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Why Women Devs Are Hard To Recruit and Even Harder To Keep (windowsitpro.com)

An anonymous reader writes: The results of a recent survey conducted by GitHub sheds light on the issue of why women developers are hard to recruit and keep in the business of tech. Windows IT Pro reports: "The 2017 Open Source Survey 'collected responses from 5,500 randomly sampled respondents sourced from over 3,800 open source repositories on GitHub.com, and over 500 responses from a non-random sample of communities that work on other platforms.' Although the survey focused on open source and asked 50 questions on a wide range of topics that were in no way focused on gender issues alone, some of the data collected offers insight into why the developer industry as a whole has trouble recruiting and keeping female devs. Indeed, the severity of the gender gap in open source is substantial. In the survey, 95 percent of respondents were men, with the response rate from women at only 3 percent -- a degree of under-representation that's not seen elsewhere in this study. Other groups show numbers that are more proportionate to their numbers in the general population, with 'ethnic or national minorities' representing 16 percent of the respondents, immigrants at 26 percent, and 'lesbian, gay, bisexual, asexual, or another minority sexual orientation' at 7 percent. The problems that women in tech face are pretty much what you might expect. Twenty-five percent of the women surveyed report 'encountering language or content that makes them feel unwelcome,' compared with 15 percent of men. Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men (12 versus 2 percent), and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)."

608 comments

  1. how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more likely by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I've never heard anyone concerning male nurse and babysitters.

  2. Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 4, Insightful

    "The problems that women in tech face are pretty much what you might expect. Twenty-five percent of the women surveyed report 'encountering language or content that makes them feel unwelcome,' compared with 15 percent of men. Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men (25 versus 15 percent), and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)."

    So basically males are 0.88 times as likely to not be stereotyped or made feel unwelcome and 0.97 times as likely to be not hit on and that is supposed to be the crucial difference in recruiting and keeping employees of both sexes? By the way...

    six times more likely ... 25 versus 15 percent

    ...what?

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    1. Re:Another way to put it? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 5, Insightful

      TFA is much more coherent and accurate than the summary.

      The most important thing seems to be this:

      "Negative experiences have real consequences for project health. 21% of people who experienced or witnessed a negative behavior said they stopped contributing to a project because of it"

      In other words being a dick is a great way to kill your open source project.

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    2. Re:Another way to put it? by Opportunist · · Score: 4, Funny

      Linus could've fooled me...

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    3. Re:Another way to put it? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Linux is one of the few exceptions that has got big enough for it not to matter. And a lot of contributors are paid, it's their job to take Linus's shit. Plus there are layers of insulation between him and most contributors.

      Your little Javascript framework or Arduino project is not Linux. Even fairly large OS projects have died because the community became toxic and key developers left.

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    4. Re:Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      primadonnas

    5. Re:Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "Negative experiences have real consequences for project health. 21% of people who experienced or witnessed a negative behavior said they stopped contributing to a project because of it"

      Sounds like a circular definition. Of course if you perceive something as negative, you'll treat it as negative. Or vice versa, if you didn't stop contributing to a project, you presumably didn't perceive anything about the project as sufficiently negative for you to stop contributing. Plus that's already the selected group of people who perceived something as negative. It doesn't even cover the negativity thresholds or their actual presence in projects.

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    6. Re:Another way to put it? by Pieroxy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Linus may be a dick but all of his flame wars are based on code and otherwise technical-related.

      I don't remember him bitching about women or disabled people or on looks. He always bitch about the project and factual things.

      This is very different even though I would never work under his care because of it.

    7. Re:Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's all fine and well until you bitch about someone's code, and they happen to be female. Then it's discriminatory.

    8. Re:Another way to put it? by Pieroxy · · Score: 0

      That's all fine and well until you bitch about someone's code, and they happen to be female. Then it's discriminatory.

      No it's not. This is you being a giant asshole.

    9. Re:Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, it isn't.

    10. Re:Another way to put it? by computational+super · · Score: 0

      people who experienced a negative behavior stopped contributing to a project

      Well, in that case, we should definitely not start importing the incredibly negative, hostile, hateful, bigoted SJW agenda into projects and drive away 97% of the contributors.

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    11. Re:Another way to put it? by computational+super · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I don't remember him bitching about women or disabled people or on looks

      Can't help but notice that TFA doesn't point to any examples of that, either. They just say "felt unwelcome". They didn't say "felt unwelcome, but for technical reasons, so it was understandable."

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    12. Re: Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why should it be sexist to bitch about bitch code?

    13. Re:Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Um, I expect that women are more likely to be hit on in every profession under any circumstances. How is this different from every other job where men and women work together?

    14. Re:Another way to put it? by Pieroxy · · Score: 1

      Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men (25 versus 15 percent), and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)

      ...

    15. Re: Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It creates a climate of hostility towards women, which you would know if you ever took a goddamned mandatory HR course.

    16. Re:Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      I thought these were different stats than the one that GP mentions.

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    17. Re: Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Linus bitching about the contributions of an overwhelmingly or maybe even almost exclusively male group creates a climate of hostility towards women? Okayyy...

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    18. Re:Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      The difference is that nobody cares about coal mining? I mean, programming is trendy nowadays, many other things aren't.

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    19. Re: Another way to put it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why does it got to be a dick, why can't a cunt shut down a collaboration?

      You sexist jackass.

    20. Re:Another way to put it? by phantomfive · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Linus is a chill guy. If you look at who he insults, the vast majority of time, it's himself. When people call him a dick, they usually don't understand his communication style.

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    21. Re:Another way to put it? by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

      Coal mining is yuuuuugely trendy, believe me folks.

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    22. Re:Another way to put it? by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      The numbers themselves are irrelevant even if they are corrected. My question that never gets asked in these surveys is to compare it against a baseline in say... physical therapy or some other industry with nearly 50/50 representation of genders.

      "Twice as many women reported sexual advances as men." Ok... but without a baseline to an industry without massive gender disparities we don't know if that is a contributing factor or not. Hell we should look at something like veterinarians where women are the majority and compare numbers.

      A lot of these articles and surveys could I imagine be pulled out of any industry and yet they don't see the same gender inequity. "Women report feeling like men's opinions were more respected in meetings, even if it was the same idea." for instance is a complaint that's often brought up (and is probably true) but is it more prevalent in the tech industry or is it just a generic obstacle to women in the workforce?

      All industries should strive to be better even if they aren't the worst, but if we are trying to understand specifically one demographic outcome, we need to identify and confirm actual causes to fix those first.

    23. Re:Another way to put it? by HiThere · · Score: 1

      You should notice that this is based on the analysis of a survey, and neither expect that kind of detail, nor give it too high a probability of not being unbiased.

      That said, the conclusions listed in the summary (bar a bit of numeric problems) seem quite reasonable. It's been my observation that women are generally more offended by crude language than are men, even when it isn't directed at them.

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    24. Re:Another way to put it? by ncc74656 · · Score: 1

      Plus there are layers of insulation between [Linus] and most contributors.

      QFT. I suspect most people who've contributed to the Linux kernel have never needed to deal with Linus directly, but instead with whoever's responsible for the part of the kernel that they're working on. My own contributions, for instance, are drivers within the V4L and 1-Wire subsystems; I dealt with the people managing those parts of the kernel.

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    25. Re:Another way to put it? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      6 instead of 3 is twice as much, yes, but given the sample size it's also well within the margin of statistical error.

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    26. Re: Another way to put it? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Yes, he's bitching about men and their code and simply ignores women!

      See? It's easy to turn it around.

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    27. Re:Another way to put it? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Mines? We cannot get out. The end comes soon. We hear Trumps, Trumps in the deep.

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  3. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

    This math is brought to you by a female developer ftom facebook who doesn't understand why her code is oftenough rejected.

  4. Why make this into yet another gender thing? by davide+marney · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The problems people experience with open source projects are very broadly felt. Just as one example, 70% of people reported a problem with rudeness and name-calling. That dwarfs the issues with stereotyping, which was reported by only 10%. What's up with that? We should let the data guide us to what needs to be focused upon. Sure, issues with women in OSS need to be fixed, but I bet if we get better with the 70% issues it'll go a long way towards fixing the 10%, too.

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    1. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Interesting

      The problems people experience with open source projects are very broadly felt. Just as one example, 70% of people reported a problem with rudeness and name-calling. That dwarfs the issues with stereotyping, which was reported by only 10%. What's up with that? We should let the data guide us to what needs to be focused upon. Sure, issues with women in OSS need to be fixed, but I bet if we get better with the 70% issues it'll go a long way towards fixing the 10%, too.

      What issue? Not enough women in OSS?

      If so, do you think we also need to solve the problem of not enough men in college, which is now 60% women? And that is a huge number compared to the number of people working OSS.

      Just because a field isn't close to being 50/50 between men and women doesn't mean the cause is sexism.

      Because men and women ARE different.

    2. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Because men and women ARE different.

      How dare you state such an incredibly obvious and true thing, which society will pretend isn't the case to the detriment of us all.

    3. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The summary is clickbait. TFA is much more balanced.

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    4. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also ~10% is bordering on perception bias... how many times have we herd the story of sexual harassment come out of pure perception, I'm not saying it's a female thing specifically: if the group believe they are a minority and are a target for a specific form of abuse then they will no doubt be biased towards an assumption of intent that matches their perception, media spin like this and SJWs ultimately harm those groups chance of having a reasonably meritocratic involvement.

    5. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The 10% is more likely part of the 70%, when you are a minority it's easy to confuse generic abuse with targeted abuse.

    6. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      What issue? Not enough women in OSS?

      Women say that they want to be involved but there are reasons not to be. That seems unfair and bad for everyone because their potentially useful contributions are lost.

      If so, do you think we also need to solve the problem of not enough men in college, which is now 60% women?

      Yes.

      Because men and women ARE different.

      Yes, that's the entire point of this.

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    7. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      If so, do you think we also need to solve the problem of

      All those problems are trivial compared to US health care system both ACA and whatever the AHCA might be. Also, about 10% of US population live in poverty! Fix that first, damn it! On the more serious point, yes, that 60/40 spilt is an indication that something is wrong. So, how do you propose to fix it? Because right now it seems that this stat is only relevant when grievances of women are raised.

      not enough men in college, which is now 60% women

      Where was the outrage when /. articles advertised to self learn programming and skip collage, since it is a waste of time?

      Because men and women ARE different.

      Why yes, but unless your point is that sex organs are relevant to open source software development, you should enlighten us how which differences are the relevant ones and why they are so strong that only 5% are women. For contrast, in US the registered nurses are ~ 10% men.

    8. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      then they will no doubt be biased towards an assumption of intent that matches their perception

      Intent is not required for harassment. At least not until mind reading is invented.

    9. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The take away for me is that 19 times more men are committed enough to software engineering that they do it in their spare time and publish the results in open repositories. The fact that tech companies typically have only 3 times more men than women working on code implies that women are very well represented.

    10. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 5, Informative

      Women say that they want to be involved but there are reasons not to be. That seems unfair and bad for everyone because their potentially useful contributions are lost.

      The question of course, is what would have to happen to get that 1:1 presumptive requirement.

      In my experience in a University environment, which perhaps comes closest to the mythical fairness desired to engender gender equality demands, we still had issues filling female positions. Even affirmative action - like me giving up several promotions so that departmental women could be fast-tracked were not all that successful. Keeping in mind that this was a workplace where a man could be terminated very easily. And if a University environment largely run by feminists isn't enough to satisfy the women, this is going to be a tough nut to crack.

      If my personal experience from over 30 years in such an environment is of any worth, I see some of the following problems.

      My career involved non-traditional work hours, and travel. That means that I sometimes had to come in early, or stay late. I also had travel, but two weeks away was the upper limit, and most were a few days in duration.

      The ladies in my position simply wouldn't do that. Now people might argue about whether such a career was worth it, but if you choose that work, it isn't unreasonable to do that work.

      Next up is that I tended to finish their work when they "couldn't" stay past 5:00 p.m. Fortunately I was more interested in getting the work finished. We had one who even confided that she went into a carpool so she had a excuse not to work extra.

      So how do I achieve a equal mix in a position that ends up having two standards? One for myself and another couple males, and another one for females who could pick and choose what they do?

      And all at the same time that the women could get any of us in trouble. And we did get complaints, mostly about my pay, which was substantially higher than theirs. Fortunately, due to my keeping meticulous records, and my own boss understanding the situation, they were told that if they wanted my pay, they would have to do the same work I did. I also explained that I wouldn't come in early or stay late to finish their work. And when there was a downturn in work, which happens about every 5 years, they were let go, based on seniority or work production.

      Now as to the issue of college attendance. This delves into societal issues. The university environment is very unfriendly to men, especially those in the bloom of youth. You get to attend mandatory sexual harassment courses, and at any moment you can find yourself kicked out. I get sexual assault messages as required by law, and they end up being like weird creepy porn. Regardless, for all of the postings, we almost never see anything make it to court.

      But in the aggregate, the University environment is toxic to young males, and males being males, they tend to avoid toxic environments.

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    11. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The question of course, is what would have to happen to get that 1:1 presumptive requirement.

      I don't make that presumption. To me, the issue is equal opportunity. If fewer women decide to take up that opportunity then I can accept that. But we are a long way from that point.

      Affirmative action is sometimes a useful tool, but it can only ever be a catalyst. You need to solve the underlying issues first, and they go far beyond just one university. You have to have realistic expectations too - this won't change quickly much of the change needed is out of the university's hands.

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    12. Re: Why make this into yet another gender thing? by kenh · · Score: 1

      Perhaps men have more spare time for open source projects? Perhaps the women are too busy "bringing home the bacon, frying it up in a pan, and never ever letting you forget you're a man..."

      Also, this was a random sampling of several thousand GitHub contributors PLUS a few hundred hand-picked contributors also... to better represent the community, it should have been either all randomly picked or every contributor on github.

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    13. Re: Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      Perhaps men have more spare time for open source projects?

      That is quite probable. Quick peek at stats for voluntary work in USA show that women volunteers are about 30%. But github is used for professional work too. Just lack of time still wouldn't account for the difference. Minor correction, women are not 5%, but maximum 4%.

      Also, this was a random sampling of several thousand GitHub contributors PLUS a few hundred hand-picked contributors also

      While it does seem fishy, even if hand-picked contributors were completely biased set, it could skew the only by a half of a percentage point.

    14. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by hey! · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Somewhat supportive anecdote here.

      I ran a software team for years where 1/4 of my developers were women. But originally the team leader reported to me; my role was supposed to be more big picture stuff. The problem was the team was delivering total crap, and when I looked into it I discovered that the lead developer, while technically knowledgeable, was a narcissistic bully.

      The reason the team wasn't performing was that the lead developer was dumping all kinds of stupid interpersonal bullshit on everyone. The form that it happened to take with the women was sexist condescension. So I demoted him -- in retrospect I should have fired him -- and took over the team myself. Immediately the problems went away, not because I'm a brilliant leader, but because the people on the team were good and I wasn't an asshole -- or at least I didn't act like one. Not acting like an asshole is half the battle when you're boss.

      Sexism and bigotry have a way of becoming facets of any bad situation. When things are going well they're just meaningless bits of attitude that people keep to themselves. But when the shit hits the fan those attitudes mean there's a lot more shit getting flung around.

      The answer to sexism in the workplace isn't to cure sexism in the world; it's to cut out the stupid workplace drama. But when things are going bad, you have to come down hard on that bullshit. When you're trying to set things right you can't have any tolerance for anything that undermines what you're trying to do.

      Women developers aren't particularly hard to retain if you maintain an atmosphere of professionalism in your workplace. They want the same thing other developers want: interesting assignments, and a chance to advance their technical skills. Give any developer those things and he'll be reluctant to leave.

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    15. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Spamalope · · Score: 1

      You need to solve the underlying issues first, and they go far beyond just one university.

      To a statistically significant degree, men prefer interacting with things and women prefer interacting with people. Women are already the majority in college, apparently via making college unwelcome and possibly dangerous for men. Is that the sort of underlying issue you want to fix more broadly? You could go the route Scandinavian countries have tried and compel people to work in jobs they're unhappy with to conform with the ideology.

      I've got a maverick idea. Support a cure/treatment/prevention campaign for Aspergers/Austism. Find a cure a fewer men will want to work in IT.

      70% of people reported a problem with rudeness
      It's a technical meritocracy isn't it? Look into politics if you want a social skills based arena. (both can have sociopath problems)

    16. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      When I'm evaluating someone, say for a job, it's not enough to merely be technically brilliant. They have to have interpersonal skills. That's particularly important for engineers who often have to simply complex ideas and then convince laypeople of their merits, or explain why a request is ill-advised in a way that doesn't lose customers or create animosity.

      I've see products suffer from technical problems because the engineer who designed the thing is such an asshat when dealing with the technicians who build and test the thing. They technicians stopped asking him about failures and just came up with their own fixes or work-arounds.

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    17. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Cederic · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Harassment can't be done without intent. At least not until mind reading is invented.

      "Good morning. Oh, new shoes, I like them"

      Is that harassment? I'll tell you my HR department's persective, "That depends how it makes her feel"

      Well how the fuck do I build a rapport and relationship with my colleagues without being a fucking mind reader, if harassment is possible when you're trying to give someone a genuine compliment?

      Fuck this modern interpretation of harassment. If I want you to feel uncomfortable, trust me, you'll fucking realise. Until then assume I'm just being nice and if you don't like it, fucking tell me.

    18. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The ladies in my position simply wouldn't do that.

      Sounds like they're smarter than you or at least more willing to stand up for themselves.

    19. Re: Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But your whiteness is oppressing women and people of color all the time.

      You're the problem and you need to respect their feelings, otherwise you'll never unlearn your toxic masculinity!

    20. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Tranzistors · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'll tell you my HR department's persective, "That depends how it makes her feel"

      Wow, was that really what the HR department replied to you? What where the sanctions?

      In a better workplace you don't need mind reading skills not to get into trouble, since there are common decency rules. For example, if you say to a coworker “Oooh, nice tits!”, that is commonly interpreted as harassment. “Nice shoes” will probably not get you into trouble, but if that particular coworker feels uncomfortable with such remarks, there is no good reason continuing making them.

      If I want you to feel uncomfortable, trust me, you'll fucking realise.

      On the other hand, reading this line made me realise that perhaps you do lack human decency and you see yourself as a better person than you really are. If you get angry fast not only online, I would not be surprised that your coworkers would rather talk with HR than with you in person.

    21. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      The ladies in my position simply wouldn't do that.

      Sounds like they're smarter than you or at least more willing to stand up for themselves.

      It's part of the job, muchacho. If they didn't want to do those things, they never should have said they would when applying.

      Smarter? Lessee, I made triple what they did, I got to go to interesting and often beautiful places, meet important people and learn a lot of stuff, I also got to provide for my family very well, and got to retire at 55. The last part was based on smart investments and being lucky enough not to die before I retired.

      A few of the smarter ladies who "stood up for themselves" are working as waitresses now, and one as a physical trainer. The others I lost track of. If that's smarter, I'm fine with being dumb. By the way - a person my age, if they work until they are 67, the age considered normal retirement, will have worked 24,000 hours (minus vacation) more than me, not counting extra time I worked. But it surely wasn't 24,000 hours.

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    22. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It's a technical meritocracy isn't it? Look into politics if you want a social skills based arena. (both can have sociopath problems)

      No, it's never a technical meritocracy. What you are doing is confusing meritocracy with meet-the-minimum-technical-bar-but-put-up-with-unlimited-bullshitocracy.

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    23. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      If I want you to feel uncomfortable, trust me, you'll fucking realise. Until then assume I'm just being nice and if you don't like it, fucking tell me.

      What you're saying is: your interpretation of the situation is irrelevant, and if you're feeling uncomfortable, not only are you wrong but it's your fault not mine no matter what I'm doing.

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    24. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      Well how the fuck do I build a rapport and relationship with my colleagues without being a fucking mind reader, if harassment is possible when you're trying to give someone a genuine compliment?

      By complimenting her work instead of her shoes. After all, you don't go around complimenting your male coworkers' fucking shoes, do you?

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    25. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You seem kind of like an arrogant dick. Just an FYI.

    26. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Cederic · · Score: 1

      I tend not to compliment anybody's shoes, but when I do it's not based on their gender.

      I've complimented men and women on their shoes. So far they've all thanked me and exhibited happiness at my comments.

      That doesn't change the HR fucking guidance.

    27. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      When I'm evaluating someone, say for a job, it's not enough to merely be technically brilliant. They have to have interpersonal skills. That's particularly important for engineers who often have to simply complex ideas and then convince laypeople of their merits, or explain why a request is ill-advised in a way that doesn't lose customers or create animosity.

      And there you have my specialty. My main talent is that I can sit with a researcher for a couple hours, pick up what they are telling me about what they do, and communicate that to other people. Male or female, many researchers and scientists are brilliant people, but not always or even often good communicators. I'd them give them the tools to sell their idea. There were some folks who could communicate well on their own, but a relative minority.

      Now the ability to communicate in science is not better or worse along gender lines. There are som edifferences in approach, but the main issue is either shyness, or a tendency to go off on tangents and bog the presentation down to the point where people forget the point of the whole thing. As some of the extreme, we had a fellow who came very close to fainting every time he spoke. On the other side there was a lady researcher who once took well over two house to make a talk she was allotted 15 minutes for. My time? very expensive. Seems to have been thought worth the expense. Some folks didn't want to spend the money, and fell flat.

      I've see products suffer from technical problems because the engineer who designed the thing is such an asshat when dealing with the technicians who build and test the thing. They technicians stopped asking him about failures and just came up with their own fixes or work-arounds.

      Is this going to a place where you are saying that women are inherently better communicators? I find most to be amazing communicators, but not necessarily better ones. I know you don't think my university experience is worth anything, but the main attribute of the ladies if they weren't good communicators, is they were more often quite verbose, and tended toward non quantifiable "stuff".

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    28. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      The question of course, is what would have to happen to get that 1:1 presumptive requirement.

      I don't make that presumption.

      You don't, some do.

      You need to solve the underlying issues first, and they go far beyond just one university.

      Offhand dismissal of my experience noted. Note - we don't just sit in our ivory towers and engage in mental masturbation. We talk to each other and communicate as well. Other places have had the same experience as mine, and at other Universities. I only offer mine because otherwise it might be a sort of plagiarism.

      Now as to the differences between men and women. Many women prefer more social activities, in all aspects of their lives, and as much of that as possible. STEM is not the place for that. You are often working long hours, and alone. Some times the people who you are working with are acerbic at best, yet brilliant to the point of being a one person institute. STEM is not based on personality.

      So we have careers that engender long hours, often times travel - and not necessarily to places with nice hotels, and a results oriented workforce that are not necessarily social adepts.

      So how are you going to interrupt an experiment that might be a week in duration? How are you going to have experiments that only take place in comfortable suroundings and end at 5? How are you going to get rid of brilliant people who might not be the most sociable, yet are the driver of the work at hand?

      I always chuckle at how rampant the patriarchy is in STEM, when a large number of women go into business. Oh heavens. The stories I could tell you over an adult beverage, I fear you would simply dismiss them though. Anyhow, fix the underlying basics of the field, and turn it into something else, and perhaps more women will enter. I don't think that the problem is the inherent sexism of men and their "rape culture".

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    29. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      You seem kind of like an arrogant dick. Just an FYI.

      fukin right I am. U have an issue with that?

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    30. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Is this going to a place where you are saying that women are inherently better communicators?

      No.

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    31. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      STEM is not the place for that. You are often working long hours, and alone.

      I've been working in STEM for a long time, and that's no my experience at all. It's extremely rare for me to do overtime, normally all the developers stick to 37.5 hours/week. Some do less, because they have children and child care is expensive.

      I'm not dismissing your experience, I'm just saying that I don't think it is representative. Not because my experience is different, that's just an illustration I'm using, but because a huge amount of research and investigation has been done and we actually have a pretty good idea of what the wider situation is.

      Your whole point seems to be based on the idea that there is exactly one person who can do a job and that they must be available for long periods of unsociable time. That kind of assumption, which really only applies in fairly narrow circumstances anyway, is an example of one of the problems women face.

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    32. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The ladies in my position simply wouldn't do that.

      Sounds like they're smarter than you or at least more willing to stand up for themselves.

      ummhmmm, sounds like lazy compared to men to me. Want their cake AND eat it, tough shit.

    33. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by K10W · · Score: 1

      You need to solve the underlying issues first, and they go far beyond just one university.

      To a statistically significant degree, men prefer interacting with things and women prefer interacting with people. Women are already the majority in college, apparently via making college unwelcome and possibly dangerous for men. Is that the sort of underlying issue you want to fix more broadly? You could go the route Scandinavian countries have tried and compel people to work in jobs they're unhappy with to conform with the ideology. I've got a maverick idea. Support a cure/treatment/prevention campaign for Aspergers/Austism. Find a cure a fewer men will want to work in IT. 70% of people reported a problem with rudeness It's a technical meritocracy isn't it? Look into politics if you want a social skills based arena. (both can have sociopath problems)

      I'm all for discriminating but on the basis of competence. This men/women thing needs to stop. Unless you're modelling male or female swimwear or something it is irrelevant what sex you are, the SJW need to stop being pandered to. From a competency PoV if lets say you wanted to hire more coders for your social media company then you do that based on discriminating on basis of role competence, ie. against the weaker coders. Stats are gonna be more men are interested in those areas but the discrimination isn't because of their sex but based on the individuals who are the better coders, incidentally more likely to be men. Also a lot of the issues I see are one one hand teaching young men that women are the same so treat them exactly like you would male friends, in the same breath they are expected to treat them like the fairer/weaker sex because they are delicate. I'm fine with either of those, whatever makes people happy BUT you cannot have it BOTH ways and flick between those things when it suits.

      There has been numerous studies showing women don't get promoted as much as men etc in STEM careers and it is often spun as an anti female agenda behind it. As I always do I don't want to take the spin of the study and looked up the actual data it is based on. It IS true to some extent but actually is less supportive of the SJW position than you'd imagine, quite the opposite in fact. Look at the data behind it and it becomes apparent it is because women don't want to work as long or as hard in those roles as men. Again that is fine because it is personal choice and their is more to life than just work BUT if you are gonna promote someone who are you gonna pick? It'd be EXACTLY the same in a 100% male environment where generally those who put the overtime in, work harder and choose career over other things in their life are gonna get those higher positions and the men who want to prioritise family/social stuff will get passed by. Either of those choices are fine and it is personal choice, just crying about it seems silly to me. Silly because even if you did give them that role it clearly isn't what they want so they'd likely not have their heart in it so would underperform and more importantly make them miserable and hate their position so work related stress etc becomes big issue.

    34. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      STEM is not the place for that. You are often working long hours, and alone.

      I've been working in STEM for a long time, and that's no my experience at all. It's extremely rare for me to do overtime, normally all the developers stick to 37.5 hours/week.

      Now, now, I think this is the part where I say your experience isn't representative.

      But I won't. It is important to point out that I am speaking of STEM in general, not just programming.

      I'm not dismissing your experience, I'm just saying that I don't think it is representative. Not because my experience is different, that's just an illustration I'm using, but because a huge amount of research and investigation has been done and we actually have a pretty good idea of what the wider situation is.

      Well why didn't you say so from the start! Give me the citations, I can read them.

      Your whole point seems to be based on the idea that there is exactly one person who can do a job and that they must be available for long periods of unsociable time.

      There was work that needed done, and it needed done quickly. I could do it, or one of the others could do it as well. They all had reasons that they couldn't do it, from car pooling, to having to cook dinner for their SO, or simple refusal. One woman had children, and having children myself, it is understandable that you don't want to incur extra charges or even be kicked out of the kid's daycare. I had to juggle daycare as well.

      But there was no single point of failure.

      Anything unique I did was based on my personal skillset, largely outside of job description, and I never expected anyone else to do those things.

      That kind of assumption, which really only applies in fairly narrow circumstances anyway, is an example of one of the problems women face.

      You assumed my assumption.

      The concept of work being able to always be wedged into a pre-defined slot of time and effort works for some things, but not others. The big meeting happens, the dog and pony show starts at the time noted on the posters, and the ship sails when it sails. Either be ready when that happens, or fail completely.

      My work involved intractable deadlines. The work had to be finished on time, or there was no need for it to be done at all. While some folks found No! to be an acceptable answer, it limited their utility, and not surprisingly, when the occasional downturn happened, the person who said "I can do it" was retained.

      So how about some ideas, Animojo? How would you arrange that work so that no overtime would be worked ever? No travel would ever be involved?

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    35. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      What issue? Not enough women in OSS?

      Wrong issue, but thanks for playing.

      We're not talking about the sex ratio here. We're talking about the treatment of people. If everything were peachy, I'd still expect OSS projects to be male-heavy, since the field appears to attract more men than women. (I could be wrong here, of course. I don't actually know what would happen if everything were peachy.) If we treat some people badly and chase them away, we lose their contributions and deprive them of opportunities, and that's true regardless of gender. GP's point is that treating everyone better, regardless of gender, is likely to improve things, but there's still more hostility towards women than men.

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    36. Re:Why make this into yet another gender thing? by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Sorry 'bout your job. Don't believe the boss, it's not 'like this everywhere'. Quit.

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  5. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by firbolgar · · Score: 3, Funny

    Covfefe much?

  6. I looked at who did the study... by Notabadguy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The lead researcher (Anna Filippova) just completed a PhD on the role of conflict expression in shaping distributed teams. She has also studied the collective user experience with privacy management strategies on Facebook, how to crowdsource history, and Twitter brand sentiment following crisis communication campaigns.

    I'm too lazy to dig further, since the last time slashdot did a puff piece on women and minorities in tech, it wasn't even by scientists and ... I just don't care enough anymore to try to stop being jaded.

    1. Re:I looked at who did the study... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 0

      These stories always turn into dumpster fires in the comments. A burning pile of ad-hominems, old tyres, a metric tonne of denials and dismissals, with the whole conflagration accelerated by complaints that the story shouldn't have been posted.

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    2. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      These stories always turn into dumpster fires in the comments. A burning pile of ad-hominems, old tyres, a metric tonne of denials and dismissals, with the whole conflagration accelerated by complaints that the story shouldn't have been posted.

      Its an old story. And can usually be cured by sliding that old mod level bar to the left.

      I try to participate honestly, based on a career working in STEM, and working that career in the most female friendly environment around, where they received preferential hiring, preferential treatment, and the males were stifled. And still it didn't work.

      I spent a fair bit of time working to try to get young ladies to get into STEM careers. That one got pretty sad in the end, when questions regarding males not being involved were raised, they allowed boy, but it was painfully obvious that all the attention was given to the girls.

      In the end, I came to the conclusion that STEM was a career that the person has to be interested and dedicated, and they know it, not something that they see a video of STEM work, and suddenly think "Yeah - I want to do that!" My lady friends who are in STEM all knew from an early age they wanted to enter this field. Just like me.

      Is it sexist to believe that there are some differences in thinking between men and women in the group sense?

      My wife, who is roughly as intelligent as myself, and pretty brilliant, is not interested in the same things that I am. She chose a business career - and in of all places, the housing industry. Hardly a hotbed of gender equality. I chose science.

      My lady friend Engineers and scientists and I can sit around and talk science all day long. We can joke, we can enjoy each other's company. And some have a really dirty sense of humor.

      And as aside note, these successful women who are as liberated as any I have ever met, who put up with no bullshit - are hated by the third wave feminists who are busy installing a concept of the female who is utterly destroyed by any negativity, and must be protected from it at all times.

      Regardless, after 30 plus years of work in the field, a fair amount spent in trying to attract and retain women in STEM, my considered opinion is that people will tend to be interested in what they are interested in, and that if the ultimate goal is equal representation by gender in STEM, we have to force males into other career paths, and force females into STEM. Hopefully we'll at least test for ability first, but that might be prejudicial in a world where children are told "You can do anything you want, you can be anything you can dream of if you only try hard enough."

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    3. Re:I looked at who did the study... by computational+super · · Score: 1, Funny

      These stories always turn into dumpster fires

      Only because you keep participating.

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    4. Re:I looked at who did the study... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If the males were stifled then many of the problems that affect women could not have been solved. It's basic feminist philosophy - the same things that affect women affect men too and vice versa. It's not a question of one side having to lose for the other to gain, it's fixing problems that make everyone lose.

      I think people have trouble with this because it looks a lot like men are winning. What I'm saying is that things could be even better for men as well. That's part of why I'm a feminist, I want to fix the things that screw with me (a man) as much as help anyone else.

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    5. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amen. But I always peek. Because I have hope

    6. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Interesting

      And as aside note, these successful women who are as liberated as any I have ever met, who put up with no bullshit - are hated by the third wave feminists who are busy installing a concept of the female who is utterly destroyed by any negativity, and must be protected from it at all times.

      My sister is one of those liberated women; she didn't marry until very late in the game because her career meant everything to her, and she rose to the top echelons of a major financial corp. She's a tough-as-nails winner. She's also a Republican, which I didn't understand until I started seeing the second group of people you describe, the fragile who cannot tolerate any negativity. At least in the business world, it's not so much men vs women as it is the tough vs the sheltered. The women who need constant sheltering just reinforce the stereotype that women need sheltering; the ones who tough it out and rise to the top as equals with the biggest sharks in the pond are the ones who end up truly liberated.

    7. Re: I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your problem is that 3rd wave feminists are batshit crazy, and the term feminism is inherently sexist.

      Why not choose a more gender neutral term such as egalitarian?

    8. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      And as aside note, these successful women who are as liberated as any I have ever met, who put up with no bullshit - are hated by the third wave feminists who are busy installing a concept of the female who is utterly destroyed by any negativity, and must be protected from it at all times.

      My sister is one of those liberated women; she didn't marry until very late in the game because her career meant everything to her, and she rose to the top echelons of a major financial corp. She's a tough-as-nails winner. She's also a Republican, which I didn't understand until I started seeing the second group of people you describe, the fragile who cannot tolerate any negativity. At least in the business world, it's not so much men vs women as it is the tough vs the sheltered. The women who need constant sheltering just reinforce the stereotype that women need sheltering; the ones who tough it out and rise to the top as equals with the biggest sharks in the pond are the ones who end up truly liberated.

      The fatal flaw of third wave feminism is that it is a tyranny of the weak. And such as it is, the strong will only put up with it for so long. The goal is to not have any tyranny at all.

      Even universities, which have long been the bastion of the concept that all men are evil rapists, and all women are virginals who are utterly ruined by any negativity, and must be protected from heterosexual sex at all costs, are coming to the realization that You cannot constantly pander to the weak and whiney. The weak and whiney simply will not stop whining, and with every demand granted, simply become weaker. And louder.

      Not specificaly to the issue of gender, but recent attempts to refuse scheduled speakers like Anne Coulter, who yes, does say amazingly ridiculous things, or utra creepy Milo Yiannopoulos. How does one know wht they thing if you don't allow them to talk? Even disinvitation of Bill Maher for commencement speaker at Berkley, the comedian who manages to piss off both conservatives and liberals - which is simply telling me he speaks truth to power- he was later re-invited.

      All of this being said, I have important news for the weak. You weak, who demand safe spaces and demand to hear nothing other than your very own point of view and ideology - you listening? You are every bit as bigoted and prejudiced as the old guys who watch only Fox News and scream at the Television. Look at them, and are merely looking at the opposite side of the coin that you cherish. This is your bubble.

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    9. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      If the males were stifled then many of the problems that affect women could not have been solved.

      Well, that is certainly true. But the problem as such is that the rules come down from the women's studies group, which if I might be so brash is seldom a hotbed of desired equality. As an artist friend of mine noted after she took one of their classes, "This is nothing but women who hate men!" I believe her too, as she is a brilliant woman, and very liberal leaning. She simply doesn't hate men.

      It's basic feminist philosophy - the same things that affect women affect men too and vice versa. It's not a question of one side having to lose for the other to gain, it's fixing problems that make everyone lose.

      What I have an issue with is the idea that we have to be sensitive to so many things. In addition, the idea that any and all changes must come from males. That I have to alter my concept of working, which is to be straightforward, and to work until the job is finished, to one in which I just leave at 5:00 p.m., and any work not finished, well they just should have given me the work earlier.

      With males and the women I worked with who were professional, we could work about 150 percent faster, because we didn't have to parse our interactions for feelings. If I made a mistake, or she made a mistake, we'd note it, and fix it. With the third wavers, you had to be extra careful. Telling some "professionals" they made a mistake made for upsets, and on a few occasions tearful sessions. This is a very scary moment for a male in a university setting - you could lose your job.

      Someone is at some point going to have to tell some people that not everything has to be molded around them and their feelings. And it will have to be other women telling them that. If it is a male, he'll just be castigated as another chauvinist pig from the patriarchy. Perhaps lose his career. I've seen it happen.

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    10. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The difference is, old man, that you're gonna die before I do most likely so I WILL get my way eventually. The young ALWAYS beat out the old. You destroyed the world of your parents and now your kids will do it to you. It's natural. Deal with it.

    11. Re:I looked at who did the study... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      But the problem as such is that the rules come down from the women's studies group

      I'm not aware of these rules, please elaborate.

      In addition, the idea that any and all changes must come from males.

      That's untrue. Women have made, and continue to make, many changes too. It was a particularly big shift in the 60s, for example. I suppose it is now true that many of the outstanding things that need to change focus on men, but not exclusively and mostly for the benefit of men themselves.

      For example, we really, really need men's liberation, like women benefited from in the 60s. Women had similar ideas about toxic feminism, the idea that a woman's worth was measured by her ability to attract a good husband and the like. Now men need to get away from toxic ideas about masculinity, and we will all benefit from that.

      With the third wavers, you had to be extra careful. Telling some "professionals" they made a mistake made for upsets, and on a few occasions tearful sessions.

      Those really don't sound like feminists. Third wave feminism certainly wouldn't support that behaviour. Can you point to specific ideas of the movement that would support it?

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    12. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not aware of these rules, please elaborate.

      I wager it's in the same place where the patriarchy instilled specific rules saying that women must be paid less than men or that they must be less represented in STEM or whatever prestigious field feminists want more women in (e.g not garbaging collecting or Trump voting coal miner)

      See, sexism and misogyny doesn't need rules written down in stone for sexism and misogyny to exist. The law doesn't say women have to be paid less. In fact, it's the opposite. That doesn't mean sexism doesn't exist.

      So likewise, there's no need for him to cite specific rules that were made. Those might not even exist, but you still know sexism against men exist. It's all the unwritten rules and social norms and expected gender roles.

      As 3rd wave feminist Anita Sarkeesian taught us: you have to LISTEN AND BELIEVE the victim. And men are the victims here.

      For example, we really, really need men's liberation, like women benefited from in the 60s. Women had similar ideas about toxic feminism, the idea that a woman's worth was measured by her ability to attract a good husband and the like. Now men need to get away from toxic ideas about masculinity, and we will all benefit from that.

      We have men's liberation. They call themselves MRAs.

      Alas, 3rd wave feminists describe them as not "really" caring about men's issues (in other words, they refuse to "listen and believe") and are just sexist or racist or whatever. They focus entirely on a few often vague bad apples then paint the entire movement as illegitimate.... reminds me of how Trump paints all Muslims or all Mexicans as bad

      And then they try to ban MRAs like Trump tries to ban Muslims. They protest Milo or other conservative speakers from speaking. They think punching people in the face is ok if they're a "fascist" or "nazi". They try to get screenings canceled for a documentary about a feminist investigating the MRA movement because it wasn't completely critical of the movement.

      But please, tell us more how 3rd wave feminists are about caring for men and want what's best for men.

      Those really don't sound like feminists. Third wave feminism certainly wouldn't support that behaviour. Can you point to specific ideas of the movement that would support it?

      Again, listen and believe. Why aren't you so doubtful? 3rd wave feminists would accuse you of being rape apologist if you showed a fraction of skepticism on their narrative.

    13. Re:I looked at who did the study... by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      The fatal flaw of third wave feminism is that it is a tyranny of the weak. And such as it is, the strong will only put up with it for so long.

      There are weaker and stronger people around, and I don't see that the weaker are any less deserving. They aren't, in my observation, less productive in general. The difference between what you said and "the strong will avoid preying on the weak only so long" is subtle at best.

      How does one know what they think if you don't allow them to talk?

      Are you seriously trying to tell me that it's difficult to find what Ann Coulter and Milo Yiannopoulos think about things? We don't know their private thoughts, but we wouldn't if we went to a lecture by one of them anyway. It's easy enough to find what sorts of things they're likely to talk about, and what they're likely to say about them. It's reasonable to figure, knowing this, that they aren't going to be worth scheduling.

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    14. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      But the problem as such is that the rules come down from the women's studies group

      I'm not aware of these rules, please elaborate.

      Okay. The problem was addressed and administered by the women's studies group in university. The short list.

      Any thing a woman perceives as sexual harassment is by definition, sexual harassment.

      Commentary on a woman's appearance, such as telling her her hair looks nice, is not in violation of the law, but if the woman considers it sexual harassment, it is.

      Images of scantily clad females are sexual harassment.

      There were other restrictions on men, but those were the most onerous. There was also no addressing sexual harassment of men by women.

      The first two restrictions were especially onerous, as many of the women had zero problem with a man saying they liked her dress or earrings. Saying a woman's earrings were nice was specifically addressed as a no-no by the harassment counselors. There was an amusing incident when one of the men in the machine shop was ordered to take down a picture of his daughter in her High School cheerleader's outfit. He refused, called in the Union, and threatened a lawsuit of his own. The offensive photo showed a young lady, rather pretty, in one of those on one knee while holding a couple pompoms as high school cheerleaders are wont to do. The only skin showing was from the knee down on one leg, and of course her face. The Sexual harassment police decided to back down. Note that there was such a rumble by most employees - women included including some accusations of projection by the female who was so offended by the photo, that the rules were reviewed, and in some cases "relaxed".

      In addition, the idea that any and all changes must come from males.

      That's untrue. Women have made, and continue to make, many changes too.

      Please elaborate.

      For example, we really, really need men's liberation, like women benefited from in the 60s.

      What exactly is "men's liberation"?

      Women had similar ideas about toxic feminism, the idea that a woman's worth was measured by her ability to attract a good husband and the like.

      But that is in part a measure of women's worth, just as being a good candidate for being a husband was a good measure of a man's worth. Jeezuz Bubinga on a pogo stick, I've never heard of the qualities of lovingkindness and stability being called toxic before.

      I'm imagining the opposite of toxic femininity being a nasty mean person who no one wants to be around heralded as being healthy femininity and the goal for all women.

      With the third wavers, you had to be extra careful. Telling some "professionals" they made a mistake made for upsets, and on a few occasions tearful sessions.

      Those really don't sound like feminists. Third wave feminism certainly wouldn't support that behaviour. Can you point to specific ideas of the movement that would support it?

      I'll do better. These women identify as modern feminists:

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

      Karen Straughan, an MRA (I'm not in favor of MRA's but Straughan versus some third wavers is always interesting. In the pursuit of equal rights, women need them but men? no way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

      Third wavers at a rally addressing male suicide. https://www.youtube.com/watch?...

      As one of the male protesters said "We are not interested in talking to them, we are interested in shutting down an even that supports the Male patriarchy."

      Now that must have been Ted Nugent or some equally repugnant person t

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    15. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Again, listen and believe. Why aren't you so doubtful? 3rd wave feminists would accuse you of being rape apologist if you showed a fraction of skepticism on their narrative.

      One of the biggest problems that any group has, is that they don't stop once achieving their goals. From legal equality to the right to vote, to equality in the workplace, removing the impediments against women has largely been achieved. There will always be some incidents, but that goes both ways.

      But as noted, they don't stop. Just a few of the third wave feminists examples and solutions to the "patriarchy"

      Manspreading. Men sometimes sit with their knees further apart than third wave feminists believe is appropriate. It is also symbol of rape culture.https://femmagazine.com/the-problem-with-manspreading/ You can be arrested for it - http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...

      In addition Professor Lyndsay Kirkham of Humber College in Toronto, she declares that people asking for proof of it are not human. She is also a fan of misandry. http://socawlege.com/feminist-...

      We must not forget that Sweden, a country actually run by third wave feminists, declared that removing automobiles from the streets is a woman's rights issue, and that clearing the streets of snow was sexist, and implemented a policy of clearing streets after snow last, after clearing the sidewalks and schools. It didn't work out very well. Seems that an acedemic idea that since most vehicles are driven by men, therefore sexist, so punish the men by not clearing them affested women and children as well. Sorry for the Return of kings link, but while searching for cites, it was an early one to come up. http://www.returnofkings.com/1...

      Anyhow, my definition of third wave feminism is just like when your only tool is a hammer, everything looks like a nail - when the main focus of your life is hatred of men, everything looks like misogyny.

      And the problem of course, is that eventually, there is pushback, or outright rejection. You don't have to be a conservative right winger to be a bit concerned about the number of young men growing up with nearly zero male influence in their lives, and largely belittled from an early age, both from their now single mothers, the male deserts of school, and heaven help them if they are foolish enough to go to college, where they are considered rapists in waiting and have to pay for the classes that tell them just that.

      And when they check out of the relationship game because of the lose lose situation for them, they are told they need to man up.

      You don't have to be a trump voter to be concerned with the way you sit being a criminal offense, or that not allowing people to hear any other point of view is a right of yours, or that people who claim to be representing women have arguably insane ideas that clearing streets of snow is sexist. Well, I'm no right wing misogynist (outside of what third waver's think) but I have huge concerns over people who subscribe to that sort of thing being in power.

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    16. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Kartu · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately what you are saying has little to do with actual feminist mainstream philosophy.

      While there are equity feminists that do want equality, they are in minority and even marginalized.
      The intersectional feminism reigns supreme.

      In female favor disparities (e.g. in education) are not simple welcome, but cheered.
      Shared parenting laws get blocked.
      Gender neutral laws substituted with female centric.

      Education is an interesting example. In 90th, a wave of "girls are suppressed at school" has started and despite being completely out of touch with reality, gained traction. Now gap between girls and boys that existed even back then, is widening and nobody, but a handful of equity feminists and MRM activists seem to care.

      I can't recall a single case of feminists actually admitting there is a problem that straight males face, let alone fighting it.
      Please, be so kind to prove me wrong, you surely should have good examples.

    17. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Kartu · · Score: 1

      Destroying nuclear family (to dis-empower men) was one of the official goals of the SECOND wave of feminism

    18. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      There are weaker and stronger people around, and I don't see that the weaker are any less deserving. They aren't, in my observation, less productive in general. The difference between what you said and "the strong will avoid preying on the weak only so long" is subtle at best.

      The weak must be protected from the strong. The minority must have their say is a similar concept. . But I think you are confusing the tyranny of the weak with making certain that people do not abuse the minority or the weak. A similar concept is pandering to the least common denominator. We are not talking about the same thing.

      Are you seriously trying to tell me that it's difficult to find what Ann Coulter and Milo Yiannopoulos think about things? We don't know their private thoughts, but we wouldn't if we went to a lecture by one of them anyway. It's easy enough to find what sorts of things they're likely to talk about, and what they're likely to say about them. It's reasonable to figure, knowing this, that they aren't going to be worth scheduling.

      Seriously, you just wanted to disagree with me and you pulled that stunt? Of course it is easy peasy to find out what those two assholes have said. Teh internetz allow a lot of that.

      But tell me, who is the arbiter of who should speak? I'll bet that you could find someone on every campus that would object to any speaker they might come up with.

      Are you advocating not ever having a different viewpoint? Allow me to make an example along the feminists' allies as a point. If you are a feminist, one of your mentors is Alice Schwarzer, who believes that male/female sex is sexist, and "hardly possible without the subjugation of women". http://www.newser.com/story/10...

      She is also a convicted criminal. Sounds like a true asshat to me.

      But here is the difference between you and some people, and me. I would love to hear what she says. That's because I believe that hearing someone in person is very important. Apparently your desires are similar to people who want only self affirmation, IOW a bubble where you are insulated from anything you don't agree with.

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    19. Re:I looked at who did the study... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Your workplace sounds insane. Around here, those people would likely be sanctioned for creating a hostile workplace.

      Men's liberation is similar to women's lib. Realising that the traditional stereotypes are not the only way to be a "good man", and in fact redefining what a good man is. Get past needing eyebrow trimmers needing to be called "male grooming tools" and coming in tactical black carbon fibre. All sorts of things.

      I don't have time to look into the events in the video. Can't see any obvious reason why he shouldn't speak but with only one side of this story I can't really comment.

      Look, I'm not going to defend every person calling themselves a feminist. I can only tell you what I think and what the mainstream view is, and it's not that.

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    20. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Look, I'm not going to defend every person calling themselves a feminist.

      Why not? You have in the past shame the other side to clean up their own house first, as if they have an obligation to defend every person calling themselves a gamergater/conservative/anti-feminist/anti-sjw/etc

      I don't have time to look into the events in the video.

      So you demand people to provide you specifics and details, but then won't give the courtesy to look at them when people did provide?

      I can only tell you what I think and what the mainstream view is, and it's not that.

      Just because you or the mainstream think something doesn't make it true.

      Also, no. That is not the only thing you can do. You can provide specifics and details yourself, as you demanded others. But as above, you don't extend that same courtesy.

      Everybody else has to work and defend their position. But you have no obligation to do anything. Just blab out what you or the "mainstream" thinks, not unlike Trump blabbering whatever comes to his head on his Twitter feed.

      This is one reason why Brexit happened and Trump won. Your side just assumes you don't have to make any effort to defend your own position, or treat other people with the same courtesy and respect you demand others to give you.

    21. Re:I looked at who did the study... by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I still don't know what you mean by tyranny of the weak. I gave it my best shot, and missed. Could you explain further?

      Who is arbiter of who should speak? The one who controls the venue. Speaking opportunities are limited resources, and so people have to make judgment calls. My time is also a limited resource. I can't listen to every speaker I want (I'm missing one next week, in fact). I'm also not that fond in general about listening to people to learn what they think, although there are exceptions. I can read with comprehension faster than people can speak.

      FWIW, I don't think my feminist friends and relatives would acknowledge anyone as a mentor who thinks male/female sex is sexist, and that it requires the subjugation of women. Again, I'm hearing about how people of a certain class think, despite me knowing members of the class and knowing that none of them think anything close to that. I didn't and don't think my circle is all that atypical in terms of the people who represent viewpoints..

      I'm also not particularly interested in self-affirmation. I can't learn anything that way. However, I've found that I don't learn much from listening to doctrinaires of any stripe. I'd rather argue honestly with people with different viewpoints, to get a closer-up feel as to why they think what they do. I get interested in talking theology with some of my Christian friends, because I find what they think and why, and it's a viewpoint I don't have. I'm not interested in talking theology with anyone who hasn't seriously thought about it.

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    22. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I still don't know what you mean by tyranny of the weak. I gave it my best shot, and missed. Could you explain further?

      Seriously? Okay. Let us speak of the concept of banning words "Ban Bossy". http://banbossy.com/ This project has the very bizzare concept of presumable leaders of people (just females) of being devastated and rendered impotent when people call them bossy. The irony is that teh women promoting this fit the 'bossy" moniker to a T. In my own experience, people have called my wife "Bossy" her reply is "Right, that's why I'm the boss!" Because that is the inherent nature of being a boss. Being too weak to withstand such a word means you are too weak to be a boss. And banning the word will not make a weak preson one bit stronger, merely show that they cannot withstand simple words. Tyranny of the weak. I was listening to an NPR story this afternoon with a younf lady who wants those who utter the word "Retarded" prosecuted for Hate speech. It's rude, but a hate crime? If that were enacted, it would show how people are devastated by the very word, and must be proteced from it. Tyranny of the weak.

      But that is merely a proposal, I only offer it as an example of the mindset.

      However, Let us speak of the town in England where a man can be prosecuted and convicted of a hate crime, the wording so vague that the mere act of saying hello to a woman can get you arrested. Quoting Winston Churchill gets you arrested for a hate crime. https://www.thenewamerican.com...

      A woman was arrested for swearing in front of her children. http://www.mommyish.com/2014/0... Low life lady and no doubt, but apparently it completely destroys children to hear the word fuck, and must be punished to the maximum extent of the law. We need a street harassment law. https://www.nytimes.com/roomfo...

      Anther place in England is turning "Misogyny" into ahate crime. Even when no crime is committed, you can be investigated. Not certain how "investigations" go across the pond. http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-eng... The wording of the law is:

      The crime of misogyny is defined as “any incidents against women that are motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman, and includes behaviour targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman.”

      Other parts of the law are:

      Unwanted or uninvited sexual advances, Physical or verbal assault, Unwanted or uninvited physical or verbal contact or engagement, Use of mobile phones to send unwanted or uninvited messages, Take photographs without consent"

      Yes David Thornley, you can go to jail for saying "hello" to a a woman. There are some other issues with the law. Unwanted sexual advances - of course. Tell the guy to shut it down and he needs to shut it down. But "uninvited"? That means that no man had better ever tell a woman that he thinks she is cute or attempts to hold her hand (religious in the US consider hand holding as a gateway to sex)

      Assault - of course. phones? if you send a message disagreeing with her, welcome to the UK prison system.

      Photographs without consent? SRSLY? In the UK, the home of massive surveillance? Take all those cameras down

      Now between you and me and the capybaras in the back yard, almost all women don't give a rats putout about most of this weakling stuff. My wife is dare I say, pretty fetching, and gets catcalls on occasion. and she gets called bossy (all by women) and she gets comments about her weight - turn

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    23. Re:I looked at who did the study... by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      "Bossy" is normally intended as an insult. It gets stuck on women who do things that would rate praise from men. It tends to be used on strong women, not weak ones, and is part of an overall view of things that directly hurts some women and indirectly men. I'd like to see that attitude go away. I fail to see how "let strong women be strong" is part of "tyranny of the weak".

      It's good that your wife has no problem handling it, but the attitude can hurt her career even when not used to her face. Catcalls are usually rude, but really have no further effect (unless they are a PTSD trigger on a rape survivor, but that's a special case).

      You and I know that there are noisy small idiotic subsets of any group, and that the UK has some stupid laws. I suspect we'd have some comparably stupid laws about speech in the US if we didn't have the First Amendment. We've got enough stupid laws ourselves, but fortunately hate speech crimes are unconstitutional here.

      Not having been involved with anything like "don't let X speak here", I'm guessing here, but there may be a perception that inviting someone to speak is seen as an endorsement of sorts. There's quite a few people that I might want to know more about that I wouldn't want to endorse. Just picketing a speaker without doing anything else is a free speech action, showing disapproval. Still, I agree that this is likely to blow over.

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    24. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      "Bossy" is normally intended as an insult. It gets stuck on women who do things that would rate praise from men. It tends to be used on strong women, not weak ones, and is part of an overall view of things that directly hurts some women and indirectly men.

      If a woman is harmed by being called bossy, she isn't a strong woman. She is a woman who will allow others to control her. My wife was called Bossy. Her retort was that she is the Boss.

      I get a lot of male feminists completely dismissing my opinions insight and experience because it does not fit with their unshakable worldview. I do give you credit for withstanding anything that you disagree with for certain.

      So allow me the conceit of for once dismissing someone else idea that a strong woman can be hurt and destroyed and while once wanting to be a leader, someone who could lead nations, because they are so strong. But one person called them Bossy, and their strength fell away, ruining them and sending then to cower in a corner. A strong woman, reduced to weakenss and stifled because she heard the word "bossy". My sincere apologies, but I utterly reject that. It is 180 degrees away from the truth. A person easily destroyed by a word like that is weak. A strong person pushes through that.

      I'd like to see that attitude go away. I fail to see how "let strong women be strong" is part of "tyranny of the weak".

      I'd like to see peace and harmony among all people. I'd even like to buy the world a Coke. Neither of those is going to happen until we getaway from the tribal nature of humans. But as noted, Its a tyranny of the weak. I don't know if you have ever been in a leadership position. But when you are, there are people out there who want to take you down. This is not only men, but women. I've been called asshole dickhead, incompetent, stupid, harassed and even a couple physical threats. Some of which I've responded to professionally, but most ignored. The physical threats? I take those seriously, and they are reported to law enforcement. But "bossy"? That's about at th ebottom of the list of anything I give a damn about. Or my wife. Or the other strong women I've worked with. Because if Bossy is beyond the pale, you aren't going to be able to handle any of the other pejoratives that are hurled at you.

      Anyone who is dissuaded from a leadership position because of people calling her bossy is going to have a rough time with all the other baggage you get in a leadership position.

      Now, is this in any way right? No, we should be able to settle our civil disagreements in a civil manner. I'd prefer people didn't call me names, but it happens.

      Side note: the best way to get someone who is calling you names is to ask them if they would like to help. I've appointed some of these folks to special committees. 90 percent walk away mumbling, and the 10 percent who actually do attempt to help? They tend to fade out really quickly, because they hate it when people call them names.

      Now, I would imagine that you do not think that the only people who are called names are women.

      Given that the "Ban Bossy" effort is 100 percent Sexist in nature - and it is - Why not have a program to attempt to get people to be more civil to each other? Not the ban bullying stuff, but just a program for everyone, male or female. Be excellent to each other. Who on earth other than sadistic people could be against that?

      What is more, all of these programs are aimed at males. Yet some of the most cruel, nasty name calling and body shaming does indeed come from other women. My wife has been stopped by women in the street who have said things like "I hate you! You're so skinny! Her boss's wife used to buy her clothing at christmas that were always 2-3 sizes too big - on purpose. Except for one noteable problem with a man, all of her personnel issues at work were from women. And yes, she was even asked point blank "Did you fuck the owner to get your position?" by a woma

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    25. Re:I looked at who did the study... by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying that men or women are better. I'm not saying that leaders can lead without learning to deal with all sorts of insults.

      What I'm saying is that people tend to perceive leadership behavior differently in men and women, and what will get a woman called "bossy" will get a man called "firm" or "decisive" or something like that, and that this is wrong and can hurt women in indirect ways, such as affecting her chance of a raise or further promotion.

      Therefore, your last two paragraphs are completely about things I never said or intended to imply.

      It's possible to have a program to induce people to be good to each other in specific ways. I don't know anything about "Ban Bossy" (except that I suspect it'll be blocked by my work filter), and could be wrong about it, but it sounds to me like a good step to take in a long campaign.

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    26. Re:I looked at who did the study... by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      It's possible to have a program to induce people to be good to each other in specific ways. I don't know anything about "Ban Bossy" (except that I suspect it'll be blocked by my work filter), and could be wrong about it, but it sounds to me like a good step to take in a long campaign.

      Okay. My apologies, but we are done here. After being told by multiple times by male feminists iin here that they aren't going to bother to even read my citations, citations that are offered in good faith, it is completely clear that you have absolutely no interest in learning anything you do not believe in, and refuse to accept any other viewpoint. Ciao, me hearty.

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  7. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by cryptizard · · Score: 5, Informative

    The summary has the wrong numbers, in the report it is 12 vs 2 percent.

  8. Biggest difference by religionofpeas · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The biggest gap is here: "In the survey, 95 percent of respondents were men", even though an on-line open source collaboration is the perfect place for a female developer to be judged purely on the quality of the code rather than gender. Just pick a gender neutral alias and start coding.

    1. Re:Biggest difference by cryptizard · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Doesn't always work like that. Many projects won't let you submit anonymous or pseudonymous contributions and some require you to sign some kind of Contributor License Agreement. You could make up a fake name but at that point the fact that they have to do that, when men don't, is already inherently hostile.

    2. Re:Biggest difference by religionofpeas · · Score: 2

      You could make up a fake name but at that point the fact that they have to do that, when men don't, is already inherently hostile.

      Sure, but at least you're coding. And after you've become famous as an excellent developer, you can reveal your true name.

    3. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You could make up a fake name but at that point the fact that they have to do that, when men don't, is already inherently hostile.

      Sure, but at least you're coding. And after you've become famous as an excellent developer, you can reveal your true name.

      Give me a break. Nothing your suggesting would make any difference and has nothing to do with the "problem" of women not being interested in coding.

    4. Re:Biggest difference by religionofpeas · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Give me a break. Nothing your suggesting would make any difference and has nothing to do with the "problem" of women not being interested in coding

      Of course it would make a difference. If nobody knows your gender, you won't be treated any differently. Problem solved.

    5. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      ...but then they'd have to face reality, that it's not all sweet and feel good for men either. It's always been this way for men. I know of no nerd growing up in the 80s that enjoyed the attention of pretty girls or popular boys. Yet somehow, despite all the social loss, lack of girls to interact with and the rather constant bullying by jocks and what have you we still chose to stick with programming/computing/whatever nerdy thing.

      This is what it will have to be for anyone - women and girls to. To love/enjoy it so much that you just don't care about the noise. It's now 20+ years since high school, I still wouldn't change a thing.

      A reach? Maybe they need to start coming down on jocks and such that abuse the nerds that cause some nerds to then recreate that aggressive behavior in their little nerd microcosm. Get rid of those lame sports in school and stop celebrating that aggressive behavior that all those ladies chase after in the first place. ;)

    6. Re:Biggest difference by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Women shouldn't have to pick a gender neutral name and profile photo. Many guys in Github use selfies on their profiles, and often their real names. It can help get job offers, aside from anything else.

      It's like people used to tell gay people to just "act straight" and avoid showing affection for their partners in public, to avoid any discrimination. People shouldn't have to hide their nature just to be treated fairly.

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    7. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It doesn't have to be fake. M.L. Smith could be Mary Lynn Smith or Michael Leonard Smith.

      Think, boy!

    8. Re:Biggest difference by Pieroxy · · Score: 0

      The biggest gap is here: "In the survey, 95 percent of respondents were men", even though an on-line open source collaboration is the perfect place for a female developer to be judged purely on the quality of the code rather than gender. Just pick a gender neutral alias and start coding.

      It doesn't quite work that way when the male cohort starts bitching rudely on women on the general chatroom your magic neutral alias doesn't save you from feeling A) insulted, B) threatened.

      Moreover, suggesting women need to hide behind a gender-neutral alias in order to contribute to an OSS project should be big enough a tell for you to figure out you are way out of line.

    9. Re:Biggest difference by religionofpeas · · Score: 2

      Of course, they "shouldn't have to", but it's an easy solution that works today. Or, you can wait forever for the rest of the world to change.

    10. Re:Biggest difference by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      I appreciate what you are saying, and no-one is obliged to push if they want want to, but equally hiding isn't going to effect change.

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    11. Re:Biggest difference by ooloorie · · Score: 2

      Your implicit and sexist assumption there is that the only way women can participate in open source is through joining projects created by men. If there is a large population of capable female developers whose only problem is that evil misogynist male project leaders are keeping them down, they are free to create their own open source projects. Heck, they are even free to exclude all males from their projects. Obviously, that's not happening.

    12. Re: Biggest difference by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      If you're feeling threatened because someone on an online forum is "bitcing rudely" about other people, you must have a hell of a time navigating the real world. Get PTSD every time a car backfires.

    13. Re:Biggest difference by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 3, Funny

      Nevermind that. There was a story in the news just now about someone named "Reality".

      Can you guess their sex, or their gender?

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    14. Re:Biggest difference by religionofpeas · · Score: 1

      Moreover, suggesting women need to hide behind a gender-neutral alias in order to contribute to an OSS project should be big enough a tell for you to figure out you are way out of line.

      They don't need to, but it's easy to do, and it solves the problems without much sacrifice. And you can still try to make it a better place at the same time.

    15. Re:Biggest difference by Ash-Fox · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I have a couple of very active female contributor accounts with female pictures etc. on Github despite being male in real life. Yet, I don't experience any new problems, same with Twitter, Steam etc.

      Yet, I never really get anything particularly sexist that happens to me when I participate online under those accounts... At best, people on Call of Duty call me a "bitch" instead of "fag" and I don't get really anything negative etc. in other games and so on. But, on stuff like Bitbucket, Github, FOSS mailing lists? Nothing, no difference at all.

      I get the impression there is a reason why these articles never tell you to just create a female account and see for yourself and it isn't because people will become traumatized by creating a female alias.

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    16. Re:Biggest difference by Pieroxy · · Score: 1

      They don't need to, but it's easy to do, and it solves the problems without much sacrifice. And you can still try to make it a better place at the same time.

      Sacrificing your identity is arguably the biggest sacrifice.

    17. Re:Biggest difference by Ash-Fox · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I had meant to respond to you instead of religionofpeas.

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    18. Re: Biggest difference by Pieroxy · · Score: 0

      If you're feeling threatened because someone on an online forum is "bitcing rudely" about other people, you must have a hell of a time navigating the real world. Get PTSD every time a car backfires.

      You have obviously not been near the kind of forums (supposedly private but you don't really know who's there since they're all strangers behind aliases) we're talking about here. Some extremely rude comments (covered under questionable humor) about women including rude talks about slavery, gang rape and other nice bullshit about women are not as rare as you seem to think they are. Especially when some members of said group are drugged, drunk or otherwise high.

      And I can assure you that being a female and working in a project with such people can be more than intimidating.

    19. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course, they "shouldn't have to", but it's an easy solution that works today. Or, you can wait forever for the rest of the world to change.

      Isn't this admitting that there's discrimination?

    20. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      With blackjack and gigolos.

    21. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Part of the point is that no man would have to go through such a charade

    22. Re:Biggest difference by Pfhorrest · · Score: 1

      FWIW the first image that comes to mind trying to picture a person named "Reality" is a black woman. No speculation on why, just that's my impression.

      Then again I thought AmiMoJo here was a woman too just (I think) because "Ami" made me think of "Amy".

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    23. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...but then they'd have to face reality, that it's not all sweet and feel good for men either. It's always been this way for men

      What? No! Men have everything handed to them on a silver platter! Their accomplishments mean nothing and their struggles don't exist!

    24. Re: Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Put that on a shirt, unironically
      2. Sell them to feminists
      3. ???
      4. Profit

    25. Re: Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, they just to go through 15+ years of school being called a nerd and getting beaten up, but you're right, the women have it much much worse...

    26. Re: Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Shhhhhh, don't break the narrative!

    27. Re: Biggest difference by pem · · Score: 1

      Are you deliberately making c6gunner's point for him?

    28. Re:Biggest difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Easy: Everyone knows reality is a bitch.

    29. Re:Biggest difference by Actually,+I+do+RTFA · · Score: 1

      Men should probably be posting and contributing pseudonymously as well.

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    30. Re:Biggest difference by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      "Look, we can't get the guys to stop behaving like absolute fuckheads, so, even though you didn't do anything wrong, you're the one who is going to have to change."

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    31. Re:Biggest difference by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Historically, a fair number of women have adopted fake male names. In the US, it's generally legal to go by a name other than your legal one as long as it's not for fraudulent purposes. There's also the possibility of using initials instead of full names.

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    32. Re: Biggest difference by Pieroxy · · Score: 1

      Not that I know of. Care to elaborate ?

  9. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Beside that, 15 percent men encountered stereotyping? does the writer even know how stereotyping works? this whole thing sounds like jibberish.

  10. Thanks BeauHD! by Notabadguy · · Score: 1, Insightful

    BeauHD:

    Never one to disappoint. You always bring us the best women are repressed slant pieces written by women's studies students, usually self-published on facebook or medium, and then slathered with the barest hint of academic credibility to try sneaking it onto peoples' eyeballs as credible news.

    This is your second time in the last two weeks.

    1. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by cryptizard · · Score: 0

      Look at who did the study before you write comments that make you look dumb.

    2. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Notabadguy · · Score: 0

      I did - and I commented on it up above. Earlier. Since you don't read before you criticize, I'll copy and paste for you.

      The lead researcher (Anna Filippova) just completed a PhD on the role of conflict expression in shaping distributed teams. She has also studied the collective user experience with privacy management strategies on Facebook, how to crowdsource history, and Twitter brand sentiment following crisis communication campaigns.

      I'm too lazy to dig further, since the last time slashdot did a puff piece on women and minorities in tech, it wasn't even by scientists and ... I just don't care enough anymore to try to stop being jaded.

    3. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by cryptizard · · Score: 3, Informative
      You have some reading comprehension problems then.

      This survey was designed by GitHub with valuable input from the research and open source communities. We especially thank: Anna Filippova (Carnegie Mellon University), Andrea Forte (Drexel University), Edward Galvez (Wikimedia Foundation), Rebecca Weiss (Mozilla), and Laura Dabbish (Carnegie Mellon University) for conversations, research questions, and prior art that informed the questionnaire design.

      Anna Filippova is not the "lead researcher". Not to mention the fact that the second person in that list is a professor at Drexel in the College of Computing and Informatics and Laura Dabbish is a faculty member at CMU with a PhD in Computer Science.

    4. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      The study was done by Github. You can download the data for yourself. They don't list everyone involved, but none of the people named for assistance are in women's studies.

      The article is a bit crap but the study is really very good.

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    5. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1, Informative

      Look at who did the study before you write comments that make you look dumb.

      Did you look? It's an unscientific "study" performed by a gender studies major.

      Honestly, the major alone should be an indicator that the result is probably garbage

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    6. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by goose-incarnated · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You don't know who it was performed by. It just says, "this survey was designed by GitHub." That you assume it is a womens studies major (which by the way would not prevent it from being rigorous) reflects your bias.

      Actually, yes - the fact that a study is performed by a women's studies major does indeed mean that it would not be rigorous, in much the same way that an "IQ study" performed by the KKK would also not be rigorous.

      FCOL - Women's studies make no attempt to hide the fact that they are for the advancement of women, in much the same way that the KKK make no attempt to hide the fact that they are for the advancement of caucasians. A study by a group for the advancement of women that produces a "women are victims" conclusion would get the same skepticism from normal people that a study produced by the KKK that concludes "whites are victims".

      Btw: Who do you think is objectively (measurably) the best of demographic in the world? Who do you think is the worst?

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    7. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by goose-incarnated · · Score: 0

      Okay, putting aside your biased and incorrect assumptions about womens studies, again you have no idea who did the study. So kindly STFU.

      Okay, putting aside all those things - Who do YOU think is objectively (measurably) the best of demographic in the world? Who do you think is the worst?

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    8. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by cryptizard · · Score: 2

      Who do YOU think is objectively (measurably) the best of demographic in the world? Who do you think is the worst?

      What does this question even mean? There is no such thing as a "best" demographic. The concept makes no sense.

    9. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The best of demographic ? What the fuck does that even mean ?

    10. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by edx93 · · Score: 1

      I don't necessarily disagree with you, but to be fair, (s)he seems to be the only one posting anything. Scrolling down the first page, of the 15 or so articles only 3 were posted by someone else (msmash). The remaining is all BeauHD.

    11. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Am I the only one who just googled all those women in thank you list to see how hot they are?

    12. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by goose-incarnated · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Who do YOU think is objectively (measurably) the best of demographic in the world? Who do you think is the worst?

      What does this question even mean? There is no such thing as a "best" demographic. The concept makes no sense.

      The best-off demographic. The concept makes perfect sense: you can measure characteristics of a demographic and compare those measurements with other demographics. For example, there is a certain demographic of humans who:
      Lives the longest,
      Has the most college graduates,
      Has the highest average income of all adults,
      Are, compared to every other demographic, less likely to be the victims of violent crime,
      Are less likely to be homeless,
      Have fewer special-needs individuals (IQ less than 75)
      Get prosecuted less often,
      When prosecuted, get lighter sentences (up to 64%) for the same crime,
      Has the highest employment / lowest unemployment,
      ...

      If you guessed "white women", you're on the ball. (Yes, average income of white women exceeds avg income of just about every other demographic there is).

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    13. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The KKK certainly could conduct a rigorous IQ study. Their results would be suspect, but if they applied good methodology and analysis, and the results are replicable by other "rigorous" studies, good science was being done.

    14. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Pfhorrest · · Score: 1

      Is that average mean, mode, or median? I could maybe see median but I expect mean for men would be dragged far above it by the handful of exorbitantly rich men that there are. (Just like the mean personal income is about twice the median personal income, for the same reason).

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    15. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can you let me know where you get the average income of all adults data? That is really interesting, but I could find a source that agrees with that fact. All others statements have supporting evidence.

    16. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      The study was done by Github.

      This is an appeal to what, exactly? Authority? Don't believe those folks are into research all that much, so no, no authority based on previous solid research.
      That it's a report on their own baby? Vested interest skews results.

      They don't list everyone involved, but [as far as I can tell,] none of the people named for assistance are in women's studies.

      For accuracy.

    17. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No. Asians. Asians have better numbers than white women in all categories listed except the "up to 64%" lighter sentences. That one is too specific to match any other demographic.

    18. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Is that average mean, mode, or median?

      I average my averages and choose the 1.5 based one instead of having to choose between the median and the mean (bonus: it's still convex!). Or the infinity average just for giggles. I can't really imagine why more people don't use that one. It's very efficient to compute.

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    19. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by Areyoukiddingme · · Score: 1

      No. Asians. Asians have better numbers than white women in all categories listed except the "up to 64%" lighter sentences.

      You mean Asian-American women. Asian women in Asia don't enjoy nearly as much privilege as a white American woman in America.

    20. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by ncc74656 · · Score: 1

      Honestly, the major alone should be an indicator that the result is garbage

      FTFY...there's no "probably" about it.

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    21. Re:Thanks BeauHD! by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      If it weren't for having to interact with white men, I'd agree - being a white woman is pretty fucking fantastic. Actually, it's pretty fucking fantastic despite white men, but it would absolutely be better if there were fewer of them in positions of power and making decisions about things like my body.

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  11. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    To make it more relatable for Slashdotters, "uncomfortable" is the feeling you get when you see that a project has a Code of Conduct.

  12. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by jellomizer · · Score: 5, Insightful

    New York has a law preventing male daycare workers from changing diapers.

    However in my work environment and my department it is nearly 50/50 male vs female in IT. The difference is the following.
    1. I am on the east coast. There seems to be less gender discrimination there.
    2. I work in IT but not in a tech company. I have found for the most part woman seem to gravitate towards IT jobs with the focus on supporting the greater good vs trying to be the greater good.
    3. I work with an older workforce. This has a few differences.
      A. Less horny young men trying to hit on woman.
      B. Woman who get hired have already had and raised their kids to a point they are self reliant and they feel comfortable on maintaining their career.
      C. Experience is the driving force not looks.
    4. A work culture that takes diversity and sensitivity seriously. Harassment just isn't tolerated

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  13. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    How is that law not gender discrimination?

  14. Meant in jest (maybe) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Fucking bitches!

  15. As if it's a bad thing by jez9999 · · Score: 1, Troll

    and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent).

    FFS just get over it. Men are expected to initiate relationships. It's called life. It's not a problem. If you don't like it you might as well kill yourself now.

    1. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent).

      FFS just get over it. Men are expected to initiate relationships. It's called life. It's not a problem. If you don't like it you might as well kill yourself now.

      It's not a problem *for you*. Because you're a man and don't have to deal with it every single day. And precisely what authority do you have to determine what is and isn't a problem for other people? Why is it so hard to imagine that it might be an issue to get unwanted attention from a physically larger potentially threatening person, or a person in a financial position of power over you?

    2. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Whether you're a creep or not depends solely on whether the woman you're talking to wants you to fuck them. If you're fuckable, then they like it and you're not a creep, if you're not fuckable then they are afraid and you're a creep for that. If she makes advances, you're not allowed to call her a creep, though, even if you aren't interested.

      Mirroring it is if a woman doesn't warm to your advances, she's gay, and if she does, she's not. Whether or not a woman makes advances to you is not your choice, you will enjoy and welcome it or you're gay.

      This is the result of that dichotomy of who is supposed to make the advance. And currently there's a change, but it's not anywhere near done. Woman are nearly finished getting their sexual independence, but society still wants to privilege them, so women get to decide if they want independence or not, and don't have to indicate what their outlook is. Men aren't yet allowed socially to forgo dominance in sexual contact, but the few men who HAVE decided that they're not going to risk being thought of as a creep for no good reason and go their own way are fairly widely despised as MGTOW (many vocal MGTOW however say and do things that deserve this). And women are getting more and more pissed off that men aren't initiating the contact (leaving only the arrogant dregs to do the dating) any more and that they're not even bothering to try to flirt or have sexual relations with a woman (as a partner rather than just entertainment).

      But that's because despite women's independence, they still widely want the old way to continue, so they can choose on a whim which way they will work. But many men are realising that women, if they want to get intimate, can work for it instead, it's no longer up to men to do it all and risk their self esteem.

    3. Re:As if it's a bad thing by religionofpeas · · Score: 1

      Why is it so hard to imagine that it might be an issue to get unwanted attention from a physically larger potentially threatening person, or a person in a financial position of power over you?

      That's not hard to imagine, but plenty of women do want attention from tall rich guys, and are waiting for them to make the first move. How are you going to tell the difference ?

    4. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Why is it so hard to imagine that it might be an issue to get unwanted attention from a physically larger potentially threatening person, or a person in a financial position of power over you?

      That's not hard to imagine, but plenty of women do want attention from tall rich guys, and are waiting for them to make the first move. How are you going to tell the difference ?

      You be respectful, move slowly and actually listen to the feedback. The attitude "oh these stupid women complaining about me offering my virile and high-quality sperm" doesn't gives me much confidence that that happens.

      Despite the assumption of the "men's right's" contingent of slashdot, women are not in general trying to get offended, or damage your desperately fragile ego. It's not actually fun to do that. But when you're faced with this sort of 'offer' every day, when it's a common occurrence to be called a "frigid bitch" by a stranger because you don't want to be chatted-up on the bus, well you can imagine that your attitude to future encounters changes, can't you?

    5. Re:As if it's a bad thing by religionofpeas · · Score: 1

      You be respectful, move slowly and actually listen to the feedback

      That requires making a move. And if you're too slow, or too nice, they'll run off with the other guy.

    6. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      You be respectful, move slowly and actually listen to the feedback

      That requires making a move. And if you're too slow, or too nice, they'll run off with the other guy.

      So..? For some people, not being a creep outweighs manipulating into bed every woman you have a vague chance with.

    7. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      THIS, so much this. Im one of the MGTOW apparently, since i dont give a shit about women, they are too much hassle to deal with. Equality doesnt even enter their mind, unless its for THEIR benefit.
      But such is the way of every group that feel they have been marginalized over the years, now they have the power and they see it as their turn to step all over the group they feel has "wronged" them, in effect doing the exact same ting. Fucking hypocrites!

    8. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The parent poster's point is legitimate, but somewhat crassly expressed.

      We live in a social sphere with literally centuries of cultural tradition of men initiating intimate relationships with women. This pattern is ingrained and reinforced throughout our culture, and changing it is an evolutionary process that can take decades and more than a generation to evolve. Further, I think there's an evolutionary biology component to it that makes it resistant to change.

      It also suffers from what I would call a bargaining imbalance. Usually in a negotiation, the first person to make an offer bargains from a position of weakness -- they expose their bargaining position and expose themselves to rejection. Thus it seems likely that women generally do not want to give up their default bargaining position, further ingraining the default position of men as initiators.

      There's also a signaling problem, which is probably the most complex aspect of this. Should signaling be up front and literal, or should it be subtle and ambiguous? Given that women would want to retain their bargaining advantage, they have have an incentive to keep relationship signaling subtle and ambiguous because it provides them with an advantageous information asymmetry. This further weakens potential partner's bargaining ability because they are both unsure of what terms are acceptable *and* unsure if the partner is even receptive to an offer.

      The last complication is the icing on the cake, the growth in general promiscuity. As a culture we've become quickly accepting of low-attachment sexual relationships.

      So, why is it women get unwanted sexual advances? Men know that there is some possibility that a woman will be willing to engage in low-attachment sexual relationships. Women are ambiguous in their signaling as to their receptiveness to intimate contact. Men have internalized their role as initiators, and also know that since they are bargaining from a position of weakness, they face a high probability of failure. But since they know there is some chance of success generally, they know they have to make a lot of offers in order to achieve successful bargains. Intermittent reinforcement is a very powerful reward mechanism.

      In my opinion, women just need to be more vocal in stating their unambiguous disinterest in intimacy. Don't be subtle, it only confuses the person into believing that you are engaging in bargaining somehow.

    9. Re:As if it's a bad thing by religionofpeas · · Score: 1

      For some people, not being a creep outweighs manipulating into bed every woman you have a vague chance with.

      Nice hyperbole.

    10. Re:As if it's a bad thing by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      I'd be actually surprised if most women had to deal with it literally "every single day". By the way, any suggestion as to how you avoid Type I and Type II errors completely with these things? Because if you don't have an alternative, the only option is for the world to stop mating.

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    11. Re:As if it's a bad thing by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

      Why "every woman"? I find it perfectly plausible that you're interested in one person in such a situation.

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    12. Re: As if it's a bad thing by KramberryKoncerto · · Score: 2

      Let's compare to other industries and the general public, across all gender ratios. I bet 6 vs 3 percent is far on the small side. Heck, an average model agency is mostly women and probably a much larger percentage of them has received "unsolicited sexual advances". Citing this as a major reason that women aren't in tech is pathetic flamebait.

    13. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Rockoon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You be respectful, move slowly

      Are you sure that that isnt the problem?

      When you, as an IT guy, "move slowly", you become this creeper thats always hanging around but never asking her out.
      This then causes an animosity that she feels towards you.
      The slower you move the stronger that feeling of animus will be, and if that animus becomes too strong then your next move, asking her out, is sexual harassment under the current accepted definition.

      As a young man you hopefully learned that the best way to get a date is to ask girls out. Lots and lots of girls. It doesnt matter how good looking, awesome, pathetic or ugly you are as you will always increase the probability of getting a date by asking another girl you.

      Thats the nature of it. "Moving slowly" isnt natural and creates all these problems. If Bob had asked Yan out on the first day, he would have gotten either a yes or a no. If the answer was "yes" then it would have been a mistake for both of them to "move slowly" and if the answer is "no" then it was also have been a mistake for things to "move slowly." Moving slowly affords no advantage, only disadvantage, to both parties. These disadvantages accumulate into the observed "problems" that are exactly the result of what you are asking for.

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    14. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      I mean - fine, probably not every day. Often enough that it's a permanent feature of existence though.

      Of course you can't completely avoid errors, but you can massively help by understanding the other perspective, and acting in a suitable manner. Empathy is how you avoid being a dick, and the sort of man who throws up his hands in resignation and cites 'biology' as an excuse I can pretty much guarantee is not being empathetic or respectful.

    15. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 2

      Well it depends on your definition of 'slowly', I don't mean glacial, I mean move at a pace that means you are aware of the other person's feelings, and eventually do actually ask. Most of the time you don't *have* to ask (and put that person & yourself in an awkward position) by waiting a little, because it will become obvious that they are not interested.

      It also shows that you are atleast somewhat interested in the person, rather than just the vagina-holding body. If you just ask people out "whether they are awesome, pathetic or ugly" you show that you're not interested in the person, just the fact that they exist at all.

    16. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      You're right in that all these factors are in there as influences, and probably some of the root causes. I tend to think that we need to act better than our base desires though, that is the only way a civilisation can progress and I really object to it being used as an excuse to be unpleasant to someone.

    17. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Rockoon · · Score: 4, Interesting

      The only justification for "moving slowly" before getting a date that I can see is in the belief that the act of asking someone out is a profoundly important event in the lives of these two people. This belief is unfounded and probably based on a fallacy.

      Sometimes it is a profoundly important event for one person to ask another out on a date, but most of the time it isn't.

      Again, if you want to increase the probability that asking a girl out turns out to be a profoundly important event in your life, then sooner is better than later, more is better than less. Lots and lots of girls.

      This "move slowly" idea almost seems like a fallacious rationalization that is actually rooted in the fear of rejection.

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    18. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      We live in a social sphere with literally centuries of cultural tradition of men initiating intimate relationships with women.

      And the initiation has benefits, mathematically speaking. In any case, Github is not a dating site, but workplace, and hitting on colleagues is known to be problematic. Even worse, if gender skew is 19:1, then if men are "hitting" only occasionally, women get "hit on" all the time.

    19. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you just ask people out "whether they are awesome, pathetic or ugly" you show that you're not interested in the person, just the fact that they exist at all.

      Learn how to read, dumbfuck. Thats not what he said. You inverted what he said as if it applied to the person being asked instead of the person doing the asking.

      Its not a directly causal relationship, but you are assuming what he said was in the worst light possible if the words were given as a puzzle in a randomized order. You did not assume it was in the best of lights, and what he actually said when the words are placed in the correct order, is actually in the best of lights. Ultimately, you did this gross misinterpretation because you are too much of a pussy to risk asking girls out before you know what the answer will be.

    20. Re: As if it's a bad thing by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      "Empathy" in this case fails dramatically. I would absolutely love it if more women were open and forthcoming about their interest in me, rather than waiting for me to make the first move. How do I empathise with people who, according to you, want the exact opposite of what I would want in their place?

      I can certainly empathise with those who are subject to repeated advances despite having already said "no", but we're not even at that stage of the conversation; you're trying to tell us that just expressing interest in someone is in and of itself "harassment". That's absurd.

    21. Re:As if it's a bad thing by religionofpeas · · Score: 1

      I tend to think that we need to act better than our base desires though, that is the only way a civilisation can progress and I really object to it being used as an excuse to be unpleasant to someone.

      You're fighting against the laws of nature. Top dog alpha men get more children, and women are attracted by them because they want their genes for their sons.

    22. Re:As if it's a bad thing by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Even if I accept your premise as true, which I don't, you are missing the most crucial factor in what makes these sexual advances unwanted. It's the setting. In a bar, if you are by yourself you kind of expect that people might approach you. But on Github, or in the workplace, or just walking down the street...

      In other words, you should wait for that person to signal that they are open to advances, e.g. by attending a social event. People wear rings to indicate that they are unavailable, but we could really do with some kind of "I'm open to being approached" bracelet or something... I seem to recall Star Trek had something like that.

      I'm not particularly attractive but I find women do make the first move and indicate fairly clearly to me when they are open to advances. I really don't understand why some people think that it's all up to the man, or who think that the signals are confusing or unclear... Maybe my experience is atypical, or maybe I'm willing to accept a greater lack of success than some guys feel entitled to.

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    23. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      I tend to think that we need to act better than our base desires though, that is the only way a civilisation can progress and I really object to it being used as an excuse to be unpleasant to someone.

      You're fighting against the laws of nature. Top dog alpha men get more children, and women are attracted by them because they want their genes for their sons.

      You're fucking right I am. We fight against our animal nature all the time, we fight against it when we decide not to kill rivals to increase our power, we fight against it when we decide not to rape women to spread our genes. The laws of nature is a terrible place to go as defence for actions.

    24. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 1

      We used to -- not even all that long ago -- have widely accepted social practices for intimate relationships, covering their entire life cycle from introductions, to dating to marriage.

      Over a period of time, we began rejecting and changing these practices because it was believed that they were unfair, mostly to women. They had little personal control of their partner assignments, little official control over their role and treatment within relationships, and little to no ability to end these relationships. These are not unfair claims, although I do believe that this system persisted so long because it was more beneficial -- mutually, and externally -- than it was unfair, but its unfairness really can't be underestimated.

      Unfortunately, our reforms of this system were less reform and more like abandonment of these rules, and we didn't really replace them with alternative rules to govern intimate relationships. So we're operating largely by a set of ad-hoc impressions -- kind of an unregulated marketplace, where all possible bargains are possible, based merely on the parties inclinations and state of mind.

    25. Re: As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      How do I empathise with people who, according to you, want the exact opposite of what I would want in their place?

      I'm not sure where that came from, I don't think that was what I was saying.

      Really, if a proportion claims to having unwanted sexual advances then who are you to tell them that that's absurd? If it's unwanted then it's been delivered badly, and the person making the advance has made a miscalculation. And that, in a work environment where you are stuck together, and often there is a power dynamic around your job, can be a pretty bad thing.

    26. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "women just need to be more vocal in stating their unambiguous INTEREST in intimacy."

      There - fixed that for ya...

      But women are gutless cowards who would literally rather be killed by a man than actually approach a man they actually want...

    27. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 1

      In other words, you should wait for that person to signal that they are open to advances, e.g. by attending a social event.

      There's two problems here. Signalling is ambiguous and women generally have an incentive for ambiguous signalling because it provides information asymmetry and an enhanced bargaining position.

      As a society, we have far fewer formal social events whose structure is intentionally structured to foster personal relationships -- the few we have left are either mass events, where interpersonal socializing is difficult, or they are structured around alcohol consumption, which has a lot of negative side effects.

      Further, most work places are highly gender integrated. We're exposed to members of the opposite sex in a very social environment. Even if better judgement suggests its a bad idea, it's totally unrealistic to expect that intimate relationships won't result from this situation. How many people do you know that met their spouses at work? Even the military, with its strict discipline and rigid rules, has difficulty managing intimate relationships among its members.

      I'm not advocating that there should be no rules, either, there should be, but a big goal should be increasing information transparency and reducing ambiguous bargaining. It's difficult to enforce rules of conduct without clear and direct communication rules.

    28. Re:As if it's a bad thing by computational+super · · Score: 1

      Because you're a man and don't have to deal with it every single day

      But because he's a man, he does have to deal with wondering every day if he'll lose his job because he said "good morning" to somebody who didn't want to be spoken to - somehow that's more reasonable?

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    29. Re: As if it's a bad thing by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      Really, if a proportion claims to having unwanted sexual advances then who are you to tell them that that's absurd?

      A rational human being?

      I get a lot of unwanted advertisements, but sometimes I get advertisements I like which help me purchase something I want. You can't really have one without the other. Same goes for "advances". You can't have wanted advances without also having unwanted ones. That's going to continue being true until such a time as all humans develop the ability to read minds.

    30. Re:As if it's a bad thing by dskoll · · Score: 1

      Right. Because "no means no" is universally accepted. *rolls eyes*

      Most men do in fact accept that "no means no" and are decent people. I don't blame them for trying to date women they meet at conferences or workplaces or wherever (so long as there's no power imbalance like a boss/employee.) That's normal and fine. However, enough men are assholes that pretty much every woman has encountered at least a few for who "no means yes". It's this small percentage that spoil it for everyone.

    31. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      Because you're a man and don't have to deal with it every single day

      But because he's a man, he does have to deal with wondering every day if he'll lose his job because he said "good morning" to somebody who didn't want to be spoken to - somehow that's more reasonable?

      Don't be absurd. Nobody gets treated like that. You're just manufacturing straw men. Oh god I'm such a vicimised man! Oh woe is me! It's pathetic.

    32. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But here is the thing, how is one to know that they are being unpleasant in advance?

      After all, you miss every chance you don't take, so can you really fault people for taking a chance?

      Its one thing if they persist after it has been made clear, but it is another thing when people get offended for being complimented on their looks.

    33. Re:As if it's a bad thing by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Signalling is ambiguous

      It really isn't. The environment is a pretty big hint - being at work is a pretty obvious signal that you should not make advances, for example. If that person decides to put themselves in a social situation, a party or a bar or hanging out with friends then it's a signal that they want to be sociable.

      Your whole premise is flawed anyway. It's not "bargaining" at all, there is no winner or loser in the deal. It's mutual consent to both get what you want. There is no degree of getting what you want, it's all or nothing for both of you. If you have to negotiate how far you get to go, you are doing it wrong. You are supposed to make the other person want the same thing through self-improvement.

      Even if better judgement suggests its a bad idea, it's totally unrealistic to expect that intimate relationships won't result from this situation.

      Agreed, but even in workplace there are always opportunities to be social. Friends go out for a meal after work, or talk on social media, that sort of thing. It's actually a really helpful arrangement, because you can just stick to being friendly in the office and if that person declines you invitations to meet outside it then you have a strong and clear signal. If they accept but then later decide to discontinue, they can simply refuse further invitations.

      See how easy this is? It's not mysterious or difficult or confusing at all.

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    34. Re:As if it's a bad thing by computational+super · · Score: 1

      You REALLY don't see the irony in responding to me that way?

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    35. Re: As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      Really, if a proportion claims to having unwanted sexual advances then who are you to tell them that that's absurd?

      A rational human being?

      A human being who knows absolutely nothing about the situations, people, how aggressive or inappropriate the actions were, yet still chooses to dismiss them. That thinks that his worldview overrides other people's personal experiences.

      FTFY

    36. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      I'm *extremely* myopic from my high horse!

    37. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 1

      However, enough men are assholes that pretty much every woman has encountered at least a few for who "no means yes". It's this small percentage that spoil it for everyone.

      I think that's a two way street. Most women who say no mean no, but enough women say "no" but mean something else (cue the ambiguous signaling) that it only compounds the ambiguous signaling problem and devalues the "no" response.

      I have always walked away when told no. And by walked away, I mean literally -- gotten up and left.

      "What, you're just leaving?"

      "You just said you don't want physical intimacy. That's what I want, and I don't want to stay with you if we won't be physically intimate."

      Sometimes they are hostile, I believe angry because they attempted a manipulation which failed and their anger is an attempt to cover this up. I'm never sure about the sadness or crying response, whether it is genuine or manipulative. But what's most interesting is the re-negotiation response. When confronted with a total loss of any bargain, it's amazing how many women are willing to change their terms.

    38. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 2

      Your whole premise is flawed anyway. It's not "bargaining" at all, there is no winner or loser in the deal. It's mutual consent to both get what you want. There is no degree of getting what you want, it's all or nothing for both of you. If you have to negotiate how far you get to go, you are doing it wrong.

      It is absolutely bargaining -- a mutual consent agreement between two or more parties as to what each party will do for the other.

      You are delusional if you think men and women have completely identical interests in a relationship. They may agree in general terms on their interests, but they will assign different preferences for those interests in addition to having at least some interests which the other does not share.

    39. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd say that the current sensibilities, moving towards "all men are creeps" and "complimenting a women = here's your restraining order, you sexist pig" does not contribute to the issue, either.

    40. Re:As if it's a bad thing by AmiMoJo · · Score: 0

      They may agree in general terms on their interests, but they will assign different preferences for those interests in addition to having at least some interests which the other does not share.

      Sure, but that is way down the line. We are talking about sexual harassment, which is generally when two people don't yet have a relationship and one wishes to start one in an inappropriate manner. I've never actually had someone ask about my financial status or run a background check before agreeing to meet socially or friending me on social media.

      The "bargaining" you describe is just getting to know someone socially.

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    41. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and if that animus becomes too strong then your next move, asking her out, is sexual harassment under the current accepted definition.

      I thought the definition of sexual harassment was making an advance or lewd comment/action by someone a woman doesn't want doing so.

      ie, it doesn't matter how fast or slow you move if you're unattractive.

      That's been my experience, anyways.

    42. Re:As if it's a bad thing by computational+super · · Score: 1

      Ah, sorry, didn't pick up on the sarcasm the first time around.

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    43. Re:As if it's a bad thing by jareth-0205 · · Score: 1

      Ah, sorry, didn't pick up on the sarcasm the first time around.

      Is ok, there was no sarcasm to pick up on. I may have had a bit too much coffee and /. this afternoon

    44. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >or in the workplace, or just walking down the street...

      Steve Jobs wouldn't have met his wife if he followed your rules of appropriateness. Neither would I have, for that matter.

    45. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Clearly you have the advantage of being neurotypical. A lot of people in IT can not read body language well, don't pick up on non-verbal or even verbal cues and really don't know how the fuck you interpret someone else's feelings without asking them.

      At which point they get slammed for making an unwanted advance.

      Fuck you and your lovey feely bullshit. Society dictates that men must make the first move so women can fucking well cope with some men not being very good at it.

    46. Re:As if it's a bad thing by dskoll · · Score: 1

      enough women say "no" but mean something else

      I think that's a myth. And if a woman does do that, you leave and no harm is done. Interpreting a "yes" as a "no" is far less harmful than interpreting a "no" as a "yes".

      And sure, some women are assholes. You need to run away from those crazy manipulative people. But this kind of assholery is not even in the same league as sexual assault or not accepting "no" for an answer.

    47. Re: As if it's a bad thing by dskoll · · Score: 1

      I would absolutely love it if more women were open and forthcoming about their interest in me, rather than waiting for me to make the first move

      I agree with this. The problem is that, especially for young women, there's still a stigma attached to this. Men's interest in sex is seen as completely normal, while women who show a healthy interest in sex are stigmatized. The double-standard is there.

      I used to be on a dating site. I received many messages from guys, sometimes dozens of guys per week. Most were nice, but I just didn't have the time to respond to them all. If I messaged a guy first, he automatically assumed I was super into him and was ready to head to bed, when all I wanted was to start the conversation going. So there is this assumption that women who make the first move are ready for casual sex right away.

    48. Re: As if it's a bad thing by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      A human being who knows absolutely nothing about the situations, people, how aggressive or inappropriate the actions were, yet still chooses to dismiss them.

      We're talking generalities, not specific instances. No, I don't need to know every specific situation, person, etc. involved, in order to make a general statement. What you're doing here is the equivalent of arguing that I can't know if global warming is real because I don't know the exact temperature in every part of the world.

      That thinks that his worldview overrides other people's personal experiences.

      Well, yes, absolutely. There's this pernicious idea that "personal experiences" can't be questioned, let alone dismissed. I'm sorry to shake up your world, but that's clearly bullshit. This kind of postmodernist my-perceptions-are-everything-because-there's-no-objective-truth kind of philosophy might fly in the art community, but it's the height of absurdity when applied to reality. No, your perceptions of an experience are not the gold standard for what we consider real. Yes, other people can and will question and dismiss your experiences when they fly in the face of evidence or common sense. If you tell me that you were abducted by aliens I may agree that you experienced something, and I may agree that it had a negative impact on your life, but I certainly don't have to agree that your interpretation of it is what actually happened, let alone that your interpretation was a reasonable one.

    49. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      I tend to think that we need to act better than our base desires though...

      If you mean acting as more than unthinking animals, we already do. If you mean more than that, you're just really saying acting in a you-approved way.

    50. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      That's not hard to imagine, plenty of women do want attention from tall rich guys, and are waiting for them to make the first move. How are you going to tell the difference ?

      If you can't answer that question then the answer is that you shouldn't be making any advances whatsoever. There is a time and a place for such things and if you really can't tell when is appropriate and when isn't then you badly need it figure it out.

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    51. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      or too nice,
      lol, nice!

      Nice is the minimum standard, bro. You don't get a trophy for meeting the minimum standard, you don't get sent off the pitch, that's all.

      Unless of course by "nice" you mean hanging round doing her favours, pretending to be her friend while trying to get a shag. That's not actually nice, it's deceptive and unpleasant.

      they'll run off with the other guy.

      Or you know, maybe it's that you don't seem to respect their agency, or perhaps the "other guy" has something to offer that you don't. Like, e.g. being more than merely "nice".

      http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-...

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    52. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      You are delusional if you think men and women have completely identical interests in a relationship. They may agree in general terms on their interests, but they will assign different preferences for those interests in addition to having at least some interests which the other does not share.

      You know a great way of not getting dates? Treat the feemales like a uniform whole, rather than dealing with the individuals as individuals. Works every time!

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    53. Re: As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      A rational human being?

      Ah yes, the old "it's irrational for you to be creeped out by me therefore you should date me" gambit. Tell my, my man, just how is that working out for you?

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    54. Re: As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Well, yes, absolutely. There's this pernicious idea that "personal experiences" can't be questioned, let alone dismissed. I'm sorry to shake up your world, but that's clearly bullshit.

      You are basically arguing that women don't have the right to not want sexual advances at inappropriate places (what this thread is ultimately about).

      Why do you think your feelings of wanting to make an advance (what you are really arguing for) are more important than someone else's feelings for not wanting you to?

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    55. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      But because he's a man, he does have to deal with wondering every day if he'll lose his job because he said "good morning" to somebody who didn't want to be spoken to - somehow that's more reasonable?

      Well, that's a thing that never happened to anyone ever. So why worry about it? It's literally less likely than getting struck y lightning twice.

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    56. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Clearly you have the advantage of being neurotypical. A lot of people in IT can not read body language well, don't pick up on non-verbal or even verbal cues and really don't know how the fuck you interpret someone else's feelings without asking them.

      At which point they get slammed for making an unwanted advance.

      You know, I've known a few neuro atypical people. None of them used the excuse "I can't read body language so fuck you if I hurt your feelings" because none of them were arseholes.

      Fuck you and your lovey feely bullshit. Society dictates that men must make the first move so women can fucking well cope with some men not being very good at it.

      So because some people over there [points] say some crap then that woman over there [points somewhere else] has to deal with your crap simply becaue she's female and some people that neither of you know personally spouted a bunch of bullshit?

      Righty-ho.

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    57. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It also suffers from what I would call a bargaining imbalance. Usually in a negotiation,

      Generally deciding to date/shag/whatever someone isn't really a negotiation. A negotiation implies some back and forth and compromise etc. That's not normally how these things work. In addition, both parties kinda want the same thing in general terms; it's not like where one party is selling something for negotiable assets or something. At least I assume you're not talking about prostitution.

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    58. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      women are attracted by them because they want their genes for their sons.

      Or, possibly women are attracted to them because they are confident and do stuff, rather than moping around about how unfair it is and how it's all women's fault anyway.

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    59. Re:As if it's a bad thing by russotto · · Score: 1

      Of course it's a negotiation. Think telecom protocol negotiation, not haggling.

    60. Re:As if it's a bad thing by sydneyfong · · Score: 1

      These days I'm mostly comfortable in reading reactions from people of the opposite sex, but back when I was in my late teens and early twenties, it would be really difficult to avoid misinterpreting the situation occasionally.

      It's a sad fact of life where there's always some tension between people of the opposite sex, but you make it sound as if it were so easy to navigate the situation. It really isn't, especially for those who generally have much less successful experience (you really need to have two control groups before you can tell the difference between them).

      [offtopic]
      That being said, I wonder whether it's really a good idea to blame it all on the "sex" part of "sexual harassment". I mean, as a straight male I'd probably feel uncomfortable around creepy people badgering me for whatever reason even if they probably don't have any sexual interest in me..... It's the "harassment" part that needs to be dealt with, IMHO.
      [/offtopic]

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    61. Re:As if it's a bad thing by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Yeah but they still makes no sense: there's not information asymmetry and bargaining in protocol negation.

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    62. Re:As if it's a bad thing by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      You do get that "unsolicited" in this context usually means "inappropriate and/or coming after a previous advance was spurned" right?

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    63. Re:As if it's a bad thing by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Yeah, you're completely ignoring the fact that men are overwhelmingly the initiators of violence against women, and often initiate such violence because their egos got dinged.

      When a guy turns down an advance from a woman, he's probably not thinking "oh shit, I hope she doesn't physically attack me for saying no" but I guarantee you that most any woman is thinking that.

      When I say "no" I do it in a polite way that is intended to minimize harm to the existing relationship (if there i one) and to minimize the potential for a guy to react violently to being rejected. I *should* just be able to say "no, sorry, not interested" and that would be that. Unfortunately, when I do say something like that, usually the response is anger, insults, and in a couple of cases, threats of violence. When it isn't hostile, it's often wheedling - as you say, negotiation, but the fact is, I was unambiguous, and they're just hoping I can be persuaded.

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    64. Re:As if it's a bad thing by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Yeah, there's a difference between "moving slowly" and being a creeper.

      Creepers are - wait for it - creepy. They behave creepily. Hanging around for no reason at all and being creepy is being a creeper. Taking the time to get to know someone in appropriate ways when you work with them is not being creepy in and of itself.

      That you seem to struggle with this concept indicates to me that you probably - unintentionally, I'm sure - come off as creepy. People who don't "get" social interaction protocols usually do come off as creepy; usually it indicates they were poorly socialized or have something else going on that prevents them from grasping the basics of social interaction.

      To your point of Bob and Yan, you do know that some people - shocker! - like to get to know someone a little bit better before they are interested in going on a date with them, right? In fact, I've even been in a long term relationship with someone who, had they asked me out on day one, I would have given a hard no to (and probably vice versa).

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    65. Re:As if it's a bad thing by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      It's not so much that it's a "profoundly important" event but rather that doing so can have an impact on the working relationship - and the context here is work/projects together, so that's relevant.

      I work and have worked with mostly guys throughout my career. I have been asked out by guys I've worked with maybe a dozen time over the course of my career, while I was working with them. In 4-5 cases I've been asked out by guys I had worked with, but after I stopped working with them.

      In the case of being asked out by someone I was working with AT THE TIME they asked, yes, it had an impact because I was put into the position of rejecting an advance from someone that I had to continue working with.

      When I was early in my career, the men who asked me out were younger and as a consequence handled rejection less well than they might have if they were older - when I say "less well" I mean gossiping about me, trash talking me to other people, and in one case, trying to get me fired because he couldn't handle being in the same room with me.

      Later in my career, when I was asked out, even if the men wouldn't have reacted badly to rejection, I tended to take it as significant because of my previous experiences when I had said no. At best it merely stressed me out - was this going to be a guy who acted out when rejected? At worst it got me to seriously consider leaving the company because the person who asked me out was wildly inappropriate (senior to me, worked directly with me) and I felt that my long-term viability at the organization would be threatened by saying no (and I still said no.)

      The men who asked me out when I no longer worked with them? It wasn't a profoundly important event at all when they did. In a couple of cases I said yes, but in no way did I feel like "oh shit, my job is now in danger" if they reacted poorly to a rejection.

      Also, on the notion of "moving slowly" - again, the context here is work/projects. This isn't a bar where people are going to be social; getting to know someone before asking them out makes sense in a work place. In fact, I would say that "someone not understanding that a work place is different than a bar" is probably one of the top reasons to reject someone out of hand.

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    66. Re:As if it's a bad thing by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Actually, it is a problem for men. They typically have to face more rejection, and I'd suspect that the number of socially inept males that don't know how to initiate a possible romantic relationship is higher than the number of females in the same situation.

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    67. Re:As if it's a bad thing by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      But on Github, or in the workplace, or just walking down the street...

      I spend about a quarter of my time at work, and many men work more hours than that. I meet women I like a lot there, even in a male-dominated area. If I weren't already married, I'd be interested in some of them as romantic partners.

      Also, as an ASD geek, I find small talk unnatural, and I have an easier time getting to know people in a somewhat task-oriented environment (like the one I met my wife in). I have trouble reading subtle cues.

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    68. Re:As if it's a bad thing by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      What GP said really had nothing to do with male vs. female. Any two people will have different interests in a relationship. Part of making marriage work is making sure your spouse gets enough of what he or she wants, and this will vary depending on a lot of things.

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    69. Re: As if it's a bad thing by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Look. Some people have a deft touch with others. I don't. I get along fine anyway, since I do know etiquette well and am generally a good guy. However, if I want to approach someone socially there is a significant chance that I'll miscalculate and deliver my message badly, and I haven't found a way to get around that. I found this really frustrating when I was younger.

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    70. Re:As if it's a bad thing by swb · · Score: 1

      When it isn't hostile, it's often wheedling - as you say, negotiation, but the fact is, I was unambiguous, and they're just hoping I can be persuaded.

      Why is there so much bargaining when you give an unambiguous "no" response?

      I would also argue that men engage in bargaining because it works sometimes (the value of intermittent reinforcement), and it works sometimes because some percentage of the time no DOES become yes.

      You can argue that the majority of those nos-that-becomes-yeses happen because men are violent and the women are in fear of their lives, but I don't think that painting all men with that brush is accurate. Some percentage, yes, but not all.

      The others have to be covered by the idea that "no" wasn't really firm, and that the no was a kind of negotiating tactic to get more of whatever they wanted out of the guy. My instinct is that most of the time they want some kind of emotional reassurance, but there is probably a fair amount of women who like the ego gratification of seeing how much the guy "really" wants her.

    71. Re:As if it's a bad thing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In a bar!? So you're saying, if you don't like bars or are simply past the age where going to a bar is a thing, then that's it ?
      Opportunity is where opportunity is.

  16. Claims and facts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Let's stick to the facts, eh ?:

    Women are six times more likely to CLAIM THEY encountered stereotyping than men, and twice as likely to be CLAIM they were subjected to unsolicited sexual advances.

    1. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 0, Troll

      The fact that you are calling women developers, as a group, liars is exactly the problem. This is a fact.

    2. Re:Claims and facts by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      The fact that you are calling women developers, as a group, liars is exactly the problem. This is a fact.

      He didn't call them liars. He said they claimed something, which is true.

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    3. Re:Claims and facts by Stormwatch · · Score: 1

      Maybe it's the other way around - men just underreport any such issues.

    4. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Could be. But the fact that the FIRST assumption is that women are lying is the problem. To say, "maybe self-reported surveys are not great, we should try to find a different metric to measure this" is vastly different from what the OP said.

    5. Re:Claims and facts by Greystripe · · Score: 1

      Or, and I know this is crazy but, men who are surrounded by men (95% male) are rarely hit upon by men.

    6. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 0

      It's called subtext bro, maybe you have heard of it?

    7. Re:Claims and facts by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      It's called subtext bro, maybe you have heard of it?

      It's called intellectual dishonesty, and you're exhibiting it - a claim of something is very different to an established fact. Women _claiming_ that they encounter something more than men _claiming_ that they encounter the same thing does not mean that women encounter that thing more than men do.

      The minute you use subjective beliefs and feelings to produce a conclusion other than "this is what the subjects felt" is the minute you stop doing science. The subjects _FELT_ unwelcome: this does not mean that they were not welcome.

      Sometimes I wish that the anti-science hard-left flat-earthers would find somewhere else to go virtue-signal.

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    8. Re:Claims and facts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thank you for your help in the neverending battle to try and get facts into discussions with feminazis; deliberately misunderstanding the people trying to turn their nonsense into facts - as here - is just one of their rhetorical weapons.

      We can never win though - misleading stats and vague personal anecdotes always trump actual evidence in their tiny, bitter brains.

      And then these nasty people use this nonsense TO MAKE LAWS :'-(

    9. Re:Claims and facts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No one is ASSUMING anything.

      We are simply turning an untrue statement, unsupported by ANY evidence here: "Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men"

      Into a statement vaguely supported by this misleading, unrepresentative survey: "Women are six times more likely to CLAIM THEY encountered stereotyping than men"

      FFS.

      But that is, of course, before we even get to questioning the numbers and the relative likelihood of sexual harassment of males in an all-male environment.

      Casting Facts before Feminazis, is casting Pearls before Swine.

    10. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Casting Facts before Feminazis, is casting Pearls before Swine.

      Yeah bro you are being totally fair and unbiased here. A veritable giant of logical deduction.

    11. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      You are talking yourself in circles. How do we know if people are welcome somewhere? It is by definition a nebulous concept that has everything to do with how the person being judged FEELS. You cannot have a completely objective measure of it. It is still valid to do scientific studies of subjective matters, it is called social science.

    12. Re:Claims and facts by Rockoon · · Score: 1

      The GP on the other hand is definitely a liar.

      --
      "His name was James Damore."
    13. Re:Claims and facts by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      You are talking yourself in circles. How do we know if people are welcome somewhere? It is by definition a nebulous concept that has everything to do with how the person being judged FEELS. You cannot have a completely objective measure of it.

      Yeah. That's what I said. It's subjective.

      It is still valid to do scientific studies of subjective matters,

      Yes, you can, but you cannot conclude "this is how they they were treated" when all you can determine is "this is how they felt they were treated". The minute you start using subjective "feels" as facts you are not doing science. You are doing something else entirely.

      it is called social science.

      Yeah... us real scientists (PhD holders - quite a few on /.) usually use those two words to refer to quackary.

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    14. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Dude I have a PhD in computer science, not that it matters at all to this conversation. Open minded people can appreciate research looks different from theirs.

    15. Re:Claims and facts by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      But the fact that the FIRST assumption is that women are lying is the problem.

      He didn't make that assumption, he simply pointed out correctly that self-reported claims are not the same as facts. You then accused him of accusing women of lying. You are the dishonest prick, not him.

    16. Re:Claims and facts by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Dude I have a PhD in computer science, not that it matters at all to this conversation. Open minded people can appreciate research looks different from theirs.

      I looked at the majority of women's studies research. Their data never supports their conclusions. For example, "women felt unwelcome" does not support the conclusion "women are unwelcome".

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    17. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      You and I both know what he was implying, or you don't understand subtext.

    18. Re:Claims and facts by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      The issue isn't whether he was implying that the respondents lied or not. The issue is that you keep conflating a self-selected, self-reported group of respondents on a GitHub survey with "women developers" or "women" in general.

      I can't tell whether you are simply too stupid to understand the difference or whether you are deliberately lying, and I don't care: either way, you are a jerk.

    19. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      There is no such thing as an objective measure of how welcome someone is. "Feels welcome" is the closest you can get.

    20. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Yes it is me that is the jerk. Not the person that called me a prick with no provocation. Take some time to reflect on that.

    21. Re:Claims and facts by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      There is no such thing as an objective measure of how welcome someone is. "Feels welcome" is the closest you can get.

      If that's the case, why should one person's "feels" trump someone else's "feels"? Hmm?

      You see, that's the core problem with using subjective "feels" to reach the conclusion that you did: why should one person's "I feel unwelcome" trump the other person's "I feel that they were welcome"?

      Besides, you kicked off this thread by disputing that women simply claimed to feel unwelcome - you said that they were unwelcome. If there is no objective way to determine whether or not they are welcome somewhere, all we can do is say that they claim to be unwelcome.

      IOW, your original contention is in fact incorrect.

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    22. Re:Claims and facts by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      Not the person that called me a prick with no provocation.

      Oh, you fully deserved being called a "prick" for your statement.

    23. Re:Claims and facts by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Yeah and it doesn't bother me but it clearly makes you the jerk lol have a good day buddy.

    24. Re:Claims and facts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly, men deal with shit every day too, they just suck it up and continue getting shit done.

    25. Re:Claims and facts by Cederic · · Score: 1

      We all know exactly what he actually said. You're the one claiming he had a subtext.

      Others have highlighted a number of possible interpretations for the reported perceptions. So far you're the only person to posit that the women are lying.

      Think on that for a bit.

    26. Re:Claims and facts by Cederic · · Score: 1

      I'm not surrounded by men and I've been hit upon by men. I've had women make unwanted propositions to me too.

      I've also made approaches to women that have resulted in rejection, so I've caused them to incur unwanted propositions.

      What, you want everybody to stop trying to fuck each other? I mean, I support the end of humanity that this would cause, but I think I'm in a minority here.

    27. Re:Claims and facts by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Subtext is typically projection, bro.

    28. Re:Claims and facts by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      You have a set of people's perceptions about how welcome they feel. From that you can gather no factual conclusions other than percentages of those who felt thus and such.

      Social science is more than a matter of "looks". It is a changing of the fundamental aspect of science, dealing with facts.

    29. Re:Claims and facts by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      You sir, cannot read minds. That first part is a tired, old canard from long before you were born - bullshit line then and remains so. The second is you presenting yourself as some sort of judge over two people at once.

    30. Re:Claims and facts by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      I looked at the majority of women's studies research.

      No you didn't.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    31. Re:Claims and facts by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      You see, that's the core problem with using subjective "feels" to reach the conclusion that you did: why should one person's "I feel unwelcome" trump the other person's "I feel that they were welcome"?

      One person is reporting how she feels. The other is reporting how she feels someone else should feel, or how they wanted someone else to feel, or what she was trying to get across to someone else. This really isn't difficult.

      There is a difference between feeling unwelcome and being unwelcome, but in this case we're talking about someone in a situation who will make the choice whether to leave or remain, and in that case how that person feels is more important.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
    32. Re:Claims and facts by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Self-reported claims are facts. You ask people things, you write down your protocol and the answers, and you've got objective facts you can do science with. The self-reporting may be bad, in which case you need to improve your protocol, and the claims may be false, but people do science with potentially faulty instruments all the time.

      Lots of diagnoses, particularly psychological, are based on self-reported claims. Most diagnostic processes start with the self-reported claims. They're good enough for practical use.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
    33. Re:Claims and facts by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      The self-reporting may be bad, in which case you need to improve your protocol,

      And that's the case here: the protocol is bad, hence you can draw no sound conclusions from the data.

      Lots of diagnoses, particularly psychological, are based on self-reported claims.

      Yet, a psychologist saying "almost all Americans have psychological problems, based on the sample that I see in my practice" would be idiotic.

    34. Re:Claims and facts by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Yet, a psychologist saying "almost all Americans have psychological problems, based on the sample that I see in my practice" would be idiotic.

      Why do you think that a selection bias, which you can get in any area of science, has anything to do with social sciences and basing science on self-reporting?

      If I go to my doctor with a complaint that might be urological, he will hit me lightly on my kidneys and ask if that hurt. Self-reporting, and he'll use that in his diagnosis. If I complain about something that might be depression, I'll get a sheet of things to self-report on, and my doctor will go from there.

      --
      "When you have eliminated the unacceptable, whatever is left, however improbable, must be the truthiness" - Holmes
  17. Wow by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women programmers make a lot of sexual advancements.

  18. Unsolicited sexual advance is the reason I am aliv by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women don't like to do software. They are not really good at software and they always require special treatment. They dont handle conflict well too.
    They make sallaries go down.

  19. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    duh! everyone knows 100% is stereotyping, not 15%!

  20. OK, what's the problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The geek male has to put up with much stronger stereotyping and has had to for decades, generations. And geeks even stereotype each other. So what's the problem with the 3% that happen to be women being under the same yoke?

    The geek coder has to put up with rhetoric and attitudes that make them feel uncomfortable. But the male geeks haven't got anywhere else to go and have to just suck on it and knuckle down.

    And if, for sake of argument, we take homosexuality as 20% of the geek group, twice that of the rest of the population, therefore most likely to not want to hit on women if they're male, and that none of the women are lesbian, that makes 67 to 3 the rate at which males are represented in the geek community, therefore each woman would get 22 times as much sexual advance as if they were in a natural gender split of 50:50. If they're only seeing twice as much, that makes the geek male 9% as likely to approach a woman for sexual advances as the general public. 11 times less creepy than the average.

    So where is the problem?

    1. Re:OK, what's the problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you talking about? Every TV show, movie, etc... has always depicted the geek male as the ideal male for any woman seeking a mate. Don't even pretend that growing up as a nerd didn't make you the envy of your peers!

    2. Re:OK, what's the problem? by thebullshitpatrol · · Score: 1

      Precisely the argument I always make. I have less than zero sympathy for women in this particular case.

      If you actually fucking do nothing but think about computers, you will find a way to involve yourself with them. Women are in a unique position in that they can be terrible at software and still find great jobs. Scarcity and bullshit arguments like "more diverse companies are more successful" (correlation/causation) work that way. Do women think that men who work in a literal cockfest for some mysterious reason DONT want more women working with them? Do what all of the rest of us do: forego all social stigma, sit in front of computers for unhealthy amounts of hours, and get good at it. There is no conspiracy.

      Can I start a social movement for socially retarded and borderline autistic software developers that want Makefiles IRL?

  21. Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 4, Insightful

    This may seem a bit sexist, but still...

    Nobody on the internet knows you have a penis. Nobody knows you have a vagina. You only reveal that when you blab about it.

    Pretty much all FOSS work is done in such impersonal settings, over the internet. Unless the developer uses an alias that is super female sounding, like "KittenLove_xoxo" or something, there is nothing to suggest that she does not have a penis. If she can roll with that, and can work in a male dominated environment, there is nothing to prevent her from being just as successful in the group as any other member, assuming her code quality is good.

    Nobody sees your tits through IRC, Email, or the like. You might get outed by teamspeak or something, but impersonal digital communications that are the norm for programmer communication? Not so much.

    Even if you need to use a real name when doing development work, you dont need to say your name is "Tiffany McCoder", you can use "T. McCoder" instead. Nobody knows if that is "Tim McCoder", or "Tyrone McCoder" or "Tristan McCoder".... or any other name starting with T. There is no reason to out yourself and get the flood of "OMG! A WOMAN! UNPOSSIBLE!" that is sure to happen.

    Why is it better not to out yourself? Is it because I think you should just buck it up and accept abuse? NO-- it is because I think you should not set yourself up for abuse. If you happen to be a very rare magical unicorn, outing yourself in front of a bunch of naturalists is a good way to get collected as a type specimen. (note, that means you get killed, and collected for science. Probably something you dont want.) Similar things will happen if you out yourself as a woman in a very male dominated profession, because you are so damned rare. Now, if more women did this, and did it stealthfully, and ended up becoming a more normal demographic, the "Magical unicorn! WOW! AMAZING!!" thing would not happen, and it would be safe to say, "Yes, I am a female developer."

    That is to say, if magical unicorns were as common as grasshoppers or normal horses, scientists would not really be all that excited about them, and showing off your magical rainbow unicorn farts in public would not be an issue. Nobody would care, nobody would notice, because rainbow unicorn farts would be everywhere. It is only when magical unicorns are rare that the "OMG! ITS REAL!!" phenomenon happens.

    Female developers are rare. Outing yourself as one will cause you only misfortune in this environment. It has nothing to do with sexism. It has everything to do with novelty and rarity. Avoid the temptation to out yourself. Just be another programmer. Make it or break it on the quality of your code. That's all you need to do.

    1. Re:Hmm... by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      I don't know if it is that easy to not "out yourself" any more. Many open source projects require that you sign Contributor License Agreements, with your real name. I don't know if there are any statistics on this but most high profile projects also use real, full names in their mailing list discussions fairly exclusively. Even if it would be allowed to use a pseudonym, that would instantly make you an outsider compared the rest of the group and would probably come with its own set of biases.

    2. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      Like I said-- T. McCoder vs Tiffany McCoder.

      The former is still accurate, but does not out your gender.

    3. Re:Hmm... by locofungus · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Lets just see:

      Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik
      This math is brought to you by a female developer ftom facebook who doesn't understand why her code is oftenough rejected.

      So the summary has the wrong numbers in it. But, what the hell, blame a female developer who, apparently can't code.

      Meant in jest (maybe)
      Fucking bitches!

      Yup. Sure to make this into a welcoming site.

      As if it's a bad thing

      and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent).

      FFS just get over it. Men are expected to initiate relationships. It's called life. It's not a problem. If you don't like it you might as well kill yourself now.

      Tough titties girls. It's our right to treat you how we want to and you've just got to suck up and accept it.

      Unsolicited sexual advance is the reason I am aliv
      Women don't like to do software. They are not really good at software and they always require special treatment. They dont handle conflict well too.
      They make sallaries go down.

      Yup. Really going to make women and their efforts feel appreciated.

      That's more than 10% of the posts at the time of writing and there are several more along the lines of "tough shit" or "it's your fault for being a woman".

      --
      God said, "div D = rho, div B = 0, curl E = -@B/@t, curl H = J + @D/@t," and there was light.
    4. Re:Hmm... by cryptizard · · Score: 1

      Good luck signing a legal document with your first initial.

    5. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 2

      Most of them are anonymous coward internet trolls too. I think it is better to classify them as such (trolls), rather than as valid respondents.

      That's like trying to use Youtube Comments as a statistical demographic for anything other than research on troll populations.

    6. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      You can sign a legal document as "Mickey Mouse" if you want.

      Also, Legal aliases are a thing. People who work at / own collections agencies use them all the time.

    7. Re:Hmm... by locofungus · · Score: 1, Insightful

      But that's my point.

      At the time I wrote the above there were 35 posts. Based on the numbers in the survey, one of them would have been from a woman. But 10% of them were openly derogatory to women, another 10% of the "it's your own fault"

      It it any wonder if that lone woman decides to give up and go somewhere else.

      --
      God said, "div D = rho, div B = 0, curl E = -@B/@t, curl H = J + @D/@t," and there was light.
    8. Re:Hmm... by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      But that's my point.

      At the time I wrote the above there were 35 posts. Based on the numbers in the survey, one of them would have been from a woman. But 10% of them were openly derogatory to women, another 10% of the "it's your own fault"

      What are you complaining about? The numbers are too low? The numbers you posted[1] seem better than most stories about, well, anything. On other topics you get a much worse signal:noise ratio.

      It it any wonder if that lone woman decides to give up and go somewhere else.

      If random insults from ACs are enough to make women go elsewhere, then twitter, youtube, tumbler, etc will have much fewer numbers of women than they do now.

      [1] I have no idea if your numbers are real or not - my quick scan of this page estimates two comments openly derogatory to women and none of the "it's your own fault" comments.

      --
      I'm a minority race. Save your vitriol for white people.
    9. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Make it or break it on the quality of your code.

      There is a hell of a lot more to an engineering career than writing quality code. This is perilous advice.

    10. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      You are confused AC.

      The topic specifically says "Devs", as in, "Software Developers".

      The single defining characteristic thereof, is somebody who writes software. The primary feature of your value is how well you understand, and can write quality code.

      Engineering most certainly DOES involve much more than just code, but we are not talking about engineering. Engineers, while notoriously introverted, often work in personal "face to face" environments. Software developers often do not. They often interact exclusively through IRC, email mailing lists, and instant messages. The quality of their code is what they show to each other, along with their knowledge base. Having good standing in both of those is what makes you a good programmer.

    11. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why is it better not to out yourself? Is it because I think you should just buck it up and accept abuse? NO-- it is because I think you should not set yourself up for abuse.

      Isn't this EXACTLY the problem? Women can't be themselves but men can. I know I would be pissed about it if I were female.

    12. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 0

      Rome was not built in a day. You can find historical precedents all over in other disciplines.

      These days there is almost no reason for an author to use a pen name. They used to be quite common. Have you ever stopped to research and understand why? Maybe you should.

    13. Re:Hmm... by KGIII · · Score: 1

      You do know that there's no shortage of software, right?

      --
      "So long and thanks for all the fish."
    14. Re:Hmm... by Gilgaron · · Score: 1

      If the root cause of the women needing to hide is due to novelty or rarity rather than, say, lecherousness, isn't it still indicative that their sex is causing a problem working within the system? That'd be sexism, then, just not necessarily rooted in a 'men are horndogs' caricature.

    15. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have female developer contribution git accounts on some projects despite not being female and I don't have a problem? Explain.

    16. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, that's a load of sexist crap. A man can be who is he because he is in the majority. A woman has to hide her light under a basket because she is a "novelty". She can't even use her full name for fear of distracting the software bros with her femaleness. As for the code quality, why are women's contributions more often rejected or criticized? That's another study that I'm sure you would like to dismiss because of the source or whatever.

    17. Re:Hmm... by dskoll · · Score: 1

      Bullshit. My name is Dianne. And if anyone is rude or sexist to me, I give them shit.

      Everyone, men and women, has to start standing up for themselves and not take crap and not hide to avoid crap.

    18. Re: Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It really disgusts me how far SJWs are willing to go in misrepresenting other people's arguments. Do you have no morals at all?

    19. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can legally sign a document with an X if that's your accepted mark. A signature is simply a mark that can be shown to uniquely show you signed it. What that mark is, is inconsequential.

    20. Re:Hmm... by Cederic · · Score: 1

      If you can't program, you're not a software engineer.

      That's ok, you can be a business analyst, a project manager, a tester, an artist, a designer.

      But you want to be a software engineer? Write quality code. Sure, do a ton of shit alongside that, including scary amounts of communication, but if you can't code, get another fucking job.

    21. Re:Hmm... by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      My first name **is** an initial. Yes, I have to explain it all the time, but after I do, there's no issue.

    22. Re:Hmm... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Nobody on the internet knows you have a penis. Nobody knows you have a vagina. You only reveal that when you blab about it.

      You are basically making the argument that there's no problem with sexism because you can pretend to be a man.

      Unless the developer uses an alias that is super female sounding, like "KittenLove_xoxo" or something

      I, like many other professionals, use my real name and real photograph on my github profile. This is a pretty reasonable thing to do. It connects with my publications under my real name, my LinkedIn profile under my real name (turning out to be less useless than it first seemed) and my jobs held under my real name. In fact, come to think of it, I don't think I've ever done a job I got from a general call to open applications ever in my life. All of them have had something to do with contacts via my professional reputation.

      You're basically saying this avenue should be closed off to women if they don't want to have a bunch of people acting like douchebags.

      Now, if more women did this, and did it stealthfully

      Oh so it's women's fault for not pretending to be men, then.

      Female developers are rare. Outing yourself as one will cause you only misfortune in this environment. It has nothing to do with sexism. It has everything to do with novelty and rarity.

      If certain kinds of dickish behaviour are aimed almost exclusively at women, then it's sexism.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    23. Re:Hmm... by n329619 · · Score: 1

      You have a good point and he/she might not have the best argument for his/her point, but the underline point he/she made is still reasonable. The underline point is "don't make yourself the center of attention when you don't want to be in the center of attention".

      Let me ask you this, what exact is the purpose of creating a username? You might say to identify yourself. What about adding a profile pic? Also to identify yourself. Now, are you sure you are putting them online just as an identity? It's very likely not, you put it there so it 'connects with my publications'.

      In short, you are unconsciously putting yourself in the position for attention, you wanted your publication to be recognized, and you want someone to see your profile pic and name. By doing so, you will attract a lot of good people and annoying people, including guys doing weird things like sexual harassment.

      If you don't want that, his/her point is to stop putting yourself in that position. It's not about you have to be like a guy, but you should do something to avoid attention. The media had implanted a lot of marketing to create unrealistic character for women and men, so here's what it really means to avoid attention and be neutral. The way you look have when you woke up in bed is you being neutral. Anything you do on top of it is increasingly grabbing attention. If you put makeups and wore a dress, you'll surely look cute, but everyone else thinks that too including annoying guys. When you're online, stating yourself as a woman is bring attention. That's because even man normally don't state that they are a man (or maybe they're boy...).

      So create your own balance to avoid attention you don't want.

    24. Re:Hmm... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      No the point is not reasonable. As a guy there is no downside to having my real identity on github and plenty of career upsides. For women if they want the career upside, they are also much more likely to get harassment than men, which is a significant penalty.

      That's bad for women and had nothing to do with merit, only genitals.

      --
      SJW n. One who posts facts.
    25. Re:Hmm... by wierd_w · · Score: 1

      And you are also being unrealistic in your expectations.

      Not reacting to novelty is not something humans in general are good at. Try to stop people from gawking at a horrible car crash or a train wreck some time.

      Rather than try to load my suggestion with a bunch of "You're clearly a closeted misogynist!" bullshit, look at it this way:

      In the 19th and early 20th centuries, female authors were often maligned, similarly to female developers today. As a result, many famous female authors used male pen-names for publishing. At the time, they were a major minority, but the ability to still get published and be successful by removing gender biases, even if non-ideal, enabled more women to enter literature as a career, and now women authors are no longer rare-- women publish under their own names, and have little to no issue.

      I am suggesting a similar natural progression here. You want instant gratification. It does not usually happen. I suggest being a bit more realistic, and finding historically workable solutions to the problem, which is what I offered.

      Instead, I get basted in a thick sauce of vitriol. Thanks for that.

    26. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is why "there are no girls on the internet" appears in the "rules of the internet".

      It has nothing to do with girls not using the internet, it has to do with equality. Women are always treated specially in society. On the internet many wanted to get rid of blatant pandering to women they see in the real world every single day, so they decided to go the path of anonymity in both identity and sex. That way everyone would be seen as equal.

    27. Re:Hmm... by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      I think you fail to understand just how much gender coded context there is even in those impersonal communications settings. People use pronouns to refer to another person quite regularly, and people grate when the wrong pronouns are used.

      You're also doing the ridiculous thing of saying "people can't behave well, but it's just too difficult to get them to stop being assholes, so even though you did nothing wrong, you've got to change yours."

      If it will only cause misfortune to come out as *gasp* female in this environment, then guess what, chuckles? The environment is FUCKED.

      --
      Since I can't tell them apart, I treat all ACs as the same person.
    28. Re:Hmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Given women in computing aren't rare or novel, merely a minority, maybe a better approach would be for women to be allowed to be themselves, and for the rest of us to ostracize those who punish them for revealing their feeeeeeeeeeeeeemaleness?

      No, just kidding, you're probably right, we should also make them wear veils and tut tut if they get attacked while wearing short skirts in public. Right?

  22. Again? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't we see pretty much this same post about every month or so?

  23. COED by shaksys · · Score: 2, Insightful

    So men are coming on to women more often then women come onto men? What a shock, something needs to be done about this.

  24. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by dcw3 · · Score: 0

    Best comeback of the week! Bravo!

    --
    Just another day in Paradise
  25. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

    Less horny young men

    So young men, and horny, but less so? ;)

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    Ezekiel 23:20
  26. Why? by dcw3 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Why does bullshit like this get published? It's a non-random survey. It provides no useful scientific evidence. It doesn't even bother to compare the numbers with other industries. But you can be damned sure people with an agenda link to it.

    --
    Just another day in Paradise
    1. Re:Why? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Maybe Github isn't that interested in comparisons, and more interested in its own site. Also, I don't think you know what "scientific evidence" means in the context of social sciences.

      --
      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    2. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What aspect of "social science" precludes the need for objective data collection? I don't think you know what scientific rigor means in the context of anything scientific.

    3. Re:Why? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Also, I don't think you know what "scientific evidence" means in the context of social sciences.

      I think this line best sums up your worldview. To be clear - if you have to do away with standards of objectivity and evidence to make your argument work, it's almost certain that your argument is broken.

      You are literally trying to twist reality to fit your delusions. The meaning of "scientific evidence" does not change just because you feels have been bruised.

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    4. Re:Why? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Social sciences are not like the hard sciences. It is very hard to reproduce results, and even very hard to make useful measurements. That's well understood and acknowledged.

      If that was the case in, say, physics, the the results would of course be considered bunk and any conclusions ignored. But it's not physics, and that's the state of the art, and despite the limitations we still get some useful data and useful knowledge out of it.

      These "soft" sciences have done a huge amount for us. We learned how to cure mental illnesses like depression. We made huge strides in tackling racism and in gender equality. People who might have died because we didn't understand the psychology and social dynamic of policing are alive because we didn't demand the same rigorous proofs as we do in hard sciences.

      Of course we should keep trying to improve the methodology, but the way people on Slashdot simply dismiss all such science is stupid. It's actually a lot like climate change denial - we don't have a second earth to reproduce results on, the predictions aren't always accurate to within some tiny margin of measurement error etc.

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    5. Re:Why? by Kielistic · · Score: 1

      Not sure if you're describing snake oil or social sciences. I hope there is at least a difference between the two of them to you.

    6. Re:Why? by dcw3 · · Score: 0

      AmiMoJo,

      I read the first sentence, and was nearly going to pipe up asking why this was marked down. But then you had to aim below the belt in the second. Just because you and I disagree on a lot of issues is no reason to be insulting.

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    7. Re:Why? by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Backwards. Social science doesn't know what scientific evidence (no scare quotes) means, rendering the field no more than the 6th dictionary entry - a particular branch of knowledge. I'd even take exception with that last word in relation to SS.

    8. Re:Why? by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      You called it "bullshit", so maybe I came back a little strong.

      That's not why it was modded down though, it's just the usual Slashdot thing of thinking all non-hard science is bunk. Read my further replies for a fuller explanation, and sorry if I misjudged your tone on this one.

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    9. Re:Why? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      It's just the usual Slashdot thing of thinking all non-hard science is bunk.

      I think one of the main things here is simple contrarianism, because people think it means they're smart. Look at how many climate change denialists, and EM drive believers there are here.

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    10. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You can also be damned sure that people with an agenda SHOUT IT DOWN.

    11. Re:Why? by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Homeopathy is not like the hard sciences. It is very hard to reproduce results, and even very hard to make useful measurements. That's well understood and acknowledged.

      If that was the case in, say, physics, the the results would of course be considered bunk and any conclusions ignored. But it's not physics, and that's the state of the art, and despite the limitations we still get some useful data and useful knowledge out of it.

      See the problem yet?

      These "soft" sciences have done a huge amount for us.

      I disagree.

      We learned how to cure mental illnesses like depression.

      First - no, we did not. Secondly - "sciences" like gender studies did not contribute to the mitigation and treatment of depression.

      We made huge strides in tackling racism and in gender equality.

      Not based on the results from gender studies.

      People who might have died because we didn't understand the psychology and social dynamic of policing are alive because we didn't demand the same rigorous proofs as we do in hard sciences.

      Not based on the results of gender studies. Psychology is a great deal more rigorous than gender studies.

      Of course we should keep trying to improve the methodology, but the way people on Slashdot simply dismiss all such science is stupid.

      It's not "people on slashdot". It's "people who require evidence that isn't made up".

      It's actually a lot like climate change denial - we don't have a second earth to reproduce results on, the predictions aren't always accurate to within some tiny margin of measurement error etc.

      It's ironic that you say that - the far-right and the far-left both decry "hard science" because it upsets their chosen wordlview. You are displaying this amply.

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    12. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes we do, it means feminist opinion. Which is the lowest standard of proof known to man. In fact it usually translates to complete falsehood.

    13. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Translation: not science at all. In fact, not even vaguely related to science.
      Take your absolute hatred for men, particularly white men, and go fuck yourself.

    14. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Psychology is a great deal more rigorous than gender studies.

      And psychology has one of the lowest standards for evidence of any science.

    15. Re:Why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Found the Scientologist.

  27. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Dog-Cow · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Who says it isn't? Remember, discriminating against (white) males is always OK.

  28. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 2

    It is, but IT people don't usually change diapers during work so it doesn't affect the workplace in question.

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  29. Perhaps.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Stop getting offended so much? "Twenty-five percent of the women surveyed report 'encountering language or content that makes them feel unwelcome' stood out as I game with many women and instead of running off or throwing a fit, they either ignore it or.... join in.

    There may be a larger issue, but not everything is out of your control. The difference between "feeling unwelcome" and "feeling welcome" is all up to you.

  30. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If a project needs a Code of Conduct, I don't want to be part of that project.

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  31. Re:/., pls fck off already by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Really? You did care at some point?

    Mind if I ask why?

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  32. Lemme guess by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Without reading the "study": Because they keep wasting time doing surveys nobody gives a fuck about instead of writing code?

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  33. You have made a misstep. by Gravis+Zero · · Score: 1

    .. on the issue of why women developers are hard to recruit and keep in the business of tech.

    Without any statistical information to as the rate at which and reason why both men and women have chosen to leave their positions at a multitude of "tech" businesses, the very premise of this article is based on a judgement without merit. Literally speaking, it's prejudice, specifically sexist.

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  34. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by bsDaemon · · Score: 3, Funny

    I like technologies with ISO, ANSI or IEEE standards, not documents saying you can't use it if you're a meanie.

  35. Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Informative

    The answer to the question why people might prefer men to women when it comes to working on a code project.

    May I refer you to figure 3 of the article. Yes, I know, RTFA is not very Slashdott-y, but bear with me. Could you? Thank you. We see the differences in men and women when it comes to what's important to them in a project they want to participate in. What we can see in the figure is that values like Responsive Maintainers, License or Development progress are pretty much on par with both sexes when it comes to importance.

    Looking at values like "welcoming community", "contribution guide" or "code of conduct", you will see a distinct difference in the value men and women attribute to them, with women putting considerably more emphasis on these things.

    In other words, at least this is my interpretation and please, I would very much enjoy hearing yours, women want to "feel good" while working on a project, while men don't give a fuck about that and just want to get shit done.

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    1. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by locofungus · · Score: 1

      women want to "feel good" while working on a project

      Or that women don't want to be made to feel bad. They're asking for the sorts of things that might put a brake on anti-social behaviour.

      Although the error bars are large, one thing that caught my eye is that if you've got a niche project then you might do well by trying to attract women (and making sure they don't quit) as it appears that men are more likely to want the status that goes with working on a popular project.

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    2. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Yes, it looks like men prefer to see their work being used, the only times the "male" dots are located outside the error margins of the "female" ones (due to a low sample size, I'd assume) is the "feel good" reasons, though.

      And, bluntly, while I can't really say I don't give a fuck how my coworkers feel about working together, I also can't say that I feel it should be a major issue. We're here to get a project off the ground, not to rub our shoulders and tell each other our lifetime stories.

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    3. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In other words, at least this is my interpretation and please, I would very much enjoy hearing yours, women want to "feel good" while working on a project, while men don't give a fuck about that and just want to get shit done.

      That's not bad but I would put it another way. Vastly over-generalizing of course: what makes men and women "feel good" differs. Women typically value harmony. Men typically value feeling competitive. There are healthy and unhealthy forms of both: unhealthy harmony is groupthink and repressed conflict. Unhealthy competitiveness is hostility. It is the unhealthy forms of competitiveness that drive women out of tech.

      Perhaps we would be better served by managers who strive to cultivate the healthy aspects of harmony (camaraderie, inclusiveness, courtesy) and the healthy aspects of competitiveness (striving for excellence, rewarding merit) rather than trying to eliminate competitiveness -- or tolerating assholes who eliminate harmony.

    4. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by locofungus · · Score: 3, Insightful

      But you're assuming that women are picking those things because they want to be made to feel good.

      But if they already perceive the environment as hostile, anti woman, sexist, misogynistic, etc, then what they might be looking for is evidence that it won't be tolerated rather than an environment that makes them feel good.

      I can't see there's any way to distinguish which, if any, interpretation is correct based on the data in the survey.

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    5. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Hmm... I had female project managers and male programmers working for them. Those projects usually went pretty well...

      I think you're onto something here.

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    6. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have a very balanced view of things, that kind of thinking is not tolerated here! Which side are you on really? You are either with us or against us!

    7. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Your anecdote isn't terribly helpful. I've had divisive competitive fuckwit female project managers, and excellent intelligent compassionate ones.

      Much the same as the male ones really.

    8. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      I'm over there with truth and reason. Yes, I know, we'll find the door ourselves.

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    9. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Let me explain this in a simple way:

      I have a friend who worked in a software shop a few years back. His boss was a psycho, and would shit all over people, and specifically would shit all over my friend because my friend was - I am not kidding - red-headed. Seriously, his boss would make fun of him for being a ginger. His boss would encourage the other people on the team to fuck with him as well.

      My friend complained about it and was told to toughen up, they were just fucking around, and can't he take a joke?

      My friend quit that job.

      And you know what? In every fucking job interview he had after that, you better believe he made sure to check to see if they had a welcoming environment and people were expected to behave decently.

      Now, imagine if you will, that you run into that situation fairly regularly, and perhaps you will understand why some people might have different priorities.

      Look at this article and the number of absolute fucking morons who are posting in this thread about how women are this and women are that and women aren't suited for this work and blah-de-fucking-blah and ask yourself: Gee, do you think maybe there's a reason that has nothing to do with women in and of themselves that might just might be making them prioritize things a little differently when trying to get into a project?

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    10. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Why don't you care how your coworkers feel about working together? If you're trying to hold a team together, particularly a volunteer team, you should be very interested in that. It's fairly well accepted that you can hire someone who's technically good but has a toxic personality, and that will actively hurt your team, so it's not an unknown concept.

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    11. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Keith+Henson · · Score: 1

      "as it appears that men are more likely to want the status that goes with working on a popular project."

      If you look into the environment in which humans evolved, this makes sense. To become an ancestor, human males had to gain status in the tribe. A lot of males will work harder for status than they do for economic reasons. I was once lambasted by a Federal Judge for recognizing that gaining status was a huge human motivation (and being human, that it applied to me). That was amusing considering that to gain the status of a federal judge they gave up much of the income they could get as an expensive lawyer.

      This is about open source software, where much of the "compenstation" for working on it comes from gaining status. It's not surprizing that most of the people who work on open source are males.

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    12. Re:Now that's interesting, and maybe the answer by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      I run into such situations fairly often. And have done so all my life. At some point you just start to retaliate. And it usually works. Every person has a weak spot and I have by now a pretty good idea how to find it.

      Can I take a joke? But of course! The question is, can you?

      Oddly enough, a lot of those jokers cannot. But at least they stop being "funny".

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  36. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Reverse discrimination is like unicorns. Often spoken about but never seen.

  37. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I see that you've never worked in academic IT before. I do believe some of our physics and math people should be wearing Depends.

  38. Those aren't codes of conduct by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They're actually spelled out specifically, which is unlike any "codes of conduct" which almost entirely have the opinions of other people as the defining characteristic of what is or is not against the code.

  39. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Joce640k · · Score: 1

    I looked for "jibberish" in the dictinary. It doesn't exist.

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  40. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    Reverse discrimination is like unicorns. Often spoken about but never seen.

    And that was in a thread that started with

    New York has a law preventing male daycare workers from changing diapers.

    Jesus H Fucking Christ you're dense. Did your head crack the concrete floor you were dropped on when born? Does your skull bend light?

  41. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by KGIII · · Score: 1

    What is curious is how the numbers are so different from society. For example, that's a large percentage of respondents who are gay. Maybe allowing self selection for polling is unsound methodology?

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  42. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It is, but IT people don't usually change diapers during work so it doesn't affect the workplace in question.

    We prefer to watch babies and their crappy Ruby and Javascript "code" shit all over themselves.

  43. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Kafkatrapping.

    "This law is discriminatory, unsanitary, can and will make toddlers go without a clean nappy which is a human right, not a privilege. To not change a child's diaper is child abuse and a health hazard."

    "Oh so you want to take off little girls' diapers and touch their genitals?"

    And that's the story of how little Susie wound up with a UTI.

  44. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Rockoon · · Score: 4, Interesting

    No, discriminating against white males is never OK. Some people want it ignored. Some people want it ensrhined. But the discrimination is never OK.

    Discrimination doesnt get any more "systemic" then when it is actually illegal not to do it.

    A century ago discrimination against both sexes was still the law of the land.

    Two landmarks in American history cases came up in 1919-1920.

    The first was a landmark supreme court ruling in 1919 on the constitutionality of the gender-specific draft. The supreme court ruled that the gender-specific draft was constitutional on the grounds that it was a reciprocal responsibility of that gender because that gender was afforded the right to vote. If you were allowed to vote, they said, then you are also subject to the draft.

    The second was a landmark because there have been so few of them: amendments to our constitution. In 1920 we gave women the right to vote, but we still have not subjected even a single solitary woman to the draft.

    All this worry over speculative-sexism while there is still literally systemic-sexism on the books as the law of the land... I have just one thing to say to feminists... go fuck yourselves. I will never give one rats ass about any of your speculative-sexism while you continue to defend existing systemic-sexism with your solution being more systemic-sexism. Seriously, go fuck yourselves feminists, and the next time I hear of a talk about male suicide being shut down by feminists I'm going to punch one. Go. Fuck. Yourselves.

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  45. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1, Troll

    Which is demonstrably untrue, as that guy who keeps suing venues offering women-only benefits (free crap, free entry etc.) proves.

    Of course there is some discrimination against men in general, e.g. unequal parental leave rights. Don't distract from the genuine issues with hyperbole.

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  46. Pepe the frog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Here we have Pepe the frog posting as AC. That's understandable, because officially, he's dead (actually he's not, but the French have eaten his legs, so he's in a wheelchair now).

    Sorry for my jokes of very dubious taste, but that's what you get when you confront me with those raging, foaming-at-the-mouth altrighters.

    1. Re:Pepe the frog by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He is Risen!

  47. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by K.+S.+Kyosuke · · Score: 1

    That's funny... Gotta use in the future!

    Go: Has a Code of Conduct

    Common Lisp: Has an ANSI Standard

    Which one is more useful? (A rhetoric question. ;))

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  48. Why is it so? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... are pretty much what you might expect.

    Why do we expect that:
      - Because women have a lower "feel unwelcome" tolerance than men?
      - Because no-one cares about men who "feel unwelcome"?
      - Because all colleagues emphasize a woman's gender and minority status?

    ... a degree of under-representation that's not seen elsewhere in this study.

    So women are likely to be homosexual as men, as ethnic as men, yet women, comprising 31% of the employees IIRC, provided only 3% of the responses. That sounds important: Should we expect that?

  49. women just aren't interested by ooloorie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    There is no gender barrier to starting open source projects on GitHub. There is no barrier to recruiting talented women into your feminist collective femputer software project. If women are just as interested and productive in open source as men, they wouldn't need the munificence of men in order to have them work on male-dominated open source projects, there would be lots of open source projects run by women where women could go to feel welcome.

    The lack of women-run open source projects, female developers, etc. is a simple consequence of straight women being statistically much less interested in starting or participating in such projects. (Note that, despite facing discrimination and prejudice, gays actually are overrepresented among GitHub open source developers.)

    1. Re:women just aren't interested by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I generally agree with your point on principle, the problem is a little more fourth dimensional. Open source contributions generally come from seasoned developers with plenty of experience and ability to positively contribute to a project. If there are gender issues that prevent women from sticking around long enough to become seasoned developers then you would end up with a disparity just like we have. I'm not sure if that's the real problem or not, but a lack of women is not intrinsically and exclusively due to interest levels from a technology perspective.

    2. Re:women just aren't interested by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      women just aren't interested

      Have you asked? In any case, your reasoning has assumptions that I don't believe are true. You seem to think that people just think to themselves “I want to write open source software” and just start coding something up. In my experience it is usually “I want to fix this particular thing”, which is either a bug in existing software or requiring customization of existing code. If your solution is requiring women to rewrite whole OSS landscape, then it is not worth the effort. Fragmentation is hardly a benefit to anyone.

      And even if for some reasons feminists clump together to make feminist software, github is not preventing men interacting with those women.

    3. Re:women just aren't interested by ooloorie · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Have you asked?

      Yes. And so have others.

      You seem to think that people just think to themselves “I want to write open source software” and just start coding something up

      Not at all. But I think that if you're passionate about something, you can make it happen.

      If your solution is requiring women to

      I don't think there is a problem, so I don't think a solution is needed.

      And I assure you, I'm not going to change my behavior towards others because you are unhappy about population statistics.

    4. Re:women just aren't interested by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

      Yes. And so have others.

      Sorry for moving goalposts, but have you asked in scientific way. That is, asked both men and women from the same field and corrected for possible unrelated variables. Just asking, because in my workplace men show very little interest in contributing to OSS, even though our shop is mostly OSS.

      I don't think there is a problem,

      In that case, can I as you not to hinder those who do see this as a problem?

    5. Re:women just aren't interested by ooloorie · · Score: 1

      Sorry for moving goalposts, but have you asked in scientific way. Just asking, because in my workplace men show very little interest in contributing to OSS, even though our shop is mostly OSS.

      You're asking the wrong question. The primary reason women are underrepresented in OSS is that they are underrepresented in software development. And that's not a workplace issue because it starts long before women enter the workplace.

      http://www.oecd.org/newsroom/e...

      In that case, can I as you not to hinder those who do see this as a problem?

      While I don't doubt your good intentions, you are causing harm. That's why you should be not just "hindered" but strongly opposed.

    6. Re:women just aren't interested by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The lack of women-run open source projects, female developers, etc. is a simple consequence of straight women being statistically much less interested in starting or participating in such projects

      Thank you Captain Obvious!

      While you're here, would you mind joining everyone else in our conversation about why that's the case? We'd love your insight there.

      The rest of us are wondering why computer science was a female dominated field in the early days, but then shifted to be extreme male dominated.

    7. Re:women just aren't interested by russotto · · Score: 1

      The rest of us are wondering why computer science was a female dominated field in the early days, but then shifted to be extreme male dominated.

      It never was female dominated.

  50. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yes, because nit-picking a typo is so much more fruitful than actual debate.

  51. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by fellip_nectar · · Score: 5, Funny

    I looked up dictinary in the dictionary. It doesn't exist.

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  52. gender imbalance among advisers by ooloorie · · Score: 1

    The open source survey acknowledges academic advisers and support for its design and questions... 80% of which are women. How's that for gender balance and lack of bias?

    GitHub should cut this crap and focus on hosting repositories. If they keep harping on social justice issues, they face going down the same drain that Twitter is currently going down. And GitHub's business model strikes me as similarly shaky.

  53. Logic? by Dunbal · · Score: 1

    If it's hard to recruit female devs, then presumably all those female devs are either jobless somewhere or have left the industry. If not, then SOMEONE is recruiting them... just not the companies forming part of the "study".

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  54. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by west · · Score: 4, Insightful

    > If a project needs a Code of Conduct, I don't want to be part of that project.

    If you find the very existence of a Code of Conduct objectionable, then not being part of the project is probably best for both you and the project.

    But no whining if there's a dearth of co-members who are actually pleasant to work with.

  55. Boo hoo... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "95 percent of respondents were men, with the response rate from women at only 3 percent"

    What were the other 2%?

    Secondly, men and women are DIFFERENT, and since the dawn of time, men have been the inventors, builders and creators of new technology.

    WHITE MEN. Not Africans. Not Indians. Not Chinese. White men.

    White people are only 9% of the world's population, and we aren't even allowed to simply live around our own kind, in our own countries, because every other race hates their own kind and wants to leech off 'whitey'. And yet THEY claim they are the 'victims'. Why are they here, in white countries? Why don't they want to live in their own countries?

    White people are the only people who want to live in their own countries, around their own kind, yet we are denied this right, the most basic of ALL rights - freedom of NON-association.

    Special rights for 'minorities' will end right about the time white people become a minority in our OWN countries.

    1. Re:Boo hoo... by Cederic · · Score: 1

      WHITE MEN. Not Africans. Not Indians. Not Chinese. White men.

      What, like all those Persians? The Egyptians? The people that built complex civilisations in China, South American and Central America?

      You're a racist twat.

  56. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by zifn4b · · Score: 4, Interesting

    A century ago discrimination against both sexes was still the law of the land.

    It is fascinating how things have changed isn't it? For anyone who is really interested, look up the history of child custody laws over the past century or so. What you find is that once upon a time, custody of kids in a divorce was actually automatically awarded to the father believe it or not. Then towards the middle of the 20th century the laws were completely changed such that by default custody was automatically awarded to the mother. Today, we are finally starting to define a way to evaluate who the more appropriate custodial parent is for the benefit of the children but up until recently it was a black and white decision, father or mother by default in all cases regardless of situation. What perpetuates sexism again? Yeah...

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  57. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    work culture that takes diversity and sensitivity seriously

    I can't take either of those things seriously. I only care about ability and that one has sufficient business communication skills. That's it.

    As a male who's worked in several majority-female businesses I can't count the number of times I've been "unwelcome" but I don't really care. Nobody's ever surveyed me or asked me what I feel about that, which is a good thing because I'd have told them they're being ridiculous. I return niceness with niceness and impoliteness with the same. If I'm supposed to get over it so can everybody else. I actually had to transfer a man from one location because he was tired of hearing things from the females there--things that, had the gender roles been reversed would certainly have been considered harassment by modern standards. He wasn't interested in filing charges though, he just wanted not to put up with them. That was an easy request to grant trust me.

    Women who wonder why some men ignore them in the workplace pretty much have to understand that lately harassment has been dumbed down to "a male who a woman doesn't approve of noticing she exists" and, on rare occasions, a woman making something up because a male she wants to notice her refuses to, so I can't take that seriously either. Does harassment exist? Yes, actual harassment in the traditional sense exists, just not in the numbers people would have you believe. It's toxic to the workplace and shouldn't be tolerated. I've had to deal with that too. Not by counseling, not by sensitivity training, but by showing the idiot in question the door. It's the only way to deal with that, just as it's the only way to deal with overly dramatic personalities in the workplace as well.

  58. PC by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Political correctness demands equalities that are unnatural. If women are naturally drawn to certain occupations and shun others, that should be of no concern to us. Social engineering does not work.

  59. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent).

    Listen, there is no such thing as unsolicited sexual advance(s). If you work in a mostly
    male environment and are: pretty, smell nice, have a nice speaking voice, female, and pay
    the males there any attention beyond work, of course you're going to have "followers."
    If you want to avoid all of that, then dress, smell, and look like a man. I mean, it's only
    biology and how most of us were conceived and bought into this world.

    Is it so hard to understand?

    CAP === 'alphabet'

  60. Easy by nospam007 · · Score: 1, Funny

    It's because they sit down for the awful pissing contests happening every day.

  61. What they should ask by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They need to include a personality test in this. Stereotyping most men (which statistically true by the way), men often don't think much of or react positively to sexual advances, certain language, jokes, and things in general. All of this stuff goes on with men just as much as women. Men typically just don't make a deal out of it like women do.

  62. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

    not documents saying you can't use it if you're a meanie

    I am not aware of any software, which requires compliance with CoC in order to use it.

  63. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Tranzistors · · Score: 1

    If a project needs a Code of Conduct, I don't want to be part of that project.

    Odds are, they are not too keen on you either.

  64. all you need to know by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just read some of the sexist posts on slashdot and you'll learn all you need to know on the subject. Men in tech are assholes.

    1. Re:all you need to know by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just read some of the sexist posts on slashdot and you'll learn all you need to know on the subject. Men in tech are assholes.

      And how is that supposed to be stopping women from succeeding? Are you saying that the only way women can succeed is under the leadership of men?

  65. I think it more by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    that women want to feel WELCOMED. Men are used to having to prove themselves, women are used to getting into a social group. Ostracising women then would be worse than ostracising men, and generally child studies on in/out group bullying indicate that this is indeed the case.

    It's not so much about feeling good but feeling welcomed.

    Maybe women have better choices, so they choose what welcomes them, whereas men have to take the choice offered and put up with being roasted.

    1. Re:I think it more by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Question for 100: When I try to get a project done, would I want someone who feels he has to prove himself or someone who wants to get into a social group?

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    2. Re:I think it more by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's a point, but there's also a point that you need someone there every day, day in, day out. Whether it's challenging or not. As a male I want to challenge myself, but 99% of the time is gruntwork, and it's then that it's the people who you are working with that makes it worth staying.

      HOWEVER, this is all orthogonal. I was correcting what I see is an incorrect attribution of intent to women. You say its to feel good. I say that is incorrect. If for no other reason than being challenge *and then beating that challenge* makes me feel good. It's why I WANT to be challenged: so I can feel good when I finally crack it.

      The difference is women want to feel welcome. Their feeling of worth is in the social acceptance, and they will work FOR that group. My feeling of worth is in the thing I just did, and I will only work for the next challenge. If I don't GET the challenge, I will fuck off somewhere where they will give me meaningful work.

      Which may be the basal and unfixable reason for this FOSS "problem": these are all tasks to meet and challenges to beat, and your only reward is really the fact that you beat this challenge.

      There's NOTHING THERE for anyone, of any gender, to feel like they're part of a group. Geek coders are a herd of cats, and they really hate being in groups. And there's no way to change that. But without changing it, there's not the reward for women, so they will be massively under-represented. And if you did change it, then it no longer exists and nobody is in.

    3. Re:I think it more by david_thornley · · Score: 1

      Which one is going to do a better job? I'd assume you'd want to put together the best team you can. If this requires making it into a social group that gets things done, what's wrong with that?

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    4. Re:I think it more by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      What's wrong in such a project? Probably that I'm in it.

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  66. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How can something that doesn't exist be discriminatory?

  67. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Or male coal miners, or male security guards, or male garbage collectors, or male soldiers, or male oil rig workers, or male stevedores.

    No, only cushy office jobs.

  68. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by i+work+on+computers · · Score: 1

    New York has a law preventing male daycare workers from changing diapers.

    Citation needed.

  69. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Gilgaron · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The feminists I know want women to be on the draft... is this not your experience with ones you've talked with? The old guys in congress have been more of a problem for things like that then the Pentagon itself has.

  70. Perspective matters by jbmartin6 · · Score: 1

    "twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances " The problem is, a 'solicited' sexual advance means the other party was the "victim" of an unsolicited sexual advance. It's a vicious cycle.

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    1. Re:Perspective matters by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly!
      It is very telling that everyone who promotes the idea of women being "discriminated" against in the tech field is completely incapable of understanding your statement.

  71. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It looks like they only hire older women. It explains the "less horny".

  72. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Who says 7% is different from the number of gays in society?

  73. Don't try so hard! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let each gender do the jobs they want and are wired for!!!

  74. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    The very need of having a written code of conduct usually means that the work environment is SO toxic that the non-written laws of common courtesy have left the building ages ago.

    THIS is why I wouldn't want to have something like that anywhere near what I'm working on.

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  75. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 2

    A glaring spelling/grammar mistake in a post making fun of a math mistake is worthy of ridicule.

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  76. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by c6gunner · · Score: 2, Insightful

    That's what the most vocal feminists say, sure. Strangely enough, I've never met a vocal feminist in the combat arms, and the overall figure for women is around 1%. Were the draft to actually be instituted, and applied to women, I suspect you would hear these brave justice warriors singing a much different tune.

  77. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by I'm+New+Around+Here · · Score: 1

    My stepson once looked for a game store in the business white pages. It was called Toys & Joys.

    He turned to the page with "To-" listings, got as far as "Toyota", and figured that the store wasn't listed, because he should have seen it by then.

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  78. Several Factors by ud0 · · Score: 1

    It's a multi-faceted problem, isn't it? The STEM fields in general have done a relatively good job of attracting women, so software engineering is definitely an odd one out. Based on anecdotal evidence of my own interactions with young people, the reason may partly be that software development is seen as a low-value, low-skill, low-profile job. Most importantly, it's seen as boring grunt work which even "cool" people only do until they are finally promoted into an actual position. If this impression is correct, we're socializing young people in general, and young women in particular, away from a field they perceive as a waste of time. I challenge you to find a high school-age girl who when asked if she considered doing software development doesn't respond with absolute incredulity at the mere prospect.

    From there on out, it probably gets worse. On the off chance a female software developer makes it through university without giving in to the myriad social cues on the way, the experience of working in the field is likely to be the final kick you need to start looking for better positions. It's rough enough to find a good job as a male, but when you're female you need to cope with the whole bro culture thing on top of that.

    We've also been getting more conservative as a society. Women going to college, then briefly into a job, only to drop out forever and take care of family is a thing that's picking up steam again. The incentive to do that may be even stronger when you're working as an entry-level software developer, surrounded by wealthy hyper-available males.

  79. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You forgot "married"

  80. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by c6gunner · · Score: 1

    I find people who hate arbitrary codes of conduct to be the most pleasurable to work with. I know that they have a sense of humour, and can get into a heated argument without throwing around words like sexism, racism, and discrimination. I would much rather deal with abrasive, augmentative individuals than with social justice snowflakes who go whining to the boss and/or media at the slightest perceived provocation.

  81. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by swillden · · Score: 4, Informative

    Were the draft to actually be instituted, and applied to women, I suspect you would hear these brave justice warriors singing a much different tune.

    I suspect you're completely wrong, in fact I'm quite sure of it. "Vocal feminists" may not often be the same sort of women who voluntarily join the military, but they absolutely are the sort of women who would despise any woman who tried to use her gender to avoid being drafted. Many of them would probably argue against the draft, but they'd argue against it for both men and women.

    In any case, the draft is irrelevant. Not only haven't we used it in 40 years (since before you were even born, most likely), it's very unlikely we'll ever use it again. Conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

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  82. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ShanghaiBill · · Score: 4, Informative

    How is that law not gender discrimination?

    It is not gender discrimination because the "law" doesn't actually exist. Men can legally change diapers in NY. The only reference I could find was a daycare that had a policy that the male teachers would not change diapers, but that was not a legal requirement.

  83. Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Hognoxious · · Score: 4, Informative

    It's like getting on a bus and there's a sign saying "DO NOT SHIT ON THE SEATS".

    The fact that someone thinks it needs to exist is a big red flag (or possibly a brown one).

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    1. Re:Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Any sufficiently large, open population is going to end up with some assholes in it. When you waste too much time dealing with assholes you're going to put up a sign that says "no assholes" to save time.

    2. Re: Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which in turn would likely only attract a more discrete asshole, commonly called the SJWs.

    3. Re:Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because the kind of person who shits on bus seats will desist due to a sign.

    4. Re:Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Darinbob · · Score: 1

      My condo complex has a sign saying "people who have recently had diarhea should not use the pool", and my brother would laugh and laugh at it, thinking I was living in a dump. But it's a rule made by the city and not because we've got a lot of incontinent accidents.

      A point here is that the lack of a sign saying "do not shit on the seats" is not the same as permission to shit on the seats! Similarly, the lack of a code of conduct should never be treated as an excuse to be an asshat, but for some reason that seems to be the case far to often.

    5. Re:Didn't Vonnegut write about this? by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      A point here is that the lack of a sign saying "do not shit on the seats" is not the same as permission to shit on the seats!

      I'm pretty sure a lawyer could argue otherwise. It wouldn't surprise me if several seat-shitters have walked free on such a technicality, especially in the EU.

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  84. What no one will tell you: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let's look at, eg, npm. They have 0 women employees but 12 men who dress like women. If you were a woman, would you want to work there?

  85. Please explain this math... by kenh · · Score: 1

    Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men (25 versus 15 percent)

    That's not even twice as likely, it almost is, but not quite.

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  86. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by elrous0 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Though the official line is that every gay person is born that way, the reality is that the percentage of people identifying as gay (or transgendered too) has been growing steadily since it became fashionable to be gay. See Kristen Stewart and any other number of celebrities who suddenly discover their gayness when their career starts to lag.

    My apologies if it's politically incorrect to point that out.

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  87. Women Are Better by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    In every situation I've seen where the boss asks the team to work 20-30 hours of unpaid overtime every week to get an impossible project out the door, the women say fuck you (well, "bless your heart", or something) and then go home on time.

    The spineless nerd males stay and work on the project, and they and the managers resent the women for their self-respect. That is what generates the hostile work environment. A really great work environment would exist where the team were majority female, as this kind of behavior would not be feasible.

    So, spineless men: women's issues in tech are your fault. Grow a pair (of ovaries, apparently). You* allow the kind of work environment that is hostile to women.

    * All men who were not birthed by women are hereby excepted from this blame.

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    1. Re:Women Are Better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Usually companies will reward employees accomplishing the impossible project. Only poorly run companies will screw them and let them leave to somewhere where they are valued. I put out many fires as a grunt and now I'm a partner at the company.

    2. Re:Women Are Better by goose-incarnated · · Score: 1

      Usually companies will reward employees accomplishing the impossible project.

      And then that reward will be used as "proof" of a gender pay gap. You can't win against ideological arguments.

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    3. Re:Women Are Better by computational+super · · Score: 1

      Hehe - there are actually quite a few things I’d like to see changed in the software development profession - unpaid overtime, open-plan offices and two-hour daily “standup” meetings among them. My opinions are irrelevant because I’m a filthy, despicable white male - if women have found themselves in a position of having opinions that might be valued and listened to, maybe they can champion some of these real issues, rather than demanding “codes of conduct”.

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    4. Re:Women Are Better by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      the difference though is that the men will be fired if they don't do it.
      the women will not be fired.

      this could still be called spineless, but that's quite the difference (and oh, explains that common behavior all too well)

  88. Higher education trends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    With ratio of male to female approaching 1:2 in higher education, I suspect unsolicited sexual advances complaints will be the other way around in 15-20 years.

    1. Re:Higher education trends by Cederic · · Score: 1

      No, but expect to see far more online conversations along these lines:
      https://www.vice.com/en_uk/art...

      Yes, that article genuinely positions the gender disparity in higher education as unfairly impacting on women because they can't all date equally educated men.

      I'd use ASCII art to show my empathy levels here but couldn't think of a good representation of 0K.

    2. Re:Higher education trends by russotto · · Score: 1

      I'd use ASCII art to show my empathy levels here but couldn't think of a good representation of 0K.

      I find that Figure 1 works fine.

  89. That is a surprisingly small difference by drolli · · Score: 1

    and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent).

    This does not represent the ration between the genders. Normally I would expect the following: Lets assume 10% of the persons don't know when they cross the line from being nice and a little flirty to "unsolicited sexual advances" and that they target a gender of their sexual preference, and that this happens equally distributed over the other gender.

    The i would figure that nearly every women working in tech should have experienced such a thing, and nearly no male. So either men are over reporting, women are underreporting, or women are indeed making such advances more often. I personally think it is the women underreporting, but these numbers are dubious.

    1. Re:That is a surprisingly small difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      at work (bay area, google) girls keep making advances, and physical touch. as long as they don't actually grab your penis if you report this nothing will happen - and besides, why report it? its not the end of the world, it's not that terrible or uncomfortable. You can mostly ignore it. "Grab penis" is a much better line in the sand.

    2. Re:That is a surprisingly small difference by drolli · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I think it is inappropriate in both ways. And it is inappropriate to call female coworkers "girls".

    3. Re:That is a surprisingly small difference by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats what they are though, depending on how OP sees himself.
      At what point in life does a girl become a women? Is it after having sex? is it based on age? Is it when you get a full time job, or maybe when the kids pop out?
      Maybe he should have just said Females instead so your delicate sensibilities wouldnt have been damaged, but im quite sure you would object to that too.

    4. Re:That is a surprisingly small difference by drolli · · Score: 1

      When i should stop calling a female a girl in personal life depends on the circumstances. In professional life it is pretty clear. I do not call my young colleagues boys or girls, not even if they are interns.

  90. Translation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men

    Translation: Affirmative Action hires can't do the work.

  91. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by kenh · · Score: 2, Interesting

    The typo eliminates the possibility of discussing the actual facts that support the writer's assertion.

    Is it 6x more likely or 15% v. 20%? The author claimed both were true, which logically can't be true, so the reader is left to dismiss the report entirely or choose from the catalog of conflicting statement the one they want to agree with.

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  92. Toxic! by zmooc · · Score: 1

    Ã'm not going to comment on the flawed statistics that underly many conclusions, but let's focus on one quote:

    the work environment at many open source projects is not comfortable for women, with some going so far as to call it "toxic."

    I think the "toxic" qualification is quite true in several projects. It's not that strange either; we're dealing with mostly volunteers here, people that feel very strongly about what they have created and that have an above average incidence of struggling with social interaction. However, it has nothing to do with being male or female. Nevertheless, the author choose to include the "Fig2. - Negative behavior in open source" graph. There's nothing scientific about this article, it's not "stuff that matters".

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  93. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Malggi · · Score: 1

    It very well may be. You just need to find a male day care worker willing to go to court, argue that he's been harmed by being prevented from changing soiled diapers and demand that changing dirty diapers be made part of his daily routine.

  94. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by KGIII · · Score: 1

    The last study, that I saw, had the total pegged at 3% and that included the entirety of the 'not straight' group. That included bi, trans, gay, and everyone else who didn't identify as straight.

    I suppose that number could have changed, but that's a pretty big change. If it has changed, it makes me curious if it hasn't really changed so much as people are just more comfortable admitting it. However, I guess that is digression.

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  95. And the other 2%? by kenh · · Score: 1

    In the survey, 95 percent of respondents were men, with the response rate from women at only 3 percent -- a degree of under-representation that's not seen elsewhere in this study.

    Seems like 2% of respondents choose to either not answer the gender question, were their responses factored into the calculations when arriving at gender difference conclusions?

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    1. Re: And the other 2%? by kenh · · Score: 1

      choose to either not answer the gender question,

      Should read "choose to either not answer the gender question or don't feel they fall into either gender category,"

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    2. Re:And the other 2%? by JOstrow · · Score: 1

      I agree, and the language is even more vague. 95% of respondents were men. Cool. The response rate of women was only 3%. Cool. That doesn't just indicate the "2%" problem you cite. "% of respondents != response rate of "

    3. Re:And the other 2%? by JOstrow · · Score: 1

      And I'll add: Holy shit, would I make sure I get my math right before submitting a story to /.

  96. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

    Actually, 50% of stereotyping is from the left side and the other 50% of stereotyping is from the right side.

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  97. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe because there isn't a whole big problem with male nurses running into the idiotic bro-boys environment in a hospital environment.

  98. For Fucks sake. by Dishevel · · Score: 1

    First. The idea that women get stereotyped more than men if fucking idiotic. Every single person who thinks stereotypically about one gender does the same for the other gender. (Yes. There are two of them.)

    Next. Grow the fuck up. If being uncomfortable is a valid excuse for not doing a fucking job, nothing in this world would ever get done except for jacking it. Different people, bosses, people trying to climb the ladder of success over you back, new challenges, failures, responsibilities, business relationships .... There are a literal fuck ton of shit that we all have to get over being uncomfortable with. If you can not hack it, get out.

    No one is after you. No one at work gives a fuck about you, your feelings or your well being. That is YOUR job.



    Women lead fortune 500 companies, lead countries. If you are being held back it is just because you fucking suck.

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  99. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You can try to enumerate why you see a 50/50 split. The one thing you put last, you should have put FIRST. Culture is the one thing that drives all the rest.

  100. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by KGIII · · Score: 1

    That is greater than the 3%, which I recently saw cited. I think it was actually like 2.7%. I also think it was a global study that provided the numbers in the recent cite.

    So, your link says 4.1% which is still lower than 7%. Your link is only for the US, while GitHub is global(ish).

    I am not sure what conclusions can be drawn from this.

    What it suggests, to me, is that the community is far more welcoming than credited for. If a higher percentage of gay people are involved, than exists in society at large, it makes me think that the community may actually be more welcoming.

    It seems likely, to me, that there would be a smaller percentage, if the community were less inclusive and welcoming. I may be missing something, but that seems more probable.

    Then again, I'm a mathematician. Humans confuse me. ;-)

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  101. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by computational+super · · Score: 1

    Oh shut the fuck up, snowflake

    When you know you've lost the argument...

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  102. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by computational+super · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Reverse discrimination is like unicorns. Often spoken about but never seen.

    Actually, more like air. Spoken about, but so pervasive you stop even noticing it.

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  103. Hard to recruit - really??? by bwanagary · · Score: 1

    Women are only exposed to the unpleasantness of the environment /after/ they have been recruited. There's no argument that a predominantly male (and perhaps a little on the socially underdeveloped male side of things) environment is one that most intelligent women prefer to avoid. Clearly its the reason that many women leave the profession after participating in it for a while but there are likely other reasons equally or more important for them not entering that environment in the first place. In other words, I don't think that the difficulty in recruiting women into tech, particularly IT/Computers/Software, is for the same reasons that women /leave/ tech after having worked in it. More facts, statistics (from 2017) and thoughts on the subject here: https://832412.wixsite.com/rum...

  104. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not necessarily. It only takes one asshat, either as a perpetrator or as supposed victim to force the implementation of a code. I have seen cases where a group is working just fine until a hypersensitive asshat joins and makes work hell for everyone else, using the code and HR as leverage for special treatment.

  105. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by c6gunner · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Many of them would probably argue against the draft, but they'd argue against it for both men and women.

    In any case, the draft is irrelevant ... conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

    Yes, precisely; they don't mind saying they're in favour of an "equal draft" because they know it's unlikely to be used, and they know that in the case that any government were thinking about using it they could just protest it in it's entirety. And having women registered for the draft would make it even more difficult for a future government to actually put it into effect.

    We can look at other inequality metrics though. How often have you heard feminists bemoan the lack of female coal miners? How vocal have they been in addressing the incredible overrepresentation of men in workplace deaths?

    Sure, feminists will pay lip service to these things, just as they do to the inequality of the draft, but that's as far as it goes. It costs them nothing to say "yeah that's really unfair and we would like it changed". But they do nothing to actually address those issues because they're quite happy when it's men on the losing side of the bargain.

  106. Overall by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    'nuf said. The vitriol of the comments supports the original claim.

  107. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Dipshits like you are the reason.

  108. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by computational+super · · Score: 1

    "uncomfortable" is the feeling you get when you see that a project has a Code of Conduct

    So let's see then - we're trying to avoid making people feel uncomfortable, but you think that codes of conduct make people uncomortable - so you agree that codes of conduct are a bad thing? Or do you only care about making certain narrow, specific demographics uncomfortable and don't much care about the others?

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  109. What kind of a person would want to be hired... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    to meet a quota?

    Imagine knowing your position and salary is based completely on meeting a quota? How about this. Imagine being a legitimate candidate that has legitimate skills and looking for legitimate opportunities and wondering each day whether you were hired because you are you who are or because you had to fill a quota? Or wondering if everyone around is looking at you as someone who was hired because there was a quota to be met?

    If I met any of the quota requirements which are being measured, I know I would intentionally avoid working anyplace who was in the press for trying to meet such quotas. I want my value to be measured based on who I am, not what I am. As a father of a wonderful (though a bit crazy) little girl who is now 13 years old, I hope that by the time she is done with the university, she will live in a world where she can apply for a job and be hired for being awesome... not female.

    Sadly, at the rate this nonsense has been spreading, I fear that she'll never be given the chance to show the world how great she is because even if she's manages to walk on Mars, some asshole will publish an article saying "She was the first woman to walk on Mars" instead of saying "She was one of the first humans to walk on Mars".

    1. Re:What kind of a person would want to be hired... by PPH · · Score: 1

      And what kind of person wants to work someplace where, despite being hired for their skills, is subject to a lot of rumors spread that they were just hired to meet a quota?

      I wonder how many frat boys feel bad about getting jobs as a result of some pledge promise. I have the feeling that, whereas the women going into STEM are trying to accomplish something, the frat boys know that they are fuck-ups. And if confronted by reality will just respond "Bite me. I've got the job and there isn't shit anyone will do about it."

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  110. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Poor little white male, you have life so hard.

  111. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why? If it had been a math mistake, sure, I'd understand it. Because Poe's Law I think. But these are two different categories.

  112. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by PoopJuggler · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Or you could just grow up and act professionally at work.

  113. Re:/., pls fck off already by computational+super · · Score: 1

    Well, not OP, but - in my two decades in this business, I’ve dealt with my share of jerks, idiots, and unreasonable or unpleasant people. But since I’m a white male, I don’t assume that they’re this way because I’m white or male, I just figure that’s the way they are, and I’ve learned how to avoid and navigate around those people. It just seems to me that far too many women jump to the conclusion that those people are treating them differently when the annoying reality of human interaction is that some people just won’t get along with other people. I’m all for trying to fix THAT problem, but focusing on walking on eggshells around women because they’re women won’t make that any better; if anything, it will (or has) make it worse.

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  114. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Sperbels · · Score: 1

    So, what you're saying is, you want to have babies?

  115. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Of course not. But there is the girl-equivalent of the "bro-boys environment".

  116. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Cederic · · Score: 1

    Try under g for gibberish. Then look up yourself: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki...

  117. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Never seen? It's only never seen if you've got the vision of Mr. Magoo. It pops up constantly in the criminal justice system and divorce court. It's just because pieces of shit like you refuse to acknowledge it that it's "never seen."

  118. Re:/., pls fck off already by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    In my experience, if someone wants to be offended by something you say to play the victim card, they will find something. So trying to tapdance around it and not "offend" is fruitless.

    Appeasement never works.

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  119. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Cederic · · Score: 1

    Yes, every bit as hard as people with other genders or skin colours.

    Harder, if you want to examine basic shit like educational outcomes in the UK.

    But that's ok, you keep your sarcastic racist sexist bigotry going. Just try and be honest about it.

  120. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    The solution for this is easy: Boss, this person, or us. You can make the choice, but you'll make it NOW.

    The fun part about working in ITsec is that there is nobody here who can't get a new job by snapping their fingers.

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  121. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only to assholes that contribute nothing of value to society.

  122. Re:Feelings by computational+super · · Score: 1

    It was hard not to notice that there were no specific examples in the article.

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  123. who sez severe gender gaps ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Even casual coders know
    when their witch is on-the-go
    and they need a cup-a-joe ...
    gawdsakes woman back in the kitchen bitch and bake me a pie !

  124. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I suspect you're completely wrong, in fact I'm quite sure of it. "Vocal feminists" may not often be the same sort of women who voluntarily join the military, but they absolutely are the sort of women who would despise any woman who tried to use her gender to avoid being drafted. Many of them would probably argue against the draft, but they'd argue against it for both men and women.

    Funny how we don't hear much from these feminists against the draft/selective service as it currently stands since, you know, it only impacts men.

  125. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by dskoll · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Please cite the New York law. I believe some daycares might have that policy, and it's probably illegal because it's sex discrimination.

  126. Obligatory by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Aw gee, not this shit again.

  127. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think he's talking about a slurry of young horny men, and there being less of that slurry rather than fewer of the men.

  128. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Incorrect, they're the sort to start claiming that since White Men have the most privilege, THEY Should be the ones drafted and not women.

  129. Better math interpretation, please. by Tristao · · Score: 0

    There are 3387 men and 125 women. Also, 3187 identified as straight, 246 gay or minority sexual orientation.
    That makes a pool of 90%+ straight men as potential offenders of women. When you say women are "twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)", you are cherry picking true data points, disregarding the context. Those poor 125 women do get harassed, there should be 0% on both sides, but having that said, the pools of potential offenders against potential victims on both sides of the gender wall are not equal. Those 3387 men do not harass has much per capita. I'm not really defending men, we've had things going in our favor since forever, but I do take issue with decontextualized data.

  130. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The last study, that I saw, had the total pegged at 3% and that included the entirety of the 'not straight' group. That included bi, trans, gay, and everyone else who didn't identify as straight.

    I suppose that number could have changed, but that's a pretty big change. If it has changed, it makes me curious if it hasn't really changed so much as people are just more comfortable admitting it. However, I guess that is digression.

    That was before it was "cool" to be a fudge packer or forest ranger.

  131. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by gnasher719 · · Score: 2

    "since it became fashionable to be gay"

    I suppose the numbers went up when it stopped being considered criminal, and when it got less likely to get beaten up for being gay.

    Answer me this: Could you become gay if it become really, really, fashionable? I couldn't. So the percentage of gay people who admit to it may be going up, but that is all.

  132. unsolicited sexual advances by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

    [quote]and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances[/quote]
    That's why I always ask women to submit a written and signed solicitation of my sexual advancing to the HR department before speaking to them socially.

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    1. Re:unsolicited sexual advances by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You would be accused of sexual harassment for doing that. You would also likely lose your job for it, and be blackballed from all jobs in the field for life.

  133. Only 1 out of 100 programmers are good in general by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only 1 out of 100 programmers are good in general. Now consider how small the population of female programmers are in general.

    The chances of finding a good and female programmer is almost impossible.

  134. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    New York has a law preventing male daycare workers from changing diapers.

    Citation? This bullshit assertion also throws into doubt everything you mention about your company.

  135. Why they're so hard to recruit and keep. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because a significant chunk of them are blue-haired (if not shave-headed), hairy armpitted, personal-hygiene-averse, misandrists with EPIC entitlement issues, inappropriate tatoos, no sense of decorum in speech or workplace-appropriate dress and a proverbial skin so thin that merely making eye contact and saying "good morning" is cause for them to sue you and your employer for condoning misogynist rape culture, if they're feeling lazy and don't decide to accuse you and every man in the office (including the owner) of gang raping her.

    And even ONE encounter with someone like this is enough to cause employers to involuntarily shy away from other women in the future, just on the off chance that said prospect might lose her mind in the selfsame way.

  136. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by firbolgar · · Score: 1

    Calling something irrelevant because it hasn't been used in 40 years may not be the most enlightened approach. Both my penis and nuclear weapons would disagree. (Joking on that first part)

  137. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The American Association of Men in Nursing would like a word with you about the lack of men in nursing careers.

    "There are more things in heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy." Just because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are PLENTY of people who care about the lack of men in nursing careers, and who are actively trying to increase the number of men in that field.

    You just don't hear about it, because:
    1) You do your best to remain ignorant because it doesn't suit your biased worldview;
    2) You don't hang out in places where the nursing industry is discussed. I guarantee that on the nursing equivalent of Slashdot, there's discussions about how to get more men interested in nursing.

    This canard gets trotted out every fucking time this topic comes up, and it's roundly debunked every time, and the MRA's keep on coming back shouting about how nobody talks about the lack of men in nursing. How you get "Interesting" mods is beyond me.

  138. Its not feelings, its the ratio by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "But as a women I find this is not a safe place and that's why we aren't as many".
    But then as a man it is? Or is it implying most males are sex predators?

    The bottom line is that there are simply less women doing these jobs. The reasons why don't seem to be well backed up or documented. It seems to just be looking for clicks.

  139. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I also think it was a global study that provided the numbers in the recent cite.

    "Hello, random Iranian man - are you gay?"
    "No! No gays in Iran!"
    "Well, we better stop asking there - we have it on good authority that Iran, where you can be executed for being gay, doesn't have any gay people."
    "Sounds good. Iran - 100% straight. This survey gets easier and easier!"
    "Where next, Russia?"
    "Yeah, I don't think there's many gays there, either. That ought to make this survey super easy."

    If you don't see how a "global survey of who's gay" could report significantly lower numbers than the reality, you're trying really hard to ignore reality.

  140. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Code of conduct are there to show how righteous we are - and in some case as a PR protection "yes X did Z but look its against our rules of conduct we did not condone this" (since even if they did not condone this, nobody will "believe" that as it's much more exciting to believe they're all terrible people - pretty hard to do when there's a code of conduct though...)

    There are some lesser side effects such as people policing anything they find in some projects, or trying to portrait things in a bad light even when they know nothing bad as intended. "YOU CALLED THIS FUNCTION SLAVE_WORKER() YOU NEED TO BE BANNED RIGHT NOW".

    Hope that wasn't too pragmatic.

  141. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by malkavian · · Score: 1

    Reverse discrimination is an intellectual abstract that's given a name. When you name something, you can use it as a weapon.
    Just for example, I see a lot of people yelling and accusing people of "white entitlement" when they see something they don't like. On examining discussions, I've seen nothing entitled in the propositions.. In other words, it's mainly being used as a weapon by people not actually investigating anything, and used as a character attack (occasionally as an ad-hominem).
    I've also seen minority rights activists yell out in discussions, and every single point struck home on a checklist for "entitlement syndrome". Yet you're not allowed to call it a "black entitlement", because, of course, that would be racist, and racism isn't something that the minorities are allowed to be (no matter how hard some try).
    A closer approximation (from what I've observed) is that all sides of discussions have embedded entitlements, privileges and so on. Usually, the most "entitled" in each group yells the loudest that they want all the privileges of the other groups, along with keeping ones that are for 'their side' just for 'their side'.
    And all of these groups yell at reasonably unbiased people and accuse them (usually unfairly) of exhibiting the various problem behaviours, simply because they don't agree with the biased frame of reference of the accuser.

    There's interesting research going on now related to how bad this is, and how much it creates oversensitivity to the issues, dividing people and polarising issues, such that things like skin colour or sex (which in theory shouldn't matter in an equal society) become obsessed over, and are part of every decision, whether pro or con.
    From what I've gleaned so far, there is an initial phase where a 'grand recalibration' needs to occur, in which case, activism can be beneficial. And a point that when momentum is gained, it heads to a reasonably balanced equilibrium.. Further activism at this point achieves very little, and is actually counterproductive, and can cause other problems to arise because of this behaviour.

    So, I'd dispute the 'reverse discrimination' bit and simply say that 'Discrimination is like air'. Everyone uses it, some more than others.. You want to keep it clean and healthy and at a level that lets everyone get on with doing the job in hand.

  142. (Un)solicited sexual advances by WaffleMonster · · Score: 2

    How do solicited sexual advances work? If one were to go up to someone and "solicit" such that when they make a sexual advance it is deemed "solicited" what prevents the act of soliciting itself from being construed as an unsolicited advance?

    Who really sees a difference between the following phrases?

    "Hey babe lets hang out"
    "Hey babe is it ok if I ask you to hang out?"

    Is there a practical difference between "sexual advance" and "unsolicited sexual advance" or do people just throw in the word "unsolicited" so their position superficially seems more nuanced and reasonable?

    1. Re:(Un)solicited sexual advances by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Unsolicited in this case usually means unwanted.

      Most reasonable people will take being asked out by someone appropriate (ex: not their boss, not someone they work directly with) but are not interested in by saying no and leave it at that.

      If a person isn't appropriate, then they may feel coerced or as if now things have been made weird, and that can trip it over into "unsolicited" and problematic.

      If a person says no and, even if it were appropriate to ask in the first place keeps getting asked, that's unsolicited.

      It's not that hard. The problem - in tech especially - is that people who aren't very good with people will often fuck up either the "appropriate" part or the "don't be a creepy asshole about it" part.

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    2. Re:(Un)solicited sexual advances by russotto · · Score: 1

      Unsolicited in this case usually means unwanted.

      "Unsolicited" does not mean "unwanted". Both are ridiculous standards, but getting around "unsolicited" is impossible (_someone_ has to start the dance) whereas getting around "unwanted" merely requires reading minds.

      Most reasonable people will take being asked out by someone appropriate (ex: not their boss, not someone they work directly with) but are not interested in by saying no and leave it at that.

      Or they'll go and cry in the hallway, and this will be used as prima facie evidence that the asker was in the wrong, and no one will dare point out how ridiculous this is for fear of being seen as beating up on a crying woman.

  143. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more l by nitehawk214 · · Score: 1

    Does it make you curious or bi-curious?

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  144. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Coal mining: http://careerminer.infomine.co...

    At least one organization is doing their part: "Increasing the participation of women is, however, one of the key goals of the Australian Mining Industry – mainly due to the skills shortage experienced in the sector."

    Workplace deaths? Really, I wasn't aware that "dying on the job" was a profession. I don't think ANY feminist would argue that workplace safety shouldn't be important - regardless of who dies. I think that the fact that more men die on the job is related to the fact that men have, historically, tended to dominate hazardous jobs, which means they were disproportionately exposed to hazardous working conditions. Assuming safety protocols stay the same, as women participation in hazardous jobs - like say, coal mining in Australia! - their share of the workplace deaths will increase and we'll achieve a more equitable distribution of deaths.

    It's trivially easy to disprove your assertion that "nobody's talking about how few women are in mining." But, that doesn't play well with your MRA idiocy, so... yeah, you'll ignore this data.

  145. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I get the feeling you've never encountered the lunatic fringe of the left.
    A lot of people spend years going "I don't understand why people are suddenly so tired of feminism!!"
    and then they meet some group of pink haired crazies included a balding bearded fat man in mens clothes who prefers to be called "her" and you're a nazi if you don't.

    And they're all "holy shit".
    I went to evergreen state college I suggest you go and google the insanity that's happening there right now, 18 year old students have taken over the college and it is sadly not an exaggeration that some of the leaders of this group of people have demanded no homework because homework is racist. They also denied the president of the college a request to pee after being held in his office for hours

  146. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Or you could just grow up and act professionally at work.

    Why are you coming down on him? Maybe he was just born that?

  147. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The numbers could also be off from surveying college kids that all just want to inflate the numbers, gotta push the narrative.

    I've been wondering, what do these gender fluids put on their tax returns anyways?

    Oh right, none of them are likely to get hired, LOL.

  148. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Really, is that how human behavior works?
    Because I recall a time when alcohol was made illegal, and that only increased it's consumption.

  149. They are so few and most of the suck? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sorry, but that is the truth.

  150. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Woosh.

    But yeah. That's one of the major failings of modern civil rights movements. They haven't quite got their organizational groupthink around the concept of "the wheel always turns" so their system for "balancing the scales" hasn't been tested when the scales tilt the otehr way and most of them will fail miserably at the challenge.

    The thing is that it's not completely wrong that the symptoms of discrimination against men are actually caused by the same mysogyny as discrimination against women. Most of the things that men "aren't allowed to do" are viewed as such because men aren't supposed to "lower themselves" to do feminine things. And from that point of view it IS still "discrimination against women".

    It's be nice if more feminists were good at communicating THAT message, as it'd be easier to get men working towards the shared goal of eliminating the underlying cause of all gender discrimination if instead of brishing off men's concerns they could show how they're already working to solve those problems and suggest that they could use additional allies.

  151. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by adam.voss · · Score: 1

    You may not want to be part of the projects, but it is practically unavoidable that you use projects that have a code of conduct. Even the Internet Engineering Task Force (IETF) has a code of conduct and they publish a lot of important bits.

  152. Seriously? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)"

    Given that the average man has up to 20 times as much sexual drive as the average female I'd venture those numbers are dramatically better than in the general population and most other industries.

    Women have brains that are wired in a way that gives them an advantage in social intelligence. People like things they are they good at and dislike things they aren't especially good at. What about having a big chunk of your brainpower focused on social dynamics suggests a person will WANT to work in tech? I've worked with plenty of women in tech, some have been quite talented and some have been worthless. Actually just like the males most are somewhere inbetween. I haven't seen any sign of discrimination. There might be one or two women in an office of 40 but only 1 or 2 female applicants in a stack of 40 for an open position.

    There are female dominated industries as well. I honestly think this big push is less about equality and more about using equality to disguise a massive effort to double the workforce and weaken the bargaining position of those who work in this industry. Women entering the workforce en mass has disrupted our economy heavily because it doubled the supply of workers while having only the same demand. The result is in most industries two earners equate to the standard of living that one earner used to bring to a family. Women not being interested in tech means in that field a single earner can often provide a reasonable standard of living in a home. There are enough people to fill the jobs, the industry would just like them to individually be lower paid and in less strong of a bargaining position.

  153. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    In any case, the draft is irrelevant. Not only haven't we used it in 40 years (since before you were even born, most likely), it's very unlikely we'll ever use it again. Conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

    Yes, Selective Service is a good example of wasteful government programs that should be eliminated.

  154. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Were the draft to actually be instituted, and applied to women, I suspect you would hear these brave justice warriors singing a much different tune.

    I suspect you're completely wrong, in fact I'm quite sure of it. "Vocal feminists" may not often be the same sort of women who voluntarily join the military, but they absolutely are the sort of women who would despise any woman who tried to use her gender to avoid being drafted. Many of them would probably argue against the draft, but they'd argue against it for both men and women.

    In any case, the draft is irrelevant. Not only haven't we used it in 40 years (since before you were even born, most likely), it's very unlikely we'll ever use it again. Conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

    It depends.
    I suspect they typical YouTube feminist would gladly hide behind any excuse to avoid the draft blatant hypocrisy or not. They are after all the people who cancel appearances because of hate-mail and the like. They are in my observations cowards who want attention and to "make a difference" but are unwilling to take personal risks or sacrifice for their beliefs. The peers of Rosa Parks, Dr. King, and Susan Anthony they are not.

    That is not however the same this as "all outspoken feminists".
    Any non hypocritical feminist who truly believed in gender equality would either speak out about the draft in general, not juts dodge it themselves or speak out only if it affected women, or accept the responsibility of defending the liberties they hold dear alongside their male counterparts.

  155. YMMV by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've had the opposite experience. Most organizations that I've worked for bent over backwards for female developers of very dubious quality.

    I used to work with one who said everything was too hard, even if I'd already done the work. She was always agitating to purchase some expensive tool or library because she couldn't read MSDN or work her way through even the simplest of problems. She would dither about over how I used underscores in variable names or put my brackets on the "wrong" lines as she struggled to get anything to compile. The old lady in charge of the department, and didn't know jack herself, just kept blaming a series of contractors as deadline after deadline flew by.

  156. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because most women are more nitpicky than my boss?

  157. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by nitehawk214 · · Score: 3, Funny

    You may be on to something here. I was accused of being sexist (through a third party) by a former coworker because I "avoided" her.

    I avoid all my co-workers.

    Of course if I had heard this directly we could have resolved the misunderstanding. "There is no bigotry here, you are all equally worthless."

    Though perhaps I subconsciously did avoid the feminist one more to avoid that exact awkward conversation. Same reason I avoid my extremely left or right wing coworkers.

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  158. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more l by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Part of the reason for the 3%-vs-6%-vs-10%+ divergence is probably geography. Gays who can leave hostile communities & move to more accepting places (San Francisco, New York, Chicago, DC, Atlanta, etc) usually DO by the time they're in their mid-20s (partly because college campuses are generally tolerant, and the thought of EVER going back to their redneck hometown is just inconceivable). So, a survey of developers in San Francisco would almost unquestionably turn up a MUCH larger percentage of gays than a survey of developers in the Bible Belt. You'd probably find a statistically-significant bump in the percentage of black developers in Atlanta or DC (cities with large, visible middle/upper-class historically-black communities).

    You'd probably also see more female developers in SF or NY than other cities. Female developers are less common than male developers, so *brilliant* female developers will have companies like Google & Facebook rolling out the red carpet and out-bidding competitors in an attempt to hire every female genius they possibly can, reducing the available pool for everyone else.

    Another factor that's not often considered: a smart female developer with young kids might trade a high salary for flexibility of work arrangements... The same deal might be offered to male employees, but unless they're single parents, they'd be more likely to prefer a high salary. Context is everything. As a society, we'd be WORSE off if mothers & single dads with young kids were forced to choose long-term unemployment over lower-paying (but more flexible) jobs.

  159. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by fafalone · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Indeed, and progressives are just screaming racism and sexism even harder and eat their own as they shed members and allies instead of looking inward at their own hypocrisy. Ghost In The Shell? 'It's absolutely disgusting whitewashing to let a white actor play an Asian role! The race of the original character matters!'. Hamilton? 'Color-blind casting is wonderful, anyone who complains about a black or Hispanic actor being cast as a white character is a disgusting racist!'. Few female CEOs? Huge problem. Few male teachers? Good, because they'd just molest the kids anyway.
    Then the other day I read this absolutely infuriating article bemoaning that more women were being imprisoned as they started to face the same punishment as men, and the solution was that even when a woman commits the same exact crime as a man, he should be imprisoned and she should not, and that women should almost never be imprisoned period. The author and almost all the commenters made it clear anyone who thought this was unfair was a sexist. Then on a blog post elsewhere criticizing the article, a sitting US Federal District Judge (Richard Kopf) jumped into the comments to say they yeah the article was bullshit, women shouldn't face no sentence when a man committing the same crime does, she should just face a lesser sentence because she's a woman. Un-fucking-believable, yet of course if this offends your sense of fairness, you're labeled a sexist and thrown out of the progressive clubhouse. The problem is it's no longer about equality, it's about reversing the systemic racism and sexism of the past so that it now favors women and minorities as the advantaged groups.
    I'm a hard believer in absolute equality, believing that everything should be merit-based and sex and color blind. Apparently in the last 10 years or so this has changed from making me progressive to making me a sexist racist, since it also means I don't believe in not being white or not being male as something that should be taken into account in determining merit.

    /rant

  160. Then there's the obvious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    From TFS:

    Women are six times more likely to encounter stereotyping than men (12 versus 2 percent), and twice as likely to be subjected to unsolicited sexual advances (6 vs 3 percent)."

    Aside from the fact that this stereotypes men as "makers of unwanted advances", I suppose someone should point out that men are generally willing to consider sexual advances from women without any associated panic. If those advances are not being made, where's the real discrimination, eh?

    Face it: men pretty much have to do all the put-foot-forward work because women don't do much (hardly any) of it, and the PC toxin is that this is now supposedly a bad thing. Which, frankly, is an idiotic conflict of interest.

    How about women learn to just say "no thanks, not interested" and quit bitching like little children who can't manage their own sexuality.

    You ask me if I want to go on a date, or have sex, or if I'll dress special for you, I will not panic or scream about "unwanted" whatever. I'll just tell you yes or no and go on with life. There's no reason at all women can't do this. Other than claims they are special butterflies inherently different from men... which they keep telling us, very loudly and insistently, that they are not.

    1. Re: Then there's the obvious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You sound unattractive.

    2. Re: Then there's the obvious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should watch the documentary "The Red Pill". It's made by a feminist and ends in a way you wouldn't expect.

    3. Re: Then there's the obvious by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's the other side of that argument as well...

      Despite there only being 3-5% women in the workplace, a full 3% of men experienced unwanted advances. A small minority of women managed to produce half as many unwanted advances as all the men in the industry combined.

      Anecdotally, women in the workplace are no shrinking violets. Women haven't been taught that advances in the workplace are inappropriate, so often they'll behave in ways that would be considered career-ending for men. That isn't every woman, but it's enough.

    4. Re: Then there's the obvious by ChoosyBeggar · · Score: 1

      Once a female co-worker asked me (a software developer) to be an erotic dancer at her friend's bachelorette party. Had I suggested this to a woman developer, I'd have been fired, castrated, and slow-roasted on a spit.

    5. Re: Then there's the obvious by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      I had an 8.5 month pregnant hippo spill a large cup of water in her lap, just to watch me run like a Frenchman.

      I'd do the same thing again, put in the same situation. I don't know much, but I knew she needed a mother to help.

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      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    6. Re: Then there's the obvious by kenh · · Score: 1

      Women can't be sexist, minorities can't be racist - it's the Equality Double-Standard!

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  161. Re:why by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why?

    Dicks don't suck themselves. That's why.

  162. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Reverse discrimination is like unicorns. Often spoken about but never seen.

    Actually, more like air. Spoken about, but so pervasive you stop even noticing it.

    Ironically, so pervasive you stop even noticing it is pretty much the defining feature of white privilege.

    If you think reverse discrimination is so pervasive you stop even noticing it, then congratulations, and welcome, to the other side of privilege. This is what the other half has always been experiencing, for generations.

  163. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by c6gunner · · Score: 1

    Yep, it's trivially easy to disprove a strawman. Certainly much easier than addressing what I actually said.

  164. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by computational+super · · Score: 2

    for generations

    The generations that were born and died before me? Yes, I'm well aware that I'm being made to pay for things that people who died 100 years ago supposedly did.

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  165. Blah Blah Blah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Quit complaining and go get a job as a comedian with all your paychecks cut by WHITE MEN...you'll be much happier.

  166. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're comparing consumption of alcohol with freely admitting homosexuality, when it would be more apt to compare it to practicing homosexuality. If your point is that criminalization wouldn't eliminate homosexual acts, you're right. If your point is that criminalization wouldn't effect the rate of openly-homosexual persons, you are retarded.

  167. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Never go grammar nazi in a defectively written sentence.

  168. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by phantomfive · · Score: 2

    What it suggests, to me, is that the community is far more welcoming than credited for.

    It's much more welcoming. I don't understand all the accusations against tech people for discrimination. If you want to see real sexism, look at salespeople or doctors or bankers. They create truly hostile environments, it is well documented, and yet no one focuses on them. Instead, it's all on tech. Why?

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  169. JA JA JA Feelings? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    According to this women don't like to participate in open source projects because "rudeness" and "name calling" JA JA JA JA JA so they are saying that women are weak and can't work in aggressive environment because feelings.

  170. This is a complex, ingrained problem by fyngyrz · · Score: 1

    If it's unwanted then it's been delivered badly

    That doesn't follow. Unwanted can have many root causes. And the "calculation" involved in an advance is generally "I would like to know this person." Wait too long, you may lose to someone quicker on the draw. Wait, and you miss opportunities, even when you eventually succeed; every day, once gone, is gone forever.

    If you are a desirable person, then you're going to be desired.

    Your point about power dynamic vs. advances is very (probably most) important and will remain relevant even if women learn to shoulder an equal load in the "making advances" category. This is a potential problem in any structured authority system. Generally speaking, the most effective solutions involve only starting relationships at one's own level of authority.

    However, this is not a panacea. My SO's father married his own secretary. My SO was one of my students. Both relationships are very long term (many decades) and have proven to be quite healthy and strong. Authority mismatch is not always an impediment or a bad thing; but the potential for it being a bad thing is much higher than with an equal level person / peer.

    Best thing, IMHO, is that women learn to be initiators so that men don't have to do it the majority of the time. Then we can expect to be approached if we're desired, and we won't have to always be approaching women who may not want to be approached.

    And yes, of course, politeness, consideration, and a willingness to accept whatever answer is given are important for all involved.

    No one should support rude approaches. But when they occur, and they will, don't escalate. Be polite and withdraw as quickly and effectively as possible.

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  171. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by NoSalt · · Score: 1

    I'm on the fence about this. On the one hand, changing diapers is disgusting ... so, YAY! On the other hand, sexism ... BOO!

  172. Re:Hmm...Grrrrl issues by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Unless the developer uses an alias that is super female sounding, like "KittenLove_xoxo"
     
    Dammit.

  173. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by c6gunner · · Score: 1

    Because women are underrepresented, so they have to make up some way to explain the disparity, and Teh Patriarchy helps them push the overarching narrative.

  174. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    The feminists I know want women to be on the draft...

    Do you know this because they tell you, or is it demonstrated through their actions?
    It's a bit difficult to trust this when Internet Feminism creates terms like 'toxic masculinity' and 'male fragility.'

  175. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nothing fosters unity better than paying attention to others' problem only long enough to make them about you. Please, tell me how my brother's suicide was actually because of catcalling, let's fight this problem by writing articles about manspreading, let's end gender roles and tweet about MRAs' 'male fragility.'

  176. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by jedidiah · · Score: 1

    I am a Turing complete system. The minor syntax error was not a problem.

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  177. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by jedidiah · · Score: 1

    I was amused by the "unwanted sexual advances" part. Given current social expectations, that number is gibberish. It's also unclear if it's anything to actually be concerned about.

    On the other hand, without such stuff the local COBOL programmer might still be working in the field rather than being a very respectable housewife.

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  178. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by jedidiah · · Score: 1

    > You mean that when the middle class became so poor that they couldn't afford to have a servant take care of the children the laws changed? What a surprise!

    The middle class originally referred to merchants, not wage slaves. What you think of the middle class really isn't.

    You're all just different levels of the working class.

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  179. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by jedidiah · · Score: 1

    > Reverse discrimination is like unicorns. Often spoken about but never seen.

    No. It's seen. But if you say anything about it you get made fun of.

    We're all equal but some are more equal than others. It's like that other book by Orwell that Democrats keep using like a manual.

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    A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
  180. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Indeed, and progressives ...
    Few male teachers? Good, because they'd just molest the kids anyway.

    I like your tactic: if you can't find something about progressives that you don't like, you just invent things they've done.

    The author and almost all the commenters made it clear anyone who thought this was unfair was a sexist. Then on a blog post elsewhere criticizing the article, a sitting US Federal District Judge (Richard Kopf) jumped into the comments to say they yeah the article was bullshit, women shouldn't face no sentence when a man committing the same crime does, she should just face a lesser sentence because she's a woma

    Don't happen to have a link to that there curious claim?

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  181. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by jedidiah · · Score: 1

    This is why liberals have to dissemble about Silicon Valley and racial equality. They have to actively suppress information about certain races in order to make their narrative work. They have to pretend non-whites are white.

    Some people even hide their non-white racial/ethnic origin in order to avoid reverse discrimination. It's not just for cracker tea baggers.

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    A Pirate and a Puritan look the same on a balance sheet.
  182. 3 comments by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    1) Here's a reason why it's hard to recruit women developers in Silicon Valley: Native-born Americans here are gradually being replaced with people from other countries, especially from India. Most of my neighbors are immigrants from India. (Most of the rest of my neighbors are from China.) In the families from India, the men go to work, and the women stay home. If most of the people living near your company practice a culture in which the women stay home, it's harder to recruit women as employees.

    2) Regarding keeping the women developers: The men that I know are good people, and wouldn't harass a woman. However she might feel uncomfortable being the only woman at work, and not feel as if she fit in. Protect people from harassment, but don't go overboard and punish a guy for nicely asking a woman out one time.

    3) Our goal should be equal opportunity, not equal results. Make sure that men and women have equal opportunity to learn, equal treatment when they apply for a job, and equal treatment at work. Then if a woman decides she wants or doesn't want to work as a developer, that's her decision.

  183. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Any non hypocritical feminist who truly believed in gender equality would either speak out about the draft in general, not juts dodge it themselves or speak out only if it affected women, or accept the responsibility of defending the liberties they hold dear alongside their male counterparts.

    No true feminist... And yet here we are, continuing to require all males 18 years of age to register for selective services and no requirement for women.

  184. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Darinbob · · Score: 1

    In my experience, when I was with medical technology companies, there was the largest percentage of women in software and hardware roles compared to other places I have worked. Speculation, but I can see two reasons, one of which is the concept you have of "greater good" however that is also a strong motivator for many men also. A second large reason is networking - if you've got a sizeable number of women already it becomes easier to recruit other women.

    In other jobs though, larger companies tended to have more women in general, smaller companies fresh out of startup mode tended to be very hghly male dominated. An early computer support job I was at had a very good representation of system admins who were female, but this was the 80s.

  185. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Darinbob · · Score: 1

    I'd prefer to start with children of congress members being first in line to be drafted. That would put a quick halt to war hawk mentalities.

  186. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Darinbob · · Score: 1

    And yet just about every company in the US has a code of conduct.

  187. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by Darinbob · · Score: 1

    And just about every place of employment you can complain to HR and they will pull out their book of rules and codes of conduct and find a way to deal with that person. The asshat is only going to be kept around if no one complains or he's friends with a CEO or founder.

  188. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by wyHunter · · Score: 1

    We haven't had a draft in 43 years. We've had almost continuous war since then. Bzzzt.

  189. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by KGIII · · Score: 1

    Why?

    Hmm... I /really/ hate to hazard a guess. In fact, I'm pretty sure that any answer I give will be wrong, to at least a portion of the population.

    So, of course, I'm going to do it.

    I suspect it's because the tech community is seen as being populated by geeks/nerds. It's also /perceived/ that the jobs are trivial to do. Geeks/nerds are also seen as 'wimpy' and 'pushovers.'

    I'll let you point your own fingers, name your own names, and conclude what you want. However, that's my guess as to the why. Tech makes good money (perceptually) and all tech does is (perceptually) push buttons all day. It's not like tech is populated by (perceptually) people who are going to stand up for themselves. They've been bullied since high school.

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  190. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Looks like a snowflake got triggered! White male tears are the tastiest.

  191. Fishy numbers by ncc74656 · · Score: 1

    In the survey, 95 percent of respondents were men, with the response rate from women at only 3 percent

    95 + 3 != 100. The two numbers in the article should add up to 100, as respondents that aren't male are therefore female.

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  192. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by west · · Score: 1

    > the non-written laws of common courtesy have left the building ages ago.

    I get where you are coming from, but the reality of a very diverse bunch of contributors means that what is considered common courtesy (and thus what can be considered acceptable behaviour) can be shockingly different, depending on cultural upbringing (class, geography, gender, etc.)

    What I consider minimal professional behaviour can be considered stick-up-one's-butt political correctness by others (and not necessarily just male others, either).

    A code of conduct helps an informal organization make it clear what "common courtesy" means to all its members. A useful thing as the monoculture many of us grew up with disappears.

  193. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by west · · Score: 1

    Unreasonable people won't need a code of conduct to be unreasonable. Then again, if someone was genuinely offended by my use of a term, I'm happy to switch it to something less upsetting. That's just basic consideration.

    But a code of conduct can help define minimal expectations from a culturally diverse crowd that might otherwise offend each other without intention of doing so.

  194. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by west · · Score: 1

    I find people who hate arbitrary codes of conduct to be the most pleasurable to work with. I know that they have a sense of humour, and can get into a heated argument without throwing around words like sexism, racism, and discrimination.

    Like you, I'm a middle-class, straight, white male. I'm never going to be the subject or sexism, racism or discrimination, and there's certainly freedom in excluding anyone who doesn't share my cultural context. Indeed, it's often pleasant to work in a monoculture where I can assume that everyone takes things in exactly the way I meant them. Where, because I'm not a raging jerk, it's automatically someone else's fault if they're offended by by anything I say or do.

    However, in the real world, I am expected to be a grown up and deal with people from a wide variety of cultural backgrounds. I am expected to be mature enough to understand that just because I didn't mean to be racist or sexist doesn't mean my words or actions weren't offensive.

    Sure, there are jerks of all stripes. But I find that if I've decided that everyone who I've offended is a "social justice snowflakes who go whining to the boss and/or media at the slightest perceived provocation", then one of those jerks is me.

  195. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by elrous0 · · Score: 1

    I suppose the numbers went up when it stopped being considered criminal, and when it got less likely to get beaten up for being gay.

    I'm pretty sure homosexuality wasn't considered criminal or more likely to get you beat up in the U.S. in 2012, yet the numbers have risen since then (according to that Gallup poll anyway).

    Answer me this: Could you become gay if it become really, really, fashionable?

    No, but I could certainly *pretend* to be gay if it got me a movie role, financial benefit, or significant social clout. I might even be able to convince *myself* that I'm gay if there was enough social pressure on me, or enough benefit to it.

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  196. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Darinbob · · Score: 1

    That's the problem, I said "children of congress members" need to be drafted. They need a built in incentive to stop war, as opposed to not worrying about an all volunteer enlisted pool coming most often from an economically disadvantaged background being the only ones putting their lives on the line.

    The draft did have a part in ending the Vietnam War as too many people knew too many friends, family, and neighbors who were getting drafted and killed. And that was with most children of legislators getting a free pass or opportunity to serve the draft state side. It would have ended much sooner if the people in power pushing for war were losing their own children.

  197. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ArmoredDragon · · Score: 1

    I like your tactic: if you can't find something about progressives that you don't like, you just invent things they've done.

    No, he's got a point. Sure, not all "progressives" have that particular viewpoint, but just because you don't doesn't mean none do. And I use that term loosely because it's a total BULLSHIT term. When somebody identifies as progressive, what they're really saying is that they think their opinions on any given matter are all forward thinking, and every contrary opinion is backwards, even if that other person identifies as progressive.

    Just to give you perspective, Prohibitionists, KKK members, and Nazis have all identified themselves as being progressive at one point or another. Why? Because they're assfucks who can't stand anybody who has a different opinion, just like today's so called progressives who go so far as to implement censorship of unpopular viewpoints at major universities, which are otherwise supposed to be bastions of free speech, no matter the viewpoint.

  198. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    I prefer people to use common sense. I know, I know, it ain't as common as it used to be, but if people have to rely on it and not get to skirt written laws and test how far they can stretch them, they usually are more polite.

    There's a simple rule: Don't be a dick. What's a dick? I know one when I see one. Now get to work!

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  199. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    Where in a professional environment do you have to tell a raunchy joke or drop a racial slur?

    So how could you possibly even get into hot waters, no matter what might be considered common decency?

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  200. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    because if it isn't 50/50 across the board it must be discrimination. That's their logic anyway.

  201. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No such thing as reverse discrimination.

    What you're talking about is discrimination against politically correct targets to attack.

    In 1938, it was politically correct to attack Jews. That didn't work out well.

    In 1960, it was politically correct to attack blacks. That didn't work out well.

    In 1980, it was politically correct to attack gays. That didn't turn out well.

    Bigots of any stripe may hide behind their political correctness, but hating someone because of their gender, sexual orientation, or race and trying to get away with it because it is politically correct is still wrong.

  202. The comments on this article summary by p0larity · · Score: 1

    ...prove the point of the summary.

  203. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by VirtualJWN · · Score: 0

    That is just dumb to say!

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  204. Most of you are snarky and really can't afford to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The commentary here is representative of the undereducated and uneducated on matters more complex then declaring a variable and writing a method. Very sad and indicative of exactly why this kind of study was done in the first place. Grow up or do us all (men, women and gender neutrals) a favor and find employment in a different sector.

  205. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    Sure, not all "progressives" have that particular viewpoint, but just because you don't doesn't mean none do.

    That's a silly argument because it applies to just about any group offer about 5 people. I could equally say you're a man, that guy over there said something stupid, therefore my criticisms of him apply to you.

    Also, the counter to progressive is conservative. Progressives generally want things changed, conservatives think the best option is keeping things as they are. In principle. Except it almost never works like that. Many conservatives actually want things to change into a Christian theocracy of sorts.

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  206. Open source might be anomalous by VirtualJWN · · Score: 0

    Im wondering aboutthe efacacy of restricting this study to open source developers. Developing what exactely? IT products, games, systems software, 3d VR? Need to really look more at "mainstream tech" to detrrmine correlation or deviation For example, most "web dev" now is HTML, Javascript, angular, jquery, etc. Is "that" open source? Technically yes, but effectively no.3

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  207. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

    Know how I know you are ignorant?

    Because there are efforts to get more men into nursing and more men into early childhood adjacent roles (pre-k and elementary teaching) positions.

    Why does some stupid motherfucker always say that no one is concerned about those roles when it is trivial to google and discover that, indeed, people are concerned about not enough men being in those roles.

    Why, it's almost as if those stupid motherfuckers are trying to push an agenda or something.

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  208. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by rhyous · · Score: 1

    Does your skull bend light?

    I've never heard that before. Love it. I'm laughing so hard right now.

  209. Oh please... by MooseMiester · · Score: 1

    There are big ego's in the tech field? And they are often rude to people they consider less awesome than themselves? This can't possibly be true.

    People don't play well in teams sometimes? Really? I'm shocked, shocked I tell you. Clearly it's all because of race/gender/LGBT issues and not because humans of different age and maturity levels have had the same issues for the last thousand years or so. THERE OUGHT TO BE A LAW!!!

    There are snowflakes who run to HR the moment they feel the least bit of pressure? And Catbert is oh, so concerned. Please...

    Ten percent of the people do 90% of the work, and often get paid more than the other 90%? THAT'S SO UNFAIR! It doesn't force mediocrity on everyone! THERE OUGHT TO BE A LAW!!!

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  210. Because they are terrible beings by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Try working with some liberal cunt for five minutes in IT.

  211. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

    It's not politically incorrect, it's just fucking moronical in the extreme.

    Let's think, hm, I wonder why it is that now that it is no longer criminal to be gay and there are legal protections in place to protect people who are known to be gay from discrimination in some places, that more people would identify as gay.

    I'll say it again without the sarcasm because you are obviously too fucking stupid to understand:

    The number of people *openly* identifying as gay (or transgendered too) has been growing steadily BECAUSE IT ISN'T FUCKING ILLEGAL TO BE GAY ANYMORE and because there are laws (in some jurisdictions) preventing discrimination by fucking morons like you against people who are gay.

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  212. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by thesandtiger · · Score: 2

    Are you seriously this fucking stupid?

    It isn't like gayness was decriminalized and suddenly everyone in the US was like "oh, it's cool that people are gay even though previously I hated them and think they are abominations in the eyes of god and would fucking kill my kid if he was to come out as a fag".

    It was decriminalized, and some protections were put in place, but there are still people who HATE gay folk (many of them in politics, at least one of them is the Vice Fucking President).

    Gee, do you think that even though it isn't criminal some people might still have a problem being openly gay? It's not exactly hard to understand, unless one is - like you - an absolute and utter fucking moron.

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  213. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It is, but IT people don't usually change diapers during work so it doesn't affect the workplace in question.

    Never adminned a Windows Server based shop, I see.

  214. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    I've heard a lot about the shortage of male nurses, although not so much babysitters.

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  215. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    Conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

    I'm not so sure about that. This isn't the first time we've had high-tech militaries compared to what we had. Consider the introduction of indirect-fire artillery and radios and complicated vehicles. We dramatically expanded the size of the army before and during WWII using conscription while using more advanced technology than we'd had.

    The goal of high tech is usually to make things more effective and ideally easier on the user, at the cost of greater initial cost. It may require a group of geniuses to devise a cool new device, but it may be easy for the average conscript to use.

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  216. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

    If members of a project aren't already naturally abiding by any reasonable Code of Conduct, I don't want to be part of that project.

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  217. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by elrous0 · · Score: 1

    Lol, being confronted with the truth makes you ANGRY, huh?

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  218. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by elrous0 · · Score: 1

    I wonder why it is that now that it is no longer criminal to be gay and there are legal protections in place to protect people who are known to be gay from discrimination in some places, that more people would identify as gay.

    As I said above, I'm pretty sure homosexuality wasn't considered criminal in the U.S. in 2012, yet the numbers have risen since then (according to that Gallup poll anyway).

    Sorry to challenge the dogma.

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  219. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

    What if it isn't about the gay? I bet there are a higher number of magicians in Github as well. And car modders. And anything else that makes one unattractive to the opposite sex and or ostracizes one from one's peer group. Coding provides an outlet for people who couldn't make it in society otherwise.

    And that includes myself.

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  220. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

    Ah, so you're a troll then - please, do go on about your sad little existence.

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  221. Do they exist? by gargalatas · · Score: 1

    Because there aren't any. They are urban legend!

  222. White males, white males everywhere by Kartu · · Score: 1

    Github wanted to host a conference.

    Apparently the speakers were chosen "blind", i.e. the proposed topics were put to a panel without any details about who the speaker was who'd be presenting that topic. That way the panel was able to choose the speakers for the event without knowing their names, sex, race, sexual orientation or anything else about them. They were choosing purely on the topics the speakers wanted to present.

    Result: a whole lot of fucking white males!

    Obviously that's unacceptable, so naturally they had to cancel the conference rather than host a lineup of speakers chosen purely on merit. /s

    https://news.ycombinator.com/i...
    https://www.reddit.com/r/MensR...

  223. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by KGIII · · Score: 1

    Being a part of that community, but fairly "normal" by most metrics, I'm inclined to think the group is actually pretty welcoming. Hell, there are furries and bronies, and they're judged by the quality of their code submissions.

    I'm a very poor coder, a hack job coder - more than anything, and yet I'm accepted. Trust me, you don't want my code - unless you *really* can't find a better source. Yet, they'll take something like my "fix" and make it better. I love that they explain what changes they made - and why. I love that they're grateful for my spotting a mistake and trying to fix it. I love that I've been made to feel welcome, for a long time - even if my code hasn't improved that much. ;-)

    (I'm not a professional programmer. I'm a retired mathematician.)

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  224. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    And usually so we know what kind of behaviour we cannot expect from HR or the C-Levels.

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  225. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ZayJay · · Score: 1

    I think you're take on this is correct. Most opposition to women in combat came from outside the Pentagon

  226. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by ZayJay · · Score: 1

    This is also on point. The Pentagon has no use for a draft anymore

  227. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Conscription isn't compatible with the needs of a high-tech military.

    I'm not so sure about that. This isn't the first time we've had high-tech militaries compared to what we had.

    A number of nations that have a high tech military have semi-mandatory military service, such as Norway, Finland, Switzerland, Greece, Austria, and Israel. Of these, I believe Norway and Israel are the only two that are gender-neutral.

    Further, many other high tech nations reserve the right to use conscription in time of war.

    The reality of warfare is that it often is a screwed up mess, and many things that seem logically "obvious" to the armchair general turn out to be very hard. High technology options may not be sustainable in an extended serious conflict, especially if something occurs that compromises industrial production (such as a natural disaster, or something political).

  228. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Just try and be a straight fashion designer.

    I was once bitching about the price of ladies swimwear. Was challenged to 'make one'...refused to even try it on. Made of clear plastic wrap, dental floss and clear tape, it was a thing of beauty, I've been denied millions by their heterophobia.

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  229. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Words change meaning. Liberal once meant 'in favor of liberty', not for 200 years though.

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    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  230. Re: "Feel uncomfortable"? by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Or the boss is positioning the company for sale and wants seat warmers, knowing he'll be gone before the shit hits the fan.

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    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  231. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Dicks, pussies and assholes...

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  232. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by swillden · · Score: 1

    Yes, precisely; they don't mind saying they're in favour of an "equal draft" because they know it's unlikely to be used, and they know that in the case that any government were thinking about using it they could just protest it in it's entirety.

    The above sentence is almost true... but terribly misleading and false because of that.

    It's false because it claims that feminists would only support equality because they won't be drafted, and implies that they would only protest the draft if they might be drafted. Neither of those things are true. What is true is (a) they support equality in all things (including the draft), (b) many of them oppose the draft. There's no basis for implying any causal connection between those, any more than there is for implying that they would protest the draft because the oppose anti-abortion laws. Many of the same people who oppose the draft are also pro-choice, but not because one thing really has anything to do with the other; both just arise from a common philosophical basis (well, actually more of a common cultural basis).

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  233. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Professional environment?

    At the titie bar, at lunch with my co-workers...the raunchy joke not the slur. Or at the tittie bar, near the hotel, while on the road with the company president. Or at the tittie bar near the airport, while waiting out a long delay. Strippers are professionals...

    BTW Have you ever tried to get a receipt from a stripper, for tips from gyno row? They really ought to have them tucked into their panties.

    Women aren't even going to want to be invited, we speak in code about it anyhow. Once, one of them figured out what 'free lunch' ment, saw the sign I guess.

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    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  234. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ArmoredDragon · · Score: 1

    Also, the counter to progressive is conservative. Progressives generally want things changed, conservatives think the best option is keeping things as they are.

    Is that so? Well then, explain to me why so called progressives go out of their way to censor speech at universities in order to maintain the status quo.

    But, don't bother. The thing is, this line you gave? Also total bullshit. Self identified conservatives want to change things all the time (for example, banning abortion is on their bucket list, and that by definition would be a change.) Progressives also resist change on many topics (as another example, they want to prohibit full incorporation of second amendment rights.)

  235. OMG! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Woman here. Do you want to know why women don't like to get involved in open source, or date people from work?

    1. We're busy.
    2. Just look at the comments on this thread. Half of you are discussing the best way to "f***" us. NO.
    3. My name is No, my sign is No, my number is No, you need to let it go.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cMTAUr3Nm6I

  236. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by fafalone · · Score: 1

    If you think feminists are actually concerned about there being far more female teachers than male, or that there's not bias against men in childcare roles because of pedophilia paranoia, you haven't been paying attention.

    I do in fact have links to that "curious" claim. The original article is here... sub-headline being "Sentencing systems around the world should be radically reformed to start with the assumption that women should not be sent to prison for their crimes"
    And the blog post discussing that article with the comment by Judge Kopf (who, to be fair, is normally a very reasonable guy and one of the better federal judges) is here.

  237. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Most estimates have actual gays - whether openly or not - around 10%

    7% openly gay would mean that the last 3% are still afraid to come out.

  238. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    You appear to be in violent agreement story of part of my post while ignoring the point in the first half. Would you like to try again?

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  239. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more lik by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    High technology survived in early WWI, despite nobody having an appropriate industrial base. The British lacked the ability to make enough machine guns, and all armies struggled with ammo shortages. High tech can get strained, but I haven't seen it go away.

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  240. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The point of your first part would have more relevance if progressives aren't frequently caught applying the same argument themselves.

    I mean, a great deal of protest against Trump was that because *some* people supporting Trump are racist/sexist/homophobic/deplorable, if you support Trump, you are also somehow deplorable.

    There's that memtastic video of Carl the cuck and Aids Skillrex shouting "you're a white male" as if that's some sort of rational retort.

    During the GamerGate debacle, we have people who dismiss any and all concerns from people who associate with the label, simply because a few (allegedly, AFAIK nobody's been caught and charged) people harassed and sent death threats.

  241. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I mean, a great deal of protest against Trump was that because *some* people supporting Trump are racist/sexist/homophobic/deplorable, if you support Trump, you are also somehow deplorable.

    While we did point out that many major racists, sexists, and other bigots were voting for Trump, it was part of a warning that Trump is actually a racist, sexist, piece of shit, and if it wasn't obvious from his actions, then it should have been obvious from the fact people from David Duke to Richard Spenser were embracing his candidacy and describing him as a fellow traveler.

    There's that memtastic video of Carl the cuck and Aids Skillrex shouting "you're a white male" as if that's some sort of rational retort.

    Who?

    During the GamerGate debacle, we have people who dismiss any and all concerns from people who associate with the label, simply because a few (allegedly, AFAIK nobody's been caught and charged) people harassed and sent death threats.

    No, we rejected the concerns because they were bullshit. We also pointed out that Gamergate's participants comprised of a large group that were harassing, at various levels, from dogpiling and other Internet obnoxiousness, to death threats and SWATing, women on the Internet, and then lying about it and pretending it wasn't happening.

    Gamergate's arguments weren't worth jack shit. There's no ethical problem with video game reviews bemoaning a lack of diversity. There's no ethical problem with a journalist having a brief sexual encounter with a developer whose work he barely covers. There's no conspiracy by feminists to take away your computer games, just a desire to see more games aimed at groups other than a rump of white males. None of you had even watched a single episode of Tropes vs Women in Video Games, which you made all kinds of claims about, as obvious from the claims you were making that had nothing whatsoever to do with anything in those shows or beared any resemblance to anything Anita Sarkeesian ever said.

    Gamergate was a flowing fountain of bullshit that propped up a serious attempt to intimidate women in computing. Everyone who was involved in that campaign ought to be embarrassed they had anything to do with it.

  242. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    or male vets or male biologists

  243. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ArmoredDragon · · Score: 1

    You appear to be in violent agreement story of part of my post while ignoring the point in the first half. Would you like to try again?

    No, I haven't. What I'm getting at is the term progressive is really vague, and ultimately labeling onesself as progressive is for one single purpose: Telling others that your opinions are unilaterally better than theirs because they are progressive, which I might add is perfectly consistent with the behavior of prohibitionists and nazis.

  244. Re:how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more like by ArmoredDragon · · Score: 1

    No, we rejected the concerns because they were bullshit. We also pointed out that Gamergate's participants comprised of a large group that were harassing, at various levels, from dogpiling and other Internet obnoxiousness, to death threats and SWATing, women on the Internet, and then lying about it and pretending it wasn't happening.

    What the fuck are you talking about? Brianna Wu was caught numerous times fabricating harassment against herself/himself. For example, he/she was caught red handed creating a sockpuppet steam account to harass and denigrate his/her main account to try to prove that gamers were bad.

    Anita Sarkeesan wasn't much better, and her major crime was making a big shit about everything that was un-PC about gaming, in addition to way over dramatizing the actual threats made against her. Why do I say over dramatizing it? Because the FBI identified all four (yes, four) that made the vast majority of those supposed threats, and after their investigation they felt it was benign enough that it didn't warrant any arrest. And even if you want to argue that the FBI was just biased, she could have always filed civil charges against them, and civil charges have a MUCH lower burden of proof than criminal charges.

    In addition to this, a few homosexual and feminist journalists (who themselves would have been just as big a target of gamergate) actually came forth on youtube and said that when they tried to investigate this for themselves, both Brianna Wu and Anita Sarkeesan started blaming them for being part of this giant conspiracy, and put their fans up to harassing them.

    That said, both of them strike me as being just like the lady that harassed Hugh Mungus, and they're both just two assholes trying to assume some kind of moral high ground.

    And I don't know about you, but every time I see females playing FPS games and MMOs (and believe me, I've seen hundreds, especially in WoW,) the male gamers never threatened them or made death threats even one time. Do they hit on them? Absolutely, but not because they're gamers. They do it because most of them are basement dwellers and think that because a female has something in common with them (gaming) that they have a good chance of finally meeting a real female.

    Either way, this behavior isn't even slightly unique to gaming.

    None of you had even watched a single episode of Tropes vs Women in Video Games

    I did, and it was a huge orgy of pedantry. Essentially she argues that 8-bit games which wanted to tell a story with very limited resources available were evil for adding things like lipstick and bows to say to their audience that "this is a female". But this is because otherwise most people (even women) just assume that it's a male unless they see clear cues of otherwise. By the way, even female game developers did exactly this. The only way of avoiding these assumptions is to put specific cues in the games. Early games had no or very little story dialogue (you were literally controlling a low resolution sprite the whole game) so those cues were quite necessary. Even for later games she mentioned, like Angry Birds, also have a lack of dialogue, so they needed to add cues to specify gender. In other words, all of this isn't a form of bias, it's just done out of necessity.

    Just to give you an idea of what I mean, have a look at pretty much any Anime cartoon. Notice how all of the characters appear white and have round eyes like Caucasians? Well when Japanese people watch these shows, to them the default person is a Japaneses male, and so even though these characters look Caucasian, the viewers in Japan see Japanese people. When they want to override that assumption and have their artwork say "this is a Caucasian", they make the character's nose look really big. Why? Because to Japanese people, white people have really big noses. For a domestic example, consider The Simpsons. Do you know anybody who has dark yellow skin? Even people with jaundice don't look that

  245. Warning signs are there because they are needed by Dareth · · Score: 1

    Two warning signs stuck with me over the years. "Do not attempt to identify acid by tasting it." posted in a school chemistry lab.
    And a warning on a toy basketball goal. "Do not attempt to slam dunk on goal, especially if you have braces."

    That second part sounds especially painful just to imagine.

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    I only look human.
    My mother is a halfling and my dad is an ogre, so that makes me an Ogreling
  246. Re:"Feel uncomfortable"? by west · · Score: 1

    So how could you possibly even get into hot waters, no matter what might be considered common decency?

    Okay,let's take one example. I come from a pretty hard-core geek background and worked for a while with a small group of geeks in software development. We were a mono-culture. Meetings used an extremely efficient unwritten code. When you thought you understood a point someone was making and you either understood or disagreed, you cut them off, and raised your voice slightly. They instantly evaluated whether they thought you had understood them and either continued, raising their voice, or ceded control of the conversation. This could go back and forth for a second or two, with both sides evaluating the strength of their point and the other's point until someone backed down (which usually took maybe 2-3 seconds at most. Failing to cede to a stronger point made you look like an idiot, so there was enough incentive to realistically evaluate.)

    As long as everyone was understood this verbal ballet, you could have a 2 hour meeting with barely a single sentence carried to completion. It was an intricate dance with everyone participating, barely a wasted word, and it would also last about 30 minutes instead of the two hours.

    It also utterly excluded anyone who wasn't raised middle-class white male geek. The idea that interrupting people was horribly rude, that people who had something vital to say would never speak up because they were raised to not interrupt didn't occur to anyone in the group. The idea that people felt dismissed, demeaned and generally devalued wasn't even on my radar.

    Now in this case, no one went to HR. What it took was for me to get ever so slightly annoyed that one of our best programmers (a woman) let us waste half an hour walking into the swamp that she was well aware of. She explained (with far more patience that I would have shown if the roles were reversed) why she did not feel comfortable speaking. She'd never been asked for her opinion. She was usually cut off after a sentence or two, etc., etc.

    From my cultural background, it was *her* responsibility to barge in, interrupt us, and if we didn't catch on immediately, raise her voice to indicate this was a "real" point.

    Anyway, we did get straightened out, adjusted our meeting culture to take into account the reality that a modern high-tech workforce is probably only 20% standard middle-class white male geek, and that the cultural standards that I assumed were default were anything but.

    A code of conduct would have acted as a reminder that one doesn't have to be a jerk to end up being a jerk...

  247. Re: how 25 versus 15 percent is six times more li by Cipheron · · Score: 1

    "oft enough" is an actual phrase however. There is not grammar or spelling mistake here, only a missing space.