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Peter Thiel Thinks There's Not Enough Sex In Silicon Valley (businessinsider.com)

Peter Thiel recently complained parts of Silicon Valley are "hyper-politically correct" about sexual activity, and shared a friend's theory that conservative parts of America tolerate Silicon Valley "because people there just don't have that much sex. They're not having that much fun." Long-time Slashdot reader SonicSpike quotes Business Insider's investigation into Thiel's claim. Silicon Valley has the highest ratio of single men to single women... (However, it's worth noting that the San Francisco metropolitan area also has the highest ratio of people who identify as LGBT in the U.S.) In fact, Dr. Sandra Lindholm, a sex therapist and clinical psychologist in the Bay Area, recently told Forbes that she's now seeing an uptick in young, male clients who complain about a variety of sexual challenges and issues. "They're coming to sex therapy because they don't feel they have time or energy for sex," Lindhold said.

Some of the common issues include low sexual desire, difficulty meeting women, and performance issues. Plus, she points out people in tech generally have a reputation for being introverted. Another particular issue that frequently comes up is what she calls "tech overload": people spend so much time on their gadgets that they "forget about being in the moment." Although there's no official data on Silicon Valley's sex frequency, a 2012 survey by condom maker Trojan revealed that Bay Area residents had the least amount of sex and the shortest time in bed, in a sample of 10 major US cities including New York, Chicago, Miami, and so on.

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  1. Well... by bluegutang · · Score: 5, Funny

    You can take the nerd out of his mother's basement, but you can't take the basement out of the nerd.

  2. Is Bennett Haselton Back? by Prien715 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    conservative parts of America tolerate Silicon Valley "because people there just don't have that much sex. They're not having that much fun"
    which translates to
    Peter Thiel Thinks There's Not Enough Sex In Silicon Valley
    Total non-sequitar. That aside, this is the single dumbest article I've not read on /. since Bennett Haselton was an "editor".

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  3. Wait... by bytesex · · Score: 5, Insightful

    'conservative parts of America tolerate Silicon Valley "because people there just don't have that much sex'

    What? Why would anyone care about how much sex is going in Silicon Valley, and why would 'conservative parts of America' have anything to say about that, and why would Silicon Valley be in any way special in this regard? The mind just boggles trying to conjure up the reasoning that must be behind an expression like that.

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    1. Re:Wait... by Gordo_1 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Having lived in a conservative part of America before moving to Silicon Valley, I can not tell you how many times I would overhear at parties "well, I hate those liberal techy scum, but they don't have much sex, so I guess they can stay."

    2. Re:Wait... by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What? Why would anyone care about how much sex is going in Silicon Valley

      Indeed, why would religious people care about how much sex who has with whom anywhere? Yet they still do care for some reason.

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  4. "introverted" "tech" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    You know how I know you're lying?

    Your allegedly "introverted" "tech" workers are hypersocial self-aggrandizing narcissistic bloggers.

    Introverts don't advertise. Introverts don't brag. Introverts don't blog. Introverts don't get jobs in silicon valley. Not anymore. There aren't any introverts left in "tech" because tech has been completely displaced by social media marketing.

    Don't bullshit me bro.

  5. thoughts: by buddyglass · · Score: 5, Interesting

    High male-to-female limits sex-per-capita in a couple different ways:

    1. In general, men want to have sex more frequently than women and are more willing to engage in non-committed sex. Ignoring homosexual males, since they're a fairly small piece of the picture even in the Bay Area, the amount of sex is going to be strongly tied to the # of women.
    2. More men than women makes it a "woman's market", so to speak, so women can afford to be more choosy and less promiscuous. In situations where women outnumber men, women are generally less choosy and more promiscuous, leading to more sex.

    Lest I be accused of being a red-pill patriarchal Trump guy, let me assure you I'm not.

  6. Not much fun? by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 5, Funny

    Perhaps he's holding it wrong.

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  7. Oblig Joke by PPH · · Score: 5, Funny

    A s/w developer was walking along a path when a frog said, "Ribbit. Kiss me and I'll turn into a beautiful princess." The devel picks up the frog and puts it in his pocket. A few minutes later, the frog say, "Ribbit. I'll turn into a beautiful princess and do anything you want" The devel just walks along. After a while, the frog says, "Ribbit. What's wrong with you? Don't you want a girlfriend?" The devel takes the frog out and tells it, "I'm a software developer. I don't have time for a relationship. But a talking frog .... that's cool!"

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  8. Re:Work culture and environment is likely the reas by hambone142 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I lived in Si Valley a while ago. I found that it was difficult to even *see* anyone come out of their homes. It's get up, hit the garage door opener, go to work, go home and hit the garage door opener again and repeat.

    There is not much "community" there. No one sitting outdoors, having BBQs, going for walks.

    It's fuggin' intense and not much fun.

    My solution was to get the hell out of the valley. I transferred to a new location with my same company and had a blast. Back were the pool parties, the BBQs, going skiing, biking, boating.

    I'll never be back.