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Survey: Tech Pros Ignoring Work-Life Balance Is a Myth (dice.com)

Nerval's Lobster writes: Are tech professionals really willing to live on energy drinks, and sleep on office couches, in order to get the job done? For many, the answer is "no." In response to a new Dice survey (Dice link, obviously), only 5 percent of employees at technology companies said that work-life balance wasn't a top priority for them. Contrast that with nearly 45 percent of respondents who said they wanted more of a work-life balance, even if their current position made that difficult. More than 27 percent of those surveyed also characterized work-life balance in the tech industry as a "myth." It seems that, despite all those companies talking publicly about wanting to give employees a better work-life balance (complete with on-site gyms and unlimited vacation time and... stuff...), it's not really working out for a lot of people. (And that's something that people have been calling out for some time.)

242 comments

  1. balance by phantomfive · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The ideal work/life ratio is 0.

    (You can still work, but work on things you care about, not what someone will pay you for).

    --
    "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    1. Re:balance by QilessQi · · Score: 5, Funny

      The ideal work/life ratio is 0.

      Unless you're a zombie, in which case it's NaN.

    2. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      My last employer before I became disabled was not happy with me. I worked my scheduled hours, and would very seldom longer than my scheduled hours in a day or come in on my days off. I did my job to the best of my abilities, and never slacked off on the job. I never called in sick unless I really was sick. I was talked to a couple of times because I would seldom come in when others called in sick, and would seldom work after the scheduled end of my shift. I was a part time worker, as were almost all employees where I worked. We got no vacation days, no sick days, no insurance or other benefits. The few full time people were upper management.

      Possibly I might have felt differently if about working on days off or past the end of my shift if I (and most of my fellow employees) were not treated as easily disposable/replaceable workdroids who deserved no loyalty or any consideration. I was one of the very few employees that lasted there over a year to a year and a half.

      Far to many employers are like that these days, they see their employees as an easily disposable/replaceable commodity. Most jobs are part time to save the employers money. Employees are expected to do more work for less pay, and are mostly treated like shit. There seems to be an expectation that employees will not have a life outside of their job, that their job should be their entire life.

      The whole H1-B Visa program was created because fully trained and qualified American tech workers won't work for minimum wage. You can't blame them for that, they want to be able to pay off their student loans before they reach retirement age!

    3. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree, but for a different reason. My life will always come before work. Work is something I do if I'm bored and need to kill some time.

    4. Re:balance by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      Work is something I do if I'm bored and need to kill some time.

      I seriously don't understand anyone who feels bored.

      --
      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    5. Re:balance by Jack+Griffin · · Score: 1

      I've been at both ends of the spectrum and my conclusion is about 20 hours of work a week is a ideal.
      40 hours/week or more makes me tired, and 0 makes me bored, causing general malaise and lethargy.
      3 x 8 hours or 4 x 6 hours is about perfect. Just enough to get interesting, but not enough to be fatigued.

    6. Re:balance by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      You should do something, but it doesn't have to be working for other people. You can work on your own projects.

      --
      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    7. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nah, in that case it's nullity.

    8. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The bit in brackets is the key. I'm happy to "work" on any number of projects, but only the less interesting ones seem to have any chance of making money, and when they do the fun just seems to drain away.

      In fact I'd go so far as to suggest that there is almost zero correlation between the usefulness of work in the wider sense and the amount money spent on it.

    9. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. The sheer number of things I *want* to do exceeds the time I have to do them in by such a margin that the only time I'm "bored" is usually when I'm driving or stuck in a room with boring people - aka travelling to and from work and in a meeting with managers.

    10. Re:balance by Bengie · · Score: 1

      I do about 20 hours of work every week, but I'm at work about 40 hours. I have to interleave a lot of mental breaks between actual work. I many times find myself getting stuck on a problem, coming back to it 10 minutes later, still stuck, so I go talk to someone for an hour, come back, and the problem is obvious. Over time I have gotten better at recognizing how much of a break I need to solve a problem.

    11. Re:balance by khallow · · Score: 1

      (You can still work, but work on things you care about, not what someone will pay you for).

      That's the point of the paycheck. To pay me to care enough about what my employer wants that I'll work for it.

    12. Re:balance by Mr+Z · · Score: 1

      QNaN or SNaN? I guess it depends if you need more braaaaaaaaains.

    13. Re:balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You don't understand that I can't constantly be travelling 24/7? Really?

      I can sum it up in one word: responsibility.

    14. Re:balance by twosat · · Score: 1

      "Men of lofty genius when they are doing the least work are most active." - Leonardo da Vinci

    15. Re:balance by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Boredom is when you really want to do something else and can't. It's possible to be trapped in unpleasant situations, need to do stuff to get paid, want to play outside while in class. It's also possible to be bored without consciously knowing what it is you want to do, but it isn't this. There are physical and psychological problems that can restrain you from doing what you'd really like to do.

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      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
    16. Re: balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Typo somewhere? Finding that hard to parse.

    17. Re: balance by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope, it's right, just doesn't sound right. Friggin' Italian.

  2. They use the integrated face system by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Tech professionals use the integrated face system to manage how many hours they are working.

  3. Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Startups are where the crazies live.

    1. Re:Try startups, not real companies by jedidiah · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Even in places that aren't crazy (Silicon Valley) and full of kids in startups, you have the expectation of working the occasional "crunch time" or odd hours. That's even something we were told to expect in college (in the midwest).

      Companies of the same class, industry, and region also vary widely.

      If anything, it seems that 45% of the respondents were complaining about "work-life balance" issues. That would seem to make it more of a myth even if a small minority thinks it's one.

      Outsourcing and "the bad economy" have certainly been held over people's heads. To believe that corporations won't abuse you to the extent we let them get away with it is just plain silly.

      Most people simply aren't in the position to declare that they've had enough and they're not taking any more. Consumer culture strongly discourages that level of solvency.

      --
      A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
    2. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Most people simply aren't in the position to declare that they've had enough and they're not taking any more. Consumer culture strongly discourages that level of solvency.

      This is it. You don't have to work long hours and put up with shit if you have your priorities right. However, if you must have the latest BMW, a bunch of kids and a 5 bedroom house, then you better pay up. Suckers ;-)

    3. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even in places that aren't crazy (Silicon Valley) and full of kids in startups, you have the expectation of working the occasional "crunch time" or odd hours. That's even something we were told to expect in college (in the midwest).

      In my experience it's the "start-ups" that were the worst when it came to chronic overtime and crunch periods.

    4. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yeah, but if we dont have 3 kids and a 5BR house, what you going to do to get a fresh crop around there? import violent druggies and terrorists and criminals from mexico, middle east and china?

      If you want me to make the next generation of suitable normal non-violent people who can have a passion and actualize on that , i need a place to live and crank out the new units.

      or if you want society to end, keep referring to us doing the hard work of making a living and raising kids as suckers / breeders.

    5. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Grishnakh · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Society isn't going to end if tech people stop having kids. The key is that the tech people need to all forgo having children, so that they can devote their lives to their companies. Other (non-tech) people, in other parts of society, will have kids to provide the next generation. This is what we have welfare and many other social programs for: the poor people are having and raising all the kids in society; we're basically paying them for it by giving them handouts. There's no reason for productive people to have children now, since we can simply segregate our society into a higher, productive class and a lower class for breeding. I can't possibly imagine why this won't turn out just fine. Uneducated people are perfectly capable of raising all the physicists and engineers we need for the future.

    6. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Immerman · · Score: 1

      Absolutely! The effectiveness of animal husbandry is a myth perpetrated by the intelligentsia.

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      --- Most topics have many sides worth arguing, allow me to take one opposite you.
    7. Re:Try startups, not real companies by ethanms · · Score: 1

      37... 6 year old Subaru, no kids, and 1 BR apartment and I still don't really have much... I'm definitely doing something wrong.

    8. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Jason+Levine · · Score: 5, Informative

      Even in places that aren't crazy (Silicon Valley) and full of kids in startups, you have the expectation of working the occasional "crunch time" or odd hours. That's even something we were told to expect in college (in the midwest).

      Growing up, I saw my father work 10 hour days, come home with a stack of work, dial into the office, and work another 4 hours. Then, on the weekends, he'd bring more work home and work hours upon hours. He wasn't getting paid more but was doing a lot of off-hours work on a daily basis. I asked him why he did all this work and his reply was that he had to because his boss expected this level of output from him.

      When I entered the workforce, I made it clear that this wouldn't be me. When I left work, work got left behind. I didn't mind the occasional "log in from home because a system went down" or "work a couple extra hours to push a project over the line" but this was to be the exception rather than the rule. When I was home, that was family time, not do-more-work-without-extra-payment time.

      My father has since retired and has said that all of that extra time he worked was time wasted because he could have been spending time with his family instead of getting a few more pages entered into the computer.

      --
      My sci-fi novel, Ghost Thief, is now available from Amazon.com.
    9. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      37... 6 year old Subaru, no kids, and 1 BR apartment and I still don't really have much... I'm definitely doing something wrong.

      Meanwhile in the Midwest: 33, 8 year old Lexus, no kids, 4 bedroom house on a 1/2 acre.

    10. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Either you're worth as little as you're getting paid or you should be looking for a job in a more affordable place. Seriously, I'm the same age as you, and my "fuck you" fund is adequate to cover the mortgage, utilities, insurance and groceries. I'm pretty much working for the toys and vacations. It was terrible to move to Omaha, until I realized that the difference in standard of living was about 2 hours I didn't spend in traffic every day. Shovel some in the winter, but we spend the worst 3 weeks of winter in the Bahamas. Seriously, people will pay for experience to live in the Midwest, and it's the best move we've made. Turns out that when you get past the racist attitudes about rural people that they're also worth talking to.

    11. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or in Texas, 39, 11 year old Hyundai (runs great at 150k), married with 3.9 kids (due next month), 3 bedroom house in nice neighbourhood and happy. Kids are polite, appreciate what they have and try to he helpful. Being rich isn't everything.

    12. Re:Try startups, not real companies by chipschap · · Score: 1

      you have the expectation of working the occasional "crunch time"

      The problem is when it's always crunch time. To me if a company is in constant crisis mode that's a symptom of poor management, but the managers will never admit it.

    13. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Start-ups are the worst for overtime and crunch periods but they are the best for potential return. Risk/Reward. I gave my life away at low pay for around two or three years and I turned down a better paying / lower stress job but it was ultimately worth it. The stress is always there, but the hours declined after getting the company off the ground and now I will retire at 42. If you are there in the beginning and the start-up takes off, that means you are always at the top. The top is where you make a lot of money. It's pretty difficult to get to the top at an Intel or Microsoft. Even if you do I'm pretty sure you have to give your life away to accomplish it and you will do it for a lot longer than at a start-up.

    14. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Richard, is that you? :P Hit me up on Facebook if I'm right lol.

    15. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds like you have your priorities straight. I hope you make it to the upper management w/o changing your attitude.

    16. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When going gets tough, the smart ones have already left...

      On a more serious note, everything that you do has an opportunity cost. Those who bought into the American middle-class lifestyle without thinking strategically can blame only themselves. Thus, if you're forced to work, you're either a slave and we are dealing with a criminal matter or you're doing something wrong. Of course, there is a probability of mis-fortunte.

    17. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's odd. I'm Latino and haven't had to put up with any of it. Of course, I recognized that identifying cultural differences is not inherently racist, which is lost on many people.

    18. Re: Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah yes, the dream. As you say risk/reward. Nobody ever talks about the fact that most startups fail and all these people basically threw away some good ywars of their lives for completely worthless stock options...

    19. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A few times my company has declared that some project would be happening at the weekend (usually this would be declared on a Thursday or Friday), and I was hearing about it for the first time in a meeting discussing it.
      I just told them I had plans, and that they needed to give me more notice than one or two days. (Only some of the time did I actually have plans I couldn't cancel).

      I'm a person, not a resource.

    20. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Society isn't going to end if tech people stop having kids. The key is that the tech people need to all forgo having children, so that they can devote their lives to their companies. Other (non-tech) people, in other parts of society, will have kids to provide the next generation. This is what we have welfare and many other social programs for: the poor people are having and raising all the kids in society; we're basically paying them for it by giving them handouts. There's no reason for productive people to have children now, since we can simply segregate our society into a higher, productive class and a lower class for breeding. I can't possibly imagine why this won't turn out just fine. Uneducated people are perfectly capable of raising all the physicists and engineers we need for the future.

      Thanks for a great article
      http://matlabhome.ir

    21. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Haha, nope, sorry :)

    22. Re:Try startups, not real companies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      38, no car, no kids, no wife, no house and I love it. Because I travel so much, those things would just be anchors to me.

      All I have is a passport, a really good laptop, an unlocked global mobile phone, an ebook reader and about two weeks worth of clothes. In the past I used to own a bunch of crap, but I feel a lot better after shedding that stuff and living a life with fewer possessions. It's really liberating and gives me more time to spend with friends and to live in other countries.

    23. Re: Try startups, not real companies by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      If you're young, you can spin working at a startup into some impressive-looking experience on your resume. It isn't a complete loss.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
  4. Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Free lunch, on site gyms... are all about keeping you at work longer, not going out to lunch, meeting a woman...

    1. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1, Troll

      Full disclosure upfront: I'm currently split b/w Trump, Carson and Cruz, so haven't decided whom to support, since I like them all. And I know that I shouldn't feed trolls, but what the heck

      But about your comment, Trump is opposed to illegal immigration. He has said nothing opposing legal immigration. And it's a myth that only immigrants - whether legal or illegal - procreate. Here in GA, there are plenty of babies - born mainly to Blacks and out of wedlock. So even w/ no immigration, the US won't become an older country.

      With an unpopulated America, there will be no customers for his golf resorts, since ultimately, the old golfers will be dead. And Trump does love money even more than anything else.

    2. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      But without a work force, who's going to wipe his ass and glue his hair in place in a few years?

      --
      We used to have a Bill of Rights. Now, with the rights gone, all we have left is the bill.
    3. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      All you need to complete the concoction of stupidity is Bernie Sanders.

    4. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Nidi62 · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      But about your comment, Trump is opposed to illegal immigration. He has said nothing opposing legal immigration.

      Unless you're Syrian. Or a Muslim. Or trying to escape a war-torn country.

      --
      The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for it to be pitted against a slightly greater evil
    5. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      speaking about myths...

      Here in GA, there are plenty of babies - born mainly to Blacks and out of wedlock

      Let's take 2014 for example ... in Georgia there were 130776 births with 44348 to black mothers.
      source: https://oasis.state.ga.us/oasis/oasis/qryMCH.aspx

      I'll let you do that math on "born mainly to Blacks and out of wedlock" ... thanks for your time.

    6. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by erp_consultant · · Score: 4, Funny

      "The moment you have a child you become a burden for the company." - Yes but that is because society insists on maternity (and now paternity) leave. I'm not saying that is necessarily a bad thing, although it does seem a bit unfair to childless couples and singles. Anyhow, that ship has already sailed. But somebody has to pay for the time off, etc.

      "Trump wants to make getting babies impossible." - Nonsense. Trump has never said anything of the sort.

      "He wants to stop immigration." - No, he wants to stop ILLEGAL immigration. You have conveniently left that critical piece out. Trump has said repeatedly that he welcomes LEGAL immigrants to the US and values their contributions. How this is an extreme position is beyond me. People sneaking into the country and overstaying visas are not "Undocumented" or whatever other cutesy phrase you want to come up with. They are ILLEGAL immigrants and have broken our immigration laws.

      "He wants that american population gets older, without any young people, and dies out, slowly." - Are you suggesting that Americans don't have any children?

      "With an unpopulated america he has more space for his golf resorts." - And if we follow your logic, nobody to play on those courses. Unless we include all the illegal immigrants that you are pushing for. Maybe they'll take up golf.

    7. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by viperidaenz · · Score: 1

      Lesbians are people too.

    8. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by clonehappy · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Will you give us a break with that shit?

    9. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by erp_consultant · · Score: 1

      Harry Reid?

    10. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Hylandr · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Or abusing the generosity of good people by sneaking your army over the boarder under the guise of refugees.

      Too soon to be trying to continue the lame justification of 'escaping the war torn country'. Those ore soldiers invading the next territory. France may well be fighting for it's existence. Again.

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      ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
    11. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by peragrin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Trump recently stated he wanted to build a database of Muslims. Just like hitter had all Jews marked so he knew who was a Jew. Once you start down that path you are just a few steps away from rounding them up and mass exterminating them.

      Right now everything trump says is suspect. He wants to build a fascist country and his most die hard supporters are the gun toting red necks.

      Even Hillary looks sane compared to that.

      --
      i thought once I was found, but it was only a dream.
    12. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > "meeting a woman..."

      No, that's what the paycheck is for. : /

    13. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Full disclosure upfront: I'm currently split b/w Trump, Carson and Cruz

      Definitely appreciate you letting everyone know that you're a fucking idiot right up front.

    14. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      Meeting a woman is in reference to a man reassigning his priorities after falling in love with said woman to revolve around his dedication to caring and nurturing her.

      My Boss tried to dissuade me from continuing my relationship with my new GF ( Now my wife for 18 years ). My priorities changed from working from 5 am to midnight to 9 to 5, time for a quickie at lunch and time out for doctors appointments, childbirth and the like.

      When you get paid 100 for an 8 hour day and work 19 hours your effective pay goes from 12.50 an hour to 5.26. The boss is billing you out at 100 an hour. When you work 19 hour days his profit margin goes from $1900 per day to $800 per day gross while taking a larger percentage of that $800 knocking it down to $700 vs 1800 for the day. before calculating any other costs of operation and the costs to employ someone that's not visible on your paystub like insurance, taxes, etc.

      Silicon valley would do better to destroy the Misandrist movement before it does any more lasting and permanent damage. All it's really doing is preserving the virginity of young intelligent males and keeping them strapped to their desks for their free beer, gym memberships, and office games. How's it feel to be a tool of the financial patriarchy ?

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      ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
    15. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Full disclosure upfront: I'm currently split b/w Trump, Carson and Cruz ...

      b/w? That's cute. How old are you? 12?

    16. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Actually,+I+do+RTFA · · Score: 2

      A friend is trying to recruit me to join her company. One of the "benefits" was 24-hour hackathons. I don't get it at all. I so, so, so don't want to pull all-nighters unless it were necessary, and if I want to work on a side-project, I would normally expect to keep the rights, not turn them over for a free dinner.

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      Your ad here. Ask me how!
    17. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The unlimited vacation is also about keeping you at work longer, because it instantly creates a corporate culture where anyone who takes any vacation at all is seen as slacking off.

      Companies who are serious about work/life balance allow vacation to accrue at a rate that gets you 3 weeks a year off when you start (and that goes up over time as a reward for longevity at the company), and then requires all employees to take the time off.

      Similarly, when they see people regularly working more than 40 hours a week, leadership sees that as a problem (our assets are burning themselves out!) and takes actions to find the root causes and correct them.

      Few companies do this.

    18. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that part of his statement might not have been stupider then supporting Cruz, Trump, or Carson (seriously?). It certainly showed his true colors...
      I'd hate to be on the receiving end of his facebook feed.

    19. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Krishnoid · · Score: 1

      All it's really doing is preserving the virginity of young intelligent males and keeping them strapped to their desks for their free beer, gym memberships, and office games.

      Silicon Valley needs to up its game. With blackjack. And hookers! It would solve the virginity problem, anyway.

    20. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sneaking over the boarder is a clear violation of your AirBnB terms, and a little creepy if they're sleeping.

    21. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or abusing the generosity of good people by sneaking your army over the boarder under the guise of refugees.

      Too soon to be trying to continue the lame justification of 'escaping the war torn country'. Those ore soldiers invading the next territory. France may well be fighting for it's existence. Again.

      Note how the poor use of language is internally consistent with the crudity of the rhetoric.

    22. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Classic American liberal response: attack the person, not the argument.

    23. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You and I are already in police databases (along with everyone else). You and I are already one heartbeat away from being exterminated by the police (the poor cop feared for their life!).

      We don't need a nutjob like Trump to get elected for your nazi germany prediction to become true.

    24. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      thank you ac. The statement about the babies sounded obviously wrong, thanks for looking it up.

      sr

    25. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by sysrammer · · Score: 1

      "...build a database...Once you start down that path you are just a few steps away from rounding them up..."

      Interestingly, this is one of the primary fears of many Americans (including gun-nutters) whenever gun control proponents start talking.

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      His ignorance covered the whole earth like a blanket, and there was hardly a hole in it anywhere. - Mark Twain
    26. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by sysrammer · · Score: 1

      Are you an Anonymous Coward or just an ass?

      --
      His ignorance covered the whole earth like a blanket, and there was hardly a hole in it anywhere. - Mark Twain
    27. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But about your comment, Trump is opposed to illegal immigration. He has said nothing opposing legal immigration.

      My wife is a legal immigrant. In fact, we were meticulously careful to to follow absolutely all the rules and regulations - which are extremely cumbersome and intrusive. But, while there are other reasons that I'm not a big fan of Trump, I'm not actually sure that he would be worse for my wife than Hillary.

      Under Bush, my wife's extended family were all granted 5-year multiple entry visas to come visit us - which they used sparingly and responsibly fully within the bounds of the law. But then, under Obama with Hillary as Secretary of State, when my wife's youngest sister applied for what should essentially have been a renewal to come to the USA to do some holiday traveling with us, she was denied on the grounds that she didn't have close family living in the USA. Huh? I mean, imagine if some American family wanted to travel to Japan as tourists and were denied on the grounds that they didn't have close family living in Japan.

      Now, with Trump, his mother and two of his three wives were legal immigrants. So it's not really clear that he would be any worse than Hillary on legal immigrants. He might even be better.

      And, with regrd to illegal immigrants - where Hillary probably would be "better" (more lenient) - I'm a bit ambivalent. On one hand, I'm a big believer in individual freedom. I think it's crazy that we have this notion that a person has to live out their life within whatever arbitrary geopolitical boundary they happened to be born into. On the other hand, the illegals tend to ruin things for the legals. In particular, my wife's extended family wouldn't have such trouble coming to visit if there wasn't a problem with people from my wife's country coming to the USA and staying on illegally.

      Also, for me as a PhD scientist, jobs are scarce (far more people with science PhDs than available jobs). So I actually had to leave the USA (my country of birth) and move overseas to find work. I know from first hand experience that international moves are hard. But I also know that they aren't the worst thing in the world. So all this hand wringing about the inhumanity of deporting illegals leaves my unmoved. Yes, would be hard for them to move back to the countries they came from. But at least they got to spend a few years in the USA - presumably making good money that they can take back to their home countries to live comfortable lives. If not being allowed to live in the USA is such a horrible thing, then what about all the people in other countries who obeyed the law and never got to even visit the USA as tourists?

      So, yes, when it comes to legal immigration, Hillary is likely to be as bad, or even worse, than Trump.

    28. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by youngone · · Score: 1

      I had the opposite experience, sort of. When I got married and started my family, I was paid for overtime, time and a half, and double time after 3 hours (I think that's right). Like most young couples we were hard up and the paid overtime helped keep us afloat. The stupid boss however decided that his staff should all go onto salaries and not be paid overtime, as if we couldn't count or something. There was no negotiation, it was presented as a fait accompli and when some of us said no, threats were made, so within a few months we were all either working at the competition, or in other industries. Stupid boss went out of business.

    29. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Once you start down that path you are just a few steps away from rounding them up and mass exterminating them.

      No, not really. Even in Germany, they didn't get going on the mass exterminating until Germany was clearly losing the war and the political climate in Germany had devolved into paranoid desperation.

      Even Hillary looks sane compared to that.

      Hillary looks sane compared to you, anyway.

      For me, though, both Hillary and Trump are selling the same lie: that they care about ordinary Americans. Both of them are very clearly 100% motivated by money and personal power. The thing is, Trump sells the lie by being likable: "OK, I admit I'm fundamentally selfish but I'm also kind of fun to party with." On the other hand, Hillary tries to sell the same lie with fear and intimidation and shame: "How dare you question my motives you woman hating sexist pig!"

      At the end of the day, I don't want either to be president but, at least with Trump, he's less likely to add insult to injury while screwing me over.

    30. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      France may well be fighting for it's existence. Again.

      What you have to understand is that there is one single international, mostly hereditary, ruling that are all basically on the same team. Occasionally they do stab each other in the back. But, fundamentally, their loyalty is to each other - against the ordinary people of the world.

      In the wake of 9/11, Bush had all that rhetoric about clash of civilizations - giving the impression that Christians in developed countries were fighting an existential battle against Muslim extremists. But who were his closest BFFs? Well, the Saudi dictators, of course. The Saudi dictators subject their people to an extreme form of Islam that makes Iran look moderate by comparison. And Bush is their BFF.

      It's not just Bush, though. Supposedly Hillary is all about women's rights. In Saudi Arabia, women aren't even allowed to drive. So why is Hillary so lovey-dovey with the Saudi dictators - well, they've given her big steaming piles of money, of course. And it goes on. Supposedly Hillary is a noble crusader against the sexist pig that is Donald Trump - so then why was she a guest at his wedding?

      Or how about Rupert Murdoch and Tony Blair? Supposedly Murdoch is a big enemy of the liberals. But he was a close friend and supporter of Tony Blair - at least until Tony Blair started banging Murdoch's wife (if we are to believe the word on the street).

      The point is that there really isn't any big clash of civilizations. It's just the international ruling class using ordinary people in various countries as pawns in their little back-stabbing power games.

    31. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by spazzmo · · Score: 1

      Right now? That human-shaped-hole is an evil lying sack of shit. Everything he has ever said or ever will say is suspect.

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    32. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Pinky's+Brain · · Score: 1

      Robots, automation is outpacing demographic change.

      Every low skilled Muslim immigrant adds more costs than benefits to a western nation, which they keep doing for generations afterwards.

    33. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Pinky's+Brain · · Score: 1

      If they lose half in divorce and alimony they will still have to work those hours for the same income.

    34. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      I fully agree w/ that. No way should we have more Muslims in this country - given all the terrorist attacks they've done in this country SINCE 9/11

    35. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by erp_consultant · · Score: 1

      I notice that you have not tried to refute a single one of my arguments so I will take that as a complete and total smack down. Typical knee jerk liberal. All emotion and no logic.

      Sometimes I wonder why I even bother responding to these AC trolls. Slow day I suppose. But thanks for advancing the conservative viewpoint. You can collect your participation trophy at the door.

    36. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      The capture in Honduras of some Syrians attempting to come to the US as refugees and do ISIS inspired attacks. Also, in Paris, one of the attackers was from the Syrian refugee population. As far as your 'can't' comment goes, we can't - until an attack actually happens. It's not worth having 100s dead just to prove a /. AC wrong

    37. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 0

      Insightful?!!! Really, /., you get stupider by the day!!!

    38. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by vovin · · Score: 1

      When coming to the US there is really one criteria above all else ... that you will return when your trip is over.
      Having family (close or other wise) in the US is generally a knock against.
      Showing roots outside the US is a big plus.
      Having a history of coming and *going* is a big plus.
      Over staying is a big NAK.

      she was denied on the grounds that she didn't have close family living in the USA.

      That specifically is a fabrication. The US emphatically will *never* tell you why your visa was approved or denied.

      Hope this helps.

    39. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1, Informative

      Trump recently stated he wanted to build a database of Muslims. Just like hitter had all Jews marked so he knew who was a Jew. Once you start down that path you are just a few steps away from rounding them up and mass exterminating them.

      Right now everything trump says is suspect. He wants to build a fascist country and his most die hard supporters are the gun toting red necks.

      Even Hillary looks sane compared to that.

      I hadn't heard of that, but assuming that it's true, it makes me support him all the more.

      Comparing Muslims w/ Jews is odious. Contrary to Hitler's imagination, Jews were not committing acts of terror and violence against anyone, nor were they trying to subvert the constitutions of the countries that they were in to give themselves most favored status. That's in sharp contrast to Muslims, who since 9/11 alone, have killed tens of thousands of people worldwide. Given that there is a database of people who have done these killings, it's insane not to have a database of Muslims that are there in non-Muslim countries like the US, France and anywhere else in the world.

    40. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      speaking about myths...

      Here in GA, there are plenty of babies - born mainly to Blacks and out of wedlock

      Let's take 2014 for example ... in Georgia there were 130776 births with 44348 to black mothers. source: https://oasis.state.ga.us/oasi...

      I'll let you do that math on "born mainly to Blacks and out of wedlock" ... thanks for your time.

      It doesn't contradict my contradiction of the GP that ONLY IMMIGRANTS PROCREATE

    41. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      It's a common way to abbreviate 'between', asshole!!!

    42. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Will you give us a break with that shit?

      Or at least some toilet paper.

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    43. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      well, AC has a point...

    44. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That specifically is a fabrication. The US emphatically will *never* tell you why your visa was approved or denied.

      Different countries have different processes, for countries that require and in-person interview at the embassy they absolutely do tell people why they are approving or denying. Now, it in the time-honored tradition of unaccountable 3rd word bureaucrats, they typically don't leave a paper trail. And the reasons that they do give are typically utter nonsense.

      In the situations, I've seen, the applicants go up to some little window and some American who doesn't really speak the local language tries to ask a few broken questions. And then the American makes some completely arbitrary decision and makes up some nonsense to justify it.

      It's all very silly. The USA has this whole long application process - plus in-person interview, etc. - so you think "OK, at least they'll actually make good decisions." But then the decisions are obviously wrong: the people I've known who've been denied tourist visas have absolutely no connection to terrorism, absolutely no interest at all of overstaying, and a history of previous responsible use of past tourist visas.

      If you happen to have any remaining faith in the USA government and would like to see it destroyed then a very good way to do that is to accompany a friend or relative to an in-person interview for a US tourist visa.

    45. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When did ./ become such a bunch of fascist liberals?

    46. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Given that there is a database of people who have done these killings, it's insane not to have a database of Muslims that are there in non-Muslim countries like the US, France and anywhere else in the world.

      Most of the people ISIS have killed are in fact other muslims. So why does it make sense for non muslim majority countries to have yet another useless database with a million innocents in it, with a few hardline nutjobs? How precisely will that help?

      In order to expand your forthcoming answer to be more detailed, you may wish to comment on the fact that in many/most cases, the perpetrators were in fact already known to the authorities, but there was not enough evidence that they were going to do anything/not enough resources to follow up on all leads.

      I'm sure you're bursting to tell me how precisely diverting more resources into tracking a bunch of innocents (remember those guilty people usually are already in law enforcement databases) will help when the resources to follow existing "persons of interest" are already too thin on the ground.

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    47. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      It depends on your gender. A detailed study found that men tend to get an increase in pay after having children, and women tend to get a reduction. There are a variety of reasons, one being inequality in access to maternity/paternity leave, but a big factor is perception. They also found that when a man says they value their work/life balance it tends to be looked on positively, where as if a woman says the same it tends to negatively affect her.

      As for maternity/paternity leave being unfair on childless couples, you could argue that it's unfair for childless couples to benefit from all the money they save by not having children and transferring the responsibility and cost of creating and raising future generations on to others. Presumably those people want there to be young people around when they are old.

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    48. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      France may well be fighting for it's existence. Again.

      Please, that is just utter nonsense. France is in no danger as a country. We are talking about a small number of bad people among hundreds of thousands of refugees, and guess what, that's always the case. Criminals and religious extremists have always moved with refugees, it's nothing new.

      The biggest danger to France is over reacting. The best thing it can do to foil ISIS' plans is to not demonize Muslims and refugees, because that's what they want. The more France cracks down on those groups, the more recruits ISIS will have. In any case, ISIS will never have enough to defeat France. Never.

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    49. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by strikethree · · Score: 1

      Trump recently stated he wanted to build a database of Muslims.

      Look, I would vote for Trump just to say "fuck you" to the American political system, which means I think Trump is an absolute joke; however, Trump did NOT say that. That headline was crafted from him being asked about such things and not directly responding so the "journalist" (aka professional liar) wrote their article as "Trump did not say no so that means that "Trump recently stated he wanted to build a database of Muslims.".

      My god. Research your facts. I saw that headline and just about had a cow. After reading what actually happened, I just puked and noted that this is par for the course. There can never be any sane discussion about politics. Of course, when you include Trump as a "real" candidate, you have already tossed out any semblance of seriousness and reality... but that is not the point.

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    50. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Actually, the comparison to Jews is quite apt. Back around 1900-1940, they were the Muslims of their day. Many in Europe, including many in Britain such as the popular Daily Mail newspaper, accused them of having a savage, primitive religion with barbaric practices like cutting bits off their children's genitals or refusing to eat the same food as natives. They were said to keep to themselves, not integrating and building their temples where outsiders were excluded and they secretly plotted against us, preaching extremism (remember that Israel didn't exist at the time, the idea of taking it off the people already living there was considered extreme).

      To say that Jews didn't kill anyone isn't true either. They were not as bad in terms of terrorism as the Muslims are now, but then again when they got their own country... Well, that's another debate, but the point is that the vast majority of both Jews and Muslims are not that dissimilar, at least in Europe.

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    51. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by codeButcher · · Score: 2

      ... One of the "benefits" was 24-hour hackathons. ...

      I have no idea why employers think that messing with the body's natural melatonin and serotonin cycles, and the resulting impact on health, concentration, memory and just general well-being, is a good idea.

      Makes me think of a previous employer that had go-lives every two weeks, which started around midnight and would need to be babysat by everyone having code going into it, often until normal employees came in the next morning.... That was after already working a full day (so those switchovers were already a bit dicey due to lack of concentration). Of course one would get the next day off, but I for one could never go to sleep during the day to catch up on that lost sleep (work quality the next couple of days was quite a joke, and not in the "haha" kind of way). I thought I was back into a normal sleep routine just in time for the next go-live to hit ... until I resigned, and had a much more normal (8-5ish) routine, and still had sleeping problems months later.

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    52. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OMG I'M twelve tOOO!!!!!!! !!!!!!! zzzzzzz

    53. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by sociocapitalist · · Score: 1

      Free lunch, on site gyms... are all about keeping you at work longer, not going out to lunch, meeting a woman...

      Because women don't eat lunch or go to gyms, presumably? :-D

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    54. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only because hillary killed all the ones that might look bad for them.

      http://www.nachumlist.com/hillarydeadpool.htm

    55. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      So somebody is an idiot just based on who s/he supports. Ok, so I think all Hilary/Obama/Bernie supporters are cunts. Take that, AC!!!!

    56. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 0

      Sadly, it's been like that for a while

    57. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      I agree w/ the GP. If someone is denied a US visa, they will never be told why. And given the bureaucratic odyssey that one would have to undergo to get to the root of all that, most people give up at that point

    58. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      His gem was the statement that American citizens don't have babies, and if immigration ends, the US population would just die out

    59. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      Part of it is the perception that while a man would take his work more seriously since in addition to his wife, he has his child(ren) to now support, a woman would require/take more time off once she has a(nother) baby. I think that over time, as gender roles keep flipping, that perception may erode.

    60. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by erp_consultant · · Score: 1

      Yeah and again, nobody is calling for an end to immigration. America was founded by immigrants, all the way back to the Mayflower. But we can't just have people slithering in under the fence or overstaying visas. There is a process in place for who gets in and who doesn't. I sympathize with the plight of our friends on the southern boarder but we can't accommodate everyone. I happen to think it is a reasonable approach.

    61. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      The mass extermination policy was put into motion at the Wannsee conference at the beginning of 1942. At this point, the Germans had been stopped short of Moscow and temporarily pushed back in North Africa. There was no Allied strategic bombing campaign. The Japanese were running wild in the Pacific. There was no good reason to think the Soviet Union would probably survive the 1942 offensives, Rommel was getting ready to drive the British and allies back to El Alamein, and the Japanese looked unstoppable. The U-boat war had not been doing well, but that was peripheral.

      So, there had been some setbacks, and some offensives may have failed of their more optimistic expectations, but Germany was doing well and expected to win.

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    62. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have no idea why employers think that messing with the body's natural melatonin and serotonin cycles, and the resulting impact on health, concentration, memory and just general well-being, is a good idea.

      Because hours are quantifiable, and more is better.

      'Twas ever thus. 16-hour days weren't uncommon before labor unions, even though the workers were less productive than people working 6-hour shifts Greed is a deadly sin not for some vague moral reasons, but pragmatic: it causes people to do stupid, self-destructive shit while convincing themselves they're acting in their own best interests (sometimes even the best interests of the people to whom they're causing the most harm).

    63. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      It's very sweet of you to hold such an optimistic viewpoint.

      The reality would seem to be just the opposite, where there have only been a few families photographed amid thousands of young muscular males.

      Time will be the only determining factor in which of us is correct. It is prudent though under any circumstances to hope for the best and plan for the worst. Looks like you have the hope part going for you. I hope the government of France is doing the planning part.

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    64. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by unixisc · · Score: 1

      Trump has explicitly stated that he's for legal immigration, but against illegal. Something that the Leftists here and everywhere conveniently gloss over. They dig up non sequiturs like 40% of illegals being people who overstay their visas, ignoring the 60% who come in over the borders and traffic in drugs and other crimes.

    65. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except our friendly FBI keeps the numbers
      CHRISITAN attackers burning down Abortion clinics did far more killing than muslims between 2001 and 2013, the last year of full records.
      What we need is a database on Catholics and Evangelicals (sarcasm)

    66. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Methadras · · Score: 1

      He said nothing of the kind, but a reporter fabricated that he did, disseminated it to news outlets, got picked up nationally and repeated. See how that works and you believed it, which makes a fucking sucker and someone who can't be taken seriously because you're a big, fat, dupe. Either put up or shut up. Retract what you just said and admit you aren't that bright.

    67. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Trump is still a thief and a con man. Nothing changes that.

    68. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by JustAnotherOldGuy · · Score: 1

      A friend is trying to recruit me to join her company. One of the "benefits" was 24-hour hackathons.

      1) She's not your friend, she's a con artist trying to fuck you over and use you by pretending to be a "friend".

      2) A 24-hour hackathon is not a "benefit" by any stretch of the imagination. Seriously, if you like hackathons then you're probably a big fan of root canals and waterboarding.

      3) Tell her to fuck off and die. Preferably in a fire.

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    69. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by sjames · · Score: 1

      My neighbors across the street are Muslims. They are my favorite neighbors. They aren't killing people, they don't build bombs.

      BTW, Jews don't actually have horns under their hats either.

    70. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Actually,+I+do+RTFA · · Score: 1

      Oh, she's definitely my friend. She participates in the hackathons and honestly loves them. It's really, really strange to me that she would think so, but...

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    71. Re:Companies trying to help is the myth by Actually,+I+do+RTFA · · Score: 1

      I'd need a citation for the workers being less productive. Knowledge workers, yes. People who are literal cogs in a manufacturing machine? I'd can see less efficiency in hour 15 than hour 2, but not negative efficiency.

      But yeah, the quantifiable hours is crazy.

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  5. Re:Bay area millenials are for cows by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I dont know that I'm smart enough to understand exactly what it is you're getting at here.

  6. I've said this and I'll say this again. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is no such thing as work-life balance. Your work* should be worth you dying for it. Otherwise, you need to stop and work on other things that are more worthwhile.

    * work != job.

    1. Re:I've said this and I'll say this again. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      erh... no. I like food. But I wouldn't die for it. Likewise, as much as I like my job, I wouldn't accept death as a viable alternative to not have it.

      I work to live. Not the other way around. And while I'm usually not someone to pretend that my way is the only correct one, I do actually consider it pathological if you think otherwise.

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    2. Re:I've said this and I'll say this again. by Immerman · · Score: 1

      That's a lofty sentiment, but not very practical. Not many people have dreams worth dying over, and I don't see that they should. Should every mediocre artist that loves their craft be willing to die for it? I could see "taking care of my loved ones" as a Work many people could get behind, but even that isn't necessarily worth dying for (nor is dying likely to be a productive option in doing so)

      The vast majority of jobs that need doing certainly don't qualify. And the phrase has been long established as actually meaning job/life balance - sadly we don't get to unilaterally change the meaning of a popular phrase, even if it is a misnomer.

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    3. Re:I've said this and I'll say this again. by LaurenCates · · Score: 1

      There's a certain novelty of "doing what you love" that's at best a modern invention (much the way "childhood" is).

      It used to be that to be a useful part of society, you did the job you were suited for, were apprenticed into by way of parentage, or whatever other circumstance led you there. You accepted that you did a thing, and didn't worry about it being your "dream job", because that's not what drove people back then.

      Now, I'm not saying "work/life balance" isn't something that shouldn't enter into consideration when you take a job. It most certainly is, and, in fact, should be protected by your employer, not actively fought for by you. It's just that there's a certain amount of dark amusement I get out of the people that made the concept a meme. It's just that most people don't have such a breadth of historical context when it comes to things like work, marriage and religion that they almost talk about things as if they'd always been the way these people claim they are.

      In fact, "work/life balance" is an invention of an age of, if not arrested development, then the idea that people should be entitled to have the life that they want (including getting the big promotion while shouting "work/life balance!" at the very same colleagues that put in extra hours day after day), whether or not those prospects are realistic.

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  7. The confusion is that balance varies by SuperKendall · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I've always cared about work life balance - the thing is, that was as true when I used to work 80-100 hour weeks, than it is now when I work 40-50 hours a week. It's just that early on I was happy to have the work side be much heavier.

    People see technical workers working hellish hours and think they have no work-life balance because non-techs cannot understand how that might bring its own kind of pleasure.

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    1. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It's really dependent on your role in the company, the company itself and if applicable your team.

      In my case, it's not about not having enough PTO or Sick Time (I've got months of both stocked up), it's about getting the time to take it. When you're in a small company and you are in charge of software development/IT/etc. everything will funnel through you (at least in my case). Deadlines don't get extended when other projects come up and no new hires are brought on (mainly due to lack of talent pool issues not budget). This year in particular, the only days I've had "off" were holidays when the company and our clients were off. All other vacation days I attempted to take were booked with anywhere from 3 to 9 hours of work - so I just stopped booking any vacations outside of maybe a Friday or Monday during a holiday weekend.

      It is sad at least in my case where hard work gets you raises and promotions, but at a certain level you trade any semblance of work-life for the job.

    2. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You just confirmed that, for some, it is not a myth.

    3. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Immerman · · Score: 2

      May I suggest that you consider training some of your associates to be able to take over for you for at least short periods? You benefit by getting to actually have some time to live, and the company benefits by not collapsing if you get a different job or hit by a bus. Though more than likely they could muddle along okay until a replacement was found if they had to, and it's primarily your egotism and/or their sense of entitlement preventing you from using your earned time off.

      Of course if you've positioned yourself to be indispensable for bargaining leverage, then on your own head be it.

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    4. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your company is one missed bus from failure if it cannot survive without you for a day, or you're not managing properly. If you've got the budget and not the talent GROW THE DAMNED TALENT YOU POMPOUS ASS. You sound like you're a fine coder and a terrible boss. You don't know how to delegate properly, learn to wean people off of needing you slowly by working more from home and building strong leaders in your teams. I don't know how many bosses I've had to straighten out who can't seem to know how to delegate properly.

    5. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by pnutjam · · Score: 2

      40 to 50 hours is still hellish, I see it sneaking into conversations as if it's the expected norm. I get everything done in 40 hours or less.

    6. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Joe, is that you? I work with you; and you most definitely do not get everything done. You leave loose ends for the rest of us to pickup.

    7. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I want to put out a flip side to this.

      I worked at IBM in the early 2000's as a contractor. They had IBMers, Long Term Supplemental (LTS) and Contractors.

      The IBMers were made of gold. Pure gold. They got privileges on the campus, including health memberships, lunch service, PTO, retirement plans and flexibility in the company among other things.

      LTS had a little less than IBMers, but they were still considered valuable assets.

      The scumbag contractors, like myself, were nothing more than money converted into production. I was working 14 - 16 hours a day, 6 to 7 days a week for months at a time. That was the literal workload. If the weather got bad, they DID have cots for us to spend the night, and vending machines we could eat out of. Blizzard of '06, I spent two nights. And they shut the heat off to the building at night.

      They paid, though. The money was unparalleled to what I have made since, but I wouldn't want to go back to consistent 90+ hour weeks at a time. I paid off all my debts (car, college and credit cards) and half a house in one year at that level. /Operations, 12 hour shifts with an unwritten mandatory 1 hour before, 1 hour after and a 2 hour delay if something went wrong for the morning teleconference.

    8. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Americans seem to work really long hours. 37.5 is normal in the UK, and over 40 is somewhat unusual. Productivity falls off after 40 hours anyway, so unless some of that time is just posting on Slashdot or otherwise not working it's probably wasted effort.

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    9. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Bill, stop picking up my "loose ends" you don't know what your doing and it just makes more work for me.

    10. Re:The confusion is that balance varies by JustAnotherOldGuy · · Score: 1

      40 to 50 hours is still hellish, I see it sneaking into conversations as if it's the expected norm. I get everything done in 40 hours or less.

      Same here. I get everything done in 40 hours whether it's done or not. At the end of the day I go home, and that's that.

      I've never heard of anyone on their deathbed wishing they'd spent more time at the office.

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  8. Bit of a misleading headline by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Doesn't the summary, let alone the article, seem to imply that regardless of the fact that they want better work/life balance, most don't feel like they're getting it?

    1. Re:Bit of a misleading headline by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is Nerval's Lobster and its Dice overlord. No surprise.

    2. Re:Bit of a misleading headline by unixisc · · Score: 1

      Precisely. The summary mentioned that they want a work-life balance, not that they already had it. Right now, w/ unemployment being what it is, it's the employers who hold all the cards

  9. It is a myth! by Hydrian · · Score: 2

    ...that there is a balance. Work almost always wins.

    Companies want 24x7 support but don't want to pay for it. So in the mean time, they abuse there IT workers. So IT infrastructure and support departments are usually understaffed.

    What's the IT working doing to do when people start scream at him to fix things he/she is responsible during the day. While it may not come to bite them in the ass the immediately, it will look bad on him/her. When raises / firings come around, that person will get the bad end the stick. With more and more IT jobs pushed over seas, getting a new job is not necessarily very easy.

    Very often there isn't anybody else who understands what's going on in their environment. You'll be lucky to have two people on the same project that cover the same scope.

    The companies hold all of the power.

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    1. Re:It is a myth! by adamjgp · · Score: 2

      I completely agree. If IT has to work through the night to fix an issue, they're still expected to be there the next morning for their regular work hours. This has happened to me several times, but it's the way of things. I hate it, but I get paid well enough to just grin and bear it.

    2. Re:It is a myth! by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      When I was a lead video game tester, I worked 40 hours straight before a code release meeting and went home to sleep for three days (Friday, Saturday and Sunday). My boss was livid that I wasn't at work at 9:00AM on Friday, as Sony could reject the submission and I wouldn't be around to lead the follow up. I blew him off. Sony wouldn't respond for another three business days. All was forgiven when Sony accepted the submission five business days later, even though they did catch the rare crash bug that developer said they would never catch.

    3. Re:It is a myth! by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      The larger problem is distorted thinking. People are angry, claiming they don't get paid enough, that corporations and rich people have too much, and that we need to "make them pay" somehow--you'll notice no solutions, just vengeance. They ignore real solutions because they don't tickle their genetalia the right way.

      The minimum wage push is a big one right now. That was a decent strategy in the 1900s, with good return for its costs; but now it's crap. What we need, today, is *cheap* labor. We need to reduce labor costs, which means new strategies for managing standard-of-living. We can't just hand out high wages and public aid and expect the economy to function; it'll just throw out the laborers in favor of machines, H1-B cheap import labor, and new management structures which cost 30% more in overhead but eliminate 40% of the labor cost--which is significant when labor in total costs 3/4 as much as management.

      We need new ways of doing things. We need to cut back on labor pricing. Nobody wants to do that because it doesn't feel good to them if they don't stab the knife into the purse of their corporate overlords; they don't care about a better standard-of-living for themselves, but rather for a worse one for those they've focused their anger upon.

    4. Re:It is a myth! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Times I regret working for startup/small companies:

      - When I could be making a bajillion more dollars elsewhere.

      Times I love working for startup/small companies:

      - When I can drop a line that says, "I fixed shit at 3 AM; see you at 1 PM tomorrow" with no bullshit being thrown back at me.

    5. Re:It is a myth! by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      What we need, today, is *cheap* labor. We need to reduce labor costs,

      We need to increase productivity. When each worker can produce twice as much, the economy will be twice as large (and on average, we'll all have twice as much).

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    6. Re:It is a myth! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, by all means please protect the profits of the Corporate Overlords.

      I mean, the richest 1% only own 51% of the worlds wealth now.

      How can they get the other 49% if they have to keep paying people for their work?

    7. Re:It is a myth! by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      Labor is cheap, what we need is a legal framework that values labor as much as it values capital. Things don't get done just because they are owned. They get done because someone puts in work. A paycheck to paycheck laborer is just as much at risk as a vaunted business owner if the business goes under.

    8. Re:It is a myth! by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      Productivity moving forward is a constant; it just has to happen at an unfortunately slow rate.

      Every time you increase productivity, you decrease labor time required to do something, and thus create unemployment. That's fine: we stop paying those people--*we*, as in consumers, since the very basic component of price is the cost of all labor (labor price times labor hours makes labor cost), and no economic factor will push prices down below that level--and have more money to spend on new things; thus someone can hire labor to make new things to sell us.

      There's a gap, of course. Unemploy someone today, hire them next year. With a complex, dynamic market, this fluctuation is constant: jobs appear even as they're lost, and we sort of stabilize on a certain unemployment rate, moved up and down by the general economic tone. We don't sit at 9% unemployment and then slide back down to 4% because we figured out how to make new products; we do it because the freedom of spending and the consumer movement has changed enough to encourage that slide, or because prices have trended to convergence high and then low in the ranges. Maybe a new product moved into the market, and now people want shiny tablet PCs instead of Croc shoes, and so Crocs have to sell at a 20% margin instead of a 160% margin, taking less profit to stay in business: the unnecessary good is just abandoned in favor of a niche market, and that niche expands, and the unnecessary good must lower its prices to take what's left if it wants to compete. The employees making tablet PCs are new; the employees making Crocs were a small part of its sale price, and have now become a large part, and no employment was changed in that part of the market, and so total unemployment shrinks.

      Still, what if people want to pay $60 for Crocs, but they cost $85 to make? Sure, we'd all be more fashionable not wearing ugly, retarded footwear; but those people making said ugly, retarded footwear would cease being employed. A new product could fill the gap then; it'd have to consume less labor time--fewer labor hours to get the price under $60, the threshold of consumer interest.

      By the same reasoning, if labor cost half as much, then the cost would be $42, and $60 would represent a profit. Employment stays; or maybe people realize their shiny Galaxy or Surface makes them look intelligent, and their rubber clown shoes make them look stupid, and so they stop buying them. Well, those people lose their jobs, but they only cost half as much to employ: the new product we sell is cheap, and we hire them back more readily.

      This model doesn't work when you unemploy 50% of the active labor force at once. Oh, it follows the model; the problem is the outcome is a complete and total economic collapse with decades or even centuries of recovery time.

      Spread that productivity increase over time. Don't throw people to the streets so fast, not unless you're growing even faster. Finding ways to slash labor isn't growth; you have to find a market to sell your products to as well, or else you only make small amounts of goods with even smaller amounts of labor while the rest of the population goes jobless with no hope of a bootstrap.

    9. Re:It is a myth! by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      Bulk labor is trying to get $15/hr; machines cost $12. We tax the middle-class worker a third of his paycheck.

      What if we resolved the taxes in such a way that we didn't need to raise taxes on anyone (least not by more than, say, 3%, worst case, maybe less), and the $45k worker effectively brought home about $40k? We could stop paying people $60k and start paying them $15k less, and they'd come home with $500/year more. For every 4 employees at that income level, you could hire 5 and still spend the same on wages.

      What if we got rid of that OASDI payroll tax, instead covering it with a level income tax? Instead of hiring a $60k worker and paying $3,750 in taxes, you'd just pay the $60k worker. Put that above and those $45k workers are $2,800 cheaper than they'd normally be, closer to an actual $45k, and still taking home the same money at the end of the day.

      Those aren't arbitrary numbers. I've done the math a dozen different ways.

    10. Re:It is a myth! by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      Still, what if people want to pay $60 for Crocs, but they cost $85 to make?

      Some people would be willing to pay the $85 price (or ~$100 price, since of course there are more costs than just making them). Fewer Crocs would be sold at the higher price, but people would still buy them.

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    11. Re:It is a myth! by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      Not if their budget included $400 of free spending and they suddenly became infatuated with tablets which cost $340.

      Besides, "Fewer" implies "less labor required," which implies unemployment. Combine that with consumers not having the dollars to spend on new products, and you have no way to create new jobs to use these unemployed--not until we find a way to use less labor to make tablets, unemploying some of those people, in which case now you have the two groups competing for what meager employment remains.

      You might think (I did, for about 2.7 seconds; apparently it took that long to copy the data into classical memory) that the more efficient processes mean we can make more things more cheaply, and so we can re-employ more people. That's only sort-of true. If we find a way to use less labor to make electronics and thus unemploy them along with the now-unemployed half-the-people-who-used-to-make-Crocs, we can make *more* electronics by re-employing the same number of people who just lost their tablet-making jobs. That's because we can only pay that many people's wages. At the same time, electronics cost less: if we pay them less, they can still buy as much crap; that, in turn, means we can employ more of them, as long as their wages are lower.

      It's sort-of true in the sense that it's true in a specific sort of sense: it's true we can employ more people when productivity increases, if we pay them less in buying-power terms. If we give them a wage that follows inflation--one that follows the total income divided by the total productivity, and multiplies their previous wage by the ratio of that value now to that value before--then we can only employ exactly as many as we unemployed.

      The higher price per labor-hour reduces employment. High wages reduce employment. The negative effects of low wages are the reasoning behind minimum wage; and the systems which obsolete the system of minimum wage were not viable until recently. It's time to move on, time to get away from a system that raises labor costs and expands unemployment.

    12. Re:It is a myth! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Those aren't arbitrary numbers. I've done the math a dozen different ways.

      But WTF is the graph showing? Looks entirely made-up to me. Well, the current tax rates might be right. You're advocating eliminating payroll tax, going with a flat income tax rate for everyone, and increasing the wealth inequality?

    13. Re:It is a myth! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      In other words, US workers should be happy to get screwed. Worker productivity has gone up since 2000, but not the median family income in constant dollars, and you appear to be saying it should go down.

      When everyone is getting more, people tend not to care too much about what other people are getting. When they feel like they're getting less, they get bitter and vengeful. That's a fact of human nature, and if it goes on too long there will be a big wave of populism that's really going to mess up big business.

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    14. Re:It is a myth! by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      In other words, US workers should be happy to get screwed.

      More distorted thinking.

      Worker productivity has gone up since 2000, but not the median family income in constant dollars, and you appear to be saying it should go down. More distorted thinking.

      And incorrect facts. How does the median family have more shiny toys now, yet less purchasing power?

      When everyone is getting more, people tend not to care too much about what other people are getting.

      You've obviously never seen someone quite content encounter someone who had more than them. Folks think they're getting a good deal or they're well-cared-for, they're happy; they see that someone else has 10x as much, suddenly they're pissed off. Even old people pull that shit, if they haven't learned not to care yet. I've seen a 60-year-old woman light up when she got two scoops of ice cream, so happy and excited; then the woman 2 seats down was given a bowl with 3 and the old bitch freaked out and started screaming. "Why does she get three and I only get two?!" Two was enough before... isn't this how a four-year-old reacts? Grow up, grandma.

      It's why we don't discuss salaries at work, though that's been debated: people tend to not care about what other coworkers are making; they bitch more that the guy at the top is making $25M and they only get $0.74M.

  10. It's actually cheaper by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I worked at a company that did not have any set policy as to how many days you may take off for personal reasons (sickness, having major appliances replaced at home, just felt too tired, whatever).

    This policy is not only better for the individual (since they will then stop keeping track of how many days they take off, but rather have them when necessary) it is also better for the company. On average, this policy reduced the number of personal/sick days off an employee took. The old policy, which, IIRC, was a fixed 14 days, had employees keeping track of them and just using them for no reason at all, thus increasing absence for no benefit.

    Yes, some employees were sick every Friday. Eventually HR would work with them to figure out what the problem was, and they might even work out something that is better for the employee (perhaps work at home every Friday, this actually happened for more than a few employees). In the end, it was great for everyone.

    I now work at a company with a fixed number of days off (7 sick + 1 personal). Keeping track seems like it will be a pain, and it just encourages me to take that 1 personal day off (which is too few, but hey, at least my vacation made up for it) in December whether I want to or not, because otherwise, it's gone.

    1. Re:It's actually cheaper by ranton · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The old policy, which, IIRC, was a fixed 14 days, had employees keeping track of them and just using them for no reason at all, thus increasing absence for no benefit.

      There is the problem in a nutshell. People thinking that taking a day off for no reason at all provides no benefit. There is plenty of benefit from taking a mental health day and simply playing with your kids or doing whatever hobby you enjoy.

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    2. Re:It's actually cheaper by pnutjam · · Score: 4, Informative

      Those unlimited vacation days are an accounting trick to avoid a ledger balance of vacation that is owed to employees.

    3. Re:It's actually cheaper by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We also accrued vacation. 4 weeks of it after 5 years, 5 after 10. If you did not use it, you would be paid out the the government minimum (2 weeks) and would lose the other two weeks (or so we assumed, nobody actually did try it and see if they'd pay out). If you did use it, you lost the right to be paid out, and must use it all within the year. 1 week could be carried over and must be used before April.

      So they would have such vacation balances on the books, however, they did not show as a liability because the contract contained no right to be paid out. The assumption was that nobody would ever actually take no vacation, and, based on my 7 years there, I never heard of a single case where someone tried to extract the 2 weeks payout required by government if you didn't take vacation.

      So, you're likely right, it was an accounting trick. It worked in the employee's favour and the company's favour. Once again, a good balance.

    4. Re:It's actually cheaper by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sure, taking time off at any time has a better than zero value.

      The question is, if you have 14 days, fixed, each time you feel bad (mentally or physically), you have to think: Will I feel worse again this year?

      This leads to employees hoarding the days for worse times, or those with poor judgement using them up early. In the former case, when the worse times don't come, the days are used less effectively, on days where the employee feels well and the employee thinks back and says "Man, I wish I had used this 3 months ago when I had a splitting migraine rather than shoveling some snow like I'm doing today". In the latter case, the employee uses them up for "Oh, damn, last night's chili gave me gas." and 6 months later says "Fuck, I'm throwing up all over the place and I'm out of sick days! What do I do!?"

      An open policy leads to healthier decisions and a lack of regret. And regret itself is a negative mental condition that can outweigh the benefits of playing with children or working on a hobby. In fact, for some, it's a paralyzing enough emotion they CAN'T do those things (of course, it doesn't get that bad because you used up your sick days already, but hopefully you see my point).

    5. Re:It's actually cheaper by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      2 week minimum? Must not be the US.

    6. Re:It's actually cheaper by ranton · · Score: 1

      The question is, if you have 14 days, fixed, each time you feel bad (mentally or physically), you have to think: Will I feel worse again this year?

      The only time people worry about taking PTO days for fear of not having them in the future is when they aren't given enough PTO days. For instance, if these 14 days are vacation and sick and personal days combined, I can understand why people are stressed about using them. That is not a sufficient amount of total days off per year for an employee to comfortably stay home when sick, take a few days off per year when stressed out, and take a decent amount of vacation days.

      When Kickstarter got rid of its unlimited PTO day policy in 2015 it was because their employees started taking less days off. Not because the company was losing money. They instead instituted an across the board 25 days of total days off. This to me is a very reasonable amount of days, and no one with that amount of total PTO is going to worry about if their current illness is too bad to stay home. And if they really do get some incredibly serious health problem, like cancer, they would likely work something out with their employer.

      "Fuck, I'm throwing up all over the place and I'm out of sick days! What do I do!?"

      No, you go into the negative. I have yet to work at a place that didn't allow people to go at least negative 40 hours of PTO / sick time. No one is forced to come into work sick. Worse case scenario is they lose some actual vacation time if they are seriously chronically sick.

      An open policy leads to healthier decisions and a lack of regret.

      No, it leads to an office where workers take less time off because they feel guilty. This isn't conjecture, this is what really happens. And that is a very bad thing.

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  11. Do techies work more than 40 hours per week? by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

    As an I.T. Support Contractor for the last ten years, my contracts specifically prohibits me from working more than 40 hours and/or outside normal business hours.

    1. Re:Do techies work more than 40 hours per week? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Having been both a full time employee and a contractor in the past I can say that yes, absolutely, to the detriment of the company that encourages overtime.

      When a company has you as a full time resource they tend not to think of T&M (time and materials) so expenses get out of hand even though THEY THINK they're getting value out of having an employee work overtime.

      In fact only one company that I've worked for ever actually looked at how much it actually cost them to have their IT people working more than normal operating hours, turns out quite a bit.

      Overtime: Expensive and burns people out. Try it today!

  12. Two words: Sustainable Pace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...unfortunately, we still have crunch time before deadlines, or even without. Are we, as an industry, not able to do without?

  13. It's dice by kuzb · · Score: 4, Funny

    which means you can't take anything said here at face value. They purposefully write shitty sensationalist content in order to drive traffic.

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    1. Re:It's dice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It pays for the web service, so stop being an idealist. Complaining only makes it worse. Nobody is going to reboot society for you. Or go to that other site which rhymes "boy lint" to hang out with other idealistic neckbeards. You have choices.

    2. Re:It's dice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a conspiracy-theory-oriented idealistic neckbeard, I posit that "that other site" is deliberately as sh*tty as possible; a "controlled opposition" as it were, allowing you to set up such ridiculous dichotomies as "don't like the crappy corporatized new slashdot? Go to the worthless hippie-commune-version where standards are even lower, but everyone is too full of themselves to notice!"

      Just like #uff Post, just like !nfo \Nars, etc. etc.

    3. Re:It's dice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They employ H1Bs, pay them a half of what an American worker would get. No wonder their content is shitty quality.

    4. Re:It's dice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They purposefully write shitty sensationalist content in order to drive traffic.

      You can tell that by the fact that Nerval's Lobster submitted it.

      It's kind of his job.

  14. Unlimited vacation eh by dazdaz · · Score: 1

    Unlimited vacation eh ? When an American says this, they actually mean 20 days of vacation. People are stupid enough to believe that unlimited means unlimited.

    1. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Am I the only one who read that as "unlimited vaccination"?

    2. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Am I the only one who read that as "unlimited vaccination"?

      yes

    3. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      Getting a flu shot is a free "perk" that comes with my job at a hospital.

    4. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Do the "unlimited" vacation people work for AT&T/Verizon?

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    5. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by Qzukk · · Score: 1

      Vacation is unlimited but after the 20th day you only get to take 1 hour of vacation per day.

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    6. Re:Unlimited vacation eh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The job I work at has unlimited vacation. If you take off a day, you were very shortly going to find yourself with quite a bit of free time on your hands.

      Too bad it would be spent looking for a job, because the company I work for considers taking off for whatever reason (outside of a sick day with doctors excuse) a breach of their terms of employment and actively fights unemployment claims from socalled "slackers."

  15. I follow the path of Wally... by pushing-robot · · Score: 1
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  16. For me, work-life balance is a myth by QuietLagoon · · Score: 1
    My manager told me that I was expected to work at least 12 hours each weekday and 8 hours one of the two weekend days. Plus I had to keep my company cell phone with me when I went on vacation.

    .
    There is no such thing as work-life balance, or maybe there is and some managers call it "slacking:" like mine did.

    1. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Why do you put up with this?

    2. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by trippytom · · Score: 2

      Exactly ... Snoop doggy-dog needs to get a new jobby-job. I've been in the industry since '96, in a variety of roles. You know what I see all the time? Wusses.

      It is often healthy for both disgruntled employees as well as fubar companies for people to cut and run. The problem is they don't, they bitch all the time and never leave. They never stand up to their counterparts, and call them out. They just take it and whine. They don't fight requirements bloat or scope creep. It is just as bad for the employers who don't realize they are the problem, but after three people in a row run like hell ... oddly the start to get it.

      You might need to re-skil a bit, but trust me there are jobs out there.

    3. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by QuietLagoon · · Score: 1

      At the time it was happening, the economy was in the toilet, and there was nothing else around.

    4. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by blue9steel · · Score: 1

      Well, if you're offering triple market rates we can discuss it, otherwise not interested.

    5. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by Krishnoid · · Score: 1

      If they're setting your hours by explict (verbal) instruction, don't some states allow you to bring it up with the labor board to get back pay (as long as you have some record of the hours you worked)?

    6. Re:For me, work-life balance is a myth by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I had a manager try to tell me something similar(not that extreme), I left within 12months. I now work 43hours on a bad week, get 3 weeks vacation, 1week sick and can work from home as needed as long as I don't "abuse it", abuse seems to fall around the window of 2 weeks in a row or a day or two a week for a few months.

  17. Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by tekrat · · Score: 2

    Where I work keeps promoting this Work/Life balance thing. But it's complete horseshit. Our staff has been cut to the bone and then some, so there isn't enough coverage for our 24x7 operations.

    I for example, am a 1-man department, I can't take a sick day or a vacation day, and if I were to take a day off, what I come back to the next day is double the work.

    Basically there is no life beyond work, and if you complain, the company is more than happy to lay you off and replace you with a H1-B visa dude.

    My guess is that work/life balance isn't for us in the trenches, it's for the guys in the corner offices who make more than a $Million per year, own 6 fancy cars, and talk about their "Vacation Home" in Hawaii.

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    1. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Bullsh*t.

      If you don't have a work/life balance, then find another job.

      If you can't find another job in your city, then find another city.

      Jobs "in the trenches" are easy to find, and easy to replace.

      If you're not willing to find another job or another city, then that's your choice. But that's also a completely different topic.

      In the end, it is ENTIRELY YOUR CHOICE. Unless you are a slave. Oh wait, maybe you are a "voluntary slave."

    2. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If you are a one-man department, you have a ton of leverage that was literally handed to you by laying off all your co-workers. Use it to get a better deal. If the company starts acting like a dick, fire up the search engines and polish your resumes. You don't want to give your life to an ungrateful employer. It's not something you want to remember on your deathbed.

    3. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by ageoffri · · Score: 2

      Time to find another job. Ever since I've left IBM, my work/life balance has been excellent. The first post blue job was in a two man department with myself and a director. His philosophy was get things done, use all your PTO, and if you need to do something during the day as long as you weren't scheduled to meet with a partner or client (which was rare for us) do the non-work thing. Now I'm at a fortune 250 company and they have the same style except there are 5 and soon to be 6 of us.

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      -- Slashdot, making the Left look conservative since 1997.
    4. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullsh*t.

      If you don't have a work/life balance, then find another job.

      If you can't find another job in your city, then find another city.

      Jobs "in the trenches" are easy to find, and easy to replace.

      If you're not willing to find another job or another city, then that's your choice. But that's also a completely different topic.

      In the end, it is ENTIRELY YOUR CHOICE. Unless you are a slave. Oh wait, maybe you are a "voluntary slave."

      Wow man, give the guy a break. He is human, and human nature is what it is.

      Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

      You know that the text that follows is a list of things that had been happening for years and years and years. And despite all of that, most people did not support breaking free. It's just human nature. That's all it is.

    5. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know a few people like you and I'd venture either you're using work as a measure of self importance or the company wants you to retire because you're overpaid and/or otherwise past your prime. Otherwise you wouldn't replaceable by an "H1-B visa dude" and you would cut back your hours and make a valid business case for extra help and/or compensating pay.

    6. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      its true. my job got to the point where i had to go into therapy because i would vomit every morning and sweat profusely before going to the office. couldnt find anything locally i was happy with so... moved to another state. been 2 years, so far so good

    7. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      My guess is that work/life balance isn't for us in the trenches, it's for the guys

      It's for guys who know how to take a day off without working twice as hard the next day. That's ridiculous, you shouldn't need to do that.

      --
      "First they came for the slanderers and i said nothing."
    8. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Pontiac · · Score: 2

      Fixing the H1B visa issue is as simple as finally updating the 1998 law that set the minimum H1B salary at $60,000. Adjusted to the 2015 dollar they should be paid $90,000. That right there would return the H1B to the intended highly skilled professional rather than the current cheep 60k replacement worker.

      --
      If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur. --Red Adair
    9. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by ljw1004 · · Score: 1

      My guess is that work/life balance isn't for us in the trenches, it's for the guys in the corner offices who make more than a $Million per year, own 6 fancy cars, and talk about their "Vacation Home" in Hawaii.

      I'm in the trenches too. I realized that my company will happily drain everything out of me, every possible waking hour. But on the other hand, it will also be happy with merely taking 35-40 hours per week out of me.

      The company has no insight into my personal work/life balance. Only I do. It's up to me to set limits. The company won't set limits itself, has no way of setting limits itself, but it will happily respect the limits I set.

      Example: last year I told my manager "Every Thursday I will work from home. I won't answer emails. I'll pursue whatever programming things interest me. Still get paid of course." He was entirely happy with this. It helps that my company produces tools for developers, so by being a developer myself I'm basically doing market research.

      Example: I realized that over the past years, every really valuable contribution that I've made has come from the projects I get into from curiosity or personal passion or hobby development. They haven't come from the daily grind of answering emails and attending emails. I set up Outlook rules to filter out about 80% of my incoming email, so I only see 15-20 work emails a day now. I unilaterally decided not to accept or attend any meetings on Mondays or Thursdays. It's done wonders for my productivity and creativity.

      Example: I always used to do 1-2 hours of work in the evening, mostly catching up on emails so I could start the next day with a clean slate. Then due to severe storms and a fallen tree in early September, my house had no power for 2 weeks and no internet for 2 weeks more and I couldn't do any work in the evenings. And surprisingly -- I was still just as productive, still as respected by my team members! Since then, I've only done one piece of work in the evenings, preparing a conference talk that I gave last week. My family has loved it, and I've loved it. And I've got to play some Dragon Age: Inquisition too. First video gaming I've done since my toddler was born.

      Example: I'll be taking three months (paid) paternity leave next year when my twins are born.

      It helps that I'm in a larger team, so there are people who can take over my workload when I'm away. Maybe that's the key. I am in the trenches. I don't have 6 cars. Only one, a 1988 model, and since its engine cracked I've switched to public transport.

    10. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Krishnoid · · Score: 1

      Exactly! Just take Friday off and come in on Saturday. That way, you should only have to work, I dunno, maybe one and a half times as hard.

    11. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you can't find another job in your city, then find another city.

      How much have you put in the plate for moving expenses?

      Oh, HE should pay for moving becase YOU say so? OK.

    12. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You need a new job, where you deliver value that is not so fungible. If "fire and replace" actually works for your employer, you are doomed. You need to work in a space where finding more people is actually a real task because they aren't a dime a dozen. If it doesn't hurt them to lose you, you aren't really delivering much value.

    13. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whether you can find another job or not seems to depend on where you live.

    14. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the company is laying off, they unlikely have the resources to be offering deals.

    15. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Cederic · · Score: 1

      or he could continue to take years off his life working too hard.

      Is it too much to expect people to take ownership of their own lives?

    16. Re:Work/Life balance means Life *is* work by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Example: I realized that over the past years, every really valuable contribution that I've made has come from the projects I get into from curiosity or personal passion or hobby development.

      One reason I really like my current job is that I'm picking and choosing where I spend my time. This means I'm getting a metric fuckload of stuff done, and there's a fortunate coincidence that the stuff I'm interested in has value to the company.

      Of course, my manager occasionally wants shit done, so I choose to help him. He knows it's a favour, and I get extra credit for that so it works out well for me too.

      Work/life balance isn't ideal. I do too many hours - usually 45-60 a week. I also get home before 4pm most days. I can sustain this.

  18. Is the problem part the nature of the field? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Is the problem part the nature of the field? Many of my colleges are like me, we work in bursts that can be anywhere from a few days to a few years. Then we take a break and have down time to recover.

    I literally can not work effectively any other way because of the shear amount of information I need to keep in my mind, it will get lost if I get distracted. By "information" I don't just mean design plans and such, at can be handled with better planning and organization. I'm talking about the creative side where I in the groove and can pull all the pieces together. There is no way I have found to organize that side of it because by its nature it's disorganized.

    The people that don't work this way are frankly not as good as us that do. They may be better balanced in life and therefore happier in the end but they won't create the quality of output that we do.

    1. Re:Is the problem part the nature of the field? by aaarrrgggh · · Score: 1

      Your mindset improves efficiency and makes project execution more effective, but it likely isn't in your own best interests (and arguably not in the company's best interest either).

      In my field, young engineers often avoid delegating-- thinking that they can do the task faster-- often rightly. The problem is that the strategy doesn't scale, nor does it make effective use of resources. It is much more effective for thre people to put in an extra 5 hours each in a week than one person do 10.

      Where you run into trouble is when you are truly gifted and want to work to 100% of your potential. Generally speaking, it isn't worth the pain.

      Things also break down where there is only one person with a specific skill set in a company. My solution for being the only Linux-savvy person in the office is to switch to Windows.

    2. Re:Is the problem part the nature of the field? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The people that don't work this way are frankly not as good as us that do. They may be better balanced in life and therefore happier in the end but they won't create the quality of output that we do.

      But they are happier and that is all that matters to them.

    3. Re:Is the problem part the nature of the field? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Where you run into trouble is when you are truly gifted and want to work to 100% of your potential. Generally speaking, it isn't worth the pain.

      Very true considering those currently living a life a luxury off my back while I live in poverty.

      Seriously, I'm that good. People have made tens of millions of dollars off my work while I live day-to-day trying to keep from being repossessed.

      Tesla you are the reason I'm so stupid... like you... dammit :(

    4. Re:Is the problem part the nature of the field? by King_TJ · · Score: 1

      I think you're on to something, but the "trick" is finding a company that understands that method of working.

      I work in I.T. for a business that primarily hires creative professionals and they often express the same attitude. They can't just clock in and out during "regular business hours" and drop things on a dime when it's time to go home. The company realized this at some point though, so everything is designed around that framework. The office itself has a lot of "meeting spaces" where groups can pow-wow to hash things out, rather than the feeling you're "supposed" to sit at your cubicle or in your office with a door shut most of the time. It's accepted and encouraged to use videoconferencing software whenever you like to schedule meetings with your co-workers, and working from home, the local Starbucks, or wherever suits your fancy is fine in those circumstances. Nobody really cares when you show up in the morning or go home at night if you're in one of those departments. They focus on the feedback from clients. Are they impressed/happy? Were the deadlines met? Those are the metrics for determining if you're getting your job done. Of course, this doesn't really work without good project management in place. You *do* have to have someone wrangling the herd and making sure Joe has item X done and submitted to you by X date, so Tim and Mary and use it to develop item Y by the next deadline.

      If you try to work this way inside an environment that doesn't cater to it, I think you burn yourself out eventually -- or at least get shortchanged, when the majority only sees or gives merit to the 9-5, Mon/Fri block of time they see you occupying a space in a chair.

  19. Work/Life/Passion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Work/Life/Passion is a better way to think about it. The Labor split of 8 hours work/8 hours play/8 hours sleep is a useful benchmark (33%/33%/33%)

    Personally, I probably have a 20/55/25 split.

    Work is 20% because I have a passion for the fringes of work and am fortunate to enjoy my work and have the ability to explore/understand/learn part of my hometime _as part of doing my work_.

    The 55% is split between wife/kids/technical/engineering/leadership which I consider representing my "life". To the outside, that me seem more than the 40hrs for work, but the reality of enjoying and learning as you work means I work less and "live" more. I'm happy with my "work/life" balance because I can get more out of my life based on my work.

  20. Re:What would Bennett do? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let off some steam, Bennett.

  21. It's indirectly correct by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Anyone who did ignore it is now firmly in burnout and no longer considered a tech pro.

    --
    We used to have a Bill of Rights. Now, with the rights gone, all we have left is the bill.
  22. Who wrote this article? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "only 5 percent of employees at technology companies said that work-life balance wasn't a top priority for them. Contrast that with nearly 45 percent of respondents who said they wanted more of a work-life balance"

    What kind of "contrast" is that? Was this written by a remedial pre-teen ESL student as a substitute for all the assignments he obviously missed?

  23. Work-life balance is a myth for you ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...because you allow yourself to be used and abused.

    I would never allow that to happen to myself.

    I would move to another city before I allowed that to happen.
    I would move to another state before I allowed that to happen.
    Hell, I would move to another country before I allowed that to happen.

  24. Ignoring work life balance? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've been in IT since the middle 70s. "Back in the day" we had a saying about our industry, "Never have so many been paid so much to do so little". Is this no longer true?

    1. Re:Ignoring work life balance? by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      It's true for most Fortune 500 companies, depending on dysfunctional the I.T. department is. Google was an exception, as I had to haul ass to keep up with the constant change.

    2. Re:Ignoring work life balance? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It was true for me when i stopped working in 2010. I used to complain about not having any real work to do, that i just sat in my office as long as I wanted (hourly w/unlimited o/t) surfing the web and fielding maybe 4-5 technical debugging problems a week. The only times I worked hard was during delivery times when I was an intern when I'd do 70 weeks for a few consecutive months.

    3. Re:Ignoring work life balance? by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      >Never have so many been paid so much to do so little

      It's more accurate to say:

      Never have so many been paid so much to do what I cannot understand and have no capacity to appreciate.

      --
      ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
    4. Re:Ignoring work life balance? by sysrammer · · Score: 1

      I've been in IT since the middle 70s. "Back in the day" we had a saying about our industry, "Never have so many been paid so much to do so little". Is this no longer true?

      Lucky you. I never heard of that saying. I started in '79, so I guess I missed the decade where one didn't have to work hard.

      --
      His ignorance covered the whole earth like a blanket, and there was hardly a hole in it anywhere. - Mark Twain
  25. When I was young... by ipb · · Score: 1

    a few years ago I didn't care much about work/life balance. Working long hours at
      something I loved (embedded development) was what I wanted.
    But, the longer I worked the less important work became and the
    more important other things did.

    The companies I worked for still wanted extra hours (salaried of
      course so they didn't have to pay extra) and overriding dedication.
    My observation is that the more the work force aged and became
      more balanced between young go-getters and older experienced
      programmers the less desire there has been to be that dedicated.

    Some do, but overall it's not as important.

    Now that I'm retired I'm still loving the programming side, but I get to do what I want, and all the other things that make life worthwhile.

  26. Re:Bay area millenials are for cows by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Moo.

  27. bullsh!t by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Tell me how much DICE paid the retail bloggers to post this cr@pware?
    100% of high tech works 60+ hours per week EVERY week until they reach management or better SENIOR management.

  28. The cake is a lie. by Hylandr · · Score: 2

    The Myth is that you have a choice in the matter.

    It's what the industry practically demands of everyone across the board now.

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    ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
    1. Re:The cake is a lie. by Jack+Griffin · · Score: 1

      Really? My experience is different...

    2. Re:The cake is a lie. by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      If you're even remotely close to the cutting edge, hell yes.

      --
      ~ People that think they are better than anyone else for any reason are the cause of all the strife in the world.
  29. Am I the only one who cheats? by swb · · Score: 1

    Am I the only one who cheats at this?

    Project comes a long with a whole bunch of "after hours" tasks which, as it turns out, you really can get done in normal hours without any noticeable disruption.

    Or when it's really necessary, structuring the project so that the "after hours" work gets done on MY schedule, rather than arbitrarily.

    Or making sure that "after hours" work is something that can be done from my house, rather than on site.

    1. Re:Am I the only one who cheats? by Jack+Griffin · · Score: 1

      Am I the only one who cheats at this?

      Like most games, the game of life is won by those who learn the shortcuts.
      I worked out early on that I could do things faster then some others. So did I advertise this fact? Hello no. Allocate 3 weeks, do it in 3 days and bludge the rest of the time.
      I've been in my career over 20 years and this trick still works.

  30. Re:Bay area millenials are for cows by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm sorry you miss Gateway Computers Inc. so much. I don't know how to help you.

  31. Quit whining and type faster bitches by WaffleMonster · · Score: 1
  32. IT doesn't have to be a sweatshop by ErichTheRed · · Score: 2

    IT has several factors that encourage poor work/life balance:
    - The IT landscape is littered with awful companies to work for, who treat their IT people like the janitorial service. The ratio of good to bad employers is very low.
    - Companies that are considered "fun to work for" encourage people to constantly be at work by providing free food, free personal services, etc. I just got back from a meeting at Microsoft, and even after Nadella took over and the reduction in their monopoly power, the place is still like a college campus and employees are encouraged to basically live there.
    - There's pressure on older workers, who have been around the block and know the game, because there are always younger workers who will willingly work 100 hour weeks because they have nothing else going on in their lives.
    - There's also H-1B and offshoring pressure. It's not uncommon to hear CIOs remark that their offshore teams never complain about hours worked. And, outsourcing the entire IT department means the company pays a monthly bill and gets even more compliant H-1B workers.

    Outside of crazy industries like video games, or investment banking where you can make massive bonuses that make working the extra hours worth it, I think most employees would prefer to be given a 40 hour week, decent pay, and a good work/life balance. The good companies who provide these things tend to have longer staff tenure, but you don't hear about them as much. This is for 2 reasons -- (1) they're not sexy SV startups writing phone apps, and (2) there aren't very many open positions because employees tend to stay where they're happier.

    Employers who treat their employees well will be rewarded in the long term.

  33. Re: Bay area millenials are for cows by WarJolt · · Score: 1

    I moved away because I wanted a grass fed died. MOO.

  34. Do not think it means what you think it means by neminem · · Score: 2

    > "companies talking publicly about wanting to give employees a better work-life balance (complete with on-site gyms and unlimited vacation time and... stuff...)"

    If I saw a company providing an on-site gym, I'd be worried that their goal was the *elimination* of work-life balance. Same with unlimited vacation time. On-site gym means "we want you to be at work as much as possible". Unlimited vacation time means "we will guilt you into not taking very much vacation, because there are no strict rules". I much prefer working for a place where the amount of vacation is explicitly stated (though I wish that number were higher, of course), because that means you know exactly how much it is expected that you will be able to take, and as long as you stay under that number, nobody in the company has any reason or excuse to complain if you take it.

  35. My Neighbor. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My neighbor works at Google in Mountain View and leaves for work at 8:00 AM every day and comes back at 11:00 PM every night. Either he has 0 work/life balance or he is having an affair. I suspect the former.

  36. Work life balance? by ememisya · · Score: 2

    What life? Oh you mean those few hours you spend watching T.V. until it's time to work? Pffft, overrated.

  37. 27%? by Tony+Isaac · · Score: 2

    If 27% "characterized work-life balance in the tech industry as a myth"...doesn't it follow that 73% don't think it's a myth?

    Maybe it's in Silicon Valley that nobody has a life? I've worked as a software developer in Texas for 25 years, in 6 companies, and I've always had reasonable expectations on my time.

  38. Unionize by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is why unions started. [More or less]

  39. It depends on if you don't think of it as work.... by King_TJ · · Score: 1

    Anyone I know working those types of hours is doing it for a lot more than just a paycheck. I knew a lot of people, when I was younger, who did it too. But for them, it was like, "Hey... I finished school and now I don't really have any other commitments. At work, I mingle with a group of co-workers just like it was when I was in school, and I'm finally earning money in the real world, working my way up this whole corporate ladder thing."

    Priorities tend to change as soon as you get serious with a significant other, followed by marriage and possibly kids.

  40. Typical Liberal Thinking by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only the "mind" of a liberal demoncrap could conceive of such an insipid notion as "work/life balance". Real human beings don't come up with these feel-good HR buzzwords - only liberal demoncraps who are trying to make you work for a "living wage" of $15/hour. The real purpose of raising the minimum wage, by the way, is to increase unemployment and thereby increase the pool of social parasite liberal demoncraps who depend on government handouts for food. Government handouts work by taking your stuff and giving it to other people because reasons - for instance, because liberal demoncraps hate you and want you to die.

    Captcha: blacks

  41. Why a Muslim database makes sense by unixisc · · Score: 1

    ISIS members killing other Muslims is true only when one ignores the sectarian lines along which they define themselves. They have defined Sunni Arabs as the focus of their caliphate, and others - particularly the nearby Muslims who are either not Sunni (as in Shias or Alawites) or not Arab (Kurds or Druze) - are targets of their wrath. However, that doesn't mean that other Muslims haven't heard their appeal and endorsed them as their leader. Non Arab organizations that have sworn allegance to them include Abu Sayyaf in the Philippines, the Islamic Movement of Uzbekistan in the stans, SIMI in India, Boko Haram in Nigeria and other parties in Libya.

    The reason a Muslim database makes sense is that it is common to all Jihadis: while all or even most Muslims may not be Jihadis, all Jihadis are Muslim. Also, due to the Islamic concept of taqiyya (for those who claim that that's Shi'ite, the Sunnite equivalent of that is 'muda'rat') - a principle that exalts lying if the goal is the furtherance of Islam/Shariah, it is impossible to separate out innocent Muslims from Jihadis within their ranks. But searching the entire population just makes that entire exercise a farce. Which is why the search should start w/ Muslims - including people who convert to Islam - and then get filtered down from there.

    About perpetrators being known but no action being taken, that's part of the politically correct fear of offending Muslims and accusations of 'Islamophobia' which are usually levelled by Jihadi organizations in the West. The West should just concede the point and move on. Phobias are irrational fears: being afraid of a butterfly is a phobia, while being afraid of a scorpion is not. Similarly, being afraid of Jews or Christians or Buddhists or Hindus is a phobia, while being afraid of Muslims is not.

    1. Re:Why a Muslim database makes sense by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      ISIS members killing other Muslims is true only when one ignores the sectarian lines along which they define themselves.

      Da fuq? How does the fact there's sectarian violence make it somehow not true that Muslims are the primary victims?

      The reason a Muslim database makes sense

      You completely ignored all my comments.
      1. The perps were already known to the authorities as happens in most of these cases.
      2. The authorities don't have enough money to follow up on all leads already
      3. How will diverting funding to track randos help?

      A clue: it won't.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
  42. Jews vs Muslims by unixisc · · Score: 1

    Jews were stigmatized by others w/o doing anything to provoke that. They never tried to convert others to Judaism, nor did they try to terrorize or otherwise undermine their compatriots. As for the Zionist movement, it started after WWI as a minority movement, but only got traction w/ a majority of the Jews due to the holocaust.

    If the only problem w/ Muslims was them keeping to themselves, living in ghettos and having bizarre practices, no one would be complaining. People only started focussing on Muslims after 9/11: what was the equivalent thing that Jews ever did to deserve that? Also keep in mind that there was no country that Jews could call their own, and very few where they were safe. That's totally different from Muslims, who have about 50 countries where they are the majority and call the shots.

  43. Opposite double think by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Every workplace i've been where they start spouting about a work-life balance, well they started pontificating on it just before they ruined our working conditions and told us if we didn't like it we could resign. And endless BS about job sharing and flexible hours was simple lies. There was LESS of that allowed once they started telling us they supported it blah blah.
    Next they will tell us we need to be Agile.