could probably Skype and email each other.

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    13. Re:No Carrier by FrootLoops · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You seem to know an awful lot about this person. Maybe wasting time isn't the issue--all we get is "I've decided that the internet is no longer a positive influence on my life". I would say their writing style suggests they posses discipline rather than lack it. They included four clear and mostly specific questions. They wrote carefully and included non-standard but descriptive words (eg. forgoing; thus; nuisances). Time wasting is somewhat low on my list of probable reasons this person wants to get rid of their home internet.

      Some other explanations that come to mind (not necessarily in any order): they're sick of wading through garbage online; they want to save money (low probability); they got burned by participating in some online community (high probability; fits the sentence I quoted and perhaps the discipline I noted); they have some internet-related non-time-wasting addiction (eg. porn; gambling).

      In any case, people are usually more complex than the first thing that pops into your mind. I often don't like coders because they're such a poor judge of people. They're used to telling computers exactly what to do and being exactly right about cause and effect in that arena. Then they transfer those reactions to real life and act like idiots because of it. Mathematicians do the same thing, though maybe a bit less often (per capita).

  2. Relinquishing Internet? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    Stage one, preparation. For this you will need one room which you will not leave. Soothing music. Tomato soup, ten tins of. Mushroom soup, eight tins of, for consumption cold. Ice cream, vanilla, one large tub of. Magnesia, milk of, one bottle. Paracetamol, mouthwash, vitamins. Mineral water, Lucozade, pornography. One mattress. One bucket for urine, one for feces and one for vomitus. One television and one bottle of Valium.

  3. Try it out for yourself. by MiddleHitter · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I think the best thing to do is simply try it for a while. This is as easy as unplugging the physical connection to your ISP. Deal with issues as the come up.

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  4. Wrong Place? by froggymana · · Score: 5, Insightful

    [quote] Does anybody have any experience living without the internet? [/quote]

    Is the *internet* really the best place to ask this question?

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    1. Re:Wrong Place? by yiffyfox · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Anyone alive prior to 22:30 hours (Pacific time zone) on October 29, 1969

  5. I'm currently doing the same thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    It's been over 6 years since I had any sort of access to the internet in any capacity. I don't find that I have any problems with it. You just spend more money on actually buying porn. Otherwise it's no different.

  6. There you go... by malraid · · Score: 5, Funny

    Does anybody have any experience living without the internet? Yes
    What major nuisances did you encounter? Lack of internet
    What resources should I put on my intranet? A router hooked up to your ISP
    Is there anything I'm overlooking? The usefulness of the internet

    In all seriousness, good luck.

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  7. Timing, timing, timing by UberOogie · · Score: 5, Funny

    Is Saturday really the right time to be asking on the Web for helpful advise from people who have already foregone the Internet except at work?

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  8. Posting on Slashdot? by goodmanj · · Score: 5, Insightful

    You want to go off the Internet, so your first instinct for advice is to POST TO SLASHDOT?

    A) You've come to the wrong place.
    B) You'll never make it anyway.

  9. Re:Not a positive influence because ... by Kell+Bengal · · Score: 4, Funny

    Speak for yourself! Mine turns on unbidden at night and beams images into my brain. That's the only explanation for the queer thoughts that have been running through my brain of late - shameful things like voting for social progressives.

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  10. Re:I believe you've mispelt by D'Sphitz · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I prefer tyranny porn.

  11. Also this is not the audience you want. by ChinggisK · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Does anybody have any experience living without the internet?

    Yes, but those people can't see your post to Slashdot.

    1. Re:Also this is not the audience you want. by Barlo_Mung_42 · · Score: 3, Informative

      To be fair, many of us remember life without the internet. Heck, I even remember when you had to get up and walk across the room to change channels.

  12. Reference Materials by Tenebrousedge · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The biggest challege I faced living without a home internet connection was a lack of reference materials. A text dump of wikipedia is a good start, but also grab anything you have a professional interest in, e.g. all the O'Reilly books. Also a good home repair guide, your car manual, outdoor survival guide, medical texts, home chemistry book, cookbooks, karma sutra, and if you can get a dump of instructables or about.com or wikihow, you're probably pretty good. A general selection of science, art, literature, and philosophy texts should also not go amiss. For fiction, take a dump of Project Gutenberg and/or some large ebook torrents. Calibre is software designed to manage ebooks, specifically in relation to ebook readers, which it excels at, but it is also an excellent way to catelogue a large quantity of ebooks.

    If you're into games, the biggest N64 rom was 64 MB (Conker's Bad Fur Day, Resident Evil), so every game and game system manufactured before the introduction of the Playstation should only be in the tens of gigabytes.

    It almost goes without saying that you should store information about your online contacts.

    It's difficult to predict what information you'll need. Good sources of information are rare, it's wise to have a technical library with a high degree of redundancy, i.e. multiple books on the same subject, especially if it is a subject of high interest or importance (e.g. emergency medicine). Data redundancy isn't a bad idea either.

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  13. Travel by copponex · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Maybe you are happy with your life, and the internet is the only problem, so ignore this advice if that is the case.

    However, if you decide you are stuck in a rut, I think you need to get out of your routine and cutting out the internet isn't going to help. If you are able, sell everything you own, pick a spot on the map you've always wanted to go, and get on a plane and see how long you can make it there. It's only until you let go of your comfort zone that you'll be able to change yourself.

    That was my path, of course. Maybe yours is getting a teaching degree and moving to New Orleans, or moving to a shithole apartment in the Bronx and writing a novel, or getting a job on a farm collective somewhere in Utah and rediscovering your body's ability to work, or tending bar in a pub down the street instead of your current job.

    In any case, if you are stuck in a series of safe routines that aren't providing you happiness, get out there. You only get one shot. Take it.

  14. Addiction control by xonen · · Score: 5, Interesting

    It's quite obvious your addiction is the major problem. In your post you even already mention your escapes : 'can internet at work' (and on smartphone and at friends and offline at home). Others here tell you, and other others even also say internet can no longer be socially avoided. It's like telephone has been for 100 years, TV for 50 etc.

    Now, my advise from here would be addiction control. Yes, the AA will tell alcoholics to entirely quit. Such hardly ever works. Any cigarette smoker will tell you the same. Smoke 1 cigarette after 5 years of quitting, and you'r hooked up again. Also, again, as others point out: internet is an essential part of modern society, and as such even its addiction needs special treatment.

    My [patent pending] proposal for most addicts is: Addiction control. Quit the idea of quitting altogether, as a regular thc, ethanol and nicotine user i can guarantuee you such idea is prone to fail. It comes down to some self-discipline and yes, technology makes it easy. It can help you, morally.

    Chances are you have a modern router. Find 'parental settings' or something, and set a time clock. Of course, you can overrule it (and from an addictive point of view i even say: feel free so, to do so, at any time you wish). But the netto effect is: If you do nothing (have this self discipline) your internet will be on between 19:00 and 20:00, enough to check your email after cooking, and shuts down after. In the morning dito, have a 30 minute timeframe to fetch that mail or facebook.

    On older routers, just plug in such simple 24h wall-clock.

    Also, leave pc on, purposely, to rediscover the stuff we could do with computers for 30+ years (about since home computer was invented, around 80's) without ever using internet. Yes, the good old cassette tapes etc, maybe you have nostalgia to that times? [personally, nostalgia, yes. longing back to it, no. how convenient 'just clicking download' is these days]. Going off-topic here, cause my key point was: it's about addiction control:

    Make appointments with yourself. Try to keep to them. Do NOT feel guilty when you don't keep to them, just review the appointments you made with yourself.

    gl from a junkie.

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    1. Re:Addiction control by IrquiM · · Score: 3, Funny

      I do the same, but my boss complains about me not doing anything at work on Wednesdays!

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  15. Been there, done that, so true. by dazedNconfuzed · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Those of us born before 1985 or so can remember we LIVED WITHOUT INTERNET. We got by just fine. We went to libraries and subscribed to periodicals and bought books for information. We wrote letters on paper, used stamps, and waited days for mail turnaround. We read National Geographic for education and other activities. We survived, we liked it, we didn't notice much missing.
    No 'net?
    Been there.
    Done that.
    Was nice.
    Don't wanna go back.
    Pity the person who does.

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    1. Re:Been there, done that, so true. by evilviper · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Those of us born before 1985 or so can remember we LIVED WITHOUT INTERNET. We got by just fine. [...] We survived, we liked it, we didn't notice much missing.

      To be fair, the world has changed as the internet has grown.

      The internet has greatly helped to shut down stores all over the place, has severely reduced the choices provided in the big-box-stores that remain, etc.

      Before the internet, I'd drive to Blockbuster and rent a game or a movie a couple times each week.. Blockbuster is doing poorly, it's small competitors are nearly gone, and now even it's big competitors like Redbox don't have new movies for months.

      Both Broadcast TV and Cable TV was much higher quality. Though we had fewer channels, there was far more worth watching. No, this isn't just nostalga.

      Radio has become a wasteland precisely because things like Shoutcast and Pandora are so very superior.

      You'll have a hard time finding a record store these days. Maybe Walmart or Target has a CD you want, maybe it doesn't. It probably doesn't...

      When your computers need replacement parts, well, I hope your boss doesn't mind you wasting a lot of time shopping, because you're not going to find that stuff in stores these days.

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  16. George Washington had no internet access... by andersen · · Score: 5, Funny

    George Washington had no internet access -- and now he is dead.

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  17. It depends upon the phrasing. by khasim · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Is that not a valid way of dealing with the problem? If you know you can't control your drinking, this seems like an effective way of mitigating the damage it causes.

    How about changing the phrasing to such:

    I drink alcohol to excess
    and when I am intoxicated I make dangerous decisions
    such as
    a. blah blah
    b. blah blah
    c. blah blah
    d. driving drunk

    Getting rid of the car will make choice "d" more difficult to implement (but not impossible, you could borrow someone else's car before going out).

    And you lose the benefits of owning your own transportation.

    Without addressing any of the other secondary issues (a, b and c).

    And without addressing the primary issue (drinking too much alcohol for your metabolism).

  18. Just institute a mandatory delay to connect by RobinH · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I was reading somewhere that someone with a similar problem implemented a 5 minute delay before he could connect to the internet. The delay filtered out the times he went online just for procrastination, or just "because it was there". I find a lot of times I open a browser because I'm waiting for some long-running process (like 25 seconds) and my mind wanders. Even if I had a 60 second delay, I'd probably do that a lot less.

    Similarly, Paul Graham said he uses two computers - one for coding and one that sits across the room connected to the internet. He has to physically get up and move to go online, so it has to be worth doing it. That's enough to block out the procrastination type stuff. More Reading.

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  19. Re:Ask your parents by __aajfby9338 · · Score: 4, Funny

    Hey buddy, why not just ask anybody that's older than say 30, "What did you do before you had internet?" Since internet access from the home isn't that old, i'm sure you can find some things to do and resources to use.

    I'm older than 30, and I remember the pre-internet era all too well. Constant crying, and frequent pants-soiling. I couldn't even feed myself.

    Then I got my first taste of the Internet when I started college back in '86, and life got so much better!

  20. Positive influences.. by mevets · · Score: 5, Funny

    I've decided that alcohol is no longer a positive influence on my life, and am no longer going to drink continuously. To prepare for this, I am planning to stock a small cellar with wine, beer and some specialty liquor.
    I'll still be drinking at work, and can frequent bars and taverns.
    My question is thus: does anybody have any experience living without a steady stream of alcohol? What major nuisances did you encounter? What and how much should I put in my cellar? Is there anything I'm overlooking?

  21. Re:Obvious by nixkuroi · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I predict you will spend a lot more time at work, libraries and coffee shops.

  22. Re:Obvious by sco08y · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Which shouldn't be a reason to get rid of the internet. It should be a reason to go get laid so you stop obsessing about it. A) Get a hooker. OR B) screw your wife/girlfriend. If shes not willing, see A). OR C) Go out and find a girlfriend. If you can't get one see A).

    Best: D) get a girlfriend / wife / hooker who actually likes sex and likes watching porn.

  23. Yes by Legion303 · · Score: 3, Funny

    "Is there anything I'm overlooking?"

    You're overlooking the irony of asking Slashdot.