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American Express Will Give All Parents 20 Weeks Of Paid Leave (cnn.com)

Starting in January, the financial services giant will expand its paid parental leave policy for mothers and fathers to 20 weeks at full pay, plus another six to eight weeks for women who give birth and require medical leave. Full-time and part-time employees who have worked at Amex for at least a year are eligible. CNN adds: That's a big shift from the company's current policy of offering six weeks of paid leave for the primary parent plus another six to eight weeks for birth mothers who require medical leave. Secondary caregivers, meanwhile, have gotten just two weeks. Under the new policy, parents will also have access to a 24-hour lactation consultant. And mothers who go on business trips will be able to ship their breast milk home for free.

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  1. All parents? by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm a parent, I don't work for American Express... will they give me 20 weeks?

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    1. Re:All parents? by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      They will give you all the time you need. And they will even pay the rate that they are currently paying you!

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    2. Re:All parents? by Penguinisto · · Score: 1

      Good Lord... half of Seattle doesn't take AMEX due to the higher-than-otherwise merchant fees, and they focus their money on *this*?

      Ugh.

      I don't mind that they do nice things for their employees, but a potential problem: should AMEX come into financial troubles, the incentive to offshore/contract employees (and use them as replacements for the existing ones who get fired or laid off) will now get much bigger if the money flow ever gets tight (or the board decides they really need to bump the stock price by end-of-quarter...)

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    3. Re:All parents? by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      Are you sure they haven't already gradually offshored most of their staff?

  2. so we single folks by anthony_greer · · Score: 3, Insightful

    get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

    1. Re:so we single folks by Shinobi · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Only if the work environment is already completely fucked up

    2. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The benefit is to you as a human. Your parents, had this policy been in place, would have been better able to care for you as an infant.

      Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination. The kid is the one who really benefits and we were all kids.

    3. Re:so we single folks by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

      Presumably PT positions would be upgraded to FT or temps would be brought in. This is about attracting and retaining talent, not about fucking people over.

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    4. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      I'm single and don't plan to marry of have kids. But other people do. That's just a fact of life, and hardly the only instance of life not being "fair".

      Since some people are going to have children, it makes sense to me to accommodate this reality in the most constructive way possible. Its either pick up the "slack" for someone on parental leave, pick up the "slack" for someone who is stressed out with a new baby or pick up the "slack" while someone is replaced. IMO, the first option is preferable.

      Plus, I would totally give up 20 weeks pay to not have to stay home for 20 weeks with a baby.

    5. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      It's not even single folks. It's anyone that chooses to not have kids. It's horseshit.

    6. Re:so we single folks by anthony_greer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I dont look at it as discrimination, I think parents should be given help making sure they can care for their kids. But 20 paid weeks off while the non parents get what? two or three weeks a year of sick/vacation time? Lets flip this on its head, lets say some company did say "we evaluated things and saw that non parent singles worked more hours and got more done so we are giving the single childless people 20% higher pay"...how fast would that land in court?

    7. Re:so we single folks by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      This isn't "20 weeks anytime a parent feels they need time off." This is 20 weeks from the birth of your child. As the parent of two kids, I can tell you that the first three months of a child's life is basically hell on the parents. The new baby has no set schedule and will wake up at all hours of the day or night to be fed, changed, held, etc. The baby might sleep for an hour before waking up for a diaper change and then sleep another half hour before wanting to be fed. Since the parents basically need to be available for their baby 24/7, they wind up extremely sleep deprived.

      It's amazing how little sleep you get by on. I've done 3 hours - total, not in one block - and then went into work because I had exhausted my vacation time (no paid paternity leave at the time). Still, the quality of the work being done by a parent with only 3 hours of sleep who stumbled into the office isn't going to be great. Plus, this then burdens the other parent with taking care of the baby 100% - likely the woman who just had a major medical event and is still recovering.

      Twenty weeks of parental time off would get the parents comfortably past this point and would let them have some stability in their house before returning to work. As far as others taking up the slack - remember that this isn't going to be all parents taking off twenty weeks every year. It's going to be new parents taking time off to be with their family for the first few months of their baby's life. This would likely be one person out at a time (maybe more in a larger organization like American Express, but likely only one in each department at a time). If the rest of the department can't pick up the slack from one employee being out, then they might need to look into hiring more staff in general. What would happen if that employee had a medical issue and was out on extended leave to recover?

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    8. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      If parents simply decided that children had priority over wealth, and one of the two gave up their job to care for the children they decided to have, that would be better still. Fuck their "I want it all" attitude and the expectation that society should support them in achieving it. And fuck those who would provide support which allows them to breed more easily.

    9. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      No. This will sound harsh....but I do not care about your kid. It's not my job to care about your kid. Perhaps in a "make the world a better place" mentality, I should. But I don't. You should not get a paid vacation and I do not because you chose to have a child.

    10. Re:so we single folks by networkBoy · · Score: 2

      not really.
      In a small company, yes, but in a company as big as Amex you always have people on vacation/out sick/etc. your headcount is likely actually +1 or +2 of what you need in an idealized model anyway because of that (within an org level that 1-2 heads == ~8% of staff).

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    11. Re:so we single folks by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 2

      Travel to a country outside of the US. Their companies have managed to not collapse under the weight of parental leave. Perhaps ask them how they do it.

    12. Re:so we single folks by msauve · · Score: 1

      "this then burdens the other parent with taking care of the baby 100% - likely the woman who just had a major medical event and is still recovering."

      It's amazing you're even here, what with all the harsh realities your ancestors had to actually deal with in life. If you're unable to make life choices which you can handle yourself, you have no one to blame but yourself.

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    13. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      You get the benefit of not having to deal with a screaming kid ever. You can just decide to shoot heroin or play world of warcraft for 30 straight hours and nobody will call you a bad person for neglecting your kid...

      You make up the 20 weeks in just leisure time that you can spend how you will...

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    14. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      It doesn't seem to add all that much burden in Canada or other countries that similarly don't treat new parents like garbage. If you can't do without sombody in a planned absence (parenthood has some pretty predictable dates), then you're even more SOL if they change jobs, get hit by a car, etc etc.

    15. Re:so we single folks by alvinrod · · Score: 1

      Presumably you get the benefit of being at work and not missing 20 weeks of project work and product development. If you can't use this to impress upon your managers or bosses that you're worth more or use your extra time to become more vital to the company and get promotions than either you don't actually provide any additional benefit over someone who was taking leave or the management isn't capable of realizing what their employees are worth and you're stuck with some arbitrary system for advancement that may have little to do with your abilities, in which case you should probably change jobs as soon as possible.

    16. Re:so we single folks by Piata · · Score: 4, Informative

      This is such a bizarre and staunchly American attitude. In Canada you automatically get 17 weeks paid leave when having a child. You can also take an unpaid parental leave for up to 35 weeks and your employer cannot penalize you in any way for taking these leaves. The Canadian government is currently look at increasing the paid leave and applying it more equally to men and women in the future as the current system is felt to be inadequate.

      Typically when someone goes on parental leave in my workplace a new employee is brought on temporarily under contract to "pick up the slack". If you choose not to have children or are not in a position to have children well then that's just too bad for you. Raising children is a huge commitment, both in time and money and there absolutely should be support from government and business to make major life events like this easier. It also encourages new mothers to do what's best for their health and the baby's by staying home and taking care of the newborn.

      As someone from the outside looking in, the American system seems downright barbaric and more companies need to be doing what American Express is.

    17. Re:so we single folks by chispito · · Score: 2

      In addition to everyone else's comment, think of it as an investment in the people who change the diapers of the people who are going to change your diapers.

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    18. Re:so we single folks by dfghjk · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      "The kid is the one who really benefits and we were all kids."

      No, it's the parents that benefit. Kids weren't neglected when this wasn't available.

    19. Re:so we single folks by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      The topic is paid time off, not the benefits of not having children.

      The work NOT done by employees who don't come to work for 6 straight months has to be covered by someone.

    20. Re:so we single folks by DogDude · · Score: 1

      If you can't do without sombody in a planned absence (parenthood has some pretty predictable dates), then you're even more SOL if they change jobs, get hit by a car, etc etc.

      Absolutely not. If somebody leaves, you replace them. If somebody has a kid, you have to find somebody to do their job temporarily while they're away. Completely different situations, and the latter is significantly more difficult for a company to deal with.

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    21. Re:so we single folks by Gilgaron · · Score: 2

      That'd be a like a healthy person complaining they pay the same insurance premium as their obese coworkers.... technically correct but still going off on a bit of a tangent

    22. Re:so we single folks by Anubis350 · · Score: 1

      A lot of big companies that give this time off usually have spare capacity on staff to be assigned to cover such things. I once started at a job where my nominal boss had already been out for 2 months on maternity leave, my temporary manager (not a temp, a full employee on staff who had literally become a floating manager for these kind of assignments) was my boss for my first 5 months, and she had been assigned the position before my real boss had gone out, so that she already knew the dept when my manager went on leave. When my manager came back, my temporary manager got a new assignment. No one did extra work to cover the nearly 7 months my boss was out. It's typically not startups that offer this kind of benefit, Amex can definitely afford to shift staff to accommodate maternity/paternity leaves without piling double work on a lot of people.

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    23. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      What, you mean when our ancestors lived in villages and the entire village helped out the new parents?

      It is only recent behaviour that new parents are living within other people and both working full time in a job located away from your dwelling

    24. Re:so we single folks by SirSlud · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Ask them if what they think about this policy. I bet they'd love to hear how their son thinks that everyone should sacrifice just like they were 'happy' to. Man, nothing is more pathetic than a grown adult bragging about the sacrifices his parents made.

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    25. Re:so we single folks by SirSlud · · Score: 1

      Yeah, ask your parents how much of a vacation it is to take care of a newborn for 6 months. In fact, I'm fairly sure I couldn't pay you to do it.

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    26. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it's not like everyone has kids all at the same time of year or anything. You are distributing the workload among other co-workers, those with as well as those without kids.

      On the surface, this seems like just because someone decides to have a kid, they get all kinds of extra perks. The thing is, yeah, they get extra perks, but they also have to work their ass off to be a parent.

      I am perfectly fine being the single guy with no kids. I love my freedom. No amount of minor perks is going to get me to give that up. Those 20 weeks are going to be spent in intensive child rearing, then the 20 years after that....

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    27. Re:so we single folks by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Look at the bigger picture, in 30 years time you will need the children of today to be around to maintain a viable society and economy. If you make it so unattractive to have children that people don't, you will have a major problem like Japan. The only solution will be massive immigration, and you probably won't like that either.

      Another way to think of it is that by deciding not to have children you already saved yourself a tonne of money, while still benefiting from other people's kids in the long run.

      Rather than being jealous of new parents and the time they get off, maybe you should demand more time off for everyone. In Europe a year for new parents and a minimum of 28 days holiday (which can include national holidays, so typically around 20-22 days you can pick) is normal. We don't have "sick days", you just take time off for illness as you need it, and if you get sick on your holiday you get those days back. I realize this seems insanely socialist to Americans, but honestly our economies don't collapse because of it and in fact it's actually the minimum level you can expect.

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    28. Re:so we single folks by eth1 · · Score: 2

      get to pick up the slack with no extra PTO or a larger salary? I understand the need to help parents, and i don't dispute it. I get that maybe parents needsome time out for a new birth or to leave early or come in late or take time off now and again to deal with older kids, but 20 weeks at full pay? doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      As a single person with no kids, even I won't complain about giving a new parent a break.

      That said, no way am I working a bunch of extra hours for 20 weeks to cover for an event that you knew damn well was coming for the last nine months. If you didn't get temp help, that means you're OK with stuff falling behind while they're gone.

    29. Re:so we single folks by Ogive17 · · Score: 1

      You're acting like staying home with a newborn baby is something easy.

      I can assure you those first few months are far more stressful than just about anything going on at work, especially with a first child.

      This new policy from AmEx is a recruitment bonus for young professionals. I think it's excellent.

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    30. Re:so we single folks by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      Exactly this.

      I used to think that it was unfair that breeders get all kinds of breaks. But then I learned how difficult it is to raise a child. I don't envy parents at all and they really do deserve every break they get (and they don't get that many, really).

      I am perfectly happy with giving them all these breaks and more because I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. They can't.

      Yeah, they may have chosen to have children. But on the other side of that, I chose not to have children knowing full well that our society values one type of person more than the other... Not exactly fair... but to quote Marcus Cole on Babylon 5:

      "I used to think it was awful that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'wouldn't it be much worse if life *were* fair, and all the terrible things that happen to us come because we actually deserve them?' So now I take great comfort in the general hostility and unfairness of the universe."

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    31. Re:so we single folks by Luthair · · Score: 1

      Worth noting this is through Employment Insurance - as a Canadian, but not a parent I assume this means most people don't get their full wages.

    32. Re:so we single folks by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      doesn't that put a huge burden on those who dont have kids to pick up the slack?

      The beauty of the situation is you can choose to work at a company that offers parents such leave or not.

      As a single person, you can make this choice, as a couple wanting to have kids you can make this choice, as a couple not wanting to have kids you can make this choice.

      What would be a problem would be a one-size-fits all solution. You're right on the math, so by choosing your employer you can choose for a better chance at a raise or a better chance of helping out new parents. The only problem is the morons who want to force things to be one way or the other, and thereby eliminate the competition for employees.

      When employers are competing for employees, the employees do much, much better.

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    33. Re:so we single folks by CanadianMacFan · · Score: 1

      You probably can get someone in as a temp for 20 weeks for most jobs. It is around 5 months after all.

    34. Re:so we single folks by markdavis · · Score: 1

      >"This is such a bizarre and staunchly American attitude."

      So you think it is not at all unfair that people who choose to have children get 20 weeks of paid off-time while people who choose to not have children get nothing? Even though those non-children people might have, in their minds, equally important family or life things they might have to deal with? Those same people who choose to not have children might have a new pet and get no time off to care for it, train it, bond with it. They might have a crisis that causes them to lose their home. They might need to take care of a dear friend for a month. What about having children automatically makes employees more valuable than those who don't?

      Flip it around some and think about it- what if an employer PAID employees with children more money than those without? Would that be fair? What if an employer gave employees with children more paid sick days than those who don't? Or gave only them flexible hours?

      I am not saying it is wrong for parents to get time off for having children. I am saying it isn't necessarily fair to those who don't have children and that people who can't at all understand this fascinate me. If I put your work department in a room and give everyone there $100, except you, is your being upset about it bizarre? Is my rewarding everyone else actually punishing you, even a little?

    35. Re:so we single folks by pr0fessor · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it's not like everyone has kids all at the same time of year or anything.

      September is the most common birth month, I would assume it's because more children are conceived during the cold months because people stay home and warm in bed.

    36. Re:so we single folks by swillden · · Score: 1

      "Non-breeders needn't look at this as discrimination."

      But they should, after all that's EXACTLY what it is.

      It's exactly the same sort of discrimination as non-breeders having to pay taxes to support schools.

      Kids weren't neglected when this wasn't available.

      This clearly enables parents to take the time to bond more strongly with their young children, and that pays dividends later. Can that be done without? Sure. We also used to have our kids breathe lead fume-filled air and society got by... but had a significantly higher violent crime rate. Stronger, more stable families benefit everyone, including those who don't have kids.

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    37. Re:so we single folks by ghoul · · Score: 1

      Its even worse. Its age discrimination. Say I am a 35-40 year old. I join Amex. I have kids and I have already gone through the hell taht is infancy and toddlerhood. My kids are now in school and I pay for after school day care so that I can work. Now I have to pick up the slack for 20 year olds who go off for 6 months ?

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    38. Re:so we single folks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Exactly. If people don't come to work sick, they don't get everyone else sick, etc.

    39. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      If you look at it that way, I suppose. However a correct way to address either situation is to ensure that your processes, documentation, etc allow for staff turnover of any type. Given the number of mid-large companies that also tend to make use of contractors, it's not much different than what's necessary to get a contractor up to snuff to temporarily fill out a project team.

    40. Re:so we single folks by DogDude · · Score: 1

      That doesn't help small companies. What if the person leaving on maternity or paternity is 1/10 of the workforce? What if they're 1/8? What if they're 1/4? It's devastating to have to hold a position open for somebody for smaller companies.

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    41. Re:so we single folks by phorm · · Score: 1

      And yet, again, it works in so many countries.

      Better than forcing staff to choose between losing their job and having offspring,
      Better than forcing staff to come back to work to come right back to work without time to bond and heal, then give their kids up to a caregiver during the daylight hours

      And this is AMERICAN EXPRESS, so I'm pretty sure they can afford to do it, and I'm also fairly sure that if it was a big impact on revenue they wouldn't have done so.

      Also pretty sure that neither you nor I work at Amex, so neither of our opinions matter worth two f**ks in this case. I did enjoy my own short stint of paternity leave as time to get closer to my daughter, however. Somehow my wife's employer also managed to get through it OK despite her literally being 1/8 of their workforce too...

    42. Re:so we single folks by RockDoctor · · Score: 1
      Oh it is about fucking people over. Specifically, making life harder for recruitment and retention people who work in the credit card industry, but not for AmEx.

      Who knows - perhaps this desire to harm your competition's recruitment and retention will substitute for corporate America's long-established policy of bum-fucking their employees morning, noon and night.

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  3. Re:What do you get by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2

    Blue balls.

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  4. Re:Okay by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 2

    They must not be impressed with your work today.

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  5. Re:lawsuit incoming... by MightyMartian · · Score: 4, Informative

    Unfortunately, population growth isn't happening in the industrialized world, but rather in the developing world. So unless you want to start letting in a lot of immigrants over the coming decades, you're going to have to accept that people in the West need to have children as well.

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  6. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Only in America.

    I guess that this policy is far too wimpy and liberal for the USA. IF you don't like it, sue it to death!

    Other countries are implementing policies like this. No lawsuits there!
    Some are even making it transferrable between parents.
    The USA is becoming more socially unequal by the day. This policy would help the lower paid more than the bosses (who can afford nannies).
    You really are going to the dogs.

  7. Re:lawsuit incoming... by chispito · · Score: 4, Informative

    this is america, it's going to happen. discrimination against those who don't want or can't have children. the latter being a medical condition that surely someone will consider an ada-covered disability... and they just might find a judge to agree with them.

    Read TFA:

    And employees who wish to have a child will receive up to $35,000 for adoption or surrogacy for up to two children. Those undergoing infertility treatments, meanwhile, will receive up to a lifetime maximum of $35,000 to help defray costs.

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  8. Re:like smoke breaks by SeaFox · · Score: 1

    Just take extra breaks for about the same length of time.
    If they say anything, point out that the smokers take extra unscheduled breaks, too.

  9. Re:lawsuit incoming... by msauve · · Score: 1

    "you're going to have to accept that people in the West need to have children as well"

    So, you're busy breeding cannon fodder?

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  10. Congratulations America by Computershack · · Score: 3, Informative

    ..you're only now 19 weeks behind Statutory Maternity Pay in the UK.

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  11. Re:lawsuit incoming... by dfghjk · · Score: 1, Insightful

    What an incredibly un-insightful post.

    Does the earth care where the population growth is? What's wrong with letting immigrants in? It's not a contest.

    Unequal benefits is a problem employers should solve, not one they should accelerate as an incentive to do harm to the environment.

  12. Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by ErichTheRed · · Score: 1

    I already see comments from single people or people who choose to not have kids saying we "breeders" are taking advantage of them. A policy like this makes sense. Families are already screwed up because unless you want to live in the middle of nowhere, a two-income household is becoming a requirement. Either both parents have to work low end jobs to make ends meet, or the cost of living is so high in regions with jobs that both parents have to be able to cover that so they can do the work they're qualified for. I have 2 kids, and will not be able to have more mainly because of that (and because I like my sanity...) The problem is that society and markets at large have adjusted to the 2-earner family being the default. The only families I know who have a stay-at-home parent live in very low-cost areas, have an incredibly well-compensated spouse (doctors, execs, etc.) or are working for something like state government where the lower household income is balanced by the job security. Everyone else has to pay through the nose for childcare, a not-insignificant expense. (And before you say we're consumer robots buying toys with our 2 incomes, we're not...but we also want to be able to save and not have 19 cents in the bank right before our next paychecks hit.)

    If the 2-earner household is now the default, then AmEx's policy is a response to that. I think that even with all the crappy MBA-driven offshoring, outsourcing and layoffs, many companies really do want to find people who will stick with them, do beyond the bare minimum to avoid getting fired, and not be a basket of stress ready to keel over at a moment's notice. This seems to me like a decent response to these demands. Having a family is stressful enough -- I know I get into work in the morning, and the clock starts ticking so I can avoid working late after everyone goes to bed. Replacing an employee is expensive. The company I work for is on the downswing of a fad where all we do is hire contractors, and it absolutely stinks having to retrain someone every year. When that someone is doing a complex job that really requires an FTE, this goes double!

    So, are we breeders? Maybe, but we do have a not-insignificant amount of extra responsibility, stress and financial burdens. Having a company actually extend a little help here and there is a good thing. The place I work was very understanding when my kids were born, even though there's no paternity leave policy...my bosses had all been in the same spot and made sure i didn't have to go all over the world during those first few months -- and they realized that there were some days I'd be a total mess and rolled with it. I think AmEx is going the right way with this, because I'm still with the employer who cut me slack...and I could have left for worse conditions and more money.

    1. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by cayenne8 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Families are already screwed up because unless you want to live in the middle of nowhere, a two-income household is becoming a requirement.

      Well, depends, I guess, on your definition of "middle of nowhere".

      IMHO, unless you consider anywhere outside of LA, NYC, SF and other hugely $$$$ places to live, middle of nowhere....there are plenty of places with reasonable cost of living in the US. And you can still live in a decent place, in a safe neighborhood, where children still play outside, and get by on a single income family. Yes, I am talking about a 'real job', not a burger flipper, but I believe that's what we're all discussing here.

      No, you won't have the latest toys, not the newest car....and you won't be going out that much, but hey, that's what my parents did. Mom stayed at home with me till I was in about 2nd grade and then gradually began working again, up to full time by the time I was old enough to come home from grade school and stay on my own will they got home from work. No problems.

      We cooked at home most all meals, nothing wrong with that, forced us to eat a bit healthier, AND, I was taught from a young age how to cook myself.

      Sure, being a parent is tough, it takes sacrifice both personally and fiscally, But this isn't a new thing...parents have been doing this forever till now.

      Don't have them, unless you are willing to make those sacrifices. I never wanted to be tied down with the little fiscal boat anchors, so I chose not to have any...I like my time and my disposable income. A choice you make. I could NOT have both, and I chose my path and am happy with it.

      If you choose to have kids....you need to take what goes with it and if you have to move to an area with a lower cost of living, then be prepared to do that. Don't expect others to take up the slack for you.

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    2. Re:Here come the complaints about "breeders"... by mikeasu · · Score: 1

      Fine post, I couldn't agree more. Engineer/analyst (defense industry), married, four kids, my wife was an engineer also until our first was born, and is now a stay at home mom. Plan when we got married was to eventually move from AZ to the DC area, so huge CoL increase. Turned down a decent gig in DC in 2004 (pre-kids), since we weren't certain she'd have the choice to stay at home - looked at other areas, not quite in the city, but say, Dahlgren, Charlottesville, etc, lower CoL than DC. Kept plugging along with our plan - 3, then 4 kids, but took advantage of a work-reimbursed masters degree, upsized the house in AZ first, then finally moved outside of DC (Carroll County, MD) about two years ago - still on one income. Would love for her to go back to work eventually, but more for the intellectual stimulation - not a financial necessity. We cook at home a lot, but go out for dinner at least once a month. No CC debt, and paid cash for the last two cars. It's certainly possible, helps that we paid down a lot of debt in the DINK days, didn't go nuts then. It isn't w/o sacrifice, for sure, but for the benefits to the kids having her home, figure we've come out ahead in the game.

  13. Re:lawsuit incoming... by MightyMartian · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If you don't like that your company offers maternal benefits to people with children, then quit.

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    The world's burning. Moped Jesus spotted on I50. Details at 11.
  14. Random comments about it. by CannonballHead · · Score: 2

    Random comments...

    Workers with families may actually be beneficial to companies. Why? Speaking as a parent in a single-income household, I would think they are less prone to job-hunting/switching frequently. It'd be interesting to see statistics on employee turnover rate for single vs. married vs. married-with-kids (or vs. single-with-kids, whatever). My income is very important to me, because I have three other people to provide for (plus associated "life" activities). It's stressful to not have a job; it's more stressful when you have a spouse and kids to provide for and, well, not starve, get into debt, lose your house, that sort of thing.

    That said ... heh, 20 weeks is a lot, that's like 5 months. I'm happy with 2-4 weeks of paternal leave, but it's not a huge deal if a company didn't give paternal leave. I think it's great, because IMO, it's a statement of the importance of family and the importance of fathers in family life. I mean, I wouldn't complain about 20 weeks! But I can see how someone might think 20 weeks for a *father* is a lot.

    Also, that said, 20 weeks for a mother is *not* that much. Even the official pediatric recommendation is to breastfeed, exclusively, if you can, for at least 6 months. It's really, really, really hard to exclusively breastfeed while working if you have any milk supply issues at all... because pumping just doesn't work the same. Sure, maybe companies should take that into account when working out pay, or maybe some of that should be without pay, or whatever, but unless we want to say to women that having kids is unimportant, or that making them healthy is unimportant, then time off for those critical months in a baby's development is a big deal to me. As a father. ;)

    1. Re:Random comments about it. by godrik · · Score: 1

      That said ... heh, 20 weeks is a lot, that's like 5 months.

      Actually I am not sure I agree with that. It is not just about the kid being taken care of, it is about ensuring that the parents (both of them) will actually bond with the little one. Bonding with the kid happens for both the mother and the father in the first few month after birth. If society want its fathers to be invested in the life of their kid so they don't bail out, it makes sense in investing in that relationship.

      Assuming you take two 20 weeks leave (~ 2 kids in average), that's only about 2% of your active time (assuming people work about 40 years). For the company, it is not that expensive, (assuming you don't hire exclusively 20-35 years old): a 2% overhead to ensure your employees would love working for you, that's not bad. And if employees only have a 2% RoI, your business is in trouble.

    2. Re:Random comments about it. by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      If society want its fathers to be invested in the life of their kid so they don't bail out, it makes sense in investing in that relationship.

      You said that better than I did, by far, and I totally agree.

      I guess I might be in a slightly different position in that I actually work from home anyways. Sometimes I forget that most people are gone from 7am to 6pm or whatever. :)

  15. Re:lawsuit incoming... by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful
    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Not to mention, that often those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off to care for the result of fucking without protection.

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation, they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders, and since they are probably salary, that will not come with any overtime.

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  16. Just need 6 wives or so... by linatux · · Score: 1

    and I could stay home on full pay for a very long time

  17. You want to tell me a couple things? by p51d007 · · Score: 1

    HOW can a business afford to have employees off for that long. And, if a business CAN afford to have employees off that long, do they have too many employees working for them?

    1. Re:You want to tell me a couple things? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      HOW can a business afford to have employees off for that long.
      And, if a business CAN afford to have employees off that long, do they have too many employees working
      for them?

      While you're at it, ask why competitors that don't offer these type of benefits never seem to have significantly lower prices.

  18. This Just In by AnalogDiehard · · Score: 1

    A baby boom has been reported at cities where offices of AmEX are located, the same areas where Trojan and other condom makers have posted an abrupt drop in sales. Maternity wards are overwhelmed with demand and retail stores are having trouble keep their shelves stocked with baby accessories. More details at 11.

    --
    Eternity: will that be smoking, or non-smoking? I Corinthians 6:9-10
  19. Re:lawsuit incoming... by FatAlb3rt · · Score: 1

    Property owners already pay school taxes whether or not they have kids, why is this any different?

  20. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 1

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    I suppose, then, that they won't advantage themselves of those benefits.

    There's a box of Donuts in the break room. I don't want a donut. Have I been harmed by this in any way? How selfish do you need to be to complain about that sort of thing?

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation

    With a newborn? It's not vacation.

    they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders

    Imagination land? If they're not already overstaffed, they'll hire a temp. If they are overstaffed, I suggest they downsize. Preferably starting with toxic, selfish, employees to improve workplace conditions of the remaining staff.

    those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off

    People like you should be happy about that, were that delusion true. After all, some overtime sure beats drinking alone in an empty apartment while trolling Slashdot and wondering why women aren't interested in a cool guy like you.

  21. A plug for American Express by OneHundredAndTen · · Score: 1

    I have been an American Express customer for twenty years. In those twenty years, I have had a few issues, like card numbers stolen and irregular charges. In all cases, they solved the problem immediately, at no cost or headaches for me, sometimes taking it in the chin for me. In one occasion, I had a dispute with a hotel about a $400 charge, and a call to American Express fixed it. They said to me that I did not have to worry about the issue any more, and they were true to their word: I don't know how they negotiated with the hotel, but the bill and the charge just disappeared. I have no complaints about paying American Express my annual fee - they really have gone the extra mile for me more than once.

  22. Re:lawsuit incoming... by JediJorgie · · Score: 1

    Um... we are supposed toworking to make sure that everyoneis compensated equally for their work race, gender, or religious belief.

    Are you saying that giving one group20 WEEKS of extra paid time off is compatible with that ideal? What are you smoking?

  23. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Not to mention, that often those childless folks will be just exact folks that have to work extra hours and pick up the slack for those new parents taking time off to care for the result of fucking without protection.

    So, not only do the childless not get the free 20 weeks paid leave/vacation, they also will likely have to work EXTRA to cover for the breeders, and since they are probably salary, that will not come with any overtime.

    Tell you what, if you're that butthurt about it, take the fucking condom off.

    Seems there isn't a fucking thing that can be brought up at any time that someone won't find a way to bitch about. Fucking hell, shut the FUCK UP already, and go home and start breeding if you want this so fucking bad.

    Then you can enjoy a couple of decades of "EXTRA work"

    TL; DR - If you're not a parent, SHUT THE FUCK UP.

  24. And then that extra experience is used against you by mpercy · · Score: 1

    When women chose to drop out of the workforce to have children, whether it is 20 weeks or whatever, their non-childbearing cohorts--usually males--continue to accrue experience and visibility. They earn raises and promotions. The child-bearing women then sue because they were not given raises or promotions, or at least complain about the "gender gap" and push for laws that force employers to ignore the raw fact that the child-bearing women (and their partners who might also choose to sit out for weeks or months) are, in fact, now behind the experience curve. Repeat for second kid, and somehow it's discrimination because woman A and cohort B (probably a man) who were hired on the same day into the same job now are paid significantly differently due to woman A being 3 or 4 years behind the experience curve. And more lawsuits fly.

  25. Re:lawsuit incoming... by chispito · · Score: 1

    I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    Well I guess you'll have to vote with your talent and keep on not working at Amex.

    --
    The Daddy casts sleep on the Baby. The Baby resists!
  26. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 1

    It is *STILL* 20 weeks of Paid Time Off.

    What you do with should be your choice...have a newborn or go to Tahiti....Again, it is a paid benefit for some workers and not for others. That is unfair.

    Unfair to who? This doesn't make any sense to me at all. Who is being cheated?

    While you're not a parent now, should you opt to have children, and you can find a willing partner, you're welcome to take that time off. It's there for when you need it!

    Are you saying that you want 20 weeks paid leave ... for no reason whatsoever? Because someone who is not you advantaged themselves of that benefit? On what basis? That you think you'll never have children? How would it be decided when that leave was granted? What would you do? Turn in your imaginary future wife's uterus along with your testicles in to HR?

    The only thing I can see here is your fear that someone is getting something that you're not. I'm not convinced that that something is paid leave.

  27. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 2

    People without newborn babies are not a race, gender, religion, or any other class of person subject to discrimination. We have all been people without newborns. People with newborns will, in a very short time, be people without newborns.

    If you are an AMEX employee, and you want to take 20weeks of paid leave, you need only find a willing partner and have a baby. (I understand that the first part might be very difficult for you.)

    I'll bet you'd complain that sick days are unfair to healthy people!

  28. Re:lawsuit incoming... by painandgreed · · Score: 2

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids?

    Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Well, if they'd stop slacking and do their proper duty to their country and have kids, everybody would be happy. If the nation is to prosper, it needs more population and particularly from well off people who will raise their kids to also be well off. Even ancient Rome had incentives to get people to have kids. Now this is a company, and not a country, but since IIRC the US is the only industrialized country to not have mandatory leave for havign children, I expect that American Express is just doing this to unify policies across all their operations and keep their American employees from getting pissed about not getting what employees in other countries get.

  29. Re:lawsuit incoming... by dlenmn · · Score: 2

    But, what about those that do NOT want to have kids? Seems unfair and discriminatory against them, in that they don't get this 20 week PAID BENEFIT...?

    Yeah, I'm sick of this kind of discrimination! It's everywhere! Why should I be forced to pay for public schools if I don't have kids?!? Why are there tax credits and deductions only available to parents!?! Why are babies allowed to scream on aircraft but I'm not allowed to??? Discrimination! Discrimination! Discrimination!

  30. Re:lawsuit incoming... by swillden · · Score: 1

    Does the earth care where the population growth is?

    Doesn't matter. Population growth is not a problem. The developed world is already at negative population growth overall and the whole world is already at negative growth in annual births, which means that all of the net population growth worldwide is due to filling out of the age categories. That in turn means that, barring significant increases in lifespans, as soon as those are all filled out worldwide population growth will go negative as well. It appears we'll hit that peak population point in the 2050s, at around 10B people.

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  31. Re:lawsuit incoming... by franciscohs · · Score: 2

    How is this discrimination? there is a benefit that you decide not to use, period. It's available to everyone who wants to use it and they will even cover all the expenses to be able to use it y you have trouble doing it naturally (adoption, insemination, surrogacy, etc.)

    By your same logic any benefit is discrimination, I don't want to save in a 401k, so I should get the matching money anyway. I don't like the food that is given for free and I decide not to eat it and should get money instead. I don't go to the gym, so that paid gym benefit is discriminatory.

    I can't believe the weird logic people get to use to complain about everything.

  32. Canadian Express by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

    Other countries are implementing policies like this.

    If the company had been "Canadian Express" they would have to offer just short of a year off per family which can be split between parents almost as desired (the mother must take some minimum)...and they would have been doing this for well over a decade. So well done American Express for finally managing to catch up with late 20th century employment conditions only a few more decades to go...

  33. Unexpected by manu0601 · · Score: 1

    I am gladly surprised, as I did not expect a big multinational company to give anything to workers without fighting. Perhaps there is some fine print somewhere?

  34. Re: lawsuit incoming... by rantrantrant · · Score: 1

    Those kids are gonna be paying your pension and looking after you in the years to come. Don't piss them off now ;)

  35. Re:lawsuit incoming... by narcc · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It is not fair that one set of people are offered this PAID BENEFIT, and other are not.

    All those childless AMEX employees are offered that same paid benefit. All they need do is have a child. That's what it's for.

    .that is discrimination

    You're kidding right? Everyone is being offered the same benefit. No one is being excluded. That's not discrimination by any stretch of the imagination.

    its hard to believe that everyone wouldn't see and jump on this too.

    They don't see the discrimination because it doesn't exist. Again, everyone is being offered that same benefit. No one is being excluded.

    I'm pretty much settled that I DO NOT WANT kids.

    First, let me say Thank You. I couldn't be happier with your decision.

    Moving on, just because you don't want to participate in a particular benefit, does not mean that you're being excluded. If a coworker brings in a plate of cookies, and you decline to take one, you don't get to complain that Alice and Bob each got a cookie, but you didn't. If you don't want it, then no one should have it, right?

    What I'm seeing here is a disturbingly childlike selfishness. You're absolutely terrified that someone, somewhere, got a bigger cookie than you.

    Still, even though you don't want to participate, that benefit is still being offered to you (assuming you're an AMEX employee). You can take your 20 weeks just as soon as you find a willing partner who ultimately delivers.

  36. Re:lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Society needs children to keep on going. Nobody is forcing you to have kids, but kids are a benefit to society, so we encourage that. You've received innumerable benefits from living in a human society, complaining about something you choose not to participate in is ridiculous.

  37. Re:lawsuit incoming... by goose-incarnated · · Score: 2

    I choose not to have kids, they choose to have them. Why should their lifestyle decision be more important than mine?

    Because their decision actually is more important than yours. They're producing the next generation who you will want to care for you when you're needing medical care in your 70s.

    You don't want to contribute to the next generation? Fine, no one is asking you to. However society has always catered for and helped those who produce the next generation because you and your generation will one day stop being a contributing member of society and you and your generation needs to be replaced by another contributing member of society.

    Selfishly proclaiming that society should end with you is (like I said) selfish, but also stupid - no one really buys your arguments because most (everyone?) knows that the current population will one day be non-productive. People who have kids ensure that there will be a new population of productive people. You aren't ensuring shit.

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  38. Re:lawsuit incoming... by ahaubold · · Score: 2

    In civilized countries payed leave is a parental right by law and not dependent from goodwill of employer.

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    Nope, I think you mistook me for someone else.
  39. Re: lawsuit incoming... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    It's not discrimatory. The time is to take care of the child and bond, not play video games and pick your nose.

  40. How do you do this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Mothers get a year in Canada. 52 weeks. Every one of them. The first 16 or 17 are at full pay, the rest are part of everyone's unemployment insurance, so it's 55% pay. It's considered too short, and they're thinking of extending it to 18 months.

    Our kid just turned 11 months, and we're preparing for daycare. I can't even imagine that at 20 weeks.

  41. More Time! by tmjva · · Score: 1

    Now they will have more time to work on their resumes, they'll need it.

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  42. Am I eligible? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Does this apply to current cardholders only? I'm thinking of getting an American express credit card if this applies to new members as well.