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The Other Side of Diversity In Tech

An anonymous reader writes: We frequently discuss diversity in the tech industry, and all the initiatives getting underway to encourage women and minorities to enter (and stay in) the field. The prevailing theme is that this will be good for companies, good for innovation, and good for the future of technology. While that's true, greater representation will also be good for the individuals themselves. Erica Joy has been in IT for a long time, and she's worked in many of the industry hotspots. She's written an insightful article on how the lack of diversity has affected her throughout her career. An excerpt: "Unfortunately, my workplace is homogenous and so are my surroundings. I feel different everywhere. I go to work and I stick out like a sore thumb. ... I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in."

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  1. Assumptions? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The summary says that increasing diversity will be good for innovation and technology, with no stated reason as to why. So I'll ask: why will increasing diversity be good for technology and innovation?

    1. Re:Assumptions? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Yes, of course, that would be it, because an all white society is incapable of existing without millions of non-whites to 'improve' it, correct?

      Genocide is an international war crime.

    2. Re:Assumptions? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      As an Englishman, I have to say: What kind of savage doesn't drink tea?

    3. Re:Assumptions? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The answer is right in the summary. In a homogeneous environment anyone who is different stands out like a sore thumb. If here is moire diversity then differences become less noticeable.

      There are other benefits. Have you been living under a rock for the last 30 years or did you not hear that it is generally accepted that monoculture is bad for business and that having a variety of skills, experience, backgrounds and ideas is better?

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    4. Re:Assumptions? by TheCastro1689 · · Score: 1

      So you dismiss an example of an issue, which you could replace tea with skydiving/hunting/fishing/homosexuality or anything you want, because it doesn't fit within your narrow experiences?

    5. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Diversity of that kind has nothing to do with sex or race however. It has more to do with different ways of thinking about things.

      Five white guys that are all between the ages of 35 and 45 are not necessarily similar.

      They could for one thing be from very different cultures. They could also have completely different work backgrounds. They might have completely different beliefs about everything. They might has distinct psychologies.

      This obessession with sex and race quotas are counter productive if your goal is better work. If you want greater diversity then look for a diversity of talent, mentality, and psychology.

      I am for example a white man. However, I have a very unusual psychological profile. I am literally 1 in 100,000. Am I unique or superior? No. But I am unusual. I experience the world in a different way. I interact with people in a different way. My value systems are different.

      And on any project I am on, my distinctiveness arrives at options and conclusions that no one else considers. Are my ideas always good? No. Sometimes they're terrible. But they're different.

      Now... how does dumping me for someone that is more normal then I am... but checks some bullshit diversity box helping anything?

      It doesn't. Stop wasting society's time with this horseshit.

      Discrimination is bad. Prejudice is bad. Bigotry is bad. And that includes judging people that you don't know by the color of their skin or their gender.

      You don't know me. You don't get to say my work environment lacks diversity because there are too many white guys in it. You don't know what that even means.

      I would literally change my race tomorrow to anything you like... so that everyone only saw that race when they looked at me. It would only help me. That's a fact. I am clever, educated, and have proven job skills. You give me some race or gender check box next to my resume and I'm a golden fucking god.

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    6. Re:Assumptions? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Professional sports teams seem to *only* recruit from a minority subset of the population...they don't seem to be "missing out."

    7. Re:Assumptions? by __aaltlg1547 · · Score: 1

      To me it's obvious it would ( -- this is the right verb ) be good for technology and innovation because you can't expect one demographic to have all the ideas worth pursuing.

    8. Re:Assumptions? by war4peace · · Score: 2

      How would that go?

      "Oh dear, these jobs are on sale, just like shoes!" or "Yo dog, wanna put that application in da mailbox"?
      Really, it sounds ridiculous and reeks of positive discrimination to even attempt to tailor job ads to a certain race or gender.
      The problem isn't job ads. The problem lies within the preconceptions of people who have the power to decide between candidates.

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    9. Re:Assumptions? by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      *raises hand*

      Sorry. Don't drink coffee either. I was raised a bit as a Mormon (family converted about the time I expect you'd start drinking tea, coffee, alcohol; around 14) and never got the taste as a "growing up" experience. The few times I've tried alcohol over the past 10 years, I find it still tastes like medicine and don't get the appeal. "Can you taste the woodiness?" No, really it just burns and tastes like I'm trying to cure a cold.

      [John]

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    10. Re:Assumptions? by Chris+Mattern · · Score: 1

      In a homogeneous environment anyone who is different stands out like a sore thumb. If here is moire diversity then differences become less noticeable.

      That establishes why it's good for the people who are different. It does nothing to show why it's good for technology and innovation.

    11. Re:Assumptions? by TheRaven64 · · Score: 2
      AC post, so you're likely to stay at 0, but this comment in TFA stuck out for me:

      Moreover, our team was predominantly black. I could relate to my teammates without having to conform.

      Why do you find black people easier to relate to than white / asian / whatever people? Why do you not feel that you have to conform when surrounded by them?

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    12. Re:Assumptions? by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      It's likely that it's his experiences that aren't narrow.

      How can you be in this business and not have been exposed to expats of various kinds including those that have a cultural bias towards tea?

      If you want a "fish out of water" story, then how about Asians that have chosen to change their name in order to "fit in"?

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    13. Re:Assumptions? by tompaulco · · Score: 2

      It's about making sure that you advertise in a way that attracts more women or non-white candidates to apply, and create a work environment that doesn't make life hard for them.

      It would be illegal to encourage more whites and males to apply and therefore it should be illegal to encourage more females and non-whites. Discrimination is discrimination. What ought to be done is to advertise so that the best people apply and evaluate everybody equally regardless of race, gender, religion, etc.
      In reality, though, woman are always going to be slightly less preferred because employers have to consider that health insurance is going to cost more and that they may decide to have children and either ditch the career or at least take time off from it. There is some amount of preference to single over married males for the same reason, and young over old because you can work them to death and they don't know any better.

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    14. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      You just contradicted yourself.

      You say you don't want quotas and then you say things have to be changed so that you get more of some gender or race.

      Really? And if we had lots of those in the work force you wouldn't say that because you'd be satisfied with the QUOTA.

      You're an idiot. You're not even wrong. You're too dumb to be wrong.

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    15. Re:Assumptions? by cant_get_a_good_nick · · Score: 1

      This obessession with sex and race quotas are counter productive if your goal is better work. If you want greater diversity then look for a diversity of talent, mentality, and psychology.

      The quota thing is (or should be) a red herring when it comes to things like this.

      You don't force absolute numbers, by quotas. In the world this should be, you measure what your mix currently is, and if it's not a good mix, you work to better that mix. You have an engineering firm, and you don't see enough women. Do you have a minimum quota for women? No, you sponsor engineering events for women. You have a mentorship program for girls in school. You buy a bunch of Lego Mindstorms kits and have a Robot-off at your daughter's school. You work. You grind. You realize that you need to till the soil a bit to get the benefits that you've been enjoying.

      The trick with diversity is, it feeds on itself. if you work at it now, long term it will kind of work itself out. Daughters see their mom working as engineers. Black kids see their dads work as programmers. Down the road you see the numbers hit the target without you doing anything at all.

      Sadly the idea that a corporation might do something to help the world and not focus solely on next months' balance sheet seems to be an anathema now.

      But quotas are easier, so people just do quotas. People who want true diversity rail against quotas. They help, but they do harm as well. Someone in a position over their head doesn't do as much pulling in new people. Part of the cycle is network. Anne brings in Brenda, brings in Cathy. If Anne sucks, she's not going to be able to pull in Brenda. You want Anne to be good, so you get that good cycle going where it just works itself out.

      And as a white guy myself, I think you're getting it wrong on diversity. I can say I'm 1 in 1,000,000 myself (we can have a unique-off later). But how unique you are is irrelevant. It means that your ONE set of viewpoints is unique. Diversity is having multiple sets of viewpoints, each unique, each with some validity. After the Trayvon Martin incident, people were talking about smartphone apps for black teenagers. One was a GPS map of gang territory so they wouldn't get shot walking home. Another was an app, like a deadman's switch, to contact friends in case of being shot or arrested. Do you, as a unique white man, have that experience to need and write those apps? Does your team of 5 white guys have the ability to write the GPS gang territory app? My guess is you've never though of it. You've been lucky, you never had to worry about it. But my sister has a bullet in her back from a gang drive by, A GPS app of gang territory with warnings about gang colors may have helped her way back then, though she doesn't even have a smartphone now.

      I think white guys (such as me) can't really talk about how cool they are. It's like a drunk guy trying to detect if you can drive. Always remember that the even if you think you're good and can walk straight, your idea of "straight" is coming from an intoxicated perspective.

    16. Re:Assumptions? by splodus · · Score: 1

      Eh?

      If you exclude most women you reduce the population from which you recruit by around 50%.

      If you exclude most 'non-whites' you reduce that population still further.

      I just don't understand why people here are so hostile to this simple idea?

      (Yes, of course there are far fewer women with the training and interest to compete in the tech jobs market, but that's the whole point! Fix that, and the rest follows...)

    17. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 2

      National origin was just an example.

      You can have 5 guys of the same age and the same race from the same town that all grew up together and are life time friends and yet have diversity.

      I am not my race.
      I am not my gender.
      I am not my age.
      I am not my place of birth.

      If you think you can sum up a person's soul simply by listing what the US census bureau collects then you know nothing of people.

      Lets say a woman likes a man. Can I replace that man with another man of the same race, age, nationality, and body mass index and have her be equally attracted to that man?

      Obviously not. Why is that?

      Because it is a lot more complicated then the sad three or four variables that these idiots trying to find evidence of discrimination in limited statistical information can possibly understand.

      I am not my race or my gender. You can't say you know me or what I believe or value because I need to wear sun block and have a cock.

      Lets just replace all biographies with that... the collected wisdom of everyone on planet earth can just be replaced with this "skin color was this... had or did not have cock"

      No need for further information. Nothing they say or believe or think could possibly be beyond what is in the census information. Their dreams, their works, their abilities... none of it matters. All we need to know is what their skin tone was and whether they had a dick or a vagina.

      This whole push for sexual and racial quotas in every field is beyond offensive. Haven't we grown beyond this garbage? Race means nothing. Sex means nothing. If you can do the work then apply for the job. If you can't... that isn't my fault. Bitch to the university.

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    18. Re:Assumptions? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Just make sure the ad is gender and race neutral, and then advertise it in universities where there are higher numbers of non-white students or in publications for professional women.

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    19. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Contradiction.

      You say you don't want quotas and then you talk about what is and is not a good mix.

      Define what that mix is... and you'll have defined your quota.

      I am not my race or my sex.

      If you filled a room with white guys you are very unlikely to have even ONE guy like me.

      If the only means you use to define the "mix" is skin color and sex... why not height? Why not weight? Why not any of a dozen other arbitrary physical attributes? Maybe we need more gingers on staff. Maybe more blonds? Maybe more people with curly hair or more people with straight hair?

      I am no more my race then I am my height. My brain is who I am. My brain is not white or black. My brain is pink just like every other brain out there. That is your diversity.

      The brain.

      And my brain is unusual. I am highly neuro-atypical. Include me on staff and you will have increased your diversity even if I am the same race and gender as everyone else.

      What makes us different is not actually captured by the census department.

      If you liked a girl or a women... and we wrote down all the figures the census department included about her. We can include what the department of motor vehicles collected as well. If we collected all that information... could I substitute that woman with another one that matched all those variables and have you be equally attracted to her?

      Either "yes, because you can sum up everything relevant about a person with that information" or "No, people are a lot more complicated then that."

      You get my point.

      Race and gender are moronic ways to classify people. Especially race. Race is totally meaningless. Gender has some neurological differences which can be relevant. But even there you can't say that a work place lacks diversity simply because they're all men. You don't know those men.

      Take a look at the men in the Office... the tv show. They're all different indifferent to their race. Same with the women... all different indifferent to their gender.

      Was this woman uncomfortable in that work place with those men? Sure. But another woman might have been fine. Maybe THAT woman has a problem.

      There are a lot of women in software that do quite well for themselves. We only hear about these few that have a problem for no specific reason. And that is fine. Clearly they need to find a new job. Men get jobs all the time that they don't like... they don't cry discrimination because they don't like the vibe.

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    20. Re:Assumptions? by tlhIngan · · Score: 1

      The summary says that increasing diversity will be good for innovation and technology, with no stated reason as to why. So I'll ask: why will increasing diversity be good for technology and innovation?

      Well take it to a technical extreme. Which is better? An all-Linux or an all-Windows office? Or an office that uses a mix of Linux, Windows and other OSes?

      And by better, I don't mean "easier to support" - it's easier to support the same environment, but which one leads to more interesting ideas and innovation?

      Heck, we've gotten rid of the IE6 monoculture of the web - would you say things are better now that we've got diversity of browsers (even though it's only 3 engines - WebKit, Trident and Gecko) and people are doing interesting things, or were things better when everyone was just coding IE6?

      And in general, like begets like - if you have 5 white dudes, they generally will be very similar in thinking - purely because each one got hired for compatibility with the others. In a more mixed environment, there's always going to be conflicts so it's very difficult to hire someone who won't cause issues sometime (unless they're completely passive).

      Or, put another way, diversity of working environments - would you want to work in a place where the walls were beige, every cube was identical to every other cube (and personalization is limited by fiat), or one where employees are allowed a splash of color, personal items, etc?

    21. Re:Assumptions? by tompaulco · · Score: 2

      I also am in favor of Positive Discrimination. At first glance, I appear to be a white male, but in fact, I have 1/8th Cherokee Indian, 1/4 Czechoslovakian, 1/8th German, and various other flavors mixed in for good measure. I have had ancestors that were slaves, although they were not African American. As it happens, pretty much everybody has had an ancestor that was a slave.
      There are only a very small minority of people in the world with my ethnic background. In fact, probably only one. Therefore I should get special privileges.

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    22. Re:Assumptions? by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      The few times I've tried alcohol over the past 10 years, I find it still tastes like medicine and don't get the appeal. "Can you taste the woodiness?" No, really it just burns and tastes like I'm trying to cure a cold.

      [John]

      Well, obviously the problem is that you're not drinking enough of it!

      Kidding aside, I don't like beer; people always told me, 'oh just drink it enough and you'll develop a taste for it,' to which I always responded "why would I want to develop a taste for horse piss?"

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    23. Re:Assumptions? by war4peace · · Score: 2

      I had the impression that job websites are gender and race neutral, I also had the impression that if a job ad isn't gender and race neutral, that would be illegal.
      As for "publications for professional women" - that's less than "publications for professionals", isn't it?

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    24. Re:Assumptions? by splodus · · Score: 1

      There are so many complex interactions I wonder whether there will ever be a solution. I think it's pretty self-evident that minorities of any type are less likely to join a homogeneous group. In the UK there has been an effort since introducing tuition fees to attract 'poor' applicants to 'rich' universities, and it's largely been a failure.

      In the case of ethnic groups there isn't much choice - it's uni or no uni. And that needs to begin at an early age, and poverty must play a large part in how likely it is someone gets a good education, and poverty is more prevelant amongst non-white (or it is in my part of the world).

        In the case of attracting female applicants, it's more about attracting them to tech rather than (say) humanities. This also starts at an early age, but I think here the split applies equally to male and female with respect to poverty.

      As for us all being 'the same' I don't think there's any doubt that there is variation between sexes. However this variation seems to be less marked than the variation between individuals. I don't know enough to know whether there is variation between 'races', but if there is, I would expect it to be far less marked than between sexes.

      I guess the real interesting question is that if you could erase history, and start from 50/50 male/female in every subject area, whether there would be a gradual drift, over generations, to the position we are in now?

    25. Re:Assumptions? by cant_get_a_good_nick · · Score: 1

      Im going to respond to this, and then drop myself from this thread. We can have our own flame war elsewhere. I think we both see the world so differently that we're not going to convince each other of much, and we'll bore the slashdot readers that are not us.

      You say you don't want quotas and then you talk about what is and is not a good mix.

      Not a contradiction. We're arguing different semantics here. Quota, as usually used in diversity, is a required number, a required percentage. We both agree that a required number is bad. I argue that you still must have metrics. Just as anything at your work, you need to see current status and are to be able to make adjustments. You differ on this part, which is fine, but I have no contradiction. if you want to argue that the definition of "quota" is does not, as commonly used, have a requirement, it's just a percentage measurement, then fine, but my argument is the same, with different words.

      I am not my race or my sex.

      You are not SOLELY your race or gender. I agree with that. But part of your personality is defined by that. Not 100%, and the percentage differs from individual to individual. But it does define a part of you. Your personality is based on those experiences you find so marvelous in yourself. Those experiences have as part other people in them. In this world, how people act towards you is defined by your race and gender. This is baked into humans, as we see chimps make clans and war and all that. We too make clans, sometimes based on race and gender. To argue otherwise, i feel, is a bit naive. A big part of how the world acts towards you is race and gender. A big part of your personality is therefore based on race and gender. Not all, but a chunk.

      If you have a room full of people who have a myriad of qualities but all have the same "white male" qualities, then there is a huge part missing, because no one will have the parts that are black, or female. There's a hole there. You may not think the hole is important, that's fine. but others do. And you're arguing that hole doesn't exist, which i think is an error.

      If you filled a room with white guys you are very unlikely to have even ONE guy like me.

      As said before in both my grandparent post, and above, this is both true and irrelevant. You will have some common white male characteristics, to a varying degree with each man there, but none will have the black or Asian or female characteristics. We are trying to capture those missing experiences. That you have additional very cool features is good for some level of diversity, but not the types of experiences we're talking about.

      I am no more my race then I am my height.

      Ask a little person if height doesn't affect things. hard to drive a car, hard to shop, people act differently towards you. How people act towards you affects your personality. Ask a guy 6'8" on how to design airline seats. Your experiences help you design a world that fit more of us than one with just guys of normal height.

      Race and gender are moronic ways to classify people.

      True, but it's what humans do. If you want to solve real world problems you have to consider what humans actually do in this world, which means the moronic reaction to race and gender. In the US (which I'm assuming you're from for some reason) race is also tied tightly to socioeconomic stratum.

      Race is totally meaningless

      Tell that to Trayvon Martin's parents. Or the people of Ferguson Missouri. See above for what I believe should happen (race is meaningless) vs what has happened (Rodney King, poll tax, etc).

      I've Bloviated way too long and beginning to wear out my welcome. Please read Bomb the Suburbs by William "Upski" Wimsatt if you can. It's about a white boy who at one point thought pretty much as you did, but then realizing that being a white guy gave him a tailwind that helped him over the years.

    26. Re:Assumptions? by xaotikdesigns · · Score: 1
      Were they excluded?

      If your potential hiring pool is those around you, if you live in a majorly white area, you are going to have a lot of white people. If you are in an area that has a more mixed race population, you'll probably see a more mixed work force.

      Does the company in a white area need to start bussing in minorities in fear of "excluding" people, or should they close up shop in the city they are in and move to atlanta?

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    27. Re:Assumptions? by r.freeman · · Score: 1

      Getting the right "test group" for your product is indeed important, and it does NOT require to forcefully artifically close any gender/race/etc gap in your developers team.

    28. Re:Assumptions? by Garridan · · Score: 1

      The predominance of black males in some sports is a byproduct of segregationist culture. Professional sports are like playing lottery. A long shot is significantly more attractive to those with the least to lose. Whites don't go into sports 'cause they are practically guaranteed to find good paying work elsewhere. Moreover, professional sports teams represents a few hundred jobs nationwide. Compare that to IT, offering tens of thousands of jobs, and ever-growing.

    29. Re:Assumptions? by xaotikdesigns · · Score: 1
      From what I read, the point was that you shouldn't be a dick at work and make others feel bad. In her case, it was about race or gender, but the problem exists across all reasons that someone could be bullied. You may be the only office goth, the only guy with red hair, in a wheelchair, too many freckles, a fan of the wrong sports team, or anything really.

      I didn't really see much on how that helps innovation other than a happy workforce is a productive workforce.

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    30. Re:Assumptions? by r.freeman · · Score: 1

      Your comment was quite interesting and I mostly agree, how ever:
      "Discrimination is bad." ... well sir, [citation needed].
      I would be have to hire 20 developers locally, given choice to deploy a shop in sillicon-valley equivanet with mostly rich white male developers, and and deploying our operation in India farmers village, I would go with the white option (if other conditions would be equal, like rent, price of work, taxes etc).
      Of course on the other hand it would be silly of me to toss out all CVs from black people, I could be wasting a chance to hire real tallent there.
      Or hiring a basket ball team, while I would give a white man chance to show up at initiall qualifications (if I have the time), given the choice to open bball center in a city withy only whites, and in a city with mostly black, I would prefer the later (if all other things considered).
      So it really depends what you want to do.
      Heaving a pavulov's dog reaction "he prefers some ethnical groups of people over others, omg he is so evil racis [lets arrest or at least shame him]" is just batshit crazy.

      And worrying about "gender gap" or "race gap" for companies that probably blindly give candidates a tests and it just turns out that the white people are usually turning up as the objectivly better for given task... is double crazy.

    31. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      As to having such different perspectives that we can't come to a middle ground, who says we need to do that?

      You shouldn't be afraid of arguing with people that have different views from yourself. The point should rather be to understand them.

      I argue and discuss things all the time with people that I will NEVER agree with because they frankly believe some crazy things... in my opinion.

      But discussing things with them does teach me things on occasion. I find it rewarding.

      If you only talk with people that agree with you then your mind atrophies and your mind closes as you descend into an echo chamber.

      As to your quibbles about the term quota requiring a specific percentage that is nonsense. You're not able to avoid calling a quota merely by having the exact figure be vague and unstated... even though it is implied and there is clearly some number that I could empirically test out of you. I could show you 50 different work environments each with different "mixes" and then ask you which was a pass and which was a fail. You'd pick ones you liked and tell me ones you didn't. Then I'd do the math and from that we would know what your quota is mathematically.

      Your refusal to share the number doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You clearly have a quota in mind.

      If I can't have a 100 percent this race plus 100 percent this sex... then you want quotas.

      As to saying I am partly my race, WRONG. You don't get to say what I am, pal. Who the fuck do you think you are anyway? You don't know me. You think you can define my nature my looking at the pigment of my skin? That is so amazingly racist I don't even know where to start with that.

      Imagine for a moment I were black or asian. Are you going claim you can define who I am as a person based on my skin color? Obviously not. Because everyone knows that's racist. But suddenly that is okay if the guy is white? How does that make sense?

      You don't know me. I am not my race. My race is a fucking pigment of my skin. It is of no more value then the color my eyes. I have brown eyes. Want to group me with all the other brown eyed people? Grouping people by race is literally that dumb.

      You know NOTHING about me by citing my race. Jack. Nada.

      I love that you said "white male" qualities... please substitute that with say "black female" qualities... do you even begin to realize how racist that is? It is hilarious. You should be mortified on not realizing this one.

      As to the white men not having black or asian or female characteristics... how do you know? What are those characteristics? I had a friend in high school that talked exactly like the guys in the rap videos for at least a year. It was really pretty obnoxious. Was that a black quality? Or are you only allowed to have black qualities if your skin is black? Do you see the problem here? Lets say I'm a transgender male. Lets say even though I've got a cock, I identify as a woman. So do I have female qualities now? And if I can do that, then why can't I identify as an asian woman? The whole discussion is absurd because your premise that there are asian or black characteristics is hopelessly racist. It doesn't make any sense.

      As to height being a characteristic... good... so our office is more diverse in your opinion if we have a short person. And what if the office has nothing but black women in it? Does that need some more "mixing". And what does mixing mean? Is it just racial and gender or do we need to make sure we get some fat people and short people in there too because god forbid everyone is tall for some reason.

      This is priceless.

      As to humans always separating people by race, that is what YOU are doing. I am not. Do not project your racism on me.

      I am not a racist. I am not a sexist. All people are equal in my eyes because I look at the PERSON. I look into your eyes and see YOU. I don't care what your skin color is or if you've got five cocks and three vaginas. I don't care if you're short or fat or old. I look to the person and judge that p

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    32. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      I'm not my race. I'm sorry. I'm not going to let you define me as a person based on my skin color. it is exceptionally racist.

      You can use my race to identify me... to pick me out of the crowd... you can say "the white guy in the yellow shirt"... that's fine. But you don't get to say that I am white as "person". I don't have a "white soul". I don't have a "white brain". It is literally skin deep. I am not my race. Sorry no. Period.

      Now do things I had to grow up with impact my life and development? Sure. But being white was not one of the more important ones.

      Being a serious introvert that loved machines, science, legos, computers, books, etc... THAT defined me as a person far more then my race.

      If you want to classify me with people... THOSE are my people. Not some other group of assholes that just so happen to share my need for sunblock. That's fucking asinine.

      As to bras and jockstraps. It really depends on what people do at the company. When it comes to fitting, you do want to use people with appropriate anatomy. But why do you need a woman to do the accounting for the bra company? That's just math and spreadsheets. No bras involved. In fact, practically everything the company does would not actually need a women. Really you'd only want them in the R&D department to figure out what was comfortable, then maybe having them in marketing, and then again quality control. But aside from that... you don't really need them because they don't need to test or design or market the bras in other departments. As to jock straps... same thing. You'll need men to help design it, you'll need men to help market it, and you'll need men to do quality control. But beyond that the rest of the company could be female. And the people I referred to could work out to less then 1 percent of the whole company.

      A jockstrap company that was 99 percent female might be just fine. I'd have to test their product to have an opinion. But I would not pre-judge their work... it would be prejudice.

      As to statistical studies, i am so burned out on those lately. According to that stupid one out of the CDC, 1 in 5 women are raped in college. A number they get to by calling any "unsatisfying" sexual experience as being rape. And that is hardly the only example lately of bullshit statistical studies.

      Are you statistics crap? I have no idea. All I know is that only a complete moron would trust them without an audit.

      Do you have a link to the studies so I can look at them or have I broken some rule by actually assuming a right to examine evidence? Just curious.

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    33. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      You agreed the dictionary was backing me up and you're saying I'm the one embarrassing himself?

      You sure about that? Sure it isn't someone else that is embarrassing themselves?

      *taps pencil on table pensively*

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    34. Re:Assumptions? by Gliscameria · · Score: 1

      There's a difference between exclusion and not recruiting. Why should an industry go out of its way to build up a recruiting base when it already has a competitive one? The only business reason I can think of is so that it can pay everyone less, which makes so much sense when I see this same backwards argument three times a week.

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    35. Re:Assumptions? by splodus · · Score: 1

      I agree entirely, and if the workforce does not reflect the local demographic, either way, well there's some evidence of discrimination right there (and I am against 'quotas' and 'affermative action' and so on).

      But the question was about the 'assumption' that diversity is a good thing. I think it clearly is a good thing because you don't want to exclude part of your demographic through any means, not just through biases in the selection panel of a specific job.

      I think it begins early on, when young girls see 'themselves' on TV playing with dolls, and 'their brothers' playing with Lego. It gets confirmed all through their formative years until they make their choices at university. Fewer women taking tech because tech has very few women...

      They are 'excluded' by our societies, and I really don't know if it can be solved. One thing that interestes me is that my wife is and engineer and I am a scientist, I am a stay-at-home Dad. Yet my son has been drawn to science growing up and my daughter not. It was an absolute surprise to me, and made me question my own bias that environment was eveything and innate preference irrelevant.

      So perhaps where we are is inevitable, and if we start again with 50/50 male/female everywhere, within a hundred years we would have the same gender split in industry that we have right now?

    36. Re:Assumptions? by splodus · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree. I think though there is something of a business case in that, once you've got a good core team (if the team is large enough) there's something to be gained by broadening the experiences of new team members.

      But that's not really my point. It's more about 'why is diversity a good thing?' And it's a good thing becuase you don't want to exclude good people for arbitrary reasons.

      Now if you start from today, there's only so much you can do, because a great many potentially very good people have already been excluded. They were excluded by parents, teachers, the media and every other influence that helps to convince girls (and perhaps ethnic minorities, I'm not sure) that tech is not for them. I don't think it's done deliberately, it's just where we are.

      I think I'm beginning to see that the reason what I wrote was seen as trolling might be because it was assumed I was being politically correct?

      In fact it's a business case issue for me. You want the best people for your industry, you want the largest pool of talent from which to recruit. To get the largest pool of talant you want schools pushing those with an aptitude for engineering towards the topics at which they excel (assuming that's what the individual wants).

      If you're (inadvertantly) steering a future mathematics prodigy into humanities because 'girls don't do that sort of thing' you're harming everyone.

      That's what diversity is about - not excluding people based on race, gender or sex. And that surely is not controversial?

    37. Re:Assumptions? by neoritter · · Score: 1

      My response to someone not liking beer (on taste alone) is they haven't found the right beer. Blue Moon tastes nothing like Stella Artois, etc etc. Some are more bitter, some more hoppy, some have a fruity taste.

    38. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      You're not following race in any of those situations. You're following talent.

      You setup the programming office in the middle of corn country where there are a lot of white guys... you're not going to get the programmers you need. Despite having lots of white guys.

      So the race is not what you're following in any of those cases but the labor.

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    39. Re:Assumptions? by Forgefather · · Score: 1

      To boil down several interesting points. You brain is who you are, but your brain is shaped by your experiences which differ across varying races and ethnic backgrounds as they provide the context of the brains growth.

      To say that you can find diversity based on race alone is ignorant.

      To say that you can find diversity within the mind alone in ignorant.

      Everything you see, do, hear, touch, feel, and experience makes you who you are, and those experiences and context are frequently (and sadly) dictated by appearance and ethnic background.

      As for being able to look past that are you sure? Can you tell me about the pain of a Palestinian mother who watched her son die in Gaza and her rage at the Israelis for taking him? Can you know the joy of an adventurer who crested the summit of mt. Everest? Can you look into the eyes of the protesters at Tienanmen square and understand the stifling weight of oppression that drove them to the streets? That drove a common man to stand down a tank?

      Of course not. To say that you can look past race is to say that you are looking past the forces that shaped them to be who they are. The mind can only reflect who they are AT THAT MOMENT, but to have a shot at understanding someone you have to look at where they come from.

      Context is important.

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    40. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      While race CAN inform your experiences you CANNOT assume that YOU know what my experiences have been or the sort of person I am BECAUSE of my race.

      I mean, my choice in bubble gum can have an effect. Anything can have an effect. But you don't know WHAT that effect will be on me.

      There is this attempt to take a white stereotype and then project it on random white people you do NOT know. You can't do that. You do not know me.

      The fact that you know I'm white doesn't mean you know anything about me besides that I get burned more easily in the sun. That's it. You do not know me. You cannot take some bullshit narrative and then just superimpose it on my life as if you know things about me when the reality is that you do not.

      If you want to judge me, you first have to get to know me. That's fair. And that goes for everyone... all races and genders.

      If I call a woman a bitch for example, am I a woman hater? Maybe. Or maybe she's an extremely unpleasant person. Maybe she tortures animals for fun and I know that about her and you don't.

      You can't say you know anything about someone because you know their race. That's horseshit.

      As to whether I can know the pain of someone I don't know and who is living in circumstances I haven't lived in... no. I can imagine them but I can't know them.

      However, that is a double edged sword. She doesn't know what it is like to be me. And while I'll freely admit I've had an easier life then her, that doesn't make me less worthy of life or less worthy of happiness. I don't need to apologize to her or give up what I have simply because someone somewhere else has a shitty life.

      By this logic we'd have to take food out of the mouths of BEGGARS in the US to give to people starving in some war torn country or something. Why? Our beggars have food. They have an easier life then people starving in war zones.

      You don't make the world a more just or reasonable place by arguing who has a shittier life and then making the people with easier lives feel like crap.

      Do you know why we have easier lives here? Because we could very easily have a war zone in the US with people starving to death. But we don't. The reasons for this are complicated but they boil down to things we don't need to apologize for but rather be proud of... we have a stable republic. We have rule of law. Americans made this. No one gave this to us unless you want to cite past generations. But the fact is that this was not something an external agency imposed on we the American people. We did this for ourselves. So I'm not apologizing for living in a stable country where people can raise families in safety.

      This incessant need to shame people by pointing out who is more disadvantaged or who has a harder time is not useful.

      We are trying to talk about how to structure our economy in a rational fashion. Do you want to have a bunch of dumb quotas that cause everything to break down and stop working or do you want to have reliable institutions where the first priority is that things get done?

      Choose please.

      Because if you want things to get done then that means all this other stuff is secondary. Which means since there is a shortage of females that can do this work not a lot of women are going to be hired to do it. They don't have the skills. That isn't the company's fault. They don't exist. You might as well get mad at the company for not hiring unicorns. So now that we have established that the company is not at fault and that we want the company to produce and useful rather then just maintain meaningless quotas that will cause the company to collapse... what is left to talk about?

      This whole issue makes no sense.

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    41. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      If you like. I respond atypically to most psychotropic drugs. In some cases, no effect what so ever to drug that get most people chasing magical butterflies around the room.

      I do not get tired. I get progressively drunk instead. That is, every day as more people normally get tired... I undergo a mental change that is akin to getting drunk. I get a bit of a buzz after being up for about 30 hours or so. And after about 48 I'm tipsy. Beyond that I get pretty smashed and will just pass out. I am not literally getting drunk but the mental state is equivalent.

      It goes much beyond that. The point is that my brain structure and chemistry is unusual.

      I am more different from most people then some difference in skin coloration. To say "you're just another white guy" is ignorant. It is not dissimilar to the phrenology, the practice of judging a man's character and nature by examining the shape of his skull. You are fixating on something meaningless and assigning it meaning.

      Real diversity is in the brain... not the skin. If all you see when you look at me is another white guy... you see nothing.

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    42. Re:Assumptions? by quenda · · Score: 1

      Diversity of ideas and personalities is good, but not diversity when it is used as a euphemism for racial and gender quotas.
      The United States has arguably benefited greatly in some areas from cultural diversity, (business, entertainment, arts, ...) but I do not see any evidence for that in engineering.
      Places like Finland, Korea and Japan seem to have done just fine in technology without diversity. Better than most countries.

      Worldwide, engineers are overwhelmingly male, despite all sorts of affirmative action policies, so excluding women, while unfair, would only lose you a small portion of the talent pool in that area. (Unlike other professions.)

    43. Re:Assumptions? by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      And therein lies the problem ...

      In a perfect world, there would be no need for "black studies", "women's studies", "lgbt studies", etc. So why do they exist? Because we're not in a perfect world, and if you don't know history ...

      There's not exactly an outcry for "white studies" (except maybe from the Klan) or "men's studies." Even today, white men are at the top of the heap. Vladimir Putin is once again voted the most powerful man in the world, and he's not exactly noted for being in favor of diversity and sharing. The Koch brothers are, well, they're the Koch brothers.

      Like rape, it's not about gender or sex - it's about power. Who has traditionally held it, and how to redistribute it more equitably.

      Men are no longer content to see their daughters passed over on the job because of their gender; they now have a stake in gender equality. Inter-racial couples used to be illegal, but now they're normal, so again, we have people who now have a voice in making sure their children aren't treated badly because of their skin color. LGBTt are no longer marginalized by being officially classified as "mentally disordered" so again, another voice for redistribution of power.

      But just how do you make the job application process completely gender neutral? As an experiment, I clicked on the jobs link, picked a job at random, and clicked apply. While there was no dropdown for selecting Mr | Ms | Mrs, it still asks for your first and last names, and email address. A search of just my first and last name turns me up on the first page of google, and following the links confirms my email address, other links, etc.

      Data mining can automate this process, allowing the match of any firstname+lastname+email to generate quite the profile. The alternative, using just a first initial and an email address that isn't used for anything else, will raise red flags since it doesn't turn up anything.

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    44. Re:Assumptions? by tompaulco · · Score: 1

      Well if we weren't being misogynist asses about it we could structure health insurance such that the costs of pregnancy are born by all insured individuals not juts women,

      It is a common fallacy to think that insurance companies are all about spreading risk equally across all people. They know for a fact that women are going to have higher health costs, so women get charged more. They know for a fact that smokers have higher health costs, so they get charged more.
      They spend billions of years finding out what groups of people represent different risk groups, and if they could get down to the individual level, they absolutely would do so.
      That's not going to change unless we socialized insurance, which would be a bad idea in itself. Rather than socialize insurance, you should just eliminate it and have the government pay for all health care.

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    45. Re:Assumptions? by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      No, the AC said it was unlikely that he was using the same definition that you're claiming he's using, because it's obscure.

      Which it is. I've never heard Quota used for anything other than enforced numbers before. And simply making an effort to encourage highly qualified members of each of a group of diverse communities shouldn't be controversial, so forgive the rest of the world if we think it's a reasonable assumption that someone who responds to a "I think making the hiring process more inclusive of women and other minorities might be a good idea" with "You want QUOTAS! Boooo!!!" is someone who's trying to derail a thread by making it look like something's being called for that isn't being.

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    46. Re:Assumptions? by squiggleslash · · Score: 1

      I'm not my race.

      Nobody's saying you are.

      I'm sorry. I'm not going to let you define me as a person based on my skin color.

      Given the AC makes it clear, in the very first paragraph, that he's not, is there any reason why we shouldn't write you off as a troll right now?

      By all means feel free to reread it and issue a mea-culpa, we all get into angry debates from time to time to the point we misread the opponent. But right now the way things are it's like you really don't want to hear any pro-diversity viewpoints, and so are equating "There is value in having multiple races and multiple genders because it is one factor in improving the number of different life experiences and thus knowledge of how the world works your employees have" to "You white cis men are all the same".

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    47. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      He did actually and I pointed that out rather clearly.

      If you're not defining me by my race then you won't judge the diversity of my work place by the racial diversity.

      Point blank.

      The instant you do that you're making racial judgements.

      End of argument. Thanks for playing.

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    48. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      This is a bullshit dodge that fools none but the mentally lazy.

      What you're doing is trying to have a quota without dealing with the stigma of having a quota.

      It is like selling a food product that MUST have sugar or water added to it later and then claiming that "this product is good because it has no sugar or water"... well maybe but the sugar and water is implicit in the use of that product. And even if it doesn't have it at point of sale the reality is that it MUST be added at some point prior to consumption.

      In regards to you implied quota system. What you're doing is saying "well, we want a good mix... and that mix is racial... and we're not going to be specific about what is and is not a good mix... but if we look at your work force and don't see a ratio we like... then we're going to call you racists."

      Which means to avoid being called a racist, I have to maintain a quota.

      Your whole position is intellectually dishonest. You want a quota but you don't want to be JUDGED for calling for a quota. Because quotas have gotten a bad reputation. And rather then own up to the valid counter argument against your position, you're going to try and claim your position is something that it isn't so you don't have to deal with that argument.

      That's bullshit, jack. The only people that stupidity fools are the stupid. I'm not stupid. When your argument assumes that the person you're arguing against is stupid by default you must accept that your argument is only going to work against stupid people. You need something better then this because while there are a lot of stupid people out there... we are not all stupid.

      Try harder, you degenerate piece of shit. :-D

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    49. Re:Assumptions? by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      For a while, I had my son in a University day care facility, and I remember one parents' night.

      If you're looking for diversity in race, national origin, etc., you couldn't ask for anything more. However, in many ways, people thought very much alike. My personal friends are a much less diverse-looking group, but the range of thought is much wider.

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    50. Re:Assumptions? by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Diversity of skin or gender is an arbitrary and shallow means of determining actual diversity.

      Diversity of mind is a far better measure of actual human diversity.

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  2. The new progressive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    We frequently discuss diversity in the tech industry, and all the initiatives getting underway to encourage women and minorities to enter (and stay in) the field. The prevailing theme is that this will be good for companies, good for innovation, and good for the future of technology.

    There was a time when we said that race and sex don't matter. That you should be inclusive, at least in the sense of not being prejudiced, because its right and moral to not judge based on these attributes, which are uncontrolled and doled out at birth. Now we say otherwise, that they do matter? Which is it? Is it irrelevant that you were born with a certain set of physiological characteristics, or are people truly intrinsically different? Because here I thought I was being progressive by thinking the latter notion, in whatever form you wish to give it, was what we were fighting against. I miss the old progressives. The new ones have stared into the abyss so long they're becoming part of the problem.

    1. Re:The new progressive by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I don't hear many people joking about this shit. They're putting serious pressure on the tech companies to be more "diverse". Or rather, the tech companies are tending to do it themselves rather than let someone preempt the discussion, because they're terrified of being labeled as racist or sexist. The fact remains that there are very few qualified black or female applications for many of core tech jobs, like those that actually program software.

      Instead, as a reaction, these companies will likely favor less represented demographics in non technical roles to get their overall numbers to balance out, so that they can claim to be more "diverse". The result? If you're a white male, good luck getting an HR or designer job at a tech company. Oh, except for the ones at the top of the power structure, because... well, we can't sacrifice all *those* jobs to balance the numbers, of course.

      Look, I'm not trying to complain about the "poor white male". It's not like there won't be opportunities elsewhere. It's just the absurdity of failing to see what's pretty obvious to everyone except those who are trying to stay within politically correct lines. For whatever reason, many more women than men are simply not interested in or pursuing careers such as software development. Newsflash: there are also very fewer female composers, sound engineers, mathematicians, physicists, and imbalance remains in many other highly technical fields.

      Why? I don't know - I happen to be a white male, so I have no perspective on what a black woman goes through in life. I became a programmer because I was fascinated by computers and how they worked at an early age, simple as that. Why not ask women why they didn't become programmers rather than focusing on the end of the process, where the damage has long been already done?

      The uncomfortable answer may be this: maybe they just aren't interested. People don't want to hear that, because it really doesn't leave much room for a solution to the problem, except to try to force feed tech to girls early in life in the hopes they find it interesting and later fix the imbalance.

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    2. Re:The new progressive by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There was a time when we said that race and sex don't matter. That you should be inclusive, at least in the sense of not being prejudiced, because its right and moral to not judge based on these attributes, which are uncontrolled and doled out at birth. Now we say otherwise, that they do matter? Which is it?

      It's neither, your assumptions are wrong. It was never that race and gender didn't matter, it has always been that all races and all genders are equally valuable as human beings and equally worth having in organizations.

      Maybe you were confused by that Michael Jackson song where he said "it don't matter if you're black or white". What he meant was that neither is a disadvantage, not that your heritage and culture are meaningless.Clearly at the time most black people had very difference experiences and opportunities in life to white people, generally speaking. He was talking about outright racism and discrimination.

      Fortunately we are mostly past the racism and sexism now, but there are still cultural problems. The organizations mentioned in TFA are probably not sexist, they don't actively discriminate on gender, it's just that the work environment is disadvantageous for women.

      To be absolutely clear, hiring should still be done on merit. It's just that companies should try to advertise jobs in ways that attract more female applicants, and create a work environment that facilitates them. Think of it like not putting in a ramp for wheelchair access. It's not actively discriminating like putting up a sign saying "no cripples" would be, but it puts disabled people off working there because they either have to struggle or keep asking for special equipment to be installed just for them.

      Understand now?

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    3. Re:The new progressive by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Gah, I could have been clearer and said: "What he meant was that neither is inferior or inherently less able".

      It's hard work when your audience is hostile and will deliberately mis-interpret everything that isn't crystal clear and unequivocal.

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    4. Re:The new progressive by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Well said AC, thanks.

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    5. Re:The new progressive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      People don't want to hear that, because it ruins their preconceived notion that there are no differences between the way a man's and a woman's brain works. This, despite science having shown that there are differences, both in function and structure.

    6. Re:The new progressive by stdarg · · Score: 2

      It was never that race and gender didn't matter, it has always been that all races and all genders are equally valuable as human beings and equally worth having in organizations.

      If we're all equally worth having in organizations, then a 70%, 80%, or 100% white male organization is equally valuable to a more diverse organization.

      they don't actively discriminate on gender, it's just that the work environment is disadvantageous for women.

      Or perhaps it's just advantageous for men. So since men and women are equally worth having in your organization, why does this matter?

      If the work environment becomes less advantageous for men and more advantageous for women, then fewer men will apply and more women will apply, and your mix will be different, but you haven't actually improved the situation because of your assertion that men and women are equally worth having in organizations.

    7. Re:The new progressive by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      It's a little more subtle than that. It's not just X vs Y. It's a distribution of all manner of things. Thus you can have men that thrive in female dominated occupations and women that are just as puzzled by these SJWs as men are.

      If you're not fixated on "innovation" like some Silicon Valley startup, someone being a square peg can actually be useful. Not everything in tech is about being able to do stupid tricks in C on demand.

      Even "tech" isn't all "tech".

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    8. Re:The new progressive by Dutch+Gun · · Score: 2

      People have done that and the answer is often "because society repeatedly told me it wasn't a job for women."

      Well, it should work itself out in about 10 or 15 years then, because good grief, are we ever pounding it into people these days that we really, really want more women in technology.

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    9. Re:The new progressive by UnderCoverPenguin · · Score: 1

      People have done that and the answer is often "because society repeatedly told me it wasn't a job for women."

      Both my girlfriend and our daughter were told that - repeatedly - by teachers, school counselors and "career advisers". Both replied "BS. I'm going to be an engineer."

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    10. Re:The new progressive by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      because they're terrified of being labeled as racist or sexist.

      Or maybe they just realize it's in their own best interests. Diversity is good for creativity and finding innovative ways to look at things. It helps prevent monoculture and NIH syndrome.

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    11. Re:The new progressive by mattventura · · Score: 2

      And the only response to that should be "why did that stop you"?

    12. Re:The new progressive by LessThanObvious · · Score: 1

      Good for them, the only way to become an engineer is to forge your own path and follow your own interest and ambition. I'm sure plenty of people had negative things to say to my Grandmother when she decided to be a police officer in the 1950s, but that didn't stop her.

    13. Re:The new progressive by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Why not ask women why they didn't become programmers rather than focusing on the end of the process, where the damage has long been already done?

      People have done that and the answer is often "because society repeatedly told me it wasn't a job for women."

      Why not ask women who used to work in IT why they left?

      Having one of the least female-friendly job environments comes with this distinction: Close to 40% of women who earn degrees in the field leave their jobs prematurely or never apply for jobs in the area in the first place.

      Nadya A. Fouad, a psychologist at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, dug into the research by focusing on the thousands of women who have earned engineering degrees since the 1990s. What she found is nothing short of alarming: Of all of the women who've earned degrees in the field, almost 40% of them have either left their jobs within a few years or never applied for a single engineering-related position.

      It gets worse, however: Of those who left their engineering jobs, most say they were pushed out by poor workplace environments or mistreatment by managers and co-workers. About a third said they decided to stay home with children when they realized their companies wouldn't assist with work-life issues. This means that an entire crop of talented technical minds are leaving the economy due to gender inequities at work.

      It's even worse for rookie female engineers (and scientists and mathematicians, too). According to a recent study from the Center for Talent Innovation, women working across all of the STEM fields were 45% more likely to quit within their first year on the job than their male co-workers.

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    14. Re:The new progressive by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      For whatever reason, many more women than men are simply not interested in or pursuing careers such as software development. Newsflash: there are also very fewer female composers, sound engineers, mathematicians, physicists, and imbalance remains in many other highly technical fields. Why? I don't know

      Well, gee, maybe we could ask them, and listen to the answers they give?

      Maybe /. could even post a link to a woman giving such an answer.

      Maybe you could read it before shooting your mouth off with "that's just the way it is, nobody knows why".

      I happen to be a white male

      And boy, aren't you doing the rest of us white guys proud. SMH.

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    15. Re:The new progressive by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      It's just that companies should try to advertise jobs in ways that attract more female applicants, and create a work environment that facilitates them.

      What makes you think that the current advertisements are excluding/less attractive to females? And what is so special about females that you need a different environment to function in? You are insulting both men and women in one go, and you don't even notice...

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    16. Re:The new progressive by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      It's hard work when your audience is hostile and will deliberately mis-interpret everything that isn't crystal clear and unequivocal.

      Painful having the shoe on the other foot. Isn't it?

    17. Re:The new progressive by nctritech · · Score: 1

      Diversity is not based on the color of skin or the genitals a person possesses. The focus on gender is irrelevant to diversity of thought; it is a modo hoc fallacy. Creating a monoculture is a tendency of human nature and happens regardless of superficial composition.

    18. Re:The new progressive by nctritech · · Score: 1

      Certain people have embraced "diversity" and "equality" as a cover for discrimination as well.

    19. Re:The new progressive by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      They conveniently leave out the part where most of the "poor workplace environments" and "mistreatment by managers and co-workers" are coming from the OTHER WOMEN. Prime well-known example: Julie Ann Horvath leaving GitHub...primarily because ANOTHER WOMAN harassed her incessantly.

      And you "conveniently" left out any actual statistical evidence. And that it wasn't "primarily because another woman harassed her incessantly." You're forgetting the co-worker who professed his undying love for her, even though he knew she was already in a relationship with another employee, and he took her rejection badly - and retaliated.

      There was definitely inappropriate behavior - GutHub acknowledges it here. If you've ever worked in a startup, you know how loosey-goosey things can get with the boss's family, since they feel they have tremendous skin in the game, having been there from the beginning, even if not in an official capacity. Even Bill Gates mom, Mary Gates (nee Maxwell), sat in on Microsoft board meetings for years.

      But quitting over other women hula-hooping in the office and the guys ogling them doing so? Really?? Everything else she could put up with, but not this???

      The final straw for Horvath came when she saw men gawking at women who were hula-hooping at the office. She called the episode “a really ugly and inappropriate scene.” Her words:

      Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music. I didn’t have a problem with this. What I did have a problem with is the line of men sitting on one bench facing the hoopers and gawking at them. It looked like something out of a strip club. When I brought this up to male coworkers, they didn’t see a problem with it. But for me it felt unsafe and to be honest, really embarrassing. That was the moment I decided to finally leave GitHub.

      She didn't ask the women how they felt about it - only the men. If they were okay with the men's reactions, where's the beef? Sounds to me like there's a certain immaturity on all sides.

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  3. No, you're not crazy by Shadow+of+Eternity · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The author of this blog article (and that's what Medium is, it's livejournal 2.0) is flat out complaining that it's wrong for people to like things she doesn't like. It's not good enough that people accept her doing her own thing, they have to NOT do theirs. It's unacceptable that everyone else enjoyed playing rock band and a sign of horrible discrimination and exclusion that she should ever become part of another culture or group instead of everyone else changing to suit her exact tastes and preferences.

    And she wonders why she feels like people walk on eggshells around her and why she feels like she makes people uncomfortable. As usual these days Susan Sons' article on girls and software should be mandatory reading.

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    1. Re:No, you're not crazy by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 4, Interesting

      And she wonders why she feels like people walk on eggshells around her and why she feels like she makes people uncomfortable.

      Our group brought a white woman (race only matters based on what comes later), let's call her Joan. Joan had a closed door office downstairs from the group. Once she joined the group, we had her move into cube-land with the rest of us.

      Enter Joan's friend, let's call her Kelly. Kelly happens to be black. One day Joan, Kelly, and I were having lunch in the break room. Kelly asked Joan why she moved out of her nice, closed-door office into cube-land. Here's where I step in it. I replied "We wanted to integrate Joan into the group." Kelly goes absolutely berserk on me. "What do you mean integrate?!? I'm integrated!!"

      I'm still trying to figure out what my comment about Joan -- white Joan -- had anything to do with Kelly. Yes, I walked on egg shells around Kelly from then on.

    2. Re:No, you're not crazy by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      So is this how it works? I come up with an anecdote, unverifiable of course, about what a racist douchebag someone as a counter-argument?

      Just because some (possibly ficticious) people are morons does not invalidate the argument. Address TFA's points directly please, instead of relying on logical fallacies.

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    3. Re:No, you're not crazy by 0123456 · · Score: 1

      Well, yes. That's 'progressives' for you; they want to 'progress' toward everyone doing what they tell them to do.

    4. Re:No, you're not crazy by rasmusbr · · Score: 1

      AFAIK the article does not say that.

      All it says is that it sucks to be the one who is different from everyone else, and that the author is going to do what she can in order to bring more people like her into the industry, so that it will suck less for her kind of person.

    5. Re:No, you're not crazy by LessThanObvious · · Score: 1

      Great article, agreed "Girls and Software" should be mandatory reading. Please, give us more engineers like that. Give me women that can handle themselves in uncontrolled social environments. Give me women who can handle conflict logically. Give me women that really know their shit. Give me women who can pick up a screw gun and rack mount equipment. When those women show up to the interview I'll be happy to hire them.

    6. Re:No, you're not crazy by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      So is this how it works? I come up with an anecdote, unverifiable of course, about what a racist douchebag someone as a counter-argument?

      I was responding to someone else having to walk on eggshells -- so it was still on topic.

      Just because some (possibly ficticious) people are morons does not invalidate the argument.

      So, someone writes a blog about some (possible ficiticious [sic]) people are morons and that's supposed to create a sound argument?

    7. Re:No, you're not crazy by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      I'm still trying to figure out what my comment about Joan -- white Joan -- had anything to do with Kelly. Yes, I walked on egg shells around Kelly from then on.

      If you're so ill educated as to not know what "integration" means with regards to race, and so blitheringly stupid as to not be able to Google it... you should walk on egg shells around Kathy - so as not to be a future cause of problems.

      You're right. I guess I wasn't enough of a racist to look at her skin and realize I need to treat black women differently from white people. Thanks for the education.

  4. Tech Up Bringing? by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in.

    Translation: I want to impose my culture on my team mates.

    Frankly, I'm tired of hearing people bitch about diversity in the tech field and then blaming employers. Out of the 200 people in my freshman CS class, two were black. By my senior year, one of them was left in the program -- and his major semester project failed all tests (the test being automated were completely color blind).

    Let's ignore race for a moment. What's the percentage of people in tech who came from a single parent home? Ditto for the population at large? How many people in tech had welfare crack whores for mothers? The population at large? What's the percentage of people in tech where education was a priority for the family? The population at large?

    If you want to bring race into it, turn around and ask the same questions and throw racial demographics into it. Perhaps the problem isn't with the tech companies, nor institutions of higher learning,nor primary or secondary education. Perhaps the problem lies with the family dynamics.

    1. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by whereiswaldo · · Score: 4, Interesting

      From TFA: "I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in"

      White male here. I was with a company for many years that had a _very_ different culture than I was used to. Let's just say some of the stuff that went on would be firing offenses and many other companies or at least be highly offensive to some. I learned to fit in and emulate the culture. When I left, I realized how much I had changed, just like the woman in the story said she has lost her identity. This is not just a racial problem.

    2. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by Registered+Coward+v2 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in.

      Translation: I want to impose my culture on my team mates.

      No, more like I am always acutely aware of my differences and it can be uncomfortable. Until you have been their it is hard to understand but one day you may find yourself there even if your just "the old guy."

      Let's ignore race for a moment. What's the percentage of people in tech who came from a single parent home? Ditto for the population at large? How many people in tech had welfare crack whores for mothers? The population at large? What's the percentage of people in tech where education was a priority for the family? The population at large?

      the real question is "how do we identify and support talent that may not be able to reach their potential without help?" It is easy to dismiss people but the reality is if someone cares and helps people can overcome the odds.

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    3. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by 0xdeadbeef · · Score: 4, Insightful

      How many people in tech had welfare crack whores for mothers?

      Dude. Your dog whistle is broken. Everyone can hear it.

    4. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by emj · · Score: 1

      [..] it's quite reasonable for anyone to want to have folks at work that they can relate to [...] It's pretty uncomfortable being the only dad at a kid's birthday party.

      No! It's about people being more including, and you can't ever be including if you are always in your own non-diverse bubble. I have no problems being the only dad at birthday parties, vice versa for my girlfriend. I have heard some stories told about fathers the eighties when it wasnt normal to split parental leave, but now days it's normal and you get no funny looks. But we do get 480 days of parental leave to spend for 7 years, so there is more to play with.

    5. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Translation: I want to impose my culture on my team mates.

      Funny, because the entire article is about not imposing your culture on people. You are just assuming she said what your pre-conceived ideas tell you she probably said.

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    6. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by Evtim · · Score: 1

      Work is not social club?!?

      Do you realize that before pension you spend more of your active life [barring sleep] with your colleagues than with your family and friends? How many people understand this simple fact?

      So, yes you might say - let's keep work free of any social interactions but hey, we are human beings. The more cordial the atmosphere in a team the more productive it is....how are we gonna get such pleasant environment - by being social, by having social interactions. There is no other way...

      So you see, work is a social club by default. It is a requirement...anecdotal - in my company a few teams are led by people who have your mindset [on this issue]. Needles to say those are not happy teams....

    7. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Funny, because the entire article is about not imposing your culture on people.

      No, no it is not. That's how the language is couched, but the article is actually about wanting people to have your culture.

      Tolerance is fine, and it is good, and it's not what we're talking about here. What we're talking about here is conformance. And sure, it's worse when a group tries to make a person conform, but it's still bad when a person tries to make a group to conform, unless what we're talking about are generally-accepted standards of behavior.

      Only in creepy cults are you expected to eat lunch with your coworkers every day. Only if you have low self-esteem do you expect to eat with people who don't like you every day. Maybe her group really is just prejudiced against her. In that case, yes, it's a hostile work environment. Find another job, which is always easier when you have one, leave them, and let them fail.

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    8. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by Gramie2 · · Score: 1

      As a single dad to two boys, I have been the only dad at multiple birthday parties. I've planned and hosted them. I've dealt with my kids' teachers and coaches and friends without batting an eye.

      Maybe I'm lucky that I'm not all that sensitive to what other people are thinking about me. It certainly helped when I was almost the only foreigner in a village in the mountains of Southern Africa for three years. It also helped when I was one of a handful of foreigners in the places I lived in Japan for seven years.

      Yes, in some ways I feel more comfortable with people who speak English natively, or who understand about Tim Hortons and the Montreal Canadiens, but I also value the people who are around me, wherever it may be.

      When I arrived in the aforementioned African country, my organization immediately (within 24 hours of my two-day trip) placed me in another village, where I lived with a family for a month. The rationale was that when you are thrown into an unfamiliar environment, you seek support and connections among those around you. If I had started with an orientation surrounded by other expat volunteers, I would not form close bonds with the locals. Also, learning the language became a matter of survival (although a few people around me spoke English, learning Sesotho was essential).

    9. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by jedidiah · · Score: 1

      > Do you realize that before pension you spend more of your active life [barring sleep] with your colleagues than with your family and friends? How many people understand this simple fact?

      It's not 1950. Those people will likely be a different set of people 3 years from now. You don't need to be "pals" with these people. You just need to get the job done. They are quite disposable.

      These are people that you TEMPORARILY work with. Playing with them is not required.

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    10. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Maybe it's different in the US, but in the UK employers have a responsibility to make the workplace acceptable to most of society. Obviously there will always be people who are not happy, but for example there shouldn't be things that force women to abandon their female identity and become more masculine just to fit in because that would affect 50% of the population negatively.

      Of course there is always some adjustment when you enter a new group of people. However, there is reasonable adjustment and then there is this woman's experience. Sorry, there isn't a precise rule or measure, but that doesn't make the problem less real.

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    11. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      > Do you realize that before pension you spend more of your active life [barring sleep] with your colleagues than with your family and friends? How many people understand this simple fact?

      It's not 1950. Those people will likely be a different set of people 3 years from now. You don't need to be "pals" with these people. You just need to get the job done. They are quite disposable.

      These are people that you TEMPORARILY work with. Playing with them is not required.

      Your point is probably where all these "get girls into tech" issues stem from. Men get into tech, find out that there's little to no socialising and are okay with it. Women get into tech, find out that there's little to no socialising and feel "left out".

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    12. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      I'm curious - where in Southern Africa where you? I'm in South Africa and have vacationed just about everywhere here and never found a place that only had a few people that spoke english.

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    13. Re:Tech Up Bringing? by Dragon+Bait · · Score: 1

      How many people in tech had welfare crack whores for mothers?

      Dude. Your dog whistle is broken. Everyone can hear it.

      My younger sister was a welfare crack whore. Perhaps it is you that needs to check your preconceived notions at the door...

  5. Commonality by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    So different teams, different bosses, different roles, different companies, different locations, different time periods and they all sucked, she was always the outsider... the only commonality was the author. Her attitude is the problem, not the rest of the world.

    1. Re:Commonality by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      Except for that one job where everyone was just like her. Then it was "diversity lightning" and everything was great.

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    2. Re:Commonality by namira · · Score: 1

      Wow. Come on guys, can't we all just open our minds a little and realize that there are genuine negative consequences that usually arise when a person doesn't feel like they fit in? Aren't there any readers here who were outcasts in high school because they weren't attractive enough, well adjusted enough, interested enough in football? Applying the same logic to that geek you're using here, the nerd should be blamed for his unpopularity. He would fit in just fine if only he had a better attitude, right? Nuh-uh. Pretty much all humans want to feel like they're part of a community; it was once a survival mechanism because being ostracized from the group generally meant certain death. It's easier to survive on your own now, but people who feel like they don't belong still tend to experience a great deal of near-constant stress and anxiety. And when a person is genuinely different from the others in the group, it's often the case that the only way to avoid being ostracized is to mimic the behavior of the others like the author of the article did. Pretending to be someone else can make your day-to-day life a lot less stressful, but it's a shitty thing to have to do and there are always consequences down the line.

    3. Re:Commonality by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      All of us were outcasts in high school, which is why we ain't buying this bullshit of "women in tech are treated differently".

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    4. Re:Commonality by namira · · Score: 1

      I really don't see how that follows. Could you extrapolate, perhaps?

  6. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The continual assumption on the part of the "progressive" crowd that, as a white male, I am obviously a racist hate-filled bastard, is actually starting to turn me into a racist, hate-filled bastard.

  7. The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The assumption is that there is no diversity because of discrimination. An analysis of the women in college demonstrates that fewer are hired in tech because fewer train for that field.

    Therefore the burden is on the college not the tech company.

    The College will respond that the burden is not on them because the student chooses what they want to study.

    Which either means women have to take responsibility for this or we regress back into their history blaming their high school, their grade school, their parents, or society...

    And I wish you all a hilarious time with that little journey. I'll be over here in the real world just getting on with it.

    *rolls up window and drives on*

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    1. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 3, Funny

      Which means you agree it isn't the tech company's fault that the whole industry is a giant sausage fest.

      Just keep stocked up on mustard and throw bread rolls at anyone that complains.

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    2. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Okay, so I hear you're mad at the Sun because... physics?

      How is any of this my problem?

      You're mad that your parents didn't encourage you to do things you ultimately didn't do because you showed no interest in them later in life?

      Okay... so you're saying feminism is just a giant political movement built around toxic daddy issues?

      Explain again why I'm not supposed to laugh at you? Because it is really really hard.

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    3. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 4, Insightful

      A women feeling uncomfortable because there aren't a lot of women around is not a sign that I am discriminating against her or showing her disrespect.

      That is merely her personal response to a situation.

      You want to say people feel uncomfortable in given situations?

      Okay, lets say I tell you that I am made uncomfortable by a woman that wears sexy clothing and yet doesn't want me to stare at her. She's sexy. I want to stare at her. But I can't because that would be rude and creepy. So she's walking around wearing this stuff and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

      Now if I point this out, I am apparently slut shaming or victim blaming or some other stupid buzz word that means she isn't responsible for my impressions of things she's doing.

      Okay.

      Then I'm not responsible for her feeling uncomfortable by the mostly male work environment.

      Either sort out the hypocrisy in this idiocy or concede that it doesn't make any god damn sense.

      I am too logical and too rational to be distracted by this psychobabble. If you want to push this stuff... Go for it. I eagerly await the attempt.

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    4. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      This isn't about assigning blame, it's about fixing the problem. Companies can help fix it by creating a work environment that is easier for women to integrate into. No discrimination or hiring women for the sake of it, just make the job more attractive to women so they apply in greater numbers and stay around if they get the job.

      Stop trying to make this a blame game and an "us vs. them" situation.

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    5. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Okay, lets say I tell you that I am made uncomfortable by a woman that wears sexy clothing and yet doesn't want me to stare at her. She's sexy. I want to stare at her. But I can't because that would be rude and creepy. So she's walking around wearing this stuff and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

      Now if I point this out, I am apparently slut shaming or victim blaming or some other stupid buzz word that means she isn't responsible for my impressions of things she's doing.

      Society has standards for dress. It varies of course, in some places women have to cover up everything and in others tight jeans are fine. Beyond that, companies have dress standards. If you wanted to go topless at work to show off your abs that would probably be unacceptable to most of your society, and probably against your company's dress code.

      Equally, if dressing provocatively is allowed then no-one can blame you for looking. That's what it is supposed to make you do. Obviously that doesn't extend to touching and is not usually an invitation for flirtation or sexual comments, but that's just common sense.

      In any case, even if what you said were a reflection of reality it wouldn't invalidate the point made by TFA.

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    6. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 1

      No. A women feeling uncomfortable in a predominantly male group can be a sign that someone is discriminating against her or showing her disrespect. It can also mean that she is incapable of adapting to a more or less normal environment. The fact that some women claim to be discriminated against at every setback does not disprove the fact that sexist jokes or more serious discrimination tends to happen more often in less diverse groups. Whether or not her "personal response to a given situation" is appropriate depends to a large degree on the situation, wouldn't you say?

      In a normal workplace, men try not to make sexist jokes, women try not to dress overly sexy, and people in general only complain about stuff that actually matters, try to solve minor things in an amicable fashion, and don't flip out over every little thing that bugs them. You are responsible for her feeling uncomfortable if you make sexist jokes, just as she is responsible for your discomfort if she dresses like a slut. Now I fully agree that there is hypocrisy, that in our society the burden of both being accommodating to others and being mindful of others' sensitivities typically falls squarely on the shoulders of the White Male and on no one else's, and that some people take full advantage of that fact. But that doesn't mean that there is no real discrimination going on. That was my point.

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    7. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      Now I'm curious. How do you make a job more attractive to women? I can think of a few things of course like sexist comments (I haven't heard a blonde joke in 10 years but there are a few opposite of sausage fest type comments; old girl's network for instance). But what job conditions make a job attractive to a woman?

      [John]

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    8. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      It's not about assigning blame. It's about telling these companies that they're doing something wrong. We're not "blaming" them just telling them their lack of (sufficient) diversity is indicative of them being part of the problem.

      Good doublespeak.

    9. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      Equally, if dressing provocatively is allowed then no-one can blame you for looking.

      I'm pretty sure the "male gaze" is a cited reason for lack of women in male environments. So lots of people would blame and I am sure you would be one of them the moment a woman complained about feeling uncomfortable.

    10. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Oh you didn't know?

      Hillary Clinton apparently.

      There is this collection of what are known as "Third Wave, Sex Negative, Feminists" that are making the rounds. They went through the Atheist community, they went through Occupy, they went through the comic book world for some reason, and they've been pissing off gamers lately with that whole gamer gate thing.

      Anyway... they're all over the place apparently agitated about the great vagina revolution.

      They even went so far as to repeal due process in California universities with their "yes means yes" campaign. They even got the CDC to redefine what rape means so they could claim that 1 in 5 women are raped in college. Anywho... they're being humored in most places because no one wants to be called a bigot. Most communities are waiting for rational women to stand up and say "actually you don't represent me." Which has happened in a few situations. We'll see what happens.

      But that's is what is going on. They're spamming the media with their nonsense.

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    11. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      Then a man feeling uncomfortable can be a sign he's being discriminated against.

      Take my bullshit feelings seriously and I'll take your bullshit feelings seriously.

      As to sexist jokes etc... simply saying "there is a lot of dick here" is not evidence of discrimination or sexist jokes. Sometimes you go to an all male work place and there are no jokes of any kind what so ever. Just work.

      Trying to play on pathetic stereotypes and project them on every situation where you're not happy for some reason is not acceptable.

      If you have an issue, show evidence please. The burden of proof is on you.

      What you have is lots of cock in some places. An issue answered with the statistical graduation rates of women with skills required for those professions. So that was the only bit of evidence and it is countered.

      I know you have nothing more then that. So you cannot make any further argument on this subject.

      That's it.

      When you have more we can continue. But until then you only have supposition which I can counter with my own stream of make believe unicorn riding bullshit.

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    12. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 2

      Then by this logic women can't complain if there are a lot of men in the work place because that is not a violation of the dress code or social norms.

      I set out two situations.

      1. Either this is a non issue.

      2. Or women need to start changing the way they do things to make men not feel insecure or uncomfortable around them in some situations.

      You chose option 1 which is actually my preferred answer to this article and issue. This is an article about a women being uncomfortable around cock. Everywhere she looks she sees dick.

      And that makes her feel uncomfortable. Well... what about the poor guy that sees nothing but vagina as far as the eye can see? Doubtless he feels uncomfortable in that situation on occasion... no one is going to bend over backwards for that guy. So don't see any reason to bend for this woman.

      I'll say the same thing to her that I would say to the guy... be an adult and deal with it. Stop whining about your insecurities like a pathetic child.

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    13. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      No they can't. You weren't listening. There is an imbalance of talent out there. They can't hire as many women as men. they do not exist with the requisite skills.

      As I said, you can blame the colleges if you want.

      They will blame the women for not taking the right courses.

      And that will stop there... or if you want you can blame the high schools, grade schools, parents, and society instead.

      Your choice. But the companies are utterly blameless.

      If the women are not taking the right courses then that isn't the company's fault. That's just math. If you refuse to accept math then... I'm arguing with a crazy person.

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    14. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by stdarg · · Score: 1

      There are many things. A lot of them revolve around dealing with kids...
      * Good maternity and paternity leave policies
      * Flexible time to accommodate daycare, school, sports, etc events
      * Work/life balance (reasonable working hours, not on call all the time)
      * On-premise or nearby daycare (I honestly don't know why companies in business parks don't pool resources and provide free daycare)

      Then there are issues that sound sexist like more openness about salary and fewer closed-door negotiations (because women don't like negotiating about sensitive subjects).

      I agree with a lot of these things, and I'm not at all on the pro-diversity bandwagon. Diversity for diversity's sake is retarded. Claims that diversity makes your team better are BS. But things that make the work environment better for everyone, including women, seem like a good idea.

      The problem is these things may make you less competitive due to higher costs, so it's hard to get much traction on these issues unless it were made law and all companies had to participate (so they would have an even playing field).

    15. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by operagost · · Score: 1

      Again we go down the wrong path. Number one, making something attractive for a specific sex means making sexist assumptions. Number two, if you want to eliminate prejudice, you make sure that things are not UNATTRACTIVE for people of certain sexes/races-- making it ATTRACTIVE for certain ones is simply another form of preference, by definition.

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    16. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      More flexible hours, a more inclusive work environment, reasonable policies on maternity leave and childcare needs, advancement based recognition of things other than the amount of overtime put in etc... Most of it is stuff that benefits everyone, actually.

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    17. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by JaredOfEuropa · · Score: 1

      Then a man feeling uncomfortable can be a sign he's being discriminated against.

      I never said or implied otherwise.

      Take my bullshit feelings seriously and I'll take your bullshit feelings seriously.

      Better to not complain about feelings at all if they are "bullshit", but in any case, what goes for the man goes for the woman, as I stated in my previous post.

      As to sexist jokes etc... simply saying "there is a lot of dick here" is not evidence of discrimination or sexist jokes. Sometimes you go to an all male work place and there are no jokes of any kind what so ever. Just work.

      Sometimes, yes. And in other cases the jokes are there. The less diverse the workplace, the likelier this is.

      Trying to play on pathetic stereotypes and project them on every situation where you're not happy for some reason is not acceptable.

      Neither is dismissing claims of discrimination or other inappropriate behaviour out of hand in every situation. Be careful not to fall into the same trap yourself.

      If you have an issue, show evidence please. The burden of proof is on you. What you have is lots of cock in some places. An issue answered with the statistical graduation rates of women with skills required for those professions. So that was the only bit of evidence and it is countered.

      I never supported the notion that the cause for the shortage of women in technical professions is caused by inappropriate behaviour in predominantly male environments. My point was that the counter-arguments do not prove that such inappropriate behaviour doesn't occur in the workplace. The fact that it occurs more frequently in less diverse environments is well-documented. No links, you can do your own homework. And by the tone of your posts I'd say you are living proof of this.

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    18. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      As to what you implied, no one takes a man's feelings seriously in these situations so until that changes I feel out of fairness... I have no reason to take her feelings seriously in this situation.

      Only fair.

      As to bullshit feelings, they're my feelings and you don't get to judge them. That is the glory of feelings. Maybe it is part of my feelings that they are bullshit. My male attitude requires that I belittle my own feelings as a symbol of my masculinity. Women claim similar things with their feelings. Why must male feelings conform to female feeling norms? See how fun this game is? it is a merry go round of stupidity. We can either respect each other and be rational or you get something "else". This woman that was complaining was being well treated. No on disrespected her. She's just being unreasonable and whining. She is setting the standard for how I respond to her.

      As to jokes, and women make jokes about men as well with just as much frequency. The difference is that men don't complain about it because they're men. Amongst men it is a sign of weakness to signal that anyone is getting to us. It is a sign of weakness to complain. And as a result, men can be bullied especially by people that the men cannot retaliate against in kind. So the man gets bullied by the woman... but if he wants to bully her back VERBALLY then he's a bad person. Which creates a problem. Long story short... this "joke" issue is a wash. There are violations on both sides of the line and neither side has moral superiority here.

      As to dismissing discrimination, the burden of proof is upon THEE. I don't have to prove anything. You're the one making accusations. Even this women didn't claim she was getting any of that. She just said there was too much cock around her. I don't credit that as a valid complaint in a professional work environment. Some offices will have an awful lot of dick. And?

      As to your continuing attempts to shift the burden of proof... rejected. Provide evidence or case dismissed.

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    19. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by r.freeman · · Score: 1

      Which either means women have to take responsibility for this or we regress back into their history blaming their high school, their grade school, their parents, or society...

      Wait, why is anyone being blamed here, how about the idea that maybe, just maaaaybe, majority of woman prefer home, kids, being a good mother, and simply like to spend life this way?!

    20. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      As to your SJWs... yep... everyone has those people. I didn't even know the term SJW until very recently. We've always just called them 'activists' or "politicos" or something.

      As to clinton's approval... she's a PURE politician. She supports anything that is useful to her. I suspect she's generally supportive of these people because they're useful.

      That said there is a growing backlash because we've been dealing with the "war on women" narrative since 2012... and men are getting a little tired of being randomly called rapists for no reason. Last election was pretty striking. Democrats won the female vote by a little bit... but men shifted HARD for republicans. And being called rapists for 2 years and being denied due process and other basic legal rights didn't help.

      So hillary might run into some problems because the feminist card is getting over played.

      As to the US and the Yes means Yes law... its only relevant in California universities right now. Otherwise the US is generally okay about it unless you have children... or there is some sort of divorce. Then the system will fuck you raw.

      Guy was literally drugged by a women, woke up tied to a bed with her straddling him, she brought him to climax in that position, let him go, he reported it as rape to the police, nothing happened legally, she got pregnant, asked for government assistance, and the government then demanded HE pay for her child. He was literally drugged and raped... and he has to pay child support. Classic.

      That is unusual... but it happens. Men just increasingly have to keep in mind the system is very happy to fuck them.

      US free speech laws let you get away with calling people things pretty much indiscriminately. Honestly, I'm happy with it that way. "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" as the old children's rhyme goes. I'm fine with people calling me whatever. It is when those words translate into action that I start having a problem.

      Say and believe ANYTHING you want. No problem with any of it. In fact, I will die to protect the right of someone to say I am evil. That is my commitment to freedom. But there is a universe of difference between saying something and doing something.

      As to your thanks for passing it on... no problem. Its been everywhere lately. I do wish women would stand up and throw this crap down. Most women don't support it. But they're like moderates in many places that feel intimidated by radicals. They just say nothing and let it happen.

      Its fucked up. There are various things men can do. Lots of passive resistance. We can keep voting these idiots out of office. And of course we don't have to support the media outlets that push it. We'll see what happens. US is going through some very tense political issues right now. We really don't need the feminists adding their craziness to our the stew.

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    21. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      The woman in the article is blaming people.

      Point blank.

      I am saying... IF she going to blame someone... the LAST person to blame is the company that ACTUALLY HIRED HER.

      Think about this... the company GAVE her the job. And she's still not happy because there is just too much cock in the office.

      Now who's fault is that quantity of cock?

      We go back to the university and find that women aren't taking the courses that give them the skills to work at that cock filled office. Seems mostly people with cocks are taking those courses and they are voluntary courses open to women.

      Which means women are choosing to not have the skills that allow them to work at those cock filled companies.

      now why would this be a surprise? She went through college and how many women were sharing these computer classes with her? Statistically not many. Which means... she should have seen this coming.

      This is just typical whiny bullshit. EVERYONE feels like this on occasion. Only some people decide to share their whine with other people. Today... we got to hear THIS person's reasons for them not being happy.

      I have no care for any of it.

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    22. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      If the responsibility is on me to not be uncomfortable then likewise it is upon this woman complaining to not be made uncomfortable by all the cock around her at the office.

      Its the same. If I have to deal with things then she has to deal with things.

      The world is not created to make either of us happy or comfortable. We operate under similar social standards and she just needs to admit this is on her.

      If she doesn't like working at that company because of all the sexy sexy men all around her at all times with their neck beards and squinty eyes... then maybe she needs to find work somewhere else?

      I would say the same thing to a man in the same position.

      That is what equality looks like. You ask for more then this and you're asking for special treatment.

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    23. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      By talented, you mean people that could do the work if they had the education and background to be useful? Maybe. But they don't which means the company has to train them from scratch which is expensive.

      The universities might get as much as 60 thousand dollars to educate someone. Who is picking up that tab?

      Look, you can't blame the company for hiring someone qualified that can actually start working immediately versus someone that has to be trained for literally years at huge expense. Get real.

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    24. Re:The thesis has been debunked already by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      Again we go down the wrong path. Number one, making something attractive for a specific sex means making sexist assumptions.

      Sometimes, such as in the case of providing appropriate toilet facilities, you kind of have to make sexist assumptions. Women's washrooms don't need stand-up urinals, so replacing those with more toilets, while sexist, is the obvious solution.

      It's not just that IT is becoming less and less attractive to women - it's becoming less attractive, period. Has nothing to do with sex or gender. It too often sucks. The death march has become so institutionalized that if you go "hey, I'm not a slave, this is just a job, not my entire life!" you mark yourself with a big "X". Oddly enough, it's men who are more prone to get sucked into this, both because of their macho attitude (can't look like a weak wimp, hmm?) and because of the culture around male programmers having to outdo each other as part of the male pissing contests that make up a large part of IT culture. And that same macho mindset prevents them from even admitting they're being abused and victimized by the same system they're actively perpetuating.

      It's not a question of making IT more attractive just for women any more.

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  8. Irony by MikeRT · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I laughed at their terribly racist and sexist jokes

    I've lived and worked in the South my entire life and worked on teams that were overwhelmingly white. I've never heard coworkers make "terribly racist and sexist jokes" at work. What this leads me to believe is that either her West Coast or New England coworkers were much more inclined toward racism and sexism (a possibility, since New England is actually more racist than much of the South today) or she was indirectly proving why they felt the need to walk on egg shells around her (the habit of certain people to find racism and sexism where it doesn't exist).

    Much of her argument comes down to the fact that she wants to work with people who look and act like her, not like me. That's fine, but let's call it what it is. She prefers her own and in white people that's called "racism" by the left. But as we know from the left's vanguard, minorities cannot be racist since you have to have power to be racist and minorities allegedly have no power.

    1. Re:Irony by emj · · Score: 1

      Much of her argument comes down to the fact that she wants to work with people who look and act like her, not like me.

      No she says it's hard to fit in if there is no respect for diversity. It's your choice to make the interpretation that belittles her opinions about diversity. Group-think is comforting when you are in the group, but doesn't really work when you widen your horizon.

    2. Re:Irony by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      I've lived and worked in the South my entire life and worked on teams that were overwhelmingly white. I've never heard coworkers make "terribly racist and sexist jokes" at work.

      I lived in Texas for only a year and a half, and some coworkers (at Tivoli) made extremely sexist jokes, and occasionally some moderately racist jokes. But they didn't make them in front of the people who were their butts, so perhaps they had the minimum required sensitivity. Meanwhile, I really have never experienced that sort of stuff in California.

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    3. Re:Irony by DogPhilosopher · · Score: 1

      Indeed, it seems that the author doesn't understand the terms `racism' and `diversity', or redefines them to mean something that suits her prejudices. Exhibit A:

      I suspect THD’s diverse environment had something to do with being in Atlanta, a city that is 54% African-American. It’s hard not to be diverse when the local demographics force you to be.

      The `diversity' of a working environment reflects the local `diversity', what a revelation! She still finds a way to spin this basic fact into something negative and racist. No wonder she needed therapy.

      TFA is a barrage of micro- and not-so micro-agressions against white men. Yet another worthless article on medium.com, I sincerely (really, please don't mod me troll) wonder why this is on /., can anyone explain?

    4. Re:Irony by Agent0013 · · Score: 1

      She said her group of two people was not diverse because she was the only black person. She plainly stated that she wanted her whole group to be just like her. That is not an example of diversity, no matter how much you try to claim otherwise.

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    5. Re:Irony by namira · · Score: 1

      It's great that you haven't experienced any racism, but you do understand that your limited personal experiences don't prove that no one ever experiences it, right? Personally, I live in an extremely laid back place and I am myself extremely white, but I know many people who frequently make racist comments. They make a lot of broad and unflattering assumptions about the way people of other races behave, and they like to talk about it *a lot*. If I were a person of a less popular race working on a team with any of these people, I imagine the workplace would start to feel hostile very quickly.

    6. Re:Irony by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      You have never heard sexist racist jokes in California?

      You can't read. Perhaps slashdot is not for you.

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    7. Re:Irony by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      She said her group of two people was not diverse because she was the only black person. She plainly stated that she wanted her whole group to be just like her. That is not an example of diversity, no matter how much you try to claim otherwise.

      That, and a few other things, make me wonder if she really "gets it."

      The last place I lived, I was definitely in the minority. The minority english-speaker (fortunately I also speak fluent french). The minority race (white). The majority of my acquaintances there were other women, mostly black, mostly french-speaking, many were immigrants ... so what? I had an open-door policy, and was always inviting people over for coffee and a chat.

      You don't have to "sacrifice who you are" to try to fit in. You can also fit in by being different, but still contributing to whatever group you're in. The more you can know and accept who you are, the better you can know and accept those around you where they're at, rather than trying to fit everyone into some mold or pigeon-hole.

      Saying you're more comfortable with "your own kind of people" in "your own kind of neighborhood" is kind of racist. On second thought, strike the "kind of". Just because so many people do it doesn't make it right.

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  9. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Pino+Grigio · · Score: 4, Insightful

    According to current social justice theory being a white male, especially a heterosexual white male, is a privilege you need to be ashamed of.

  10. The answer by dbIII · · Score: 1, Flamebait

    Because people who know different stuff know different stuff. That's why it was taken as read and not stated.

    1. Re:The answer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Native Americans saw an increase in diversity in their country from the 1500s on. A lot of good it did them.

      You still didn't answer the question.

    2. Re:The answer by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2

      Your example is very intriguing, and perfectly valid, but unless American engineering resembles Lebanese politics, also quite irrelevant to the original topic.

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    3. Re:The answer by dbIII · · Score: 1

      Sadly if your inability to understand previously that significantly changing the mass and volume of a rocket changes it's flight characteristics enough that it may as well be a different rocket is widespread then it may as well resemble Lebanese politics.
      People pick up useful stuff if you don't have a monoculture. Silicon Valley would not have succeeded if they had nothing other than University of California graduates.

    4. Re:The answer by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Ahhh, you're still pissed off that you missed Antares being a Zenit chimera? :-p Poor thing...

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    5. Re:The answer by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      It all sounds like "Boo Hoo Hoo"...my self esteem isn't being groomed, people don't look out for my feelings, etc.

      Seriously..it is a fucking JOB, you go in, you get it done, you leave. No one gives a fuck about your self esteem, or how you stick out in a crowd or your feelings.

      We've been teaching this shit to kids so much in past years, and catering to their ever needs, and helicoptering around them so much to protect them from people that might NOT make friends with them or even *gasp* outright hurt their feelings, that they aren't ready for the REAL WORLD out there. When they leave home and enter the adult work place.

      In the real world, not everyone gets a trophy for just showing up and participating. No one cares if you feel "different". As long as you aren't being persecuted or outright discriminated against for the getting the job, you're on your own.

      You are there for ONE thing, plain and simple.

      Work

      Quit fucking whining and work...its what we've all been doing for decades before now, and no one gives a rats ass if you're a man/woman or what race you are.

      We do care if you are dragging the team down by complaining about your self esteem issues, or if someone isn't all smiles and unicorns when you say something or come up with an idea.

      It's called a JOB for a reason. It is work...you get paid for it, and nothing else.

      If you want feelings time, and camaraderie, or ego stroking, go to a therapist or a bar with friends.

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    6. Re:The answer by dbIII · · Score: 1

      Just was getting sick of waiting for your reply after my point about the different tank etc, wondering if you got it or not, and then here you are!

    7. Re:The answer by cob666 · · Score: 2

      I've worked for several companies that diversified their development teams simply because they were told that the staff was not diversified enough. The result has always been a general decrease in the productivity because the new hire was not the best qualified candidate (many times the jobs were filled internally).

      Workplace diversity for the sake of diversity is a stupid idea

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    8. Re:The answer by Spazmania · · Score: 1

      You got it exactly right. Different backgrounds yield different perspectives on any challenge that faces the team. This leads to more broadly considered solutions that have a better chance of working well.

      From reading her essay, I gather that Erica's problem is that she doesn't seek diversity. Earlier in her career she sought to homogenize herself with her co-workers. Now she seeks homogeneity with "her type." Both approaches are ultimately unsuccessful.

      You have to take an interest in the lives of the folks you work with. Why? Because people take an interest in the people who take an interest in them. It's human nature. But you don't do that by becoming the the other person, you do that by sitting with them and listening. Then you share your own very different adventures while they listen. Shakespeare offered it as a platitude but it's basically right: to thine own self be true.

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    9. Re:The answer by NotDrWho · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Because people who know different stuff know different stuff.

      "Hello Team! This is our new team member, Ug. Ug is actually an unfrozen stone-age caveman who we brought in to add some diversity and new ideas to the development of our game. Now, keep in mind that Ug doesn't know anything about programming, or games, or how to use a toilet, or anything like that. But we're hoping that his fresh new perspective can really help us rethink some of our cultural assumptions about game development. So we need you to treat him as an equal and really listen to what he has to say. Are there any questions?"

      "Yeah, what does Ug think of the game so far?"

      "Well, when we showed it to him, he screamed, attacked the monitor, and yelled something about a vision from the thunder gods."

      "So we should strive to make the game more sensitive to those who may not understand how electricity works?"

      "EXACTLY! And we should probably also avoid any sudden movements in the game. Sudden movements REALLY seem to make him uncomfortable. Do you have anything to add, Ug?"

      "Ug happy to be part of team tribe, Ug honor team chief, no kill his son or take his woman."

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    10. Re:The answer by operagost · · Score: 1

      So females have exclusive skills and knowledge that males don't?

      Black people have exclusive skills and knowledge that whites, Asians, Hispanics, etc. don't?

      How about gay people? Do they have exclusive skills and knowledge that straight people don't?

      How about religion? Do Muslims have exclusive skills and knowledge that Christians, Hindus, atheists, etc. don't?

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    11. Re:The answer by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      Pretty sure you just won the thread with that post.

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    12. Re:The answer by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      Black people have exclusive skills and knowledge that whites, Asians, Hispanics, etc. don't?

      Funny how the pro-diversity SJWs will make pretty much that exact claim, albeit in a roundabout sort of way, but if anyone were to point out a supporting observation (say, that black people tend to be better at running than other races), the same SJWs automatically label that person as a racist.

      Hence the reason I tend to take first-worlder complaints of directed, personal oppression with a large helping of salt.

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    13. Re:The answer by Garridan · · Score: 1

      One has a right to not be abused in their place of work. Did you even read the fucking article? She doesn't want to feel special. She wants to go work, do her job, and go home without getting ostracized by her coworkers. When your JOB involves working with people, your success in doing your job depends crucially on how those people interact with you.

    14. Re:The answer by CosaNostra+Pizza+Inc · · Score: 1

      Well cayenne8...Unpleasant distractions in a job can make a job...well, unpleasant. Take me for example, I'm a developer who does a lot of analytical problem solving. Yet, I'm almost constantly distracted by the big-mouthed middleware guy who sits in the adjacent cubical and talks on the phone all day with a loud annoying voice. I wear 30db headphones sometimes, which help. I even asked to be moved to another cubical but I have to wait on an answer because the company may be moving to a nearby town in a few months, anyway. Also, most of us spend more the our waking hours of our lives at work than outside of work. My point is that people who feel ostracized or uncomfortable in their work environment are dealing with distractions...and distractions can impact work performance and/or physical/mental health.

    15. Re:The answer by MarkvW · · Score: 1

      If they do have exclusive skills, you want them on the team for that reason.

      If they don't have exclusive skills, you want to include them in the team selection process because you can maximize your chance of obtaining those skills.

      Not too hard.

    16. Re:The answer by MitchDev · · Score: 1

      Amen... that is the big problem with all this "diversity" nonsense.

      Businesses exist to make money, they'll hire people with the talent and ability to make them money, regardless of color, gender, race, etc.

    17. Re:The answer by MitchDev · · Score: 1

      Are they actually doing anything to her/at her? Or is she just pissy because they don;t want to spend their spare time with her? She's starting to sound like a harpy, and then wonders why no one wants to be her friend?

    18. Re:The answer by NoImNotNineVolt · · Score: 1

      I'm excitedly awaiting the second installment of this story where our protagonist throws off the chains of employment, becomes an entrepreneur, and starts a successful boot-making company.

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    19. Re:The answer by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      As long as you aren't being persecuted or outright discriminated against for the getting the job, you're on your own.

      The glass ceiling and pay inequity based on gender are still problems - pretty much outright discrimination when it comes to $$$. Would you like your daughter to make less than your neighbor's son for the same work?

      Quit fucking whining and work...its what we've all been doing for decades before now, and no one gives a rats ass if you're a man/woman or what race you are.

      Until it comes to pay, promotions, credit for significant contributions or achievements.

      It's called a JOB for a reason. It is work...you get paid for it, and nothing else.

      To the contrary, contributing to a toxic workplace costs the bottom line, as does disrupting the workplace or not helping your co-workers, so your employment is also contingent on meeting certain norms of behavior. If everyone around you is openly ready to quit because you're a dick, pointing out "but the work is still getting done" won't save your hiney from being fired for cause.

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    20. Re:The answer by dbIII · · Score: 1

      Yes but sometimes they hire people with the exact same interests or background instead of hiring for talent. My point was really that you should look for talent beyond who you knew in your college dorm, and there's some places that reduce the pool to that or similar.

    21. Re:The answer by dbIII · · Score: 1

      Similarly a total lack of diversity results in an insular and slow moving monoculture.
      It looks like I need a blunt instrument to be clearer. In the US the population is mobile and diverse plus typically jobs are awarded based on merit.
      In North Korea most of that does not apply.

      Did that make it through to the many here who are nitpicking based on personal baggage instead of considering it in general terms.

    22. Re:The answer by dbIII · · Score: 2

      Yes, little bit of blackface comedy there redirected to a safer demographic, but consider the following:

      In the US the population is mobile and diverse plus typically jobs are awarded based on merit.
      In North Korea most of that does not apply.

      Personally I'm backing the diverse US option instead of the North Korean "everyone must fit in" approach.
      How do you like it presented that way? Does it bypass enough baggage to avoid silly blackface comedy?

    23. Re:The answer by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      It's called a JOB for a reason. It is work...you get paid for it, and nothing else.

      If you want feelings time, and camaraderie, or ego stroking, go to a therapist or a bar with friends.

      Or, you can quit the job and go to a job that cares a little more about their employees' feelings and happiness.

      If there's no shortage of available workers for this job, then your employers with your attitude are probably OK; they can kick out people who need more hand-holding and find people who fit in well. However, if there is a shortage of quality workers for this job, and it's not just some brain-dead no-thinking job that any monkey could do, then employers with your attitude will quickly find, unless they're paying top dollar salaries, that they can't keep good employees around, and without employees, they can't produce any product and will quickly go under.

    24. Re:The answer by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Yep, the open-borders advocates never think about that one. The Native Americans didn't enforce their borders very well (not that they had the firepower to do so anyway), and now where are they? Same goes for the Australian Aboriginees. Both are second-class citizens in their own ancestral lands.

    25. Re:The answer by rioki · · Score: 1

      I honestly think that what they bring to the table is their cultural background, not their gender or race. If you take a team of all white males age 20 - 25, who grew up all around the world, you will get better results than a group of white males ages 20 - 25 from California. If the design team of Assassins Creed would have had more women in key positions, maybe they would have noticed having a female playable character is a good idea, before the game was released. The same goes to design bureaus that make wonderful looking glass stairs.

    26. Re:The answer by rioki · · Score: 1

      The problem here is that as a hiring manager or even an engineer you have very little to go on. No everybody is allowed the luxury of a Google style interview where a candidate if tested for an entire day. It already has been shown that the picture on a CV has more influence than the CV itself. (That is why many states have a no picture rule for CVs.) The same thing repeats in the job interview, how the person behaves and looks is way more influential than any skill he/she/it shows. In the end most hiring decisions are done based on gut feeling. The problem with gut feeling is that it is discriminatory, you have a strong bias towards liking same as you. As a person hiring someone you need to actively try to tear down your biases, to make the best over all decision. But that is really difficult.

    27. Re:The answer by rioki · · Score: 1

      Actually it gets worse, the good employees leave, the bad stay. The result is that the total workforce degrades and the boss is probably non the wiser.

    28. Re:The answer by beastofburdon · · Score: 1

      Nah, I expect him to star on the next version of Survivor Man, or Naked and Afraid.

    29. Re:The answer by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      That all sounds like things a woman would say.

      I say..grow some thicker skin.

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    30. Re:The answer by NoImNotNineVolt · · Score: 1

      It was a terrible joke about Uggs. I sincerely apologize.

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    31. Re:The answer by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Yep. Eventually the boss has to find a new job because the company (or at least that division/workgroup) doesn't survive with bad employees in the face of competition (which the good employees went to work for).

    32. Re:The answer by CanHasDIY · · Score: 1

      I honestly think that what they bring to the table is their cultural background, not their gender or race. If you take a team of all white males age 20 - 25, who grew up all around the world, you will get better results than a group of white males ages 20 - 25 from California.

      Now see, that makes sense! Because you're talking about actual diversity and globalization, not some bigoted race-baiter's concept of it.

      If the design team of Assassins Creed would have had more women in key positions, maybe they would have noticed having a female playable character is a good idea, before the game was released.

      Also, a woman probably would have pointed out how ridiculous it is to pretend that palace guards can't tell the difference between a group of peasants wearing rags, and the huge guy wearing a finely crafted assassin's cloak standing behind them.

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    33. Re:The answer by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

      That all sounds like things a woman would say.
      I say..grow some thicker skin.

      Sounds like something a man would say :-)

      But seriously, don't you have a problem with your daughter (if you have one) earning less than your neighbors son for the same work?

      --
      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    34. Re:The answer by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 1

      This does a great job of illustrating the advantage of "diversity", which ISN'T having people approach the problem from different perspectives.

      Hand in hand with "diversity" is "inclusiveness", and "inclusiveness" is the real point.

      If you have a town full of people that rely on "the town farmer" to grow the food, and they have this naive idea that food is something that grows on a supermarket shelf, they're going to govern themselves like idiots any time they're given a voice in how to handle the food supply.

      This means that they'd be better off not to participate in a democracy and just make this guy their master because food is so important that they'll kill themselves if they make a mistake, which their ignorance practically guarantees.

      So, for the sake of their own security, they need to be included.

      BUT

      They're ignorant as little babies. Their ideas are founded on nothing at all. There's a system that is providing for their food supply, and their purpose there is to learn it, not assert control over it.

      They are there to become grounded in reality, and to surrender to reality, and to be absorbed into what is there.

      Coming into a situation with the attitude that you are there to bring something to the table and that your perspective deserves to be respected is demanding that reality be ignored in favor of making you feel comfortable and valued.

      So, instead of learning to not rely on the farmer, you basically fire him in a fit of ego and then starve to death when you realize you don't know what the hell you're doing.

      A lot of people miss the point on this, and they're running around with this idealistic position that they are doing a good thing by "transforming" cultures to make them more "diverse", and shoving arrogant ignoramuses into positions of authority and demanding that the people whose culture was formed around a set of problems abandon all of their hard won lessons and start playing politics as the systems that are their duty go to shit.

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    35. Re:The answer by beastofburdon · · Score: 1

      I see, and I approve.

  11. Having read the article; I can relate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I'm not a member of a minority, or at least not one that would be recognized as such. Indeed I am a middle-aged white male, however: a good number of the issues that Erica Joy brings up in the article are ones to which I can relate.

    I recently have been in a job where I was the outsider. Mine was a more techie role in an environment populated by those who'se main focus lay elsewhere. Considering that these colleagues were almost uniformly ahead of me in their field, and I would have to be doing domain specific work, this threw up some serious impostor syndrome issues for me. Sure I was good at tech, but this stuff they were doing... well I could grasp it, but always felt a little left behind. Objectively, it's not surprising. We each had our own specialty after all, but at work this divide left me some what isolated. Now, add to that an exclusion from social events as well (I am not one for the drinking, by preference and necessity), and being quite a distance from my non-work social group. So yeah, isolated and stressful, in the long term sense.

    In hind sight from a personal perspective, I would have had a much easier time surviving if I had been stricter with myself on work/life balance and made sure to find more things outside of work from which to draw a sense of value and self-worth. Always have a backup plan and all that.

    Of course there are a number of issues Erica discusses, which I have not experienced; I have not been mistaken for admin or security, nor have I been passed over without reason (at least not to my knowledge).

    tl;dr version: While these issues are particularly apparent with minority groups, not all of them are exclusive. This is something which a number of our geeky cohort can find common experience with at least in part, and as such we ought all be interested in making things better. Not just in terms of encouraging/enforcing diversity, but in terms of allowing for outsiders - be it due to race, gender, culture, or field - (so long as they get the job done).

    1. Re:Having read the article; I can relate by ledow · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The problem is really the boundary of the culture. It's got very little to do with the externalities as much as natural human grouping and cliques.

      I work in schools. In my most recent workplaces, I feel incredibly out of place. The reason being that they have been private schools.

      I was educated in a state school, in a very working-class area. I have a "common" accent. I drop my H's and sound very working-class. Even some of the maintenance guys are former "boys" of the school and correct my English. They mean no harm, it's just the way they were brought up and there's a friendliness there anyway. We get on very well.

      As such, there's a divide, however. You can spot other "working-class" people in the school. They become your friends more easily, you have more in common, you have a common "enemy" in your "you'll never guess what happened today" chats, even.

      But you can feel it. The divide is there. It's definitely present. And the same is in all schools anyway (I guarantee you that teaching staff do not mingle with "admin" or "facilities" staff naturally - you can see the divide in office, staffrooms, social events, etc.).

      And, yes, I have been mistaken for everything from a parent to a cleaner to an outside engineer. It happens, purely because of people's assumptions and the mental categorisations they make. And it happens with both children and adults. The polite ones, you might not notice because, well, they're just polite to everyone anyway. That's an issue of basic manners, not to talk down to someone that you might perceive as "lower" than yourself. It's really a function of such manners - it doesn't matter who you are if you're not accepting of others and try to find commonalities.

      And there is no workplace where there's not a divide - none that I've ever seen anyway. The tech guys go over there, the admin people sit over there, the management huddle together and then force themselves to "do the rounds" to the other cliques but never linger, etc. It's how people work. It's a human trait. We do it for good reason - to surround ourselves with people we feel comfortable with, can talk to, can sympathise with, can help out. I can't help out the headmaster of a private boarding school socially - we're in different worlds. So long as we're both accepting, we get on fine, however. I'm never going to come to a wine-tasting, and he's never going to come dig through the dusty network cabinets and hold cables for me. But it doesn't mean that we ignore each other, or talk down to each other, or wouldn't hold the door or give the other a hand with something heavy.

      I absolutely do not condone racism or any other discrimination in any way. I could never do so in my workplace and I constantly feel that my generation are stupid if they continue the mistakes of the previous generations.

      But there will always be groups, cliques and social circles. It's human - and animal - nature. When I go to a social event, unless there are other IT guys there, it's the maintenance guys that I end up leaning towards. They talk on the same level as myself, have the same expectations, have similar experiences and histories, and I identify more with them.

      As such, when someone without those properties is trying to ingratiate themselves into my social circle, it's more difficult for them.to do so, no matter how welcoming we are. It's literally time for them to smile awkwardly and pretend they sympathise or know what we're talking about (especially in IT!).

      Nobody asking those people to change. Nobody should make me change to make them more comfortable. We should be accepting of others but also understand that, you know, sometimes the guy in the same department doesn't want to go for a drink with the rest of you after work. It's not offensive, he just doesn't fit in, or want to fit in, or has his own plans etc.

      The problem only comes when people FORCE acceptance. Then you end up with a secret social group that excludes others anyway, and a faux fron

  12. The last statement sums it up by Tyr07 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I know this: I am not my job. I am not my industry or its stereotypes. I am a black woman who happens to work in the tech industry. I don’t need to change to fit within my industry. My industry needs to change to make everyone feel included and accepted.

    Excuse fucking you? No wonder people felt like they had to walk on eggshells around you.

    Let me rephrase that for you to for exactly what was said here, as I don't feel the need to walk on eggshells. "White people do not have the same background as I do as a black person, I feel more comfortable and included by black people. White people have to change what they're doing to be more like black people so I can feel included without changing who I am"

    People do not need to be your friend, they don't need to like you. I did read some disgusting behaviors in there by coworkers and managers, that was exceptionally inappropriate, however, you do not need to be included in social aspects of work.

    That goes with people having similar interests and background. I don't get to come to work as a white guy to talk to other white people and demand I feel included because we're all white with white backgrounds. If I have different interests in my co-workers, which I often do, I'm not part of any secret communications, or making fun of other people. In fact, I don't care to gossip at work at all so I'm likely the target of some of the gossip, and I don't get invited to these 'things'

    I am a white male. My responsibilities in the work place to my co-workers; I must respect them, they are human beings. Their gender does not matter. If I can reconfigure our cisco routers, any women of any race with the same knowledge and expertise can do the same thing. I will provide them equal respect for this as I would a caucasian male. I will treat them professionally without discrimination. I will include them in any work related activities on a business level of productivity and participation within the company.

    I do not have to like you. I do not have to be your friend. I do not have to embrace your values, or way of life, or anything about you in a non professional manner. I am in my full rights to keep a strictly professional relationship with you, regardless of your race and gender.

    As with any co-worker, that is likely the case, I do not engage socially beyond work related social interaction with most people. On occasion, I run into person of who happens to share similar interests and behave the way I do. These people I may end up calling friends.

    You cannot hide behind the mask of racism and gender discrimination to force people to like you and want to be your friend. The opposite will happen.

    My final comment on this - I'm sorry you experienced some assholes who were disrespectful to you. They were assholes, and it's not a reflection of the entire industry, progress is being made on that front, and here is the biggest shocker of all. White men have to deal with these assholes too, sometimes they just don't "us" either, and we get treated with shitty condenscending comments where we're shocked we didn't punch them in the face for it and what they said is HR worthy.

    1. Re:The last statement sums it up by Escogido · · Score: 1

      I agree with you on most of your points - the author's unreasonable expectations are clearly the root of her dissatisfaction, even though there are some real problems sometimes. However there is one thing which in my observation works out differently, and that is how our "work" selves are separated form our "life" selves.

      "I do not have to like you. I do not have to be your friend. I do not have to embrace your values, or way of life, or anything about you in a non professional manner. I am in my full rights to keep a strictly professional relationship with you, regardless of your race and gender."

      You don't have to. But what happens if someone is being kept a "strictly professional relationship with" by everyone - they are severely impeded in their career. HR evaluates everyone's ability to get along with the rest of the team, and that universally includes your capability to find informal ties with the team. If you're the odd guy/gal on the project, that means you WILL be passed over for worse performers because of their perceived "soft skills". Put it simply, people that easily make friends with everyone on the job will get much further (well, duh). So, if you are different from the rest, you WILL have problems getting along, and you are at a disadvantage. And race/gender obviously is a huge factor factor here.

      There is a self-perpetuating problem: there is a white (and to a degree asian) male majority in the field, and others have a hard time blending in, so the latter will be passed over. I don't have any good ideas how to change this, as long as "soft skills" is a larger factor with HR than actual merit.

    2. Re:The last statement sums it up by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      however, you do not need to be included in social aspects of work.

      And that has nothing at all to do with places where people are incapable of socialising like reasonable humans, and instead prefer a single minded approach where you do just the one activity.

      Yeah no problems with a group like that. Guess what, not ever all or even most white males socialising revolves around nothing but drinking beer in a cheap bar and playing guitar hero.

      Excuse fucking you?

      If that is how you carry on then yes, you ought to change. Because if you socially ostracise people for not liking a very, very limited range of things then you will end up with a very restricted pool of workers.

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    3. Re:The last statement sums it up by silas_moeckel · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Their failure to integrate is a perfectly fine reason to be passed over. I've managed women and people of color in the IT workplace and some fit in just fine it's no different than a white male who is a school snob or otherwise fails to gel with the rest of the team, they have to be outstanding to make up for the failures in their soft skills. In general if you have a prissy attitude or otherwise a chip on your shoulder you wont fit in because you choose not to that is a failure solely on them. People are free to make that choice but do not complain when it adversely affects you.

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      No sir I dont like it.
    4. Re:The last statement sums it up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Hi! I;m a white male who doesn't get on with the group. Or groups. I've got near crippling social anxiety issues. It's just my lot. I don't insist that others only host social events via IRC or hop on steam and do Hammerwatch runs with me, because trying to force people to include you in their social activities it dumb as shit. Unlike TFA's author, I don't have a race card I can play, so I've had to deal with the fact I'm just bad with people and, yes, it is me.

    5. Re:The last statement sums it up by Tyr07 · · Score: 1

      You don't have to. But what happens if someone is being kept a "strictly professional relationship with" by everyone - they are severely impeded in their career.

      You're absolutely right, but you can't fault "everyone" if "everyone" doesn't share your values and life style. If you can only reach out to "people of my own " then the problem is you and your unwillingness to accept other peoples values and cultures. They're perfectly fine, she is the one that is having the issue. This seems less about race and more about upbringing, the life you were exposed to as a child and like minded people, and I suspect she simply didn't have luck running into people who had the same life, and she demands it changed.

    6. Re:The last statement sums it up by Escogido · · Score: 1

      Being a snob is a choice; being a black female, not so much. Having to be outstanding to make up for failing to "gel with the rest of the team" by virtue of being black or female does not fit many people's understanding of "equal opportunity". That some manage to hit that threshold (and I do know some of these personally) kind of exacerbates the unfairness.

    7. Re:The last statement sums it up by Tyr07 · · Score: 2

      Ostracizing, let me give you a better example.

      Hey we're all going to go play baseball and drink beer. Want to come? "No, I don't drink or play baseball"

      Then you go "I've been ostracized, they just ignore me and left me here by myself." It's not on everyone else to adjust their life style so they can entertain you, and make you happy. You're responsible for your own happiness. This would be completely dismissed but also completely accurate, if I worked in an environment where no one cared about technology or video games, and this actually happens a lot. If all I wanted to do was talk about video games or play video games, and all everyone else wanted to do was talk about hockey, should they change their interests because 10 people want to talk about hockey, and one person wants to talk about video games?

      No, you're the odd man out. If you take a stance of "I shouldn't have to change to fit in this industry, more people should like my interests" Well aren't you a special self important cupcake who thinks everyone should cater to you. Congratulations, that's the problem with special interest groups.

      If I move to another country, and although I don't play golf, if that's all everyone did, I would get into Golf

    8. Re:The last statement sums it up by Escogido · · Score: 1

      I'm not defending her attitude; I made the same observations you did, and I agree with what you're saying. What I perceive as a systemic flaw is that the white-male-centric culture self-perpetuates simply by virtue of being already dominant, so that non-white-males start at a disadvantage.

    9. Re:The last statement sums it up by stdarg · · Score: 1

      Your distinction makes no sense, because nobody is saying black females have to become not-black or not-female (or both).

      We are talking about soft skills like getting along and fitting into the group. Are you saying that black females inherently have characteristics like snobbery that make them unable to fit into a group and be well regarded??

    10. Re:The last statement sums it up by Escogido · · Score: 1

      I am saying the same thing that the Erica Joy says - that merely being a black female means she is at a disadvantage when trying to fit in a company of white males compared to a white male. (She may or may not possess other traits that also make it more difficult for her, but that's beside my point.)

    11. Re:The last statement sums it up by stdarg · · Score: 1

      I am saying the same thing that the Erica Joy says - that merely being a black female means she is at a disadvantage when trying to fit in a company of white males compared to a white male.

      What is it about black females that prevents them from fitting in a company of white males?

    12. Re:The last statement sums it up by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Ostracizing, let me give you a better example.

      No, let me give you a better example:

      a) Hey we're all going for a drink? Wanna come.

      b) Sure.

      a) Oh BTW we're only going to this bar which serves beer AND NOTHING ELSE.

      b) I don't like beer. How about we go to this other bar which serves a variety of drinks instead.

      a) No

      everyone on slashdot:

      she's a whiner and doesn't fit into the industry.

      If I move to another country, and although I don't play golf, if that's all everyone did, I would get into Golf

      Except there's nothing inherent about programming which makes people drink beer and nothing else. I even know programmers who don't drink beer at all.

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    13. Re:The last statement sums it up by silas_moeckel · · Score: 1

      It really has nothing to do with gender or ethnicity, I've seen white males unable to fit in and black females do just fine along with everything in-between. This is team building soft skills making coworkers feel safe around you etc etc. If you come off as having a chip on your shoulder and an ax to grind you will fail at this irregardless of gender or ethnicity. Were not talking about playing golf etc but hey lets get lunch. Making people feel at ease around you is an important valuable work skill that the author seems to lack.

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    14. Re:The last statement sums it up by Tyr07 · · Score: 1

      Your analogy is far less accurate.

      These people are not your familiar, they don't need to cater to you on a personal social level.

      "Oh, well, Jimmy doesn't really like this particular family outing. Jimmy, what would you like to do today?" Is a line of crock. You can't force people to like you and be your friend, get it through your head. The laws and demands to change stop when it goes beyond professionalism, thankfully as far as I know there's no mind control device so you're never going to get your way in every aspect of your life.

      So yes, she is a whiner. She did mention some experiences which definitely crossed the line as the people were not only being unprofessional and stepping into social aspects, they were rude and negative.

      They were inappropriate. The part where she says she was losing her culture though in the work place? That's a line of crock. What's next, places of business being subjected to having a more punk rock theme to suit individual employees who don't want to lose their culture?

      Your personal culture takes place out of the place, and if you can't make friends with people at work, be profesionally friendly, and hang out with friends that fit your style out of work. If you don't have those, then we know where the problem is.

      You people are turning into children who want your parents to force the next door neighbor to play with you.

    15. Re:The last statement sums it up by Tyr07 · · Score: 1

      Maybe they start at a disadvantage culturally and it varies region by region. I work in IT though, and I'm in Canada.

      I run into women, and people of all races. In fact my current boss is from a middle eastern country, he owns the company.
      Although come to think of it he seems to only hire white people. It could just be chance.

      Fyi you wouldn't know he wasn't from here originally. There's nothing culturally different about him.
      So I put forth that in some places there is a problem, but white people are not the major population of the world, and these kind of issues are not everywhere.

      I've also been directly discriminated against for being white, and a male. I don't know if it's ever been in tandom. So when people have all these issues and it becomes public, I really have to ask, when looking at these people that claim to be minorities, they really aren't any different at all.

      They discriminate just the same, and want more things that directly benefit them, and apparently like all humans, will use any avenue they can.

  13. Re:Would you look at that by splodus · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I found it a very interesting and quite moving post.

    I'm a white male from a relatively privilaged background, yet I have felt like an outsider many times over the last thirty years of my career. Yet if I choose to I can put on a cheap suit and smile and most people's first impression of me will be 'he's one of us'.

    When people start to get to know you they pick up, of course, on the things you do and say that are not quite what they expect, and some will dislike that, and some of those people will turn to harrassment and bullying.

    Now, I cannot imagine how difficult it must be to begin at the point where one or two people have taken to bullying, and the rest are reticent about chatting and socialising. It certainly can't be easy (well it could be, I suppose, if you're a sociopath and simply don't care what others think of you).

    If you spend long enough somewhere, and you are basically a good person, then of course you will end up with friends who like you for who you are. But getting to that point takes time, causes stress for many, even when you feel welcome and people are supportive. Getting to that point when you already feel you don't belong must take tremendous strenght of character, and I know there's no way I could have gotten through what she has.

  14. lack of self-awareness by joe545 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    She doesn't like that she conformed to the group she was in and feels that is a bad thing. But yet recognises that she feels much comfortable amongst people who "share her cultural upbringing" and doesn't think that's a bad thing. There's inconsistency there.

    But then when she talks about joining a group at work who enjoy going out to have a beer or two and then complains that they she doesn't like beer and that they should do something else. Not very appreciative of views diverse from her own there!

    At one point she mentions that she was the only black women in her team of two. As opposed to what, being two black women alone in the same team? That's not very diverse now, is it?

    1. Re:lack of self-awareness by MitchDev · · Score: 1

      "When people learn to grow up and stop acting like the world revolves around them, they can learn to accomodate other people."

      I agree, she should suck it up and go to the bar if she wants to socialize. Bars serve more than just beer.
      Why should her co-workers waste their free time catering to those who don't have any interest in doing what they want to do?
      Off the clock your time is YOURS, do want you want with it.
      She needs to try fitting in rather than trying to force change.
      Stop being a stick in the mud, listen to the conversations, and find something you;re willing to try that the existing social group likes and suggest doing that.

      Why does "diversity" insist on dictating what people do with their rare and precious free time?

    2. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Choosing that one place to the exclusion of others is a massive dick move.

      It's a massive dick move to go back to the place you like?

      Maybe they just don't like her. And hey, sure, maybe that's due to prejudice. Or maybe she's an annoying bitch. We can't tell from here.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    3. Re:lack of self-awareness by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Bars serve more than just beer.

      Indeed most of them do. Apparently the one in question did not. That's what it sounded like from TFA.

      Off the clock your time is YOURS, do want you want with it.

      Never said it wasn't: they're free to be asshats in their free time. Doesn't make them not asshats. IME one should strive to not be an asshat.

      Why does "diversity" insist on dictating what people do with their rare and precious free time?,

      Unless you want to hang out with nothing but identikit clones, then you will have to make some sort of accomodation for other people. Diversity is more than skin colour. Places like that also excluder a fair portion of nerdy white males too.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    4. Re:lack of self-awareness by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It's a massive dick move to go back to the place you like?

      If someone has easy to accomodate needs/desires which can't be catered to in one place then yes going there is a bit of a dick move. It's flat out antisocial to not attempt to accomodate people where possible.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    5. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      It's flat out antisocial to not attempt to accomodate people where possible.

      Yeah, I've had coworkers I had no interest in socializing with before. If I find someone horribly fucking annoying, and I have to work with them for eight hours a day already, I'm going to want an hour off in the middle of the day. It's not my responsibility to make them includable, they have to put out some effort not to be annoying. I can't fucking raise them. I only work with them.

      Again, we can't tell if this woman is annoying or her coworkers are assholes. I'm quite willing to believe that either is the case. But we will never be able to tell from the article.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    6. Re:lack of self-awareness by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I've had coworkers I had no interest in socializing with before.

      Yes but you're getting way away from the original article. How hard would it be to find a bar that sells other things in addition to beer?

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    7. Re:lack of self-awareness by 91degrees · · Score: 1

      The problem is she's expecting other people to solve her problem. They're not going to. Her fitting in is not their problem, and them fitting in is not the rest of the team's problem. Sure they're going to try to accommodate if they're decent people, but ultimately one has to deal with ones own problems. Other people have their own problems to deal with.

      Is there absolutely nothing that she enjoys that she thinks her colleagues might enjoy? Perhaps she should arrange that. What did they do at THD that she was able to join in with? How about suggesting that? Or were the white guys excluded and left to do their own thing?

    8. Re:lack of self-awareness by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      There is no such thing as a place that serves "beer and only beer" (would that even be legal in the US?). This isn't Australia according to The Simpsons.

      You think that everyone that wants to go to a pub after work is an "identikit clone"? Every type of person goes to pubs buddy; even women and black people. People are not bad because they like going to the pub with their coworkers.

      The only "asshat" here is you. Maybe you should take your own advice and strive not to be one from now on.

    9. Re:lack of self-awareness by namira · · Score: 2

      But, dude, she *did* try to fit in. It sounds like she tried super hard. She picked up new hobbies that she had no interest in just to fit in. I'm not really sure how much more she could have done.

    10. Re:lack of self-awareness by MitchDev · · Score: 1

      Doesn't really say how hard she tried, but if that batch of co-workers doesn't want to hang out with her socially, not really much she can do, except try to make other friends.

      Frankly, she sounds like one of those annoying people that just want everyone to like and accept them and then they whine about it when someone doesn't find them fascinating or interesting. You can't force people to like you, and trying will just make them detest you...

    11. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      How hard would it be to find a bar that sells other things in addition to beer?

      That depends on where you are. A lot of places that comes with a massive price penalty. Her coworkers should not have to spend more on their beverages because she isn't happy with the selection.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    12. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      There is no such thing as a place that serves "beer and only beer" (would that even be legal in the US?).

      There most certainly are bars which serve beer and only beer. Most of them are in counties which have stupid liquor laws inside of states which have stupid liquor laws. You can find establishments of this nature in Texas. The beer is in cans, because they're not allowed to sell it on tap or in bottles. Oh, they might have bottles of water, but that's not what we're talking about, is it?

      As an aside, there's even complete cocktail bars which serve nothing but beer and malt liquor which has been flavored to taste like hard alcohols, but they typically use some kind of sparkling wine-based beverages as well. All because of stupid liquor laws.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    13. Re:lack of self-awareness by Pubstar · · Score: 1

      Every bar serves soda. Get a Coke or a glass of water, shoot some pool and have a good time. There are days i go out with my co-workers to the bar and not drink for various reasons (mostly school). I'm failing to see your point here.

    14. Re:lack of self-awareness by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      How do the laws line up to result in that? I am pretty confident such a place would not be possible here in Canada.

    15. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      How do the laws line up to result in that?

      The short, short form is that some counties have laws which only permit sales of beer and wine. Remember, some counties still have laws which don't permit alcohol sales at all.

      I am pretty confident such a place would not be possible here in Canada.

      Well, then that is a way in which Canada is superior to the USA. They are presumably numerous, but not too.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    16. Re:lack of self-awareness by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      Am I wrong to assume that they will be selling other non-alcoholic beverages? I can understand having beer and not liquor but what I meant was there wouldn't be a place that sells only beer and no coffee, juice, pop, food, etc.

    17. Re:lack of self-awareness by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Am I wrong to assume that they will be selling other non-alcoholic beverages? I can understand having beer and not liquor but what I meant was there wouldn't be a place that sells only beer and no coffee, juice, pop, food, etc.

      I have been in bars in TX which literally have only cans of beer, bottles of water, small bags of chips, and free peanuts served in Solo(tm) plastic bowls which are thrown away, not recycled, at the end of the night. And nobody was buying chips or water. We're talking about dark, dirty places primarily filled with people who have visibly given up on their dreams. I don't pick these places out. I'm a hippie by comparison. I like things like seats with upholstery, or at least without graffiti.

      America is a beautiful land. Pity about all the governments.

      --
      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    18. Re:lack of self-awareness by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      Fascinating.. I didn't even think there would be a market for such a place. Wouldn't think the clientele would be able to keep it afloat. Still doesn't sound like the kind of place mentioned in TFA though.

    19. Re:lack of self-awareness by namira · · Score: 1

      If you read the article carefully, it describes the author going from workplace to workplace and deliberately changing many of her behaviors just to fit in; that sounds like a lot of effort to me. She talks about pretending to be amused by her co-worders' comments even when she found them distasteful and upsetting, and struggling to find even one person in her workplace she could connect with -- "be herself" around.

      Yes, you can't force people to like you, but you can change your behaviors in ways that make people *want* to like you. Often, the best way to do this is simply to act more or less the same way eveyone else is acting. And that kind of sucks. Do you ever find that you feel more isolated in a room full of people than when you're completely alone? It's not a good feeling. I obviously don't know the author personally so I can't say how "annoying" her natural personality may or may not be, but I implore you to open yourself to the idea that other people have many problems and obstacles in their lives that are completely different than yours, yet just as problematic and difficult to overcome (and, in some cases, even more so).

      The bare bones of it is, people are basically herd animals and we all want to feel like we're accepted by the herd. You can see the psychology at work in monkeys; the outcasts, the "omega"s that don't fit in are almost constantly anxious and stressed even when the other monkeys aren't actively doing messing with them. Their performance tends to be subpar accross a variety of spheres, and they tend to have much shorter lives. Stress and anxiety are real problems, as are the myriad of things that can cause it.

    20. Re:lack of self-awareness by MitchDev · · Score: 1

      Sounds more like losers that can't cut it.

      The workplace is for work.

      Your off time is for friends and family.

      She's another of those babies that want everyone to like them. Too bad it doesn't work that way in reality. I wonder how many of her co-workers could sense her as a fake.

    21. Re:lack of self-awareness by namira · · Score: 1

      *I* wonder how her co-workers would have treated her if she hadn't spent so much time pandering to them, and if socialization has no place in the workplace then why is the ability to get along well with coworkers one of the things employees are evaluated for in most companies? The author even mentions in the article her concerns that if employers view her as unable to fit in well with her peers, that may effect her future job prospects. I mean ... did you actually RTFA, or are you just arguing to be arguing?

      Did you know that many women women speak an octave above their natural speaking voices? Many don't even do this consciously; it's just something they've picked up. They do it because men tend to feel more comfortable when women speak in high, soft voices, and accordingly they tend to treat women better when they do this. This practice spans many different cultures, and its benefits have been scientifically proven. This is actually just one of a myriad of behaviors women tend to alter around men. The way you act around people tends to have a *huge* effect on the way they treat you. You don't have to believe it, but it's been scientifically proven and I have personally observed this phenomenon at work many times. I do it myself at times. It's a form of manipulation, although many people do it without any intent or awareness, and it works for a reason.

      Personally, I find that most people don't like me all that much when I'm myself due to my introversion, above-average intelligence, and mildly autistic tendencies, among other reasons. Luckily, when I have the energy for it I'm *really good* at doing exactly what the author of the article was trying to do. When I really want an interaction to go well I do the following: I give people lots of big, genuine smiles, I show interest in their crap, I mimic some of their speech and behavior patterns, I mimic some of the behaviors people expect *people like me* to engage in (ie stereotypes), I make them laugh their asses off, and I carefully avoid saying anything that could draw a negative response. And then, as soon as I can do so while staying polite, I gtfo, go home, and spend several hours trying to forget how much I hate myself when I spew all that fake bullcrap just to make my interactions go better. But jesus christ, it just works *so freakin well*. *Everyone* likes me when I put the effort in, and I don't even want people to like me that much. I just don't want them to *dislike* me, because that tends to make my interactions more stressful. This woman sounds like she was trying way harder than I ever do, but she probably wasn't half as good at it as I am, plus she's black which makes a lot of white guys kinda uncomfortable from the get-go. It's possible she would have been more successful if it weren't so important to her, since, as I mentioned, that kind of constant anxiety tends to result in sub-par performance.

      In any case, I hate to argue and this debate is clearly going nowhere, so I will just say that you depress me sir and I hope you broaden your views in the future.

  15. Valid observations by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I can totally get behind what she was saying and she has my sympathy.
    I mean, it's not like she was blaming anyone, she was just pointing out that it kinda sucks to work in an industry where everyone else comes from a similar background and shares similar interests and you are kinda the odd one out.
    Which I think is a perfectly valid point to make. She wasn't saying that they are all assholes for being who the are, just that she didn't really feel like part of the group.
    I don't really see how you could disagree with her about that.

  16. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Pino+Grigio · · Score: 5, Insightful

    "social justice" is based on the extremely faulty assertion that everybody is the same and that absolutely every trait or preference you may have is culturally constructed. Once you take on board the basic concept that men and women are different and that on average their college major and career preferences reflect this difference, it's not hard to understand why there's less "diversity" in technology businesses.

    Straw Man indeed.

  17. Only white person on my team by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I cry myself to sleep every night. Its horrible. I actually just realized when i read this blog. Manager is indian. I actual had a white guy as a lead before and I couldnt stand him. Control freak. So i told my female indian manager that I didnt want to work wirh him. Just realized that I am the only white guy n the team. I didnt notice.

    Guy who sits next to me prays 5 times a day. We get along good. Neither of us like the white guy i used to work with.

    Damn i am oppressed. How will i deal with it? No wonder there are crackers in the office. I see the slights now. I need to talk to my therapist.

  18. Don't walk on eggshells by MikeRT · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm still trying to figure out what my comment about Joan -- white Joan -- had anything to do with Kelly. Yes, I walked on egg shells around Kelly from then on.

    It's called solipsism. You can't really negotiate with a solipsistic person since even abstractions that obviously are intended to show them things about others invariably, in their minds, come back to them.

    Word of advice, though, from experience in dealing with these types of people. The best defense is to make it clear you are a hard target. By hard I mean, you will defend yourself and make it costly even if they nominally win the fight. No one wants to suffer at best a pyrrhic victory.

    1. Re:Don't walk on eggshells by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

      I'm still trying to figure out what my comment about Joan -- white Joan -- had anything to do with Kelly. Yes, I walked on egg shells around Kelly from then on.

      It's called solipsism. You can't really negotiate with a solipsistic person since even abstractions that obviously are intended to show them things about others invariably, in their minds, come back to them.

      Word of advice, though, from experience in dealing with these types of people. The best defense is to make it clear you are a hard target. By hard I mean, you will defend yourself and make it costly even if they nominally win the fight. No one wants to suffer at best a pyrrhic victory.

      Best advice ever.

  19. diversity is strength---for corporations by leftistconservative · · Score: 1

    but diversity is weakness for the workers... diversity divides, dis-unites... a workforce divided by gender, race, culture and nationality cannot stand united against the corporation... why do you think the corporation, the media, the major institutions of america all push diversity and multiculturalism like it is the best thing since sliced bread? Because they want more money. And diversity gets them more money and us less money. Unity is what we want. We get unity by decreasing diversity. Drive the foreign invaders from our soil and hang the elite collaborators.

  20. Why is diversity so limited by roccomaglio · · Score: 1

    Why is diversity so limited? Why does it only refer to ancestors location (skin color is not used, there are some dark "white people"), gender, and sexual orientation?Why are height, weight, eye color, hair color, travel history, etc. ignored? Height is interesting since I have seen studies that claim that tall people are more likely to earn more and be in a position of power. Rather than physical attributes, life experience and personalty are the most important aspects of diversity. Did you grow up on a farm, suburb, or city? Did your parents stay together? Did you travel? Can you empathize with others? Do you have a vivid imagination?

  21. you know... by buddyglass · · Score: 2

    Someone really knows how to troll slashdot.

  22. There's plenty of diversity by gelfling · · Score: 1

    Most jobs are done in India and China by Indians and Chinese.

  23. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Pino+Grigio · · Score: 5, Insightful

    It used to be about equality of opportunity. But now we have equality of opportunity it has morphed into equality of outcome. This is a very different thing indeed.

  24. But by MitchDev · · Score: 1

    " I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in."

    But why do you feel the need to inject YOUR culture into the workplace? You are there to work, not to discuss culture...

  25. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Pino+Grigio · · Score: 1

    They aren't straw men.

    I totally destroyed your reply didn't I.

  26. Re:It's all your fault whitey by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    My word you dealt with the straw man of "social justice" very quickly. I say that he was terrified to his straw heart and quaking all the way to his straw boots.

    And that's the beautiful thing about social justice: the first rule of social justice is we don't define social justice. That way, when anyone tries to pin you down you just claim that "this isn't what it's about," claim the opposition is making a strawman.............and then continuing doing exactly what you've been accused of.

  27. Re:It's all your fault whitey by visualight · · Score: 1

    You keep saying that word. I don't think it means what you think it means.

    --
    Samsung took back my unlocked bootloader because Google wants me to rent movies. They're both evil.
  28. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    They aren't straw men.

    Yes they are.

    I totally destroyed your reply didn't I.

    If by destroy, you mean yiu set up a straw man and then TOTALLY hacked it to death then sure. Basically all this is you making shit up about mythical "social justice" warriors, and the attacking it with vigour.

    But, don't let me stop you from making a whole pile of straw corpese. It's very entertaining to watch you thrash around and get covered in straw.

    --
    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  29. Well Written Article by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 2

    I reluctantly gave the article a read. It's written from the first person and describes her own experiences.

    I don't see a huge amount of speculation on the problem in the article. She's just saying what happened and how she felt. She even said that she felt comfortable at one company, but left becuase of pay.

    I think her reaction to this is overwhelmingly positive.

    "I’m volunteering with organizations that will help the younger generation get involved in tech, so we can change the ratio (Black Girls Code, Hack The Hood) and those who come after me won’t have to feel how I’ve felt. I’ve stopped trying to assimilate at work. I’m no longer trying to make people comfortable with my existence. I am trying to connect with other black women in technical roles. I’m standing up for what I believe in and standing up for myself, instead of sitting quietly by, so as not to not make waves."

    What I don't know... is if she's aware of how other people in tech feel. Some of us like boozy events, but some of us like non-boozy events too. I'm not a gamer, not into sports, I don't like dirty jokes at the office. I like tech stuff, I talk tech stuff and I find it really cool and interesting. I like doing creative stuff with tech. I come off a bit weird, so it usually takes me 6 months to "fit in" to a group.

    I think most people in tech feel like outsiders. She's part of that crowd whether she likes it or not.

    1. Re:Well Written Article by operagost · · Score: 1

      Iâ€(TM)ve stopped trying to assimilate at work. Iâ€(TM)m no longer trying to make people comfortable with my existence. I am trying to connect with other black women in technical roles

      Ironically, it seems that only people of color still believe that "separate but equal" is possible.

      --

      Gamingmuseum.com: Give your 3D accelerator a rest.
    2. Re:Well Written Article by Dr.+Evil · · Score: 1

      "The responses here prove what she was writing about. People here (who very likely resemble her coworkers at Google and other places) have no empathy and no clue about anything outside their little circle, they're social morons."

      People here have been called a lot of names. Mysoginists, knuckle-draggers, priviliged, racist, sexist, social morons etc.

      They're here to talk about technology and read articles about technology. Many, or most, have had no issue working with people of any colour or gender. They're still called all these names. When they try to defend themselves, they're told they're ignorant.

      I'm happy to do whatever is needed to bring women into tech. I've done so for years. They're not coming and it's not clear why.

      People listen for a while, and quietly swallow all the insults. But eventually people get sick of being accused of excluding people they've never met for reasons which are pure speculation.

      Then *some* of them get ticked off, mouth off, and somebody will jump in to say "OMG, it's all true! Look at the nasty geeks!"

      The responses here prove nothing.

      She doesn't need proof, her story doesn't speculate much. She's living her life, written her story and is helping the people she feels need help.

  30. Discriminated White dude by mrhippo3 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I was working at a software firm that tried to implement diversity, by hiring the wives of "star" male employees. These women had neither the background, the skillset, nor the ability to learn. Nominally a Marketing Writing Manager, my boss was a HS English teacher. There is some irony in her on-line profile where she has downgraded her job to make it look like she was a worker bee. She could not write commercially, talk with either vendors of customer (the product was engineering analysis software), or even create an outline. Her best efforts were freely plagiarized. She lifted paragraphs -- entirely unedited for context or tense or any trace of grammatical comparability and strung these random bits into an "article." Granted the opportunity to write the press release that defined the company's future (all revenue would shift from "big iron" to workstations and smaller boxen) she, "Was too busy selecting literature for the upcoming trade-show." Yet, she was immune from criticism. Any doubts on her abilities were cast as sexism. A parallel boss (of equal "wife" status) stiffed Sun Microsystems in the 1980's when she refused to pay shipping charges -- part of her attempts cover up her incompetence. Sun (one of the top revenue producers for the firm -- this was millions in revenue) stopped paying attention the software firm, because the boss stiffed them of $1,800 that the spouse had agreed to pay. It is with great joy that neither "boss" has ever had a follow-on job with ANY staff. The writing boss did some work, but only onsey-twosey and little repeat business (too many small jobs in way too many big companies). If you are any good you become "captive" and write a lot for one department.I have recovered and left writing and now am the second in command at a small manufacturing firm. My boss in the family run firm is a competent woman. She does her job well and we get along great.

    1. Re:Discriminated White dude by operagost · · Score: 1

      If anything, you'd think an English teacher would understand what plagiarism is... but then, plagiarism is part of ethics, not writing style, so I imagine she understood quite well what she was doing and did it in mindless desperation.

      --

      Gamingmuseum.com: Give your 3D accelerator a rest.
    2. Re:Discriminated White dude by Karmashock · · Score: 1

      We've seen this sort of thing on and off again for years. It was well handled in some situations but I expect the feminists wouldn't like those situations. They were used as secretaries for example quite successfully. that might seem demeaning but they were qualified for those positions. You want the programming job then learn to program.

      Anyway, in regards to software companies... they don't care who writes the code. If you have a cock or a vagina it is all the same to the company. The question is do you produce code and can you work with people? Yes to both? Welcome to the team. Neither? Then you're worthless.

      End of story.

      --
      I've decided to stop wasting my time responding to AC trolls/sockpuppets... so if you want a response from me... login.
    3. Re:Discriminated White dude by Livius · · Score: 1

      I was working at a software firm that tried to implement diversity, by hiring the wives of "star" male employees.

      That's not diversity, it's called something else.

    4. Re:Discriminated White dude by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Well, at least she was being kept from teaching high school English. From your description, I'd hate to have any child of mine in her class.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
  31. Working at Ericsson by Greyfox · · Score: 1

    I did a contract gig at Ericsson for about a year. As a white male citizen of the USA, I was in the minority in that company fir the first time in a 30 year career and it was awesome! That year I had several folks from the office over for Thanksgiving -- we had several people working contracts from overseas so they didn't have anywhere particularly else to go and a couple of them had never attended a Thanksgiving feast before. That felt very much like how people should get along -- just hanging out and having a good time without regard for nationality or sex. The office environment was much the same. It never felt like anyone was going out of the way to make anyone else feel like they fit in, but everyone just fit in. If your only experience is with US companies and their environment makes you uncomfortable, perhaps you should try a European one!

    --

    I'm trying to teach myself to set people on fire with my mind... Is it hot in here?

  32. Now that's weird by dbIII · · Score: 1

    Did you reply to the wrong post or something?

  33. It's still about your personal choices ..... by King_TJ · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I read the woman's article and I guess it hit closer to home for me than some people, because while I'm a white male, I'm married to a black woman who works in I.T.

    There are certainly some workplace lessons to be learned from the author's insights, but I'm not sure they're all necessarily the ones she would conclude herself?

    For starters? Whether you like it or don't... want to admit it's true or don't ... Geographic location has a lot to do with the workplace environment you can expect and its racial makeup. As she admitted herself, the job she took with Home Depot's corporate offices in the South (Atlanta) was one of the places she felt most "comfortable" among her co-workers. If this was as high of a priority for her as it sounds like it was (to the point of her describing health problems due to stress), I would have advised her never to go to Silicon Valley for work - regardless of the promised pay and benefits.

    It sounds like, to an extent, she's upset that she can't "have it all" -- meaning working amongst a large population of blacks (with a nice chunk of them being female as well) who share her values and interests, while still earning "top tier" salaries in her field with the biggest industry "movers and shakers".

    I'd counter that we simply don't live in a perfect world, and like everyone else, she has to make some tough choices. As a white male who has always had an interest in technology and computing, I knew it was my career field of choice. At the same time? I grew up in the midwest, and found some of my own values made it difficult for me to do such things as running out to the west coast in the dot-com boom era (even when some of my friends did and a couple wound up millionaires). I chose to stick with doing I.T. for manufacturing firms who couldn't afford to pay me that well, but offered some measure of stability and a concept of "life / work balance" that the big tech places lacked. I had family in the midwest that I didn't want to leave, and good friends that I grew up with as a kid and still hung out with. Considering all of that plus the fact that cost of living and housing was reasonable where I lived, it seemed prudent to stay put.

    My wife grew up in Memphis, but I think she always knew that she wanted to get out of that area, in order to find more career success. She wound up in New York for a while, Texas for a while, and now out on the east coast with me. She's definitely not anything close to your stereotypical black woman. (Yes, she listens to alternative and classic rock by choice, and doesn't care for much rap music. She also converted to Judaism, among other things people might find outside the norm.) She never had much interest in playing competitive video games though (well, outside of a bit of Guitar Hero until she got bored with it after playing through several songs). (I, on the other hand, still like playing first person shooters, even though I'm in my early 40's.)

    If you're working someplace where it's clear the vast majority enjoys and values things you don't -- guess what? That can happen to ANY of us. I worked in I.T. for union steel shops where everyone's interests included hunting, wrestling, monster trucks and country music. I was the only one who listened to alt. rock instead, and cared about a computer as more than just "a pain in the ass tool management forces us to use". I guess I *could* have tried to go hunting or fishing with the guys or start listening to country to try to make new friends. But I didn't.... I just accepted that we liked different things, and went to work to get work done, period. It's a lot easier to enjoy your free time if you have a paycheck and the bills are all paid.

    If you're not willing to do that? That's ok... but you have to do your job search based on what's important, then .... which would be finding like-minded co-workers. I know it exists, but she's right that at least for what she was looking for -- it probably won't be found in the "tech giants" of plac

    1. Re:It's still about your personal choices ..... by tribeca.kaji · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I read a lot of the posts (almost every single one) and I agree with your comment. I am African American. I work in tech and I've had a lot of different experiences in the same region (east coast). I do agree with a lot of what the author is saying but at the same time there is a disturbing cognitive dissonance about her conclusions. I have been subjected to a number of really rude comments. It is very difficult to facilitate group inclusion in some companies. I won't list the reasons why being 'one of the guys' is important (we all know it helps ascend the ladder). I've been working in this field for about a decade and a few years ago I came to the conclusion that I won't be able to achieve what I want through normal means. As an African American the hard truth is that if you really can't assimilate and feel comfortable enough to live your life or work diligently for the 40+ years necessary to maintain your lifestyle, then you must take it upon yourself to create your own environment. For many African Americans, entrepreneurship will be our only solace, however difficult and arduous that endeavor may be. The problem is compounded by the fact that those who were successful in the previous generation did so via education. Even though they earned eighty cents for every dollar their white equivalent made they were leaps and bounds ahead of the last generation. As a whole, the millennials (regardless of race) are generally concerned that we won’t have as much as our parents and this realization is certainly not lost on those African Americans coming from middle class families.

  34. Facts, or more feel good "truths?" by spud_boy_65986534 · · Score: 1

    . "The prevailing theme is that this will be good for companies, good for innovation, and good for the future of technology. While that's true,..." On what basis is it true?

  35. College money by cant_get_a_good_nick · · Score: 2

    (Yeah, I know this was focusing on gender diversity, but I see a larger issue)

    Back when I was in college, oh too long ago, we had actually a decent amount of diversity in classes, at least relative to what I see today.

    I got my job from a reference from a Mexican engineer. My group of close friends were a white guy like me, a few Indians, Mexicans, a Greek girl, some Greek guys, a Korean girl, etc. It seemed pretty mixed at the time. Also, not coincidentally I think, I got a free ride to college. My tuition was low (state school) and I got a lot of grants and scholarships.

    Now, college is getting more expensive. They're spending money not on faculty or programs, but on buildings, and incurring debt. Tuition is rising. Scholarships are gone, too much belt tightening. So, if you're close to the cutoff of "can I make it in, can I not", you're more likely to be on the bad side of that cutoff now. Oh, and who's more likely to be on the bad side of the cutoff? Minorities.

    This isn't racism in the classic "Im going to stop you from reading a book" sense. But it is a consequence of previous racism. You get cycles. Parents who were banned from colleges in the 60's, who were forced to live in neighborhoods with bad schools in the 80's and 90's are having kids saddled with a few headwinds today. It took years to create this situation, and it will take years to unwind it.

    This isn't just a "well, poor them", "yeah the bleeding heart liberals will cry them a river" problem. Aside from the emotional cost, for the spreadsheet lovers, this is a huge subset of our nation not being as economically useful as they can be. This specifically in a time where our economy is depressed because people don't have good paying jobs and can't buy anything. To have cycles and generations of people who are nowhere near their economic potential should be a problem for both Dems and Republicans.

    Sadly, there doesn't seem to be anybody who wants to do a long term improvement project in today's politics. Neither politicians, nor the electorate have enough patience to try to unwind this.

  36. Re:Would you look at that by jedidiah · · Score: 2

    This is one of those things where you can choose how to react. You can either be a victim or not. It's not middle school. You don't have to mindlessly strive to "fit in". Consider it an aspect of work life balance. If you find your job taking over your life to that degree I would tend to attribute this to the prevailing attitudes regarding work in whatever location you happen to have landed in.

    Once again, this is probably problems with Silicon Valley being applied to the industry at large.

    --
    A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
  37. My take by Zontar_Thing_From_Ve · · Score: 1

    I'm not as hostile towards Erica as some here, but I'm not as sympathetic either as you might think. I graduated college when Reagan was president and I've worked in IT all my professional career. I've had some jobs I liked a lot. I've had others that really sucked. My current job is pretty good and I like my employer a lot, but a few years ago things were different in the job and I was pretty unhappy. Things change in life. Some jobs start off good and get bad. Some start off bad and get good. Some are always good. Some are always bad. Erica started her career at a university in Alaska. Alaska is hardly a place with a lot of black people and university IT jobs are kind of infamous. Typically they don't pay well and they tend to attract certain types of people who aren't exactly go getters. Well, this has been my experience on the East Coast of the USA, but perhaps things are different elsewhere. Maybe in California, for example, university IT jobs are fantastic. But I've got a pretty good feeling that Erica didn't start off with a great job. That probably plays some role in her perceptions. She also worked in Windows which attracts different types of people than Unix/Linux type jobs do. That may also play a role in how things were for her.

    Another thing I want to mention is that I work sometimes with other companies' IT departments to solve problems and there's a lot of variability there. Big companies usually have pretty competent IT groups. Small companies? Not always. I know that some small companies have badly overworked IT people who are doing the work of 2 or 3 people by themselves. Sometimes people in bad IT jobs won't leave for various reasons. They may fear change. They may work in an area with limited opportunities. One of my co-workers is a few years older than me and before joining our company he apparently didn't have any IT jobs that weren't horrible beyond belief. Maybe she just found a lot of bad jobs. It sounded like she was pretty happy in the job at Home Depot but got pissy over the pay and not being able to get promoted and left. If you want to work in IT and chase dollars, you can job hop and do that, but I can't promise you that the next job will be better or make you happy. You may get more money and have worse working conditions. And if you want to get promoted, you probably shouldn't go into IT at all. It's not exactly a career path to being CEO. Sounded like she was willing to trade a job that made her happy to try to get more money and she was never able to find a job she liked as much. It happens.

  38. Re:It's all your fault whitey by stdarg · · Score: 1

    You think social justice warriors who want equality of outcome are mythical? Do you even read the news?

    For the last few weeks we've been hearing about how Google, Apple, Amazon, and other tech firms don't have enough women and non-Asian minorities working for them. Companies are being described by the media as "overwhelmingly white and male."

    Calling things straw men that aren't actually straw men is a fallacy of its own. It's a pathetic attempt to deflect the argument that is no better than "No because I said so and you're wrong anyway!"

  39. Only if you are insecure by mrego · · Score: 1

    So what's wrong about "feeling different"? She must be an insecure person. Get over it. You are the diversity if you think different (that was Apple's motto wasn't it?). What I want to know is: Do Nursing, Cosmetologist, or Secretarial blogs (or whatever traditionally female predominate occupations you want) fret about the lack of diversity in their industries? Or are only perceived male-dominate industries (like tech) subject to criticism?

  40. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Maybe Google, Apple, Amozon, etc are concerned that something they're doing is putting off potential applicants. Wanting to not put people off is not equality of outcome no matter how much you would like it to be.

    "No because I said so and you're wrong anyway!"

    No shit Sherlock! That's why it's the perfect rebuttal to someone saying "It's like this because I say so".

    --
    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  41. Re:It's all your fault whitey by stdarg · · Score: 1

    Maybe Google, Apple, Amozon, etc are concerned that something they're doing is putting off potential applicants.

    Here's a news release: http://www.rainbowpush.org/new...

    "At the urging of Rainbow PUSH Coalition and others, AMAZON finally released its workforce diversity and inclusion data."

    Explain how this is not related to SJW activism and is actually a straw man.

    No shit Sherlock! That's why it's the perfect rebuttal to someone saying "It's like this because I say so".

    Begging the question. You're justifying your own childish "straw man" retort by saying the other person's argument was invalid... but you can't actually explain why it was invalid.

  42. Get over yourself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I got into technology to get away from idiotic psycho-drama like this. Technology is mathematics, and beyond such nonsense.

  43. Re:Would you look at that by rogoshen1 · · Score: 1

    Hi, I'm a white male from a rather underprivileged background, and also have felt like outsider. Our experiences in our formative years were very very different. BUT to people like the author of this article by virtue of gender and color, we're exactly the same! Huzzah for diversity, which only occurs when people *look* different.

  44. Why is tech singled out? by rogoshen1 · · Score: 2

    The question that always come to my mind when reading articles like this .. is why is tech singled out as "needing" to change?

    Granted it's a tech-centric site, so it will be biased -- but where are the SJ crusaders trying to get more men involved in teaching primary education, or nursing? I'd wager that the gender gap is even greater than in technology.

    This is somewhat tongue in cheek, but having traveled to several large cities, white men were somewhat underrepresented as cabbies. Is there implicit racism in cab companies hiring practices? Is this something we need a hash tag for?

    1. Re:Why is tech singled out? by Rande · · Score: 1

      but where are the SJ crusaders trying to get more men involved in teaching primary education.

      Men who want to work in primary education are probably paedophiles, or at least will probably be accused of such, and once accused, will never be able to work again in the field unless conclusively proved innocent, and maybe not even then.

  45. Conformity and ethnicity .. by lippydude · · Score: 1

    From my experience most people feel some-of-the-time that they don't fit in and do try and conform to the percieved majority group-think. I would have thought that the IT sector was the one group where people were accepted regardless of their ethnic background.

  46. Re: Would you look at that by Garridan · · Score: 1

    If you somehow think that white men are smarter, or more capable, than everybody else, then I'm willing to bet that you haven't spent much time as 'the token white guy'. If all your experience with other races is service oriented (restaurants, banks, etc) or with 'token non-(white guy)s', then you experientially have no reason to expect as much of them as you do of yourself. This is natural. Racism is natural, just like rape, theft, and murder.

    Humans: more than just a lizard brain. Act like it!

    In fact, people who are raised in different cultures think differently*. From a completely utilitarian viewpoint, diversity of ideas is the most critical ingredient to problem solving. Moreover, in terms of numbers, there are vastly more non-(white male)s than white males. By maintaining the status quo, we restrict the talent pool to a tiny margin, and homogeneous dev teams get stuck in groupthink. You're trapping yourself in a stuck mindset, and the competition will pass you by.

    Without diversity of eye, hair, and skin color, think of the example you're setting. When white folk inevitably lose supremacy, who the fuck is going to hire your white ass? If we get diversity up & running nice and smooth, it'll seriously work out in our favor in the long run. Make people feel welcome, regardless of their coloring. They might return the favor... but slight them, and that'll surely come back to bite you.

    * If it needs to be said, culture and pigment levels are strongly correlated. Also, sending white babies to be raised in different cultures so you can maintain a lily-white workforce with a diverse cultural footprint probably won't end well.

  47. Re: Would you look at that by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

    "While that's true"

    *** citation needed

    Diversity of things that matter, may be important, but diversity of eye, hair, and skin color may be unimportant.

    They are not. We have recent history to prove otherwise.

  48. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Explain how this is not related to SJW activism and is actually a straw man.

    So basically, you've jumped on in the middle of an argument, posted something marginally related and then demand I explain how that fits my attack on the original poster.

    oookay.

    Anyway, the whole concept of "SJW" is a straw man. I've only ever heard it used by angry internet types who make up all sorts of things and then decry the evils of "SJW".

    So far I don't see anything wrong with the link you posted. Some companies have noticed their workforce does not remotely reflect the balance of people in the broader population. They figure this is almost certainly a bad thing and are aiming to fix it.

    The result seems to be massive amounts of whining on the internet, because nothing at all is worse than fixing something that's bad.

    --
    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  49. Re:It's all your fault whitey by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 1

    "social justice" is based on the extremely faulty assertion that everybody is the same and that absolutely every trait or preference you may have is culturally constructed.

    No, social justice is based on the premise that significant institutionalized injustice was committed until very recently whose consequences still linger. How effective (or just) remediation is, that is a related but different subject.

  50. Asians? Indians? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The technology industry is also made up of a lot of Asian and Indian men and women who don't seem to have a problem. In this particular case, I think it's less of a race issue and more of an personal entitlement issue.

  51. Tech Diversity is not the big problem... by thesupraman · · Score: 1

    Increasing diversity in THE TEACHING OF OUR CHILDREN would be pretty damn good also.
    Unfortunately, no one seems to care about this.

    After many decades of chasing just about any man out of the teaching profession, we are left with a huge bias presented to children at their very most sensitive age.
    And we are worried about diversity in Tech? why not ponder the elephant in the corner, instead of the mouse hole.

    How do we expect to develop a well balanced and unbiased society when our children are taught, almost without exception, by women?

    I am NOT claiming, of course, that women cannot teach well - that is far from the truth.
    I AM claiming that having only women teachers IS A BAD THING.

    Of course the knee jerk reactions will not flood in - but face it, it is an inexcusable situation.
    Where are the big well funded pushed to get more men in teaching? ha! they are being actively excluded.. Many schools now actively
    avoid employing men 'as it makes the parents uncomfortable'.

    What a sad state of affairs.

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  53. Re:Would you look at that by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I don't care what others think about me -- not because I'm a sociopath, but because I'm an adult. I do try to make others feel comfortable (I abstain from talking too much about religion, politics, drugs, etc. in the workplace) I put my best foot forward, work hard, make sure that people get a clear understanding of what I've done for them or the company, and let them walk away with whatever stupid opinion they want. The worst they can do is try some office politicking, in which case I still have my work and product to show when anyone comes knocking that will shine the light of truth on any bullshit that someone might be pushing against me. It's never failed to make accusers look like the idiots they are. It makes me look impartial when I approach it this way, which always gives me the upper hand.

    The result? 95% of my coworkers really enjoy my feedback and my company. I don't bother telling them that I think their music sucks, that they should work on their lisps, that they are boring people, that their language offends me, or anything like that, because they probably think the same things about me. We're all in the same foxhole and we're all trying to take home more this year than we did last year. At 5:00pm, we part ways where I go home to my beautiful wife and children and they go get crunk'd at some idiot-magnet where we no-longer affect one-another.

  54. Re:It's all your fault whitey by stdarg · · Score: 1

    The press release says "At the urging of Rainbow PUSH Coalition and others, AMAZON finally released its workforce diversity and inclusion data."

    That suggests Amazon's release of data was under pressure from interest groups like Rainbow PUSH Coalition.

    Why do you keep saying things that imply the companies did this spontaneously?

    From http://rainbowpush.org/pages/b... we see that: "The Rainbow PUSH Coalition is the product of a social justice movement that grew out of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference's (SCLC) Operation Breadbasket. Founded by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Operation Breadbasket sought to combine theology and social justice, and to effect progressive economic, educational, and social policy in America."

    How is that not descriptive of an organization fighting for social justice, i.e. a "social justice warrior?"

    How can you call the concept a straw man when we have examples of them and their influence? (At the very least, their own claims of their influence.)

  55. My feelings exactly by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1

    Most teams I've worked on, I've been the only white male or one of only two or three white males. The rest are all other combinations. We've never had any of the issues that the author complains about. Methinks the problem is the common denominator: her.

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    They don't grade fathers, but if your daughter's a stripper, you fucked up. --Chris Rock
  56. Made up problems ? by GuB-42 · · Score: 1

    I work with women, blacks, arabs, etc... And everything is fine for everyone.
    Of course, a few of them were unhappy with their situation but it happens with white males too. These people tend to blame everything but themselves.

    The women I work with are usually a lot more tech inclined than the average women, which is to be expected when working in tech. So yeah, they may readily talk about computers, video games and cars, but it doesn't prevent them from being feminine. They just have the culture that matches their jobs. Likewise, you should expect people working in libraries to read books and people making dog food to own pets.
    Whether or not our minority coworkers get along is not about about accepting offensive jokes but rather a simple matter of social skills. If you show that you bring more fun to a group than racist or sexist jokes, people will want you in, even if you don't accept these jokes.

  57. Definition of majority by Livius · · Score: 1

    "I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture"

    Probably most of the members of that "culture" feel exactly the same way.

  58. Lets be honest: by davydagger · · Score: 1

    >I feel like I've lost my entire cultural identity in effort to be part of the culture I've spent the majority of the last decade in.

    to be honest, most white male nerds lost most of their identity with traditional white and male culture years ago.

    IT and technology up until very recently was a soul crushing job that almost perminatnly marked you as an outcast, with no life outside your own. The reason is you have an undeniable value to society, any society, and any society that has the technology you create will be better than the ones without it.

    That gives you leverage, and the rest of the intellegista fears you, because most of them are worthless hacks who have class and status, that is very relivant to the people who gave it to them.

    These are social values in capitalism.

  59. How about changing the toilet paper roll? by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1

    So females have exclusive skills and knowledge that males don't?

    Every woman I know mentions men's inability to change the toilet paper.

    Even our fantasies are different, as I summarize in this submission

    The issue the researchers wanted to solve was this: Though there are numerous theories about deviant sexual fantasies, science had never described what was a typical fantasy versus what was "unusual."

    Not surprisingly, the study confirms that men have more fantasies and describe them more vividly than women. The study also tells us that a significant proportion of women (30% to 60%) evoke themes associated with submission (e.g., being tied up, spanked, forced to have sex).

    Importantly, unlike men, women in general clearly distinguish between fantasy and desire. Thus, many women who express more extreme fantasies of submission (e.g. domination by a stranger) specify that they never want these fantasies to come true. The majority of men, however, would love their fantasies to come true (e.g. threesomes).

    As expected, the presence of one's significant other is considerably stronger in female fantasies than in male fantasies. In general, men in couples fantasize much more about extramarital relationships compared to women.

    One of the most intriguing findings has to do with the significant number of unique male fantasies, for example, regarding shemales, anal sex among heterosexuals, and the idea of watching their partner have sex with another man. Evolutionary biological theories cannot explain these fantasies, which, among males, are typically desires.

    There are differences, and there's no denying it. And the dynamics are a lot more complex than first appearances would have us believe. Example - Shoshana Roberts - the woman walking around New York getting the catcalls, then death threats when she posted the video.

    Some of the men, the politest interpretation is that they're mentally disturbed. Others are peacocking to show their street buddies that they're "da man" by being so openly rude and sexually suggestive. They're building up their dysfunctional egos at women's expense. The rest? Shoshana is making no eye contact, not looking at them, not acting in any way like she wants to interact with them ... do these guys even realize how counter-productive, how much they look like losers, doing this?

    They probably do. So why DO they do it?

    --
    "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
    1. Re:How about changing the toilet paper roll? by BarbaraHudson · · Score: 1
      Well, considering that the previous poster had posed the question "So females have exclusive skills and knowledge that males don't?", it speaks directly to the heart of the matter. The two genders have wildly different interests and goals even in something as basic as sex; how can we expect them to have the same interests and goals in everything else?

      So women will perceive too much sexual innuendo as creating a hostile workplace, since women. as per the study, are far less into actually fulfilling their fantasies, while men would jump at the chance.

      But back to your problem ... most people find that living their fantasies is a bit of a let-down - how can real life, with all its problems, ever live up to a perfect fantasy? Now this in itself isn't a problem; it's only when people reject the not-quite-perfect and continue to search for the perfect that their fantasy is interfering with leading their life.

      As for that 60% stat - that's women who fantasize about bondage and domination - most of them made it clear that they would NEVER want to actually go through with it, especially with a stranger; and that men, on the other hand, don't care who it's with, it's the experience of living their fantasy that's important.

      I've been looking for new sex partners for a little while, since we opened our marriage, ... I expect our marriage to end in a year or two; we're great friends, but we're just not very good lovers.

      If you're not into something, you're not into it. The question is, is this a deal-breaker or not? It sounds like you fear it is, but you don't know for sure. After all, sex isn't everything. What do you do with the other 20 hours a day? (I'm joking :-)

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      "Transparent" is a shit show that trades on every stereotype going. A man in drag is NOT a transsexual.
  60. "The Difference..." by Scott E. Page explains why by Paul+Fernhout · · Score: 1

    "...How the Power of Diversity Creates Better Groups, Firms, Schools, and Societies" http://www.amazon.com/The-Diff...
    "In this landmark book, Scott Page redefines the way we understand ourselves in relation to one another. The Difference is about how we think in groups--and how our collective wisdom exceeds the sum of its parts. Why can teams of people find better solutions than brilliant individuals working alone? And why are the best group decisions and predictions those that draw upon the very qualities that make each of us unique? The answers lie in diversity--not what we look like outside, but what we look like within, our distinct tools and abilities.
        The Difference reveals that progress and innovation may depend less on lone thinkers with enormous IQs than on diverse people working together and capitalizing on their individuality. Page shows how groups that display a range of perspectives outperform groups of like-minded experts. Diversity yields superior outcomes, and Page proves it using his own cutting-edge research. Moving beyond the politics that cloud standard debates about diversity, he explains why difference beats out homogeneity, whether you're talking about citizens in a democracy or scientists in the laboratory. He examines practical ways to apply diversity's logic to a host of problems, and along the way offers fascinating and surprising examples, from the redesign of the Chicago "El" to the truth about where we store our ketchup.
        Page changes the way we understand diversity--how to harness its untapped potential, how to understand and avoid its traps, and how we can leverage our differences for the benefit of all."

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    A 21st century issue: the irony of technologies of abundance in the hands of those still thinking in terms of scarcity.
  61. Fair enough but there was still risk by dbIII · · Score: 1
    Fair enough, and thanks for the background, but there was still risk in a new rocket even if it was designed by the same designer as the old one. If you think back to the earlier thread that was my entire point. A changed design introduces risk.

    I still find it implausible that the stage is anything else than a Zenit with a bit of a lenght cut out.

    Which changes how it flies.
    An example I used to present to students was the "Liberty" ships, where the only two changes were joining method and in many cases a relaxation of quality standards for the steel used. Those two changes without proper redesign to take them into account resulted in more than a couple of thousand recorded catastropic cracking incidents, multiple ones per ship in some cases, and the number of ships reported lost due to the cracking was in triple digits but I can't recall more detail than that. In that case changing the joining method from riveting to welding meant that a redesign of a deck hatch was required. That was resisted until many months had passed and more than one thousand ships with that design had been built.
    So that's another way to illustrate the point I was trying to convey - design is a process that involves feedback and is not as trivial as changing a line of source code without having to worry about the libraries it calls.

    So yes, even "a Zenit with a bit of a length cut out" is undoubtedly not trivial and not without risk.
    It would be nice to have something entirely new pushing the envelope but the approach of running spaceflight as separate cottage industries instead on contractors under the expert guidance of NASA is unlikely to deliver anything of consequence.

  62. Conforming to a culture is not bad by johncandale · · Score: 1

    Translation: I want to impose my culture on my team mates.

    This. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a culture that one adapts to. The other option, thou people will disagree, is having no culture. If I lived in Japan I would adapt to their culture and manurisums. I wouldn't walk around complaining that I couldn't be more American.

  63. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    How is that not descriptive of an organization fighting for social justice, i.e. a "social justice warrior?"

    Because the phrase SJW has a pretty well known pejorative meaning and you well know that. Secondly not everyone who fights for a cause is a "warrior". Finally, you're a social justice warrior too by your own apparent definition. You think this is all unjust (unfairly biased against men) and are fighting against it (by arguing loudly on the internet). Makes you a social justics warrior too.

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    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  64. Re:It's all your fault whitey by stdarg · · Score: 2

    SJW being a pejorative meaning does not make the phenomenon any less real. As an example, "racist" is a pejorative term, but racists are real.

    You're twisting the definition of SJW to make it apply to me, though. You chose too high a level of abstraction ("unfairly biased"). I'm against things that are unfairly biased for women as well. Where people think SJWs err is in HOW they determine things are unfairly biased. Disparate impact is one example, unequal outcome is another. SJWs are happy to stop at that level. Unequal outcome is evidence of unfair bias, and that's good enough.

    You can't lump such people in with others (like me) who believe in equal opportunity, but not equal outcome. The views are far too different.

    But the lowercase form "social justice warrior" -- sure, I'm that. I believe in social justice very strongly.

  65. The above post is the answer by dbIII · · Score: 1

    If I hadn't already posted I'd mod the above up. A lack of diversity is a sign that you are not looking very far for talent.

  66. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    OK, you're not the ggggggp. You seem more sensible.

    You're twisting the definition of SJW to make it apply to me, though.

    That's because (unlike racist), SJW is merely a perjorative with no real meaning. Firstly it's amazing that anyone who fights for justice in social matters is considered bad merely because of the fight for justice. Second it's hilarious that you've decided it doesn't apply to you because reasons.

    SJWs are happy to stop at that level.

    Find a definition (no, not on internet forums, somewhere a bit more solid) of SJW which includes all the things you do like but not any of the things you don't.

    You can't lump such people in with others (like me) who believe in equal opportunity, but not equal outcome. The views are far too different.

    And we're back to the straw man. The definition of SJW is not "someone who believes in equal outcome".

    Look: SJW is basically a pejorative term made up by the red pill crowd to shut down any argument about anything they don't like. At least that's my impression. If you can find a real definition that isn't actually that then I've got an opinion which can be changed.

    And I stand by my claim about the OP attacking straw men. Shouting SJW as soon as any article comes up is simply an attempt to construct an easy to defeat enemy (there is apparently no enormity to which SJWs won't sink aparently), and so shut down the argument quickly. The thing is SJW doesn't mean anything except an amporphous collection of things the straw-man constructor hates.

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    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  67. Re:It's all your fault whitey by stdarg · · Score: 1

    I think your expectations are too high. SJW is not a well-defined term, it's an evolving term, just like civil rights, achievement gaps, and employment figures are evolving. If many different people are calling a person or organization an SJW then that's probably valid. If a few people or one person is calling a person or organization an SJW then you'd compare it to other cases and make a judgment call.

    The thing I've noticed is that SJW's, like I said, take up the mantle of the most extreme positions on social justice, where not just equal opportunity but equal outcome are the goal. They rely on things like disparate impact to "prove" that something is discriminatory or racist, because they have lost touch with or outright rejected the dictionary definition of the words. They often in one breath readily admit that overt racism and discrimination are extremely rare, but in another claim that society is racist, institutional racism is rampant, and white male supremacy is woven throughout society and is causing all the problems for minorities and women.

    There are many attributes and subtleties, which is why there isn't a clear definition of SJW. It's something you recognize when you see it, but can't define, like love or beauty (only bad).

  68. Re:It's all your fault whitey by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    If many different people are calling a person or organization an SJW then that's probably valid. If a few people or one person is calling a person or organization an SJW then you'd compare it to other cases and make a judgment call. The thing I've noticed is that SJW's, like I said, take up the mantle of the most extreme positions on social justice, where not just equal opportunity but equal outcome are the goal.

    Well then, it seems that that is how you define SJW, but there's plenty more from the GamerGate crowd who seem to define SJW as anyone who disapproves of rape threats.

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    SJW n. One who posts facts.
  69. The Zen of Diversity by Malachias · · Score: 1

    Diversity is kind of like zen; if you strive for it you will never obtain it. Instead if you don't seek it, but simply ignore all those things that don't matter you end up with, surprise, diversity. Of course, we sometimes don't know what matters. Nobody with a two functioning neurons says, however, to himself, "what I need is a team of young white males." Ok someone might think of a reason why that might be useful, but that's beside the point. You have a mission; you build a team to the best of you abilities to accomplish that mission. A lot of times we sacrifice the mission for other things: friendships, comfort, familiarity, and so on. Sometimes the population you have to select from is not all that diverse. That's someone else's problem. If you seek diversity, you will never find it.