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A Look at How Indian Women Have Persevered Through Several Obstacles To Contribute to the Open Source Community (factordaily.com)

A fascinating story of how Indian women have persevered through various roadblocks, including cultural, to actively contribute to the open source community. An excerpt from the story: As Vaishali Thakker, a 23-year old open source programmer looked over the hall filled with around 200 people, she didn't know how to react to what she had just heard. Thakker was one of the five women on the stage at PyCon India 2017, a conference on the use of the Python programming language, in New Delhi. The topic of the discussion was "Women in open source." As the women started discussing the open source projects they had been working on, the challenges and so on, someone from the audience got up and drew the attention of the gathering to the wi-fi hotspots in the hall. They were named "Shut the fk up" and "Feminism sucks." "It was right on our faces," remembers Thakker. For their part, the organisers were upset and even warned the audience. But the event had no code of conduct for anyone to really penalise or expel the culprits.

"It's disheartening when you're talking about the problem, someone is actually giving a proof that it (gender bias) indeed is a problem. In a way, I found it funny, because how stupid can you be to give the proof that the problem actually exists," says Thakker. And how. It's just been three years in her coding career but she is familiar with the high wall that gender stereotyping puts up in the world of software scripting. More so in her chosen field of coding. Thakker is among a small -- but fast-growing -- set of women coders from India shaping the future of several open source platforms globally including the Linux kernel, the core software program behind the world's biggest eponymous open source software.

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  1. Another /. flamebait to quickly harvest clicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    This one's got everything: Indians, women, feminism, Python, gender quotas. Oh boy am I sure looking forward to all the constructive discussions that will take place here!

    1. Re:Another /. flamebait to quickly harvest clicks by ArchieBunker · · Score: 1

      While this place is full of Asperger neck beards who haven't a clue why women run away from them, you do have a point.

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    2. Re: Another /. flamebait to quickly harvest clicks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      If you refuse to see the problem, you're part of it.

    3. Re:Another /. flamebait to quickly harvest clicks by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Needs more Trump and a dash of Bitcoins and you have the perfect /. article.

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  2. Very mature... by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 2

    Do all open source developers have the maturity of two year-olds? It would appear so from the wifi hijinks at the conference.

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    1. Re:Very mature... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No, this "stuff" bothers me because these are supposed to be professionals at this conference.

      Act like a professional, and show some tact.

    2. Re: Very mature... by kenh · · Score: 4

      I have my doubts about this.

      I find it hard to believe that a room filled with techies, people that are typically glued to their wireless devices (phones, tablets, laptops), just never noticed the conference WiFi SSID were those insulting phrases... Are we to believe they all just clicked to join a WiFi network called "Shut the f$ck up" and thought nothing of it?

      No.

      The more likely explanation is that someone in the room set their WiFi device to an ad hoc mode and set their SSID to the offensive term. I find it hard to believe someone cracked into their WiFi APs, reset the SSIDs, and no one noticed it until one guy stood up and pointed it out in the middle of the talk.

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    3. Re: Very mature... by kenh · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Well, the person described in this article was born a woman in India, so her experience might be a little different than your "12 Years A Nerd" experience as a male in America.

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    4. Re:Very mature... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sexist. Using gendered insults like that.

      Why don't you use more egalitarian insults instead of the masculine word "prick". To balance the insults I will now call you a twat waffle with saggy sausage lips dripping with autism. Please shove some trans fat butter up your koot shoot and grow pair to be more inclusive of the trans-fat community.

      See. Now we have gender equality and inclusive insults that acknowledge the humanity of all on the gender spectrum.

    5. Re:Very mature... by scourfish · · Score: 2

      Whenever I play some role playing game, and I have to name one of the characters, my wife's recommendations for character names are way more offensive than mine will ever be.

    6. Re:Very mature... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Nerd ostracism is a reaction to privilege. When your parents told you you were getting bullied because the others were "jealous", they were right.

      Read: https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/01/why-geeks-get-bullied-its-not-necessarily-for-being-geeks/272723/

    7. Re:Very mature... by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Perhaps you should be more tender to your wife?

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    8. Re: Very mature... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Does TFA imply that it was the official hotspots? The impression I get from the summary suggests it was ad-hoc networks, as you suggest.

      It's really sad how some guys feel so threatened by women wanting to write software. And I do mean sad, both for the women affected and for the guys who clearly have some pretty deep issues of their own.

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    9. Re:Very mature... by burningcpu · · Score: 2

      I find the following offensive. The open source community is being shamed for the actions of a single individual, and no one is calling BS because confirmation bias and the fact that it's mainly white guys in the target group.

    10. Re:Very mature... by scourfish · · Score: 1

      If I suddenly started being gentle and sensitive towards my wife, she would assume that I'm having a stroke and call for an ambulance.

    11. Re: Very mature... by RedK · · Score: 1

      It's really sad how some guys feel so threatened by women wanting to write software

      Except it's not that people are threatened by women wanting to write software. They are threatened by activists trying to shoehorn "equality of outcome", often using forced affirmative action type policies that completely go counter to the merit based systems we have.

      If women want to write software, they are welcomed to do so.

      If they want to talk about how OSS is unfriendly to them wanting to impose Codes of Conduct and forced equality of outcome on dev rosters, they are free to do so. But we're also free to tell them they are full of it.

      Women aren't beyond criticism simply because they are women.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    12. Re: Very mature... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      Are you really suggesting that the people who created these wifi networks are just worried about the Code of Conduct that didn't exist (it says so right in the summary)?

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    13. Re: Very mature... by RedK · · Score: 1

      Are you really suggesting that the people who created these wifi networks are just worried about the Code of Conduct that didn't exist (it says so right in the summary)?

      Are you really suggesting that the people who created these wifi networks were threatened by women contributing to open source ?

      What a dumb question. I'm talking of the overall climate brought by "activists" in the general of OSS software, just as you were with your "Threatened" comment.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    14. Re:Very mature... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      Why does this story make you feel shame? They just complained about it happening, which is perfectly reasonable and clearly not intended to shame the entire community... Yet you feel it's shaming.

      It's it an attempt to silence the complaints by misrepresenting them? Or perhaps you want to trick people into thinking they are being attacked in order to enjoy a collective defence.

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      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    15. Re: Very mature... by AmiMoJo · · Score: 2

      This climate is mostly just people like you complaining about it.

      This story is a great example. Genuine complaint, no one tried to blame all men or the open source community or anyone other than the specific perpetrators and the organisers for not tackling it.

      Yet here you are, trying to make it about you and complaining about some straw misandrist. It's literally just in your head.

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      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    16. Re: Very mature... by RedK · · Score: 1

      This climate is mostly just people like you complaining about it.

      Funny, I was going to say this climate is mostly just people like you amplifying non-events into massive drama.

      This story is a great example. Genuine complaint, no one tried to blame all men or the open source community or anyone other than the specific perpetrators and the organisers for not tackling it.

      This story is a great example. Something as benign and innucuous as people setting a SSID on their phones made the "news". Something that would have safely ended with just ignoring it otherwise.

      Yet here you are, trying to make it about you and complaining about some straw misandrist. It's literally just in your head.

      Yet here you are, trying to make it about you and complaining about some straw misogynist. It's literally just in your head.

      My god, it's like having a combative attitude helps no one.

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      "Not to mention all the idiots who use words like boxen."
      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    17. Re:Very mature... by burningcpu · · Score: 1

      Don't troll me.

      If you are doing so unintentionally -- please read the article title and reread my comment. After taking these moments to understand what I actually wrote, please evaluate your own comment and consider whether you are arguing against statements that I made.

      I believe you are fighting strawmen, knowingly or not.

    18. Re: Very mature... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Your right. She might not had to experience a father terrorizing me from the age of 3 after he got back from Vietnam because he blamed me for screwing up his life after he knocked up his girlfriend. And she didn't experience my mother's indifference to my fathers assaults. Or being bullied for two years in middle school which meant verbal and physical abuse, including a pen shoved up my ass during gym. Surely she never had to worry about being kicked out of the home after high school with no place to go. Living on the street, bathing out of a toilet bowl. Being sexual harassed at work by a gay boss that had a desire to bang a blonde twink that lived from paycheck to paycheck. Or how about being robbed at gun point by two black gentlemen when I went to the bank at night and being told they would kill me if I looked at them.

      I could go on and on about all this shit that has happened to me, but I am a white man, so it must all be my fault.

    19. Re:Very mature... by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Well,
      you could always bind her to the bed and put the phone out of reach.
      But god forgive: avoid getting a stroke then!

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      Cost free eBook I read (by iBook/Kobo/Amazon/ObookO/Gutenberg etc.): "The Green Odyssey" by Philip Jose Farmer.
  3. and... by p4nther2004 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Females and males are not identical. This is not bad.

    and....I don't care.

    Can they program? What kewl things did they hack?

    This is not a dating site. This is a tech conference. Get with the program.

  4. Maybe I'm in the wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

    But I really couldn't give two shits what's between someone's legs when reading their code. The only bit that really matters is how good the code is.

    1. Re:Maybe I'm in the wrong by gnick · · Score: 5, Funny

      But I really couldn't give two shits what's between someone's legs when reading their code.

      You'd care when reading my code. 10 minutes and you'll be thinking, "What a dick!"

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      He's getting rather old, but he's a good mouse.
  5. All men vs. "some men" by RobinH · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Even if 10 or 20% of men are the culprits, I can see how that presents a significant barrier to all women wanting to enter the field. However, that's still "some men." When people claim the problem is "men," then I'd rather just tune out. The fact is, I don't behave like that, I'd speak out against that behavior if I saw it, but I just don't see it in the environments I frequent. Somehow I still get lumped in as part of the problem because I'm male. Whatever... I stopped listening when I was supposed to fix a problem I have zero control over.

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    1. Re:All men vs. "some men" by The+Raven · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Where did you see the words 'all men' anywhere in the summary or article? You seem to be inventing a claim that was never made so you don't have to listen.

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    2. Re:All men vs. "some men" by RobinH · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In this particular case I applaud the efforts to bring these injustices to light. Nothing wrong with what these women are doing - it's brave. I was more just expressing a general feeling of helplessness that I feel surrounding this topic. I realize I wasn't very clear on that in my original post.

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      "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
    3. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Even if 10 or 20% of men are the culprits, I can see how that presents a significant barrier to all women wanting to enter the field. However, that's still "some men." When people claim the problem is "men," then I'd rather just tune out. The fact is, I don't behave like that, I'd speak out against that behavior if I saw it, but I just don't see it in the environments I frequent. Somehow I still get lumped in as part of the problem because I'm male. Whatever... I stopped listening when I was supposed to fix a problem I have zero control over.

      I think that the issue you mention is that so many women identify first as women, while most men identify as individuals. Thia causes some problems later, when there s an assumption that men also identify as an overarching group. A female coder (see the female mentioned first?) is likely to assume that coders who happen to to be male will also identify first as their gender.

      So all men have named those WiFi spots as "Feminism Sucks" or "Shut the Fuck Up"

      What is unfortunate is that it is pointed out as a symbol of the Patriarchy, and "For the love of God, we must stamp this out!".

      It also expresses an everyone must love me outlook.

      This indicates a basic misunderstanding of human nature. Whining about it strengthens the bad behavior.

      Ridiculing the bad behavior works much better. I don't know how many women were at this conference, but I would spread the word around to the ladies that they were to connect only to the "Feminism Sucks" WiFi, and leave the Shut the Fuck Up wifi to the men. Put it in a few PowerPoints, and print out some notes to sit at the tables.

      Bullies wither when under ridicule

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    4. Re:All men vs. "some men" by RedK · · Score: 1

      Where did you see the words 'all men' anywhere in the summary or article? You seem to be inventing a claim that was never made so you don't have to listen.

      Wait, why does he have to listen in the first place ? He doesn't have to listen, and he doesn't need a reason to not care or listen.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    5. Re:All men vs. "some men" by RedK · · Score: 1

      Ridiculing the bad behavior works much better. I don't know how many women were at this conference, but I would spread the word around to the ladies that they were to connect only to the "Feminism Sucks" WiFi, and leave the Shut the Fuck Up wifi to the men. Put it in a few PowerPoints, and print out some notes to sit at the tables.

      Bullies wither when under ridicule

      Or you know, instead, join in on the fun. Make up your own WiFi SSIDs like "NoPatriarchyAllowed" and "ArmPitHairisGreat" and poke fun both at the concept of using SSIDs to discuss and poke fun at yourself, showing you're actually open to exchange.

      You'll get more people on your side if you stop being combatitive and instead act as if you're "part of the group". The more you push back against people, even by trying to "ridicule them", the more push back you'll suffer yourself.

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      "Not to mention all the idiots who use words like boxen."
      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    6. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think that the issue you mention is that so many women identify first as women, while most men identify as individuals.
      Wow - that's an impressive bit of stereotyping and victim-blaming rolled into a single sentence.

      But I'm sure you have plenty of cherry-picked anecdotes to support your position.

    7. Re: All men vs. "some men" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      The point is that their complaints are not nuanced. They're in fact very one-sided.

    8. Re:All men vs. "some men" by RobinH · · Score: 1

      Shut up you cry baby.

      That comment is neither helpful, nor appropriate for this discussion.

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      "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." - Mark Twain
    9. Re:All men vs. "some men" by angel'o'sphere · · Score: 1

      Well,
      my first linux machine was called Cunilinux ... running Slackware 0.9x or was it 0.8 ... don't remember (was mid 1993).
      No idea if that is anti feminist or sexist ... I liked the name.

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    10. Re:All men vs. "some men" by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      My advice is to just ignore the people saying things like "all men", and just assume that when people say "men" they are just being a little careless or talking with previously established context. It's not always the case, but you would be surprised how often it is and you end up having an engaging, interesting debate rather than hung up on trolls and slightly poor choice of words.

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      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    11. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      My advice is to just ignore the people saying things like "all men"

      Why should we dismiss bad, sexist behavior against men when we are repeatedly told to always speak up against sexist bad behavior against women?

      just assume that when people say "men" they are just being a little careless or talking with previously established context.

      The same argument of carelessness in context is the same apologist technique used to defend the latest string of sexual predators in the news. Equality requires equitable action. Until we do that, progress towards equality halts.

    12. Re:All men vs. "some men" by pots · · Score: 1

      Right here: "A Look at How Indian Women Have Persevered Through Several Obstacles To Contribute to the Open Source Community"

      The title should have been: "A Look at How One Group of Indian Women Have Persevered Through Several Obstacles To Contribute to the Open Source Community"

      It's a small thing, and wouldn't have reduced the effect of the article, but the title as it is comes off as stereotyping and arrogant, as stereotyping often is.

    13. Re:All men vs. "some men" by RobinH · · Score: 1

      My advice is to just ignore the people saying things like "all men", and just assume that when people say "men" they are just being a little careless or talking with previously established context. It's not always the case, but you would be surprised how often it is and you end up having an engaging, interesting debate rather than hung up on trolls and slightly poor choice of words.

      It's understandable, but it's not right and it needs to be challenged. My wife was recently at a conference, and around her table were only women. As they were talking, one of the other women commented that she accepted everyone... "except men... I hate men," she said. Nobody else at the table agreed with this woman, but nobody said anything or spoke up about it either. They just let it pass.

      I say, don't get bent out of shape about it, but point it out.

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    14. Re:All men vs. "some men" by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

      A good long awkward silence when someone says that sort of thing is pretty effective.

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      const int one = 65536; (Silvermoon, Texture.cs)
      SJW, n: "Someone I don't like, and by the way I'm a fuckwit" - AC
    15. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      Well, my first linux machine was called Cunilinux ... running Slackware 0.9x or was it 0.8 ... don't remember (was mid 1993). No idea if that is anti feminist or sexist ... I liked the name.

      I like it!

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
    16. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1

      I think that the issue you mention is that so many women identify first as women, while most men identify as individuals. Wow - that's an impressive bit of stereotyping and victim-blaming rolled into a single sentence.

      But I'm sure you have plenty of cherry-picked anecdotes to support your position.

      Actually, I am not going to do anything but ask you to explain your accusations. Explain how a bit of psychological analysis is stereotyping. Explain how this is victim blaming.

      Then I'll offer a few links of the literature by professionals.

      http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com...

      https://pdfs.semanticscholar.o...

      Shaming tactics have pretty much stopped working. Try conversation.

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    17. Re:All men vs. "some men" by Ol+Olsoc · · Score: 1
      It is interesting that someone labeled my post flaimebaiit. We have come to a point wheremerely expressing an opinion that does not cast a woman as a victim becomes a terrible misogynistic thing. For what it is worth, my commentary on Group identity differences between men and women comes from some rather feminist research literature, not from Brietbart or Roy Moore.

      I'll let it up to the detractors to decide if they want to fight with their own people, or that their hatred of men has over-ruled their ability to reason.

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      The shepherds did so well protecting the flock that the sheep no longer believed that wolves existed.
  6. Re:Feminism by i_ate_god · · Score: 2

    I'm pretty certain every movement, ism, belief, and so on, is or will eventually become, plagued with extremists. And everyone else who do not consider themselves part of that group, will judge that group by the actions and words of those extremists. Worse still, is that those who are judging the group by the actions of the group's extremists, are a group in of themselves, and are thus prone to having extremist members within them (eg: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...).

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  7. Female, Indian, and a Python programmer by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

    I wonder if she encounters more prejudice as a result of her gender, her ethnicity, or her choice of language. My guess would be choice of language...

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    1. Re:Female, Indian, and a Python programmer by PPH · · Score: 4, Funny

      Well it's no wonder. Python is a racist language what with it's dependence on white space.

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  8. The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 5, Interesting

    ...is to stop talking about gender and "gendered" issues as if they are not just created by this polarizing talk of gender all the time. Gender doesn't matter. Only code does. No one online knows you're a man, woman, brown, red, purple, with 1 leg or a missing eye until you bring it up.

    Let's face it, "Women in Open Source" as a talk is like a magnet to anyone looking to troll you and just get a rise out of you. Same as bringing in any other physical carateristics you have. People just perceive it as you trying to get attention, and the people who are more apt at giving you attention won't give you the positive kind.

    If you send a patch to a Open source projet with your e-mail being vthakker@something.com, no one can even tell if you're a man or woman unless you bring it up.

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    "Not to mention all the idiots who use words like boxen."
    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    1. Re:The best way to get gender equality by ChibiOne · · Score: 1

      ...is to stop talking about gender and "gendered" issues as if they are not just created by this polarizing talk of gender all the time.

      Not talking about a problem doesn't make it go away. And as this article, and many like it, show, a problem DOES exist.

      Gender doesn't matter. Only code does.

      I agree. The problem is that "some men" haven't got the memo, or refuse to acknowledge it.

      In light of the recent examples about both childish men and extreme pseudo-feminists, conference organizers and scholars should perhaps clarify event titles and objectives, e.g. a conference called "Sexism in Open Source (debating about a problem)", instead of the more broad "Women in Open Source (which could lead to believe it's about 'whining' and attacking all men).

    2. Re:The best way to get gender equality by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      And how is either relevant to the quality of open source? How does either promote or improve open source? The point is, why the fuck should I care whether it's men or women writing open source software, designing open source hardware or doing anything else open source?

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    3. Re:The best way to get gender equality by penandpaper · · Score: 1
    4. Re:The best way to get gender equality by penandpaper · · Score: 1

      "pron" oops.

      This pr0n is prone. ;)

    5. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      The only "whoops" is that it shows a gap in experience and skill of applicants of minority group, which means that they are getting jobs based on their minority status, rather than their actual experience/skillset.

      This is actually a good proof that Affirmative Action is indeed bad overall and more proof that pure meritocracy (and thus equality of opportunity) is the stronger model.

      Want to compete ? Do it on skills and experience, not on skin color and genitals.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    6. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      Not talking about a problem doesn't make it go away. And as this article, and many like it, show, a problem DOES exist.

      My point is talking about it creates the problem in the first place. "Oh we have a problem because there's not 50% women on your OSS project". No we don't.

      Want to submit a patch ? Go ahead. Want to submit a rant about how sexist our hetero-normative patriarchal developer roster is ? Go elsewhere, you're a troll.

      Want to get a talk going about the struggles of women in OSS ? Hint : Talk about code instead. Women would do better in the coding arena if they spent their "Con" time discussing code and coding related solutions, instead of discussing how hard a time they have getting accepted. Hint : you're not getting accepted because you're not bringing the code to the table.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    7. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1, Insightful

      So, when John Smith, Paul Jones, and Vincent Miller contribute to an open source project, it's no big deal; when Sarah Brown contributes, having a feminine name is "trying to get attention" and polarizing and political

      You missed the point if that is what you got out of my post.

      If vmiller@, pjones@, jsmith@ or sbrown@ all submit patches, the only important thing is the content of the patch. If sbrown@ also includes a rant about how *SHE* struggles to get patches accepted because "BROGRAMMERS HATE MY GENITALS", she's going to get push back and is just an attention seeker looking to deflect what is probably very bad code (and even if it isn't, she's being a drama queen and thus toxic to the project's community).

      This would be the same if vmiller@, pjones@ or jsmith@ launched into a tirade about "MALE ALLIES NEED TO DO MORE". They would be treated the same : toxic elements just trying to stir up controversy.

      Even when there's gendered drama, the Gender of the troll inciting it doesn't matter.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    8. Re:The best way to get gender equality by hackertourist · · Score: 1

      So, your "solution" is to force all women to police their writings to avoid revealing their first name. Always sign with initials + last name only (oh wait, if you're Russian, that's not enough, the last name has a feminine modifier, so have to lie about last name too), make sure never to let slip they're female.
      And then have the gall to proclaim "gender doesn't matter"?

    9. Re:The best way to get gender equality by ChibiOne · · Score: 1

      My point is talking about it creates the problem in the first place. "Oh we have a problem because there's not 50% women on your OSS project". No we don't.

      Precisely. That's why I also mentioned pseudo-feminists; they are the ones complaining about strict 50/50 gender distribution in projects which, completely agree, has nothing to do with quality of code. The problem is not you, me, or any other guy that understands this and looks beyond wheter a developer is male or female; the problem are all those butt-hurt basement-dweller child-men that don't.

    10. Re:The best way to get gender equality by hackertourist · · Score: 1

      Or someone self-identifies (by supplying their first name, as you do in informal settings), and suddenly people start behaving differently (and not in a good way) because that first name contained the information that that someone is female.

      Which one is more likely, you think?

    11. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RobinH · · Score: 1

      Hypothetically, let's say you're a woman contributing anonymously to an open source project and someone else on the project knows you're a woman (it's sometimes a small world, after all) and points it out. Maybe they didn't even intend anything by it, but it just happened to come up one time. Then let's say, after that, a certain group of influential people on the project started treating you differently and started rejecting your pull requests, etc.

      If that actually happened, shouldn't you be able to tell your story? Why not speak about it at a conference? You should try to change the culture - it's clearly not optimal for anyone on the project, since otherwise good pull requests are being ignored. You wouldn't be trying to "get attention".

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    12. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      The problem is not you, me, or any other guy that understands this and looks beyond wheter a developer is male or female; the problem are all those butt-hurt basement-dweller child-men that don't.

      Except I have yet to see these "basement-dweller child-men". I see a whole lot of women trying to use their gender as a shield against criticism of their work though, and then calling their critics "Sexists" and "Mysoginists".

      Are there men who still think women are simply incapable of coding ? I'd believe it if you showed me a mailing list or forum post.

      Are these men an actual systemic or even individual problem at all ? I personally don't think so, and the fact it's always even hard to get any evidence of their existence reinforces that there isn't a need to have these "discussions" in the first place and that they are ultimately a huge waste of time to everyone involved.

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    13. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      Or someone self-identifies (by supplying their first name, as you do in informal settings), and suddenly people start behaving differently (and not in a good way) because that first name contained the information that that someone is female.

      Which one is more likely, you think?

      Any proof this is actually happening, or is that just a strawman ?

      Sarah Sharp ring any bells ? She tried to make things about her and her feelings, basically telling everyone else they were the problem, instead of realising that maybe she was the problem.

      No one cared about her being "Sarah" and submitting code to the Kernel. People cared when she started making a fuss over the community being "toxic" and "unwelcoming to women".

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    14. Re:The best way to get gender equality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      * The best way to get gender equality is to stop talking about gender and "gendered" issues as if they are not just created by this polarizing talk of gender all the time.

      Well, not talking about them before didn't do anything to solve them so uh the best way of stopping it is to keep on not talking about it.

      Yes, what a plan.

      Basically, you don't like women getting all uppity and the implication that someone in your community might have done something wrong, viz:

      If you send a patch to a Open source projet with your e-mail being vthakker@something.com, no one can even tell if you're a man or woman unless you bring it up.

      In other words, women should hide the fact they're women by careful choice of username whereas men don't have to worry about that.

      that's not equality, that's bullshit through and through.

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    15. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      In other words, women should hide the fact they're women by careful choice of username whereas men don't have to worry about that.

      No. In other words : Men don't bring up they are men and that's why they don't have to worry about.

      Women can simply do the same : Stop bringing up Gender as a reason for anything. It's not. Your code is either good or bad. And no, people saying your code is bad is not coded misogynist language for "I hate all women" just because you happen to be a woman that wrote bad code and can't admit it's bad.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    16. Re:The best way to get gender equality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      No. In other words : Men don't bring up they are men and that's why they don't have to worry about.

      Yes we do. My stuff us all under [male first name][lastname] based username. Many people I know do the same.

      Women can simply do the same : Stop bringing up Gender as a reason for anything.

      You're the one whining that using your fucking name is "bringing gender into it".

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    17. Re:The best way to get gender equality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      You missed the point if that is what you got out of my post.

      No he didn't. And the rest of your post is inventing hypothetical scenarios and getting angry about them.

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    18. Re:The best way to get gender equality by AmiMoJo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      They were at a conference. It's pretty hard to hide your gender when you meet people in person, face to face, or stand on a stage.

      Your argument reminds me of the argument for wearing the burka. Don't complain about men's behaviour, just cover your body and avoid doing anything to make them horny like showing me then your eyes. If bad things happen it's your fault for not covering up enough and ramming your gender in men's faces.

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    19. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      Yes we do. My stuff us all under [male first name][lastname] based username. Many people I know do the same.

      No you don't. You don't go "As a man in Open source, I feel..." or "I think your misandrist comments are misplaced..." in the body of your communications.

      You're the one whining that using your fucking name is "bringing gender into it".

      Using their name isn't what causes women to get "hate" or "harassement". That's just ridiculous and everytime it's brought up, no one can even provide proof it's even happening.

      It's all in your head.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    20. Re:The best way to get gender equality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Using their name isn't what causes women to get "hate" or "harassement".

      Sometimes it is.

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    21. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      Sometimes it is.

      You should have no issues providing evidence then.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    22. Re:The best way to get gender equality by RedK · · Score: 1

      They were at a conference. It's pretty hard to hide your gender when you meet people in person, face to face, or stand on a stage.

      They were doing a "Women in Open source" talk instead of a "Actual stuff that matters in Open Source" talk. You know that's just asking for a trolling. It's not because they were women, it's because AGAIN they were talking about gender stuff at a con for technical discussion.

      But you keep thinking this is about their gender, and not what the talk was about.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    23. Re:The best way to get gender equality by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      You should have no issues providing evidence then.

      Apart from the story you mean.

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  9. Eponymous open source software? by kenh · · Score: 1

    including the Linux kernel, the core software program behind the world's biggest eponymous open source software.

    What open source software, aside from possibly Linux, a mashup of the original developer's name (LINus) and the thing he was trying to recreate (UniX), is named after it's original author?

    Is there a Mr. Containers? Ms. Drupal? Mrs. Apache? I've scan the list of books at O'Reilly and none jumps out as being named after their creator, the defining requirement for considering something as eponymous last I checked.

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    1. Re: Eponymous open source software? by kenh · · Score: 1

      Was his girlfriend involved in the project? I suspect not.

      Eponymous doesn't mean 'named after someone, anyone' - where is the relationship? Ian's (romantic?) relationship with his girlfriend Debra doesn't create a relationship between Debra and the Debian Distribution project.

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    2. Re:Eponymous open source software? by Hognoxious · · Score: 2

      The internal name of systemd was "project shitbrain".

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    3. Re:Eponymous open source software? by freeze128 · · Score: 1

      No it wasn't! It was named after Temd's sister!

    4. Re:Eponymous open source software? by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure the internal name of systemd was "Project Microsoft LCF".

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    5. Re: Eponymous open source software? by GonzoPhysicist · · Score: 1

      Anyone can be the eponym for anything, there doesn't need to be a relation, Tesla cars are eponymous of the scientist, but Nikola has nothing to do with the company.

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  10. Re:Brilliant! by hackertourist · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Or it's just like the commenters who see someone reporting harassment and immediately bleat "that can't possibly be true" based on a few examples of people making false claims.

  11. What does this prove, really? by kenh · · Score: 1

    Is this proof of gender bias globally or a localized gender bias in India?

    Also let's not lose sight of the fact that the conference room at a programming conference in India was full of men (presumably) listening to five women talk about the struggles women programmers face in open source projects.

    I contend the issue may not be as wide-spread as some would have you believe, the packed conference room points to a general sensitivity/openness to the issue.

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    1. Re: What does this prove, really? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Well, it doesn't prove much of anything. What does it suggest? At the least, I would say immaturity is a given, resentment is a possibility, obliviousness is strongly indicated.

      More investigations may be desired, fortunately there is a wealth of potential data.

  12. Re:All men vs. "some men" + and some women by mrops · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I recall being in a car (back in india) where the wife of my friend, who I had mostly respected, a staunch feminist, was in a discussion with my friend, her spouse. A short while into the discussion, see grabbed an apply my friend was eating and threw it out the window, "focus on me when I am talking" she said. I thought it was odd but hey, I will just shut up, nonetheless it stuck in my head. Few years later, they did end up having a divorce when this incident just popped in my thoughts. The whole process was bit of a feminist from hell. A bunch of feminist organizations backed her up initially, until they realized she was abusing the rights they had fought for every women, as an example, she falsely accused the family of this individual of demanding dowry. A severe crime in India, this is the only crime where legally, "you are guilty and must prove your innocence". It finally all settled after she has extorted a lot of dough from her in-laws and husband.

    This lady did a lot of harm to feminism. Only silver lining, when the dust settled she was not welcomed at a lot of these organizations, nonetheless all those who witnessed had a mental stereotype of a feminist. It took few years for me to evaluate that my sole example was actually a bad person and this is not what feminism stands for.

  13. Re:Brilliant! by RedK · · Score: 1

    Or it's just like the commenters [slashdot.org] who see someone reporting harassment and immediately bleat "that can't possibly be true" based on a few examples of people making false claims.

    Everyone and anyone can report harassement. If it's true, you'll have no issues producing evidence of it. And if you're being exposed as a massive fraud over something, people will have no qualms in assuming you're also lying about the harassement claim you're using to deflect from the valid criticism you're receiving.

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    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
  14. Re:Brilliant! by Mashiki · · Score: 1, Troll

    someone reporting harassment and immediately bleat "that can't possibly be true" based on a few examples of people making false claims.

    So in the absence of them actually presenting any proof at all of harassment but engaging in actual shady actions, I'm automatically in the wrong. Well fuck me for expecting the bare minimum of proof.

    How's that listen and believing working out for you? Maybe some #metooing will make you feel better. Right up until you find out that the person making the claim against you is also best friends with the reporter doing the story.

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  15. 200 people by kenh · · Score: 1

    As Vaishali Thakker, a 23-year old open source programmer looked over the hall filled with around 200 people, she didn't know how to react to what she had just heard. Thakker was one of the five women on the stage at PyCon India 2017, a conference on the use of the Python programming language, in New Delhi. The topic of the discussion was "Women in open source."

    200 (mostly?) men fill a conference room to hear five women talk about "Women in open source".

    I suspect the hall was filled because it was the only session that guaranteed there would at least be women presenting, if not attending.

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  16. This isn't sexism ... by Qbertino · · Score: 2, Interesting

    ... this is infantilism and/or bullying.

    Given, gender/sex is the vector by which it is put in effect, but stuff like this shouldn't even be discussed. Find the hotpotters, kick them out, no reimbursement, if they raise a stink, call the police and press charges.

    This isn't generic sexism, it's beyond that IMHO. I also think it's a problem if we slap the term sexism on to *everything*, like a 55 year old billionaire grabbing the crotch of a woman. It dilutes the term and causes it to lose any useful meaning.

    My 2 cents.

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    1. Re:This isn't sexism ... by RedK · · Score: 1

      Given, gender/sex is the vector by which it is put in effect, but stuff like this shouldn't even be discussed. Find the hotpotters, kick them out, no reimbursement, if they raise a stink, call the police and press charges.

      Overreact much ? This is exactly what the trolls want. Whatever happened to "Do not feed the Trolls".

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    2. Re:This isn't sexism ... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 2

      This isn't sexism

      No, it literally is. Attacking women because they're women. ... this is infantilism and/or bullying.

      You know that that and sexism aren't mutually exclusive, right?

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    3. Re:This isn't sexism ... by RedK · · Score: 1

      No, it literally is. Attacking women because they're women

      Except that's not what happened here ? They didn't attack women because they were women. They attacked women for being feminists.

      Is the feminist ideology beyond reproach or criticism ? That's a powerful ideology if it is.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    4. Re:This isn't sexism ... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      Except that's not what happened here ?

      Yes it is.

      They didn't attack women because they were women. They attacked women for being feminists.

      Oooh I see, it's not that they hate women they just hate women who want equality with men.

      Yeah that's sexism.

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    5. Re:This isn't sexism ... by RedK · · Score: 1

      Oooh I see, it's not that they hate women they just hate women who want equality with men.

      Yeah that's sexism.

      No, they hate activists that try to push for preferential treatment of women by also silencing disent and men issues. You know, "intersectional 3rd wave feminist of the progressive persuasion".

      But I guess sure, to you since you see them as bad actors, you just say they "hate all women", as if even most women are on the boat with the progressive ideology that's cancer.

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      Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
    6. Re:This isn't sexism ... by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

      No, they hate activists that try to push for preferential treatment of women by also silencing disent and men issues.

      That's called "making shit up", aka "lying".

      So go on, do tell what agenda were these uppity women pushing at this conference in India, a country well known to have some serious problems with sexism.

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  17. Re:Feminism by DontBeAMoran · · Score: 4, Informative

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/...

    Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men.

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  18. The only obstacle to contributing to open source by scourfish · · Score: 1

    Is not having an internet connection

  19. Re:Brilliant! by hackertourist · · Score: 1

    Shady actions by Vaishali Thakker or others mentioned in TFA? I see no evidence of any.

    You assume people are lying, assuming that the actions of a few attention-seekers apply to every woman who speaks about harassment. In other words, you believe in a conspiracy. That's what I object to.

  20. Re:Brilliant! by Mashiki · · Score: 1

    You assume people are lying, assuming that the actions of a few attention-seekers apply to every woman who speaks about harassment. In other words, you believe in a conspiracy. That's what I object to.

    Nice assumption. Too bad that's not how reality works, reality expects evidence and/or proof, something that she hasn't offered(much like the post I made above). And in the current state of "omg I'm being harassed because I'm *insert thing*" and it over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over again being a case where mean comments don't equal harassment. Anyone who actually cares about that, gets tired of it well...quickly.

    The only thing you seem to object to is someone expecting evidence to be shown. You know, kind of like this. Makes me wonder how you function in the real world with skin as thick as tissue paper. Oh wait, that's harassment right?

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  21. Indian Women have overcome a lot! by sycodon · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Sexism so prevalent that they had to outlaw revealing the gender of a baby before birth to avoid termination of female babies

    Women getting burned alive, splashed with acid or murdered outright because their dowries were not big enough

    Rape at the drop of the hat, many times gang rapes

    Lower healthcare standards

    Etc.

    And they overcame all of this and achieved the ultimate goal...contributing to the Open Source Movement.

    LOL!

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    1. Re:Indian Women have overcome a lot! by penandpaper · · Score: 3, Funny

      Contributing to Open Source is Gods work.

  22. Re:Feminism by Midnight+Thunder · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Feminism is cancer.

    In certain cases it might be, just like chauvinism and any other standpoint taken to the extreme. In the end we should be treating all people with the same respect we would want for ourselves, no matter their biological, religious or cultural differences. Those who seek to make a negative example of someone's differences is not a very respectable person.

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  23. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Yes and the Democratic Republic of North Korea is democratic. If feminism was about "equality of the sexes" then mission accomplished across the board. The movement and ideology is irrelevant in the western world. There is no end goal for feminism because it isn't about equality in opportunity or legality. It's about women supremacy and getting back at men for history which is why we see the BBC males taking pay cuts for no reason other than the long debunked gender pay gap myth and virtue signaling despite reports stating that there was no discrimination. Feminism is about equal outcomes which is contrary to meritocracy and why we see the bar lowered in many areas to get more women in. Feminism is about treating women different because being in the same room as men is oppressive. Lowering the bar, vengeful practices, and segregation is not equality!

    Even you assume there are not educational and professional opportunities for women equal to men yet I haven't seen a single male only scholarship for STEM ( I bet you can't find one either) nor have I seen any male affirmative action in STEM. The favoritism is toward women so the institution can check their little quota box and feel smug about it and we see that with younger women making more and are preferred over men for STEM faculty. I have seen more opportunity for women these days than men. What are you talking about other than the outcomes you don't like?

    Men and women are different so personal and social "equality" is code for "we want more because equality of outcome using bad measures". Using bad measures (gender pay gap) to promote bad policy (vindictive practices) and treating women different (lower standard and segregation) will never achieve "equality" in any true sense of the word. Forcing equal outcomes is the antithesis of a free society.

  24. Outsourced Open Source and child labour by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    Sorry mates, looks like all the Open source jobs are going to the India sweatshops now.

    Why stop at females? Soon we will have child labour.

    Imagine 6 yr olds locked in a dimly lit, dirty, poorly ventilated computer room for 16 hours a day churning out open sourced libraries and kernel patches.

    Yeah theyâ(TM)re gonna take away all our jobs!

  25. Summary vs Article by thecombatwombat · · Score: 4, Informative

    I'm not saying it's all good and sexism is over, but this is being characterized as flamebait by a lot of comments, and it repeatedly contains things like:

    “Biases are there because at many places some people feel women aren’t good enough to code. But I haven’t encountered any such bias because the Linux kernel community is really good,” she adds.

    And this woman stating directly that having a baby was a bigger barrier than any of her male counterparts, but her modern office in India was very accommodating:

    “Sometimes I feel, when they (women) are in this field they are more aggressive because they want to prove that they are as good as their male counterparts,” she says, adding she has not faced gender bias at work yet.

    “I don’t have any complaints. I feel girls are not short on talent, it’s just that they have to stick around. Sometimes it becomes difficult if you have a maternity leave, you’re disconnected for six months from everything and you cannot complain about it because the child needs you,” she says.

    How did she cope? “I took my child to office with me, and my office supported that,” Deshpande-Dalal says.

    Those parts quoted in the article certainly exist and are important, but you know, RTFA.

  26. Re:Brilliant! by hackertourist · · Score: 1

    Yet you have no trouble calling her a liar without offering any evidence of your own.

    Using your reasoning: because of Hans Reiser's murder conviction, any programmer who claims to be not guilty of murder is lying.

  27. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I agree but it just seems that 'feminism' has been soiled by too many extremists that it has lost all sense pragmatism or direction. There are places that absolutely need feminism and if western feminism tried to help those countries and those women I think many more would respect the movement and ideology. Instead of addressing real issues in the world we get diatribes about video games and movies.

    Feminism may not be cancer but it is infected with a malignancy that, IMO, is terminal to any redeeming quality.

  28. This Snowflake should try and be less sensitive .. by najajomo · · Score: 1

    'someone from the audience got up and drew the attention of the gathering to the wi-fi hotspots in the hall. They were named "Shut the fk up" and "Feminism sucks."'

  29. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 2

    "the manner of the posturing used against it."
    Yes because nothing screams religion like unquestioning loyalty and subservience... How dare I have an opinion outside of the Holy Doctrine of Feminist Faith.

    In the time before Men and Patriarchy it was good. The evilness of Masculinity has turned Sister against Sister! But fear not and harken oh Ally! The Holy Matriarchy has a plan for you, oh dear emasculated Ally. Dare not question the Holy Doctrine of Feminist Faith! Exorcise any criticism or skepticism you see on these intertubes. Strengthen your faith by listening and believing unconditionally. Reeeeeee before the Goddess Queen of the Holy Matriarchy so that you will be saved from Patriarchy and it's vile Penis' used to deceive Women. In the name of the Mother. The Daughter. And Pink Vagina Hats. Wamen.

    *grabs junk* hmmmmm.
    I am a woman. You are marginalizing my experiences and humanity. You are toxic and are creating a toxic environment. You are the problem when you so easily malign the experiences people like me face. You are creating obstacles and limiting my opportunity to exist in this space. You should feel ashamed of yourself. Be the good ally and listen and believe because you have said enough to demonstrate that you hate all women.

    There was nothing inadvertent about voicing my thoughts on modern western feminism and the toxicity it has become. I would rather label myself a MRA trying to get more male shelters that would actually help people than a feminist using bad science to attack meritocracy that will harm people. (both have toxic members but one has an objective legal goals to accomplish. I like mission accomplished banners.)

  30. Re:Brilliant! by RedK · · Score: 1

    Yet you have no trouble calling her a liar without offering any evidence of your own.

    Using your reasoning: because of Hans Reiser's murder conviction, any programmer who claims to be not guilty of murder is lying.

    There was proof that Hans Reiser murdered is wife.

    You know, what people keep asking for. Evidence. Proof.

    That's the beauty of innocent until proven guilty. No one is guilty of murder unless you can prove that they are actually guilty of it.

    Same for harassement. No one is guilty of harassement until we get proof of harassement. She might or might not be lying, that's besides the point. The point is harassement needs evidence of it existing.

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  31. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    "fuckstick ... about ... feminism"
    Did you just assume the masculinity of my feminine penis?

  32. Re:Brilliant! by hackertourist · · Score: 1

    Proof is necessary if she accuses someone in particular. A discussion of harassment in general is perfectly possible without making a court case out of it. People discuss tons of topics every day without having to offer proof for their assertions, I don't see why this topic has to be held to a different standard.

    By holding discussion of this topic to a different standard, you're trying to stifle the discussion. And there's far too much of that going on already. A group of people wants to keep pretending the issue does not exist, and that's the wrong response to an issue as serious as this one.

  33. Re:Feminism by MightyMartian · · Score: 2

    So there are loud mouths. Big deal? Why should an entire movement, and a movement, I might add that by and large has seen women gain a great deal since the days when they were chattel with few political or legal rights independent of their fathers, brothers or husbands. So what if the odd kook gets on the nightly news? Is it fair to damn any movement by the cranks, because if it is, well, there's this minority of American conservatism that's awfully loud and hold ridiculous positions. Shall I be free to define all Republicans by Roy Moore, for instance?

    Perhaps you should pay less attention to the attention whores in any movement, and look at what the majority of the movement is about. Unless your only interest is in damning the majority by the wingnuttery of a fringe.

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  34. Re:Feminism by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

    Do you believe that the sexes should be treated equally, that women should have the same political, legal, social and economic rights as men?

    Yes or no will do.

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  35. Re:The only obstacle to contributing to open sourc by Voyager529 · · Score: 1

    The only obstacle to contributing to open source is not having an internet connection

    I more or less get where you're going with that, but it is a bit more complex than internet vs. no internet. I have relatively quick internet and a good computer, but I'm not a very good contributor to OSS. I'm pretty technically literate, but my coding skills basically end at some basic batch/shell scripts and tweaking HTML. I simply don't have the mind to do it, and in college I got stuck in entry level classes for VB, Java, and assembler, with C++ in high school - and I hated every minute of every one of them. I would never do it optionally.

    "But Voyager529, there are other ways to help! Donate to projects!" I know. I donate where I can; usually in the $10-$20 range per donation, but I do donate to at least one project a month that's provided some amount of usefulness. That's still a contribution, but requires more than an internet connection - it requires a Paypal account and money (gtfo with cryptocurrency mining as a contribution).

    "We need testers and user feedback, Voyager529! That still requires nothing more than an internet connection, doesn't cost money, and you don't have to be a programmer to do it!" Not so fast. I do this for FreeNAS actually, or at least, I try to. As such, I need something to run FreeNAS *on* - it's not terribly helpful to run FreeNAS in a VM with no data to store. My 15TB NAS, a tiny little thing compared to the folks in /r/datahoarders, still cost about $900 for the initial build, though it's been a bit of a Ship-of-Thesseus situation such that only the PSU and the actual hard drives are original kit. Regardless, FreeNAS requires an actual NAS, and really if I were trying to be a hardcore tester, I'd have more than one of them so I could run nightly builds and stuff with no worry of data loss, but now we're talking about yet another investment. pfSense and other router distributions require hardware and a means to configure them as such (good luck with that for people with satellite internet or WISP connections), LAMP applications require web servers and domain knowledge of how to utilize them.
    A desktop Linux distribution big enough to be a daily driver is a Linux distribution big enough to not need my contributions - there are precisely zero people on the Debian mailing list who give a s!!t what I have to say, but RebornOS is a bit small for me to feel comfortable installing on my primary computer, meaning I'd need a secondary one - which of course is still additional hardware and additional expense. Even so, if I'm going to use it with any level of efficacy to be a good tester, I need to be using it at least half the time, which means I need to be able to replicate data from one machine to the other, which now adds to the complexity of how daily tasks are being performed...in summary, being a tester/feedback participant for an OSS project implies "bring your own QA environment" - which is still more than an internet connection.

    "Okay fine...but you can still help with documentation! You're pretty well-written and can help spruce up documents which have not been the best-maintained...and THAT definitely requires nothing more than an internet connection, so stop whining!" True...except it's not completely true. As a technically savvy end user, the areas of documentation that generally need the most work are the areas where common problems are preempted. Even if I were given access to the documents to edit (and yes, some projects do take the Wiki approach), general usability documentation should mostly be unnecessary if a project is written even a little bit well. If it's not, then the contribution is "here's how to make this function more readily apparent for end users", which can be helpful and sometimes can be the way to implement positive changes, but it's just as common for such things to end up as "wontfix" because the UX developer knows best. FAQs and troubleshooting guides are good places to start, but they require a w

  36. Re:Brilliant! by RedK · · Score: 1

    Proof is necessary if she accuses someone in particular. A discussion of harassment in general is perfectly possible without making a court case out of it.

    I'm not going to have a discussion about harassement that is not occuring. That's a waste of everyone's time.

    People discuss tons of topics every day without having to offer proof for their assertions, I don't see why this topic has to be held to a different standard.

    Call it the "Is this really an issue" standard. Yes, every topic is weighted against it.

    By holding discussion of this topic to a different standard, you're trying to stifle the discussion.

    Except we're not stiffling discussion by holding it to a different standard. We don't want to talk about things that simply do not happen, and thus require no tangible action or discussion.

    Show us why it's a problem, and then we'll talk about it.

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    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
  37. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 2

    You missed my point. "There are too many loud mouths that the movement has lost all sense of pragmatism and direction".

    I am not going to address your whataboutism or false equivalency.

    Perhaps you should pay less attention to the attention whores in any movement, and look at what the majority of the movement is about.

    Because what the majority of the movement is about, in my opinion, has been overtaken by the loud mouths that has derided any noble cause it may have had. How many times do I have to hear about the gender pay gap before I recognize that the movement has been overtaken by loud mouth idiots devoid of principle because they bastardize statistics and science for their own tribal agenda and personal advancement?

  38. Re:Feminism by outlander · · Score: 1, Flamebait

    Kind of sad that you dismiss the desire of women - comprising fifty-plus percent of the human race - to be treated as human beings with equal rights.

    That's what feminism is. It's not about diminution of rights for males. It's about trying to ensure that there's a level playing field.

    This is not a radical idea....countries which have taken steps to try to address gender imbalances often do better, as witness much of northern Europe. Ditto for treating people of different (in this case, mostly black/brown) morphology as humans. We're in a global economy where the success of a society is tied to the ability of that society to bring the best out of all of its citizens. This is why education, basic respect, tolerance, basic economic equity, et cetera matter....because that's where a society can eke out the incremental increase in performance that will enable it to prosper.

    Societies which are highly stratified and winner-take-all can succeed in the short term but tend to devolve away from democracy and towards an encomienda system in which there are a few very rich people and the rest are poor. And don't construe this as my hating capitalism; I don't. I do, however, recognize that unregulated capitalism is a Hobbsian nightmare which ultimately does as much damage to society as any soi-disant communist oligarchy.....some regulation is needed to keep both economic power (business) and political power (government) in check.

    But that's a moderate view, so at least the flames will come from both sides :-) .

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  39. Meanwhile at home... by computational+super · · Score: 1

    Whereas in America, it's the other way around - with Google execs demanding that white men not be allowed to participate in conferences and firing anybody who suggests that men and women may be different in noticeable ways.

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  40. Re:Brilliant! by hackertourist · · Score: 1

    Harassment is occurring. CNN story. #metoo. Countless other stories published in the past few years.
    Not all of these stories end with a lawsuit. That doesn't make them lies.

    Claiming that harassment isn't an issue (which is what you're doing) is stifling the discussion, and perpetrating the problem.

  41. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    Feminism != women.

    There are plenty of women that do not like feminism and stand against it. Feminists do not speak for woman. That is a degrading and undermines the individual by taking away their autonomy and voice by tribalism and group identity. Treat women as individuals that can decide, act, and speak in their own self interest. Anything less is soft bigotry of low expectations.

  42. Re:Feminism by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I agree but it just seems that 'feminism' has been soiled by too many extremists that it has lost all sense pragmatism or direction. ... Feminism may not be cancer but it is infected with a malignancy that, IMO, is terminal to any redeeming quality.

    The same could be said of American politics.

  43. Re:Brilliant! by RedK · · Score: 1

    Countless other stories published in the past few years.

    The problem is that blogging in recent years pushes the narrative of harassement, but is it really there ? So sure you can link a ton of stuff (and seriously, #metoo is the WORST example you could come up with, talk about a massive witch hunt), but is it just strawmans or actual harassement ?

    There was a metric ton of articles in 2013 and again in 2015 recounting how poor Sarah Sharp was "abused" on the LKML. Then it ended up being that she was just being a drama queen and created the whole situation herself by being a combative jerk.

    Articles that push the narrative offer little if any evidence the harassement is even occuring. Another great example ? Anything Anita Sarkeesian. Literally pick ANYTHING in her entire career. Including that time she cancelled a talk over "threats" that were deemed completely uncredible.

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    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
  44. Re:Feminism by RedK · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Do you believe that the sexes should be treated equally, that women should have the same political, legal, social and economic rights as men?

    Yes or no will do.

    Yes

    Do you believe that the sexes should have 50% equal representation in every political, legal, social, economic sector of activity ?

    Yes or no answer will do.

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    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
  45. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    If you mean equal outcomes, then no I do not believe in that garbage. Otherwise. yes the difference is that I think we have it. Name a legal, political, social or economic right that women do not have.

    Does the law apply equally to men and women? Yes. Check legal.
    Do woman have suffrage and can hold political office? Yes. Check political.
    Do women have the same civil rights, freedom of speech, property rights, and equal access to social goods and services as men? Yes. Check social. In fact they have access to better services than men soooo. Matriarchy? We need a movement to promote the social rights and services of men! A... Mens Rights Movement if you will. After all, you are motivated by principle, aren't you?
    Can women get the same employment as men? Yes. Check economic.

    Hooray! Feminism has achieved the noble goals of equality for women! Oh. Wait. I know what's really important as mansplained by the great feminist ally Trudeau. Damnatio memoriae of "mankind". "Mankind" needs to be stricken from memory and replaced with "Peoplekind"... because feminism. So glad we have an entire movement dedicated to this noble goal with people in power like Trudeau to make it happen. But MRM wanting abuse shelters for men? Sexism.

    Feminism is it's own parody.

  46. Re:So, it is not the "patriarchy" after all? by serviscope_minor · · Score: 1

    I have no idea what you're going on about so I'm going to restrict myself directly to criticising your bizarrue use/em of italics.

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  47. Re:Feminism by TooManyNames · · Score: 1

    Just 7,327 more times... it'll start to lose mainstream appeal by then.

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  48. Re:Feminism by Brulath · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The entire movement isn't rendered obsolete because several vocal sub-communities are taking extreme views. Any small community basically becomes more extreme in its views over time if it isn't exposed to reality. The problem is systemic in various causes ranging from feminism to atheism, various theisms (fundamental Christianity/Islam/Judaism/etc.), charitable organisations, environment-conscious groups, animal welfare (PETA), etc. This doesn't render any of the causes lost, it simply means they need to fight harder to drown out the voices of those more extreme sects.

    You should never yield a movement because extreme people come in every so often. You also may want to reconsider automatic judgement of someone based on a particular view (such as a perceived gender pay gap) as in their case they might be right, even if they might be wrongly attempting to generalise.

  49. Re:Feminism by outlander · · Score: 1

    ^^ What Midnight Thunder said.

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  50. Re:This Snowflake should try and be less sensitive by PaulRivers10 · · Score: 1

    At this point I give it > 50% that feminist activists set those up so they'd have a topic to complain about and claim sexism. Have you seen how many times their high publicity complaints turn out to either be completely made up, or so mischaracterized it completely misrepresents the original action. Also feminism is an antagonistic political group, it's highly debateable how representative it is of "women" at all. My experience is feminism is just as hostile towards women that won't repeat their narrative as they claim sexist men are.

  51. Re:This Snowflake should try and be less sensitive by najajomo · · Score: 1

    There is nothing stopping any woman from contributing to open Source. All they have to do is write the code and post to github.

    > At this point I give it > 50% that feminist activists set those up so they'd have a topic to complain about and claim sexism ..

    You would be correct. There's a set of feminist activists who attended techie conferences specifically with the intend of finding sexual harassment. They then use evidence of such harassment as a pretext to getting the male organizers removed. for a typical example see this from July 2012. If you ever come across such at a conference, record all such encounters, as you may need it as evidence to clear your name later on.

  52. Re:Feminism by RedK · · Score: 2

    Does the law apply equally to men and women? Yes. Check legal.

    AHA CHECKMATE! You're wrong.

    Men receive on average longer sentences, up to 63% longer sentences and are twice as likely to get convicted (sauce : https://www.law.umich.edu/newsandinfo/features/Pages/starr_gender_disparities.aspx).

    Male privilege is real!

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    Anonymous Coward on Monday August 04, @06:49PM
  53. Re:Feminism by fatwilbur · · Score: 1

    My favorite example of this was a recent article in a major Canadian paper.. it was an essay titled "Well, are you a bad feminist?", which was in response to an original letter from a prominent author titled "Am I a bad feminist?".

    A good read if you want something to make you puke. Here's three young twentysomethings calling a woman who actually had to fight for real women's rights a bad feminist. These people have nothing left to fight for and are grasping at straws to maintain their victim status. Smart women (usually the true feminists) aren't having any of the bullshit.

  54. Re:Brilliant! by Mashiki · · Score: 1

    Yet you have no trouble calling her a liar without offering any evidence of your own.

    She made the claim of harassment, not me. And there is still no proof. I also didn't call her a liar, you again made an assumption. Inability to read? Or are you injecting your own bias into this because you really need to white knight.

    Using your reasoning: Because Hackertourist disagreed with me, he's harassing me.

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  55. Re:Brilliant! by Mashiki · · Score: 1

    By holding discussion of this topic to a different standard, you're trying to stifle the discussion

    You mean by holding discussion of this topic to a real-world standard, it's a serious problem. Facts really do have a way of getting in the way don't they. Hey how about this one, that most of the "harassment" that women get online is from other women.

    I wonder if you think mean girls is just a movie, and not a real-life phenomenon which also exists in many female dominated workplaces.

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  56. You cant toss jerks/bullies out of an 'event' ?! by fygment · · Score: 1

    You need a 'code of conduct' for your event in Delhi? Seems to say a lot about the city/country and maybe that's really the heart of the problem as opposed to the 'open source community'.

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  57. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    I don't think feminism is small by any stretch, furthermore, which feminist community doesn't platform the gender pay gap? You say they are sub-communities and that would be fine if the example were something like "any penetrative sex is rape" but I am talking about mainstream positions that are nearly universal for all feminists that has been parroted by some of the most powerful people on Earth. I find it hard to believe that most feminists have been co-opted by "pay gap feminists" when it looks like it is a staple of feminist ideology and it is Trudeau and Obama advocating for such "extreme" positions.

    I haven't seen anything worth while that western feminism has done lately (many decades) that redeems the rest of the bad things it has done. What is the point of the movement that advocates for the populate election of Senators? Again, I wouldn't and probably many others wouldn't think that way if the movement actually did something to help women in need instead of chasing the boogeyman patriarchy.

    To me, the entire feminist movement in the west is a bad joke. Yes, all of it. It would rather chase boogeyman, make asinine claims of patriarchy, bastardize science, and police language in absurd ("peoplekind"... really? That is important?? A made up word because self described feminists do not understand etymology) ways than actually help people. There is nothing proud about being a feminist today in the west. It's a self branded scarlet letter that carries more baggage than a airliner.

    You should never yield a movement because extreme people come in every so often

    If the movement is made up of nearly entirely of extreme people. I disregard it. If you are a feminist trying to save feminism. Good Luck. At some point Old Yeller is gone and needs to be put down. He saved the family but times change.

    You also may want to reconsider automatic judgement of someone based on a particular view (such as a perceived gender pay gap) as in their case they might be right

    If they are right they can prove it in court. I don't have to do anything or make any judgement because it is already the law of the land. I don't need to listen and believe when I can have evidence and facts. I don't care if they are right or wrong because it's on them to prove it in court. Changing the law based on bad science and bad statistics that attack meritocracy is fundamentally different and wrong.

    Do you make automatic judgements for a Republican? A pro-lifer? A Christian? The pro-life movement has surely had its extreme members yet it hasn't been plagued by the same malignancy of feminism.

  58. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    Ha ha charade you are! Technically, the law still applies equally because there isn't a legal distinction made and the same law is applied to both genders and in the eyes of the law (the written language) they are equal. It is in the eyes of the prosecutor, jury, and judge that they are not which is what you are addressing. Specifically, prosecution, verdict, and sentencing. If you apply mandatory minimums that 63% would probably disappear or be reduced considerably (haven't done reading on it, probably key word here) because the law prescribes the sentence without judicial bias and is written without gender consideration. However, that doesn't address the conviction rate because that would rely on the prosecutor and jury.

    IOW, the law is the only gender neutral part of our legal system we have because we have explicitly written it as neutral while the other pillars of justice are based entirely on human fallibility and bias. Legal equality only guarantees that we are equal by law. That does not necessarily address judicial independence, prosecutorial discretion and certainly not the jury.

    But more over, you are right I just like to play devils advocate.

  59. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    " Legal equality only guarantees that we are equal by law"

    errr... "Legal equality only guarantees that we are treated equal by the law" is a better way to phrase it. Murder is murder regardless of gender.

  60. Re:Feminism by MightyMartian · · Score: 1

    Do you have even one bit of evidence that the entire movement is about that? Go on, provide it, otherwise admit that your opinion is baseless.

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  61. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    Me: "Because what the majority of the movement is about, in my opinion, has been overtaken by the loud mouths "
    Me: "How many times do I have to hear about the gender pay gap before I recognize that the movement has been overtaken by loud mouth idiots? "
    You: "Do you have even one bit of evidence that the entire movement is about that? "

    My question is a subjective question but one that is not answered by baseless accusations. Your question does not appear to address the same point and you seem to misunderstand what I am saying and moving the goal post. But I will answer it based on what I said not what you think I said.

    I can count on one hand the number of self identified feminists against the gender pay gap. An example of a loud mouth idiot who has overtaken the movement; Carrie Gracie.

  62. Re:Feminism by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    If feminism was about "equality of the sexes" then mission accomplished across the board.

    The fact that you see the mission accomplished across the board, when there's still discrimination going on, suggests that it's still necessary. It's not necessary to get rid of sexist laws, by and large, but continuing work on attitudes is useful. Sexism was heavily ingrained into the culture not that long ago, and such things die hard.

    despite reports stating that there was no discrimination [in pay]

    Some people seized on the gender pay gap as evidence of sexism, not wanting to go deeper. Some people seize on the first reports that say the gender pay gap is due to certain reasons, not wanting to go deeper. For example, pay varies between jobs, and reports on the pay gap often say that men go into higher-paid occupations. Why are those occupations paid more? Historically, female-dominated professions tended to pay less than male-dominated professions, for no obvious reason. Are we truly beyond that? I'd say more research is needed.

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  63. Re:Feminism by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    There's a problem with how you're wording it.

    Men and women, to a large extent, have the same rights. That doesn't mean society isn't sexist, that they can do the same things.

    Historical example: For a long time, women had the same right to vote and the same right to run for public office as men. Generally, they didn't run. Minnesota's first Congresswoman lost her seat over a "Come home, Coya!" campaign that was based on the idea that women belonged in the house, not the House. Obviously, things are much better now. Are female politicians still at a disadvantage because they're female? My guess would be "yes", but it's hard to find good evidence.

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  64. Re:Feminism by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    Being treated equal by the law is not being treated equally by the justice system. There's all sorts of room for prejudice by police, prosecutors, and judges. The net result seems to be that men will be treated more harshly than women, despite the law being the same.

    Murder is murder, but there's lesser crimes that appear to demonstrate sexual discrimination.

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  65. Re:All men vs. "some men" + and some women by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    National Socialism stood for getting rid of Jews, and treating other races as inferiors. They weren't all that subtle about it.

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  66. Re:Brilliant! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    Everyone and anyone can report harassement. If it's true, you'll have no issues producing evidence of it.

    Actually, no. Some can be subtle. Getting slightly within her personal space or other dominance moves, spending a little extra time looking at her boobs and crotch, making what one person claims is a joke and the other person considers harassment, no individual action that's clearly out of line. It can add up.

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  67. Re:Brilliant! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    It's possible to make a claim sincerely when the evidence just isn't there, and it's possible to be right. If you don't have evidence, you don't know who's lying and/or misunderstanding.

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  68. Re:Brilliant! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    I'm not going to have a discussion about harassement that is not occuring.

    Now, can you prove that harassment is not occurring? Lack of evidence doesn't show anything one way or another. I've been in lots of discussions about things that might or might not be happening. The wording can get a little odd, of course.

    We don't want to talk about things that simply do not happen, and thus require no tangible action or discussion.

    And, again, you make a very large and sweeping assumption. Since we can definitely find women who have been sexually harassed, it's also a false one.

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  69. Self-taught by NewYork · · Score: 1

    Most Indian coders say they are self-taught
    https://qz.com/1187943/most-in...

  70. Re:Brilliant! by AmiMoJo · · Score: 1

    Your link is a 404. Nice try.

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  71. Re:Feminism by penandpaper · · Score: 1

    when there's still discrimination going on, suggests that it's still necessary

    You are never going to get rid of discrimination 100%. That doesn't matter though because it is already the law of the land. If someone was discriminated against they can prove it in court for damages. I don't need to do anything, have an opinion, or make a judgement. I can have facts and evidence. Merely stating the fact that equality that has been achieved is not any kind of suggestion that the obsolete movement that initially promoted equality is still relevant. Is the movement to promote the popular election of Senators relevant and still necessary? Some random jack ass, like me, with an opinion doesn't suggest anything. You thinking it does is delusional and almost like a cult of personality toward feminism.

    No one cares if you succeed or fails. If you faced illegal discrimination, prove it.

    attitudes and culture

    The irony is that feminism has pushed and won so much that in reaction it spawned is the MRA and MGTOW. Feminism is its own enemy for attitudes and culture. If you want to change attitudes and culture by all means go for it. It's part of that "no one cares if you succeed of fail" I was talking about earlier. Star Wars can push their feminist agenda and I can forgo seeing their film. Win-win. I am not a dick based on gender so I have done my part. Mission accomplished.

    What am I supposed to do? Jump on band wagons and witch hunts to feel smug and superior? Honestly, considering the number scummy male feminists I have heard about that have abused women it's hard to take your "need to change attitudes and culture" seriously. Especially when you have have movements like #metoo turn into witch hunts used by celebrities to virtue signal to the world. No thanks. I don't act or need to act like celebrities and male feminists virtue signaling their hypocrisy. My actions speak louder than their words.

  72. Re:Brilliant! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    A statement that sexual harassment happens is a general statement, and easily substantiated with evidence. I can easily find a case of one woman who was sexually harassed. A statement that it's common does need evidence to support. Similarly, GP made a flat statement that it wasn't happening, and that is a definite claim that does ask for evidence - and the evidence says it's wrong.

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  73. Re:Feminism by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    If someone was discriminated against they can prove it in court

    Ever been involved in a case where you were illegally discriminated against? I have. It's not nearly that simple. The recruiter told me they were going to extend a job offer, I was asked for my birth date for a background investigation, and then nobody had ever said anything about a job offer, no sir, and nobody was interested in talking to me. I was then, as I am now, in the 40-65 age band, where discrimination is illegal.

    I filed a complaint with the appropriate state agency, and then the company replied, saying pretty much what I'd claimed. I got a lawyer ($3K up front, and 1/3 of any winnings), who wrote a reply to that. The claim was denied based on their never having said anything about an offer (and the company had verified in its reply that they did mention it), and it wasn't worth going further.

    Approximately no employer is going to fire you and cite grounds of race, sex, religion, or refusing sexual advances. They will come up with another reason. Fighting this will be at least moderately expensive, and it will be uncertain.

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  74. Re:Feminism by sdinfoserv · · Score: 1

    Unfortunately, in US, it is not a binary answer. Women are believed no matter what or how nonsensical the claims. Men are always assumed to be in the wrong in any she vs he situation.
    There is no "guilty till proven innocent" and men are instantly convicted in the court of public opinion.
    A case-in-point from my own experience; I got divorced in (c) 2004 for which I was awarded full and legal custody of our 3 kids. As such, I was awarded child support. I had to fill out paperwork via the Social Services system in order to get child support garnished from my ex. The pre-printed paperwork provided by the Department of Social Services had pre-printed "father" across the entire form in all locations so as to garnish men's wages. Ie: "Father's Address", "Father's employer", etc. Also, several of my friends who have been through divorce have experienced when things are beginning to not go in favor of the woman, several have brought up the "abuser" stigma which without any substantiation immediately nullifies any male rights.
    Equal rights need to go both ways.

  75. Re:Brilliant! by david_thornley · · Score: 1

    You apparently missed the "We don't want to talk about things that simply do not happen". The "I'm not going to have a discussion about harassement that is not occuring" can be construed as you say, but not germane to a discussion of harassment in general.

    But a trend or systematic problem is also something that "occurs", and it takes a lot more than pointing at individual cases of harassment occurring to demonstrate that a trend or systematic problem is occurring

    If we need more than individual cases to start a discussion, we'll never start one, since every discussion of something that might be a trend or systemic problem starts with individual cases. hackertourist wasn't saying where the discussion had to go.

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