24 Women Allege Sexual Harassment By Investors, and Another VC Gets Demoted (nytimes.com)
An anonymous reader writes: Friday technology investor Dave McClure tweeted a link to a statement from the new CEO of the start-up incubator he co-founded which announces his demotion after engaging in "inappropriate interactions with women in the tech community." The new CEO of 500 Startups says "I sincerely apologize for the choices he made and the pain and stress they've caused people. But apologies aren't enough without meaningful actions and change. Because of this, we made the decision a few months ago to change the leadership structure at 500." Meanwhile, McClure will attend counseling "to work on changing his perspectives and preventing his previous unacceptable behavior... As much as we want to be part of the solution, we clearly have also been part of the problem."
The same day more than two dozen female entrepreneurs told the New York Times about incidents of sexual harassment in the start-up industry, "often providing corroborating messages and emails." Several women told the Times they were warned that saying anything might lead to ostracism. Chris Sacca -- whose firm invested in Twitter, Uber, Instagram, Twilio, and Kickstarter -- told the Times he was grateful for the courage of the female entrepreneur who told the Times how he'd propositioned her, and Sacca also wrote in a post on Medium, "I've learned that it's often the less obvious, yet pervasive and questionable, everyday behaviors of men in our industry that collectively make it inhospitable for women... It's the unrelenting, day-to-day culture of dismissiveness that creates a continually bleak environment for women and other underrepresented groups." The article also notes that Justin Caldbeck -- accused by six different founders of making unwanted advances -- worked at three different VC firms over the last seven years. The Times also cites a 2014 admission by investor Pavel Curda that he sent two women text messages asking for sex after a networking event, adding "The new accounts underscore how sexual harassment in the tech start-up ecosystem goes beyond one firm and is pervasive and ingrained."
The same day more than two dozen female entrepreneurs told the New York Times about incidents of sexual harassment in the start-up industry, "often providing corroborating messages and emails." Several women told the Times they were warned that saying anything might lead to ostracism. Chris Sacca -- whose firm invested in Twitter, Uber, Instagram, Twilio, and Kickstarter -- told the Times he was grateful for the courage of the female entrepreneur who told the Times how he'd propositioned her, and Sacca also wrote in a post on Medium, "I've learned that it's often the less obvious, yet pervasive and questionable, everyday behaviors of men in our industry that collectively make it inhospitable for women... It's the unrelenting, day-to-day culture of dismissiveness that creates a continually bleak environment for women and other underrepresented groups." The article also notes that Justin Caldbeck -- accused by six different founders of making unwanted advances -- worked at three different VC firms over the last seven years. The Times also cites a 2014 admission by investor Pavel Curda that he sent two women text messages asking for sex after a networking event, adding "The new accounts underscore how sexual harassment in the tech start-up ecosystem goes beyond one firm and is pervasive and ingrained."
Remember, a "VC" is someone who wants to get rich off of someone else's work and creativity. Parasites. They produce nothing but exploitation. It should not surprise that they seek to exploit everyone they meet.
You are welcome on my lawn.
Shut the fuck up you slag and get back in the kitchen...
Wow, are you seriously telling me that people who love money over everything else in the world would behave immorally? Noooo way.
That does not sound like the money-grubbers we have all come to respect and love (Bank of America, Fannie-Mae, JPMorgan Chase, Goldman Sachs, Merrill Lynch, Lehman Brothers, Freddie Mac)
1. Be rich 2. Be good looking
WTF does that mean?
People in high responsibility positions like VCs tend to think they're right about things. That's not dismissiveness, that's playing the odds. Odds are, these people understand their own business better than random bystanders. The race or gender of the random bystanders doesn't change that.
Race or gender or other difference probably makes it harder to communicate and change someone's understanding though. That's not a fault, that's humanity.
Everyone should read PopeRatzo's comment and understand it.
Then think about how much better off you'd be without any of the products or services that were backed by VCs or motivated by profits.
and I don't like it. I'd sue, but being women, they don't have any money.
"Hi, I'm Dave McClure. You may remember me from such investment proposals as "Shake your ass for this investment cash!" and "Why yes, your funds are in my hotel room - let's go up and fetch them...."
Dear Diary...today I was pompous and my sister was crazy.
If you have money you have as much pussy as you want. You can have every type you want: Asian, African, Indian, White. You can have pussy for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
That's how it is.
women will lose the ability to exchange poon for cash in a VC investment deal, making the availability of cash to male entrepreneurs much more even. You don't get males able to bang for investment cash very often.
We should go back to the times when you would have to meet investors and raise venture capital at places like the Bohemian Grove.
Have gnu, will travel.
Can we please spread that out across several articles at least? That's too much apologetic bullshit to digest in one sitting.
Asking for sex isn't harassment, there's no way to know if an advance is unwanted until it's made.
It's when a rejected attempt is repeated or when the request happens in a formal business setting that it's a problem.
If it was Ryan Gosling investing the money and sending the texts, they'd be all over his dick.
"All the American misogynist pigs will be replaced by H1-B-visa-holding misogynist pigs. Please train your replacements in your most effective misogynistic methods, or you will not be getting a severance package."
He wasn't condoning it, he was stating that reality might not be what the OP thinks it is.
If you think I voted for Trump because of this post, you're wrong. I voted for Dr. Jill Stein of the Green Party. Again.
I just don't understand these guys. I'm a guy, I've been working in IT/CS-related positions all my adult life, mostly around and with guys, no surprise there. However, every professional experience I had with female co-workers and external project partners has been very positive, successful, and exceptionally smooth. As in all aspects of life, probably not all people are exceptionally talented and I might have been very lucky to work with such women. However, I have to say, everyone willing to gamble with their professional relationships for, how to put it, non-professional reasons, is simply an idiot and not worth having contact with.
I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I can think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do.
Let me help you. Here's my million dollar tip:
Ask for a date first before you ask for sex.
You can thank me later.
No one does it better to women than they do to themselves by allowing men to do it to them. They choose not to rise above base animal instincts and reward and procreate with the aggro scum who have the $$$. The Earth belongs to aggro disgusting scum until everything collaspes and burns from the consequences...
The skepticism you refer to exists mainly because feminists have created a credibility problem for women in these matters.
Then male snowflakes can run to their lawyers to claim harassment:
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017...
It's implied mostly via nonverbal cues on both sides.
Oh boy.
Here's a true million dollar tip:
Don't get married.
All costs totaled (including kids, luxury, divorce, and adjusted for the supposed salary bump), a marriage will reduce a self-made millionaire to a poverty line existence with no retirement.
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A false domestic violence charge, or a false rape charge, will wind up costing you thousands of dollars even if there is no conviction; and convictions are possible even of she doesn't have a shred of evidence to back it up.
I am going to sit here and admit that I am paranoid about interacting with women...reading the news will do that to a person.
Now you tell me? I've been happily married for almost twenty years and have three kids.
Men have primary sexual traits that go beyond appearance. Wealth, stature, power are all more important than looks for a man.
Good-bye
Honest to god, if it wasn't for women, we wouldn't be motivated to do anything. You women really think we care about muscle cars? Clothes? Religion? Environment? Social networking? Funny how the things we tend to have in common are often either the most expensive or pop-culturally idealistic. It's not a coincidence or a match made in heaven. And guess what? If any guy could play video games and get blowjobs all day, we'd would have no reason to work towards anything. So, call flirting "sexual harassment" all you want, but the day it stops, so have we. I hate to break it to you all, but you're half of the species will never be fully satisfied or feel completely safe. You never have been and you never will be. Our technology is evolving faster than our ethics and because of the instant gratification, you feel like things you want should of been here yesterday. I can't tell you how many old ladies I've talk to about Feminism just to find out how ridiculous all of them think it is and they were the ones that could have actually used it back in their day. You don't need it; what you do need is to stop dressing like porn characters only to freak out when our human nature reacts. Be happy you have guys flirting with you; a lot of women don't have that problem, but some pretend to as to not look undesirable. How long have self-actualizing humans been around? Hmmmmm....a very long time. So in short, good luck. Maybe we will get another chance at a "Hillary" next election, but until you guys can figure out a way to want to be treated "equally" but not be so damn annoying about it, it's not going to happen; you're only gnawing at ankles and showing that you're incapable of separating logic from emotion and every failed attempt you make helps desensitize those that could use an alternate paradigm.
You have ultra-privileged women angling for power and wealth complaining about the fact that a bunch of arrogant, ultra-wealthy men proposition them, and the neckbeards on Slashdot getting all worked up about it. It's like the poor, starving peasants of France getting worked up about the fact that noblemen proposition noblewomen at Versailles.
Wake up, people: the men and the women in these stories would look with nothing but contempt upon the likes of you if they even noticed that you existed.
Your wife has three...
The stork brought them don't cha know, so that I could raise them.
She kept her last name, the kids have mine.
The ultimate irony is that she has been raised by hippie parents, is as liberal as they come, and considers herself an atheist. Yet, I was her first boyfriend and she was a virgin when we met.
Marriage takes constant effort, and priorities change.
Yet, after so many years one thing is certain, my SO knows me better than anybody else and nobody knows her better than I do.
We are both flawed, but we rely on each other and know that we can. Right now our shared responsibility is the kids. Everything else is secondary. Who knows where things will go once the kids don't need us any more. But one thing is for sure, I will always respect and support her.
This is the kind of "exploitation" we're talking about:
At a mostly male tech gathering in Las Vegas in 2009, Susan Wu, an entrepreneur and investor, said that Mr. Sacca, an investor and former Google executive, touched her face without her consent in a way that made her uncomfortable.
That's from the article linked in the summary.
lucm, indeed.
Yeah I'm sure that's what she told you, was probably afraid she'd bruise your precious little ego if you knew you weren't her first.
Whoa! That guy must be busier than a one-legged man in an ass kicking contest.
Gee, for decades it was SOP to simply call any woman who ever asserted something bad happened to them a slut, because we all "know" bad things do not happen to good girls. Now that the old song does not work anyone, it is because these kinds of allegations are finally gaining traction that we should not believe them.
No, the skepticism has always been there, only the exact arguments why this skepticism today must be believed keep changing, well, a little bit. It is plausible that the pendulum will (or has) swing too far. But I would like to evidence such is the case, rather than just a lot of handwaving.
I agree with you... don't get me wrong. I've worked in I.T. for around 20 years in small to mid-sized businesses, both more "blue collar" type manufacturing places and "white collar" marketing places. And my own experiences are the same as yours. My co-workers and I in I.T. just want to get things done and accomplish the goal of making the business run a little bit better for everybody. Female co-workers I've worked with always seemed to be on that same page, and I don't recall any of the issues you keep hearing about in Silicon Valley.
But that said? Another person who replied to your post is correct too. This behavior tends to come from those in power positions in companies, not the "rank and file" workers.
The upper management types are used to making demands and having the rest of the workforce rush around trying to meet those demands. Is it stupid for them to risk their well-paid position for a sexual affair with somebody? Arguably yes! But sex has always been about emotions over logic. And for some, the thrill of "possibly getting caught" makes the whole thing way more exciting and enticing.
I've definitely worked at a couple of places where I had strong suspicions that an attractive younger gal was, indeed, involved in a secret relationship with a President or CIO of Finance. The whole time I worked for those companies though? They were never formally accused or "outed" for it. I suspect that's reality in the Valley too. A lot of this misbehavior has gone unpunished because plenty of females working there don't want to lose a good paying job that keeps a roof over their head and a car note paid. And being subordinate to the folks in the power positions at or near the top? They're going to have a big, uphill battle involving attorneys at great expense if they want to go up against it.
Women like sex too. Don't just push that aside like it's such a shameful thing for a woman to want.
Nothing shameful about it, but relying on non-verbal cues is not want you want to do in this situation.
Dude you know about that whole virginity thing? Nobody clued you in? If you'd ever encountered a hymen you'd knew it.
I feel that the only reason why the media focuses so much on tech is that they feel we'll shrivel up and `cave'.
I have worked with other industries (oil, finance, construction, retal). Have friends who work there. What is supposed to be happening in tech is mild compared to the daily reality in other industries. The only difference is that these guys will take the media to take a hike if they are subjected to this coverage. And they will unleash the lawyers.
The tech industry:
1) Has a lot of money
2) Is mostly composed of apologetic men (`beta males' ?) who are frankly uncomfortable/scared around women, and are paranoid about not always doing the logically correct thing. They are afraid that Captain Picard is continuously judging them. Basically they are ripe targets and natural victims.
3) Do not know how to hit back/divert these criticism.
Can you imagine a tide of similar accusations against Exxon, or Goldman Sachs? `Endemic discrimination against women in the oil industry/not enough women in construction'? Hell, the country just elected a guy who is the poster child for this stuff... and plenty of educated women voted for him.
Dear troll, If it was simple for you to understand, you'd understand, but you don't. It is proven that it isn't calories in vs calories out. Your body intentionally shuts down functions for preservation. Eat less, and your body feels like shit (know any skinny girls who are fucking cold ALL the time?). It is also proven to be genetic. Experiments have been done with adopted twins. I agree a diet of rotten Ronnie's is bad for weight loss, but it's also stupid to be giving incorrect advice.
Where is the irony? Also, it's pretty common for a girl to still be a virgin when she MEETS her first boyfriend... not sure what your point was. Unless you're a proud redneck.
What's you point? Is there anything wrong with being a proud redneck?
At any rate, my point was we pretty much ended up living in accordance with very conservative values, although this was never our goal, and there is no religion prodding us to live that way.
These diversity candidates only gold diggers wishing to have the ability to do unchecked harassment - in the name of mandated diversity.
Twitter supports and protects racists - by smearing their critics with the "Hate Speech" label.
One could also argue that their diversity status is their way for getting rich off of someone else's work & creativity.
Take away that from diversity candidates and they have no gold to dig.
Twitter supports and protects racists - by smearing their critics with the "Hate Speech" label.
Someone modded you flamebait instead of posting something with some thought. You're right, it is a grab bag. I've been accused twice and I'm a nobody. Both times I managed to prove they were lying. Both times they changed their story once I showed it couldn't have happened trying to save the claim. Both times they simply dug themselves a larger hole to get out of. So what happened to them? *NOTHING*. They get no penalty. I asked about it and a lawyer told me there's nothing I could do about it. He thought the chances of me winning something were about the same as being hit by lightning. I think I should be able to sue them personally and win big. This is a very personal attack and it's TERRIBLE to go through. Suppose I couldn't prove that they were lying? I would have been screwed.
I think we need to be protected from BS accusations.
Among the best comments I've ever read on Slashdot.
"You can justify anything by putting it in quotes, adding a famous name and making it a sig" - Albert Einstein
These were basically all the documented cases of situations where the aggressor wasn't good looking enough. Because if the aggressor was a 10/10 it would have been "Our eyes met from across the room, it was dreamy", and if he was a 5/10 it would have been "he was eyeing me in a creepy way, it was awkwarrrrrd", and would have been documented as sexual harassment. Pretty sure the whole male/female interaction dynamic is way skewed to begin with. Far too skewed for any reliable studies and too many social underpinnings guiding our reactions to situations such as these. Obviously no means no, but the hair trigger is strong in some of those documented cases, I'm sure. I'm fairly certain it all comes down to which cases were mutually shared/desired harassment, which is normally a love life, or whatever you guys call it. Those cases don't get reported. Or studied. Just the ones where the aggressor's attempt(s) were unrequited.
Thanks! Much appreciated.