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Researchers Find That Filters Don't Prevent Porn (techcrunch.com)

According to a new paper from Oxford Internet Institute researchers Victoria Nash and Andrew Przybylski, internet filters rarely work to keep adolescents away from online porn. Basically, the filters are expensive and they don't work. "Internet filtering tools are expensive to develop and maintain, and can easily 'underblock' due to the constant development of new ways of sharing content. Additionally, there are concerns about human rights violations -- filtering can lead to 'overblocking', where young people are not able to access legitimate health and relationship information." TechCrunch reports: The researchers "found that Internet filtering tools are ineffective and in most cases [and] were an insignificant factor in whether young people had seen explicit sexual content." The study's most interesting finding was that between 17 and 77 households "would need to use Internet filtering tools in order to prevent a single young person from accessing sexual content" and even then a filter "showed no statistically or practically significant protective effects." The study looked at 9,352 male and 9,357 female subjects from the EU and the UK and found that almost 50 percent of the subjects had some sort of Internet filter at home. Regardless of the filters installed, subjects still saw approximately the same amount of porn.

126 comments

  1. Good by johanw · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Censorship won't work. The internet protects young people from prudes who like to censor.

    1. Re:Good by XanC · · Score: 2

      I do want to censor. I am a censor. I want to keep my 10 year old children from seeing awful things they can't unsee.

      What is the best way to achieve this?

    2. Re:Good by johanw · · Score: 5, Funny

      Install an adblocker.

    3. Re:Good by Sebby · · Score: 4, Insightful
      Explain.
      Monitor.
      Then trust.

      Kids will always find ways to access what they want to see. Best to teach/explain/trust than to make them feel suppressed or constantly watched.

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    4. Re:Good by Calydor · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Blindfolds.

      Seriously, the internet is the least of your worries. News on the TV from wartorn countries, gory action movies, computer games at any level above Mario, the list is endless.

      The world is a raw and unforgiving place. Sheltering your kids until they're 18 is only going to make the shock that much worse.

      I'm not saying to sit down and watch a porn marathon with them, but consider instilling a healthy understanding in them of what sex is (pleasurable) and isn't (magical).

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    5. Re:Good by mi · · Score: 1

      What is the best way to achieve this?

      A proper semantic device — either a human or an artificial intelligence... And even that will not be reliable — for example, humans have struggled to define "porn" (as opposite to "erotic art") for decades, if not millennia.

      The best is, probably, to just warn your kids so they are ready — and not let them at the Internet until you are reasonably comfortable.

      The joke goes like this: "Damn, the Internet connection is so slow today — either my son is downloading porn, or my daughter is uploading some..."

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    6. Re: Good by Type44Q · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Good, old-fashioned analog parenting, without all the goddamned devices.

    7. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you did what's necessary to prevent that with 100% certainty, it is highly probable that when they turned 18 you would never see them again.

    8. Re:Good by AlanBDee · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You can't. It was super easy to get porn before the internet. If the internet was around when I was a kid there would have been nothing my parents could have done to prevent me getting access to porn.

      Best thing to do is explain to your kids what's out there so that they're not that curious about it. You don't have to get into heavy details, just as much as they can understand. If they don't learn it from you it'll be from friends at school or TV and both are probably worse then what you'll tell them.

      It is up to you to explain how easy it is today to find yourself on some of those shady sites. Playing "Free" games or watching "free" movies on shady sites. Even watching an innocent YouTube videos can end up in crazy land that shocks us adults.

      Honestly, that's all I think we as parents can do. I pull this from my experience not with my own parents but with my friends mother who was extremely blunt and was willing to explain to me anything I wanted to know. My parents, as much as I love them, were uncomfortable talking about things like that.

    9. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      If your kids can't figure out how to silently work around any censorship/nanny block you put in place, your kids are an abject failure.

      So you're left to wrestle with the angst of knowing (a) your kids are surfing the web despite your restrictions, or (b) your progeny are morons

      All the best!

    10. Re:Good by JoeDuncan · · Score: 1

      Why do you want to cripple your kids like this?

    11. Re:Good by sexconker · · Score: 1

      By "trust" you mean "pretend".
      About 5 seconds after you have that talk with them, they're going to go and do the exact thing you asked them not to do.

    12. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Show your kid all the 90's R rated movie goodness. American Pie was my generations form of "the talk."

    13. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only truly reliable way is not to let them use the Internet unsupervised (or alternatively, not at all).

    14. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Take away their phones and computers and move where you can't get internet.

    15. Re:Good by alvinrod · · Score: 1

      This reminds me of a story an old teacher once told me. One of his relatives had once remarked to his young son that he shouldn't do anything mischievous such as putting the cat in the microwave. This was obviously meant to be a bit of jest, but fortunately the cat was removed from the microwave before it was seriously harmed.

      I've always taken this to mean that when you're discussing evil (I'm not going to say pornography is evil, but it's probably not wise to show a six year old a video of an orgy so I'm generalizing here) with a person that you should only do so on a level that they already understand. Otherwise you're just giving them ideas.

    16. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only thing that came to mind reading this article was 'duh'.

      Rules are made by rulers so the subjects won't do what the ruler does. Management especially ;)

    17. Re:Good by E-Rock · · Score: 1

      Get an app that allows you to whitelist sites. Any blacklist will be out of date or full of holes. With a whitelist, you pick where they are allowed to go.

    18. Re:Good by Trailer+Trash · · Score: 2

      When I was a kid, well, I grew up in a small town that had been an industrial center for brick-making, even when I was young. There were traces of it everywhere, and in a small woods near my house there were a bunch of old tile pipes about a couple feet in diameter and four or five feet long stacked up nicely in a row, about three pipes high. It was there that someone stored his rather extensive porn collection. Did I mention this was on my paper route?

      So, my friends and I would go there and look and read. It was amazing, perplexing, etc. to us at 10 years old. I survived it. And learned about Joni's Butterfly earlier than we should have.

      Anyway, I knew my kids wouldn't find porn in the woods, but I also knew they would find it online easily. While they were young, they used computers in the common area of the house that we could see when we walked by. It wasn't until they were 17 that they had computers in their rooms, and we had talked about porn off and on by then.

      If you try to shield kids from something, they'll find it, anyway. The best thing to do is get it out in the open and let them know the expectations. That's what you do as a parent. You can shield your kids, but some day they won't be in your house any more. I'd rather prepare them for that time.

    19. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Best advice I've seen so far is to put every internet-connected screen in a public place. No TV's or cellphones in bedrooms or bathrooms, just do homework and social media in the living room, dining room, family room, etc...and you (the parents) also spend your time there.

      This creates a fundamentally healthy family environment and allows for some mild monitoring, but avoids the need for explicit rules and saves you from having to introduce ideas about sexually-charged imagery to a 10-year-old. The rules are reasonable so aren't likely to be subverted, if you have a healthy relationship with your kids.

      Some people think any rules are impossible to apply and just throw up their hands in surrender, but that's bad parenting. The goal, after all, is to create an environment in which they learn to make healthy decisions for themselves, so when they go to college they won't feel like they've suddenly been liberated from unreasonable strictures, but instead they are prepared to be wise in their own right. They aren't wise now (they're 10 years old) but the approach you choose has to set a tone for how things will be when they're 13, 16, 18.

    20. Re:Good by StormReaver · · Score: 1

      What is the best way to achieve this?

      You could understand that every action has an equal and opposite reaction, both physically and emotionally. The more you censor, the more your 10 year-old will feel drawn to the materials you are forbidding.

      You could then move up to understanding that your 10 year-old is not stupid, and is very curious. And then understand that your desire to censor is an expression of YOUR fears, not your child's. Help your child understand what porn is, why it exists, and why you are afraid of it.

      Porn's not going away, and you are not going to be able to keep your child from seeing it, if the motivation to see it is strong enough. Be a guide, teacher, and counselor, rather than an enemy.

    21. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your post belies your username. :P

    22. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Don't tell them not to do it, Explain means explain there are things they may not like if they find them and TEACH them internet literacy... if you can't do the latter hire someone who can and sit with them while they do so...

    23. Re:Good by SuricouRaven · · Score: 1

      Admit defeat. Raise the children to have a little more emotional resilience, so that if they do see anything terrible they can just calmly close the tab and move on.

    24. Re:Good by radja · · Score: 1

      a blindfold

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    25. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Homeschool them? Otherwise not much you can do about the things the teachers fix in their impressionable minds. Millennials are not the result of a parents union.

    26. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lock them in a cellar without windows for the rest of their life. That's the only way to ensure that they cannot see awful things they can't unsee.

    27. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Came here to suggest this. If they have to use it where other people can see, they'll control their own behavior.

    28. Re:Good by RatPh!nk · · Score: 1

      I have had good experience with OpenDNS with their Web Content Filtering. I am sure it isn't 100% but it is a decent start.

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    29. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      You can't. It was super easy to get porn before the internet. If the internet was around when I was a kid there would have been nothing my parents could have done to prevent me getting access to porn.

      I grew up (before the internet) without seeing any porn.

      We didn't have a TV in my family. Eventually we got a radio but it was only used in rare circumstances to listen to classical music or the news from NPR. And if we started up the car for a family trip and the radio turned on - implying that my father had been listening to the car radio - then the radio would be quickly turned off and there would be a painful silence - as if my father had been caught doing something unspeakably obscene - a great betrayal of the family and its value.

      So, at least before the internet, it was definitely possible to prevent one's children from accessing porn - with sufficiently severe monitoring, shame, and guilt. I know because it happened to me. But it also wasn't healthy.

      When I did finally become sexually active in my late 20s, I was focused on the wrong things. I should have been focused on practical issues like pregnancy, disease, and consent. But instead I was focused on the ways I would be punished by God. I mean, why worry about minor things like pregnancy, disease, and consent when you're facing an eternity of torture in hell for what you just did?

      Fortunately, I didn't get anyone pregnant, or get any sexually transmitted diseases, or rape anyone. But that was mostly luck. Some of my deepest regrets and shame are in that area of my life: I took a lot more risks in those areas than I should have.

    30. Re:Good by Dunkirk · · Score: 1

      This, on the web site that I was first maliciously redirected to tub girl. I use filters and blocks for my family, AND have the conversations and the monitoring and the trusting, thank you very much.

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    31. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Best advice I've seen so far is to put every internet-connected screen in a public place.

      My wife and I do require our 11 year old daughter to connect her devices to our large-screen TV whenever she goes online for fun (if she's just grinding though her homework on a math website then it's enough to look over her shoulder).

      But the reason for supervision is not to prevent her from accessing porn. As far as I'm concerned, when she gets old enough to wonder about sex, she's welcome to look around the internet for examples of how that all works. But what scares me is all the online chatting. I don't want her making friends with some older man and then secretly arranging to meet him in real life. You don't get pregnant, or STDs, or raped from watching porn. But all that is only too likely if you're a teenage girl meeting up in real life with an older man in secret.

      Now, I don't want all of my daughter's knowledge on sex to come from internet porn. I've already shown her the chapters in my college biology textbooks about human reproduction and encouraged her to read them carefully whenever she's ready. And I try to talk about basic biology with the goal that when she starts dating in real life she will know things like the detailed life cycle of the herpes virus - and all the ways it can be transmitted - including oral sex.

      Ideally, my daughter would think of sex as being similar to driving a car - lots of compelling reasons to do it but also very dangerous so you have to be old enough to understand and manage the risks - particularly the big three: pregnancy, disease, and consent.

    32. Re:Good by zifn4b · · Score: 1

      Use parental controls in conjunction with a whitelist

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    33. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and boxing gloves.

    34. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Take the internet away, close the curtains and hide under the table.

      Porn is good for the world. Porn drives innovation, only yesterday we hear Porn is pushing the VR boundaries. Everyone on this planet is only here due to porn, the act of sex to create offspring and also and the act of sex for gratification. What did people do when we have no TV? They shagged for enjoyment. It's only the prudist people who denign their urges and feel that porn is a bad thing, but nearly everyone on this planet has had a fuck and I am sure they also would enjoy watching other fuck from afar whilst playing with their bits.

    35. Re:Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Little Jimmy is showing his mate Ed his new wrist watch at high school when Ed asked how he got it. Jimmy explained that he walking in on his mom and dad whilst they were fucking and his dad gave him a wrist watch to keep quiet. So the next night Ed heard his mon and dad having sex, so opened the door and walked in and asked his dad if he could have a watch. His dad say's "sure, come in and close the door".

    36. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No unsupervised browsing until they are older.

    37. Re:Good by echopulse · · Score: 1

      The Paper didn't provide much detail about their methods. What type of filter was used. Are they using a software filter that only filters the computer that it's installed on?, or an ISP-Based or DNS filter that filters all the computers, as well as mobile devices? Maybe software filters don't work well, but I would say that ISP based of DNS filters do work pretty well. Also, it seems the teens are self reporting their porn viewing habits, but that doesn't mean they aren't viewing it on their phone, or at a friends house who doesn't have the filter. To answer your question, if your ISP doesn't have an optional filter, the best option is OpenDNS, which you can use with your WIFI Access Point to filter every device connected to your network. https://signup.opendns.com/homefree/

    38. Re: Good by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      dont let them on the internet or watch tv.

      or you talk to your kids and explain stuff like an adult so they understand.

    39. Re:Good by mjwx · · Score: 1

      Explain.
      Monitor.
      Then trust.

      Kids will always find ways to access what they want to see. Best to teach/explain/trust than to make them feel suppressed or constantly watched.

      Whoa, whoa, whoa... Back this thing up here... It sounds like you're talking about actual parenting, creating an environment where if your child sees something that they're confused about or disturbed by, they can talk to their parent.

      No, in this case the breeder simply wants a fail-proof electronic nanny so they don't have to do anything to raise their crotchspawns.

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    40. Re:Good by Trailer+Trash · · Score: 1

      Your post belies your username. :P

      I made that name in 1999 if I remember correctly. I lived in a trailer from 1990 to 1998. I wired a 10BT network in it with a tiny 5 port hub. Living the redneck dream.

  2. The best filter... by Sebby · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Tell kids that everything they see on their screen, you can also see on yours. (That is, of course, until they wise up).

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    1. Re:The best filter... by Riceballsan · · Score: 1

      doesn't actually have to be a bluff, VNC would work for that. Sure they can turn it off... but then you'd easilly be able to see that it is turned off. Plus no shortage of routers etc... can see what pages are visited etc... Though I also gotta go with... why the fuck are we doing so much work to censor a pretty natural and inevitable act. Meanwhile 90% of the people who sweat about their kids god forbid finding their way to porn... won't bat an eye with their kids seeing hundreds of heads blown up and people dismembered.

    2. Re:The best filter... by Sebby · · Score: 1

      VNC would work for that.

      Not quite sure how you'd do that on a tablet or phone, which is what most kids use these days.

      This also somewhat assumes they're not using their cellular data to avoid the local network filters.

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    3. Re:The best filter... by The-Ixian · · Score: 0

      I do have to point out the fact that most porn is not a depiction of sex but is rather a depiction of power.

      Also, the men and women in a lot of porn are representative of a body ideal that is not achievable by most of the consumers of that porn. This continues to reinforce the unrealistic body ideals that people are holding themselves and potential partners to.

      Also, if you are basing your personal sexual contact on what you have seen in porn, you and your partner are going to be left wanting in the bedroom.

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    4. Re:The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > why the fuck are we doing so much work to censor a pretty natural and inevitable act

      Ok, lets stroll down to pornhub with a nice incognito window. Pornhub isn't a porn site I frequent often, nor do I have an account, nor is there *probably* a cookie, so this should just be whatever it is showing to my region or whatever else it can guess about me.

      > Snapchat Teen Suck and Fuck by the Window
      Ok, this maybe passes your "natural and normal" test, in that it appears to just be sex.

      > PervMom - Busy Stepmom Makes Time For Stepson
      Does this pass your test? Incest roleplay? This is number fucking two.

      > Tindr Hookup with Petite 19 Year Old
      Come on, doesn't this make you just a bit uncomfortable? If not, can you understand how this wouldn't be ideal for pretty much any child?

      > Fucking Your Step Sister On Prom Night
      Wait, TWO incest roleplays? Note the "step" in there, probably to get around pornhub's decency filter (and yes, they absolutely have standards)

      After that it does look like normal porn videos for me. But even a normal porn video is not particularly similar to normal sex, much of the time. The "fetish pushing" (such as incest, or interracial) also seems to come in waves, probably in response to where the advertising campaign is trying to push everyone, and that stuff absolutely gets pretty top billing. Then, of course, there's the fact that tons of the porn isn't anything close to natural or normal. Even if your son is inevitably gonna be into some freaky fetish somehow (seems unlikely), maybe holding it off a few years and letting him discover his newfound love for sounding under his own fucking roof has some merit too, eh?

    5. Re:The best filter... by HiThere · · Score: 1

      re paragraph1: Sometimes that's clearly true, other times it depends on what you read into it.

      re paragraph2: Yes. But no more so than movie stars, TV reporters, etc.

      re paragraph3: Yes, but... Your personal relationships should be based mainly around personalities and secondarily around other reasons to be attracted, or you will be disappointed in life, not just in the bedroom.

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    6. Re:The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better yet, watch it with them. Whip out your dick and start fapping along with them.
      See how much they keep wanting to watch porn

    7. Re:The best filter... by lucasnate1 · · Score: 1

      Funny, I find porn body types to be much more realistic than those in "normal" TV. In porn you can see fat people, ugly people, people of all races, amputees, etc.

    8. Re:The best filter... by Riceballsan · · Score: 1

      well yeah true, for those devices router level monitoring is the ideal solution. and if you are concerned with where your kids go online, don't get them data for their phone, or I know with apple products, you can always set restrictions and go with a White list method if you do want them to have data. (again I don't personally see a reason to actually stress or worry about it that much, but I know some parents who desire that above all else).

    9. Re:The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You might want to see what these guys are doing...

      captcha: quagmire

      giggity.

    10. Re:The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, if you are basing your personal sexual contact on what you have seen in porn, you and your partner are going to be left wanting in the bedroom.

      I've never found that argument to be particularly compelling.

      But then I ended up choosing a crazy beautiful wife. She's way hotter than any porn star. And, when she's not overwhelmed with insecurity from a very difficult childhood, she has a massive sexual appetite. She has a perfect body. Even in her forties, her body is firm and smooth with just enough "curves" to be sexy while still being slender and elegant. And her face is exquisite perfection. And her moves are way sexier than any porn star. No matter what position we're in she know just exactly how to move to make me want nothing more than to explode inside her.

      Of course, I don't need or want porn when my wife is around. But, when she's out of the country on long trips and I look around the internet for porn, I'm mostly surprised by how inadequate most women are compared to my wife. I'm naturally inclined to like porn stars - very grateful for what they do - but I find myself wondering whether women who do porn are just less attractive than average. Of course, there's nothing wrong with looking how you look. But the porn stars have all kinds of imperfections compared to my wife - bodies not as firm or smooth or perfect and their faces just aren't nearly as beautiful as my wife.

      One of the nicest things my wife did for me was to create a photo book with tastefully sexy photos of her - for when she's away travelling. And mostly these days when I feel lonely because she's travelling I just read romance novels. The good romance novels have all kinds of lovely fantasies about women wanting men sexually. And one of the things I am most grateful for in my life is that my wife somehow wants me sexually - probably less because of my appearance (I'm overweight and not naturally attractive anyway) but more because I really try hard to create an environment where she feels appreciated, cared about, and safe.

    11. Re: The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      WTF are you giving kids cellular data.

      The answer is obvious: supervise all internet access *in person* until the children are old enough to browse for themselves.

      The reason this isn't popular is that it's hard and takes up time. Net filtering, or doing nothing, is just the lazy way out.

    12. Re: The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Check out Erika Lust

    13. Re: The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now that's called a win-win situation: your kid either stops watching porn, or you gain a wanking buddy.

      See, I am great because I learnt everything great from Trump. Remember, only a loser puts themselves in a win-lose situation.

    14. Re:The best filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh shut up I just want to get a good close look at a nice clam u turd.

  3. Looking forward to comment from QET by raymorris · · Score: 1

    Just the other day on Slashdot, people were telling me how absolutely nobody could ever want a kid-safe internet service, because you can just install filtering software on all of your devices.

    I'm curious to see what they think of this study.
    (Also curious if they were never 12 or 13 years old and showing their parents how to use technology.)

    1. Re:Looking forward to comment from QET by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I believe the logic is that any method that is used to make an internet service kid-safe can be exactly replicated through filtering software. So if filtering software is not effective, neither is a kid-safe internet service.

      There are different degrees of kid-safe. At one end you could white-list a few select kid friendly sites. The upside with internet service doing this is that there is no way to work around it from your computer. Any filtering software on the computer can be worked around by a savvy enough user. This kind of white listing will only be practical for young kids (e.g. 5-10 yr old) and it is easier to make local filtering foolproof for this age group. So internet service filtering is probably not that important.

      The harder problem is to filter by blacklisting sites so that internet coverage is not overly restricted (any white-listing is very restricting). These types of filters are not effective either in internet service or locally, so alternative solutions are needed (e.g. the explain, monitor, trust method etc.).

  4. what a waste of money by renegade600 · · Score: 2

    just about every kid could have told them filters don't work

    1. Re:what a waste of money by Calydor · · Score: 2

      But the first one to tell them would get beat up by the rest.

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    2. Re:what a waste of money by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I first 'noticed' women from underwear ads in the newspaper. With everything even more sexualized than it was 25 years ago, you'd need to filter all media and advertising content. The internet is a safer place to be than mainstream media and ads. It takes me longer to reach sexualized content online then it does in any other media except radio and books.

      Even if you do somehow manager to filter everything, that just means the next level up becomes porn. People used to get off over pictures of uncovered ankles. Block all natural pictures of humans and people will be back to looking at uncovered pieces of skin. A better way would be to promote more nakedness so people don't sexualize naked bodies. That would turn the act of sex into sexual content rather than random sections of skin. A very closeup image of breast skin looks the same as a closeup of skin on your back (Assuming you aren't very hairy) . The only thing that makes the breast skin exciting is that people try to prevent you from seeing it.

    3. Re: what a waste of money by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I used to beat off to lingerie magazines. The women in them were always very beautiful.

      If I was to filter the internet for my children it would not be to exclude naked, or semi-naked women.

      All I would want to try and tone down would be the nasty stuff: dead people on rotton.com, the horse and dock fucking vids, the terrorist decapitation stuff, as well as two girls one cup, the eels in arse video, and so on.

      They can watch all that, and anything they like, once they are 16. Before then, no way. If that seems arbitrary and unfair, fuck right off, our entire society has rules like this; lines drawn in the sand:

      16 Start working
      16 Age of consent for sex
      16 Can view whatever they like online

      18 Vote
      18 Die in a war as a soldier
      18 Drink booze and smoke
      18 Can stand in court and be punished by the full weight of the law, including capital punishment (if condoned)

      Of course the exact numbers can vary by society, but my numbers above are the ones I stand by.

    4. Re:what a waste of money by dinfinity · · Score: 1

      Proper research helps in convincing policy makers. They don't tend to believe kids.
      Although, having said that, a lot of them don't give a fuck about actual science either.

  5. connectsafely.org by Sebby · · Score: 2

    Should have added this link to connectsafely.org too.

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  6. Re:Best filter you control YOURSELF... apk by Calydor · · Score: 1

    So your hosts file has filtered out every single porn site on the net?

    That's one hell of a good reason not to use it.

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  7. Im just waiting for by hAckz0r · · Score: 1

    ...for the kids to install a TOR plugin into the entertainment system, leaving the adults to be the ones who can't figure out the blocking system.

    1. Re:Im just waiting for by nnet · · Score: 1

      'rents will just learn how to play minecraft...

  8. Oddly specific, small number but large range by Lanthanide · · Score: 1

    "The study's most interesting finding was that between 17 and 77 households "would need to use Internet filtering tools"

    Oddly specific, but why the large range? And why so few households, presumably out of an entire country?

    1. Re:Oddly specific, small number but large range by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      "The study's most interesting finding was that between 17 and 77 households "would need to use Internet filtering tools"

      Oddly specific, but why the large range? And why so few households, presumably out of an entire country?

      Different filtering products and block lists.

      In the best case a particular filter worked 1 out of 17 times. In the worst case a particular filter worked 1 out of 77 times. Implied is the other filters worked a percentage of the time somewhere in between those.

      It's like comparing spam filters on Google and Hotmail, there is a vast difference in effectiveness between those two.
      But studies like these tend to not want to link manufacturer/company names to specific numbers. It may make their source of funding look bad.

  9. How its worked for me by pdfsmail · · Score: 1

    Not speaking about younger children but with young teens my experience is that once blocked from something they want to see, they will find other ways to get to it and diligently figure out how to hide that fact from you. Don't bet on figuring it out.

    I have had better luck explaining what it is, why they shouldn't watch it and then telling them that I am going to give them the responsibility to not purposely view it. I also open the door to ask questions they have about it without cracking jokes or making fun of anyone (a trusting converstion). The point being they ask questions and not feel embarrassed doing it.They will hide things regardless and they will prefer asking friends and other people but that sense responsibility seems much more effective than being oppressive about it. When being oppressive, you better believe they will find somewhere else or some other method to find what they want to see/do. They will also be less open to you about what they are actually doing as well.

    From what I have seen, the more restrictive you are about something, the more they do it once you have no control over them. They are growing people, they will be curious and they may try once the hormones start kicking in, but by then you probably have more important things to worry about than porn.

    1. Re:How its worked for me by zmooc · · Score: 1

      So what exactly did you tell them when you explained why they shouldn't watch it? :p

      --
      0x or or snor perron?!
    2. Re:How its worked for me by AlanBDee · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Agreed. As a teenager my dad sat me down and basically admitted he could do nothing to stop me from doing whatever I wanted. He said, "So don't disappoint me and know that I'm here to help if you need."

      In another discussion, he agreed that if I was ever at a party and too drunk to drive home I could call him and he'd pick me up, no questions asked. His reasoning was that if I'm was responsible enough to call for a ride then I was responsible enough to drink. Never took him up on it but it meant a lot to me that he was putting the responsibility on me.

      More people in this world need a dad like mine.

    3. Re:How its worked for me by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      I was going to post something very similar to this.

      Basically, do you due diligence and block the low hanging fruit so that the bar isn't *nothing* and then, when you find your kid accessing porn, just have a frank, judgement free conversation about it. Let them know that you are there to answer any questions they might have about it.

      It's not about being a prude or not, it's about instilling a healthy sense of what sex and intimate contact is all about.

      Sexual gratification should never be at the expense of another person. Porn is that.

      --
      My eyes reflect the stars and a smile lights up my face.
    4. Re:How its worked for me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I had the same talk with my son. He was also allowed to drink at home but only if he didn't go anywhere afterwards. The one hard line I drew was that he never water down my liquor. It is easy to buy more and if I see its empty or low I will make sure to do it before I want a drink. If he waters it down and I drink water expecting bourbon all hell will break loose.

    5. Re:How its worked for me by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sexual gratification should never be at the expense of another person. Porn is that.

      For almost anything a person might choose to do, there will be a complex mixture of positive and negative consequences. Acting in porn certainly comes with risks and negative consequences. But so does driving down the street: driving down the street is usually not particularly pleasant and if things go wrong you can end up dead.

      I completely agree that obtaining consent from porn actors and actresses is essential. And I wouldn't even oppose raising the age of consent for acting in porn to something quite a bit higher than 18. But if the actors and actresses are freely choosing to do porn then they must feel that, on balance, the positives outweigh the negatives.

      So what are you thinking is the "expense" of porn that makes it so bad that people shouldn't produce or consume it?

  10. Good luck. by sarren1901 · · Score: 1

    Without being signed in at google.com all you have to do is search bare breast and viola', you have lovely bare breast of all sizes and colors. How exactly are you going to prevent them from seeing this content again?

    I suggest lots of education and embarrassing conversations with your child. Explaining to them that porn is fantasy and that it is not how relationships work. Explain what exactly sex is and don't dance around the subject. The penis goes inside the vagina. Pulling out isn't good enough because precum can get you preggers. If you can't have that conversation with your child, that's your failure as an adult.

    If you think not telling them this will some how get them to not think or wonder about it, you are a delusional parent. Explain to them that having a kid means your life is now OVER!!!! Seriously, over. No going out with friends, no closing down the bars. No picking up guys/girls. No weekends away with all your friends at Las Vegas. You get to watch your kid. This is triple true with a baby.

    Of course, if your teen gets preggers, that's almost entirely your failure as a parent as well. Ironically, or maybe not, many teens that have kids end up pawning the kid off onto the parent(s) anyway because they aren't mature enough to have the kid in the first place. It's pretty sad. Parent does such a bad job raising one kid, they end up getting to raise another and the cycle repeats.

    1. Re:Good luck. by TeknoHog · · Score: 2

      Without being signed in at google.com all you have to do is search bare breast and viola', you have lovely bare breast of all sizes and colors.

      I tried that, but none of the pictures showed a string instrument.

      --
      Escher was the first MC and Giger invented the HR department.
    2. Re:Good luck. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know you jest, but if you search "bare breast and VIOLIN", you will get your stringed instruments. Don't know what it is with violas.

    3. Re:Good luck. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Pulling out isn't good enough because precum can get you preggers.

      Depending how long and hard a couple is fooling around, the line between precum and ejaculation can get pretty thin. The current scientific consensus that it's almost impossible to get pregnant only with precum. But there are enough guys who will ejaculate (up inside) and then claim it was only a bit of precum that a girl definitely shouldn't be letting a stick it up inside unless there's some sort of birth control in place.

      And pregnancy isn't the only concern. You can get herpes just from oral sex. And then there's the whole issue of consent.

      My view is that sex is like driving a car. There are a lot of compelling reasons to do it. But it's also very dangerous - hence the idea that you shouldn't do it until you're old enough to manage the risks.

      Ideally, every aspect of having sex would be perfect. There would be just the right number of rose petals strewn across the bed, the candles would giving off exactly the right gentle aroma for love, and Enya would be playing in the background just loud enough to give the feeling of being surrounded by angels but not so loud that to sounds like there's another woman in the room yelling at you. But no amount of Enya playing at the right volume is going to make it OK if an unwanted child is brought into the world, or if someone get AIDS or ends up feeling like they were raped.

      Those are the big three: pregnancy, disease, and consent. If you don't get those right, none of the rest matters.

    4. Re:Good luck. by TeknoHog · · Score: 1

      I guess the violin is more of a solo instrument. We had our own scantily clad violinist already in the 90s, Linda Brava.

      --
      Escher was the first MC and Giger invented the HR department.
  11. Porn doesn't bother me. Violence is much worse! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Porn doesn't bother me. Violence is much worse!

    Looking at porn just shows interest in sex. That is healthy, unless it becomes an obsession.
    Devices go in the den/living room, not bedrooms.
    Network connectivity is limited by time and controlled by device.

  12. Re: Up to you (very funny by the way)... apk by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You do know your std indeed, idiot

  13. There are filters that work, but.... by mark-t · · Score: 1

    .... they simply are not technologically possible to implement.

    For example. don't most human beings have a filter that enables them to choose whether or not to look at porn? Obviously there can be neurologically atypical patterns that might be the exception to this, but generally speaking, this is going to be true for most people.

    The brain follows the laws of physics, so there is nothing physically impossible about being able to detect whether or not something is porn.

    This ultimately only means that we don't currently have the technology to achieve it, not that it is literally and physically impossible to do.

  14. NEWSFLASH: apk 2 lrn2engrish by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    prease 2be lrn2engrish.

    1. Re:NEWSFLASH: apk 2 lrn2engrish by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I understand apk. You have the problem if you can't read due to your adhd or dyslexia. Get your hooked on phonics lessons out.

  15. I guess I just don't understand the problem by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    Whenever I watch tvision, at the start of every show, there's a big obvious black square in the corner, with an audience rating provided by the content authors. It's there for all of the expected reasons -- viewer discretion is advised.

    Is it so difficult to regulate that web-sites do the same? A simple HTTP header X-AudienceRating would do just fine. Don't do it, or lie with it, and police show up at your door. Welcome to teeth.

    Overblocking is only ever a concern because you're expected to be able to access community content. But community content is never from outside of your country. So it's easy to have your filter block anything outside your country that doesn't have the header, if you desire.

    Sounds like we've solved all of this countless times before. It's been called Parental Lock everywhere else.

    So, what's the problem? Oh yeah, no one likes mapping existing laws to the internet, but everyone wants to call the internet here to stay. Gas has taxes to support roads. When cars are mostly electric, they'll be taxed too, because they still need roads. We've always regulated media outlets. Web-sites are no different.

    X-AudienceRating - F, G, PG, AA, R, X, XXX

    Why is this difficult?

  16. My friend's service was a bit smarter. Analyze by raymorris · · Score: 1

    You mentioned the most simple possible approaches, a whitelist, or a blacklist. A comprehensive blacklist is actually too large to install client-side, but there are much more advanced approaches available.

    You can of course go to Google and get a list of sites covering any topic, such as perhaps "compare ease of learning different server-side programming languages", even though Google has not made such a list. You know there are far more advanced methods for categorizing content than using a pre-generated list, but you seem to have forgotten that for a moment.

    You can use both pre-generated data and dynamic algorithms in concert. You can analyze keywords on the fly, of course, and that includes keywords in other sites that link to the site in question, ala:
    https://www.google.com/search?...

    If PBS.org links to a site, it's probably safe. If pornhub links to a site, that's a red flag. If the site consists primarily of image galleries or video galleries, that's worth a couple points. Have a CCBill signup page or Strongbox login page? Probably porn.

    If you use your imagination for two or three minutes you can probably think of ways such a service could use several terabytes of data and a cluster of very fast web proxies. AI even. I don't think it'll take you long to think of how three racks of equipment in a datacenter could do this more effectively than a 20MB app installed on a tablet can do it.

  17. Example please by WinstonWolfIT · · Score: 1

    i've been behind enough corporate firewalls to see that a blocked site is blocked. How would a smart kid circumvent a strong setup?

  18. Waitaminute by budsetr · · Score: 1

    So education is better than non-education???

  19. Those are voluntary ratings. Porn sites have them by raymorris · · Score: 1

    Those ratings are voluntary, not legally mandated. Web sites can use the exact same MTA rating system and some do. More use a different rating system. A lot of porn sites use the meta tag, but very few non-porn sites do, so that reduces the usefulness.

    Unfortunately I don't have time at the moment to explain WHY the system is voluntary and trying to pass a law about it doesn't work - at all. Perhaps someone else will be kind enough to explain that.

    There *is* a US law that in effect says that all porn sites must have "2257" at the bottom of the front page, or the next page if the site uses a splash page. That's a pretty effective item to filter on. The Girls Gone Wild guy, Joe Francis, went to jail for not complying with 2257. The law is a bit more than just having that number on the web page, but the practical effect is that porn sites all put a "2257 disclosure" link at the bottom of the page.

  20. Smarter teenager by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Job of the scientists is to build a better filter,
    job of nature is to build a smarter teenager.

  21. Life, uh . . . . finds a way by nehumanuscrede · · Score: 1

    John, the kind of control you're attempting simply is it's not possible. If there is one thing the history of evolution has taught us it's that life will not be contained. Life breaks free, it expands to new territories and crashes through barriers, painfully, maybe even dangerously, but, uh well, there it is. - Dr. Ian Malcolm

  22. nothing new here... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    I had no trouble accessing porn as an adolescent back in the 80s without the internet so not sure why now would be any different.

  23. make love not war by swell · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's OK if they see a dozen bloody murders each hour. OK to commit murders while gaming. But doG forbid they should see lovemaking!

    The murdering is OK with most governments because they know it's usually for some patriotic cause, and these mindless masses who love simulated killing will be easy to recruit into warriors for the rich. Cannon fodder.

    --
    ...omphaloskepsis often...
  24. You can delay, at any rate by cascadingstylesheet · · Score: 1

    Put the family computer in the living room. No pocket internet connected devices (it's not yet considered child abuse to not get them cell phones).

    No point making it easy, or too soon. Let them get a bit older and get some maturity.

    Explain what's out there, at age appropriate levels.

  25. Purpose by Iamthecheese · · Score: 1

    Wait a minute, I thought the purpose of porn filters was to provide a bit of the hacking ethos and a little information security experience.

    --
    If video games influenced behavior the Pac Man generation would be eating pills and running away from their problems.
  26. How to filter the internet by AHuxley · · Score: 1

    1. Keep all internet usage for 12 to 24 months.
    2. Create a list of sites a nations internet users are never allowed to use.
    3. Go back over list of sites users looked at for any usage of the sites that are not allowed.
    4. Look for repeated and long term use of sites that are not allowed.
    5. Send plainclothes police to have a shutdown with people who use the sites most often and for a long time.
    6. Detect changes in usage patterns.
    7. People who don't stop using the internet in that way get more police interviews. People connected to them interviewed about their lifestyle.

    --
    Domestic spying is now "Benign Information Gathering"
  27. Re:Those are voluntary ratings. Porn sites have th by holophrastic · · Score: 1

    That's awesome, I had no idea about 2257. I'll add that to the list, like the beeping traffic lights, that I wish people would be taught.

  28. The best "porn" filter... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...is effective and involved parenting. You don't leave a kid alone with the wide-open internet and expect some kind of filter to teach them how to deal with adult content (doesn't have to be just porn). But that's exactly what a lot of idiotic and clueless parents do. Talking openly to your kids about sexuality and other serious topics is the only way to prepare them for the assured eventuality that they WILL see porn. Also, parents need to monitor and limit screen time and for God's sake not allow them to have devices alone with them in their bedrooms and whatnot until they reach an age where they can handle it. Right, wrong, healthy, or harmful, porn is here to stay. I personally consume internet porn occasionally as an adult but when I was growing up I didn't have it because the internet didn't really exist as we know it. We were limited to smuggling magazines and the rare VHS or Beta tapes into the house. Or we had to, you know, find an actual female for sexual intercourse or felatio. These days kids as young as 9 can find and view a limitless cornucopia of depraved explicit content. And if they are somehow blocked at home, a friend is sure to have an unrestricted internet device ready to deliver the goods. Or hell, they make their own porn because snapchat and whatever. Point is, hauman sexuality will always remain the same and there a ton of ways to express it, so there's not a damn thing you can do about it except to embrace it and educate yourselves and your children.

  29. Seriously? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How would a smart kid get around a block? Seriously? Just off the top of my head:

    - Proxy service. Many are free, or have free demos.

    - VPN. Same deal.

    - Look somewhere else. Porn is everywhere.

  30. The ultimate filter by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    is called 'parenting'. Conservatives rail against the so-called "nanny state", but keep asking for it any chance they get when they get triggered.

  31. Whitelist? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I just use the default Windows family settings.

    If my daughter needs a link for, say homework, it sends me an email. I check it the site out, and then click approve. Couldn't be simpler. Her whitelist is pretty large at this point, but she can still have a ton of fun on the web.

    Can she still see stuff on her buddies machines? Sure. But that's way different than consuming it yourself, alone.

    1. Re: Whitelist? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is exactly what I did. It's not a perfect solution, but it's the best one, along with lots of open communication about sex. Otherwise they will learn it from their peers.

  32. Filter Hell, in my day we made our own! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's the problem with today's kids - too damn lazy to know what the back seat of cars are for, they have to go look at it on line. Now, get off my lawn!

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    APK

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    APK

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  35. What the goal of filtering is by sls1j · · Score: 1

    No filtering won't prevent a determined individual from accessing porn. However, it goes a long way from preventing accidental exposure, which as someone that doesn't want to see porn and as a parent wants keep my children from running across in casual browsing.
    That said the only sure porn filter is a personal determination to avoid it. This is only achieved through learning and teaching correct principles and allowing the individual to implement those principles.
    Those correct principles are: Viewing porn makes your personal life miserable and ruins your ability to have meaningful and deep relationships (both sexual and non-sexual) with people of the opposite sex.

  36. filters don't porn by geowash01 · · Score: 1

    Filters don't porn people. People porn people.

  37. Standards would help by Waccoon · · Score: 2

    As someone who distributes porn on the Internet, I've always been frustrated by the lack of a standardized rating mechanism, so that it will only be displayed when people actually want to see it, and content won't be accidentally cached by search engines. Few people believe that the ancient "rating" meta tag means anything to search engines, though I do use that just in case.

    It would be nice to work on that first before crying about porn being too easily accessible.

    1. Re:Standards would help by strikethree · · Score: 1

      Well, that would be a good idea if everyone who made "porn" were making porn for salacious purposes. Not everything that is designated as porn in your mind was made to satisfy lascivious desires, so how would THAT kind of content be tagged by the creator?

      Imagine this: Guy gets his girlfriend to fuck a dog. Guy and girl split up. Guy is mad at girl and distributes pictures of her fucking a dog. Would he tag it as porn? Definitely not. He has an incentive to NOT classify it as porn. I used this example since it has actually shown up on Slashdot in the past.

      As someone who distributes porn on the Internet, I've always been frustrated by the lack of a standardized rating mechanism, so that it will only be displayed when people actually want to see it

      Tl;DR, that only works when everything is direct and up front.

      --
      "Someone needs to talk to the tree of liberty about its ghoulish drinking problem." by ohnocitizen
    2. Re:Standards would help by Waccoon · · Score: 1

      Well, yeah, but pretty much by definition any rating system embedded into a web page is self-cencorship and strictly voluntary. If your intentions are not direct and up front, then no standard will help.

      It would still be nice if there was one, even if there were only 3-5 possible settings. Leave it to the regulators to endlessly debate how many zillions of categories would be needed for a "proper" rating system (which is fine, as we all know it would always be too complicated to be implemented, let alone enforced).

  38. Censorship will work properly in a near future. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have 7 layers of filtering at home and I warranty that it work 100%. I am a software engineer and electrical engineer (telecom/networking).
    I am 100% on Linux with custom designed firewall, router firmware, and browser add-ons which are impossible to remove. (I forked waterfox). Don't worry, the browser cannot be started in safe-mode. I also enforce "safe-search" on all search engines (at hardware level!).
    Other search-engines which does not support safe-search are simply not working at all. Also, browser history cannot be deleted.
    Plus, my 4 children, including 2 teens are never blocked for viewing anything useful for school (eg wikipedia), gaming, etc.
    I worked for more than 10 years on this personal project at home. It's a really complex setup and I understand that it's not something that anyone can do easily. But what I want to say is that it's not impossible, and if all industry players would work together it could work. Also AI would help I think.

  39. Yes, it's possible! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hello everyone.
    Personnaly, I censor by filtering at many levels and I also whitelist many trusted and educational websites (eg wikipedia, etc). There's only one computer at home, it's in the living room, everyone see the screen. There's a BIOS password and only an adult can start the computer. No iphone. No ipad. Netflix yes, on the TV. I also teach/explain/trust... yes trust, but I am not blind, I also monitor to adjust my filters. My kids never felt suppressed or constantly watched: they feel safe, protected, they are really happy and they really enjoy life, do many outdoors activities, and have plenty of real friends.

    Why do I filter ? Because showing porn to anyone under 18 is illegal, it's the law. It is legally considered sexual abuse. (the same as for pedophilia for example: sexual abuse). Also, like the "Bystander’s Crime" theory, I personally consider that doing nothing to prevent porn for my kids would be the same as showing porn to them, so, doing nothing would be "sexual abuse" if you follow the logic.

    I feel that it's important to filter because of many reasons:
    It is proven that Internet Pornography Usage Hurts Teens:
      1) It increases the odds of teenage pregnancy.
      2) It hinders sexual development.
      3) It raises the risk of depression.
      4) It creates distorted expectations which hinder healthy sexual development.
      5) Adolescents exposed to high levels of pornography have lower levels of sexual self-esteem.
    (Source/reference: https://www.webroot.com/us/en/resources/tips-articles/internet-pornography-by-the-numbers)

    I have setup up to seven layers of filtering at home and I warranty you that there was not a single pixel of porn which entered in my home for many years now. It's not impossible to filter correctly but it's complexe, I had to install, configure, customize and program many tools and technologies including a hardware linux based firewall and a forked version of waterfox which I modified, and any other browser being not installed, not downloadable and not installable. Also I work at least 1 hour by week to maintain the setup, monitor (look at the logs) every weeks and tweek the filters, etc. Anyway just to conclude that it works and very well, and that if a simple software engineer like me can do it, then, the industry can do it:

    I think that an easy "ON"/"OFF" porn filter would be possible if industry would work together on the problem. They have to add robust options in the routers, in the browsers, do better tests, use AI and so on on. The industry, I mean, Apple, Mozilla, Google, Microsoft, Cisco, Intel, etc. should just team together to form a "Internet Filtering Task Force" to give us betters tools to protect the children.

    On the other sire, I am very sad to see the there are a few "pro-porn trolls" or "pessimistics" on the Internet, sorry I don't know how to call them, but they are the ones who will just try to do everything to discourage any parents who want to protect their chlidren and ask for resources about how to do it. Thoses ressource, even if they are not perfect, exists and are continuously enhanced. Cleanbrowsing is a good example.

    Remember, if porn can destroy the life of adults, what do you think it can do on the life of a kid or teen ? Porn is not the same as sexuality and love. Porn normalize unsafe sex, porn contains violence, BDSM, abuse, child pornography (it was proved that many "teen" tagged video contains under 18 teens), porn normalize group sex, porn reduce women to sexual objects. Porn is bad. Censorship is good. By the way, people who do not consume porn have more frequents and more intense orgasm then those who consume porn!