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Fired Tech Workers Turn To Chatbots for Counseling (bloomberg.com)

An anonymous reader shares a Bloomberg report: For months Lovkesh Joshi was quietly terrified of losing his job as a manager at a top Indian tech services company. Joshi didn't want to burden his wife or friends so he turned to a chatbot therapist called Wysa. Powered by AI, the app promises to be "loyal, supportive and very private," and encourages users to divulge their feelings about a recent major event or big change in their lives. "I could open up and talk," says the 41-year-old father of two school-age children, who says his conversations with the bot flowed naturally. "I felt heard and understood." Joshi moved to a large rival outsourcer two months ago. The upheaval in India's $154 billion tech outsourcing industry has prompted thousands of Indians to seek solace in online therapy services. People accustomed to holding down prestigious jobs and pulling in handsome salaries are losing out to automation, a shift away from long-term legacy contracts and curbs on U.S. work visas. McKinsey & Co says almost half of the four million people working in India's IT services industry will become "irrelevant" in the next three to four years. Indians, like people the world over, tend to hide their mental anguish for fear of being stigmatized. That's why many are embracing the convenience, anonymity and affordability of online counseling startups, most of which use human therapists.

96 comments

  1. Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1, Interesting

    >the 41-year-old father of two school-age children, who says his conversations with the bot flowed naturally. "I felt heard and understood."

    No way would I hire someone who feels 'heard and understood' after an exchange with a chat bot. This is somebody without the social skills to have anyone in their life to talk to, and will spill to a dumb text parser. How can you have the intellectual capacity to understand what a chat bot is and still gain any emotional benefit from interacting with one?

    Root causes, buddy, root causes. Figure out why you don't have an actual intelligent human in your life to discuss this stuff with, maybe work on that. Because humans are social primates, and if you're not taking care of your social needs, everything else will eventually crumble anyway.

    1. Re:Get a damn friend by lucasnate1 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.

    2. Re:Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 4, Funny

      That is interesting. Please go on.

      Response courtesy of Eliza: https://www.eclecticenergies.c...

    3. Re:Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >No way would I hire someone who feels 'heard and understood' after an exchange with a chat bot.

      Good thing a primitive, obsolete, ignorant and technological backwards person like you will never be in the position to hire anyone. At least not by your own merit.

    4. Re:Get a damn friend by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      If it's programmed intelligently there's no reason it couldn't be equivalent to (or better than) a human therapist. Maybe it even produced this output...
      Root causes, buddy, root causes. Figure out why you don't have an actual intelligent human in your life to discuss this stuff with, maybe work on that. Because humans are social primates, and if you're not taking care of your social needs, everything else will eventually crumble anyway.

    5. Re:Get a damn friend by dunkelfalke · · Score: 2

      It looks that you way overestimate your own people skills.
      People pray and gain emotional benefit from that. A chatbot at least answers.

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    6. Re: Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are just so cool I don't want it anymore lol it's a bad app and it is really fun and I can play with my friends or anyone who doesn't know what about the game they have just been playing with their own game they have just not going back and yet I have just to go back and start the app.

      Response courtesy of iPhone next word prediction.

    7. Re:Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 0

      >People pray and gain emotional benefit from that.

      I don't trust people who pray, either... but as a general rule religious people seem to manage to compartmentalize their irrational thinking.

      >A chatbot at least answers.

      A person who prays provides their own answer even if they're not realizing that is the case, so unlike a chat bot there's actually some intelligence there.

    8. Re:Get a damn friend by luis_a_espinal · · Score: 2

      >the 41-year-old father of two school-age children, who says his conversations with the bot flowed naturally. "I felt heard and understood."

      No way would I hire someone who feels 'heard and understood' after an exchange with a chat bot. This is somebody without the social skills to have anyone in their life to talk to, and will spill to a dumb text parser. How can you have the intellectual capacity to understand what a chat bot is and still gain any emotional benefit from interacting with one?

      Root causes, buddy, root causes. Figure out why you don't have an actual intelligent human in your life to discuss this stuff with, maybe work on that. Because humans are social primates, and if you're not taking care of your social needs, everything else will eventually crumble anyway.

      Easy to say in your culture. In other cultures where hierarchy can make you or break you (literally), this is just not possible.

      You never understand your own culture (the pros and cons of it) until you have actually stepped out of it, at least for long enough to allow some reflection.

    9. Re:Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

      >If it's programmed intelligently there's no reason it couldn't be equivalent to (or better than) a human therapist.

      Even though humans are doing the same thing - receive stimulus/apply rule/respond - there's no program out there yet that is anywhere near complex enough to do what we do.

      So far as I am aware, the Turing test has only been 'passed' by severely constraining the breadth of conversation.

    10. Re:Get a damn friend by DarkOx · · Score: 2

      Don't know, is the father of two school-age children so presumably a human woman agreed to unprotected sex with him at some point.

      That suggests his social skills go far beyond the typical Slashdot poster.

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    11. Re:Get a damn friend by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1

      I don't trust people who pray, either... but as a general rule religious people seem to manage to compartmentalize their irrational thinking.

      Not really, because they don't consider it being irrational. While a person conversating with a chatbot merely pretends that it is a conversation with a real person. No different than a bit of daydreaming.

      A person who prays provides their own answer even if they're not realizing that is the case, so unlike a chat bot there's actually some intelligence there.

      So you don't consider the developers of a chatbot intelligent? I don't think I'd want to work for you in first place.

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    12. Re: Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

      >Response courtesy of iPhone next word prediction.

      Ugh. I have enough trouble with my iPhone autocorrecting what I've already typed without dealing with it telling me what it thinks I'm going to type next.

      Apparently this is something that is (thankfully) off by default, because I have never experienced it.

    13. Re: Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Looks like most Reddit comments and texts from many coworkers/acquaintances.

      I'd take a bot just as much as one of those.

    14. Re:Get a damn friend by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

      You appear to be deliberately misunderstanding me just to be contrary. That's not very productive.

    15. Re:Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      WOW!
      I now feel more sad for you then I did for the displaced workers. I hope you recover from such a sad mental state soon.

    16. Re:Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As far as I'm aware, the Turing test has never been passed. Every article that says something passed the Turing test always leaves out one rather important constraint. The person evaluating it is supposed to be an expert in the field, not just some bozo off the street. All the "passes" have involved nothing but bozos off the street.

    17. Re:Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      He's from a primitive third world culture where women have no rights and are arranged to be married to their uncle or cousin.

    18. Re:Get a damn friend by Hal_Porter · · Score: 1

      So far as I am aware, the Turing test has only been 'passed' by severely constraining the breadth of conversation.

      How long have you been aware, the Turing test has only been 'passed' by severely constraining the breadth of conversation?

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    19. Re:Get a damn friend by 140Mandak262Jamuna · · Score: 1

      What makes you think many people around you are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reinforcement in order to engage predetermined responses?

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    20. Re:Get a damn friend by Kjella · · Score: 2

      A person who prays provides their own answer even if they're not realizing that is the case, so unlike a chat bot there's actually some intelligence there.

      Have you ever started talking to a coworker about some sort of issue and in the process of explaining it figured out the solution yourself? How often does a therapist really any have true insight versus simply talking you through your emotions? I think you've fallen off the deep end if you think a chat bot "understands you", but I have no doubt that it can have a big effect to verbalize your thoughts even if you're talking to a teddy bear or rag doll, picture or grave of the deceased or some other inanimate object. And then a chat bot could potentially be better, if it'll ask the thorny questions.

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    21. Re:Get a damn friend by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

      The fact that you and baron yam responded exactly the same proves my point.

    22. Re:Get a damn friend by Glarimore · · Score: 2

      In a country with a large proportion of arranged marriages, not necessarily.

    23. Re:Get a damn friend by war4peace · · Score: 2

      No way would I hire someone who feels 'heard and understood' after an exchange with a chat bot. This is somebody without the social skills to have anyone in their life to talk to, and will spill to a dumb text parser. How can you have the intellectual capacity to understand what a chat bot is and still gain any emotional benefit from interacting with one?

      Many people become IT engineers because this type of jobs allow them to isolate from society as much as possible while still being productive and earning money. Yes, they would feel more comfortable talking to a chat bot.
      There's also the type of people who were severely betrayed by others while their character was forming (e.g. during childhood or teenage years). They grew up to distrust other human beings. Yes, it's pathological but the issue is still there. Those chatbots might be a step towards opening up to another human being, or they could just sink the affected person deeper into their mistrust towards other human beings. I don't know.
      But I know that to some people, chatbots are appealing.

      And I don't give a flying fuck if that IT engineer feels better talking to a chatbot as long as that makes him happier and he's productive at work. After all, it's a business and he's hired to work productively.

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    24. Re:Get a damn friend by war4peace · · Score: 1

      ELIZA: Can you tell me what is going on in you right now ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Can you tell me more about what you feel about this ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: So, you really feel like many people around you are chatterbots. What do you feel about that ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Can you tell me more about what you feel about this ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Please go on.
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Keep feeling your body. Please go on.
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: What feelings do you have about this ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Can you elaborate on that ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Keep feeling your body. Please go on.
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: That is interesting. Please go on.
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: So, you really feel like many people around you are chatterbots. What do you feel about that ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Keep feeling your body. Please go on.
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Can you tell me more about what you feel about this ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: So, you really feel like many people around you are chatterbots. What do you feel about that ?
      YOU: I really feel like many people around me are chatterbots, just waiting for positive or negative reenforcement in order to engage predetermined responses.
      ELIZA: Please go on.

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    25. Re:Get a damn friend by war4peace · · Score: 1

      You want productive? Hire an IT engineer who has a chatbot therapist.

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    26. Re:Get a damn friend by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You might be N/S American / European / African but I know that you are not Asian (including S. Asia which is mainly India).

      Asia is made up of many countries that share a "culture of shame." Within a culture of shame, it is extremely shameful to discuss your problems, issues, and feelings. A chatbot / robot/ automaton will not shame you and is not subject to cultural norms.

      Perhaps, it is easy to say "Get a damn friend" to a non-Asian person. I assure you that it is not so easy to say that to an Asian person.

      BTW, I agree with your sentiment as I am an American. However, I was born in Asia and have family/friends there so I understand the behavior that was reported in the posting.

      Hope this helps to explan the culture in an very different part of the world.

      Thanks.

  2. Low skill cheap and lazy Indians.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    .... are getting replaced ??

    Boo hoo...

    Serves them right.

    1. Re:Low skill cheap and lazy Indians.. by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      You grossly misunderstand the size of a nuclear explosion.
      The largest bombs can effect an area of a 30 mile radius. Which would devastate a city and 8 other nearby cities and towns. (being most towns are 10 miles apart)
      This is huge... However not enough to kill off a subcontinent.

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    2. Re:Low skill cheap and lazy Indians.. by Seven+Spirals · · Score: 1

      From the sound of things, India and China are not happy with each other over some border issues. We might all be soon breathing in the fallout of two billion freshly vaporized potential H1Bs if they decide to swap nukes.

    3. Re:Low skill cheap and lazy Indians.. by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      From the sound of things, India and China are not happy with each other over some border issues. We might all be soon breathing in the fallout of two billion freshly vaporized potential H1Bs if they decide to swap nukes.

      China thinks that every piece of land that a Chinese citizen has ever set foot belongs to China and is historically Chinese. China and India ARE both mature enough not to nuke each other over a barely habitable stretch of mountains though.

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  3. ironic that the bot replaces actual therapists by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seems like it will eventually be bots needing to chat with other bots about being replaced by another bot...when that happens we're done as a society.

    1. Re:ironic that the bot replaces actual therapists by memojuez · · Score: 1

      I too find it ironic that an Executive who was facing replacement by automation, consults an automated therapist "bot." I wonder how that replaced therapist fells about that...

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  4. Re:No they don't by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

    > No one is doing that

    Oh yes they are; some people are really strange.

    The early chat bots - and I mean EARLY, as in 'about as likely to pass a Turing test as a passage from your preferred dictionary' - had people seeking therapy from them.

  5. Joi by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Cue Blade Runner 2049 Joi ad...

  6. ELIZA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Once again, we reinvent what was already built.

  7. Karma? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >almost half of the four million people working in India's IT services industry will become "irrelevant" in the next three to four years

  8. This about sums up what I have found. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    My generation hasn't really had lasting friendships since I was in my teens. My parents generation saw most of their friendships dissolve a few years later than that, due to a combination of alcoholism, migration to other regions, or gossip in extended social circles that caused some bridges to burn.

    Me personally, avoiding drugs, alcohol, religion, and desiring privacy pretty much alienated me from everyone in my age group. Doesn't mean I can't do a good job, but it does affect the social network for other jobs.

    Judging by most of the people I know either knuckle-dragging from one job to the next, or slaving away for what amounts to nothing when they finally get laid off or fired, including lasting social relationships, I would daresay this is a far larger societal issue than many people realize, blending traditional social values with unrestrained capitalism leading to both a disparity in wealth and interpersonal social trust and relationships.

    1. Re:This about sums up what I have found. by Baron_Yam · · Score: 2

      I generally put people into two categories with regards to their ideas of friendship:

      1) Anyone they know and don't hate is a 'friend'. Their relationships are shallow and unreliable, and contact may be infrequent.

      2) Friends are rare people they know, like, and have enough of a social bond to depend on them without question in an emergency.

      If you, like me, are in the second group... you should be aware it is quite possible you might never find that kind of relationship (I exclude my wife from the count, since that bond is something I rate even higher than friendship). Consider yourself lucky if you find one, never mind more than one.

      This is quite independent of the greater social structure, since there's enough of us around these days that any group you classify yourself in is bound to have enough people you can find several you can get along with.

    2. Re:This about sums up what I have found. by Hal_Porter · · Score: 2

      1) Anyone they know and don't hate is a 'friend'. Their relationships are shallow and unreliable, and contact may be infrequent.

      Maybe they've got an finer grained grading scale between 'close friend', 'friend', 'acquaintance' and 'enemy' than that but they don't expose the details of that grading scale to anyone else, mainly because it's subject to change for any individual.

      It's like in software. You don't document internal details if you think they might change later. Same with how much you trust people, which is really what differentiates close friends from acquaintances.

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    3. Re:This about sums up what I have found. by avandesande · · Score: 1

      Your chance of finding a real friend are probably a lot less if you spend your time socializing on facebook

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  9. Re:No they don't by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

    Both can be true, you know. Stories can be hyped for financial gain AND be true.

    I suggest you read about Eliza, a much more primitive bot.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

  10. Re:No they don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Stop with the bots and AI hype. It isn't 1997.

    I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that.

  11. Whats new? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have been consulting Elsa for something like thirty years now!

  12. To the sound of a really tiny violin... by Hognoxious · · Score: 3, Funny

    At least they don't have to train their replacements.

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    1. Re:To the sound of a really tiny violin... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't worry. You'll be training the AI expert that's going to replace you soon enough.

    2. Re:To the sound of a really tiny violin... by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

      At least they don't have to train their replacements.

      Dang straight.

      I don't blame them personally, of course ... in their place I probably would have done the same. I blame our own countrymen who sold out so many.

      Still, hard to work up too much sympathy. Oh dear, the robot works cheaper, does it? How about that.

    3. Re:To the sound of a really tiny violin... by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      It'd be able to train itself. Or is all this AI stuff largely hype? I'd be shocked, shocked if that was the case!

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  13. I would feel insulted. by sims+2 · · Score: 1

    That would be we care about your mental health but you aren't worth a human's time.

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    1. Re:I would feel insulted. by drinkypoo · · Score: 2

      That would be we care about your mental health but you aren't worth a human's time.

      If you're paying for a human's time, you're not really worth their time either. They're not doing it for you, they're doing it for the money. Head shrinkers can't afford to care about you; if they cared about everyone as real people, they wouldn't have any emotional energy left to care for themselves. They just go through the motions for money, and then you hopefully feel better for expressing yourself. A chatbot can go through the same motions.

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    2. Re:I would feel insulted. by avandesande · · Score: 1

      I don't think this is any different than praying or keeping a journal.

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    3. Re:I would feel insulted. by Billly+Gates · · Score: 1

      That would be we care about your mental health but you aren't worth a human's time.

      Humans are not nice or altruistic by any sense. Sure we have built in empathy as a group so we can work together, but we have killed species, ruined land and the environment, and hurt other people for personal gains. What makes you think such a bad species cares about you unless they can get something off you?
      Well when I hit hard times I acknowledged that I am exactly worth 0 to everyone ... if I provide no value in return.

      It sucks and is depressing but your Momma is the only one who will ever love you unconditionally or maybe a dog (not human as proof). Even a spouse may leave you. She may love you now currently, but there is no guarantee she will feel the same way later. Anyone divorced or have been dumped it comes as no surprise as woman can unlove pretty easy compared to men and have no guilt even if she was your partner earlier.

      We are social beings like ants. You need to pull your weight and if you are unemployed for a length of time or got in the wrong field then you suck and worthy of death pretty much as no one wants to feed you or house you. Best to acknowledge the truth and take the best step forward. I do tend to vote left wing that angers conservatives for these very reasons as I like to think I could be like any one of those folks you see in a tent on the way in the cold on my way to work in good ole USA.

      Worse in India/Asia my point about the spouse rings home too. If the woman doesn't sense your masculinity and confidence she can and over time WILL loose her attraction to you and expect a divorce soon on top of the job loss. Life is cruel.

    4. Re:I would feel insulted. by Billly+Gates · · Score: 1

      And if your employer is not paying for you technical skills they are not worth your time either right?

      That is life. I like to think people do care about other people. It's just everyone has issues and problems and are overwhelmed in their own worlds. THey do no not need to hear yours. The good news is most people don't give a shit about your employment so the only gorrilla in the room is in the man in the mirror.

      It would be nice if everyone can do what they love without the stupid money, connections, and scarcity getting in the way but I can not think of a solution.

    5. Re:I would feel insulted. by Mashiki · · Score: 1

      That would be we care about your mental health but you aren't worth a human's time.

      Yell at the people who pushed the big anti-mental health hospitals in the 1970's and 1980's, then further pushed the revolving door medication system. We're still suffering from that massive screw-up and probably will for another 30 years.

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    6. Re:I would feel insulted. by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      If a therapist is only interested in money, there are probably numerous other jobs they could do that pay more. While a therapist does have to avoid becoming overly emotionally attached to individual patients, many of them, like many other medical professionals, chose their careers because they want to help people.

    7. Re:I would feel insulted. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Shrinks are nuts. They choose their carrier in hope of someday diagnosing and fixing themselves.

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    8. Re:I would feel insulted. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      Those people are called the ACLU. Take it up with them.

      Commitment has historically been a mechanism of police states. Never forget that. The flipside of loonies shitting in the streets is people with wrong opinions sitting in the loony bin.

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    9. Re:I would feel insulted. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Worse in India/Asia my point about the spouse rings home too. If the woman doesn't sense your masculinity and confidence she can and over time WILL loose her attraction to you and expect a divorce soon on top of the job loss. Life is cruel.

      My wife is Asian (born and raised) - but since she chose to marry me (an American) she may not have completely bought into the norms of her birth culture.

      However, my current theory is that the best way to understand her is that while men need sex (in the same way a person might need to go to the bathroom), women want sex (in the same way that a person might want to eat a chocolate cake). So when I succeed in creating an environment where she feels safe and loved and pretty and sexy then she's up for even more and kinkier sex than I am. But if I was ever to be like "I'm horny, let's bone" then she would feel used and I probably wouldn't get any at all.

      The one thing that absolutely shuts down my chances of sex is criticism - not just "you always..." or "you never..." but any kind of professorial mansplaining "let me tell you how it is..." that attempts to fix her problems or her approach to life generally. That is, certain forms of classic masculinity and confidence are a huge turn-off for her.

      So, for my Asian wife, anyway, how much sex I get is more about how nice I am than how great I am (which is good since I'm not all that great :).

    10. Re:I would feel insulted. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If a therapist is only interested in money, there are probably numerous other jobs they could do that pay more.

      I recently paid $600/hour for some marriage counseling - but the counselor was one of the best relationship psychologists who has ever lived. And after it was over I was having better sex with my wife than I had imagined was possible (at all with anyone). Of course, I'm not sure how long the buzz of falling in love with my wife all over again will last. But even a few weeks of such mind-blowing sex with my wife was worth the full $10K price tag.

    11. Re:I would feel insulted. by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      While a therapist does have to avoid becoming overly emotionally attached to individual patients, many of them, like many other medical professionals, chose their careers because they want to help people.

      That there are many medical professionals that want to help people doesn't change the fact that there are many people getting into medical professions for the money.

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    12. Re:I would feel insulted. by sims+2 · · Score: 1

      A person can see whats going on and make recommendations a chat bot isn't going to be able to do that.

      I don't think its as much about them caring as them actually being able to help in situations where required.

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  14. So where are the... by EvilSS · · Score: 1

    So where are all the fired counselors turning to for counseling?

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    1. Re:So where are the... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm more worried about the fired chatbots.

      It's chatbot therapists all the way down.

  15. Re:No they don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Eliza, and chatbots, are the ideal of "Rogerian" therapy. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

    A number of more modern therapy styles derive from it. There is no guidance or judgment by the therapist, only warm acceptance and reassuring "empowerment" of the client. It's the ideal of SJW psychotherapy, since it in no way challenges or evaluates the confusion of the client. It's the "$75/hour non-triggering saferoom" of psychology. And it's what the unlicensed "psychotherapists", with no training, no certification, and no degree whatsoever, practice. (I'm dealing with the consequences of one right now.)

  16. If you can't.... by Berkyjay · · Score: 1

    If you can't confide to and rely upon your friends and family for support in hard times, then you really have no friends and family. Time to find better people to surround yourself with.

  17. Stop worrying about AIs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The AI book that everyone should get is available for pre-order. "Artificial Intelligence For Dummies" by John Paul Mueller and Luca Massaron.

  18. Re:Wish I could be fired by jellomizer · · Score: 1

    You can quit.
    You don't have to work. However if you want a steady income, it is a good idea to stay.

    --
    If something is so important that you feel the need to post it on the internet... It probably isn't that important.
  19. Online therapy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'd have to be really desperate to divulge such personal information to an online therapist. You just know they will find a way to monetize it.

  20. Aww - poor little outsourcers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So they knew they were outsourcing jobs because of the low wage costs, for who know what quality of labor, did all the people who LOST their jobs get to bitch and complain to chat bots about their problems???

    Perfect example of news bias

  21. Karma's a bitch by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Speaking as someone who lost a job about 10 years ago to an engineer in India during a round of outsourcing. Karma can be a bitch. I don't wish ill to anybody who has lost their job, but when you build an industry around outsourcing, causing many people to loose their jobs, you shouldn't be surprised when times change and the market for outsourcing dries up. Create your own startups and innovate, instead of building an industry around the loss and suffering of others.

  22. Prestige? Really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    People accustomed to holding down prestigious jobs

    You know, I've had several occasions to bump up against Indian IT services ... and on all occasions, it was impossible not to notice that at the start of the contract you might have gotten a couple of intelligent people with an actual skillset, and that as time went on you got utter morons who could do nothing but follow a script.

    We even noticed that over time it was fairly plain that 5 or 6 different useless idiots were sharing the email address of the contact point we originally had ... you could tell when the third guy contacted you from the same email address to tell you he was working on it.

    God help you if you need actual troubleshooting and problem resolution, because you'll never find anybody who is remotely capable of that. I never saw a single contract that wasn't eventually pulled back because the cost and time spent trying to manage complete idiots was just a waste of resources.

    A small amount of them might have had something resembling the skillset to have a "prestigious" job, the rest were just terribly unskilled idiots who pretended to be able to do something.

    almost half of the four million people working in India's IT services industry will become "irrelevant" in the next three to four years

    .
    So many of them were already irrelevant to begin with. They were already being given flunky jobs, and they mostly did a half assed job of that.

    I once opened 4 identical tickets to do something on 4 identical machines ... one was right, one was wrong, one was so completely wrong as to defy logic and belief, and one just sent us the steps to do the work ourselves from their own script. I'm sorry, but you're the outsourced people who we pay do this shit, and not only can't you actually fucking to it, but you think I'm going to do this shit?

    Hell, I'm pretty sure the same call center is used for legitimate stuff as is used for "the air duct cleaning" or "the Microsoft service provider". It's an open secret that the scammers and the outsourced morons are the same pool of workers.

    That's why many are embracing the convenience, anonymity and affordability of online counseling startups, most of which use human therapists.

    I wonder if they appreciate the irony of having to tell their sob story to something which is cheap, automated, and doesn't really give a crap either?

    The problem is they never had prestigious jobs, they mostly had some repetitive tasks they often couldn't do very well ... they've pretty much always been irrelevant. The problem is they've somehow managed to pretend that what they did was prestigious.

  23. I use vi by PPH · · Score: 2

    I don't even have a command line psychotherapist available.

    --
    Have gnu, will travel.
    1. Re:I use vi by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

      And how does that make you feel?

      --
      "That's the way to do it" - Punch
  24. Emacs M-x doctor by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Emacs M-x doctor, starts with "I am the psychotherapist. Please, describe your problems."

  25. The Dark Side of Outsourcing by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Welcome to the dark side of outsourcing: as soon as your cost-competitiveness is decreased enough, the company you worked for disappears and reappears in a neighboring country, or somewhere in other side of the world.

  26. Re:No they don't by Marxist+Hacker+42 · · Score: 1

    Paging Dr. Eliza....Dr Freud Eliza....

    --
    SJW: a person who perceives an injustice, and while correcting it, commits a greater injustice.
  27. Just dial 999-999-9999 by karlandtanya · · Score: 1

    Of course your secrets will not be used against you. Only the oppressors will be outed and held accountable.

    --
    "Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away." - Philip K. Dick
  28. I am Dr. Spaitso from Creative Labs by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    All conversation will be held in the strictest of confidence.
    Memory will be wiped after you leave.
    So, tell me about your problems.

    (forgive me if I've flubbed a line or two, it's been close to thirty years since my second sound card).

  29. Re:No they don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Even though $75/hour is quite a bit more than I make as a software developer, $75/hour for counseling does seem a bit low. Then again, the last counseling I got cost $600/hour. But that was from one of the two best relationship psychologists who has ever lived - kind of like taking a music lesson from Bach. :)

  30. Re:No they don't by Trax3001BBS · · Score: 1

    Eliza, and chatbots, are the ideal of "Rogerian" therapy. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

    Don't knock Eliza; I use Eliza to help in my life struggles http://www.manifestation.com/n...

  31. Sharing with Wysa should be fine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    To use Wysa a user is required to login with Android app, iOS app or Facebook.
    I can see the appeal.
    user: "Wysa, I feel bad."
    moments later email from users insurance company - "Your rates have been adjusted to reflect your current health status."

  32. Re:Prestige? Really? by vux984 · · Score: 1

    "you're the outsourced people who we pay do this shit, and not only can't you actually fucking to it, but you think I'm going to do this shit?"

    In a lot of cases, sending the instructions is the most useful response. If its something that's going to come up often, and the person who raised the item is capable... just getting them to do it instead of having them open tickets and wait each time is a better use of everyone's time.

    It also is sometimes the best way to deal with people who are never available. I've seen people open tickets to get something adjusted on their computer where the help desk will need remote access to their desktop, while they are logged in -- and then they ignore any calls from the help desk, and ignore any followup email from the help desk trying to schedule access. At least if the help desk just sends the instructions the information is there if you need it right now.

  33. Working Americans Cant Afford Therapy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Thats your real story here. A working class man cant afford talk therapy.

    THIRDWORLD SHITHOLE.

  34. Re:No they don't by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

    > No one is doing that

    Oh yes they are; some people are really strange.

    The early chat bots - and I mean EARLY, as in 'about as likely to pass a Turing test as a passage from your preferred dictionary' - had people seeking therapy from them.

    I would think a therapist chat bot would be an extra easy one to pass a Turing test.

    All you have to do is program it to respond to every comment with "And how does that make you feel?" and no one will know they're not talking to a real-live therapist.

    --
    "That's the way to do it" - Punch
  35. Why so sympathetic by cyberman27 · · Score: 1

    I have seen article after article on slashdot showing sympathy to an entire industry designed to take away jobs, yes I'm sorry they are losing jobs but where was the same support to the thousands in the US who lost jobs to outsourcing at disney and other companies?

  36. Re:No they don't by Baron_Yam · · Score: 1

    In fact, I think that's pretty much the algorithm behind Eliza/DOCTOR, which might be the first therapist chat bot.

    Eliza was more of a 'rephrase it in the form of a question that ends in 'how does that make you feel?', so I guess that makes it unnecessarily sophisticated!

  37. Male strength by liefer · · Score: 2

    It's kind of interesting, the social expectation of a man to be strong in every situation. It's understandable and IMHO a good thing both for society but also for the men themselves. Still, I can't help but feel a little saddened that it has reached a point where men are not able to reveal any vulnerabilities to anyone, ever, not even to the people closest to them such as their wife and friends. That has to take a toll on people

    1. Re:Male strength by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's a game of chicken. Who wants to be the first to openly admit that they're afraid/weak/insecure?

      Women receive praise for being emotionally controlled because it both runs against their usual nature AND benefits the tribe in most cases. A man admitting he's afraid/sad/insecure is to be derided because it runs against his usual nature AND is a detriment to the tribe in most cases. You can argue about emotional maturity in embracing your feelings, but the blunt truth is that emotions aren't rewarded, especially not when they're coming from those who are turned to for strength.

  38. Re:Prestige? Really? by Oswald+McWeany · · Score: 1

    People accustomed to holding down prestigious jobs

    You know, I've had several occasions to bump up against Indian IT services ... and on all occasions, it was impossible not to notice that at the start of the contract you might have gotten a couple of intelligent people with an actual skillset, and that as time went on you got utter morons who could do nothing but follow a script.

    There's usually one really smart guy in the group and a dozen who don't know what they're doing. Usually the smart guy is sent overseas to the client to act as a local contact and at that point the idiots get left alone at home without the smart guy holding their hands and correcting them.

    It would be much more useful if they sent one of the idiots and left the smart guy to supervise the ones left behind.

    --
    "That's the way to do it" - Punch
  39. Re:No they don't by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    The Diceman? Bill Burr?

    $600/hour is kind of cheap.

    --
    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  40. Re:No they don't by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    you're talking to C88 everything he isn't personally convinced of, is false, Impossible, a conspiracy theory, and being pushed by brainwashed fanatics. Just be glad he hasn't started screaming 'Space Nutter' at you yet!

  41. Why not Life Coaching? by Jastiv · · Score: 1

    Life Coaches (sometimes known as career coaches) can help clients with the next steps for their career. Unlike therapy, clients set the agenda and work towards achieving their goals. This can be very helpful when making life decisions. For things like phobias, depression etc, therapy would be the way to go, but when it comes to things like I want to negotiate my relationships with my boss and co-workers, look for jobs and make more money, a career coach is the way to go. Many coaches offer a free sample session, or at least a consult so you can find out if it is right for you.