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Ask Slashdot: Undoing an Internet Smear Campaign?

An anonymous reader writes "My fiancee is a professional writer. She has a great industry reputation and everyone that knows her loves her. But her ex-husband has maintained a number of websites in her name (literally, the URL is her name) that are filled with insane ravings and defamatory content. Have you ever had to deal with an internet smear campaign? The results float to the top of every Google or Bing search of her name. He currently lives abroad and cannot be served with legal papers. His websites are hosted overseas as well, and do not respond to conventional letters or petitions. Because of his freedom of speech rights, few U.S. courts will assert that his websites are truly libelous, either, and it's still difficult to prove any real 'damages' are done by it. Still, we'd like to see them go away. I'm turning to the best community of geeks in the world: how do I deal with this given the limited options at my disposal?"

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  1. three letters... by jfalcon · · Score: 2, Insightful

    SEO

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    1. Re:three letters... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      mmmm... I wouldn't bother. Seems like you'd be feeding the troll. Why spend time and effort on that?

      Honestly, the only thing I could say is just endure and tell people the truth of the situation if they ask. If this guy maintains this for any huge length of time, he just looks sad.

    2. Re:three letters... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Indeed. Google and Bing consider the "insane ravings" as more relevant than the articles your fiancee writes, which doesn't say much about the popularity of your fiancee's work. Given this, it's fairly unlikely that she is losing any significant readership as a result of the ex's campaign.

    3. Re:three letters... by Tanktalus · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Of course, if it's a potential client who is simply nervous about her, she could lose gigs. I mean, as long as she has no problems finding work, that's not an issue, but it could mean less competition for her services (less demand may mean less pay), or simply an extra week, month, whatever, that she might have been able to fill with work that she may not be able to this way.

      Socially? Sure, no problem. I mean, if you googled my real name, one of the top hits would be a black dude trying to find a date from prison. My coworkers and I have laughted about that. But if that has in any way impeded my ability to job search, that would be, at the very least, unfortunate. (But, in my case, I can't even fathom any suggestion that there is malice here, nevermind something illegal to hang a legal battle on. Poor guy just wants a date. Much unlike the OP's problem.) In a social situation, there's no point in feeding the troll, but in a job search situation, there may be a bigger reason for wanting to bury the ex's ramblings behind a page or three of search rankings.

    4. Re:three letters... by Belial6 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And if you know that your fiancee's ex is a raving lunatic because she was perfectly nice every date you went on with her while she was still married to the guy, just accept your fate.

    5. Re:three letters... by Trunksword · · Score: 2

      I think worst part is that I knew exactly what you meant by MDK before i read the last part.

    6. Re:three letters... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      In addition, I would take that fact as a red flag and reconsider whether I really want to be married to this person. Maybe what he says has merit? Maybe she is a fucking sociopath? Do you know the ex-husband? Maybe spend the time learning about him and be objective.

      Apparently the ex reads slashdot.

    7. Re:three letters... by JWSmythe · · Score: 5, Funny

      There's actually *more* fun to be had there. You don't have just the luxury of making your online presence, but as many alter egos with the same name as you'd like. You can bury yourself in so much varied information that no one will know what to believe.

      I found out the hard way, that there's always some asshole (or sometimes many) who want to find you. Let me tell you about one in particular.

      I worked for a place for a long time. I got laid off because someone would do it cheaper (and worse). A few years later, some third party I knew absolutely nothing about decided to sue the company. Because I had access to so much information while I was there, they decided I would testify for them.

      Part of this luxury paid witness gig I would have to spend at least a couple days about 400 miles from. At this particular time, I wasn't working, and my savings were dropping down below nil. Good gig, some may think. They gave me something like $20 in checks, and a subpoena for all kinds of paperwork that I either never had, or no longer had. I countered with an offer for my advertised hourly rate, and per diem expenses, which they responded with laughter and a bench warrant. Well, they said they had the bench warrant. It turns out it was a lie. Hmm.. Lawyers lying, say it's not so.

      As the senior IT guy, I *had* access to every electronic document, and knew every password, and knew where all the secrets were kept. Oddly enough, the day I was cut loose was the day all the passwords were changed. All of my access to everything was lost. I made it a habit not to even archive my email at home. When they cut me loose, I dumped my email. I didn't want it any more. I sure as hell didn't keep it laying around for years. I needed the drive space for porn. :) Just kidding. With my newly found luxury time, I rotated through machines trying out different OSs, just because I could. I always kept one up to send out resumes every day.

      So with no fundage, nothing to contribute to the court, and no way to get there, I wrote the judge a very nice letter, copied to the counsel on both sides, saying basically I didn't have anything they wanted (line item by line item), and that I didn't have funds to participate in their games.

      I then started on a lucrative career in house sitting and transporting cars. Well, lucrative as in I had somewhere to sleep and food to eat, but no expendable cash. I did get around a bit, because I knew what was coming next.

      The assholes that were suing, and I refer to them kindly as that, decided to go on a quest. They were going to find me, with law enforcement in tow, and "compel" me to testify. Basically, they had something in legaleeze that said handcuffs were acceptable to make someone testify in a BS civil lawsuit. Their private investigators with an off duty law enforcement officer, kept showing up to places I either used to be at, or claimed I was at online. Between MySpace, Facebook, FourSquare, and Twitter, I made a very clear trail to follow, and follow they did. Some of it was echoed back to me indirectly that they were going out to whenever I said I was, even though the echoing party didn't know that's what I was claiming. :)

      I wasn't sure how much pull they had, so when I could borrow some cash, I'd pick up pre-paid credit cards (Like the Green Dot cards), and have them sent back to one of the known addresses in my name. They would then mail them off to other friends in other states for them to use. Those friends would send cash back to the person who paid for it, so nothing was really lost. It's strange, I can buy a tank of gas in California, have dinner in Seattle, and then buy cigarettes in Alaska, while my online presence said I was in New York, but chattering about recent earthquakes in Los Angeles.

      At one point, I went my family financed cell phone on a cross country trip. I'd leave it turned on, so it would go as long as possible on

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    8. Re:three letters... by brokenin2 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Even better.. Hire a reputable SEO company for yourself, and hire a dirtbag SEO company that does their best to cheat the system (link sites linking to more link sites etc) to promote the Ex's BS sites.... If you do it right, you should be able to promote your own a bit, and get google to ban the other sites for search engine manipulation.. Google has some very strict rules, and you just have to make sure you break them when promoting the undesirable site.. Wasn't it Sony that Google banned temporarily for improper search engine optimizations? I don't think Google's bans are normally temporary.. if they are though, I'm pretty sure they're not short term.. Sony had to kiss some butt to get into Google after only a few days..

    9. Re:three letters... by black6host · · Score: 2

      There's actually *more* fun to be had there. You don't have just the luxury of making your online presence, but as many alter egos with the same name as you'd like. You can bury yourself in so much varied information that no one will know what to believe.

      Actually you may be on to something here. Ok, the person is using the real name for the domain and is smearing someone. Create a lot of similar domains, create a lot of conflicting information, use SEO tactics to bring them up front. Make sure the real name of the person being harassed is used everywhere. Link to those sites from multiple places. Use her real name on forums, etc. Make sure that all the info you post contradicts itself. In other words, create so much "noise" that nobody is likely to know what to believe and the domain using her real name is just one of many that has conflicting information.

  2. Fight speech with more speech? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Put up your own website... fill it with good content... get links?

    1. Re:Fight speech with more speech? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Also, post links to Slashdot. What'll happen is the /. effect will take the site down.

    2. Re:Fight speech with more speech? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      " I'm turning to the best community of geeks in the world" - You're on the wrong website. Try 4Chan...heheheh

  3. As The Maxim Goes by l0ungeb0y · · Score: 4, Funny

    What Happens On The Internet, Stays On The Internet.

    1. Re:As The Maxim Goes by Jetra · · Score: 2

      However, people often lose interest and it falls out attention in like, what? 3 days?

  4. Possibility by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    "Because of his freedom of speech rights, few U.S. courts will assert that his websites are truly libelous, either, and it's still difficult to prove any real 'damages' are done by it. Still, we'd like to see them go away."

    Simple. Form a Corporation using the name. Instant win.

    1. Re:Possibility by exomondo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      "few U.S. courts will assert that his websites are truly libelous, either, and it's still difficult to prove any real 'damages' are done by it"

      This makes me wonder what exactly the content is, if it's not truly libelous and there is no real damage being done is there really a problem? Seems more like a 'he's written something i don't like' situation, can't really tell without know what the content is though.

    2. Re:Possibility by Austerity+Empowers · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I agree, this sounds like "I don't like what he's saying about me, and I can't do anything about it legally". The answer is man-up (or woman-up) and ignore it, or as others have said, or create a website to refute his claims, etc.

      One step away from a personal army request...

    3. Re:Possibility by meta-monkey · · Score: 2

      Well, but things can be nasty, and "insane ravings" without being libelous. Laws vary state to state, and federally, but generally opinions are not libelous. I can write "I think exomondo is a jerk!" all I want and you'll never win a libel suit against me in the US. But if I write "exomondo is a jerk because he stole $10,000 from me," and you didn't actually steal any money, now we're talking libel.

      So the ex-husband can go on a TimeCube-esque rant about how the ex-wife is crazy and she's stupid and she's mean and just a terrible, terrible person all the way around, and he's not doing anything libelous, unless he starts stating false facts, like that she beat the kids black and blue when she did no such thing.

      I think, however, OP might have a shot at at least getting the URL back, as I know companies have been able to get ICANN to evict cybersquatters using their trademarked names. So if her name is Sally Smith, she might be able to get "sallysmith.com" back from someone who is not also named Sally Smith (and I'm assuming the ex-husband has a different name). But if it's variations on that, like "sallysmithisawhore.com" she probably can't get that. Unless she goes into the whoring business and can argue a trademark dispute.

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    4. Re:Possibility by rtb61 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Reality here. Take a deep breath, realise that there are tens of billions of pages and by far the majority get seen by very few people. The next step is really hard "ABANDON YOUR DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR" forget the pseudo celebrity bullshit, by far and I mean well and truly by far the majority of people on the planet do not give a shit one way or the other. Seriously so what?

      As for getting to the top of searchers simply report those pages as gaming the system to google and bing for advertising revenue. Generally those the freak out the most about what is on the web about them, lawyering up and such, well, it often because it is true and they make more profit from the lies.

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    5. Re:Possibility by GryMor · · Score: 4, Informative

      I may of course be missreading things, but what I gathered is that the ex is writing insane ravings on the site (using your name placeholder) sallysmith.com, not about Sally Smith, but implicitly AS Sally Smith, with the intent of making it look like Sally Smith is a raving nutjob to those who do a search for her name. Presumably, it's a rather more unique name than Sally Smith, so there is less probability of it being ignored as a naming collision. However, as the OP's fiancee is apparently a writer, it could be written in a way to make it really look like the author of the books and the author of the crazy screed are the same person without actually claiming they are.

      If the site DOES claim to be the author, the fiancee may have grounds for slander of title, or, in some jurisdictions (and heavily dependent on the content of the crazed ramblings), there may be infringement on moral rights related to the original works.

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  5. Four Letters: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2

    DDOS

  6. ICANN by ilikenwf · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Copyright the name, contact ICANN and have the domains yanked.

    1. Re:ICANN by g0bshiTe · · Score: 4, Informative

      It would be trademark, not copyright.

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    2. Re:ICANN by nbauman · · Score: 2

      That's right. I can't find it in a quick Google search, but we went through that several years ago. Cybersquatters claimed a whole bunch of celebrity names, and tried to sell/blackmail the celebrities into buying them back at exorbitant prices. (I forget the examples, can anybody help me?)

      Your name is your personal property, and you have a right to it, especially if you're using it as a business. You can make your right even more official by registering a business in your name.

      Then ICANN will yank their names. There's a dispute procedure. Can somebody come up with the URL?

  7. Trademark violation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    ... is the legal term you're looking for.

    A trademark doesn't have to be registered. If she's been writing under her own name for years, then her name is a valuable piece of intellectual property and it's entitled to exactly the same protections as the name of 'Mickey Mouse'.

    Of course, that means you need to act quickly before the trademark is considered to be officially diluted or worthless.

    IANAL, TINLA etc.

    1. Re:Trademark violation by flyneye · · Score: 2

      Anon cow may be right about TM violation.
      Outside of that, there is only stooping to his level.
      What country does he live in? In Mexico and S. American countries , a couple hundred U.S. dollars go a long way toward removing his hands to keep him from typing.
      Do some of the old school hacks on him; call up and have his utilities shut off, use a remailing service to have him loudly proclaim anti-govenment sentiment or terrorist threats to his local newspapers. Have illicit internet recreational drug sites start sending him contraband. Make friends with "Anonymous", they specialize in dealing with asshats.
              OR just spend a lot of money and time doing things the "right" way with no guaranteed outcome. Let your wallet and your conscience fight it out over who will be your guide.
            Your wife, she has other skills if her ex buries her, right? Waiting tables, cleaning houses, etc....

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  8. Re:Reputation.com? by ilikenwf · · Score: 2

    Eh..."reputation management" and SEO have basically been all but outlawed by Google. Just point a bunch of phpld directory links at his site with irrelivant keywords and descriptions...or submit a DMCA takedown request to the search engines.

  9. IANAL by rueger · · Score: 5, Insightful

    And obviously neither is the OP: "He currently lives abroad and cannot be served with legal papers. His websites are hosted overseas as well, and do not respond to conventional letters or petitions. Because of his freedom of speech rights, few U.S. courts will assert that his websites are truly libelous, either,

    For God's sake begin by hiring someone who actually knows about this stuff instead of relying on what you learned from daytime TV.

  10. Don't bother? by Sheetrock · · Score: 4, Insightful

    She has a great industry reputation and everyone that knows her loves her.

    That's what matters. Maybe she can trademark her name and seize the domain as being confusingly similar, but it's still throwing time and attention at somebody who clearly craves it, for dubious gain.

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    1. Re:Don't bother? by rgbrenner · · Score: 3, Informative

      He said the material is not libelous. I'm allowed to start a domain called SheetrockIsATerriblePerson.com and post criticisms about you. That's not trademark infringement. You cannot use trademark law to silence critics.

      Wal-mart tried this in 2008:
      http://www.citmedialaw.org/blog/2008/court-rejects-wal-marts-bid-silence-criticism-through-trademark-law

    2. Re:Don't bother? by Grishnakh · · Score: 2

      Right, but on the other hand, you're not allowed to register the domain "walmart.com" (in a parallel universe where Walmart has, for some strange reason, not already registered this domain) and then post criticisms of it. With "walmart-sucks-and-i-hate-them.com", you're not posing as Walmart themselves, it's clear that you're a separate party that just doesn't like them.

  11. Re:Challenge the domain ownership by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

    " This policy has now been replaced with a Uniform Domain Name Dispute Resolution Policy created by ICANN and used by all accredited registrars. Under this new policy, a trademark owner can initiate a relatively inexpensive administrative procedure to challenge the existing domain name. In order to prevail, the trademark owner must show:

            that the trademark owner owns a trademark (either registered or unregistered) that is the same or confusingly similar to the registered second level domain name;
            that the party that registered the domain name has no legitimate right or interest in the domain name; and
            that the domain name was registered and used in bad faith.

    If the trademark owner successfully proves all three points in the administrative proceeding, then the domain name can either be cancelled or transferred to the prevailing trademark owner. If the trademark owner fails to prove one of these points, the administrative panel will not cancel nor transfer the domain name."

    http://www.bitlaw.com/internet/domain.html

  12. try anti cybersquatting or defamation actions by hguorbray · · Score: 2

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cybersquatting

    http://blogs.lawyers.com/2012/11/internet-defamation-cybersquatting/

    http://www.traverselegal.com/internet-defamation/defamation/what-is-a-defamation-of-character-assessment/#more-129

    I'm sure that many laywers will do this for you for $$$, but it may also be possible to have the victim file under ACPA to force the domain names to be given to them
    http://cyber.law.harvard.edu/property00/domain/legislation.html

    but that may only apply to trademark owners and not defamation victims.

    -I'm just sayin'

  13. WHOIS by yakatz · · Score: 5, Informative

    Check the WHOIS information for the domains. If there is any missing information at all or if the phone numbers or email addresses don't work, you can file a report with ICANN. I have found that many times people will not reply to the complaint which means the domains are shut down within a few weeks.

    1. Re:WHOIS by TubeSteak · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The submitter sounds like they are describing textbook cybersquatting.
      So alternatively, they can try Domain Name Dispute Resolution
      https://www.icann.org/en/help/dndr/udrp

      Disputes alleged to arise from abusive registrations of domain names (for example, cybersquatting) may be addressed by expedited administrative proceedings that the holder of trademark rights initiates by filing a complaint with an approved dispute-resolution service provider.

      You can register [person]sucks.com and shit on them all day long, but you can't expect to register [person].com and keep it.

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  14. Change your name by MichaelSmith · · Score: 2

    Maybe she should pick a new name, possibly a business name to work through and notify her current circle of contacts of the change.

    1. Re:Change your name by Hentes · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Or get her to take his name when they marry.

    2. Re:Change your name by Billly+Gates · · Score: 2

      Maybe she should pick a new name, possibly a business name to work through and notify her current circle of contacts of the change.

      The problem is every job application I have ever went through demands former names listed so they can do a credit and internet check on your name. She will still get blacklisted after the reporting agency mentions the other sites. They no longer just do criminal background checks anymore.

      There are one or two sites where for a monthly fee an employer types a name and everything about you including lawsuits, blogs, facebook, myspace, livejournal, divorces, and loans pop up that employers use for hiring decisions.

      Suing is bad too as HR feels you may sue them next if they have to fire you. They want a clean record for any position and it is insane as a simple suit agaisnt someone who wrongs you is now a liability.

  15. Alert! Alert! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    This sounds like a tactic to get you to set a date for the wedding... Being a woman, she would have already through of this as the easy out that once she get's married she'll likely change her last name which would help greatly with this issue. Given you haven't brought that up in your post, I'm guessing she hasn't mentioned it to you. This means that your wedding isn't any time in the near future or a date hasn't been set at all. So, I'm guessing you've proposed at some point but aren't commited enough to tie the knot. Once a big deal has been made of this situation, she will suddenly come up with the 'idea' that getting married will solve things, and the sooner the better.

    I'm telling you this because you also need to keep an eye on things in the contraceptive department because if this little ruse doesn't work to get you to hitched, that will be next on the list.

    Look, I know a lot of people here claim to know things they don't, but I am posting as Annonymous Coward because I don't have a slashdot account so you can trust that I know a lot more about women than most people her. Stay strong my brother.

  16. 4chan by WillgasM · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm pretty sure you meant to post this on /b/

  17. Re:Murder by Grishnakh · · Score: 4, Funny

    Concrete shoes.

  18. Re:Reputation.com? by Grishnakh · · Score: 2

    The Mafia (the Sicilian one, not the "MAFIAA") also provides a "clean-up" service that might be useful here....

  19. Praise campaign + legal action by Kergan · · Score: 5, Informative

    I've been through this myself...

    As a temporary action, get the word out -- literally. Build a site or two of your own on her if needed, e.g, her official site, then get in touch with her fans, list, the press, whatever, and serve them a sensationalist "writer gets libeled online by her ex" story... If they bite, the site with her name in the domain won't get to Google's first page of results with a little luck. Even if it does, the many results that mention the smear campaign on the same page will serve as a counterweight and douse it.

    In my case, that was enough to get the domain. In case it's not enough for you to do the same, sue...

    Sue the ex-husband for libel, defamation, whatever... but also -- and more importantly -- to recover the domain name. If it's a .com or any other US tld, it's under US jurisdiction and can be seized by a US court; period, end of story -- irrespective of where the ex-boyfriend might be based or hosted. If the MAFIAA can shut down .com domains that serve torrents, and big business can grab domains on grounds that they're too similar to their own, you can shut down or retrieve a domain. Her name is her de facto trademark. Don't just sue the ex-boyfriend, either. Also file complaints with the registrar, the hosting business, etc. They'll take pre-emptive action more often than not when contacted. Consult with an attorney specialized in this kind of stuff, and take action under his guidance.

  20. Re:Challenge the domain ownership by jimshatt · · Score: 3, Informative

    that the domain name was registered and used in bad faith

    The domain name seems to be registered in good faith. Depending on prenuptial agreements, she might have as much claim on the domain name as he has already. A divorce lawyer might be able to help you out (IANAL tho).

  21. Re:No. by jb11 · · Score: 3, Informative

    That link is about folks who actually did those things and want to bury things that they think a future employer may find objectionable.

    In this case, someone is making shit up and defaming someone.

    The person asking this needs to have his wife sue. Do not pass go. Go directly to lawyer.

    Actually, the example in the article is about a girl that had a common name that was returning search results that were not about her.

    "From the article: "Samantha Grossman wasn't always thrilled with the impression that emerged when people Googled her name. 'It wasn't anything too horrible,' she said. 'I just have a common name. There would be pictures, college partying pictures, that weren't of me, things I wouldn't want associated with me.'"

  22. Re:Murder by Genda · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Might I suggest hosting the site in third world country without diplomatic ties to the U.S. or any of the countries he lives (or has lived) in. Have the site host the most vile and disgusting human perversions... links to NAMBLA, Neo-Nazi Organizations, Satanic Churches, and perhaps Skat-Play with Enema Porn as a cherry on top. Attack all good and reputable organizations you can think of. In short, make it a festering sore on the ass of the universe. Have the site advertise in papers in his local town. Have a man with a thick accent, call him or email him with a demand for 10 $1,000 checks to close down the site (checks must have "Pay To" left blank.)

    Fill checks out to grotesque organizations and institutions and make donations. Send Anonymous letters to local newspapers about the "Monster" living in our midst. When it comes out that he's only getting what he's giving... he'll be a social pariah. He started this, the best he can do is complain that he's getting better than he's giving. Make certain you appoint an MC and never contact them again. You know nothing about this, have nothing to do with this and don't care to be a part of the drama he's created. Of course this could easily escalate into death and dismemberment. Not to mention the bad karma.

    A better ploy would be to Create a Nonprofit Organization for the protection of people from Stalkers, Abusers, and Infantile Ex's who seem to be unable to move on with their lives. Use his sites and his attacks as examples of the evil idiocy perpetrated by angry men with small penii, and explain that people being abused by the small minded and even smaller hearted need to stick together and expose the Bozo's publicly. Speak with your Senator about passing a law that prevents this kind of abuse in country and contact the nation he's in to inform them that he's using their infrastructure to perpetrate evil acts half way around the world. Take the high ground. Help people. Show him compassion he doesn't deserve. Send him pictures of you smiling and thank him for inspiring you to create an organization to help women being abused by Idiot Exs. Let him know he's made you a better person, stronger, happier. Thank him. It'll drive him crazy.

  23. I'd argue he should wait by 93+Escort+Wagon · · Score: 5, Funny

    My suggestion is to hold off until you've been married to her for a year or so - that way, you can better determine whether her ex-husband's statements are indeed a smear campaign or are rooted in fact.

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    1. Re:I'd argue he should wait by Everything+Else+Was · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Your modders say "Funny". I say "Insightful".

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  24. Re:four letters... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    claim trademark to her own name

  25. Re:Challenge the domain ownership by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    it might have been registered in good faith, but it doesn't sound as though it is being /used/ in good faith. Thus, ICANN's rules apply to the situation (assuming the situation was described accurately).

  26. Re:Reputation.com? by 19thNervousBreakdown · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Yep, SEO the shit out of the sites, in the most transparent, sure-to-get-a-site-delisted ways possible. Internet Judo, use his strength against him. Since they're on top, it's not like you can make it any worse, and it also means you don't have any direct contact with the guy--it's Google/Bing delisting him, not you. Anonymize the WHOIS information, and deny any knowledge if the guy contacts you. "What, you put up a site saying bad complaining about me? Weird, man, but whatever floats your boat. Good luck with that I guess."

    And of course if Google/Bing contact you, just say, "I've been contracted to make this the top result, if you try to delist this site you'll be hearing from my lawyers." They already know you can't do jack, and they'll enjoy tweaking "your" nose and you'll find the site delisted in short order.

    Other alternatives

    DDOS: Illegal, don't be an idiot. Also feeds the troll, you know better than that don't you?

    Register trademark & use ICANN: You're rolling the dice here, feeling lucky?

    Anything + lawyer: Probably best chance of success, once you sue successfully it just makes further suits easier if he's dumb enough to stick a fork in the toaster a second time. But keep in mind, these guys do not understand the Streisand effect, and what's more, many probably actively want it. Free publicity for them, and then you have to pay!

    Completely ignore it: Probably the best option. People get bored. He's doing this to get a rise out of someone who rejected him. Chances are good he'll escalate when he doesn't get the reaction he wants. If he goes big enough, you'll be able to catch his hand in the bear trap of the court system, otherwise just keep ignoring it. Escalation means you're winning. If he's quietly running the same site 3 years later, well, then you're dealing with a patient, smart, asshole, which is pretty much your worst nightmare. Good luck.

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  27. Re:four letters... by TheDarAve · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Hasn't stopped the RIAA from claiming copyright on songs they don't own or represent, to include public domain works.

  28. Re:Challenge the domain ownership by ironjaw33 · · Score: 2

    When I was looking to register my unusual last name as a domain, a squatter snapped it up before I could register it. I guess they troll whois lookups somehow. I now have ($name).org and ($name).net, but .com is registered to the squatter. For now, the .com site has some harmless ads, but I suppose that could change. The squatter also maintains a site which tries to extort "hosting" fees if you want to use one of the 2,000 domains he owns.

    Several trademark owners filed complaints about this squatter (one of them was Google) and all of them won and had the domains transferred. The proceedings of each arbitration can be read online, and in each case, the squatter put up some ridiculous defenses which the arbiter easily shot down. According to the UDRP Wikipedia page, arbitration costs about $2-4k in legal fees. Since the domain doesn't host anything defamatory, it's not really worth the cost to try and get ownership, but if it did, I'd probably consider filing a dispute.

  29. Re:four letters... by dgatwood · · Score: 5, Informative

    That's only the first half of it. First, file a legal trademark on the name. Then file a UDRP complaint and take the domain.

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  30. Dilute the name by Shag · · Score: 2

    Long ago and far away, a Google for my real name turned up about ten pages of results that were me, before getting around to anything that wasn't. Of course, those pages dealt with different bits of me, so there could still have been some confusion over whether they meant the technologist with my name, or the writer with my name, or the music journalist with my name, or the photographer with my name, or the foreign-affairs sort with my name - never mind that they were all the same person.

    In the last few years, Google has managed to find people with the same name who aren't actually me, so there's a brain surgeon, a rugby player, and a soccer player, as well as a bunch of youthful sorts half a world away. At the same time, I've been a little more careful about the "make this visible to search engines" boxes on sites. So now, Googling my name finds a variety of people, most of whom aren't me.

    I would suggest that the OP and his fiancée create five or ten online identities with the same name that her ex refers to, with details that don't match her real identity, but do match (or at least are ambiguous about matching) things her ex is saying. Give people reason to stop and doubt whether the person being badmouthed is that one, or some other one.

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  31. Don't bother... by KingRobot · · Score: 2

    ... unless the material can be proven libelous (and even then it will be a long, ugly battle). If people like Rick Santorum can't make the spreadingsantorum.com site go away, you're not likely going to make yours go away. Your best shot will be to get a positive site ranked higher using various SEO tactics.

  32. It's trivial to really ruin someone. by Seumas · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Angry at an ex? Angry at an employer? Angry at your neighbor? Pissed off that you hit on a guy and he wasn't interested and shot you down? You can easily ruin someone's life by just posting shit about them on a site called the Rip Off Report. Google curiously gives them incredibly high page ranking, but the site is nothing more than a scam. They NEVER REMOVE ANYTHING and they're proud of it. Even if you go to court. And you can be anonymous, while putting up real information (including name, etc) of your "target". It'll sit there forever. It'll get ranked high up on the first page of Google. They exploit shady SEO practices. And the only way they'll work with you is IF YOU PAY THEM for a "partnership service" that they advertise. Reportedly, it's around $5,000 -- give or take.

    You can google for all sorts of controversy regarding it. It has ruined a lot of people's lives -- and you're not even dealing with international issues or anything.

    I had someone defrauding users on my site, once. I banned them for it and next thing I knew, I had a really scummy "review/complaint/whatever" on this site. Absolutely no recourse and the other person is anonymous (though, obviously not -- since I recognized their insane babbling just like the hundreds of emails they sent me for a year after they were banned).

    It's really really shady shit and I don't think they're the only site that does it.

    1. Re:It's trivial to really ruin someone. by Seumas · · Score: 2

      Actually, it's run by scum-bag Ed Magedson (a right cunt). It's purportedly a "customer advocacy" site, but as people have experienced, you don't have to be a business or even be a person who does any business to be a victim of the scam. They've also caused a lot of discussion over their SEO behavior which somehow Google doesn't penalize the way they should (Yahoo! actually lowers the site's ranking for their scummy behavior).

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ripoff_Report#Corporate_advocacy_program_and_extortion_claims

      It's stuff like this that makes me sometimes second guess my whole "total freedom on the internet" thing. It's one thing to deal with a "bully" or a total dickwad. It's another to deal with people who are seriously damaging you (or your business, I guess) and have no recourse, because of "total freedom on the internet". I don't know what the right middle ground for that is. :/

      News report: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmhGLYHBbj8

  33. Cheap, efficient, "natural justice" by TapeCutter · · Score: 2

    I tend to agree with the AC, since the second amendment appears to protect the "right to harass" as well as the "right to offend", the law is not interested. So you either suck it up, or sort it out yourself with the less civilized eye for an eye protocol. No need for guns or friends in the intelligence community (since you know ehere he lives). Just tell your story at the local bar, someone will know where to hire a "wrecking crew" to redecorate his home office whilst giving him a lecture on how quickly life turns to shit when people use "free speech" as an excuse for their bad behavior. $500 tops with no hospital grade violence, slime ball will be back in his box before you can finish your beer.

    Thing is, you no longer have the option of cheap, efficient, "natural justice". By posting the story on Slashdot you have already committed yourself to fighting him indirectly, and worse still, on his home ground.

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  34. Re:four letters... by torsmo · · Score: 3, Funny

    I can't find a link.

    Good for you, man. It would've probably cost you 300 Euros.

  35. Hire a man with a bat by terjeber · · Score: 2

    They are cheap in most places defined as "abroad".